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| 1 | Daygame sessions approach ratethx | /r/seduction | 07/12/21 10:41 AM |
| – | 6th daygaming sessionThanks. I agree there are many things to improve on. I've actually started at around 5-10% by doing nice guy approaches. With london day game model it went up to 20, sometimes even 25% and I'm still not executing the steps properly plus there are many problems I am aware of like... girls dont get to know u and feel comfortable with u, u need to focus on that more which is true but I think the problem lies more in the way I converse, not talking about myself enough and looking for commonalities, … | /r/seduction | 04/09/21 09:43 AM |
| 1 | 6th daygaming sessionIn fact, I have no instagram at all and even if I had, I have nothing to show off. First I was just collecting the numbers, now I always make it an exchange. We'll see how it goes. | /r/seduction | 04/09/21 09:22 AM |
| 1 | How to make the most out of an approach?Look up london daygame model. Also, increase the volume of approaches. | /r/seduction | 03/09/21 06:10 PM |
| 4 | How to Have a 3some [Part 1] – Finding the Girlstoo long, didnt read | /r/seduction | 03/09/21 06:02 PM |
| – | 6th daygaming sessionwhat for? | /r/seduction | 03/09/21 05:29 PM |
| – | 4th daygaming session (2nd alone)Everything is done on the streets. I should probably mention it somewhere in my report. | /r/seduction | 02/09/21 12:34 PM |
| – | 4th daygaming session (2nd alone)Don’t forget to display your value in non direct way - e.g. to oversimplify “prize model”, you should sow some interest, she should be interested in you and then cultivate that interest. Yes, this is something I was totally not thinking about. Do I understand correctly that showing value is about speaking of the good aspects of my life without bragging about it? Like mentioning me going on a trip to X, doing Y in my free time, possibly doing Z as work etc? Have you done all the approaches direct… | /r/seduction | 02/09/21 12:00 PM |
| – | 4th daygaming session (2nd alone)I'm still probably the biggest newbie daygamer in the area. Lots of progress to be made. | /r/seduction | 02/09/21 06:14 AM |
| – | 4th daygaming session (2nd alone)What do you exactly want to know, the city or the type of a city? | /r/seduction | 02/09/21 06:13 AM |
| 1 | 4th daygaming session (2nd alone)I'm trying to do fewer mistakes that I'm aware of. Once there won't be any I will probably start recording my voice and try to fly more often with other people so other guys can tell me about the problems I can't notice on my own. | /r/seduction | 02/09/21 06:06 AM |
| 1 | 4th daygaming session (2nd alone)I've asked more experienced guys to help with my text game. Got told to first do 500 approaches in 5 months. I've heard the sheer volume makes you better by decreasing the adrenaline response that makes it hard to think. | /r/seduction | 02/09/21 06:03 AM |
| 1 | 3rd daygaming session (1st time alone)Here my next day's daygame field report | /r/seduction | 01/09/21 06:51 PM |
| 1 | 3rd daygaming session (1st time alone)Thanks! Will try these out later today! | /r/seduction | 01/09/21 08:32 AM |
| 2 | 3rd daygaming session (1st time alone)Thanks. These are all good advices. I used to ask a lot of basic boring questions but know I focus more on some funny assumptions and playful banter. I'm still VERY far from where I want to be. To me the biggest issue for now is the adrenaline. I must do around 5-10 approaches more before I will start feeling more at ease. | /r/seduction | 31/08/21 08:46 PM |
| 2 | 3rd daygaming session (1st time alone)TBH, I don't know the exact reason and I don't want to give bad advice. I have some theories but I think you are better off listening to someone who actually knows what he's talking about. I'd encourage you to make your own post on this or another more specific subreddit. Otherwise, feel free to PM me. | /r/seduction | 31/08/21 08:37 PM |
| – | 3rd daygaming session (1st time alone)Do you always speak quietly or only when approaching / talking with girls? | /r/seduction | 31/08/21 08:29 PM |
| 1 | I did not just see what I think I saw.I've always thought it wasn't my opener but they way I delivered it and carried on the conversation that were much more important than the actual words used. Sure, she may have received similar text 100 times already today but how many of these times someone actually confidently walked up to her and said it straight to her face without breaking eye contact? The fact I open direct doesn't necessarily mean I will ask her out or go for her number. She still must do some work and show me she's more … | /r/seduction | 15/08/21 05:47 PM |
| 1 | I did not just see what I think I saw.Daygame has the biggest barrier to entry (approach anxiety) compared to extremely accessible and overcocked online game and the alcohol courage aided night game. That's why only few dudes do it and why it can work even without any skill. From my personal experience daygame has the best effort to result ratio by a far margin. In just an hour or two I can score few numbers which is currently impossible for me using any dating app. More importantly there's almost no competition. It's literally nigh… | /r/seduction | 15/08/21 05:30 PM |
| 1 | 8th OMW approachesThe way I move around the town it's almost obvious what my intentions are when I stop in front of a girl. The city's small enough and quite unpopular so basic questions about directions have low chance to come off as legit in my mind. Maybe I should still give it a try? I prefer doing direct but some reason I just don't feel like approaching at all these days. I'm just scared if I let myself not approach for some time I'll have to start all over once I finally have the time for longer daygame se… | /r/seduction | 07/08/21 08:09 AM |
| 1 | 6th OMW approachesim not a shurtcut specialist, im just a random retard, not full retard tho | /r/seduction | 03/08/21 09:00 PM |
| 2 | My second daygame session: new lessonsAlright, only now I see what I was doing wrong this whole time. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 25/07/21 06:02 AM |
| – | My second daygame session: new lessonsAlso, I don't think spontaneous is the best. I think the best is to having prepared opener for various situations and go default with that. I have one for 1-3 sets, one for groups, one when girl is eyecontacting me, one for dancefloor etc. I go default with that, unless there is some sort of obvious funny spontaneous situation. What kind of indirect are we talking about? Like asking her about her phone or direction kind of thing? I've tried something like this before and felt a bit stupid asking… | /r/seduction | 23/07/21 05:48 PM |
| 2 | Second 2 daygame approaches while minding my own businessI like this way of seeing the situation. The next time will do for sure. | /r/seduction | 23/07/21 11:20 AM |
| – | My second daygame session: new lessonsibe, chameleon or water in a glass kind of thing. I only start doing it few minutes into the conversation once the generic questions aren't necessary anymore and once I get an impression of her vibe. A little bit like if I would talk with anybody else, trying to match the tone of voice, area of interests etc. I'm confused about that boyfriend excuse. I've thought it's polite to respect it but on the other hand that's not what I'm here mostly for, so a no strings attached vibe is the one I want t… | /r/seduction | 23/07/21 11:16 AM |
| – | My second daygame session: new lessonsAll true that. I remember during one of the approaches I stared to look the girl in the eyes while talking and she didn't break it for about half a minute. While her words kept saying that she's not that interested and that she needs to go soon, the moment felt pretty intense and seemed to have no end. I'm always trying to fit the girl's vibe, chameleon or water in a glass kind of thing. I only start doing it few minutes into the conversation once the generic questions aren't necessary anymore a… | /r/seduction | 23/07/21 11:10 AM |
| – | My second daygame session: new lessonsAppreciate that, thanks! I just saw your other post about the direct compliment opener in the context of nightgame. Do you think its a good beginner strategy for the daygame tho? I know I should use smth more original and spontaneous, ideally something I came up with right on the spot, but when my mind is blank I prefer to approach with a generic one rather than not to approach. | /r/seduction | 23/07/21 11:00 AM |
| 1 | Second 2 daygame approaches while minding my own businessI don't mind the downvotes. A word or two of critique on my writing / overthinking style would help tho. | /r/seduction | 23/07/21 10:51 AM |
| – | My second daygame session: new lessonsThanks for the reply. Ill make sure to try that Pinterest out. What do you think about the other "lessons" I received. Maybe there's some nuance to it like for example generally quitting the approach once feeling like its going nowhere as a beginner in order to approach another girl that might be more interested? | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Another night of approaches and eventually found the oneI like your vibe and determination. It seems like it only took you 6 approaches to find an open and willing girl. This seems faster than whatever I managed to do so far during the daytime. How much time did it take from entering the bar to meeting the last girl? Contrary to other comments I like to think if you weren't persistent after getting shotgunned few times, you would decide to leave way before the luck had the time to do its job and reward you with an open girl. If you were to get inside… | /r/seduction | 21/07/21 07:48 AM |
| 1 | Girl at the beach has second thoughtsThe navy probably ... | /r/seduction | 20/07/21 06:28 AM |
| – | Girl at the beach has second thoughtsAll good and well but if I were there she would call chemical corps on my back acne after I turn around. I wouldn't leave without her number tho | /r/seduction | 19/07/21 07:56 PM |
| 1 | What I've learned after 3 weeks of day game.Was supposed to have a date for today but it's a flake, she actually messaged me the day before, then just complete silence, no idea wtf is going on. If this is a common thing I might code up a bot to broad cast value texts to them. This might be the answer. | /r/seduction | 18/07/21 08:37 PM |
| 1 | What I've learned after 3 weeks of day game.Yes! That's what I though about one day. I need to do it! Start recording myself talking at least! | /r/seduction | 18/07/21 08:31 PM |
| 1 | What I've learned after 3 weeks of day game.assume familiarity after a full day of analytical brain processing. I can't say it enough but whenever I get into state I can chat up anyone. From my experience a group makes it 100 times easier to start and get over the initial approaches. It's fun, you can make up challenges and really push each other far beyond what you would likely ever do while flying solo. On the other hand, if being able to daygame girls I meet during my daily life is the goal then I can imagine solo sessions having a bet… | /r/seduction | 18/07/21 08:29 PM |
| 1 | What I've learned after 3 weeks of day game.guy I saw at Crescent Street last weekend hitting up every girl passing while standing at an intersection? lol just kidding haha that was not an Asian If you see a group of guys standing together and suddenly one ejects, approaches a girl and comes back, just go introduce yourself, these communities are usually very open. | /r/seduction | 18/07/21 08:00 PM |
| 1 | My first daygaming session with players: it was a blast (long read)I can see this progressive desensitization working. So far I used to go straight for the approach but this makes the first 5 or so attempts suck. I started writing something about what I do when I think I'm speaking to fast but then I realized I haven't recorded myself yet so maybe instead of speaking way too fast I just speak normal too fast. I was just about to text the girls I got the digits from when it became clear I didn't remember who the girls were nor what we actually talked about. Afte… | /r/seduction | 18/07/21 07:26 PM |
| – | My first daygaming session with players: it was a blast (long read)n of the session is rough. I just compliment random strangers every 30 sec and the flow kinda kicks in. Then the first few actual approaches will put me in state. Strangers of any sex or specifically women? You just give the compliment and let them walk away without any small talk? Oh yes man, yesterday was nice but I must make a habit out of it. I want to approach when I move around the city doing commuting and running some errands but I'm worried the fear will be as strong as the first time wh… | /r/seduction | 18/07/21 04:26 PM |
| – | My first daygaming session with players: it was a blast (long read)Thanks for your reply! I can't do few hours sessions everyday or even often. I still have some of that feeling from the day before and I could possibly approach on my own today but I expect it to fade soon. That's why my following questions: Do you prefer fewer longer sessions or more shorter ones? How long does it take in your case before the flow is back to normal and you need to start all over? I will likely also try recording myself once I get the basics right. How does one realistically do … | /r/seduction | 18/07/21 02:37 PM |
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