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| 10 | I’m a mom and witnessing the way the world treats my 11yo son vs. my daughter changed me forever.Trans kids…..hah hah. it’s like taping a stick to a horses head and calling it a unicorn. | /r/MensRights | 19/05/26 12:47 AM |
| 6 | I told her I’m divorcing herOh it will. Just wait | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/11/25 07:10 PM |
| 11 | How did you make sense of her walking away after years together?Stop trying to make sense of something that doesn’t make any sense to begin with | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/08/25 03:32 AM |
| 1 | FTBWhat a coincidence. Like if I was newly on the outs with my ex I could not imagine serving her intentionally on a day before something like this | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/06/25 09:30 PM |
| 1 | 'I was thinking of how to improve things, but I see there's no point now'.Dude. It’s a big reason I’m divorced now. Years of being told that I wasn’t open minded enough or that I wasn’t contributing to the emotional side of the relationship. Then when I finally tied and eventually broke emotionally I was cast aside as weak insecure and pathetic. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/06/25 10:51 AM |
| 9 | 8th grade graduation tomorrow-changing the tone in public with my exPlease let us know what happens | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/06/25 01:19 AM |
| 8 | "Family"Don’t go | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/06/25 06:47 PM |
| 2 | Should I be trembling my stbxw is shopping for this?If you’re that worried get one for yourself to use on her and then you can counter act the spell. No idea if that’s a thing but why not?? | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/05/25 02:02 PM |
| 13 | What’s your opinions gentlemen, Intentional?Don’t acknowledge a single fucking emotion oh hers or of yours towards her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/05/25 12:41 PM |
| 1 | Men must radically change to counter the current epidemic of women having inflated egosStop showing your man titties in pics on apps, with a crooked head and eye brow like your the Rock, or of you in bed with sheets pulled halfway up your naked torso. God that’s just disgusting, nobody wants to look at your fat hairy chest online | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/25 06:08 AM |
| 3 | Do you ever fall for someone again the same way you did your first wife?1 date. She was nice enough but the similarities to my ex were just too much. Similar body type,mannerisms, ego, ……I swear that those two could be sisters. Even the personality was a lot alike……..NOPE NOT PLAYING THAT GAME AGAIN | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/04/25 10:29 AM |
| 15 | Do you ever fall for someone again the same way you did your first wife?3 years. Still nothing. Even when I think there might be a spark it’s not reciprocated. Just gonna keep trying to be a better version of myself and the rest will get figured out someday maybe | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/04/25 02:11 AM |
| 3 | I don’t understand why she won’t communicate.Dude if you had done this you would straight up be on the national news every day. In regards to your question it’s simple. She dosent want to. Forget everything you know about logic and reasoning on everything you have to do to deal with this woman going forward. Believe nothing, trust nothing she says or does. It’s a hard pill to swallow but the sooner you accept it it will get easier. I mentally had to stop thinking of her as a person. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/04/25 12:00 PM |
| 3 | Do you ever find your way back to each other (for good)?I became good with just coexisting. our daughters are late teenagers. I don’t press, they know who they are and have their own autonomy to some extent. We actually get along better now it the last 6 months then the last few years. But no, there is no reason to rekindle. We out grew each other and I have no interest in anything more then what we have now | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/04/25 08:02 PM |
| 3 | Am I doing online dating wrong?It’s online attention seeking, not dating like it says | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/03/25 11:52 PM |
| 1 | It’s the little joys of being divorced3 boxes | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/03/25 08:43 AM |
| 3 | It’s the little joys of being divorcedThat’s insane | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/03/25 10:37 PM |
| 5 | It’s the little joys of being divorcedMaybe someday. Guess I will have to be ok with the ability to buy cookies for today 🙂 | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/03/25 10:37 PM |
| 6 | This morning I filled the dishwasher and nobody told me that I had done it wrong.You were actually allowed to put knives in the dishwasher? How did you get away with that!! Everybody knows that the dishwasher “damages” the knife blades. Thats one of the first nuggets of wisdom marriage blessed me with. I had to relearn so many things after many bouts of trials and errors and doing it wrong when I was single Could you believe that I spent the better part of two decades doing it wrong before she so graciously entered my life and retaught me the correct method. What about the s… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/03/25 01:48 AM |
| 6 | This morning I filled the dishwasher and nobody told me that I had done it wrong.Yelled at for other driver’s mistakes….I forgot that one…….ugh the insanity | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/03/25 01:14 PM |
| 12 | This morning I filled the dishwasher and nobody told me that I had done it wrong.When you first split and no one was berating you was it weird at first? For me it was…..no one telling me I didn’t know how to drive. No one rage sighing on the other side of the room constantly, only to be told nothing was wrong when you asked if things were okay, only to find out hours later that she still mad at you and your incompetence and that your inconsiderate for not being able to fortune tell her feelings next Tuesday ……..🤯🤯😮😮🙄🙄 | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/03/25 09:28 AM |
| 2 | This morning I filled the dishwasher and nobody told me that I had done it wrong.Hah hah maybe | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/03/25 01:10 AM |
| 9 | This morning I filled the dishwasher and nobody told me that I had done it wrong.We had a cleaning lady/ friend of my ex because my ex was allergic to dust….but not so allergic that we had to clean the house before the cleaning friend came, because we wouldn’t want the cleaning friend to be insulted and make the work more difficult than it needed to be, if I did, then I was inconsiderate. So I would clean mostly , (because ex couldn’t) then get yelled at because it wasn’t right , then pay her friend to clean what I just cleaned the night before, but now it was better cleaned… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/03/25 07:41 PM |
| 24 | This morning I filled the dishwasher and nobody told me that I had done it wrong.The uncomfortable energy of trying to relax on a Saturday in the afternoon after doing all the yard work by yourself for 4 hours in the morning to come inside shower, sit down on the couch only to be stared at with an insulting look and bitch face expressing “what do you think you’re doing, we need to rage clean the house? You don’t get to just sit around!!” Fun times…… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/03/25 04:24 PM |
| 15 | This morning I filled the dishwasher and nobody told me that I had done it wrong.Omfg. I left the house for a work trip on an early Sunday afternoon after rage cleaning all morning. This was in 2019. Flew home 3 days later, multiple airline delays, exhausted get home. No one is home it’s like 8pm. Ex and daughters 14 and 12 were out to dinner with her parents. I put my baggage in the mudroom. I Make a sandwich, put everything away in the kitchen. Go into the living room. Turn on the tv and sit down. 2 bites in and they come home. I proceed to get my ass chewed out for not pu… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/03/25 04:17 PM |
| 41 | You wake up tomorrow, as a woman, but still have all the memories of what life is like for men. What are you going to do to help the MRA movement, as a woman?Play with my boobs | /r/MensRights | 21/02/25 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Holy crap! Online dating for men are so fucking cruel! Jesus.I’m like trust me, I’m not as desperate as you think I am. I’ve learned it’s OK to have high expectations for myself however, when it comes to expectations for others,I dont get my hopes up. Once I got out of my almost 20 year relationship with my ex-wife and really started looking around and paying attention to things it really changed my perspective on a lot of things. | /r/MensRights | 08/02/25 05:14 AM |
| 23 | Holy crap! Online dating for men are so fucking cruel! Jesus.It’s not “dating” because I no dates ever become of my efforts. I’ve tried being deep, being funny, a great conversationalist, honest and genuine, a bit of a smart ass, every possible way to try to respond to someone I’ve tried…….8 months, 4 apps. Honestly I’ve had one date….shes nice, but in all transparency she’s almost exactly like my ex wife….its like a mean trick. I asked her just out of curiosity how many responses she gets and she said like on average 100, every couple of days……….fml. Thi… | /r/MensRights | 07/02/25 09:16 PM |
| 5 | Do women throw fits just to make men stay home with themAbout the only thing I can plan with a friend who’s still married is an early morning breakfast or lunch meeting “for work “ somewhere near by | /r/MensRights | 25/01/25 12:34 PM |
| 2 | When your ex just can’t take accountability…venting and curious how you all deal with it!It’s been 2 years…... I even did my own amends to her for my own mistakes. Not for her, but for my own sanity. It was actually amazingly cathartic to do because I know I could have been a better husband. Her…..crickets…….. And honestly I am okay with it because now I can truly tell myself that I know I did everything I could, even trying to show forgiveness and say I’m sorry. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/01/25 04:18 PM |
| 11 | She wants a divorce after 40 yearsTalk about wanting your own cake and eating it too. Send her packing and don’t help her with anything. Would she if the roles were reversed? | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/09/24 03:43 PM |
| 2 | Post separation solo vacation recommendationsGo to Disney world😆 | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/09/24 04:05 PM |
| 2 | Just Wondering - Were you warned about Divorce?Yep threatened it on more than one occasion. When she said she officially wanted one it was about a month and still no movement. I filled served her myself and said I’m done playing this game. We are done. And that was the official beginning of the end. Of course she was worried about her image because I ended up filling against her, aghast what will the people think who see the court records | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/09/24 01:14 AM |
| 3 | Financial fuckryI wonder how much state aid you would qualify for and get if you were a woman. Yep same scenario and if you’re a man they just put you in prison instead | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/08/24 01:51 PM |
| 5 | What are the top things that you don’t missThis is simple, all the responses above including all the responsibilities of marriage and none of the benefits. Being talked to like I’m a child. Her vanilla sex. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/07/24 10:41 PM |
| 5 | What is one line or quote you can share to help fellow divorced men?She was never really yours. It was just your turn with her | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/07/24 02:47 AM |
| 13 | Spousal support + living with new partnerGo to the post office and have his mail changed | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/06/24 08:32 PM |
| 15 | I have a consultation with an attorney this week. My wife and I are planning to go thru mediation, but I wanted to know my rights. What are key questions to ask and what documents should I bring?Part of the reason she wants to work on it is she probably already knows she’s going to be taken to the wood shed financially. Just my opinion | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/06/24 02:26 PM |
| 3 | In Retrospect, What Should Guys Screen for in a Partner Before Entering a Relationship?It can go the other way. Her Daddy was “perfect so why can’t you be more like him, oh you’re upset about something you’re trying to fix?? Call my Dad. He can fix and figure it out….you really should listen to him more” | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/02/24 12:35 AM |
| 2 | In Retrospect, What Should Guys Screen for in a Partner Before Entering a Relationship?EVERYTHING. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/02/24 12:32 AM |
| 9 | How dishonest many of them areI would be gone 2-3 days for work, come home and get yelled at because the house was a mess and it was some how my fault!!!!! How am I supposed to be held accountable for things I am not even there to cause. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/02/24 05:52 PM |
| 4 | Asking for a list of expectations to repair?Death by a thousand cuts. That’s what it sounds like to me | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/01/24 05:52 PM |
| 1 | DependentsWe have 2 kids, we each claim one | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/01/24 07:00 PM |
| 3 | Five love languagesI actually sat in a work conference years back and the guy that presented bragged it up pretty heavily. Every body got a book to take home. I showed it to my now ex wife when I got home and she said she would read it. Put it on the coffee table and yeah it never moved an inch for about 3 weeks and then it was gone | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/01/24 03:33 AM |
| 1 | Should I do counseling after 25 years?Counseling for your self?? Maybe | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/01/24 05:32 PM |
| 3 | Put a lawyer on retainer todayMy attorney was great. She basically told me from the word go that I am not a therapist but if you want to pay me to listen that’s fine but it’s the same rate as what it’s going to cost to get you divorced. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/01/24 01:30 AM |
| 2 | Dating during divorce?Get an escort | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/01/24 05:42 PM |
| 9 | It's so telling: I am shocked this is happening but none of my friends are.I don’t know why,but for some reason my mind read this in Rocky Balboa voice | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/01/24 09:06 PM |
| 9 | Wife is verbally abusive but might not realize it?Yes. I would get chastised for everything. I didn’t realize how bad it was until I got divorced. The most innate garbage that often time spill out of her mouth, it’s actually quite funny looking back on it now | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/01/24 10:35 PM |
| 4 | She’s Saying I Make 5X More Than I do!They can get pretty deceitful | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/01/24 07:50 PM |
| 5 | I wish…Happy new year. Made a meatloaf and watching football. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/01/24 12:50 AM |
| 9 | How to deal with wifes family after announcing divorceMy in laws knew about the divorce before I did. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/12/23 03:40 PM |
| 8 | Today wife wants divorce. What do I need to know about getting a lawyer?Serve her first. My ex kept kicking the can. Said she wanted a divorce beginning of May. Every week or so I would ask if she was going to file, no action just talk, I got sick of hearing it and living in limbo and did it myself. Gave her the papers July The look on her face was awesome. I didn’t know it at the time but this was the first step in claiming my own individuality and life back. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/12/23 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Am I crazy?You sure you aren’t a man? This all sounds strangely familiar to probably 90% of us here. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/12/23 05:28 PM |
| 0 | Advice on sex after divorceGet an escort. It can do wonders for your confidence and if you’re going to drop cash to get some with an expensive show and dinner at least with an escort you know what you’re paying for | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/12/23 05:05 AM |
| 3 | Help getting attention from women? (serious)I think you’re in the wrong subreddit | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/12/23 05:21 AM |
| 5 | Advice for bringing it upDo it in a public place when you tell her. That way you have witnesses in case she goes crazy. Make sure you record the whole conversation on your phone. If for no other reason than to make sure you understand what she says. I did it for my own personal use because it is going to be an awkward situation and having the ability to go back and listen for my own sanity helped me | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/11/23 05:59 AM |
| 7 | Am I getting screwed ?Dude. You are wasting your time. It’s like trying to have a rational discussion with a toddler at this point. Save yourself the time, energy and frustration and get your own lawyer now and worry about your own future and your kids. Divorce is crappy enough with everything else that takes place. I understand it’s not cheap and that divorce’s can be expensive. Do you know why? Because it’s worth it! | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/11/23 04:59 PM |
| 3 | What makes a man submit to a second (or third) destruction in divorce?Sing it brother | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/11/23 03:16 PM |
| 2 | What is divorce like at first?How does one prove they are not Satan?? | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/10/23 11:50 AM |
| 5 | Casual sex is worse for women and makes them sad and untrustworthySo now not only can women pretty much have sex whenever they want it…….now they get depressed whenever they get it.……sounds about right lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 01:42 PM |
| 13 | She seems to be struggling...Same here…….now she’s calling her 73 year old dad to come over and do things…..not my monkey, not my circus. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/10/23 06:05 PM |
| 11 | Just VentingI was in something similar. Not to the extreme you are but what you are describing isn’t love. It’s codependency. Didn’t cheat, same with work and she cutting back hours to “do more around the house”? When Covid hit I saw what that really was. “ I spent 4/12 hours alone just doing laundry today!” No you spent maybe 20-30 mins starting and moving over loads, and folding when the dryer went off. No sex the last 2 years, constant berating, nothing ever good enough, shitty husband, said she wanted a… | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/10/23 03:01 PM |
| 2 | How do you prevent falling into the trap again?DO NOT UNDER ANY SCENARIO ALLOW YOU TWO TO MOVE IN TOGETHER | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/10/23 04:49 AM |
| 4 | What do I do?Sorry brother. If the military wanted you to have a wife they would issue you one. Jody strikes again | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/09/23 08:43 PM |
| 1 | If you move out.. but cant afford a lawyer..If you have a 401k sometimes you can take a loan against it. In essence you end up paying yourself back | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/09/23 02:05 PM |
| 10 | I just need to rantI hope you’re not going to have to pay child support | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/09/23 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Women's brain are hard-wired to blame men. Just accept it as a fact.Oh my, that is awesome | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/09/23 01:37 PM |
| 5 | Wife says she has “Outgrown our Marriage”It’s probably something that she has been planning for the last 6 months to a year. They are all insane. Consider it a blessing and get while you still might have a chance | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/08/23 12:32 AM |
| 11 | slightly annoyed that toxic female traits are just laughed at like it's normalMy ex was notorious for this. I think the almost 20 years we were together I can recall 2 maybe 3 times she admitted and apologized for something wrong she did. I don’t know how to do anything, I don’t know how to drive, I don’t know how to fix anything, I don’t know how to use my own tools, I don’t know how to clean, I wear the wrong clothes, I don’t know how to cook or do laundry….you get my point …….. I’ve spent the better part of the last year coming to terms with all her BS. And any time I … | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/08/23 04:14 PM |
| 1 | What's the equal phrase to 'happy wife, happy life' for husbands?Fuck this bullshit | /r/MensRights | 04/07/23 04:53 AM |
| 7 | What the hellDude we’re we married to the same person?? | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/07/23 12:50 PM |
| 1 | What did you do with your ringIn a drawer | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/06/23 03:34 AM |
| 1 | How did you decide to call it quits?Same but mine was alcohol | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/06/23 02:16 AM |
| 2 | Looking for wisdom/encouragementI had a similar situation was told in April she wanted a divorce. Wouldn’t file, kept making BS excuses. I finally just did it myself and I served her personally, that was early July. This was last year. Moved out that September and everything was done by February. House sold/closed last month. It’s still hurting but it gets easier with time. The idea that you wake up one morning and bad feelings are gone isn’t realistic. IMO it’s more like an analog wavelength. Sometimes it’s up and sometimes d… | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/06/23 04:19 PM |
| 10 | Rant: Soon to be ex-wife keeps moving the goal post for child custody for the most trivial reasons.She wants as much as possible for child support. The more equal the placement the less money she gets. I have mine 20 and she gets 80. At least mine are 16/14 yrs old so I only need to do this for a few years | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/06/23 12:34 PM |
| 24 | Where do men’s rights to express themselves start? where is the line?“Shut up and mow the lawn, you’re mental health isn’t more important then my superiority complex “ | /r/MensRights | 05/06/23 07:56 PM |
| 2 | How Far Away Do You Live From Your Kids?15 mins. Even though I don’t have joint custody they are old enough to make their own decisions. 16 and 14. 2 br apartment with amenities like work out room and swimming pool we can all use. I have 20/80. They like it and pop over whenever they want. So much so even if it’s not my weekend I try not to get bent out of shape because I know that if I make issues it creates animosity. Again mine are older and it’s been almost a year. But it works for us | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/06/23 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Beginning of the endWow that’s a lot. Read most all your posts. She sounds god awful. Hope things are better now. Can I ask if you’re divorced yet and how it’s going? | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/06/23 01:02 PM |
| 7 | Spent Memorial Day alone….Yep | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/05/23 02:41 AM |
| 2 | For those that are divorced4 bedroom 3.5 bath 4K square feet house completely remodeled main level, everything upgraded in all bathrooms, new carpet anew tile with professional custom cabinets, in all bathrooms and kitchen and dining room. All new windows and patio door going to new concrete patio to replace old 2 tier deck that was rotting replaced last summer. 3 car garage finished and updated basement since Covid. Today 2 bedroom apartment 1 bathroom. Approximately 800 square feet, no garage. My daughters like it. 16/1… | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/05/23 08:03 PM |
| 1 | If you think you've ever done some stupid stuff just remember this.Why??? | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/05/23 04:14 AM |
| 8 | Happy Mother’s Day……reflectingDid you at least get it your way? | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/05/23 01:43 PM |
| 2 | Always heard stories of divorce until I became the story.Same. The system is rigged against men. Was told almost a year ago mid may. Divorce was finalized in February. I’m just grateful this was somewhat amicable. Don’t ever let her see you break down. Grey Rock it for the time and when the time is right allow yourself to break and grieve, get angry, cry, talk it out with someone on your side. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/04/23 03:33 PM |
| 3 | What is the scientific name for when a woman rewrites history in her mind?Stupid bitch | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/04/23 01:05 AM |
| 22 | Am I over reacting?What would it look like if the roles were reversed? | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/03/23 05:40 PM |
| 6 | Am I over reacting?Run | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/03/23 05:37 PM |
| 9 | The BEST parts about being divorcedSo I took off of work today and tomorrow to drive 2 1/2 hours to a concert that I am actually going to go to buy myself. I did ask some other people if they were interested in logistically it just didn’t work out forms but it’s a band I’ve been wanting to see you again for a very long time and there was a short window an opportunity so I figured why not If I was still married, there would be absolutely no way in hell that I would be chilling in this hotel room right now getting ready to take a s… | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/03/23 08:18 PM |
| 12 | The BEST parts about being divorcedSo 2.5 years ago I started planning a trip for all of us to DC. Then stbxw asked if her parents could come along. I’m like ok. Then a couple weeks after I find out they want to pay for everything and bring her brother too. Was pushed out due to Covid and then last year due to health issues with her parents and then I find out about the divorce but they….still want me to go along???? Thanks but no thanks. I would love to spend this time with my daughters but I’m not going to spend an entire week … | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/03/23 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Should i give the neighbors a heads up? She moving out this weekend..Tell them the garbage company couldn’t come and this was the next best option | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/03/23 10:35 AM |
| 5 | I bought a recliner!Foosball is the devil | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/03/23 06:21 PM |
| 30 | Millions of men have dropped out of the workforce, leaving companies struggling to fill jobs: It's "a matter of our national identity"Apply with your pronouns. Mine are “Your majesty” and “El Presidente” | /r/MensRights | 05/03/23 10:47 PM |
| 2 | I think today was the day.I got so sick of this. Nothing was ever good enough. Bigger house , more money, more property projects, etc etc. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/02/23 06:07 PM |
| 2 | Can't believe I caught this on dashcam! 😣How is it MIL can sue you? | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/02/23 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Can't believe I caught this on dashcam! 😣Open up your own checking account without her on it. Transfer half of everything you can that’s considered non retirement/fined for taxes early withdrawal. Change your direct deposit so half your pay goes to just you and half to “family”. Find a good credit card because you’re going to need it. As long as you’re making minimum payments until everything is settled you should be fine for awhile Talk to your financial advisor if you have one to make them aware of what is going down. I hired a femal… | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/02/23 04:09 PM |
| 7 | Need divorce adviceBetter now then in 15-20 years brother | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/02/23 01:00 AM |
| 5 | Having trouble accepting itIs there a Red Cross in your area. Don’t be afraid to ask them for help if there is | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/02/23 06:24 PM |
| 2 | Wife says we don’t spend a enough time togetherSpeaking first hand, any type of forced compliance will breed anger and resentment. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/02/23 02:47 PM |
| 3 | Seeing her hurt breaks my heart.I’m very grateful for the therapist I have now. Turns out we have very similar experiences and current situations. He challenges me on my thoughts and offers honest opinions. Some have said it’s a conflict of interest, but guess what….after this many years and therapists, finding one that you can talk to, isn’t demanding, and let’s me talk about what I really feel and think is so refreshing. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/01/23 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Seeing her hurt breaks my heart.Women tend to think therapy is only valid for the man. I have probably seen 7-8 counselors since we married 17 yrs ago. The one time she actually went with me at the request of one of the counselors she got angry afterwards because the therapist questioned her on some of her beliefs. Kinda weird having a female therapist challenge her. Not gonna lie. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/01/23 09:55 PM |
| 2 | I want a divorce and don't know how to leave.Initiating the process is the hardest part | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/01/23 07:01 PM |
| 2 | Welp, looks like I'm joining this communityWait……how did she kill a cat with a dryer? | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/01/23 03:25 PM |
| 2 | If or when is the time for divorce?Go File. Proves that you aren’t useless after all, and you’re wish has been granted. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/01/23 04:33 PM |
| 11 | to all the men spending Christmas solo this year speak up! and merry Christmas 🎄⛄🎁 to you allJust treating it like any other day. I had my kids yesterday. Slept In today today with the dog. Watching football | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/12/22 10:05 PM |
| 2 | stbx may have cancer..If she’s on your insurance look at the records | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/12/22 06:02 PM |
| 7 | A man can’t decorate for Christmas apparently. I posted some of the photos on Facebook and I keep getting IMs about how great my daughters did picking out decoration’s, lights, etc.I think you don’t understand the larger issue. It’s not just about “rights”. It’s about “ perception”. But to each their own | /r/MensRights | 05/12/22 06:52 AM |
| -8 | A man can’t decorate for Christmas apparently. I posted some of the photos on Facebook and I keep getting IMs about how great my daughters did picking out decoration’s, lights, etc.See comments below | /r/MensRights | 05/12/22 05:59 AM |
| 6 | A man can’t decorate for Christmas apparently. I posted some of the photos on Facebook and I keep getting IMs about how great my daughters did picking out decoration’s, lights, etc.No they helped but I picked everything out, figured out the best way to re arrange furniture, measured everything and it was like four trips between different stores. I am super grateful my daughters and I did this together, but people and comments on other social media sites assume that the man who did 80/90 % of all the actual work is not engaged, or involved and didn’t do anything. | /r/MensRights | 05/12/22 05:59 AM |
| 7 | A man can’t decorate for Christmas apparently. I posted some of the photos on Facebook and I keep getting IMs about how great my daughters did picking out decoration’s, lights, etc.Thanks. It sucks that everyone thinks you’re helpless without a woman badgering you | /r/MensRights | 05/12/22 05:32 AM |
| 3 | Can my wife stay on my health insurance after we are divorced?Why would you want her to? | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/11/22 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Men love to complain about women looking fake but consistently go for the fakest looking womenI wouldn’t fuck any of them with Kanye s dick and the rest of the useless people who follow them pushing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/22 06:34 AM |
| 1 | dealing with wife while preparing to drop the bomb...Get therapy for you only. It’s amazing how much you can get off your chest and you don’t have to worry about her refuting any of it or try to defend yourself | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/11/22 03:15 AM |
| 2 | dealing with wife while preparing to drop the bomb...Counseling = what you aren’t doing ( even if you’re doing) in her mind | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/11/22 03:30 AM |
| 3 | It’s time for Full Blown Bull Dog Attorney Litigated Divorce…The reason divorce is expensive is because it’s worth it | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/11/22 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Flowers for my daughter make me “ A good Man”My point is if I had randomly walked up to a complete stranger and said the same thing to her a female it would have not gone over well | /r/MensRights | 25/10/22 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Best thing to do after a divorceMy STBXW worked 3rd shift in labor and delivery so I always had some sympathy for her, I was like a single parent half the time a couple week total a month. Then I started a new gig and made more money. She wanted to cut back and go to days. I honestly couldn’t blame her. Then Covid hit and I saw firsthand what a SAH mom does all day when there’s no accountability. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/10/22 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Best thing to do after a divorceI had no idea what I asked for. GTF out of that my friend | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/10/22 10:36 PM |
| 4 | Best thing to do after a divorceCurious what double standards you have had to endure. Mine are/we’re constant. If something is my idea, like a certain restaurant, never where or what she wants. I would then offer her an option to see if her parents would want to join us somewhere. Literally they would practically pick the same places. Now it’s a good idea 😑🤦♂️ | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/10/22 03:14 PM |
| 4 | Lawyer hit me with a bombshell before mediation tomorrowThe games these women play. 🤦♂️ | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/09/22 12:10 AM |
| 21 | still don't know if i did the right thing.No one wins an award for staying in a marriage that no longer works | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/09/22 02:57 PM |
| 2 | People need to stop saying men are lonely because of their personality.Big difference between being alone and being lonely | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 02:42 AM |
| 2 | Talk to ex if TRO is dismissed !Dogs are happy and live in the present. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/08/22 11:40 AM |
| 2 | Men Should Not Take Dating Advice From Female ExpertsMen should take advice from women as often as the take it from us | /r/MensRights | 26/07/22 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Judge increased my overnights but refused to decrease CS. Can I get credits for that later and reduce CS amount ?Here’s another interesting fact I’m finding out. When it comes time to do the taxes only one parent can claim the children as dependents. Guess who gets to claim them……ding ding ding ……tell them what they’ve won Chuck! That’s right Bill, the one who receives child support also claims them as dependents. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/07/22 01:56 PM |
| 1 | how did you go about finding an attorney to work with?Get your own account and move half of everything to it. Don’t let her have access to it either. For some reason my stbxw thinks she’s entitled to have access to my account, yep, sorry, not sorry | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/07/22 01:29 PM |
| 4 | Is your work history part of the divorce process???My attorney is asking fo 6 paystubs and two years of our tax returns No interest in her or my employment history Here fishy fishy https://youtu.be/cUusX1Js6R0 | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/07/22 03:53 AM |
| 5 | Is your work history part of the divorce process???Thanks. Not sure. Time will tell. I have intentionally hired a female attorney for reasons like this. She’s a barracuda for mens rights from what I have seen | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/07/22 03:34 AM |
| 3 | Omg I’m so annoyedShe signed it tonight. There’s hope for the hopeless after all | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/07/22 02:51 AM |
| 5 | So there is a poor soul trying to talk to feminist in twoxchromosomes. He's trying to create a sub where discussion between genders can be regulated. He's finding we're a lot nicer than expected.Better luck pissing against the wind towards an electric fence my man | /r/MensRights | 10/07/22 09:37 PM |
| 2 | a strange experience last nightAt least you’re not the guy tied to her. That would suck | /r/MensRights | 10/07/22 04:39 PM |
| 7 | Im not playing gamesShe knows it’s coming. Originally she was going to file but then we got into a scenario where it’s not “convenient “ I basically said I’m done playing your games because divorcing isn’t based on convenience. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/07/22 03:39 AM |
| 3 | Filed on FridayThere at an age where it’s considered by the courts what they want. 15 and 13 yrs old | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/07/22 06:39 PM |
| 4 | Filed on Friday15 and 13 | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/07/22 03:53 PM |
| 2 | Michigan Supreme Court Rules Against Biological FatherThere not riots. They are “peaceful protests “. Lol | /r/MensRights | 01/07/22 12:29 PM |
| 8 | Ex Wife Can Barely FunctionTell her 300lbs per tire | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/06/22 05:33 PM |
| 14 | "I am the mother of your children!"Exactly | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/06/22 04:12 PM |
| 13 | Roe vs Wade has been Overturned; If we truly believe in Human Rights, we must support a Women’s Right to ChooseShould have always been a state issue. Wether you agree with abortion or not it’s not the feds role in any of this. The wench Pelosi said this is “an attack on family planning “. Really I didn’t realize family planning only involves women having the ability to kill babies that aren’t born | /r/MensRights | 24/06/22 04:41 PM |
| 5 | Ex wife is a narcissistJudge is a woman. There it is, plain as day | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/06/22 10:19 PM |
| 5 | access to children during public eventsBecome an assistant coach. Nothing saying you can’t. Besides what is she going to do, take you back to court because your a volunteer?? | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/06/22 08:15 PM |
| 8 | Confronting an APRun | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/06/22 11:21 AM |
| 1 | alimony plus child support?Me too. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/06/22 12:38 PM |
| 1 | Had a relapse last nightSo the people here telling you to “go to a meeting”? I’m curious if any of you had ever been to one?? | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/06/22 02:21 AM |
| 3 | Just cannot stop shaking my headThanks for all the advice. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/06/22 03:21 AM |
| 1 | Talking to co-workers about a pending divorce???Who is her?? There’s no ‘her’. Shit I can barely handle the ex Did you not see my comment about working virtual?? | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/05/22 02:55 AM |
| 0 | Talking to co-workers about a pending divorce???No . No.- No. Wtf | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/05/22 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Talking to co-workers about a pending divorce???Wtf. This is supposed to be men only. Wtf are you doing here. Reporting you the admins | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/05/22 02:31 AM |
| 1 | Talking to co-workers about a pending divorce???just a question, no, ZERO INTEREST, was on a work trip where my STBXW met a coworker female of mine and they hit it off. IDK if they have been in contact or not, it was only a few weeks ago. I told her that this is happening and that i didnt want her to hear it from anyone other then me as rumors can happen. She said she understood. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/05/22 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Talking to co-workers about a pending divorce???necessary management is in the bubble | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/05/22 07:40 PM |
| 1 | My GF is very hot and cold. Sometimes she is very sweet...but other times controlling. I've been with her for 10+ years and she wants to get married and have kids. Was anyone else in a similar situation before they got married?This has more red flags then a military parade in China. RUN 🏃♂️ | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/05/22 08:10 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else in the early stages of divorce/separation and telling friends and family?I hear you. I was told last Saturday afternoon. I was the last to know but my gut says something has been up for the last few months. She hasn’t officially filled. We have a huge yard project that we are in the middle off that’s going on 2 years. She wants to file after it’s done. I’m still trying to process all this and yesterday she is downsizing the kids stuff. 2 girls 13-15. They are amazing…the kids not her……I know we can be clueless sometimes as men…but damn. This sucks | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/05/22 07:54 PM |
| 11 | Wife filled husband’s phone with child porn in attempt to get custody of children, Oklahoma police sayWhat is love…..baby don’t hurt me……baby don’t hurt me….no more | /r/MensRights | 12/05/22 10:04 PM |
| 19 | The first Female Vice President of the US is frustrated that she is not getting the attention she deserves Exasperation and dysfunction: Inside Kamala Harris' frustrating start as Vice PresidentBecause she’s useless. What happened to her addressing the border crisis? | /r/MensRights | 15/11/21 01:48 PM |
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