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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 6 | I need support, I think I need to break up with himSweetheart, this long wrote shows already that you are not in a good place and you are suffering in this relationship. Maybe he is a good guy in other fields, but I'm sure that you guys are not compatible. Maybe he fills most of teh criterias, but the most important is how you feel you're being treated. And it dosen't look like you guys are on the same page. You need emotional support and he's not the one to give. It's not his personality trait. Trust me when I say that there are LOTS of guys th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/22 09:41 AM |
| 2 | This is what you get if you act „low maintance”. You are worth less than a good PC setupThat's so sad to see this. Honestly, it breaks my heart. Sometimes you really wonder if there are any sane men left out in the world... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 12:46 PM |
| 8 | Ask Polly: ‘I Hate Men.’Absolutely amazing article. Thank you for sharing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 02:07 PM |
| 369 | The dates where nice, and he was a gentleman. However….I think you made the right decision of not interacting with him anymore. Never in my live have I heard about men sleeping with a woman for years and not lay a finger on her. Also, the in this way that he ended the conversation he clearly showed you that his "friends" are and will be more important than you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/21 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Asreya, non-stealing, the third Yama of yogaBeautiful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 11:09 AM |
| 22 | He asked to borrow moneyThat's actually genius. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 08:51 PM |
| 5 | I must eat my words, he is not a HVM now that I see clearlyWell, the important thing is to not beat yourself up for it, it was a lesson that you've learned and now you know better. He will still be he asshole that he is, but for another lady. It was actually a blessing in disguise that he found another woman and decided to show his true colors. Think of what would have happened if you woud have married him and found out after about how he really is. Also, make sure you work on your trauma before dating, first of all for your oun happiness but also so th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 01:14 PM |
| 15 | I must eat my words, he is not a HVM now that I see clearlyOnly 3 dates in 2 years ??? God, I would not have resisted this treatment. Saying that he will "call the police to kick you out" already says about how low value he is. I don't know how people can have a heart like this. Even if I have friends that I have a fight with, if they have nowhere to go, I would still let them stay. You should have no regrets about this, he just used you as much as he could and when he found a better one he decided to dump you based on "trauma". I saw you post before an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 09:57 AM |
| 14 | Fighting Your Own Biology; The Neuroscience Behind Falling in Love and How it Works Against UsAmazing article! It's very well written. Thank you so much for the effort you put in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 10:17 AM |
| 8 | Why I Stayed Single in College and Why You Should TooAnd last but not least, less gossiping and people giving they're opinion of your relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 07:01 AM |
| 34 | Damn but I feel GREATAmazing! So happy for your success 😍 💪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 08:18 PM |
| 8 | This is why you protect your womb. This is why men's lies about the court system is bullshit. Ladies, always vet and vet ruthlessly. The world is against you, so be ruthless.Poor woman... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 09:00 PM |
| 2 | As a result of begging from a LVM, my breasts trigger the worst body dysmorphic spiral. Should I get a breast augmentation to gain a sense of comfort in my body or should I just accept that my chest as is? Has anyone here had cosmetic surgery that improved the quality of their life?First of all, I agree to all the persons that posted here that is a very bad decision to make this because your lover has a specific type of breast that he likes. Second of all, you really must see this video where a femeale comedian explains about the lie of "all men wanting this impossible to achieve standard of beauty". She went to a factory of sex robots anf found out there are 38 different types of breats. So there is someone there tgat would absolutely adore yours just as it is. If this di… | /r/askFDS | 30/06/21 08:46 PM |
| 7 | Got my very first Reddit post from a guy who's not a fan of FDS......Love your post 😘 Keep going after them, girl! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 07:47 PM |
| 43 | Queens take care of their healthI'm so happy for your win! I got through something similar that broke my seld esteem and I know how much of a big win is to actually be healthy. And for kicking out of your NVM! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 04:13 PM |
| 668 | Please, sign this petition!! https://t.co/vtYfrSVCGT?amp=1Be careful with this site, after a search on google, it show's that they ask you for donations, but the donations never arrive at the ones in need. After a quick search I found that: (Change) is a multimillion dollar for-profit private company, not a nonprofit public charity as many falsely assume. The company began as a nonprofit that connected charities to donors, but has transitioned into a for-profit company that makes money by selling advertised petitions on its website, Change.org. PSA: pl… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 10:29 AM |
| 12 | Why you should NEVER go 50/50 on a date: Breaking down the most common argument (Part. 4)Beautiful! Thank you so much for taking the time to write this article and bring light into it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 11:16 AM |
| 6 | The last podcast episode made me realise that all these "extreme cheapskates" dudes are probably just abusers doing coercive controlI'm sorry for what you went through. My heart is with you. Also, congratulation for having the courage to walk out. Probably the best decision of your life. That men could have gotten really violent with you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 10:37 AM |
| 3 | HOW TO TEXT LIKE A QUEEN 📱👑Thanks for the valuable advice. This should be in the handbook. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 10:29 AM |
| 1 | This popped up in my memories. This is HV.Absolutely beautiful. We should have more posts like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 09:55 AM |
| 16 | Climate change doom and women's futures?There's a lot of ways in which this world may go down, this included. What I found pretty relevant was this book called Survive The Economic Collapse, by Piero San Giorgio, which explains pretty rigorously every way this world might do wrong and the steps you need to do in case of each. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 08:58 AM |
| 8 | Bullied for being a FDS-er. How do you react to this ?Studies have been done that show the social harm of ostracization-- being cold-- is as painful as physical violence. You've made your point, now take the work relationship in a new and better direction. Wow. I didn't knew that. Thank you for telling me. 🙏 I will try to change myself for the better. Can I have a link also? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 01:35 PM |
| 10 | Bullied for being a FDS-er. How do you react to this ?Thank you. I indeed keep on doing so from now on. It was a lesson to me. I also believe it was somehow a misinterpreting, as she might believe I was bragging or something. I really don't brag about things, I just tough she would be genuinely happy for me. But I will keep low key from now on and try to act more professional. It was indeed my mistake also. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 11:22 AM |
| 6 | My LVM misogynist father and pick me mother's conditioning made me waste my 20sI'm also coming from Eastern Europe ( I have a intuition we're in the same country ) and it took me years of therapy to unlearn what I've learned in childhood. Also had an abusive father. For you to not be affected that much I highly encourage you to move to a flat. I know it's a tradition to be close to your family, to be the "good girl", but what I've learned from FDS and helped me with my family issues is that you have to put boundaries, even in the family. If your dad is a LVM, just make the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 09:59 AM |
| 18 | It’s Unfortunate How Many LVM/NVM Know What Women Want (An HVM), Pretend To Be It, And Then The Facade Slowly ErodesThat is so true. I was in shock for months and I just didn't wanted to accept reality when my ex started to behave totally different in the relationship. I just taught it's my fault, that I have to be more loving / caring / generous with him so he would love me again. It took me months and a dozen of female friends telling me that his mask has slipped off, and this is just how he is, now that he knows that we're stable and he won't lose me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 09:02 AM |
| 18 | This should be engraved in the stoneI'm greatful I could help 🙏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 01:09 AM |
| 16 | Treat yourself well & Treat Yourself ... you will be less likely to fall for LVMs" why? because then when some LVM comes along, or if you feel temptation to bend the rules, you'll quickly see how his LV behavior has such a contrast to how well you treat yourself." - Yes, this is such an important thing, If you don't manage to love yourself, you would think you're not worthy of love. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 09:36 AM |
| 11 | Personal growth and new age concepts that are scams:This is so true. I'm glad you pointed this out. Too many people try to live in the some concepts they found on the internet, which are nice and appealing, in an ideal world. But we're not in that ideal world. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 09:22 AM |
| 9 | How age gap ruined me. Twice.That is so awful. I'm glad you actually saw through his intentions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 08:58 AM |
| 27 | Even women who want to uplift men and boys gets called a sl*t. Don't be a pickme y'all. 🤡Scrotes will be scrotes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 11:22 AM |
| 49 | Apparently even ancient Rabbis didn’t have time for thirsty dudes and their nonsenseI laughed so hard at this 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 08:34 AM |
| 270 | The lowest of the low, that I've never thought possibleUnfortunately, her father is few houses away. For I don't know what reason, still free. Still not in jail. This is the world we live in. After I've heard this, I really felt like keeping this boundaries like something sacred. Before this, I had a little pickme thought like: "well what could happen if I fall into a relationship with a LVM? Worst come to worst, he treates me badly and I will eventually leave". No, worst come to worst you die. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 09:35 PM |
| 21 | Yes! Finally my taste for FDS content got picked up by Instagram algorithm 😂I love her energy ⚡ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 09:04 PM |
| 10 | Scrote BingoAbsolutely adore it 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 07:46 PM |
| 6 | Why you should NEVER go 50/50 on a date: Breaking down the most common arguments (Part. 3)Beautiful. Very well put. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 12:14 PM |
| 11 | Yes Queen! You deserve more than a $5 date. Swipe to see the scrotes’ responsesYou made me laugh so hard at this 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 05:50 PM |
| 3 | Most accurate representation of single men - courtesy of Man Seeking Woman😂 I has such a good laugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 09:37 AM |
| 8 | TAKE NOTE OF THE MEDIA A MAN CONSUMES: A LIST OF RED FLAGS TO WATCH OUT FOR IN 2021This is gold. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 07:01 AM |
| 39 | I survived a weekend of low value temptation, thank you ladies.Congrats! When you have this moments, embrace yourself with the queen energy. A queen would want only the best, something that can value and that would value you back. About the ex, remember why you left him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 08:21 PM |
| 77 | Some kind scrote reported me to Reddit Care for my last post. I guess I’m supposed to in crisis because I’m alone? Granny has some words for you.I got reported by someone to Redit Care also, when I had a popular post. They do act shady. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 04:29 PM |
| 2 | ShE's AsKiNg FoR iT - reversed!Ahh... Sorry girls | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 11:32 AM |
| 7 | Let's start CELEBRATING the END of LV relationshipsJust broke up with my LV bf this month. I needed this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 05:13 PM |
| 24 | the shit ppl do for cloutI am so sorry for this girl... She really is cute. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 03:21 PM |
| 14 | Women whose first love language is physical touch, how do you fulfill this need when single?For me, the most effective are hugs. And you don't need to have a boyfriend so you can get hugs. I do this to all the people I interact and I feel they're open to it. I have a group of friends in which I hug everyone when I arrive and they do the same with each other. I hug people at work (who again I feel that are open) no matter of their position in the company. I hug also my neighbors. I know my habit may sound weird for some but I can say that I really feel I'm loved everywhere I go. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 07:29 PM |
| 17 | Match energyAmen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 06:15 PM |
| 16 | Never second guess vetting even over yearsOMG... I'm so sorry for her. It sure have been difficult for her this experience. I hope she'll get through this. Best of luck! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 07:44 PM |
| 5 | Stay awareWow. Just wow. This really opened my eyes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 09:15 PM |
| 4 | I want you as my wife, not as my maidI completely agree with you. I think the context was (maybe) to test him to see for what reason he wants to marry her 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 07:02 AM |
| 3 | Sexually coerced?Sweetie, don't blame yourself for it. We all have a certain amount of will power. What it was is that you reached your limit of willpower and he took advantage of it. What I advise you is to seek professional support, so this won't become a trauma for you. Also, IF you want to continue with him, make it very clear for him that this was an important moment in your life and you are not ok with being fdw, but you want something more. Otherwise, he wouldn't know. Also sory for any grammar mistakes, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 12:19 PM |
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