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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 69 | Text and talking are cheap ways to build faux intimacy with a woman! Make it expensive for him to waste your time.🌺👏Have better things to do than text or talk on the phone 👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 10:16 PM |
| 5 | Celebrate with meBuy whatever you’ve had your eye on and have been putting off. You deserve it! 💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 10:38 PM |
| 8 | Men Who Don’t Believe You/ Play Devils Advocate and What It Really MeansDon’t stand for this insidious disrespect. 👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 07:43 PM |
| 92 | In case you weren't convinced bumble is a breeding ground for an all-around LV experience...Lmao who runs their marketing? 😂This does not sound appealing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 05:50 PM |
| – | Lovebombing or genuine interestPlease post on r/AskFDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 08:33 AM |
| – | Concerns about my "boy-crazy" daughterPlease post on r/AskFDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 11:25 PM |
| – | I'M SO FUCKING PROUD OF YOU GUYS ITS INDESCRIBABLE.OP, if you have questions for FDSers, post them on r/AskFDS. See rule 1 of this sub. Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 05:49 PM |
| 4 | (idk if this was made already!) Shout-out to the mods cause I'm sure they read through a whole lot of bs to shield us from it, so THANK YOU💖Don’t hesitate to contact us, here is the link: https://www.reddit.com/message/compose?to=/r/femaledatingstrategy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 05:17 PM |
| 6 | (idk if this was made already!) Shout-out to the mods cause I'm sure they read through a whole lot of bs to shield us from it, so THANK YOU💖Absolutely agreed, for future reference please report and do not engage with trolls as you wait for their comments to be removed by mods, or send a modmail message. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 05:10 PM |
| 10 | (idk if this was made already!) Shout-out to the mods cause I'm sure they read through a whole lot of bs to shield us from it, so THANK YOU💖We agree, the user is banned. Report & do not engage, we do review all reports. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 05:08 PM |
| 15 | (idk if this was made already!) Shout-out to the mods cause I'm sure they read through a whole lot of bs to shield us from it, so THANK YOU💖The user has been banned and suspended. Please continue to report problematic comments and do not engage with them. The turn around time for reports can be up to 72 hours, but we do review every report. Those comments are not tolerated on FDS and have been removed. u/inspection-critical, u/bluelightsonblkgirls, u/veronamoreau, u/important_page_6846 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 05:05 PM |
| – | Recently posted on here and got a new follower, one look at the post history and yup, it was a scrote that likes to keep tabs on this subr/FDSSuperFans content. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 08:58 PM |
| 18 | What Qualifies Someone to Be a Sex and Relationship “Expert”?Popular dating coaches make their business off giving women lines of what to say to men instead of discussing the deeper issues of empowerment, self-esteem, and financial independence. The ”here’s what to say to him to make him want you” crowd is based off gimmicks, they know they’re not qualified and they know they’re not really helping anyone. Non-FDS: Send him a coy “hey, you looked cute at the bar ;)” FDS: Know your worth, you are better than being desperate for attention, don’t dumb yoursel… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 06:50 PM |
| 12 | Hi ladies, I just got accepted to pursue my doctorate in occupational therapy. I am going to be a doctor. The first one of my family. I am so proud of my work paying off.Congratulations!!! 🍾🎉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 06:46 PM |
| 6 | Low effort proposals are not FDSLadies, several amazing proposal ideas have just been listed and your LVM won’t even do one of them? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 09:55 AM |
| 4 | Divorced Women of FDSYou have FDS now sis! At least here, we do have a no gaslighting rule. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 09:33 AM |
| – | Navigating the strange world of dating and need advice..Please post this on r/AskFDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 06:05 AM |
| – | I thought he was HVM-now I’m left hurt and confusedPlease post this on r/AskFDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 06:05 AM |
| – | Went out with a guy who lied about being single, have undeniable evidence after the fact that he is in a relationship, should I tell his girlfriend?Please post this on r/AskFDS. Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 12:17 PM |
| 73 | Surely linger dating/"courting" period before marriage is fine if you're young and/or still a student?Your early 20s are a great time to meet new people, figure out likes and dislikes and dealbreakers if you’re dating. But more importantly, it is the ideal time for self growth, working on financial independence, investing in your own hobbies and life, not committing to one person for two years or more. Marriage before the prefrontal cortex is fully developed is ill-advised, and so is dating anyone for over eighteen months. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 12:09 PM |
| – | Dating should be fun. If you feel guilty about dating around, it’s centered in internalized misogyny and patriarchal norms.Dating should also be fun in the sense you shouldn’t make yourself go out into situations you don’t really want to be in. None of it should feel forced or dreadful. Only accept dates you look forward to. I’m glad you agree and expanded upon this- https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/k6kbwc/dating_is_supposed_to_be_fun/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 11:20 PM |
| 89 | Listen to FDS's advice: you'll save time & energyTry to think ahead, ten years from now, would you want to tell the story about how when you first met your husband, you weren’t sure he liked you because he was so inconsistent? It’s hard to see in the present. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 11:16 PM |
| 17 | Ignored and blocked, my dating life is starting to look like a sitcom lol🗑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 04:33 PM |
| 25 | For the ladies who are not necessarily marriage mindedI would take it as a reminder that LVM are disproportionately not marriage-minded and to always have high standards regardless of wanting marriage or not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 09:02 PM |
| 6 | For the ladies who are not necessarily marriage mindedThank you for writing this. This is so important for everyone to realize. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Tiffany and Co ring?Please post on r/femalelevelupstrategy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 07:06 PM |
| 4 | Another person said it. Never allow porn in a relationship if you want a healthy relationship.Good for you! See the sub rules. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 07:04 PM |
| 2 | Do you mostly date men who you are viscerally and immediately sexually attracted to on a gut level or do you date a wide range of men and “give guys a chance”?💯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 05:53 PM |
| 14 | They’re thiiiis close to figuring it out!Accidentally? Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 11:59 PM |
| 6 | They never change! Abusive husband on fetlifeYou are an inspiration and your strength is an inspiration. So happy to have you here and glad you’re getting out of that mess. Onto better things. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 05:57 AM |
| 18 | I love how pressed men are about this subDecoding lies and myths hurts their position in the dating market where they used to get away with saying things like “I want to take it day by day” and “I’m not sure what I’m looking for”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 06:48 PM |
| 5 | Did anyone else see the bumble ad pretty much discouraging marriage and encouraging children out of wedlock?Just think of it from his perspective, Bumble is MORE CONVENIENT to LVM because they get women speaking to them automatically. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 06:37 PM |
| 3 | Did anyone else see the bumble ad pretty much discouraging marriage and encouraging children out of wedlock?We’ve been saying this, they promote low effort. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 06:29 PM |
| 3 | Women who are not similarly women-centered will take you for granted.Don’t give up hope, don’t write off potential female friends until you get to know them. Then, if they take you for granted, you know where you stand, but don’t assume all women will let you down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Women who are not similarly women-centered will take you for granted.Me too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 06:25 PM |
| 4 | FDS just hit 121k followers in time for 2021! Happy New Year's FDSers! 🎉🥂🍾🥳Happy New Year FDSers! 🥳🍾🥂🎉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 03:41 AM |
| 2 | Match energyIt is so much easier to move on when you don’t do anything pickme! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 06:39 PM |
| 3 | All the best for 2021!Wishing FDSers the brightest year yet, filled with self-love, self-care, and honoring your standards! ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 06:36 PM |
| – | About to go no contact with my narcissistic and emotionally/financially abusive dad.Please post on r/AskFDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Marry Christmas to all fabulous members if FDS!!!!💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 07:07 PM |
| – | Socially awkward boss?!Please post on r/AskFDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 04:29 AM |
| 1 | My boyfriends ex followed him, he followed her back and liked most of her pics. He acted like it wasn’t a big deal and even though a few years have passed... I thought about it and it’s really bothering me.Have you read the FDS Handbook? A man who has moved on completely will not have any contact with any exes. | /r/askFDS | 25/12/20 12:30 AM |
| – | Beginning to resent my boyfriend. Please share your thoughts.Please post on r/AskFDS and read the handbook. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 05:41 AM |
| 18 | NVM ex wanted me to choose between him and career in 2018. I chose career. Ending 2020 with 168k, halfway through my master's in CS, and just signed an offer letter with 400k of tech stocks vesting through 2025. NEVER sacrifice your career or education for ANYONE. (PS: He's still unemployed.)You are incredible! 🍾🎉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 12:31 AM |
| 5 | When you talk about how much you bring to the tableExactly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 05:50 AM |
| 13 | Texting advicePlease do! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 02:57 AM |
| – | The Entitlement! 😂Repeat post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 07:44 PM |
| – | Any FDS approved books to read?Please check the wiki. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 06:18 PM |
| – | Queens, was I wrong or is this FDS approved?Please post on r/AskFDS. Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 06:10 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered December 3 2020Proud of you too 💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 05:23 PM |
| – | How Can I Make Peace With My PastPost on r/AskFDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 07:16 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered December 3 2020Please read the FDS Handbook and post to r/AskFDS afterwards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 07:11 AM |
| 5 | Put yourself in his shoesWhat made you stay with someone for so many years and how did your friends and family feel about it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 09:56 PM |
| – | They can never leave us alone!r/FDSSuperFans. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 07:22 PM |
| – | Women “best friends” can be toxic and low-value tooPlease post on r/femalelevelupstrategy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 06:18 PM |
| – | Husband kept a log of all the times his wife “denied” him sexRepeat post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 05:52 PM |
| – | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered December 3 2020Keeping this up until December 20. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 05:25 PM |
| – | Should I give him a chance?The sub for advice is r/AskFDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 04:26 PM |
| – | Why do Men lead you on by faking interests just to dump you after?Give the handbook a read, then ask on r/AskFDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 04:25 PM |
| 32 | An appreciation meme for all the relentless work that FDS mods do to keep unwanted comments from such people at bay. You're the real MVP.Lies 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 03:56 PM |
| 15 | An appreciation meme for all the relentless work that FDS mods do to keep unwanted comments from such people at bay. You're the real MVP.This is so cute 💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 03:56 PM |
| – | This couple has been together for 18 years and this woman is used to him saying and doing things like this. Girl, just yeet that man into the trash where he belongs. 🤮Repeat post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 06:20 AM |
| – | Thank you, next?Read the FDS Handbook then ask on r/AskFDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 10:25 PM |
| – | (From my Pre-FDS days) matched with a guy who listed his job as “licensed therapist” on his Bumble profile. Took what, four messages until he asks me to come to his place for (disappointing) sex? Blocked and reported him after my reply.No Bumble 🗑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 09:48 PM |
| – | Roster dating?Read the handbook and sub rules before posting. https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/wiki/recommended_reading | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 07:06 PM |
| – | How to get an "ex" out of my head?Please post on r/askFDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 06:09 PM |
| 10 | How to Stay Above the Pickmeisha frayReport all pickmeisha comments and posts. We are going to start banning for repeated pickme comments and too many LVM screenshots. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 03:54 PM |
| – | Is being a very active texter at night a red flag?Read the handbook and post on r/AskFDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 03:51 PM |
| – | If a guy really wanted to see you, he would make it happen?Post to r/AskFDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 03:46 PM |
| – | Advice for somewhat settling and then getting dumped??Post on r/askFDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 03:41 PM |
| – | How to be a more assertive boss/leader?Post on r/FemaleLevelUpStrategy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 03:34 PM |
| – | Its interesting how encounters with men when you're younger influence you as you growPost on r/AskFDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 03:32 PM |
| – | How do you ladies deal with what follows after glowing up?Post on r/FemaleLevelUpStrategy or r/askFDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 11:07 AM |
| – | Need advice .... does he like me?Please post on r/askFDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 04:05 AM |
| – | Boyfriend keeps taking pictures of female friendr/AskFDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 01:55 AM |
| 243 | men know“It’s impossible to know someone after only seven years! I’m the one who needs a decade to vet!” 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 12:39 AM |
| 165 | men knowFDS 👏 has 👏been 👏 saying 👏this 👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 12:36 AM |
| – | LV family members you want help?Post on r/askFDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 07:02 PM |
| 10 | Dating is supposed to be funSit back, relax, let the trash take itself out. 🗑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 04:29 AM |
| – | Finally deleted a pickme friend.Please post on r/FemaleLevelUpStrategy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, what have you been grateful for in 2020?Please post on r/FemaleLevelUpStrategy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 06:39 AM |
| – | Please help my anxious brainPlease read the FDS Handbook, then post on r/AskFDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 06:38 AM |
| – | No girlfriend benefits without exclusivity.I have been deemed undateable!🎊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 06:16 AM |
| – | Am I being stupid?Please post on r/AskFDS. Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 03:54 PM |
| – | Am I being extreme? No dating for 5 years?Please post on r/askFDS. Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Happy Holidays! 😜Please report comments and save energy not engaging! Mods will review. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 05:07 AM |
| – | Is there a way to warn women about their boyfriends' bad behavior without coming across as "jealous"?Post on r/askFDS. Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 07:05 PM |
| – | Help me understand the issue with not paying for datesPost on r/askFDS. Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Security Reminder: DO NOT Respond to "Journalists," "Researchers," or Anyone Else Seeking to "Interview You" About FDSDo not respond to anyone impersonating FDS or trying to sell you anything either. Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 09:09 PM |
| – | Ladies, is this guy a keeper??Please post on r/askFDS. Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 06:16 AM |
| – | CEO lovingPlease post on r/AskFDS. Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 12:53 AM |
| – | Dealing with a pickmePlease post this on r/AskFDS. Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 11:47 PM |
| – | I think my friend is a pick me and needs to be cut off..Please post this on r/AskFDS. Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 11:47 PM |
| – | How do you let go of resentment?Please post on r/askFDS. Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 11:45 PM |
| – | Need advice on how to behave around a coworker you have a romantic history withPlease post on r/askFDS. Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 04:35 AM |
| 86 | Instagram scam?Banned. Report the accounts on Instagram and Reddit please. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 10:42 PM |
| 49 | Instagram scam?Block and report! FDS is not affiliated with that account or anyone trying to sell you anything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 10:29 PM |
| 2 | Would you consider this cheating?I am so sorry you're going through this. This is mental infidelity, and you deserve better. It's not too late to divorce. | /r/askFDS | 04/11/20 05:24 AM |
| – | In need of mental support :(Please post on r/askFDS. Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 02:40 AM |
| – | What to do as the forever girlfriendPlease post on r/AskFDS. Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 10:44 AM |
| – | Splitting bills 50/50... Red flag?!Please read the FDS Handbook (https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/wiki/recommended_reading). If that doesn't help, ask on r/AskFDS. Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 07:44 PM |
| 73 | Excessive 'buttlicking' is a red flag.The difference is that the LVM is acting, so the actions are hollow and will feel off. LVM like this will never disagree with you, they will start with pet names immediately, and future fake. Look at his face while he's talking. Is there any sincerity or is he reciting a script? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 02:24 AM |
| 73 | Excessive 'buttlicking' is a red flag.The issue with your ex is that he believes by doing you favors you didn't ask for or complimenting you all the time, you will owe him later or reward him somehow. This is passive-aggressive behavior and there are books written on this. "Nice" doormats are not really nice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 02:01 AM |
| 8 | Poor birthday gift from boyfriendTrolls have been banned. | /r/askFDS | 31/10/20 11:58 PM |
| – | Recently realized I may have self-esteem issues I didn’t know aboutPlease post this on r/AskFDS. Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 05:42 AM |
| – | Dating grad students: yay or nay?Ask on r/AskFDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 05:41 AM |
| – | Advice?Please post this on r/askFDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 01:38 PM |
| 1 | I need advice. After finding FDS I am having trouble at home with narcissistic father.Please post this on r/AskFDS. Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 04:06 AM |
| – | Basically just wanting to rant about my relationship. Lost after questionable relationship ended. Needing to level up. I know I deserve betterPlease post this on r/askFDS. Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 03:32 AM |
| – | What do you really think creates a HVM?Please ask this on r/askFDS. Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 05:52 AM |
| – | How do I respectfully flirt with other women?Please ask on r/askFDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 01:59 AM |
| – | How to be a leader?Please post this on r/askFDS. Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 01:12 AM |
| – | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: October 16 2020Reminder to report posts and comments that violate the sub rules. Questions? Message mods here. For website inquiries, make the subject of your message WEBSITE SIGN UP. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 08:16 PM |
| – | An INCREDIBLY long rant about my father - be warnedPost on r/AskFDS. Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 06:56 PM |
| – | Deal-breakers and setting boundariesRead the FDS Handbook and post questions on r/AskFDS. https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/wiki/recommended_reading | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 06:55 PM |
| – | How do you deal with the lack of physical touch and affection? It makes me depressed about being single, and sometimes even go after male attention. My friends and family all live far away so that’s not an option either.OP, r/AskFDS is the sub for questions, post there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 06:54 PM |
| – | What do you say to/think about when men say you need to be equal to the man you want to attract.Hi OP, have you read the FDS Handbook yet? Being financially independent and a HVW is the priority, and then the partner you attract should be at least on YOUR level. https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/wiki/recommended_reading If the FDS Handbook doesn't clarify, ask this question on r/askFDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 06:52 PM |
| – | Guy I'm talking to on dating app doesn't want to go on a date until he sees more photos of me? Even though I have 6 photos of me both head shots and full body pictures.Please post this on r/AskFDS. Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 06:48 PM |
| – | Feeling attacked by other women who misunderstand wanting to level upPlease post this on r/FemaleLevelUpStrategy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 06:46 PM |
| – | My brother just told me I will end up single with no spouse or children, ladies I need your encouragement!Post this on r/AskFDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 11:01 PM |
| 1 | What else should be in the FDS Handbook?Already in there :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 01:52 PM |
| – | What else should be in the FDS Handbook?Please only comment links to existing posts. If you have ideas about new content, we encourage you to write the strategy posts you'd like included! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 01:51 PM |
| – | How do I become a Desirable / High Value Man?Please ask on r/AskFDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 06:07 AM |
| – | Ladies, what are some career paths for womens studies/sociology/liberal arts you know?Please post this on r/FemaleLevelUpStrategy. Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 06:01 AM |
| – | How to communicate standards non-verbally?Please read the FDS Handbook. https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/wiki/recommended_reading When your boundaries are not being respected, you leave. You don't look for new ways to communicate, just leave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 06:00 AM |
| – | How to deal with men who play dumb?Please read the FDS Handbook: https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/wiki/recommended_reading | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 05:57 AM |
| – | I don't want to date. But I feel like I am running out of time. Ladies, snap me out of it.Post this on r/AskFDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 05:15 AM |
| – | What kind of hobbies do you ladies have?Please post on r/FemaleLevelUpStrategy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 02:25 AM |
| 1 | My friends (who are in relationships) really look down on me because I’ve recently started using a dating appPlease post on r/AskFDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 02:24 AM |
| 12 | How do you stop seeking validation from men and find happiness alone?Please post on r/AskFDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 02:24 AM |
| – | Where can I find a female roommate?Please post this on r/askFDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 01:36 AM |
| – | Need advice On Whether or not he is a LVM or HVMHe is a LVM. Read the FDS Handbook ASAP. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 01:35 AM |
| – | Lvm says its harmless to get attracted to other women. Im dumping this guy.Please post this on r/askFDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 01:32 AM |
| – | I know we don’t ever chase men, but how can I give a guy the sign I am also interested?Please post this on r/askFDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 01:30 AM |
| – | I (29f) broke up with my rebound-boyfriend (30m) of 4 months... Did I do the right thing?Please post this on r/askFDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 01:18 AM |
| – | I’m purchasing my first home; any advice for a first time home buyer?Post this on r/askFDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 05:59 AM |
| – | What are you doing to level up during this pandemic? Share your recommendations here!Please post this on r/FemaleLevelUpStrategy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 05:59 AM |
| – | How do I get over the feeling of feeling self conscious, borderline ugly without make up?Please post this on r/askFDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 05:58 AM |
| – | How do I level up?? (22, ADHD)Please post this on r/askFDS or r/FemaleLevelUpStrategy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 05:57 AM |
| – | Going on a date tomorrow, advice needed!Please post on r/AskFDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 11:56 PM |
| – | FDS for teen girls?Personal questions should be posted to r/AskFDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 11:53 PM |
| – | Does he have to like you more?Please read the FDS Handbook. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 04:29 AM |
| – | How do you handle a big texter who hasn’t asked you out yet?Please read the FDS Handbook and ask in r/AskFDS afterwards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 05:10 AM |
| – | No text a week after date, but we have the best connection!?Post to r/AskFDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 06:05 PM |
| 12 | Calling all FDS experts! We need your help over at r/AskFDS to help answer personal relationship questions.Apprentice, disciple, FDS strategy coach flairs are granted by mod discretion for exceptional, high-quality comments and posts over time. We notice posters whose advice stands out as excellent, and grant flairs to recognize their status as FDS contributors. The label lets others know that the user is well-versed in FDS and the handbook, gives high-quality advice, or has written several FDS-approved strategy posts. For more on this, check out the flair guide in the FDS wiki. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 03:42 AM |
| – | Re: His true colors have been Revealed. He just emailed me... I guess he doesn't knowing blocked him already....at least he wished me the best👀You may repost with the name blurred. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 12:54 PM |
| 3 | Queen shit 👸love the overall message tho 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 11:53 PM |
| 8 | Queen shit 👸Sis is de-emphasizing commitment though. She should think of herself as single until he puts a ring on it. Don’t get played by a new fool. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 11:44 PM |
| 4 | Single Mothers are NOT responsible for shitty male behavior & low performance. If that were the case, every society that has high rates of marriage & low rates of divorce would be a pillar of stability, prosperity & peace, which they aren’t.Places where divorce is seen as taboo are the worst places to be a woman. These societies are built upon guilting women into staying with abusive men and thinking it's their lifetime fate to stay with them. The countries in the second list, not surprisingly, are also where domestic violence is most common. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Vetting strategy: How to read between the lines, use power of deduction to read motivations/possibilities and how to make educated guesses.Incredible post, thank you OP! Ladies, think about what you would say to yourself in situations, if you were him. If what he's saying is not measuring up to what you'd say, you know he's not up to your standards. If you could come up with a more sincere and heartfelt apology than his "sorry", yeah, it's over. If you know you would have put more effort into his birthday than he did for yours. If you wanted him to say something genuine and romantic on your anniversary dinner and the best he could … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 05:40 AM |
| 7 | Advice needed: Setting boundaries on an engagement/marriage timeline.18 months is pushing it. You really deserve someone who is going to propose to you around the 1 year mark maximum and who is very EXCITED about starting your life together. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 07:48 PM |
| 8 | Is it a fact of life that most guys who are pursuing women are trash?HVM do exist and are most often found in real life. Ideal answers to these questions- Why would I want to be in a relationship with him? He adds value to your life. Why is he looking for women? He is looking for a monogamous life partner and is monogamous himself. Why does he appear to be interested in a relationship with me? The attraction is based on mutual respect, interests, and attraction. He feels I add value to his life as well. Way more than looks or superficiality going on here. Why is … | /r/askFDS | 02/08/20 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Are PAs destined to cheat?They are already cheating as far as I’m concerned | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Are PAs destined to cheat?This is an oxymoron sis. By definition watching porn, (watching other women have sex, fantasizing about them, wanking, not thinking of your SO, dreaming about other women, following other women and liking their pics) is cheating. Porn is cheating. Infidelity of the mind is real. Doesn’t matter if he hasn’t physically had sex with anyone, he’s not truly loyal to one woman. The moment they make a choice to stray mentally it’s over. Why would you want to be with someone like that? Mature people hav… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 02:50 AM |
| 1 | My Greatest HandicapI would not wait to disclose if I were OP because it's going to come off dishonest and deceptive to reveal later on. The sooner the better. It will save the woman a lot of confusion as well. | /r/askFDS | 28/07/20 10:54 PM |
| 1 | How to overcome the hardest obstacle?What do you mean? Why are you wanting to be in contact with your ex? Time to move on. This will taint your future relationships. No woman wants to be with a man who is chummy with his exes. That indicates weak boundaries. You let go of the anger for yourself, and you move on with your life. Having her in your life doesn't prove you are a HVM or woke. It means you like to keep toxic people around. She ain't your friend. Having a disloyal person as your friend is a horrendous idea. Forget about he… | /r/askFDS | 25/07/20 12:44 AM |
| 1 | He’s never going to change for you- The mentality of the LVMAnd what does “LVM” and “HVM” stand for? Check out the glossary and FDS Handbook in the sub wiki- https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/wiki/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 08:38 AM |
| 1 | How to tell if a man if physically attracted to you? (In contexts where hitting on people in frowned upon)This man is a coworker and he’s telling you about his dating preferences and hitting on you. You have an inappropriate conception of boundaries if you think this is normal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/20 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Join the FDS Discord server to keep in touch with your FDS sisters!And FOLLOW ALL OFFICIAL FDS SOCIAL MEDIA. We will keep you updated 💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 04:46 AM |
| – | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020We are working to review a bunch of modmail messages today (6/22), so it is a good time to send us a message if you have any questions about anything at all (flairs, post approval, bans and the like). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 07:37 PM |
| 1 | What are some prime examples of incompetence in men that you notice?Go ahead ❤️❤️ | /r/askFDS | 15/06/20 01:30 AM |
| 1 | What are some prime examples of incompetence in men that you notice?Simply feigning ignorance about cooking, cleaning, laundry, basic domestic stuff in an effort to try to get the woman to be like "OH, I WILL TAKE CARE OF ALL OF THAT'. Incompetence can be emotional too- shutting down in arguments instead of having civilized conversations. Throwing temper tantrums instead of speaking in a reasonable tone. not realizing you're both looking for a resolution and instead arguing for his side like a maniac. Emotional incompetence is a big one. | /r/askFDS | 14/06/20 03:40 AM |
| 1 | What are some prime examples of incompetence in men that you notice?Upper-division skills the art of diplomacy in a conversation the ability to hold intelligent conversations about a number of topics being cultured in general following advanced social norms in relationships like planning things for anniversaries, etc. knowing how to host guests being a good friend, remembering birthdays, checking in with others on how they're doing, not being self-absorbed planning ahead, planning your future or your joint future with a SO. Consulting with her before big decisio… | /r/askFDS | 14/06/20 03:36 AM |
| 1 | Showing intentMedia examples: Prince Harry Russell Wilson Women who read FDS can spot the sweet nothing lies from a mile a way, so we watch actions. Does he treat you with the utmost respect, kindness, dignity and care? Does he keep his word? Does he care about your feelings, is he empathetic? Is he stubborn or quick to apologize and has a kind heart? Is he generous or stingy? Is he consistently uplifting, supportive and loving or is he hot and cold? Is he always making you feel like a priority or putting him… | /r/askFDS | 11/06/20 05:41 AM |
| 1 | Looking for advice on how to talk with someone who's been dismissiveOk, so how do you plan to go about this friend treatment talk? it seems like she is trying to actually distance herself here which might mean discussing it isn't even necessary. Have you asked her if she's going through something that is making her more irritable than usual? | /r/askFDS | 09/06/20 09:42 PM |
| 3 | Looking for advice on how to talk with someone who's been dismissiveIt doesn't sound like she is into you and seems like you're not picking up on that. She's not your gf so I don't really know if it's your place to be having a big serious talk about this. She's your friend, she's treating you like a friend. | /r/askFDS | 09/06/20 07:24 PM |
| 1 | What is an accurate way to find out where you stand appearance-wise?What you should do is find men you think are good looking, who resemble you and figure out what they’re doing that you’re not. Do they have a hair style and signature look that you don’t? Better style? Whiter teeth? Study others to figure out where to improve on yourself. | /r/askFDS | 09/06/20 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Would meeting a guy in his mid to late twenties that never had a girlfriend be strange to most girls?It sounds like the issue is you have unrealistic expectations and take issue with every person you meet. You have avoidant tendencies and are rationalizing in your head why no one is good enough for you. Please read this book about avoidant traits and habits, I think it will resonate with you: http://admin.umt.edu.pk/Media/Site/SSH/SubSites/cp/FileManager/Ebooks/DCPe-26.pdf Don't @ me until you've read it. Thank you. | /r/askFDS | 04/06/20 03:46 AM |
| 1 | Letter after a bad breakupWhat is your true intent? Are you trying to feel better about yourself and slide back into her life? I don't think it's the right time for this. Give her like 6 months to get over this, and then if you want, send a letter with no expectation of response saying sorry. But move on with your life OP. when an ex reaches out to apologize it's usually really underwhelming. too little too late. You had your chance when you were with her. If it's absolutely necessary for you to say sorry to be able to m… | /r/askFDS | 04/06/20 03:42 AM |
| 2 | To what extent should a man reveal his sexual past to a woman he was interested in?I agree with this. I INSTANTLY write off men who start talking about their sexual escapades. It is one of the most low-value and classless behaviors out there. Talking about “n-count” and shit is not something sane and well-adjusted adults ever do. STDs and sexual health are another story. But your past like all the one night stands you had? No one besides you wants to hear that recounted in gratuitous detail. I cannot fathom how guys even ask questions like these, common sense. | /r/askFDS | 29/05/20 09:11 PM |
| 2 | Advice for men with bad moms?Tbh I feel like this is going to take tremendous self-work because childhood trauma and narcissistic parenting has such lasting effects, but you can definitely make great progress. You should read psychology books about narcissistic parents, emotionally abusive people, manipulative people, and also philosophy books. I think once you see the scientific explanations as to why you feel the way you do, you’ll get some relief. There is solidarity knowing you’re not alone and knowing it’s not your fau… | /r/askFDS | 29/05/20 07:19 AM |
| 2 | Advice for men with bad moms?Is there an element here where your mom's mistreatment has extended to a dislike of ALL women? You sound very self-aware, have you tried therapy? | /r/askFDS | 29/05/20 06:16 AM |
| 1 | Is legal marriage important for FDS users?Nope, not ok. The whole point of valuing marriage is the fact it is sanctified by the law, you have your rights AS A WIFE, it is a public official relationship in the eyes of society, etc. When you don't have commitment, it's a sign the guy doesn't want/value you. There's a lot of shady shit. Relationship hiding. Keeping you a secret. Running around on the DL. Acting single. Not investing in a future together properly. Et cetera. I don't know if you genuinely think it's a headache because you do… | /r/askFDS | 29/05/20 06:14 AM |
| 1 | A question regarding my brotherNo offense, your brother sounds like a nightmare. This is one of the worst kinds of bfs/love interests anyone could have, and he is wasting their time and their youth, two things they'll never get back. How old is he? If he's in your 30s like you, it's simply too late and you should expect him to continue on this trajectory. I've seen this type get married, they always manage to ruin that too due to their long-standing habits and selfishness. I feel like Samantha would appreciate you telling her… | /r/askFDS | 29/05/20 06:07 AM |
| 1 | What can men do to improve their physical attractiveness and not age like moldy cheese?What's your skin type? | /r/askFDS | 29/05/20 06:00 AM |
| 1 | What can men do to improve their physical attractiveness and not age like moldy cheese?I'd say these things are the most important exercise healthy diet minimal smoking and drinking attention paid to which styles look best on you consistent hygiene and grooming not being overstressed, it'll show on your face not being a fuckboy, it'll show on your face find a hairstyle that suits you, find a clothing style that suits you. I really dislike that standard chinos/business casual shirt combo a lot of guys do. It's just so basic. Some panache is nice, don't be afraid of that. There is a… | /r/askFDS | 29/05/20 05:55 AM |
| 2 | Respecting religions that degrade women.This post has been removed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 06:45 AM |
| 2 | Best way to level myself up?Post this on /r/femalelevelupstrategy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 05:22 AM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/6/2020Congratulations sister 🙏🙏💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 01:59 AM |
| 5 | I will likely not be ready for dating until I'm in my 30s. How to minimize this Red Flag?I’m really sorry to hear that. Have you sought treatment for your mental illnesses? | /r/askFDS | 01/05/20 01:17 AM |
| 3 | I will likely not be ready for dating until I'm in my 30s. How to minimize this Red Flag?I feel bad for them sometimes because it’s just so much woe is me and self-defeating beliefs to the point where deeper inner work or therapy is clearly needed. Step 1 to anything is not counting yourself out of the game and being defeatist already before you’ve even tried anything. I have never read Rich Dad Poor Dad but I’d imagine its like they cling to the Poor Dad or Poor Guy mentality and lack the big picture. It’s the whole mindset and belief system that needs changing-“lift and eat right … | /r/askFDS | 01/05/20 12:23 AM |
| 1 | I will likely not be ready for dating until I'm in my 30s. How to minimize this Red Flag?Sis I give up 😂 This person only wants a doctor wife and to be a SAHD who gets to work on his six pack to remain “super hot” and attract the apparently shallow high earning woman. | /r/askFDS | 30/04/20 11:59 PM |
| 1 | I will likely not be ready for dating until I'm in my 30s. How to minimize this Red Flag?As in not a 18-22 yr old. Non traditional/older student. | /r/askFDS | 30/04/20 10:51 PM |
| 1 | I will likely not be ready for dating until I'm in my 30s. How to minimize this Red Flag?So what's stopping you from meeting a non-traditional student who is your age? | /r/askFDS | 30/04/20 10:19 PM |
| 2 | I will likely not be ready for dating until I'm in my 30s. How to minimize this Red Flag?Your standards are too high- your dating prospects should be women who are in the same place in life as you or less if that is the case. your unrealistic expectations rn are an issue.Stick to those who have a similar background and similar circumstances. they exist. If you exist, women like you exist who also had a similar path. So try to make your expectations more realistic. Secondly, you didn’t need to mention it but seems your financial life is a mess from the way you talk about it. Do you h… | /r/askFDS | 30/04/20 09:54 PM |
| 1 | I will likely not be ready for dating until I'm in my 30s. How to minimize this Red Flag?This is a very multi-faceted issue, so bear with me. -First of all, what makes you think you won't have a job and career you enjoy by your late 20s? You'll be fine if you keep grinding. -Mid to late 30s is the red flag (36-39, 40+ much more difficult), early-mid 30s depending on your career is normal. This is not based on random FDS standards but both scientific research and common sense. It has been found that if a man reaches the end of his 30s unmarried, he is more likely to get divorced and … | /r/askFDS | 30/04/20 12:55 PM |
| 1 | I will likely not be ready for dating until I'm in my 30s. How to minimize this Red Flag?What are the reasons you think you won't be ready to date until then and how old are you? What will your intent be, marriage or casual? | /r/askFDS | 30/04/20 08:03 AM |
| 12 | Is it unhealthy to be friends with potentially Low Value Men?You are who you hang out with. I think you should find friends with better qualities you aspire to have or be comfortable just hanging out by yourself. Being around such people will normalize misogyny, racism, and porn use and its best not to associate with that kind of scumbaggery. | /r/askFDS | 30/04/20 02:59 AM |
| 6 | Staying Friends with Ex'sYes, the official stance is in the handbook which I'd encourage you to check out. You do not stay friends with exes. There is no good reason to. We do not consider dating any man who is "friends" with his exes, it is unacceptable and disrespectful behavior. This doesn't mean he should hate his exes, but that he is respectfully no contact and has completely cut the cord and moved on in his life. Get some new friends you have never had sex with. | /r/askFDS | 29/04/20 08:15 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of the rise of the word SIMP currently occurring online and elsewhere?It should be on a case-by-case basis. You can't alienate everyone you come in contact with who says simp, especially if it is going to fuck up your life in some way, right? I think the kinds of people who say it are beyond rehabilitation tbh. You should definitely feel proud though and stand tall knowing you're not a douchebag who disrespects women. Don't let boneheads get to you. | /r/askFDS | 29/04/20 02:56 AM |
| 1 | I think I have a red flag but I don't know how to get rid of it.I do know that the month of fasting is coming up so it is a good time indeed for inner work and spiritual growth. Good luck OP! PS it’s your parents’ job to provide for you growing up and to be parents...you’re not supposed to feel guilty about that. | /r/askFDS | 22/04/20 05:52 PM |
| 1 | I think I have a red flag but I don't know how to get rid of it.I don’t think you’re the one with NPD. You had no chance being raised in such dysfunction. Your parents’ racism and contempt for others will be a distant memory when you leave for college. What you should do now is study extremely hard for the SAT, do well in school, so you can get a full scholarship for college and move far away from them and not be financially dependent. This is going to be the easiest way to launch your adult life but you have to put the work in now to obtain scholarships lat… | /r/askFDS | 22/04/20 04:32 PM |
| 1 | I think I have a red flag but I don't know how to get rid of it.You’re emotionally enmeshed with your mom. The way you’re talking about her as if she is your first priority in life or she’s God is extremely unhealthy. You’re emotionally attached at the hip to your mom and therefore unavailable to any woman you’re into. If you do manage to date a woman rest assured your mother will create issues and fuck it up for the both of you. She is on the path to bring a /r/justnomil and tbh you need to become a man and stop being a boy who depends on mommy’s approval. … | /r/askFDS | 22/04/20 04:26 PM |
| 13 | I used to think my boyfriend was HV but now I’m not so sure. I need to know if I’m being too harsh.She hasn’t even seen the inside of his apartment, it’s because he’s leading a whole ass double life. At best with a gf, at worse, a wife and kids. Oh and he’s lying about income. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/20 07:11 AM |
| -1 | How can I show I'm committed without moving in?Can you please just leave her ASAP? She shouldn’t be strung along like this, and her future husband is not going to be treating her like this. | /r/askFDS | 07/04/20 01:04 AM |
| 3 | How can I show I'm committed without moving in?Honest question-what are you doing with her if you don't envision marriage with her in the near future? What are your intentions and what are you doing here in this relationship? Practicing? Passing time? Emotional validation? What is the purpose here? By the long haul, you must not mean marriage, because you are against the idea of engagement soon. So why are you not looking to marry her soon? What does a "future" look like wherein you don't marry her? | /r/askFDS | 07/04/20 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Should men stick to their dating leagues?Being short is not as big of an issue as the Internet makes it seem. Do you think women who are five feet tall are really all going to be with men who are 6’2”? That’s just awkward. Being a short guy you’re well suited for women who are shorter than you. I think you need to just project more confidence in yourself, we are internet strangers but the vibe I am getting from you is so self-defeating that I feel it must come across in real life to women. You need to build a solid confidence level whe… | /r/askFDS | 04/04/20 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Should men stick to their dating leagues?What are the features that make you ugly and can they be improved in upon? | /r/askFDS | 04/04/20 03:16 AM |
| 2 | Should men stick to their dating leagues?you’re ugly you’re automatically a lvm until proven otherwise. Hey, that's not true. I think the issue here is not FDS but your self-esteem. Why do you think you're ugly? Are you sure you are or do you have abysmal self-esteem? | /r/askFDS | 04/04/20 01:51 AM |
| 1 | What makes a man boring?Lack of spontaneity, strict adherence to schedules and routines, narrow focus on his few interests, self-absorption, lack of curiosity, doesn’t ask for the opinions of others, stubborn in his view, stereotypical conversation/mainstream topics/parroting the news, being over-intellectual and trying to show off his smarts, going off into monologues/doesn’t do dialogue well, boring style/no uniqueness, lack of emoting, flag affect, flat mood, no excitement or enthusiasm about anything, being obsesse… | /r/askFDS | 25/03/20 03:49 AM |
| 1 | I am a nerd, how can I market this? And improve from here?Your speech is too formal and it comes across as pretentious or arrogant. Intellectuals are often deeply insecure people. Stop basing your identity on your intellect, find other things about you that you like. | /r/askFDS | 23/03/20 11:34 AM |
| 1 | Will a man be considered LVM if he got plastic surgery?Your problem is in your mindset and not your face. | /r/askFDS | 21/03/20 02:22 AM |
| 1 | Will a man be considered LVM if he got plastic surgery?The issue is spiritual, not physical. There are many people not classically attractive but are comfortable with themselves and thus become attractive thanks to their confident aura. Low self esteem folks though will remain insecure even after the surgery. Because it goes deeper than looks. | /r/askFDS | 21/03/20 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Will a man be considered LVM if he got plastic surgery?We would need to see pictures to know if what you’re saying is true or body dymorphia. I’m sure your face does not stay fat no matter what you weigh. See a dermatologist about the acne. Crooked nose is not an issue unless it truly looks scary or disfigured. | /r/askFDS | 21/03/20 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Will a man be considered LVM if he got plastic surgery?But it won’t maximize your opportunities. We straight women are telling you we find it unattractive when a guy gets plastic surgery. | /r/askFDS | 21/03/20 12:53 AM |
| 2 | Can I be a HVM if I have flaws?You're suffering from serious social and behavioral issues and need to see a psychiatrist and therapist about this. You admit to porn addiction. You may also however be on the autistic spectrum. Why do I say that? A tell of asperger's is "having trouble understanding people". Having special interests (mushrooms), having rigid routines you don't stray from (6 hours of studying), coming across arrogant and snobby, no dating experience due to trouble relating to people- these are all hallmarks of A… | /r/askFDS | 21/03/20 12:38 AM |
| 4 | Will a man be considered LVM if he got plastic surgery?I think these people have severe body dysmorphia and delusions. I had a similar experience with a guy like that lol. Was kind of catfished because the pictures look normal. His facial work wasn't botched-but in person I could see that compared to guys around him, his hair was way too lush and thick to be his hair. And his face was too smooth. It was an eerie experience. And yes, they have weird arrogant or superiority complexes because they've invested thousands on their faces and go around acti… | /r/askFDS | 21/03/20 12:22 AM |
| 2 | Will a man be considered LVM if he got plastic surgery?The issue for me personally isn't the plastic surgery itself, but what it represents. It tells me a guy is insecure, vain, and overly concerned with his looks, in a likely unhealthy way. I am not into metrosexuals or guys who spend more time looking in the mirror than most women, or guys who spend more hours on their appearance than the average woman would. It just reeks anti-masculine to me to be very obsessed with your looks as a man, to the point of doing cosmetic procedures. I am not saying … | /r/askFDS | 21/03/20 12:19 AM |
| 1 | I screwed up with my girlfriend by acting like a LVM. How can / should I move forward?Yup, I could sense this. So this is not a gf. she isn't unsure-if it's not a clear yes, it is a no. She is quite clearly distancing yourself from you at this time, emotionally and physically, and if you were together-this ignoring texts business is a sign a breakup is imminent. Also, a tip for the future-you can't expect a woman who isn't your gf to act like your gf and project gf or wifey duties upon her. In her mind, she's single until she's said yes to exclusivity, so...sorry to be the bearer… | /r/askFDS | 18/03/20 03:29 AM |
| 1 | I screwed up with my girlfriend by acting like a LVM. How can / should I move forward?This is not actually a girlfriend, is it? A gf would touch base at least once a day. | /r/askFDS | 18/03/20 03:20 AM |
| 1 | I screwed up with my girlfriend by acting like a LVM. How can / should I move forward?Sir 😬she is ignoring you. Bad sign. Have you considered getting evaluated for ASD? I mean this with all due respect and am just asking because you said your friends mentioned it too. you’re missing some very obvious social cues. 🙁 | /r/askFDS | 18/03/20 03:13 AM |
| 2 | I screwed up with my girlfriend by acting like a LVM. How can / should I move forward?Is this your first relationship? This is really weird stuff you’re suggesting (video message) and really weird stuff to be petty over. Definitely don’t do the video message, respect her space during this rough time in her work life. Just let her do her and don’t be so over eager to dictate her time. Also, are you sure that’s your girlfriend? Sounds very casual to me. Moving forward, chill, draw back, don’t stress her out with your expectations of how invested she should be in you. This does not … | /r/askFDS | 17/03/20 03:41 AM |
| 1 | Why are you suspicious about telegram users?It is a shady app because it deletes messages immediately. | /r/askFDS | 16/03/20 11:01 AM |
| 1 | Male Friends?I've got several male friends. I believe they're attracted to me or friendly however because they think they have a chance to date me. | /r/askFDS | 16/03/20 01:54 AM |
| 2 | Why do you have such a problem with porn if it effectively takes LVM out of the SMP?Because it is so addicting, it is in everyone's best interest for porn use to go down. It doesn't just take LVM out of the SMP, but affects over 95 men out of every 100. | /r/askFDS | 16/03/20 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Grading my boyfriend: Trying to figure out if my boyfriend is HVMImagine if she went to relationship_advice instead! They would gaslight. “You sound insecure, accept your bf and all his flaws. Have you considered therapy? You are too nit picky.” Thank goodness for FDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 08:35 AM |
| 1 | I recently re-connected with a woman I like and things are moving toward a relationship, but I have some reservations.I am very glad you're considering therapy and wish you the best. It may take a few therapists until you find the right fit btw, not all of them will mesh with you. It's like finding the right pair of jeans. | /r/askFDS | 13/03/20 05:00 PM |
| 1 | I feel like I am an HVM, but I have been on a recent string of strike-outs. Any ideas?Yeah, they think you're not even into them. You need to go all out, be more vulnerable, be honest about your feelings more. It does not seem they're picking up on the fact you're serious and into them. And why are you going out with women you don't even like? Lol. What are your dating intentions? Gf/marriage or what? | /r/askFDS | 13/03/20 02:35 PM |
| 1 | I feel like I am an HVM, but I have been on a recent string of strike-outs. Any ideas?We need more details. How many dates do you go on before they drop you? Do they seem to enjoy the dates? Are you a gentleman? Do you express to them that you're interested properly? More specifics about all the dating, please. I have a hunch it's your passive approach (just ghosting, no closure) that permeates throughout everything. You are not impetuous, decisive, or forthcoming enough, and probably not spontaneous or romantic enough. | /r/askFDS | 13/03/20 02:12 PM |
| 3 | I don't have to have pre-marital relations, but I have something a wife might want to know about.No, see, the real issue here is not your penis at all, it is your low self-esteem and self-defeating behavior. You've quit before you've even tried and are already expecting failure. You should build up your self-esteem and stop beating yourself up for something you can't control. You should retain hope that some day you will meet someone who you have a fulfilling, healthy relationship with, who isn't going to mind at all. This is a self-esteem issue, you're sabotaging any chance of future succe… | /r/askFDS | 13/03/20 04:50 AM |
| 8 | I don't have to have pre-marital relations, but I have something a wife might want to know about.Yes, you should disclose your penis size so that you aren't being deceptive or misrepresenting yourself. You should bring it up before the engagement, and yes, even if she is a virgin. You should give your partner as much info as possible about all things that may be dealbreakers to them so that they can make informed decisions. There is hope, someone you fall in love with is going to look past that. But do definitely be honest about this WELL BEFORE engaging. Bring it up perhaps after a month o… | /r/askFDS | 13/03/20 02:06 AM |
| 2 | Wtf happened to men?We get that in a lot of male fan mail. Our tone and lack of sugarcoating help wake up LVM, apparently. | /r/askFDS | 13/03/20 12:23 AM |
| 7 | I recently re-connected with a woman I like and things are moving toward a relationship, but I have some reservations.Your priorities should be fixing your emotional avoidant behavior as it will DESTROY any relationship you get into eventually not being emotionally unavailable anymore doing self-improvement work getting to the point where you have 0 concerns about pursuing this THEN possibly considering reconnecting with this woman why are you in a rush to date and be with this person? You don't even seem particularly enthused, and you have a lot of work to do to create the basis of healthy relationships. It do… | /r/askFDS | 12/03/20 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Wtf happened to men?do you know what a representative legislative body is? | /r/askFDS | 12/03/20 09:54 PM |
| 2 | Wtf happened to men?There's no king involved, could be a legislature where the majority decides it is in the constituents' best interests to have clean drinking water, for example. However, what you see here is a corporate kleptocracy in which corporations and businesses take precedence and have the most influence. | /r/askFDS | 12/03/20 09:29 PM |
| 4 | Wtf happened to men?Mommy's boys are the worst, they have their moms constantly gassing them up, running other women out of their lives, and doing their laundry. They can't respect women because their own mother was a doormat who enabled him. See Colt and Debbie on 90 Day Fiance for an example. It is also very feminizing to be a mama's boy-makes you act like a princess who thinks women should be coming to you instead of the other way around. It is repulsive to straight women. | /r/askFDS | 12/03/20 09:23 PM |
| 3 | Wtf happened to men?No, this could work in conjunction with democracy and republics, but with more legislation focused on the public good and prosecuting certain things. Libertarians hate that because it means "big government". Could also work in the context of other political systems. Could also be treated with education and a re-framing of societal norms. There are a multitude of ways to begin addressing these issues, and it has to be a multifaceted approach. What do you think? | /r/askFDS | 12/03/20 09:05 PM |
| 3 | Concerns with being average (Down There)I guess I just couldn't stand disappointing someone I care about. Especially if that person waited at least 90 days before seeing me naked only to be disappointed after getting to know each other for quite a while. For what it's worth, I think most women who have gotten to know you over a period, where everything else is going well-they're not going to leave you just for this if you've fostered a true connection with them. The anti small penis comments you read are always in conjunction with dou… | /r/askFDS | 12/03/20 08:55 PM |
| 4 | Wtf happened to men?Sis, thank you. I keep trying to illustrate how this is all related to capitalism and consumerism and people don't get it. They're like nah this is human nature. The fuck, no it's not. | /r/askFDS | 12/03/20 08:25 PM |
| 3 | Wtf happened to men?In the US, we have First amendment rights to freedom of speech, which porn falls under. To add on to this, the concept of individual liberty and doing whatever the fuck you want regardless of how it impacts society is thanks to the Enlightenment period. Prior to this movement, communities in the world were based on a much greater sense of collectivism and thinking about the greater good. | /r/askFDS | 12/03/20 08:24 PM |
| 2 | Wtf happened to men?Definitely has stems in the sexual revolution. You should read some critical literature about it, countless authors have made great cases outlining the very detrimental consequences of the free sex movement. Also, capitalism and consumerism- supply and demand economics, look into that. Why is porn so widespread? Society continues catering to supply and demand economic principles whereas a different kind of structure would outlaw it in the interest of the best interests of the public at large. In… | /r/askFDS | 12/03/20 08:22 PM |
| 2 | Dating with Kids Post-DivorceHow long were you married or dating before kids? Even after marriage, we recommend women living with the husband for two years and assessing his character completely before having kids. Red flags 99% of the time are going to come out by two years, yet people live in denial or claim to not have seen them. What's even funnier is when people "date" for several years, like a whole ass decade, and claim they don't know the person well enough to marry. Not true. Read up on psychology, sociology, human… | /r/askFDS | 12/03/20 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Dating with Kids Post-DivorceI hope you read my comment above about the different life stages and experiences thing. It sounds less accusatory when you take a step back and just think of it like that. Someone who has never been married may also not want to be with someone who has been divorced twice. The divorcee has experienced marriage, knows its difficulty, and it won't be novel the third time. It is ok that the unmarried person wants to share a totally NEW experience with another unmarried person. Do you get that? Or hy… | /r/askFDS | 12/03/20 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Dating with Kids Post-DivorceAll the single dads I know are dating single moms, and I think it's super cute to see their holiday photos where all the kids are smiling despite not being blood related. Solid, happy families and good compatibility due to similar circumstances. Also, keep in mind, a woman who doesn't have her own kids will never know what it is like to have kids or the gravity of the responsibility until she births them herself. Unless it's like a unicorn woman who truly is going to adopt them and take care of … | /r/askFDS | 12/03/20 08:04 PM |
| 2 | Concerns with being average (Down There)I think you're overthinking this. If you are a high value person in general and have great traits, no one is going to to care about your 5 incher. The average is 6 inches isn't it? The issue comes where you have no personality or are not doing your job as a good partner, then your lack of sexual compatibility is going to be amplified. But this one trait won't make or break an otherwise great person. Not all women are size queens. So just chill. You don't need to go asexual or poly or whatever, w… | /r/askFDS | 12/03/20 07:46 PM |
| 10 | Wtf happened to men?Porn Less incentive to be responsible or husband material ever since the sexual revolution of the 60s. Free sex, so why bother-LVM logic Mass media Consumerism Marriage going out of fashion (free pass to fuck around and idolize Leo DiCaprio) Video games A culture of violence The normalization of toxic masculinity and macho culture Flocking to pickup artistry, seduction, and manipulation tactics instead of developing good characters Basing how you treat people on fuckability Living off your moms/… | /r/askFDS | 12/03/20 07:29 PM |
| 3 | What's the most cringeworthy time a male has expressed their feelings to you?It seems you're preoccupied with cringeworthiness and making it sounds like it is a humiliating experience for men to be rejected. However, many of the most "cringeworthy" times men express their feelings to women is when it is INAPPROPRIATE to do so and they should not have been putting her in that situation in the first place. There is nothing cringeworthy about two people having that kind of conversation, but the dynamics shift when it's a boss and subordinate coworker and coworker student an… | /r/askFDS | 12/03/20 06:20 PM |
| 4 | FDS RESCUE MISSIONlol, isn't demisexuality a part of the LGBTQIA community or the asexual spectrum now?? 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 07:00 PM |
| 1 | FDS RESCUE MISSIONI don't understand how she is asking Reddit to help gaslight herself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 04:13 PM |
| 2 | Today I realized there are absolutely no qualifications to be a sex columnist in a women’s magazine except the willingness to sleep around, lie, and feel self important enough to think someone should care about it. I’m pissed.😡But what they do is focus on what to do FOR MEN. Like please him this way, that way, do x, y, and z. It’s very rare, if not impossible, to find a sex columnist discussing how to maximize female pleasure or have an actually healthy sex life where you’re not demeaned. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 03:16 AM |
| 1 | How to protect your financial future when considering marriage to a man.This has been added to the Handbook! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 02:23 AM |
| 1 | This thread made me realize why I SUPER need FDS...How are they calling themselves highly sensitive? The level of societal gaslighting going on has reached an all time high. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Y’all the audacity. And is the last name a joke?MOST HUMBLE. Where does all this arrogance come from? What is a country that discourages excessive self-pride that I can move too? I am so repulsed by the normalization of arrogance among LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 03:18 PM |
| 8 | how do you get over misogynistic kinks you have•quit watching porn •only date men who get off on getting you off and love to please •date romantic men who also don’t watch porn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 06:41 PM |
| 1 | OPEN Q&A THREAD FOR MEN: Explain to FDS what a rapist looks, talks, and acts like. Also provide a full proof way to know they’re not safe to be alone with before you’re actually alone. [Trigger Warning]Male patriarchy preceded capitalism and the industrial revolution, don't you think? Is it not the other way around? Do you think prior to neoliberalism, male supremacy wasn't a thing? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/20 12:35 AM |
| 1 | OPEN Q&A THREAD FOR MEN: Explain to FDS what a rapist looks, talks, and acts like. Also provide a full proof way to know they’re not safe to be alone with before you’re actually alone. [Trigger Warning]I think if you are only willing to date people that don't watch porn or compulsively mastubate, don't have casual sex, aren't into fetish or bdsm, are only open to a long term committed relationship, are willing to get to know you slowly and not rushing to make things sexual as soon as possible, don't drink/drug to excess either because they are not an addict or they are in recovery, and are actively engaged in a program of recovery from this culture of male supremacy (therapy, 12 steps, religio… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 11:09 PM |
| 1 | OPEN Q&A THREAD FOR MEN: Explain to FDS what a rapist looks, talks, and acts like. Also provide a full proof way to know they’re not safe to be alone with before you’re actually alone. [Trigger Warning]This is a big reason why I think quick coffee/drink dates in broad daylight are a much better idea for a first time meeting them than a full dinner. Okay, or lunch in broad daylight. Dinner can also be an early one around 5 pm in an extremely busy place with no alcohol involved. Coffee is too impersonal if a woman is actually looking for a legit relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 09:11 PM |
| 1 | OPEN Q&A THREAD FOR MEN: Explain to FDS what a rapist looks, talks, and acts like. Also provide a full proof way to know they’re not safe to be alone with before you’re actually alone. [Trigger Warning]You can get a pro bono attorney to handle your case against this scumbag. It's not only sexual assault, but sexual harassment, housing violation, civil rights violation abound. This is an egregious crime. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 09:08 PM |
| 1 | OPEN Q&A THREAD FOR MEN: Explain to FDS what a rapist looks, talks, and acts like. Also provide a full proof way to know they’re not safe to be alone with before you’re actually alone. [Trigger Warning]Men who have not done this work are virtually guaranteed to transmit their pain to those closest to them Thank you for your comment. What would you say is the percentage of men who have done enough inner work to be safe to date and not hurt those around them? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 09:07 PM |
| 1 | OPEN Q&A THREAD FOR MEN: Explain to FDS what a rapist looks, talks, and acts like. Also provide a full proof way to know they’re not safe to be alone with before you’re actually alone. [Trigger Warning]Thank you for this opportunity as I hope to learn more here from others to help me better coach my oldest daughter who will be heading off to college in a year. You need to have an extremely serious talk with your daughter warning her of male depravity before sending her off to college. Tell her in no uncertain terms that men left and right will try to pressure her for sex and lie to her to try to get in her pants. You cannot sugarcoat it. Be very blunt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 09:05 PM |
| 1 | When you let a man set the “precedent” of what you’ll accept in a relationship, this is your futureI stopped reading at "together for 3.5 years". That says it all. No man who actually wants to marry you will go out with you that long. 1 year without a ring maximum. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 02:49 AM |
| 9 | What’s with men claiming all women are gay or bisexual?The are just projecting their fantasies onto us. What else is new? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/19 08:31 PM |
| 14 | I truly don’t understand how me showing I’m interested in almost any male , makes them automatically not interested?It’s the way the world works 🤷♀️ They want what they can’t have and love the chase and a challenge. The three date rule is societal gaslighting. There’s nothing more attractive than consistently being hard to get even well into marriage. This doesn’t mean be cold-hearted, but not easily impressed. See the Becky vs. Dreamgirl post in the recommended reading for more on this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/19 08:30 PM |
| 10 | The Hite Report on Female Sexuality Predicted EverythingI do agree with you. I think the point the author is trying to make though is that many LVM like to push women to have a cavalier attitude towards sex though just because the possibility of pregnancy has been reduced. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/19 07:43 PM |
| 10 | Avoid mommy’s boys masquerading as HVMFunny thing all those comments were written by women who are mothers themselves. Ew! Narcissistic mothers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/19 07:34 PM |
| 5 | The lowest of the low: Op's therapist is lovebombing her and she is too gaslit to see whats happeningThat statement of his is an egregious ethical violation. Disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/19 12:21 PM |
| 7 | The characteristics of a High Value ManCouldn’t agree more. Baggage is usually mentioned for manipulative reasons. If he is at a place where his past is screwing up his current relationship, he ought to address that as a single individual before dragging you into the mess. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/19 12:11 PM |
| 24 | Start reciprocating fuckboy energy to fuckboysSounds like it’s time to block! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/19 11:59 AM |
| 17 | Start reciprocating fuckboy energy to fuckboysLol imagine the security cam 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/19 10:15 AM |
| 1 | How Can You Tell If A Man Will Be Good In Bed? (MEGATHREAD)Post made! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/19 10:06 AM |
| 12 | "WYD" is canceled. It's less than low effort, it's a linguistic insult and a huge fucking waste of time. Any guy that hits you with the "WYD" is hot garbage and not ready for an adult relationship with a human woman.😂😂 this is brilliant, save the design for the future FDS store. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/19 08:37 AM |
| 2 | Dating books that apply FDS principlesYesss! When I have more time I’m gonna share more gems from this book too lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/19 08:32 AM |
| 2 | Dating books that apply FDS principlesNo, this would be considered really on the fringe today considering the mainstream media narrative 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/19 08:31 AM |
| 44 | Don't fall for the "You're cute" complimentCompliments should be complete and absolute, never backhanded, weak, conditional, or “suggestions”. Examples of non-compliments include: you’re cute, the blue brings out your eyes, you would look better with your hair up, that shirt flatters you, you are pretty, you’re smart/funny for a girl. Real compliments: you are stunning, your eyes are incredible, I love your smile, you are so intelligent and articulate, you are eloquent, you have a great sense of humor, you look fantastic, you are so beau… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/19 02:03 AM |
| 10 | Don't waste time getting ready for a guy who won't even shower or put on real pants to see you.If a man is putting no effort into how he looks before seeing you, he is not into you. Read the Becky vs Dreamgirl post on the sidebar for more on this. A LVM has classified you as a Becky if he is showing up casual to your dates no matter what lies he tells you about how much he likes you. OP just be glad you saw his true colors on date 1. Consider it time saved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/19 06:39 PM |
| 24 | My post got removed due to it being a meta even though posts complaining about women are allowed to be reposted constantly without it being removed, even though there’s a rule about no reposts. Decided to message the mods though I don’t think it will get us very far. They seem biased against women.And this is why we are proud to be one of the only exclusively female communities on reddit and will continue to uphold this rule. ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/19 05:41 PM |
| 12 | “”Sex positivity””This. Never forget your right to say no, ladies. Sex should only be had if and when you want to, if ever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/19 03:50 PM |
| 13 | Dating books that apply FDS principlesPatti Stanger is really good at articulating the need of timelines and deadlines and why one year is the longest you should be with someone without a proposal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/19 02:27 PM |
| 1 | r/femaledatingstrategy megathread.Has it ever occurred to you that women have to filter out gold diggers too? Cannot tell you how many men want to use HVW because we are MORE successful than they are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/19 01:06 PM |
| 1 | r/femaledatingstrategy megathread.You've just told a mod to go read the sub. Lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/19 02:26 PM |
| 1 | r/femaledatingstrategy megathread.The dating market? None of us date because we need to, but only if and when we want to. The consequence of having standards is that the entire low quality dating market is completely irrelevant. Smart women know that it's better to live on your own terms single than tied to a LVM. There is no settling nor desperation here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/19 12:53 PM |
| 1 | r/femaledatingstrategy megathread.Psst, lurkers, here is the secret strategy: I take immense pleasure in blocking anyone who sends me low-effort texts like "what's up", "wyd", "hey", and instead put energy into men who actually have brains and treat me like a human being. FDS women enjoy choosing to spend time with men who cherish, respect, and adore us, instead of bitter, low-effort guys who feel entitled to our time/attention/bodies/resources. This acknowledges the gendered dynamics of the world. This way, we end up with those… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/19 11:49 AM |
| 4 | Men’s sickened, shocked reactions to this sub are EXACTLY women’s reactions to TRPbut the only women they can get to have sex with would be that ones they had to manipulate into doing so, which means, they are "beta" by default lol. The irony. Imagine being so undesirable :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 06:52 PM |
| 10 | I gotta say, I absolutely ADORE that this sub exists.It’s so funny because on OLD I’m inundated with matches in the thousands, hit on often in person, etc. “obtaining sex” is not a problem for virtually all women. Trolls don’t understand that women are not desperate to get laid. We like to meet men who are deserving of sex and over 95% won’t be compatible or meet our standards because we have high self-esteem. I’d say most of us are here because we’re tired of all these scrubs who feel entitled to sex throwing themselves at us and have too many op… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/19 02:37 AM |
| 13 | Tactics to Counter Common RP StrategiesAmazing post OP! Other sore spots besides height include: sex, dick size, income, car, house, job, nose, level of fitness, hair (especially receding), belly, social skills, thin legs, education level. Ladies, the only kinds of compliments you should be getting are complete and absolute. “You are beautiful”. “Your eyes are gorgeous”. “Your hair is so soft”. “Your smile is breathtaking”.”you are stunning”. These compliments are complete and said in absolute terms. They are eternal. No half ass or … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/19 01:34 AM |
| 6 | Some MRA posted, downvoted, and screenshot a his own post and called us out on FBFor real. Do they think we are all unemployed? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/19 10:06 PM |
| 18 | Some MRA posted, downvoted, and screenshot a his own post and called us out on FBAs if women have the time and energy to waste months on a rape investigation. What a nonsensical post clearly written by a guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/19 08:39 PM |
| 1 | GIRL GAME PT 2: The Value Of the Pre-InterviewWhat is the correct answer when you ask him about tinder experience? What is the ideal thing for a man to say: “i am trying to delete this POS app as soon as possible”? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/19 04:58 PM |
| 1 | GIRL GAME PT 2: The Value Of the Pre-InterviewThank you for taking the time to write this out sis ❤️ I have a question about negs/light teasing. Is it a one strike rule? What if you shut down the neg and he never tries it again? And if the guy really is the one, doesn’t a pre interview cheapen the whole thing? I would want to look back at the start of a relationship with pre-date shivers, not an impersonal phone call?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/19 04:56 PM |
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