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bajing/r/seduction14/01/13 11:12 PM
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Field Reportbajing/r/seduction07/12/12 03:59 PM
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Field Reportbajing/r/seduction31/10/12 01:47 PM
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Field Reportbajing/r/seduction17/10/12 02:01 PM
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bajing/r/seduction26/09/12 01:49 PM
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Field Reportbajing/r/seduction05/10/12 01:56 PM
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bajing/r/seduction25/09/12 03:36 AM
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I'm going to go ahead and warn everybody that this type of stuff sets off a woman's bullshit radar real fast. This echoes the tactics of old that Neil Strauss and Mystery used which have come to be synonymous with the PUA community to people outside of the community. Take it from someone who's been called out for "Using that game stuff" back when I first started out, be careful when employing personality tests and other gimmicks such as these.
/r/seduction08/02/13 07:22 PM
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You deal with it like you deal with all insecurities. Accept it and move on, ignore it while you're in set and they will too
/r/seduction29/01/13 06:33 PM
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If it works it works!
/r/seduction15/01/13 01:23 AM
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The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle
/r/seduction12/01/13 01:06 AM
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The fact that you linked to two of my FR makes me feel warm inside. Great job man, there is some really solid game in here. Keep up the good work and keep us all posted
/r/seduction09/01/13 05:14 PM
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Good observation. I find women alone to be pretty rare in the field. Single women out in a group are a pretty big green light as well.
/r/seduction01/01/13 05:23 PM
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If you're trying too hard then sure. Look man, if you have found a way to make it work for you then go for it. I'll never stand in the way of something that works for somebody That being said, when I write game related content I approach it as writing to the most inexperienced student out there. Stationary dates are generally agreed upon in the community as unfavorable for pick up conditions. Personally I would have to agree with that based upon my results
/r/seduction30/12/12 04:45 AM
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I've read your previous FR and now this one, and while I think that it is well written I don't think you got the results that you deserve. Here are some points where I see a divergence from what would have escalated far faster You took her out to a stationary location. The part of your FR where you describe superficial conversation is the reason I advice against going to stationary places, particularly while young and in college. I think that large open air environments are more conducive to com…
/r/seduction29/12/12 11:28 PM
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Yes. Just google three second rule. There is tons of literature on overcoming approach anxiety.
/r/seduction29/12/12 04:38 PM
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Great observation. I think the underlying message of my post is that you must be in charge of the entire interaction. Keep up the good work!
/r/seduction29/12/12 04:09 PM
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I said guidelines for a reason. You do whatever works for you Personally I think that stationary dates are a trap which heavily restrict both conversation and mobility. I write most of my advice for noobies, after you've been in the game for a while you adapt your environment and your style. However when starting out I believe it's invaluable to have these sorts of guidelines to go by so you don't fall into the dreaded interview mode.
/r/seduction29/12/12 04:08 PM
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I know this doesn't exactly answer the question but I think I've had this idea for a while and wanted to express it to seddit. The dance floor is NOT the place to meet women, it is a place to take women after you are in rapport with them. Women will have naturally higher bitch shields on a dance floor as oppossed to an open social setting. If you are confined to a dance floor then I reccomend you do what I do, make them stop dancing and talk to you! Talking to a girl is the real key to seduction…
/r/seduction29/12/12 07:31 AM
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The absolute easiest way is to establish a time parameter that is incredibly short and doesnt allow you to chode out. Neild Strauss talks about the three second rule in the game, it's something I used when I first started out and found invaluable to my game. Set a time limit that is short enough where you can barely think about what you're doing, and then simply do it. I know this is hard, it's difficult, and more than anything it's scary as fuck! I was where you were not long ago, now I get lai…
/r/seduction29/12/12 07:28 AM
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Looks don't matter. look through my posting history to see some of the results I've gotten. I have manboobs and a pretty big belly to put it into perspective. Often my "better looking" friends ask my advice on how to get laid.
/r/seduction29/12/12 07:26 AM
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What methods have you found most effective in improving your inner game?
/r/seduction12/12/12 02:49 AM
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Don't focus so much on the timing. Just be confident enough to say the line in any form
/r/seduction09/12/12 05:41 PM
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this
/r/seduction08/12/12 09:03 AM
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Friend-zoning is a difficult art that took me a couple of times to accomplish. The primary rule of the friend-zone is to invite the girls out to parties your attending a couple of times. After they're comfortable with you in a drinking/party setting then you can transition to more intimate hangouts. Don't immediately go for an intimate hang out as that's pretty much a date. Establish rapport with the girl but never go too far in your kino. That way you don't convey interest and she'll generally …
/r/seduction08/12/12 01:28 AM
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I don't normally respond to the trolls. To be fair to them it's the internet and lots of people lie. Take my advice for what you will
/r/seduction07/12/12 09:39 PM
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Shit Test rule. Agree and Amplify "Yeah you're the 50th one tonight, are my magical seduction powers working"
/r/seduction07/12/12 08:46 PM
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"it means, I don't know who you are and you looked like a cute girl I might want to get to know"
/r/seduction07/12/12 06:20 PM
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Probably to make herself feel better. People are insecure it doesn't really bother me.
/r/seduction07/12/12 05:46 PM
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Glad my field report was useful to you. Keep up the progress my friend :)
/r/seduction06/12/12 04:44 PM
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You will learn a lot less from those things then you think you will. The game has changed for the better since 2001. That being said I have Tyler Durden's archive and will send it to you if you wish. PM me your email if you want it
/r/seduction03/12/12 09:45 PM
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Essentially paradise. They had tons of sake, beta Japanese dudes, and really hot Japanese chicks. I literally have a Japanese social circle that I hit up every once in a while, it's awesome
/r/seduction16/11/12 04:12 PM
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I get you, it can be very intimated in real time when you get hit with a shit test but if you stay on your game you should be fine.
/r/seduction16/11/12 01:06 AM
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it's not weird, in fact going out alone forces you to make friends with those around you rather then relying on your friend group. In other words, GO FOR IT, the worst thing you do is have one bad night with lots of reference material on how to not pick up chicks.
/r/seduction16/11/12 12:52 AM
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The most important part of this is post is to realize that normally IT DOES NOT FUCKING MATTER what you open with. Too many newbies obsess over indirect vs direct vs canned openers. OP demonstrates that you literally just ask whatever and it can lead to something
/r/seduction16/11/12 12:49 AM
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Don't try to eliminate it, just embrace it and put it into your game. In fact dude I fucking envy you, it's so hard for me to try and be outcome independent and not analyze every little move that the girls are making. Focus on bringing out your inner value and conveying that confidence in your speech, by "spacing out" you can show that you're higher value and draw the girl in because she wants to capture your attention. You have to start coming at this from an alpha frame rather than a beta fram…
/r/seduction16/11/12 12:43 AM
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If you read here normally the best way to respond to a shit test is to agree and amplify. So in this case you could have just played it off with "Yeah, I'm screening for my next victim, if you're lucky I'll choose you". It is however important to note that this MUST be delivered with the right tonality and body language. If you say this with a beta frame and your tone doesn't have any inflection this will backfire quickly. Basically the rule is to agree and amplify the shit test and say it in an…
/r/seduction16/11/12 12:39 AM
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Fascinating stuff here man. Very insightful post, with an easy How to guide. Have an upvote
/r/seduction03/11/12 09:17 PM
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Be funny and interesting. I know those are very vague concepts but if you make a striking impression on a girl, you really only need 5 minutes before she's ready to hang out again.
/r/seduction02/11/12 06:03 PM
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Personally just being interesting is a HUGE turn on for me. I could be talking to a perfect 10 looks wise but if she's just another boring girl from New Jersey I lose interest fast. I've mentioned this a lot of times but I always mention my extensive travel, the girls I've met that I liked the most were ones who traveled the most and shared a certain sense of adventure that I value in women. If I drop a travel DHV story and I get no reaction (i.e. a girl just straight up doesn't care about trave…
/r/seduction02/11/12 03:17 PM
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No
/r/seduction02/11/12 01:01 PM
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Hey bro, I write lots of stuff on college game so take my advice for what you will. Your'e right being part of a tight knit group i s important but it doesn't always have to defined. Find cute girls in your classes and incorporate them into a weekly study group or another type of group that becomes close because of shared connection. instead of trying to JOIN something CREATE something. See number 2, create your own fun. Host parties in your dorm if you have to, if the people are good the enviro…
/r/seduction02/11/12 04:33 AM
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Yeah I mean speaking as someone whos in the system, frat parties a good place to practice game and occasionally hook up. Too many of my brothers rely entirely on the frat to provide their booze, alcohol and women, most of them are unhappy. Create your own fun, enrich other peoples lives.
/r/seduction02/11/12 04:28 AM
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First of all don't say hi my name is, make her ask you for it. Also as a guy in a frat it all depends on whether she is in a sorority or not. If she is girls LOVE to talk about their sorority, if not ask what does that's interesting. Find out something she's interested in, then tell her a cool story related to that thing. Trust me, frat parties are the easiest places to hook up. Personally I don't always like the quality of girl that flock to them, but that's another issue entirely.
/r/seduction01/11/12 08:21 PM
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Like what? Let me know and I'll tone down the bro in the future, I guess being a frat in college has made me more "bro" than I thought. Several others have observed the same thing
/r/seduction01/11/12 03:17 AM
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I'm really not that good. I still strike out on lots of weekends, but I've been at this for a good 4 months now and I've been reading seddit for nearly a year.
/r/seduction31/10/12 08:36 PM
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Oh that's completely fine! Yeah it's a bit basic, something you can do in the first couple of minutes
/r/seduction31/10/12 08:31 PM
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Don't high five your friends when they get numbers/hook up with a girl. It's a huge DLV
/r/seduction31/10/12 08:21 PM
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You're welcome man! Feel free to PM me with questions on college game if you have any.
/r/seduction31/10/12 08:09 PM
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Go out and approach. The secret to success is hard work. You must be prepared to fail to win
/r/seduction31/10/12 08:09 PM
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Knock Knock jokes man. Fucking knock knock jokes. All these girls aren't my best friends, every couple of days or so I just mass text them knock knock. Each of them thinks i'm spontaneous and funny and it reminds them that I exist. From there it's simple, keep texting the same lines. Then on party day, text them about the party. Worked like a charm so far
/r/seduction31/10/12 08:02 PM
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^this
/r/seduction31/10/12 08:00 PM
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Thanks? I think my writing may be portraying me as someone I'm not, I don't go to a state school and while I'm in a frat I don't rely on the frat to supply me access to women.
/r/seduction31/10/12 08:00 PM
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I've posted about this previously, but learn how to bro out properly. I hate sports, but I follow the regional teams around me so I can talk to other bros about it. Become friends with guys who are friends with your targets and you acquire valuable social proof.
/r/seduction31/10/12 02:48 PM
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Don't let it phase you in the slightest. The complete bitch identity is just a role she's assumed as a way to shit test dudes and increase her perceived value. I've met many girls like this at my college, mostly JAPs (Jewish American Princesses) (also sorry if that term is offensive, it's the only term I know to perfectly describe who i'm talking about). Anyways the best way to deal with them is make of fun of them for being boring and dependent on their dads. Then every time she shit tests you,…
/r/seduction24/10/12 04:56 PM
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If you think that one bad hairday is going to hurt your success with women this weekend then you've got bigger problems than your bad hairday. Like the other comment says, act like you don't give a fuck. I know it's difficult when you don't feel attractive but act as if nothing is out of the ordinary and no one else will notice. You really think the girls on campus are going to whispering among themselves "OMG did you see mmcg94's hair today" It's not high school anymore man, don't worry about s…
/r/seduction24/10/12 04:51 PM
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To each his own my friend, for me the gym changed my life, for you it may just be an inconvenience
/r/seduction24/10/12 01:52 PM
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Other than the obvious that Tofu pointed out. For me it was the gym, think about it, it's an entire building dedicated to improving yourself. Every motherfucker in there is trying in some way shape or form to make themselves better. That's a beautiful thing man Gave me a good body, shows you tangible results that you have to work hard for, and I look sexy naked now (at least from the back, still working on the manboobs).
/r/seduction24/10/12 01:32 PM
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Sinnsofattraction.blogspot.com (mPUA Sinn) Nickhoss.com (Day game instructor for love systems) Magic Bullets (Written by Nick Savoy President of Love Systems) The Mystery Method (Mystery) Sashadaygame.com (mPUA Sasha DayGame) Not exactly PUA but still useful How to make friends and influence people (Dale Carnegie) The Way of the Superior Man (David Deida) The 48 Laws of Power (Robert Greene) The Art of Seduction (Robert Greene)
/r/seduction24/10/12 01:27 PM
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You have a winner's mindset that will soon translate to great results. Continue doing what you're doing man, you've got some great natural wit. Use that when you're texting the girl you number closed and set up a date within the next 3 days. Take her out, make sure she has fun, make her laugh, take her home, f close. You've got all the tools, keep it up man! P.s. I'm going to use that facebook opener, I love it
/r/seduction24/10/12 03:55 AM
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Hey bro, I've been there, it hits you right in the feels. What you gotta do is create connections with other women and get out there. I know it's really really hard to think about but basically what happened is that you closed yourself off to everyone else in your current life and your old relationship seems so deep because you don't have any points of comparison. So maybe read the sidebar, go out there and just have some conversations. Soon enough you'll have tons of genuine connections that ac…
/r/seduction24/10/12 03:51 AM
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You're doing everything right as it is. Dance floors aren't my favorite place to pick up women, it forces many women to judge you based on your looks alone. If you're like me and not exactly the best looking dude in the bunch then you can fail pretty miserably on the dance floor. Go to the edge of the dance floor, talk to some chicks, spit some game, and then take them out to escalate kino and make out.
/r/seduction23/10/12 08:11 PM
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Listen to this man for he is wise. What really resonates for me Tofu is the authenticity section. The bullshit radar of women is much higher than we like to think, any sentient being can tell if you're embellishing or adding on to a story, but often they don't say anything because it's social convention to be rude. Being authentic is one of the most attractive attributes a man can have. So many times women I've hooked up with say they find me attractive because I say exactly what I want, and I r…
/r/seduction23/10/12 08:07 PM
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Knock Knock jokes are your friend. I use them all the time, they make you look funny and spontaneous especially if you do it to girls at random times. My favorite one so far. Knock Knock? Who's There Spell Spell who W-H-O Guaranteed conversation starter and is a great way to brighten a girls day.
/r/seduction23/10/12 08:00 PM
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=csnQWDPD9Ps
/r/seduction23/10/12 02:39 AM
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This is where being indirect comes in handy. eye contact is important but creating an air of comfort is even more important. Lovedrop has a kino video that I think would be useful to you, when you're building comfort it has to seem natural without invading her personal space. So instead of being overbearing by being in front of her, stand to the side with your arm around her and then look away. These techniques of creating contact without invading her perceived space are really important for shy…
/r/seduction23/10/12 12:32 AM
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I'm really not man, just read some good PUA literature and you'll make these things up too.
/r/seduction23/10/12 12:23 AM
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Tell her she's boring in a teasing way
/r/seduction23/10/12 12:06 AM
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What is so unbelievable? Seriously please enlighten me, I break it down exactly as I remember it. I really try not to embellish or make myself look cool, it's all about the process that you can learn from. I think sometimes my FR's are termed "unbelievable" because people aren't getting the same results I am and immediately assume that everything I do is impossible.
/r/seduction23/10/12 12:04 AM
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Alright normally I don't respond to these but I'm going to address this once and for all. I am a normal seddit contributor and have been a reader for over a year. I DONT MAKE ANY MONEY off of the site, NONE, no affiliate marketing, no advertising or secret deals with any companies. Go through my posting history, look at all the advice I dispense, I don't post FR's for traffic I do it because I love helping out other sedditors and I love to share my expierences. The reason I link to my blog is be…
/r/seduction22/10/12 04:39 PM
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Wow that was remarkably similar! You did a great job by just not giving a fuck and broing out
/r/seduction22/10/12 04:29 PM
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Escalating conversation in college is really one of the easiest things you can do. You find out where's she's from, You find out where she lives, you find out what her major is, you find out where she studied abroad. Create stock DHV stories about each of those things to keep her interested if you don't have a story make one up, make sure it's entertaining, shows that you are fun, and more importantly that it's engaging. Nick Hoss wrote a great post on here a while ago on story telling you shoul…
/r/seduction22/10/12 03:42 PM
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Oh i'm still going to go for it, don't worry
/r/seduction17/10/12 07:52 PM
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I have manboobs and a belly. Not just slight manboobs, I'm talking about C cups motherfucker. Guess what? I don't give a fuck and neither do all the girls I've hooked up with. The way I do this is by being truly fearless in my game and taking chances and putting in the effort better looking guys will never do. Because of this I am better than them. Also it never hurts to wear a compression shirt, they're cheap and flatten that shit out if you really care about it
/r/seduction17/10/12 01:42 PM
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I live in a metropolitan area with a lot of famous attractions near by, I just take them on a "tour" of them. I know a lot of weird trivia facts about them so I tell them those, then kiss them in front of the attractions. Then I take them back to f-close. I've had to do that most of the time
/r/seduction16/10/12 02:54 AM
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Also check out my posting history, the midterm routine and the class game FR's may be useful to you. Hope it helps!
/r/seduction16/10/12 02:26 AM
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That's a really interesting routine I might field test. Thanks for the ideas, I never considered the possibility of dressing down when going out. With a proper NGAF (Not giving a fuck) attitude it could work wonders
/r/seduction16/10/12 02:13 AM
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I'm FAR from being a master, but thanks!
/r/seduction16/10/12 02:12 AM
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As I responded to others, I'm really not that witty. Get your mind into a sexual frame, get into state of feeling awesome and you will be awesome. I wish I was like James Bond
/r/seduction16/10/12 02:11 AM
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I believe he was referring to my reply where I said "Well I need the extra savings when I spend so much money on condom's over there".
/r/seduction16/10/12 02:10 AM
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Thanks man. Honestly it's difficult but with some effort you easily can, check out my blog at www.collegepua.com if you're in college. I'm trying to break PUA down for regular college guys
/r/seduction16/10/12 02:09 AM
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Honestly i'm not that funny of a guy, after you read a lot of literature and field test stuff you just realize you need to be outrageous. Getting your mind right will lead you to sexual wit
/r/seduction16/10/12 02:00 AM
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No, I spring the adventure thing on pretty suddenly. I grab their hand and just start walking, if they don't pull back or say anything I just assume it's not issue. I think she might have texted them once we went up to the room though, but this wasn't a set where I had to deal with her friends. Good question!
/r/seduction16/10/12 12:01 AM
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She will if you start qualifying her too soon (mistake most guys make). You can open her but when she shit tests you, you respond with a challenge. Keep setting up challenges for her to accomplish so that when she hooks up with you she will feel like she seduced you instead of the other way around. People want things they can't have, be desirable by acting like she isn't desirable until the qualification stage
/r/seduction15/10/12 04:01 PM
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This right here OP, solid fucking advice. The main problem with "The Game" and "The Pick Up Artist" are that they glorify the game and make it look incredibly simple to get great at. The truth is most of us are never going to be Style, Mystery, or matador. However we can just be normal dudes who happen to be pretty good with women. As with any skill worth learning this is a gradual process that will take time, you're not going to change over night. Follow the newbie guides, approach and in 2 mon…
/r/seduction15/10/12 02:10 PM
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Wrong, it's only creepy if you act creepy
/r/seduction13/10/12 05:40 PM
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It will work for any test, don't wait till finals!
/r/seduction12/10/12 06:25 PM
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I think the main problem you're having is establish domiance in the conversation. For example if you watch any in field videos of mystery in the middle of a conversation with a woman he'll just interrupt her and say "aaaand back to me". it sounds douchy and honestly I've never done it, but if you are frequently being talked at instead of doing talking then it's not good. In magic bullets Savoy recommends talking almost exclusively during the attraction phase (this is where you DHV and establish …
/r/seduction12/10/12 03:34 PM
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Gareth Jones also has some great stuff on text game. Check it out here http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JZZVQNXZY2g My favorite line of his is texting a girl for the first time with "Hey it's (insert name), Save this number it's the most important one you'll ever get ;)"
/r/seduction12/10/12 02:55 PM
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reddit.com/r/askseddit is for specific questions that being said yes you should be sarging, protect one of the HB's maybe even sacrifice yourself for one of them. Biologically this triggers attraction because you defend those close to you. Just some thoughts
/r/seduction12/10/12 12:20 AM
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Look it takes about 30-45 minutes. but trust me, that shit is gold. Watch it in installments if you have to, but when I was starting out that video was invaluable to me.
/r/seduction11/10/12 11:06 PM
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=csnQWDPD9Ps Watch that video on kino escalation. Also use the beginner tactic by asking "Would you like to kiss me". If she says no, then say "i didn't say you could" continue escalating and try again later. If she doesn't say anything or says "uh, um, etc" Kiss her, If she says yes, Kiss her. Credit to mystery for that one.
/r/seduction11/10/12 08:14 PM
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I've been field testing alot of stuff with international students. In my experience the Koreans and Chinese are infinitely harder to open than the japanese students. What I do is I open them by asking them to translate something for me, (often it's a chinese friends facebook status, or a picture I was tagged in by a japanese friend etc). They often oblige, then you ask where they're from. Having traveled through much of southeast and east asia I always bring up that i've been to their country an…
/r/seduction11/10/12 08:06 PM
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Fair point man. I just want you and all sedditors to know I don't make any money off the blog. I guess the reason I post so often is because I get so many desperate messages everyday, all I really want to do is help out. That being said, i'll lay off a little bit I don't want to come off as a spammer. I just think some of my content is useful for beginners
/r/seduction10/10/12 04:01 PM
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Fair point. It made me feel awesome so I still think it's valuable for my game
/r/seduction10/10/12 03:01 PM
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I've posted this before but one of my favorite things to do is to ask a girl to name three interesting things about herself. They almost always ask why and if they do I say "I don't do small talk, I need to know if you're interesting enough for me to talk to". If you do it playfully enough with the right tonality you don't come off as a dick (although some women have been off put by it, maybe 20%) On the third one no matter what it is, I always say "try again". Often I tie in DHV stories to this…
/r/seduction10/10/12 01:48 PM
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Ok so we need to delve a little deeper into yourself to accomplish what you seek. Step 1: Stop thinking of them as flaws, they're simply facets of your personality. Instead of focusing on them, take a moment to think about what you're good at. Then think about stories associated with them and tell them in the field, sexual subtlety is important but you have to get to attraction first. I would recommend reading some great inner game books found on the sidebar, and especially way of the superior m…
/r/seduction09/10/12 02:44 AM
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I think you have some fair points but as I've said often this is a site where a beginner can begin to immerse himself in the concepts, hence the 101 series. After we've completed 101 we will go into in depth analysis on steps you can take to exemplify each characteristic we talk about. As far as the DHV stories go, on the blog I mention some stories that I've field tested and have gotten great results. Take a look In the future if you have comments or concerns, pm me. I love to hear good feedbac…
/r/seduction09/10/12 02:40 AM
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Hey man, I'm the coeditor the site. I'm sorry you don't like our content, if you can think of any ways to improve it let me know. As far as the LoveSystems references we do it because 1. Their instructors are really fucking good 2. They actually respond to us for interview requests. We are not affiliated with any company in any way.
/r/seduction08/10/12 09:45 PM
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it's the name of the guy who built the Taj Mahal, sometimes called the emperor of love
/r/seduction08/10/12 01:08 PM
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Even seen the 40 year old virgin? If so you're a lot like Steve Carell, you're putting the pussy on a pedestal. I see this problem in so many of the guys who I do consultations for. The solution? Love yourself, learn to the love the ever living shit out of yourself. The outcome is dependent only on the capacity of your inner self to fill the void you currently have. Think of some activities that make you feel like the fucking man, things you do that you're so passionate and good at that no one e…
/r/seduction08/10/12 02:38 AM
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http://collegepua.com/2012/09/24/pua-101-the-opener/
/r/seduction07/10/12 10:12 PM
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Remember to wear flattering clothes would be my only advice. I wear shirts that are pretty tight and accentuate my new body shape. Check out /r/malefashionadvice. Basically taught me how to dress and has been indispensable in my game
/r/seduction07/10/12 10:10 PM
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I'm not saying it will happen all the time or often. This girl happened to say something, but I'm sure many other girls I've gamed have been thinking it, so regardless it's always a good asset.
/r/seduction07/10/12 10:02 PM
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It's a no, if a girl says "I can't that day how about (specific day)" then she wants to see you again. If she says something generic ie. "maybe next time" she's flaking. Just ignore her and if you see her again act completely unaffected, she'll being wondering why you aren't sad that she said no, and then she'll try pursuing you again.
/r/seduction04/10/12 03:54 PM
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I like to ask the women to name three interesting things about themselves. They qualify from the get go and then you expand on one of those and make her tell you things about her which lead to conversation. Great routine I use. Check out my blog at collegepua.com if you're in college, I've got some other great college routines
/r/seduction04/10/12 03:46 PM
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Let me know how it goes!
/r/seduction04/10/12 03:42 PM
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Looks aren't everything, they can be an asset but I've got manboobs and a little bit of extra pudge, guess what? I just DON'T GIVE A FUCK and neither do all the girls I've picked up. Act like you don't give a fuck and they won't give a fuck. Go to /r/malefashionadvice and learn how to dress. Go to /r/fitness, Get a gym membership and enhance your body. Finally walk into a party knowing your the shit and armed with some beginner routines and a better mindset. You're putting the pussy on the pedes…
/r/seduction03/10/12 03:18 PM
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Good try man, Check out my previous field report on library game for a good routine
/r/seduction02/10/12 04:47 AM
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Thanks man, I'm coeditor of the blog! Your beginner guides are some really great stuff, check out the rest of our site and let us know what you think. Would love some of your input, if you're interested maybe a guest article?
/r/seduction02/10/12 02:51 AM
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Let me know man!
/r/seduction01/10/12 04:30 AM
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Good job bro! It's risky to put your number in a girls phone because you never know if they'll text you back, but you're really lucky that she did. Congrats on the relationship!
/r/seduction29/09/12 06:20 AM
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Is it? I'm not really familiar with them but they definitely have a good reputation.
/r/seduction29/09/12 06:18 AM
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Thanks bro! If you have comments/requests email me at [email protected]. Would love some feedback
/r/seduction29/09/12 06:18 AM
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Thanks man! Keep up with our blog and we'll keep posting new routines that are field tested
/r/seduction29/09/12 06:17 AM
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FYI this is me, for some reason I got stuck in the spam filter and had to create another account to post.
/r/seduction28/09/12 01:24 PM
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More advanced stuff like Class Game is coming in due time. We're still on our 101 series and that's definitely going to be an article in our 201 series.
/r/seduction27/09/12 10:24 PM
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Well that certainly is a strange request, I'll PM you the text
/r/seduction27/09/12 08:43 PM
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Sounds good, email me and we'll get the ball rolling
/r/seduction27/09/12 05:55 PM
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Thanks man, we appreciate the feedback. If we covered everything that we wanted to cover we could probably write an entire novel. What we plan on doing is writing up our 101 series and then going in depth with 6 to 7 201 articles on each of our 101 subjects. We would love some extra insight, email me at [email protected] with your comments/insights and we'll incorporate/credit you in our accompanying article.
/r/seduction27/09/12 05:46 PM
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Hey man, I'm the coeditor the blog. I think you have a fair point, one thing i've noticed in a lot of our readers is that they respond better when a system is broken down rather than generic inner game principles. Many beginners need an itemized and systemized way to go about their game in order to make changes in their life. What kind of content on social circles would you like to see?
/r/seduction27/09/12 05:31 PM
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We're field testing day game right now. In particular we're looking at ways on how to not get a reputation but still practice library game, quad game, and just general public area game. In addition we're contacting other day game guru's to see if we can get another professional opinion.
/r/seduction26/09/12 03:45 PM
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Hey bro, I'm one of the editors of College PUA. I suggest you read our earlier stuff on the blog, and then on our useful resources we have a link to pualingo where you can understand more about the terminology. PM me if you have any questions Most importantly you make your own luck, you wouldn't believe the things I've gotten away with because I had the right attitude
/r/seduction26/09/12 02:24 PM
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I'm sorry you don't like it. However I've never believed that my readers are ones who've read mystery method or other complex material, my goal was to distill very large concepts for the average college guy. Any other ideas on how to improve the blog? I can get a lot more technical if that's what people want. Also I agree with you about social circles and social proof, it's funny you should mention it because it'll be our blog post for tomorrow. Check it out and drop me a pm if you like it/hate …
/r/seduction26/09/12 06:13 AM
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Don't worry about it dude, even guys like me who've done thousands of approaches still get AA when they go in the field. Some nights will be bad, some good, it's the nature of the game. I think that's actually a great idea and my writing partner and I are going to do a piece on expanding social circles after tomorrow's piece on qualification. PM/email me ([email protected]) and I'll let you know when that piece goes up
/r/seduction25/09/12 09:23 PM
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Context is key. The super high confidence is neccessary but try to remember the context of the college party. SOOO many of these girls show up expecting free shit and no one challenges it! Be that guy and it all changes, the three interesting opener is my most successful opener. As I mentioned in the post you have to smirk and look cocky, it will work. In addition it helps to go a party with your friends around who like you, this will give you enough social proof to avoid looking like a creeper.…
/r/seduction25/09/12 09:14 PM
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