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Do they even accept advice threads there?
/r/askTRP23/08/20 05:00 PM
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Why wouldn't they? They feel that they have no role or purpose anymore. Women don't understand this very well because , in general, women are valued for just existing, but men need to be able to perform and fulfill a role in order to be valued. Purposeless, low status men are generally viewed as worse than scum by society.
/r/MensRights31/07/19 11:14 AM
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Men should reject responsibility for anyone but themselves. The idea that men should act as sacrificial pawns for the sake of "society" is anti-male.
/r/MensRights29/07/19 09:10 PM
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Well, don't do what they want then. Stop paying for women, stop protecting them and never get married.
/r/MGTOW222/07/19 12:28 PM
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Men shouldn't be expected to be protectors and leaders, especially in a society that doesn't value male sacrifices. I'm in favor of rejecting the sort of masculinity that is about protecting women and providing for them.
/r/MGTOW22/07/19 11:25 AM
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If it's true, it's going to be a bad thing for men. They're just going to raise taxes and give more welfare benefits to women. Also, it'll probably lead to more affirmative action in order to force women in male-dominated jobs. I wouldn't be happy about this if I were you gents.
/r/MGTOW17/07/19 04:16 PM
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I think you'll find this interesting. https://quillette.com/2019/06/13/the-new-inequality-the-decline-of-the-working-class-family/
/r/TheRedPill12/07/19 03:22 PM
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Nobody actually paying attention would be surprised by this. Men are considered lesser victims because they're expected to be strong and self-reliant. A victimized male is considered disgusting.
/r/MensRights12/07/19 02:41 PM
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The families of the Mosuo peasants were forcibly destroyed by their noble class. I'm not even exaggerating. https://www.thenanjinger.com/magazine/feature-stories/mosuo-tribe-progressive-oppressive/ As idealistic as this sounds, scholars have countered all sides of the argument. Author of “Quest for Harmony”, Chuan-Kang Shih, says that this system was put in place to ensure marriage came secondary, as the priority was placed on family, sex and reproduction. Cai Hua, in his book, “A Society withou…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/19 10:30 PM
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They did something similar in the Victorian era. Back then, husbands could literally get imprisoned for the crimes that their wives committed because it was assumed that women were not responsible for their own actions. I guess the British never change...
/r/MensRights11/07/19 09:31 PM
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Nearly everyone who was killed in the Srebrenica massacre was male. It was a gendered attack. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Srebrenica_massacre Here are the photos of the victims. https://www.rferl.org/a/27114531.html In many genocides, the men are the first who are killed. The same thing happened in the Rwanda genocide. R.I.P.
/r/MensRights11/07/19 10:15 AM
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This is not exactly about the MRAs, but these fools were against the mere existence of a Male Psychology Section In the British Psychological Society because reasons. (note that a Female Psychology Section has existed for decades) https://notomalepsych.wordpress.com
/r/MensRights10/07/19 06:56 PM
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Who cares? Men who have been abused by women have the right to vent and be frustrated at women. Male anger, even if it exists for legitimate reasons, will be labeled "misogyny" by these fools. A man can literally be destroyed by a woman and he will be labeled a misogynist for simply being angry. Oh and by the way, I'm a woman and mixed-raced. I support the MRM 100%
/r/MensRights10/07/19 06:54 PM
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Maybe, but prejudice is still prejudice. It's stereotyping and can lead to discrimination.
/r/MensRights07/07/19 07:51 PM
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She's not wrong, but I would still say that these countries are patriarchal. The thing is that a country being patriarchal doesn't necessarily means that men have it easy.
/r/MensRights07/07/19 06:06 AM
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https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2016/06/160608143955.htm This is nothing new. There are other studies that show that people in general are more likely to sacrifice men than women.
/r/MensRights05/07/19 05:42 PM
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Murdering young men has always been a sign of genocide.
/r/MensRights05/07/19 02:43 PM
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Why would you support this when we know it's a measure that will only be applied to men?
/r/MensRights01/07/19 11:28 AM
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What do they even mean by "misogyny should be a hate crime"? What is "misogyny"? Saying negative things about women?
/r/MensRights30/06/19 06:31 AM
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No, I don't think that she deserved to be arrested for that. Also, this has nothing to do with Men's Rights. Where are the mods?
/r/MensRights30/06/19 06:29 AM
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Among those addressing the conference was Conservative chair of the education select committee, Robert Halfon, who highlighted the underachievement of white disadvantaged boys. This group is outperformed by all other disadvantaged groups at GCSE and is the least likely to go to university. It's so sad that you need the conservatives to address the problems of the working-class. Is Labor sleeping? Have they gone so deep into identity politics that they have abandoned class issues completely?
/r/MensRights29/06/19 08:58 AM
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Why don't we reduce sentences for ALL minor offenders regardless of gender?
/r/MensRights24/06/19 04:02 AM
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I bet that the guy from the story was black. It's well-known that black men are seen as intimidating for just existing. She just din't mention his race to not appear racist.
/r/MensRights24/06/19 03:51 AM
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They interpret it in a very weird way. The reason why society doesn't tell men to be careful is a) female victims are viewed with more sympathy and society in general cares more about the safety of women, b) men are expected to be able to take care of themselves because of masculine norms.
/r/MensRights23/06/19 10:57 AM
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I totally bet that the guy was black. It's incredibly common for black men to be viewed as intimidating. Of course she didn't mention his race because then she would appear as a racist.
/r/MensRights23/06/19 09:45 AM
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Wtf? Yea, I get it. I totally get it. However, it's incredibly sexist that men are always treated as potential predators. It's gender profiling and bigotry plain and simple. Imagine if she said something like that about black people. It would rightfully be seen as bigotry.
/r/MensRights23/06/19 09:29 AM
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Are you from Germany?
/r/MensRights22/06/19 08:58 PM
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If women killed chivalry then that's a good thing because chivalry is anti-male.
/r/MensRights22/06/19 06:36 AM
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Answer: It usually does not go well.
/r/MensRights22/06/19 06:28 AM
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This has nothing to do with Men's Rights. I'm sick of seeing random tradcon posts in this sub.
/r/MensRights21/06/19 10:41 PM
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At least it's better than nothing.
/r/MensRights21/06/19 10:38 PM
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Okay, I admit this is cute.
/r/MensRights21/06/19 09:24 AM
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Yes, I agree with what you're saying. I just think that we could focus more on different things.
/r/MensRights21/06/19 03:01 AM
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Pretty badly. Still think there are more negative stereotypes about black men though.
/r/MensRights21/06/19 02:58 AM
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"Gendered nature" = Fuck you male victims.
/r/MensRights21/06/19 01:51 AM
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Please read this, it's a very important article.
/r/MensRights21/06/19 12:50 AM
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Oh yea, perfectly unbiased sources like the Huffington Post.
/r/MensRights21/06/19 12:43 AM
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I posted this but I deleted this because the comments were a circlejerk. Apparently being more inclusive towards male victims is "bad" because reasons.
/r/MensRights21/06/19 12:40 AM
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I have no problem with Men's Lib, but I do think that feminism is insufficient when it comes to fixing men's problems. Feminists have actively worked to exclude male victims in many ways. See this recent example: https://www.mankind.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2019/06/2-Domestic-Abuse-Bill-Parliamentary-Report-will-have-the-effect-of-treating-male-victims-and-their-children-of-domestic-abuse-as-second-class-1.pdf Does this sub have its problems? Yes, I sometimes wish we would focus more on solutio…
/r/MensRights20/06/19 07:05 PM
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I don't know the details about how they count poverty rates but considering that men make the majority of the homeless and the vast majority of prisoners, I think it would be fair to say that it's mainly men at the absolute bottom of society.
/r/MensRights20/06/19 06:55 PM
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Oh I don't doubt that anti-feminists can become alt-right. I just think that anti-feminist=/=MRA. Other parts of the manosphere do seem to have an alt-right problem, (although in my opinion it's in decline) but the MRM not so much. I mean, can you find a single "alt-right" post in this sub?
/r/MensRights20/06/19 07:51 AM
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They don't understand what gynosympathy is. I would recommend them to read this article. https://quillette.com/2019/06/03/considering-the-male-disposability-hypothesis/
/r/MensRights20/06/19 07:39 AM
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I don't get it. Do you think that biases in science don't exist? Because I study sociology and it's widely accepted that the ideological assumptions of the researchers can absolutely affect their work.
/r/MensRights20/06/19 07:38 AM
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You realize that bias in science can absolutely be a thing, right? People who are already biased against the MRM will interpret the data however they see fit. I have been on this sub for months and I literally never see Nazis. At most, I see some tradcons, but this is not the same thing. I admit that there are stronger alt-right ties if you look at the rest of the manosphere, but the MRM is not the same as the rest of the manosphere. In fact, MGTOWs, PUAs etc. often actively bash the MRM because…
/r/MensRights20/06/19 07:31 AM
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While I generally agree with what you're saying, I disagree that this sub has a Nazi problem. I have not seen this at all.
/r/MensRights20/06/19 02:24 AM
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From what I've read, the male suicide epidemic disproportionally affects working-class men. It is important to encourage men to get into therapy when they need it, but we also need to realize that it's a class issue. Working-class men are on decline in many ways. They face job instability, unstable marriages etc. These class issues have to be addressed somehow. Maybe UBI will help? I have no clue.
/r/MensRights20/06/19 12:46 AM
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The reason why the MRM is needed is simple: In feminism, female victims will always be the top priority. Even if they care about male issues, they will still care about female issues more. Heck, they even sort of ADMIT it. When you ask them why so many feminists oppose giving resources to shelters for male victims of abuse, they will say that this will "take resources away from female shelters". We need a movement that will prioritize men and male victims.
/r/MensRights19/06/19 11:12 PM
1

Hi, I'm left-wing.
/r/MensRights18/06/19 03:30 PM
4

Men have always been able to vote. Factually inaccurate. Learn your history. Also, read the wiki of this sub.
/r/MensRights18/06/19 03:30 PM
8

They're idiots, plain and simple.
/r/MensRights17/06/19 05:21 AM
20

And what's wrong with that? There are tons of resources that focus only on women.
/r/MensRights17/06/19 01:28 AM
24

Imagine such lack of empathy.
/r/MensRights17/06/19 01:11 AM
1

I'm not scared, but I'm often disappointed with how blind most people are.
/r/MensRights11/06/19 01:31 PM
1

To be fair, this program seems to mainly be for black men from single-mother households. I think men from single-mother households could use some guidance.
/r/MensRights08/06/19 01:24 AM
5

How is it divisive or unrelated? Did you read the sidebar? This sub supports minorities.
/r/MensRights05/06/19 07:32 PM
12

I disagree. False accusations do exist after all. Also, this is going to target men, there will be 0 repercussions for female child molesters. It's an inherently anti-male law.
/r/MensRights05/06/19 01:37 PM
2

So?
/r/MensRights03/06/19 08:36 PM
1

Oh well, whatever.
/r/MensRights01/06/19 06:22 PM
1

Oh no, I'm talking about a different incident. I was sexually assaulted by a stranger inside a bus once.
/r/MensRights01/06/19 06:16 PM
11

They always treat MGTOWs, incels, PUAs, MRAs as if they are all the exact same thing. If anything I have seen PUAs being outright hostile towards the MRAs.
/r/MensRights31/05/19 09:04 PM
1

I'm a mixed-race woman who has been sexually assaulted. Is my "adversity score" high enough to be able to say that the demonization of men is morally abhorrent and needs to stop? Considering the high suicide rates for men, the last thing we need is anti-male hatred.
/r/MensRights31/05/19 05:04 PM
-4

This is a sub for Men's Rights. I reported you for being out of topic.
/r/MensRights31/05/19 05:00 PM
5

Many men want to wear more casual clothes but cannot because of the office dress codes.
/r/MensRights30/05/19 04:07 PM
9

I'm still waiting for people to show the same passion about the murders of men which happen to be more common.
/r/MensRights30/05/19 01:13 AM
2

Article that addresses the problems of incels in a somewhat fair (meaning not outright hateful) way.
/r/MensRights29/05/19 08:18 PM
9

It's just a ridiculous argument. A few men at the top create wars, therefore ALL men are responsible? Well, I suppose if you're a collectivist then you're bound to think along those lines.
/r/MensRights29/05/19 08:28 AM
10

Men are more likely to murder other men. Somehow this is considered irrelevant and it's only violence against women that matters.
/r/MensRights29/05/19 08:10 AM
3

Another myth is that most male suicides are "spontaneous". The truth is that men simply hide their depression more, so of course their suicides seem "spontaneous" even when they aren't.
/r/MensRights28/05/19 10:00 PM
1

"The shortest man a woman would date is 68.9" (5'9) and the tallest is 75.3" (6'3). The shortest woman a man would date is 60.6" (5'1) and the tallest is 69.8" (5'10). 23% of men and 4% of women would accept a relationship where the woman was taller."
/r/MensRights28/05/19 05:05 PM
12

I don't know if MLK was a sex addict or if he laughed at raped victims or whatever. However, the point is that they're trying to assassinate his character about things he allegedly did in his personal life, when he's not even around to defend himself. This is like he gets MeTooed even in his grave.
/r/MensRights28/05/19 02:19 AM
1

Yes and no. There are some masculine trends that can be harmful, but the whole matter is too poisoned by ideology so it's hard to have level-headed discussions on it.
/r/MensRights27/05/19 11:36 PM
15

Can someone explain to me how James Bond was about "toxic masculinity" in the first place? I mean, maybe it was kinda sexist some decades ago, but the more recent ones are not sexist at all, unless sleeping with multiple women is a bad thing now. I just don't get it. Women who sleep with multiple men are empowered. Men who sleep with multiple women have toxic masculinity???
/r/MensRights27/05/19 12:37 AM
1

And why is that? Is a man less worthy of sympathy just because he was victimized by another man? Are women more worthy of sympathy if they're victimized by men than they would be if they were victimized by women? I don't get it. Our purpose as MRAs is to show that men can be victims too as men as victims are often ignored by the media regardless of who is the aggressor.
/r/MensRights26/05/19 01:59 PM
1

How is that relevant? We're talking about the victims here. Are you implying that men are lesser victims just because they're usually targeted by other men? Also, in the case of the Rwanda genocide specifically, many women participated in the killings and this is what makes this genocide so unique. If you bothered to read the article, you would know that women were not just innocent victims in this case.
/r/MensRights26/05/19 01:45 PM
1

I can't find them now, but I very much remember that there have been polls about it
/r/MensRights26/05/19 12:22 PM
1

There have been multiple polls that show that they are.
/r/MensRights26/05/19 12:16 PM
3

Because they believe they have a common goal? I don't know. I'm not trying to defend conservatism here. There are some conservative MRAs, but most MRAs are moderate or even leftist.
/r/MensRights25/05/19 06:27 PM
6

She just hates the transgenders so she chooses to get friendly with conservatives in order to attack the "transgender agenda". She is a TERF.
/r/MensRights25/05/19 06:22 PM
3

Man attacks man: I sleep. Woman attacks man: I sleep. Man attacks woman: REAL SHIT!
/r/MensRights25/05/19 12:09 PM
12

People who advocate for chivalry are in general enemies of Men's Rights. It was chivalry that landed men in jail for the actions of their wives back in the days of the coverture doctrine.
/r/MensRights25/05/19 11:07 AM
3

The most stupid thing I have ever seen. Benevolent sexist nonsense. This must be created by a boomer.
/r/MensRights24/05/19 07:02 PM
6

This is not a competition and I didn't say that men had it worse. I just posted it because I think it's an interesting analysis of the gender dynamics of the genocide. Why do you even feel the need to make everything about women? Is discussing the male victims such a bad thing?
/r/MensRights24/05/19 07:44 AM
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It's truly very interesting. It explains the crisis in masculinity that existed before the genocide started as well as how mainly men were targeted for killings. (as is common for genocidal situations) Another interesting thing about the Rwanda genocide is that many women also participated in the killings, something that is considered unusual.
/r/MensRights24/05/19 06:58 AM
5

I have been saying it for a long time now that Britain is even more gynocentric than Sweden. Britain somehow manages to combine Victorian era ideas about how innocent and pure women are with feminism.
/r/MensRights24/05/19 05:49 AM
1

I agree, this sucks. Being a jerk and not caring for the environment is not what "being a man" is about.
/r/MensRights23/05/19 05:41 PM
1

Yes, I'm impressed that violence against men is finally being addressed, at least somewhat. It used to be 100% ignored back in the day.
/r/MensRights23/05/19 04:18 PM
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I agree, banning abortion is actually pretty bad for men's rights.
/r/MensRights23/05/19 01:47 PM
11

The media have been pushing the divisive , anti-male narrative for weeks that abortion is about "men wanting to control women's bodies". This BBC article seems to recognize that it's more complicated than that and that men and women as a whole have similar views when it comes to abortion. I'm frankly shocked that they reported it fairly.
/r/MensRights23/05/19 11:16 AM
1

Unfortunately, I cannot find the exact source now as I read it months ago.
/r/MensRights23/05/19 08:40 AM
14

Boys were more likely to report being victims of physical neglect, sexual abuse and violence, the study found I don't know why people would be surprised about it. It has been known for decades that men are more likely to be victims of violence. The only reason why people might not realize this is that the media focuses almost exclusively on violence against women.
/r/MensRights23/05/19 01:50 AM
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Imagine being horrified by the possibility of recognizing that male victims of DV exist. Also, there is plenty of evidence that women are as likely to be abusive as men, although it's true that men often cause more serious injuries. https://www.theguardian.com/society/2010/sep/05/men-victims-domestic-violence https://www.researchgate.net/publication/233717660_Thirty_Years_of_Denying_the_Evidence_on_Gender_Symmetry_in_Partner_Violence_Implications_for_Prevention_and_Treatment
/r/MensRights23/05/19 12:56 AM
1

Imagine being horrified by the possibility of recognizing that male victims of DV exist. Also, there is plenty of evidence that women are as likely to be abusive as men, although it's true that men often cause more serious injuries. https://www.theguardian.com/society/2010/sep/05/men-victims-domestic-violence https://www.researchgate.net/publication/233717660_Thirty_Years_of_Denying_the_Evidence_on_Gender_Symmetry_in_Partner_Violence_Implications_for_Prevention_and_Treatment
/r/MensRights23/05/19 12:55 AM
1

TL;DR Testosterone levels are declining and this can be bad for men as testosterone has been linked to many useful skills like spatial reasoning and energy. The reasons for the decline are probably obesity and chemicals in the water. The solution for men is to exercise and eat healthily and to support environmentalist policies so that water pollution will decrease.
/r/MensRights22/05/19 09:45 PM
1

He's saying that men need to police their own emotional expressions because women aren't ready for them.
/r/MensRights22/05/19 09:23 PM
30

I was reading a report about wartime rape during the Syrian conflict. It turns out that sexual abuse against male prisoners was very common. Yet there was exactly 0 help towards male victims by NGOs and charities which all focused only on the female victims.
/r/MensRights22/05/19 06:29 PM
1

Please no, get some help.
/r/MensRights22/05/19 05:21 PM
2

I think you take biological determinism too seriously. Even if biology plays a role here, it doesn't mean we can't influence things via social engineering.
/r/MensRights22/05/19 11:30 AM
8

I'm okay with that. I just don't like how people pretend that only men judge women.
/r/MensRights22/05/19 01:20 AM
6

I think that men should be open about their emotions if they feel like it. However, society typically does not react well to such men and this is not acknowledged properly.
/r/MensRights22/05/19 12:49 AM
14

Sadly, they only want men to express their emotions in a limited, "appropriate" way. They seem to have no patience for men who feel distress about women, even if said men have legitimately been abused by women in their lives. The fact that they seem to be pathologizing male anger is also suspicious. Obvious, there are cases where male anger can be toxic, but pathologizing by default a certain emotion in men doesn't sound good.
/r/MensRights22/05/19 12:33 AM
3

Of course.
/r/MensRights21/05/19 10:57 AM
4

Wow, I'm genuinely shocked. There has been evidence for some time now that boys actually face more corporal punishment and violence in general, but for some reason it was ignored and if you were to believe various international organizations and NGOs it's only violence against girls and women that matters. It's good to finally see some progress, lets hope that people will do more to help boys.
/r/MensRights21/05/19 08:41 AM
3

According to this, the so called "toxic masculinity" might as well be caused by father absence. The kid doesn't have a masculine influence in his life so he gets a flawed idea of masculinity. Just one more reason why fathers are important.
/r/MensRights20/05/19 11:07 PM
2

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3904543/
/r/MensRights20/05/19 06:39 PM
5

http://www.law.umich.edu/newsandinfo/features/Pages/starr_gender_disparities.aspx This could be helpful.
/r/MensRights20/05/19 12:59 PM
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Most of us here support equality (in the sense of equality of opportunity not equality of outcomes) so in a a sense we do support women's rights. Feminism is a specific ideology that is based on the idea that there is a system built to benefit men and harm women. (that's how they define the patriarchy) We don't believe that things are so simple. The system was not built to benefit men, if anything low status men are cannon fodder in the so called "patriarchy". Especially in this day and age in t…
/r/MensRights20/05/19 10:17 AM
2

This is more proof that tradcons couldn't care less about men.
/r/MensRights20/05/19 10:01 AM
11

Of course, it's all because men are bad with emotions. There are no women out there who are control freaks or psychologically abusive. Absolutely not. All women are perfect. It's always the guy who has a problem.
/r/MensRights19/05/19 10:06 PM
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Polls consistently show that men and women have similar views on abortion. There are almost as many pro-choice women as men. There are almost as many pro-life women as men. The fact that they insist on promoting this divisive man vs woman narrative is pathetic.
/r/MensRights19/05/19 08:54 PM
1

The only good thing about Biden is that if he wins, he might support the neglected working-class. Other than that, he seems like a very uninteresting candidate. I think even someone like Yang would have been more interesting and Yang is someone who is at least trying to help men in some way.
/r/MensRights19/05/19 05:40 PM
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I noticed that what they usually refer to as "toxic masculinity" is basically a caricature of the stereotypical behavior of the working-class male. Behaviors like being aggressive, non-PC, wanting to appear muscular etc. are often associated with men from the lower classes, contrary to upper-middle class men who are usually stereotyped as more metrosexual. There are some exceptions, for example overworking is also considered toxic masculinity but that can affect the higher classes too. However, …
/r/MensRights19/05/19 05:30 PM
11

There are A LOT of behaviors that would be considered borderline abusive if done by a man, yet they're widely tolerated if done by a woman. Take for example the "kick the husband out of bed and get him to sleep on the couch" thing. It would be considered borderline abusive if a man did that, yet when women do it, nobody bats an eye.
/r/MensRights19/05/19 12:39 AM
4

Yes.
/r/MensRights18/05/19 06:56 PM
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These laws will not send women who have abortion to prisons, they only send the doctors to prison. His argument doesn't even make sense because it's usually the woman who decides to have an abortion. If the woman has an abortion, how is the man responsible? Polls consistently show that women are as likely to be pro-life as men. The narrative that implies that only men are pro-life is bs. I am strongly pro-choice, but the anti-male narrative I see recently makes no sense. Men and women have simil…
/r/MensRights18/05/19 06:53 PM
7

I am just wondering whether this will be helpful to men. What's wrong with it?
/r/MensRights18/05/19 02:37 PM
8

If someone prefers to have their biological kids, that's their own choice.
/r/MensRights18/05/19 01:58 PM
10

Think about this. Lets say a woman gets pregnant and she doesn't want the baby, while the man does. Artificial wombs will be helpful in that situation.
/r/MensRights18/05/19 12:56 PM
6

Yea, but it's different when you will be able to have biological kids.
/r/MensRights18/05/19 12:44 PM
16

Men will likely be able to have kids without being dependent on women.
/r/MensRights18/05/19 12:42 PM
5

It's less than half. Even a lot of left-leaning women don't care about the feminist agenda.
/r/MensRights18/05/19 11:32 AM
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Sadly, it seems that they're partially right, although it was only true for early feminists. https://www.medicinenet.com/script/main/art.asp?articlekey=51170 In the late 19th century, many suffrage leaders frowned on birth control because that meant condoms: which they saw as linked to the brothel, to giving men free reign to cheat on their wives, and to a negative effect on the family," Tone says. "They felt it was important for women to gain political and social power by defending their roles …
/r/MensRights18/05/19 11:19 AM
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We should keep abortion legal and push for legal parental surrender for men. Everyone should have reproductive rights.
/r/MensRights18/05/19 11:17 AM
15

It's really sad that they're failing to reach these young men. Millennial men are truly the lost generation. The media blames the far-right, white supremacy, Jordan Peterson, video games etc. Yea, okay, but have you considered why this generation of men is so problematic?? Have you considered that maybe you failed to reach them? That maybe having a bunch of young men feeling that they have no purpose in life is a bad idea.
/r/MensRights17/05/19 11:22 PM
58

Banning abortion will only create more single mothers and enslave more men through child support.
/r/MGTOW17/05/19 02:05 PM
89

Abortion needs to be legal, it's the only hope there is to eventually achieve legal parental surrender for men.
/r/MGTOW17/05/19 01:47 PM
5

It's indeed about equal, the numbers are so close that we don't know for sure if it's more men or women.
/r/MensRights17/05/19 12:57 PM
3

The point is that the author just seems to be making assumptions. Sure, creeps exist, but the tone of the article seems to be like "every man into naked yoga and group hugs is a creepy old guy".
/r/MensRights17/05/19 12:54 PM
6

Would Quillette publish an article portraying female sexuality as "creepy"? I somehow doubt it.
/r/MensRights17/05/19 12:27 PM
25

I'm totally pro-choice, but why don't these people understand that the number of pro-life women is roughly equal to the number of pro-life men?
/r/MensRights16/05/19 05:01 PM
3

https://lawpublications.barry.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1017&context=cflj This is a good one about male statutory rape victims forced to pay child support. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/12710831 This is also worth a read.
/r/MensRights16/05/19 04:58 PM
1

I don't know. Probably not.
/r/MensRights16/05/19 02:53 PM
20

The number of pro-life women is nearly equal to the number of pro-life men as polls show.
/r/MensRights16/05/19 02:30 PM
6

That's why I keep saying that the traditionalist faction of the MRM is wasting their time. The material conditions are different and the only thing we can do is to move forwards and minimize the damage done to men.
/r/MensRights16/05/19 02:12 PM
4

I'm a woman and a supporter of Men's Rights, I just made a simple comment, that's all.
/r/MensRights16/05/19 01:50 PM
15

The identity politics fanatics were bound to eat each other sooner or later, however I wouldn't be afraid for the sake of white women, they will still be at the top of the hierarchy even though they're the least oppressed group in the world.
/r/MensRights16/05/19 01:25 PM
13

Men are braver more action-oriented for cultural and (possibly) biological reasons, but we mustn't forget that women can be heroic in their own way too. Just because the genders tend to be different in their heroic ways, it doesn't mean that one is superior to the other.
/r/MensRights16/05/19 01:19 PM
3

The way I see it, both men and women are oppressed in some ways in Islam.
/r/MensRights16/05/19 11:10 AM
2

They posted this on Men's Lib and it wasn't deleted? I'm impressed.
/r/MensRights16/05/19 07:33 AM
23

As a woman I can tell you that they tend to give bad advice to women too. They care more about being PC than about actually helping people date.
/r/MensRights16/05/19 06:52 AM
10

People think this is surprising? Hasn't it been that way since forever?
/r/MensRights16/05/19 06:38 AM
5

If you actually look at the graph, there was already a downwards trend in men wanting kids even before the legislation of paternity leave. This means that the argument is mostly baseless. Men have just been less likely to want kids for a long time now.
/r/MensRights16/05/19 06:37 AM
1

Apparently yes.
/r/MensRights16/05/19 06:32 AM
1

No society exists without sex roles, but we're entering a very technologically advanced stage right now, you never know what will be possible in the future.
/r/MensRights15/05/19 08:02 PM
1

I believe that men should be liberated from the male gender role. Fuck being a breadwinner and a protector or whatever. I don't even care if this leads to society collapse. It's just isn't worth it for men to sacrifice their well-being for others.
/r/MensRights15/05/19 07:54 PM
1

You're overthinking it. Just enjoy the decline. Trying to make things "they way they used to be" is a lost cause.
/r/MensRights15/05/19 07:23 PM
1

Because the men who taught you were taught by men who taught them that the only acceptable emotion is lashing out in violence and anger. This is problematic. It has been proven many times that a lot of women have little sympathy for emotional men too. It is anti-male to blame only men for these trends, many mothers and girlfriends encourage them in their own ways.
/r/MensRights15/05/19 07:08 PM
3

You shouldn't view things in a vindictive way. There's no need to punish women for the injustices that men face. Besides, abortion can help men too.
/r/MensRights15/05/19 05:52 PM
5

Abortion helps men too, especially in the current social climate. Banning abortion is unlikely to lower sexual activity and pregnancies and instead it will just increase the amount of single-mothers and men forced to pay child support.
/r/MensRights15/05/19 03:55 PM
-1

I believe in male liberation rather than equality.
/r/MensRights15/05/19 03:39 PM
0

I personally disagree but to each his own.
/r/MensRights15/05/19 03:34 PM
13

This is bad for men's rights. We should be supporting abortion if we are to ever achieve the option of legal parental surrender.
/r/MensRights15/05/19 02:43 PM
3

She is also a domestic abuser. https://www.reviewjournal.com/crime/homicides/woman-arrested-in-death-of-man-pushed-off-bus-in-las-vegas-1659141/ On Friday, detectives spoke with her son’s father, and the man said he is no longer with her because “she is too violent.” Later that day, Bishop called school police and agreed to go to Metro headquarters for an interview, but she never showed up, the report said. According to court records, Bishop pleaded guilty to two domestic violence misdemeanors, …
/r/MensRights15/05/19 01:57 PM
3

Of course.
/r/MensRights15/05/19 12:44 PM
6

I'm all for challenging the traditional gender norms, but I'm sometimes afraid that men do not have better alternatives. Like, I get it, some gender norms can be harmful for men, but these people who criticize masculinity rarely offer a decent alternative and many men are left confused. No wonder that depression has skyrocketed among both men and women, people have no clue what their role in society is anymore. I am not defending the old days which were indeed restrictive, but at least people kn…
/r/MensRights15/05/19 11:28 AM
1

Look at the title. "These are the men we fight for". I'm afraid that this might be promoting the wrong idea. There are already too men that feel that they're worthy only if they sacrifice themselves in some way.
/r/MensRights15/05/19 01:01 AM
2

You don't think it's worthwhile to increase sympathy for men who are suffering? Why are you even an MRA?
/r/MensRights15/05/19 12:56 AM
-2

Please, don't promote the idea that men should be sacrificing themselves for others. This can be toxic too.
/r/MensRights15/05/19 12:08 AM
1

Who is that guy?
/r/MensRights14/05/19 10:41 PM
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One of the biggest ones is that even in your everyday life you're more likely to get sympathy as a female than as a male. There is research that shows that people are generally more sympathetic towards women who express sadness. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5112287/ Female targets also received more affective empathy than did male targets I remember there was also an article with trans men and they said that they felt that they received less sympathy in their everyday life when t…
/r/MensRights14/05/19 09:26 PM
21

I'm frankly shocked that she faced any consequences at all. This is proof that things are slowly changing.
/r/MensRights14/05/19 01:22 PM
2

Also, remember when Elliot Rodger was labeled "white" even though he was half-Asian.
/r/MensRights14/05/19 12:12 PM
50

Paying for women in general should be discouraged. Women should be able to pay for themselves.
/r/MensRights14/05/19 12:41 AM
1

I do not entirely agree with this text, but for once it recognizes that male self-sacrifice is not inherently good. I have commented before on how men are socialized to be cannon fodder. https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/bjyhoc/dont_let_people_tell_you_that_you_should/
/r/MensRights13/05/19 11:37 PM
24

The word misogyny in general is used very liberally. I was just accused of being a misogynist by a dude for saying that women might not fully understand the male experience....And I'm actually a woman as I've said many times in the past.
/r/MensRights13/05/19 05:44 PM
5

Male disposability for low status males still exists in patriarchal societies.
/r/MensRights12/05/19 11:02 PM
3

At least he did one good thing.
/r/MensRights12/05/19 10:57 PM
8

I doubt it. Low status males are generally screwed over in Saudi Arabia and all Islamic countries.
/r/MensRights12/05/19 10:57 PM
11

Male privilege is complete and total bullshit. Maybe only rich male privilege exists. Poorer men and working-class men have to face a never ending struggle in their lives and in some ways they're screwed over more than women.
/r/MensRights12/05/19 10:51 PM
11

Most MRAs seem to completely agree with equality, they just disagree with the feminist approach.
/r/MensRights12/05/19 09:38 PM
18

Who said that MRAs want women to be stay-at-home? If anything, MRAs want the opposite. They want women to work so that men won't have to pay alimony.
/r/MensRights12/05/19 09:14 PM
3

Yes, of course, there are many women who understand. I'm just worried that there are also many women who will struggle to understand the male perspective.
/r/MensRights12/05/19 05:27 PM
27

Many here do not identify as conservatives, so you're definitely not alone.
/r/MensRights12/05/19 02:36 PM
13

Lol, based on those guidelines we can already imagine depressed men seeking therapy only so that they can be lectured on "male privilege" and "how to be a good ally".
/r/MensRights12/05/19 02:03 PM
12

Of course, many women are great therapists, but I'm afraid that the field will suffer because of a lack of male perspective. I'm afraid that many female therapists will not properly understand male issues.
/r/MensRights12/05/19 01:50 PM
22

Biggest lie ever. Maybe it benefits the top, high status men. Low status men are basically cannon fodder in the patriarchy.
/r/MensRights12/05/19 12:08 PM
3

Can you post the text? It has paywall for me.
/r/MensRights12/05/19 07:47 AM
3

Feminism has somewhat helped men, but they also have a long history of erasing the male victim. Look, I don't mind feminism as long as they don't get in the way of male liberation. I am not opposed to women's rights, I just want to support men's rights. And of course I will criticize some misandrist aspects of feminism. I generally agree with Warren Farrel on this issue that we should support feminism, except for the bullshit parts like the existence of universal male power etc.
/r/MensRights11/05/19 09:10 PM
8

Of course it;s not. Neither the left nor the right care about men as a group.
/r/MensRights11/05/19 06:47 PM
3

I don't see how this is toxic femininity and not just political figures being political figures. I don't agree with the politics of the McCain lady, but saying this is toxic femininity is absurd. The whole article seems like cancerous bullshit.
/r/MensRights11/05/19 06:23 PM
15

Yea, of course one cannot address male disposability without apologizing for it first. It's sad.
/r/MensRights11/05/19 12:33 PM
1

These fields will lose a major part of their labor force in the future because of automation.
/r/MensRights11/05/19 12:25 PM
9

TGMP is generally very anti-male and gynocentric, so I'm impressed that they addressed the disposability of boys, a topic that is largely ignored.
/r/MensRights11/05/19 11:55 AM
2

I am actually female, that's the funny thing.
/r/MensRights11/05/19 01:22 AM
3

I don't see you refuting the cold, hard facts I posted about the decline of men.
/r/MensRights10/05/19 11:36 PM
3

Even if it's true that women prefer professions that have to do with people, they can still tolerate "thing" dominated professions if they feel that they have to. In poorer countries, there are many women in STEM specifically because they feel that they have to do that in order to make ends meet. Besides, feminists will never accept that men and women might have different preferences. Sooner or later they will push for a mandatory 50% women in STEM.
/r/MensRights10/05/19 11:35 PM
3

For now. Because of the push of feminism, it wouldn't be surprising if that won't be the truth in a few years. Besides, not everyone has the skills to choose such a field. What about less educated men? Poor men? Men with low IQ?
/r/MensRights10/05/19 11:27 PM
1

Meh, they just hate men, it's nothing new.
/r/MensRights10/05/19 09:25 PM
5

It's bullshit because there was already a downwards trend in male desire to have kids even before the introduction of paternity leave. We don't know if it was paternity leave that actually caused this instead of just a continuation of the trend.
/r/MensRights10/05/19 09:22 PM
2

Please, post full text.
/r/MensRights10/05/19 08:55 PM
2

Women as a whole are more likely to vote Democrat though.
/r/MensRights10/05/19 08:48 PM
7

I think it's a great idea. The Democratic party needs to do more pro-male stuff like this if they want to gain the male vote. I heard that Andrew Yang also has some good ideas.
/r/MensRights10/05/19 08:44 PM
10

I have been saying for a long time that the so called "patriarchy" was never a system built to benefit men. It was a system built to benefit the top men. Low status men are basically cannon fodder in the patriarchy, usually treated worse than the women.
/r/MensRights10/05/19 07:51 PM
8

Look, there are some feminists that have actively fought AGAINST men's rights. That's who I have a problem with. Other than that I don't mind feminism and I don't mind women's liberation. I just choose to prioritize men's liberation for various reasons. I don't plan to stand in the way of feminism except in cases where they're actively making things worse for men.
/r/MensRights10/05/19 07:28 PM
3

Sweden might be more feminist, but believe me when I say this, Britain is way more anti-male than Sweden. Britain combines traditional chivalry with feminism which is HORRIBLE.
/r/MensRights10/05/19 03:51 PM
19

Believe me when I say this, Denmark is still incredibly gynocentric.
/r/MensRights10/05/19 03:39 PM
4

You know what, I'm mixed-race and I believe in white privilege, but I have never thought that it might reduce sympathy for poor whites. That's a good point. Maybe we should stop focusing on who is privileged and start focusing on who is disadvantaged.
/r/MensRights10/05/19 08:32 AM
9

I think it depends on the situation. If someone has fainted then yes it's obviously rape. But having sex with drunk people in general is not inherently rape, that's absurd.
/r/MensRights09/05/19 07:08 PM
28

"We want men to show emotions. Hiding emotions is toxic masculinity!" 10 minutes later... "How dare you bother me with your need for intimacy, can't you just suck it up? Grrr.."
/r/MensRights09/05/19 06:52 PM
1

Yes, marriage is anti-male and men should avoid it at all costs.
/r/MensRights09/05/19 06:32 PM
6

Destroying the marriage has unironically destroyed the working class. I hope these pseudo-Marxists are proud of their achievements. Rich people are more likely to get married and stay married than low class people. https://ifstudies.org/blog/the-marriage-divide-how-and-why-working-class-families-are-more-fragile-today Meanwhile broken families and single motherhood make poverty for low class people even worse. https://thefatherlessgeneration.wordpress.com/statistics/ We're entering a stage where…
/r/MensRights09/05/19 03:23 PM
2

https://afsp.org/about-suicide/suicide-statistics/ https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gender_differences_in_suicide
/r/MensRights09/05/19 03:15 PM
5

This is so sad.
/r/MensRights09/05/19 01:36 PM
5

Pontes and her team found the effects of bullying are significantly higher in females than males on every measure of psychological distress or suicidal thoughts and actions. And this is why it's bullshit. They say that girls are more distressed because of bullying but they neglect to mention that boys are more likely to downplay their own depression symptoms because of masculine norms. It's the same with how some say that women are psychologically affected more negatively by domestic abuse, but …
/r/MensRights09/05/19 10:12 AM
26

He was brave and a hero, but we shouldn't be encouraging boys to risk their lives like that, especially since society doesn't appreciate males.
/r/MensRights09/05/19 07:10 AM
5

Misandry has led to men being treated as disposable...
/r/MensRights09/05/19 06:35 AM
5

I personally have no problem with the idea of toxic femininity existing.
/r/MensRights08/05/19 04:02 PM
-1

There is social pressure for men to do these things, that's my point. You can call it however you want but the point remains.
/r/MensRights08/05/19 03:35 PM
-3

The idea that a man should provide for a woman and should put himself in danger for a woman is a harmful masculine norm.
/r/MensRights08/05/19 02:46 PM
-10

You don't think that there are certain masculine norms that can be harmful, even to men themselves?
/r/MensRights08/05/19 02:25 PM
15

The term toxic masculinity is indeed abused and used as a shaming tactic, however, I think it can be useful in certain contexts.
/r/MensRights08/05/19 12:39 PM
1

This is a very interesting analysis that shows how a crisis in masculinity was one of the reasons behind the genocide. It also shows how men were primarily the ones targeted for the killings, yet this fact is often overlooked. One interesting thing about the Rwanda genocide is also that it's one of the rare cases where many women participated in the genocide.
/r/MensRights08/05/19 10:43 AM
2

I do think that society is shaped by material conditions to a great extent and I do think that capitalism is an exploitative system, however, I lack confidence in the communist movements I see. I don't think a communist revolution will happen and even if it did happen I am not confident it would lead to positive results. I think that while communists recognize the flaws of capitalism, they generally lack a coherent plan about how to reach communism.
/r/MensRights08/05/19 12:13 AM
1

I used to be a Marxist and I still agree with some aspects of Marxist theory. I wouldn't call myself a communist though.
/r/MensRights08/05/19 12:07 AM
7

I don't care about them as long as they're not getting in the way of male liberation and as long as they are not erasing male victims, which sadly they often do.
/r/MensRights07/05/19 11:05 PM
3

It's nonsense. Men's Rights and the alt-right are two completely different things. They are just lumping them together to demonize MRAs and justify censorship, it's a common tactic. By the way, I'm half-black and I hate white nationalism.
/r/MensRights07/05/19 09:36 PM
5

The average right-winger is very anti-male. At worst, they want to keep the system as it is and expect men to "man up" and marry some woman despite marriage being very anti-male. At best, they want to turn things the way they were in the past, but they're missing the point because the past is not coming back. The material conditions are just different now, so we should move forward.
/r/MensRights07/05/19 09:03 PM
3

The patriarchy did exist in the sense that men were expected to be the heads of the household. Nowadays, this is not the case, especially with the rise of single motherhood. However, even in families where the father is around nowadays, the woman is still usually the boss. You will have a hard time finding a man who is a patriarch in their family. Most men just go along with what their wives tell them. Most families are closer to being matriarchal than patriarchal in this day and age.
/r/MensRights07/05/19 04:25 PM
16

In this case, their race played a role in the way they were treated. Just like their gender also played a role.
/r/MensRights07/05/19 03:09 PM
19

From what I've read, nothing happened to her.
/r/MensRights07/05/19 03:05 PM
62

The media normalizes hitting men in the balls as if it's a funny thing, ignoring that this can actually cause permanent damage.
/r/MensRights07/05/19 11:28 AM
6

This has nothing to do with Men's Rights. Take your political stuff elsewhere.
/r/MensRights06/05/19 11:29 PM
0

It's not unrelated, it's still a male issue.
/r/MensRights06/05/19 06:24 PM
44

I won't put my horse in this race (as is usually adviseable only reading the abstract of a large study) but I am curious to know more about the operationalization of the term "violence". Further, I do wonder how contextual variables were controlled for (is said violence retaliatory violence, preemptive abuse, perhaps jocular hitting* etc.). Of course, violence against men is "preemptive abuse", lol... Isn't it interesting how nobody makes this kind of excuses when it comes to violence against wo…
/r/MensRights06/05/19 03:47 PM
16

Just ignore them, they want attention.
/r/MensRights06/05/19 12:40 PM
4

Exactly. Lets be honest, a lot of women say they want "ambitious" men. This is just the PC way of saying they want rich men.
/r/MensRights06/05/19 08:54 AM
1

Of course, nobody said that sex should be a right.
/r/MensRights06/05/19 08:45 AM
4

They're just bullshitting to demonize the sub. I have never vote right-wing in my life.
/r/MensRights06/05/19 01:28 AM
2

Can you link it please?
/r/MensRights06/05/19 01:26 AM
7

Just ignore them, they want attention.
/r/MensRights05/05/19 08:56 PM
1

By "patriarchy" I mean that the father was the leader of the household. That's what the word literally means. Since fathers are obviously no longer the heads of the household, there's no reason why we would be living in a patriarchy.
/r/MensRights05/05/19 07:28 PM
14

Browsing /r/feminism is making me depressed and I'm female.
/r/MensRights05/05/19 06:29 PM
9

The patriarchy might have been true at some point in history, but in this day and age in the West it's clearly not a thing. First of all, the word "patriarchy" literally means rule of the fathers in Greek. Modern mothers have way more power over the children than fathers, not to mention the rise of single motherhood. If anything, western societies are closer to being matriarchies, "rule of the mothers". The fact that most leaders are male doesn't prove that we live in a patriarchy. For example, …
/r/MensRights05/05/19 04:08 PM
2

The comments are so bad. At least half of the comments are sympathizing with the wife, lol. If a man did that, then these same people would be calling him "controlling" and "abusive".
/r/MensRights05/05/19 02:24 PM
1

That is my point actually. Incels need help, by demonizing them it's likely they will be radicalized more.
/r/MensRights05/05/19 12:48 PM
7

The Good Men Project is pretty pro-feminist so I expected them to at least oppose chivalry, but nope. Here's an article of them saying that chivalry is a good thing. That's bullshit. Male chivalry comes with certain expectations for women too. If women don't fulfill these expectations , then there is no reason why men should have to be chivalrous. Chivalry needs to die in order to achieve equality! Is this more proof that TGMP is gynocentric and anti-male?
/r/MensRights04/05/19 10:55 PM
1

I did.
/r/MensRights04/05/19 10:42 PM
7

It's brilliant that more and more men are speaking out, I swear that things are improving in some ways.
/r/MensRights04/05/19 08:16 PM
3

That's dumb, we probably don't even live in the same country.
/r/MensRights04/05/19 07:17 PM
3

What could I alone do to help him then?
/r/MensRights04/05/19 07:14 PM
7

Well, sorry for that but I don't see how anyone "deserves" sex for just existing. I do understand that being constantly rejected can be very frustrating though.
/r/MensRights04/05/19 06:51 PM
5

Yes, but I am trying to understand the male POV.
/r/MensRights04/05/19 06:48 PM
5

Men don't "deserve" sex, in the sense that nobody owes it to them, but I certainly think that we should be sympathetic to men who are unsuccessful in the dating scene. I imagine that being constantly rejected by the opposite sex can make some people feel like total shit.
/r/MensRights04/05/19 06:43 PM
5

Men are lonely and depressed? Let me tell you how women are the REEEEAL victims.
/r/MensRights04/05/19 06:19 PM
17

And undoubtedly the man-haters will paint this as a good thing.
/r/MensRights04/05/19 09:46 AM
8

It's true and I think that men should be free to express themselves in any way they feel comfortable. However, I don't know why people ignore the role of testosterone. There is literally evidence that people with higher testosterone have a harder time expressing their feelings and trans men have confirmed that after taking testosterone the way they express themselves changed.
/r/MensRights04/05/19 01:12 AM
6

Men are more likely to successfully commit suicides in nearly every country. (there are one or two countries that are exceptions)
/r/MensRights03/05/19 11:46 PM
12

Of course it is. Boys and men tend to face harsher punishments everywhere, even in hardcore "patriarchies". I have seen feminists saying that girls are disciplined more to learn to be more "docile" and "well-behaved" but I never found any actual evidence of that.
/r/MensRights03/05/19 11:04 PM
18

What about the men and boys? Fuck them, right? They're just the faceless people that nobody cares about.
/r/MensRights03/05/19 10:06 PM
3

You forgot the obviously misandrist moment when Gamora kicked Starlord in the nuts.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/05/19 07:01 AM
7

Conservatives do indeed promote male disposability, in some ways they're even worse than the SJWs. However, I am still surprised that the feminist APA would suggest that male sacrifice is "positive masculinity". Lol, I somehow expected better from them, I guess I was wrong.
/r/MensRights03/05/19 01:17 AM
10

I don't even want to read it because I already predict that it's full of strawmen.
/r/MensRights02/05/19 11:12 PM
11

Exactly my thoughts, they are literally promoting male disposability as positive masculinity.
/r/MensRights02/05/19 09:44 PM
0

This is not related to men's rights.
/r/MensRights02/05/19 07:35 PM
2

It's alright. Thanks for your interest.
/r/MensRights02/05/19 06:19 PM
4

I can relate. I had a female friend in high school who lied and started spreading rumors that a guy had "raped" me. Here's my story. https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/becde1/how_an_expartner_of_mine_got_falsely_accused_of/
/r/MensRights02/05/19 03:25 PM
2

It's progress that they have started discussing about male victims. 10 years ago, male victims were ignored by literally everyone except a handful of researchers who got demonized for saying that men can be victims too.
/r/MensRights02/05/19 03:07 PM
4

Sure!
/r/MensRights02/05/19 11:32 AM
5

No, there was a thread where many of them admitted themselves that they had autism. I didn't diagnose anything.
/r/MensRights02/05/19 09:36 AM
3

Feel free.
/r/MensRights01/05/19 08:52 AM
4

Everything in that post is wrong. For example, the poster assumes that we don't want reproductive freedom for men? Where the hell do they get that from?
/r/MensRights30/04/19 11:34 PM
5

It sure looks suspicious. If they want answers, why don't they just check our wiki?
/r/MensRights30/04/19 11:05 PM
2

But how dare you call them man haters?!
/r/MensRights30/04/19 09:18 PM
1

I mean that maybe transgenders get born with a male body but female brain and they're some exception to the rule. I agree that male and female brains are different.
/r/MensRights30/04/19 07:55 PM
13

The article they link in the comments says it's a different girl.
/r/MensRights30/04/19 05:49 PM
71

He has been indeed falsely accused of sexual harassment, but I think it was a different ring girl.
/r/MensRights30/04/19 05:29 PM
4

Sadly, it's real and it has ruined many men's lives.
/r/MensRights30/04/19 04:13 PM
2

There is a possibility that gender identity is innate and that transgenders are simply people who happened to be born with the "wrong" gender identity.
/r/MensRights30/04/19 12:35 PM
4

Hopefully trans people will put an end to the myth of blank slatism. I am tired of seeing social psychologists ignoring the role of testosterone and acting like everything is a result of socialization.
/r/MensRights30/04/19 12:30 PM
2

Of course, feel free.
/r/MensRights30/04/19 12:08 PM
6

It's total bullshit. There are many cases where the female villain gets redeemed while the male ones are not. Examples: Maleficent from the movie Maleficent (meanwhile the male villains are portrayed as irredeemably evil) and that blond lady from the Incredibles. (meanwhile Syndrome never gets redeemed and ends up getting killed)
/r/MensRights30/04/19 10:36 AM
25

It's toxic. It's just women taking advantage of lonely and vulnerable men. When the man is the "dominant" in the relationship, he's supposed to pay for everything in order to demonstrate his authority. When the woman is the "dominant" in the relationship, the man is still expected to pay for everything in order to demonstrate his submission. Interesting how that works out for women either way, right?
/r/MensRights30/04/19 09:12 AM
9

Lets be honest. If it was an adult man having sex with an underage girl, they would never assume that the girl "wanted it". Even if an underage girl "consents" (as much as a minor can consent), people would assume that she was exploited. When it happens to an underage boy however? People would never think that he was exploited in any way.
/r/MensRights30/04/19 09:05 AM
2

1) This doesn't excuse the relative silence of feminists on the military draft. 2) This doesn't excuse the fact that male victimization is mostly ignored. 3) This doesn't excuse the fact that women get more lenient sentences for the SAME CRIME.
/r/MensRights30/04/19 08:26 AM
6

That's true. My point is that people tend to focus on genocidal rape against women, which is indeed terrible, but it is rarely mentioned that it is mainly men who get targeted for killings. If you ask around, most people won't even know that during these genocides it was mainly men who died.
/r/MensRights30/04/19 07:23 AM
21

Yea, this happens a lot. It's considered funny to make fun of a man's body in general, but laughing at women's bodies is a no-no.
/r/MensRights30/04/19 12:45 AM
12

Everyday I wonder "could things get any worse" and the answer always seems to be yes.
/r/MensRights30/04/19 12:35 AM
16

Lol, this kind of thing is incredibly normalized to the point where some people even applaud it.
/r/MensRights29/04/19 08:45 PM
10

I had once attended a feminist seminar years ago. It was about as bad as you can imagine. At some point they even implied that bullying and drug addiction are "women's problems" as if men don't suffer from those. Imagine the delusion.
/r/MensRights29/04/19 12:53 PM
20

Why does it seem like men are always losers in advertisements. They're always the butt of the joke.
/r/MensRights28/04/19 06:48 PM
6

I support men's rights and I have to say that I have no problems with immigration. Also, throwing in there incels is silly considering that it has been proven that a significant amount of incels are non-white.
/r/MensRights28/04/19 01:49 PM
13

You can find crazies in literally any movement, the point is that this is not what the MRM is about.
/r/MensRights28/04/19 01:36 PM
5

This is textbook "taking things out of context". I dislike Sargon, but I don't understand how people fall for this kind of smear campaigns.
/r/MensRights28/04/19 01:18 PM
91

I agree, but only fringe MRAs think this way.
/r/MensRights28/04/19 12:51 PM
9

I don't doubt for a second that women face significant challenges in such countries. My point is that men face certain challenges too, yet all the media, NGOs, politicians focus exclusively on women, even when it comes to obviously heinous crimes like wartime rape. We need to address the problems of both genders at some point.
/r/MensRights27/04/19 08:09 PM
17

Men get raped by other men and there is an even bigger stigma surrounding it than the stigma around male rape in the West. During the Syrian conflict men suffered terrible sexual abuse yet all of the NGOs focus on women. https://www.mukwegefoundation.org/2018/05/guest-blog-sexual-violence-against-boys-and-men-in-conflict/
/r/MensRights27/04/19 07:53 PM
19

I don't doubt it. However, men who get raped in a third world nation face even greater stigma than men who get raped in first world nations. Maybe we need to abandon this mentality that only women are oppressed in third world nations when it's clear that almost everyone there is oppressed.
/r/MensRights27/04/19 07:30 PM
14

The problem is that male victims never get any attention at all and NGOs blatantly ignore them yet when someone tries to address that they get accused of "derailing the conversation".
/r/MensRights27/04/19 07:03 PM
21

Men don't get raped only in first world countries. They get raped everywhere. And they deserve equal attention with the female victims.
/r/MensRights27/04/19 06:52 PM
1

It doesn't mean anything. Most of the things the guy is accused of seem like made up bs. It was still enough to destroy him.
/r/MensRights27/04/19 02:39 PM
477

Not only do men get raped too, but there's also A LOT more stigma surrounding male rape.
/r/MensRights27/04/19 12:56 PM
3

I'm a woman, it's bs, I don't know anyone who does that.
/r/MensRights27/04/19 07:33 AM
2

I believe the right word is masculinizing.
/r/MensRights27/04/19 07:29 AM
1

That's great for them!
/r/MensRights26/04/19 07:34 PM
5

I don't mind the existence of pro-women movements. My problem with feminism is that they're usually too ideologically possessed. For example, Erin Pizzey and other people who tried to raise awareness on the epidemic of domestic violence against men were threatened and harassed by radical feminists.
/r/MensRights26/04/19 09:29 AM
2

Sounds good to me!
/r/MensRights25/04/19 07:21 PM
9

Just more proof that in this day and age women have more freedoms than men.
/r/MensRights25/04/19 06:27 PM
10

The point is that it's still sexist that society places certain expectations on men and not women. And the conditions of military service in Switzerland might be generally good, but in other countries it's pretty bad. For example, in Greece where there is male-only conscription, the conscripts are paid the slave wage of 8 euros per month.
/r/MensRights25/04/19 11:42 AM
1

Thanks for the info.
/r/MensRights25/04/19 11:37 AM
4

I admit my mistake. Unfortunately, I cannot read it because paywall.
/r/MensRights25/04/19 01:33 AM
11

What bullshit. According to this logic, women who wear makeup and wonderbras and committing "fraud".
/r/MensRights25/04/19 12:53 AM
15

The problem is that if you switch the genders, people would definitely see it as male predatory behavior...
/r/MensRights24/04/19 09:33 PM
11

They will argue that it somehow doesn't count. Just like they don't care about violence against men despite evidence that men are more likely to be the victims of physical assault and murder.
/r/MensRights24/04/19 12:55 PM
2

Indeed and it was even worse in the movies. The movies practically turned Hermione into a flawless goddess.
/r/MensRights24/04/19 10:09 AM
2

It's called the gender equality paradox. The more equal societies are the more DIFFERENT choices men and women make. This of course implies that women naturally have different preferences.
/r/MGTOW24/04/19 07:59 AM
7

It's definitely pretty feminist, BUT at least they show that women can be just as evil and cunning as men something unusual in today's media that usually portrays women as innocent and kind princesses that can do no wrong. It challenges the Woman are Wonderful narrative and that's a good thing. ​ It's like Gillian Flynn's novels, (Gone Girl, Dark Places) the women are shown to be strong, independent, intelligent, while the men are usually shown to be losers. However, at least they also show that…
/r/MensRights24/04/19 07:46 AM
1

https://archive.is/uFuaI https://ucr.fbi.gov/hate-crime/2017/topic-pages/victims
/r/MensRights23/04/19 08:59 PM
28

How is it not how it happened? I have read all of the books and this is exactly how it happened. Explain yourself please.
/r/MensRights23/04/19 08:44 PM
34

Exactly, the books portray Merope in a sympathetic light too even though it's literally implied that she RAPED AND MAGICALLY ENSLAVED A MAN. The rape victim however? There's basically no sympathy for him in the books.
/r/MensRights23/04/19 08:24 PM
6

Imagine being so deluded as to think that ugly men somehow have an easy life. In reality, ugly men usually end up as NEETs and incels who don't even leave their own houses.
/r/MensRights23/04/19 02:58 PM
-4

I personally wouldn't be surprised if they were both abusive. However, I agree that people are too quick to believe that Depp was completely innocent.
/r/MensRights23/04/19 02:55 PM
7

So they really think that the regular, average guy thinks like this?
/r/MensRights23/04/19 12:57 PM
1

He was kinda portrayed as the "creepy friendzoned guy" imo, but yea he could have been much worse.
/r/MensRights23/04/19 12:55 PM
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Men are already less likely than women to go to university and these idiots want to discourage men even more. I bet soon they will come against Asian men too, because they're more successful. Gay men are also already targeted as "privileged" despite the fact that gay men are actually MORE likely to be victims of hate crimes than lesbians. It won't be long before they come against all men in general and say that men should just shut up and not speak in class.
/r/MensRights23/04/19 09:13 AM
11

Now MRAs care more about women oppression in Muslim countries Where exactly are you getting this from?
/r/MensRights23/04/19 08:46 AM
7

Here's the problem with your argument. Society isn't built based on you liking everything. It's based on necessities and freedom under responsibility. The group protects itself through collective duties such as taxation, education, defence and volunteer work such as firefighting. And how come only men have these "responsibilities"? And here's your second problem. "Feeling" is not knowing, and you can't apply that to other people or countries. It's you own personal anecdote. In contrast, conscrip…
/r/MensRights23/04/19 07:28 AM
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I'm literally shocked by how openly they say it. Can you imagine going to a therapist and them telling you that the way to express yourself positively as a man...is to sacrifice yourself??
/r/MensRights23/04/19 12:17 AM
4

The specific video doesn't seem to talk about men's issues other than suggesting that there might be a crisis in masculinity and saying that we should be open to discussion. So no, the specific video doesn't try to "Redefine" masculinity.
/r/MensRights22/04/19 08:25 PM
11

Unfortunately, in this day and age, a man talking about masculinity would be taken less seriously. I think it's important for women to use the social power they have right now to talk about men's issues.
/r/MensRights22/04/19 07:43 PM
3

Didn't three women accuse him and the third one turned out to be an obvious liar? Did I miss something and there were even more accusers?
/r/MensRights22/04/19 12:39 PM
28

It reminds me of the game GTA. In the game you can murder hundreds of men, but the media only freaked out because you can also assault female prostitutes.
/r/MensRights22/04/19 10:25 AM
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AFAIK, none of the women mentioned are doing more than releasing videos are giving talks. I'm not saying that they are in insincere, but they are often making a living off this and they are not, AFAIK, doing anything to actually help male victims (of anything). What do you want these women to do? They're obviously doing what they can, just like the male MRAs.
/r/MensRights22/04/19 08:32 AM
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My point is that people encourage men to stand up for random women, notice how nobody encourages women to do the same for men? It's potentially dangerous for the man to confront strangers in such a way, they're encouraging the man to act like cannon fodder as usual.
/r/MensRights22/04/19 08:16 AM
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I don't know what happened but there is at least one witness who says they attacked him first. https://www.dailynews.com/2019/01/30/lapd-seeks-man-seen-punching-women-in-downtown-la-hot-dog-dispute-but-witness-says-they-started-it/ He said the women called the man derogatory names before the scuffle began. “They started punching on him first,” Stewart said. “Once they punched on him first, jumping on his back, then he defended himself by counter-punching these women and things like that. So the …
/r/MensRights21/04/19 07:46 PM
33

Yea, I remember that.
/r/MensRights21/04/19 07:33 PM
7

These ads are literally encouraging men to act like canon fodder for the sake of women. When a man confronts another man in such a way, there's a chance that a fight will break out. Women should not need men to protect them, they can fend for themselves! This ad is despicable for promoting male disposability , a man should not put himself in danger for a woman.
/r/MensRights21/04/19 07:01 PM
15

I am referring to the fact that senior leadership is awarded more money if they discriminate against Asians and white men It's not even against just white men anymore, they're coming against Asians too and soon they will come against all men in general.
/r/MensRights21/04/19 06:45 PM
5

That may be so, but it doesn't mean that the police is not biased on some level.
/r/MensRights21/04/19 12:48 PM
1

Nearly all people who get killed by the police are male. It's very possible that men are just more likely to be violent criminals. However, even if that is the case, it's not unlikely that the police is also biased and that men are seen as a "bigger threat" than female suspects because of stereotypes about how men are the violent gender. I imagine things are even worse for black men in particular.
/r/MensRights21/04/19 11:21 AM
24

They're finally waking up to the fact that women can be bad people too! Up until now we had the fairy tale that women are innocent and nurturing princesses and that even when a woman does something bad it's somehow a man's fault.
/r/MensRights21/04/19 07:56 AM
1

What is different about the male experience that increases the homeless rate? I wanted to find out too, but I have a hard time finding research that actually focuses on the male homeless, lol.
/r/MensRights20/04/19 09:31 PM
6

This has nothing to do with Men's Rights. I think we need to stop obsessing over Brie Larson.
/r/MensRights20/04/19 11:50 AM
29

That's true.
/r/MensRights20/04/19 11:29 AM
13

Aren't those what MRAs are already trying to do? I'm personally all about protesting wars etc. The problem with the so called "social justice warriors" is that they usually deny that male-specific problems exist. They focus almost exclusively on women's problems and even in the rare occasion that they address an issue that affects men more, they still almost never focus on men and make it gender neutral even if those affected are 99% male. That is male erasure. For example, most homeless people …
/r/MensRights20/04/19 10:21 AM
7

Wow, I really hate Feminist Current, such a toxic site.
/r/MensRights20/04/19 10:17 AM
24

This is just proof that you don't need solid proof to accuse someone of rape. Even if he doesn't go to jail, people will still consider him a rapist, even when there is no evidence.
/r/MensRights20/04/19 08:22 AM
1

Oh yea, men are to blame for everything, women have no agency!!! Might as well say that all sex is rape like some radfems do.
/r/MensRights19/04/19 05:42 PM
1

I'm lying about what?
/r/MensRights19/04/19 04:28 PM
3

What is your criticism of Warren Farrel? I find that he has a quite balanced perspective.
/r/MensRights19/04/19 12:54 PM
28

She didn't actually make the algorithm, that has been debunked by her own colleagues.
/r/AntiFeminists19/04/19 09:21 AM
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This argument is false. The MRAs do fight for Men's Rights. The problem is that when MRAs try to organize , feminists usually protest against them. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iARHCxAMAO0 ​ Also, there's no "irrefutable data" that women get abused by intimate partners more often than men. Some studies suggest that at least around 40% of the victims of IPV are men. https://www.theguardian.com/society/2010/sep/05/men-victims-domestic-violence It is possible that women are more likely to suffer…
/r/MensRights19/04/19 08:41 AM
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Try to look at countries where men are obligated to serve the military. For example, in Finland, the genders have equal rights except that one gender is more equal than the other. There is military service for only men in Finland. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Conscription_in_Finland ​ I used Finland because it's considered a progressive country. The truth is that mandatory military service for men is common in many countries and the men are penalized if they don't serve the military. For exampl…
/r/MensRights19/04/19 08:12 AM
13

Something tells me that these types believe that incels and MRAs are the exact same things, when they're obviously not. Also, what did feminism do for men? Promote the idea that men cannot be abused by women? (Duluth model)
/r/MensRights18/04/19 12:42 PM
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Men's Rights Activists will generally welcome trans men. You might find a few traditionalists here and there but they're exceptions as most MRAs are quite progressive. Welcome to the sub and thanks for the input.
/r/MensRights17/04/19 08:14 PM
3

Do you have a problem with me saying that men fought for the vote? I don't get it. Do you think that the kings and the nobles were just willing giving away the votes?
/r/MensRights17/04/19 07:11 PM
1

This is not related to men's rights.
/r/MensRights17/04/19 11:36 AM
14

Literal bloody revolutions happened for men to get the vote and this clown thinks that men never fought for anything.
/r/MensRights16/04/19 08:32 PM
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On 23 March, while arguing the case on these pages for a Minister for Men, Tim Samuels apologised for trespassing on feminism’s most hallowed ground and said: “We men have not had to fight tooth and nail for our votes”. ...Imagine being so historically illiterate as to believe that men didn't have to fight for the vote. Do these people think that parliamentary democracy was always a thing and that all men throughout history were able to vote? In reality, parliamentary democracy is a pretty recen…
/r/MensRights16/04/19 05:01 PM
6

We need to raise awareness about male disposability and the suffering of men. I don't see any other way.
/r/MensRights16/04/19 01:34 PM
4

Read the wiki of the sub, it has a lot of stuff there. https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/wiki/index
/r/MensRights15/04/19 11:29 AM
4

Who wants to bet that this will be completely ignored and that most DV awareness campaigns will still be about women only?
/r/MensRights14/04/19 10:56 PM
2

That's why I keep saying that feminism is not the solution for the Middle Eastern/Islamic countries. Yes, women are oppressed there, but low status men are literally treated like cannon fodder in countries like this and nobody seems to care about them. Islamic societies need a gender neutral egalitarian movement that will liberate both genders. With feminism, low status men will continue to be treated like cannon fodder, while the women will become liberated. ​ It's the same with what happened i…
/r/MensRights14/04/19 09:30 PM
3

The media needs to be ashamed for pushing a misleading narrative.
/r/MensRights13/04/19 09:18 AM
1

This is more MGTOW than men's rights.
/r/MensRights12/04/19 09:04 PM
9

Collective punishment is good if you are alright with vigilantism. No, imprisoning whole families because one member committed a crime is NOT good.
/r/MensRights12/04/19 04:26 PM
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"Collective responsibility" is literally a fascist tactic. It reminds me of this. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Collective_punishment
/r/MensRights12/04/19 04:20 PM
21

"Collective responsibility" reminds me of a tactic they used to have in North Korea where they imprisoned the WHOLE family if only one member committed a crime. Is your brother against the great leader? Well, you will be punished collectively and go to jail too. This is the kind of barbaric sentiment they're promoting...
/r/MensRights12/04/19 04:18 PM
5

These people have been brainwashed to think a certain way, that's why. Many of them have been told since they were small children that feminism is the only way to go or else.
/r/MensRights12/04/19 03:44 PM
2

Sure.
/r/MensRights12/04/19 02:00 PM
1

The problem with AWWM relationships is that these women just tend to fetishize white skin. (and the men often fetishize Asian women) This is not a very healthy way to start a relationship which is why many half-Asian kids have all sort of issues.
/r/MensRights12/04/19 06:51 AM
1

https://eventhorizontelescope.org/organization ​ I believe that here you can find information on who led the project. From my understanding Katie Bouman was an important contributor when it comes to the algorithm.
/r/MensRights11/04/19 07:27 PM
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Enough with these posts. She made an important contribution, she led one of the teams behind the algorithm, it's not a bad thing that she's celebrated. Yes, I agree that the media is overhyping her because she's a woman, but there are way more serious things to discuss.
/r/MensRights11/04/19 01:45 PM
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Holy shit, you're not kidding. ​ Gearhart does not base this radical proposal on the idea that men are innately violent or oppressive, but rather on the "real danger is in the phenomenon of male-bonding, that commitment of groups of men to each other whether in an army, a gang, a service club, a lodge, a monastic order, a corporation, or a competitive sport." Gearhart identifies the self-perpetuating, male-exclusive reinforcement of power within these groups as corrosive to female-led social cha…
/r/MensRights11/04/19 09:30 AM
8

I think that it's important for people to know that there are some women who agree with men's rights. This can help recruit more women in the future.
/r/MensRights09/04/19 03:10 PM
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I'm a woman and this makes me feel so ashamed. These idiots are only making things worse.
/r/MensRights09/04/19 02:05 PM
6

Yes, many men are white knights willing to do these things for women, what else is new.
/r/MensRights09/04/19 09:10 AM
5

It was both a race and a gender thing. Many lynchings happened because rape accusations were involved.
/r/MensRights09/04/19 09:09 AM
5

And why do you think it didn't also have to do with believing the woman? Many lynchings happened because rape accusations were involved.
/r/MensRights09/04/19 09:08 AM
3

I don't think either the left or the right care about male issues specifically. If they do help men at all, they will only do it in an indirect way.
/r/MensRights08/04/19 09:21 PM
1

"New study"? There have been multiple studies confirming for years.
/r/MensRights08/04/19 09:07 PM
7

And that ideology is certainly not right-wing. When did any mainstream right-wingers care about male issues?
/r/MensRights08/04/19 09:03 PM
4

What is the problem of these people? I don't understand how they can be bothered so much by literally /r/firstworldproblems, like not liking a movie.
/r/MensRights08/04/19 10:36 AM
2

Good point about the Skrull guys, I forgot about them.
/r/MensRights07/04/19 10:48 AM
6

In the most recent Captain Marvel, all male characters were either antagonistic or useless. Even Fury was pretty useless.
/r/MensRights07/04/19 10:45 AM
5

Maleficent (2014) was like this. All male characters were either pure evil for the sake of evil or useless.
/r/MensRights07/04/19 10:35 AM
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get stoned to death for getting raped in those countries. You're wrong there. Men who get raped by other men are assumed to be homosexuals and are executed. Things like this have actually happened. Besides, saying that one thing is a problem for gender equality does not negate another problem for the opposite gender. We should be concerned about legitimate disadvantages and issues for women in the same way we are for men. We can't be an equality movement for one side. That's what I actually said…
/r/MensRights05/04/19 09:29 PM
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That's not the point. The media focuses solely on the suffering of women in these countries when low status men are treated just as bad if not worse. That's gynocentrism and male disposability.
/r/MensRights05/04/19 08:33 PM
5

I'm a woman and thanks for reminding me.
/r/MensRights05/04/19 07:28 PM
3

It's so sad but society really does view men this way. Men are supposed to be strong because society absolutely hates weak and vulnerable men.
/r/MensRights05/04/19 03:48 PM
10

Study finds that people are more likely to sacrifice men than women. This supports the MRA theory of male disposability. Interestingly, I tried to search for sociological papers surrounding male disposability and I didn't find a single thing. Until when will social scientists ignore this phenomenon? Do social scientists ignore it because it doesn't suit the agenda?
/r/MensRights05/04/19 02:27 PM
7

What if a man cannot restrain a woman?
/r/MensRights05/04/19 09:09 AM
4

Yet people say that Lorenna Bobbit's actions were justified when she mutilated her husband in his sleep as revenge for him abusing her...
/r/MensRights05/04/19 09:08 AM
4

So? I don't understand this logic. Are we supposed to ignore violence against men just because most perpetrators are male?
/r/MensRights04/04/19 04:58 PM
4

Fake hate crimes don't mean that real hate crimes don't exist. Go back to the_donald.
/r/MensRights04/04/19 02:12 PM
7

Gay men are targeted by hate crimes more than lesbians.
/r/MensRights04/04/19 01:34 PM
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In reality it is the opposite, it emphasizes female victims because people sympathize with them more.
/r/MensRights01/04/19 10:16 AM
7

http://archive.is/jOMgd
/r/MensRights01/04/19 09:44 AM
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Hey, I'm a woman too. You shouldn't be apologizing as it's not your fault. Just try to be a kind individual because that's what matters.
/r/MensRights31/03/19 05:23 PM
9

Did she really say it? That site seems a bit bs.
/r/MensRights31/03/19 02:28 PM
3

The fact that men are doing the killing doesn't change the fact that it's men who are also the main victims.
/r/MensRights31/03/19 12:39 PM
2

And why are gay men seen as a bigger threat than lesbians?
/r/MensRights31/03/19 11:45 AM
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Most Americans simply do not know the political and social circumstances in a country like Slovakia. And yes, ignorant Europeans commenting on American politics are just as bad. Lets be honest, the main reason people here are hating on her is because she's a female politician. Most did not even bother to read who exactly she is.
/r/MGTOW31/03/19 11:17 AM
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Lol, I so love it when Americans are trying to comment on European politics while clearly having no idea what they're talking about.
/r/MGTOW31/03/19 08:53 AM
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I personally agree with you. I don't see what the MRM would have to gain by attacking the transgenders. In fact, I think it would be much more wise to embrace transgender men and try to help them. You don't even have to agree with the trans activist lobby to recognize that trans people are vulnerable group that needs kindness instead of vilification.
/r/MensRights27/03/19 08:21 AM
2

I'm actually female. xD
/r/MensRights25/03/19 06:49 PM
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No, it wasn't better. Low status men were still treated like utter trash. (maybe even worse than today) Do you even know how low status men were treated back then? Like total cannon fodder for wars, shitty jobs etc. And if a man wasn't married back then, he was pretty much considered gay. Stop romanticizing the past, things weren't as good as you think.
/r/MensRights25/03/19 03:23 PM
12

Lol, the guy was a white knight. Stop idolizing women, it doesn't help anyone ffs.
/r/MensRights25/03/19 03:19 PM
-7

Societies don't change for no reason. Feminism did absolutely promote the idea that it should be more acceptable for men to take up traditionally feminine roles.
/r/MensRights25/03/19 11:57 AM
-9

It's more acceptable now to be something like a stay-at-home dad for example, than it was in the past.
/r/MensRights25/03/19 11:54 AM
2

Not many here will agree, but I think he makes some valid points.
/r/MensRights25/03/19 12:48 AM
13

Another thing that is often exaggerated is how young women were on average when they got married. Some people tend to believe that being married at 13 was the norm. However, while cases like that existed, it was actually more common to marry after 16. Certain families preferred keeping the girls for longer so that they would help around the house and the farms.
/r/MensRights24/03/19 11:43 AM
13

Good for them, I don't see the problem.
/r/MensRights23/03/19 09:40 PM
20

This has nothing to do with Men's rights and the MRM has nothing to gain by messing with the transgenders.
/r/MensRights23/03/19 01:29 PM
3

It's futile to try to control women's sexuality. Just focus on how to improve the lives of men.
/r/MensRights23/03/19 09:51 AM
2

Ugh, I never liked Shapiro.
/r/MensRights22/03/19 05:08 PM
4

It exaggerates a bit, but it does bring some valid points.
/r/MensRights22/03/19 05:04 PM
4

There's not such thing as "Real men". All men are real men. The title is sexist.
/r/MensRights22/03/19 08:14 AM
3

Unfortunately this happens frequently. Imagine if it said 40 victims, including whites, everyone would rightfully agree that is racist.
/r/MensRights22/03/19 12:10 AM
2

I also recently created a blog with a left-leaning perspective. https://maleliberationblog.wordpress.com/
/r/MensRights22/03/19 12:01 AM
6

Search for Fist In the Face of Misandry. He criticizes the left frequently, but he also seems to have a left-leaning stance generally.
/r/MensRights21/03/19 11:39 PM
10

There are some reasons for this. 1)Women have a stronger in-group bias than men. (this is actually demonstrated in various studies) Men do not care about other men the way women care about women's interests. 2)The current culture is brainwashing men into thinking that it's impossible for them to face gender-specific problems. And even if there are some male problems, the current culture encourages men to try to solve them through feminism. (nevermind that feminists usually don't lift a finger to…
/r/MensRights21/03/19 11:11 PM
18

Men are way more likely to get physically assaulted and murdered and people are still trying to find excuses about why violence against women is somehow more important. https://theconversation.com/men-are-killed-at-a-greater-rate-than-women-in-australia-what-can-we-do-to-reduce-their-risk-78251
/r/MensRights21/03/19 11:31 AM
10

A modern day Medea.
/r/MensRights19/03/19 04:51 PM
7

Lol, way to generalize the MRM. I find that most MRAs today have no problem with equality as long as it's true equality.
/r/MensRights19/03/19 03:28 PM
1

Dont the people at the top of society see that creating a slave society will literally breed apathy and indifference? Dont they see that people will literally do nothing and so the wealth of these elites will be pointless? Why are they concerned that the societies they lead dont have children and are turning woman into whores? Lol, they don't care. They have so much wealth that they think they will be fine regardless. Also dont the (((tribe))) see that their own people get hurt when the whole wo…
/r/MGTOW19/03/19 02:54 PM
3

The MRM has nothing to gain by messing with the trasngenders. There are way more important issues to deal with.
/r/MensRights18/03/19 04:39 PM
13

People just overreacted because Brie Larson is openly feminist. The only thing they achieved is giving the movie even more publicity. I have been saying it since the beginning that it's bad PR to overreact over a movie.
/r/MensRights18/03/19 12:36 PM
5

They count mutual abuse as if only the male is abusive. There are many cases where both the man and the woman engage in abusive behavior, what they do is focus on the male violence only.
/r/MensRights17/03/19 09:26 PM
6

When someone says that men cause the most violence, just point out how many men exist that commit heroic deeds.
/r/MensRights16/03/19 07:03 PM
3

Why is a women-only college needed, when women are the majority of those who get a college education anyway? I just don't get the logic behind it.
/r/MensRights15/03/19 09:55 PM
2

What about non-combatant male victims? Are they unworthy of any mention?
/r/MensRights15/03/19 03:09 PM
1

The death of one women is a tragedy, the death of a million men is a statistic.
/r/MensRights15/03/19 01:23 PM
3

This is something common that always happens whenever there is a catastrophe or a war. The male victims get erased, whether they are civilians or combatants. http://adamjones.freeservers.com/effacing.htm
/r/MensRights15/03/19 01:12 PM
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Lets wait until all of the evidence is out first. It's likely that they both abused one another.
/r/MensRights15/03/19 10:29 AM
20

"Nearly half of them women and children". Now imagine an article saying something like "200 people died, nearly half of them were white". Everyone would agree that this would be racist and exclusionary.
/r/MensRights15/03/19 09:09 AM
10

Being a tradcon should be incompatible with the MRM. Since when did tradcons care about male issues? Tradcons have no problem throwing low status, poor men to the wolves. Tradcons have no problem sending men to war. Tradcons do not want to end male circumcision, they support it because "muh religious freedom". Tradcons will pressure men to marry even though the system is hostile to them. If there is ever a "bachelor tax", it's going to come from tradcons.
/r/MensRights14/03/19 11:59 PM
10

I like how it completely ignores the role of testosterone when it comes to aggression. Yep, it's 100% socialization, genes and hormones don't play any role whatsoever, believe it! It also completely ignores that aggression and even violence can be a good thing under certain circumstances.
/r/MensRights14/03/19 04:45 PM
10

It is possible that they abused one another. Lets wait and see.
/r/MensRights14/03/19 11:24 AM
1

Yes.
/r/MensRights14/03/19 10:58 AM
27

It's basically an attempt to virgin shame men.
/r/MensRights14/03/19 12:41 AM
5

Literally /r/firstworldproblems
/r/MensRights14/03/19 12:40 AM
2

I don't have hard data, but it is something I've noticed. The West seems to focus on women getting stoned to death, women getting abused etc. There are multiple men in these countries who get executed, beaten, raped. There is barely any focus on them. Just look at the Boko Haram situation. They were burning boys alive and the West didn't bat an eye. Once they started kidnapping girls, the campaigns started.
/r/MensRights13/03/19 10:00 PM
4

Isn't that rape against women?
/r/MensRights13/03/19 07:56 PM
2

I don't see how these questions are related to the MRAs.
/r/MensRights13/03/19 07:54 PM
5

Posts like this are unhelpful. It would be better if you provided evidence about "why" exactly men and women perform differently. Posts like this only make this sub look bad.
/r/MensRights13/03/19 07:44 PM
1

I still support the traditional marriage to some extent. However, now I'm more progressive. I realized that there is no going back and that we can only move forward. I used to have kinda reactionary views, but now I'm way more progressive and I don't think it's even possible to go back.
/r/MensRights13/03/19 07:15 PM
1

I'd rather not comment on my circumstances because they're too personal. As about women getting the right to vote, I disagree with it unless they're obligated to serve the military too. (here in my country we have mandatory military service for men only) As I said, I do support equal rights in theory. However, I don't think feminism is the correct approach. We need a new movement, feminism is too ideologically possessed and biased.
/r/MensRights13/03/19 07:13 PM
5

You don't think that making women more visible is important if we want more of them to be interested in the MRM?
/r/MensRights13/03/19 04:45 PM
17

Whatever. I'll continue posting. I think it's important for women to step up.
/r/MensRights13/03/19 10:17 AM
15

What do I have to gain by posting it on reddit under a pseudonym? Nobody even knows who I am in real life. Heck, I'm not even posting from my main acc.
/r/MensRights13/03/19 10:12 AM
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No, I just think that it's important for non-feminist women to speak up. People assume that only men are against feminism.
/r/MensRights13/03/19 10:02 AM
11

Lets wait until all of the evidence is out first. We don't have to be like the feminists and jump to conclusions.
/r/MensRights13/03/19 08:50 AM
-4

You think a few hundreds of people on the Internet boycotting a movie just because the lead actress is a feminist is going to do something?
/r/MGTOW12/03/19 06:52 PM
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People overreacted about the whole thing anyway. Yes, Brie Larson seems unlikable but who cares? Seriously, who gives a damn , it's just a movie. Boycotts are stupid and don't work.
/r/MGTOW12/03/19 05:51 PM
62

Women get a discount because of the so called wage gap that doesn't take into account life choices, career paths, hours worked, productivity etc. Of course there are men in Berlin that are poor and women who are rich. Does Berlin care about the class differences? Of course not! Screw poor men!
/r/MensRights12/03/19 05:01 PM
26

She only now cares about the draft being unconstitutional? Did she ever do anything to help abolish it in the past? Let me guess, no she didn't. She's only complaining now, because women might have to start enlisting too.
/r/MensRights12/03/19 04:10 PM
7

Feminism doesn't hate men, they said. Feminism can help men, they said...
/r/MensRights12/03/19 03:57 PM
1

What I mean is that, biologically, you need a much lower male population than you do female So basically men are disposable...
/r/MensRights11/03/19 08:09 PM
2

Why does it always seem like only men have to sacrifice themselves for women? Why does the opposite never happen?
/r/MensRights11/03/19 08:03 PM
2

My God, just stop it with Captain Marvel already. It's just a movie, who gives a shit?
/r/MensRights11/03/19 03:44 PM
6

The right doesn't really care about men either.
/r/MensRights11/03/19 11:15 AM
47

Oh yea, they condemn violence against women in all its forms. Still waiting for them to condemn violence against men as well...
/r/MensRights11/03/19 11:05 AM
17

Please link.
/r/MensRights10/03/19 02:48 PM
1

My gawd, it's just a movie. Let it go. There are more important issues to worry about.
/r/MensRights10/03/19 12:13 PM
3

Toxic masculinity is the darker side of masculinity. Things like being too aggressive can be considered toxic masculinity. Feminists tend to abuse the term though. For example, whenever a man gets involved in a violent crime, they blame "toxic masculinity". This never happens with women who are violent. In general. feminists tend to completely ignore women with bad behavior because it goes against the narrative that men and masculinity are the things that cause all problems in the world.
/r/MensRights09/03/19 06:33 PM
42

Woman here. Actions speak louder than words. Men have helped me more than feminists ever did. I have received nothing but abuse from feminists just for having controversial opinions.
/r/MensRights09/03/19 05:08 PM
6

Well, it's sad you feel that way. I am a woman and I support the MRM, what do you think I have to gain by it? I don't even use my real name on reddit so it's not like wasting my time here will help my reputation.
/r/MensRights08/03/19 02:07 PM
7

There are many women who support the MRM.
/r/MensRights08/03/19 02:03 PM
2

That isn't the sentiment I have seen in their sub. Many of them seem to imply that they just hate all women in general, regardless of context.
/r/MensRights08/03/19 02:02 PM
3

I understand why you feel that way, but this is not the solution. Do you want humanity to just become extinct or something?
/r/MensRights08/03/19 01:52 PM
4

This is because of the current culture. A lot of MGTOWs take it too far and hate all women in general. This is a very anti-human view.
/r/MensRights08/03/19 01:46 PM
15

I don't agree with the philosophy of /r/MGTOW. I think that men and women can coexist peacefully. I don't have a problem with MGTOW and the way they want to live their lives, but most of them indeed seem like male supremacists.
/r/MensRights08/03/19 01:37 PM
2

https://www.theguardian.com/society/2010/sep/05/men-victims-domestic-violence
/r/MensRights08/03/19 01:27 PM
2

To be completely fair, I don't recall hearing feminists complain about women not being allowed to work but that if they did, they could only do certain jobs and then they'd still get paid less than men doing the exact same thing. I have seen some more historically illiterate feminists saying things like "women were not allowed to work".
/r/MensRights08/03/19 01:26 PM
5

You can use my posts for your site. I wouldn't mind writing, what do you have in mind?
/r/MensRights08/03/19 01:17 PM
13

From what I've observed, it seems indeed that middle class kids are way more likely to buy into social justice and extreme leftism than working class kids.
/r/MensRights08/03/19 09:44 AM
1

Having privileged women is not the same as being matriarchal. I have studied history and calling the Minoans matriarchal is simply a wild assumption.
/r/MensRights08/03/19 02:07 AM
1

Yea, did you read the sources at the OP? Anthropologists don't recognize any society as unambiguously matriarchal.
/r/MensRights08/03/19 01:53 AM
2

Another case where a racist woman uses female privilege to accuse an innocent man of rape... But remember, always #believewomen
/r/MensRights07/03/19 10:14 PM
1

believewomen
/r/MensRights07/03/19 10:11 PM
1

I wish people would stop whining about that shitty movie. There are way more important matters.
/r/MensRights07/03/19 09:51 PM
1

It was not. There is no evidence that a real matriarchal society ever existed.
/r/MensRights07/03/19 09:48 PM
1

I am a woman, how do i hate girls? The matriarchy is a myth.
/r/MensRights07/03/19 09:48 PM
3

That women are attracted to men with more traditionally masculine characteristics.
/r/MensRights07/03/19 10:38 AM
2

Yea, there is a lot of bullshit on /r/TheRedPill, but I agree with a lot of their basic premises.
/r/MensRights07/03/19 10:35 AM
1

It was not a matriarchy. Their leaders were all male.
/r/MensRights07/03/19 10:00 AM
7

Michael Kimmel? That "feminist" who recently got accused of sexual harassment? That self-hating man who made a fool of himself on the Red Pill documentary by claiming that MRAs "want to close women's shelters"? (surprise! They don't want to close women's shelter's. They just want shelters for men too)
/r/MensRights06/03/19 04:14 PM
2

My point is that according to some we have to believe all allegations and women are little angels so they never lie.
/r/MensRights06/03/19 02:16 AM
5

Requiring special education doesn't necessarily mean you're retarded. There are other reasons for special ed. Just saying.
/r/PussyPass06/03/19 01:15 AM
9

"vulnerable" usually refers to someone with special needs in UK-speak. Something that makes the crime even worse. They tortured and killed a disabled person.
/r/MGTOW05/03/19 11:38 PM
3

Does this white knight realize that men are statistically more likely to get violently assaulted on the streets?
/r/MensRights05/03/19 04:53 PM
2

Like I said, the fact that some women have selfish intentions means nothing. A lot of men have selfish intentions too. So what? The point is that they're promoting a positive message and that is a good thing. This kind of attitude is alienating women and this is a shame because women can do a lot to promote the MRM. (and many women have already done a lot)
/r/MensRights05/03/19 01:46 PM
2

Natalie Dormer is already rich and successful. She has absolutely nothing to gain. Sure, there are a lot of women who support it for cash and attention. But there are also a lot of men who do the same thing.
/r/MensRights05/03/19 01:43 PM
3

What do you think women gain by openly supporting the MRM? Getting harassed by feminists? Losing all chance to find a good job because "undesirables" are not hired nowadays? The fact that you think that /r/MGTOW a sub with 100k subscribers is somehow a huge threat to the mainstream is absurd. The Young Turks on youtube have 4 millions subscribers and they're openly SJW.
/r/MensRights05/03/19 01:38 PM
5

Erin Pizzey's life got destroyed because she stood up for men. What did she have to gain by doing so? Female anti-feminists get death threats all the time, even from men sometimes. A woman has more to gain by being feminist than by supporting men's rights.
/r/MensRights05/03/19 01:35 PM
5

In reality, there have always been women who supported Men's Rights, often with very little to gain and a lot to lose.
/r/MensRights05/03/19 01:32 PM
2

Natalie Dormer is rich. You think she couldn't find a man if she really wanted to? You're being absurd if you think she's just saying that to find a man.
/r/MensRights05/03/19 01:29 PM
13

This idea is absurd. Women have nothing to gain by pretending to care about male issues and "faking" it. The mainstream is feminist. A lot of men are pro-feminism. In reality, women who question the feminist narrative get shamed and ostracized. There is usually no personal gain for women who support Men's Rights. Being a feminist is way more profitable and safe. If these women were really only out for themselves, they would be feminist.
/r/MensRights05/03/19 01:24 PM
3

Britain is the closest thing there is to a modern day matriarchy. People say that the Mosuo is China are matriarchal, but that's untrue. Most of their leaders are male. They are more like matrilineal. Britain on the other hand has some blatant anti-male policies. They even want to abolish prisons for women despite the fact that men get harsher sentences for the same crime. The universities in Britain are also dominated by women and white working class males are the less likely than the minority …
/r/MensRights04/03/19 06:34 PM
1

Women do not hold political power? In this day and age there are a lot of countries with female leaders. Britain has a Queen AND a female prime minister. Germany has been having a female leader for more than 10 years. Women make up 50% of the voting base. Saying that they have no political power is absurd.
/r/MensRights04/03/19 06:29 PM
1

Well, it's complicated. In theory I support equal rights under the law. However, I disagree with many of the things the feminists say. I don't believe that men and women are exactly the same. I believe there are huge psychological differences between men and women that are largely rooted in biology. This documentary explains a bit what I'm thinking. I also more or less agree with the theory of /r/TheRedPill about what most women find attractive and I think this is because of evolution. If you ex…
/r/MensRights04/03/19 12:13 PM
7

It's already that way. Men receive harsher sentences on average for almost all crimes.
/r/MensRights03/03/19 04:34 PM
18

It says "it's not gender violence, it's domestic violence". It is about supporting male victims who are blatantly excluded because of the gendered DV laws. That being said, one has to be skeptical of conservatives trying to take over men's issues, considering that they never cared about men's rights in the past.
/r/MensRights03/03/19 10:03 AM
8

The link certainly suggests otherwise. "If you've been convicted of a violent crime against women or children, you are not welcome in this country."
/r/MensRights03/03/19 09:57 AM
12

Why? They only ban those convicted of violence against women and children. What about violence against men?
/r/MensRights03/03/19 09:54 AM
20

Visitors who have been convicted of violence against women and children Oh so violence against men doesn't count?
/r/MensRights03/03/19 09:53 AM
10

People who say that have never read any history. Even in ancient times, there were female warlords, like Artemisia I of Caria.
/r/MensRights03/03/19 09:52 AM
2

Nonsense. There are many women who don't have kids and are just fine. For the same reason, a man doesn't have to be disposable in order to have worth. Why are you even an MRA if you accept male disposability? What are you hoping to achieve?
/r/MensRights02/03/19 10:28 PM
6

I once went out with a friend of mine, her boyfriend and another guy on a double date. When we were returning, she literally caused a scene and started yelling at her boyfriend in the middle of the street for no real reason. My friend is not a "bad person", just very immature. However, the point is that it happens a lot and many people don't even realize that it is abusive behavior.
/r/MensRights02/03/19 07:33 PM
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I know that feeling, I'm a female MRA too. If you say you disagree with feminism, you get ostracized and bullied.
/r/MensRights02/03/19 11:54 AM
6

The "not allowed to work" is kind of a myth. Perhaps women had fewer opportunities, but they were always allowed to work.
/r/MGTOW01/03/19 09:27 PM
10

This is what happens when you make domestic violence a "gendered crime". Making it a gendered crime erases male victims.
/r/MensRights01/03/19 09:09 PM
2

This has to be a MGTOW troll. Not that women like that don't exist, but I doubt they would say it so directly.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/19 08:03 PM
6

You often hear about the sexual abuse of women in times of war, but you rarely hear about the sexual abuse of men. The truth is of course, that both men and women suffer.
/r/MensRights28/02/19 07:31 PM
2

Hey, don't shame him. Maybe he's only staying with her for the children.
/r/MensRights28/02/19 04:35 PM
1

Don't shame the man, people! Maybe he's only staying with her for the children or maybe he has Stockholm Syndrome. It's her fault, not his.
/r/MensRights28/02/19 04:34 PM
5

If she's living in a western country, the laws of Islam will not matter.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/02/19 11:07 AM
4

As a woman, I think that cat-calling is somewhat common, but I don't believe the solution is to criminalize it like they did in France.
/r/MensRights28/02/19 12:36 AM
1

Cringeanarchy is a Neo-Nazi shitfest that has no business in this sub. The MRM does not discriminate based on race. This post is right though.
/r/MensRights28/02/19 12:34 AM
11

Double standards. If women committed suicide more often than men, they would not be asked to change themselves, instead feminists would say that it's society that needs to change. Why are men always the ones that have to take responsibility, but women don't need to? (at least according to the feminist narrative)
/r/MensRights28/02/19 12:30 AM
1

This has been reposted multiple times.
/r/MensRights28/02/19 12:07 AM
2

The funny thing is that statistically men are more likely to be victims of violent crime and they're more likely to be murdered.
/r/MensRights26/02/19 06:53 PM
6

I never doubted it that some feminists somewhere have protested the draft. However, it's bullshit to pretend that it is an issue high on their priority list. Think about all of the time feminists spend on issues like cat-calling, microaggressions, mansplaining, manspreading....and then look at their relative silence over the military draft. That is inexcusable hypocrisy! It's time to stop making excuses for them.
/r/MensRights26/02/19 10:38 AM
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It's the Menslib type of Men's Rights Activism. I'm fine with them, but I think they're not enough. If you notice, Men's Lib tends to focus more on how men can be good for WOMEN than on actual male problems. I have seen more "how to not be sexist" posts on Men's Lib than posts about domestic violence against men or about false rape accusations or about the fact that women receive more lenient sentences for the same crime. This shows to me that they care more about women than about men.
/r/MensRights26/02/19 10:24 AM
-2

Nah, I have seen female-run businesses.
/r/MensRights26/02/19 10:16 AM
2

I think people are upset because Brie Larson often makes cringey SJW comments and also because Captain Marvel seems like kind of a Mary Sue character. (in the movie trailers, not the comics) However, I think that people are deluded if they think that it won't be at least mildly successful.
/r/MGTOW25/02/19 06:50 PM
1

Captain Marvel will be a successful film, this is the MCU we're talking about. If Antman of all things managed to make decent money, then so will Captain Marvel.
/r/MGTOW25/02/19 06:47 PM
6

This is where, if you’re in a heterosexual relationship, both the man and woman get home from work, and the woman takes out the schoolbooks and goes through the homework, while keeping an eye on the boiling spuds. This is where the woman keeps a mental diary of the birthdays of both in-laws and blood relatives. This is where the woman starts the financial gymnastics in August to cover the presents and food and outfits at Christmas, and the school tours at Easter. It's funny how they don't mentio…
/r/MensRights24/02/19 05:11 PM
7

From what I've seen, a lot of leftists have been wanting to abolish it, but they rarely actually did something to achieve that.
/r/MensRights24/02/19 04:25 PM
4

Nope. What is going to happen is that people will demand for the draft to abolished. That is if there will actually be steps to make women register too. From what I understood, the judge might have recognized that it is unconstitutional, but there is no guarantee that anything will actually change.
/r/MensRights24/02/19 04:23 PM
7

I'm a woman too. I agree.
/r/MensRights24/02/19 04:19 PM
44

The best way to abolish the draft is to make it mandatory for women to register for it too. Just wait and see, if women have to register for the draft then suddenly you will see protests demanding its abolition. That's because society only cares if something affects women.
/r/MensRights24/02/19 04:18 PM
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Feminists should have protested it more. Think about how much time they spend on issues like mansplaining, manspreading, women in STEM, microaggressions etc. and look at their relative silence over the military draft. Saying that some feminists at one time protested the draft is not enough, sorry. They're relatively silent on the issue, compared to their focus on other things.
/r/MensRights24/02/19 02:56 PM
44

Who wants to bet that only now will people start demanding the abolition of the draft?
/r/MensRights24/02/19 11:59 AM
8

It's usually reported like "several victims, including women". Imagine if they said "several victims, including whites". Everyone would recognize that it's racist and makes it sound like whites matter more.
/r/MensRights24/02/19 05:00 AM
3

People are calling it fake, but I actually knew a woman who acted kinda like that.
/r/MensRights23/02/19 09:21 PM
6

They will say that men are mostly murdered by other men so it somehow doesn't count. (never understood that logic, but that's what they will say)
/r/MensRights23/02/19 09:11 PM
4

I haven't played the game in years, but here how it is. An all male team played against an all female team and the all female team had a bit of a lower rank than the male team, so I don't know what they were thinking when they played against each other. Anyway, most of the female players had support heroes as mains. (like Nami who is a support hero) The male team banned the support heroes (in lol you can ban certain chars to prevent the other team from using them) This was perceived as "sexist" …
/r/MensRights22/02/19 07:49 PM
18

Banning someone's main is a common strategy in lol...
/r/MensRights22/02/19 07:46 PM
10

If people feel that a movie wants to push a certain agenda, then that's more about politics, not about misogyny per se. If a movie had a male lead and it still pushed feminism and diversity, then people would still have a problem with it. My point is that it has nothing to do with the gender of the protagonist.
/r/MensRights22/02/19 03:44 PM
7

But that's not misogyny, that's politics.
/r/MensRights22/02/19 03:02 PM
5

Lol, statistically men are more likely to get murdered than women.
/r/MensRights21/02/19 12:56 AM
7

Pointing out that women can be bad people too is very important. Some people think that women are more virtuous than men. (heck, even some feminists recognize that the trend exists) I don't think that most people here are conservatives, but some are. Mainstream conservatives usually don't care about men's rights at all. However, I can tell you that I'm personally not a conservative and I think that the tradcon society is bad for men. As about the APA guidelines. They have some good stuff but the…
/r/MensRights20/02/19 10:57 PM
1

This is not about defending communism, it is about recognizing the victims of mass, rapid privatization. Countries that privatized more slowly had much better results. What you're doing is whataboutism. Nobody said that communism was good. The victims of mass privatization deserve recognition too.
/r/MensRights20/02/19 05:09 PM
0

You miss the point. The article doesn't say that privatization is bad, it says the "rapid" mass privatization was bad. The countries that privatized more slowly had much better results.
/r/MensRights20/02/19 05:06 PM
4

Their sentences honestly don't seem too harsh. She got only three years of community work for essentially blackmailing and torturing a man.
/r/MensRights20/02/19 02:39 PM
1

Another one is that it's way easier for them to find some man willing to economically support them. I know women with "sugar daddies" who get money and gifts just to go out on dates with men and have sex. Some of these women are not even very pretty. The reverse is much more rare. Also, the stats show that boys do worse in school than girls. That suggests that the educational system might be more female-friendly.
/r/MensRights20/02/19 02:00 AM
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I will not even read it because I have read too many similar pieces. Let me guess, it's another case of shaming men for having legitimate concerns about false accusations?
/r/MensRights20/02/19 01:55 AM
5

If people actually took abuse against men more seriously, then it would be obvious to everyone that women are just as likely to abuse men. The only problem is that people just ignore it even if it happens in front of them. Even my mother who laughs at the idea of men getting abused had to admit that she had a male coworker who came to work with bruises because his wife hit him. When he was asked why he didn't defend himself, he used to say that he didn't want to hurt her. My mother herself once …
/r/MensRights20/02/19 01:50 AM
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Men in these countries are probably more likely to be destroyed by severe economic hardships. (I imagine that women are more likely to be taken care of by their families) Read this study and see how working Russian men were devastated by the economic disruptions in the 90s. https://www.thelancet.com/pdfs/journals/lanpub/PIIS2468-2667(17)30072-5.pdf https://www.dailykos.com/stories/2009/1/18/685673/- millions of people, mostly men of employment age, died as a result of the effects of the "shock t…
/r/MensRights20/02/19 01:27 AM
3

Wtf...
/r/MensRights20/02/19 12:16 AM
8

There's nothing wrong with Captain Marvel. Brie Larson seems like an annoying SJW though. The movie might be okay, but tbh, the trailers don't look that good to me.
/r/MensRights20/02/19 12:15 AM
15

My mom literally threatened my father with a knife once. My father is kind of an asshole tbh, but he never threatened or physically abused her. They both emotionally abused each other though.
/r/MensRights19/02/19 05:07 PM
3

Sounds like looking for an excuse to be a gold-digger.
/r/MensRights19/02/19 09:41 AM
2

From what I know, TRP and RPW are not about Mens Rights at all, their only concern is getting laid or finding a husband,
/r/MensRights19/02/19 03:02 AM
3

What does it have to do with Men's Rights though?
/r/MensRights19/02/19 02:34 AM
3

It should not be just men's responsibilities to defend the country. Women should step up too. There have been some women in history that have fought in wars and this proves that they're not incapable, just unwilling.
/r/MensRights18/02/19 09:45 PM
1

What benefits though? It seems to me that for most of history, most men had endless responsibilities and barely any real "rights".
/r/MensRights18/02/19 09:43 PM
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Pay attention to how it focuses on women who are rough sleepers, even though men are affected more. Why focus on women? Do men not matter?
/r/MensRights18/02/19 01:31 PM
2

It's worse. It's like saying "you're a Nazi if you're for racial equality". Feminists have proven many times that they're not pro-equality, they're pro-male bashing.
/r/MensRights18/02/19 01:02 PM
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Ah, in my mind man-haters are trash, just like misogynists and Neo-Nazis and anyone who hates entire groups of people. Oh and by the way I'm a woman myself. I think it's important that women openly oppose this nonsense.
/r/MensRights18/02/19 12:59 PM
1

Dude, why can't you just accept that some MRAs have different opinions than you. You do not represent the MRAs. Men in western societies had it just as bad. They were still expected to fight and die for their countries. (women were not expected to do so) They were still expected to protect the family. They were still expected to suck it up if they were abused.
/r/MensRights18/02/19 10:14 AM
2

Here is a GREAT idea - how about YOU speak for YOURSELF and not pretend to know what is in OTHER people's heads? I am speaking for myself. I didn't say that all MRAs think that way. I said that a lot do. This is the truth. And yes a lot of men were oppressed and are still oppressed by gender roles.
/r/MensRights18/02/19 10:12 AM
0

Not defending traditionalism but why do you think that pre Sexual revolution/feminist traditionalism in the west has anything to do with traditionalism in far more culturally backward and impoverished parts of the world? Because even in the West it was pretty bad. A man was still expected to take care of his family. He was still expected to die fighting for his country. He was still generally on his own and received no help from anyone.
/r/MensRights18/02/19 10:10 AM
3

Imagine for a second a man mutilating his wife in the current social climate in the West. Would he ever be shown in a sympathetic light, even if his wife did abuse him? Answer: Of course not.
/r/MensRights17/02/19 10:40 PM
2

I think you're exaggerating. The birth rates of migrants tend to fall after 1 or 2 generations and they're still just a small minority in Europe. People will adapt and I think that technology will eventually help us eliminate the gender roles. The only country that I think is genuinely screwed is Britain. They're a legit matriarchy right now and we don't know how Brexit will affect their economy and their social issues.
/r/MensRights17/02/19 10:10 PM
2

And why exactly is it "inevitable"?
/r/MensRights17/02/19 09:02 PM
5

You realize that a lot of MRAs believe in liberating men from traditional gender roles, right? Life for men in traditional societies is even worse than in feminist societies.
/r/MensRights17/02/19 06:28 PM
2

/r/gendercritical is a radical feminist sub. Most of them hate transgenders (because it's a plot by men to appropriate the female body or something) are against sex workers (because prostitutes are brainwashed by the patriarchy), against porn (because it's sexist) and against BDSM. (because it supposedly normalizes abuse)
/r/AntiFeminists17/02/19 12:41 PM
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Exactly, people don't like Brie Larson not because she's a woman but because she's an annoying SJW. Also, from what I've seen in the trailers, the movie looks pretty boring and generic. If the movie goes badly, they're going to blame it on misogyny, just wait and see. Nevermind that people have loved other female-centric movies, like Wonder Woman.
/r/MensRights17/02/19 12:33 PM
4

Lol, men have it very hard in Russia actually. The mentality is "protect women at all costs", while the men are on their own. Nobody "fucking cares" about the men. Russia has the biggest difference in life expectancy between men and women in the world.
/r/MGTOW17/02/19 10:34 AM
4

This is a post about the sexual abuse of males in SYRIA. It's not about refugees. What you're doing is trying to derail the conversation about the country where men probably have it the worst currently. What's wrong with you?
/r/MensRights17/02/19 12:49 AM
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So I was lurking on trollxchromosomes are whatever and was stunned by how many posters laugh off the idea of females raping and sexually assaulting men. It's lack of empathy. It's as simple as that. There are actual studies that show that women have more empathy for other women than for men. (men don't have more empathy for other men) Of course, there are a lot of women who genuinely care about men and there are also female MRAs. However, if we were to generalize then a lot of women just have ve…
/r/MensRights16/02/19 11:33 PM
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What happened to fighting for the freedom of women and their expression? Unfortunately, feminism always contained misandrist elements. Even in the suffragette era there were legit man-haters. (not to mention that many of them were racist too) Feminism was never a proper pro-equality movement. If we are to promote liberation from gender roles, we need a more gender neutral movement.
/r/MensRights16/02/19 11:15 PM
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that beating women used to be a freaking joke on prime time television. Lol, have you watched any television recently? Beating men as a joke is wayyy more common. You're only bringing up 1000 years old fiction and 50 years old movies in order to conveniently ignore how much violence against men is normalized in current western culture.
/r/MensRights16/02/19 08:36 PM
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In this sub, we're obviously mostly talking about current western culture. Nowadays, it's obvious that domestic violence against men is more accepted than DV against women. A man in the west wouldn't be painted in a sympathetic light for mutilating his wife.
/r/MensRights16/02/19 08:30 PM
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It's a disgrace because a man would never been shown in a sympathetic light if he mutilated his wife even she did abuse him.
/r/MensRights16/02/19 09:06 AM
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It could be a troll but it could also be someone who created an alt account because they didn't want to confess something shameful in their main account.
/r/MensRights15/02/19 09:54 PM
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Most of the so called "patriarchal" countries are pretty terrible for men. In Europe, the worst countries for men are those that have mandatory military service for men, like Finland, Greece, Russia. In those countries, you become a slave for one year of your life just because you're a male
/r/MensRights15/02/19 06:32 PM
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The MRM has nothing to gain by messing with the transgenders. It would be better if we focused on other issues.
/r/MensRights15/02/19 06:25 PM
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He found out about it and he stopped talking to me because he thought I was the one who spread those rumors.
/r/MensRights15/02/19 06:17 PM
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It's a problem if you think social mobility is important. This way most high status jobs are concentrated in the hands of the higher classes. Also, there will always be people who will look down on someone who is "uneducated".
/r/MensRights15/02/19 05:44 PM
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https://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/2016/01/06/poor-boys-attend-university_n_8921854.html Also, women from every single ethnic group and class are more likely to attend college than their male counterparts.
/r/MensRights15/02/19 03:24 PM
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First of all, the left-wing s pretty broad. For example, what if I support the economic left-wing but don't like their social policies? Second of all, tradcons are pretty bad for men too and don't lift a finger to help male victims.
/r/MensRights14/02/19 09:56 PM
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I mean, you could say that there is a dark side in masculinity (just like there is a dark side in femininity imo), but the way the term is usually used is bullshit.
/r/MensRights14/02/19 03:44 PM
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Toxic masculinity might as well exist, but some people blame it for even gender neutral behaviors like bullying or domestic violence, which is ridiculous. It's just another way to promote the stereotype that only men are the violent ones.
/r/MensRights14/02/19 03:41 PM
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Mixed race woman here! I am actually very left-wing, but I support Men's Rights and I disagree with the way the feminists interpret society and interpersonal relationships. I have seen quite a lot of right-wing MRAs , but it's obviously a heterogenous group.
/r/MensRights14/02/19 01:43 PM
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I believe that women should be working and that it's better to slowly get rid of the traditional marriage as it's pretty bad for men. However, I have to disagree that the two situations are exactly the same. The SAHM and her husband usually have a MUTUAL agreement. In some cases it's even the husband who encourages the wife to stay at home. If this is what they freely chose to do, then it's not any of our business. The single mother on the other hand forces the taxplayers to pay for her lack of …
/r/MensRights13/02/19 08:39 PM
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This has nothing to do with Men's rights, come on.
/r/MensRights13/02/19 01:23 PM
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I remember similar situations where this happened to women and there was a huge outrage.
/r/MensRights13/02/19 11:19 AM
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Not sure if troll or not. That view you describe is very anti-male.
/r/MensRights12/02/19 10:23 PM
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Speak for yourself. I support equality.
/r/MensRights12/02/19 09:57 PM
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https://www.telegraph.co.uk/men/relationships/fatherhood/11647915/Are-divorced-dads-really-treated-fairly-by-the-family-courts.html
/r/MensRights12/02/19 09:35 PM
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I actually remember that there was a huge outrage when a guy did the same to a female reporter at some football game.
/r/MensRights12/02/19 09:32 PM
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Either we treat people equally or we don't. Society needs to make up its mind. If we are to treat men and women differently then that can mean all sort of things.
/r/MensRights12/02/19 09:11 PM
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Every time I go to menslib there are more posts about how men can be better for women than about solving actual male problems like the military draft or DV against men. This shows to me that menslib is not enough.
/r/MensRights12/02/19 09:05 PM
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Bolsonaro seems like a traditionalist and the policies he promotes are harmful to men too. I have been saying it for a long time that the idea that traditionalism is better for men is severely flawed. Tradcons usually don't care about male issues at all. If a man is abused, a tradcon will likely tell him to suck it up.
/r/MensRights12/02/19 04:06 PM
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Toxic femininity would probably be a set of negative behaviors that are stereotypically considered feminine, like being a manipulative gold-digger, being a nagging, passive-aggressive wife etc. I don't think the term "toxic femininity" is officially recognized though, because people realize how sexist it sounds. (sexism against men is considered okay though) That being said, I think both the term "toxic masculinity" and the term "toxic femininity" are unhelpful and sound hostile.
/r/MensRights12/02/19 03:47 PM
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Either we treat people equally or we don't. Feminists need to make up their minds.
/r/MensRights12/02/19 03:40 PM
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It's Cosmopolitan. This is pretty old actually, from 2013.
/r/MensRights11/02/19 06:28 PM
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This group focuses far too much on the absolute worst women you can find. It relies on sensationalist imagery and stories to propagate it's incredibly weak argument that "all women are useless hoes that will lie to us, steal from us, and abuse us, all the while accusing us of what they are guilty of." No, there are posts of women doing bad things because people are under the impression that women are more virtuous than men. The MRM tries to make people understand that women can be just as bad. I…
/r/MensRights10/02/19 02:25 PM
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Toxic masculinity might be a thing, but these people are blaming it for pretty much everything that is wrong in the world, which is ridiculous. Also, I am of the opinion that toxic femininity exists too, but the concept is ignored.
/r/MensRights09/02/19 10:51 PM
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I think that men are just less likely to be diagnosed with depression since they tend to avoid doctors and therapists. Women are more likely to go to the doctor.
/r/MensRights09/02/19 03:29 PM
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Chivalry is bad for men. We need to overcome these outdated notions. There is no going back now, the only solution is to move forwards.
/r/MensRights09/02/19 03:26 PM
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Men being afraid of false accusations is "toxic masculinity"? What? Is this article serious?
/r/MensRights09/02/19 03:25 PM
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Fun fact:The early socialists like Marx and Paul Lafargue believed that women entering the workforce would not liberate them since they identified wage labor as a "different form of enslavement". (Source: Das Kapital by Marx and The Right to be Lazy by Lafargue) The idea that women need to work in order to be liberated is a more recent one, promoted by corporations who are looking for cheaper labor.
/r/MensRights09/02/19 12:17 AM
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It's basically a reference to women doing most of the household chores. https://broadly.vice.com/en_us/article/mb5pm3/women-unpaid-work-three-times-as-much-as-men-un-study
/r/MensRights08/02/19 10:44 PM
14

Remember that Hemsworth's character was their secretary and they were his bosses. They were oggling at him and objectifying him and it's portrayed as perfectly fine. I guess encouraging women to sexually harass their male employees is the progressive thing to do nowadays.
/r/MensRights08/02/19 04:48 PM
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I was reading a book written in the 50s that has a character who is beaten up by his wife and it's meant to be kind of a joke. I repeat, I am talking about a book written in the 50s. This shows that female on male abuse pretty much always existed, even in patriarchal societies.
/r/MensRights08/02/19 10:50 AM
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This is a sub to talk about male issues, not racial issues.
/r/MensRights07/02/19 12:25 PM
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Just more evidence to support my theory that it's not just physical abuse against men that is tolerated, but even verbal abuse against men is tolerated more than the same type of abuse against women.
/r/MensRights07/02/19 12:23 PM
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I think you forgot to mention the double standards around domestic violence against men.
/r/MensRights07/02/19 12:07 AM
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It's not going to be racist. I just genuinely believe that most MRM sites are too white-centric and conservative leaning. Anyway, I am going to create a blog like this myself and I will post it here in a few days.
/r/MensRights06/02/19 08:06 PM
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Yes, their own countries are usually poor and war-torn. Does that really surprise you?
/r/MensRights05/02/19 01:07 PM
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Even if everything you say is true, it's more of a reason to try to help them. Sorry, but I think that just abandoning them in their misery is evil. Nobody is inherently evil, there are cultural reasons that lead them to commit crimes.
/r/MensRights05/02/19 01:06 PM
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Maybe, but that's because they have problems that lead them to crime. Unless you think they're more criminal because they're inherently evil or something, which is absurd.
/r/MensRights05/02/19 12:45 PM
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Before championing POC too hard and treating them as though they are oppressed, look at the crime statistics. Well, yes. They have higher crime rates mostly because they're poor and they're more likely to be targeted by the police. This needs to be solved. Or you think that they have higher crime rates for NO reason? That's absurd.
/r/MensRights05/02/19 12:44 PM
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What evidence do you need? There are people in the far-right that literally consider Muslim men subhuman. They hate Muslim women too, but I would argue that Muslim men have it much worse because they're also stereotyped as rapists, terrorists etc. I would bet that a Muslim man is more likely to get assaulted on the streets than a Muslim woman.
/r/MensRights05/02/19 12:25 AM
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"Certain parts of the right-ring". There, is it better now?
/r/MensRights05/02/19 12:14 AM
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That being said, feminism (white and black both) hate CIS white men with a passion, and white feminism is willing to give anyone else education, employment and opportunities first, so effectively they are pro-MOC. At best, the feminists will just throw a bone at MOC. They don't care about the gendered nature of the problems they face.
/r/MensRights05/02/19 12:14 AM
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Yes, but feminists are indirectly contributing to it by promoting the idea that men in general are sexually threatening.
/r/MensRights05/02/19 12:12 AM
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I'm from Europe and there are definitely negative stereotypes about Muslim men , mostly by the right-wing. Feminists might be supporting Muslim men but if you look at the bigger picture, they indirectly make some things worse for them by promoting negative stereotypes about men in general. Feminists don't have to directly vilify MOC in order to do harm. They can do enough indirect damage by making it all about race and ignoring the gendered nature of the problem. I know that there are problems a…
/r/MensRights05/02/19 12:09 AM
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They will never truly solve the issues that MOC face as long as they ignore how being male contributes to their oppression. A lot of the issues that MOC face are related to greater problems that men in general face. Feminists at best will throw a bone at MOC and at worst they will make things worse for them by promoting harmful stereotypes about men, like that they're sexually threatening, that merely talking to a woman is sexual harassment etc.
/r/MensRights05/02/19 12:02 AM
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I don't believe that things will go so far. We'll likely adapt mainly because of the advances in technology. I know that some people believe that the Islamists will take over but I honestly doubt that things will go so far. Believe it or not, even a lot of Muslim countries are slowly becoming more liberal. Even Saudi Arabia and Pakistan have taken some steps to slowly liberalize recently. The threat of Islam is exaggerated, I believe. Yes, most Muslims are ultra conservative but they're not ISIS…
/r/MensRights01/02/19 12:13 PM
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Srebrenica massacre: almost everyone who died was male. The women were subjected to rape, but they were not systematically murdered like the men were. Despite that, apparently the Srebrenica Massacre was still an act of "misogyny".
/r/MensRights31/01/19 05:00 PM
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I have done some research on FGM. It likely started because of slavery. In ancient Egypt they used infibulation (the type where they sew the vagina shut) on female slaves in order to make them less likely to become pregnant. After some centuries, it got normalized and nowadays they believe that FGM highlights a woman's femininity and liberates her from the male soul. (they think that both a male and a female soul exist on a person and they view the clitoris as "male") They also do it because in …
/r/MensRights30/01/19 12:07 AM
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Radfems just hate men so they hate men who are transitioning too. Most of the anti-trans narrative coming from radfems is extremely misandrist in nature. (example: that transgenderism is just a plot by men to gain access to women's bathrooms so that they can harass and rape women, because as we know all men are rapists)
/r/MensRights29/01/19 11:56 PM
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Yes, because right now, they're practically not addressed at all. As you can see a lot of people are bothered even by me saying that Muslim immigrant men shouldn't be treated as rapists.
/r/MensRights25/01/19 11:23 PM
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What do you care about what I personally post? My point is that it should be for all men but apparently some disagree.
/r/MensRights25/01/19 11:17 PM
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And yet society is always ready to jump to the defense of Muslim women when they get abused. Think about that for a second.
/r/MensRights25/01/19 11:06 PM
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Shouldn't it be all men, including Muslim men? Just saying.
/r/MensRights25/01/19 11:05 PM
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There are tons of posts about the plight of straight white men around here and you're bothered by one post that claims that Muslim immigrant men are human too? If you're an MRA, maybe you shouldn't be throwing certain men under the bus just because of their backround. Just saying.
/r/MensRights25/01/19 01:54 AM
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There is prejudice against Muslim men as a group. It's not simple criticism of their beliefs. There are a lot of people who won't treat Muslim men as individuals, I don't know how you can deny that. Legitimate criticism of Islam is one thing, but a lot of people go a lot further than that.
/r/MensRights25/01/19 01:44 AM
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This is why I can't stand those who call for vigilante violence on rapists and pedophiles. This mob mentality only leads to innocent people getting lynched.
/r/MensRights24/01/19 11:11 AM
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Some forms of FGM are definitely worse than MGM. However, we can just agree that they're both very bad and must be stopped.
/r/MensRights23/01/19 05:29 PM
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No. I simply said that we should address more the unique problems that men of color face. This would improve the image of the MRM. Focusing more on PoC doesn't mean that you're putting men against each other. Meanwhile posts like this one will look bad and will probably attract the white nationalist crowd.
/r/MensRights23/01/19 04:37 PM
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That was me and that was exactly my point. Posts like this make the sub seem too white-centric. Why focus on the racial issue at all?
/r/MensRights23/01/19 03:52 PM
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I have no doubt about what Gillette is doing but I think that posts like this will just make it easier for some to say that the MRM is white supremacist.
/r/MensRights23/01/19 03:10 PM
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Look, I have no doubts that Gillette deleted the scene on purpose. However, there's no reason for posts like this that only turn white men and black men against one another. There's no reason to make it about race, both white men and men of color face significant challenges that the MRM should address. At least that in my opinion as a white woman, I can't tell you what to do.
/r/MensRights23/01/19 02:57 PM
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I agree that this is a men's rights issue too. After all, it is well known that gay men are viewed more negatively by society than lesbians. It's really such a shame that this is happening in 2019.
/r/MensRights23/01/19 12:06 PM
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But sometimes men of color can face unique challenges that are related to both their gender and their race. Shouldn't that be addressed more?
/r/MensRights22/01/19 04:55 PM
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No, I meant that they should consider that men of color face some unique challenges that are related to their race.
/r/MensRights22/01/19 04:50 PM
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The point isn't to split them. I just think that maybe there should be more attention to the unique problems that men of color face.
/r/MensRights22/01/19 03:52 PM
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So you don't think that black men for example might be facing some problems that are also related to their race?
/r/MensRights22/01/19 03:46 PM
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But I didn't say that it shouldn't be for men. I just said that men of color might be facing some unique problems.
/r/MensRights22/01/19 03:46 PM
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I just think there is barely any attention to issues that are more unique to men of color like for example: Asian men being stereotyped as weak and feminine, black men being involved in a disproportionate number of crimes, Arab men being stereotyped as rapists and terrorists etc.
/r/MensRights22/01/19 02:45 PM
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Do you not think that, for example, black men might face some problems where their race also plays a role?
/r/MensRights22/01/19 02:37 PM
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Did you read the OP? I didn't say that it shouldn't be about men. I just said that maybe they should focus more on men on color because right now, the MRM seems a bit white-centric.
/r/MensRights22/01/19 02:36 PM
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