The following isn't some fantastical situation. It's just a Thursday night in college and has some advice that anybody in any casual situation can utilize.

Last night was a fairly typical night for me. I texted around to my different social circles and had a few party options. I picked the one that sounded most promising and headed over around 10 o clock after a glass of scotch (This is the only alcohol I allow myself, I no longer drink at parties). I got to the party and did a couple of warm up sets. I find that often I need to socially recalibrate after studying for so long.

At this time I spotted one of the girls I had invited. Previously I had friendzoned her and turned her into a great resource. Not only does she socially proof me (because she's hot) but she wings me in set occasionally. She tells me she brought a friend of hers, I notice the friend off to the side and it's on.

I opened with the GREATEST OPENER EVER. "Hey who are you" it never fails! I steered the conversation in a couple of different directions, constantly bringing up new shit and just generally talking a whole lot of shit. I've come to realize that the conversation itself doesnt matter much, but the emotions you convey in your speech are vital. I would tell her how much I loved something, and then point to a dude at the party and be like "oh man I fucking hate that guy". My emotions were constantly changing and this way the conversation was never boring.

After some pretty heavy kino and about 20 minutes of conversation I was beginning to get a bored. I could have kissed this girl 10 minutes earlier but building up the anticipation is a great tactic to ensure that a girl stays interested in you. I tell her exactly how I feel "I'm getting a bit bored so i'm going to go talk to my friends, but I'm going to kiss you before I leave"

I've really found this line to be a complete mindfuck for girls. Most AFCs when they make out with a girl will stick to her for the entire night, I kiss them (normally passionately) and then say "Bye Sweetie". They literally cannot comprehend what's going on because it just doesn't happen.

This time she orbited around me as I ignored her for a while and then was like "HEY HB8!!!!!!" hows it going. She literally didn't even respond to me, she lunged for my face. I broke the kiss (always try to do this) and then led her out of the party back to my room. I didn't even have to give plausible deniability.

After I had sex with her, she was laying next to me and said something that inspired me to write this field report. "You're the most confident and assured man I've ever seen, you honestly don't even look that good but you turn me on so much"

Lessons:

  1. Be completely and utterly secure in yourself. Be honest, I was bored but I wanted to kiss the chick. So I told her so, and it worked! All of these tactics and other shit will bog down your mind when in reality all you have to do is be enough of a man to know what the hell you want.

  2. Make moves, see a girl you like? Go over, talk to her, put your arm around her after a little while, then after a while of conversation tell her that you're going to kiss her. Obviously there's some steps in-between but that's really the essence of a standard pickup for me.

  3. You don't always have to do crazy wild stupid shit to amaze a girl. Most of my success nowadays happens exactly like it did above. Be kind of chilled out, act like you have abundance, and then get laid.

Hope this helps, if you guys have more questions comment or PM me.