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| 3 | You’re too young for me.Ha I didn’t read the part about the text. Yah don’t send that | /r/askTRP | 24/01/21 05:28 AM |
| 19 | You’re too young for me.Listen man, you’ll get a lot of feedback here. Some from people who are puritans some from hedonists, but at the end of the day you gotta answer these questions for yourself. If you want a friend that’s a girl and you’re cool with being in the friend zone for the possibility of what you said, then moving forward be true to that. It’s not black and white and you’re not a blue pilled loser. Been friends with tons of girls (albeit by choice never this situation) and they’ll probably be at a wedding… | /r/askTRP | 24/01/21 05:18 AM |
| 12 | You’re too young for me.Why would you want to be friends with a 28 year old chick? | /r/askTRP | 24/01/21 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys care about red flags as it pertains to plates?Right on | /r/askTRP | 24/01/21 04:57 AM |
| 81 | You’re too young for me.Good answer to “you’re to young to me” is “I was going to say the same to you” Puts you guys on an equal playing field and gives them fomo (fear of missing out) since you established social proof that this isn’t your first rodeo | /r/askTRP | 24/01/21 04:55 AM |
| 2 | Looking for advice regarding next move for my degreeHey man. I’ve had a pretty efficient college -> business world progression (24 yo). Happy to offer some advice. Mind telling me anything about where you’d want to be after college? You talked about a few degree ideas and college options, but in terms of career trajectory where would be the garden of eden? | /r/askTRP | 24/01/21 03:31 AM |
| 2 | Do you give girls from your BP past a chance?Nothing will test your resolve or foster a situation for you to regress more then reconnecting with a girl from your past that you failed with. Tried it, thought I was “red pill” now, resorted to bad habits, woke up one day and just deleted her number. never again for me | /r/askTRP | 24/01/21 03:19 AM |
| 1 | I am getting tired..Dude, I've been through this too many times. Especially the breaking up with someone who still loves you because you "know" you have to whether or not you really don't want to and then dealing with those emotional precautions because in reality, the relationship didn't need to end today if you didn't know the larger truths of the RedPill. A lot of advice will be curt and apathetic. Which is fine and true. Some will be 17-year-olds who like to swear and call people a pussy, that will be fine to. … | /r/askTRP | 29/12/20 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Lonely places when life is goodGreat points man. I have zero hobbies that are with a group. Even lifting is a solo journey (I mean nix the friends you make when you see the same faces) | /r/askTRP | 29/12/20 02:24 AM |
| 3 | Lonely places when life is goodHaha man, how do you think I ended up here? | /r/askTRP | 29/12/20 01:33 AM |
| 3 | Lonely places when life is goodMarketing degree. Got a sales job at a company that sold to startups. Invested about 5k in one that I really liked - a VC funded them and connected with the company. Developed a good enough relationship in the start up world they took a shot on me. Not sure if it’s replicable but I’d just learn a ton about angel investing (you don’t need to invest) and build a great LinkedIn audience | /r/askTRP | 29/12/20 01:08 AM |
| 2 | Lonely places when life is goodBigger aquarium hit me. My goals have always been pretty placid and defined to the career I’m in. Never really reached for ambitions extending from more money and faster promotions. Maybe this is a call to action to build a side hustle - hell won’t be bored in that direction | /r/askTRP | 29/12/20 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Lonely places when life is goodI work at a venture capitalist firm, honestly it’s a saving grace cause I love my job. Probably will turn around when covid kicks, haven’t even been able to step foot in the office or meet co workers yet. As sad it sounds, usually those are my band of brothers | /r/askTRP | 28/12/20 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Why does it still suck?Guess playing something off like it doesn’t matter when it might; comes back to bite you. You’re not wrong in any points though. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/20 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Why does it still suck?Yah, doing fine with other girls. Obviously a pandemic puts a damper on it, but had a good amount stacked up. Just a weird feeling | /r/askTRP | 22/11/20 02:56 AM |
| 2 | How to handle kicking my mom's BF out when he's 30 years my senior?Yah, man. He’s a clown, definitely taught me where giving in to the blue pill and letting a women control your life gets you lol. | /r/askTRP | 06/11/20 02:17 AM |
| 2 | Should I double text??If she wanted to text you back, she'd text you back man. Plus, you hooking up with her friend will probably help you out in the long run if you hold a frame. | /r/askTRP | 06/11/20 12:08 AM |
| 6 | So how am i supposed to act in terms of kino, on a date, in these corona-times?True shit. Plus if she is on the date. she’s already accepting the possibility | /r/askTRP | 22/08/20 03:01 AM |
| 1 | First ever dating app datesI’m actually in sales ha. Maybe it was just bad chemistry if I make it mathematical. Pretty much know who works, just wasn’t feeling them. Feel I’m off | /r/askTRP | 15/08/20 03:07 AM |
| 3 | Feeling you were wrong for breaking up, even if she was crazy ?True shit. Crazy how oneititis can works. This is my second time having to swallow the pill. Only difference is the first time I got broken with up, this time I did it (blue pull emotions 100% but knew what I had to do). | /r/askTRP | 04/08/20 01:57 AM |
| 2 | Feeling you were wrong for breaking up, even if she was crazy ?Definitely helps that I’m in software sales and have easy access to a mind consuming job, with a clear mission to get back to. | /r/askTRP | 04/08/20 01:56 AM |
| 1 | Feeling you were wrong for breaking up, even if she was crazy ?Yah those dopamine hits are addictive when you’re moving on and she’s still blowing you up have to admit. Time to kill the boy though; you’re right. | /r/askTRP | 04/08/20 01:32 AM |
| 1 | First break up post Red Pill, really reelingYup, in that begging phase right now — explaining how everything will be better and different. Never bought it, but them pleading doesn’t do any good on your mental state. Has you feeling it could have been different and second guessing (which from a practical standpoint you get it won’t change). | /r/askTRP | 16/07/20 04:35 PM |
| 1 | First break up post Red Pill, really reelingLove this approach man | /r/askTRP | 16/07/20 02:08 PM |
| 5 | Older guys - Do you regret having/not having children?What age was this at? That you realized you climbed the mountain | /r/askTRP | 11/07/20 04:55 AM |
| 1 | Can someone slap some sense into meyeah, it's just tough leaving someone who loves you so much and trying to retroactively rationalize the fighting and pinning it on yourself. feel she was slightly BPD, always found a reason to make me defensive, but damn, she truly cared about me as well. But was incredibly co-dependent. One of those situations where I don't want to do this from a feeling perspective but know it's just something that has to happen. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/20 04:26 PM |
| 2 | What to do when girl is going through a genuinely hard timeThis was enlightening, appreciate the blunt honesty. | /r/askTRP | 14/08/19 03:08 AM |
| -1 | What to do when girl is going through a genuinely hard timeYeah i think that's right on. Just gotta figure out how to word that I'm giving her space on this (was in a situation like this before, and completely came off like i just didn't give a damn and kinda blew up on me) | /r/askTRP | 14/08/19 01:35 AM |
| 1 | How to handle rescheduling a date when there’s a valid reasonI agree | /r/askTRP | 08/08/19 12:32 AM |
| 1 | LTR moved in with a bunch of party girlsTrue, that’s some good advice. Sucks cause she was an awesome girl, but guess that was the length of my turn | /r/askTRP | 22/08/18 02:39 AM |
| 1 | LTR moved in with a bunch of party girlsDamn, trust me I feel this. I just think breaking this off and when she asked me why? Saying “I feel you’re going to start partying all time” when she hasn’t gone out once, is going to make no sense. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/18 02:35 AM |
| 1 | When is it time to call quits on a good relationship?Yeah man. Just a shame, you see so much of guys on here complaining about it being the other way around, but it sucks nearly as much having to be the one trying to hide the despair. After living this, it's easy to see why girls get repulsed by that needy behavior. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/18 02:53 PM |
| 1 | When is it time to call quits on a good relationship?Nah, definitely don't live together hah. And, I've tried the hobby thing (I make music), but she insists on coming over and watching. Which turns into her usually being clingy and not even giving me space to work, I think that clingy part is the main vice of this. But, don't really know how to be like babe you "kiss me and are all over me" without her freaking out like most girls do when you have to turn them down. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/18 01:59 PM |
| 1 | When is it time to call quits on a good relationship?True. I've been wanting to try this for awhile, but how do I go about cutting back our time without her thinking I'm trying to distance myself? (obviously, she wouldn't be wrong thinking that), but I'm not trying to add stress to the line when all I want is like a three-day break to chill and think. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/18 01:46 PM |
| 0 | When is it time to call quits on a good relationship?Think it's cause I'm a music maker and feel that lately she's been taking up a lot of my time because she always wants to chill and if we do, she's usually always trying to kiss instead of doing her own thing for a minute. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/18 01:37 PM |
| 2 | LTR has shitty friends, don't know what to sayI feel you brotha. It just seems weak ending a relationship over hypotheticals. But, at the same I know having a conversation bout her friends is way way more needy. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/18 10:09 PM |
| 1 | LTR has shitty friends, don't know what to sayI don’t have a problem with my girl going out once every other month the way she does . I just hate her only way to chill with her friends is going out | /r/askTRP | 25/04/18 09:55 PM |
| 1 | LTR has shitty friends, don't know what to sayYeh, I don’t have problem with my girl going out and it’s even twice a month. I’m just realizing my girl doesn’t have like any good friends and idk what to do with that. My relationship is great. I’m just looking down the road and thinking “what if scenarios” pretty much. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/18 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Next after no sex on first date?Honestly bro, this where I differ from most redpill stuff. If it’s a girl you’re actually into? I say just try every night until your not making any progress. Why? My current ltr made me wait like 5 dates... never had that happen before. But then, after she did, we fucked like 4 times and now are six months in and still fuck like rabbits and have a great dynamic. Don’t blow this outta proportion because some hot head says you only get three dates. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/18 06:57 PM |
| 1 | How to play this situation?True. I basically told her, I don't see what's happening as flirting yet. But, I'm not cool if this becomes texting or drink grabbing. She was accepting that obviously, that's not cool. So, I think I'm good, just didn't know if opinions would say that even what I said above is crossing a line for some. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/18 04:53 PM |
| 1 | How to play this situation?Bet. Yeah, she's a puppy in front of me and the sex is not even remotely a problem. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/18 03:59 PM |
| 1 | How to fall outta oneitis during LTR“Glass is already broken” so instead of worrying just enjoy it till it ends | /r/askTRP | 09/03/18 12:55 AM |
| 2 | How to fall outta oneitis during LTRNah the relationship is amazing. But, I know that’s the headspace I need to be in to keep it that way | /r/askTRP | 08/03/18 11:23 PM |
| 5 | How to fall outta oneitis during LTRNot gunna get all deep, but I really appreciate this man. Made me realize how far off I’ve driven. Like fuck I’m a dj whose career is blowing up before I graduate college and am stressing about this chick I clung to who has her own problems. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/18 05:38 PM |
| 5 | Very first girlfriend... what to expect?This made me laugh. Such a honest truth. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/17 04:32 PM |
| 2 | Would you dump her? (With context) [x-post r/relationship_advice]Some shit is him being insecure, some shit is red flags. Regardless, who does long distance relationships? Waste of a life. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/17 01:37 AM |
| 3 | LTR wants sex too much and gets butthurtI have, but routinely I’m into independent girls who have their own thing going for them. When I have a girl just begging to fuck and just constantly on me, idk... puts a sort of pressure and negative vibe around sex. Like a “here we go” environment. I ended this relationships purely off attraction. I’m not in a relationship to just hang out, so many options out there, and I’m a sucker for that “fuck yes” relationship not working on a puzzle with lost pieces. My advice? Take some time apart. See… | /r/askTRP | 28/12/17 07:59 PM |
| 4 | LTR wants sex too much and gets butthurtBro. You’re not alone, been there before to. What worked for me, is just not seeing her everyday and doing you. Also, an unfortunate answer may be you are not as attracted. Maybe, you were just into the chase and now the pixie dust is off. I’ve had great girls that I’ve had to end it with for that simple reason. It sucks, but it happens. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/17 06:39 PM |
| 2 | LTRd celebrity girl, how to not slip into old habbitsTrue | /r/askTRP | 12/12/17 04:30 PM |
| 2 | LTRd celebrity girl, how to not slip into old habbitsI get a lot of shit on here but not this. I’ve gone out with hot girls before who are friends and I’ve seen girls be just into partying with the girls. Sure, they make like the attention, but being a hot girl who wants that life doesn’t seem like cheating | /r/askTRP | 12/12/17 03:48 PM |
| 14 | LTRd celebrity girl, how to not slip into old habbitsAppreciate the bluntness. Definitely scarcity mindset. Feels weird noticing it while you’re in it, rather than hindsight | /r/askTRP | 12/12/17 05:54 AM |
| 3 | LTRd celebrity girl, how to not slip into old habbitsThis was needed. Thanks for the comment | /r/askTRP | 12/12/17 05:34 AM |
| 5 | LTRd celebrity girl, how to not slip into old habbitsThanks for the comment. Guess this is a scenario where I just have to have as much fun as I can knowing this is probably not one that’ll last. But no need to ruin the present worrying | /r/askTRP | 12/12/17 04:46 AM |
| 3 | LTRd celebrity girl, how to not slip into old habbitsJust off community standards. Felt that would give perspective | /r/askTRP | 12/12/17 04:28 AM |
| 2 | How does TRP handle the situation where their girl looks "down," or "different"So, if you're in an ltr you would? I thought you never want to become your girl's emotional outlet? | /r/askTRP | 08/12/17 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Should past relationships matter?Truth. I’m past that “title” point because she was forcing that, but I’m not to invested so I can play accordingly. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/17 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Should past relationships matter?They ended about a year ago but were “cool or whatever” till like June. And we got together September till now. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/17 07:01 PM |
| 2 | Should past relationships matter?Yeah she’s 23, and I’m 21. So definitely a “she’s only your turn,” just, don’t wanna be playing stupid. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/17 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Should past relationships matter?Nah, never. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/17 05:40 PM |
| 1 | How Often Do You All Talk To Your LTRIt’s funny man. I always do all that shit when I’m in the plate phase no problem. Then, when we make it “official” I feel I have to change it up or second guess shit. Always funny to take a step back. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/17 02:30 AM |
| 1 | How Often Do You All Talk To Your LTRSmart | /r/askTRP | 20/11/17 02:28 AM |
| 8 | How to answer "you're so mysterious and closed""Did anyone ever tell you how perceptive you are" fucking genius | /r/askTRP | 19/10/17 06:27 PM |
| 0 | How to answer "you're so mysterious and closed"This is smart. | /r/askTRP | 19/10/17 05:57 PM |
| 2 | I have no issue cold approaching but I always fuck up the first or second dateTo true man. Instant butterfly killer. You let your anxiety get the best of you cause you knew the date didn't go well and tried to save it with words (which never works). Let her think about the fact you possibly didn't enjoy it and let it sink in that you might not text her again because of her shitty friends. Probably, would have played out much different. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/17 04:59 PM |
| 3 | I have no issue cold approaching but I always fuck up the first or second dateDon't over think it to much, you didn't lose it yet... with that said you need to tighten up. Don't say "I had a great night text" let her wonder if you did or did not. Also, it instantly gives off the vibe you're clingy. Also, give it a few days, let her wonder if maybe she did something something wrong, and ask her out again in maybe 3-4 days. What she says to that will be your indicator. Till then, keep gaming and cold approaching. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/17 01:42 PM |
| 1 | How would you reply to this?Good looks | /r/askTRP | 22/09/17 04:43 AM |
| 10 | Use texting only for logistics?You'd think. But, you have to go against that instinct, because separation breeds lust. A girls imagination is your best friend. If you're blowing up her phone she knows exactly what you're doing, no fantasy can be played out. When you don't text her though, it shows complete non-neediness. It shows your life is good enough without her. Maybe better? She doesn't know. So. Then when she does see you, you have a weeks work of anticipation to work with, and a whole persona she created for her witho… | /r/askTRP | 22/09/17 02:59 AM |
| 1 | Any TRP creatives or musicians struggle with this?Thanks for this. Johns an idle musically, never thought to look up to him from a personality perspective | /r/askTRP | 20/09/17 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Any TRP creatives or musicians struggle with this?Nah, don't care about being "alpha" don't like the word to be honest. Just wondering, how to find the balance. To write sad music I usually have to be sad. Wondering how other musicians here are able to switch it on and off. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/17 04:16 PM |
| 12 | Is one of the best negs "you're so weird," as long as you follow up with a smile or endearing laugh?For example, I was texting this girl about coming over and she said "it's a little late" Which I replied "I didn't know you were boring." Next response "Am not!" "Ok.. proof?" "Heading over" Honestly it's a way to tease her without being mopey and puts her on the defensive. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/17 03:41 AM |
| 27 | Is one of the best negs "you're so weird," as long as you follow up with a smile or endearing laugh?"I didn't know you were boring" is usually a home-run for me. Girls will do anything to not be boring, just watch the hamster go into gear. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/17 08:19 PM |
| 3 | [Urgent advice] LTR is gonna break up with me today.Probably because you were being weak the previous months and then you showcased stoic strength which made her think: "Hm. Maybe he's not as bad as I made him out to be." However. This girl just showcased she's willing to breakup when you're slacking rather than work things out. Is that someone you want to be with? Someone who will drop you when you start to slip? Probably not. I'd grab this red flag by the base and send her off. | /r/askTRP | 07/09/17 03:14 PM |
| 5 | Anyone have experience with girls who seem eager over text and happily agree to meet up yet are boring, put off, or indifferent in person? Just ghost?But the only action that should speak anything here is that you gave her an option to get away and grab a drink down the street and she said no. If she was interested but didn't want the social pressure of being around her friend she would have jumped at the opportunity. Least in my experience. Feel you played your cards great though. | /r/askTRP | 07/09/17 03:09 PM |
| 12 | [Urgent advice] LTR is gonna break up with me today.Stoic mindset. Few words, don't give her emotional drama to indulge herself with. Act indifferent and I guarantee you'll leave that house with three texts from her apologizing. From there... it's up to you whether or not you want to grow or jump back into a dumpster. | /r/askTRP | 07/09/17 02:58 PM |
| 3 | Anyone have experience with girls who seem eager over text and happily agree to meet up yet are boring, put off, or indifferent in person? Just ghost?Wait for her to reach out to you. Actions over words always man. Go ahead and set-up some other dates or hit the gym and drop this one. | /r/askTRP | 07/09/17 02:56 PM |
| 2 | Trouble with getting girls who are over 21?I live in florida where its a felony. So it's not really worth the risk | /r/seduction | 26/06/16 03:38 PM |
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