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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 450 | 100 approaches in a month - end of the month | Field Report | diamondtech | /r/seduction | 03/02/20 12:10 PM |
| 447 | 100 approaches in a month - making progress and having fun | diamondtech | /r/seduction | 27/01/20 12:31 PM | |
| 20 | Approaching randomly | diamondtech | /r/seduction | 30/12/19 03:51 PM | |
| 13 | Cold approach for two months -- February 2020 | Field Report | diamondtech | /r/seduction | 02/03/20 02:09 PM |
| 8 | The Enjoyable Art Of Learning To Talk To Random People | diamondtech | /r/seduction | 10/02/20 03:14 AM | |
| 4 | Help me out with daygame. | Fundamentals | diamondtech | /r/seduction | 25/04/21 03:19 PM |
| 2 | 100 approaches in a month | Field Report | diamondtech | /r/seduction | 16/01/20 04:01 AM |
| 0 | I met a hypersexual woman | Field Report | diamondtech | /r/seduction | 29/10/20 01:24 AM |
| 0 | Daygame, nightgame, and coronavirus | Outer Game | diamondtech | /r/seduction | 31/08/20 03:45 PM |
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| 1 | What are your go to pick lines for approaching women irl or in dating appsSo that post is for irl. But you were also asking about dating apps. For dating apps, I always open with something non-sexual, and a question that’s related to something on their profile. For example: “Hey, I like cooking too. What do you like to cook?” “Hey, what breed is your dog?” “Hi, how long have you been living in Jersey City?” I think some guys open with something sexual, like “hi, wanna fuck?” And that actually turns the girl off. For me, I can think of one example from last year where … | /r/seduction | 01/02/25 09:30 PM |
| 1 | What are your go to pick lines for approaching women irl or in dating appsI want to repost something posted by grrinchas on here, five years ago. When he approaches women irl, the pace of the situation determines how he starts the conversation with a new woman. I’ve followed his advice. **beginning of grrinchas’s post** 1) You both are not moving. This usually happens when you find yourself in the same situation as she is. This is the easiest of all and mostly resembles social circle settings. In these circumstances the best way to start conversation is to use CONTEXT… | /r/seduction | 01/02/25 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Help me out with daygame.Yes, I wasn't doing enough of that recently. But then I met some girls through online dating, and they said "let's just be friends," and I'm starting to accept it. So I just talk to them on the phone with no expectation of sex. I might actually have a healthier social life if I have female friends. You mentioned loved ones, so I do have good relationships my mother and my sister. | /r/seduction | 03/05/21 03:00 AM |
| 2 | Cold approach for two months -- February 2020Yeah, that was a great thread... I need to post more about myself. I'm still doing the cold approach, but at a slower rate because of the coronavirus. Like, maybe 5 approaches per month. | /r/seduction | 03/07/20 11:46 AM |
| 1 | 100 approaches in a month - end of the monthI'm not sure how to answer this question. These are completely random approaches, so when I approach, I have no idea who the girl is. I don't know if she's an undergrad, or a grad student, or a worker, or just someone visiting the campus. But that's part of the fun. Quite often, I'll say "are you a student?" And then, that usually leads to a conversation about undergraduate/graduate status. Three of the women I approached turned out to be freshmen. I didn't pursue them. Too young for me. I didn'… | /r/seduction | 05/02/20 12:23 PM |
| 1 | 100 approaches in a month - end of the monthI've been going to: coffee shops, shopping malls, health food stores, bookstores, clothing stores, Target. Those are places that tend to have cute girls in them, in my one month of experience. Also, cafes that serve healthy food. Just go out into your local community, look around, every day, and you'll start to learn where the beautiful women are. | /r/seduction | 05/02/20 11:41 AM |
| 4 | 100 approaches in a month - end of the monthYeah, kino is short for kinesthetics. Physically touching a woman, usually in the middle of a conversation. It's great. Look it up, google it, try it out in the real world. You already have the right idea, start with an innocent/friendly touch, like touching her arm. Pay attention to how she responds to the touch. If you get a good response, move on to more intimate touching. | /r/seduction | 03/02/20 05:26 PM |
| 1 | 100 approaches in a month - making progress and having funYes. Remember, I already have a lot of experience using seduction in online dating and in my social circles. I have an ongoing thing with a girl that I met online in October. It's casual, and we agreed we're not monogamous. She came up to my house on January 2, we fucked, we went out and had lunch, watched The Witcher on Netflix, she spent the night, we fucked some more. I'm planning to see her again this weekend. But I haven't fucked any of my random approaches yet. I feel like that will happen… | /r/seduction | 28/01/20 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Approaching randomlyThanks for the story. But I'm a little bit confused. If I'm understanding correctly, you were at a bar/party, with your friend(s), and this girl was talking to one of your friends. And then after you saw that, you approached her. So that girl was a friend of your friend. So I would say that's not a complete stranger and not a cold approach. In fact, your story feels very similar to my story about Kylie and Melissa. The initial approach is similar; in my case I saw Melissa talking to my friend Ky… | /r/seduction | 07/01/20 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Approaching randomlyThank you for posting this. This helps a lot. As I was saying in another comment, I have to learn this stuff through discussion and real-world experience. So I went to a shopping mall today, with your advice in my mind. And at first I just walked around and observed people. I saw a girl there hanging out with a group of friends. Difficult to approach. I saw girls walking at a fast pace through the mall. Difficult to approach. I saw a girl and a guy walking together, holding hands. Difficult to a… | /r/seduction | 01/01/20 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Approaching randomlyYes, I will gladly share my stories. Names have been changed for anonymity. Friend of a friend: One night I met up with some friends at a restaurant for karaoke. This was a group of friends that was already established. We had sung karaoke together many times before. But, on this particular night, my friend Kylie brought her friend, Melissa, to join us. That was my first time meeting Melissa. So Melissa and I talked, and I introduced myself. I can’t remember the details of the conversation, but … | /r/seduction | 01/01/20 12:37 AM |
| 3 | Approaching randomlyFirst, thanks for replying. This is going to be a learning process for me. Learning can be difficult, and it requires time, effort, changing my mindset, discussion, real-world experience, and so on. I never used the word "creepy" in my original post. I just said that approaching women randomly seems weird. When I say weird, I mean that 99% of people don't do this. 99% of people don't talk to random strangers on a regular basis. I think the message that you're trying to send me is "don't think ab… | /r/seduction | 31/12/19 05:24 AM |
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