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So my question for men: Why would you hate a percentage of men that did nothing to hurt you? I wouldn't hate a man who is successful with women if he's a good person. The most "negative" thing I could feel towards such a dude would be healthy envy and I wouldn't mind being friends with him. However, you have to be very naive to think all men who are successful with women are good people. Many of them treat other men awful, many of them treat everyone awful and many of them have sex with other me…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:12 AM
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It's natural. Do I tell you what else is also very natural? The huge lack of empathy that many people show lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 05:47 PM
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And what about men who do nothing brave or useful to society but are succesful with women anyways? Is it realistic to think all incels are fat lazy gamers?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 05:25 PM
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Usually happens that people who have speeches like "come on, lonely incels, sex is not a big deal, you're suffering for nothing" are people who have or had sex lives similar to a porn-star's lol But you are something of an exception. Be well.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 05:44 PM
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Sexless - yes but I don't complain. And are you a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 05:03 PM
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Sorry but, for me, you can't say isn't that bad being kinda lonely and sexless. You have friends and it seems you had and intense sexual life years ago, or at least a satisfcatory sexual life. Many men have not been able to experience any of that throughout their lives; they have suffered the true experience of sexless and lonely singleness, you haven't.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 04:48 PM
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Wow. Lol. How would you describe the black pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 03:02 AM
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Not much to think about: Both genders are very prone to cheat on their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:57 AM
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I see. Honestly I'm not really a connoisseur (or even an enthusiast) on the subject. I just read a little about it years ago. Be well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:44 AM
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become bonobos once again Bonobos have an apparently matriarchal society and live in a constant orgy. From what I read the only sexual interaction that has not been observed is mother and breeding(s). It's (almost) a free for all lol. Really weird and ultra-hedonistic but, hey, at least all have sex. I also know they are peaceful creatures. Chimps, in contrast, are violent and vicious. There are constantly herd wars going on, atrocities are committed in them. As far as I know, here only a few ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:11 AM
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If I came up to you and said something like "Hey, what's your name? I think you're attractive and I'd like to have sex with you." Would you really take it well? And I'm not talking about consent or rejection here. You say is better to be upfront about it, but I'm sure most women on the planet would be upset if a man came up to them and said what I just stated. This is where I have a hard time not thinking it's true that most women say one thing but act the opposite, although I recognize this is …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:11 PM
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Sleeping with any guy would lessen the attachment but if women are going to take the risk of having casual sex (there's potential to get assaulted, killed, robbed, pregnant, stds) might as well have it be a hot guy I guess. And why do they prefer attractive men for cheating on their partners? For lust and sexual pleasure. Doesn't that prove my whole point that women cheat not just because they are emotionally hurt? ​ I have male friends who slept with girls in relationships and they were average…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 06:20 AM
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If what you said were true, women would have sex with any man to lessen that attachment to their boyfriend or husband. Funny how they tend to choose attractive men to cheat on their partners lol. Hehe... You're evading the last point I made.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 04:37 AM
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They may want to hurt him back and they get desperate to lessen the attachment. Sleeping with another guy helps lessen the attachment. If what you said were true, women would have sex with any man to lessen that attachment to their boyfriend or husband. Funny how they tend to choose attractive men to cheat on their partners lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 04:18 AM
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Sorry, this sounds to me like a super weird mental gymnastics to justify an unjustifiable behavior that comes from a group of people you idealize. I'm not buying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 04:10 AM
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Let's think logically. If women can't really feel or get into it, why do they have sex? They're mostly just tolerating it in exchange for emotional/financial support. So... Now it turns out women don't enjoy sex at all? The same ones who are multi-orgasmic? The same ones who have an organ which seems designed specifically to sexual pleasure? I don't know... What kind of exchange beyond sexual pleasure a woman (in a relationship) gets when she has sex with a stripper at a party?, a dude she will …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 04:00 AM
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If you have boyfriend and want to have sex with other persons, you need the consent of your boyfriend before anything. Whatever, I only hope you're not doing cheating anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 03:40 AM
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I don't understand why people are in relationships they dislike. Why cheat on someone when you can first end the relationship and then do whatever you want with whomever you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 02:47 AM
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Remember women are emotionally-driven not sex-driven. To react with physical cheating they must've been really hurt. On the internet you can find plenty of cheating stories at bachelorette parties and other similar events. Really, I doubt very much all that cucking comes from emotionally hurt women...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 02:38 AM
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I agree with almost everything you have said. I don't know why on earth it can be so addictive to spend time on these sites if I haven't gotten anything pleasing out of them. As soon as October starts I'm out of here and will probably never come back. I think knowing the pill theories (blue, red, black, black, white...) is good, but better to stay away from discussions, it's very easy to get stuck and bitter. PPD is a completely arbitrary site. This very post wasn't approved there and I see much…
/r/AllPillDebate27/09/22 09:43 PM
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(I'm not a woman) I would like to discuss the two main arguments I notice being made: -A man with experience can give a son who is just like him and that is why women prefer him and have an aversion to virgins. >A man with experience may also show little interest in providing nurturing and resources for the baby. Couldn't that cause aversion in many women? -It's a hassle to teach a virgin man how to have sex and tolerate his mistakes. >Does sex really require that much practice and skill? Maybe …
/r/AllPillDebate27/09/22 07:07 AM
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Excuse me, but I wouldn't call a good part of the things you listed "red flags." They are more like deal breakers.
/r/AllPillDebate27/09/22 06:44 AM
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Maybe my memory is failing, but didn't you say some time ago, in some post on this sub or purple pill, that you preferred a virgin because it's easier to teach him how to have sex, while an "experienced" man might get offended or ignore you if you tell him that is doing something wrong? This is not a reproach or an attempt to make you look bad. It's valid to change your mind and I'm asking out of pure curiosity.
/r/AllPillDebate27/09/22 06:36 AM
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I don't consider myself a good person (I'd like to change that). I even feel I've done some low things throughout my life. I agree that much of the male population tends to be overly accommodating to women and this could be one reason why the number of lonely dudes seems to grow year on year. You have to recognize that society educates men to be like this: "women like that." Another example of how inconsistent humans are when it comes to statements and behaviors.
/r/AllPillDebate26/09/22 04:07 PM
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I think you have given something valuable by saying that the people who judge you tend to have no idea about you or your life and therefore their words should not affect you. When you receive little or no validation from the outside you have to learn to build your self-esteem and confidence from within. I'm not justifying people who get rude or arrogant when you tell them you're a virgin, however, I think they are the way they are because they had access to romantic and sexual experiences from a…
/r/AllPillDebate26/09/22 03:51 PM
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In my reply to Glad-Discount, I was thinking of saying something like "there's also the possibility that religious women don't find you attractive (and that your virginity has something to do with it)" but I didn't want to sound too bitter or pessimistic. I'm curious: When you say they are hypergamous do you mean they choose only the most attractive or high status men of the church or religious center? Or do you mean they end up dating attractive non-religious men and keep the believers as frien…
/r/AllPillDebate26/09/22 02:56 PM
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This option comes with some issues, at least for me: -If you are not an actual believer you may find religious places very boring. -If you are not an actual believer you may find that some of the dogmas and everyday things of a certain religion go against your convictions (good luck with cognitive dissonance and good look keeping your mouth shut). -You may have to wait a long time, maybe years, for something sexual to happen between you and her. I don't know about others, but I wouldn't be willi…
/r/AllPillDebate26/09/22 03:55 AM
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Could you explain yourself better?
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/22 11:09 PM
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I think what I wrote doesn't have much relation to the whole topic of the post and what you said, so I apologize for that. You're right, I too like diversity and that in movies and series there are actors and actresses who are rather average.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 09:47 PM
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I have no problem with this as long as it applies across the board. Sometimes I get the impression that some feminists would like to ban the presence of attractive women in any kind of media.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:52 PM
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What do you mean? I didn't ask anything on that sub. Thank you for being so kind. Be well.
/r/AllPillDebate17/09/22 08:44 PM
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I'm 28 years old. Kissed and hugged but virgin. In your opinion, is it over for me?
/r/AllPillDebate17/09/22 08:13 PM
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It seems no that basic in our times hehe.
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/22 09:31 PM
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I'm not justifying this person in any way, but it's my understanding that he has OCD. As someone who also suffers from the same disorder I will tell you that we can get very intense with numbers. That could be one of the reasons.....
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 05:29 PM
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The comments of this post are a great example of how both genders want all integender social interactions to be designed in their own favor. In the end, men and women are not so different...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 05:15 PM
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I hear you. I'm not saying that there are no women who will treat you well and love you if you treat them well and love them. The point is that not all women are like that and, because of the times we live in, they seem to be getting scarcer and scarcer. Maybe I'm wrong but that's my perception today.
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/22 05:05 PM
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No. What would be the point of doing that? For a while I suffered from severe obsessive compulsive disorder and if there was a machine that could replicate what I felt at that time I would probably destroy it. I don't like "suffering competitions", and this whole approach feels a bit like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 04:54 PM
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If treating a woman like a queen would give you the guarantee that she would treat you well and not even think about cheating on you or suddenly end the relationship... I may sound very bitter, but, having heard many men's stories, I think there are no guarantees.
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/22 04:43 PM
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Although it's true that many lonely men would do nothing. I think a large percentage of them could become quite disruptive, in many ways.
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/22 04:34 PM
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I'm doing that right now. Let's see...
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/22 02:19 PM
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Thanks. Be well.
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/22 01:32 PM
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Let's see... This new pill is about accepting that you will never have a girlfriend and not caring about the reasons why. Do I get it?
/r/AllPillDebate28/08/22 08:50 PM
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You should voice your opinion. Maybe it's true a lot of people won't take you seriously but you never know if in the end you will get someone, at least one person, to reconsider their behavior.
/r/AllPillDebate28/08/22 08:20 PM
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I don't find much relation between what you have said and this series of replies; what are those standards you are talking about? Not wanting your girlfriend or wife to cheat on you seems like a very reasonable standard to me.
/r/AllPillDebate28/08/22 06:05 PM
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I know it's not my place to police some chad's behaviour when I cant even get a woman to look my way Why not? If you want to tell a person that whatever they're doing is wrong, you first need to have sex or female approval?
/r/AllPillDebate28/08/22 05:59 PM
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So for women, non-sexual intimacy is the worst thing about cheating. For men, sexual intimacy is the unforgivable. Why do you think this contrast exists?
/r/AllPillDebate28/08/22 05:52 PM
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I don't know how to explain properly as I am bad in english. https://www.deepl.com/translator This could help you a lot here in Reddit. ​ You must be young man. I'm 28 an this is the second time I've heard the "women in their 30s seem attractive to you because you're young" argument. Highly doubt my opinion is going to change when I'm older. ​ Women's cheating have more consequences. Because no real man would agree to this unless he is trapped in marriage with kids or he is beta and cuckqueaned …
/r/AllPillDebate28/08/22 05:32 PM
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It blows my mind too.
/r/AllPillDebate28/08/22 04:41 PM
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Both genders are good at analyzing and judging the behaviors and psychology of the other gender.Plus they seem to like doing it.However, when it comes to self-criticism, both leave much to be desired. I don't mean to sound so defiant or cocky, but I think your whole comment is a proof of my opening statement. ​ In terms of biology, women are sexually superior. I'm not going to turn this into a "which gender is superior?" competition; I'll just tell you each has good and not so good things. ​ ...…
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/22 04:30 PM
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Yeah if cheating comes from man,it is not bad.It is man's nature,No matter how he loves you.At some point he will have desire to want tight young woman especially if he is high value. ​ That's the justification and these people seem to ignore that women could also justify all their dating strategies through evolutionary psychology. We could also say that cuckoldry is part of female nature because no matter how much your girlfriend or wife loves you, if she meets someone more handsome, taller or …
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/22 04:10 PM
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I think Mrs_Drgree is mod in PPD. It would be useful to hear her/his opinion about this.
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/22 02:05 PM
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Anyway, that's kinda twisted
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/22 02:02 PM
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haha
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/22 02:02 PM
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but i'm not a woman
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/22 02:02 PM
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I see
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/22 02:02 PM
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I understand. Although I'm still very confused that my post did not get approved while this did: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/wykv1t/women_prefer_toxic_men/ If what you say is true and it's a female controlled sub that post above feels much more challenging and rejectable than mine, in fact, mine is more of a criticism towards men so... Haha anyway, it just doesn't make sense. Thanks for the advice.
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/22 04:33 AM
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Today I tried to post this over there https://www.reddit.com/r/AllPillDebate/comments/wycdqu/if_cheating_comes_from_a_man_its_not_that_bad/ I don't understand what the problem is, I also think they are too demanding (with some people, because others seem to be able to post anything). What's the point of having a sub that consists of debating if it's so complicated to post? Haha.
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/22 03:51 AM
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Don't do unto others what you would not want done to you. The vast majority of men don't want their girlfriend or wife to have sex with another man. You probably wouldn't want it either. The vast majority of people wouldn't like to get punched in the face. You probably wouldn't like it either. I think that's enough to understand why you shouldn't have sex with girlfriends or wives and why you shouldn't go around punching random people in the face. ​ I see nothing wrong with having sex with a wom…
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/22 12:14 AM
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I didn't know this existed, I'm going to check it out.
/r/AllPillDebate26/08/22 11:54 PM
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Any idea why it's so hard to get your posts approved on PurplePillDebate? I've tried three times and nothing. Is it because I have low karma or because I haven't joined?
/r/AllPillDebate26/08/22 11:28 PM
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I see nothing wrong with having sex with a woman who is married or has a boyfriend. Their relationship is none of my business. It is not my job to enforce someone else's rules of morality. I forgot this part: It's not your responsibility to develop other people's morality. That's true. Your own morality, on the other hand, is your responsibility and by engaging in cheating you are hurting someone. Don't do unto others what you would not want done to you.
/r/AllPillDebate26/08/22 04:21 PM
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I see nothing wrong with having sex with a woman who is married or has a boyfriend. Their relationship is none of my business. It is not my job to enforce someone else's rules of morality. This sounds like the mental gymnastics I'm talking about at the end of my post. What I find most curious is that your reasons to avoid cheating are partially built in morality.
/r/AllPillDebate26/08/22 04:13 PM
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Well, I think that, in general, we have similar views. Thanks and be well.
/r/AllPillDebate26/08/22 02:51 AM
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Well, I agree that almost any woman would ask for a minimum of security in any kind of encounter she's going to have with an unknown man. Speaking about dating, I think looks are the main driver of that pickyness. ​ There is nothing wrong with having certain standards in terms of looks; the problem (for a large number of men) is the standards women ask for seem to be more and more demanding, to the point only the best looking dudes seem to have access to romantic and sexual interaction. I am ask…
/r/AllPillDebate26/08/22 12:47 AM
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As most have already said, the issue is that this pickyness doesn't seem to be based on safety reasons, but on looks. There is nothing wrong with having certain standards in terms of looks; the problem (for a large number of men) is the standards women ask for seem to be more and more demanding, to the point only the best looking dudes seem to have access to romantic and sexual interactions.
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/22 05:22 PM
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I'm a man, so I'm playing devils advocate here, a woman who finds herself single and "old" is also humiliated I find this behavior of treating women in their thirties, or close to that age, like grannies very distasteful (the first post I wrote for this subreddit, a week ago, addresses the issue). I also find it quite annoying when obese or heavy women are referred to as "land whales." However, you have to admit that women of our times aren't very nice either when they talk about the physique of…
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/22 12:51 AM
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The book isn't the important part of the approach. You can imagine it's anything you find valuable... Anyway. As I said, there's no point in pursuing this any further. It's better to leave it here. Be well.
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/22 12:28 AM
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Except it's absolutely the same No, it's not the same thing. And it seems that we have reached a dead end in which we're both very convinced of our idea, so there is not much point in going on, although... By way of closing I would like to put a situation to you: A person has a book that you are very interested in reading. What would you do? -Borrow the book -Buy the book -Steal the book -Beat her/him up and take the book In all the options you get what you want, but are all the options exactly …
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/22 12:10 AM
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I understand your point (although I do believe many women in their 30's, and a few in their 40's, can still date); however, I don't see your statement working as a counter-argument to my statement. If a woman in her 18-30's (or any age) asks you for commitment, time, money and effort but has had (or would have) sex with another person(s), in matter of hours or minutes, without asking for anything else besides sex itself... It's quite hard not to feel humiliated in this situation, don't you think…
/r/AllPillDebate24/08/22 06:05 PM
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There is a big difference... From a purely pragmatic point of view having sex is having sex, no matter the means or the circumstances. The point is that our minds are not exclusively pragmatic. Having sex with someone on the seashore after you both vowed eternal love to each other. Having sex with someone you met at a party a few hours ago and whose name you can't remember. Having paid sex with someone in a hotel room. Having sex with someone you locked and tied up in a basement. In all of these…
/r/AllPillDebate24/08/22 05:44 PM
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What I want to say is that if you think that male workplace, combat and violent crime deaths are way too high you have it backwards, it's actually extremely, extremely low in comparison to the past. What you are saying is that if the number of sexless men continues to grow things will get very ugly? I've heard this several times; it doesn't seem impossible to me but I don't know if we're anywhere close to it either. It's a very obscure question, but what do you think will happen once the number …
/r/AllPillDebate21/08/22 05:06 PM
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As I said in another post in another sub... Having to be patient (for weeks, months or even years), invest money, time and make efforts just to hold someone's hand with the knowledge that this same person has had rough and uncompromising sex with another person(s) in matter of hours or even minutes, is humiliating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 04:57 PM
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Having to be patient (for weeks, months or even years), invest money, time and make efforts just to hold someone's hand with the knowledge that this same person has had (or would have) rough and uncompromising sex with another person(s) in matter of hours or even minutes, is humiliating. I find it hard to believe that many women can't reach this deduction.
/r/AllPillDebate21/08/22 04:37 PM
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historically only about 20% of men actually got to pass on their genes I've always had doubts about this... If so few men pass on their genes why do most of the men I know have children? That most men have children is a very recent thing?
/r/AllPillDebate21/08/22 04:00 PM
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I believe that the problem is not in a single factor. Our whole situation today, speaking of dating, relationships, love and sex, is quite complex and multifactorial. It's true that there are some women who don't care about the height of a potential boyfriend or husband, but they are a minority: most girls have as a fundamental requirement that the guy be at least a little taller than them; then, as I said, there are those who consider you a disposable midget if you don't reach 6'. Perhaps it's …
/r/AllPillDebate20/08/22 06:35 PM
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I think social skills can be worked on. I had very poor social skills all through my teens and for much of my 20's. I think I'm doing crearly better now. I'ts not the easiest thing to develop but not impossible either.
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/22 11:39 PM
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I agree. Good looks and good social skills will probably get you a good life. I don't think it's something of our time though: it's always been that way. I'm not saying that if you don't have impressive looks or great social skills you can't be happy, but you'll probably have more difficulties of all kinds.
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/22 08:50 PM
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I would never refer to an overweight woman as a "land whale." It seems very cruel to me, even if her condition is, primarily, caused by poor diet and lack of physical activity (don't forget that obesity can also be caused by factors beyond the individual's control). However, it must be recognized that many women these days are not very kind when describing a man's physical features either: midget, dwarf, manlet, dicklet... this last one I didn't know until now and who knows how many more I don't…
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/22 08:27 PM
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Yes, I also see it as a kind of "revenge" or something like that: "If they ask for more and more height, we will ask for more and more youth." If you realize both qualities are very difficult to obtain by means that are not natural: either you are tall or you aren't; either you are (or look) young or you aren't. It's also true that men seem to have a very varied taste when it comes to women: little princesses, tomboys, goths, fit girls, short girls, tall girls, skinny girls, thick girls, overwei…
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/22 06:19 PM
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Well, yes, some people gain quite a bit of weight over the years. It doesn't happen to everyone either.
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/22 12:40 AM
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It sounds quite average for me. Be well.
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/22 12:33 AM
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I hear you. My view is not as pessimistic as that of many black pills or incels, but it's not as optimistic as yours either, hehe. Anyway, if you tell me you're an average dude and you're getting those numbers, I guess the outlook isn't that bad in many cases.
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/22 12:20 AM
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So you accept that humanity, for the most part, is very shallow. But you have the faith to find love even if you have to participate in this whole game of status, money and physical traits to find it. Is that so?
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/22 09:02 PM
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I'm really curious about it so I'll ask: How can you be blue pill and black pill at the same time? Quite paradoxical. I'd like to hear your explanation and I'm not being sarcastic or cynical.
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/22 08:26 PM
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Yes, I have seen that they are starting to say that. Maybe I'm getting too speculative but at times it feels like a kind of revenge: "Women are getting more and more demanding about height? Well, we'll get more and more demanding about age."
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/22 08:23 PM
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Whose decision? Of those same men or of the women? Again, this a genuine question, it may sound cynical or challenging but I really don't mean it: For you almost any straight man could have a tinder account with many matches and a very active sex life with different women?
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/22 08:13 PM
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Haha, come on! You know well that not all men can simply move on to the next match...
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/22 07:15 PM
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Because it's somewhat humiliating to be the second table dish and have to work hard to receive something that other people got very easily some time ago? There's also the fact that nothing guarantees your partner will decide to continue having sex with those people while she is with you... Women are free to have no-strings-attached sex with whomever they want and then pursue a serious relationship with other kind of people. Men are free to think and feel whatever they want about this behavior an…
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/22 06:38 PM
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There are different artistic disciplines and each one can be related to all kind of ideas, preconceptions, prejudices and stereotypes. I hope you don't feel like I'm flirting with you, I'm not (and if anyone jokes about this, screw them), but a girl who is into visual arts catches my attention. On the other hand, an actress or a dancer would make me suspicious: maybe I'm totally wrong but I feel they might be more inclined to promiscuity, narcissism and other behaviors that I don't find quite ap…
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/22 03:21 AM
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Let's stop looking at it in terms of gender to make it easier to understand: Having to work hard for weeks, months or even years, spending money, time, energy and making sacrifices in order to receive sex and affection and knowing that another person (regardless of gender) can get in hours, or maybe in minutes, all that sex and affection with the same person you are interested in... It certainly is very humiliating, at least I find it very humiliating. This is what you mean, isn't it? I don't ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 08:49 PM
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This is an idea that has been rattling around in my head lately (I'm open to debate about it): In many contexts, society (women included) measure your value as a man based on your ability to attract and have sex with women. It's not the only reason but it is a major reason why men seem so motivated (also pressured and obsessed) to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 08:18 PM
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I do and have all that you mention (family ties, good friends, fun, a purpose...). However, not having sexual interaction and having my entire experience be summed up to a few kisses, as a 28 years old, is something that bothers and saddens me, some days a lot. I'm not telling you I'm miserable, I'm not, but the lack of sexual interaction is definitely a thorn in my side. I think some people are capable of good mental health without romance or sex, good for them. However, I think most of us requ…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 06:22 PM
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