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| 8 | I'll never understand with all pick me's how American males whine so much about American womenI find it funny when American guys complain about American women not being feminine when they are not known as embodying the archetype of masculinity anywhere that I’ve heard of. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/22 05:48 AM |
| 30 | Men really believe masturbating into a woman is sex, otherwise how can masturbating be more fulfilling than sex with a condom? YikesWow, I never really thought about this but this is exactly what some men do. And then they have the gall to think they are sex gods🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/22 05:09 AM |
| -6 | If you don't receive romance, act as if you were a man not receiving sex. Meaning dump. Women need romance like men need sex. It's not our want, it's our need.They have completely different value systems and in this case, I think she is in the wrong. I know a guy who is muslim, but on his dating profiles puts "spiritual" so that he can attract more girls. I asked him why he dates girls who are much more liberal than him, like one worked at hooters and has very revealing photos on her social media. He said he will try to have her dress more modestly and maybe convert. Even though he sleeps around, he thinks he is sinning every time. I would never want … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/22 10:19 PM |
| 5 | Shitty Scrote Bus DriverKeep us updated and stay safe | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 07:17 AM |
| 13 | Scrote hates his wife at almost absurd levelsNo, she’s problematic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 06:19 PM |
| 163 | “How do I ask my boyfriend to stop beating and strangling me?”He doesn’t think she deserves vanilla sex but I’m sure he thinks his dream girl does. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 06:16 PM |
| 58 | Lvm disrespect pickmes because they feel emasculatedThey know they aren’t worthy of respect in the eyes of HVM and HVW so they lose respect for her because she can’t see that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 11:08 AM |
| 126 | Women can be very kind to each other. I'm tired of society acting like were only catty to each otherAt the end of the day it’s women who pick each other back up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 08:26 PM |
| 26 | How can I politely explain to my friend that her match-making business is rubbish and I don't want any part of it?Just tell her no. My Chinese friend would say the same stuff to me about my pale skin and lighter features. She lives in China now and sent me a video of some random guy and suggested marriage to him. I guess it's tragic to her that I am not married haha. She is a loyal friend and cares about me, but why would I want an arranged marriage with some random guy who might just want a green card. Regardless, I avoid men who fetishize certain ethnicities at all costs. They are shallow and dehumanize w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 06:28 PM |
| 7 | Men literally have no empathy for women: A case study on prostitution and pornAnd because those women are a reflection on him, just like narcissus’s reflection in the pond | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 01:09 PM |
| 7 | Groom smashes bride’s face into cake & she rightfully is leaving himNew girl: why did you and your ex divorce? Him: | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 08:43 AM |
| 75 | He forgets about her bday and ignores her, but he (finally) surprises her! Is this a new rock bottom?Why are we so willfully dumb | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 08:41 AM |
| 7 | This made me so sad. This woman has to watch her mother be abused by an LVM. 🥲Sounds like they are from a very traditional culture where divorce is taboo, so probably won’t happen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 12:43 PM |
| 21 | Why do they keep romanticizing “toxic love” ?It’s like the Angelina and her what’s his name of our generation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 09:41 AM |
| 1 | How do you vet a man who is measured with his words/careful about his image to you?He could be measuring his words because 1) He sees you as marriage material and cares about your approval or 2) He wants to sleep with you and doesn't want you to get scared off. This is just me, but maintaining physical boundaries and not showing expectations or reactions to things may help you to gauge how genuine he is. Once you start hugging/kissing, it's a lot harder to maintain those boundaries and detach if you see red flags. | /r/askFDS | 12/01/22 07:40 AM |
| 126 | We owe it to our grandmothers to live out our best livesSo true. We now have a choice. Sadly, many women allow themselves to remain trapped in bad situations with the resources to get out that our grandmothers could only dream of. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 02:25 PM |
| 6 | Dating 'travellers' and the VisaOh, sorry for assuming you’re American 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 10:55 AM |
| 8 | This ZV Canadian politician put his ineptitude on blast for the entire world to see.That’s a good way to put it- connected to your home | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 10:54 AM |
| 27 | This ZV Canadian politician put his ineptitude on blast for the entire world to see.In her defense, sometimes when you are working a shift like that you are running on adrenaline and have to do something to unwind. I will sometimes cook or do housework just because I need to get that out of my system. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 01:37 AM |
| 68 | Dating 'travellers' and the VisaI knew a guy who was so desperate to secure a visa he was messaging women all over FB and dating sites to secure one. Not saying it can’t be real but I’m glad you are detaching. I also want to note that American guys are not such smooth talkers as guys in other cultures so American girls can easily become smitten and take stuff seriously when girls in their countries would just laugh them off because it’s so normal for men to profess their love like that. Be extra wary of men from more tradition… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 01:31 AM |
| 38 | Vetting Tips I Learned And Used Just By Dating A LVM: A Compilation“If he doesn’t want to talk about work, treat him like a hobo.” 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 03:08 PM |
| 50 | What classifies as social media red flags?Posting quotes or pearls of wisdom online he doesn’t ascribe to himself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/22 11:46 AM |
| 35 | Ignore the “Happy New Years!” texts tonight from low value peopleYep. LV exes use holidays to reach out. Don’t be surprised if they send you 💰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 08:20 AM |
| 1 | Look, he'll have breakfast with you if you cook him dinner!44 and wants kids someday | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 08:07 PM |
| 5 | what happens when you initiafe contact even onceA lot of men only do gestures like that to women they want to sleep with: carrying heavy things, saying hi, offering a ride. He probably interpreted it as you wanting to sleep with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/21 12:39 PM |
| 9 | This might be a controversial statement but I feel like a lot of western FDS users really don't understand the level of misogyny in the third world and what women HAVE TO DO to survive in our culturesAnd a lot of libfems act like these men are oppressed because they aren’t white too, while these men oppress their wives and sisters.But that part is conveniently ignored. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 02:47 PM |
| 61 | They really tell on themselves. They do not find sex work empowering nor do they respect it. Yet, we are told the opposite.I find it funny how many of them don’t get outraged over sex work until they find out how many money some women make on OF 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/21 02:00 PM |
| 3 | Relationships with men as a reflection of relationship with parentsDoesn’t mean you need to blame yourself. A good parent would recognize how sensitive you are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 06:00 PM |
| 31 | Normalize telling men they don’t turn you on anymoreWhy stay engaged? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/21 05:20 AM |
| 113 | When you find out and they gaslight you anywaysThe ones who say they hate drama are always doing the most | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 09:04 AM |
| 322 | Her Persistence Paid Off: How many red flags can you count in this wedding announcement?Before the paywall: 🚩Four years ago, Barbara Delgado received a text message from Giovanni Rivera asking who she was. 🚩“I was partying like a crazy person and had so many numbers I didn’t know who she was,” said Mr. Rivera, 40, who at the time was 🚩separated 🚩from his first wife and enjoying the bachelor life. “I met a lot of people because I didn’t want to be alone.” 🚩 🚩“I told her my philosophy of life and discovered she was a great listener,” Mr. Rivera said. Months before they began talking,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 03:47 AM |
| 1 | The IckWho exactly are they performing for? 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 01:59 PM |
| 7 | The IckYep, changing positions, leaving the lights on, expecting you to be wet immediately, being rough with sensitive parts. All because they see that in porn and think there is something wring with YOU because you aren’t responding the way girls in porn do, which they see as normal. My ex used to tell me “girls like this” even though we lost our virginity to each other. How would he know??? All they have is the audacity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 01:58 PM |
| 693 | The IckThe way he thought he was a sex god and I was frigid when really he was just bad in bed and addicted to porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 01:28 PM |
| 7 | Bikini waxing?Try making sugar wax at home | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 12:10 PM |
| 4 | Why did he choose her over me?They can’t stand being single | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/21 01:05 PM |
| 238 | How to vet if a man is pornsickMy ex was a porn addict. 1. Always wants lights on because he grew up watching porn and thinks this is how all people have sex 2. Wants to try weird and unnatural angles that are purely for visual appeal in porn but he doesn’t get that 3. Talks about women’s ethnicities a lot (porn categories) 4. Doesn’t understand why you need foreplay | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 11:49 PM |
| 4 | Just a reminder that negging is not always going to be so forthcoming, these scrotes get intricate and creative because they are cowardly and hoping not to completely miss out. I mentioned in my bio that I’m a writer as well as my intelligence being clearly communicated block and delete guys.He talks to her the way he wants a woman to talk to him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 11:35 PM |
| 3 | Video calling before a dateI think it’s a good idea to see if the vibes are off and if the guy actually looks like his pics. | /r/askFDS | 12/10/21 01:30 PM |
| 3 | Bfs family jokingly asking why I am with him - red flag?He could have trauma from them and actually be like the scapegoat child if he is the only one like that and they speak condescendingly of him. The hyper vigilance and anxiety are trauma traits. Just a thought. Not saying there aren’t red flags. | /r/askFDS | 11/10/21 10:50 PM |
| 5 | Scrote steals from wife and gets mad when he can't anymore. DONT! GIVE! MEN! ACCESS! TO! YOUR! FINANCIALS!Triangulation. So toxic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 03:13 AM |
| 37 | When he says you're out of his league... time for you to tell him bye.They want to hear you bring yourself down for them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 03:12 AM |
| 167 | Gabby PetitoI have a feeling his dad has anger problems and is abusive because Brian cowers in front of male authority figures and seems very awkward in general, but was a tyrant with Gabby. Abusers have two different faces at home and in public. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 04:13 AM |
| 58 | My new definition of BDSMBDSM is patriarchy with a politically correct name. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 09:25 PM |
| 5 | A rantMid tier jewelry ☠️ | /r/askFDS | 08/09/21 07:54 PM |
| 2 | Male Scrote TrollsI send them a 💋. They usually don’t reply. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 04:34 PM |
| 11 | Why do men always bring up women's height preference when factually speaking we know men have a race, weight, look, and physical feature preference?They watch porn and think they are entitled to women that look like that. They have a weird glitch in their brain where if something is in front if them then it’s available to them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 09:37 AM |
| 18 | Tell us about what it's like to be a woman in your countryFrom the PNW too. A lot of guys here are afraid to speak to women and look for them on the apps. A lot of soy boys. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 09:22 PM |
| 190 | Other Women distancing Themselves from Single WomenI think some of them don’t want single women around their man. I avoid making friends with married women because in my experience many will tell their husbands everything you tell them anyways. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 09:16 PM |
| 27 | Is it normal to feel severely depressed after casual sex? How do I stop feeling shameful and worthless?He made it clear to you that you’re a rebound when he shared about his ex | /r/askFDS | 02/09/21 06:43 AM |
| 3 | Is this a neg?I agree. A guy like that will say you're dramatic when you express concerns, emotions, etc. | /r/askFDS | 01/09/21 12:17 AM |
| 39 | the default should be leaving/independence, not forcing stayingIt's sad how many girls I see nowadays into law of attraction and manifesting a guy into loving you back, etc. If he wanted to he would. It also bothers me how many millenial and gen x women I see across social media perpetuating this to young Gen Z girls who are impressionable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 04:54 PM |
| 20 | The Power of ✨Allowing Men To Feel Needed✨I agree with that and it should come naturally, but reading manuals about how to play dumb fox isn't natural, it's emotional labor. I tried reading Sherry Argov's book, which is recommended here, and I can't because she discusses this stuff. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 04:07 PM |
| 74 | The Power of ✨Allowing Men To Feel Needed✨I grew up with a dad with a fragile ego and have had to dumb fox it my whole life. I don’t want to do that with any guy because it’s still a subtle form of manipulation and it takes effort and is overcompensating for a man. I could have done that with my ex and recieved money, gifts, attention, etc. but it's soul crushing to have to play dumb fox because a man is too stupid to understand what you need as a woman. My mom is a very smart woman who is more educated for my dad and even she would dum… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 01:50 PM |
| 147 | This is a weekly reminder to women especially “creatives” to watch out for lovebombing, genuine demons lurk and will seemingly try their best to tether your guard with words to exploit your emotions and try to conquer your body.Even aside from the love bombing, notice how it’s about himself. Guys who say, “you’re different” or “I need a girl like you in my life” etc. are usually narcissists. When it’s always about how you will make their life better or comparing you to other women then it’s a red flag. I don’t go around looking for men to improve me or level up my life. I see a counselor and work on myself. A guy who comes on strong and treat you like his savior will just as easily discard you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 05:29 PM |
| 68 | Pickme’s sacrifice living situation for LVMTotally agree, it's not fair to the other people in the house that they have background checks run on them, but random guys can come and stay the night and endanger them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 04:51 PM |
| 2 | My (28F) mother (56F) called me pathetic for wanting to be in a relationshipShe probably doesn’t want to see you happier than her because it would make her question her status quo life. Some moms hold their daughters back out of jealousy. Normal mothers understand it’s natural dor you to want to find someone at this stage in your life. | /r/askFDS | 25/08/21 02:15 PM |
| 95 | Sometimes I feel a little bad being single and then I read something like this and know I’m better off😂She needs to take a picture in case he tries to triangulate and get other people (cough-his mother) involved. That way they will know how bad it really is when he downplays it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 02:52 PM |
| 5 | Again. Single dads will use younger women for childcare.There’s a girl on tik tok who looks like she is 23 making videos where she is preparing food for her step kids who are older, like preteen age. She does A LOT for those kids and It makes me uncomfortable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 02:19 PM |
| 52 | This is what reproducing with a LVM looks like. She says she paid for everything her last pregnancy (getting by on her savings) and that he won't let her be a SAHM even though her whole salary goes towards childcare.It makes me sad that women think they have come so far with the female empowerment yet a woman has to ask a bunch of horny teenagers on Reddit for advice because she’s afraid to ask her husband something that he should offer in the first place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 11:29 AM |
| 11 | I feel like more of our message is getting out there!!He’s a master manipulator and triangulator. Probably a mamas boy who learned how to do it from his mom Karen. I see who the golden child in the family is. She dodged a bullet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 11:26 AM |
| 21 | When scrotes ask what women bring to the table 🤡 block & deleteThey want us to cook and clean like their moms and pay the bills 50/50. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 11:23 AM |
| 171 | Men admit to being sexually attracted to their 15 year old daughter’s UNDERAGE friends and gets THOUSANDS of upvotes. Honestly I think 99% of men are closet pedophiles and this is what most women with daughters will have to deal with.How about the Muslim one where girls are compared to candy and told to wear hijab because no one wants a candy without a wrapper. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 08:49 PM |
| 38 | Some men just come right out and tell you that they would make your life miserable...Who gave him the freedom to walk around in Public like that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 09:03 AM |
| 70 | "Normal marital woes"And the mgtow men love to bring up that 80% of women initiate divorce, as if women go into marriage with the intention of screwing men over. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 09:01 AM |
| 3 | For those who remember Derrick Jackson, he cheated on his girlfriend (now wife) when they were dating in college.💯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 11:02 PM |
| 287 | A little dating satire based off the platformsI always find it so strange that when someone posts about catching someone cheating they admit to Reddit they had no right to be checking their phone. Like….really? Is that what we are focusing on here? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 05:55 PM |
| 151 | A little dating satire based off the platformsTik tok: Watch me snap after the fallout of my toxic relationship and dance to corny music | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 05:53 PM |
| 67 | Scrote blamed his 8 year old sister for downloaded porn 🤡Is he not embarrassed? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 05:52 PM |
| 4 | I love having pro-FDS friends IRL.A lot of women are afraid to block men because of what they might do so they try to break it to him gentle and keep the peace, which further fuels their scroteness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 12:38 PM |
| 95 | For those who remember Derrick Jackson, he cheated on his girlfriend (now wife) when they were dating in college.He cheated on his girlfirend D'naia (now wife) in college when they were dating. It was in his book that I bought on kindle in January 2019 (before FDS). For those who are not familiar with him, he was this big relationship advice guru on instagram with millions of female followers. He recently cheated on his wife with a couple of women who exposed him. It was a big scandal on social media because he is constantly telling woman they are queens and not to put up with fuckboys. Anyways, he knows h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 12:11 PM |
| 23 | “I liKe HaNgiNg OuT WiTh GuYs, ThEy’Re LeSs DrAmA!!” And other lies people tell themselves.Men bring the drama after they fuck you cuz they don’t have to act anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 06:05 PM |
| 68 | Older women aren’t cock-blocking you. It’s the younger women that just don’t want you.We are warning them. I have cousins in their teens and early 20s and no way I wouldn’t be alarmed if any of them was dating a man I’m his 30s. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 06:04 PM |
| 3 | Men are so used to us accommodating them that when we don’t, they think we are being dramatic.Yes 🙌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 10:49 PM |
| 34 | “She’s stressing me out”This isn’t me and I don’t have kids. But I’ve heard LVM fathers say this a lot when it comes to their kids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 12:26 PM |
| 198 | A common DM I get from scrotes - “you’ll be forever alone”. Let’s discuss this..Men are on dating sites the same night you leave them. That’s why they think they think the greatest tragedy for a woman is to be single and act shocked when you don’t have a boyfriend. They are projecting into us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 11:58 PM |
| 2 | My friend showed me a pic of the guy she is seeing and I said "he looks way too old for you". She said "oh he's actually a year younger than me" 💀💀💀Energy drinks, gaming, porn, hot Cheetos will do that to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 10:19 PM |
| 39 | I have to spend my time on mandatory training for Uber which says “Uber is not a dating app” when I know it’s creepy ass male drivers who are the problemIt goes both ways, yeah. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 09:40 PM |
| 123 | I have to spend my time on mandatory training for Uber which says “Uber is not a dating app” when I know it’s creepy ass male drivers who are the problemIn the next lessons they got into sexual assault, saying it’s not acceptable. No shit, Sherlock. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 09:40 PM |
| 172 | Guy stopped talking to me in the talking stage after I told him I'm seeing multiple menHe didn't dump you. You weren't in a relationship with him. | /r/askFDS | 02/06/21 01:55 PM |
| 21 | Why would an ex talk trash about you to other people while trying to get back with you at the same time?Because they don't plan on staying with you and want to use you for validation. Or they will stay with you so you can build them up. | /r/askFDS | 01/06/21 01:43 PM |
| 14 | Men with sistersIf he’s going out of his way to be overly helpful to women he has mommy issues. Maybe that was his way of getting approval from her. My brothers have 3 sisters and we are all very close and comfortable with each other, but they have boundaries with their female friends and other women. | /r/askFDS | 30/05/21 08:12 PM |
| 4 | Why you should ALWAYS check his follower list on Social Media!If he compares you to other women, saying you are better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 07:42 PM |
| 81 | Issa no from me 🙅🏻♀️He’s comfortable dumping someone else’s kid on his mom like that...what would he do to you? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 07:25 PM |
| 1 | What are some examples of LV behavior from a brother or father?Calling you a feminist if you stand up for yourself, telling you "you're just like your mom", leaving the bathroom nasty, dumping their dirty clothes on the floor, expecting you to do the cooking and cleaning but can't replace a lightbulb, feeling threatened when you speak with confidence or say something intelligent. | /r/askFDS | 28/05/21 10:09 AM |
| 1 | NVM complain their wife never wants sex but neglect to mention they never help with kids or around the house. A woman doesn’t want to $&@* you when she feels like your mommy.Especially when you expect her to work and provide half the income for the family and pay for her kids to go to a daycare. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 01:53 AM |
| 22 | Another Narc™️ bites the dust: I cheated on my wife [LEAVES THIS BIT OUT IN ORIGINAL POST], now she resents me. Sympathy, anyone? 🤡“access to be on her” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 08:38 PM |
| 4 | Had to share because it made me crack up! Can’t even offer to but me a whole meal!Choosing beggars posted this haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 03:21 PM |
| 3 | How can I help my mom? My dad is LV.Just be there for her and do activities with her that can help her develop her sense of self and give her a creative outlet outside of your dad. She may be hesitant to dip her toe into other things but may feel comfortable with you. My dad doesn’t care at all that my mom is in chronic pain and talks down to her. Just doing activities with her like going to hobby lobby, out for a walk, getting our nails done, going out for breakfast etc give her a life outside my dad. If you’re mom is into certai… | /r/askFDS | 27/02/21 02:44 PM |
| 36 | I agree that trying to sell yourself on dating apps is degradingA lot of guys are afraid to approach women and for them OLD is more of a safety net so it makes it harder to date but I still don’t want to use the apps. | /r/askFDS | 27/02/21 02:37 PM |
| 223 | What progress and solidarity looks like.My ex used to always compare me to women in a positive light and say I'm not dramatic, materialistic, wear a lot of makeup, etc. But oh how the tables turned when he started comparing me to other girls he thought were better. That's when I realized if I guy says you're better than other girls it's a huge red flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 02:53 PM |
| 19 | What 👏🏼 a 👏🏼 comeback 👏🏼 👏🏼I doubt he went past the first date with a lot of them. Men are obsessed with women. That's why they devote entire youtube channels to talking about what is wrong with us. Yet they won't admit how much they need us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 08:35 AM |
| 336 | UnReAliStIc mALe bEaUtY sTanDardS!!!I don’t know any woman who expects a six pack. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 04:28 PM |
| 72 | Maybe we should date gay men, they will treat us better than straight men for sureMen who are masculine don’t talk about being masculine. Having to tip toe around a mans ego so as not to shatter his fragile ego is one of the biggest turnoffs. Truly masculine men give women the space to be who they are and are not threatened by strength or vulnerability. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 02:50 PM |
| 18 | "I was a starter wife."- Justine MuskI think Peterson's doctor prescribed mental health medication when his wife was hospitalized and near death, so he had to go to a rehab to withdraw from the meds. I heard that it can be a really difficult process. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 01:08 PM |
| 5 | Why LVM don’t do house projectsIf he can’t carry through with watching a YouTube video to fix the toilet or replace the smoke detector what can you trust him with? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 08:24 AM |
| 45 | This man knows something at leastI feel like there’s a correlation between sparse hair beards and energy drinks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 07:07 PM |
| 3 | Let's start off the new year well queensI love the Sedona Method | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 01:17 AM |
| 2 | LVM letting his family harass his girlfriend and then says they were just jokingThe mom obviously doesn’t want the son to love anyone more than her so she decides to sabatoge it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 05:08 AM |
| 44 | All the pick me’s in the comments agree.. meanwhile I can’t be bothered to raise a grown man. NextThe guys who make these tik toks are pick me men. The do it for the female attention and approval. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 05:50 PM |
| 320 | Iggy Azaelea’s NVM picked videogames over being there for the birth of his child 🤡Yeah, she was tweeting about how he missed Christmas with his son to release his album and spent it with the woman he cheated on her with throughout her pregnancy. I was going to post here but it felt like a lot to explain lol. The comments from people defending him are horrible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 05:21 PM |
| 39 | Mr.SituationshipYep, it is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 02:21 AM |
| 32 | Mr.SituationshipYes, it’s satire! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 02:19 AM |
| 91 | Stop thinking paying for dates as a way to show independence. It’s not an “own” to men. You’re just helping him play other women.In some cultures if your family and friends find out he didn’t pay for the date, they will all tell you he is a LVM and to dump him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Abusive therapist. Should I just let this grudge go?You absolutely need to report him so he can be investigated. There is zero gray area. Even if you have moved on or let it go- that's not the point. He knew EXACTLY what he was doing and knew he was crossing the line. No way he did not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 12:49 PM |
| 4 | Why do you think men (especially older males) immediately assume that younger women are dumber than they are?Women generally have a softer energy, and a lot of men see this as more of a weakness and have a hard time believing softness and intelligence can coexist. That's my take on it. Men who are in touch with their feminine side don't have this issue. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 12:14 PM |
| 10 | Thoughts?I don't understand how someone wouldn't know whether or not she would say yes. This isn't 1560 where men saw a woman twice and proposed. People nowadays discuss marriage and know they are getting married don't they? It's not like the man is the one who chooses whether or not to propose. Most healthy couples have an understanding it will happen and the proposal is just a matter of time and place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 04:10 PM |
| 43 | Just... NO 🤢🤮Some guys literally don't know, because they learned about sex from porn. That's why it's so frustrating. The guy I lost my virginity to (we lost it to each other) was inexperienced and acted like he knew exactly what girls liked in bed (porn addict). Of course, I was wrong when I tried to explain, and he was the expert. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 09:53 AM |
| 10 | I wish I had been taught to be unconcerned instead of nice. And isn’t this proof?I'm like this too. I really dislike conflict because I grew up in a toxic household with a lot of arguing. My ex loved to start drama and work me up. He thought it was hilarious when I was mean to him. For me, it was exhausting and I felt like he didn't appreciate my emotional nature. He acted as if I was flat and boring. Anyways, I suspect that he likes girls who like to sort of argue and challenge him because his mom is definitely like that. He adores her and she is sort of the boss in the hou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 09:51 AM |
| 21 | How To Stop Chasing Guys and Being A Pick MeIt's crazy when you watch shows like 90 days fiance and then you look at their social media and everything looks so functional. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 09:41 AM |
| 19 | Do not date a man who refuses to eat food from your cultureAnd also if he doesn’t take an interest in your holidays. Even worse, if he expects you to make an interest for his holidays, but disregards how much yours mean to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 03:25 PM |
| 47 | Comparing me to a porn star is not a complement🗑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 03:23 PM |
| 5 | What are your thoughts on this ladies, would you divorce him?New dating app victim: "So why did you and your ex divorce?" LVM: "She was just so abusive. I couldn't take it anymore. I spilled some apple juice in the hot tub and she freaked out." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 07:05 AM |
| 8 | “Guys make better friends” 🙄Men watch their behavior around other men because they know that physical repercussions happen if they don't. They don't have these type of consequences when it comes to women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 06:44 AM |
| 76 | I'll just be single then lolThey also see time in a different way. For us, a subpar relationship is wasted or lost time. For them, it's passing the time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 06:31 AM |
| 12 | Just through the whole man outBecause of porn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 05:50 AM |
| 88 | The new reality of dating over 65: Men want to live together; women don’tImagine being 70 and having to go to the kitchen and help a man find the salt because he is too lazy to open a cupboard and see it staring him in the face. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 04:19 AM |
| 16 | NVM destroyed meStay strong 💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 09:04 AM |
| 59 | This literally made me want to vomit. 14yrs?? Marriage is not a prize.The fact it took 14 years to save up for that is a huge red flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 06:59 AM |
| 39 | Personal break up boundariesI blocked a LVM months ago, but still can’t forgive myself for stooping so low and letting someone treat me like an option. I was never like that before. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 10:37 PM |
| 63 | Men in a different lightI’m mostly seeing how entitled a lot of men are or how they view a being attractive the most important factor in a woman being a successful person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 10:29 PM |
| 218 | Subtle red flags to watch out forGuys who compare you to girls in a “positive” way. If he says you are not high maintenance like this girl or you are more natural because you don’t have fake eyelashes like this girl and shit like that. Even if it is said in a flattering light to you, in the end he will have no problem putting you down when he meets another girl. And it just shows he’s not focused on you but looking at other women the whole time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 10:23 PM |
| 22 | Literal teenager has more common sense wisdom when it comes to dating than 90% of men today. Emotional intelligence is not that hard just admit you don't want to do the work. How about you start with googling the word 'empathy'I get approached the most by teenage guys. I don’t know if it’s because I look young for my age or they just don’t have as many hang ups when it comes to talking to women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 03:16 AM |
| 49 | Notice how it only benefits the man (unless they get married)I saw that yesterday and wanted to ask if her name will be on the title of the house. Glad a guy responded to it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 01:01 AM |
| 50 | Asking for men to pull their weight is MaNiPuLaTiOnSadly if she tries to leave him you kind tell he will try to manipulate her friends, family, the judge into thinking she's the crazy one. And probably fight for custody just to spite her when he is basically an absent father already. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 05:05 AM |
| 15 | Spent 3 weeks on this creature. He randomly decided to ghost me for no apparent reason 🤷🏻♀️ and now he is blocked🗑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 02:41 PM |
| 4 | Today I have come to terms that I have chosen and dated losers for a solid 10 years.So true. That’s a good image and so many women come down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 01:35 AM |
| 93 | Man negs me first, gets violent when i neg him back lolIt’s not a man. It’s an abomanation.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 01:34 AM |
| 21 | What IS it with men and rankings?I was at Walmart once and these two scruffy teenage boys were rating every girl that walked by. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 12:37 AM |
| 31 | Today I have come to terms that I have chosen and dated losers for a solid 10 years.I was single into my 20s and had high standards. I lowered them for a LVM because I thought maybe I was the problem and my standards were too high. Wasted 5 years on him and now back to being single and having high standards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 12:34 AM |
| 108 | Sad reality checkNo one is nicer than a guy who wants to get you in his bed and disappoint you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 11:07 PM |
| 62 | Men trying to convince women we need "a man."They are projecting because they are obsessed with sex and finding a woman, so think we are the same. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 02:09 AM |
| 41 | Can we talk about the portrayal of stepmothers as "evil" in fairytales?Someone has to Enable the narcissistic stepmother anyways. The men willfully turn a blind eye to their children being mistreated because they are enamored by her charm. Enablers have narcissistic qualities themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 02:05 AM |
| 23 | If any of this is real, she has more things to worry about than her meat dildo deadbedrooming her.The bath water girl... literally LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 11:56 AM |
| 31 | Woman blacks out from FWB choking her with a pillow case. Realizes she could have died but wants to explore this scary situation with another FWB who with cOmMunIcAtIoN hopefully won't kill her.“Last night being the third and most likely final time” ....MOST LIKELY???!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 11:45 AM |
| 87 | Wow...I really don’t get this. Why they’d rather order doordash than trouble themselves to boil some pasta. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 11:26 AM |
| 8 | Anyone notice how you can work the same amount of hrs, but a LVM will act like he put in more work and his exhaustion is more valid?I just perused that sub and damn. One woman is freaking out about her kids daycare closing and finding a solution while her husband works a flexible job and isn’t worried about it. Never once did she mention his job being flexible making it an option for him to watch the kids...like..? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 05:34 AM |
| 3 | Anyone notice how you can work the same amount of hrs, but a LVM will act like he put in more work and his exhaustion is more valid?This is exactly it. They think what we do is not "real work." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 08:23 PM |
| 5 | Anyone notice how you can work the same amount of hrs, but a LVM will act like he put in more work and his exhaustion is more valid?Definitely, I was in the best shape of my life when I worked in a warehouse. Not even doing heavy lifting, but just constantly walking around the warehouse doing tasks made a big difference. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 08:22 PM |
| 64 | Situationships 101He would tell me, "Maybe we will date other people for a couple years, and then get back together and get married." Literally used to joke I was his Plan B and an option. When we broke up, he tried staying friends with me after he got in another relationship and gaslighted that women into thinking she is insecure when she didn't like it. I felt bad for her but I know she probably has a very low opinion of me based on what he told her. And all the girls he has been in relationships with have a pa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 08:19 PM |
| 125 | Situationships 101My ex literally wanted to remain roommates and have me work with him after we broke up. Before him, I never believed in staying in contact with exes, period. Anyways, he continued to reap the benefits of a relationship as we remained friends. Later on as he started talking to girls online, he would talk shit about me and make me look like the crazy ex who would not let go. He then would tell me I act like he is my boyfriend. One time I tried to distance myself and didn't respond to his messages … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 07:49 PM |
| 102 | period.I’m not your collateral damage on your way to growing up, Peter Pan. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 06:23 PM |
| 19 | Anyone notice how you can work the same amount of hrs, but a LVM will act like he put in more work and his exhaustion is more valid?I’ve worked in a warehouse on my feet full time and liked that job more than any of my office jobs. I agree, less stress and you don’t take your work home with you. Blue collar job drama is different than white collar office drama as well 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 06:19 PM |
| 2 | This is why we block.Girls spend all this time coming up with a good comeback and thinking he regrets it when it just shows him he still has a hold over you. Even after all the shit he put us through we still feel bad blocking or ignoring. It’s hard to admit but chances are he is just bored or needs some supply until he finds his next victim. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 07:23 PM |
| 34 | When even seasoned professional therapists are depleted by narcissists, you don't stand a chance. Just goes to show that you're not weak or foolish for being harmed by harmful individuals.My ex was a narcissist and acted like he was a top tier man when really I settled for him. His photos made him look better than he actually did and he got a lot of first dates with women that didn’t lead to anything because they were smarter than me and didn’t ignore the red flags. The thing with him is he is really into “helping people” and I’ve seen him donate money and even get a car for a single mom. This is something that’s really hard to wrap my mind around as to why he would do all this a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 05:56 PM |
| 13 | A lot of men don’t love their wivesThen they have the audacity to call us the ol’ ball and chain. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 07:08 PM |
| 29 | The Dictionary of ScrotesThe pastor in church used to tell us men are visual so we need to cover up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 05:56 PM |
| 20 | How do y’all feel about long engagements? I feel that if after 2 years of engagement y’all ain’t married, it’s not going to happy and it’s most likely doomed.Wow | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 04:52 AM |
| 210 | Tired of being called "selfish" for caring about myself.I always thought men who cheat on their wives were cowards. Be a man and set her free so she can live her best life without you. Then go be with a new girl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 02:45 PM |
| 570 | Tired of being called "selfish" for caring about myself.A lot of men don’t realize how much we bring to the table because they don’t do cooking, cleaning, caretaking, emotional labor, etc. from an early age. They just think these are built in features we all have and if a women doesn’t know how to cook, for example, it’s a factory defect. They don’t realize this is something she is bringing to the table because they just think it’s her default settings. Whereas if we expect him to know how to replace the smoke detector or financially provide for us w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 02:14 PM |
| 29 | Stay away from men who only want you when it's convenient for them (i.e. when a boner is present).Yeah, this applies to my relationship with my parents as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 06:00 AM |
| 134 | Exactly this.It’s especially annoying when they comment on women 50 plus and act aghast that’s she could “let herself go” by getting wrinkles and gray hair. I was watching YouTube videos of Shania Twain, who still looks amazing, and the comments about her aging were disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 07:05 AM |
| 31 | Ladies, what's the worst excuse you've heard for men performing poorly in bed? For me, it was," the hotter the girl is, the harder it is for the guy to last long. It's a compliment to your beauty."“Girls like this” (so it must mean I’m frigid). Girls in porn like it? Okay. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 07:22 AM |
| 8 | Man terrifies woman into blocking him on multiple forms of contact. Cue him whining and hundreds of comments calling her a bitch without hearing her side of the story.I noticed when some guys are pursuing you and you lose interest in talking to them they act like you are personally violating them or something. However, if you do one small thing to turn them off or they lose interest and they decide to ghost you then you are owed no explanation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 12:10 PM |
| 3 | Thinking about this quote this morning and wanted to send it to all the women on FDS. Have a beautiful Saturday.Sometimes setting boundaries with a man who has never been called out will make him think twice with the next women he encounters. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 05:52 AM |
| 15 | The Scariest Encounters Women Have on the Appalachian Trail Are With Men — “this report pissed me off, we can’t even enjoy nature w/o harassment from scrotes!”When she told her guy friends he made her uncomfortable, they thought she was being dramatic and overly sensitive.” This has happened all too often with me- with my male siblings and my ex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 08:17 AM |
| 18 | Every time some incel sends us a message "wAhMeN r ObSoLeTe bCuZ pOrN aNd sEx DoLLz" I think about this picture and laugh. Remember ladies, YOU are the beautiful landscape! Image courtesy of r/nofapThey don’t realize porn addiction is the reason they suck in bed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 06:20 AM |
| 31 | Stop looking through FDS everyday, and then jump in our inbox to harass us.Men’s lives revolve around women. Otherwise they wouldn’t get their panties in a twist over our commentary if we are so irrelevant and delusional as they claim. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 06:14 AM |
| 1 | Chronic Pain and LVMsI really need to read this book. People keep bringing it up to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 11:33 AM |
| 91 | Ladies .. Always LISTEN to your gut. It can save you sooo much heartache.I noticed when girls say, “they ALWAYS come back” like it’s flattering or she won, they think the men realized what they lost. I agree that it just means he is between relationships and looking for validation or just sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 10:13 AM |
| 10 | Woman gets negged by her husband and is wondering if she’s overreacting for being upset.Men think watching porn makes them connoisseurs of women’s bodies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Not even forever gf but forever tenant 10 years and she gets this, can someone explain to her she needs to leave ?!This is so true that it hurts | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 02:27 PM |
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