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Excuse me for being blunt but this sounds like an issue primarily caused by your husband either not making enough money or not spending it on the household correctly. Since he is more than happy to only worry about working, don’t ask him for help, ask him for money to hire the help. Weekly cleaners, a meal prep service, and maybe weekly baby sitter so you have time to yourself as well.
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/26 11:51 PM
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At some point interests are just interests and has nothing to do with potential relationship dynamics. The cultural connotations of things can change arbitrarily and it makes no sense to expect people to align with it at all times. A software engineer is a masculine job now but 50 years ago it was as feminine as weaving tapestries and cooking. Similarly, go over to Europe and try to argue with the Italians and the French that being well dressed is not a traditionally masculine trait. Imo, the ac…
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/25 03:01 PM
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Firstly, wear sunscreen and floss. Secondly, since everyone else is talking about men and friends, I’ll touch on CS a little bit as a CS major about to graduate. Studying CS, especially at a good school, can be the most time consuming and honestly all consuming thing ever. My fiancé comes home and sometimes find me right there but also so far away because I’m so mentally occupied. Even after graduation, you essentially never stop learning, coding, and improving yourself because the nature of the…
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/22 03:29 AM
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This sub is not an appropriate place to recommend leaving as the first advice where did you get the idea that we have a bad relationship? We are having arguments recently because of increased stresses in life. Leaving is a terrible idea when my fiancé is the most lovely man alive, insanely patient, and loves me unconditionally.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/22 04:19 AM
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Thank you for your input! She wrote the Surrendered Wife, the Empowered wife, and such books popular on this subreddit.
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/22 08:05 PM
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I’ve been brushing up on RPW theory all night and day lately due to my personal fuck ups in my relationship, so I think I’m somewhat primed to give input. From reading the Empowered Wife, my opinion is that you seem to be struggling with honouring your desires. Stating your desire is not frowned upon by RPW ideology and in fact very much recommended. My advice is to learn to just say what you purely want, which is not bossy or controlling, but rather very empowering and give your SO organic oppo…
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/22 06:00 PM
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Okay this is actually such an amazingly helpful comment. I never quite pinned down the reason why one should and should not phrase things a certain way, but your explanation of leading questions really clarified it. I was definitely just trying to polite when I use leading questions, because it somehow feels rude to directly state what I’m thinking or what I want. I see how leading questions can be very detrimental now. Honestly thinking back, not stating exactly what I want (like saying “wouldn…
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/22 01:34 AM
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Thanks for the long write up! I am definitely in a negative state coming off that argument, and it feels very unfair that I have to be the one to be extra nice when he’s the one who hurt my feelings. However, who capitulates first matters way less to me than having a good, healthy, loving relationship. It’s a stressful time and I have to remind myself of basic RPW principles.
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/22 08:44 PM
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Since presumable you’re not giving him big heaping helpings of praise and validation, he has to take that respect from you by disagreeing. I made sure I did this at the start of our relationship, but I have definitely neglected to as of late. Our relationship was so good back when I made a proactive effort. I need to restart again or else I fear resentment from both sides will start to build up. It’s just difficult right now because we just had an argument yesterday where I felt so disrespected …
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/22 08:39 PM
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I think the hostile change is partially from anxiety and stress about me finding a job and how uncertain this year is/has been for us. Does he think that you’re stupid? That’s not a rhetorical question and it’s not going to sound right asking him that directly. But does he actually view you as stupid and that’s why he can’t engage in polite conversation with you? When did he start feeling that way if that’s the case? I have actually asked him this question phrased a little bit differently ages a…
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/22 07:58 PM
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Hm, that’s a good point, how can I do that other than saying it?
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/22 07:11 PM
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Thanks for the advice! I’ll give this approach a try to the best of my ability. Honestly lacking in mental bandwidth right now and I’m sure he is too, which is likely how we ended up like this in the first place. Edit: also, your statement on men feeling disrespected if someone else offers suggestions/opinions, is that always true, or does how you offer these suggestions matter? How would the world function if men are just constantly offended by discussing things?
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/22 06:56 PM
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I don’t think he neeeeds to be right but everyone wants to be right haha. We had a conversation earlier in our relationship in which he told me that sometimes he feels intimidated by me (in terms of academics/intellect) so sometimes he overcompensates a bit too hard, which results in talking over me. There isn’t much I could do about that, since I am already very cutesy/dumb in every area that is not learning/academics/work.
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/22 06:53 PM
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Thanks for the reply! I’ll try to be extremely direct while he’s figuring things out. He has a really good track record of being mindful and making consistent improvements when needed, so I’m hopeful this will resolve if we both put in the work.
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/22 06:48 PM
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Yes we are engaged! We are not paying for our own wedding, my parents are (both our tradition and as a wedding gift of sorts). I do think he is stressed however, but I don’t think it’s directly related to topics of weddings. Unless he’s not ready to get married in general (which he denies). You’re right that his response makes me really reluctant to bring topics he responded to that way back up again. However, this has happened to so many random topics (criminal psychology, the country of Japan,…
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/22 06:42 PM
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Thanks for those ideas! I think they are great things to do while trying to figure out the underlying issues that’s causing this. Also, I totally believe vitamin D would help. I’m a pretty tan person naturally so this winter sun is really not cutting it.
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/22 05:44 PM
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Honestly it happened throughout our relationship but very infrequently (like once a month), but now it’s like 3 times a week. I think new stressors would be that it’s a pretty transitional time (I’m looking for a new job but the economy is not great) and we are headed into the winter so we’ve been exercising less.
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/22 05:17 PM
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keep in mind that r/RedPillWomen is explicitly an antifeminist community Not trying to be snarky/rude, but how does this reconcile with the fact that Laura Doyle (author of the Surrendered Wife, arguably one of the most foundational texts of this sub) identifies as a feminist? Or is RPW just anti some very specific brands of feminism, but not necessarily against the equality of women and men in the eyes of the law and when it comes to rights?
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/22 06:34 AM
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Honestly, looking back at the event, you’re entirely right about one thing: I truly had no idea how close or not close they were to fighting each other. I don’t really know how men communicate when in that type of situations since I’ve never truly seen it except for in movies. When I see anger or annoyance, my brain immediately goes “violence” when that’s usually not the case. I had a chat with my boyfriend. He was mad and irritated, but as far as what that scenario goes, a fight was never on th…
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/22 04:49 AM
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I mean, much better ways to talk about guns than this 😅, I wouldn’t have went into it that much if I wasn’t asked about what I was really worrying about In truth I’ve only been here for about 3 years am and I’m still weighing the pros and cons. The culture of this country is weird and contrasting to say the least, no where is more liberal or more conservative. It’s pretty crazy.
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/22 04:22 AM
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Source? I ask because that hasn’t be true in my experience. US has 6x guns per capita than my home country, and homicide rate in the US is 3x higher.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/22 10:07 PM
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Yeah my fiancé started hunting when he was like 6 or 7, and he’s a good shot and everything, but I don’t know if that’s a good idea honestly. I thought the statistics are that owning a gun makes you twice as likely to die from a gun. I trust him a lot, I just don’t trust the other person he’s confronting.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/22 08:04 PM
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Yeah I knew better than to do that. I saw a lot of that type of behaviour around me when I was a child and I always felt so bad for the men, I thought it was very rude and disrespectful. I think what I need is more reassurance than solutions, so I will definitely do what you said.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/22 08:00 PM
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He has never gotten into a fight in his life. I’m just afraid that the yelling will turn into a fight, and my fiancé kills him by accident or the other person pulls a gun. I think you’re right in that I have pretty bad anxiety about either of those scenarios, but especially the latter. I completely trust my fiancé, but I didn’t grow up in the states. Having a lethal weapon readily available to everyone is what scares me a lot honestly. Maybe this is a completely unrealistic fear lmao but this is…
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/22 07:58 PM
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Yeah what makes me feel bad is basically thoughts like “what if the other person has a gun”. I’m not from the states and where I’m from there are pretty much no guns, so this is never an issue. I would not have been worried at all if guns weren’t in the picture to be honest.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/22 07:50 PM
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What do you mean? Like just try to bear hug him?
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/22 07:40 PM
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Someone is bitter they didn’t get into engineering lol Jkjkjkjk, but the idea that undergraduate math and physics is somehow vastly superior to undergrad engineering is kinda hilarious
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/22 07:21 PM
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Everything you see was built by men. Everything. Houses, roads, cars, everything. Thi is where I got my first point. I guess most physical things are built by men if you mean that, but not everything. I also feel like unfortunately a woman can no longer just rely on men for her livlihood. Even if you are a great housewife, you still need a profitable skill. Otherwise, I pretty much entirely agree with you. Especially the chained in basement comment. Unfortunately that’s just the reality. In fact…
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/22 08:15 PM
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Although some of the points you make are valid, I think some ideas are go beyond red pill and straight into actual sexism. If you seriously believe that society is built by men and only men… I don’t even know what to tell you other than 1. That is just wrong and 2. Even if it’s overwhelming by men, who maintains the households? Who raises the next generation? Do you seriously believe society will be exactly the same if you replaced all women with test tubes and fleshlights? If anything this just…
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/22 04:37 PM
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Omg, my first choice was medicine too!! I had your exact worry. It is no more complex than anything else in my opinion. I’m sure you got this! We need more women in CS for more reasons than just ~equality~. With most people coding being men, a lot of the end products can be surprisingly unfriendly to female users. Do consider it!
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/22 04:23 AM
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It 100% depends on the company you are working for and the school you go to. My university has a huge workload, it is one of the best CS programs in the country so it’s not entirely surprising. Right now my schedule is not living friendly, let alone family friendly. However, once you graduate, it’s entirely up to you. There are companies where it’s a normal 9-5, there are companies where they are like “get this done by this date” and they don’t care if it takes you 2 hours or 200 hours. I have h…
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/22 02:03 AM
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Yeah and it’s so feel good too! You are doing important work, be it diagnostics or with blood donations.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/22 12:44 AM
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Yeah healthcare is an incredibly mentally taxing field to be in. Go on the nursing subreddits to see the amount of insanity they had to deal with over the pandemic. You are forced to treat highly contagious patients and decide which patients get to live or die when resources run out. I remember a story of a man storming out of the hospital because he would not believe that COVID is real and proceed to die in the parking lot. No idea how nurses can deal with that. My mother is a doctor and my fia…
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/22 12:38 AM
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What do you mean by how much truth in the health field? Also, maybe consider being a phlebotomist. Some places you do a 6-9 week paid training and that’s it.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/22 12:21 AM
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I think you should just figure out what you enjoy that is also profitable. Don’t worry about how it makes you “look”. No HVM is going to be intimidated by a career choice. Nursing and other medical-ish degrees might be a good choice if you like the natural sciences. The problem with relying on a man for any sort of financial security is that you are relying on someone else for your quality of life. Even assuming that you can find someone who will never leave you and always provide for you… accid…
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/22 12:16 AM
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Couldn’t agree with this more. Women accuses men of disrespecting their intelligence/independence by making assumptions yet make assumptions all the time about how men lack basic human decency
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/21 05:19 AM
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Idk man, after that argument I’d be out too. Imagine being responsible for 80% of the expenses, offering to be responsible for even more, only to get kicked out of your own place and accused of being disrespectful.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/21 07:32 PM
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This^ On top of that, when a woman marries a King, she’s a Queen Consort, not a Queen in her own right.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/21 11:34 PM
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Honestly, the wall is real only in that once you hit menopause you can’t have children. Good skincare, sun care, living habits, and routine does wonders. There are women in their 50’s looking like teenagers, especially Asian women like you mentioned. It has little to do with genetics and more to do with how you care for yourself. Asian girls HATE the sun with a passion because it ages them. A lot of white women (whom in general tan much worse than Asians) still insist on getting tans, and gets s…
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/21 05:29 PM
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You need to stop thinking that men are all one thing and women are all one thing. That’s just simply not true. There are men who are gold diggers and there are women who are pilots. There are men who hates fighting and there are women who are amazing martial artists. As long as you want it bad enough, you can be anything you want to be, regardless of gender race sexuality etc etc. There are badass fighters, pilots, parents, CEO’s, scientists, rulers, chefs of EVERY gender and sexuality and race.…
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/21 04:14 PM
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What you’re doing is the opposite of what you want to do. Your daughter is going to grow up thinking all men are useless yet they get away with it (her brother doesn’t do any chores and thus doesn’t know how to do any chores, yet you don’t nag him). This will probably push her towards radical feminism and makes for an extremely difficult relationship between you two moving forward. Your son is going to grow up with the mindset that women does all the work, since that’s how his mother views this.…
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/21 03:21 PM
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You don’t decide to be gay. I have two very religious friends who recently came to terms with their sexuality. One of them literally had an exorcism done and went to therapy for an year while trying to “pray the gay away”. It’s NOT a choice. Why would you choose that kind of life?
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/21 02:57 PM
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I agree that “Gilead or modern feminism” is a false dichotomy. There are many shades of grey between the two.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/21 02:12 AM
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I see what you mean. You mean that this would be a feminist’s dystopia, not a dystopia that is feminist. An authoritarian dystopia means that the dystopia is authoritarian, not that the dystopia is bad for an authoritarian.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/21 02:08 AM
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Do you mean a feminists’ dystopia? A feminist dystopia usually mean it’s a dystopia that is feminist. (An authoritarian dystopia means the dystopia is authoritarian, not that it’s an authoritarian’s worst nightmare)
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/21 11:35 PM
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The book is relatively similar to the show, probably a bit more tame from what I have seen. You get more internal dialogues and therefore more insights on how Gilead is created and what the commanders had in mind. It’s definitely clear that no women is happy there. I’d even say that no men is truly happy there either. However, the women there are all performing traditional feminine roles: raising children, bearing children, homemaking, etc. I think the reason why they are so unhappy when many RP…
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/21 03:34 PM
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I really like what you said about the differences between pregnancy and actually having children. The way that I explained to myself why IVF isn’t used is that Gilead is “religious”. Edit: why did you call Gilead a feminist dystopia?
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/21 03:23 PM
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Here’s my take on it: Honour is not associated with gender. What honour is there in being born with XY chromosomes instead of XX? What honour is there in being stronger or more rational if you don’t use it right? There is no intrinsic honour to being a man, just like how there is no intrinsic honour to being a woman. You have to realise that on an individual scale men and women can, in the end, do just about the same stuff and reap similar rewards. Yes men are stronger on average, yes women may …
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/21 04:46 PM
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Have you ever tried to let him know that he hurt your feelings in a very fragile, non-public way? In other words, show him that he hurt you in a way that can’t be interpreted as accusatory or as a tantrum. Basically, if he fully understands that he caused someone he loves pain, then he should change his behaviour. If he doesn’t then it’s time to think about if you really want to be with someone who doesn’t seem to care.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/21 01:00 PM
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I think she was more taking about men that says stuff like “Traditional, expects you to be submissive, a homemaker, and lovely to look at. I’ll be your perfect lover, mentor and Prince Charming”, which made me cringe even typing out and is obviously an absolutely MASSIVE red flag.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/21 11:19 PM
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Currently dating a white guy in the US. General advice: Look out if his ex’s are overwhelmingly Asian look out if he’s a weeb, I’m serious look out if he cannot tolerate your culture or is dismissive of it also look out if he fixates on your culture in a really weird way, almost as if he’s dating you because you’re Asian Basically, you want a man who can appreciate your culture, heritage and background, but more importantly also appreciates you regardless of your race.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/21 04:28 PM
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Good on you for having a cheap wedding but um regardless of wedding vows a relationship is basically a series of agreements and promises between two people?? You probably both agreed that you two will live in the same house, no cheating as defined by both of you, and I’d assume also caring about each other? Why are you even in a relationship with him if you don’t believe in that? People’s needs aren’t met in the same way. Just because a conversation is enough for you doesn’t mean it’s enough for…
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/21 04:16 PM
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Yeah you’re indeed not responsible for his emotions nor his reactions. However, you just seem so dismissive of him. You made a vow which I assume included caring about him in general. This doesn’t seem like you care about him. People act out when they don’t get the attention or the emotional support they need. Chances are, your husband is trying to get you to care about him and waiting for you to show him that. What I’m reading from all of this is “my husband cries too much, why is he so not mas…
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/21 11:34 PM
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Have you read the Surrendered Wife? If you haven’t, you should. It provides a very effective and very RP way to dealing with these types of problems. However, stepping away from theory and RP/BP, you should be emotionally supportive of your loved ones. I’m pretty sure one of the biggest reason why people cheat is for emotional fulfilment. We are humans, not robots, we don’t and can’t always run on logic regardless of gender. If you can’t deal with people having basic human emotions, that’s kind …
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/21 10:25 PM
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really aesthetic picnic or high tea learn something new in bed (however I’m personally really against sex as a gift/the only gift) new & fancy dessert new & fancy meal coordinate with his friends and see if you want to throw a party hand make something that references your inside jokes or remind him how much you care (notes in envelopes that he could open in stressful times, a thousand origami paper cranes is said to grant you a wish, etc) most importantly, shower him with love that day!!
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/21 01:31 PM
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I’m gonna start with some RPW advice first before saying “run sis”. Be insanely considerate so he’d be considerate back. Usually people are well aware of when they’re pushing the line or being a bit manipulative, and if they’re worth dating they hopefully would stop that behaviour as soon as someone remind them that it’s not kind and better is expected. I found that whenever my boyfriend puts me in a situation that I would very much not like to be in and I still find things to thank him/love him…
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/21 04:39 AM
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You could probably get the answer to this by googling, but honestly there are 3 big tips. Improve yourself! Looks, brain, health, skills, taste, whatever else you deem important. Put yourself out there. To give you an example, I spent years wanting a boyfriend. I spent 3-4 weeks actively seeking one before I found my LTR. Vet vet vet vet vet. Trust me, there will be no shortage of men if you did step 1 and 2 right, but you need to find the one for you in that group.
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/21 12:37 AM
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Lmao what? I was making an allusion to that exact book you linked. That’s why “salt, acid, heat” is in quotation marks? Why would I put quotes around it if I was trying to pass it off as my own idea? It’s a very famous culinary book and heaps of people know it, so I didn’t think it’s necessary to link it. If one had to link the original source of every reference then we’d never get anywhere. Also, in case it’s not clear already, i did not invent any of the cooking tips. This is because I’m a you…
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/21 10:26 PM
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Thanks for your response! I think most kids dislike vegetables because they’re not cooked well, which is a massive shame.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/21 07:17 PM
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Hi firstly are you me lmao covid has hit me really hard and my studying motivation is literally GONE and my sleep schedule is ...yikes to say the least. Anyhow, I 100% recommend cutting something out of your life that makes you unhappy and takes up time. You clearly need more time and energy for your studies + some left over for daily activities and stuff. If you’re not in financial strain then not working probably helps. I also recommend therapy if you’re dealing with childhood issues. They sho…
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/21 06:26 PM
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I also use the water trick! It’s honestly like magic.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/21 06:10 PM
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If you have a tried and true meatball recipe, then simply use that and about a cup worth of chopped spinach for every half cup of breadcrumbs (or for 4-6 servings). If using frozen make sure to defrost and squeeze out some of the water. Sometimes I add an egg in my meatballs to better bind things. Occasionally I replace breadcrumbs with oats for a healthier meal and if I’m feeling fancy I use a bunch of fresh herbs (parsley and basil and such).
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/21 03:35 PM
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About your own career, success and goals: My take on it is that it really, really depends on you. Personally, I’d like to believe that the reason of my existence is curiosity and learning, and this is why I want to pursue a PhD. It’s what will make me happy and what will leave me with no regrets on my deathbed. It’s equally valid for other women’s life goals to be love or fostering a family, fighting for a cause, an athletic pursuit, etc. Do I think my man is important? 100%. He’s the most impor…
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/21 12:00 AM
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How different is this book to the surrendered wife? They look pretty similar from your summary.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/21 11:22 PM
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Yeah see I’m okay with that definition. What I am not okay with is the toxic pressure to be super skinny. A healthy weight for a girl who’s 5’7 is anywhere from 122 to 149 pounds, but someone like Kendall Jenner for example is 5’10 and 119 pounds. If a dude’s definition of fat is “chubbier than models”, we should ignore him instead of teaching girls how to get skinnier to match those expectations.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/21 05:31 PM
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Define “fat”. In my opinion if your clothing size doesn’t have an X in front of it, you shouldn’t be killing yourself over your weight. Weight is first and foremost a health issue, not an aesthetic one. I think it’s important to remember that. Of course there is nothing wrong at all with not wanting to date someone who is overweight or obese. But, there is something to be said about the type of men that thinks any girl that is not Instagram model level is “fat”. I don’t think one should want to …
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/21 03:30 PM
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He sets 2 alarms. One 10 min early so he can give me cuddles.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/21 07:48 AM
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No, don’t ever fake your personality. RPW is not the only way. It’s not unlikely at all to find a man who appreciates you for who you are. Don’t change for a man, not worth it. However, ask yourself this: do you dislike yourself for your personality? If that’s an issue, then work towards developing traits that you would like about yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/21 03:43 AM
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Yeah so if you’re not familiar with the ideas commonly discussed on this sub this one requires some explaining. It has nothing to do with children/fetishes where you pretend to be younger/regression. Basically, when we talk about childlike we’re talking about qualities that comes naturally to kids but adults sometimes lose: curiosity, a sense of adventure, finding happiness in small things (think kid + lollipop) and being very trusting. These qualities, on top of being great qualities to have as…
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/21 03:35 AM
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Good idea!
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/21 12:41 AM
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Oh wow I have never considered it as a health problem. We’re both very young (I’m 19 and he’s 22) so I completely forgot that it leads to real issues. I’ll bring it up with him later!
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/21 08:58 PM
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If you see a Megan Fox level girl, it wouldn’t be obvious to you to compliment her on her looks because you’d think that she obviously knows. So paradoxically, really pretty people probably get no comments on their looks because it’s considered obvious.
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/20 06:23 AM
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My mother was very much like this too. However, she’d also get mad at me for not getting her anything. I dreaded every occasion because it was such a pain to deal with her. Her marriage is... not great. Not hard to see why.
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/20 07:27 PM
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I 100% agree with this
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/20 01:16 PM
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The wisdom offered by Laura Doyle is that it’s better to encourage a behaviour than discourage the opposite (use I want statements directly when you actually wanted to be gifted something). In my case, he gleaned his information from a very passing conversation. I made no real/substantial comment on it and I cannot expect him to read my mind on the exact intricacies of the matter. I think it’s totally okay to let your partners know that you want to be listened to, but also cut them a little slac…
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/20 01:16 PM
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Exactly! Basic manners, weird how we forget those when we’re with the ones dearest to us.
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/20 12:05 PM
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I think a big part of this is conventions get lost between cultures/race. A conventionally attractive Asian woman in Asia might look very different to a conventionally attractive Asian woman in a white-majority country, so on and so forth.
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/20 05:12 AM
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