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| 2 | I do awful on tinder, Do I have a better chance just going up to girls irl?I'm in the exact same boat, I've used 3 major apps and have only gotten what, 2 matches after 1000 swipes? Which never materialized. I was hesitant to start using them anyways because I think it's a scam and a waste of time, plus it's too superficial for me. Yet my ability to meet a girl in person is nearly kneecapped with the coronavirus. Which is indefinitely extending my 23 years as a single, inexperienced man. | /r/seduction | 08/05/20 08:03 AM |
| – | With girls I really like and/or are in my social circle, I freeze up when a closing opportunity is basically handed to me. EVERY. SINGLE. TIME.... Anybody have tips to get over this?They're gotta be super pretty, have a nice body, have a nice smile, have a nice personality, and be liking me back. I know of several girls like this, where I'll even have conversations with them over Snapchat every few days. But they're doing the same thing with 10 other guys, so what makes me special? | /r/seduction | 14/03/20 04:39 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Approached on a bus, Snap-close after 5 hours. Please advise. This is my first date in almost a year.Should I have expected anything? | /r/seduction | 02/03/20 09:34 PM |
| – | [FR] Approached on a bus, Snap-close after 5 hours. Please advise. This is my first date in almost a year.I should add, at the end I asked why did she sit next to me on the bus? I think that was a FATAL error. She basically said 'sometimes I want company' because she's traveling solo. That could easily be interpreted as friend zone stuff. | /r/seduction | 02/03/20 04:11 AM |
| – | [FR] Approached on a bus, Snap-close after 5 hours. Please advise. This is my first date in almost a year.You diagnosed the problem. Thanks. What do I do next time? | /r/seduction | 02/03/20 02:51 AM |
| – | [FR] Approached on a bus, Snap-close after 5 hours. Please advise. This is my first date in almost a year.I've yet to meet anyone who is. | /r/seduction | 02/03/20 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Observations about Buckhead AtlantaI actually just visited Buckhead for the first time today. Definitely an interesting place with a lot going on. A lot of pretty and attractive women as well, but as a tourist, that wasn't why I was there. The place definitely is making me reconsider where I live though. | /r/seduction | 23/09/19 12:42 AM |
| – | First time having flirtatious conversation. What next?Even by texting? | /r/seduction | 24/04/19 04:50 PM |
| – | I (22m) have a crush on a girl (19f) I carpool to practice every morning. But I don't know how to ask her out, or if she's actually interested.Yes it does make sense, I overlooked this. I tend to have a scarcity mentality when it comes to women. I prefer to meet women in person rather than through apps, and because of life circumstances and personal preferences, this can be a challenge. | /r/seduction | 21/04/19 09:04 PM |
| – | I (22m) have a crush on a girl (19f) I carpool to practice every morning. But I don't know how to ask her out, or if she's actually interested.What makes you draw that conclusion? I am just curious. | /r/seduction | 21/04/19 08:58 PM |
| – | I (22m) have a crush on a girl (19f) I carpool to practice every morning. But I don't know how to ask her out, or if she's actually interested.Yeah that's a good idea. I just don't want her (or anyone else) to drop a poison pill on my food by saying they have a boyfriend 15 minutes into a date. That happened to me before. | /r/seduction | 21/04/19 08:30 PM |
| – | There are probably more girls than guys in my social circle (coed sports team), but I don't know who's interested in me? I initiate most conversations. How can you assume attraction when it is likely unrequited?What do I rely on after that? Bars, clubs and Tinder? I'm averse to all of it. | /r/seduction | 04/04/19 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Are my standards too high?I mean, there are several girls I know with 1k, 2k and 3k followers. I believe that could be construed as an address book for spare dick, which is something I personally don't find attractive. Then again, that isn't always the case. But if the pictures are a bunch of ass shots (not just a bikini/beach picture or two), again, I find that to be a turn off. | /r/seduction | 29/03/19 02:47 AM |
| – | Are my standards too high?What's interesting is that this girl with the exes initiates text messages with me about things we talked about earlier, like she asked me if I could ask if we were going to do a team kickball game this weekend. And a couple of weeks prior she sends a message saying she enjoyed our conversation. I rarely if ever have a woman initiate conversations with me by text. In fact, the only people that initiate text conversations with me are my parents and my one friend who's on the team, who happens to … | /r/seduction | 28/03/19 04:13 PM |
| – | Are my standards too high?Is initiating a conversation with women considered chasing? | /r/seduction | 28/03/19 03:51 PM |
| – | Are my standards too high?Yeah, I can't say that they've talked to me first in the way you describe, and if they did it was because of circumstances that encouraged it. | /r/seduction | 28/03/19 03:22 PM |
| – | Are my standards too high?I have, at least not in recent memory, never had any girl find an excuse to talk to me. That sounds more like a an abstract supposition than a concrete thing. | /r/seduction | 28/03/19 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Why does it seem like I only attract Instathots?But then some of them "joke" around and call me "Daddy (my name)", which makes me think they see me as a nice guy... Now among my social group that's my nickname. I mean it's funny, but come on now. | /r/seduction | 28/02/19 08:49 PM |
| -1 | Why does it seem like I only attract Instathots?No | /r/seduction | 28/02/19 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Why does it seem like I only attract Instathots?Why would you assume I'm bragging? I've never had a girlfriend, never held a girls hand or kissed. I thought I was being sincere. | /r/seduction | 28/02/19 08:24 PM |
| 1 | I am suffering from envyAnd I already started this morning with a run, biceps, triceps and chests. Him and his girl went on their own time. | /r/seduction | 25/02/19 04:18 PM |
| – | I am suffering from envyLike what? | /r/seduction | 24/02/19 11:55 PM |
| – | Was this girl really trying to hit on me?Well I am wondering what I could have responded with then? It's not even whether or not I found her attractive, I just literally did not know how to continue the conversation. It wasn't as if I was in a rush, either. | /r/seduction | 10/01/19 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Was this girl really trying to hit on me?How can you tell | /r/seduction | 10/01/19 08:19 PM |
| – | I just sat through the most awkward 45 minutes of my life...I think I need serious helpTo me it just seems like dating apps judge based on looks rather than personality | /r/seduction | 23/10/18 02:00 AM |
| 1 | I just sat through the most awkward 45 minutes of my life...I think I need serious helpRight. Hopefully she will be in the same place. | /r/seduction | 23/10/18 01:59 AM |
| – | I just sat through the most awkward 45 minutes of my life...I think I need serious helpAnd that's what I thought when I left. Don't know what to do now, or how I ended up here in the first place. | /r/seduction | 22/10/18 08:56 PM |
| 1 | I just sat through the most awkward 45 minutes of my life...I think I need serious helpI understand. It's just in my 4.5 years of college, this is only the 2nd or 3rd time I've met someone like this. Everyone else is unavailable, always looking at a phone or has headphones on, etc. | /r/seduction | 22/10/18 08:28 PM |
| – | I just sat through the most awkward 45 minutes of my life...I think I need serious helpYou maybe right. But when she came down and saw me, she just had a blank look. With the way my self esteem is sometimes, and the fact that I was kind of stalking her, I think I made too much out of that and now regret my actions. | /r/seduction | 22/10/18 07:16 PM |
| 0 | How To Approach A Girl In College (Without Creeping Her Out)I have a survey coming up for a class where I have to ask 100 people some questions. How can I intertwine this advice into that project? Or at least, what can I learn from that project that might help with this? | /r/seduction | 20/10/18 01:16 PM |
| 1 | Update about a girl I thought I was interested in...Interesting. Hopefully I will run into her again, because now that her schedule has likely changed she may not be there on a daily basis. It's so hard to find anyone on campus worth talking to, and I don't like the idea of cold approaching. I thought this team would be a gateway to women, and I was wrong. I guess now I will be relegated to the bar and club scene where most people, guys and girls, at least have a basic level of dating experience. | /r/seduction | 20/10/18 01:05 PM |
| 1 | Help...I think a girl may be interestedShe didn't say she has a boyfriend. My assumption is that she may or may not (but probably does). The reason I assume this is because her Instagram account has a picture of her from July in a major North American city with a guy next to her. It could be anyone though, including family. Also, I may have misspoken. We are both commuters but live 20 miles apart. She can easily go where she needs to. | /r/seduction | 17/10/18 03:55 PM |
| 2 | I have a problem...and it's shynessFor some reason I find it easier to say hi to "adults" or people over 40, than I do people my age. It's like nobody wants to be bothered. | /r/seduction | 26/09/18 01:30 PM |
| 1 | I have a problem...and it's shynessAs far as cashier work, it's interesting. I work in a warehouse today and 95% of my coworkers are guys. Maybe that's part of the problem. Also I live off campus in the suburbs and commute 20 minutes one way every day there. | /r/seduction | 26/09/18 01:26 PM |
| – | I have a problem...and it's shynessThe next question I have is, what would you have done if you were me? | /r/seduction | 25/09/18 04:09 PM |
| 2 | Should I Make Female Friends First in College?With the way I look, I don't think that would work on most of these girls here, even though I'm 5'11" and 140 pounds. I guess I have to have some kind of muscle mass to get anywhere. | /r/seduction | 05/09/18 05:05 PM |
| 3 | Meeting girls in my classes or on the way to class in collegeHaha, ironically I'm sitting in a common area of my university of 12,000 students, many fine looking girls are coming and going. But everyone is closed off and uninterested looking, sipping their Frappuccinos and looking at their phones or laptops with earbuds in. Class and the club sport I'm in is the final frontier. With class, there's 5 guys in it and like 15 girls. I positioned myself near a few the other day, and the professor encourages group work during the lectures. With the club sport, … | /r/seduction | 05/09/18 04:29 PM |
| – | I have been alive for 21 years and it seems everyone I know expect me seems to have (or had) a boyfriend or girlfriend, as they often come up in conversations and in pictures. I talk to people everyday and am on clubs and teams. What am I not doing right (or not doing at all)?You bring up good points, and yes I'm sure my wishey-washiness applies to real life interactions I have with women too. I am a straight guy as well. I have to clarify that I meant except, not expect. Whenever Im in a group conversation involving girls I'm interested in, or on the coed sports team I'm on, they bring up their boyfriends in the conversation. Although I am not sure where they meet, it seems that their BFs/GFs all go to the same school as me, would that be possible through an app? So… | /r/seduction | 03/11/17 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Junior in college, had opportunity to cold approach girl on phone but encountered severe AAI gotcha | /r/seduction | 03/05/17 12:24 AM |
| – | Junior in college, had opportunity to cold approach girl on phone but encountered severe AANo no not a phone CALL, just using the phone. | /r/seduction | 27/04/17 06:49 PM |
| – | Junior in college, had opportunity to cold approach girl on phone but encountered severe AAThe problem I have with all of this is that when I do go to clubs, events and activities to make friends, I do, but either nothing comes out of it or there's no women, OR there's no visible interest on their end. I don't like overthinking things, but my first-first date ever was 3 weeks ago and turned out to be fake in a way, so now I'm trying o strike while the iron is hot and at the very least expand my social circle. | /r/seduction | 27/04/17 08:05 AM |
| 1 | I (20M) have social anxiety (diagnosed) and ADD, am I doing this right? I constantly check here every day because I think I'll screw up my first ever date.Thanks for the insight. | /r/seduction | 08/04/17 05:47 AM |
| 1 | I (20M) have social anxiety (diagnosed) and ADD, am I doing this right? I constantly check here every day because I think I'll screw up my first ever date.Okay thanks for the personalized response :) | /r/seduction | 08/04/17 05:46 AM |
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