tl;dr:

  • 1h40
  • 11 approaches (~74 total so far)
  • ? "hit and run"s
  • 2 numbers
  • 1 insta date (first ever)

previous session

next session

Intro

Gotta put in the effort and time I guess.

My thoughts before the action

Nervous during the bathroom preparation before leaving the house.

Approaches

Most approaches were decent. I still made plenty mistakes, some of the same as the last time although to a lesser degree.

Inta date

My third approach and my first instant date in my life so far. Lots of awkwardness and some silent breaks yet to my surprise girl started to invest early on. Lasted for about 30-40 minutes. Turned out we have some big things in common. I really hope to see her again but I'm aware of the numbers game so gotta keep it realistic.

Second number

Textbook london daygame model structure filled with some mistakes. I think the approach was too short and I didn't have a chance to talk about myself. Also, I'm not sure if the girl even asked my name lol so I expect a flake here.

Lessons

  • 2 logistic tips for me
    • start sooner (the city is getting empty as I'm gaming there)
    • restrict the gaming area slightly more (one of the streets takes 10-15 minutes but has little to no action)
  • try to approach EVERY girl I find attractive (The city is much less crowded than the bigger one where I did my first 2 daygaming sessions. If I don't approach I sometimes have to wait up to a minute or longer before the next opportunity arises.)

Mistakes

  • looking for an excuse why not to approach
    • I'd say I approached 1/2 or 1/3 of the girls I wanted to approach. This should get close to 100%.
  • being afraid of approaching more than 1 sets
    • can't get over it yet
  • basic questions of doom
    • I'm beginning to throw some basic stacking assumptions about the girl first before she start investing. I usually go with occupation / study / walk / personality. I must try to make it even more interesting and absurd. The follow up (vibing) must also get better.
  • speaking not loud enough
    • speaking too fast (mostly on my initial approach(es))
  • ejecting too fast
    • I tend to eject as soon as I detect some lack of interest. I should hold as long as necessary to get the girl to invest and close.

Final thoughts

I STILL wasted a lot of time not spamming more approaches. Can't make the split second decision approaches yet.

The fapping with porn today didn't really take energy or intent from me to approach. It's possible it made me more picky about the girls I approached or stopped approaching once I was closer and saw their face.

Tomorrow I'm going out, again. I feel like this kind of approaching gives me obviously much less stress than a die hard multiple sets stunt approaches with other players pushing me. The drawback is me pushing the comfort zone much more slowly.