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The West is defined as the part of Europe that was part of the Western Roman empire during the schism, and all the countries mainly inhabited by descendants from these lands
/r/MensRights21/10/16 11:04 PM
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Is Italy not a western country now?
/r/MensRights21/10/16 07:48 PM
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Speaking purely from experience, one night stands are pretty common for most men. Don't most of your friends have sex with strangers when they go out at night? At least like once every 3 months? For women it's even easier to have casual sex, yes that is true
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/16 12:43 PM
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The majority of guys have one night stands once in a while. Stop mistaking Reddit for real life
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/16 12:37 PM
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So this 80/20 bullshit that yall keep in your mouth 24/7? That has to go. It's perfectly possible for the average guy to get his dick wet. Essentially this. TRP is a huge grouping of men who are or were sexually unsuccessful in the early 20s. They stay in their echo chamber and beginning to believe that most men are like them. In reality, the vast majority of men have sex by that age
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/16 04:05 PM
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Now, pics are everything. There's far less emphasis on one's profile and message content, and far more emphasis on pictures. If she doesn't like your pictures, she won't write you back. That can be a huge plus for a lot of guys. Lots of guys, like me, aren't really witty or funny but enjoy athletic pursuits making them more physically attractive. The tinder app was a godsend for me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/16 03:58 PM
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I strongly disagree. As you said, Many of these guys won't commit, but they'll "hit it and quit it", that obviously means that the girl will probably move on and it'll be your turn next.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/16 03:53 PM
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From my personal experience, I'd say it's pretty common. Besides, even as a guy, you don't need to be hot to have a high n count, you simply need a high sex drive
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/16 02:54 PM
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The way you count sexual partners is definitely flawed. I have an N count of 17, which is actually very common amongst guys in their late 20s. I definitely don't feel like a 5 star stud. many of them were plain looking and two of them were outright unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/16 12:46 PM
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The thing is it inevitably will be about TRP. Outside of it and its immediately related alt-right ideologies, I've never met someone of any ideology deluded to the point that they believe women never get harassed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 02:51 PM
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You should have titled "TRP fallacy: women rarely get harassed" then post some statistics from a reliable source showing how common it is and a few particularly loathsome examples like this. The post as it is now is just insane and doesn't get any point across
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 02:43 PM
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Men tend to be more violent though. The vast majority of homicides are committed by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 12:29 PM
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Can you link me to the other post, so I can see if they are comparable?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 12:25 PM
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Pretty awful. That being said 'Kill all men' or 'Kill all women' are not seen as vile as 'Kill all Jews', 'Kill all Tutsi' or 'Kill all Kebab' because there is no historical precedent
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 12:22 PM
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is this website acceptable? Obviously not. What are you even trying to do with this post? I'll be very surprised if anyone of any ideology here justifies this
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 12:15 PM
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first world country What do you mean by this? If you're using this as in 'highly developed countries with high income' Saudi Arabia and Qatar are first world countries. Both countries have a very long list of rights not available to women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 12:12 PM
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Not really
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/16 09:04 PM
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Spain here. Although I am not native, I've been here for a while. Here are the main differences. Divorce is pretty common but alimony and child support is much rarer. Dating is much easier, Everyone I know can get laid, even ugly men and really shy guys too very often if you go to a bar or club, you might find women who just want an immediate sexual experience and will even overlook if you are nervous or ugly women often don't really care about how much money you make both men and women are very…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/16 12:51 PM
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You're kind of grasping for the straws here. Anyway, getting a drink and spending time talking is cheaper than pristitution
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/16 09:55 AM
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Many clients choose not to. They just wanna shoot the shit with a pretty lady, have me stroke their hair, cuddle them etc I'm genuinely surprised
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/16 09:52 AM
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Really? What can do they do then?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/16 10:13 PM
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In reality all women and men objectify other people's bodies. Nobody cares. There is really nothing wrong about it. Just yesterday I was at the beach with my whole family and my grandparents and their friends were arguing if the a naked lady in the water had a good boobs. My grandma and my cousin thought so, my grandpa and my girlfriend thought they were sagging too much but thought her butt had a great shape. You need to stop confusing provocative articles on the internet with reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/16 10:11 PM
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Yeah, I don't get why she had to put in "white"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/16 10:03 PM
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Everyone should be allowed to objectify and rate everyone they please. Outside of the nutty places you visit on the Internet, nobody cares about objectification.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/16 09:56 PM
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Further more, the issue of "objectification" is really bordering on thought policing. Why do feminists care what men think about women they merely glance at? I agree. The calls for objectification are truly silly. I think everyone should be free to objectify anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/16 09:49 PM
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These authors are fucking insufferable bigots. However, you obviously branched out to find them. They are not a majority amongst feminists. It's like finding the craziest Trump supporters and present them as if they were mainstream republicans
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/16 09:44 PM
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Personally, I think most 'normal' folks worked out that this wasn't the case when they were kids and therefore never really felt too deceived. You are definitely correct. This bizarre cult that is TRP is convinced that there is some feminist power lying to men telling them to not work on themselves. No 'It's the inside that counts' is akin to all the other 'nice' ways of explaining the cruder realities of life. You say 'I'm going to the bathroom' not 'I'm gonna be dropping a shit from my ass' 'G…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/16 09:26 PM
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I guess that's your experience as an escort. I never seen an escort in my life so I wouldn't know. I have only seen low end prostitutes on the streets, not really sure if they are more common or not in the west, but they are very numerous
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/16 07:22 PM
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Just use a condom then
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/16 07:18 PM
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But there's still "Chad" getting pussy for free with girls that are legtimately into him you don't have to be this "Chad" figure to get it for free. Most men can get it for free from my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/16 05:53 PM
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So giving people freedom makes them less free is what you're saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/16 05:51 PM
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Men don't come to prostitutes for sex I don't believe that. There is a street right next to where I live where I see prostitutes fucking clients right by the street walls. How is that intimacy in anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/16 05:48 PM
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That's not true at all. How the hell do you pay less for a free one night stand?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/16 05:39 PM
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women can withold sex Unless you're very unattractive to point no woman wants you, a man can withold sex as well
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/16 01:43 PM
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Feminism has made getting sex very easy if that's true, why all the hate?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/16 01:23 PM
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I am a radical feminist black trans woman now Not everyone who disagrees with TRP is a feminist, keep that in mind!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/16 01:18 PM
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Many women do approach men. I've had women approach me in the past. In general though, you are right women generally don't approach first because that's how gender relations are socially constructed. I don't see it counter your argument that women like to see themselves as empowered and strong. Everyone except a self-hating wretch likes to see themselves as being strong willed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/16 01:15 PM
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you are going to have to be concerned with how they think about you. this is a very good comment, not just about sex but about life in general. In today's world, what people think of you is everything
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/16 12:33 PM
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A worthless guy who's okay with himself and really cool about it and happy and lives happily will still not get laid, He will probably get laid. This keeps getting repeated ad nauseum but it's simply not true. Most people get laid. It's really nothing special
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/16 12:04 PM
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It's a bit of both. You need to strive for self improvement but at the same time have some self-esteem, otherwise you'll be a deppy downer full of insecurities and no one will want to associate with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/16 12:01 PM
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Wow, you are making a lot of assumptions!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/16 11:07 AM
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The person who replied to exaggerates a bit, but the vast majority of women don't like talking to people on the subway. Unless they are in a large group going out for a drink, they will be more receptive
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/16 11:04 AM
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i'll add street and supermarket to that list
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/16 10:58 AM
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If the guy is just looking for a little female attention there is nothing wrong with that and he shouldn't be shamed for trying. Many women don't think like that. If you approach them on the street, they will not like it and will be very hostile.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/16 10:56 AM
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but if you approach someone who is not open to being approached and receive a whole load of bitchery back, you're going to lose confidence, no? This. If you approach a girl on the street there is a good chance they will be hostile or very uncomfortable, thereby destroying your confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/16 10:48 AM
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Girls generally feel very uncomfortable if you hit on them in public places. My gf goes hysterical if someone hits on her at work or on the street. However, you don't have to just flirt with girls in bars and clubs. Try a social event or a house party. That's the best place to pick up women. By the way, I'm Italian as well. You are right, in the north and the south its unheard of. In lazio though it's somewhat more common though. Southern Italians abroad do it though, however not to the extend S…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/16 10:43 AM
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Yeah a few times a year. I've seen them pick girls up and go home with them. Before I was in a relationship and I did the same
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/16 07:07 AM
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I don't know any man outside of the navy seals I spend time with who've ever had a one night stand, even with girls lower than 5 Don't know what to tell you. I live in a party town in Spain and it's a very common occurrence. I'd say 1 time out of 3 nights we go out, one of my friends has sex with a stranger
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 06:45 AM
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It doesn't happen on a frequent basis, but a few times a year a regular guy gets sex from a stranger if he goes out most weekends. According to the only study I have found on the subject: about 50% of men have had a one night stand. Although I was a bit off, one night stands are nowhere as rare as you make them out to be
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 06:39 AM
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On a regular basis, not really. More like a few times a year
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 06:35 AM
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growing up in a rich part of the country maybe I live in easy pussy-ville lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 06:34 AM
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At the drop of a hat, I'll agree it only happens to a few men. That it happens every once in a while, maybe a few times a year, I'd say the majority of men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 06:32 AM
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Ask 5 of your friends if they ever had a one night stand. I'm almost certain at the very least 3 of them will say yes, thus proving my point
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/16 11:14 PM
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From my experience they certainly do. Again, 60% of men can get sex from a stranger they just met in my experience. The girls in question are very likely not hot, but it still is casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/16 04:26 PM
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Alright even amongst my friends that have dropped at least 6 out 10 have had sex with a complete stranger. It's really much more common than Reddit makes it look like it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/16 03:54 PM
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Most men can fuck an average girl, a 5 or 6, within 48 hours of first meeting? Absolutely. Out of the guys I hang out with in college about 7 out of 10 of them have had a night stand with a complete stranger they met in a bar
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/16 03:50 PM
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I disagree. From experience I've seen 9 and 8 doing it casually with uglier men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/16 12:49 PM
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Nah, in my experience about 70% of men could have casual sex. On the Internet the 30% unlucky ones appear much more numerous but that's just because they are much louder
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/16 12:47 PM
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I totally will. I am not a feminist
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/16 08:32 PM
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A hard working man who earns $200,000 is not wealthy. 200,000 is wealthy. It is much much easier to fuck or being in a relationship with a hottie than earning that amount of money Society does tell men not only to be sensitive and overly emotional; No it doesn't . Look at the current sex symbols, Channing Tatum and Brad Pitt. They are alpha male. Read Cosmo, it clearly outlines that women want social and strong hunks. it also tells them that beta traits like loyalty, fidelity, industriousness, e…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/16 03:25 PM
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when they see sexually successful men, and they see what is actually going on, everyone gaslights them and tells them they're not seeing what they are in fact seeing - attractive, high status, good looking, sexually forward men approaching, dating and fucking attractive women. No, no one is gaslighting them, they are deluding themselves that this is happening. Oh, we don't really like those guys. We really like nice guys like YOU. women say this to unattractive beta men to come off as polite. Re…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/16 03:14 PM
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be nice, be kind, just be yourself, and someday someone will love you just for who you are. everyone gaslights them and tells them they're not seeing what they are in fact seeing "everyone" is telling them not to be alpha? really? I keep hearing a variation of this from TRP. Society tells me to be submissive and emotional, this doesn't work TRP TELLS THE TRUTH. This is a false narrative that is created by TRP. I don't see these message prevailing among society, look at ads anywhere, you'll see w…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/16 01:06 PM
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hard work definitely does attract women. Women love athletic and wealthy men. Possibly you mean that society is feeding nerds the advice that women like sensitive overly emotional men? If that's the case I believe this trope is only really pervasive in "nerd" media. It regular media, on TV on commercials, we see women lusting after muscular and socially confident men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/16 12:25 PM
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if by blue pill you mean heavy users of TBP, I would agree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/16 12:05 PM
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good point. tumblr feminism undeniably is adding fuel to the fire, working already on the undercurrent of misogyny among nerds and aggravating it with wild double standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/16 12:04 PM
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that regardless of how unremarkable you are, you are beautiful all along and deserve an apex alpha in your life. That isn't misandry. Likewise the fantasy that a beautiful woman will love you despite your obvious limitations isn't misogyny. it is just a fantasy. By misogyny I mean lots of TRP answers in this thread flat out saying they hate women. The cited article is drawing the parallel of this hatred to these impossible fantasies. I'm sure the case can be made as well that romantic literature…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/16 11:56 AM
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Those philosophers come from an era where misogyny was the norm. I'm not saying all modern nerds are misogynist but a great number of them seem to be. This is in an era where misogyny is not the norm
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/16 11:49 AM
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They should hate individually their actual bullies than an entire gender
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/16 11:46 AM
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Generalizing all men is just as wrong as generalizing all women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/16 11:43 AM
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The backlash against feminism is conflated with a culture of misogyny. sometimes, very often on reddit, the former is disguised as the latter to make it more palatable. The issue is that pointing out issues in gender dynamics (and particularly against women) is often conflated with hating women. They aren't the same thing. I agree. lots of upvoted TRP posts don't just point out issues in gender dynamics, they flat out hate on an entire gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/16 11:42 AM
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nerds and geeks are often inexperienced and naive, so they buy into the whole women are wonderful crap. Exactly, this fucked up mentality leads to TRP. Once they realize that women aren't as wonderful as they turn out to be, they hate them passionately. they need to learn to analyze them on the individual level. big backlash against feminism online feminism deserves a backlash. It is growing increasingly out of touch with reality, just have a look at tumblr. We are not discussing feminism though…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/16 02:55 AM
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So, you are saying that Reddit is taking up the feminist cause against slut shaming and yet somehow this is increasing misogyny? No, I mean Reddit is increasing it's hate on sexually promiscuous women. Misogyny is just a label. It is designed to dehumanize and tear down someone else's humanity. No, If you hate women, you are by definition a misogynist. It's just calling a spade a spade. exposing your own bigotry by dehumanizing an entire group. I'm demonizing no entire group. I'm not saying all …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/16 02:47 AM
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we would sympathize with their plight, if they weren't so hateful
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/16 02:37 AM
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if you hate women, by definition, you are a misogynist. it's just called a spade a spade
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/16 02:36 AM
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White knights and red pillers are different sides of the same coin
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/16 02:19 AM
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"Red pill" IRL are nothing like what you find online. The latter are definitely nerdy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/16 01:03 AM
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They are picky for a good reason. They pick out the strongest and fittest. They others shouldn't reproduce
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 11:09 PM
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The ones on my street are only 20 euros half an hour. Never had one but that's what they shout when you pass them. Why can't "incels" get laid the normal way like everyone else?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 10:11 PM
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I'm not a feminist. The 0,75 cent to 1 dollar argument is pure tumblr bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 10:09 PM
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You're making incredible claims with nothing to support them. It's logical that I ask for evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 10:05 PM
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You can buy it with your own money, it really isn't that expensive. A one night stand is completely free
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 10:02 PM
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Do you have any sources to back that up?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 09:54 PM
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Both attitudes are shitty and unacceptable
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 07:59 PM
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This is just a small subgroup of men. It's definitely not an attack on all me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 07:58 PM
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Being unattractive doesn't justify you to be so hateful
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 07:50 PM
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Yes it Where does it say that all nerds are to blame amalgam of early PUA/mens forum Exactly, by nerds for nerds
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 07:49 PM
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Do you have any sources to back that claim?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 06:46 PM
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Answered to the wrong thread, sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 06:46 PM
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Yeah, he says a lot of dumb stuff as well. This article is pretty solid. Attack the message not the messenger
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 06:44 PM
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Healthcare and child birth are necessities to live. Having sex isn't. Neither does a 15 dollar minimum wage. If you wanna fuck a hooker, do it with your own money
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 06:16 PM
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the state should pay for it for the unintended consequences of all this sexual freedom they've unleashed on society So tax payer money should fund prostitutes? What the hell man
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 05:52 PM
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Sometimes yes. These ones obviously not though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 05:47 PM
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These hateful generalizations you spout are very likely the product of romantic failure and insecurity often found in nerd culture. Just like the article describes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 05:42 PM
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how have women changed in the last generations?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 04:53 PM
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Strike out kindness, hardwork is definitely the most effective route. Working out and getting money makes you much more attractive to women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 12:58 PM
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Absolutely. Reddit is filled with man hating woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 12:56 PM
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original sin I'm Catholic TRP references memes, the hallmark of nerdom. Nerd means socially awkward
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 12:49 PM
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Read carefully. This route IS the most effective but it doesn't entitle you to sex
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 12:47 PM
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The only way to make the writer happy is if men just suffered quietly as an incel because according to the article, there is no method of acqu sex that is appropriate Wrong. "Incels" need to improve their physical appearance and social skills in order to attract women. It is much easier for some men in than others but that's life. If they can't attract women no matter what they do, yes, they will have to live without sex. There is no alternative
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 12:44 PM
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You can't EARN sex. Sex should only come from the mutual consent of the involved parties
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 12:37 PM
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They aren't brainwashed at all, the misogyny seems comes from within them. Not all nerds are hateful against women. That's not what the article is saying. There is a significant portion of them definitely are hate filled, just look at all the TRP revenge fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 12:36 PM
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the rest of us get peanuts http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/nhsr/nhsr036.pdf At least 85% of men will have sex by their early 20s. 66% of male teenagers have had sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 12:13 PM
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Maybe I phrased it wrong. There is definitely a common mindset amongst nerds that believes that hard work, high intellect and kindness entitles you to sex
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 12:07 PM
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The difficulty in distinguishing the two is another underlining flaw in The TRP community
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 12:03 PM
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It's not about shaming nerds and socially awkward men. It's about trying to understand the underlying motivations of groups like TRP that originate prominently from nerd culture
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 12:02 PM
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I like the people in the first category. Not so much the people in the second
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/16 10:24 AM
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I don't think so at all. I think they should have the same sexual freedom. I wanted to see your guys opinions on the matter
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/16 10:04 PM
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Having premarital sex makes it unlikely that a wife and husband will pair up? It also reduces offsprings?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/16 06:51 AM
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They want no alternative, they want EXACTLY this to happen but they can't even admit it to themselves most of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/16 06:47 AM
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And honestly, what is the alternative? Undesirable men get government issued sex slaves to bear their children? Read between the lines of every redpill answer in this thread. Yes, that's literally what they wish for
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/16 06:34 AM
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I think everyone should have sexual freedom. I have a feeling redpillers don't agree though....
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/16 05:19 PM
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Millions of supplicating betas? Really? Hot girls get lots of attention, the others much less
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/16 10:22 AM
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It varies greatly from woman to woman. I guess you just had a lot of bad experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/16 09:42 AM
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I purposely posted a rage bait piece to see how mature the sub is. Turns out it's pretty mature! Out of 100 responses virtually all of them recognized it as cruel and pointless. And this is a sub inhabited by some serious crazy TRP. Thought catalog comments, on the other hand, used this unsourced list of cruel women as an excuse to dismiss half the world as evil monsters. Could it be that Reddit is much more mature than it is given credit?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/16 09:49 AM
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Women dont approach shit at clubs and bars Possibly there are some social differences, where are you from? In my experience it is normal for women to approach men in these places
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/16 10:09 AM
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symbiosis Sounds like a very healthy way to look at the world. The world population is huge, so obviously you have to rank people to choose the right mate. Nothing "superficial" or "wrong" about that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/16 07:48 AM
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Are you in an Anglo or Northern European country? Girls, and men, tend to be more closed
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/16 10:30 PM
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That seems very unusual to me. Girls don't approach you ever? Do you rarely go to clubs? Are you very short?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/16 08:36 PM
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Just apples no, Combine it with some protein, wholebread and vegetables
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/16 02:13 PM
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Definitely not. If you need to eat outside pick the healthiest choice
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/16 07:25 AM
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That is precisely why would get a significant advantage over all other man: you lift, they don't
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/16 07:24 AM
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Yep Sounds good, regardless if TRP mentioned it or not
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/16 08:20 PM
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At least in my case, It was way lower than 25000. My gym member ship was only 20 a month. I live next to my gym so there is no transportation cost. 20*24(months in 2 years)= 480 dollars. 480 dollars and now you are attractive, sounds like a good investment
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/16 06:47 PM
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yep "just be yourself, don't go to the gym and lift if that's not you, just be yourself and eventually you'll meet someone great." and "don't like muscular guys." are absolutely cancerous advices. They are not malicious, they are given under the delusion that what's inside a person completely overrides a persons outside. It's the sort of advice given by naive idealists who believe the world is a much better place than it really is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/16 06:00 PM
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but they are no guarantee of enhanced success. Literally nothing in life is a guarantee of success. I consider this however the most effective way to build attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/16 05:48 PM
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A good diet would include a lot of proteins, little saturated fat, and an appropriate amount of carbs and non saturated fats. I generally start of the day eating oats. At midday I eating a lot of vegetables, such as avocados and asparagus, and some fish, like salmon codfish. At the end I always eat some fruit. Before working out I like to have a light turkey sandwich, and after some lean chicken or mackerel along with vegetables and fruits. Free weights and machines make a huge difference. I use…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/16 05:46 PM
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nothing is guaranteed for everyone in life If you are a midget, you're face is hideous or if you have some strong social anxiety it will not work
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/16 04:33 PM
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this yes, it's kind of obvious that muscles help with attraction, but i don't think most men really how just HOW IMMENSELY muscles help building your attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/16 04:31 PM
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On TRP, they just say lift. They rarely, if ever, emphasize that compound movements without machines is the most important part of your work out
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/16 04:28 PM
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This is a bad rule Whenever my current lover would ask, I would outright say it. If my current lover feels uncomfortable with sleeping with someone who has had a lot of experience, I don't want to be with her
/r/seduction15/05/16 02:54 PM
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Putting aside the incomprehensible jargon, I understand you are sleeping around with 5 girls. Outside of Reddit, that's normal for every young guy not in a relationship. TRP act like its the sign of being a young god
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 10:09 AM
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from my experience the wide majority of men can have a one night stand
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 10:03 AM
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The okcupid study does indicate a pattern. However, for the millionth time, doesn't it seem a big stretch assuming all the sex happens between 20% of men just because most women classify them as attractive from their dating profile from a particular website? Wouldn't you think possibly, that it would be less of a stretch to analyze the percentage of virgins in their youth and use this data to generalize men's sexual habits? If the results would have been that it was 80% virgins in my study and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/16 08:17 AM
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it is better because it directly asks about sex. the OKcupid study just hints at it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/16 01:16 AM
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alright, 3 times a month isn't really that often even for single men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/16 01:04 AM
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the OKcupid study DOESN'T tell us anything AT ALL about anyone sexual habits. It's useless find a better study
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/16 01:04 AM
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3 times per month That isn't that much at all. yep, I'd say the wide majority of men have more than that especially the ones in a relationship!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 10:43 PM
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Wouldn't my stated study in the OP still be a better indicator of men's sex habits?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 10:40 PM
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Maybe they do? Still there is no way of knowing just from that study that those that don't make up the top 20% aren't getting any sex
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 10:39 PM
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Yes I do. Some men have way more sex than other men but most men have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 10:37 PM
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To have more sex
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 06:05 PM
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RP believes in a whole bunch of things. That's entirely outside the scope of the thread. I'm just pointing out that this 80/20 theory, whether it originated from RP or not, is bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 06:02 PM
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Nope. Didn't respond to any messages. Deleted the thing 24 hours later
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 05:59 PM
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Do you have any evidence all the study is just a huge lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 05:52 PM
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Those beta bux apparently make up less than 14% The other 86% that do have sex in their youth are all alphas?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 05:51 PM
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So you're saying it's all a metaphor and it doesn't really mean what it says?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 05:49 PM
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I never said that sex was equally distributed. Am I misrepresenting the 80/20 rule? You tell me what it really means then
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 05:47 PM
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I guess you don't know many women intimately then
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 05:20 PM
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Really? Getting laid has nothing to do on how you act? How delusional are you? I'm pretty sure even most red pillers will strongly disagree with you here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 05:19 PM
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Not my experience at all. From what I see, most guys who are not ugly or socially awkward have casual sex I can't say this about other people's relationship but at least in mine sex is about every other day. You seem to believe women have no sex drive at all
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 05:17 PM
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I mean, yeah. The people answering the surveys can always lie. It's impossible to have a 100% accurate report because of this. It's the best study I can find though on the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 04:41 PM
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It's hard to find a study that can prove or disprove the 80/20 theory. The closest thing would be something showing what percentage of people have ever had sex in their youth nor not, which is what my cited study shows. The OKcupid simply shows that women consider the top 20% attractive from their dating profile. We don't know if they will find them more or less attractive in real life with their social skills. We also don't know if they would sleep with them at all. The OK Cupid is weak sauce
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 03:34 PM
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Yep its it in The OP
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 03:23 PM
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Yeah I'd say those are pretty mainstream. TRP exaggerates these to an autistic level to the point they are no longer true For example: it's widely known woman are attracted to confident man. TRP turns this into "if you ever doubt anything in the presence of a woman, you will die virgin and be alone forever!"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 01:05 PM
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Thanks! This further puts a lid on the 80/20 nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 08:36 AM
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Check the study I found At least 85% of men will have sex by their early 20's thereby negating that women will only fuck 20% of men in their youth and fuck the rest when they get old
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 06:07 AM
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Here is the best study I found http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/nhsr/nhsr036.pdf At least 85% of men will have sex by their early 20s What questions you want me to answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 05:58 AM
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The only study that proves that Reddit attracts unusual people is the very different interests people have on Reddit compared to the outside world. Sports or celebrity news are rarely discussed IRL, obscure subjects like sarkessian, swedens immigration policy, SJW etc are discussed au nauseum on Reddit and never IRL
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 05:49 AM
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Reddit's demographc is heavily skewed towards those kind of men. The point of my op
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 05:42 AM
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It's not the sample size but the innate characteristics that come in with a dating site. On the Internet, all the emphasis will go on the physical appearance. In real life, the way you act also plays and the place where you meet a woman affects the outcome thereby allowing a wider pool of men to get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 05:38 AM
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In my experience, nerd and unattractive men are only a minority. They make up 15%
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 10:41 PM
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What does your point have to do to disprove the OP? The MIT nerds are almost certainly the 15% that don't have sex. Doesn't your data actually help the OP? The place with the potentially highest amount of male virginity has only 40%, if you would believe TRP, it would have been 90% virginity
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 10:37 PM
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On this website it would seem so. It still is a huge stretch to use an online dating site as a potential indicator of society at large
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 10:33 PM
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That study shows that women message hot men more often. It doesn't show that only 20% get nearly all the sex even if women gravitate towards them
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 10:14 PM
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It's still a week analogy. Having sex is one of the funest things you can do. Of course it will always have a market. Sports will always have a market for example
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 10:12 PM
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As I pointed out in the OP, the TRP, and Reddit in general, is a particularly unreliable collective that acts like a magnet for people who have a way out of the mainstream experiences. Ask the collective experience at a football game and you'll get a much more acrurate picture reflecting the mainstream
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 10:10 PM
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Thank you for an actually study addressing my claim. Then again, it's MIT. Supposedly one of the hardest universities in the world. Obviously they will have a very high amount of virgins since they spend all their time studying. Considering that, ONLY 40% are virgin, in the place where you would expect there to be the highest amount of virgin men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 10:06 PM
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I never said it was super easy. It just means that a very wide range of girls will probably find you attractive and therefore you have a chance with them
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 10:02 PM
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Of course, you need to continue working out in order to stay fit
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 10:00 PM
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I just said, sex would sell even if everyone was getting laid all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 07:59 PM
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Nope, just curious to see how many matches in 24 hours. I deleted it one day after
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 07:58 PM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 07:57 PM
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Sex will be a big industry even if everyone was getting laid Again Reddit is seems to be inhabited by unusual people who do not represent the average human citizen
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 06:18 PM
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Is it really that absurd? The only half of your single friends have had any sex at all in an ENTIRE year?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 06:05 PM
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I'll explain better my metrics. At the very least 85% men have have sex multiple times this year excluding pristitutes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 06:01 PM
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I did. Sorry if it was unclear because of the formatting
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 05:50 PM
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If you show me a study then indeed it's game over for me. Otherwise I'll continue being a skeptic
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 05:34 PM
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The burden of proof is on the person who initially brought up the claim. Therefore TRP has to back up its claim
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 05:30 PM
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Thanks for the study
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 05:29 PM
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90/10 on tinder Again I strongly doubt it. I never had tinder until recently because I've been in a relationship for a while. I decided to have a little social experiment for 24 Hours. I was in the USA for a business trip and I downloaded tinder. I put some photos where I looked good and put my height and see how many matches I would make. I had over 50 matches with a few starting a conversation with me. Some were hot others were ugly. I deleted tinder shortly after. I'm a stud? I highly doubt i…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 05:28 PM
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Again, we are comparing our personal anecdotes. Has there ever been a study showing what percentage of single men had sex in the last year? I can't find it I still believe the 80/20 theory to be a fallacy. I would have to be living in some sort of Chad bubble all my life
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 05:17 PM
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How many single men would you reckon had any sex at all in the last year? I'm guessing at least 80% therefore discrediting red pill theories
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 05:04 PM
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do you know players Sure are all your friends hot, Not all of them do some of your friends have more sex than other friends, Yes is your social circle diverse or are they all in the same social class and same league looks wise? Yes I think the average woman has an easier time acquiring casual sex if they desire it, as opposed to the average man. I agree because personal experience again Your study shows only 18,6% had casual sex in the last month. What about the last year?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 04:59 PM
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unless backed up by statistics, my personal experience trumps the experience of unknown strangers on the Internet
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 04:54 PM
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Casual sex and one night stands gather around a small portion of men. This seems very at odds with my personal experience. Do you have any studies to back this up?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 10:19 AM
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It is true, I don't have any evidence to go on outside of my experience. Yet I still trust that over what I'm being spoon fed with no real evidence on the Internet. About the okcupid study; nothing what I said is being disproved. Beauty matters therefore beautiful people get more messages than ugly people on dating websites. That is obvious. It also doesn't mean none of the lesser attractive men never have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 08:34 AM
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Of all the redpill "truths" out there, this might be the falsest In my wide range of experience knowing many diverse people, I estimate pretty much 85% of all men (excluding men who have been in relationships all their life) have random one night stands once in a while. Reddit attracts the remaining 15% and make them seem much more numerous than they really are
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/16 04:40 PM
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Unattractive nerds attract less females on Tinder? no fucking way!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/16 04:30 PM
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Still, as the study points out, it's a subconscious belief we innately have in us. We are not being "told" by anyone that all women are good and men are dodgy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/16 07:21 PM
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It probably has a lot to do with the fact that women are physically weaker than men therefore less threatening
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/16 10:35 AM
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we're told that women are lovely and wonderful and honest and that if a woman lies Not All Women Are Like That. Where are you told this nonsense? Sounds like a strawman to me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/16 08:20 PM
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this is valid for many men as well
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/16 02:23 PM
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NOT A WOMAN, but here is my experience: In general, nobody would look down on a man for being very selective in choosing his sexual partners except if that means he has had a very low partner count. This is generally seen negatively for many women. There was a guy at my college who many girls found really attractive. Once it became known he was a virgin, all the girls were gross out and therefore not attracted to him anymore. To further lead weight to this, all the girls I've dated seemed very t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/16 02:19 PM
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You can't love freedom of speech AND dictators you fool
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/16 12:33 AM
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Trudeau hasn't killed any journalists yet. What's up with this Putin praise from the Reddit crowd that also supposedly loves freedom of speech?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/16 10:47 AM
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He hardly commands respect from everyone, many republicans hate him as do all the democrats.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/16 10:44 AM
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the theory goes, women shame other sluts because sluts devalue women's most precious commodity, sex. How do you explain this in a country where prostitution is legal?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/16 10:41 AM
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THIS the field reports themselves disqualify TRP as any useful piece of advice. The fact that they act so proud about what is for most men a completely normal occurrence confirms that they don't have much success or knowledge in sexual conquests
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/16 05:21 PM
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everything about men is hypocritical You can't generalize about all men like this. You are as sexist as TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/16 02:46 PM
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I'm pretty sure both redpills and bluepills have sex on a regular basis. Despite what you hear on Reddit, as long as you are not a shut-in it's really common even for unattractive men to get laid often. After your teens and very early 20's, you very rarely hear people bragging about having sex. You might hear then bragging about fucking a super model but no one brags about having the simple act of sex because it's a given that you are sexually active.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/16 02:25 PM
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really? You sound like you're making a huge strawman. I'm in my late 20's and I grew up in Southern Europe. I never heard literally anyone make these nonsense arguments. It is well known to the wide majority of people that women like strong men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/16 02:13 AM
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I never did online dating because I thought it was only for complete losers. However, after seeing how popular tinder was with girls, I thought about giving it a shot. A month later I slept with 4 attractive women. Although I deleted it about year ago after I decided to get in a more serious relationship with a girl I was seeing, I recommend it to all guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 08:37 PM
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This. I Kind of enjoy this sub. As pointed out a million times by detractors, the problem with this website is that on many subs you basically have people with the same views that parrot each other for karma. This is definitely true for both the red pill and the blue pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/16 11:33 PM
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Some are great some a terrible. Like most things in life
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/16 10:57 AM
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Well I guess laws suck in the uk? Not really sure what this has to do with my argument. Also, how are you told to act?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/16 12:14 AM
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Yep pretty much. They are mostly inventions. Do you agree?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/16 12:02 AM
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It makes some people feel uncomfortable admitting it straight up but virtually everyone is aware of it. Also, Reddit attracts people with very unusual opinions and ways to look at the world. This applies strongly with both blue pills and red pills.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 11:58 PM
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Internet differs strongly reality of life. Unlike what the Internet leads you to believe, furries are extremely rare. Very few people in America care or know anything about the Mossad or Swedish politics. Very few people know what gamergate or otherkins are. There are no hot single women dying to meet you on a dodgy dating website.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 11:54 PM
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I'm gonna have to disagree with you there. It's a widely known fact. It's referenced everywhere in pop culture and daily life. The fact that redpill people act like it's a unknown secret is just part of them strawmanning all their critics as fools
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 11:49 PM
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If my gf doesn't cum by the time I finish, I finger her until she's done. In op case I would be weirded out by her waiting for me to fall asleep. Does she not want me to finish her?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 11:21 PM
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They make observations that are completely obvious to everyone over the age of ten (women like strong dominant men) act like it's an arcane secret and then apply it to everything in life even the most mundane detail (if you don't mop the floor like a true alpha male YOU WILL NEVER FIND LOVE) And lastly they layer everything with constant woman hating. The stories on their sidebar are easily the whiniest and unmanly rants I've ever read.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 11:14 PM
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Can you link me a mainstream source with an anti white male bias? By mainstream I mean New York Times, wsj, Washington post etc
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/15 10:15 PM
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I agree this article is definitely anti white. I doubt it can be taken as a mainstream liberal source though. It sounds very leftist rather than liberal oriented
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/15 10:14 PM
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Can you find a source that isn't openly hostile to liberalism? Would you think it's fair to assess conservatism through Michael moores critiques?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/15 08:48 PM
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Liberals hate white men? Can you provide any example of this bizarre proclamation?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/15 07:20 PM
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Where did he ask these girls out? If you just ask a girl out of the blue on a train you'll creep them out. Also, as mentioned by himself, he is unattractive. He needs to make himself more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 03:52 PM
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often ends up boiling down to the woman saying (without actually saying it), "if i dont get my way, you dont get sex." Most men have no recourse against this, except men with options. I keep on reading this on reddit and it just seems so bizarre to be. Every relationship I've been in, my gf was as eager if not more than me to have sex. Why would you even want to be in a relationship with a girl that doesn't want sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 03:44 PM
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If you sleep with an attractive woman you will get a high five from your friends. If you find a cure for cancer you'll get invited to be the key speaker in top conferences, have your face in time magazine and will make a lot of money. It seems so obvious to me, I'm guessing you didn't think through when you wrote this post
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/15 10:11 AM
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About the same willingness that men are to cheat on their girlfriends and wives,
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/15 04:50 PM
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Look why do you think it's ok for men to be used for money just because they're weak in your eyes? No, no one should be used for money You once remubded me women think men with anxiety are pussies. So wtf am I dupposed to do? Because it's nit going. Diagnosis is for life. Yes women are turned off by anxious men. I suggest you get over your anxiety. How? I'm not sure, you'll have to look into that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/15 11:50 AM
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I can't understand you, are you saying that women say stupid shit to ugly men in order to not offend them?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/15 11:48 AM
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yep, the articles you linked me say the same thing, just with bigger words
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/15 11:23 AM
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So you're saying, our feminist controlled society are purposely making unattractive men study hard and work hard so women can marry them and get their money latter in life and in the meantime have sex with a lot of attractive men? Sounds like Alex's Jones Illuminati/NWO conspiracy theory readjusted for highschool nerds!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/15 11:06 AM
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"Blue pillers" is a strawman created by the red pill. Yes, I'm sure there are some men out there that believe that being attractive isn't important. The wide majority of men know that being attractive is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/15 10:43 AM
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Reality being that women are more attracted to attractive men than non-attractive men? I pretty sure everyone is aware of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/15 09:59 AM
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For me what helped out incredibly was simply working out a lot. I was very outgoing and not socially awkward but struggled to get laid outside of long term relationships. Girls would never ask me out out of the blue and no girl would ever start talking to me in a pub or club. After about 1 year of cutting down on most of my free time and lifting heavy weights at the gym, I started to get asked out by girls and regularly having one night stands with girls I would meet the very same night. This wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/15 09:53 AM
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Just use normal language everyone can understand. Also I hate acronyms.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 02:02 PM
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I'm guessing it's satirizing incomprehensible TRP terminology
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 01:48 PM
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I grew up with literally no dating advice from anyone. If I ever complaining about girls, people would say "lol, gotta hit the gym harder son and actually talk to the girls" as if it was completely obvious. skip all the TRP bullshit and stick to this OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 01:43 PM
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TRP is built on a victim mentality. Just read the sidebars!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/15 07:03 PM
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Serious question: why is reddit obsessed with race? I'm new here and every subreddit at one point starts to go on and on about this topic
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 08:58 PM
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From what I've seen, generally girls are attracted to someone of their same race. Most Asians date Asians
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 08:53 PM
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Reddit is only popular in the anglophone world so probably most of the girls are white. So I guess that's why they like white men
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 08:48 PM
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Have a look at https://www.reddit.com/r/LadyBoners/top/ you'll see a trend among the top rated pictures
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 08:39 PM
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Women generally, OF COURSE NOT ALL, like muscular dominant man. If a man goes from being fat to fit he will suddenly have more casual sex available for him. This has nothing to do with race, so I'll discount you mentioning east Asian men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 08:25 PM
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Those girls are still growing up
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 08:14 PM
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Preferring to date one race over another is not racism. As already pointed out, it Is just a preference thing. In my experience racist trolls on the internet, tend to be male more often than female.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/15 01:15 PM
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There is nothing wrong with a man that wants a virgin. That's just his preference, just as a white girl might prefer Uzbeki men over Eskimos and blacks. "But, but I read on a blog on tumblr..." STAHP
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/15 01:12 PM
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Well that pretty much confirms it. I don't understand how anyone can deny it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/15 01:05 PM
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this! TRP used to have some solid advices a few years back. Now it's just bitching about not getting laid all of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/15 12:47 PM
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TheRedPill has a lot of "anger phase" posters with victim mentalities The thing is 90% of all top comments are clearly in the anger phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/15 12:41 PM
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"Victim mentality" simply means believing you are the victim EVEN if you indeed are the victim. TRP undeniably believes that ugly men are victims. They also tell them to change, but they are indeed victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/15 12:34 PM
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So the answer is yes, I have a victim mentality. Where you are an actual victim or not, you undeniably have a victim mentality
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/15 12:27 PM
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Absolutely. Read the top comment of most posts. They almost always echoe the same sentiment: women are shallow and never give those poor suffering beta males their time of day and when they grow old they use betas for their money. These evil women force them to undertake the hard path of becoming alpha. Those poor poor nerdy betas.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/15 12:22 PM
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These terrible advices are ultimately what drove people to TRP and gave it such a misogynist outlook on the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/15 09:48 AM
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Then why did you bring up race in the first instance?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 10:43 PM
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No, I'm hoping you go back to your fetish site so you stop posting this race-baiting nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 09:31 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 09:06 PM
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Truly eye opening! I recommend you read up the follow up to the HBD theory on blacked.com
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 08:45 PM
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Not sure what that means...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 08:09 PM
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Why though? I genuinely don't get why does it bothers you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 07:54 PM
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That seems like a rather specific place. Would a place where women fuck Eskimos be ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 05:55 PM
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One fucked him. She was stunning hot. Pick up forum are garbage. Are you black though? Why would you care?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 05:46 PM
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Nope. I went with a black friend to Poland and the girls were all over him! Back in Spain, girls would ignore him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 05:34 PM
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In my experience they do even more so. For some reason Slavic women are obsessed with black men, something which is rather rare in Western Europe
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 05:25 PM
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From what I've been told on this thread this is really common. It turns out I just avoided being in the context where I would receive this advice. Now that you know better, go forth and improve your ways
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 05:23 PM
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This link might be enlightening about the differences in cultures http://www.multivu.com/players/es-es/7530251-adopteunmec-boutique-madrid/ It's in Spanish but it says that in Madrid they opened a boutique where women can window shop for the man they find the hottest. I don't think they could do the same in the USA
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 05:20 PM
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Possibly, the feminism I see on reddit seems really bizarre. Yet there seems to be many people who unironically believe there are like 345353 genders or think that dressing like Pocahontas for Halloween is racist
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 04:47 PM
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It is only in the last 3 years or so that it has started to seep out into the average consciousness that the majority of women prefer to be dominated in bed and that sort of thing. Can you link me to somewhere that outright says that women love that men that are submissive and unattractive but are nice?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 04:41 PM
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But if you grew up in my school and anyone found out she said stuff like that, the school counselor would have had her in for a meeting straight away. I'm calling bullshit on that. There's no way that's possible. Also isn't America all hands off when it comes to what a parent does to its child?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 04:38 PM
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I'm sorry to hear you have anxiety problems but it is simply the truth that women find that highly unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 04:32 PM
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Will women who say that they are only interested in LTRs/marriage still want to (and sometimes go through with) fuck the hottest guy? Absolutely. But they aren't going to go around proclaiming that, since that is (ostensibly) not their goal. Again I'll disagree there. Even mature girls are open about wanting to marry a hot guy that will sexually satisfy them This af/bb seems like nonsense to me. Women want alpha and that's it. And the alpha hopefully has money
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 04:31 PM
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I think I grew up in an environment where feminism was definitely present. However, a very different brand of feminism than the one I see discussed on TRP. Feminism here seems to be solely obsessed on making abortion and prostitution legal and focus on domestic abuse. I've never heard of feminism obsessed with weird terms like cis or kin
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 04:24 PM
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I think TRP explains things that to me appeared to be obvious (women like fit confident men) but which seem revolutionary to some men. Along with it they dump all sorts of unrelated nonsense that I disagree with, which I will leave out of this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 04:19 PM
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I believe it was a succinct summary. Being anxious is a huge turn off, even more than being ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 04:16 PM
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That explains why you find TRP so enthralling then
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 03:48 PM
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Your exe basically told you that you were a great guy because she didn't want to hurt your feelings by straight up saying you are ugly. You believed her until common sense came back to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 03:46 PM
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I'm from Spain, so there might be a strong cultural difference. It's very normal for girls to mock unattractive men. Also people are probably more straight forward here. Also there are ads with naked studs everywhere clearly targeted towards women and gays. Also, I grew up in a very male dominated environment in my formative years and when I got to college I was surrounded by girls at the height of their sexual apex. I guess these two factors contributed to why I never heard these advices before…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 03:37 PM
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No, a very wide range of women. I've lived in over 10 different locations in my life. Although I was often not very close to these women, a simple observation led me to this obvious conclusion. At work, don't you ever hear a female coworker seeing a stud for the first time and commenting how hot he is?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 03:25 PM
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Perhaps you right. Fat women have an advantage over bottom of the barrel men. Still most men have the upper hands with fat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 03:22 PM
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so they lie (to unattractive men trying to raise their SMV) that looks don't matter. Tell me one specific example in your life where a girl flat out told you that "looks don't matter". I still am struggling to believe that this is common
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 03:16 PM
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On the one hand, women (and men) are taught from an early age what they "should" value in a man, and if they don't value what they "should", they are shallow, materialistic, slutty, whatever. Are they really taught that though? I keep on repeating myself but everything I've seen so far is that women are open and proud about wanting to fuck the hottest guy. Name me one specific situation that lead you to believe otherwise in the past
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 03:14 PM
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"Oh, we don't really MEAN that. It's just FANTASY. It's just for FUN. Kind of like your Playboys." Serious question, what was your relationship to the girl told you such bs?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 03:08 PM
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May I ask you who gave you these advices?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 03:04 PM
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Yep, I think I arrived to the answer. It might be a cultural difference but the real reason why I never heard these stupid comments from girls is that I was never in a situation in which a girl thought she should give me advices. When I was out of shape I had virtually no contact with a sympathetic female and when I got fit, I was seen as a potential mate. In this way, I never really got blue pilled and that's why the red pill sounds ridiculous to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 03:02 PM
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The way you state this makes me think you're very young. I'm in my mid 20's If I sound awkward I apologize, English is my second language
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 02:51 PM
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May I ask where are you from? Growing up, if I ever complained that I didn't get an female attention my mother would say "it's because you are filled with pimples""it's because you look anorexic" "it's because you are too nerdy, stop wasting your time indoors"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 02:45 PM
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I'm still gonna have to disagree with you. The social engineering that protects women doesn't exist in my experience. There is a fat woman in my work and everyone makes fun of her. On TV (at least Spanish language sitcoms) there is often a trope of a fat woman that is the butt of jokes. Also, whenever I go to a strip club, the opening act is a fat disgusting woman that is used for comedy so all the men laugh at her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 02:42 PM
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Yes they definitely put a lot of effort on looks
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 02:36 PM
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Possibly its due to the fact that I don't have barely any female family members or friends. Most of the time I spent with groups of women was when my gf would invite her friends over and drink heavily or aperitivo after work. In both cases I was the only male and since I was unavailable it was if I wasn't there and therefore I would get a lot of unfiltered girl talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 02:34 PM
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Be yourself, don't change for anybody," or when you get let down easy "I'm sure you'll make some girl really happy one day," Did you really get these types of ridiculous advices? To me it just seems like another straw man. Again this entire disconnect could be just a huge different cultural difference I was unaware of.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 02:26 PM
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Culturally Slavic women are probably more feminine than Western women I agree with everything you posted except this. Slavic women tend to be the LEAST feminine women out there. They tend to be very bossy and dominant and sporty. They tend to take on the male role of the manipulative predator in regards to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 02:17 PM
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Sure, men will get shit on if they are disgusting nerds from both men and women, but the same applies to fat girls. Have you never made fun of a fat girl in your class? Didn't her classmates call her a fat pig?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 02:12 PM
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Well this and women get embarrassed to admit "I want a tall good looking guy with a big knob" because they're afraid that makes them look shallow. Really? You never met a girl that says that? Whenever I'm in a group of girls literally 75% of all conversations are a reiteration of that same exact line.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 02:01 PM
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You know, perhaps it's a cultural difference. I'm guessing you are from America. I'm from Spain. From what I observed, people (especially women) in America tend to be "nicer" and sugar coat things. Here women tend to be more up forward about these things. Women, even at the workplace, laugh at how ugly some men are and call beta orbiters "pagafantas". I've never heard an American girl making fun of orbiters.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 01:55 PM
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All women? Cmon you know that is an exaggeration. In general though, women tend to be more sympathetic to the plight of other women then they are of men. Men in general tend to be less sympathetic to everyone else's plights because they attempt to seem more macho
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 01:46 PM
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It explains in the article. In the early 90's women in Russia were really desperate
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 01:42 PM
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If anything, in my experience, Russian women tend to be the MOST cynical and calculating women out there, definitely more than western women. If it wasn't for money, nerdy betas will have even less success in Russia than in the west. On top of that, Russians generally lean to a collective mentality which favors leftist and feminist thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 12:30 PM
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The same as everywhere. Being fit, social and rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 12:21 PM
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in the west even the "worst" woman has so many men desperate for her attention that the male losers simply can't ever get a woman who is even far below themselves. Really? In my experience fatty women remain as unwanted as their male counterparts. A man who isn't wanted by women or wants to be accepted for who he is is a piece of shit, always. A woman who wants to be accepted for who she is is a feminist hero. According to who? If it's on some hamplanet's tumblr that's expected. It's like going …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 12:19 PM
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Although the article does get a bit too harsh on unattractive men, the truth is often very harsh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 09:50 AM
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Men are overweight because they get lazy and overeat junk food. I use my experience because I trust that more than what I read on reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 09:47 AM
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The majority of men are fully aware that women like fit, strong and dominant men. in my experience, women have always outright told me that that is what they are looking for in men. The fact that red pill goes on how women "deceive" men saying they want emotional and nice guys always struck me as bizarre. Have redpillers never had any female friends growing up?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 09:03 AM
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That is indeed not surprising. What is enlightening in the article is the way it describes western men's ideal of non-western women as being free from "feminism" therefore accepting of ugly men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 08:57 AM
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I knew a full blown Casanova. He would sleep with a new hot girl every other week more or less. He was short, hairy and dress eccentrically. However, his parents were both in the oil business.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 08:53 AM
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you're building a straw man buddy. It's common knowledge to almost literally every adult that no woman will love you for just being "you". You need something that makes you attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 08:36 AM
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Read the top comments for today's top posts. Nearly all of them is a variation of "women suck". Seems like pointless whining to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/15 10:25 AM
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No, I just like hearing girls talk about sex. I don't want to see another dude fuck my girl
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/15 12:39 AM
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I'm actually get turned on hearing from a girl how much she likes dicks
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/15 11:28 PM
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The latter. I prefer women with experience
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/15 11:17 PM
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This basically. Being confident and lifting will get you laid. It's too bad these good advices TRP gives out are submerged under pointless whining
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/15 11:07 PM
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The 20/80 rule os Bs in my experience. It's more like 40/60
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/15 04:17 PM
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I find extroverted, independent, comfortable and easy going girls to be the most attractive. I find nervous, timid and bored girls to be a huge turnoff
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/15 03:57 PM
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men compete and women choose That's some honest to god beta worldview right there! Get fit and become the chooser
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/15 03:46 PM
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Just by being nice doesn't mean you are attractive. This works for both men and women. Would you want to sleep with a friendly morbidly obese burnt victim or a bitchy voluptuous chick?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/15 03:36 PM
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It blows my mind that anyone would be surprised that an attractive guy would get more attention than a non attractive guy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/15 03:25 PM
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