| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Anyone cold approaching in Ankara - Turkiye?Not really. I actually got a long-term relationship via cold approach but it only worked once. It's not working now. IDK why. Oh yes, it worked a couple of times halfly as well but that was all. So, I was looking for a guy whom I could approach together with and get feedback from. | /r/seduction | 17/11/24 11:18 AM |
| 3 | Woman said I’m a loser because of my jobApparently she was just a c**t. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/11/24 07:10 PM |
| 5 | How to get over feeling inadequate because of height?You probably couldn't have said something more unhelpful. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/11/24 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Opinions on James Marshall from TNL?What do you mean by the other parts? I'm very curious. Is he creepy? :D | /r/seduction | 29/10/24 07:26 AM |
| 1 | I AM NEEDY and this is costing me a lotWould they still be creeped out if a very attractive man approached them? | /r/ExRedPill | 26/10/24 07:56 AM |
| -3 | Why are all dating coaches/PUAs are attractive?He speaks too fast that it makes it impossible to concentrate. | /r/seduction | 21/10/24 05:32 PM |
| 0 | Why are all dating coaches/PUAs are attractive?I guess I agree. Maybe not all the girls are paid actors but that doesn't mean PUAs don't do that. | /r/seduction | 21/10/24 05:16 PM |
| -7 | Why are all dating coaches/PUAs are attractive?Isn't he a fraud? He's made a lot of fun of on YouTube vids. | /r/seduction | 21/10/24 05:15 PM |
| 4 | Why are all dating coaches/PUAs are attractive?He's at least tall, isn't he? | /r/seduction | 21/10/24 05:15 PM |
| 1 | I AM NEEDY, and this is costing me everythingYes, I know that life is gonna end one day so at the end none of this will matter but the thing is, THEY WILL MATTER UNTIL THE END. What do you think about that? Thanks. | /r/seduction | 06/10/24 07:18 PM |
| 2 | I AM NEEDY and this is costing me a lotHow long have you been going? Therapy can take a while to start working, so don't be discouraged if you're new to it. I've used 13 different meds and none of them worked. Therapy is like talking, to me. He isn't telling me something that I haven't already known of. It's gonna be almost a year though. so you need to be comfortable being alone, at least temporarily. But what if I stay alone forever? | /r/ExRedPill | 06/10/24 05:43 PM |
| 1 | I AM NEEDY, and this is costing me everythingThat's very kind of you. Not everybody on reddit is as kind as you and some other people. Thanks. | /r/seduction | 06/10/24 05:07 PM |
| 2 | I AM NEEDY and this is costing me a lotHave you sought therapy in addition to psychiatry? He's doing therapy with me as well but I'm not sure if it's really working. but if you're happy with yourself when you're alone, This just sounds impossible and soul crushing to me. I can't be comfortable being alone. While everyone around me is having relationships, I don't want to be the guy left alone. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/10/24 04:44 PM |
| -2 | How to stop giving a F?If it's not in your character, then forget about it. Some things are only possible by human nature and character. I'm like you as well by the way. | /r/seduction | 03/10/24 03:30 PM |
| 2 | I'm needy because I only got one success from cold approachHow did you meet with her? | /r/ExRedPill | 26/09/24 07:46 PM |
| -2 | I'm needy because I only got one success from cold approachWhile everyone around me is having romantic success, I should stop feeling like I need that? | /r/ExRedPill | 26/09/24 07:32 PM |
| -1 | I'm needy because I only got one success from cold approachWhat should i do? | /r/ExRedPill | 26/09/24 02:25 PM |
| 1 | I'm needy because I only got one success from cold approachWhat else should i use? What would you suggest? | /r/ExRedPill | 26/09/24 01:57 PM |
| 1 | I'm needy because I only got one success from cold approachNot all my friends say so. And how am i gonna solve the texting stuff? | /r/seduction | 26/09/24 01:47 PM |
| 0 | "You are only one approach away from getting laid" is mostly wrongSome guys say my body language is like James Marshall from TNL. Lol. I used to watch a lot of his infields before. | /r/seduction | 24/08/24 04:24 PM |
| 1 | "You are only one approach away from getting laid" is mostly wrongI mean there are some girls who are gonna accept you and talk to you, go on a date with you and sleep with you. And there are some girls who are not gonna. What if I keep approaching the girls in the second group? Think of it as bad luck. What if I'm missing the ones in the first group? | /r/seduction | 24/08/24 04:23 PM |
| 1 | "You are only one approach away from getting laid" is mostly wrongAnkara Turkey. | /r/seduction | 24/08/24 12:59 PM |
| 2 | "You are only one approach away from getting laid" is mostly wrongYou probably didn't read my post. Even at the beginning of my post, I said, "In my experience..." | /r/seduction | 24/08/24 12:14 PM |
| 0 | "You are only one approach away from getting laid" is mostly wrongif you don't know why it doesn't work, I actually do. I'm not coming across with the girls who are gonna accept me, but with only those who are gonna reject me. And my main fear is, what if this not coming across with those girls who are gonna want to talk to me, go on a date with me and sleep with me continues. | /r/seduction | 24/08/24 12:09 PM |
| 1 | "You are only one approach away from getting laid" is mostly wrongBut my problem is this: I'm not coming across with girls who are gonna accept me, I guess. And I'm scared what if this continues like this. What do you think about this? | /r/seduction | 24/08/24 12:07 PM |
| 5 | "You are only one approach away from getting laid" is mostly wrongFrom his post history OP is borderline obsessive with “approaching” he should date it. You guys are making me obsessive because the system that people like you have found and promoted doesn't work PROPERLY. Only excuses and excuses exist. Yeah, 99% of weight loss diets don’t work so don’t lose weight. This is a wrong example. Most of the diets work if the person is careful and focused enough because most of the diets focus on cutting the calories, increasing the amount of veggies, protein, etc..… | /r/seduction | 24/08/24 12:05 PM |
| 2 | "You are only one approach away from getting laid" is mostly wrongI don't think I'm that much needy. Even if I was, girls don't have superpowers to sense that and even if they did, I wouldn't show that needines. So I don't have any problem with that. But my problem is this: I'm not coming across with girls who are gonna accept me, I guess. And I'm scared what if this continues like this. | /r/seduction | 24/08/24 11:52 AM |
| 3 | "You are only one approach away from getting laid" is mostly wrongI have LITERALLY NO IDEA man. | /r/seduction | 24/08/24 11:50 AM |
| 6 | "You are only one approach away from getting laid" is mostly wrongor do you use another way like: "Hi, excuse me, quick question, the XYZ is this way?" and build from there? I do this. | /r/seduction | 24/08/24 10:17 AM |
| 1 | "You are only one approach away from getting laid" is mostly wrongI still couldn't get over my ex gf. She's with someone else now. And for this, I'm using psychiatrics meds. I need to find a girl. It's been almost 2 years me being single. I'm scared that this will continue like this. Would it be better for me to be in social settings and look for a girl there? | /r/seduction | 24/08/24 08:07 AM |
| 1 | "You are only one approach away from getting laid" is mostly wrongThank you. It's nice to see honest and objective people here. Cold approach has worked for me ONLY ONCE. I got a long-term relationship from it. But after the break up, I approached a lot and it never worked. Should I stop approaching totally and start joining courses or attending parties? What are your thoughts? Thanks. | /r/seduction | 24/08/24 07:29 AM |
| 1 | Any guys here who can explain why they don't approach?Oh, I thought you were talking about people getting arrested generally for cold approaching? For minors, yes, that's a problem. | /r/seduction | 22/08/24 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Any guys here who can explain why they don't approach?it doesn't work Sometimes I do. It still doesn't work. Same here. | /r/seduction | 22/08/24 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Any guys here who can explain why they don't approach?Ah... That sounds exhausting. | /r/seduction | 22/08/24 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Any guys here who can explain why they don't approach?Don't worry about it. Even if you did approach, it's very inefficient. You're probably not gonna be successful. | /r/seduction | 22/08/24 04:26 PM |
| 4 | Any guys here who can explain why they don't approach?How do we get a girl then? | /r/seduction | 22/08/24 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Any guys here who can explain why they don't approach?Any person you know who got arrested for cold approach? | /r/seduction | 22/08/24 04:18 PM |
| 8 | Any guys here who can explain why they don't approach?Exactly. Those PUAs are not trustworthy in my opinion. They just show one part of the whole interaction and try to sell courses. Lol. | /r/seduction | 22/08/24 03:14 PM |
| 2 | Any guys here who can explain why they don't approach?I was actually asking other guys' opinions on why they don't approach. | /r/seduction | 22/08/24 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Any guys here who can explain why they don't approach?How do you deal with the loneliness though? Are you using any psychiatric meds or getting therapy? | /r/seduction | 22/08/24 03:07 PM |
| 38 | Any guys here who can explain why they don't approach?Agree. Approaches end up with rejection mostly. If numbers or IG are taken, they're mostly flakes and those PUAs on YouTube who promote stuff like "You're one approach away from getting laid. JUST APPROACH BRO!" never show the process after the number or Instagram that they take. Probably they're flakes too. No one to trust these days... | /r/seduction | 22/08/24 03:02 PM |
| 9 | Any guys here who can explain why they don't approach?Are you using any meds? And except for these days, why don't you approach? | /r/seduction | 22/08/24 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Any guys here who can explain why they don't approach?Everyone and me. | /r/seduction | 22/08/24 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Opinions on James Marshall from TNL?Who should I follow? Any opinion? | /r/seduction | 11/08/24 10:19 AM |
| 1 | Opinions on James Marshall from TNL?Why creepy? | /r/seduction | 11/08/24 06:27 AM |
| 1 | Opinions on James Marshall from TNL?Any PUA that you'd like to suggest? | /r/seduction | 10/08/24 04:08 PM |
| 0 | Opinions on James Marshall from TNL?Any PUA that you can suggest? | /r/seduction | 10/08/24 03:34 PM |
| – | How Do You Think Pornograpy and Instagram Have Affected The Dating MarketIG and dating apps literally DESTROYED it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 08:48 AM |
| 0 | Why cold approach is mostly useless?You've seen the bigger picture. Congrats. | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 01:16 PM |
| 1 | Why cold approach is mostly useless?We shouldn't echo chamber seduction stuff. Nor should we be bigot like some people. We should be able to talk about anything. | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 01:15 PM |
| 0 | Why cold approach is mostly useless?Does that make it my article? | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 01:11 PM |
| 0 | Why cold approach is mostly useless?Potato. Atomant the potato. | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 01:10 PM |
| -2 | Why cold approach is mostly useless?Lol that's not my article. | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 12:55 PM |
| -5 | Why cold approach is mostly useless?That's not my article. | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 12:44 PM |
| 0 | Why Cold Approach Doesn't Work Properly?Which words or sentences sounded like the red pill ones? | /r/ExRedPill | 11/07/24 10:33 AM |
| 1 | Today's Most Men Are Probably Doomed with No SolutionNo. It's just you who aren't able to answer. All you do is blaming. | /r/seduction | 27/06/24 01:54 PM |
| 1 | Today's Most Men Are Probably Doomed with No SolutionThere are men who are at ready to be in a relationship with a woman. Age mostly doesn't matter to men, or does it? What do you think? | /r/seduction | 27/06/24 01:49 PM |
| 0 | Today's Most Men Are Probably Doomed with No SolutionGood, I taught you how to write well. You can thank me later ;) | /r/seduction | 27/06/24 01:48 PM |
| -1 | Today's Most Men Are Probably Doomed with No SolutionFirst, write properly, then maybe I'll respond to you. | /r/seduction | 27/06/24 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Today's Most Men Are Probably Doomed with No SolutionNot a conversation worth having. This is your opinion. If you don't like this, you can go and improve yourself endlessly. | /r/seduction | 27/06/24 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Today's Most Men Are Probably Doomed with No SolutionWhich is? | /r/seduction | 27/06/24 01:27 PM |
| 0 | Today's Most Men Are Probably Doomed with No SolutionI'm not a black-piller even though it has some truths in it. Look at the flair. THIS IS A CONVERSATION POST. We're having a conversation. And because you didn't find this helpful doesn't mean others won't either. | /r/seduction | 27/06/24 01:26 PM |
| 0 | Today's Most Men Are Probably Doomed with No SolutionYou misunderstood me. I didn't blame the world there. I said, "Yeah bruh, I'm gonna approach more." | /r/seduction | 27/06/24 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Today's Most Men Are Probably Doomed with No SolutionDepends on the person. | /r/seduction | 27/06/24 12:57 PM |
| 2 | Today's Most Men Are Probably Doomed with No SolutionSure thing bruh. | /r/seduction | 27/06/24 12:44 PM |
| 5 | Today's Most Men Are Probably Doomed with No SolutionExactly. | /r/seduction | 27/06/24 12:43 PM |
| 0 | Today's Most Men Are Probably Doomed with No SolutionAnother cliche, populist answer. You probably know nothing about the real world. | /r/seduction | 27/06/24 12:35 PM |
| 0 | Today's Most Men Are Probably Doomed with No SolutionLOL. Just block me master pua. EDIT: HE BLOCKED ME LOL. WHAT A TOUCHY LITTLE FELLER. | /r/seduction | 27/06/24 12:33 PM |
| -6 | Today's Most Men Are Probably Doomed with No SolutionCliche, populist "alpha male" advice. | /r/seduction | 27/06/24 10:07 AM |
| -2 | Today's Most Men Are Probably Doomed with No SolutionWouldn't it take too much time? And still, there's no guarantee. | /r/seduction | 27/06/24 09:54 AM |
| 2 | Today's Most Men Are Probably Doomed with No SolutionYeah. Coming across with a girl who is gonna like you; then anything is possible. | /r/seduction | 27/06/24 09:31 AM |
| -1 | Today's Most Men Are Probably Doomed with No SolutionSure. Anything is possible. Even meeting a girl in an STD clinic or in a dark alley too, if she likes you of course. But my point was CA is getting harder and harder each day. | /r/seduction | 27/06/24 09:23 AM |
| 2 | Today's Most Men Are Probably Doomed with No SolutionFinally some common sense here... Thanks. | /r/seduction | 27/06/24 09:22 AM |
| 2 | Today's Most Men Are Probably Doomed with No SolutionI guess you're unaware of the rising male loneliness problem in the world. And those men complain about the lack of alternative as well. | /r/seduction | 27/06/24 09:18 AM |
| 3 | Today's Most Men Are Probably Doomed with No SolutionNo, it's about coming across with girls who are gonna ACCEPT you. It's mostly not about skills. | /r/seduction | 27/06/24 09:14 AM |
| 6 | Today's Most Men Are Probably Doomed with No SolutionAnd that's the problem, there seems to be no alternative. | /r/seduction | 27/06/24 09:10 AM |
| 3 | Why You’ll Never Get Better At GameIf you're a realistic person, you'll realize that the problem with daygame/cold approach is you might keep getting rejected. Even if you get numbers, they might lead to nowhere because numbers mean nothing. She might flake, right? It's all about coming across with girls who are gonna ACCEPT you. But what if you keep coming across with ones that are gonna reject you all the time? NOBODY TALKS ABOUT THIS, IT'S CRAZY. | /r/seduction | 26/06/24 09:35 AM |
| 2 | Sexless men should honestly take their chances and approach as many women as possibleAnd what if all those women who are gonna be approached are gonna reject the guy? What then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 06:29 AM |
| 1 | Numbers game doesn't workI'm trying to figure this out but the most objective explanation I came up with is I keep coming across with girls who aren't into me. If they were, my words or atitude wouldn't matter. | /r/seduction | 17/06/24 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Numbers game doesn't workI don't know... Most PUAs are white guys from 1st world countries and they cold approach in countries like East Europe and like you said, South America. They kinda avoid western countries. Maybe cold approach isn't the best method to meet women unlike their exaggeration to sell their courses and bootcamps. | /r/seduction | 17/06/24 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Numbers game doesn't workI see. What's your ethnicity, height and attractiveness level in your opinion? | /r/seduction | 17/06/24 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Numbers game doesn't workAnkara. | /r/seduction | 17/06/24 12:49 PM |
| 1 | Numbers game doesn't workI'm just scared of the possibility that what if I keep coming across with these types of girls who are gonna reject me and not girls who are gonna accept me? | /r/seduction | 17/06/24 08:07 AM |
| 1 | Numbers game doesn't workI'd say 6,5/10. Turkish. 178 cm. | /r/seduction | 17/06/24 08:06 AM |
| 1 | Numbers game doesn't workI think I'm alright at seducing but I can't seduce them if I keep coming across with girls who are gonna reject me without giving me an opportunity to seduce them. And I'm scared that what if I keep coming across with these types of girls, I mean, forever and stay girlles like this? | /r/seduction | 17/06/24 08:05 AM |
| 2 | Numbers game doesn't workI don't think I'm unattractive. The problem is just I keep coming across with the girls that are gonna reject me. I guess this is about LUCK, isn't it? And I'm scared that what if I keep coming across with these types of girls, I mean, forever and stay girlles like this? | /r/seduction | 17/06/24 08:05 AM |
| 0 | Most men who can't find a girlfriend can't expand their social circle as wellI agree. These are very cliche alike advice so that people who give these sound like NPCs to me. "Just expand your social circle bro." Yeah, sure, whatever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 08:50 PM |
| 3 | there's an invisible glass that excludes me, maybe seduction is not for everyoneI TOTALLY understand you. Almost all people who wrote here made populist and shallow comments. Cold approach worked for me only once, now it isn't working and I DON'T KNOW WHY. Maybe we both share the same kind of reason and I don't know how to find that out either. | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Assessing the fall of James Marshall's The Natural Lifestyles and the State of The PUA industryJames Marshall is a good looking guy. He generally says that he has a big nose and he's skinny but still, he has lots of positive features; he's tall and not bald, he's Australian, he has a good face structure So, what I think is his infields doesn't count as good infields. Show me one ugly or under average looking guy doing pick up and then I'll believe in all this game stuff But, interesting article. Thanks for sharing that | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 12:07 PM |
| 1 | Advice for a guy with OCD on cold approach & datingThanks! | /r/ExRedPill | 04/09/23 06:43 PM |
| 3 | Advice for a guy with OCD on cold approach & datingThat's a very detailed answer, thank you. I actually sent you a private message because I read some of your answers and thought maybe you could help. If possible, can I ask you one more question with my ex gf via private message? Thanks so much again. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/09/23 06:42 PM |
| 4 | Advice for a guy with OCD on cold approach & datingThank you. I guess I should improve that part of my life but I just don't know what to do in general and specifically in those social scenes. I don't know where to start, what to say, when to say it, how to act, how to initiate that conversation with the girl I like... | /r/ExRedPill | 04/09/23 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Advice for a guy with OCD on cold approach & datingNot really :/ | /r/ExRedPill | 04/09/23 05:36 PM |
| 3 | Advice for a guy with OCD on cold approach & datingI just don't have any idea on what to do in those complicated scenarios. Cold appraoch isn't that complicated but finding a girlfriend in social circles makes me feel like I don't know what to do; what to say, when to say it, etc. I'm also not that social. I don't have that much idea on what to do in social scenes. I guess I should improve those parts of my life. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/09/23 05:36 PM |
| 2 | Advice for a guy with OCD on cold approach & datingYes. Going up to a woman, saying hi, introducing myself, etc... And yes, it isn't an efficient way to meet women. But I don't know if I could meet them via other ways (online, hobbies, mutual friends etc.) So you suggest warm approach. But same question though: What if I keep getting rejected that way too? This'll probably be very weird to you but I can't stop thinking about possibilities. My mind just doesn't stop. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/09/23 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Rejection rate highYou're right. I created a post for it. | /r/seduction | 30/07/23 03:35 PM |
| 2 | The #1 Habit of losers.No, you can't have whatever you like nor you can be whoever you like. I'm not a bl*ckpilled guy but what they say on this makes too much sense. You're mostly (not totally) what you look like. Your appearance matters most. Do you think 3/10 or 4/10 guys can do whatever they want or become whoever they like if they put enough effort into? No. This advice only goes for average and upper average looking guys You shouldn't give false hope to nobody. | /r/seduction | 04/06/23 04:22 PM |
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