Sedditors,

Some of you know me as I post here pretty regularly, so take my advice for what you will.

I attended an RSD Free tour last night and I wanted to share a takeaway that really hit home for me and in a way contradicts some of the general conventional wisdom often touted here on seddit.

Attraction is a function of unit of time

One of the thing most stressed was that time in and of itself is the most useful tool in a PUA's seduction toolbox.

While many are a fan of approaching and opening tons of different sets, in the end many of us end up getting lots of numbers and having good conversations without the ability to translate those numbers into dates and eventually sex.

The idea generally talked about was how if you turn a girl on in a very short amount of time, it's very easy for her to get turned off in a short amount of time. One of the better ways to seduce is to create attraction slowly by creating drama and conflicting emotions, constantly pushing and pulling to build a girl up over an hour or two. This overloading of emotion will make a profound lasting impact on the girl that is more likely not to flake the next day or give you resistance.

In this case because attraction is generally lost in the same amount of time it is created, the feeling lasts longer and you're much less likely to encounter problems like LMR, friend logistics, and other obstacles that can often impede same night lays.

Just wanted to share some new information on here I thought was useful to the community as a whole. If you have a counter to the above please comment and we can discuss.