I'm 35M, and the last time I posted in /r/seduction was at the end of February this year. And then the coronavirus hit in March. And that prompted me to stop posting. But I still think about seduction all the time. I think it's good to think about myself over the course of weeks, months, and years.

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Daygame: I'm still doing a lot of daygame. I like to say I'm just randomly talking to people. I'm a grad student, so I'm on a college campus, so there's usually plenty of cute girls around. I go out to cafes and coffee shops on my lunch break and start conversations with people. But also, what I've learned from this subreddit is that it's good to talk to people of both genders. And have meaningful conversations. And you have to do it often, like "100 approaches in a month." And you have to do it for a long time, like six months or one year. And then eventually you reach a point where you're really good at it, and you can approach a girl and fuck her the same day. So, I haven't reached that point yet. I started doing "100 approaches in a month" in January and February, and then I stopped doing them in March because of the coronavirus. My campus got shut down and everyone had to be off-campus for a few months. Then, in June, I was allowed back on-campus, and I slowly got back into approaching. I remember, in March, the moderators of this subreddit said "This is not the time to be gunning for your 100 approaches." But now, things have started to re-open, and I feel OK about doing approaches. I feel two types of anxiety together, there's approach anxiety, and then there's coronavirus anxiety. But the idea is to just proceed and take action despite the feeling of anxiety. Everyone's wearing a mask, so I feel fine talking to someone if we both have masks on, and I feel like there's a low risk of spreading the virus. Or, if I'm outside, at a cafe that has outdoor seating, I'll talk to people, because the virus is less likely to spread outside. I'm maintaining the attitude of being very social, very friendly, and very extroverted. I'm saying hi to people I see on campus. I'm also walking around my neighborhood and having conversations with my neighbors.

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Online dating: I've been doing online dating for years. Over the past six months, there's three girls that I met online and fucked. The girl I'm seeing now is a lot of fun. She's a respiratory therapist. We have good sex, and we also have a good relationship. Something I learned from this subreddit is "Fuck her after 3-5 hours of being with her." So I follow that rule, roughly, with all the girls I've fucked through online dating. Watch movies together, have a conversation, eat lunch together, eat dinner together, go out to a club together. In other words, build a non-sexual relationship as well as a sexual relationship. 

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The girl I'm currently seeing is polyamorous, and she found a swinger/lifestyle club in her area and invited me to go there with her. It was awesome. Lots of sexy people. We've gone together three times so far and I want to go again. It has a bar, a dance floor, a restaurant area where they serve dinner, and rooms where you can spend the night. It gave me a chance to experiment with nightgame. Just randomly having conversations with people in the club. I've been following mostly the same rules as I do in daygame, like, it's easier to start a conversation if I and the other person are not moving. And you can say "What is that?" pointing to what the other person is eating/drinking. It's an easy conversation starter. And then there's the compliment opener, like "I like your earrings."

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But anyway, the sex is good with this girl. She has big tits and a nice pussy. And the conversation is good, the kissing is good, the kino is good. And she's fun and adventurous. One of the downsides is that she's far away. It's a 2 hour drive from my house to her house. Also, in the back of my mind I'm thinking I could get a hotter girl. But in general it's good to express gratitude and be thankful for what you have, and I do have a good sexual relationship with her.I might post again in a few weeks, or one month from now. I like posting, reading the replies, and having a dialogue with other men around the world who are into seduction.