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I am too young to have children yet but I plan to one day for adoption or surregacy and become a single father. Single mothers are normalized and getting married is just a single motherhood with extra steps(divorce), it's sad but I don't think we get to procreate in any other way. Biology failed us.
/r/MensRights10/05/26 03:43 PM
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The wall causes them to loose the ability to attract the men they're attracted to but they never had the chance of ending up with them in the first place mathematically, so their concern is misplaced. In regards to their ability to attract men they're not attracted to, even a granny has more matches than an average man.
/r/MensRights23/04/26 12:27 PM
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She did complain about the lack of commitment, not initiation and I guess from her perspective it can seem that way. I think they live in a little bit of a different world, skewed by unchallanged assumptions which even we would fall victim to if reality wouldn't force us to acknowledge it by standing in the way of us and our goals. And they also think their own preferences don't apply to other women. Basically I think it's due to a lack perspective.
/r/MensRights23/04/26 12:15 PM
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It's helpful to focus on people's actions rather than words. I can't say for certain weather this will apply to your situation but from my experience, if a woman is attracted to a man, chances are other women are also attracted to him, meaning he has a lot of options. Regardless of weather he is some playboy or a hopeless romantic, he will not be able to commit to all the women attracted to him. So majority of women will then go and complain that men(him in particular) doesn't want an equal rela…
/r/MensRights23/04/26 11:46 AM
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Lack of initiation from men, in my opinion, is the right course of action. High initiation from men makes women see men as replacable, as well as overblows their own self-worth because they're always in demand, lowering their demand could make them appreciate their relationships more knowing they cannot get a "better" deal on a whim as well as shows them that men have some self-respect. I don't have a sustainable solution yet but I think it's a step in the right direction. What is worrying is th…
/r/MensRights23/04/26 11:32 AM
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Men didn't give up of their own volition, they were pushed away. Women were the ones doing the pushing. Men stopped talking to them most likely because women were treating them like shit and women were treating them like shit because they didn't want them to talk to them. So why would they be concerned, it's what they wanted. Though to be fair just cause They wanted it doesn't mean it isn't the right move for us. Most of them will become concerned once men will stop providing for them or will do…
/r/MensRights23/04/26 10:54 AM
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I think men say it because they've been pushed away. Rather than philosophical point of view they speak from experience of not being able to get it or met with hostile attitude. Of course they still have sexual needs, but when something is inaccessible or too punishing to get you just give up.
/r/MensRights23/04/26 10:49 AM
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He didn't mean 10-20 top % in being annoying. There is no universal top 10 % men but there is top 10 % men who get majority of matches and the variables these men have in common are pretty slim.
/r/MensRights20/04/26 08:20 AM
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I have anecdotes. It's a false dichotomy. Who has the need to compare spouses like objects ? Often people with narcisstic tendencies, not men. My grandma who is of older generation, verbally abused her Ill husband on his deathbed with such venom and poison it sent shivers down my spine every hour of every day for 2 years ever since he showed first symptoms. And none does anything because grandma cannot do not wrong and she is "tired/sad/confused" so it's actually okay. Being a husband is a shit …
/r/MensRights20/04/26 07:51 AM
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Yeah but it only affects the person´s own health. Unlike with redpill, blackpillers will not play mind games on you or be violent to impress women.
/r/ExRedPill17/12/25 08:46 AM
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Out of any pills blackpill is the least harmful in my opinion because you cannot use it to manipulate someone to behave a certain way like you can with redpill.
/r/ExRedPill17/12/25 05:44 AM
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Out of any pills blackpill is the least harmful in my opinion because you cannot use it to manipulate someone to behave a certain way like you can with redpill.
/r/ExRedPill17/12/25 05:43 AM
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When he said "They do so because the indoctrination has worked and they believe it is right." he was reffering to men, not women. He wasn´t saying women find submissive men attractive, he said men don´t believe feminist ideals because they want sex but because they have been indoctranated.
/r/MensRights11/12/25 03:58 AM
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Oh no, you´re totally right. I am a misandrist and I totally took the bait cause I despise male feminists, I thought "Finally mras talk about something I´m passionate about." And it didn´t even click it was actually just another slander of men.
/r/MensRights11/12/25 03:56 AM
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Damn, I´ve never heard of this. It´s only half applicable to me.
/r/MensRights11/12/25 03:29 AM
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The only reason I stopped supporting feminism is cause I started feeling like it became counter-productive to women. Well, if you´re asking me, I never thought being a feminist actually gets you sex, I thought quite the opposite. The problem is you cannot agree with their views anymore cause they´re just wrong and delusional but they´re still efficient so I would be supporting them anyway if it wasn´t for the fact their agenta is counter-productive. Well and you know since I actually care about …
/r/MensRights11/12/25 03:28 AM
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I just think women do not require resource security from men they're sexually attracted to.
/r/MensRights03/09/25 04:33 PM
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I think it was debunked that women have lower sex drive than men.
/r/MensRights03/09/25 04:04 PM
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Well frankly, falling down the redpill rabbithole was very painful for me. And the hurt it created for others has been even worse, I can't imagine what it'd be like for a child. I don't know anything about this specific organization but I think there should be something to keep online grifters from children. Even though that should be parents' responsibility.
/r/MensRights10/08/25 11:55 AM
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Sure, you can try to be like that. I am employing different methods.
/r/MensRights02/08/25 08:07 AM
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I'm saying that they are disgusted by sex that gave them life the same way that most people are disgusted by the slaughter and butchery that gives them food.
/r/MensRights24/07/25 06:25 AM
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You could also criticize female sexuality for being vain, judgemental, selfish and exploitative or countless of other things you could call it instead of just focusing on male sexuality.
/r/MensRights24/07/25 06:19 AM
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True, I personally believe female sexuality is just as harmful as male sexuality.
/r/MensRights24/07/25 06:17 AM
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The same way you're disgusted by the slaughter that allows you to eat.
/r/MensRights24/07/25 06:15 AM
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Tsch, yeah all this shaming is garbage. Modern men are fine. They don't owe jackshit to the world, other men, or women. "Work on yourself" is an idiotic advice, I prefer to say "Work for yourself". As for you, there's kind of a false dichotomy. I've heard of a scientist who wanted to freeze their brain for experiments after they die but some time later they had a meltdown over how stupid humanity is and that he is cancelling the experiment. It's an example of a logical person who likely wasn't t…
/r/MensRights23/07/25 10:38 PM
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Do you know if the locals in those countries also have satisfying romantic relationships among themselves ?
/r/MensRights22/07/25 11:48 AM
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Promiscuity doesn´t seem like a good move for women either because they will not end up with their desired partner anyway.
/r/MensRights12/07/25 11:27 AM
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This is an Amazing perspective ! I am a relatively blackpilled guy and it was bumming me out but I never even considered the possibility that nature could be wrong. I considered nature as sort of an unquestionable authority, without even realizing it. And I think many blackpilled people do. I thought women´s sexual selection was responsible for the genetic improvement of our species, therefore letting them choose freely "like animals" would be the moral and beneficial thing to do for our species…
/r/MensRights11/07/25 08:23 AM
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Hmm, I haven't done it for a week now and I still don't feel any special urge to do so. I found that I am most "agitated" when I feel suffocated. To explain, speaking for myself, my sexual urges are a manifestation of a need for dominance. If I engage in a behavior that makes me feel independant and strong, or in other words dominant, it substitutes my need for sexual gratification. I think, with our sexuality being related to testosterone, we can satisfy many of those sexual urges by some non-s…
/r/MensRights10/07/25 09:08 AM
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Do the locals in philipines and asia have Good relationships?
/r/MensRights07/07/25 04:00 PM
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Well I hang out with a women and I can tell you they're perverted as fuck, they're recreationally racist, casually homophobic. Don't know what you mean by cheap. And 6 and 4, that's honestly just sexist. Thanks for the advice, though.
/r/MensRights28/05/25 07:54 AM
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I'm wondering. Are the relationships also as satisfying among the locals themselves ?
/r/MensRights27/05/25 10:40 AM
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I see it got replaced by blackpill.
/r/MensRights27/05/25 10:33 AM
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Asking for help everyone, all the time. None cares. Everyone turned against me. No actually they do care, they somehow see my struggles as a direct attack against them. So if I express hurt or discomfort, I am "hurting" them. Nothing better than showing signs of depression and get told "Why are you doing this to us ?" And I am not even masculine.
/r/MensRights12/04/25 11:49 AM
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Yep, I feel sorry that happened to you. I had a similar experience long ago with a different redpiller (the first one I ever saw). I'm Good now, tho. I agree what is considered "redpill" isn't Good and can easily be used as a tool for manipulation, nothing else really. I hope you're better.
/r/ExRedPill31/03/25 11:34 PM
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Isn't Jesus attractive ?
/r/MensRights19/03/25 07:12 AM
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It's your choice but I personally disagree. Would your family do the same for you ? What lead you to believe that their life is more valueable than yours ?
/r/MensRights10/03/25 04:11 PM
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Well, I live in Europe and I've never heard anyone have a problem with foreskin so I guess it's valid in this case. And men should be proud of their bodies. But in your post you said you "condemn women for not having sex" and men have a right to "protest against it". That makes you look pretty bad. It makes it sound like you wanna protest against women not having sex. You can't condemn women for not having sex. If anything you could've worded it better. I guess you can condemn them for shaming m…
/r/MensRights27/02/25 10:01 AM
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You think people's preferences are cultural. I think people's preferences are biological. What I do not understand is what is your goal. I do not see what positive change would we achieve by objecting to women's preferences or mocking them but of course since feminists already do so to men, you can retaliate, I just don't know what benefits will you get out of it.
/r/MensRights27/02/25 09:30 AM
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You can mirror the feminist's toxic behaviors but I think it will just result in a pointless back and forth. I personally would only call them out but wouldn't stood down to their level. And I mean, in the end, the whole body positivity movement didn't exactly work out for feminists as far as their personal lives go. So I doubt imitating it would bring any benefits to men, so the the only reason why you'd imitate their behavior is out of pettiness maybe and that isn't all that productive. But I …
/r/MensRights27/02/25 09:17 AM
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Nothing's wrong with that. You can do that, is something preventing you from doing that ?
/r/MensRights27/02/25 09:12 AM
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Personal preferences is not something you can control or change. Hence, it isn't very productive to discuss them. Some people believe both men and women should be honest and hold each other to some aesthetic standard. Some people believe that both men and women should tolerate things they dislike about others for moral reasons. But it all comes down to personal choice. Either way double standards are bad and whichever option you choose in your personal life should probably be applied to both gen…
/r/MensRights27/02/25 09:04 AM
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I haven't seen anyone here supporting male genital mutilation or women's opinions about male body.
/r/MensRights27/02/25 07:44 AM
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I'd say "Lovable" generally in my experience, not necessarily lovely xD
/r/MensRights27/02/25 07:30 AM
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Wow, that's pretty sweet. I often found myself imitating feminine behaviors explicitly because it made me feel more Lovable.
/r/MensRights26/02/25 11:31 AM
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I think "nice guy" refers to someone who only pretends to be nice and has alterior motives.
/r/MensRights24/02/25 11:09 PM
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It applies to me, too. I also become "anti-social" if I get rejected by people whom I believe to be my equals. Men equivalent to this, I believe, is the sigma male community. If they cannot associate with people they wanna, they won't associate with anyone. I actually felt validated that women aren't any better than me. I guess it's a human behavior rather than gendered.
/r/MensRights21/02/25 01:05 PM
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Well engaging with people like this is useful in that you can change their opinions but ehh... dunno... Never was a fan of too much moderation but I ain't no expert.
/r/MensRights21/02/25 11:44 AM
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Most people want more than just to be tolerated and besides wherever's a winner there has to be a looser. Mathematically, if all that matters is really just status, no matter how hard everyone tries, someone has to loose because struggle for status is inherently competetive. And that is the point of natural selection. Hence, philosophically it makes sense to give up.
/r/MensRights21/02/25 10:32 AM
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I´m pretty sure that when I was 3 I was running around naked on public beaches. And other children did as well. And at homes I´ve seen even older children walk around naked.
/r/MensRights20/02/25 06:23 PM
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Madonna-whore syndrom as I understand it is a psychological phenomenon, not a social one. I was explaining my internal psychological framework. She´s a madonna to me, meaning even if she was sexually attracted to me, I still wouldn´t be attracted to her as that is the nature of the syndrome. On the contrary, I am sexually attracted to those who I consider whores but I cannot Love them. So if a man is having a relationship with who he considers to be a madonna, it implies he is not sexually attra…
/r/MensRights19/02/25 01:31 PM
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Oh, I was just disagreeing with your statement about men. I mostly agree with what you say about women. I especially find it ironic that in the past people attributed high selectiveness and pickiness to high morality in women xDDD The term "easy woman" was an insult. So basically the more money/resources women charged for sex, the more moral they were considered by society.
/r/MensRights19/02/25 01:09 PM
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Would you please take time to clerify why am I an idiot, since you already said it ? Cause I don´t think I have said anything controversial... maybe I have misunderstood the madona-whore complex, is that it ?
/r/MensRights19/02/25 11:02 AM
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It is something I have considered. I´m not sure why exactly, tho. I still don´t know why specifically.
/r/MensRights19/02/25 10:03 AM
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Ehhh... I know I'm very atypical but I was with my girlfriend for 8 years and never had penetrative sex and whatever sexual activities we did were minimal. My indifference towards this stems out of sort of a madonna-whore complex. She's a madonna. But I think even the existence of this complex would imply there are other needs a woman can fulfil other than sexual, else madona couldn't exist.
/r/MensRights19/02/25 07:54 AM
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From what I´ve seen MGTOW gets demonised because, while I think their subreddit got banned, it mostly consisted of men trauma dumping about women. And most of them said they only do it because they believe that if they MGTOW, society will collapse and women will come crawling back to them. So it kinda failed at decentralizing women. But... I only know that from few interactions, I haven´t read any literature or y´know so... if you know better I guess you can discard my opinion.
/r/MensRights18/02/25 11:03 PM
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The worst part of being weak isn´t the inability to protect yourself but the inability to protect the ones you Love. I only ever aspire to protect those who are willing to grow, who have a hope of becoming strong one day. I will not enable anyone´s weakness. It is my duty to protect the temporarily weak and vulnerable. Whilst protecting the permanently weak is noble and even potentially very fruitful, I wouldn´t say carrying around dead weight is my or anyone else´s duty. The only service, I cou…
/r/MensRights18/02/25 10:37 PM
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I´ve got a gynocentric reason to decenter women. If you care about women, as you probably do because many people here say that it is in men´s nature, you shouldn´t want to coddle them. The more you make women center of your life, the more you sacrifice for them, provide for them, the more dependant, entitled and helpless they´ll get. And I think that makes them resentful. If you care about women, you should decenter them. Or at the very least you shouldn´t reward their negative behavior.
/r/MensRights18/02/25 01:22 PM
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Well, yeah, essentially. I am against providing for women because I want them to have the privilige of experiencing the base difficulty, too.
/r/MensRights08/02/25 03:42 PM
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Uh, I don´t know. But I think most people responding here are wrong.
/r/MensRights02/02/25 01:41 PM
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The Best way we can serve women now is by leaving them alone
/r/MensRights27/01/25 10:12 AM
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If they have a problem with it, they can stop. I don't think their partners are gonna notice. I know I wouldn't.
/r/MensRights22/01/25 07:42 PM
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In my experience it is a combination of everything you suggested to a degree. I'll just say that because if I went into specifics this would be a really long reply. It is due to interaction with other people. It is mostly a negative feedback loop. I also was quite content with solitude but then all of the things you listed happened to me. Not just in romantic relationships but in general. And then I felt lonely for a really long time and then I processed all that hurt, decided that everyone arou…
/r/MensRights19/01/25 08:08 PM
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My only problem with loneliness is an utter lack of motivation that comes with it. Also practical disadvantage against bullies and a lack of opportunities. But I am finding my way to work around it. People talk about discipline, I tried and failed. Now, I am trying to get by by adapting my surroundings to myself, instead of other way around.
/r/MensRights19/01/25 01:30 PM
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When nobody gives a shit about you, issues start to pile up. Then it's too much to dig yourself out of it.
/r/MensRights15/01/25 07:00 AM
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I have a more pessimistic outlook on this. But overall I don´t care anymore. Do you know how to attract women ? My view is that women should just figure out what they want on their own. I wouldn´t be clowning in front of them when I know they don´t care.
/r/MensRights09/01/25 04:58 AM
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Feminists, at least on reddit, aren´t too fond of muslims so I don´t think they´re´d be the ones calling them racists.
/r/MensRights07/01/25 11:09 PM
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Lol, hahaha you know, if women emasculate their sons, other women will end up treating those sons like shit. Women are the ones who want men to be masculine, they don't seem to realize it tho.
/r/MensRights07/01/25 12:26 PM
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I have a feeling that is terrible for mental health. But doing so is terrible for social health. I don´t know weather I´ve ever met someone truly broken but I know for sure that women can afford to cry, at least in personal relationships (they don´t really always get away with it at the workplace) and I find analyzing their problems to be quite for a fun conversation. But then again I´m just a little weird.
/r/MensRights25/12/24 04:31 PM
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This situation seems extreme and awful. I had a less severe but similar situation with my mom. When she bullied me while I was in a terrible psychical state and then turned the entire house against me when I stood up for myself. It´s a horrible shock to find out that all of a sudden, there isn´t a shred of empathy for you anywhere around you. It´s tiring and depressing.
/r/MensRights25/12/24 01:35 PM
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I wouldn't go to war for any woman. I think they evolved the inability to Love because of this. Men thought they'll go to war to "protect the women" and each time they failed and died, the wives who resisted got killed and those who Loved their men comitted suicide. All that you were left with were women who don't five a fuck. Nobody will save women. They must learn to fight for themselves. The worst part about being helpless isn't that you can't defend yourself, it's that you cannot defend your…
/r/MensRights23/12/24 03:52 PM
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Women seem to be attracted to a small % of male population. Hence it is impossible for all of them to end up with a man they´re attracted to. One hot stranger can fuck dozens of women but he can only stay with one, leaving dozens of women he fucked with nothing. That´s just my hypothesis, not confirmed by anything or anything.
/r/MensRights19/12/24 03:47 PM
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You´d Love my girlfriend. But it´s not like I´d like to be cheated on, it´s just that it wouldn´t piss me off enough to even make a rant about it let alone kill someone for it as people sometimes do. I guess I only wouldn´t want other people to know about it, it´d make me look like a looser xD
/r/MensRights16/12/24 10:43 PM
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How do you know my life is sad ? I mean it is but how do you know ? And how would this make my life sad ?
/r/MensRights16/12/24 09:30 PM
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That´s actually really funny because nor me or my girlfriend would care if we cheated one another. We´d just question each other´s mental health. I actually never understood why cheating makes people so mad. Like... it´s just sex, who cares.
/r/MensRights16/12/24 05:08 PM
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Anyway, I was actually really worried that poor exmuslims will just escape from one hateful ideology to another. They seem to often idealize the west and feminism in particular and yet I found feminists and liberals to be very unaccomodating to people like them and fail them, especially to men. I´m glad you found this community !
/r/MensRights16/12/24 01:01 PM
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According to a hadith Aisha married prophet at the age of 6 while she still played with dolls at that time. Do mature adults normally play with dolls ? Is that how you´d define mental maturity ? He had intercourse with her at the age of 9. If you really believe she was "mature" at the age of 9, fine, but she was clearly not mature when he married her. It may be a weak argument but I thought it´s worth mentioning. Also it´s funny that you assume that none ever thought to read Quaran in Arabic. Ma…
/r/MensRights15/12/24 05:06 PM
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I got a notification but I don´t see your reply.
/r/MensRights15/12/24 11:07 AM
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Doesn´t sharia also advocate for executing gay and legalizing slavery ? And punishes apostasy by death ? I´m sure it does at least one of these things.
/r/MensRights15/12/24 10:30 AM
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Oh, that makes sense.
/r/MensRights14/12/24 06:39 PM
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Is there something wrong with what he´s saying ?
/r/MensRights14/12/24 02:56 PM
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I think most people assume that bullies compensate for their insecurities. Which is why to call someone insecure is acceptable. They think incels want Power over women cause they´re insecure.
/r/MensRights14/12/24 02:49 PM
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Interesting take. I am not familiar with the term "emotional enmeshment" but from my shallow understanding it vaguely matches the issues most self-proclaimed empaths suffer from. But ! I do not understand how's relevant here. Do you think we suffer from emotional enmeshment ?
/r/MensRights14/12/24 12:56 AM
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Every empath needs to learn when to shut off their empathy and take care of themselves for a bit
/r/MensRights13/12/24 01:24 PM
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I wonder how they justify that shit
/r/MensRights12/12/24 08:37 AM
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To be fair I don´t spend much time arguing with them and not very smart so I am probably not the Best source but I can give example of a one conversation. One feminist was insisting that men are "inherently status seeking and status conscious" and that in a patriarchal society they measure status by money and that they want to enslave women to profit off of their non-monitized work to essentially get more money. I asked her about why incels are a thing cause they´re pretty low status and non-amb…
/r/MensRights11/12/24 11:10 PM
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Well if you ask them what is feminism they´ll say it´s "Just gender equality" but then they´ll accuse you of not being feminist if you don´t agree with them on every one of their conspiracy theories.
/r/MensRights11/12/24 10:54 PM
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Funnily enough, her friends knew about her unstable emotional state and her potential for abuse very clearly. Even saw me with her while I was in a relatively bad condition. Not making eye contact, stuttering, being awkward, anxious and tired. And for several years they never even asked about me. They could've contacted me any time even if just to ask. Even my girlfriend was surprised that none reached out to me when she told her friends something quite alarming. And you know, this is not to say…
/r/MensRights10/12/24 04:06 PM
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No, I wasn't looking for pity. I wanted to reassure you that the reasoning for my stance is based in reality. I feel sorry for you. You come here, writing all this in such an urgent manner. That's why I wrote the reply, to assure you we're not just a bunch of lunatics bullshitting one another. Why are you writing this ? Are you scared that if women will treat me bad I'll start hating them ?
/r/MensRights09/12/24 09:33 PM
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Don't worry about me, I've got strong principles, a little mistreatment won't affect my moral code. I have a girlfriend and she abuses me, my mom started violating my boundries and disrespecting my feelings the moment I got depressed, my grandma verbally abuses our mentally ill grandpa every hour of every day with a voice so venomous it sends shivers down my spine, my sister ignores me and plays my favorite videogames without me for already 2 years, while knowing I'm terminally lonely. Well, and…
/r/MensRights09/12/24 08:59 PM
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By rape I mean being penetrated. But I'm curious why you think groping an adult is bad enough to deserve death. I mean in some cultures getting slapped on your butt is acceptable and seen as playful. And I've heard of a straight guy getting grabbed by his dick at a gay bar without consent and he nor anyone else really cared. Do you think it can cause trauma ?
/r/MensRights09/12/24 07:32 PM
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Like, I personally would think of killing someone if they raped a person. But killing someone for touching your butt. Like I dunno, never happened to me but... If it did I think I'd forget about it the next day.
/r/MensRights09/12/24 07:17 PM
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Maybe I'm just stupid but she should've called police instead. Sexual assult is not punishable by death, right ? He should've gone to jail, not be killed.
/r/MensRights09/12/24 05:51 PM
3

Okay... I cannot express how alarmingly specifically I relate to this.
/r/MensRights09/12/24 04:37 PM
3

I was. For 7 years. Mental breakdown roughly every week for 3 years straight. I was the only one who knew.
/r/MensRights09/12/24 04:32 PM
7

I think it's just regular sexism. I grew up in a mildly mysoginistic culture and it always seemed to me like those men would assign traits to women they don't have and overlook traits they do have, especially sex workers. Looks like women are no better when it comes to discriminating against people who are different from them.
/r/MensRights09/12/24 04:20 PM
71

You know, the irony is that in my experience, men are very tolerant, empathetic and in touch with their feelings. And yet they get treated as if they have none of that.
/r/MensRights09/12/24 09:23 AM
1

Well that would be Good only if you have a Good understanding of genetics. And given you´re concerned with IQ, y´know IQ is relative, so your child will always be an idiot compared to someone else if that´s what matters to you. And most importantly, most people aren´t confident in themselves enough to make decisions for their adult children. Why do you assume you´d know better ? Even with the limited information you´d have about the partner they´d choose.
/r/MensRights08/12/24 07:25 PM
7

Feminists are stupid for even trying to guilt-trip men for not voting left. They said they don´t owe us anything. So we don´t owe them anything either. If they call us bad people, they´re literally calling themselves bad people. If they don´t care about our rights there is no reason for us to care about theirs. Of course, we can, but we are not obligated to by feminists´ own logic. If they really wanna go down the "We don´t owe each other anything" route. Then the left must start caring about me…
/r/MensRights06/12/24 06:46 PM
16

The only thing the left does in regards to empathy is exploit the empathy of others. They accuse us of being unempathetic because if we´re not empathetic they cannot control us. Every empath needs to learn when to shut off their empathy and take care of themselves for a bit.
/r/MensRights06/12/24 03:27 PM
13

They´re not empathetic. They only accuse us of being unempathetic. What they do is they exploit the empathy of others. That´s all they do. You´ll find that the most unempathetic people will accuse everyone else of being unempathetic. Why ? Because they need someone to feed off of. Every empath needs to learn when to shut off their empathy and stop people from exploiting them.
/r/MensRights06/12/24 03:22 PM
1

Do you have a source for that last statement ? I heard covert narcissts are pretty Good at understanding others' perspective to manipulate them.
/r/MensRights03/12/24 06:29 PM
0

I can't speak for all men but I loathe rapists about as much as you do. You know, there is one thing I understand about these trolls. They're VERY miserable people. The problem with feminists is that they often push the idea that men are so priviliged they can have nothing to complain about. Which is simply not true. I think feminists must understand that "rape culture" isn't born out of privilige but rather out of trauma. Entitlement is a sign of narcissm and narcissm is certainly not born out …
/r/MensRights03/12/24 06:01 PM
1

That depends on the culture.
/r/MensRights01/12/24 10:40 AM
2

How about your own emotions ? It's roots, causes, ways to replicate them. Very important.
/r/MensRights01/12/24 07:48 AM
1

I am not looking at it from a moral or philosophical perspective but a pragmatic one. I am thinking about how to make people start caring enough to do something about the issue. To figure it out I ask myself how did I come to care about an issue and then how to replicate it with others.
/r/MensRights01/12/24 07:06 AM
1

I worded it wrongly, I wasn´t disagreeing with you, I also think people care if it makes them look noble, but in cases where it doesn´t, people only care if it affects them. I wonder if you care about something that doesn´t affect you, cause I am assuming men´s rights kind of do ?
/r/MensRights01/12/24 12:41 AM
1

I think that people only care about issues that affect them
/r/MensRights30/11/24 11:37 PM
2

How I feel ? I feel like whole humanity turned against me. I am in a depression-like state, caused not by my brain chemistry but very clearly by my circumstances. I feel like nobody wants me to get up in the morning, I feel like I must do something but at the same time I feel like everything I do is wrong and I feel immense guilt for not being able to be useful to my Loved ones, I also feel that my empathy and care has been exploited and rewarded with punishment. I am writing down a book of prin…
/r/MensRights30/11/24 11:25 PM
3

Can I ask you. Did you become transgender because of societal pressure ? Because you felt you weren´t "allowed" to do certain things as a man ? Or was it something else ?
/r/MensRights30/11/24 10:50 PM
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I mean, I understand you wanna be a genuine person but what´s the point in that when people don´t understand where your feelings are coming from ? Why are you like that specifically to women ? And, since you value being genuine so much, why do you mind when women genuienly tell you that your tone comes accross as "agressive" ? They´re also just being genuine.
/r/MensRights30/11/24 10:45 PM
27

We also don´t owe you anything
/r/MensRights29/11/24 07:33 PM
11

During WW2 women in Russia went to war and they were doing fine.
/r/MensRights29/11/24 07:29 PM
6

I don´t think it is social placebo effect. When I came to this subreddit I was actually pleasantly surprised that other men aren´t mysoginistic assholes redpill and feminism has lead me to believe and my empathy for them has returned. I see no reason to dislike men, what reason would you have to not be nice to them ?
/r/MensRights27/11/24 09:41 PM
2

I see
/r/ExRedPill23/11/24 05:31 PM
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No, even feminists themselves look down on men who express emotions because they think that men are so priviliged they have nothing they could possibly complain about.
/r/ExRedPill23/11/24 03:00 PM
1

Who are "they" ? It doesn´t seem to be Trump, he is against Islam, no ? The places that are most affected by Islam are hyperfeminist, hyperprogressive countries.
/r/MensRights22/11/24 05:22 PM
2

If men didn´t care then Afghanistan would be here right now.
/r/MensRights22/11/24 09:55 AM
1

I hope it will work out for you. Cause I lived according to similar principles, or at least I think, and it backfired on me a little. You see, for instance, I do accept myself but I think and fear that others won't accept me. I have started to build walls around me, became bitter and cynical. But don't get me wrong, I am happy but cold. I just hope you won't get hurt. Do not waste your empathy on people who don't deserve it. I feel like I live by a twisted version of your principles. For instanc…
/r/MensRights20/11/24 11:36 AM
2

Ironically during WW2 Russian women went to war. I don't see why women of other nations shouldn't.
/r/MensRights20/11/24 10:57 AM
1

I would be, too, ironically during world war 2 Russian women went to war and they weren't bad
/r/MensRights20/11/24 10:54 AM
3

I think we didn't need to decide to go our own way, we were sent our own way, no ?
/r/MensRights08/11/24 11:39 PM
2

I would recommend getting off of social media. You won´t truly believe what they´re saying until you live it for yourself anyway, won´t you ? So all you´re doing is filling your head with uncertain hypothetical ideas that are exhausting for your psyche. Read a book instead. I don´t want to waste your time with stupid advice but I guess I could try give one. Do not internalize redpill. What women think or don´t think is their problem, not yours. There´s nothing wrong with you. Why should their op…
/r/ExRedPill01/11/24 09:07 PM
10

Are we really wired to compete ? We are pretty homoromantic tbh. That's why we managed to survive as a species. Just give up on women and you're set.
/r/MensRights01/11/24 08:37 AM
16

Elaborate
/r/MensRights23/10/24 06:24 PM
6

Well, I´d say the cause of the problems related to autonomy is the hypocracy of liberals. I believe in freedom because it allows us to think and decide which idea or behavior is the Best. But it seems to me that most extreme liberals simply do things because they "can". Which is very ironic considering they criticize Powerful people for doing things simply because they can. I think people should have freedom but to do something just because it is your right to do it is a bad reason.
/r/MensRights23/10/24 03:49 PM
2

When you unburden people from their gender roles, what tends to happen is people begin to prioritize themselves Why do you think this is the cause of self-centerdness ?
/r/MensRights23/10/24 02:18 PM
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Well women aren´t being told that as much because women don´t have a problem getting a partner no matter what thier personality is.
/r/MensRights23/10/24 02:11 PM
9

Caring for and protecting the vulnerable. I´ve got no interest in competetion or earning respect unless I have to, it doesn´t motivate me. In life, it manifests itself as me, despite my introversion, clinging to other people a lot. Everything I do, I do for others. Very people oriented person. I listen to them. I want to understand them. I do what they want me to do. Only condition is that I get to decide who I care about. You know, I don´t care about everyone indiscriminately. Some men seem to …
/r/MensRights23/10/24 08:48 AM
20

I agree with you in that I think the lack of the things mentioned above is making men unhealthy which leads to them getting labelled as "undesirable" and it definitely stems out of fear of masculine energy to some extent. However, my personal experience, as a pretty feminine guy who has no interest in none of the things above. And I am capable of being emotionally vulnerable naturally and overall very feeling based person. Women still don´t like me, like, at all. Interactions with them border on…
/r/MensRights23/10/24 06:31 AM
1

Well, in my experience girls always outperformed boys in school. It was a stereotype explained by "Girls mature faster" and for boy's disruptions "Boys will be boys". Girls were always more dutiful, tidy and prepared. Whilst boys did some weird shit. Funnily enough, I grew up in a relatively conservative country, Czech Republic... So I am guessing, perhaps the more distruptive gender is the one that is favored by society at the moment, as they aren't taught proper discipline due to being coddled…
/r/MensRights13/09/24 01:58 PM
6

As a guy surrounded by teenage girls I can say that they most certainly do not mature faster.
/r/MensRights09/09/24 07:27 AM
1

Sorry this is way too long, if you don´t wanna read it, just skip to the last point marked with the number 1 Yeah, but the question is why. The pressure is there but what are you gonna do about it ? You cannot just tell people to stop doing it. They´re doing it for a reason and you can´t solve the issue without knowing the reason. By telling men to do the opposite of toxic masculinity you´re sabotaging their lives. If you wanna try being vulnerable around someone, I suggest you try it around som…
/r/MensRights07/09/24 07:45 AM
2

They do talk about Iranian and foreign issues on the feminist subreddit. From what I read there, it doesn't seem like they only hate on western guys. I have seen posts about Hamas hostages there several times.
/r/MensRights06/09/24 09:35 AM
1

I am saying it is primarily women. I know why men perpetuate this... They want to get laid or to start a family or to just be in a relationship and a way to do that is by appealing to women. They know other men want these things too so they'll tell them that unless they wanna be a sexless, Loveless looser they gotta adapt some traits that fall under toxic masculinity. If women weren't enabling it, men wouldn't either. I now explained why men enable toxic masculinity, would you please tell me why…
/r/MensRights05/09/24 06:29 PM
1

Women are the ones who enable toxic masculinity. I am naturally more feminine and emotionally orianted and I am looked down on by women, not men.
/r/MensRights05/09/24 08:24 AM
2

No, but I witnessed it. I don´t wanna get into it as it´s a pretty personal matter.
/r/MensRights05/09/24 08:08 AM
1

Patriarchy, in this sense, is a hit or miss matter for women. You can end up with an asshole who will beat you or you can end up with a person who values you. Either way, there is a reason why feminists are drifting away from their traditional gender role. It is because femininity has never been respected nor valued. At the top of that men´s baseless Love makes women weak because they Love them for traits which are inherently useless to themselves, nor worthy of respect or anything benefitial. A…
/r/MensRights05/09/24 07:20 AM
2

Ah, it is too similar to the experiences other men had with women to be personal. I can work on myself but I can only thank my immediate surroundings for my success. If my situation was worse, I don´t think I could get out of it without support. Of course, this is not solely the fault of women, but they also didn´t support me in any way despite my ideological allignment. Except for older women, those helped me a lot. I know that I can seek help from fellow men but I still expected a little more …
/r/MensRights04/09/24 02:57 PM
3

Bwahahaha, hey I'll try it. There's an inherent benefit to being a Good person because it makes other people realize they are bad people. I Love women in my life and I am punished by them for it severely. And I encourage all men to take your advice because once all mysoginy will be gone, you will have no excuse for your mistreatment of them. I hate mysoginy and opression and it doesn't make women like me any more. Still I hate it because I have strong principles. A soul is like a mirror. If it's…
/r/MensRights04/09/24 02:04 PM
2

You are ?
/r/ExRedPill05/03/24 03:07 PM
1

I think you are completely wrong about this claim. While I see many people try to downplay men's emotions, even mine, they can't deny that men are indeed capable of feeling deeply. Majority of art weather it's music, poetry, paintings or movies are still created by men. And with an emotional depth that can't be faked. Another thing. Not even men who like beer and play football are respected by women, I can see that. Playing into those stereotypes will not help you. What you gotta do is become su…
/r/ExRedPill15/02/24 10:22 AM
7

The wall of all redpill things is a bullcrap. Even grandma's get more matches on dating apps than average men. Like obviously, after a certain age your desirability will drop... But like the only noticable effect it will have for you is that you're less likely to get sexually harrassed and you will no longer be the center of attention. Heck even I would be fine hooking up with a 40 year old.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/24 08:01 AM
6

I am a guy and I was never mysoginistic. I was always disgusted at the thought and terrified of it, too. I can't fathom mysoginy, why would you want someone you Love to be inherently inferior to you ? Why would you want to restrict their freedom ? It seems incredibely depressing to me. I would actually say I struggle with misandristic thoughts more often. Like even after I got into redpill I couldn't bring myself to hate or degrade women. I always viewed them as better in almost every regard. I …
/r/ExRedPill06/02/24 08:39 AM
1

I wonder how many other things other than veganism does this apply to. It's about shared values, so technically the more values you share the lower are the chances are of her finding someone like you but hotter. But yeah... Still it's kinda sad.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/24 08:32 AM
1

So would you say you're redpill or exredpilled ? In what way are you exredpilled. What redpill beliefs did you let go of ?
/r/ExRedPill24/01/24 04:34 PM
1

Didn´t know it´s harassment but alright I´ll stop.
/r/ExRedPill23/01/24 02:05 AM
0

The only thing that bothers me more than her ignoring me is that she isn´t getting enough praise. But who cares that she´s ignoring me. I already know that I am pretty Great but does she know that she´s Awesome ? You´re right, I should seperate myself from her a little. That will help me from feeling empty on the inside and thereby make it easier to appreciate her better... maybe she´ll see how similar we are later and more importantly how Awesome she herself is. And I am not denying her individ…
/r/ExRedPill23/01/24 01:53 AM
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I really doubt I blew my chances with her. However high or low they were, they stayed the same. And as far as I can see, the situation is quite normal. She has no idea and if she did, she would at least tell her friends and her friends seem to be friendly with me. They even invited me along with their group today, although I refused. See that´s the problem, she´s not creeped out by me, I am really not making it hard for her to notice. She seems to actually be in a Great mood all the time. Comple…
/r/ExRedPill23/01/24 12:05 AM
5

I hate "men", too. And I never wanted to hate women. Thanks for the kind words.
/r/ExRedPill17/01/24 11:29 AM
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I got clickbaited by a video titled something like "What all women secretly want" and before I know it I am getting told I will never be Loved and how I need to do all sorts of tricks to get basic respect and loyalty. And how your self-worth depends on female validation. They radicalize you by making you feel like a victim and that the world treats you unfairly, redpill hurts men and then those hurt men feel justified in objectifying women. That's at least how I see it. Was not a fan of Islam, t…
/r/ExRedPill17/01/24 09:15 AM
9

I don´t think so. Incels´ issues run deeper than just not having sex. Even if they did get sex, it wouldn´t change much.
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 04:59 PM
2

Women are no different in this regard. Though, I agree that sex wouldn´t fix these issues at all. Most incels also believe that women are heartless, exploitative, disloyal, shallow, alergic to vulnerability, incapable of Love... Even the guys who get loads of sex don´t like women very much. No idea why are you so mad... you should be happy... majority of men, mysoginists or not, strongly believe that they will never be Loved by anyone. No amount of sex will fix that.
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 04:55 PM
2

I guess it´s an individual thing. I personally am physically attracted to every girl that I see... So I usually don´t even bother thinking about physical attraction because it´s a given. So I choose the people I date exclusively based on personality. I certainly wouldn´t date a hot girl with a terrible personality, I can´t develop feelings for someone who is a terrible person. But I know there are people who have it different, so don´t bother with it. Besides, women do that s*it, too, so like...…
/r/ExRedPill14/01/24 06:42 PM
-13

You know, women often want a man to be able to be dangerous but they want to be on his good side. I can imagine an introverted shy girl to be attracted to a dangerous alpha as long as she's not on the recieving end of his anger. That's at least how I understand it.
/r/ExRedPill10/01/24 12:23 PM
2

I thought this subreddit was mainly for men, I didn't even know women were being affected cause I thought redpill was about what women want. I stopped listening to redpill beliefs because I felt like it objectifies men and is blatantly misandristic. Mysoginy is nothing but a cope, in reality, no man wants to hear they will never be Loved and they must be strong otherwise they will be left behind. Listening to redpill caused me severe emotional pain, stress and made my social skills worse, especi…
/r/ExRedPill10/01/24 10:49 AM
1

There are plenty of women who aren't career oriented. And nagging isn't a result of a highly stressful corporate job, my conservative mother and grandma are a proof of that.
/r/ExRedPill10/01/24 05:56 AM
1

No they didn't.
/r/ExRedPill09/01/24 09:53 AM
5

How are we supposed to catch up ?
/r/ExRedPill09/01/24 07:56 AM
1

I personally always thought that´s a massive lie. If you ask a redpiller what they want in a woman they will not start talking in detail about what kind of appearence she´s supposed to have, they often say "I want her to be submissive, obediant, kind, nice, shy." And as f*cked up as this may be, it isn´t about looks, it´s about behavior and personality traits. Like I personally used to have intense crushes on a lot of average looking girls. Like I would think to myself "There are some flaws but …
/r/ExRedPill08/01/24 04:50 PM
1

Hey, I just wanna say I struggle with the same thing. I think part of the problem may be that all of what you wrote seems like baseless assumptions. Give your worries an actual form. You feel like there is a hiearchy, then see what actually makes that hiearchy. Know your worth. Know what others value. Don't just assume. My problem is grounded in reality, I figured I am at the bottom of the hiearchy because none wants to associate with me and those who do disrespect me and insult me. That is not …
/r/ExRedPill08/01/24 09:56 AM
2

So, I just watched a video where he was explaining "hypergamy" on a whatever podcast. And he said that there is actually as study supporting his "no human" argument. A study where women were looking at men and when they saw an unattractive men, the parts of their brain that would normally be active if they saw a human were not active. It´s like there wasn´t a human at all. I didn t try to search up that study. But to be honest, I do feel invisible sometimes. Like... there are certain situations …
/r/ExRedPill24/12/23 10:04 PM
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Okay, I vow it upon myself to get the world rid of such insecure men so that we can finally start focusing on my problems. Personally, I don't understand those men, I was always interested in every detail regarding my crush. However, women don't like me. And a part of learning about my crush is learning that they'd rather if I left them alone.
/r/ExRedPill23/12/23 11:53 PM
0

Isn't having your needs and wants dismissed because you're not "good enough" also a type of objectification, though ? Like what do you think is better ? "Wow, I get attention for things other than my personality." or "Wow, I literally never get any attention at all." Like oh WoW you're sexy and people only care about your sexiness. Well look at me I am not sexy and so people don't care about me at all. Just because you get ignored doesn't mean you don't feel objectified.
/r/ExRedPill23/12/23 11:27 PM
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I really like that advice ! If I kinda think about it it does seem like women are specifically attracted to men "doing" stuff rather than just being and looking good like what men like about women. I get the idea about objectification but men are being heavily objectified nowdays, too. Like most men nowdays absolutely don't believe that their personality matters in the slightest, it's all about height, money, status. Like I used to feel really bad for women getting objectified but really I don't…
/r/ExRedPill23/12/23 11:12 PM
-8

Oh so that's what it's about ? So what if I am looking for emotional connection and am mostly asexual. Just wait til I get into a mental state where I'll be able to socialize. I bet you're making excuses. Women always hated me because I was incompetent, even as a child they had something specifically against me. Now they don't even consider me a creep, they're just ignoring me.
/r/ExRedPill23/12/23 10:58 PM
1

Wow, I just wanna say, you Perfectly summarized how I'm feeling.
/r/ExRedPill23/12/23 09:27 PM
1

I am glad you´re confident in yourself enough to criticize others.
/r/ExRedPill20/12/23 07:46 PM
0

Oh I care a lot, why is getting flipped again ? Is it because people blame world's problems on equality ?
/r/ExRedPill19/12/23 09:50 AM
6

Uhh, I wouldn´t attribute the change in redpill to Andrew Tate. He doesn´t really say anything revolutionary, he just shocks people and gets attention. I think redpill movement is evolving on it´s own. I don´t know the definitions but a year ago a guy was arguing with me claiming that "redpill" is actually about convincing men to not date women because it is not "worth it". So, it was always about self-improvement, it´s just that nowdays, redpillers are becoming so pessimistic they simply decide…
/r/ExRedPill18/12/23 10:51 PM
-1

Inequality is rising again ? In what manner ? That´s exhausting.
/r/ExRedPill18/12/23 10:32 PM
1

Why do they have a harder time leaving their home ?
/r/ExRedPill18/12/23 10:21 PM
1

Won’t you, random man, do womankind a favor and stop this unhinged woman from killing herself by fucking her? Maybe
/r/ExRedPill18/12/23 10:08 PM
8

Cause redpillers and blackpillers often talk about it and blame feminism but yeah you´re right. I´ll ask more relevant questions in the future.
/r/ExRedPill18/12/23 06:05 PM
4

So does that imply that women attempt suicide as often as men except they fail ?
/r/ExRedPill18/12/23 05:43 PM
-9

What do women do instead of suicide ?
/r/ExRedPill18/12/23 05:33 PM
1

Well he admitted he is completely broke and the only thing he doesn't have in terms of attraction is money. So he monetizes everything but I didn't know he's selling a test, that is kinda weird.
/r/ExRedPill18/12/23 04:54 AM
1

Well I dunno maybe I just make him sound stupid, I am not quoting him, I said I am saying something along the lines of what he says.
/r/ExRedPill15/12/23 06:08 PM
0

Well he doesn't favor absolutism. By generalizing I mean he says "You need to have bad boy points and nice guy points." for example something along the lines of "You can get bad boy points for short term and sex by being dominant, high status, agressive, good looking or having muscles. Some women like only some of these traits, some want all but generally these are favored." "Nice guy points are investment and long term, you can do that by investing money or attention or both. Some women need mo…
/r/ExRedPill14/12/23 10:33 PM
2

He´s in his late 30ties. But other than that I guess you´re right.
/r/ExRedPill14/12/23 10:16 PM
9

Wheat Waffles is the funniest person I watched. He literally disproved himself in a video. "The exceptions to blackpill." Something along the lines of "If a woman wants a vegan partner and the good looking man isn't a vegan, she's willing to go few steps down to a less good looking partner who however shares her values." And I was like "Are you f*cking braindead ? How do you even have a career after posting that video ?" That is not an exception that is a literal whole range of people large enou…
/r/ExRedPill12/12/23 09:54 AM
2

Why would you even wanna be dominant then ? Do you have a link were you explain the entirety of these dynamics ? I don't quite get them.
/r/ExRedPill12/12/23 08:38 AM
1

It already has for 6 years xD
/r/ExRedPill12/12/23 07:53 AM
3

It's interesting, I am certainly gonna consider psychological evaluation after this. But she made a post on "Am I the asshole ?" subreddit and she got called a sociopath by them there. Probably because she was talking about extreme jealousy. One of the reasons she doesn't want to get a psychological evalutation though, is because she's worried that her diagnoses could ruin her career. Also, I also considered that she may feel lonely due to me not being intelligent enough but she is hanging out a…
/r/ExRedPill12/12/23 07:10 AM
2

Well, little you know she was actually talking to me the whole time I was writing this and picked which symptoms she relates to and which she doesn't. She didn't want me to tell cause people'd probably think she's influencing me or something. But since you don't trust the idea of me "knowing what she'd say" Imma let you know she picked which symptoms she relates to herself.
/r/ExRedPill12/12/23 07:02 AM
1

She has diagnosed ADHD.
/r/ExRedPill11/12/23 10:15 PM
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does she or does any of her actions make your life or anyone else's life more difficult or painful in any aspect? Not anymore. But she used to be very dependant on me, threatened me with s*icide, weekly mental breakdowns, demanded that I come over and do what she wants. She used to pull my hair and drag me across the floor but that was only for few months during the first year. Just mild bullying. I was emotionally burned out from her and I felt like I´m loosing my will because no matter what I …
/r/ExRedPill11/12/23 10:09 PM
3

That´s interesting, perhaps we were wrong to assume she is. Has she ever consulted a therapist or been officially diagnosed with anti-social disorder or NPD(Narcissistic Personality Disorder) ? She hasn´t.
/r/ExRedPill11/12/23 09:40 PM
6

Oh yeah, I didn´t highlight the point of posting it, I wanted to post it because I think it contradicts the idea that redpillers would have about a female narcisst/sociopath. And her mindset reminds me of the mindset redpillers are propagating "No vulnerability, manipulation, performance."
/r/ExRedPill11/12/23 09:31 PM
0

I looked at the symptoms and she doesn´t have many of them: Difficulty controling emotions - yes Feeling very angry or distrustful towards the world - kinda Constant feelings of emptiness or hopelessness - kinda Feeling as if you are permanently damaged or worthless - no Feeling as if you are completely different to other people- no Feeling like nobody can understand what happened to you - no Avoiding friendships or relationships or finding them very difficult - no Often experiences dissociative…
/r/ExRedPill11/12/23 09:25 PM
3

Really ? That´s actually really possible. That´s interesting. Thanks for an interesting perspective. Imma look into what C-PTSD is.
/r/ExRedPill11/12/23 09:15 PM
2

Oh, I am not interested in sex. But she doesn´t have a sense of shame and she does take pride in manipulating people. She did have a horrible childhood, too. I know she is an insecure child with low self-esteem, I originally wanted to help her. She was so smart but seemed like none likes her.
/r/ExRedPill11/12/23 09:14 PM
1

I was gonna do something along the lines of that, anyway. Thanks for the advice. This subreddit serves to ease some of the more extreme and irrational redpill takes. I think it´s good that redpill has some opposition. I don´t completely disagree with redpill but some of the opinions found in those spaces are ridiculous and harmful, I see this subreddit as a way to get rid of those. Also don´t demonize women, usually they will tell you exactly what redpill preaches. It is no secret they want a st…
/r/ExRedPill03/12/23 01:02 PM
3

It´s called exredpill. Did you misread ?
/r/ExRedPill03/12/23 12:57 PM
2

I don´t see what are the alterenatives. I got into redpill for a while and I saw them solve nothing at all. What are the alternatives ?
/r/ExRedPill03/12/23 10:51 AM
2

Well, I don't have any friends so it isn't that much of a stretch.
/r/ExRedPill02/12/23 06:19 PM
2

Well, crime kind of makes sense. There´s a lot of motivation to do crime. But why would you harass women ? What does that give you, right ? What´s the motivation ?
/r/ExRedPill30/11/23 05:25 PM
2

Well, the thing is I know I am enjoying their company way more than they do mine. And I don´t want them to feel guilty or like make them loose their faith in humanity. You know, it´s tiring when several dudes f*ck up trying to talk to you. If it was only me who was interested in them then it´s fine. It´s not the severity of a minor f*ck up, it´s the quantity that´s scary. It gets tiring and it will change the way you view the world. But, I guess if I put effort in it then it should neutralize th…
/r/ExRedPill30/11/23 05:23 PM
2

That´s why I´m asking. I am worried I´ll harass women accidentally. It just so happens that I enjoy the company of women a little too much. I have a low sex-drive so that isn´t a problem but I still enjoy their company from an emotional perspective. And I know they don´t enjoy my company. And that´s kind of like "What am I gonna do about it ?" there is a desire to talk to them and I don´t think that talking to them is "harassment" but I know they don´t wanna talk to me. So there definitely is a …
/r/ExRedPill30/11/23 04:57 PM
3

I can see that being the case. I am worried about unknowingly harassing women, too.
/r/ExRedPill30/11/23 06:19 AM
2

Because I feel like I give them unconditional Love and attention even if I don't really want to, I can't help but admire them. I question the morality of that admiration. Maybe they feel like they don't deserve it. Maybe it feels like my Love has no basis and therefore no value. Maybe they feel guilty that they don't feel the same way towads me. I Love myself unconditionally. Well, there's one condition. I admire myself exclusively for my feminine features. But it's not fair. Why are they more i…
/r/ExRedPill28/11/23 02:22 PM
3

I don't know much about her but from what I know I can't believe some people take her seriously. She isn't even trying to make sense and yet she somehow has an audience. She just went in front of a camera acted stupid and made a lot of money. That's what I think of her.
/r/ExRedPill28/11/23 11:46 AM
3

Huh, you just described my whole life.
/r/ExRedPill27/11/23 01:40 PM
5

Wow, really ? That sounds f*cked up. Do you have any links ?
/r/ExRedPill27/11/23 01:08 PM
2

The irony is that sounds exactly like what some dating advice tells men. "Become responsible, find purpose beyond a relationship, be disciplined." I just feel like it applies to both genders. It's just that for some reason, women seem to be better at those traits. But how do you know ?
/r/ExRedPill25/11/23 05:54 AM
1

Well, y'know, these are very chaotic things. It seems that men thrive in chaos, y'know ? Maybe men are capable of bringing order but they're not capable of living in it. Men want chaos, that's why they choose those careers, that's why they seek it. They deliberately go out of their way to put themselves into chaotic situations.
/r/ExRedPill25/11/23 05:42 AM
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I'm 19, I'm old enough to know. And he isn't venting he just mentioned it off handedly once. And my mom tells me "If it wasn't for your dad we'd be out in the streets, you better be grateful." and she tells me this multipe times but she doesn't talk about if she Loves him but neither does he.
/r/ExRedPill21/11/23 10:46 AM
3

Women may be capable of having such orgasms, I don´t know much about it, but I certainly don´t see it very often. I usually just hear women complaining about how their sex life sucks. If sex was so amazing for women you wouldn´t have so many sexless marriges, no ?
/r/ExRedPill20/11/23 10:59 PM
2

I don´t favor men either
/r/ExRedPill02/11/23 05:32 PM
2

Basically yes That´s a shame if it´s true. See this is exactly why I hate sexuality. It´s a distraction that gets in the way of much more important things.
/r/ExRedPill02/11/23 02:26 PM
3

Why do you not trust men ?
/r/ExRedPill02/11/23 02:17 PM
0

I agree it´s a weakness ! Only if it´s sexual, though.
/r/ExRedPill02/11/23 02:15 PM
3

Wow, that´s a lot. I live in a culture where sexual assault accusations aren´t taken that seriously. I am also afraid of being blackmailed or manipulated, though. And "effeminite" habits, that´s a funny one, I actually intentionally adapt feminine traits because I probably have internalized misandry and was raised mainly by my mom. I have a generally good relationship with femininity, so that doesn´t worry me either. But it´s interesting hearing your perspective.
/r/ExRedPill02/11/23 10:20 AM
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Only from my thoughts. And yes, infact I thought that shame and sexuality are synonymous. I do see link between sex and Love but it still doesn't go without degrading. I treat people like I treat myself "You're nothing but that's enough, I Love you anyway." and often people earn my Love by accepting their punishment for being disgusting. If people don't accept their punishment I get emotionally triggered and loose my sex interest. The reason why it'd be harmful is because I would try to make you…
/r/ExRedPill25/10/23 09:40 AM
1

Well I'm just saying that I absolutely don't understand where people are coming from when they sleep around. To me it's humiliating and weird. I wouldn't date a girl with high body count because I would be unable to understand her. Like all of this hypersexuality is completely new to me. Like whenever I saw someone objectifying themselves or try looking sexy, I just assumed they have low self-esteem and are humiliating themselves in front of everyone to get attention. I don't like dating people …
/r/ExRedPill25/10/23 08:20 AM
1

If it's not fair it's hard to not feel resentment for it. Redpill content creators unfortunately weren't capable of finding a cure for that resentment. So it depends on the person. I feel a dangerous amount of resentment, I worry about talking to women cause I think they'd easily notice. If you're born without value you stay without value. You can ask any narcisst that.
/r/ExRedPill25/10/23 08:01 AM
1

I think it's a double edged sword. Many women don't like the idea of unconditional Love and find it insulting.
/r/ExRedPill25/10/23 07:52 AM
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I think this worry is unreasonable even within redpill spaces. This would only be happening if women were completely incapable of emotional attachment. Women don't always go after the top one, they simply go after the ones that have higher status than they themselves, according to redpill. I even heard a literal blackpiller say that women are willing to date "not the top one" guy if they have similar values or interests. For example if she's a vegan and she wants to have a guy who's vegan, she's…
/r/ExRedPill24/10/23 11:42 AM
1

I didn't get my dislike for sex from redpill. I geniuenly feel like it isn't normal to get this physical with this many people. It is genuienly shocking to me that you can all just do it so casually. The less people in the world see me naked, the better. I don't get it and I don't relate to people who do it. So I date people who have a similar opinion on it. Also, that name is my minecraft nick I made when I was 11 years old. I suck at making names so I just kept it.
/r/ExRedPill24/10/23 10:19 AM
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One or the other. Why does it matter ? I feel like either way it´s kinda too heavy to casually do with someone you barely know. I am worried that if I do it with my partner, I will hurt them. I don´t want to project my shame onto them.
/r/ExRedPill24/10/23 02:16 AM
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It only matters under the assupmtion that it´s harmful. It´s like asking "Why would the health of other people matter ? It´s their life, no ?" If there are no real consequences to high body count then sure, I don´t care.
/r/ExRedPill24/10/23 01:01 AM
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I don´t think I have any rational reason other than that I don´t like it and I´d be happy to see the lowest amount of genitals possible.All I know is that it´s typically considered sensitive or intimate and therefore you should probably not throw it around cheaply. I know this is a bad example but for example Andrew Tate said that women are most vulnerable during sex and he´s using it to manipulate them. I don´t know if it´s true but if it is, it sounds dangerous.And I do believe that you are pr…
/r/ExRedPill24/10/23 12:56 AM
1

You can see the future ?
/r/ExRedPill23/10/23 05:03 PM
5

Wow, they really are making all that shit up ? That´s unbelievable.
/r/ExRedPill23/10/23 04:33 PM
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I dunno. A lot of shame. Power play. Humiliation. Not something you´d want to do with just someone I suppose ? It´s just very vulnerable. Like again... this reminds me... I don´t watch Andrew Tate but I´ve heard him say about how women are most vulnerable during sex and he´s using that specifically to manipulate them. Don´t know if it´s true, but if it is it sounds pretty dangerous to me, y´know. That´s I guess the point I am trying to make. But yeah I guess that just depends on who you´re doing…
/r/ExRedPill23/10/23 04:25 PM
1

I don't see how this information that sex can potentially have damaging effects, affect your life? Well, it´s good to know, I was raised to believe that sex was kind of a big deal. Basically seems like your answer to my question is "No, high promiscuity can´t be any more harmful than anything else." and that´s a good enough answer. I thought sex is something to be very careful about. If there´s nothing inherently harmful about it, then okay. I was lead to believe there was. It sounds like becaus…
/r/ExRedPill23/10/23 04:19 PM
2

Well I guess in case we ever become interested in having sex.
/r/ExRedPill23/10/23 04:07 PM
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So if you don't know if this claim is true then why are you using it? Do you have any research evidence that it is true? I am not really using it and I wasn´t looking into any research. I made this post wondering if someone will bring up this claim or not, to confirm weather it´s believed to be true. Apparently it isn´t. Thats the pill specifically. There are many other birth control methods to choose from. And the side effects really depends on the person because thats how medication works. Add…
/r/ExRedPill23/10/23 04:01 PM
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Nah, we´re not waiting. We´re not really interested in having sex at all.
/r/ExRedPill23/10/23 03:49 PM
1

Aight then
/r/ExRedPill23/10/23 03:28 PM
1

Well, first of all, I don´t want to say it cause this is ex-redpill and it could stirr up paranoia but I´ve even seen some feminists say that too much sex can damage women´s ability to pairbond. That´s the harm I am talking about. Don´t take my word for it, I know nothing about it. Just heard about it. Don´t know on what level that is true, just heard it, wondered if anyone here maybe mentions it. Second of all, unplanned pregnancy. My girlfriend´s mother went through 7 abortions and it seems li…
/r/ExRedPill23/10/23 03:09 PM
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Maybe it´s cause we find hypersexuality disgusting and want to date like-minded people. Maybe... I do, dunno about him.
/r/ExRedPill23/10/23 02:31 PM
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Nobody has to be harmed, nobody has to be disrespected, nobody has to be devalued or objectified or treated as disposable. Ohh... well I guess that explains a lot. I can´t reach sexual satisfaction without that. That´s why it triggers and offends me whenever people talk about sexual stuff in relation to other people, I assume they are disrespecting them by default. Cause I can´t imagine it any other way. Also explains my low sex-drive, if I have an emotional connection to someone I will not be s…
/r/ExRedPill23/10/23 02:25 PM
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Only a psycho would keep track ? I thought only a psycho would sleep around like that. Where did intimacy go ? Why would you even sleep with so many people ? I was always taught that only shallow and irresponsible people have casual sex. I'm sorry but seeing so many people being this sexually active is a huge shock for me. Only a psycho would keep track ? Only a psycho would keep track who you slept with ? WHAT ? Only a psycho would keep track of who you had an intimate relationship with ? Like …
/r/ExRedPill23/10/23 12:33 PM
2

It´s true that every woman is different. But what is worrying me is that you don´t see a lot of men going around saying that "A woman crying made me loose my respect for her." infact I don´t think you will see any man say that. Although, men often don´t mind being in a relationship with a woman they don´t respect. I think there is something about crying that is a turn-off specifically to women. It´s not "people are different" because there are no men this applies to. And I guess it´d be great if…
/r/ExRedPill21/10/23 07:53 AM
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I don´t know much about JustPearlyThings but from what I saw I feel like she´s acting that way to get views and money. I mean none can be this fucking stupid, how can anyone take her seriously is beyond me. Of course she´s extreme, that´s what sells.
/r/ExRedPill19/10/23 05:17 AM
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I dunno, I don´t like it either but I don´t respect it so it doesn´t bother me when people throw those words around. To me it personally feels oppressive and like people are trying to enforce their own values onto me and are expecting me to conform. I am not a big fan of hierarchies. Funnily enough, you don´t understand why people get offended over it and I don´t understand why some people use it in the first place. I guess I am just not a competetive person.
/r/ExRedPill16/10/23 09:13 PM
5

I don´t even know why are people downvoting him. Maybe it´s cause people are sensitive to the whole "Alpha Beta" thing ?
/r/ExRedPill16/10/23 07:44 PM
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Some redpilled guy told me that redpill isn't an idology, it's simply "facts". Also, if it isn't true, it isn't redpill. Redpill is all about information and statistics, everyone can form their own conclusion based on it. Redpill doesn't encourage or discourage anything. They just say "These are the facts, is it worth it ?" everything beyond that are just desperate attempts to cope with those facts. Or so I've heard.
/r/ExRedPill23/07/23 11:50 AM
1

I consider these "masculinity checks" nothing but actual toxic masculinity. Calling you names for expressing your honest thoughts and feelings. I believe that if you ignore all those labels, incel, soyboy, gay, virgin, simp, then at the end of the tunnel lies true masculinity. Masculinity is whatever a man does. That's what the term is derived from. I decided to stop listening to the internet about what a man should/should not be and I´ll just be myself. But I really don´t think that being mysel…
/r/ExRedPill03/05/23 08:25 PM
1

I didn't, so yeah fair. I actually know him only from the online manosphere in which he striked me as... Well rather unimpressive. But sure, maybe the book is Cool, I suppose I did underestimate him.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/23 04:30 PM
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I know you wrote it. I KNOW what you mean. I just thought that maybe it was the way you phrased it that was just not comprehensible enough, to other people. That´s what I was trying to say by my reply. But hell, I am getting downvoted as well, so I am giving up on these guys as well. Here just have like... a smidge of what I was about to write had I not been downvoted: (Well in those two statements you have not expressed what you think of those women. If they're in the right. If we should just a…
/r/ExRedPill02/05/23 04:20 PM
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You could've just said "some women are infact toxic/have some toxic traits and we shouldn't act as if they aren't". Y'know, to narrow it down a bit and keep it relevant, instead of antagonizing people who would probably agree with you otherwise.
/r/ExRedPill02/05/23 02:47 PM
1

Alright, then.
/r/ExRedPill27/04/23 06:03 PM
1

Yeah. Well I made a post about how I believe that you learn to Love someone by actually caring about them and nurturing them. That´s why I actually think it would be beneficial for women to date across, to the guys who show they have an equally strong personality to them. Usually all it takes to attract a girl is a disagreable masculine attitude and muscles, those work always. And work together to grow. Either way, this would require for girls to have some emotional maturity. Also, I have never …
/r/ExRedPill27/04/23 05:32 PM
1

Could you please give me a quick summary of my message ? Just so I know where exactly am I a simp and weak ?
/r/ExRedPill27/04/23 05:04 PM
1

I am not saying men should be pushovers. I am saying men are pushovers and that´s why they struggle with dating.
/r/ExRedPill27/04/23 05:03 PM
1

Did you read the entirety of what I wrote ?
/r/ExRedPill27/04/23 05:02 PM
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You know like, I kinda wanna do that though. That´s kind of what you do when you love someone. The difference with the friendzoned guys is always that they´re unattractive, unimposing, undemanding, lack boundries and self-respect. And how could you possibly make her happy if you don´t focus on yourself all while giving her attention ? Women usually friendzone their admirerers because they are loosers with very little to offer. I don´t think celebrities get women by not focusing on themselves. I …
/r/ExRedPill27/04/23 04:20 PM
1

Wait, I just wanna ask. I wanna settle this down. Manipulate me to do what, exactly ?
/r/ExRedPill27/04/23 03:01 PM
3

Young teenagers, those are usually most interested in stuff like dating advice and what women want.
/r/ExRedPill27/04/23 10:22 AM
1

But I think it´s the fault of society not encouraging men to develop their masculinity. They are shamed and mocked for it. "Violence is rude, it's not like we need men capable of defense to protect us. You don't need money, money is for corporate greedy bad guys and it's not like I'm gonna do anything to fight back against them, I will just hide in the foods till they destroy them. I am a nice guy, I would never stand up to anyone because that's rude, it's not like I have my own sense of moralit…
/r/ExRedPill27/04/23 10:11 AM
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Actually, I can confirm that is kind of true. I know a lot of girls like that personally. A LOT. But those are usually very stupid. You know, the kind that smokes in early age and stuff. But honestly, since most guys around me are also pretty useless and childish, even the normal girls date older boys. Like I am not really surprised.
/r/ExRedPill27/04/23 10:02 AM
1

Yeah, y´know I guess the Best way to prove you wrong would probably be just going and being in a relationship. I guess I just wanna say that redpilled women see men also as inherently manipulative and nothing else. That none of their efforts are actually geniuene and all that stuff. I know you keep saying how easily manipulated I am and stuff but like... I REALY don´t think so, I know what you mean when you talk about manipulation. But to say that every girl would do it, is like saying every man…
/r/ExRedPill26/04/23 03:07 PM
1

Because objectification is apparently only bad when it happens to women. Funny thing is you are running away from women in the fear of getting manipulated, while you are getting hurt and manipulated by men. Y´know, men manipulate women all the time, so like, they probably think exactly the same of you as you do of them. I really don´t think that the hurt redpill is causing is natural. It doesn´t feel natural. It´s desecrating the very foundation of what humanity is built on. Not to mention, disr…
/r/ExRedPill26/04/23 01:35 PM
1

Yeah, I agree with you. Actually a lot. But redpill makes a really shit job at encouraging men to do that with some of the things they are saying.
/r/ExRedPill26/04/23 12:59 PM
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Do you think redpill actually came up with some new ideas ? Concepts like hypergamy, greed, feminine manipulation have existed forever. For example sea Sirens which would seduce sailors only to eventually drown them. Guess what that was inspired by ? A tale as old as time. By now, I think it´d be easy to have most of the tricks figured out. People who actually have some self-respect and sense of morality are able to see through that bullshit because they demand from their partner a little bit mo…
/r/ExRedPill26/04/23 12:57 PM
2

Oh I see, yeah alright then.
/r/ExRedPill25/04/23 03:44 PM
1

I don't know if redpill says that men should be spineless bitches to get a relationship. What is the alternative to self-respect and boundries. A nice guy who lets women walk all over him or a soyboy who let's her take advantage of him. Who is that self-disrespectful man without boundries who is so popular with women ? What do you imagine ? Like, Andrew Tate... Most redpill guys like him, he doesn't seem to not have self-respect and his boundries seem to be a little over the top if I say so myse…
/r/ExRedPill25/04/23 01:50 PM
1

(Okay sorry for another meltdown) WAIT Rollo ? ROLLO ? xDDD The Rollo Tommasi. The rational male ? OH GOD. Nooo... No not Rollo... Nooo whyy... This can't be the case. No, please. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAA AAAAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA THE WORLD IS HOPELESS PFFFFFFFFTHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA NOOOOOOK I CAN'T BELIEVE THIS. He can't be the one who started it please. You can't tell me that. And he dated a lot ? How did he manage to get a date ? What the fuck xD I am not really sure if I have the same person in mind …
/r/ExRedPill25/04/23 11:25 AM
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What : ) Heheh what xD xDDDDDDDDDD Isn't Alexander Grace like a misandrist ? He encourages men to self-objectify themselves in front of women. Is he that stupid or am I that stupid ? (sorry for my little outlet here) MEN. RIGHTS. ACTIVIST. THE BIGGEST BITCH ON THE INTERNET. THE ONE WHO NEARLY MADE ME LOOSE MY SOCIAL LIFE IS A MEN RIGHTS ACTIVIST
/r/ExRedPill25/04/23 10:55 AM
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Oh, okay. Well then I got wrong information again, thanks for enlightening me ! I better edit or somehow delete this post to prevent misinformarion.
/r/ExRedPill25/04/23 10:51 AM
4

Wait... MRA stands for what ? I can't find it. I hope it isn't men's rights activists.
/r/ExRedPill25/04/23 10:37 AM
2

Hey like, this is unrelated to the majority of your post. But I think your inability to be turned on by "ugly" people is just a "you" problem. I once had a crush on an elderly lady... I am more so sexually attracted to personality, actually. Like I am not even kidding.
/r/ExRedPill25/04/23 09:32 AM
1

Eh, okay. Just to let you know I didn't say anything that would really contradict your point, just tried elaborating on it.
/r/ExRedPill25/04/23 07:36 AM
0

Umm, it's not feminism. You see it from your point of view because you are angry that men want you to degrade yourself so that they can feel superior. Which some men do, weak and pathetic men mostly. But I think the rise of incels is actually the fault of society not encouraging men to develop their masculinity. They are shamed and mocked for it. So they see that women aren't attracted to them, because they aren't strong or ambitious because society says "Violence is rude, it's not like we need …
/r/ExRedPill25/04/23 07:30 AM
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Well ironically the original point of The Red Pill was to discourage men from dating all together as it is not worth it and encourage men to get some self-respect. These heroes (Alexander Grace) took redpill ideas, which are basically the sets of the worst possible scenarios that can happen to you in a relationship, and decided to use it as a dating strategy xDDDDD So basically yeah, even the original redpillers would agree with you on that one xD
/r/ExRedPill24/04/23 05:34 PM
1

Sorry for late response but yeaaah, I have completely the same issue xD Altho I don't suffer from depression, I do neglect my studies for this. The emotional triggers, eww, it's basically abuse. Hey, it was helpful but I feel like it says more about the school system than redpill itself. Why is it that disproving random crap on the internet and basically volenterily take pain is more rewarding than going to school ? xD School basically enables this content just by the virtue of being so boring, …
/r/ExRedPill24/04/23 12:13 PM
2

Yeah, I am Awesome, what else to say... ? Don't worry, I'll keep it up, nothing will stop me. Nothing stopped them from heartbreaking me, so nothing will stop me from disproving them. And besides even the people I know who don't believe in "True Love" are capable of having healthy, mutually beneficial relationships without any toxicity or manipulation. It's really not rocket science, tbh.
/r/ExRedPill24/04/23 12:05 PM
11

Cheating on her for not loosing weight still falls into the category of "stupid reasons" for the most.
/r/ExRedPill24/04/23 11:14 AM
7

I know I am late to the party. But actually, redpill was originally meant to encourage men to give up on women completely as they were "not worth the headache", and get some self-respect. The funniest part is that these pussy ass alpha males do the exact opposite xD They date women while holding the core redpill beliefs, which is like... More pathetic than just being blue pilled. Redpill was not meant to be used for dating. It was meant to discourage men from dating. It's just these pussy ass id…
/r/ExRedPill24/04/23 08:49 AM
3

Yeah, I know, I just feel like men are sabotaging themselves somewhere and I am trying to find out where. A dynamic person... Uhuuuh. Yeah, I feel like the problem is that men nowdays are too emotionally underdeveloped and immature to really be dynamic people. They put half of their feelings into videogames and the other half they repress. Really no wonder they have trouble growing up.
/r/ExRedPill24/04/23 07:25 AM
2

There wasn't a single post that I made that you didn't like xD Tis kinda funny, thanks though. I wasn't really detoxing from redpill, I just got into it, thought about it and decided it's bullshit. Now I am trying to figure out the mechanisms behind all the things I intuitively feel are right. The problem with redpillers is they feel like dating women isn't worth it. But I think they don't realize that when you are in a relationship you are supposed to feel more free that you did alone, otherwis…
/r/ExRedPill24/04/23 07:17 AM
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Hm... fair alright. But still, as I said, I believe the reason for why women "love" bad men. Is because they misunderstand their toxic masculine outlets as protective healthy masculinity. That happens because actual good men put all their masculinity into videogames because society does not support it, nearly at all. As a result men nowdays are stuck in their teenage years, which is where they started repressing their feelings If you expres sadness: You´re weak If you express a desire to protect…
/r/ExRedPill21/04/23 11:54 PM
1

So first of all. In a more violent world, they would get pregnant from a bad man, anyway, so all would be the same. And also, if there weren´t options for them. Then I can tell you that those women would nag their man into oblivion, because if they can´t get a better one, they will try to make you into a better one. Which I do think is a better option but most men aren´t willing to improve on themselves. So it would be hell and the man would probably end up abandoning her for how insufferable sh…
/r/ExRedPill21/04/23 11:23 PM
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Monogamy was invented... There was a lot of things that were invented because if unchecked society would collapse. Like, I dunno, the law, y´know. That also wasn´t a thing in the prehistorical times. Maybe you should stop talking to everyone so that you might not get klled cause, we all know that all people really really really want to kll when they get mad. Y´know, cause it´s their nature. And it´s only the societal structure that´s preventing them from doing it. It´s not like it´s also a healt…
/r/ExRedPill21/04/23 11:00 PM
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How can you live like this ? I always try to imagine what would it be like if the opposite side would be right. In this case... I started to want to vomit, my head started spinning, I felt lonely and isolated. I was in a relationship was a narcisst, she would like to do some things which weren't very pleasant. . I would be crying but not because I felt sorry for myself, I cried because I thought "How can you ever be happy if you treat people like this." If women are incapable of Love, they will …
/r/ExRedPill21/04/23 10:33 PM
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Maybe it's because you thought I was talking about someone else ? I was gaslighted into believing a bunch nonsense by, peer pressure and overconfident butthurt pseudo-intellectuals. And my point was to pinpoint where their thought process fails.
/r/ExRedPill21/04/23 06:00 PM
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Okay, wait... I am confused. So you're saying that you believe women don't love ? Or are you saying that women don't love by my logic ? I don't understand if the first statement you wrote is a summary of my statement or a response to ny statement. Either way, doesn't matter. If Love is based in nothing it's pointless. That's my view of things. I find unconditional love rather insulting, even straight up immoral.
/r/ExRedPill21/04/23 05:56 PM
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Alright then, understood, in that case these bastards failed to self-identify themselves. I will from now on name them directly.
/r/ExRedPill21/04/23 05:50 PM
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So what are those redpill content creators talking about exactly ?
/r/ExRedPill21/04/23 05:42 PM
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The problem is, guys are completely lost nowdays. They are so out of touch with their feelings they don´t even know what a mature person looks like. Motivating them through the concept of "hypergamy" seems like a good way out. Like a good way to make them actually listen to women. My intention was countering them with their own logic. I know women aren´t really hypergamous per say. And if some are, not all of them. My girlfriend actually isn´t hypergamous at all, she´s quite the opposite. So I b…
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 05:10 PM
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Holy shit, actually that was completely my case, too. I got into redpill because my life sucked and I wanted to solve problems which seemed more easily solvable than the problems that actually mattered. I Love resolving the hurt it causes to me, I Love looking for solutions to it, I Love disproving it. Question is, is it wrong to do that ? Will it help anything ?
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 04:49 PM
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Wow actually my experience was completely the same. First I hated women, then I hated men, then I hated both. But redpill did deeply resonate with me and I will tell you why. The reason why redpill resonates with you is because a huge part of it is natural. It's just that these spineless pussies don't know how to deal with it. For example hypergamy... Hypergamy was presented to me as the argument for why women are incapable of love. But the more I was exploring both sides I started to realize so…
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 02:00 PM
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There is always someone for the Best versions of ourselves.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 10:42 AM
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Ridiculing a young man for his feelings is very Cute and responsible of You. Though, I know you mean it well and I am taking your criticism. I said this was a vent, I Love women but that doesn't mean I don't have standards or any self-worth myself. I simply admire and Love women because I usually relate to them more than to men and that both to their toxic sides as much as their healthy sides. Anyway "simping". Problem with simps isn't their natural Love for women. It's the way they cope with it…
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 08:09 AM
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I just want to make one thing clear. Whoever you were before you got into redpill was more of a man than who you are now. Also you have some audacity calling me a beta. Since you do have such audacity. I think it´s fair I also tell you something. You´re not even a beta, you´re not even a man. You´re a shell of a person. A man who can´t Love is no man. The defining trait of healthy masculinity is a desire to protect that which you love. You don´t love anything, so you won´t protect anything. What…
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 07:21 PM
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I don´t know what you´re reacting to, none here talked about mistreating women. But I agree with you, a good point ! Women don´t want a pushover. They want a guy with a spine, right ?
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 02:35 PM
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Toxic femininity is deceptive. You surely heard about the phenomenon where girls only pretend to be friends but actually hate each other. It's a stereotype which mainly applies to young girls and teenagers. It's immature behaviour. Incapability to say something as it is, is probably the reason for the short life expectancy of lesbian couples, given the likelyhood that they're both immature is high. Young girls also generally struggle with setting boundries. They say they don't want to be directl…
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 01:44 PM
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Yeah, actually my first thought when I was confronted with some of the redpill "facts" was "But that must be a miserable existence for women, too. To never be able to love. To never have enough. Having their feelings playing with them as if they were nothing." I really felt more bad for women than men. I could always just stop caring, give up on dating and be happy but they made it seems like women couldn't even do that. It's the ultimate gaslight for both men and women. I agree with you on it b…
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 11:29 AM
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Aww... Poor you, I wish I could give you a hug. You have been hurt, manipulated and gaslighted. Don't worry, I'll avenge you. Redpill content creators offer only a shallow understanding of women. Their observstions about them are usually correct and accurate but they can never explain the "why", the thought process, behind the behaviour of the women they observe. So they chalk it up to "famale nature" and evolutionary pseudo-science. Do you think women don't feel bad for not being attracted to "…
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 07:55 AM
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Love is an emotion, everyone bases their decisions based on feelings when it comes to Love. Emotions require stimulation otherwise they fade and change. Overtime, certain emotions to a certain thing can become consistent if there's enough memories to make it so. Isn't that how it works ? The rule I wanna tell you is... Stop adjusting yourself to other people. "She doesn't feel like it now" well she might feel like it later if you keep doing what you believe is right. What is even your relationsh…
/r/ExRedPill18/04/23 10:06 AM
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Well, here's the thing about my belief. They are not changing. What I believe is what I want and I will not settle for anything else. Money, muscles, status... All will be available to those who are willing to be decent people.. If women are disloyal pieces of crap, too stupid and immature to even understand their own feelings, then I vow myself to drive that type of woman to extinction. I don't have time to waste my time on what I don't want. I am describing how a decent human being is supposed…
/r/ExRedPill18/04/23 08:07 AM
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Are you advising me to stop talking ?
/r/ExRedPill18/04/23 05:07 AM
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That's a good explanation, I like it ! So as I say I would chalk it up to emotional immaturity. People don't get out of their comfrot zone to have their beliefs questioned to become well rounded people and as a result of that they don't know if their beliefs are applicable to reality.
/r/ExRedPill18/04/23 05:06 AM
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I don't see how is what I said actually incompatible with redpill. Aside from saying that "the entirety of redpill is crap" what else other than that contradicts redpill overhere ?
/r/ExRedPill18/04/23 04:48 AM
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I don't like "nice" people. They are spineless and boring, or that is at least my definition of nice. Garbage people may be toxic but at least they stand by something, they express confidence and strong opinions which people can get behind regardless of how he treats them. Garbage people are their own people. Good people are their own people and they do what they believe is right, not what's appropriate. There is no virtue in being nice. All you have to do is do nothing to be nice. Rudeness requ…
/r/ExRedPill17/04/23 05:46 PM
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Ahh, I see. Then I agree with you. Nontheless, I am open minded to not knowing but I am also very confident in what I know, so that's that. But it's a good mindset, what you're describing. Wait wait wait wait wait wait wait fck. I confused the profiles, I thought I am talking to someone else. Nevermind, I still agree xD Just... Sorry for acting as if it was an open conversation.
/r/ExRedPill17/04/23 05:28 PM
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Well then what will be the reason for getting dates as a man ? Because I disagree with you.
/r/ExRedPill17/04/23 05:07 PM
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I believe that if you can't get a date while being honest and geniuen then you're not meant to. A "Nice guy" isn't who I am on the inside so I don't have to hide my honest feelings. You can get a date while being emotionally vulnerable after you reach emotional maturity, is what I believe.
/r/ExRedPill17/04/23 04:57 PM
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That's I believe because men understand men and women understand women. As a result, men can tell if another man is acting scetchy or not. I actually did recieve an advice from a girl classmate and I didn't even ask her, she said "Do something with yourself for fcks sake." and another girl said "The problem is, men nowdays are too soft, I don't want to date a girl, I wanna date a man... Like one who's gonna be able to take my feelings and opinions." I feel like this isn't bad advice. The girls I…
/r/ExRedPill17/04/23 04:39 PM
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YES ! I said this before, the reason why women fall for aholes is because they don't have a proper role model to show them what healthy masculinity looks like. Women say they want an empathetic guy. But then apparently go after "bad boys" which is seen as a contradiction. I personally believe that the reason for that is that empathetic guys are being sabotaged by the people they care about, as a result of that they never develop their masculinity. So in the eyes of an immature woman, they seem p…
/r/ExRedPill17/04/23 01:13 PM
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Uuu... Holy crap. Yeah, I always felt really bad for girls being told that because I imagined what it would be like if someome told me that. I would get so mad I would clip out of existence. I am really grateful for being a boy because if I was a girl I would be the biggest manhater in the universe. Because there is nothing that I hate more than people disrespecting my feelings. Not to mention I would have a lot of really fcked up complexes and coping mechanisms. I mean I am not even a girl and …
/r/ExRedPill17/04/23 01:03 PM
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The Authentic Observer sometimes makes content related to it. Her most famous video is "Desecration of Femininity" and most of the videos onward have a theme of disproving some redpill beliefs.
/r/ExRedPill17/04/23 08:34 AM
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Actually, I agree, nothing changed at all. But I think the reason why men and women didn't get along in the old days is again because they were emotionally immature. But it's not like it's impossible for men and women to get along. I think it's really easy, all you gotta do is have good intentions and not be ashamed for your own feelings and respect them. Because shaming people for their feelings will only lead to slower emotional development. I still believe that healthy men and women are compa…
/r/ExRedPill16/04/23 10:19 PM
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Thank you ! I am gonna try to be more mature about it in the future, I think these two videos I made are a little too unhinged to be effective. Now it doesn´t seem very hopeful but I wanna try do it less for myself and more for others because they suffered enough already.
/r/ExRedPill16/04/23 12:07 PM
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Why did she just get deleted ? I actually had a response prepared. Was I blocked ?
/r/ExRedPill14/04/23 06:54 AM
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Oh thank you very much. But yeah, the more I was thinking about it the more I started realising that he´s actually basically advocating for the objectification of men. Not to mention it gaslights poor women into thinking they will never be capable of finding a partner worth Loving. Also painting dating of "Bad boys" as natural and "The only way" will make women think that they have no other choice. He often strenghtens his beliefs by asking women if they agree with him but if they do I am just h…
/r/ExRedPill13/04/23 01:38 PM
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I see. Welp okay then.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/23 06:15 PM
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I know you are offering a really great and honest example but I just wanna share my opinion. You say women were one upping each other by mentioning how successful their husbands were... I know that´s what happens/happened but I still see it as incredibly petty and vein. My perspective is that hypergamy probably is real, it is what women are into but it shouldn´t drive their entire existence. Hypergamy shouldn´t be the way, it should be the reward. I just can´t get over how shallow and immature p…
/r/ExRedPill12/04/23 04:58 PM
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Hmm, well status and a job is a passive factor of attraction. Instead of waiting for her to show interest in you first, have you ever tried persuing her and making your first move yourself ? Maybe if you demonstrated your other masculine qualities they would warm up to you eventually. Just a thought. If you're passive, superficial things matter the most. Course I don't advise to be a creep, you gotta know how to persue women without being creepy but I'm sure you know how, I'm just saying this fo…
/r/ExRedPill12/04/23 09:24 AM
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My outlook on this always was that I would date someone who has the same ideals as me. If I want a supermodel, I will date an average girl who wants to become a supermodel. And together we will eventually get there. That way, I will invest my time and Love into her improvement and she, depending on what her ideal of me is, will invest her time and Love into me, strenghtning our bond through mutual care. Eventually, we will become ideal for each other not only internally but also externally. Is t…
/r/ExRedPill12/04/23 08:23 AM
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This is just my theory but I feel like women only care about height, income or status if there's nothing else to compensate for that. I feel like nowdays men are too out of touch with their masculinity, so they compensate for it with artificial expressions of competence and power, such as money, instead of focusing on the inner strenght and drive. Just what I think though.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/23 08:15 AM
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​ This is a very difficult issue to cover, so I am sorry if I´ll be a little chaotic, I hope you´ll get the idea of what I´m trying to say. Here´s the problem with just accepting that men and women are different. You can never empathize with the other, as a result, you can never tell when they really feel Love towards you, you can never tell if what is happening to them is even the right thing. Do you know why I am so insistant on women and men not being that different ? Because I am obsessed wi…
/r/ExRedPill11/04/23 05:14 PM
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Wow, that's Cool xD I am from Czech Republic. Really ? And what causes you to feel that pressure ? I feel like both sides basically face the same problems, yet they both conform to the toxicity they see. I think there are simply things you shouldn't be okay with even if the entirety of the "dating market" is promoting them. I feel like this attitude is stupid. True wisdom is when the heart and the head are alligned. I think the Best wife is a one who is both a fun girl and a good girl, plain and…
/r/ExRedPill08/04/23 11:58 AM
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Well Alexander Grace certainly didn´t give me a solution. He said that women are incapable of Love and that´s it. All I can do is deal with it and then play pretend and play pretend so that she doesn´t leave you for someone better. Their Love is opportunistic and they are incapable of loyalty. Repeated this several times and in many different ways. Incapable of Love, Gratitude, Morality, explained in detail and insisted that this is the way they are and the way they always been and will be and t…
/r/ExRedPill08/04/23 06:14 AM
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Well yeah but I've certainly never seen it. What I described is probably definitely something that men are feeling. But I rarely ever see those feelings being expressed or acted upon in any way. Like, when you take into account that women have as much hard of a time understanding men, as men understanding women, I think that expressing yourself properly is important to make girls at least a little attracted to you. If most men already are this way, I really doubt women are aware of it, y'know ? …
/r/ExRedPill07/04/23 02:50 PM
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He already explained his problem further down in this thread. I asked him by replying to the first comment he posted here.
/r/ExRedPill07/04/23 11:00 AM
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I have a sister and an insufferable one at that. And two older half-sisters. Yet, I agree that women and men are essentially the same. But I do put myself on a pedestal so it's only natural I would put my love interests on a pedestal as well. Not my sister though, ewwwwww. So this is I guess more of a "me" thing. I get your point though.
/r/ExRedPill07/04/23 08:36 AM
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Cute you think that, you probably just misunderstood me then. There's nothing wrong with having standards for people having basic humanity, y'know. But I do admit my post is very vague so it's easily misinterpretable but what I wanted to say is that I will rather strive for better as opposed to wallowing in misery over some "facts". Facts are also easily misinterpretable, not to mention they are easily changable if you know the cause. Redpillers don't know the cause, so they can never strive for…
/r/ExRedPill07/04/23 07:34 AM
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Cute you think that, you probably just misunderstood me then. There's nothing wrong with having standards for people having basic humanity, y'know. But I do admit my post is very vague so it's easily misinterpretable, it's just a desperate vent, I didn
/r/ExRedPill07/04/23 07:30 AM
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Hmm, yeah that´s a good point. I guess calling people names and branding people will only lead to more confusion and misery. I will definitely remember your point.
/r/ExRedPill07/04/23 04:54 AM
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Meh, said it was a vent and I confessed my true feelings. They ain´t changing anytime soon, sorry.
/r/ExRedPill07/04/23 04:43 AM
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With this post, I am referring more so to the so called "redpill content creators". The reason why everyone has a different meaning of redpill is because each ones takes their own spin on it. The thing is, it seems like not even those content creators aren content with the information they present and so you become a victim of their unhealthy coping mechanisms. May I ask what is the original meaning of the term Red Pill ? You seem to know.
/r/ExRedPill07/04/23 04:32 AM
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Yeah, really I am here talking about content creators who claim themselves to be redpilled. They are the ones causing all the damage, because they can´t handle the information redpill, or whatever, offers in a healthy way. Since you are so insistant on this. Do you know what redpill actually is ? If it´s not these content creators I am talking about ? I would like to hear what is the original "brand" or ideology of redpill.
/r/ExRedPill07/04/23 04:30 AM
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Yep, I know they aren´t pure beings. But I don´t think we should completely throw away that ideal either, like redpill does. I wouldn´t be disappointed at the idea that they are flawed or human. But redpill makes it seem like they are completely incapable of morality and I think people who believe that are missing out on a lot. Which is why, in this vent, I put women on a pedestal so much. Because I feel like redpillers have the same ideals as me but they straight up just don´t believe women are…
/r/ExRedPill07/04/23 04:24 AM
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​ I'm not entirely sure why you would. Women are individuals, and are not immune from being flawed just like men. There are plenty of 'good' women as well as 'bad' women. From my experience, I've seen a lot of both, and this applies for men too. I feel like nowdays, women are way better at being themselves than men are. My hypothesis for even the creation of redpill was that while women are not discouraged from becoming feminine, men are discouraged from becoming masculine, as a result of that t…
/r/ExRedPill07/04/23 04:06 AM
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What ?
/r/ExRedPill06/04/23 07:06 PM
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Well, that's hard. To me it's simply a feeling. A desire to fight for what's right, a desire to protect, a desire to defend your values no matter what. Ironically, it was empathy and a sense of purpose that made me want to become masculine. I decided that I will start to take my empathy seriously and I... Never felt angrier in my life. Seeing all the injustices in the world, I wanted to become strong, so that I have the power to protect everyone. I also never felt more confident in my life befor…
/r/ExRedPill06/04/23 12:51 PM
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See, there are two types or men in this society. Good guys, who have good intentions and hearts of gold but are discouraged to act upon their healthy masculinity and as a result they detoriate into something called a Nice Guy. And the Bad Boys, men who don't care about anyone of anything, so no sociatal discouraging works on them. They as opposed to all the Good guys, actually develop their masculinity albeit in a horrifying and toxic way. These guys are the only men who nowdays actually take th…
/r/ExRedPill06/04/23 10:43 AM
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Women consider themselves as more charismatic ? Well I would say that is because they are. My hypothsis is that men, from an early age are taught to either surpress or not act upon their masculine feelings and instincts. As a result, they become internally significantly weaker than woman, which reasonably makes them less attractive. So men live an entire life believing that acting like a man is wrong and then at one point they are told that THAT'S what makes them unattractive. At that point, you…
/r/ExRedPill06/04/23 10:21 AM
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Yeah, actually the lack of ,,why" is exactly Alexander´s main problem. He´s incredibely out of touch with his feelings, he even said so himself. His experties is analyzing patterns in behavior of people but he straight up fears the internal part like devil the cross. He´s basically like that one AI who was sent to learn from the internet and ended up being a terrible person. He has no opinions, he has no real desires or morals of his own, he just analyzes what he sees around him, that´s why he c…
/r/ExRedPill05/04/23 03:21 PM
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