tl;dr:

  • almost 2 hours
  • 3 approaches
  • 5 "hit and run"s
  • 0 number
  • 0 insta dates

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Intro

Haven't done a cold approach in about 24 days. Haven't really talked with other people except my roommates and some gym rats for 24 days. It was first ever longer alone session. Also first time in a new city.

My thoughts before the action

I was much more nervous when deciding that I will go out and do the session. Probably a bit nervous while on public transportation. Afterwards I just stopped thinking about it.

Approaches

All 3 approaches were bad and I was making basic mistakes I was aware of right on the spot. Could have easily done at least 20 in that time.

Lessons

  • I know which locations are crowded enough and where I should focus on next time and which seem like mostly waste of time at the moment.
  • For me "hit and run"s are BS. I don't have a problem initiating the approach. I struggle to maintain the conversation. I need volume of approaches and volume inside the approaches.

Mistakes

  • looking for an excuse why not to approach
  • being afraid of approaching more than 1 sets
  • basic questions of doom
  • speaking not loud enough
  • ejecting too fast

Final thoughts

I literally wasted a lot of time not spamming more approaches. This thing pisses me off af. On the other hand I'm slightly happy I went out completely alone, in a new city and experienced it's actually possible to do it entirely on my own.

I wonder if the fapping today with porn has contributed even more to be being picky but I think like I skipped much more girls than usual thinking I was not attracted to them at the moment.

I feel like thanks to regular daygame I may have enough motivation to stop fap and porn completely. Also, leaving the house makes me more motivated in general. I actually forgot how I love being outside and how I feel something is dying inside me after hours or days spent at home.

Tomorrow I'm going out again! PEACE <3