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STAY WOKEapplestorm/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 01:55 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYapplestorm/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 01:10 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYapplestorm/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 06:03 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYapplestorm/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 06:34 AM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESapplestorm/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 12:12 PM
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LIES MEN TELLapplestorm/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 02:37 PM
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THINGS SCROTES SAYapplestorm/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 10:00 PM
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MOOD FOR LIFEapplestorm/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 12:59 PM
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STRATEGYapplestorm/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 12:40 PM
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PICKME CULTUREapplestorm/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 03:41 PM
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STRATEGYapplestorm/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 05:34 PM
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STRATEGYapplestorm/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 03:02 PM
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MINDSET SHIFTapplestorm/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 06:16 PM
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THINGS SCROTES SAYapplestorm/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 11:09 AM
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How-To High Valueapplestorm/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 02:00 PM
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MOOD FOR LIFEapplestorm/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 08:06 AM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESapplestorm/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 08:51 PM
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SHOWER THOUGHTapplestorm/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 02:23 AM
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SHOWER THOUGHTapplestorm/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 11:57 AM
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STRATEGYapplestorm/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 06:13 PM
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LIES MEN TELLapplestorm/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 06:31 PM
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LIES MEN TELLapplestorm/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 05:31 PM
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GLOBAL RESISTANCEapplestorm/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 07:48 AM
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LIES MEN TELLapplestorm/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 07:42 AM
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STRATEGYapplestorm/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 06:00 PM
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LIES MEN TELLapplestorm/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 02:36 PM
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BOOK REPORTapplestorm/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 04:04 PM
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BOOK REPORTapplestorm/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 04:40 PM
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You can't control what others do but you can control what you do. In a perfect world, you can send nudes and the recipient will not share it to the world. But we're in a shitty world so the best way to be certain your nudes will not be shared to others is to not send them in the first place. It's not victim blaming, it's protecting yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/22 11:02 AM
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When they're baggage factories themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 01:26 PM
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Because it was never about "kinks" but all about control, domination, humiliation, pain infliction and rape. They're not turned on by the kinks themselves but by forcing them on an unwilling woman. You can best believe they view any woman who's enjoying herself / having those kinks herself as "dirty". There's so many stories of women being dumbfounded when their SO no longer wants to force anal sex on them the minute they enjoy it. Guess it was never about mutual pleasure but a man's pleasure at…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 10:40 AM
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Yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 08:25 AM
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If anything, in this economy, only well off people can afford not to work as well as stay at home sons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 11:54 PM
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💀💀💀 Lmao I can't unsee this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 10:54 PM
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She's definitely in arrested development. Her articles read like the secret diary of a 16 years old not the life lessons of a woman in her 30s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 07:06 PM
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Can you imagine a man throwing away a training at a top law firm to move to London for his girlfriend? I can't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 04:49 PM
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She also tells women that they shouldn't strive to become the best version of themselves because nobody has the time for that and something something about the quarantine. Basically, she believes that you just have to sit around and wait for Prince Charming to waltz into your life aka center your life and pause it for a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 04:43 PM
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I've recently discovered the French-British fashion influencer Camille Charrière after stumbling on pictures of her wedding. I loved the retro theme and the risqué dress she wore. Intrigued, I looked her up and found two articles about her talking about her love life. The first article was on how she ditched a training at a top law firm in Paris to move to London for her boyfriend and then he dumped her two years later. The second article is about her mentioning a "funny" anecdote: she was into …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 03:47 PM
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They definitely removed the filter options to prevent women for getting too 'difficult'. I remember there was an app that removed the height filter (not that it truly worked since men lie on their height all the time). And guess which sex mostly have dealbreakers regarding height? Once again, we're the product, not the clients.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 07:05 AM
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Buffoon too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 03:48 PM
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Lmao he can't even take out $5. No way he can afford a prostitute. That's probably why he's mass sending this message to any woman unlucky enough to have matched with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 03:46 PM
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You say he's in his 50's? How old are you? In general, men who keep telling women to reject them usually gets off on forcing/arm wrestling women into sex. They don't like you being eager and enjoying yourself. They prefer it when you're reluctant or unwilling. I would consider leaving this relationship tbh. You deserve a man who's just as enthusiastic about having sex than you are. This kind of thinking leaks into other areas too. He won't be happy if you're willing, he'll only be satisfied if h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 09:29 PM
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From NVM to LVM. Grats, grats. 🎉✨ That dude is also the proof that men can level up financially if they want to. Broke men are just lazy and shouldn't get a pass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 08:42 PM
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Wow I didn't see things like this. Thanks for your analysis. I'm never getting back on these apps lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 08:40 PM
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And once they get confident, they dump their gf because now they're courageous enough to go after their actual type.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 08:33 PM
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He first got a $70k salary and then went back to live with his parents when he got a six figure remote job. BTW, in the comments he said he got this salary increase when he became a software developer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 08:11 PM
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It could be dangerous to wait for marriage to have sex though (if it's just a vetting tool and not for religion/personal reasons). In general, it does weed out most of the users and abusers but some might take advantage of the fact that you cannot easily walk away from a marriage to trap you. Those types are not after sex, they're after a victim who'll put out with their torture OR have red flags / dealbreakers linked to sex (weird fetishes, gay or tiny peen).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 05:18 PM
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LMAO wtf? But sadly there are many stories of women being pumped and dumped right after the guy asked them to be their girlfriend. Those types figured out the only way to get sex is to commit so they committed, got what they wanted and broke up right after.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 05:16 PM
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In my experience: He makes self-depreciating comments/jokes about himself OR says you're too good for him. He tries too hard to project a flashy image to you (ex: wears obvious luxury branding, dresses to look expensive, brags about himself etc). He introduces himself as a seducer/ladies' man. He's critical of you, negs, puts you down. He's entitled, can't take no for an answer. He's dependent on outer validation. In general any man who's either too self-depreciating or too cocky. He's either te…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 05:08 PM
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Lol actually a lot of ugly scrotes are mad at Hollywood for selling them the dream that one day they'll get a hot model gf while looking gross and being broke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 04:39 PM
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Also, sadly, many men overestimate their level of attractiveness and thus what they believe is their looksmatch is actually a woman who's significantly above them. Meanwhile, their actual looksmatch is deemed beneath them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 04:31 PM
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And bald heads.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 03:57 PM
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It wasn't lost on me how he noticed that her friends were attractive and paired up with seemingly less attractive men (which also triggered his rage and shame aka why can't I get a woman out of my league?). At this point it's the standard for heterosexual relationships to have a woman settling for man much less attractive than her and I hate it. We need to do better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 03:55 PM
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Also broke men or else you're a gold digger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 03:51 PM
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Reminder: this is why we don't pay for dates, we don't chase men, we don't write paragraphs, we don't go out of our way for men and we block and delete at the first red flag. Men are not like women. They don't have any problem having sex, dating, stringing along for years, marrying women they despise and are ashamed of in exchange of sex. They're willing to tie themselves to a woman they hate and are disgusted by as long as she puts out regularly. The best way to weed this type of men out is to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 02:40 PM
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They use the whole "men are visual creatures" to justify being shallow lol And then they get extra mad when women are also visual creatures and prefer handsome, tall and fit men. Because apparently, only men are allowed to have physical preferences while women have to date whoever is into them even if they're a hundred times uglier than them. In scrotes' perfect world, the regular guy is entitled to a beautiful woman while all women are not allowed to have any standard or if they have some, then…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 01:32 PM
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I know a guy who whines to everyone willing to listen to him how his wife baby trapped him thrice. Like sir, I could maybe believe you if you said she had one baby on you but three??? Three???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 07:57 PM
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Also by the time they stop stringing along their forever gf and she dumps them, they're in their late 20s to late 30s aka the age range where all their friends are married and have kids. To not be the pathetic bachelor in their friend's group, they settle for the first woman willing to tolerate them fast enough before she has any buyer's remorse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 04:56 PM
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It was the same crap when contouring aka drag makeup was pushed down our throats.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 04:46 PM
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They did the same crap to black women smh going as far as saying a bunch of famous black actresses were 'clocked' as men by mainstream media. Racism =/= transphobia.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 04:43 PM
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I read Holly's tell all book and what Hugh Hefner did to these girls was messed up. I can't believe he lied to the media saying they were not having sex so that his harem is more palatable to mainstream sphere. For example, the girls weren't allowed to save the money they earned being escorts for him. They were supposed to spend all their earnings on clothes and personal upkeep. Hefner's goons monitored the girls while they shopped and would report any woman who was saving some money and she wou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 01:55 PM
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Ahegao is the facial expression a woman makes when she c*ms.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 11:01 AM
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There's a female character from Euphoria who literally walked around in ahegao thigh high stockings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 09:25 PM
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A friend once told me about a notable community dick in my uni showing up in the gym with a Pornhub sweat. Every woman looked at him with disgust. It quickly became the talk of the town.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 09:24 PM
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Thank you for sharing this. 🙏 Not gonna lie, that was violent to read but still very important to have in mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 08:17 PM
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He was trying to set you up. What a joke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 07:15 PM
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Yup. No one would say "omg if someone at your current job finds out you sold handmade candles on Etsy back in your uni days, you're going to lose your promotion!" or "your boyfriend will definitely leave you if he finds out you worked at Wendy's when you were 19". You literally can insert any legal job and no one would see their life, career, intimate relationships, kids ruined over it (unless you're a secret spy or something).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 06:47 PM
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For the female lurkers: Sex work is not considered as work. No matter how much men and liberal feminists lie about this, sex work is a scarlet letter. Once you become a sex worker, you put in jeopardy your present, your future and even your kids' future. Even if life gets hard, don't go into sex work. And if you're already a sex worker, then plan your exit plan ASAP. Likewise, don't share nudes and don't participate in sex tapes. It just takes your (ex) boyfriend/husband to post these videos/pic…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 06:09 PM
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I hope she leaves. Usually when a man screams at his partner and negs, it's the precursor to much much worse. Notice how she wakes earlier than him to cook him breakfast and lunch and then when she comes back from work cooks once more for him? He keeps talking about splitting chores but looks like he only does anything when she's too tired to be his bangmaid. I hope she wise up and leave. His mom will always have a problem with her as long as she's not the perfect bangmaid. She seems like the ty…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 05:10 PM
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OP, you need to remove the name of the sub and the username or else it'll be removed by mods for brigading.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 04:59 PM
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I've seen men pretend to have ADHD or claim they're physically unable to do or remember to do chores aka weaponized incompetence. It doesn't matter. Very few pickmes can endure working two full time jobs. Most have a breakdown after a few years of picking up after their LVM and file for divorce. In the future, I think the newer generations of women will be aware of this problem just like we're aware of what happens if you're a housewife (aka you're very likely to be dumped in your 40-50s and be …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 10:00 AM
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I remember reading an article where the author said that OLD will help professional women connect with blue collar/lower income men and thus solve the mating crisis. 💀💀 When I read that, I knew I needed to avoid these dating apps like plague. Looks like the author was right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 03:01 AM
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"You want someone to work two full time jobs while you work one." It sums up modern heterosexual relationships in a nutshell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 02:53 AM
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I meant to say 'once he makes it'. But it's true that most cheap men stay cheap no matter who they're with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 01:45 PM
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And then that same man will dump his girlfriend for a woman who would never accept to go 50/50. Tale as old as time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 11:19 PM
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Roach of the house 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 09:43 PM
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I always laugh when broke/ugly men cry about women wanting successful/attractive men and saying that if it goes on like that they'll join the gay community because women are too shallow. Jokes on them. They wouldn't last one day in the gay community. The gay bros have very high standards and don't play. If you're not ripped and hot and/or rich, you're better off scrambling to trap a pickme.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 09:32 PM
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Imagine carrying two kids for nine months and going through the pain of childbirth twice for a scrote who will not marry you no matter what. I can't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 12:42 AM
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Because she thought that if she had two kids from him, he would commit to her. The truth is she could have 10 kids with him, he still wouldn't give her the ring. He simply do not want to marry her and you cannot force a man into marrying you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 12:37 AM
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Thanks for the support! I'm honestly tired of the black 'community'. They don't care about black women and girls and never cared. The stats surrounding black women and girls are horrendous: 40 to 60% percent of black women report being subjected to coercive sexual contact by age 18. Black women are 2.5x more likely to be murdered by men than their white counterparts. And, more than 9 in 10 black female victims knew their killers. 40% of sex trafficking victims are Black women and girls. Black wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 08:48 PM
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It has never been about women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 07:28 PM
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You should. We need to counteract LVM's manipulation tactics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 04:45 PM
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Another reminder to NOT approach men: at best you'll get rejected, at worst you'll be used for sex and strung along for YEARS while that guy is still on the lookout for the woman he *actually* wants to approach. Also FDS strategies help you weed out the users like the NVM here. Another point: even if those 300 hotties slept with him, he still wouldn't be happy. Men like this have mental issues and want endless external validation to feel better about themselves. No amount of coochie or female va…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 01:14 PM
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Thank you for saying this. Really. Thank you for this comment. Low value women should be held accountable and condemned just as much as LVM here. F that noise. No more fauxminism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 08:24 PM
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More than anything, I don't want to give the opportunity to random men to disrespect me. Through apps, many men get the courage to send dirty messages to women or straight up tell them to come over to chill. In real life, very few men (even the street pickup artists) have the guts to say this. That's it. I don't want to give men the opportunity to disrespect me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 08:24 PM
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It's the same as those incels who are actively doxxing OF models because they're mad that some women are earning $50/month from showing their coochie when they should give it for free to them instead. Basically, men are mad that women profit from their own exploitation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 03:21 PM
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I wasn't even born when the tape was leaked so she can f*ck off tbh. At least, I'm not being paid thousands $$ to renact someone else's trauma WITHOUT their consent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 03:54 PM
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Actually women attempt suicide more than men but they usually pick non-violent options so the failure rate is higher than men's (mostly because they don't want people to be traumatized when they find their body).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 09:39 AM
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Most men don't openly say that they want sex because they know they'll scare off a lot of women. Instead, they will try to get you in a private place (their home, your home, a car, a hotel room etc) so they can escalate into sex. When a man invites you into his home, just say "no I'm tired, I have a terrible headache so I'm heading home now. Good night". Don't mention sex, don't show him you saw through his manœuvre. Act dumb and show him through your actions and not your words where you stand. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 09:01 AM
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I love FDS because it 100% weeds the red pillers out of our dating pool. By making men pay for dates and refusing to have sex until commitment, we're making most of the users and abusers run away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 08:03 AM
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For real. Both of them have been exposed for chasing sugar babies and being tricks. What they really do is give shitty advice to broke cheap men that doesn't yield any result while using the money they spent on their courses to impress sex workers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 07:58 AM
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Rolling Tomatoe 💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 07:50 AM
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Yup that's why broke men keep accusing women of being 'gold digger' when they don't even have copper coins to dig up from - so that women do everything to prove they're not after the $12 in their bank account: going 50/50 on a $2 coffee cup, accepting walking dates and being OK with them having no job and living on their mama's couch. Because having any type of financial expectations is being a gold digger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 03:51 PM
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They're saying "divorce him" because him not being able to do a basic thing for his survival (making his own doctor appointments) shows that he's likely not doing more important things and just being an entire bum. If you have to drag them, leave them behind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 11:38 AM
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My post was super long but I want to emphasize on a part that isn't much discussed on this sub: the fact that Jiyeon said to Sehoon (the guy who pursued her hard) "You made me feel like I'm a worthy person". It's a sentiment that I started to notice a lot in young women nowadays. Due to hookup/Netflix and Chill culture being the norm, many women never experienced how it is to be pursued and romanced by a man so they fall over themselves when the first guy does the bare minimum. I've seen way too…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 03:10 PM
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It's satire.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 03:19 AM
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Personally I believe you should wait for him to bring it up again. Kinda lika when you refuse a proposal because you're not ready. However, I guess you can give non verbal hints, show that you're more comfortable with him etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 09:45 AM
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Actually women from those parts of the world are the most ruthless. The Eastern European women target those men on websites meant to meet EE women (and usually they just stick to scamming them and don't actually leave their countries) while Asian women go after the ugly old white expats in their countries. Watch 90 Day fiancé and 8/10 couples are like this. It's a whole hustle culture for these women and I respect that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 05:29 PM
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Those men don't understand that for women from underdeveloped economies, they're just 'starter husbands'. Once they get the citizenship and complete whichever program can give them financial independence they're literally gone. There's so many stories of mail order brides who go grocery shopping and never come back. Literally the female version of 'daddy went out for cigarettes and never came back'. 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 04:50 PM
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This sentence broke me. 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 04:47 PM
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I just wanted to tell you that Platipus6's comment is a golden comment. I encourage you very much to read 'Not Your Mother's Rules'. This book is honestly a must read for women who want to date in a high value way in the 21st century. It goes in details about everything and explains men's mindset and actions very well. You will never be confused again by men's actions once you read this book.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 03:20 PM
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You're spot on on this. Kyuhyun always has this greasy smile when watching JT acts while he's very quiet when the girls chase after men. You just know he would show his LVM colors if he was commenting privately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 08:44 AM
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I didn't know it was a big deal that Jiyeon and Yeawon hanged out in the men's dorm but now that you mention it, I haven't seen Jia doing it. They're both obviously chasing those men. I was especially embarassed for Yeawon when she picked that guy three times in a row when he wasn't checking for her and then only reciprocated because she was his only chance to go to Paradise. It's one thing saying something on FDS, it's another to see it right in front your eyes. Really enlightening. Chasing a m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 08:42 AM
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Agree. Also talking about the dark triad guy, he tried to triangulate Jia with Jiyeon to charm Jiyeon by giving her more attention than 'popular girl' Jia... I LOVE how his shitty tactic didn't work and Jiyeon paid him DUST. Turns out the girls are friends and acting like a prick to Jia didn't do anything to Jiyeon lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 08:09 PM
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I do see this. That's why I love this show. I can see a lot of parallels with real life in Western countries. The dynamics are the same. I also notice that the fboy and the dark triad guy both stayed far far away from Jia lol They're literally the only ones on the show who showed no interest in her. Probably because they knew their shitty games wouldn't work on her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 08:07 PM
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TBH episode 5 was unbearable to watch for me. It was basically a whole "Soyeon being played around by LV men'" ep. I wish she could see through their shitty games and leave them in the dust. Alas...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 08:06 PM
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She's actually a famous Korean Youtuber, you can check out her channel here (she has put English subs on them): https://www.youtube.com/c/free%EC%A7%80%EC%95%84 I checked some of her videos out (more Q&A and try on/fashion hauls) to get a feel of her personality. I like her outlook and she's very witty/funny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 03:26 PM
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Only 6 eps out of 8 are out. The last 2 episodes drop next Friday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 03:22 PM
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Tbh it has become a torture to watch Soyeon. How such a confident and charismatic woman can turn into cringe worthy pickme is beyond me. Hopefully she'll wake-up in the last 2 episodes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 03:17 PM
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Yeah I've noticed that they heavily used her body to promote the show while barely putting her in it. Very disgusting. I don't think HS will go for her tbh. He strikes me as the type of guys who like to win and who likes competition so he'll probably stick to Jia and strives to be the 'chosen one'. I also feel like she's more his type, aka the inaccessible high maintenance gal. OK I'll do a part 2 next week when the last episodes drop!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 03:15 PM
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Korean variety shows usually have a panel commentating the events so I'm used to it. I usually don't like the panel because they're not adding anything to the show however here I like the panel, especially the androgynous female panelist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 03:13 PM
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I'm thinking of doing a part 2 next week when the last 2 episodes drop. So far, for the men, the one who looks the most 'high value' would be Hyun Joong. I think he has the best strategy by being attentive whilst not being clingy and needy like some other men. Jin Taek is a fboy who's just in it for the 'game' and exposure. Sehoon and Sihun are the worst seducers with Sehoon being downright bad. Junsik is just here to promote his business and gave up when he saw the competition for his favorite …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 03:11 PM
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He's been 28 for the past fifteen years lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 04:38 AM
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There's Urban Dictionary for that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 04:37 AM
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II'm so happy she escaped her abusive marriage and leveled up. It always warms my heart to see women recognizing their worth and doing better!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 07:29 PM
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You can find the stats here: https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2019/apr/08/dark-skinned-black-girls-dont-get-married "His research shows that a scarcity in available “high-status” husbands (defined as higher levels of education, not growing up on public assistance, coming from neighborhoods that had less crime), effectively leave black men in control of the dating selection process. His data concluded 55% of light-skinned women were married while only 23% of dark-skinned women had jumped …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 01:13 PM
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I remember a post on Reddit from a white woman who asked advice on what to do about her black husband who hated their mixed daughter because she was dark-skinned, has his facial features and had afro hair. Date self-hating black men all you want but if your kids (especially female kids) turn out to look like him, be prepared for him to hate them. His hatred for his female relatives will extend to his own child if they're too "dark".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 11:36 AM
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Personally, when a male tries to holla at me in the streets, I keep walking and pretend I didn't hear/didn't think he was talking to me. Nowadays, some of them when they get ignored start running after me so I pick up my phone and pretend I'm having a conversation and they stop running immediately. If I can't pretend I didn't hear them, I just walk past without saying a word. I don't care if I'm rude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 06:03 PM
5

I bet that same woman wouldn't have told a man who doesn't want an overweight woman to lower his standards. Pickmes have a crab in a bucket mentality. They not only have low standards but they want other women to have standards just as low so they don't feel inadequate. What that woman was really saying is "I am okay with dating a fat man so you should too". Fatophobic my ass. Dating is discriminatory by definition.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 03:23 PM
27

Women are men's Dorian Gray aging portraits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 07:02 PM
117

It's because women are shamed and mocked by other women and men if they're single. So many women would rather tie themselves to a scrote so they don't get scorned by society than being alone. We're also socialized and brainwashed from birth to dream about marriage. Just look at all those Disney movies where the end goal is to be married to a prince and have numerous children. Also you have tons of women spending years of dreaming about their wedding day, wedding dress, wedding cake, making Pinte…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 03:40 PM
202

It reminded me of the husband in 'The Girl on the Train'. The same gaslight technique.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 02:29 PM
359

Men love to say that they have no problem DaTiNg DoWn aka dating women who make less than them/are struggling financially. Of course, they don't! Unless they're looking for a Barbra to build them up or a 50/50 bangmaid to subsidize their expenses, they don't care about a woman's financial situation. They care about a woman's looks. Dating down for men = dating someone less attractive than them. Don't fall for the okey doke! I have never seen a man being "ok" with a woman who's struggling aesthet…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 02:01 PM
59

He's likely a narc or worse. She said in her responses to some of the comments that when they talked about having kids, he acted like it would be his first time experiencing fatherhood. Someone who has no problem lying like this and has all his family and friends backing him up can only be a narcissist. That's actually textbook narc behavior. Hope she runs far far away and doesn't tie herself legally to this man. He clearly wanted to marriage trap her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 12:00 AM
27

So I went on the OG thread to check the comments. They're all lamenting on how the dating pool is trash rn, most men have avoidant type of attachment etc. I agree with it but not a single soul points out that she does everything wrong. I can't even. I guess they all think this is normal meanwhile you will never see a lioness running around lions, giving them meat to please them and whatnot. Instead they sit there and wait for lions to fight to be with them. It's a joke. So many women are disconn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 02:13 PM
1

I personally keep getting Bumble ads trying to convince me to make the first move 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 01:46 AM
317

Also why you shouldn't have sex unless he has made a sustained and long effort to woo you and win you over. If a man does this, don't respond, just get up and leave and let him panic as his shit test didn't work out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 10:03 PM
168

I used to be mad that my friends called me the "Miranda" of the group since I had the least pickme tendencies and the least time to waste on men's BS as Miranda is depicted as this frumpy bitter single lawyer who's always whining and nagging. But now I realize that Miranda was the best character in this entire show and that they made her unappealing to not wake women up. I'm now a proud Miranda.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 07:31 PM
17

It's not porn, men have seen women as sex machines since the beginning of humanity (isn't prostitution called the "oldest profession in history"?). Porn is just another way men found to dehumanize women for their peepee's sake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 07:20 PM
131

Free Dinner Strategy 💀 NGL I cackled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 04:13 PM
18

It boils down to men feeling entitled to have sex with any woman (or little girl) of their choosing, whether she agrees or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 05:12 PM
10

You're right. It was a typo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 01:55 PM
83

He's skinny fat but I wouldn't be surprised if over the years he turns obese.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 08:36 AM
100

There are probably plenty of restaurants who have this type of men as regulars.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 08:34 AM
52

Yup, they only leave when you get terminally ill because you can't be a bangmaid anymore or if they have another woman lined up to take your place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 09:35 PM
4

Lovebombing is very intense and short-lived. The goal of lovebombing is to quickly stun and lock down a woman. LVM who use this strategy overdo everything and want things to go fast. Whereas a HVM is not going to overdo it and will take his time. The best way to know if it's lovebombing is time and intensity. If the guy wants things to go fast and is saying or displaying big romantic words/gestures (I love you in 1 month, "You're my soulmate" etc) => Run. If he's taking you to nice dates but isn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 10:05 AM
13

I don't keep track of most of the scrotes I dodged except one. NGL I was mad at this scrote because he ranted to me that he was tired of being expected to do the first move and wanted women to do that more. I was 19 and ignorant so I made the first move and chased this guy for a week - only for him to never reciprocate. Anyway, I learned thanks to him that 1) you should never chase a man, even if he asks you to do so 2) men are liars so never listen to their advice. I checked out his Linkedin re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 07:19 PM
54

Lmao right? So you have survival skills? Congrats on trying not to starve to death or bleed your wallet with daily take-outs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 10:40 PM
7

The Emily Nelson-esque outfits she wore for the promotion of this movie were also great!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 09:00 PM
24

For me, the epitome of the female gaze is Blake Lively's character in "A Simple Favor": Emily Nelson. Not just because she has a sexy androgynous style with some feminine hints but because when I saw her in the movie, I was in literal awe. The kind of fashion that fascinates you and makes you wish you were her or were her friend. Another example, for me, would be Villanelle from the TV show "Killing Eve". So probably feminine female characters from lesbian-coded media/lesbian feminine characters…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 08:02 PM
32

I used to feel the same as you until it dawned on me that if men were the ones using birth control, so many of them would either do it sloppily, f*ck up and forget to take it or pretend they took it to baby trap their partner. It's honestly much better for women to be the ones taking birth control because at the end of the day, we're the ones getting pregnant, not men. We're the ones who deal with the consequences, not men. We're the ones putting our mental and physical health, even life on life…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 07:43 PM
21

Of course, this psychopath with a cannibalism fetish would idolize De Sade.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 10:37 PM
48

"Sexual violent fiction" is really minimizing it. The movie Salo is a movie adaptation of 120 days of Sodom and this is the most eff up movie I've ever heard about (I've never seen it, just read the summary and saw some pics and noped the f out). It literally traumatized me because it was just sheer torture and very extreme "BDSM" acts such as sc*t, dismemberment and more for the sake of 4 psychos' erection. Apart from that, he wrote more disturbing fictions centered around mutilating women's va…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 10:30 PM
20

Actually, it was a radfem lesbian Youtuber who said that, you can watch the video on this topic here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l3ugzx4I7e4 It's based on her observation of males' interactions with women and other males, very interesting the points she makes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 08:28 AM
29

You need to understand that them only wanting to sleep with you is not about YOU but about THEM. They're low value men who overestimate themselves to the point that they think they're worthy enough to use you for sex. Never internalize men's low value behaviors.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 06:43 PM
7

There are red flags every 5 words of this post. Girls, if a guy is trying to speed up the relationship: FLEE! He 100% wants to trap you before his HVM façade falls so that you can't get out. This is the method common abusers use with their victims. Always take your time when dating, don't rush because it'll always lead to a disaster.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 11:46 AM
19

Also Don Draper from Mad Men, Vince Chase from Entourage and Hank Moody from Californication. These fictional characters are literally men's dream boys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 10:41 AM
33

Then you proudly say "NOTHING". You are the table. Bear in mind that anyone who asks you what you bring to the table is malicious and just seek to belittle you. They already know what you 'bring' but wants you to explain yourself anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 08:19 AM
24

You just don't answer. Stand up and leave or block and delete. You don't have to explain yourself. He either knows your worth or he doesn't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 08:07 AM
20

It's because what black men hate about black women is not their attitude, weight, masculinity, wig/weave or whatever other excuse but the fact that their skin is black. They hate themselves and hate their image in a woman, that's why you see a lot of them with white women who have the same characteristics that they say they hate on black women (attitude, weight, masculinity etc). They want to feel like a white man (by being with a white woman) and have mixed children with them (so they can "wash…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 11:24 PM
17

How about I take myself, fix myself and love myself forever? Sounds much better!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 12:29 AM
19

The other day I was sitting in the tramway and a little boy (around 7-8) sat in front of me and then grabbed my knee (I was wearing a skirt) and started caressing me there. While doing that, he gave me a perverted look. His mother was behind, not even paying attention. I quickly stood up and sat elsewhere. One of the creepiest experiences in my life. I still wonder what happened in his home so he acted this way towards me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 07:46 PM
25

Amen. It has been happening for centuries with the example of the Moors in the 8th century who were Black men who conquered Spain and once they achieved that made Black women servants/slaves and took White women as concubines. It's not new, it's actually very ancient. Why do Black men across the world and throughout history have behaved like this toward Black women is something I'm still wondering.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 06:46 AM
82

This is how men are. They only care about what you look like. He's just more honest about it than other men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 02:27 AM
35

Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 03:21 AM
15

They know height is a deal-breaker for many women and refuse to accept it so they lie. My own father lied to me about his height. He said he was 5'10 but one day I saw his ID card and it was written 5'8 under height. What a joke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 05:32 PM
35

Yup, most men lie about their height. Always remove at least 2 inches to the height they tell you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 03:39 PM
20

Oh my God
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 04:27 PM
43

Yes, the most liberal feminist lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 11:49 PM
8

I personally tell them I'm part of a cult and they need to join to date me with a psychotic look lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 08:52 PM
30

I don't... I hope she gets therapy because this mindset can literally kill her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 05:55 PM
38

Wtf. So many cases of men, especially white men, pretending to be black women online. Some people have too much time in their hands.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 05:55 PM
63

I can tell she has low self worth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 01:48 PM
6

It's a good thing though. I learned about FDS through an anti post. No publicity is bad publicity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 10:57 AM
61

Men don't know women constantly fear for their life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 10:53 AM
6

😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 12:12 AM
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I used to be a 50/50 girl because I foolishly thought men wouldn't expect sex from me if I paid my part. 🤡🤡🤡 Turns out men will ALWAYS expect sex from you, no matter what you do. This is why they approach you in the first place: to have sex with you. Hopefully these lost souls will figure it out soon enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 12:26 AM
22

Double lock the door and scream "no one's home".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 10:56 PM
24

"i HaVe ThE gUt FeElInG wE wIlL bE tOgEtHeR" I can't believe the level of stupidity some women have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 06:16 PM
25

What is the difference between dating him and being in jail? Wth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 07:53 AM
8

I agree. I like this movie because you get real advice but the main character is an embarrassment and I hate that in the end she gets the guy and is the 'exception' to the rule. In real life, the guy would have just checked out of her life after rejecting her, not suddenly get obsessed with her for no reason. But it's Hollywood right? We shouldn't depressed the watchers with too much reality lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 07:46 AM
18

Regarding dating, a lot of what Steve Harvey said is similar to FDS' teachings. He's a POS but his dating book is legit, he's really telling you how men really are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 01:54 AM
22

'He's not that into you' and 'Think like a man' are FDS-friendly movies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 01:31 AM
6

This post got me heated. You will never catch cooking or cleaning for a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 04:04 PM
121

She said with her whole chest "I hate most women".... Wow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 03:59 PM
79

They know what they want, they just can't afford it so they're lying to women. That's why you see so many rich men abandoning their 'low maintenance' wife/girlfriend for a 'high maintenance' woman they used to call a 'gold digger' the minute they get rich.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 11:36 AM
15

This kind of scene is normal. The woman does all the heavy work while the man orders her around. Black women have historically been treated as 'mules' / 'work horses' by the Black community, nothing new under the sun.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 01:46 AM
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Why? I don't know but I think it has something to do with the fact farming/agricultural work is usually a feminine occupation in Africa. Also women are the ones selling food, clothes etc in the marketplace while men hold political roles (the village's wise man etc). This blog has a lot of information on not well-known African culture/history and the role of Black women across the diaspora (also one of the OG blogs regarding divesting): http://muslimbushido.blogspot.com/ One of the most shocking …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 12:53 AM
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I'm not surprised. I think many non-African Black people don't know this but this is literally African culture. In most African countries, women work, cook, clean the house, take care of the children while men don't work, live off their wife and spend their day socializing with other men. Those pictures/drawings of African women with tons of stuffs piled up on their heads and kids around as they come back from the fields/city is their daily life. Only the upper classes have the men as providers …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 11:39 PM
27

The divest movement is a movement encouraging Black women to divest from the Black community aka stop supporting it due to the extreme misogyny, gender-based violence, general disrespect/hatred they endure within the said "community" while being the only ones shouldering it. It's all about putting yourself first as a Black woman and not being someone else's savior/warrior/mule. You can learn more here: https://www.sorellamag.org/opinion-sorella/black-women-burn-the-cape
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 11:14 PM
30

They want Black women to chase them while they're chasing non-Black women. This is why you see so many Black extreme pickmes - because they're brainwashed into acting like that. As for the "alpha male" personality type, it's all about being hypermasculine, refusing to settle down, having 15 side chicks/baby mammas and wanting a woman to "support" them in their attempt at a come-up. I can't remember how many times I've seen/heard people saying that Black women's role is to "build a man", "help Bl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 10:30 PM
6

Lmaoooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 08:05 PM
28

I'm also supporting the divest movement but I doubt most Black women will ever divest. The brainwashing is very potent and it's coming from all sides of society. Too many people (Black men, Black women, non-Black people) are invested in keeping the current statu quo. The more I look at it, the more I realize it's a community-sized abuse relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 06:58 PM
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It's sadly slowly becoming a thing within the Afro American community because most Black men don't want to get married and instead aspire to collect as many baby mammas as they can as a badge of honor. Therefore, you see more and more Afrro American women proposing to scrotes because they're desperate to get married and they know their man is never going to wife them. Hence why that lady is dying to normalize this behavior. Beyond that, it's more or less normalized in the AA community that men d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 06:31 PM
25

I guess I'm going to upgrade to "I'm married" as excuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 11:25 AM
84

You should report him tbh or at least threaten to report him to the HR department for sexual harassment since you already said no FIVE TIMES.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 10:58 AM
7

Same but I would only give 50% for married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 12:48 AM
12

It doesn't matter. Men like the idea that maybeeee they have a chance with a woman, nevermind her being way above their league, from a different continent, speaking a rare language or from different income bracket/environment. Them being lesbians (and seemingly attractive) kill that idea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 12:34 AM
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Pretty sure a female sociopath's behavior is a normal man's behavior. It's not a secret that a ton of mental disorders' criteria change according to the sex. For example, women who have Asperger's display the same level of emotional intelligence as ordinary men while men who have Asperger's have no emotional intelligence at all. What is abnormal for a woman is normal for a man. And it's clear that the average man has narcissistic tendencies, I'd say the only difference with a full-blown narcissi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 12:14 AM
39

So he's cheating on his wife? OK got it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 11:37 AM
8

Is this supposed to be an insult lol?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 09:20 PM
41

Those yellow teeth...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 09:19 PM
18

I'm not surprised. She's a Republican spokesperson lol they hate any woman who refuses to submit to males.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 07:57 PM
54

The fact he has never dated a woman who's over 25 is a major red flag. Men don't only like young women because they're young, it's also because they don't know better and can be manipulated easily. 25 is usually the age where women wake up and see through men's BS, their brain is also fully developed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 07:29 PM
63

You shouldn't feel bad for her lol She had no problem hooking up with this guy while fully knowing he had a pregnant girlfriend at the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 07:27 PM
14

These age gap relationships...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 07:24 PM
12

He's absolutely NOT a pedo....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 07:23 PM
-6

Who?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 07:18 PM
63

I will forever thank FDS. Now I can see right through any BS. In the past, seeing this kind of conversation, I would just think the guy is into plants, maybe a hippie or something? But now I can tell he just wants to see if you're mommybangmaid material. His insistence is particularly creepy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 04:45 PM
23

I don't believe this lol this is a troll post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 01:21 PM
53

I'm starting to have less and less empathy for women who willingly put themselves into shitty situationships/relationships (except for the ones who were manipulated).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 01:18 PM
25

I'm going to watch this video everyday. 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 04:54 PM
114

Also "no drama" = pickme who will bend backwards to accommodate me and take my abuse without blinking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 02:32 PM
207

Men cheat because they want to cheat. It has nothing to do with their SO and everything to do with them. You can be gorgeous, fit, sexually active and still get cheated on. Look at Liz Hurley, Beyonce, Sienna Miller, Jackie Kennedy, Jennifer Lopez etc, each of them are a catch but still got cheated on. I'm tired of this misogynistic culture where everything that goes wrong is blamed on women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 02:18 PM
85

They have empathy for themselves and other men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 01:10 PM
222

It's now selfish for women to put their career first? Meanwhile not only men have never ever been expected to give up on their job to start a family but doing so is frowned upon. I'm tired.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 12:24 PM
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Of course but the attacks Meghan Markle get are mostly race-based. The narrative that the UK right wing media spun about her is very racist for anyone with discerning eyes. While Kate Middleton was mocked for being a forever girlfriend (Waity Katy) and a social climber, Meghan was demonized as a social climber AND a seductress, an uppity woman who thinks too highly of herself and every negative stereotype attached to Black women. So yes women get demonized for being women but WOC get a special b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 12:16 PM
147

More like: being a half-Black woman*
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 09:30 AM
158

It's remind me of the tweet "are you happy or are you the oldest daughter?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 08:01 AM
41

Congratulations 🎊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 07:57 AM
68

Dude sounds like a narcissist...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 12:04 AM
112

"I was 22, he was 38" aight imma head out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 10:40 PM
82

Yep, a lot of men are gold diggers. They're scamming women for free sex, maid services, food and shelter and they don't feel bad about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 05:32 PM
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This is why I don't take men who whine about gold diggers seriously. If given the chance, they would 100% take advantage of a woman and steal her money. Also these men keep saying that if they were a woman they would be a top gold digger. They're not offended by gold diggers, they're just mad they can't gold dig as easily as women and can't afford these women anyway lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 05:07 PM
15

You can't put "HVM" and "hook up" in the same sentence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 12:01 PM
6

I'd say wait a week to see if he offers you a new date and if not block.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 05:57 PM
2

In case you're an actual woman and not a male troll: you need a therapist, not a boyfriend. This whole post is a mess and you sound emotionally unstable. Sort your internal problems out before getting with a guy, I'm serious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 11:11 AM
3

I don't want to stigmatize but Pradhyuman is suspicious as hell lol I thought he just liked taking care of himself until I saw his doll collection lol And then I remember a lot of men are bisexual/pansexual/closeted gay, more men than we think...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 12:19 AM
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A man who puts down the women of his own race is a major red flag tbh. Don't feel flattered, it's not a real compliment if he's insulting other people while putting you on a pedestal. Too many women fall for this trick and end up burned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 12:16 AM
107

"they knew I knew they were ugly" Lmaooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 12:14 AM
74

The fact that most women and girls are pickmes who put themselves last and men first tell you everything about the widespread grooming going on. Women are literally brainwashed into abandoning their career and education for a man because it's a proof of how much they "love" him meanwhile I've never seen that BS for men. Also gold digging is bad but men using women for sex is A-OK. The truth is women have a lot of power and society (men AND women) works overtime to gaslight them so they believe t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 07:04 PM
46

I don't ask it because it'll be obvious to him that I'm going to Google him. Instead, I ask in which company he works at and I just try to find him on Linkedin to get his last name. It only works for men with white collar jobs tho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 06:33 PM
7

Anyone knows which movie is it? Lol I'm loving this energy. Ladies, let's not hold onto cheating men or be insecure whenever another woman is around. If you're insecure, you automatically lose. A man cheats because he wants to cheat, there's nothing you can do about it. Know your worth and act accordingly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 03:40 PM
8

They don't like being generalized as 'scary black men' but have no problem generalizing black women as 'angry'. Also BLM really means 'Black Male Lives Matter'. The amount of energy put behind protesting for a male victim vs a female victim is very telling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 03:33 PM
4

Yeah I recently learned about the sadly popular pairing of racist white men and self-hating Asian women. r/hapas go IN on them BTW. So many prominent neo nazis have Asian wives and Asian-looking sons (sons that they both hate and look down on) and this phenomenon will NOT end well (see Elliott Rodgers, an half-asian incel, who killed his college mates).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 03:23 PM
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Men will always tell on themselves, you just need to pay attention to their "jokes".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 02:07 PM
9

Interesting video but I dislike how she never takes into account that men wants to have sex with women first and then maaaaaybe they'll make them their girlfriend. She acts as if women are the only 'users' while men are innocent and really want to find the mother of their children. When men complain about 'dating being expensive', they mean 'pumping and dumping being expensive', really. This is the reason why they want to go Dutch, just so they can have sex with you for the lowest possible price…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 11:03 AM
58

Another proof that a man's future will always be above a woman's life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 09:48 AM
7

I will never understand why racist white men pursue women of color. Aside from enacting racist sexual acts... But some go as far as having half-POC children when they're all about preserving the "white race". They're not making sense at all and I'm starting to think they don't care that much about their 'beliefs', they just want to feel powerful and important through racism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 09:43 AM
10

Replace "dark skin" by "Black" and you have a white supremacist post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 09:32 AM
3

Great article explaining the different tests men (NVM, LVM and HVM alike) use to test women and know if she's either "booty call" material and "wifey material". I think everyone here should read this article and keep it in mind!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 06:14 PM
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I'm not surprised. Men always "stay on code" aka no matter what another man does, they're not going to criticize him. They'll either defend him or stay quiet. I wish we women were the same but alas we're divided.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 02:48 PM
34

Anyone else is low-key triggered when they're on a feminist sub and see a comment starting by "as a man"?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 05:42 AM
28

I personally believe they can have and know how to have normal sex, they just don't want to. For centuries, men had missionary sex with their wives but suddenly our generation of men can't have an intercourse without choking their sexual partner???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 05:25 AM
252

Men have a very narrow definition of 'shitty dudes' lol. Basically anyone that's not a murdering rapist is A-OK.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 04:15 AM
5

My top hubby is Kakashi from Naruto. I really went crazy for him during my teen years. I never thought about him using FDS but I'd say he's kinda high value? His background is super shady but he always did his best to protect the people around him and was a cool teacher. I don't have any other hubby but I did have a crush on 'cold' characters like Levi from Attack on Titan, Takumi from Nana, Zoro from One Piece, Hibari from Katekyo Hitman Reborn, Kurapika from Hunter x Hunter etc. Some of them a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 04:09 AM
1

Sorry if I'm new here Aye, you're clearly a newbie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 03:40 AM
167

It sums up men's existence vs women's existence. I never go on a date without telling a trusted friend and I always send the pic + name/info of the guy just in case I never come back...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 03:36 AM
15

Men really stick their dick everywhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 03:05 AM
36

Sadly many men hate women, if not misogyny wouldn't be so widespread and global.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 12:12 AM
164

I once read a comment saying that for a lot of men, sex is fetishized violence against women... Truer words haven't been spoken.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 11:43 PM
22

It depends on the woman and her tolerance to this BS. I personally would nope tf out and seize half the assets on my way to the exit but that's just me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 05:49 PM
26

A barn? Nah that's too clean sis, she should've sex in a pigsty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 04:58 PM
43

500+ upvotes... I don't even know what to say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 04:57 PM
15

OK I'll say something triggering to you: have you ever considered that those men might be crazy about performing oral sex on you BECAUSE you hate it? That they get off at the thought of you enduring whatever they're doing to you? You hate it yet you still submit to their will and still go through it. I honestly think this is what happened here. Like how many men no longer wanted anal sex when their SO started to enjoy it? How many men still coerced their SO into anal sex even though their SO rep…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 04:44 PM
2

I did hear about it but he's controversial among FDS' mods because he's giving advice for sugar babies/escorts/kept women while FDS is for women who want boyfriends and husbands. Personally, I think his advice is spot on. It's half escort know how he got from talking to them and half real talk about men's nature.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 04:35 PM
127

Legit all the male heroes' journey in books and TV shows/movies involve them getting character growth through the sufferings of a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 03:24 PM
94

A lot of women don't understand men's nature. They are hypersexual beings, sex is their raison d'être. Not saying allllll men cheat but most do, let's be real ladies. The thought of sticking their dick in something new is what makes them tick. Also some men admitted that while they don't cheat, they often imagine other women while having sex with their SO. Pro tip: if your man is closing his eyes while he's having sex with you or not looking at your face, he's imagining another woman (or man lol…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 02:41 PM
53

I found this video of a lesbian who give her takes on heterosexual men based on her "neutral" (neutral because she's not blinded by attraction) observation of them. I personally think every woman should look up takes on men from niche communities like sugar babies/escorts and lesbians because they have a different outlook/experience than the usual heterosexual woman. - Men are not attracted to women, they're attracted to femininity. For example, men can be attracted to feminine drag queens (who …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 11:59 AM
10

Wow I didn't know that about Hugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 09:11 AM
13

There was a Republican politician Steve King who said that abortion should be outlawed for every case including incest rape because we are all born from incest rapes so if it was enforced back then we wouldn't exist today. While I obviously disagree with his political stance, he didn't lie about everyone's family's trees having rapists and rape victims in it. Just thinking about that makes me sick. You just know no culture in the world isn't exempt from that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 02:33 AM
32

Considering how men are obsessed with each other's opinions and dicks, this thread is very interesting to read. I have some theories but I'll keep it to myself lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 02:25 AM
24

"His women clients in his Facebook group seem stuck in stereotypical romantic fantasies about men" Most women are brainwashed since birth about the true nature of men. Even here you have plenty of FDS ladies who are in denial and find weird excuses/deflections. 1st fact: Men's main motivation in life is SEX. 2nd fact: Men only respect, like as a equal human being and look out for other men. It's honestly the truth. Men are obsessed with each other. Almost everything they do, they do it so other …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 02:16 AM
2

Male fragile ego is real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 09:54 PM
24

You can do that every time he tries to future fake about dating, having children, getting married, etc. If he says "I wonder what our children will look like", you answer "I personally never thought of that". Basically every time you talk about future plans with him, you don't include HIM in your speech. Instead of saying "I would love to get married to you", you say "I would love to get married to someone one day". And if he picks this clue up, you shrug and say that you don't know where this i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 09:43 PM
26

Too many women on this sub are unwilling to open their eyes and screech an excuse but you're right. This is their true nature. When you realize that, their behavior as a collective makes sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 09:30 PM
9

I have to disagree. Lots of kids from single mother households have mental health problems, especially the boys. The kids often reproduce the situation later in life with the girls becoming single mothers and the sons abandoning their family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 07:42 PM
15

They are so obvious - to the FDS lady. They just throw out some libfem buzzword "wE'rE aLl EqUaLs" just so he can justify why he's a cheap ass lol And sadly, women fall for it. They literally use the tobacco trick aka "women who smoke are real rebels and about to bring down patriarchy!!!" for dating and that ish works. And you're spot on about them "dating down" meaning for men "dating down in looks" lmaooo this is so transparent I can't even with these scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 06:04 PM
37

Men do not look out for women - they look out for themselves and fellow men. Basically, all their advice are only beneficial to MEN. The only persons who are going to give you the real tea are (ex) sugar babies, high-end escorts and wives of affluent men who come from a normal background. They truly have some game and the best tips, for example: SheraSeven1.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 05:49 PM
27

I stumbled on this video and holy moly! They're lying through their teeth for 15 minutes straight. 80% of the video is these three men brainwashing women into going 50/50 or straight up paying for everything. Around 7min: - One of the coaches says that it's important to him that women offer to pay for the dinner even though he's always paying for everything because it shows that she doesn't expect him to pay for everything. He even says: "someone who expects to go to a $500 dinner and this guy i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 05:45 PM
16

He 100% has a mistress. No man would randomly spend $15k unless he's a multimillionaire and if he does, he wouldn't lie about what he bought with that money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 03:58 PM
83

Lmaooo men would be f*cking triggered!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 03:49 PM
8

What the hell, this is horrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 02:23 AM
19

She said "it takes time to find the right person" and it's the right mindset to have. Don't rush into dating, it's a marathon not a sprint. Take your time to find your SO. Also going on dates is supposed to be fun so enjoy yourself!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 06:39 PM
16

You should start by reading the handbook. OP, it's not a good thing to judge other women for how they dress. Dressing modestly doesn't make you better and showing skin doesn't make you trash. This kind of mindset is dangerous. Men don't really care about fashion and they don't date women based on how they dress, if not Leandra Medine from ManRepeller wouldn't be happily married lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 10:32 PM
68

These women are 'male identified' aka they act and think as if they're men and any woman who disses men disses HER too. I just roll my eyes and let them be. They want to act against their own interest, that's their problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 10:18 PM
7

He sounds like a narcissist. Sis, run away tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 10:07 PM
8

This post is weird, it has nothing to do with FDS??? Please take this energy to r/conservative.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 09:57 PM
7

Lmao right? If there are leaders of BLM, it's Black women, who doesn't know that? Even major publications just put drawings of Black women when they talk about BLM lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 09:56 PM
19

This message can't be real???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 04:08 PM
71

Damn. I legit took a step back reading this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 03:34 PM
30

Even before FDS, I would drop guys who act like this (in both scenarios). No one likes feeling desperate for someone when we're 7 billion people on Earth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 02:28 PM
61

Lmao that fight is lost from the start.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 02:06 PM
23

Has r/seduction always been like this? Last time I checked they were basically r/pickupartist. I feel like I'm reading a FDS thread, wow!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 02:03 PM
5

Lmao I can't even. This is LVM in a nutshell. They demand that you were sexy clothes for them but the minute you ask them to buy those clothes, they're backing out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 12:53 PM
19

Men really think all they need is height. Nah bro, this is just the first criteria for a lot of women. You're not here yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 12:49 PM
41

It's always wild to me how men forget ALL THE TIME that unless they're young, handsome, tall and fit (with all their hair), they're not going to have a bunch of supermodels lining up to jump in their bed. They refuse to commit because they think they're going to miss out on 50 one night stands but once they're single/in an open relationship, they struggle to even get 5 matches and the circle starts again. I really don't get this. Are they suffering from amnesia? Delusion?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 12:47 PM
69

Imagine jeopardizing your future just so you can make a viral tweet? I will never relate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 12:15 PM
2

They just invest their "liberty" aka not being able to bang every woman they want when realistically most - if not all - of these women don't want to sleep with them even if these men paid them lol. That's why most of them get married in first place: because they can't get regular one night stands with attractive women so they're settling with their current girlfriend to have regular, free sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 11:59 AM
22

100 to 1 lbr. And most of the women who kill men kill them to defend themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 11:40 AM
4

It's always the men who are 30+ yo with a woman under 30.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 10:47 AM
34

You don't have to show men ish. Men already know what women are worth. That's why so many of them say we live life on "easy mode" or that if they were a woman they would make a lot of money off men. Because they themselves know how desperate men are to have a "woman" and how they can't survive without one. Meanwhile, only pickmes with low self-esteem have this mindset towards men. This is just bait to get pickmes to do wifey stuffs without having to commit legally to them. If a guy ever tries th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 10:42 AM
26

I knew a girl in the same situation. Her father was abusive and beating her mom until she finally found the strength to leave. He found where she was hiding 1 year later and killed her in a parking lot before shooting himself in the head... He left a letter where he said he didn't kill his ex-wife, he took her with him. There was also a guy who witnessed everything and poor dude had to go see a psychiatrist. I feel so bad for her because she started having eating disorders etc... And she was onl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 08:19 AM
20

Is this the new neg scrotes found to scare off newcomers? Why are they so uncreative? Please come up with new terms than 'female mgtow' or 'female incel'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 08:10 AM
17

Same. My dad is literally a ZVM psychopath/sociopath. I'm just grey rocking him and living as far away from him as possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 12:20 AM
29

Another man said "You never hear about women having crazy ex boyfriends because the ones who have one are dead".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 08:27 AM
23

Or if he calls 'toxic' since that's the new buzzword.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 08:25 AM
11

Lmao right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 03:29 PM
25

His description is a reference to the show Tiger King. The man who said that is a gay ZVM...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 09:26 AM
64

It's fascinating how scrotes are the same throughout history. Look at them drawing the Suffragettes as 'ugly spinsters' because of course no attractive woman would like to vote. It's really a cope for them to imagine the women they hate are ugly lol. Anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 09:24 AM
14

It's underpaid sex work. Even if one is desperate for money, you're better off being a waitress or flipping burgers at McDonald's than selling your body to a cheap scrote. The money sex workers make is not worth it compared to the trauma they get out of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 11:12 PM
5

Ewwww
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 11:07 PM
10

Is it for real?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 10:51 PM
9

THANK YOU. I didn't even know this option existed. I keep receiving creepy messages from angry incels and I'm tired of reading their nonsense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 10:49 PM
32

They just don't like anything 'womanly' because they don't respect women. So of course they won't respect or even like what a mere female likes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 08:25 PM
54

Lmao "Davida".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 08:24 PM
15

Yeah suuuuuure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 08:23 PM
10

How is it NOT from The Onion?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 05:51 PM
95

Never pursue a man, honestly don't do it. Why? Because men are able to have sex, date, marry, even have children with women they're not into. They more often than not do not turn down women they're not interested in because it's easy sex they didn't have to work for. However, the minute they see someone they truly like, they're going to dump you for that woman and pursue her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 04:03 PM
62

The saddest part is that she's only 18.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 03:58 PM
59

They're empty on the inside, that's why. Why else so many men talk about wanting a woman to fill the void 'inside of them'? And why so many women feel like their SO is absorbing their energy? It's because they are...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 03:30 AM
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1) It's not a date 2) Don't message him. The fact you had a coffee date shows he's not interested in a relationship with you, just want to bone you (because he's reluctant to spend more than $2 on a date with you so he's not investing to get you, he's thinking short term not long term) 3) Read the handbook 4) If you still want to see him, no more low effort cheap dates. If he refuses, then he really just wants to get into your pants and discard you for the lowest possible price.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 03:01 AM
36

It doesn't matter Nigel, these 17 years olds won't ever look your way except if it's to indicate to the security where the creep is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 02:57 AM
118

They're delusional. They know they age like milk. Why else would they suddenly become crazy about marriage once they're 28-35 yo when before they acted like a relationship was comparable to jail time? They realize they're going to have 1 hookup every 2 years so they're desperate to secure one woman they can have sex with regularly without paying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 02:52 AM
24

Nah, pump and dump is the best outcome. The worst is that he shackles her to him and get her to be his personal bangmaid while he casually abuses her kid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 02:49 AM
3

It's too late if you had sex with him before he committed to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 02:45 AM
33

They love to prey on them tho since they're more vulnerable (and they think, more desperate) than a childless woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 02:41 AM
290

He's not joking. Men always say what's on their mind and then backtrack by saying it's a joke when they see the horror on your face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 02:39 AM
62

I cackled SO HARD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 01:17 AM
26

You stop caring when you realize you have no control over what men think. Just accept that this is how most of them are and most of them will not and don't want to change. Once you get that you should only focus on things that are within your control, you honestly stop caring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 06:34 PM
15

I refuse to believe this is happening in 2020.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 05:24 PM
31

Only broke and cheap ass men call someone's else a gold digger. If you look up the rates of escorts and psychologists, you'll know who's the gold digger between the two of you. Also, read the handbook please.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 05:22 PM
26

It's time to run sis. I'm serious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 05:15 PM
69

Because men don't befriend women they wouldn't want to bone - or if they don't want to bone them, they want to bone their friends (and thus gain access to these women through this female 'friend'). If you don't believe me, go offer sex to one of your single male friend. I'm 100% certain he would say yes in a heartbeat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 05:12 PM
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20F, 20M In a relationship for a year Had a baby together Not married, just dating Man verbally abuses her while she's giving birth Mom is the traditional type and advises her to cOmMuNiCaTe first Oh boy. I have a lot to say on this but honestly I'm too tired to type out anything. May she escape one day, also I pray for their kid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 05:06 PM
37

One more year and you can become a doctor, wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 12:42 AM
17

She honestly should propose so this couple can finally break up since she's hell bent on staying with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 12:41 AM
91

She clearly has some unresolved daddy issues and shoot down anyone telling her to run. Oh well, she'll eventually wake up and realize she's being taken advantage of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 11:26 PM
2

Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 11:25 PM
56

LMAO men really hate they can't control women and own their bodies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 11:23 PM
72

He'll most probably leave her for the youngest woman he can find and then marry her within a year. Watch. The good sis won't leave him, not when she's "only" starting to resent him 9 years into the relationship for not proposing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 11:22 PM
16

Just like the movies "Sex Friends" and "Friends With Benefits" were produced and written by men. I blame those two movies for normalizing situationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 11:20 PM
26

I read a comment the other day on FDS about how most women never find out what they truly like sexually and that comment is still with me...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 11:19 PM
67

Not surprised. Some men really don't want to pay child support.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 11:10 PM
28

Lmao she's going to wait her entire lifetime for this ring unless dude figures out he can't do better than her and begrungingly settle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 06:32 PM
34

This conversation is messy and both of you look bad. Don't engage, it's better to just block and delete than having this kind of embarrassing showdowns.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 06:29 PM
25

Just look up "onlyfans" on Google News. ALL the articles on this company talk about how "empowering" is it to post explicit pictures of yourself and risk your life, corporate career and reputation for $5 from a pornsick scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 02:05 PM
1

It's a Friend's reference, Ross (aka top tier LVM) said this to Rachel: https://youtube.com/watch?v=-aaFi9QrS_Y
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 09:58 AM
169

Men always have each other's backs. It's one thing you have to praise them for. Wish it was the same for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 10:08 PM
62

That thread is truly full of narcissists. You hate to see it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 09:08 PM
80

This story disgusts me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 09:05 PM
28

Onlyfans is mostly owned by Leonid Ravinsky, a man who owns some businesses involved in email scamming... He got sued by Amazon and Microsoft: https://news.microsoft.com/2004/09/28/amazon-com-microsoft-team-against-online-fraud/ This Onlyfans website won't end well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 07:47 PM
56

The day I understood that was the day I became fully jaded. Romcoms are a crime against women. They really show lesbian relationships using a man and a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 07:35 PM
72

I legit think the way most boys are educated and socialized turn them into narcissists. How come so many of them are empty on the inside but most women can't relate?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 07:34 PM
37

This is textbook narcissist talk. The whole thing about wanting to 'fill the void' by seeking love and attention is legit what narcissists do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 07:31 PM
15

For him*
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 09:31 PM
18

Nah, I blocked him after that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 09:17 PM
69

Men can't even talk about their mental health to EACH OTHER. Meanwhile, they have no problem showing nude pics of their wife and mother of their children to their friends. Make it make sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 08:56 PM
68

White wine + chocolate = $20 at most Street hooker = at least $30 for a blowjob This is why the FDS handbook is against hookups, it's a scam. Never believe men when they tell you women are the gold diggers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 08:53 PM
14

Because he wants to have her in his home so they have sex. Since she needs to be in love to show up at his apartment, he's sweating because for him it means she needs to be in love to have sex with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 06:35 PM
5

Just so you know many men put pictures of them with dogs or cats because they get more matches like this. A gross huge scrote told me this one day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 02:51 PM
105

This! They also have no problem blackmailing their girlfriend for sex. LMAO so many men are crying about having to "beg" for a quickie. Sir, we women don't owe you sex. Go cry elsewhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 11:23 AM
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He's right. Men don't owe women money, just like women don't owe men sex and emotional labour. Else, the relationship is unequal and the woman is actually losing. Why? Because most of the time, sex is not pleasurable for women, it's either boring or painful. As for emotional labour performed by women, it's rarely reciprocated by men. So really what do we get out of a relationship like that if the man goes 50/50 on everything unless he suddenly decides to do something for you "from the good of hi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 11:18 AM
28

Thank you. I cried reading that before being dumbfounded. A lot of the things you talk about not wanting are standard in heterosexual relationship such as having sex with a man and never come or expecting him to get you off and then not masturbating in front of him. We're conditioned not to expect good sex from men and just accept selfish lackluster performance from them when they would leave us if they were in our feet. Same for all the men who don't take no for an answer. The ones who make der…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 08:36 AM
11

*Free cam girls
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 12:20 AM
19

As if there's any gold to dig!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 12:19 AM
11

He got mad because you started to cost more than an escort lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 05:16 PM
95

They want women in their 20's to panic and have a kid with the first 57 years old creeping over them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 02:30 PM
32

She better have an Onlyfans to promote or else it's embarrassing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 11:01 PM
3

Only broke dusties would get mad at her lol. Men who have money wouldn't even know what an Applebee's is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 10:01 PM
131

FWB is such a scam word. First of all, these scrotes are shit friends. Second, there's no benefits at getting STDs and bad sex without financial compensation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 08:57 AM
233

Most big hits by female artists are Pickme propaganda. The ones that are pinkpilled are famous for that because they break away from the norm, ex: Dua Lipa's New Rules or Lizzo's Truth hurts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 08:54 AM
149

He's not joking sis. He wants and will choke you if you let him. Block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 03:44 PM
15

Future wife killer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 03:43 PM
30

He's so full of shit omg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 10:51 PM
73

He's a tall attractive black athlete while she's the 'ugly' Kardashian sister. A bodyguard won't get her the external validation she so desperately seek. A black stallion will.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 09:39 PM
24

She got what she paid for 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 09:06 PM
69

Sis should launch her own clown makeup line! Let's go Klown Cosmetics!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 09:04 PM
8

I'm getting some serious serial killer/rapist vibes from this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 05:49 PM
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Because they don't care about women's pleasure, they only care about their peepee. Go look every topic on r/sex about women not being satisfied by their SO. It's full of men complaining that satisfying women is hard, how they should cOmMuNiCaTe about what they like etc. At the end of the day, they know that they don't need to make any effort to get their SO off, they only need to beg and wore them out so they'll open their legs and let them masturbate inside of them. And if they refuse, they bre…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 05:04 PM
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The young women who date those old scrotes were either groomed into it or are in it for the money and once they bled them dry, they're out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 04:01 PM
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You won't get respect for being pretty from men HOWEVER most of them will treat you respectfully in hope you'll open your legs for them. That's really it. Beauty can get you much farther than ugliness, but you will never gain humanity from that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 03:41 PM
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Because pegging = gay sex. They're against adopting a 'gay' behavior, not the act in itself. The men who want to be pegged have some serious self esteem issues and enjoy being 'degraded' (because anything 'gay' is degrading to your average heterosexual man). You never see them bragging about being dominated by their wives but they're loud about doggy style and blowjobs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 03:33 PM
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Also, here's to hoping she's not "suicidal" like he was... Lmaooooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 03:11 PM
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Men can be romantic though but they are romantic not because they want to but to further a goal. Could be to keep the relationship together, could be to make their SO happy so she'll put out without him having to beg. If they're not dating yet, it's to get in her pants. The men that aren't doing any romantic gesture is because either they're with a pickme SO who will put up with everything or they easily get sex without having to woo women. Notice how on OLD the men who usually make an effort to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 03:05 PM
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I agree with everyone except wanting quantity over quality. Men want quantity AND quality given the chance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 02:39 PM
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Forget about it if you don't want to be settled for. The men on Bumble are lazy LVM who want to get free pussy on a silver platter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 02:37 PM
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As long as he's ugly and poor and/or fat, he'll say yes because he knows he can't ask out the woman of his dreams anyway. Unless he gets rich or 'shop' for her in a much poorer country.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 02:36 PM
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I'm loving how women on social media are more and more calling LVM out and getting thousands of likes for that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 01:20 PM
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Men frame marriage as a trap for them and drag their feet to commit to a girlfriend so women get desperate and turn into pickmes for the ring and/or status. But in reality, women don't need men, men are the ones who need women. Just compare wgtow with mgtow. The former are living their best life, leveling up and chasing their dreams while the latter are depressed and spewing hate all over Reddit/Facebook/Twitter. Women can have a family without men, they can have children, they can tend to their…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 01:08 PM
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He's mad he can't compare to her right hand. Dump him and upgrade to a magic wand sis 😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 10:48 AM
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About the 'true deep love' bit, the author talks about that, I just didn't mention it. He said that men are capable of love but their love is different from a woman's. A man doesn't love like a woman does. And yes, he can crave for a deep connection and love but he will crave for sex first. Stop sleeping with your boyfriend/husband and you'll see that the relationship will start crumbling. r/deadbedrooms is the testament of that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 10:46 AM
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Wtf is the left pic???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 09:56 AM
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It's an ego and a status thing. They want what's the most popular type. In the Renaissance up to the 19th century, it was fair-skinned chubby women who were considered the 'hottest' so they pursued those women. Now racially ambiguous IG models are the rage so they want them the most. They want what will make them look like 'winners' in the eyes of other men and society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 09:54 AM
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You can check his previous girlfriends or ask him who's in his opinion the prettiest female celebrity (of course, be discreet). You will never truly know if he's really into you or settling into you until he breaks up with you (or not). The only solution is to stay one foot in one foot out. Don't get too attached to him and always judge him by his acts, not his words. There are women who get dumped 20 years into their marriage, when they get a cancer, when they get raped etc. Also don't forget t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 09:26 AM
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The one thing every woman should do is to never be emotionally invested with a guy before he commits. If you don't care about him and don't care if he doesn't make you his girlfriend, then if he dumps you after having sex with you will hurt a lot less. The same is true for a relationship. Don't give your all to you boyfriend, only give 30% of your energy. Have one foot in, one foot out because that's how men do. Actually, they only want to date and marry women that don't want to date or marry th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 09:15 AM
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Lmao this dude just wanted to nuke the competition. I don't know him or your relationship but I feel like he knows you can do better so he's taking you out of the dating pool before you realize that. For your question, first of all, you should check if you're his type (check, don't listen to what he says because men have no problems with lying). Then, just look at the way he treats you, not what he says to you. Does he treat you in a special way or is he focused on stuffs you can do for him aka …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 09:07 AM
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It's okay to go to his house if you're dating but don't start doing wifey stuffs like cooking for him etc. You're his girlfriend, not his wife or his mother. Also a guy wanting to commit to you fast is not necessarily a good thing. More often than not it's a red flag because those men just want a girlfriend, not you in particular, any woman who's willing would do. And why? Because they get regular free sex and emotional labor from a girlfriend. The fact that he said to you he wants a woman and n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 08:59 AM
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Sucks to be treated like a woman, huh?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 08:56 AM
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You just know he's a pedophile who settled for her because the government won't let him molest 5 years olds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 08:35 AM
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He's going to say yes to you so he can get free sex and emotional support but the minute a woman he's actually into looks his way, he's going to dump you before you can even BLINK.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 08:34 AM
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It's honestly better to be clear-headed than living in a fake fantasy. At least, you won't get played and will adopt the right strategies, the ones from which you truly benefit. But yeah, now that I know the truth, I realize this world is bleak.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 08:26 AM
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"Also about putting women in the fuckable and unfuckable category I disagree, every woman fits the fuckable category, it’s the effort and what circumstances the man will do it with her in ." Someone in the previous post brought this point and I answered this: For the fuckable vs unfuckable, what the author means is in terms of TREATMENT. They're going to be nice or at least do the bare minimum for a girl they find attractive (because you never know, he might one day have sex with her so let's no…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 07:58 AM
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I messaged the mods and they didn't answer me yet. I think either it has been mass reported by LVM and pickmes or it's the work of the mods. I'll resubmit it again I guess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 07:30 AM
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Sis, this book is the RUDEST experience I had in a long time. And the "even your own father" bit is not the only rude truth in that book. I can't write down every shit in this book that made me gasp, y'all need to read it yourself. Those $9 are worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 07:26 PM
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To answer your questions: For the fuckable vs unfuckable, what the author means is in terms of TREATMENT. They're going to be nice or at least do the bare minimum for a girl they find attractive (because you never know, he might one day have sex with her so let's not burn bridges!). Women they don't find attractive will be ignored at best, treated like the dirtiest piece of garbage at worst. Of course, they prefer 10/10 girls but they're OK with having sex with a 5/10, heck even a 3/10 could get…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 07:21 PM
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Hypergamy is the only way. If you want to date a man, date a man that brings something to the table. They get free sex, free therapy, free baby making machine etc. What do YOU get from the deal? That's why FDS is the only strategy where women truly benefit. Marriage is and has always been a transaction. Women were traded in exchange of goods back in the day. Now they're traded in exchange of NOTHING. It's time to burn all those Disney fairytale DVDs and swallow that blackpill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 07:01 PM
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It's how they really think, it's their set up. They're born like that, it has nothing to do with culture, socialization and all that jazz. It's their nature. Even back in the olden days, men would fantasize about how women look naked. See: all the Renaissance paintings etc. Porn just made things worse because pornsick men can't differentiate reality from fantasy. They see porn scenarios everywhere and are obsessed with degrading acts that were illegal in the 14th century lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 06:56 PM
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Oh. I never really checked that sub, only liked the name. Funny how actual 17th century witches would side eye them. Anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 02:41 AM
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I call this sub r/clown_advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 01:37 AM
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Real talk. The homoeroticism among toxic hetero 'no homo' men is amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 01:36 AM
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r/WitchesVsPatriarchy/ is where the fun is! 🙌🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 01:34 AM
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Do you plan to divorce him in the future or are you waiting for him to send you the divorce papers? Because if you're waiting for him, you might wait for another decade - he's only going to leave you once/if he secures your replacement. If he can't trap the youngest pickmeisha he can find, he'll stick around and try to play games so you continue to act as his bangmaid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 11:58 PM
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So he got with you at 26 when you were 19. OK. I know you won't listen until it's too late but he's a pedophile, run! The reason why he got with you is because you're naive and don't know better. Meanwhile, women his age know his tricks and won't fall for it. Also why did he go on a Miami trip the weekend of Valentine's Day and why didn't he spend that special weekend with you? You don't go to Miami with 2 friends just to drink some beers at a bar. I'm almost certain he cheated on you there and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 11:21 PM
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I don't think it's a red flag. Honestly I don't think men should always be the ones to take initiatives. Of course, for the first date, it should be absolutely him but you're on the 3rd date already. If you like dinner dates, then offer a restaurant you would like to try. If you've been at an Italian and Chinese restaurants, offer him to go to that new Korean BBQ place where you can grill your own meat etc. It's very important that you also get to do what you want to do. You shouldn't always do …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 11:14 PM
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He means that he doesn't want one night stands, he wants a situationship where he gets to have sex whenever he's bored, do activities for couples from time to time while not having to commit or do boyfriend stuffs like getting her gifts on her birthday and Valentine's Day. Shallow is a code for one-time hookups with no girlfriend experience. Either this or he's bullshitting, pretending to Not bE lIkE tHe OtHeR gUyS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 10:13 PM
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A fuck buddy who gives him the girlfriend experience without the commitment bit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 09:22 PM
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That man will leave you once you help him level up for his 'dreamgirl'. The dog will stay and be forever thankful and loyal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 11:57 AM
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They get paid while we lose our time, money and energy for some smegma pencil dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 11:38 AM
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It's the oldest trick in the book: Push and pull.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 11:24 AM
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😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 06:21 AM
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I promise you this: he thinks your boundaries are a challenge to be won and is going to try again and again to push those boundaries until you either ghost him or you give in to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 05:29 AM
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Same. They say they want a relationship and then 2 minutes later ask for nude pics or free cam girl work for the boldest lol. When you call them out, they try to gaslight you and feed you more BS about having to see your body before a date to see if you're compatible romantically lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 05:20 AM
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There are 3.5 billion men in this world and not all of them go for the feminine woman, some prefer girls with a punkish style and tattoos, some like boho girls with a nose ring, some prefer tomboys etc. Just like women don't all go for the gym rat 6ft tall guy and can be into different types. Adopt the style you're comfortable in, the style you love and gives you confidence. If there's one style all HVM love it's this one: a confident woman. As for building up your confidence, you can find some …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 05:13 AM
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BLOCK. HIM. He has ghosted you twice already, he's going to ghost you until you finally block him for good and he can't creep back. If he truly wanted you, he would fight hard to have you, not play some shitty push and pull mind games (which he's clearly doing, make no mistake) so you'll put up with everything he wants to do to you (spoiler: it's abusive shit). This is incel TRP tactic, run away unless you're willing to bend backwards so he uses you up and then throws you away once he's done wit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 05:02 AM
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Lmao translation: I use this app as a free escort service just like 99% of the men here but I'm going to pretend I'm different and really just want to chill with you. However, if you actually want to have bad sex, possible pregnancy and STDs for free, I'm also down for it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 04:50 AM
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They banned r/pornfreerelationships and that was even more tame than FDS so...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 04:47 AM
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You spend at least 1 hour to dress up cute and get your $200 makeup and $80 haircut right and then show up for him when you have 10+ more options and he's asking you to go Dutch when he's struggling to even get 3 matchs? Nah bro, not in this economy. There are women (and not even top model level, just cute chicks with confidence) who get paid just to eat with some guys and you think I'm going to pay for my meal and then follow you to your basement at your mom's house to have soulless sex on your…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 04:21 AM
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Even if I was broke, so what? There are countless non broke men who would gladly pay for my meal. Why should I date someone who can't even afford to pay $50 for a meal for two? Dude is struggling to survive and thinks his priority should be dating lol. Anyway, fellow newbies, just remember that only broke men and/or cheapstakes complain about paying for your $25 plate at Applebee's. Just like only incels complain about women's high standards, short men about women who like men who are 6ft tall e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 04:02 AM
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Just direct her to FDS while it's still up tbh. She won't get any helpful advice on that clown sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 03:11 AM
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They're bullshittting. They're just trying to pay the least possible and do the least to get access to your coochie. Hence why the 'come over to chill' "date" being so popular with these scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 02:34 AM
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Lmao @ this scrote pretending to own a property and still having money for a secondary home in this economy. Sure Jan. Unless he's a banker or a trust fund kid, that's a bold lie that even a pickmeisha would see through.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 02:30 AM
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Unless they're the top model types tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:25 AM
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Lmao my answer to all these 'my husband is turning me/pissing me off' is get a divorce. But I know they'll stay until he either leaves them for a younger pickme or he eventually crosses her bottom line and she has no choice but to leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:24 AM
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Not wanting to be a free prostitute = hate speech for your average scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:22 AM
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He's negging and lying to you. Trust me, if he had 10 million dollars on his bank account, he would pursue a bikini model, not a cute girl next door. Every time a guy says he prefers 'simple girls', it's a code to say he wants girls who allow him to do the bare minimum while he expects her to shoulder everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:19 AM
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Lmao at the end only r/feminism and those subs that teach women how to be exploited by broke dusties will stay up and you know exactly why.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:07 AM
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Yup, you just know Reddit's scrote developers are sweating at this sub getting some real traction. They can't wait to nuke it. Meanwhile, r/TRP and other similar subs can stay up forever because they give 'real' advice to 'real' men and only serve tea on hateful women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:03 AM
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I can't believe those subs are still up while r/blackpillfeminism got banned but at the same time I can. Scrotes gotta scrote smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 12:55 AM
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I'm heartbroken 😢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 12:48 AM
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Omg but why????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 12:44 AM
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Thanks a lot sis! Have you considered publishing it or something so it gets traction outside of FDS?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 12:39 AM
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He thinks that because he's a doctor, he can LARP as McSteamy and be able to have one night stands even in his 80's. LMAO, pickmeishas who want to be a doctor's wife (which he's clearly advertizing for) will swoon over him but that's it. Most male doctors are assholes anyway and think they're actual Gods and treat female patients and co-workers like shit. That's why if I can, I only go to female doctors especially if I have to do a surgery (because in my country, there was a big #metoo scandal a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 09:57 PM
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He can't afford to date so he's trying to gold dig a pickmeisha. Hopefully no woman hate herself enough to slave away for this scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 05:11 PM
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pukes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 02:20 AM
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I need the term 'sexonlyzoned' to take off because this shit is so true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 12:58 AM
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Men are so fragile. Who is the emotional sex again?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 12:11 AM
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Lmao this scrote wrote this: "I've wasted several years in a bad LTR, broke up a few years ago. In the last few years, I tried to make up for it by having a few hookups from Tinder (less than 10). I'm 5'9", with average looks. After the breakup, I had to improve all aspects of my life, and I think I've reached a peak (good style, in shape, career is on track). Still, none of the girls I hooked up with were above average looking. " So he's a 4/10 AT BEST (because we know men overestimate their at…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 11:32 PM
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This is the mindset of a future rapist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 11:26 PM
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I feel dirty just by looking at him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 10:22 PM
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Yes, lbr every cryptic criteria can be boiled down to "she must be down to fuck".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 10:09 PM
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Great post. On the colors bit, I would like to add that one should ABSOLUTELY find their skin undertones. There are 3 different types of skin undertones: warm, cool and neutral. Your skin undertone determines which colors compliment your skin complexion and which colors don't. Since I found my skin undertones, everything I wear looks good on me because the colors (and the shape which is perfect for my body type) are flattering on me. Take the time to do all the tests to find it and I assure you …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 01:32 PM
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They're just mad because they can't find women willing to open their purses to have some soulless and painful dry humping with them lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 03:17 PM
10

Jesus Christ.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 12:22 AM
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I'd say leeches instead because incubus provide sexual pleasure meanwhile LVM just masturbate into you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 07:44 AM
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Funny how he told her to lower her expectations in the same breath he said she needs to change. As usual, it's the woman who has to change when the man is the one in the wrong. But glad she ended him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 03:50 PM
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TwoX illustrates liberal feminism at its finest: the sub is called two x chromosomes but is overrun by and focuses on xy individuals. This is what you get when your priority is banning dissenting women and allowing men to talk over everyone because you're not a ~man-hating~ sub and you're willing to bend backwards so men accept your sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 07:52 AM
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Can you make a post of all the red pill men's strategies? I'm really interested in learning those.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 08:41 PM
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First of all, you're not dating since you're not exclusive, more like a situationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 07:32 AM
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It's secretly his wet dream to be a home husband aka a useless bum who lives off a poor woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 09:13 PM
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Except those 'home husbands' are usually couch bums who spend their whole day playing video games, masturbating and leaving behind them piles of dirty dishes and clothes for their breadwinning wives to clean once they're back from a long day at work. So much for gender roles being reversed. More like men not even doing the bare minimum anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 07:51 PM
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4*. You forgot to include him in the list of kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 08:07 AM
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I honestly hope that you will dump him and run away asap. Just because he's a doctor and is 'respectful' on paper doesn't mean that he's a HVM. Just the fact that he's 28 and is chasing after a 20 years old woman makes him low value. You're not at the same stage and level as him. While you're probably in college or at least trying to start a career, he's already a doctor and is old enough to settle down and start a family. The fact that he's not looking for women his age and at his level shows h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 04:12 PM
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Yassss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 10:53 AM
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r/relationship_advice scrote: hAvE yOu TrIeD cOmMuNiCaTiNg?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 07:10 AM
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She refused a top 5 business school (EM Lyon) to go to an unknown business school and basically sabotaged herself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 08:39 PM
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u/watchyourspeed is absolutely right on the fact that there are 2 types of Pickmeishas. The naive, harmless type that is the product of a misogynistic society/environment and the dangerous, potentially mentally ill Pickmeishas. Sadly, just like you OP, I ran into a dangerous Pickmeisha. She wasn't as bad as yours but she was still way too much and I wouldn't be surprised if she turns like yours in the future (she's in her early 20's atm). Not only she was bending backwards towards all of her exe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 07:32 PM
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Nope. I'm from France and we both went through 2 years of prep school to pass a difficult competitive exam for selective business and engineering schools. Once you refuse a school, it's over. And she already enrolled to the shitty school and paid part of her yearly non-refundable tuition by the time her NVM boyfriend dumped her soooo. Basically she played herself and hasn't learned anything from that because she recently ditched a job opportunity to stay in the same city as her boyfriend... Who …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 03:14 PM
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Eh these are not the worst. The worst movies/TV shows are the teen stuffs where the girl drops a Ivy League uni (usually Harvard or Yale) to follow her shitty high-school boyfriend to his no-name state university and it's framed as the ~deepest proof of love~ and not a girl literally throwing away a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity for a relationship that may or may not work out. Sadly, because of this trope, so many women got brainwashed into thinking that giving up on prime education for their s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 11:40 AM
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Do what you want sis but that's a big fat no for me. Dude clearly has a racial fetish (he has a whole tumblr full of white women ffs) and was raised in a culture that doesn't value women. Sure, he's out here saying he loves cleaning and cooking duties should be split but never believe what a man says, believe what a man does. He is also hinting at sex whilst saying he wants a serious relationship, sorry but it doesn't add up. Anyway I'd advise you to run and not waste your time on this scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 11:25 AM
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I'm tired of all these AITA stories about a girl in her early 20's being emotionally abused by her 30+ yo boyfriend and then asking if she's the asshole in the relationship. I don't even have the strength to say 'dump him', I no longer care. Stay if you want to stay, leave whenever you wake up on your own. You cannot save everyone from themselves and some people need to go through years of shitty relationships to wake up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 09:32 AM
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Truly pathetic and self-aware apparently or else why would he try to frame her new boyfriend as petty? I knew this whole story of the new guy sending him pics was fishy. Like how does he even know your phone number/social media accounts?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 01:02 AM
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LMAO she's textbook Serena Joy from The Handmaid's Tale. Advocating for stripping women of their rights and then when she realizes she's lumped in the women's group and therefore being stripped of HER rights, she cries herself to sleep at night.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 10:17 PM
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Wow, I'm speechless. I don't even know what to say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 10:12 PM
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r/relationship_advice men: hAvE yOu TrIeD cOmMuNiCaTiNg? I sWeAr EvErYoNe AlWaYs AdViSe To BrEaK uP!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 09:53 PM
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I read his post history and oh boy... It was truly a trip. Dude is not over this girl. He's crying all over r/breakups, r/askmen, r/relationships etc to know if he was right to dump her, to feel jealous over her moving on/getting male attention, if he should take her back (even if he's the one who broke up with her) and who's the one in power: the dumper or the dumpee. Truly a low value insecure scrote who gets off of dumping his girlfriend and having the "power" in the relationship. But once he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 09:40 PM
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LOL I went on his thread and dude tries to rationalize his obsession by saying "important note, I was the one to breakup and our break up was not due to any fights but due to exterior causes. so the one responsible to initiate contact was me as I dumped her." LMAO so he initiated contact just to check if she's still crying over him dumping her so he get that free ego boost... Turns out she's completely fine and has already moved on so dude is scrambling to get a crumb of sympathy on Reddit. Yeah…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 09:30 PM
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You shouldn't even have answered...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 11:39 PM
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This is why becoming a stay at home mother is discouraged by FDS. If you're stuck with a LVM, you can't get out easily. Sure, he could pay for child support but statistics show that most men refuse to pay and the woman ends up in a desperate situation. Honestly, becoming a sahm is only good if you already have your own money or you can rely on your family if things go south. Don't willingly put yourself at the mercy of your SO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 11:37 AM
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Great news! She broke up with him! I'm glad this poor girl escaped from this pornsick LVM! Bonus: his best friend also left his stinky ass! Hope that porn was worth it! "Edit: I went over to her place to apologize for screaming at her and she broke up with me and gave me my stuff. My best friend said he didn’t want to be friends with “someone whose an abusive asshole that disrespects his gf and friends”. Yeah I kind of see my mistake now." He lied to her btw, he admits to it in his post edit, wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 02:36 PM
57

This is not what I'm saying though. I'm saying that if you feel desperate for a man or a man makes you feel desperate for him, then you should stay away because you're likely to act like a Pickmeisha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 07:05 PM
39

Run away sis! He's a LVM through and through. You're not officially dating and he's already complaining about having to use a condom. If you give him a chance, he'll try to push your boundaries and have you do all types of unsafe (and degrading) sex. A man that's almost 30 and is chasing after a girl who's 20 only do so because she's young and naive so he can easily manipulate her. Whereas he flees women his age because he can't bullshit them. So please, for the love of God, block and delete him…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 07:00 PM
20

You know what's funny? LVM always whine about women being wary of meeting up with a stranger man outside of a public place and how ThEy'Re NoT rApIsTs!!! And then they turn around and blame women for putting themselves in a situation to be raped. What a joke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 11:40 AM
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I saw that and I also saw all the LVM saying that Chinese women drove their husbands so crazy they divorced them. Nevermind divorces being 70% initiated by women or that the minute the law was made lax for women wanting a separation, divorce rates exploded lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 05:24 PM
43

Yup, from the outside, these women look like they've won in life: perfect job, perfect husband with similar status, perfect children but if you look beneath the thin veneer, you realize they're miserable. Back when I was an intern at a Fortune 500 company, my manager was a 40 years old female executive married to a 40-something male executive. She had a beautiful house, two cute children, a mischievous cat and dream-like vacations. However, she complained one day to me about how her "perfect" hu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 05:13 PM
30

Yup. But for women, the stats of homogamy are even higher than for men. It happens from time to time that men marry outside of their socioeconomic class (often with women from "lower" backgrounds) but for women it's very very rare. That's why nowadays the percentage of single people keep rising as more women are college graduates than men. Most of these women would rather stay single forever than settle for a high school male graduate (even if he's earning a lot with his trade job).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 03:53 PM
115

Say it louder to the lurking scrotes in the back! If a woman said "I want a provider (so obviously he will be making a lot of money) but it is important that he comes from a high class and rich family. The money is not important, it is the type of class you get from growing up in a high class family", she would be called "gold digger" and "choosing beggar" before she finishes her first sentence lol. But for a man, it's called "having standards". Also this dude is severely delusional. Why would a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 03:28 PM
2

So what happens when he goes insane? He's going to use his 17 guns on random people and himself?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 12:10 PM
10

Not trying to be rude but are you an autist? This is the vibe I get from your post. If you are then you should first focus on developing self awareness, self confidence and social skills because you come off as arrogant, faux intelligent (using unusual, academic words outside of your thesis or academic environment when you can use common words instead which is not a sign of intelligence... Also talking to people as if you're holding a lecture. Explaining the impostor syndrome, really?) and borin…
/r/askFDS23/03/20 01:52 PM
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It's clearly not working as you think it is since you're still single lol. If you were really good at sex, women wouldn't run away from you right after getting in bed with you. They would stick around just to get their fix even if they're not really into you.
/r/askFDS23/03/20 02:19 AM
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Your ex is a textbook narcissist. They use sex against their partner to control them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 08:33 PM
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