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Try to move them around
/r/seduction26/05/22 08:05 AM
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I'd thought so too. I don't know if she's just confused and that's her expectations on what a date is or that she's just using a free meal ticket She says I'm a huge foodie, fair.. so I suggest this Japanese fusion taco place to eat at and she replys back with "I don't really like finger food.. I like using cutlery" Which totally is weird. But whatever.
/r/seduction14/05/22 04:20 PM
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None near me for axe throwing Any other ideas? Does a museum work?
/r/seduction13/05/22 07:15 AM
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Genuine relationships require communication which means you can't be quiet and shy and in your headspace. Be vulnerable Trust me, I'm an introvert as well. I prefer doing my own things rather than spending time socialising. But in order to achieve purpose towards women, I tell myself to push past the resistance
/r/seduction03/04/22 01:59 PM
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The girl out there smiling and your vibe is get me out of here Honestly, self esteem sucks. You're not naturally bad looking actually decent or at least better than many but there's still upgrades to be made. E.g fashion sense, physique. Stop caring about leagues or whatever. Superficial bullshit for me. It's either yes or no for me. The more you rank yourself towards other people is where it gets grimly
/r/seduction03/04/22 01:52 PM
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Confidence. Both inside and outside Not insecurity or arrogance which a lot of people confuse
/r/seduction30/03/22 07:16 AM
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So open ended questions are key. Got it. Would you say its possible to converse without asking any questions? And would it be best to start conversations with a question? Say i meet a girl night game or day game whatever, should i ask her a open ended question to get a convo started? Or how should i do it
/r/seduction28/03/22 02:03 PM
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Could you explain more on the reciprocating questions What am i meant to do on one word responses
/r/seduction28/03/22 02:00 PM
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Usually its kindness with women that are working For me, kindness vs flirting is the lack of emotional spike i feel towards kindness.
/r/seduction28/03/22 04:40 AM
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For me, its not focusing on the quantity but quality of interactions i have I think im good enough, have my own traits and the goal isn't to attract any women, its to attract women that i like
/r/seduction28/03/22 03:18 AM
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I normally small talked before and after lectures.
/r/seduction28/03/22 01:24 AM
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I think theres a chapter from models addressing this. Take a read on it My opinion is this. Stop worrying about the external view and worry about what you see in your life. Perspective is different. The only thing that matters is how YOU see things not how OTHERS see things There is a line between flirting and harrassment. Im sure you know social etiquette enough to know. Things you don't say at all or in a circumstances There are certain things you might say that brush that line. Know that its …
/r/seduction27/03/22 09:49 PM
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Depends what you classify as alpha and nice guy Some nice guys turn alpha but keep the same insecurity in them
/r/seduction27/03/22 08:16 AM
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Is it crossing any boundaries? Is it creepy to you? Girls will find you weird regardless of any action you take. You might hold your glass wrong and she gets the ick. You're there to be honest with her and have fun not to put her on a pedestal and apologise for any move you make on her. Be confident in what you say and give no fucks (apart in the fact it actually consitutes as harrassment) You should be polarising. You either be hones with your intentions or try damage control. It's not the word…
/r/seduction27/03/22 01:30 AM
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Lol you cant control what she feels is creepy. If you dont cross lines, then its alright. Stop falling back and doing some risk minimising. Have confidence in yourself and your communication and intents. Be vulnerable Have some social ettiquette. Dont talk about her tits on the first interaction.
/r/seduction26/03/22 11:07 PM
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But even then, its very familiar for people to give standard good thanks youtself? Especially towards someone you barely know. Even your friends. Really ingrained in us I do know her name. I introduced myself and spoke really briefly. Saw her again, waved and didnt do anything. Want to build good interactions again. Just putting out good vibes out there and not escalating so far. It should be easy for me to approach but im overthinking too much about her and what she thinks of me. I just rarely …
/r/seduction26/03/22 02:10 PM
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Escalate. And close
/r/seduction26/03/22 09:44 AM
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Dont shit where you eat Dont date someone with a boyfriend Go out and pursue other women. Why would you make it hard for yourself?
/r/seduction26/03/22 07:05 AM
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Confidence. In a way, being able to be confident and expess yourself and your vulnerability No need to be fake and put on a persona. Just be a normal dude with honest intent, communication and the ability to put out good vibes/energy without expecting anything in return Stop trying out these attitudes because its easy to spot. Just do you
/r/seduction26/03/22 04:56 AM
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Good job!
/r/seduction26/03/22 04:48 AM
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Models Thats about it. Especially the parts about inner game and vulnerability.
/r/seduction26/03/22 04:47 AM
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A bit late to this thread. Wanted to search Todd V on this reddit and ended up seeing a comment on John Anthony. Man is horrendous. Does reviewing other PUAs and negatively shits on them without having any value to pick it up. Was watching him to do an in-field breakdown the other night and was so frustrated at the dude "Yeah guys his approach is really cringey" Well then fucking explain you fucking dirtbag
/r/seduction25/03/22 03:55 AM
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Yeah dude. Man I don't know what I'm thinking of. Need to start going out day-game more to stop this nervous energy. When I communicate it seems effortless and fun and I'm just enjoying myself but when it comes time to approach, I have no idea when. She just seems to do one exercise after another so I'm not trying to intrude. She seems to have head-phones in so can't just go casual. Thanks man. Next time i see her, i'll make conversation again.
/r/seduction24/03/22 10:50 AM
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I like this. However, what if i tell her about my day and she ends up like saying basic "oh thats cool" or a "yeah im not a fan of art actually" activity. How do i go off that? Some might give basic answers There's this girl at the gym i like. Any good conversational starters?
/r/seduction23/03/22 10:20 PM
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I like this but what if its in an environment i frequent in - ie class, the gym? Im able to talk and get their names and such. Like approach. But in 2nd/new interactions, i have no idea what to say anymore. How do i start the Convo when ive met her already? Basic interaction would be "hey whats up? Hows your day going" wouldnt it?
/r/seduction23/03/22 10:05 PM
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This is really good. How would i make cold reads/inferences without making it about the situation/environment? Like say i see a girl at a coffee shop, how would i transition that into her background or age? Im confused on that
/r/seduction23/03/22 02:01 PM
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So add a question after a personal input? Got it. Would it be weird to just say like different topics that maybe she does not relate to? Like pretend i just got back from this really cool art gallery? It would be like "great actually. I just got back from this art gallery down at __. Do you like art yourself or have you been? Something like that? Does that make sense or would that be totally random
/r/seduction23/03/22 01:54 PM
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I get what you're saying. The issue for me is getting her talking about it in the first place. It usually goes from "hey whats up how are you" to a really short good thanks, you? Like how would i be able to transition that or even anything into something personal or even a fun conversation if there aren't hooks to grab onto? Like do i straight up ask how old she is/or what she does for work? Or like question mode after that? I understand how the convos go but not sure how to make conversation es…
/r/seduction23/03/22 01:07 PM
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Could you explain this
/r/seduction23/03/22 12:46 PM
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So the goal is just to act natural and myself. Like how do i act around these girls i see again? So don't put them on a pedestal or trying to think of her in a romantic sense?
/r/seduction22/03/22 09:59 PM
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So, think of your future self like this: you have done many approaches, you have experience, and all your thoughts are in line with approaching and things going well. Would you mind elaborating on this? How can I get my thoughts and actions aligned with approaching and enjoying the process? So to sum it up, the goal is to just disregard thinking about the outcome and just focus on being myself, having fun and sharing the value I possess? Do i think about a positive outcome only or none at all (a…
/r/seduction22/03/22 12:37 AM
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I get you. Maybe it's just my own insecurity or gut feeling telling me not to in case i get seen as the "creepy dude" especially in places i frequent in
/r/seduction21/03/22 09:53 PM
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Its often hard as its places i frequent. So being rejected or sharing feelings in that context is difficult I do want to take it slow and build value there first. I do understand what you mean slowly tho
/r/seduction20/03/22 02:05 PM
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What if they don't tell me? I just hate to be wasting time or emotional energy
/r/seduction20/03/22 01:51 PM
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I made an observation with her and complimented her on her outfit. Was fit! Ill continue to escalate tho! Thanks!
/r/seduction16/03/22 01:51 PM
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Any ideas on how i can water it persay? How should my next interaction go? How can i escalate in a controlled manner?
/r/seduction16/03/22 01:48 PM
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It just felt it would be awkward to run game in a gym we both frequent. Also kept the fact in mind that people are working on themselves in the gym so didn't want to run a full interaction. I probably wouldn't want it either. And i wanted to get back to my workout. I just kept it short, good vibes and let her get back to her workout.
/r/seduction16/03/22 01:19 PM
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Yeah i didn't really have an outcome in mind. Whether it ends up dating, being a gym partnership or even someone i can say hi to, everything is cool and seems like a win for me
/r/seduction16/03/22 01:12 PM
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Oh no i never did that. Will keep that in mind tho I did ask her what exercise she was doing tho. Thanks for the advice!
/r/seduction16/03/22 11:25 AM
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Can you explain more? I didn't want to escalate on the first opportunity especially at the gym.
/r/seduction15/03/22 04:55 AM
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Im just going to have a fun interaction and get her name I just don't know how to reopen her especially at a venue we both frequen. Like would it be weird to just say "whats up" or would it be more suitable to find something in common I just don't know what to say to begin.
/r/seduction15/03/22 04:52 AM
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So if i see her again soon even the next day, i should continue talking? What would i be able to say?
/r/seduction09/03/22 08:22 PM
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Sure! Lol it was actually really simple. I asked her what the machine she was using worked on and then provided my own personal input about using the same machine she was using. And then small talk and then the interaction ended there Whilst i was leaving the area, i made a small joke and obssrvation on her style. Because she was colour coordinating everything. Then said, enjoy your workout It provably wasnt the greatest interaction and probably things to improve on even socially. But the win fo…
/r/seduction09/03/22 07:44 PM
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New to game so don't take all Context is important like someone said Usually, i just make observations, cold reads, random statements and eventually turn those into questions depending on how she answers them. Or during interactions, pick out questions from her answers/what shes saying
/r/seduction23/02/22 01:08 PM
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Ultimately, you arent owed sex. Women don't think "oh shit its a need for the men and me, let me just fuck whoever is next to me". Probably more to that context to form a sexual relationships Be honest, be vulnerable, stop showing neediness and you'll be on a good path
/r/seduction23/02/22 01:01 PM
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Thanks for this. I understand it much better now. There was a girl at the gym today who was carrying the same bottle as me. First thing that popped in my head and i wanted to make a statement about it. Despite how weird it is. But i guess i was being not vulnerable in my position because the convo starter was not it and i was thinking bullshit instead of being authentic and just telling her how i feel
/r/seduction19/02/22 02:59 PM
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Started reading models and vulnerability came up as a key lesson. But just wondering do you approach everyone that may interest you due to showing a "dont care" attitude
/r/seduction19/02/22 02:42 PM
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I am. But it seems like I have to make it clearer like "I like you" or someshit which to me goes too direct How do I become the guy that she chases? Because I could walk away but I dont know if I should
/r/seduction23/11/21 09:47 PM
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Thanks! The real question is how do I know if shes interested? I dont know if I'm being lead on unintentionally or if this is going anywhere because the mixed messages shows like shes interested or unsure Should I just ask her or should I just be patient/keep the flirting going on? Its more so I'm having fun but I dont want to be like that shes using me for her own fun (and isnt interested in forming a relationship later down the line). It just feels like we ain't going anywhere with this and I'…
/r/seduction23/11/21 08:17 PM
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Explain what you mean?
/r/seduction23/11/21 02:26 PM
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Cheers She ended up sending me a selfie today. Maybe wanted validation or something but I just ignored it. Should I have replied to it?
/r/seduction23/11/21 02:23 PM
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We kissed. Wasn't a huge deal but we did I just dont know if shes just leading her on. Any ideas on how to get her way more interested? Fucking confusing signs aye. I seriously dunno what her intentions are. I ain't wanna be her buddy she flirts with whilst she keeps her options open. Rather have her show some interest or else it's just done for me
/r/seduction23/11/21 01:59 PM
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If I had to go into more detail Would a simple "hey" suffice or should I actually ask her a question to engage in some form of chit chat? Definitely think I should start pulling away and letting her come to me?
/r/seduction21/11/21 03:57 AM
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No questions? Just a simple hey you? I don't want to make the conversation boring so i feel like i should say something else. But I feel like I should just pull back/not push and let her come with the interest
/r/seduction21/11/21 01:33 AM
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Don't be creep If you don't want to get me too There's a boundary there
/r/seduction13/11/21 04:55 AM
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