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People love to bring up the flu when talking about the morality of disclosing HSV. I compared chlamydia to the flu. Get it straight. One causes mild irritation and is gone a few hours after you take Azithromycin. The other beats you down for a week or two, causes you to miss work and thereby lose money, is more deadly, and you also pass it on to your friends and family. I've had plenty of dates show up with sniffles. You probably have as well. Which would you pick if you could? Every single wron…
/r/askTRP27/08/14 07:23 AM
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Honestly I'd rather get a case of the clap than the flu from someone (as I've had both), yet nobody is required "by law" to disclose having the flu to partners even though they're sure to transmit that during sexual contact. After all, more people die of the flu than chlamydia each year, and by a lot. Guess my point is that the topic is more complicated than simple absolute statements allow. But I definitely understand that we all want our health to be respected by our partners and to not be den…
/r/askTRP27/08/14 05:28 AM
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Your comment seemed a little black and white is all. So I was trying to help anybody else reading here to perceive the shades of gray. No harm meant.
/r/askTRP27/08/14 04:53 AM
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Most of these statutes will fall under tort law and are therefore only a basis to recoup losses should a STD be passed between partners. To become a viably prosecutable criminal act, usually a court has to order an injunction against sex acts by an individual and have them served with said order. Subsequent failure to comply with the order constitutes contempt of court and would be prosecuted in that manner. HPV can't even be tested for in males so I'm not sure why you added that one. And since …
/r/askTRP27/08/14 04:10 AM
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Many men have to do dangerous or shitty work that they'd rather opt not to in order to make sure they can maintain spousal maintenance and/or child support. Being rich doesn't change that equation, it just makes the numbers bigger.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 12:09 AM
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Just google "robin williams money troubles" and you'll find plenty of examples such as this one. money troubles: | the actor recently confided to a family friend that he had “serious money troubles,” and was worried about his family’s financial security the treadmill: | “There was also frustration that Robin expressed at having to take television and movie roles he didn’t want to take, but had to for the paycheck,” the source said, referencing his recently announced decision to film Mrs. Doubtfi…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 11:43 PM
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Keep in mind if he was paying out more in expenses and alimony, his fortune was dwindling. That would be the very kind of thing that would make one tell friends that they are having money problems and put property on the market. So it was either get back on the treadmill through his 60s making crappy TV shows to pay off his sponging ex(es), or kill himself and allow what remained of his estate to go to his children. If I were in his shoes, I cannot say I would choose any different. If after a li…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 10:11 PM
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You're right to not be asking how to change her. That's wise because you can't and won't. You might be able to drive that behavior further underground but then it will just be happening without your awareness. You are making excuses for her. Justifying inappropriate behavior by characterizing it as not as bad as even worse behavior or focusing on it happening only occasionally is not sound reasoning. That's what people who have been abused by a loved one do to cope. Her telling you that she has …
/r/askTRP02/07/14 08:03 PM
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From a quick search and read on the internet, it appears that Canadian courts have wide latitude to set aside prenuptial agreements.
/r/askTRP01/07/14 06:19 PM
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Still, you need actual damages. That means a doctor's bill, some broken property, or similar.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 12:03 AM
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This has always been my experience as well, as well for my friends. When police respond to a male/female conflict, primary aggressor policies are going to stack the deck against the guy, even if she weighs more than him. All she has to do when the police show is start up the waterworks and claim that after she tried to engage him with some fun, joking banter and playfulness that he slapped her and called her fat. I wouldn't expect the police to review any video. That's the guy's job and he can g…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 12:01 AM
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Well you have no problem expressing your opinion (vis a vis "bitter this place is") so pray tell what contribution can you make for this guy who is struggling to understand his reality? I've been where he is. When I wanted to call her so bad and ask her to come back but I knew she'd see me as worthless for asking her back... You ever been there? Tell us about it. Or... maybe you don't really know. Sniping or contributing?
/r/askTRP29/06/14 09:14 AM
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Great effort with the criticism. And unsurprisingly you have zero real advice to offer.
/r/askTRP29/06/14 03:33 AM
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They're both on Sunday, so most people aren't even working.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 07:51 PM
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Here is a typical article on how to be a successful young woman. Generally the can-do attitude is never tempered with the reality that you can't have it all.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 11:04 PM
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I see open relationships as the next stage beyond spinning plates. The way many speak of spinning plates here seems to involve keeping each girl in her own separate reality, though perhaps that's just how I read it. That has a tendency to backfire after a while. Just ask Tiger Woods. Also, sometimes there seems to be a sense here that a guy should maintain a slightly adversarial aspect to the interaction between himself and a girl he dates (plate). That doesn't work well in an open dating arrang…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 04:59 AM
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From the page you linked: However, Quebec courts have interpreted those provisions restrictively. For example, in La Compagnie D’Assurance Standard Life v. Renald Rouleau, [1995] R.J.Q. 1407 (S.C.) the Quebec Superior Court confirmed that surreptitious recording of telephone conversations is not, in itself, a violation of the right to privacy guaranteed by the Quebec Charter. In that case an employee (the defendant) of an insurance company (the plaintiff) had moved to a new company and used conf…
/r/askTRP17/06/14 02:38 AM
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No worries. Interesting topic. You may be mixing their identity with the behavior a little (being something versus acting like something). There seems a notion in what you're saying that if a girl cheats, she was always a cheater, just one that didn't act on it. I don't subscribe to this notion. If you are convicted of a crime at 50, were you always a criminal but just didn't learn that for very long, or did you become a criminal at 50 or whenever you committed the crime? If you become a taxi dr…
/r/askTRP17/06/14 02:31 AM
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Legality of tapping work phones is not as cut and dried as you stated. Read up. There is room to do so legally, even without written consent. Monitoring email is all but completely legal and performed routinely by businesses. The trustworthy partner is trustworthy. I'd like to know what magic you use to determine which you have. I guess you just have some special way to know, and to know if somehow that changes over time. And you seem to suggest that lack of blind trust would make them untrustwo…
/r/askTRP17/06/14 02:16 AM
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You are placing women (or spouses) on a special pedestal here. If I had an employee that I had good reason to believe was stealing from me, I'd put a tap on his work phones in nothing flat. And so would any good businessperson. If you are working with a business partner and they might be colluding to take your designs elsewhere, maybe you encrypt them. If your kids are acting up, you monitor what they do to follow up and keep them safe from whatever is going on with them. If the NSA does it, it …
/r/askTRP17/06/14 01:52 AM
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Maybe you have a more personal experience with trust, and how it might have hurt you. This isn't about me. It's about a guy whose wife is censoring/deleting text messages from her phone in violation of her understanding with her husband. More to my point, if you are in a relationship with a woman, there are only two outcomes. People are not static. A person that you can trust completely today may change over time into someone you cannot. If you are with the type of girl who may and will cheat Th…
/r/askTRP17/06/14 01:39 AM
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Wait 'til it's your wife.
/r/askTRP17/06/14 01:26 AM
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I never said it goes one way. You assumed I meant that. If I personally had an "open everything" policy with a partner, and I have, I'd just add my accounts to their phone and they could read to their heart's content. And I wouldn't care if they had me tailed or read every file on every computer and device I own. Lying and deception require inordinate effort for what little they can achieve. If, however, I simply had an open email/text policy with someone as the poster clearly stated, and that p…
/r/askTRP17/06/14 01:20 AM
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There is only one way to be sure you know the whole truth. Put monitoring software on her phone and on the computers in the house. If it turns out to be nothing, just remove the monitoring software. No harm, no foul. Never tell the other person how you learned what you discovered. You have every right to stay abreast of a person with whom you share a deeply intimate relationship which makes you vulnerable to their behavior, choices, and actions.
/r/askTRP17/06/14 12:08 AM
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Sounds like you have your first go to girl. Good job. Don't screw that up by getting needlessly attached, or letting her get attached and then get weird. One easy rule to go by for spinning plates is "date those you already have during the week and those you want to have during the weekend."
/r/askTRP31/05/14 12:10 AM
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If they are maybes, then you can get off the hook quite easily with "sounded like you couldn't make it so I made other plans." Or if multiple plans pan out and time allows, like on a Friday, you can try to do two shorter dates back-to-back. Tell one you ended up with happy hour plans and you'll see her later. Tell the other you have plans for later but are down for happy hour. Or whatever you can make work. When I've double dated as you called it, or gone out with more than one girl out, they ar…
/r/askTRP30/05/14 11:39 PM
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The missing links suggest he wrote whatever he felt, as a shell. Then he intended to go back and find links to demonstrate what he was purporting. Write it first, figure out how to 'prove' it later. The link 'demonstrating' redpill supports revenge porn went to /r/confessions, not /u/theredpill. Pathetic.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 09:05 PM
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Those are the situations where you double or triple book. Three maybes for the same night are usually as good as one yes.
/r/askTRP30/05/14 08:40 PM
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A hamster is a small, cute, furry rodent that children often keep in a small cage and play with. Hamster cages are often outfitted with a wheel in their cage to run on because it gives them something to do. When they run on the wheel, the hamster obviously goes nowhere. So the imagery suggests someone saying a lot without any practical effect or underlying meaning. It is usually used as a verb when referring to a person's words or actions, as in to hamster.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 07:17 AM
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Why is it wrong to blame the victim when they were put in danger by their own hand? I mean, I understand how it's politicized to "never blame the victim" but really, shouldn't we expect some of the blame to go onto the victim when they knowingly, intentionally expose themselves to danger?
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 09:50 PM
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Goal of redpill is to find one's way in what is often a masculine -hostile or -dismissive culture. Can't imagine many would really find that to be their way.. but also, dude's gotta say provocative shit even if he doesn't get it.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/14 02:56 AM
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Sometimes there is a little too much fear mongering about divorce and child support in here. Being young and of little means makes the possibility of losing what little you have and long term liabilities seem oppressive. And to be sure, there are horrendous cases of men being taken advantage of with little or no recourse to rectify their situation. Then again, if you fear any risk, why swim in the ocean or climb mountains? Plenty of horrible outcomes come from those experiences as well. In any d…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/14 09:07 PM
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Fine whiner... I'll do it TLDR: Cray good shit happens but can just as quickly disappear in a twisted mess.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 10:23 AM
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Sometimes those are exclusive, unfortunately. One must choose.
/r/askTRP30/04/14 08:27 AM
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Decide to be happy or right. Then live with your choice.
/r/askTRP30/04/14 08:12 AM
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I've been through this fire. You want your guy? Here's my redpill advice. Go suck his cock like a boss. Gurgle his member and stroke his ego. Take it in the ass until you beg for forgiveness. Tell him nobody has ever mastered you like that and worship him. That is what he misses and wants from you. Or fucking get out. If you need further sympathy, get a therapist.
/r/askTRP30/04/14 08:04 AM
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Fucking do it! But... don't be afraid to coparent when it comes to that. Realize that after a while one or the both of you will tire of the other. Learn to manage her behavior i.e. give her free therapy as she has a hamster inside driving that psyche. And just for giggles, go look up fertility for men. That lasts until your fifties, at least. It's only for women that it declines in their late thirties.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 07:52 AM
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Whoa, wall of text. Where's the TLDR?
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 07:39 AM
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Voted and it didn't show my age. Needs more testing.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 07:38 AM
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Probably one of my all time favorite books. Except maybe Starship Troopers or The Moon Is a Harsh Mistress. Highly recommend all three.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 07:08 AM
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Divorce her. Reclaim your manhood. Be a mother fucking kick ass father. Live well.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 06:58 AM
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So... the tail hunt really begins at 30. By your late thirties it'll crest and you'll ride that wave into the sunset if you can stay alive that long. Just saying, that graph ends at 70.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 06:51 AM
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A dude begs to have sex the first time. A chick sells that shit for half a mil. Choke down that red pill bitch.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 05:53 AM
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Sad that only a feminist can unfeminize feminism. Did she say something new?
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 05:48 AM
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I did the same thing with my ex-wife, the woman that bore my two children. Gave her a chance to be as she was (fucking around) and be accepted for it. She chose, like your guy, to deny it and do that shit anyway. I moved on and I encourage you to do the same. I have found a much happier existence living honestly and real with like minded individuals. I spin plates now but they all know the deal and there is zero bullshit or fucks given. Those who lie and cheat like this are inherently controllin…
/r/askTRP30/04/14 05:14 AM
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When I read through the literature on the subject it seemed the feminist biological perspective sought to minimize or eliminate gender as a variable at all, almost to even deny the role of gender in biology, physiology and medicine. As if to suggest that gender differences rarely exist. If the science is good and it turns out to be more than just a critique of works by other biologists, then good for them and those who benefit. I noticed the stipulation for those enrolling in the program was tha…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 11:57 PM
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Gender bias in the sciences has a long impressive history. The kind of gender bias you are referring to is not the same kind of gender bias that feminist biology seeks to address. Bias against females entering university to study science may have existed in the past but it doesn't now, at least not in affluent nations. That type of bias (against individuals based on their gender) did exist and it has a "long impressive history." And good for femdom that it isn't so any longer. Feminist biology o…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 10:55 PM
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Don't use the term "open relationship" unless you are with others like you. You say that to most people and they imagine you're tying people up while fucking the dog and you expect them to go along. It's outside their norm, which makes it abnormal. Just say you're not exclusive with anyone. Don't explicitly call your main partner your "girlfriend." Call her by name rather than by title. Calling her by name humanizes her and makes it seem like you value her for her and her individuality rather th…
/r/askTRP17/04/14 11:44 PM
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Fuck what anybody thinks. What are they going to do? Take your fakey ass reddit points? Who cares. Some people apparently get upset they got saddled with a uterus or because the world can't be fashioned into some ideal they dreamed up. The objectors won't give you any real suggestions for alternatives. They just bitch, moan and hurl accusations, though their use of sarcasm and snark can be entertaining. If it works for you, it works for you. End of story.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/14 07:02 AM
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Make a multireddit with all the subs related to redpill.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/14 06:42 AM
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Do you know this because you became a stripper?
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 10:41 PM
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Next time she invites you over, tell her "No I don't feel like sex, I need someone I can depend on."
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 09:22 PM
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Zimmerman was a neighborhood watch volunteer and most definitely not a police officer.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 09:32 PM
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Maybe take a gander at r/AlreadyRed/. It seems to have fewer posts that refer to content on other subs like this post does.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 07:19 PM
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It isn't really that easy. The guy mentioned in the post "Joseph Michael Ocasio" was married to the child's mother at the time of the child's birth. He is legally the father of anything that drops out of his wife's uterus. That's the way paternity works in marriage, unlike the hypothetical example cited. Paternity (outside of marriage) is established by consent of the father, declaration by both parents, or a court order which would presumably be the result of a paternity lawsuit filed by either…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/14 09:26 PM
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Where do you get this notion from? He is quoted as having said that feminists "take themselves too seriously." Otherwise he didn't ever say much specifically on the subject. He was more a progressive liberal, libertarian or even anarchist than feminist. He may say that women have it harder in life (being weaker, having to bear children, etc.) but I don't think he ever adopted modern feminist notions that women are entitled or should indulge petty whims and antisocial behaviors and be praised for…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/14 05:15 PM
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It's one thing to say that fat people can be found attractive by some. Obviously they are. It's a whole other thing to argue that obesity is inherently beautiful. There may have been times and there may be some obscure cultures where this is/was the case, but not so much these days. Could you imagine men's rights activists collectively trying to advocate that short is the new handsome and start calling women that don't agree with them short shamers? Women would laugh at that. Likewise, redpill l…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/14 02:05 AM
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I guess when size 12 is attractive, size 8 is a supermodel.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 03:22 PM
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If you wanted to turn the article on its head and make comparable suggestions for men, the list might look something more like this: Tell her that her heels make her look like a horse Take a look through her phone For the first date after sex, cancel last minute Fake having feelings for her See how she responds to spanking Tell her you aren't fertile
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 06:51 PM
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Also facial symmetry.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/14 09:23 PM
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Sad but true.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/14 04:50 AM
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If you know that acting excited about a house you might purchase will cause the owner to charge full price, and you choose to act nonchalant instead of excited, is that manipulation? If you act excited about a company because you are interviewing for a position with them, is that manipulation? Understanding cause/effect and choosing that which will create the outcome you desire is not manipulation.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/14 04:22 AM
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Just amplifying/clarifying here. By "acting father" you may mean putative father. Or not. Anyway, this is the legal concept whereby a husband is presumptively and legally the father of any children born to his wife. Any other paternal claims must overcome this assumption. It's sort of an incubation disambiguation rule....
/r/TheRedPill20/02/14 04:06 AM
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Saw this notion illustrated fairly simply and concisely here. Ran across the video yesterday, linked from TBP of all places.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/14 06:12 PM
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"Hamstering" refers to self-serving rationalization.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/14 02:21 AM
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Humble Bragging
/r/askTRP07/02/14 10:43 PM
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In no particular order: She has to be the kind of person that would fight to keep your children in your life rather than out of it. She has to be and remain industrious and contribute like a boss. She has to know her place and be fiercely loyal. Even if her own family has an issue with you, she should have your back first. She has to not be one that takes unfair advantage and does not indulge in extravagance. She needs to be down for whatever kinky shit you decide to throw at her in the bedroom,…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/14 08:52 PM
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Poe's Law
/r/TheRedPill07/02/14 06:32 PM
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I think I've said what I care to in this vein. Obviously this is important to you, so thanks for sharing. I'll give it some thought.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 11:17 PM
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I get it. You're a marriage hater. Go right on hating marriage. More power to you. I stand by what I said. Marriage is a tool like any other. If it's too dangerous a tool for you to wield or you're 'afraid of paper' or whatever, then don't. I was only adding my two cents. When I wrote of taking charge, I meant with one's family, meaning one's children. Maybe you think looking after your own blood is taking it in the ass. I don't. I am proud to be a father and work hard to be the best father I ca…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 11:04 PM
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Still, when shit like this goes down, fault or not, the one that stays in the home will more often be the one that gets to keep it in the divorce, though they might have to offset the home equity with more other property going to the spouse. Most importantly in this situation, the one that stays in the home where the kids live is more likely to get primary custody of the kids. With an unreliable soon-to-be ex, that is the right thing for him to do. Stay and kick her out.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 10:44 PM
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She's probably still a catch, just not to those who she wants to be caught by. See this all the time with girls I know. She could round up a fifty year old dude lickety split. She doesn't want that. She wants a guy of her demographic to fall for her. That won't happen as easily now because guys that age are realizing that they don't have to worship a girl to get laid. But even at her age she could round up a relationship with someone. I mean if that's the real thing she wants more than anything,…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 09:11 PM
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Marriage isn't just about love. Marriage is a legal and social connection that allows things like immigration, alternate tax status, additional benefits for those in the military or similar, right of inheritance, additional legal protections, a means to connect families, legitimization of children (anachronistic but still perceived so), social status and yes, for love too. Marriage is a legal notion and neither inherently good or bad. It is a means to an ends so pursue it if will serve you. If n…
/r/askTRP27/01/14 08:22 AM
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She likes your attention, not you. That was the nugget in there for me
/r/askTRP27/01/14 07:59 AM
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Whoa, way TMI. You say, "I'm dating but I'm not seeing anybody exclusively." I also err on the side of TMI, but don't ever say 'there is another' when you like a chick unless you are forcing her to see harsh reality. You say that you are not excluding others until you find a reason to do so. Leaving it nebulous will create intrigue.
/r/askTRP27/01/14 06:27 AM
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Document everything. You may never need it but if you do and you don't have it you'll kick yourself. Take pictures. Copy files. Record conversations. Look out for yourself.
/r/askTRP27/01/14 06:22 AM
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Once you've had kids with a girl, lived with her, and all that, you're in deep enough that married/unmarried makes zero difference. The law can own you whether you like it or not. She can still take your ass to court and she can still get child support and whatever. So maybe being unmarried will make it harder for her to take your couch and half your silverware. Big deal. She still gets max 18 years of stipend (your money) and you still are going to have to deal with having a child or maybe seve…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 06:04 AM
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Truth
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 01:17 AM
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That's a solid plan. Or keep orbiting her. Choice seems obvious to me.
/r/askTRP25/01/14 04:46 AM
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Cops can occasionally be really cool when it's just you. I was driving home early one morning from drinking a little too much at a friend's house and got pulled over. Though I'm sure I smelled like a brewery he let me roll because I was able to tell him the time and where I was going, and presumably because it was Christmas morning. No field sobriety or nothing. That was a gift. So it does happen. Just don't be the guy present when there is a female complainantvictim. Then you are not the bumbli…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/14 04:29 AM
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Ethanol madness!
/r/TheRedPill25/01/14 04:13 AM
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I mean no offense to the great contributors I read here on this sub, but redpill theory will not be a good guide for you in this realm. You will have to find a newer, higher level of giving zero fucks to get to a workable swinging relationship with a girl you care about. As in you will have to be able to not give a fuck that she's getting railed by another dude right in front of you (or off in another room, whatever). In exchange for that though, you get to sleep with other women. Believe me whe…
/r/askTRP25/01/14 12:35 AM
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If you make it a big deal, it is. If you make no big deal, it isn't.
/r/askTRP25/01/14 12:02 AM
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Just my two cents but you have a long road to hoe to close that chick. My first rule of going out is: Don't ever waste your time on the staff. Some dudes have tremendous game and can pull that down with monumental effort. Even for them it is hit and miss. Those girls see it all day every day and aren't impressed with much. The rest of us are just getting played for larger tips when they seem friendly. Don't waste your time. Find someone you don't have on a pedestal and work that.
/r/askTRP24/01/14 06:55 AM
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Priceless. If it wasn't so damn true I'd still be laughing my ass off.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/14 06:22 AM
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Part of what you have to learn is the self-discipline to just walk away from a hopeless situation and not give a fuck. Not pretend to not give a fuck. Actually giving zero fucks. It's not an act. It's a frame of mind and it will take practice.
/r/askTRP23/01/14 08:35 PM
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He was also quite ignorant to think that the matter of child support can be decided between him and the other parent. Not so. As far as I'm aware there are no jurisdictions where parents can make agreements regarding child support that the state is required to uphold and follow. For example, you cannot put child support agreements in a prenup. Well... you can, but the state doesn't have to honor what the parties agreed.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/14 06:15 PM
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Nonchalant. Dismissive. Distracted/focused elsewhere.
/r/askTRP23/01/14 04:22 PM
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Also, a fair amount of women use the free dating websites for an ego boost and are not dating many/any guys they meet there.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/14 05:12 AM
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Apparently she went to Qatar for a one year art fellowship and they got engaged shortly after she went there. Who knows, it might turn out awesome for him. He doesn't sound the type to want to spin plates or chase unicorns anyway. So good for him if it makes him happy.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/14 05:07 AM
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Omega
/r/TheRedPill20/01/14 10:22 PM
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If they have lived together for many years and the move out is not amicable, you could easily end up litigating over that as well, married or not.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/14 08:30 PM
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I took the wussified "let her go with him" to mean that if she's not already shutting him down then she's a piece of crap and not even worth fighting for, i.e. next her immediately. I didn't take it to suggest that a guy act like he's been dismissed and just go home.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/14 01:40 AM
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Use that to give her shit. Call her a matchbreaker.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/14 12:18 AM
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Sadly you are correct and that is also the reason why most women initiate divorces.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/14 12:04 AM
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This author is the one credited with saying that women aren't vending machines that you put in nice coins to get sex. A surprising source from whence to hear a bit of redpill wisdom.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/14 11:31 PM
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If I truly want complete equality with another, then I want to bear their burdens no less than I want to receive their rewards. Here's a feminist who has noticed what the 'equality' she wanted actually looks like. Of course it took that 'equality' happening to someone she loved for her eyes to be opened to what she has been helping to bring about.
/r/askTRP15/01/14 07:22 PM
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Sadly I believe you are correct.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/14 06:13 PM
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It is the problem with any social movement that defines itself and its challenges by oppression from another group. As that group approaches equality, the basis for defining their collective oppression requires reaffirmation using increasingly thinner substantiation. Eventually whatever small differences remain must be greatly exaggerated to perpetuate the movement. So modern feminism seeks identity and meaning in any little trifling difference in the female experience as a basis to define and j…
/r/askTRP15/01/14 04:52 PM
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Funny thing on that subject. I had a TRP hater jump on me a once when I was explaining TRP in a fairly neutral fashion in another sub. Well I honestly asked her what could she suggest for men (for example a friend of hers) that would be as effective and have a more acceptable worldview in her mind. She suggested The Satanic Bible as a better source to find a paradigm for interacting with people. Oh and of course she had to toss in the usual "just get over it." Always wonder what exactly that "it…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/14 09:02 PM
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Clean house and take a plate break once in a while when you need it. You'll save a few dollars I bet and come back with a little more enthusiasm in short order. Break times are always a good time to explore outside your normal circles. Hit a different coffee shop than you normally would, chat girls up in places you wouldn't normally, but just in the spirit of shooting the shit with strangers. Sometimes it's just nice to not have an agenda and sometimes better things come from less planning.
/r/askTRP14/01/14 12:13 AM
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I can easily imagine that if his ex had some career-destroying dirt on him, he may well have 'willingly' agreed to these numbers her lawyer offered up, in which case the judge would have no reason to order otherwise.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/14 08:12 PM
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Doesn't cruel and unusual punishment fall more under the realm of criminal law?
/r/TheRedPill13/01/14 07:56 PM
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Redpill can give you multiple courses of action to deal with a situation. You might want to go your own way, spin plates, or search for a unicorn. You can deal with a sexless marriage by cheating, improving yourself until your partner notices, or leave and become a redpill bachelor. What you're seeing here is individuals encouraging a particular choice, but redpill theory itself does not assert one choice as the single best. Each specific choice is best if it makes you happy and gets you what yo…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/14 08:19 PM
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Great read dude. Thanks for sharing.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/14 01:26 AM
3

To quote my fave redpill denier: "Protip from Uncle Snuggie: if you got money, just don't fuck broke bitches. Just don't, change your phone number if you have to. Move to the other side of the country to somewhere broke bitches cant afford to go. They will ruin everything I don't care how pretty they are get a bitch with some capital. That's real shit."
/r/TheRedPill10/01/14 02:22 AM
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You might not have gotten joint custody if you hadn't married her. Many courts will preferentially award the mother sole custody if the father hasn't lived with the child or been married to the mother.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/14 02:09 AM
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The about page says the site is about real men and real women. "No hybrids of either are welcome, especially feminists." Snap! Yeah, no love for feminism there.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/14 01:21 AM
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silence = approval
/r/TheRedPill09/01/14 07:43 PM
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Don't knock toilet paper like that. Toilet paper actually has a use.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/14 07:40 PM
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Most of the things mentioned are token efforts requiring about zero effort. If you run ahead to get the door for her every single time, of course you're a puppy dog orbiter. If you get the door for her because you can just reach out and grab it easier as you two approach an entrance, then it's free karma (not the bs reddit kind). I get the door for children, elderly etc. because it's just basic human kindness. Don't go overboard with it. Like humor or cockiness, a little can go a long way, and s…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/14 03:32 AM
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Easy there. Those organizations do good work. Seems the article's author just picked them out as examples. I can't imagine male birth control being desired in low income portions of the world, which is where those organizations do most of their work.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/14 01:58 AM
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It was a good roast. Everyone needs to be able to take a good ribbing. So what. At the end of the day the rhetoric is just that. I read the Vasalgel post right before this and it made me think how different the lives of those NBA players would (will) be if that were an option for them.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/14 12:16 AM
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Just my two cents but I would imagine that your introversion is working against you far more than your size.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/14 09:24 PM
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Barf-o-rama
/r/TheRedPill08/01/14 07:32 PM
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I actually found reddit by way of TRP. Lurked here for weeks before I ever even bothered to look at the front page or other subs.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/14 09:50 PM
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The moms/state will hunt down every penny they can get and eventually incarcerate you to compel you. It is a welfare state if you are the mom. It is not a child welfare state when you are the father.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/14 09:30 PM
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Word. If you put any woman in a man-suit and told her "go out and get laid" or a relationship or whatever, she wouldn't have the first damn clue what to do. They'll ignorantly reply "well just go pick a girl and take her home." And I'm talking even older women that have been married and have been in relationships have zero clue about what the male experience is. It actually kind of astounds me sometimes, like the reality and perspective fuses just didn't get replaced when they burned out. So yea…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/14 12:33 AM
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In small, earned, reciprocated doses.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/14 09:27 PM
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Or pull her into a threesome with another plate, or whatever. Sounds like she's now a disposable, life size, anatomically correct, poseable action figure doll.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/13 08:25 PM
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If you are (and remain) perfectly content with all of your relationships and social interaction with women and have never experienced any of the things described here, then it may just not be for you. You may be one of the lucky. While expressed as generalities, the ideas here have to be molded to fit your life and circumstances. Not every idea will fit and some things may just not work for you. But maybe one day you find that wanting to look out for a girl turns into her taking you to the clean…
/r/TheRedPill25/12/13 02:36 AM
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It's hard to argue with "it works" when the people here are just looking for something that works. If you can make a better mousetrap and get better results, then show the way. Sounds like you are suggesting discussion and disagreement for its own sake, not because it will achieve anything. If you think that guys here don't disagree when something questionable is posted, you haven't been lurking here very long.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/13 02:06 AM
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At least this didn't happen to you.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/13 09:24 PM
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Countering may only prolong the situation. When someone keeps bluffing, you can only laugh it off for so long before you have to call their bluff. For now it sounds like she's testing what you'll accept and maybe training you to accept more. With time you could end up making excuses for her if you don't find a line in the sand. Should the time comes, I'd go with something along the lines of "Hey, that's cool. Grab your stuff and head on over to Steve's place (or wherever) because you've been hin…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/13 09:04 AM
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In my experience the most attractive women are simply those that put in the greatest effort to appear attractive (i.e. hair, clothes, makeup). Anyone who has ever seen before/after makeup photos knows what I mean. And those that try the hardest are usually doing so because they are insecure. And an insecure woman is more likely to seek reassurance outside the relationship, or act jealous and controlling. Also, for women, beauty grants social power in much the same way that wealth does for men. T…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 04:00 PM
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I don't think there is a moral fountainhead as you seem to be seeking. Redpill is an empirical study in human nature and a roadmap to find your male human flourishing. It doesn't tell you why you ought to do it, rather simply how to do it. It is up to each then to reconcile whatever moral compass they have to the methods and notions promulgated here. Certainly once someone better understands human nature they acquire the ability to harm others. That happens in law, medicine, psychology, self def…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/13 01:46 AM
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It's easy as a guy at times to get into a situation where you feel like your contribution is supporting her and her contribution to the arrangement is sex. After all, that is one of the things men go to the greatest effort to obtain. That is seriously flawed thinking though. If you two are a thing, sex is just part of the package for both of you. Support is a whole different thing and if this isn't something you'd do for a regular friend, you're being taken for a ride. Once you start supporting …
/r/TheRedPill14/12/13 01:06 AM
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Exactly. Not selfish at all to look after yourself. And the person best qualified to look after yourself... is yourself. There's a reason you put your own oxygen mask on first when the plane loses cabin pressure.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/13 09:55 PM
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Easier to get forgiveness than permission. If you act like you're in charge, people will treat you like you're in charge, which means you're in charge.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/13 09:46 PM
3

Not a chance
/r/TheRedPill11/12/13 10:38 PM
3

Not hard to find a slimmer man than the Zimmerman.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/13 05:27 AM
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Off the books marriages can become on the books eventually if you live in a state that honors common law marriage.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/13 11:24 PM
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That's generally true from a the standpoint of keeping any relationship functional. Too much of anything smothers the other person, whether too much attention, too much validation, or whatever. And not just with girls. Micromanaging bosses and over-attentive parents can smother just the same. Always good to let her (expect her to) reciprocate to maintain parity.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/13 07:31 PM
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Sometimes it helps to act detached, even blase. Look off and pay attention to something else for a bit and then come back to her fuming with "oh, are you still on that?" Not saying it would have worked but sometimes treating her as if you've stopped paying attention to her and that what she's saying doesn't matter can get things back to your frame.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/13 02:20 AM
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This isn't one big man commune where we're trying to share the wealth equally. The people who get cheated on aren't necessarily the same people who do the cheating. Will you get cheated on in your life? Probably. So you can either have a slice of that pie or leave yours for me.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/13 02:11 AM
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If things are off with her or her stories don't add up, standing around with your dick in your hand isn't going to get to the bottom of the matter. Sometimes taking a good look around is warranted to avoid missing the obvious and feeling stupid about it later. I'm not advocating constant surveillance but don't put your head in the sand either. Usually by the time you're wondering what she's up to or even feel there's a need to check up on her, it's oh-next-thirty. To cut a girl loose (or make an…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/13 08:53 PM
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If you have a child with a girl, it might pay to marry her at least for a while. Either way she's going to get child support if she wants it. If the marriage is fairly short the guy likely pays little to no spousal support or alimony. The big difference (at least in my case) between marrying and not marrying comes down the line when the two people go their own way. A single man must pursue a paternity suit while a married guy files a divorce. Paternity suits usually result in the mother getting …
/r/TheRedPill03/12/13 06:25 PM
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He faced the two-month-blue-ball-shit-test. Epic fail.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/13 03:35 AM
1

Infidelity is a crime and usually taken very seriously for those in the military forces.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/13 03:33 AM
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Once one of the most rewarding things about a relationship is used as leverage against a partner, it's going to pretty much kill the relationship anyway. If one withholds interaction or affection for more than a day over the couple's plans, they're telling the other person that either they will be controlled or they will be made to suffer. It's time to leave, grow up, then find another partner. They were on borrowed time before the cheating and recriminations finally occurred and the result was …
/r/TheRedPill28/11/13 12:22 AM
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Concur. Anything that attentive should be for a girl that has made her whole world about you. Don't pay today for something you may get tomorrow. The truth can cut like a knife, but it's better than being treated like a mushroom.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/13 09:18 PM
1

Any of her dates could insist that the check be split. They pay for the possibility of more than dinner. It just so happens that the deck is loaded against them without their knowledge. Ever buy an album that was crap except for one song, or pay someone to do a job that did shoddy work? Same thing. Caveat emptor applies to the dating world no less than the marketplace for goods and services. Plenty of times I've had a check split on a date when the girl seemed cordial but not terribly into me. U…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/13 03:17 PM
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Koolaid drinkers get butt hurt when you don't join or validate them.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/13 04:31 PM
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So ask one of her friends out. What's she going to do, stop being your friend? The point of asking is really to elucidate that she can either be your friend and not have any say in who you date, or she can date you and have a say.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 07:00 PM
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I would try to look for contexts where you can get out of the phone number to text message to meeting flow. Giving someone a mobile number is often a way of saying goodbye in our culture now, not finding a way to reconnect. She gives you her number as a way of saying the present conversation is over. Happens especially in bar/club situations. Any girl whose number you get is receiving a handful of texts from seemingly random numbers the next morning. She likely can't even figure out which messag…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/13 07:25 AM
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Sometimes it works well to gauge directly by testing her feelings in a connected matter. Ask her what she thinks of you asking out one of her friends. Not "I want to ask out your friend Becky, k?" but something more along the lines of "since we seem more like friends, it's fine if I ask any of your friends out, or even have you help set me up, right?" Don't be specific. If she says "yeah, do whatever you want," then she doesn't have any interest in you. Or if she does but is cool with you asking…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/13 05:02 AM
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complement: a thing that completes or brings to perfection compliment: a polite expression of praise or admiration
/r/TheRedPill13/11/13 10:07 PM
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