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Without divulging anything too personal, what would you say constitutes an "amazing s*x life"? I am yet to have a physical relationship, and I do not really understand what makes it good or bad... I guess because it is more subjective and thus harder to get across?
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/24 09:57 PM
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school pack of #2's after a nothing burger You will have to forgive me but I am not familiar with these phrases; I do not believe they are in my country.
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/24 12:03 AM
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Braless jumping jacks? I shall keep that it mine. Best to be done in private though as it might elicit a few laughs.
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/24 12:01 AM
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Thank you, I shall keep it in mind.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/24 12:55 PM
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Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/24 12:54 PM
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From your previous posts I know that you are xx Please would you point of to me where I mentioned my age? I try to not post too much about my personal details and if I put my age it was a mistake (since it is wrong as well) and I want to delete it. Not being comfortable posting about my personal life too much is why most of my posts are general or hypothetical. I am not avoiding anything, I am getting on with things; I just do not post about it because I have already read tons of the resources a…
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/24 12:47 PM
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Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/24 05:31 PM
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I now of a few books I could recommend to you?
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/24 05:27 PM
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Be careful with that. Moving in together and sleeping together before marriage is correlated with high rates of divorce. It happens because if you become too emotionally invested before marriage, you tend to be wilfully blind to a lot of problems early on which grow. I would suggest reading up on this subject so you can be sure you relationship will stand the test of time. Sorry to be a downer.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/24 04:44 PM
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Good. As long as you stay that way you should be great!
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/24 04:40 PM
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Thank you, if you find them please do message me.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/24 04:40 PM
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I am so happy for you! Be careful not to let it go to your head though. Pretty privilege can be useful but you do not want to lean to far into being desperate for male attention because of your looks. Your boyfriend is the main man to matter he, trying to gain too much other male attention could be seen as disrespectful. A lot of men - particularly conservative ones - can be uncomfortable if their wives and girlfriends dress up too much to go out. Make sure you communicate with him, as you are r…
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/24 04:26 PM
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Makes sense. I have been to places like that before, only not with family.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/24 04:21 PM
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Please do add videos. I have never heard of body butter before. I shall look into it. Thank you for your advice.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/24 04:21 PM
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How do you feed for 8 years with AA?
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/24 04:18 PM
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That is sweet. I am so happy for you.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/24 08:31 PM
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Thank you. Do you know of any medical sites that offer before and after images? Nothing dodgy obviously.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/24 08:29 PM
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As other have said are you going to skip having kids because of this? Because of this? No. But I do not want to have children so... I guess that works in my favour?
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/24 06:25 PM
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Thank you, that is very encouraging. How bad is the scaring?
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/24 06:24 PM
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Thank you, that is very helpful.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/24 06:24 PM
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I wouldn’t be able to even see the pencil and my husband still is all over me daily! That is cute.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/24 06:23 PM
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hers was good How do you know this, haha? I have no idea what my grandmothers' look like.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/24 06:22 PM
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Thank you for the suggestion; I shall keep it in mind.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/24 06:22 PM
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Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/24 11:33 AM
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Forgive me, but what is an SFP? It does not seem to be defined in the sub's glossary.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/24 12:14 AM
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I do not understand. How can you possibly think you can work out so much about me by massively over analysing a sentence I wrote without thinking? It is not that deep. I am perfectly content with red pill.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/24 05:27 PM
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You are making a mountain out of a mole hill; I did not put anywhere near as much thought behind my description as you are inferring.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/24 03:13 PM
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No, I am saying that keeping to this ideology is harder than others. I never said anything about my friends or dating pool.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/24 12:45 PM
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I am sorry to hear that. I am religious too and shall pray for you.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/24 11:36 PM
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Tough to keep, compared to today's attitudes of entitlement and having everything done for you with no commitments to work hard for others.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/24 11:34 PM
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I am so glad your life has improved so much. Hopefully time will heal.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/24 01:37 AM
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Similar to me.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/24 01:32 AM
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Conversations about what? I am British and a good 75% of our conversations involve the weather; would that do?
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/24 05:50 PM
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Your husband is a lucky man.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/24 05:47 PM
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Vocal in what way? Also how does one roleplay during a bl*wjob?
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/24 12:23 AM
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That sounds like very good advice.
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/24 09:38 PM
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I have been told that apparently back door shenanigans is not as pleasurable for men as it is for women because it is very spacious inside compared to the front door?
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/24 09:37 PM
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I see. Thank you. A man once told me that v*ginal s*x feels like pushing between two raw chicken breasts; and I have never been able to get that out of my mind. It certainly does not sound very pleasurable.
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/24 08:36 PM
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"I took a course on massage" Is this something you would recommend women do? Maybe men too? I have heard that apparently men like it when their wives walk on their backs? It feels good or something? "Honestly I love it enough I'm happy to stop what I'm doing on occasion because I enjoy it as much as he does." That is nice. Does he reciprocate whenever you want?
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/24 08:34 PM
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"PIA" Does the "A" stand for what I think it does?
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/24 08:31 PM
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"Honestly I love giving my boyfriend bl*wjobs after a long day at work." After you have been at work or he has? "he finds the act very submissive," On his part or yours? "Generally speaking I give him a full massage first" Is this something you have to learn to do? Books? "I absolutely love doing it for him anytime he wants me to," You just drop whatever you are doing whenever wherever? "giving him pleasure makes me feel fantastic." Well that is just sweet.
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/24 08:15 PM
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"Oral s*x can be given to men in an unaroused state" It can be done when men are soft? How? "Oral s*x can also take longer to reach a climax" I would have thought it would take less time as the giver has a controllable tongue, which is lacking down below.
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/24 08:10 PM
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Would the same not be true for a handj*b?
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/24 06:25 PM
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Ah, that sounds sweet.
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/24 06:25 PM
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"rather the pleasure the woman gets" I had no idea giving a bl*wjob can be pleasurable? It is emotional or something?
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/24 06:13 PM
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When I read your name I missed the "roaches" on the end and it caused me to read your comment very differently.
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/24 06:01 PM
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From my understanding we will all be give a new body Yes, I believe that is the case.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/24 05:59 PM
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Thank you, so do I.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/24 05:50 PM
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He is not my brother. We only talk about this with each other because we are the most traditional people will know. When (and if) we both find respective traditional spouses we will not longer need to talk to each other about this stuff as we will have them instead.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/23 12:07 AM
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My issue was not with how they divvy up the chores, it was that he was feeling pressured to because of the feminist talking points he has had drilled into him.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/23 12:05 AM
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Thank you. I shall have a look at the sidebar.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/23 04:00 PM
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I want to get old and wrinkly with him. I believe wearing sun cream when you are younger can help to prevent wrinkles - but that is cute none the less. ​There is no marriage in heaven so I hope we get long lives together If I remember correctly Jesus said that no one will get married or be given in marriage in heaven - so there will be no new marriages; and of course, marriages end at death; but, if you live to when Jesus comes back, you will never die, so your marriage will never end. It is jus…
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/23 03:59 PM
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it kinda brings me joy to pick up after him, like pick up his socks, gets him a drink, idk just take care of him in general. Wow, he should never let you go.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/23 03:39 PM
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Oh, only about the original topic You brought up something new about the claims of no absolutes. I have not submitted to that yet, haha.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/23 10:30 AM
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There are no absolutes or generalizations here "they’re men and are sexually attracted to any young healthy woman, no matter how much he doth protests" This sounds a lot like a generalised absolute to me. ​multiple men and women, not just from America but also from Europe, have let you know how your actions are coming across. Yes, multiple people who have heard basic textual descriptions and then added a lot in their own imaginations. Given a lot of the feedback I got from this post; I asked a f…
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/23 11:13 PM
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I disagree, but I am tried of trying to express my view against ardent absolutes as I do not thing either side will learn anything or benefit; so I shall not reply and just submit to you. Thank you for your comment though.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/23 10:29 PM
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I am glad to hear it. I am sure many men would love to have a wife as enthusiastic about physical contact. So many of them are touch starved these days, it is so sad.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/23 09:50 PM
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Not a chance you will ask him or that he is touch starved?
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/23 08:56 PM
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He is not MGTOW, he just used them as an example. My friend has never been in a relationship before.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/23 09:42 PM
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going down on a woman is submissive or makes you gay. Ah yes, because gay men famously love being intimate with women. Men are so strange sometimes.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/23 09:41 PM
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going down on a woman Men think that going down on a woman is feminine? So what they think only lesbians should do it or something? They have clearly never read the Song of Solomen.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/23 07:31 PM
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I since lots of people were telling me similar, I went to talk to him about it. He was surprised, laughed, and told me to not put any faith in what women think about men's psychology because in his view "they have not got a clue" and "they are just trying to flatter themselves by insisting men just constantly fancy them and want to sleep with them." He then said something about MGTOW proves that men are capable of not wanting to be with women and then he then went into a lot of detail (a lot mor…
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/23 07:29 PM
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Because you crossed the line from platonic talk to flirting. No, he was awkward because he dislikes talking about anything related to emotions. It is like pulling teeth getting him to say if he is happy with the birthday or Christmas presents he is given. ​"talking to someone in a way that makes them feel like you are interested in them and only them." All right, I am fine with that definition; it is also does not describe our conversation. Since a lot of comments were saying they thought I was …
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/23 04:33 PM
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is not the same as him not being into you, either romantically or sexually. He is not interested in me in anyway. Why is this so difficult for people to believe? If just being friends men that men would fall in love with you there would be little need for RPW in dating as you could just get any man easily.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/23 04:22 PM
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Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/23 04:50 AM
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Are you sure he is saying he is not interested in you Yes. I once over heard him talking to a mutual friend who thought we should get together. My friend said he would rather stay single for the rest of his life than date me. He then said a few more things that were rather hurtful but made it very clear he is not remotely interested in me.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/23 04:48 AM
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I may not have the same cultural engrossment as a native, I would say I have enough female intuition to know when a European man wants to f*ck me. Western European men are still men. All right, but we were talking about cultural norms regarding how sensitive certain topics of conversation are, not if you can tell if a man is interested in you. ​many men would find it suspect that their significant other chose to delve into such a topic, and share intimate details about what they like to do with …
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/23 11:15 PM
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What is the typical reaction give by men? Pet him like a cat. Will he purr?
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/23 10:24 PM
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Your friend is into you. He is not. I over heard him have a conversation with one else who suggested we should get together, my friend said that he would rather stay single for ever than get with me. He then said something along the lines of him thinking that I was a good friend, but had absolutely no qualities he liked in a potential wife. It hurt rather a lot to hear he be so blunt but I am not into him either so I just put it aside. ​If you are a red-blooded guy and your options are lie next …
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/23 09:52 PM
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The situation we were talking about was more about expressing love via physical touch rather than comforting when crying. I agree that it would make him look week if he were upset, but that is not the situation I was trying to describe. If a man wanted to cuddle in the same way he wanted to have s*x, would that be too submissive?
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/23 09:40 PM
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Maybe you should ask him if you are initiating enough cuddles, a lot of men a touched starved but too afraid to admit it.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/23 09:37 PM
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It is also a great position to stroke his hair, which sends a man to a place he never knew existed. I always thought that hair stroking was more enjoyed by women, do men like that sort of thing? Is there hair not often too short to be stroked?
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/23 09:35 PM
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Thank you. I shall tell him to pull himself together.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/23 06:51 PM
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I have lived in Europe before. Which part? And that does not necessarily mean you will have been so engrossed it forms how you think. if any European man decided to tell me how much he enjoys putting his head on a woman’s chest, and then showed me pictures and asked me for my thoughts, I would absolutely get a feeling that he was into me, if not romantically then at the very least s*xually. I agree that would be weird, it is also not at all what happened with me and my friend. I was the one who …
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/23 06:50 PM
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We are both Europeans, talking about this sort of stuff is considered pretty tame here, even by our traditional standards. I understand that in other places such as America it is different and this sort of thing is considered more sensitive there. But here cuddling is just cuddling, it may be a little private or embarrassing but not so intimate to the point of not being able to discuss it. Plus we have known each other our entire lives.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/23 05:49 PM
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No, he has made it clear multiple times I am not his type. I am not interested in him either so I am not bothered. Why do you ask?
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/23 04:44 PM
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sounds like he listens to Andrew Tate Actually he despises him; his friend's father died when he was young so he has not had a male role model so I sometimes think he is a little off when it comes to proper masculinity - but he tries. ​I can assure you most men love that position (where their head is on a woman's chest). I shall be sure to tell him, thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/23 04:42 PM
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Thank you very much for your comment. Your individual answers to each question are very helpful. I am glad your husband now has a diagnosis, and I hope you will continue to have a loving marriage.
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/23 07:42 AM
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Does this have to do with withdrawing? He is a very introspective person and I've learned to be the same; I give him time to himself when needed. He seeks me out when he's ready. Shutting down usually refers to behaviour where the autistic individuals becomes overwhelmed and stops interacting with the outside word. Stops talking, looking at people, will just go away (if possible) and do nothing - such as lie down until the shutdown is over.
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/23 07:36 AM
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Thank you so much for your insight, it is very helpful. I hope you will have a happy marriage with him for a very long time.
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/23 07:33 AM
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Thank you very much for your long and informative comment, it is very helpful. at high risk for a mutually emotionally painful experience if they end up paired with a neurotypical. Would you be able to go into more detail about this?
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/23 07:26 AM
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How many autistic men have you met that act like this? I have met lots of autistic boys and men in many different environment, (I used to tutor special needs students when I was a teenager) and I only ever encountered 1 or 2 like that. Most of them instead of acting in anger would act out of shame and would become reclusive. I will however say I have never seen any autistic males in relationships, which is why I am asking.
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/23 09:05 PM
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Do you think this is typical of autistic men?
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/23 08:48 PM
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I am glad to hear it.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/23 09:27 PM
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That sounds awful, I hope you got away from him.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/23 06:35 PM
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Thank you, I shall look at the study with interest.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/23 06:33 PM
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Thank you, very informative.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/23 06:32 PM
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VERY intimate. Ah Yes, I see.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/23 06:32 PM
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Some would call it a kink; I think it's the natural order I would agree, I think a lot of "modern people" are trying to make traditional romance and physical desire into a k*nk because they want an excuse for not wanting it. I think you are going to make your Captain very happy and fulfilled. Thank you for your input.
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/23 05:48 PM
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Thank you for the link about passion, I shall read it with interest. I think you last paragraph is spot on, thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/23 05:46 PM
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Have you never fallen in a rabbit hole of men’s fashion before? No, do you have a map to this rabbit hole?
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/23 04:53 PM
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I have never been attracted to any man the way I am to him. That is very sweet; I hope you tell him that.
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/23 08:34 AM
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you want women to say I like obese men? No... how did you get that? I literally was only asking the women here what their preferred bodies types are; I am not looking for specific answers. ​not need to be called “obese”. I am using the medical definition of "obese" and I am not attaching any negative connotations to it. Given that you seem to find the word offensive I am guessing you are from America or somewhere like that where simply descriptive terms about human bodies are seen as offensive? …
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/23 10:57 AM
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So you think bulk is better than shredded?
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/23 09:50 AM
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Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/23 04:27 AM
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Thank you. I shall buy a copy.
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/23 04:27 AM
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Thank you, that is very helpful.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/23 11:30 PM
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