From my experience, the one who is usually supposed to be seen as physically attractive and visually sultry is always the woman: Makeup, nice clothes, lingerie, visual flirting, flashing, lap dances and stripteases, etcetera - as men are more visual than women. I have often seen posts of women who are very hurt by the fact that their husbands do not seem to find them physically attractive or hot anymore.

I had never really considered that men also might want to be seen as “hot” physically by their wives until a little while ago. I was reading a Reddit thread by a woman who was asking for advice about how to help her husband get in the mood. One male commenter gave her advice: “Glaze at him as if you were obsessed with him and need and want him s\xually like you cannot live or breathe without feeling him or tasting him; as if you were utterly devoted and enamoured with him. Like he is a movie star or musician or famous footballer, and you are his biggest diehard fan; like he is the king of his own country that is a safe paradise for you. Stroke him and caress him as you stare at him like he is the best thing since sliced bread – very, very softly and sensually.*”

I do not know if there is any Red Pill Women literature on this but I had never really thought about how men would like to be looked at by their wives until I read this. Some how - and I cannot really describe it - his comment struck me very deeply, as if it just seemed right?

Later on I was listening to another Reddit story. It was written by a man who had never fancied monogamy; however one day he accidentally walked in on his friend and his wife going at it in the kitchen. They did not see him but he did seem them. He said he saw the way the women was looking at her husband and it instantly made him see his life of polygamy as empty. He said that in that moment he rethought his entire life and now desperately wanted a monogamous relationship with a woman who would look at him as she was looking at her husband.

Clearly the visual of seeing women attracted to them means a lot to men?

Later still I watched a compilation video on Youtube of women reacting to men with toned muscular bodies – nothing too big. The women were staring and feeling their abs or arms and sometimes even licking their torsos. The men seemed to be enjoying it and there were lots of men in the comments who said they wished women would look at them as the women in the video looked at the fit men.

I feel like I have had my mind opened a little bit. What are your thoughts?

  • How should women look at their captains?
  • Should it be genuine or should they try to fake it?
  • How do you look at your captain or find him physically attractive?
  • How do men really feel about it? Have any or your captains told you what they like?
  • How does the male sense of wanting to feel attractive compare to women’s?

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