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| 1 | 40-Year-Old Virgin should be considered an anti red pill movie. It's the only thing I could find that actually sells how dating is realisticallyI have done a lot of that and it's easy to say but I had to go through a lot of different people for years to finally find that group I would like to say that a person should not have to do that because we should at least try to find common ground with all people even the ones that we don't allow to. But as a nerd it gets tiring when you have other men constantly pester you because you're bigger and taller than them so they expect you to be an expert on fighting in sports and everything else. Do… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/06/21 08:04 PM |
| 1 | 40-Year-Old Virgin should be considered an anti red pill movie. It's the only thing I could find that actually sells how dating is realisticallyI hate using women as a measure of success but I still date around Zoe. Clearly they're finding something attractive about me and of course I don't advertise all my Reddit stuff It's just something I've noticed especially when we compare. I know you guys have your own unique challenges but when it comes to who actually makes the relationships and starts it, it's usually on the man I was out on a date and my friends kept insisting that the man has to go after them. I asked him why they think that… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/06/21 08:02 PM |
| 1 | 40-Year-Old Virgin should be considered an anti red pill movie. It's the only thing I could find that actually sells how dating is realisticallyI didn't understand, I just get a little frustrated when it seems like a lot of women's fear is overlap with men's but there is a certain freedom that women have been expressing it because if a man expressed it were looked at as weak. Right now it would be so refreshing to find a girl that wasn't so into casual sex but with the city I'm in that's kind of the norm. I'm so sorry if I came out too frustrated and I completely relate to what you just typed out I have learned that it is a matter of co… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/06/21 05:13 PM |
| 0 | 40-Year-Old Virgin should be considered an anti red pill movie. It's the only thing I could find that actually sells how dating is realisticallyI have but you got to admit that women have it easier Any one thing about a man could be an instant deal breaker even if he had all the other things right Which is hard to tell because I am a man A lot of women don't understand You all are trying so hard to weed out what you proceed to be as creepy and find a Sweet spot while we are trying to succeed with throwing a shot and even then, Just because you get the girl does not mean that she was the right girl which I have unfortunately learned | /r/ExRedPill | 29/06/21 04:33 PM |
| -2 | 40-Year-Old Virgin should be considered an anti red pill movie. It's the only thing I could find that actually sells how dating is realisticallyLike when he was going through that speed dating scene. I felt like that was the most relatable thing ever because I've been on dates where I thought the woman will be super intelligent or open and it turns out she was the opposite or she talked too much or she was a party girl Keep in mind whatever she is is okay and I don't actively judge her for that but as a guy I'm expected to act my super best and when I see a woman not even trying to act her best it does kind of make me feel a little bett… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/06/21 02:10 PM |
| -1 | 40-Year-Old Virgin should be considered an anti red pill movie. It's the only thing I could find that actually sells how dating is realisticallyOf course not but as a fellow artist you can understand how much art and media influences us Art imitates life and I will go on to argue that life imitates art as well. That movie is perfect for showing how dating actually is because we like to think that it's always on the man and if something bad happens on the date it's always the man's fault. Both men and women still think that dating and sex is something that men do to women instead of it being a mutually agreeable thing. If I were to tell … | /r/ExRedPill | 29/06/21 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Calling these guys losers and making fun of them is not helping in your only making yourself look like hypocritesExactly and as a young man who grew up within feminism I was very patient and I'm still proud of myself for how much I took from them and from the outside world but after a while you can't take anymore I literally protested black lives matter and feminist stuff when I was in school but I had a mental breakdown and I could not take anymore because Young men do not get the same amount of sympathy and empathy from society. FEMINIST WILL TELL YOU THAT IT'S REALLY WOMEN THAT DON'T BUT EVERY STATISTIC… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/06/21 02:08 PM |
| -2 | The TRUTH about [HYPERGAMY]❗(hear me out)Or it could because like men a lot of women seem to think that they have something that makes them inherently better and then justify it by having high standards and then wonder why they can never find anybody or only find crazy All my life I have never seen a woman actually date what she had in her standards. Most women standards seem to manifest within the top 5% of men. And this is coming from women who are completely average and come from the same places and communities that their male count… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/06/21 01:34 PM |
| 0 | Calling these guys losers and making fun of them is not helping in your only making yourself look like hypocritesAnybody from any side can say that I'm very much in the middle now because I hate the conservatives and the liberals and I can say that because I grew up as a black Democrat surrounded by black feminist With everything that we know about the crisis that's happening with young boys you would think that feminists will be the first people on that but instead they make it worse I don't like the mindset but it's a very logical conclusion when you spent your whole life trying to do everything right an… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/06/21 01:32 PM |
| 0 | I feel like my ability to make art correlates with my confidence and I feel like that's why I'm having troubleI'm not contradicting myself you're choosing to be ignorant and instead of admitting you're wrong you just keep circle jerking. And stop rejecting your own thoughts on the people | /r/ExRedPill | 29/06/21 12:57 PM |
| -1 | I think one reason why a lot of men go into the red pill is because they genuinely do not know what makes a man attractiveMost young men do know what makes them attractive it's just that it's never automatic or easy like a woman can attract a man Men can't just walk into a room and use their physical attraction to attract people and it's very rare that it happens But a lot of traits that do make a man attractive could easily sway the other side and be unattractive to some women I'm pretty nerdy and smart and intelligent myself and sometimes that does turn off some women but other women enjoy it | /r/ExRedPill | 29/06/21 12:48 PM |
| 1 | Hypergamy is ridiculousLook I empathize with your story because I went through something similar and in the same vein that's what makes a frustrating because you're trying to come off as elitist as if you're the only one that takes responsibility and this ambitious as if most people already are not dead I see this flower with a lot of people who are self received as working hard or ambitious because it almost gives them this type of moral high ground over those who they deem who do not which is just sad | /r/ExRedPill | 28/06/21 10:50 PM |
| 0 | I feel like my ability to make art correlates with my confidence and I feel like that's why I'm having troubleAnd I'm tired of you always trying to frame my arguments as me lacking responsibility as if me and most other people already aren't trying to improve your life You can improve your life and self improve and complain Some complaints are warranted and as a feminist I'm pretty sure you would understand that and also as a feminist I could easily turn that logic around on women Stop acting ignorant | /r/ExRedPill | 28/06/21 10:48 PM |
| 0 | I feel like my ability to make art correlates with my confidence and I feel like that's why I'm having troubleExactly I do believe most guys do have competent skills and confidence but I do think biology does have a strong play because most women are still going to try to find the best guy out of a lot of guys who are already confident or strong Recently my cousin said I should have kept up with sports and art because then I would have been like a god I get his reasoning because he's super short and I'm 6'6 and buff. I don't play sports or workout as much as I used to though and as I get older I focus m… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/06/21 04:30 PM |
| 0 | Hypergamy is ridiculousSocial power. More eager to listen. Safe spaces. Safety nets. And affirmative action which I really don't think is bad at all but it's just an example. I don't think women are seeing posters plastered saying women are trash at college campuses | /r/ExRedPill | 28/06/21 04:27 PM |
| 1 | I feel like my ability to make art correlates with my confidence and I feel like that's why I'm having troubleNo I mean you argue a lot and have a lot of similarities and that's just another one I don't mean the art itself In my head I have tons of solutions maybe you're just not listening I'm not the one that is exhausting. I empathize with you but sometimes it feels like beating a dead horse. Some of the things you say make sense in theory but as a guy it just does not ring true in my experience. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/06/21 04:26 PM |
| 0 | I feel like my ability to make art correlates with my confidence and I feel like that's why I'm having troubleI have but I have let them slip through my fingers either by not trying hard enough or trying too hard and as a guy you never know which is which. Some of these girls are straight up did not go after because I feel like it would have been too good to be true | /r/ExRedPill | 28/06/21 04:17 PM |
| 2 | I feel like my ability to make art correlates with my confidence and I feel like that's why I'm having troubleI have to but not everybody is an artist and I'm not surrounded by it a lot of them anymore since I'm out of school | /r/ExRedPill | 28/06/21 04:16 PM |
| 2 | I feel like my ability to make art correlates with my confidence and I feel like that's why I'm having troubleKind of. I would say on max out on the old skill at least 80% but the other 20% that I'm lacking is a lot of traditional manly traits that are considered attractive I can hold my own but I feel like it gets muddled because how you perceived is a big teddy bear who was sensitive. I literally see women lose the attraction for me and I reveal my real personality | /r/ExRedPill | 28/06/21 04:15 PM |
| -1 | I feel like my ability to make art correlates with my confidence and I feel like that's why I'm having troubleYou're an artist? No wonder we argue so hard 🤣 | /r/ExRedPill | 28/06/21 04:13 PM |
| 0 | Hypergamy is ridiculousWomen are college educated because they get a lot more assistance and I know I can't talk as I'm a minority and I used affirmative action but even still a lot of men are disen carriage to keep going There is a lot of anti male sentiment in academia also and that's one of the reasons why I also dropped out Combine normal pressure supply with being in an environment that is going to be hostile to you because of what a small percentage of men have done | /r/ExRedPill | 28/06/21 12:20 AM |
| 0 | Hypergamy is ridiculousNo!! men are shamed because it's expected that a man is supposed to be a Superman and have finances and confidence and everything else in order otherwise he's a loser and the above comment kind of proves it right Right now I live in my grandparents and even though I know most women around my level are also in a similar situation, the fact that I as a man am living with my parents is going to be a deal-breaker and knock off points from me | /r/ExRedPill | 28/06/21 12:18 AM |
| 0 | My thoughts on the red pill idea that men have to do so much more to find sexual partners.When I think of rejection I think of a man going up to a woman and the woman actively saying that she does not want him or she is disinterested Actions are being made in communication is happening If I go get one girl out in the club I can see how I rejected all the other girls but it's hard for me to think of it that way as a guy because guys have to play it by a numbers game This is not neediness or desperateness but as a guy you cannot really put all your energy or eggs in one basket. In a wa… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/21 11:30 PM |
| 1 | My friend said that I am confident with speaking and talking to other people but not within myself? I'm confused on thisI feel like I've done so much work trying to find inner confidence and I'm at the point to where maybe it's just not in my mental schema I've done so much work trying to get better self love or self-esteem and all of that good stuff and I'm still feel like it's not enough | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/21 10:15 PM |
| 1 | My thoughts on the red pill idea that men have to do so much more to find sexual partners.Forced to be coerced into something means that you are playing a part or at least letting yourself out victim to something. Women have agency and we got to stop seeing dating at something men do to women especially since we're supposed to be equal or at least trying to see things easily I'm not saying that they are compatible but rejection isn't just something that one just gets over and it depends on what type of rejection. I'm years later still pretty hateful at a girl who rejected me openly a… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/21 09:46 PM |
| -1 | My thoughts on the red pill idea that men have to do so much more to find sexual partners.When people say that women have to do all of this is the logical fallacy because it is assumed that women are doing something inherently harder which is not true You attract with your beauty and Grace and all those other stereotypical things. And most of that is something that you are born with. A man has to make himself look neat and actively be a pursuer even if he hates this type of role Imagine going your whole life with nobody ever complimenting you or approaching you. You may think that's … | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/21 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Why do I find a lot of older women disagreeing with common feminist ideas around approachingFor years of doing that I feel like something must be wrong with me because I've yet to feel like I have enough figured out I've been trying to figure out where is this sweet spot between being cool and confident and understanding enough to finally get the girl and I must be crazy because I just have not found it I ignored what I couldn't control and I worked on a lot of things and yet I find myself in this place still. Even more so now as an adult. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/21 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Why do I find a lot of older women disagreeing with common feminist ideas around approachingWhich is a shame. Especially in this time that we're questioning everything you would think that this would be the first thing. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/21 03:06 PM |
| -2 | My thoughts on the red pill idea that men have to do so much more to find sexual partners.I understand them and I understand what you're trying to argue but what I'm saying is I don't agree with it because you're trying to make it seem like getting ready for a day and trying to look attractive it's only something that women do No one is making anybody also take so much time to get ready. Every woman is different in every man is different and my morning routine or whatever could look very different than the next dudes. Like I said before not only do men have to look good physically bu… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/21 01:21 PM |
| -6 | My thoughts on the red pill idea that men have to do so much more to find sexual partners.That's a fallacy and I'm not saying that you don't put in work but that does not mean that you put in more work than the man I got to make sure that I am confident and smooth and also clean in my hair is straight and nails and cologne. I wish I could just do the soft stuff like make sure I look right because for guys we got to do that and leave the conversation and appear confident | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/21 01:12 PM |
| 1 | Why do I find a lot of older women disagreeing with common feminist ideas around approachingBut why is this narrative always that men are just inherently either creepy or so bad at social interactions that they come off as uncalibrated because it's just not something I have been seeing If most of my exes were not attractive they will probably be seen as socially awkward. I had to leave almost every interaction with my last girlfriend just because she was that shy. She wasn't shy around me but when talking to other people it was just not going to happen Everybody keeps saying this and I… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/21 01:09 PM |
| 0 | Why do I find a lot of older women disagreeing with common feminist ideas around approachingI would like for men sexuality to be looked at with dignity and care and empathy and sensitivity instead of looking at it as something disgusting or something needing to be fixed I am an adult man at 24 and I'm still finding it so confusing that women are actually attracted to me And I'll be honest with you, growing up it felt like it was so out of left field for a woman to actually be sexually attracted to a man because the narrative that I saw within the home and with comments and with media a… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/21 05:59 AM |
| 1 | Why do I find a lot of older women disagreeing with common feminist ideas around approachinghttps://goodmenproject.com/sex-relationships/why-do-we-demonize-men-who-are-honest-about-their-sexual-needs/ | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/21 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Why do I find a lot of older women disagreeing with common feminist ideas around approachingI told you I am searching right now. Google's algorithm is a little weird because ironically they keep bringing me back to Reddit threads | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/21 04:06 AM |
| 2 | Why do I find a lot of older women disagreeing with common feminist ideas around approachingYes there are tons I had a really refreshing White gay feminist friend who even admitted to me that a lot of white women seem to forget that they had just as much control and privilege as their white counterparts simply because they had the combination of both being white and being women A lot of original feminists did not want black men to have the right to vote because they realize that a black man would have something they did not have first and it was perceived to be wrong because they were … | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/21 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Why do I find a lot of older women disagreeing with common feminist ideas around approachingWhy do you feel the need to defend feminism so hard? It doesn't matter if the definition is something else If most feminists are actively hostiles and do not listen and actively try to be as sexist as possible to men while using flashy language and acting like their transgressions are not sexist, do you not see how some people could question or even outright deny this type of thinking even though the original origin of the ideology may be rooted in something good I have a lot of examples but I f… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/21 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Why do I find a lot of older women disagreeing with common feminist ideas around approachingFeminist contribute to the stereotypes all the time Gender is supposed to be a construct right yet so many feminists will continuously demonize a man's sexuality Men are pigs He just wants to get laid He has a tiny dick Black male sexuality has been demonized since the 1600s | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/21 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Why do I find a lot of older women disagreeing with common feminist ideas around approachingI agree with you and a lot of these old gender norms are ingrained in All peoples regardless of what they identify as A lot of these things are subconscious Just asked a lot of people assume a woman must be good at cooking, a lot of people just assume a man must be having sex all the time I'm pretty sexually selective myself and it takes a lot of emotion for me to get to that point with a girl. I have had girls look at me as if I was crazy because I stated to them that I am not looking for sex R… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/21 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Why do I find a lot of older women disagreeing with common feminist ideas around approachingI don't think you personally accepted but you seem way too keen on defending feminism when I keep telling you that a lot of feminism does damage even though it does not mean to Right now at this moment if you had a son and a daughter Your son is statistically more likely to die or kill himself Your son is statistically more likely to be homeless and not only all of this stuff might happen or may not happen but if it does you can bet your son will not get anywhere near the amount of sympathy or a… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/21 03:45 AM |
| 0 | Why do I find a lot of older women disagreeing with common feminist ideas around approachingI did not say that You defending feminism is an example of the no true Scotsman by pointing out the different types of feminism which I understand but the feminist who are good make no qualms about staying quiet about the feminist who caused damage and misinformation and borderline misandry If people's opinions were more consistent than we probably wouldn't even be having this conversation and I do not expect this to happen soon but when I see a hypocrisy and now I have to call it out I was a fe… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/21 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Why do I find a lot of older women disagreeing with common feminist ideas around approachingAnd it's the responsibility of such a thing to make sure they separate themselves I understand what you're saying but damage is already done and that came from the most extreme types of feminism Boys are stupid throw rocks at them Men are trash Men are pigs Guys just want sex Men just hate women Etc.. I have heard all of these phrases from family to personal mentors Now reverse the gender on all of that Do you think any of that would be acceptable coming from a grown man | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/21 03:35 AM |
| 2 | Why do I find a lot of older women disagreeing with common feminist ideas around approachingIt's a typo. Can you give me some gender rolls that you believe most young men are ingrained with | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/21 03:33 AM |
| 1 | Why do I find a lot of older women disagreeing with common feminist ideas around approachingWhat I'm saying is spousal abuse is thought to be something men just do to women but statistics say it's about 50/50 Because of that number should we go around assuming all men and women are potential abusers? The answer to all of that should always be no because it is highly unfair and most likely it's not even accurate if you judge somebody that way It's hard for me to describe because you're a woman but give me a second I need to find some statistics and articles | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/21 03:33 AM |
| 0 | Why do I find a lot of older women disagreeing with common feminist ideas around approachingThe ones true scotman fallacy is used when someone criticizes any group but it's easy to say that it's just a few and I would even agree to that point but people only say that it's just a few when they're trying to defend the problem at its hole A lot of extreme feminists are created by feminism because there is a lot of overlap between that and heavy misandrist tones And listen to me I agree with 90% of what feminist believe in I'm just waiting for the day to that to be consistent with every ge… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/21 03:06 AM |
| 0 | Why do I find a lot of older women disagreeing with common feminist ideas around approachingSee that's the problem you keep saying I'm confused because you don't want to admit that there is flaws It doesn't matter if it's classic or extremist and believe me I know the difference but right now no feminist is calling out the ones that are extreme and the extreme views are are taking us gospel at this point | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/21 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Why do I find a lot of older women disagreeing with common feminist ideas around approachingExactly most sexual predators are men but that is way far off the record because most men are not sexual predators And no it's not inherent to men and even as a young man I could see that and I do agree with you to a point that men are taught to be sexually aggressive but that is because acting like the opposite or even being perceived as the opposite usually ends up being perceived as unattractive I was raised by second and third wife. Men's sexuality is already demonized by religious culture i… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/21 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Why do I find a lot of older women disagreeing with common feminist ideas around approachingIronically both. I very much felt like growing up it was always some type of conflicting or confusing message because if you get it wrong you end up getting ostracized but if you end up going too far you end up looking like a creep or 'insert gender stereotype or insult here' And yes I actually do see a lot of people acting inconsistent I've done it and you have probably done it It's amazing how we are supposed to live in a time where we're supposed to be freeing up gender roles and yet I do not… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/21 02:55 AM |
| 2 | Why do I find a lot of older women disagreeing with common feminist ideas around approachingGive me some concrete Ginger rolls you think boys are taught just off the top of your head | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/21 02:52 AM |
| 1 | Why do I find a lot of older women disagreeing with common feminist ideas around approachingMen are taught traditional and feminist roles and that's why there is confusion as well and it's not just a woman-centric thing You're using the no true Scotsman fallacy Whenever someone tries to critique feminism it's always brought up as if the feminists are critiquing aren't real feminist Why do you keep trying to act like what I'm telling you is not the truth or I'm exaggerating | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/21 02:52 AM |
| -1 | Why do I find a lot of older women disagreeing with common feminist ideas around approachingI'm not assuming women want to approach but refuse to but I do believe that a lot of women seem to have very convenient reasons and there I say excuses instead of actually stating that they don't have to approach If you are to be assaulted or raped it will most likely be by somebody you know and I'm not discounting the stranger men or other men don't do things but as a big black man I have had to use this reasoning to counter other arguments about sexual assault That is universal for most people… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/21 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Why do I find a lot of older women disagreeing with common feminist ideas around approachingAccept is too strong of a word Most people want to be respected or at least perceived to be that way It doesn't matter how confident or whatever you are but if no one around you perceives it so then it does not matter Believe me I've been at the point in my life where I did not care and I thought it was giving me confidence but clearly it did not | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/21 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Why do I find a lot of older women disagreeing with common feminist ideas around approachingI know they want ginger rolls and that's why I don't like them but you will be surprised just how many feminists and left-wing leaning people still hold these types of beliefs especially when they're trying to win an argument Never heard a girl tell a guy it's just his job to know all of this? Is that right there is an example of holding this guy to a gender role because it's a myth that men somehow are supposed to just know and read the mind of a woman I have met and heard from women that they … | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/21 02:44 AM |
| -4 | Why do I find a lot of older women disagreeing with common feminist ideas around approachingWe do get mad at the other guys but it is crazy to think that you can harbor this type of thing what some men do I shouldn't grow like a rabbid Harpy because I've had abusive women Why do you guys seem so adverse that having awkward guys approach you That is the privilege of being the one who just sits there because I guarantee you have just as much awkwardness in any other trait you think that guy has but you get a pass because you do not have to put yourself out there The guy is only awkward b… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/21 02:41 AM |
| 2 | Why do I find a lot of older women disagreeing with common feminist ideas around approachingBecause everybody wants to find love and acceptance but most people do not want to look stupid or weird or creepy or look as if they are out of left field This is frustrating and I talk with friends about this all the time got it by nature and when you add sexuality to it that gets multiplied by 20 You do not know how infuriating it is as a guy trying to be respectful to a girl only to realize later that if you acted just a little bit more politically uncorrect, you probably could have got her S… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/21 02:31 AM |
| 1 | Why do I find a lot of older women disagreeing with common feminist ideas around approachingA lot of men have pointed out to the same though so it's not just me and exactly what you say a lot of these feminists and purest cults have a lot of overlap with conservative ideas The same thing as mother and Aunt and teachers who were saying that men are inherently creepy are the same ones who have a religious doctor and as well as you can still have feminist beliefs and conservative beliefs When you combine the most toxic aspects of the two is when you get disasters in an entire generation o… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/21 02:22 AM |
| 1 | Conflicted with a dilemma right nowWhy is that People usually start dating in their teens and beyond and if you drop a person into a home or give him a car they are the exact same person as before I would say it only makes it easier because it is a location that you can go to without telling anybody and to have your own rules but other than that we still seem to find a way to date I would attribute the far less sex to a lot of factors Mainly gender roles are changing and clashing and what is considered Good conduct and what is at… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/21 02:20 AM |
| 1 | Why do I find a lot of older women disagreeing with common feminist ideas around approachingHonestly because so much of the advice is mixed in with things that sound good or seem to seem good on paper Just go out and have fun and let a girl come to you sounds good but how often does it actually happen like that? Be confident and love yourself sounds good, but nobody on Earth is perfect at that and I look side-eyed at the people who seem to think they have it all figured out. And the most glaring fact of all of this is just because you do all these things does not mean there is a guaran… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/21 12:08 AM |
| 2 | Why do I find a lot of older women disagreeing with common feminist ideas around approachingI'm not working this interpreting it I'm just wondering how absolute all of this is I used to think a girl was super creepy whenever I interacted with her way back when I was 20 but after maturing and later looking at my own mind and hers I no longer view her in that category I imagine how many people have judged or labeled somebody something especially in the world of dating that may have been wrong or even exaggerated as I have been on both sides of it | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/21 12:07 AM |
| -1 | Why do I find a lot of older women disagreeing with common feminist ideas around approachingWhat I mean is you could be following all those rules but how someone else perceives you is out of your control If 50 people call you mature and friendly with the other 50 call you weird and closed off then who was right. Nobody because you're a collection of so many things and at different time periods throughout your life. It really seems disrespectful to both men and women when we hang over this word creepy at everything because what is creepy to one person will be a turn-on The same things t… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/21 12:05 AM |
| -5 | Why do I find a lot of older women disagreeing with common feminist ideas around approachingMy question is why is it always assumed that a guy is up to no good and why is the immediate assumption is that he must be creepy or some other negative trait For years I used to think I was with a lot of women thought but after looking back it was just that I was awkward and the girls I wouldn't have to work just as equally awkward and immature It's easy to label a young guy that because a lot of women don't realize they don't have to do the things guys have to do to attractive partner. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/06/21 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Why do I find a lot of older women disagreeing with common feminist ideas around approachingBecause of so many conversations I've had and even another threat I'm reading right now So many people seem to have crazy or weird ideas on what is expected and why people do things and from my perspective it just seems more of a social cope than what is truth Also because I am a guy and unfortunately a lot of young boys start out with their sexuality repressed or actively demonized because they are boys. This leads to a lot of confusion what is considered right and you would be kidding yourself… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/06/21 11:50 PM |
| 5 | When and how did RP become so popular?We are seeing a great shift not just in how we perceive each other but what is considered the right discourse because there are a lot of things that society does to men and women that is harmful and whether that is on purpose or not usually does not matter but the fact that we are more aware of these things is the fact that you see so much of these things coming to life My generation of boys was told one thing and we all had a rude awakening and learning that it just does not work What is politi… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/06/21 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Conflicted with a dilemma right nowThat must go for a lot of people then because most of my dates and ex-girlfriends still live with their parents and grandparents as we're all still in our twenties and either fresh out of high school or college This girl in question lives with her aunt | /r/ExRedPill | 26/06/21 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Conflicted with a dilemma right nowI'm not exactly scanning each person's temperament or habits good or bad when I meet them especially if it's just a first date Believe me I did not know she was drinking until she told me. I kept telling her to slow down but she kept saying she had it and she lives this type of life XD | /r/ExRedPill | 26/06/21 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Conflicted with a dilemma right nowThat's all I'm around She's a gang banger too and my father is as well I live in a crime ridden city and I come from the hood Both my parents were drug dealers luckily I have not started that yet | /r/ExRedPill | 26/06/21 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Conflicted with a dilemma right nowI live in a crime and that's a small town and I'm 24 A couple years ago I thought I could make it about here but I don't think I can. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/06/21 02:41 PM |
| 3 | Conflicted with a dilemma right nowWell that did not happen and she made it home okay XD | /r/ExRedPill | 26/06/21 01:36 AM |
| 0 | Conflicted with a dilemma right nowI know I shouldn't but I spend so many years for giving and forgiving and trying to be as open as possible and in the same vein men are not given the same Mercy. If one man acts bad then we all have to pay for it unfortunately | /r/ExRedPill | 26/06/21 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Conflicted with a dilemma right nowI tried telling her and keep in mind I did not know she was already drinking and driving when she picked me up. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/06/21 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Conflicted with a dilemma right nowIn my experience is actually women using that excuse Any small thing could be misconstrued into neediness and I have had so much experience with it I used to try to check out my ex-girlfriend's well-being when we were still together but every single time she called me a p**** for doing so Of course what you said is true but not every woman is going to perceive it like that And you are right nowadays any tiny thing is considered a red flag now. I know people who will break up with somebody if the… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/06/21 01:49 PM |
| 4 | Conflicted with a dilemma right nowIt's not just a red pill it's also some past relationships I'm a black dude in the hood and I am trying to escape some more toxic areas but I have noticed that a lot of the girls I attract are very much like the females in my family Almost every woman in my family has gone after some guy who fits the stereotypical Hood persona My mom and all 10 of my aunts on both sides have done it. And I see a lot of the same traits with this girl. Living in the hood is the perfect environment that will red pi… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/06/21 01:00 PM |
| 1 | Conflicted with a dilemma right nowAs a guy you never know if your natural personality or even interest or care is going to be misconstrued into neediness. Especially with a girl like that who's essentially a party girl Believe me my first thought was to do that but I did not want to mention going back to her place because I thought that would get way too personal and I didn't want to come off as creepy or just trying to get in her pants We end up driving around and meeting her friend ended up driving around some more eventually … | /r/ExRedPill | 25/06/21 12:53 PM |
| 0 | Something that helps me detoxAlso you got to look at the women are trying to get in real life As someone who's dated supposed 10 out of 10 gorgeous women I have quickly found that because they are gorgeous they never had to work on any other skill or personality trait Don't get me wrong my last girlfriend treating me way better than my other ones but the girl had no interest outside of celebrities I don't want to come home to someone or just wants to be entertained all the time. But the red guys keep score by seeing how man… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/06/21 11:12 PM |
| 0 | How do women sense ambition in a man? And how much ambition is attractive?No I did not but ever since I've been looking for a vice various sources online from both sides of the debate and pretty much stated this Focus on your life and be successful and do all of the things and then women will come as a byproduct But you got to do it authentically and that's why I am very skeptical of this type of thing I come from the hood and I went from zero to hero once I started putting in about 2 years of hard work especially after I graduated high school. I was in the happiest t… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/06/21 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Tips for young men who have yacked the pillI've met tons of open-minded people in the queer community and I have tons of friends in the queer community I am straight however and that is the problem. I low gender rolls because so much of them are so fleeting Masculinity is a performance. Full stop. And when you know that and can actually be good at playing the performance it starts to feel fake and it doesn't make you feel good and it definitely doesn't make it feel good knowing that if you are good at the performance it somehow makes you… | /r/ExRedPill | 21/06/21 05:11 PM |
| 2 | Tips for young men who have yacked the pillYou can cope but it still does not make it fun for enjoyable especially knowing that you will be looked at differently and judged on the basis of your gender I I'm a very sensitive man and very empathetic but my body is the polar opposite as I am 6 ft 6 muscular and Black That has worked for me and against me so many times when it comes to dating but it does not make me feel better because a lot of girls will look at you with their own preconceived notions and when you tell them that they're wro… | /r/ExRedPill | 21/06/21 04:13 PM |
| 0 | Tips for young men who have yacked the pillI wasn't acting super macho. You can be in a very nice place and be happy without being macho and I always argue that's probably why I did not get dates because girls are still very much attracted to things that are considered stereotypically masculine even though our society says it shouldn't matter It sounds nice to think that if the macho front is dropped that it'll make it easier but that has not happened to me at all And it wasn't a facade either. I was genuinely happy and genuinely doing m… | /r/ExRedPill | 21/06/21 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Tips for young men who have yacked the pillThey're not just unfair they're completely out of left field as I have yet to see these girls actually go after a guy that meets their standards and I don't feel like I deserve anything Don't start projecting your own thoughts on me | /r/ExRedPill | 21/06/21 04:07 PM |
| -2 | Tips for young men who have yacked the pillThe crazy thing is I'm not looking for a magic bullet I keep wondering if the same advice that's pedal is true then why while at my best was I still single but now that I'm at my objectively worse in life I get more attention I have more buying power and I am naturally tall at 6 ft 6 but I've always felt like that was never enough and I've always felt like it was strange that girls were into me because it never felt like I was complete enough And I also realized that I'm not compatible to every … | /r/ExRedPill | 21/06/21 04:28 AM |
| -3 | Tips for young men who have yacked the pillThis is not fun because there's no guarantee I've been improving for 6 years and even beyond that if you want to add it but I didn't have the addiction to call it that I've gotten a haircut and I've gotten fit and I've done so many other things I don't understand why insecurity is so unattractive because every girl I dated is filled with them but I am a guy and I'm not allowed to have any insecurities In the past I tried to have the mindset you are trying to sell to me right now and it did not w… | /r/ExRedPill | 21/06/21 02:04 AM |
| 1 | How do you get over bitterness and vengeanceAll my life I have dealt with abusive women ranging from family members to girlfriends I'm still trying to recover years after dating an abusive girl | /r/ExRedPill | 21/06/21 01:23 AM |
| -3 | Tips for young men who have yacked the pillSo many young men are already trying to improve themselves and trying to get on board with the idea that women are biologically more likely to like men who are better than them but that doesn't make it fun and it does not make it right | /r/ExRedPill | 21/06/21 01:23 AM |
| 1 | If we want to stop boys from being radicalized into certain groups then we have to stop demonizing their sexualityMaybe 20 or 30 years ago but all the women in my family and friends that were female absolutely hated guys like this and you can bet that they made sure all of us mails around them do it so I do not understand what you're talking about Men who do all of that are seen as man whores as well. This isn't rocket science. Women are much more freely sexualized and open than men could ever be | /r/ExRedPill | 17/06/21 10:34 PM |
| 0 | If we want to stop boys from being radicalized into certain groups then we have to stop demonizing their sexualityBecause I've heard so many other people including men say it. It is a trend | /r/ExRedPill | 17/06/21 10:29 PM |
| 1 | If the redpill tactics aren’t working when dating why do they still insist on using them?And what I'm telling you my friend and I really do get it but when I am telling you is I've already been through the process of everything you just typed out and I am still wondering where I went wrong Not all confidence will be perceived the same and that is a glaring fact The fact that some women can feel like some men's confidence is undeserved is a fact of that because to him he's confident but that is still not enough and even with his confidence it's actually working against him in some ca… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/06/21 06:02 AM |
| 0 | If the redpill tactics aren’t working when dating why do they still insist on using them?But as a man there is no way to go at a woman without some kind of tactic because men are still expected to pursue and be confident and be sexy but so much of that could be misconstrued into things that may not be attractive or even non PC I've realized I miss so many chances with girls because I was trying so hard to be respectful and non-sexual because all I heard growing up was how much women hated being cat called and harassed No guy wants to be the creep or the guy who harasses women but at… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/06/21 05:09 AM |
| 0 | If the redpill tactics aren’t working when dating why do they still insist on using them?But that's why it draws so many men and that's why I still defend the red pill even though I hate it because I hate the fact that I have to do all of this too be seen as attractive Right now there's a girl I'm pretty sure that is into me and I know for a fact if I come at her as myself I probably won't impress her But I do know for a fact that red pill tactics will work on her I come from the hood and I'm a black dude and I've seen more red pill stuff work especially in my own community then the… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/06/21 02:59 AM |
| 2 | I feel bitter than I did not get the attention I do now while I was young and much more positiveBecause I've been the opposite and have been the life of the party and still did not get what most people say charismatic and confident people are supposed to get | /r/ExRedPill | 15/06/21 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone find this message damaging to both young men and women?Or you could extend some empathy and ask why a young man would gravitate towards these videos instead of just looking at yourself and wondering why it always has to be about you or the woman I swear all of you guys have this reaction to these dudes and yet when I was much more patient I experienced nothing but rejection and heartache | /r/ExRedPill | 10/06/21 09:58 PM |
| 4 | Why do both feminists and red pill types seem to have an extreme dogma of non empathy and understandingWhich makes sense and believe me as a minority I get it but even at a young age I knew not to judge all white people as ignorant buffoonwho act racist | /r/ExRedPill | 10/06/21 08:21 PM |
| 1 | This video gives a really even and non biased opinion of the red pill and overall manosphereA lot of early feminists whether the equivalent of highly privileged suburban white women who realize that if they were to become equal to men they would learn that they will have to sign up for selective service which was not a privilege for a lot of men especially poor ones Do you think a lot of women back in the 1700s or 1800s really wanted to be equal to most men which was poor men who most likely worked horrible jobs or died at war | /r/ExRedPill | 10/06/21 02:42 AM |
| 3 | Why do both feminists and red pill types seem to have an extreme dogma of non empathy and understandingWhen I say the middle I say that as I completely understand where both sides get their fuel from because this comes from a place of not only hurt but misunderstanding It's easy to say that men act like XY and z just because they're made like that It's easy to say that women act like XY and z just because they're made like that But that right there is where we start lacking the empathy in nuance Just as you have a bunch of women who may play the part at being the pretty damsel does not mean that … | /r/ExRedPill | 10/06/21 01:26 AM |
| 4 | Why do both feminists and red pill types seem to have an extreme dogma of non empathy and understandingThe right thing we should be saying is that a lot of young people of both genders have problems with empathy for both genders including themselves You know what made me become less of a feminist The fact that I could take all the feminist thought that I learned and apply it to my own life as a young black man There were many sexes as well as racist moments that have happened to me because someone saw me big and black and male I will be looked at as more dangerous bigger and older than what I am … | /r/ExRedPill | 10/06/21 01:24 AM |
| 0 | Why do both feminists and red pill types seem to have an extreme dogma of non empathy and understandingI agree completely but you can see how this too generous because young men don't get that Mercy They're just evil and misogynist. There's no empathy or considering nuance Young women should be held accountable too for their crazy views just like men do and as I get older I'm learning that women have some crazy views about men just as we do for them | /r/ExRedPill | 10/06/21 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Is alpha/beta really a thing?Which I believe makes it hard as a man because I still think those distinctions or subconsciously made whether or not we know them to be true and I'm guilty of it For example I'm a super big and tall man and usually because of those things people offer me respect very quickly but when I reveal traits that may not live up to what they believe, I start noticing a lack of respect and empathy that I had before This is happening too as I have completely turned off a girl by mentioning to her that I'm… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/06/21 01:08 AM |
| 1 | This video gives a really even and non biased opinion of the red pill and overall manosphereAs someone who's been on both sides the same can be said about feminism too Both sides almost have an inhuman effort to try to have no empathy and to try to make it seem like they are doing no wrong while the other side is righteous and good You don't know how many women or groups of women I have sat through who bash men and think they know everything about every man and I personally am the exact opposite of what they think I am and I know this because I approved them wrong every single time Bot… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/06/21 12:33 AM |
| 3 | Thoughts on Patrice O'neal?As I get older a lot of patrice's views seem to make sense because I've been through so many experiences that he has talked about but that does not mean he is correct about everything You can be a feminist in an MRA and you can both hold feminist and Men rights views at the same time A lot of approaches says is true because not every woman is mature or smart and every woman is not the same but there are some women who do have examples of toxic femininity or are filled with it and will use that f… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/06/21 12:32 AM |
| 1 | Both men and women should educate their own gender first before trying to educate the other. Both genders will usually bully their own gender first.Don't get me wrong, women are to blame too. Just asked me and probably did not start the misogyny they do play a part just as women play a part with the misandry. It was my mother grandmother and aunt who are forcing me to play sports even though I did not want to It was my abusive girlfriend trying to impose patriarchal standards on me and not men Of course men are disposable but as a man it's harder to fight the system because you'll be looked at as other or weird or a coward if you mention ho… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/06/21 12:18 AM |
| 4 | Random thought: Why "inceldom" is risingYou combine the fact that guys are already supposed to be the ones who pursue more and lead more and to be more social when it comes to courtship and then combine that with living in a technological advance age where there's an overabundance of choice and an overabundance of people then that's what you get I'm guilty of it as right now I'm talking to a girl who I'm probably not going to pursue that much anymore because she just does not make me feel anything like girls in the past and I know I c… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/06/21 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Is Friendship the best way to step into a serious relationship?As a man who has gone through what you went through Please do not take the politics of friendship and romance seriously because half of Reddit will tell you the fact that you have a crush on a female friend makes you some type of misogynistic nice guy Two out of the three of my girlfriends formed from having relationships of friendship with them and two out of the three of my girlfriends came after me first Everybody wants to believe in this just world where everybody has friends and lovers and … | /r/ExRedPill | 10/06/21 12:01 AM |
| 1 | How redpill videos made me feel insecure as a womanI thought the same way growing up in a feminist household I feel like no matter what I did or how I grew as a person I was always going to be a misogynistic and abusive man Growing up and having very interactions with all types of people as healed me of that Just last night I had a date with a girl who could not help but bring up her crazy pass with her abusive boyfriend and whom she has abused as well Both genders are filled with stereotypes and usually both gender share a lot of traits that wi… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/06/21 11:45 PM |
| 1 | As I get older the 40 year old virgin movie is more relatableBut you got to understand that all of this does not come from rage or hate but from being hurt The fds and trp people all started out extremely hurt or they hate how their gender is perceived in their gender role I'm not defending all the crazy stuff they say or do but I was once a crazy teenager with weird ideas and I assume a bunch of them are teenagers or at least young people Even with my friend that I went on a date with. I still try to sympathize and I will try to plan another day just to … | /r/ExRedPill | 08/06/21 02:44 PM |
| 2 | If gender is a social construct we need to act like it. I as a black man do not believe all womenAnd to even further that, I do think a lot of men and women do a disservice of thinking we can't deeply be empathetic of other inexperiences or experiences I am not a tiny woman but I am a very large and tall man and even above the average of weight in size and height of American men I literally stand out statistically I can understand feeling like all eyes are on you and not being able to walk anywhere And this isn't all negative Apparently I'm super charismatic but I also think there has to do… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/06/21 03:36 AM |
| 1 | If gender is a social construct we need to act like it. I as a black man do not believe all womenIf that is true then why is there such a big push to try to get each gender to understand these I've been on both sides You can absolutely hold both feminist and MRA views On a positive note I do see a net benefit in having so many people regardless of their race or gender trying to get people to understand their experiences because it does create more empathy If you grew up like I did this empathy had no choice but to be instilled as I was raised by nothing but single black women on both sides … | /r/ExRedPill | 08/06/21 03:23 AM |
| 4 | As I get older the 40 year old virgin movie is more relatableOnce you get past the snarkiness of women and the bravado of men you realize that dating is just like everything else There are more things you can do wrong than right and even if you are good on paper you can still "lose" Like I dated a girl who thought it appropriate to s*** inside of Pringles can I did it a girl who was super abusive to other men I dated the girl who immediately wanted to get married and have a baby, even though we only dated for 3onths These are not things that are rule outs… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/06/21 03:07 AM |
| 1 | I hate being black and male.Exactly and it probably makes it even more insulting because the stereotype is that black men are super sexy and sexually verile Just last night I had a crackhead woman keeps screaming at me how she loves sexy black men and how she wanted to sleep with me. I work in retail and you'll find these types A lot But I can always tell when a woman starts to lose respect and attraction for me the moment I tell her about my hobbies or true personality A lot of women claim they're open-minded and honest b… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/06/21 01:58 AM |
| 21 | I hate being black and male.Our experience is very unique and it is hard for others to empathize It was so humiliating and insulting when people look at you that way | /r/ExRedPill | 04/06/21 01:22 AM |
| 1 | I don't believe in the red pill anymore but I'm trying to get hard to find an alternativeI honestly do not know Contrary to popular beliefs most guys start out already understanding and don't go full red pill unless they have a lot of failures or bad experiences with women I'm way better than where I was at and I'm slowly getting back to normal but that's the reason why I went to the red pill was because I was in an abusive relationship where the girl wanted me to wait to have sex but also wanted me to be assertive enough to break her rule and pressure her into sex Of course I'm goi… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/06/21 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Men and women seem to be more divided than ever which is ironic considering we live in a much more equal and peaceful time compared to our forefathersI'm not seeing what you're trying to disprove to me All those things you said women did are the other half of the coin that made human development happen. As we literally needed to depend on each other's skills at whatever time. Or whatever context they may be And I don't just mean the classic hunter-gatherer and have children thing. The returns of female leaders and generals in Queens throughout history as well. Not to mention all the unsung heroes throughout history who may have been lost to t… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/06/21 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Men and women seem to be more divided than ever which is ironic considering we live in a much more equal and peaceful time compared to our forefathersI agree with this. And it depends on what we're talking about. Murder rape thievery and wine have always been universally a bad thing to do cross cultures with few exceptions But what all those things mean and how severe and what punishments we give is very different in our modern age | /r/ExRedPill | 03/06/21 02:04 AM |
| 1 | Men and women seem to be more divided than ever which is ironic considering we live in a much more equal and peaceful time compared to our forefathersHonestly I doubt our forefathers even thought of it like this Don't get me wrong I see what you're saying but I imagine a thousand years ago if you had a man who was a soldier or a farmer and a woman who was a gatherer, they probably didn't think of it in terms as Independence or needing to provide. A lot of these thoughts are modern interpretations | /r/ExRedPill | 03/06/21 02:02 AM |
| 1 | Men and women seem to be more divided than ever which is ironic considering we live in a much more equal and peaceful time compared to our forefathersAnd see this is what I'm talking about No one was reducing women to child bearing but as baseline humans and as the most advanced animals on this planet you have to admit that it is quite beautiful and powerful And of course it takes two to make a baby what I'm saying is women have been seeing historically as important because it is important for population. Of course I'm not saying every woman must bear children and if they don't they're not real women. But I do know exactly what it's like to b… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/06/21 02:02 AM |
| 1 | Men and women seem to be more divided than ever which is ironic considering we live in a much more equal and peaceful time compared to our forefathersI'm still the op but I've been having trouble with my account. Believe me before and after red pill I already did this as most people already genuinely do this But I don't feel right still because even though I know intellectually it shouldn't be a problem, I can just forget the 24 years of being treated badly. A lot of our issues are gendered I will admit that. But that goes for both sides | /r/ExRedPill | 03/06/21 01:57 AM |
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