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I escalated as much as possible for the settings we were in, but we weren't exactly in a house just me and her (I live with my parents over break, she lives with her parents all the time). Point is, she hasn't hung out with me since. I did go on vacation after the second date, so maybe she lost interest during that week. I invited her to hang out twice after vacation, both unsuccessful. She hasn't made an effort to reschedule or made me a priority at all, so I haven't texted her since.
/r/seduction07/01/16 08:37 AM
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I'm 6'6, so I've definitely been there before. Embrace your height. Chest out, shoulders back is how you should be walking. Whenever you see a fellow tall person, take note of their posture. You definitely notice a difference when someone tries to hide their height. Doesn't look very attractive. Also, women love tall guys. Once you realize it and own it, women will be falling over themselves for you. How many times have you heard guys say something along the lines of "If you want to pass me some…
/r/seduction02/01/16 07:18 AM
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I was thinking more along the lines of "Ey gurls, I got an inch for all of u"
/r/seduction31/10/15 04:40 AM
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I'm a little late to the party, but my best advice is DON'T JACK OFF! When I fucked my ex for the first time, I lost my boner twice. There were certainly nerves involved, but the problem mainly stemmed from me jacking off every day leading up to it. After that incident, I told myself that won't happen again. A week later after no fapping, we fucked and I was rock solid the whole time.
/r/seduction27/10/15 01:34 AM
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I think I should be able to control my nerves much better next time. I'm on vyvanse and very little sleep, so I think that kind of escalates it. Besides, now I've aleady done almost as bad of a job as one can do, so it should only go uphill from here.
/r/seduction22/10/15 02:40 AM
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Your post points to why he failed, but doesn't contain info on how to change your mindset. Here's my issue: I am capable of forming an emotional connection with a girl as long as I'm not trying to seduce her. If I try to seduce her, I seem to only focus on seduction and lose any chance of forming a connection with her.
/r/seduction20/10/15 06:01 AM
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How do you change your mindset? I can lie to myself and say the goal isn't sex. But deep down I know that isn't true.
/r/seduction20/10/15 04:24 AM
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Thanks, but I didn't really do anything commendable. I pussied out. As for my friend, he isn't a very good wingman. He's cockblocked me on more than one occasion, so I'd rather go in solo.
/r/seduction20/10/15 01:02 AM
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I've been rejected just about every time I've asked a girl to dance who is with her friend. Girls who are flying solo are a different story.
/r/seduction19/10/15 11:49 PM
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College Station
/r/seduction01/10/15 03:50 AM
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Make eye contact with the girl, then extend your hand as an invitation to dance. I have so much more success with this than opening with words.
/r/seduction24/09/15 04:28 AM
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I haven't, but one of my friends from last year did this. He was super nice to everyone. Gave girls all the attention they wanted and was an all around doormat. Oh, and did I mention he looked like a homeless Canadian? This guy did really well for himself with women. No fucking clue how, but whatever he did seemed to work for him. I'm not really sure where I was going with this, but take that as you will.
/r/seduction18/09/15 03:24 AM
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This guy gets it. Own your height. If you walk around hunched over with bad posture, you look fucking weird. Like it or not, you're always going to stick out. Do you want to stick out in a good way or a bad way? If you want the former, always focus on your posture. Puff your chest out, shoulders back, and head up. Once I realized this, it did absolute wonders for my confidence.
/r/seduction18/09/15 03:16 AM
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Make a joke about your height if someone asks you. As a 6'6" guy, I told "Woah, you're tall" at least once a day. Just have fun with it. I'll often reply with "Really? All this time I thought I was short" or "That's the first time I've ever heatd that" with a lityle smirk on my face. Usually goes a lot further in starting a convo than "Uhh, yeah thanks."
/r/seduction18/09/15 03:12 AM
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My advice is don't do it. I tried it once at a party that my girlfriend wasn't at. Things went too far and I ended up making out with this girl. I thought I would have enough self control to stop myself. It's easy to say, but in the heat of the moment, it's extremely difficult. I told my girlfriend and now I'm single. It's not worth the risk.
/r/seduction13/09/15 04:48 AM
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Delete them on all social media, delete her number, and hit the gym hard. Got me over my breakup pretty quickly.
/r/seduction13/09/15 04:32 AM
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Yes! Extending the hand after some good eye contact is one of the best ways to open with a girl in a club. Harder for her to turn down than a simple "Wanna dance?"
/r/seduction13/09/15 04:30 AM
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That's happened to me with my ex. She was extremely hot and I wanted her really badly. But I lost my boner twice when we were fucking. Fapping is all well and good until you have sex. Then it comes to bite you in the ass.
/r/seduction13/09/15 04:22 AM
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Speaking from personal experience, I last about 30 seconds the first time having sex after a long fapping break.
/r/seduction13/09/15 04:17 AM
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A few months ago, I introduced my girlfriend into my biggest friend group. Three weeks ago, we broke up. Now I am not really part of the social circle because she is always there. I essentially lost that whole group of friends. Ask yourself if it's worth it. Maybe a nice fapping before hand would help.
/r/seduction12/09/15 08:31 AM
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The simplest advice I can give is follow what they do. The first few girls I ever kissed said I was a great kisser, even though I had no idea what the hell I was doing. I just followed their lead. Also, gently pull their bottom lip with your teeth. But don't bite it (kissed a girl who did this...was not pleasant). A little neck kiss or ear nibble can go a long ways as well.
/r/seduction12/09/15 08:04 AM
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I'm curious about how your wife feels about you sleeping with over 80 women
/r/seduction08/09/15 12:41 AM
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This 100 times over. About a year or so ago, I would always slouch and not pay attention to my posture. Aside from fucking with my back, it made me stick out like a sore thumb (I'm 6'6"). Now that I always put my shoulders back, chest out, and neck straight, it's done wonders for me and my confidence. People always tell me I look 3-4 years older than I am because of the way I carry myself. Don't underestimate the importance of posture.
/r/seduction07/09/15 05:15 AM
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I'm a server and once had a girl tip me $2 on a $36 check and left her phone number. This is also what not to do.
/r/seduction07/09/15 04:48 AM
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I believe it had to do with texting. The face to face interaction went very well.
/r/seduction07/09/15 01:34 AM
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What struck you as desperate?
/r/seduction07/09/15 12:32 AM
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This sounds like a shitty thing to do, but this is my advice that helped me get over my ex. Look for flaws in the relationship, realize them, and say "Holy shit, I can do so much better!" The other thing I did (obviously you're in a different situation than I was) is cut off all contact. Delete her number and all social media connections. A little over a month ago, I made the mistake of kissing a girl at a party when I had a girlfriend. I learned my lesson about cheating the hard way (it sucks, …
/r/seduction07/09/15 12:31 AM
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Don't keep gaming while you're in a relationship. It costed me my last girlfriend. Long story short, I was having a bit of fun "practicing" game on some random girl at a party. At this time, I was in a committed relationship. Anyways, I wanted to see how far I could go with it. We ended up making out before I realized "What the fuck am I doing?" I told my girlfriend what happened because it was the right thing to do. Now she is my ex girlfriend.
/r/seduction30/08/15 11:28 AM
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I just got broken up with a little over a week ago. The tldr of it is I made out with a rando at a party, told her, and she dumped me. She called a few days later and said she was seeing someone else. It was one of my friends. That turned all my sadness into anger. Instead of sitting around all sad and depressed, I decided to do something about it. I hit the gym and have gotten the best workouts of my life, using anger as a motivator. I want her to see me when she's out with her new boy toy, loo…
/r/seduction23/08/15 03:31 AM
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Honestly, I prefer going out solo. Best of luck to you!
/r/seduction22/08/15 10:28 AM
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Height does matter (I speak from experience as a 6'6 guy), but confidence is much more important. I ddin't get laid all throughout high school because I had no confidence. One I started carrying myself as a confident guy, I had much more success with women.
/r/seduction20/08/15 08:53 AM
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Going through something similar, brother. However, this was my fault. I briefly made out with a girl at a party a few weeks ago, then stopped because I had a girlfriend and really cared about her. I worked up the balls to tell her about a week ago (not for fear of being found out or anything, but because it was the right thing to do). She freaked out and dumped me. These last few days have been fucking brutal because not only did I lose one of the best things in my life, but it was 100% my fault…
/r/seduction18/08/15 09:43 AM
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Knowing what I know now, I may not have told her. But she had always been very open and honest with me, so I thought she deserved the same respect. Advice on how to remedy the situation?
/r/seduction16/08/15 02:39 AM
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A lot of it has to do with how you carry yourself. I used to slouch all the time in high school and I seldom got approached. Started reading seddit a year ago and puffed my chest out, straightened my back, and fucking OWNED my height (6'6). Just obverve really tall people and how they carry themselves. One of my coworkers is 6'5 and pretty good looking, but he slouches all the time. I feel like your height can actually work against you if you don't use it correctly.
/r/seduction15/08/15 10:02 PM
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I just figured out in the last year or so that being 6'6 is a huge advantage. Confidence skyrocketed after that. Own it!
/r/seduction15/08/15 09:56 PM
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The milk and cheese part is very important. I started working out again this last Christmas break. During that break, I started drinking two protein shakes a day that I mixed with milk. I started getting pretty bad breakouts. I switched to almond milk and my acne got so much better.
/r/seduction27/06/15 08:05 PM
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I really cut down on dairy, greasy, and sugary foods. Then I bought this stuff called glycolic acid off Amazon. It's a very strong acne peel that comes in 30% strength and 50% strength. I'd recommend the 30% to start, then the 50% if that's not effective. But seriously, there are a million different acne products out there. They will help, but I believe diet is a major contributing factor. Just try it for a week or two and see how that affects your acne.
/r/seduction27/06/15 08:03 PM
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One of my friends looks like a homeless Canadian. He is an objectively unattractive male and he's gotten with hotter girls (and considerably more of them) than I have (I'm 6'6, have a great physique, and consider myself extremely attractive). Looks do matter to an extent - an ugly guy with great game obviously won't get laid as much as an attractive guy with great game. But you can definitely get yourself laid regardless.
/r/seduction27/06/15 07:42 PM
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Sometimes persistence is key. Once had a girl in a club turn her head five times before she accepted a kiss the sixth time. After we hooked up, she said she just wanted to make me work for it. Women play fucked up mind games. But do note, in this situation, she was very obviously into me. You just have to judge based on the circumstances.
/r/seduction27/06/15 07:22 PM
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I'm 6'6, pretty muscular, defined jaw, yada yada yada. I used to have inner game issues ALL the time. I think I was deficient in getting women as opposed to others because I never really had to use "game". Everything came easy to me till college started, so I was way behind the curve. Even with a girlfriend now, I still have inner conflicts where I think "I'm not good enough for her." From a looks standpoint, I practically believe I'm god's gift to the world. But from an inner game standpoint, I…
/r/seduction08/06/15 07:47 AM
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You're looking at it the wrong way. The only few times I've done a cold approach during the day, I fucked it up big time. I was so nervous and ended up saying dumb shit. You know what I did? I laughed and thought about what a dumbass I must have looked at. Take a step back, laugh at yourself, realize you aren't dead, and move on. You now know you need to approach immediately. Lesson learned. You won't be an expert the first time. Good luck!
/r/seduction28/05/15 08:20 PM
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Stop jacking off completely. Remember in junior high when you would get random boners all the time? That's what it's like when you stop jacking off. First time I had sex with my girlfriend, I lost my boner twice. I told myself never again. Ever since then, I've stopped jacking off and never had a problem.
/r/seduction28/05/15 01:03 PM
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That's not to mention "game" on Tinder is very subjective. I asked a few girls what usually works as an opener on Tinder. One said "A non-corny joke will usually do the trick." The others in the group disagreed and said "Hey cutie" or "Hey sexy" is much more effective than a joke.
/r/seduction19/05/15 03:35 PM
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No no no. Ecigs are a great tool for the seduction process. Women are always curious about them. Use this to your advantage. Ask if they've shotgunned a hit before. Regardless of the answer, tell them "Lets try it." Obviously the mood is key, but it can make k-closing much easier. My other favorite thing to do with my ecig is building tension. If a girl asks to hit it, I'll hand it to them. But I don't let go immediately. Once they have their hand on it and they start to pull, I'll look in their…
/r/seduction30/04/15 07:27 AM
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Great advice. I've had a much fuller social life this semester by doing this. In fact, I met my current girlfriend by stepping out of my comfort zone. About a month ago, I was going up the elevator to my apartment where I saw my neighbor. He invited me to come drink at his place. I've received so many passing invites like this, so I didn't plan on going. But I thought to myself "I can sit at home and smoke weed any time, or I can meet some new people and make some new friends." I went to the par…
/r/seduction27/04/15 03:09 PM
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Stress is definitely a factor. But if you really want the acne to leave, cut out junk food and dairy (especially milk) from your diet. Replace milk with almond milk. The other part is skin care products. I've tried every product CVS carries and they largely did nothing. Then my friend told me about glycolic acid (I use 30%) that you can get from Amazon. Once I started using that and shaving 3x a week, my acne got 100% better. If you have any questions, pm me.
/r/seduction21/04/15 07:32 AM
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It's late , so I don't want to go into great detail. It seems you already do this, but neck kisses and ear nibbles go a long way. Also, use your hands. Use them to explore her body while you kiss her. Above all, pay attention to how she kisses you. Girls will kiss you the way they would like to be kissed. Mimic what she does. I've followed these guidelines and always been called a great kisser, even though I have a minimal amount of experience.
/r/seduction21/04/15 07:23 AM
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I know it's stupid, but you know why I do it? I've always gotten shit about being terrible with girls. All throughout high school my friends would give me a hard time. First semester of college, I didn't get a bunch of shit for it, but it eas understood that I suck with women. I want to prove that I can do it. This semester, I've finally started getting laid. And you know what? I enjoy showing people that yes, I can in fact do it. Aside from that, it has helped me in other areas of life. Like no…
/r/seduction15/04/15 03:33 AM
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I laughed my ass off at this. This is precisely why I try to never be around women high.
/r/seduction12/04/15 08:46 PM
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I was out last night with a coworker who has barely seen me with women. But he nailed my weakness: I'm good at initial attraction (being 6'6 will do that), but I have a hard time keeping them interested.
/r/seduction12/04/15 08:32 PM
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He was pretty cool at first. We got along really well. Until he found out he wasn't getting laid...
/r/seduction12/04/15 03:34 AM
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The best advice I can give is be a "yes man". Someone invites you to a party, but you don't really want to attend? Go anyways. Always be looking for ways to meet people. A mistake I made my first semester was only going places that I was invited to by an attractive girl. As a result, I didn't go out very often. Now I will never turn down a party invite, and my social life is much better because of this.
/r/seduction11/04/15 10:14 PM
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Buy glycolic acid on amazon. Get the 30% strength. If you're really serious about it, cut dairy out of your diet. I started doing this about 6 months ago and it's gone, aside from the occssional zit.
/r/seduction09/04/15 05:45 PM
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I'm in the same boat. If I had just a little bit of game, I'd be drowning in pussy. If I had game like my roommate, I'd probably get laid every day. Unfortunately, I do not :/
/r/seduction02/04/15 05:44 AM
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It all comes down to how bad you want to gain size. My junior year of high school, I was going about 3 days a week. I ate a pretty decent amount of protein and gained size gradually. Went from 170 to 195 over the course of about a year. My first semester in college, I went down to 165 because I wasn't working out (having a fast metabolism sucks). This semester, i went from 165 to 195 in three months. So decide for yourself how much you want to gain weight.
/r/seduction30/03/15 07:53 PM
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A lot of people are going to say "just kiss her", but it's easier said than done. Especially for not having kissed anyone before. If you're smoking together, a very easy way to grab a kiss is to shotgun a hit. Just ask "Have you ever shotgunned a hit before?" Followed by "Let's try it."
/r/seduction29/03/15 08:40 PM
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It is harder to gain weight than most. But you have to make a serious effort. When I was working out about a year ago, I was taking in about 2500 calories a day. Now I eat 3500+ a day and the pounds have been packing in. Eat a lot of chicken, peanut butter sandwiches, and take 2 mass gainer shakes a day. This, coupled with 5 days in the gym every week will bring you up to a normal weight in no time. It's a serious lifestyle change, but it all comes down to how bad you want it.
/r/seduction27/03/15 06:55 PM
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How tall are you? I'm 6'5 and it helps me immensely. In most situations, it will make you stand out (hopefully in a good way). Just be sure to lift weights so you don't look like an oversized holocaust survivor.
/r/seduction26/03/15 05:27 PM
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I saw a video a while ago about confidence. The guy basically said don't play the comparison game. You will lose EVERY SINGLE TIME. Just think about that one for a while.
/r/seduction24/03/15 05:43 PM
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"What's your name?" Not the best opener, but it works.
/r/seduction23/03/15 03:54 AM
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Why?
/r/seduction22/03/15 11:13 PM
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For starters, I had 2 shots. Second, we walked to her place. I drove back to mine about three hours later, after the alcohol was out of my system. Where did you get that idea from?
/r/seduction22/03/15 11:13 PM
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Honestly, I don't know if I would have persisted in any other situation. She was all over me after previously asking me to dance. I wasn't sure why she wouldn't let me kiss her. After we fucked, I told her "I wasn't sure you were going to let me kiss you." She said "I just wanted to make you work for it." Idk, fuck games that women play on you.
/r/seduction22/03/15 10:19 PM
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Damn. Y'all are on to me. I'll come clean: I didn't even talk to a girl yesterday. I made eye contact, then ran to the bathroom and threw up due to nerves. Then I cried myself to sleep on the car ride home with my mother.
/r/seduction22/03/15 10:04 PM
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/r/seduction22/03/15 10:00 PM
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You realize I don't get any karma for this post, right?
/r/seduction22/03/15 03:51 PM
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I'm not saying it wasn't great. But it's made out to be some transcendent experience that you cannot live without. That's what I mean by overrated.
/r/seduction22/03/15 02:55 PM
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Yeah I don't have high hopes. Worst case is I get brunch with a pretty girl. Best case is brunch and sex.
/r/seduction22/03/15 02:05 AM
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In a club, it's "What's your name?"
/r/seduction16/03/15 02:47 AM
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I live in a college town, so it's a bit more acceptable.
/r/seduction15/03/15 08:19 PM
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Fellow 6'5er here. Don't bend you knees when going in for the kiss. If you overthink it, you'll make it wierd. Just bend down and kiss her in the moment. Also, if you feel like she's staring straight up at you, walk around and find something like a bartop to somewhat lean on. Just something to put your butt on and slightly bend your knees. No need for a full on lean.
/r/seduction15/03/15 08:15 PM
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I don't understand it. If people disagree with my comments, they should tell me why and what I did wrong. The downvote doesn't help anyone.
/r/seduction15/03/15 07:03 AM
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I know this will probably sound like boasting, but I am a very attractive male. I'm 6'6, am well built, and have good features. I've had several girls tell me I'm a 10. That being said, I can't get matched with an attractive girl on tinder to save my life. Don't let it bother you.
/r/seduction15/03/15 12:26 AM
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I personally use almond milk because of the low calories and low amount of flavor. Also, in the way of protein, I use carnivore mass gainer. It's derived from beef, so I think it's more acne friendly than whey protein.
/r/seduction14/03/15 11:14 PM
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You want to start off by dancing/grinding and building a bit of sexual tension. Hold her hips while grinding on her from behind. Then slowly run your hands up and down her hips. After a few minutes, turn her around and grind on her front side. After a minute or two. Slowly stop and make eye contact. If she holds it for a second, put your hand on her chin and just fucking kiss her.
/r/seduction14/03/15 05:34 AM
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I had some bad acne last semester, and really cleared it up by taking two steps: First step is glycolic acid. Go to amazon and buy 30% strength. It will feel like your face is on fire when you apply it, but it will take a solid layer off your face within a few days. I've tried so many CVS/Walgreens products like salicylic acid and benzoyl peroxide, but it never worked. This will kick the acne right in the balls. Second step is cutting dairy out of your diet, or reducing it as much as possible. I…
/r/seduction14/03/15 05:24 AM
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Somewhat similarly, I was in a club on Saturday making out with an HB8. We were heavily making out for 10 mins or so. I poked at the idea of going to my place, but she said she doesn't hook up with "random guys from a club". I said she should get to know me better. She gave me her number and I texted her that night. She responded after I had fallen asleep. Texted her the next day and no response. Sometimes women are fucking wierd. A date the next day isn't a certainty by any means.
/r/seduction11/03/15 06:48 AM
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I actually just pulled up reddit to ask about club game. Thank you, good sir. What do you usually say after "whats your name?" I want to set myself apart from everyone else in the club. Also, what do you do about girls with their friends? Do you ignore the friends or introduce yourself? I'm talking about the initial meeting, not pulling her away afterwards.
/r/seduction15/02/15 09:59 PM
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Cant or wont approach?
/r/seduction08/02/15 06:31 PM
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If you're talking about girls in class, ask them to study. If you're talking to girls at a party, invite them back to smoke/drink. If she has already shown she's really into you, tell her "Let's get out of here." Doesn't have to be complicated.
/r/seduction22/01/15 06:07 AM
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I did not go over to her house. I replied to her text that said we won't have sex, then no response. I'm not sure if I should call her today and try for a meeting, or wait it out today and she if she gets back to me. Left me in an odd place.
/r/seduction19/01/15 04:40 PM
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From what I've read on here, "We're not having sex" means the opposite. But she didn't respond to my last text. If she really wanted to sleep with me, she would have. Would you say play the waiting game a bit, or just try again?
/r/seduction19/01/15 04:09 PM
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That's my problem. I have a hard time differentiating between when to chase and when to play it cool. I usually end up on either extreme.
/r/seduction10/11/14 06:42 AM
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I think y'all are missing the point. This is not advice aimed at 10s who have a hard time with women. I never said it's a hard and fast rule that all girls are nervous about approaching a guy. Some HB5's may have an easy time talking to a guy who is a 10. On the flip side, an HB10 may have butterflies while talking to an average looking guy. My point is that a lot of guys (myself at times included) have the perception that all attractive girls are completely confident and secure. While you're si…
/r/seduction09/11/14 04:59 AM
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Holy shit I'm exactly the same way. Girls assume judging by my demeanor and looks that I must get laid all the time. My sex life is filled with "almosts".
/r/seduction06/11/14 07:28 AM
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It's the all-praising that I've worked on getting away from. It's been a while since I've done it, and it looks almost pathetic when I see it now. I have a friend who "all praises" any female he's trying to get with at a party. He dedicates all his attention to her and agrees with everything she says. On the other hand, I chill and have a good time. They usually start coming over to me.
/r/seduction03/11/14 09:37 PM
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I realized I've used every brta response in that thread. Also realized I use all the alpha responses with guys, but seldom with girls. Time to change that.
/r/seduction24/10/14 07:45 PM
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I'm not sure. I guess I stack myself up against other guys. I also have very little sexual experience, so it's hard for me to be confident.
/r/seduction24/10/14 04:01 PM
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Here's my problem. I know what I have going for me. People like me. Not to sound cocky, but I know I'm hot shit. I've seen countless posts saying stuff like "You're great as you are, stop caring what other people think, etc." I can tell myself that all day; I know what to tell myself. The problem is making myself BELIEVE it. I don't believe I'm good enough. I do care what other people think. Any words of wisdom?
/r/seduction24/10/14 12:55 AM
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I'm not an expert, but asking a girl out on a date immediately is like going on a sales presentation and trying to get an order before showing the product. You need to establish a little bit of value first.
/r/seduction14/09/14 02:33 AM
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Rum and coke is kind of boring. A double shot of Malibu with coke and a lime is delicious.
/r/seduction10/04/14 04:28 PM
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Would you recommend ignoring her?
/r/seduction04/02/14 05:37 AM
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You nailed it. Im not afraid of rejection, but I go to a small school, so all the girls know each other. Just wierd.
/r/seduction13/10/13 12:23 AM
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