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Many dudes stay connected to this community after divorce because it offers a more mature perspective on RP than the RP forum itself. Good luck, brother.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/17 12:40 AM
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The problem with NMMNG is that while it is a vital book to internalize in your RP journey, it is not a specifically Red Pill book. You need to read The Rational Male and Preventative Medicine by Rollo soon to combine the lessons. Do not give up sex, that is an extremely stupid idea.
/r/askMRP23/06/17 01:21 PM
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Ass play is now a staple Wait until she starts begging you for for it, you will do a double take the first time it happens. I asked the wife what she likes about it beyond the feeling and she told me giving herself over to me completely like that feels natural to her now. Gentlemen, that won't happen if you are a fat fuck without a plan and purpose guiding your daily life. Get rid of the junk food, lift, game your wife, and pour your focus into internalizing the RP.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/17 01:16 PM
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Why not STFU for a year? Keep your head down, lift, hit some fitness goals, and get through the sidebar? You got a lot of work to do and still have time to pay her attention?
/r/askMRP20/06/17 12:43 AM
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Dude...
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/17 07:20 PM
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Not protesting, just observing. Im neutral on what she does/say.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/17 07:12 PM
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Fair enough thanks for sharing your thoughts!
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/17 06:24 PM
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Like I said, it just led me to reflecting on the mutability of women in general. It's an incidental example for sure, but I am curious do you disagree with my other thoughts as well?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/17 04:40 PM
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Really good point! And it's true we all do it, it was just head spinning how fast she switched modes, and I wouldn't even consider my wife to be on the extreme end of the "fake" scale compared to other women ive known.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/17 03:53 PM
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I definitely love them for who they are. I hear you. All human beings can be fake, definitely not trying to make the argument that men are real and women aren't. In reality though, I have known men who are strong, emotionally stable, reliable, and have rarely if ever misled others. I cannot for the life of me think of a single female I have known that I can say the same thing about. Even the "honest" ones embellish and posture which is a watered down form of deception.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/17 03:38 PM
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I have seen some success for friends in the corporate world that have gotten in good with a quality recruiting agency. This is an especially good way to find a job if your skill level is high and you bring a certain expertise to a job. The agency put them in front of very motivated companies that needed to fill a high level position and did not have time to go hunting for someone to fill it.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/17 03:29 PM
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Ok.
/r/askTRP16/06/17 05:04 PM
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Her gynecologist can help her. This is not an uncommon problem, I think the famous sex researcher Kinsey had this same issue with his wife. If she refuses to address it then move on, dont Oneitis.
/r/askTRP16/06/17 04:18 PM
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Second question is what do you guys do for rest? I enjoy writing or calling my dad to chatter my ears off, got him back into lifting a couple months ago and its all he can talk about now.
/r/askMRP15/06/17 04:21 AM
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Fucking coward. Suicide is the easy way out. Step the fuck up and punch the world back in its dick. When you do die make it in a house you built on the bone of your enemies in your old age.
/r/askTRP11/06/17 09:37 PM
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My wife made out with him and banged Neil back in her 20's so I feel connected to them y'know, spiritually. (True Story)
/r/askMRP11/06/17 09:19 PM
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True, that was a good blog. I was referring to his Alpha moves book that gets recommended alot.
/r/askMRP11/06/17 09:09 PM
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A female will mate guard herself if she believes she belongs to you.
/r/askTRP11/06/17 05:49 PM
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No absolutely not a sex moratorium. A moratorium on getting butthurt when rejected, but not a moratorium on initiating if you feel like it, and certainly not a moratorium if she wants to fuck. Be a man and fuck that bitch! To unpack what I mean by Monk Mode, it is the practice of STFU while you consistently follow a Lifting and Nutrition plan in order to drop bodyfat and build lean muscle, Read through the sidebar materials, and rebuild your frame. Monk Mode means you don't talk about your feeli…
/r/askMRP11/06/17 04:09 PM
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Good post about letting go of the past. Hatred and anger is like drinking poison and expecting it to harm the other person. I am curious to hear your thoughts on "loving" women. I think many men, even after taking the Red Pill still love with reckless abandonment, especially in new relationships when New Relationship Energy is high and they ignore red flags and see only a special snowflake. I think the way a Red Pill man should love a woman is different. I could unpack that but it would be a big…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/17 04:05 PM
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It is an awesome thing when you can recognize the covert contracts in your life. We do this with everyone in our lives and it is a source for most of our anxiety. Good catch.
/r/askMRP11/06/17 03:40 PM
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I personally do not get the obsession with Athol Kay or Ian Ironwood. I read all their books and though there are some nuggets of useful information, I find them to be impractical. BluePillProfessor's Levels of Dread is far superior to anything those books have to say about fixing a dead bedroom, and neither of those two authors are specifically Redpill either. I think at the time this community was forming some structure those were the better books that were out. I support any plan that has the…
/r/askMRP11/06/17 03:34 PM
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Is cyber security your passion? What would you be doing if you could do anything?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/17 03:15 AM
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I highly recommend based on what you are telling me that you read When I Say No, I Feel Guilty, The Book of Pook (online and free), and The 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene. I also think to balance out TFA's blog you need to read the Black Dragon 2.0 blog to see the opposite end of the spectrum. Good stats on the fitness, get back to the 190 and 10% that is huge. Do you mind if I ask about your job and annual income ballpark?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/17 03:12 AM
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It's purple pill thinking. You have to move forward as if the whole damn thing is on your shoulders alone. You need to plan on a year minimum of devoting yourself to this process and to be honest it goes beyond that because you will find lifting, reading, and being an alpha man addicting. You will not go back if you devote yourself to it 100%. But the old you must die. He is weak and has brought nothing but pain to your life. Now is the time to be very selfish. It is only about you and your miss…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/17 03:02 AM
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No. You are completely missing the point of Monk Mode. You swallowed the Red Pill. The pain and struggle you feel is watching the illusion of male-female sexual dynamics melt away and seeing the reality for what it is. This requires a time of deep concentration, where you reconnect with your body (fitness/nutrition), your mind (Red Pill sidebar), and your mission (career/hobby of passion). It isn't "killing yourself being busy" it's devoting yourself to the proven process. So many men that come …
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/17 02:55 AM
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If you build a life where you are busy following a regimented fitness and nutrition plan, reading systematically through the sidebar, pushing yourself as hard as possible in your business/career, and giving yourself over to one hobby you love in your freetime, how the fuck do you have time to be sad over the missing comfort you still believe a woman can provide? Forget the fact that it's an illusion, how do you even have time?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/17 02:48 AM
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Takes a man to apologize. Much respect, brother.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/17 02:16 AM
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Kid, your skin is so fucking thin it is hilarious. Learn to take 10% of what you dish out for all of us, please. You yourself state in your post this whole matter is a conundrum. If you have internalized Iron Rule #7 there shouldn't be a fucking conundrum.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/17 03:35 PM
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I am a firm believer in the iron rule #7 of Tomassi that one never goes back through the trash And yet here you are...
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/17 02:30 PM
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Dude. Fuck it. I love wings and BJs too.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/17 05:25 AM
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Would a John Wayne or Don Draper put up with it? Hell no, they would tell her she can do it on her own time and if she blew their phone up they would next her. Why can't you do the same? Is she a special snowflake you can't bear to lose?
/r/askMRP28/05/17 09:27 PM
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Fear is insidious. It creeps in unbeknownst and masquerades as other things, other emotions, excuses…sound familiar? I just finished reading The 50th Law by Robert Greene and 50 Cent. I gleaned a lot from it and in some ways enjoyed it more than the 48 Laws of Power which is one of my favorite reads of all time. One of the major points they drive home in the book is that all fear at its core is the fear of death. Since we as a species developed language our brains are the only ones that have dev…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/17 01:54 PM
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Damn app put my reply to main post and not comment, but no I do have recourse and abundance. Year's living expenses on standby etc etc. I am just angry that the only response I can have without ceding frame is to STFU and withdraw some attention, that or the nuclear option which is the big joke about marriage for men anyways. The situation has blown over for now, I will let you boys know if anything happens from here.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/17 02:06 PM
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I mean what I said. Almost year's living expenses saved and apartment pre-selected. Lawyer on standby.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/17 08:37 PM
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Wife stayed out late with co-workers on a business trip didnt call me until the middle of the night. Giving her minimal contact until I get my anger under control and decide what to do. My anger comes from feeling an otherwise solid relationship may fail because I can never fully trust any woman (thank you cheating ex). I am also angry because I was unable to ngaf when it happened. I don't want to be a slave to my emotions. OP brings up a good point on how to turn anger into a valuable tool.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/17 08:09 PM
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Just wondering how much I am to blame for it all, but at the end of the day the bitch made her choice, and has to live with it. If it's downhill from here, it's on her. If you blame yourself for her behavior it is because of your ego. She is responsible for her own choices. Next that bitch and move on, brother.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 06:08 AM
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Why didn't you take your dog with you? If you had, it would be alive right now. Don't put it on your BPD ex, if you considered it your dog you would have protected it. I suspect you're playing up the importance of the dog to get sympathy for being cheated on. Maybe I am wrong, but it doesn't add up.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 06:01 AM
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Slow down. Listen. She is telling you that you are coming on too needy and how could she not interpret your actions that way? Work on being quiet, smile, be polite, but be reading, be lifting, grow as a man and soon the Outcome Independence will be there. You won't even be able to pinpoint the moment it happened, you will be faking it one moment when suddenly it is there for real. This won't happen if you are going Rambo. Do not jerk off next to her anymore and do not tell her you are going to t…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/17 05:38 AM
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Amazing how simple but powerful it is.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/17 04:35 AM
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I find being well read across multiple disciplines is helpful. I also ask questions to people I meet that demonstrate an interest in their opinions without judging them if I disagree. I am not always genuinely interested in their answers to these questions, I am more or less investigating their personality and way of thinking, a practice that is entertaining to me. This has led to many strangers warming up to me quickly since it releases dopamine to talk about yourself. They associate talking wi…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/17 02:51 PM
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You aren't even close. STFU for 9 months (9 year relationship correct?) read everything on the sidebar and follow a lifting program with appropriate nutrition. After 9 months come back with a field report. Keep your god damn vagina mouth closed in the meantime.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/17 02:48 PM
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Good FR. What's the next step?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/17 03:10 PM
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I agree that arguing with the unplugged is a waste of time. The key to spreading a pro-masculine message is to follow the same playbook feminist did and talk about the social injustices it creates. Books like "Men on Strike" are helpful in that regard, I will recommend a feminist to read that book then tell me there isn't a problem for men in the West afterwards. It's written by a former feminist and really bullet points out how the feminine imperative has screwed men across the board. Not neces…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/17 02:20 PM
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Is that your experience? Unless they are hideous it is usually a boost in testosterone, confidence, and increased Outcome Independence to just be wanted by more than one female in a short span of time. Just reminds you that there are plenty of girls that want to have sex with you and your special snowflake isn't that special.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/17 03:57 PM
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Fuck three girls while you are seperated then come back and tell us how much you still need your special snowflake.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/17 06:23 AM
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Next her? Ive been the BF in that scenario multiple times, what did you expect her to do? You understand Hypergamy right? Be real bro, where's the insecurity coming from? Your woman was more interested in an Alpha, it's her nature. You're telling me if the guy was your bro and his lady was Mila Kunis telling stories about her life in movies you wouldn't be hooked on every word she said and imagining fucking her sexy brains out? Get over it. It's human nature. Is the real issue that you saw human…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/17 06:20 AM
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Mantras are powerful. I use them all the time in business or to pump a crowd I am speaking to up. You are right they are simple and thus the more academically inclined will shit on them, but how else do you distill multiple principles and mindsets into a quick and easily digestible message? LIFT means improve your life, be consistent, have a plan, do not make excuses, own your shit, believe in the men that have walked this path before you, don't lose hope, become the best version of yourself you…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/17 01:48 PM
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I feel like we really connected. Watch out, that's how Oneitis starts.
/r/askTRP14/05/17 05:16 PM
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Look. I would get why you're keeping it if driving it every day is your reminder to stay humble and focused, but keeping it to punish your wife is pathetic and a sign your dick size is below average. Why do you have a need to prove anything to a woman? Are you not a man? Men don't need to prove anything, they let their actions and character speak for themselves. This car thing has evolved into something else. Your shitty immature attitude towards your wife has turned what could have been a noble…
/r/askMRP14/05/17 03:10 PM
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You have no frame. You have no leverage. You have no plan. You fucked up and cucked yourself. It's 100% your fault and the odds of you fixing it are 0%. Call a spade a spade. Wish her well with her new lover and go bang three 18-21 year olds in the next three months. Try not to Oneitis one of them. Field Report after.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/17 02:37 PM
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Please respond this I want to know too.
/r/askTRP12/05/17 04:50 AM
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As others have said you are fine. It is never wise to shit where you eat but many of us have done it. Don't feel guilty, just let it go, be friendly to her and be nonchalant. You cannot control if she tells others so do not stress about it. Odds are she wont tell anyone because of Anti-Slut Defense. Since it was a one night stand, I can tell you though if it was more of a passionate romantic feelz kind of connection she will likely tell a girlfriend or two at the company.
/r/askTRP12/05/17 04:50 AM
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Women draw us in to their dramatic emotional level then beat us with experience. You don't need MRP to tell you what a faggot you were, you already know. Stop getting a hard on because you expressed your anger. Anger is your fucking enemy if it makes you REACT instead of ACT.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/17 09:45 PM
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Combination of powerful factors here everyone should take note on. OP does not fake his DNGAF mindset in order to punish his wife, he truly DNGAF. OI goes hand in hand with this. He initiates and is prepared for the rejection but does not stop gaming his wife in the aftermath. This sends the message to her that she cannot punish or control him through denying him sex. Her emotions also do not sway him from his MAP. Good FR, sir, keep up the good fight.
/r/askMRP09/05/17 11:19 PM
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That other girl is so different than your wife in every way, and it will be totally better with her! Bro they are all the same, if the one you have is well behaved then keep it at the homestead, it's less drama in your life. Wish you had said your OI (Outcome Independence) came from your internalizing the required reading. I don't trust OI that comes from Oneitis.
/r/askMRP05/05/17 02:59 PM
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No. Sometimes when you fuck them good it ruins them for a couple days. Good job. I had a plate once who could physically not have sex with me more than once every three or four days because of the multiple squirting orgasms she had, she would complain about feeling sore and exhausted like she had just ran a marathon with no water to drink.
/r/askMRP04/05/17 12:05 AM
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So you changed your behavior dramatically and now her hamster is in overdrive? Shocker huh? Look, your actions instill dread in her. That is why we ask you to do them. Dread makes a woman pay attention to you and think about how secure the relationship is. Since commitment is the currency men bring to a relationship and sex is the currency women bring, her feeling like you are withdrawing commitment in a very subtle manner will ideally result in her subtly increasing sexual interactions in the r…
/r/askMRP29/04/17 02:05 PM
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There's a mix of good and bad in this. Your response to the waiter was good but your frame was weak, though considering I would want to slap the waiter in his bitch mouth, giving him a little bit of his own medicine back was probably a good alternative. As to the DEERing with the wife and the subsequent hour long argument. Just STFU and AM when she gets upset over stuff. Do not try to use logic to win, cause you won't. The hot makeup sex came because women need a little drama occasionally to get…
/r/askMRP29/04/17 01:53 PM
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Not invalidating OP's point because it is solid, but what if it didn't matter? What if the point of taking the Red Pill is you become self-actualized and do not need your woman to be on board with your changes because if she isn't it truly is her loss. Why do we keep looking at our wife's behavior as the barometer of our success? If you stop going to the gym because your pink hole partner tells you she wants you to stay her chubby wubby teddy bear than you have no balls. You lift because it tran…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/17 10:52 PM
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Fair enough, brother. Maintain your Outcome Independence and full speed ahead, but my advice in the future is if you plate on the side don't be sloppy and get caught and don't unburden yourself for the sake of feeling better. No reason to hurt the wife with it unless you're trying to operate at Dread Level 10+.
/r/askMRP28/04/17 05:57 PM
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Fair enough, I read while I was putting on a shirt and tie and must have glossed over it too much. But I am curious, on some level did you want to unburden yourself of the guilt?
/r/askMRP28/04/17 05:38 PM
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So your wife sees a text and just flat out asks immediately "Did she blow you?" I smell a smelly smell or there's a lot more to the story than what you provided us to go on.
/r/askMRP28/04/17 05:10 PM
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I think your frame is weak. You confessed to her because you want her to know. You want her to see you as a stud. That's not inherently bad but own it. You have not been with enough women and therefore your logical and instinctual parts of your brain are at odds. On the one hand you are evolved to fuck many women to spread your dna across the gene pool as much as possible, on the other hand you married your first (I did the same thing my first time) and it puts her pussy on a pedestal. You were …
/r/askMRP28/04/17 03:26 PM
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It's the shock of the change. I have experienced the same thing at different times.
/r/askTRP21/04/17 02:39 PM
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I listened to the whole unabridged. I think the 10 hour version will give you the same impact. The extra reflections on the law do not add much to it in my opinion.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/17 03:39 AM
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Can't do it huh? That means she is in control and it's no wonder your relationship sucks.
/r/askTRP19/04/17 07:56 PM
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Just from your uncertainty alone I would tell you back out of this. Your frame has to be rock fucking solid to make this go down without any blowback. You think managing one bitch is hard? Managing two of them and maneuvering them into bed together with no emotional issues after is a fucking herculean task. From personal experience I can tell you it is possible, but not easy at all.
/r/askMRP17/04/17 10:36 PM
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FFM Threesomes or nothing. If you do this alone she will use it as an excuse to fuck another guy. My wife likes girls but gets off more on watching me fuck them and make them cum and recounting it later when its just the two of us, totally gets us off. Female cuckoldry is a real fetish but I still think its a terrible idea to tell her about your sexual escapades if they happen separate from her. That is hamster steroids right there.
/r/askMRP17/04/17 10:34 PM
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lift heavy as if your cock depended on it Truth.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/17 03:30 PM
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Buddy it sounds like you got Oneitis bad. She isn't a special angel. Just move on. Fuck three girls and see how you "feel" after.
/r/askMRP10/04/17 04:08 PM
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Yes absolutely. You should talk to a doctor about your knee and what you can do for lower body exercises, but your knee will not prohibit you from doing upper body horizontal work: Bench Press, Inverted Row, Bench Curl. Those three movements alone and their variations will build your chest, shoulders, arms, and back. Even if your knee prevents you from min/maxxing your training through full body barbell workouts with squats and deadlifts in the mix, you can still make major improvements to your …
/r/askMRP10/04/17 03:58 PM
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Force yourself to confront your anger as your issue not hers. Why are you angry, really? Because she said no to having sex with you or because you want to have sex and you have led your marriage to this sexless place? The anger you feel is really anger at yourself and your pathetic leadership. Fix yourself first. You say you are overweight. Get in shape, stop eating garbage. You say you are not lifting consistently. Stop being a pussy, lift minimum three times a week no matter what. Where are yo…
/r/askMRP10/04/17 03:29 PM
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Bro, you are the man, just when I was losing hope that RP was nothing but 20 year olds these days. Thanks for sharing.
/r/askTRP09/04/17 01:50 PM
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This is a powerful reminder we all need, thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/17 06:48 PM
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You are a fucking trainwreck but you want to bitch about your wife...real alpha of you.
/r/askMRP04/04/17 12:54 AM
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Upvote this fella.
/r/askMRP01/04/17 02:07 AM
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Good point, I wonder how many marriages could have been saved had the husband just been more patient with the process. You see it all of the time in AskMRP, "I have been reading MRP for 3 months and she isn't following, what am I doing wrong?" I tell guys 1 month for every year of the relationship minimum to turn things around.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/17 03:17 PM
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Don't overthink it, just be happy and confident in your MAP. STFU 99% of the time on shit tests until you've read through all sidebar material and are fit as fuck. During sex, tell her what to do and spank her. Make her say dirty things like "I am your little slut" and so forth. This is a great entryway into sexual dominance without going full BDSM.
/r/askMRP27/03/17 03:05 PM
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As soon as the video recording started I would consider the marriage over. Good on you OP for cutting this cancerous BP bitch out of your life. Now do not fuck anyone until the divorce is over and you are 100% in the clear. Keep your lawyer in the loop about everything and do whatever the hell she tells you to do even if you don't want to. Don't worry about the kids, they will be fine in the long run so long as you consistently love them and make them feel important to you.
/r/askMRP27/03/17 03:02 PM
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I think it muddies the waters to bring religion into the RP conversation. RP is founded on an understanding of evolutionary sexual strategy (read "The Red Queen") and the subsequent psychological and sociological implications of that evolution. The "self-improvement" component of RP is ancillary to this foundational truth: that at its core RP is about sexual strategy. Now with that said, I get downvoted into oblivion whenever I try to remind people of this, but that's okay I don't care because i…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/17 02:56 PM
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And LIFT!!!!
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/17 02:54 PM
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I do not want to hear it. You clearly are not on a serious lifting program but you want to criticize her for not looking her best? Why don't you lead the way like a real man? Also, you focus way to much on her getting into exercise. Nutrition is 80% of our body composition and you don't talk about it at all here. Obviously it is not on point. Lead the way. I assume you aren't reading either.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/17 07:58 PM
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Text "Ok" to her then ten seconds later text "My other friend cancelled on going out, want to come snuggle again?" She will blow your shit up lol
/r/askTRP17/03/17 02:42 PM
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Yes I've read it and it's a much more thorough treatment of the subject.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/17 01:46 AM
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Well a boy can dream...
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/17 09:34 PM
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Good on you for actually reading the material. It is almost comical how many men here have been "reading" the sidebar material forever and yet don't seem to understand some of the basic concepts. I have read it all, some books multiple times, and branched out into more advanced titles as the years have gone on. These books have made me a better husband, boss, lover, and man. I also have much less stress in my life now that I have internalized the truth about the reality we live in. NMMNG was a p…
/r/askMRP10/03/17 03:11 PM
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I am not going to comment on what you should or should not do, other responses here are doing that already. I am only going to predict what you are going to do. You are 100% going to go fuck this dirty slut and there is a high chance the following results will come from it: It will become an ongoing thing increasing the chance you get caught and then divorce raped. You will develop feelz for her after she plays with your poor old neglected weiner and will leave your wife (great job Captain). She…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/17 03:06 PM
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You have Oneitis for this girl and it's a bad deal for her. You need to read The Unchained Man by Caleb Jones and learn how to evolve one of your plates into an OLTR or a relationship where the two of you bring in unicorns to fuck together. It is the only way to scratch the itch of needing new pussy while at the same time enhancing your LTR's sexual relationship. You are not designed to be this girl's partner and you know it. It doesn't matter that she makes your life better, you are doing her n…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/17 03:24 PM
3

Great insight. This is a core concept men should embrace. It is our self-doubt and fear that fucks our SMV more than anything.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/17 03:03 PM
20

LIFT. Seriously. Here is where most guys fuck up in this situation. You should be lifting like crazy, keeping your SMV as high as possible, and make sure she comes home to a fucking spotless house every day. Here is the key to that: ACT LIKE IT WAS NO FUCKING BIG DEAL EITHER. Finally, keep your bitching down to a minimum. Every time you talk about how stressed you are with your school work you lose attraction. In other words, be the Alpha. Acta non Verba. Never act overly appreciative for her br…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/17 03:30 AM
1

Ahahaha the troll is strong with this one...
/r/askMRP09/03/17 02:27 AM
3

You're delusional. You're not an 8 if you're 5'7 and 130 lbs unless you're ripped like Bruce Lee. You sound like a sad little butt hurt man that cheats on his wife to have validation that you are a real man. By the way, no judgement for the cheating on an ethical level, but you're wasting everyone's time by posting here. You are not interested in being a true alpha male, you are a little sex starved beta that wants to sprinkle a little alpha on your life and call it Red Pill. Leave your wife, it…
/r/askMRP09/03/17 02:09 AM
9

Sorry about the loss of your friend. The reason an alpha can get taken apart like that is simple. Women will entrap an Alpha then systematically convert him into a beta. This is inline with their evolutionary sexual strategy. They need an Alpha for impregnation and a beta for childcare/financial support. Once they have a child with a man it is natural for them to want children with other men (read The Red Queen for far more detail) in order to diversify their offspring's genetics. They do all of…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 03:50 PM
9

I don't disagree with you in principle, but if you let another man slap your girl's ass with no repercussions then you need to break up with her because your SMV in her eyes is going to plummet and she will be banging Chad even faster.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/17 06:16 PM
22

I know of a girl right now that is fucking her boyfriend's lawyer while he is getting sent to jail for manslaughter. He is a piece of shit so who cares, but she immediately starts fucking his lawyer and some other dudes in town while still talking marriage with the thug.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/17 06:14 PM
3

I think you nailed it. There is a fine line between mate guarding and handling disrespect. Unfortunately, the vast majority of guys can't tell the difference.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/17 06:13 PM
2

I think it's interesting how your own mind can be the enemy of development. I have never skipped a single leg day in two years, but EVERY DAMN MORNING it is leg day my brain spews logical reasons I should skip, postpone, or half-ass it. It almost always works until I realize my brain is using logic to de-rail me from my goals since the metabolic stress I am placing on my body is being perceived as an injury/attack. Consistency and discipline are superior to motivation in every way. You simply wi…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/17 06:06 PM
3

Fucking bluepilled manginas It is getting to where you cannot post anything on RP anymore without having the conversation de-railed by a bunch of sensitive girly-men.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 03:55 PM
1

Who the fuck cares? Do you have Oneitis? Move on to another slut...
/r/askTRP28/02/17 11:07 PM
2

People get different things from sex. Sounds like you are getting a little high from the power it gave you but I detect a sense of detachment that you are either subtly bragging about or issuing a cry for help about. Odds are you are way to fucking in your own head in general. Do you lift, read, and socialize with men?
/r/askTRP28/02/17 11:04 PM
1

Lift. Not as a hobby but as a normal part of your life. A fundamental part of your life. You do it whether you feel like it or not. As far as hobbies, I think making your own beard oil can be a fun little diversion. I am also a cigar smoker and love participating in that community.
/r/askTRP28/02/17 11:01 PM
3

15k. That's chump change. Consider yourself lucky, you got out more cheaply than most guys here do. I don't care what she says when she comes back from this little trip. She was getting jackhammered by Chad Thundercock the whole time and you know it.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/17 03:12 PM
2

Thank God. A FR where the man doesn't bitch about his wife. Way to own it, brother.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/17 04:16 PM
1

Dear god, brother, thank you for posting this.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 06:39 AM
1

You cant be fucking serious? Whose morality do you want to impose?
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 06:30 AM
0

Because you disagree that what I am talking about is happening?
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 03:40 AM
-2

I would love to see my brand of "bitterness" spread to every red pill man so we can keep this forum from becoming a fucking self-improvement circle jerk.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 03:36 AM
1

Nothing in particular, see it more in comment responses than posts.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 03:21 AM
1

Not sure what you mean or why me asking people not to impose their morals on others here as we discuss the core principles of RP praxeaology elicits such a vitriolic response on your part. I do care as I am the mentor to several men in my life and see the devestating effects of Bluepill poison on their lives and their families. Too many men are coming to this forum and "sprinkling a little alpha" on their lives and thinking they have internalized red pill, yet most of these boys arent consistent…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 03:18 AM
0

Didn't mean to hurt your feelings.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 03:11 AM
0

I agree. Self examination of your own feelings is one thing, imposing moral judgements on RP issues is where I have a beef. For example, post that your married and have plates (I don't) and it is not an uncommon phenomenon to see several posts calling the married guy out for "cheating" since that's not something a real man would do. That's the line that gets crossed and it hurts the conversation. Being red pill will make you a self-actualized man, which means different things to different men. S…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 03:02 AM
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Thanks for reading my contributions.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 02:25 AM
1

I am absolutely-fucking-killing it. No joke.
/r/askTRP22/02/17 11:42 PM
0

My first marriage was like that. She was a good girl and we were both virgins when we got married. Ended up in the same place as you when I was about 28. Ended up cheating on her with a bipolar cockgobbler that I developed oneitis for due in no small part to my "pussy curiosity". Let me reiterate what all of these guys are saying by stating it a different way. If you go fuck 20 girls in the next year you will realize that vagina is vagina and none of it is worth having ANY drama attached to it. …
/r/askMRP22/02/17 11:40 PM
1

I fucked my wife while she was on the phone with her grandma the other day, something she never would have let me do if I was anything less than aggressive. She ended the call very quickly which was funny as hell, then immediately came while I had her bent over the counter. All I got after was a slap on the shoulder and a "That was naughty!" Haha, I like the alpha little boy analogy, very fucking true. You ain't spooning that dick in like a Trojan Horse in the middle of the night. You want her b…
/r/askMRP18/02/17 06:06 PM
3

We have found ours on Tinder. Profile doesnt have our faces just a sexy pic of the wife from neck down and a stock photo of three sets of feet under some sheets. Hit it off after a few IMs then exchange text numbers so they can "see our faces". I would say it's about a 2% success rate from beginning to end if you really want to work at it. We have had four hookups in the past year and we barely mess with it anymore now that we've found a couple regular girls we get along with no drama or expecta…
/r/askMRP18/02/17 05:58 PM
5

Influence by Robert Cialdini helped me when I started my career almost 20 years ago. As someone who has coached hundreds of salespeople over the years I can tell you the biggest secret in my opinion is confidence and passion for your product. Customers feed off that energy, they rarely remember what you said during the sale, they always remember how you made them feel.
/r/askTRP16/02/17 03:58 PM
2

Nothing wrong with using ED medicine to break through the psychological hump. The nice thing about ED medicine is you will fuck like an 18 year old porn star while on it, you may want to keep taking it even after you don't need it, at least for new partners or nights you want to fuck all night long. Unfortunately just because your issue is psychological not physical does not make it any easier to overcome. Your fear of losing your erection will actually make you lose it more often and it will be…
/r/askTRP16/02/17 03:55 PM
1

Be a man. Where are you in your lifting? How much of the sidebar material have you read? All I see is a post about how wronged you feel by your wife, who sounds like her only crime was following her biological programming. Drunk captain runs the ship onto the rocks and yells at the co-captain...
/r/askMRP16/02/17 03:52 PM
5

Don't forget that once you get to a certain level of fit, body dysmorphia sets in and you will always be really bothered by those hold out spots on your body that aren't perfect. Always look at your before and after pics for a better reminder of how far you've come.
/r/askMRP16/02/17 03:44 PM
1

Jerking off hurts your precious little snowflake? So??? Jesus go somewhere else...
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/17 05:12 PM
3

Because it was entertaining and I was curious. The thong pics gave me nice memories as well, she had a waist that you could wrap your hands around and your fingertips would touch but a big ol booty for such a small body.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 06:10 PM
1

Maybe take all this energy you are expending focusing on her and playing out cuckold fantasies in your head, you can instead put all that energy into lifting and reading more than 2 books from the sidebar. Spend six months to a year focused on your self-development first, without sharing it with her at any point, just do you, and at the end you will be so outcome independent it won't matter. If she cheats you will next her, or you will find a hot 18-year old that thinks you are the best thing si…
/r/askMRP07/02/17 03:26 PM
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Oh you're that kid posting that dad bod is okay on MRP lol keep em coming bud.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 03:06 AM
7

You know red pill is AMORAL right? Or are you trolling?
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 03:02 AM
1

Yeah faggot, I tell her all about it.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 02:49 AM
5

I've got a bro that does 100 situps and pushups every night. Cannot get this guy to pick up a piece of iron to save his life. Skinny as a rail too...
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 12:00 AM
7

SOME women can overcome SOME of their hypergamic impulses SOME of the time. These women are the closest you will come to a unicorn and you still must remain ever vigilant that they will allow their solipsistic nature to take the steering wheel at any given moment with little to no warning.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 11:56 PM
2

You are talking out of both sides of your mouth here. I suspect you personally do not lift and this is some weird post to justify it?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/17 02:44 PM
4

Or be smart and get a vasectomy. A lot of you guys know you will never want kids anyway so why the fuck are you waiting? I had mine in my mid 20's, now I am in my mid 30's. Never look back. If you want to have kids later why not adopt?
/r/TheRedPill28/01/17 03:27 PM
1

Your father in law sounds like a great man, can you get him to sign up on Reddit and start posting on MRP? Sounds like he might have some great advice on how to be an Alpha. You on the other hand should stay in AskMRP for a long long time...You mention you are lifting 3 times a week for 3 months. How far into the sidebar are you?
/r/askMRP28/01/17 03:18 PM
4

I don't know you well bro, but posting a selfie from first class makes you seem like a fag to me. Some dudes I respect seem to respect you though, so cheers I guess.
/r/askMRP27/01/17 11:48 PM
2

So basically you are sexually assaulting your wife and you DNGAF? Bro, you are coming across really desperate, no wonder her vagina is like the Sahara. Her hamster is obviously feeding on this "he is forcing himself on me" fantasy. Why the fuck continue to feed it? Don't initiate for a month and go out with your buddies and stay out late. Let some dread pull her back into your frame, stop trying so hard.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/17 11:41 PM
1

Crossfit? Crossfit??? Really bro...can we start there?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/01/17 03:29 PM
3

Try out adventures with her first. It is what my wife and I do and it is pretty great. I feel there may be some element of comfort/shit testing going on here if you take her up on it. It may also be the excuse her hamster is looking for to fuck Chad Thundercock at her office.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/01/17 04:18 AM
3

You want a red pill answer? Try this one: you're a fag. She is just a woman, if you don't like her behavior ghost the bitch for a week and see if the dread changes her tune. Don't talk about the ghosting just say you were busy. The fact that you are so upset is proof you are still under the control of her magical snowflake vagina. Do you want her to love you like mommy? C'mon man you know better...
/r/askTRP24/01/17 04:47 PM
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I dont have experience with big vaginas. All of my LTRs have had tight little pussies so yay for me. Reading it from a third person perspective I think you handled it great because you offered the specific solution in the conversation. I would suspect, however, that you just condemned yourself to comfort tests for weeks/months to come. Your initiation success ratio will likely suffer as well now that youve given her hamster something to chew on. Not saying I disagree, just pointing out some of t…
/r/askMRP23/01/17 05:58 AM
2

Bro I got a good happy laugh out of this. When I first got into RP this was a great exercise to use to build confidence. Good on ya. Now go lift some weights.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/17 10:12 PM
1

Omg /Nyqui-Junkie you are a HUGE faggot. Red Pill and MRP are AMORAL. We are not here to judge his morality, go fuck yourself you sanctimonious prick. Some dudes on here are completely monogamous, some dudes cheat, and some dudes (myself included) fuck girls with their wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/17 09:15 PM
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The key conclusion here that others should pick up on is Outcome Independence. The ironic thing about curing a dead bedroom is that it can only happen in the context of being able to repeatedly initiate with her response meaning nothing to you emotionally. So long as getting shut down hurts you, then she can sense your desperation and it is a big turn off. Your response also denotes Amused Mastery, which I think too many men use in the context of being an asshole. An amused master can play, caus…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/17 08:35 PM
3

Dude. You are still a fucking kid. Take all the fucking pressure off yourself. Don't do Adderall anymore because you are addicted to it now, pass college so you don't waste your money (though I think college itself is a waste of money personally, my Master's degree does shit for me), and take pussy as it comes. You have self-diagnosed all of your issues very well, but there's this undercurrent of pressure you are putting on yourself that is going to put you in an early grave. Fucking relax.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/17 05:38 PM
2

I found this post helpful personally. Thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/17 05:31 PM
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Listen to me very fucking carefully. Do not play with couples unless you are comfortable watching another dude plow your wife. My wife and I have threesomes but I have never allowed another man in the mix. In the moment, a hard no to another dude can end up with social pressure from the group to let it go down. Some RP dudes might be okay with that, I am not. I don't even allow for the possibility to occur. I have had some swinger couples tell me I am not being fair. My response is I am not conc…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/17 12:00 AM
1

I get what you are saying. Have her slap you on the face during sex, tell her never more than once when she does. Channel that instant anger response into a spanking. You can also punish her for wanting to be punished. What a slut.
/r/askMRP10/01/17 10:15 PM
1

It's like getting likes on a social media photo. Lol, thank you for the smile, ma'am.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/17 04:21 PM
2

I would counter that TRP is the truth about male and female sexual dynamics that in turn can logically prompt a shift in sexual strategy for those men that seek to maximize their sexual endeavors. TRP itself can actually lead some men to MGTOW and therefore in and of itself is not a sexual strategy, per se.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/17 06:10 AM
2

I wasnt expecting an experienced swinger to fuck her brains out for an hour while she tells him "TAKE THAT PUSSY!" AHAHAHAHA bro you are killing me with this troll post.
/r/askMRP06/01/17 01:31 AM
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The amount of men that view the levels of dread as a covert contract to get more sex from their woman is staggering. By the time you are having to go through dread to get your woman to fuck you again, you are more than likely fighting an uphill battle on a hill made of mud. Once a woman has lost attraction for a man, the only CHANCE he has to re-establish attraction is to own his shit and become the highest SMV version of himself that he can become in order to establish himself as a NEW man in h…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/17 04:52 PM
1

If it sounds stupid but works is it still stupid? I doubt this will keep working but update us in a month.
/r/askMRP04/01/17 02:42 PM
-4

My Wife also "controls" finances. Wow, kid. You're a fag.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/17 02:40 PM
7

The Red Pill is not a "remedy" for anything. The RP is just the truth. Nothing more, nothing less. There are some shitty aspects of the truth (female solipsism, hypergamy, beta bux alpha fux, etc.). The reason RP becomes a "remedy" is because it helps you realize the truth that at the end of the day you can only be responsible for yourself. It takes a true man to embrace that reality as most of us, even after becoming "unplugged" still covert contract the hell out of our marriages, even using RP…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/17 04:24 PM
5

So now your relationship is perfect and you will marry your snowflake...bet you haven't seen the last of a deadbedroom, it's like a hydra, you've cut its head off for now but it will come roaring back once comfort has been re-established. I will tell you the same thing I would tell my past self if possible. Marriage is a raw deal for men, period. I love my wife and have an amazing marriage by all definitions, but you know what would be even better: not being married and being able to date multip…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/16 06:46 PM
1

Other guys are giving you good advice on form and how to avoid future injury. I was where you were a few months ago due to the Leg Press machine at the gym. I had a complete flashback when you describe having to roll in pain like a turtle on his back. The good news is, after a few days of muscle relaxers and pain killers you will be fine. In about 2-4 weeks you can try deads again. DELOAD.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/16 03:20 PM
3

Thanks for the reminder, just ordered it.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/16 03:46 PM
8

Read more carefully. I was using it as an analogy for a man trying to seduce females far outside of his SMV range.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/16 07:10 PM
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I don't know, man. This post makes some decent points but it presents some things as fact that I don't think hold up in reality. The difference between dealing with a HB10 and HB4 usually comes from the discrepancy between their self perceived SMV and how they perceive your (the guy) SMV. It's not that a HB9 is walking around with a completely different psychology than a HB4 (AWALT). If our brother wants to bang HB4's because they are easier and it's good practice for him in the bedroom and a co…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/16 03:32 PM
1

I didn't look at the rest, are they good?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/16 03:46 AM
3

Spot on. Went from an air mattress in a 700 sq ft apt to California King in a 2700 sq ft house. I was equally content in both. If I lost my marriage or my job. I would be sad for a day, then get back to Lifting, Reading, and being at peace with myself.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/16 05:14 PM
2

I love public speaking and teaching/training. Nothing makes you feel more like a boss then developing others.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/16 03:35 PM
2

Your best move is to text her something like, "That's cool, I have something going with another girl. But if you play your cards right I may let you be my friend with benefits some day."
/r/askTRP08/12/16 02:01 AM
12

Feel feel feel...are you a man? What do you KNOW? You evolved from fucking warriors, your instincts have already told you what needs to happen: go to a lawyer and prepare to end this in the best way possible. After the divorce is SETTLED bang the shit out of 3 girls in a month, I promise you will FEEL so much better.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/16 09:51 PM
7

Here is the scary thing. I have known some dudes from dead bedroom relationships and they would actually identify with this guy at least academically. This kind of reaction is a combination of his ignorance (he is a third world citizen) and YEARS of female psychic warfare. Some dudes will read this post and laugh, but I hope they don't miss the bigger point BluepillProfessor is making. This is the extreme expression of what blue pill conditioning can do to men. And it's fucking horrific.
/r/askMRP07/12/16 02:50 AM
6

Thanks for sharing this. Her account of things is riddled with Red Pill truths. If she had not been able to keep the house and living expenses I wonder if she wouldn't have continued to play ball. I love the fact that at their wedding, Elon told her, "I am the Alpha." lol holy shit this guy just shot up even more in my estimation.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/16 03:16 PM
1

Wage slave? Owning your own business is slavery of the highest order. I make more than the vast majority of business owners, but if you want to live and breathe your work 24/7, go open your own business. I work 50 hours a week and actually have a semblance of a life outside of work to. To answer your question, I think what you want to do is very difficult. If you are committed to growing within an organization that takes a great deal of energy and focus, doing so while setting out to start and r…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/16 03:13 PM
1

Lot's of ways to do it. I would recommend finding a company that is well established and working your way up the ladder. Continually focus on getting promoted to the next position while building relationships at each level. I am upper management now but I am known in my organization across all levels. Just like working out, you can't go from obese to ripped in one month, you have to incrementally grow your career with the same focus and patience.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/16 02:55 PM
2

Sorry to hurt your feelings, princess. TRP is a lot more sensitive than MRP and that's saying something.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/16 02:52 PM
3

As a successful businessman that makes a shit ton more money than most of you wannabes, I can confirm almost everything GayLubeOil is saying. It's always easier when women are not involved in the decision making. I will give them this, in certain roles women can be work horses, but ultimately their lack of confidence and need to prove themselves worthy in a man's world lead them to ostracize and polarize others on the team. Solipsism is not good for business, where the most successful businessma…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/16 11:39 PM
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You cannot be physically dominant until she views you as dominant overall. If you try this shit too soon without having her operating in your strong masculine frame, this will cause a lot of fucking problems. This can also be a covert contract too, if I dominate her she will cum like a gypsy, but there are some women that have no desire to fuck like this and if you are married to one this too can cause issues. With that said, I've always loved fucking girls that respond to this type of sex, my w…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/16 10:56 PM
1

Thanks for sharing. As someone who has no children and no desire to have them, I respect those that embrace that destiny and give the task the full commitment it deserves. I know I would be an amazing father and would love my children with the passion of a thousand suns. The thing is, that scares the shit out of me. I am content with my choice to be responsible for myself primarily and my very demanding career. With that said, I think we are all trying to get different things out of these brief …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/16 08:59 PM
13

Congrats. Now get your ass over to /MRP and share this shit there too. Be prepared though, we may still call you a fag, but we do it out of love.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/16 03:31 PM
1

You're being a baby bitch, but I suspect you know that on some level.
/r/askMRP04/12/16 09:22 PM
2

Awww poor baby. Fag.
/r/askMRP04/12/16 09:18 PM
13

Lifting is not just for increasing SMV. Lifting teaches men self-control, discipline, mind-body connection, a time for meditation, a clear way to challenge one's self to improve (progressive overload and tracking progress), better health, improved energy...the list goes on and on. I do not know anything that can compete with lifting to produce these same goals. To answer your question, there are numerous things you can do in the gym with weights that do not necessarily put you at high risk for i…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/16 08:45 PM
1

Glad to see i'm not alone in scratching my head at that post.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/16 02:08 AM
6

Lol the blue pillers are hitting me with their downvote hammers again oh nooooooooo
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/16 05:12 AM
-2

You are weak. Go lift iron.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/16 02:09 AM
9

Women have a natural caregiving inclination built into their psychology. The challenge is that a woman who knows she has enough SMV to attract a better provider, or a woman who wants to give squirting orgasms to a Chad, will not be able to continue an LTR with a man she is having to care for. Older couples don't have to deal with this as much because the woman has given up on her own SMV (thus becoming a non-sexual being) and no longer has a desire for the Thundercock that she can realistically …
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/16 02:08 AM
10

Oh buddy, wait until the Anger phase...
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/16 02:04 AM
5

So you're not making any income off of this video? I don't see it, man, sorry. I agree there is some value to your story in highlighting what the extreme end of Hypergamy is and that men should be aware of it's possibility, but I don't see it as being applicable to 99% of the relationships out there. But honestly, fuck me. Proof is in the results. You got 8k+ views on the video and others are posting their support of it. Just my personal opinion here though I suspect I am not the only one that s…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/16 06:06 PM
1

Did you create a pre-nup? Vows don't mean shit, pre-nup is everything.
/r/askMRP02/12/16 05:04 PM
7

Okay...I get it. You're trying to sell a product and using your breakup with a whore as clickbait. Female Hypergamy manifests itself on a sliding scale depending on the woman. This woman is obviously on the extreme end of the scale but it's all the same game in the end. I'm not taking away from the bullshit you went through but you're stretching it out to make it relevant to the average man and to be honest it simply isn't. The vast majority of women do not fall into the extreme end of the Hyper…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/16 05:03 PM
12

I have not been to the gym in 8 years... I don't know man. This post feels like a humble brag on how much pussy you're getting and the underlying message seems to be that lifting is not important. Lifting isn't just important, it's absolutely necessary for man to achieve his maximum Alpha capability. It increases your game regardless of where that game falls. So you're so charming and alpha you are crushing HB8's every day. I promise if you had kept yourself in prime physical condition you would…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/16 06:38 AM
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Powerful and relevant. I too have been bedside during many people's passing. Some people just sleep and stop breathing, others rage and become nearly insane as their final moment approaches, while others peacefully accepted their time and died with a smile on their face. There is value in contemplating how you want your end to pan out, but remember it is not worth spending too much time and energy on as you have no guarantee you won't die in a car accident today. Live in the moment at all times.…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/16 05:54 PM
2

Yeah, it's like magic. Implement RP behaviors and your wife will become a perfect little snowflake. Oh and infinite blow jobs.
/r/askMRP30/11/16 01:43 AM
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Oh I get it, you thought this sub was about saving marriages...it's about saving men, something you're clearly not interested in doing. Lawyer up and start internalizing the sidebar. Your marriage is done. Try to learn from it so you don't fuck yourself further.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/16 08:32 PM
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I once mate guarded a girl in our group. This skeevy kid was hitting on her while I was getting drinks for my wife and I. When I came back this kid is hitting on this girl in our group while her boyfriend literally backed out of the group and watched with this complete beta helpless look on his face. I could tell every girl in the group, including my wife, felt uncomfortable. So I handed my wife's drink to her then shook the kids hand tightly. I asked which member of our group had invited him to…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/16 03:55 PM
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I've been in a similar place before. I understand the emotions you're feeling, but you have to look at what is in your control. There's some good advice that's been given on what you could have done differently. I would start teasing her about this guy if you can maintain frame and not sound like you're jealous and/or scared. The reality is this guy could be one of a dozen fucking your wife and you would not know. Hell all of us are in that boat, because we aren't with them 24/7. You can't contr…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/16 03:38 PM
1

Oh no, she's pissed! Also, it's raining outside and you might get wet! WHO THE FUCK CARES? She is a child in an adult costume. Just imagine your neighbor's throbbing hard cock pounding the shit out of her. I bet you won't give a fuck about her being upset with you if you keep that in mind. Pussy.
/r/askMRP26/11/16 03:50 PM
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A bunch of new guys just shit their pants reading this and reflecting on what would happen if they were to lose their special snowflake. The only reason they are here is to figure out how to cure a dead bedroom. Stop scaring them, bro.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/16 03:46 PM
1

What an awesome covert contract you are writing for your wife. This won't end in disaster at all. To be more helpful, you need to get the relationship back in your frame which it clearly is not. Go through the levels of dread methodically and slowly. Read everything and LIFT minimum 3 times a week. Once you start pulling her back into your frame, when you are clearly the captain again, deciding what the weekend plans are, handling all the shit like a pro, so she can look at you as a sexual objec…
/r/askMRP25/11/16 03:18 PM
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Well written post. This has more value on TRP then MRP because most of the men here are already tied to a partner and whether or not they are sluts or not is immaterial now that the marriage is in place. Like many men here, the Red Pill reality is the best case scenario for a Red Pill man looking for a LTR with the greatest odds of success is to be a successful, fit Alpha man in his late thirties to early forties with as inexperienced of a female he can catch in her early to mid twenties. If she…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/16 03:11 PM
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No. We are talking about having sex with your wife. Do not read a sales book about it. Just go for it and do not get your feelings hurt if you get shut down. I WOULD recommend Game, Day Game, and The Natural depending on where you are in your levels of Dread. Just knowing you can close on new pussy if you so chose will change your paradigm significantly.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/16 03:09 PM
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This is a good field report. I would add some advice, now that the dead bedroom has been broken, do not fail to initiate at every opportunity and do not get butt hurt if she turns you down. I feel like breaking a dead bedroom permanently is similar to selling. If "no" hurts your feelings you will just become withdrawn and timid as a defense mechanism for your ego. Just keep going for it in every way you can imagine (be subtle sometimes, aggressive others, etc) but do not wait for her to initiate…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/16 05:59 PM
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The fact that she told you this is an indicator Chad Thundercock has been balls deep inside of her recently.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 04:09 PM
3

This is simple but golden. Post this to MRP not askMRP.
/r/askMRP22/11/16 05:46 PM
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So? You've been failing shit tests for years before you found the Red Pill. New guys always stress about this. Don't. If you fail a shit test just laugh it off and don't fail the same one again next time. She's just a woman. Does it make you mad when a little kid talks back?
/r/askMRP22/11/16 03:42 PM
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Anger phase isn't always "angry". You can call it the psychopathic reaction stage if you want. You're essentially disconnecting yourself from the Matrix and this creates an emotional dissonance in place of the fantasy connections you felt to others (especially your wife). Whether or not your interpretation of Red Pill reality leads you to anger, dissonance, frustration is part of your personal reaction. I would offer the advice that you need to ride this reaction out for six months to a year wit…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/16 03:33 PM
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Your chance to save this marriage is almost non-existent. Once your weakness has been revealed she will always hold the frame of the relationship, which is like having a blind person driving you around town. Now that you have a reliable diagnosis you MUST focus on getting better. Stop being a victim in every sense of the word, view your illness as a dragon you must spend every ounce of your discipline and energy slaying and not as a crutch/excuse for why your life sucks. Secondly, you must get o…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/16 03:27 PM
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I'm in the same boat as you size wise, but they stretch to accommodate our dicks, think about it, they can squeeze a baby out of that thing when they have to. What our brother is saying is that the average male can fill the average unstretched vagina with his average dick. What he isn't saying is that many women LOVE to feel stretched during sex, not just the size queens.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/16 03:04 PM
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Athol and Manson are good for newly unplugged guys since they write from the perspective of Beta's wanting to become Alphas. Once you are already operating in an Alpha frame you will not find a lot of value in their later work, and will also need to throw out a good portion of what they wrote in their originals. Not shitting on it, they've done good for the male community, but you will see what I am saying reflected in a lot of other comments here as well.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/16 08:50 PM
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why do I have to put up with this shit? Because you are a man and you are strong enough to do it. Agree and Amplify and Amused Mastery are other good responses. "You should be more careful." "I was thinking about fucking you in the ass and got distracted." DROPS MIC
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/16 12:22 AM
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Normally I agree with you 100%, but here I am only going to agree 90%. Some women are just terrible fucking human beings that will never improve themselves regardless of the leadership you provide. BP Oneitis can blind you to that during the courting stage and this reality will not become apparent until after you as a RP man internalize the material, lift, go through the stages of dread, etc. OP is not wrong in his assessment but the mistake I see new dudes here making is thinking they've reache…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/16 05:00 PM
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Are you asking if dread works? Yeah most of the time it does. Sometimes it doesn't, that's when you get a divorce. Do not slowly methodically work on yourself. Get your ass into the gym and lift heavy weight 3-6 times a week and keep reading. Let your personal development while in monk mode (STFU) spark the dread, do not talk to your wife about your journey either.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/16 12:16 AM
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If you give her a baby it will save your marriage. Also, really torment yourself about the things you could have done differently to save the marriage, it will be a really good use of your time.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/16 03:23 PM
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You have to initiate and then act like it's no big deal if she shuts you down. If you demonstrate frustration that she isn't interested in reciprocating, you lose. If she does this several times in a row for no good reason (sick, period, etc.) then you start going out without her being vague about what you're doing. Women are the gatekeepers of sex. Men are the gatekeepers of commitment. Marriages and LTRs go to shit because men are not willing to withdraw commitment after their women start with…
/r/askMRP06/11/16 05:49 PM
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All Women: Oh baby tell me again how I should want to fuck your brains out because you're a good partner that is attentive to my needs.
/r/askMRP05/11/16 06:58 PM
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You can't just snap your fingers and become disciplined. Yeah because that was my argument...
/r/askMRP05/11/16 06:57 PM
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This is a principle I wish more men understood: Discipline, not motivation, is the key to success. The Navy Seals have a saying, if it doesn't suck we don't do it. When you are weak and soft like the OP you wait to feel motivated to work out and accomplish your goals. Motivation is fickle and your brain will actually use logic against you to de-motivate you from doing things that suck (cause stress/release cortisol). That's why when you wake up early to work out your hamster kicks in with a doze…
/r/askMRP05/11/16 04:13 PM
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I think if you used more logic in your conversation it would win her to your way of seeing things... You know, because women are logical.
/r/askMRP05/11/16 04:09 PM
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Just think of how this is going to make some readers feel.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/16 07:22 PM
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Completely cut off contact. Having broken up with a crazy Italian bitch before I can tell you, they aren't going to kill themselves, and in no time you can be balls deep in someone cuter and younger. Women move on pretty quickly too, read War Brides on Rational Male...
/r/askTRP03/11/16 06:29 AM
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I am married to a high quality woman but I weekly have the revelation that attaching yourself to another human being to the degree of living with them and sharing finances is like playing life on hard mode.
/r/askTRP03/11/16 06:28 AM
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Read Women by Charles Bukowski, fucking mind blowing to read it through Red Pill lenses. It's basically a sensationalized version of his actual sex life once he was older and an established author. He fucks every kind of woman every kind of way you can imagine with a STRONG DNGAF attitude that they lap up.
/r/askMRP03/11/16 06:23 AM
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It's true, I had no clue what I was doing back then and neither did she. It was an emasculating thing to hear at the time, but it prompted me to actually learn about sex and the female orgasm. Satisfied lovers ever since (unless they're faking).
/r/askMRP03/11/16 06:21 AM
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Your squat analogy is spot on. I want to explore it a little more. Many men find RP and devour the material (usually once as a cursory read) start implementing dread (sprinkle some Alpha on their Beta lives) see some initial results and give themselves a big pat on the back for becoming Alpha Males. If you found the Red Pill after being married or in a LTR and you did not have a "Oh Shit I've Been Squatting Wrong" moment, then you are nowhere near truly living out the principles we talk about he…
/r/askMRP03/11/16 06:15 AM
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Whatever it's true, and not the worst of my mistakes during my Blue Pill days.
/r/askMRP02/11/16 10:31 PM
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Does she use sex toys? My ex-wife and I were virgins when we got married and we had been married 6 or 7 years before she had her first orgasm. Since our divorce she bought toys and told me she orgasms all the time with the toys and new partners since she understands her body better. As far as the house, start bringing guests over. Nothing makes a woman clean a house like guest coming over, or (this will sound counter intuitive) a cleaning service once every two weeks. Costs about $100-$150 a vis…
/r/askMRP02/11/16 09:21 PM
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That is true, but he wanted to know ways to create feelz and the book will give him lots of ideas on how to do that.
/r/askMRP02/11/16 03:25 PM
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Can the two of you start kissing now? That would be perfect!
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/16 10:55 PM
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Fuck yeah. LIFT, bitches!!!
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/16 07:48 PM
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I know some RP guys think it is stupid, but I actually think The Five Love Languages is a great read for men trying to create comfort/feelz in their relationship. Premise is that your woman communicates love/affection primarily in one of these five ways: Acts of Service Gifts Quality Time Words of Affirmation Physical Touch Figure out what gets her rocks off and "speak" that language to her in order to create some feelz. The book is Blue Pill though so don't embrace it like scripture.
/r/askMRP01/11/16 06:18 PM
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This is fucking great, they are pouring into this forum like crazy.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/16 05:59 PM
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It's in my pants, hold on a minute and I will get it for you.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/16 01:50 AM
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Pass. You're missing the point by a mile.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/16 11:42 PM
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Tell me more about hamstering, you seem to have a good handle on it.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/16 11:42 PM
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Thanks for clearing that up, so men and women love the same way, good to know. Hey guys we can retire TRP and MRP now!
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/16 11:34 PM
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If I am misunderstanding your question with my answer just let me know. My wife says I love YOU to me all the time, but the reality is she means she loves US. Her saying "US" while looking at our pics amid social validation via Facebook was her muttering to herself what she actually loves. It was a rare glimpse into her internal dialogue as she did not say it to me, just stated her thoughts out loud. I think men on the other hand can look at the relationship and say "I love us" but still have a …
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/16 06:00 PM
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It's a feature, not a bug!
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/16 03:55 PM
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This is a prime example of "Watch what they do, not what they say". This. This changes how you approach everything. What they say matters so little it's almost not worth paying attention to. Only listen their actions.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/16 02:48 PM
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And any statement of authority can be hole poked to oblivion with stupid exceptions. It's a principle all of us should adhere too, stop mentally masturbating to make yourself feel superior.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/16 11:37 PM
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You're getting it academically but you haven't internalized it, and from the sound of it you are a ways off. Where are you in your lifting? Where are you in your reading?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/16 02:43 PM
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Good FR. I recommend a power rack, I splurged and bought a Rogue brand and I love it. Keep us updated as you go. You may be entering territory I have been in for awhile which is very different then most men here at MRP. We are sexually satisfied even to the point of getting whatever we want, but our wives are post wall (mine just turned 32) and my SMV (I am 34) is ramping up in a big way. I am starting to feel she just cannot compete with these hotties in their early 20's batting their eyes at m…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/16 02:40 PM
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Maybe roleplay an interview with her? Same principle, just figure out the most simple next step...
/r/askMRP27/10/16 05:02 PM
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Lol, I love that guys are trying to call BS on you for the amount of times you had sex. Some of these faggots don't realize that yeah it's possible to fuck like that. They've gotten so used to their starfish missionary sex once a week that they've forgotten whats possible if you actually know what the fuck you are doing with your woman. I give my wife and our girlfriends multiple orgasms over multiple sessions. I DNGAF if anyone here believes me or not and neither should OP. Old faggot fucks :P …
/r/askMRP27/10/16 02:43 PM
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Look at her actions not her words. Obviously you didn't fail because she still acted loving towards you this morning. Amused Mastery is a great way to respond to a question like this, especially if you say "yep" with a smile on your face followed up by an ass slap/grab. We are strong men. Their little emotional hamster sessions don't pull us into their frame.
/r/askMRP27/10/16 02:33 PM
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Will add this to the list. Thank you for the review. Not that I give a fuck.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/16 02:01 PM
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You do not talk about nutrition much. Nutrition is 80% of progress. If you are looking to gain strength you need to be eating above your TDEE (total daily energy expenditure) and resting well. Gym time is when you destroy and break down your muscle fibers, rest and nutrition are how you rebuild those broken down fibers. You also need to be taking in plenty of protein to give your body the building blocks to rebuild those muscle fibers. I recommend you subscribe to the Fitness Reddit and look at …
/r/askMRP27/10/16 02:21 AM
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I enjoyed reading this. Two terms kept popping up in my mind as I read it. Maintaining Frame and Amused Mastery. Your behavior 100% encapsulates those concepts. I love the ass smack. It's one of my favorite tools in the toolkit. My wife knows I want to fuck her 24/7 so I can always use it as a way to shut off her hamstering.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/16 02:16 AM
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Stop getting butt-hurt, boys. Go work in sales and you will see how an initial resistance to a close can be overcome with personal connection. Average looking guys with charisma get laid too, it's just not as easy and they will get rejected out of hand more frequently.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 03:41 PM
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What you brought to the table Lurked for the past two years and finally felt I had a good enough grasp to join the conversation. I have a lot going for me in life and am married to a high value woman. I get approached for help and spend a lot of my free time coaching BP men as best I can, I actually am wary to introduce RP to most of them as I think you have to come to it yourself. I enjoy being a part of the conversation and if some men find what I have to say of value all the better.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/16 03:26 PM
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I agree with this in premise, but confidence and personality should not be so readily dismissed. It is not an either-or equation. Good looks gives you initial sexual interest which makes PUA easier. This is why looking your best is important, why operate under a handicap if you are trying to get laid? With that said, once you grab a woman's initial interest it is confidence and personality that are what most men need to close the deal. Unless you're Chad Thundercock with bulging biceps and a chi…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 03:05 PM
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I agree with this. I think there's a co-relation to fitness and health. When I was an obese fuck eating pizza and drinking gallons of beer every day I was "happy" in a certain sense of the word. Now that I am lean, muscular, and focused on proper nutrition I am experiencing true happiness that eclipses the fatboy contentment I had before and would never go back. I like your "Break the Mold" article as well. The challenge is, until a guy starts to experience an internal Abundance Mentality he rea…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/16 02:53 PM
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I wanted to stop reading at "wife wants to separate". The oneitis is strong when the husband won't let her go when she is literally saying she is jumping back on the CC. By the way, when a woman suggests this idea of dating other people, she is almost always being taken to pound town by another guy, she is just trying to hamster a close to your relationship that protects her good girl image. Let this bitch go, stop being a faggot, lift, then go fuck a couple of 18 year olds. You're going to be f…
/r/askMRP26/10/16 02:43 PM
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Solid post and a great way to send the message that we have to remove the beta bullshit mindset that hides our masculine self. I am sending a link to this post to a couple of emerging betas I know, I think the message will help them. Only one small point of contention. You seem to indicate that Beta men are unhappy. I think that applies to only a small group of them. My experience is that unplugged men tend to be happy so long as the illusion of the Matrix is holding for them. It's only after th…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/16 02:29 PM
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This is why I am pissed my company gave me a Prius this year. I am too cheap to go buy a sexier car for personal use even though I could afford it.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 07:52 PM
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You poor fucking victim. Did you need help finding your balls? Come on man, be better then this. Either you want to make this work or you don't, stop languishing in the middle...
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/16 01:28 AM
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Too late, this one is over, and even if you could reconnect and make it linger on you would be insane to do so. Why would you want to be with this harpy when you could be balls deep in an 18 year old that makes your sandwiches? You're going to be poor as fuck for the next 18 years unless you get a better job/income so work on that for the next couple of years, and if you can get income streams you don't have to report (become a bartender) that would be a big help to you right now both with money…
/r/askMRP20/10/16 02:43 PM
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Quality fucking post. Wish I could take you out for a beer and pick your brain face to face.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/16 02:28 PM
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Go to a local brew pub on the same day/time, make friends with the bartender first then the regulars. I've also met a lot of my friends at a cigar club. Besides this, it's hard. Too bad there isn't a Tinder app for male companionship...oh wait there is, Grindr, download it and find a buddy! (lol don't)
/r/askTRP18/10/16 03:33 PM
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I would interpret it as sexual interest. She's curious about you and digs like these are her inviting you to play verbal chess. Next time just respond with Amused Mastery: "It weird that a guy likes broccoli" It's weird that a girl likes (insert something she likes). " I thought you were gay at first I was, but now I'm a lesbian. "Never met a guy whose works out and cares about them self as much as you" I just want to be ready when the ninjas attack. " why do you take girls on date ? That's weir…
/r/askTRP18/10/16 03:29 PM
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As someone that offered you advice before, honestly, 99% of the advice here is being pulled out of people's asses. We do not know how to coach a female to implement RP to another female. None of us are qualified to answer this post beyond speculation. Keep that in mind.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/16 03:21 PM
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Sounds like you have not internalized your own self worth. You want this "high value" woman because you need added value in your life? Abundance mentality is that you are GOOD with or without her. Like others have pointed out, you understand the red pill but you have not internalized it. I recommend you go back to square one and fucking forget this girl. Your desire to save the relationship and...jesus christ man...have kids with this person, is just a train wreck waiting to happen. Stop crying.…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/16 04:52 PM
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Great field report, thanks for sharing. An excellent example of STFU and Amused Mastery.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/16 01:31 PM
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Thanks for putting yourself out there. Marriage is such a shit deal, even if MRP strategies work, it is a fucking pain in the ass to have to deal with female solipsism with only dread and a nuclear option to use as a response. Oh well, that's reality. AWALT. I will be posting my situation soon, but suffice it to say that MRP is the only thing that has kept me from going nuclear lately. I want to have a successful marriage, but the writing is on the wall and there are too many hot bitches out the…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/16 08:52 PM
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Her being upset or happy should have little to no impact on your frame. She can stomp her feet and slam doors or giggle and play, it's all the same to you. Outcome independence. Abundance mentality.
/r/askMRP15/10/16 02:33 PM
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Made my day to hear this, glad to have helped!
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/16 07:14 PM
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Trying to coach a friend through MRP out of a dead bedroom and this is exactly what I keep telling him. This is a journey that is more about you than the relationship, do not go nuclear.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/16 05:18 AM
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Good detailed write-up. I have been considering legal consultation just to see what my options would be. My wife makes plenty of her own money and we have no kids and no major shared assets (we rent and both have company cars). Still, after reading this it makes me feel I should have my ducks in a row just in case.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/16 07:20 PM
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It's transferable in the sense that it will appeal to your partner's solipsism in the context of standard hypergamy, but your ability to execute on Red Pill mating strategy will be limited by your own female solipsism and hypergamy. In other words, if you want to game your partner like a man it is likely she will respond as if you were but your ability to maintain that strategy might be limited by your own female psychology.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/16 04:52 PM
2

Why do we fall?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/16 04:48 PM
1

Great field report!
/r/askMRP12/10/16 02:43 PM
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Thanks for the compliment. I will have to make a post later unpacking the Beta to Alpha scale but I very intentionally said what I said and stand behind the definition, but understand how just mentioning it in passing here seems like a misuse of the term. Noted.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/16 05:51 AM
1

Yeah but she sure as fuck did her part.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/16 06:32 PM
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It's always my TLDR. Sorry to hear you disagree. The 5 components must all be present to create a Man of Substance (the central point of the post), therefore your criticism that taken individually they are neither Alpha nor Beta is correct.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/16 06:20 PM
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What you are talking about here is a great take on abundance mentality. If I truly believe that if I lost my current job/marriage/possessions other likely better ones would come in to replace them, I lose all sense of fear and doubt. I begin to judge my actions as cause and effect not right vs wrong and that is a powerful way for a man to live. I also like the observation that 80% of men are invisible. It is very true, and a thought worth exploring more.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/16 02:27 PM
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Like others have pointed out, you are in the anger phase and reading ahead of where you should be. The problem with shifting from a Beta and Alpha worldview is you feel betrayed by everyone around you (the Matrix) and even moreso your own mind. This is why we recommend STFU and Monk Mode. If you have been with your wife 15 years it should take you 15 months to move through the first seven levels of dread. Stop fooling yourself you are special and can move through this process faster then those t…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/16 01:45 PM
1

True but most guys on here have the goal of avoiding that.
/r/askMRP10/10/16 01:38 PM
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She will continue to record you and keep copies of text/email. If you don't watch it she will fuck you hard in the inevitable divorce. Don't be stupid, monk mode it and gtfo.
/r/askMRP10/10/16 01:32 AM
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It's easy for people to roll their eyes at a post like this, but it is a first step and a good one as far as first steps go. Now will you take the thousands of others it takes afterwards? Hope for another positive field report next month. BTW, a lot of us that found RP after getting married would have nexted our wives if we had known how real life works beforehand.
/r/askMRP10/10/16 01:30 AM
1

Okay if you're a history altering genius you get a pass on lifting. The other 99.9999999% of us though don't get the pass.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/16 12:37 AM
2

Rollo, love your work, what are your thoughts on Open Marriage? I do not have one, but could see it developing that direction. The wife and I both travel 5-6 days a week for work. I could easily be plating a few right now but don't for reasons. I should add, both of us are financially independent (make over six figs each), no kids, and we have FFM threesomes about once every two months for the past 2 years. I don't think it would bother me academically that she has sex with a guy or girl on a bu…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/16 06:40 PM
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Wow OP, you should go have that mangina looked at. Scrolling through old posts then posting on the general forum to ask a particular poster a question (which in reality is a veiled attack)...you're acting just like a woman on social media.
/r/askMRP29/09/16 02:09 PM
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The troll is strong in this one...
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/16 06:14 PM
1

If you had established an abundance mentality and outcome independence mindset you would not be where you are right now. Unfortunately, that is very difficult to do if you found the Red Pill after Oneitis had set in for a particular girl. My suggestion is completely cut this person out of your life (NEXT) and establish the correct frame before even thinking of starting another LTR. Time to spin plates. And no she should never be a plate she should be nothing to you now except history. Hell if th…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/16 01:53 PM
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The nagging is a byproduct of her not having a strong captain to trust. Think of the little kid whining and crying in the department store because the parent doesn't know how to manage them. Their noises aren't a test, they are a byproduct of poor parenting. A Shit Test is a very specific action a woman takes (albeit sometimes sub-consciously) to see if you are fit to be her leader. An emotional outburst or nagging CAN be a shit test but necessarily.
/r/askMRP19/09/16 07:32 PM
1

Great analogy to assist in Amused Mastery. She is a child, just the oldest one in the house.
/r/askMRP19/09/16 06:45 PM
1

Since my wife is pregnant I will not be instilling dread until afterwards. Instead I will be laying groundwork by lifting, dressing well, and reading pre-reqs, and generally starting to take back control and ownership of my life with hope that she'll follow. This is key. You can't walk before you can crawl. Lift heavy weights and get your nutrition in check. Do not allow yourself to cheat on these two beginning steps. After a month of this you will be ready to begin, but until then you have no r…
/r/askMRP19/09/16 06:41 PM
1

Another quote I love! I used to quote this at my employees all the time!
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/16 03:16 PM
1

don't be a dick in responding. any advice is appreciated Hard to give you advice if your ego is so sensitive. Are you fit? What would you estimate your SMV? What kind of babes are you texting? Are they above or below your SMV? These things matter and ghosting is a sign you're fishing in waters that you have no business being in. Imagine if some Chris Hemsworth looking motherfucker got the same numbers you were. Think he would get ghosted?
/r/TheRedPill18/09/16 09:34 PM
2

That's cute. I remember when I had my first beer.
/r/askMRP18/09/16 05:41 PM
1

So let's recap. You make a throwaway account to call people out for being losers? Where's your balls, little fella? You're obviously trolling, but let's be real about the situation. Everything in society has been feminized. Our culture literally converts men that would otherwise be Alpha into Betabux. Marriage castrates men, the purpose of this forum is to offer a strategy for combating that. It's an ongoing conversation that takes many points of view and field reports. Fag.
/r/askMRP18/09/16 05:20 PM
3

That sums up my feelings very well.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/16 05:16 PM
4

non-contributing people are being given all the tools to have as many kids in this world as they can. Reminds me of the movie Idiocracy.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/16 05:16 PM
2

What is your current physical status? Are you lifting? This woman wants a strong man that can not only overpower her physically but also answer back her taunting with Dark Triad dominance. Have you tried slapping her face when she talks shit? Not enough to leave a permanent mark but enough to sting. Try it and Field Report how it goes.
/r/askMRP18/09/16 05:13 PM
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Destroy your body in the gym and with fasting until you are very very hawt. Buy nice clothes and tailor them to your physique. This is my morning devotional every day. Well said.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/16 03:25 PM
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Four years of reading and lurking red pill sites combined with my five years of being the boss to about a hundred women on average. I have to coach and develop many people (I have 200+ people under me at any given time) and the difference between men and women tends to be that women cant stop hamstering and never seem to be able to self reflect. A man will come to me and say "Here is how I can get better at my job..." A woman will come to me and say "How can I get better?" Only to argue with me …
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/16 03:05 PM
2

I dont think women are capable of personal insight the way men are. And I think if a girl has learned to be a bitch by around 23, she will be a bitch the rest of her life.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/16 02:49 PM
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They rigged the game in what they thought was their favor when in reality they have ruined countless lives. I know an attractive HB8 who is 34. Never married and no children. Every year she gets a little older looking and her hamster is in overdrive. She spent her entire life being a bitch and extremely judgemental of the men she chose to have a relationship with to only now post-wall realize her time is already up. She can't land a quality man to save her life, but she gets pumped and dumped co…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/16 03:37 AM
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Dread isn't just about restablishing sexual attraction, it's about bringing her to the reality that she can lose you. We ease our wives into this reality because WE know it at dread level one, but for some wives it may take level eleven to get it. If she is suprised by your decision to end the relationship then odds are your dread game was too subtle. You have to get to the point where you look at her and tell her that her behavior is reprehinsible and if she does not change you will leave. This…
/r/askMRP12/09/16 04:07 PM
1

It sounds like you have already made your mind up, which makes no sense. What level of dread are you on exactly? You're just getting started and already giving up...
/r/askMRP12/09/16 03:53 PM
2

Agreed. If thinking doesn't lead to action it is just mental masturbation.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/16 03:47 PM
1

Awesome. Well done.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/16 12:52 PM
1

Too. Much thinking for. My liking on op Are you some kind of meathead? Get your ass back in the gym and drink some chicken puree while us real men ponder the mysteries of life over here! ;) C'mon man, it's like Dwight Goodman said, "You caught me. I like to break a mental sweat too."
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/16 12:49 PM
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I would recommend you direct your soul searching inwardly. What do you want if you only have a short time left (that sucks bro and I offer my sympathy as worthless as it is)? If I were in your shoes I would probably want to know that I had unlimited access to see my son as I die and someone to help manage the challenge of late stage hospice such as feeding and changing me. If you are wealthy enough to pay someone to do that and want to see some more of the world before you die then maybe the rig…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/16 09:32 PM
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Go to a lawyer and give him every detail. Ask him what a responsible legal exit strategy would be if you chose to execute on it. Make sure your money is secured away with a minimum 3 month living expense set aside and the money to move into a new place (security deposit, moving truck, etc.) Do not talk to anyone about your thoughts and make sure she cannot look at your browser history to see this. If she gets an inkling of what you're thinking the situation could go south. Make sure you do not d…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/16 05:14 PM
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Get the FUCK out. This is only going to get worse as you internalize Red Pill, not better. And you need to move out when she is away, this sounds like the kind of girl that will throw herself down stairs and tell the cops you did it...
/r/askMRP10/09/16 12:32 AM
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Go with your gut. You've been married 15 years, plan on a 15 month strategy to bring things in line slowly.
/r/askMRP06/09/16 05:04 PM
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Fag flame on ! Spit my coffee when I read that!
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/16 02:12 PM
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Being the right man, in the right place, at the right time. Idiots miss opportunities every second of every day because they are not ready for them.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/16 04:37 PM
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Niiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiice
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/16 02:16 PM
1

Huh? You're acting like a spoiled child and surprised she is unhappy? What about Amused Mastery if you truly think your SMV has risen above hers? There is a difference between STFU and silent treatment. STFU is a tool you employ to keep yourself from losing frame or to pass a shit test. Silent treatment is something a little bitch does.
/r/askMRP04/09/16 02:08 PM
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Good start. What else have you done apart from her to develop yourself?
/r/askMRP04/09/16 02:01 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/TeenRedPill/ Wrong forum though you've got some cursory understanding down, I will give you that.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/16 01:52 PM
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This is what it is about. Now stop making excuses and LIFT, wtf does bike season have to do with not doing a workout routine?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/16 01:43 AM
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For this approach to be effective it has to be scaled down or up depending on how she perceives your SMV. If she sees you as a faggot then even the smallest attempt to wrest back control can and often will result in a battle. I think this strategy can start being utilized post monk mode, when lifting is starting to produce results, and Dread Level 4 has been established. If you are new to MRP and try this "you're gonna have a bad time". With that said, compliance training is extremely powerful. …
/r/MarriedRedPill03/09/16 03:07 PM
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Dude, it's your call at this point. You're deep enough in to be able to decide what you want, and from the tone of your post you've already decided. Fuck, if you've got abs and a job that takes you to random cities, go light up 20 year old ass across the nation...
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/16 03:08 PM
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Her emotions are like a goldfishes memory. Hah, that's the fucking truth, but like you indicated by the end of the post, ONLY IF YOU HAVE HIGHER SMV THAN HER. I cringe to think some fat fuck 1 month into RP is going to scan this article without actually reading it. Whew buddy he is going to put his dick in a hornet's nest...
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/16 02:37 PM
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Been here for a long time, just decided to start contributing instead of lurking.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/16 02:31 PM
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I get what you are trying to say, but honestly I don't agree. Sure it would boost your ego that your woman would be willing to fight off those "demons" but if you NEED her to, or rather view that being the ultimate expression of a Red Pill relationship, then you are not self-actualized and have no business claiming to be a Red Pill man, IMO. Remember, she is not your mother. Her obligation to you stretches only as far as you can provide structure and leadership to her solipsistic lifestyle, whil…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/16 03:50 AM
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What a shit post. Red Pill is making elements of your life better and making girls attracted to you? No shit. Stop jerking yourself off and add something of real value to the community. Posting just to make yourself feel like you have something to add doesn't translate to actual contribution.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/16 03:42 AM
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This is what separates TRP and MRP. Thank you for sharing.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/09/16 02:56 AM
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If he doesn't call a lawyer it's because he has done violent shit to her too and he knows she will fuck him with it. I guarantee it.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/16 06:56 PM
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You broke him and you can't fix him. Only he can do that. You are your own worst enemy and hopefully you will remember that with the next man. Besides, at 24 your yearning for the CC is still there you just suppressed it during the honeymoon stage of marriage. Your hypergamy is going to make you sabotage any relationship until you hit your wall around 30 and start to realize how fucked you are if you don't settle into an LTR.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 03:55 PM
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Everyone is different, but I never found cardio itself to be specifically helpful to me and my goals. I do wear a fitbit though and make sure I get minimum 10,000 steps a day. If I get home at the end of the day and I haven't hit that mark, I will go for a walk or run to hit it. Also, if you are new to lifting, I actually think you can do lighter accessory work more often. I had a lot of success when I first started working out 5 days a week and just resting on the weekend.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 03:25 PM
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I have mixed feelings on this post. On the one hand you bring up a good point regarding fulfillment divorced from the feeling of happiness. Too many men think that if they are fulfilled in life that means they will be happy all of the time. On the other hand, I always cringe at posts that talk about being destined for bigger things. Your ego can be your worst enemy, pushing you towards goals and expectations that are unrealistic. Like Tyler Durden said, "Listen up, maggots. You are not special. …
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 03:17 PM
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This is a decent field report. The point of a field report is to reinforce the truth of TRP with real life examples of it working, or in the case of a FR like this one, how dropping frame brings on a bunch of shit. Men who are new to TRP will read this and it will help them in their own resolve next time they feel like being a pussy and staying out of the gym. OP, fuck cardio. It's shitty. LIFT. Do HIIT if you have to do some cardio, but you're number one focus in the gym is lifting.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 03:07 PM
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Read the comments for what I meant by emotional stability. I could have used better verbiage. By financial stability I mean the benefit of two incomes. We both make six figures, no plan for children, I had a vasectomy. I live in a house that is literally twice as good as what I could afford on my own. Everything is easier with two incomes, though if I needed to I could very comfortably live on my own. I am married because I want to be not because I have to be.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/16 06:04 PM
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Monk mode for awhile. Remember she is not your enemy, right now you don't need anything from her, focus on your self.
/r/askMRP29/08/16 04:26 PM
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Why is this here instead of ASKMRP?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/16 03:36 PM
1

Lift. Stop talking about it and do it. In fact, next time you find yourself telling someone "I need to start working out" or something like that, I want you to punch yourself in your balls as hard as you can. You're doing that in order to release the same chemicals in your brain that accomplishment brings. It's the same thing that happens to people that say they are going to quit smoking, talking about doing it feels similar to the brain as actually doing it, which removes the subsequent drive t…
/r/askMRP29/08/16 03:18 PM
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Wow. You are a complete faggot. You can't control your own emotional tantrums and think you deserve to be the leader of a relationship? I feel bad for any woman you partner with, and the example of a manchild you are for your kids. Being angry at a woman for being a shit testing emotional rollercoaster is like being angry at a puppy for pissing on the floor. Yeah they made a mess but it's their nature, what are you going to do, scream at the dog until it stops? No, you're going to apply calm and…
/r/askMRP29/08/16 03:08 PM
1

Again, that's binary. Attraction isn't a quantifiable substance you can measure and compare, especially in this situation. There are moments during sex where my focus is on the other woman and moments where it is directed at my wife. We do not pursue individual relationships with the girls if that is what you are asking.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/16 03:01 PM
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So did you just walk away? If you did without saying anything then I don't think you failed. Obviously you're pissed and you need to not be. If you have only been unplugged for 4 months there is no way you're going to get a 10 second kiss during her busy mode. Remember she has to be led, which can take considerable effort and patience on your part. If that makes you frustrated direct it at yourself for being a beta pussy that let his relationship evolve into this rated PG bullshit situation. I d…
/r/askMRP29/08/16 02:55 PM
1

I think that's really binary thinking. Every girl we have been with except for the second one was a HB7 or HB8. My wife has to be attracted to them for us to pursue the threesome in the first place. The kind of women who date couples tend to be pretty "skilled" in the sack but my wife has actually upped her own game considerably since her competitive nature won't allow her to be outdone. That's worked the other direction too, we now compete to see who can get the girl off more, good fun.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/16 02:37 PM
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Dating jacked black dudes apparently. She also got a huge promotion at work due to some advice and coaching I gave her, so she is doing well.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/16 02:33 PM
1

What do you mean?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/16 02:31 PM
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Yeah, "emotional stability" is bad verbiage. I explained what I was trying to say in another comment. I mean to say, marriage gives you the ability to know one woman extremely well so managing her ever changing emotional landscape is more predictable and successful. The replacement for mommy thing is a real problem. Beta men want their marriages to recreate the pair bond they had with their mother. I think of my own father and grandfather who actually called their wives "mom" or "momma" instead …
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/16 02:16 PM
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I have not dabbled much with S&M, just furry handcuffs and a little chain and strap thing I built for the bed. We haven't used restraints yet at all with a third, but it's something the wifey wants to explore. I laugh when dudes talk about how they would crush it if they had a threesome, it is a LOT of work. I am pretty fit due to my RP fitness journey but holy shit I am exhausted the next day.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/16 02:07 PM
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I agree that it does, but men are hardwired to hold onto pair bonds more strongly then we like to admit. A lot of research is showing that women have the more emotional reaction to a breakup at first but then move on from it. Men may have a dampened response at first but carry the hurt of the bond severance for years, or in some cases never get over it. Example
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/16 02:03 PM
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I am feeling some hate off this, but I will indulge your question. No my marriage is not a cover. I value and love my wife and she feels the same towards me. I lead, she is my first mate, and she is very sexually attracted to me. The dates we have with other women are fun adventures we go on. We call the girls "pokemon" or unicorns because they are hard to find but when we do it's pretty incredible.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/16 02:00 PM
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I am not sure what "live out her bi nature" means. She fucks another woman and cums, then she watches me fuck another woman and gets off to that as well. It's a standard way she gets off when it is just the two of us as well, she will have me describe how I fucked one of our girlfriends on our last date while I am inside of her, then she orgasms. She has zero interest in being in a LTR with a woman but is sexually attracted to them, the marriage I have constructed around her allows her to indulg…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/16 01:56 PM
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You did, sorry bro not trying to be rude, I'd be skeptical too.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/16 12:48 AM
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Not mentioning it to brag, mentioning it to illustrate I am not talking out of my ass. Believe me or not, don't care.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/16 12:38 AM
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Lol that just earned you a friend request. I'm a faggot for a bunch of other reasons, but the threesome thing is legit.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/16 12:37 AM
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It would take another post to fully explain, but suffice it to say the idea that the point of marriage is to find an ideal monogamous union doesn't stand up to reality, therefore marrying someone in order to achieve that is wishful beta thinking, the thinking of a man trying to recreate the relationship he had with his mother instead of a man signing up for a continual lifelong challenge. The mention of emotional stability could be worded better. I mean to say, marriage gives you the ability to …
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/16 09:23 PM
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Yes. Married out of high school as virgins, immediately ballooned up 75 lbs each and were dirt poor so always in ill fitting cheap clothes. Ex-wife is a great person and still a good friend but physically she is overweight and has poor fashion sense since she refuses to buy clothes that are her actual size. Current wife is blonde, curvy, yet petite. Locking down female thirds has been a cakewalk between her looks/energy and my charm/dominance during the dates.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/16 06:57 PM
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The reason I cannot share TRP with my father is because he is happy in his ignorance. If he knew the truth it would ruin what years he has left, seeing what a pathetic beta he has been his entire life. No. Better to unplug the young and single in my opinion.
/r/askMRP28/08/16 06:08 PM
1

Awesome post. I love this show and happy to see someone else pick up on what the show writers are laying down. I think too often RP men think they need to carry their Alpha personality to the Rick extreme but thats silly. It's not about being as Alpha as possible, it's about being a self-actualized man that is striving towards becoming his best self daily, not being an asshole because you give no shits about anyone or anything.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/16 05:14 PM
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Solid point, and agreed. It's pointless to get angry at female solipism, they needed it to survive.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/16 05:08 PM
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Because I want the financial and emotional stability that a marriage provides while still enjoying a mutually exciting and adventurous sex life. It's not for everyone, but the notion that marriage is superfluous if you want more than one vagina the rest of your life is outdated and often attached to a Beta paradigm in my opinion. Of course plenty of married alpha red pill men only want sex with their spouse for the rest of their lives and that's fine for them, sounds boring to me, did that for o…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/16 04:37 PM
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I plan on making a seperate post about this in the future, but the short answer is the more experience she has had with females in the past, the greater your chances of leading your relationship into having threesomes. This of course applies to FFM threesomes. I have no interest in Chad Thundercock fucking my wife even if I'm fucking her at the same time.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/16 04:33 PM
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Red pill isn't a gain. It is just like the Red Pill that took Neo out of the Matrix. The Matrix was a happy place. There were steaks, big titted BDSM girls, and good wine. Once he took the Red Pill it was protein gruel, dirty plain girls, and moonshine. But it was also the truth. If you really understand what you have gotten yourself into with RP you would stop being so damn excited like a little kid that found a new toy. You fucked your life by getting into this shit. The only redeeming thing a…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/16 03:13 PM
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Great post. Would like to add to anyone new to RP or MRP, being angry at your woman for her hypergamy is a waste of energy. Like Rollo Tomassi points out numerous times in The Rational Male, women are as much a victim of their solipsism as men are, and it takes an Alpha mindset to see that weakness in them and learn to manage it instead of being angry about it. This post is great, it's not about changing her, it's about creating the environment around her that allows her to give control up to a …
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/16 03:12 PM
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Well done, sir. Last night wife wanted dinner at Buffalo Wild Wings. I took her, she ordered a larger order of wings than her little body can handle, we get home and her belly is bloated and she wants to go to sleep without sex "until it settles". She travels for work 3-4 days a week and we 95% of the time have sex minimum every night when she is home. So this morning on the way to the airport I tell her that next time my choice is between feeding her or fucking her then she will go to bed hungr…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/16 04:44 PM
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LAWYER UP. If she has more money she can still fuck with you with a better lawyer.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/08/16 03:17 PM
2

Thanks for sharing. Now go bang a hot 18 year old. Don't fall in love though, that's your next test.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/08/16 03:16 PM
2

You are absolutely right! The whole idea of courtly love is that man sublimates himself to woman in order to have her affections bestowed on him. That's "almost" fine when the trade off is complete subjugation and loyalty to the man, but thanks to feminism that side of the equation has been zeroed out, yet unsurprisingly society still expects "good" men to give themselves completely to their women without any guarantee of having their needs met in return. This is why you see Mr. Betabux raising …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/16 10:13 PM
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Important thing to consider: doing nice things versus being a "nice" guy are two different things. Even the most Alpha-no-shits-given thug in prison can display kindness to his woman. In divorcing yourself from being a "Nice" guy like the OP is pointing out, do not think every time you do something kind that you are breaking frame. Think of it like this. A King can bestow gifts on his faithful subjects but can also cast them out of the kingdom. When he grants a boon it isn't because he needs val…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/16 08:28 PM
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I have a lot of employees that have watched my weight loss this past year (36 lbs) and increase in lean muscle mass. They often tell me that they "can't" lose weight. It is almost always because of one of the reasons you listed in your bullet points (like 99% of the time). Move more, eat less, put on muscle...
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/16 06:15 PM
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I agree. OP held frame and it had power because he meant it down to his core. Women latch onto that kind of strength every time.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/16 05:56 PM
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I am encouraged to hear that you are 61 and actively engaged in TRP thinking. I am 34 and I plan on staying in the upper tier of male status my entire life, regardless of where that bar falls.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/16 05:50 PM
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I think that alcohol adds a layer of challenge to this. I have 100% control and frame in my marriage but after 4 drinks my wife becomes a hellion. I have to bread crumb her towards whatever I want her to do at that point. If I give her an imperative sentence it will be 50/50 if she does what I say or if she shows her ass. In other words, OP, I wouldn't beat yourself up too much on the leadership aspect of things.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/16 08:11 PM
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