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| 1 | He’s begging me to let him lead.What do you mean? Like I shouldn’t lay out the map? | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/06/26 02:44 AM |
| 1 | He’s begging me to let him lead.Thanks for your thoughts! I definitely struggle to hand over the reigns. I’m really struggling on this trip thing, he surprised me with it as a Christmas present (I didn’t ask for it) but now it’s June and the trip is in august but he hasn’t planned anything and might cancel it. I don’t know if I should act like it’s fine to cancel to take pressure off his shoulders or express my concern that if he planned better I could follow his lead. He plans and leads so well at work I don’t understand why … | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/06/26 02:44 AM |
| 4 | My (24F) bf (29M) asked to take a 3-5 day breakHe’s probably cheating. Starting and escalating circular arguments over nothing with an excuse to turn the relationship on and off at whim? Also remember that many men won’t walk away from guaranteed sex, aka a relationship. He’s monkey branching | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/06/26 06:12 PM |
| 3 | He asked me out to dinner and then we split the billMy boyfriend is British too, and always pays on our dates. It’s not a culture thing, if anything they’re much more aware of manners | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/05/26 03:12 AM |
| 1 | He asked me out to dinner and then we split the billMy bf is British and more progressive than me in a myriad of ways, but he always takes care of the bill on a date. Occasionally I pay bc I like to treat him but he’s the picture of a gentleman, it’s not a culture thing trust me | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/05/26 03:11 AM |
| 4 | GriefVirginity is special but purity is more important. When I was a virgin I was pretty addicted to watching pornography, I was depressed, I was filled with so much impurity. When I got closer to God I had already had sex yes, but I was so happy and free and joyful. No one is a virgin forever (unless you’re called to celibacy / being a nun etc.) if you base your worth entirely upon that what happens as you age, when you have children? Etc. spend some time with God, your heart posture in alignment wi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/04/26 02:06 AM |
| – | Bisexual Men should hold themselves to higher standards and reject homophobic straight womenIt’s giving butch pick me. Did a bisexual man leave you for a straight girl? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 12:34 AM |
| 0 | Why exactly is women wanting money from men worse than men wanting sex with womenNo one HAS to pay. Just don’t be mad when women aren’t interested because you’re cheap | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 02:46 AM |
| – | Wonder why this isWait you’ve hired other escorts? And what do you mean your clients have bad stories? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 02:56 AM |
| 1 | The courting process never ends for men.It can always end, men never “have to” do any courting if they don’t feel like it. But spark requires fanning the flames, so losing romance and intimacy is the consequence. If you’re in love and devoted it’s not a chore, it’s reciprocal and special | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/26 10:55 PM |
| 1 | There's absolutely no point in marriage, for both genders.If we’re arguing from the traditional biblical standpoint, Paul actually says being single is best, because you can devote yourself fully to your life purpose. Marriage calls us to sacrifice ourselves and whatever individual mission we are on for the betterment of the other person. It’s a huge leap of trust. When it works it is healing and fulfilling and a beautiful healthy container for love. Growing up with two parents who loved one another and committed to one another through marriage was inv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 03:40 AM |
| – | Ladies, If you’re not attracted to 90-95% of men, that’s not a male problem.. thats a YOU problemDo you think objectively as a man, a lot of men are attractive, you would be attracted to them if you were a woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/26 03:21 AM |
| 15 | Boyfriend says he’s RP but I’m worried it’s actually toxic behaviorSo you want to be the submissive provider? I actually question a lot about you based on this post. He is not seeming to improve your life at all. Submitting to poverty sounds beyond unwise and just plain foolish | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/02/26 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Partner ended things due to work/life overwhelmNo one breaks up with someone bc they think they deserve more, he’s trying to save face | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/01/26 03:00 AM |
| 6 | FIL cut my toddlers hair behind my backSubmissive doesn’t mean you submit to everyone who crosses your path, that is foolish and dangerous. Stand up for yourself and your children and communicate this matter to your husband so he backs you conpletely | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/01/26 04:05 AM |
| 2 | How to deal with some manosphere guys degrading women?You’re getting infected by the same propoganda if you feel valueless as you age. Which by the way, 20?!!! You’re practically still a teenager. A lot of these ideas are cope and projection. Build your confidence independent of this shit | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/01/26 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Moving in / splitting billsI’m so inconvienent, he had to move countries to be with me haha. But I hear what you’re saying | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/10/25 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Moving in / splitting billsIs moving in during the engagement fine do you think? | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/10/25 09:15 PM |
| 2 | Moving in / splitting billsHe said we could do a percentage, but that’s still not better for me that not paying rent and living with my parents. I also don’t want to move in or contribute financially with a man who isnt at least my fiancée at this point so that’s where I’m at haha | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/10/25 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Moving in / splitting billsHe’s from the UK. His older brother makes a lot of money and support his wife and kids, but growing up I think their mom ended up doing the majority of the hustling | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/10/25 09:13 PM |
| 2 | Moving in / splitting billsI lived with a boyfriend / eventual (ex) fiancée who paid for everything. I told him I don’t want to move in until I’m at least engaged which he knows. I think the engagement is coming soon bc he’s talked about looking into apartments seriously. I’ll just have to set that boundary | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/08/25 12:03 AM |
| 2 | Women need to come to terms with the fact that they put too much unnecessary mental load onto themselves, and they should stop blaming men for that.I don’t have kids but as a former child my mom did way more, all the cooking and cleaning, appointments, just on top of our lives. My dad WORKED more, outside the home, but my moms standards were higher than his so there were frequent mismatches that probably led to frustration | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 11:50 PM |
| 0 | How should I view past sexual encounters that only happened because I was drunk?Idk why anyone discusses body count openly with their partner. Be on the same page with values and attitudes towards sex, why get into the nitty gritty of stupid bullshit from being a teenager | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/05/25 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Do I look feminineIt’s the hair, try something shorter and darker / red with curtain bangs, and more natural lashes. You’re gorgeous though | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/12/24 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Ironic regret of not having a careerThank you for the encouragement:) | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/01/23 03:32 PM |
| 2 | Ironic regret of not having a careerNot a great sugar daddy considering I was spending all my time and money on a house I’d never own and my inheritance towards a wedding that never happened. I wanted a man who was happy to provide for a family and not cheat. Yknow, values | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/12/22 05:10 PM |
| 96 | Lost in my life and relationshipI feel like the dynamic of you being the bad one and him this saint who constantly dangles commitment and a stable life over your head is inherently doomed. You are mirroring your internal shame and self loathing in your external relationships. You’re in a toxic cycle with yourself, always at odds with your past and what seems like an impossible future that is then reflecting outwards. He’s not healthy for you. You’re not healthy for you. Healing and forgiveness needs to happen before you can cr… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/12/22 10:40 PM |
| 3 | Ironic regret of not having a careerIs this satire? | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/11/22 05:35 PM |
| 39 | Ironic regret of not having a careerI found out about a month before the wedding and subsequently left. No children thankfully | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/11/22 12:55 AM |
| 17 | Ironic regret of not having a careerI have a bachelor’s degree and teach yoga, which I love. My friends own a studio and want me to manage it, while they open more studios and eventually franchise. I’d love to buy in as a co owner but don’t know how I’ll afford it, maybe I can get a loan. I feel like this comment was really negative and gloom and doom though | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/11/22 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Meeting men when you don’t know where you want to live?I found out May 11th, not long after my grandma passed away (our last conversation was how the wedding was cancelled) I was robbed, I had to leave the summer job I had lined up and now I’m battling a serious bout with Covid. My head is barely above water and each day seems to be a little harder | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/07/22 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Meeting men when you don’t know where you want to live?Hey I just DM’d you :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/06/22 02:24 AM |
| 3 | Meeting men when you don’t know where you want to live?I want to raise children in a healthy happy home. I want to be financially comfortable and supported so I’m not forced to work full time and can invest more time and energy being there for my family. Part time would be okay. Homeschooling with the state of the world would be a welcome possibility. I’m looking for a kind, honest, attractive family minded man with aligning values to myself. I’d love to live in a warmer climate than I do now and am open to moving. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/06/22 10:29 PM |
| 4 | Starting over at almost 30Wow! I have so much in common with you. I’ve considered getting an e-commerce business off the ground to support myself but don’t quite know where to start. Thank you so much for your comment though that gives me optimism | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/06/22 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Aftermath of a massive argumentYeah the bleeding and crying sex stuff is an issue. There’s a reason most guys take it hard, normal people don’t want their partner to be in pain or upset | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/06/22 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Fiancée cheated weeks before the wedding. Please help.Right on point. I’ve done these kinds of things before I “settled down” with my fiancée and am not too intimidated to try again :) thank you | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/05/22 07:15 PM |
| 2 | Do bisexual men have a difficult time with women because of their orientation? Would you date a bisexual man? If not, why?Okay. Let’s say you’re right. Women who are respectful and kind to but will not sexually validate bisexual men are homophobic. Do you want to date a homophobe? Seems like a good way of weeding out a characteristic you’re not looking for either. Seeking approval from the entire world will turn you into a pretty desperate person | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Do bisexual men have a difficult time with women because of their orientation? Would you date a bisexual man? If not, why?Is DL culture down low? Like closeted? Are you saying yes they are in response to women who won’t date bi men are villains? As in yes they’re villains? Because you’re very delusional if so. Sexuality isn’t an equal opportunity employer. People are allowed to have any and all boundaries they want. If you don’t like it don’t be friends with or date those people. Why would someone want to be dated out of guilt? We can argue whether not dating someone is discrimination or not but attraction can not … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Fiancée cheated weeks before the wedding. Please help.Yes he was projecting. We didn’t have the perfect relationship and I often had doubts how I’d be able to tolerate him long term because he’d project and gaslight the shit out of me when we argued all the time. He’s attractive yeah and earns 100k+ compared to my barely 24k and has inherited money to buy an inordinately beautiful house in a dream neighborhood in a wildly expensive area of the country. I don’t feel particularly connected to my job, my hometown, or anything else about where I live a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/05/22 11:14 AM |
| 1 | Fiancée cheated weeks before the wedding. Please help.My family wants me to consider it. They think at 29 with no other prospects he’s a good option if he commits to changing himself. He’s been off adderall which he attributes to contributing to his verbal abuse and robotic unfeeling and he’s starting therapy to address the lies and cheating. How they phrased it to me was, the person who was wronged (wordy way of saying victim) often ends up alone and bitter with all this trauma to work through The person who did the wronging can end up bettering t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/05/22 11:06 AM |
| 1 | Fiancée cheated weeks before the wedding. Please help.He blamed the adderall which is where my parents got the idea. I saw him abusing it which he admits to. I have adhd as well, though am unmedicated besides nootropics | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/05/22 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Fiancée cheated weeks before the wedding. Please help.I’m oddly more hesitant about his mistreatment and manipulation than the cheating. The cheating seemed impulsive and reckless which perhaps could be curbed with enough effort on his part but the emotional abuse is a deep, complicated problem that points to something potentially very dark in his character | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/05/22 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Fiancée cheated weeks before the wedding. Please help.Thank you | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/05/22 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Fiancée cheated weeks before the wedding. Please help.I would love some advice about how to do that, I’m starting from square negative one because of the lost time and extra scoop of trama | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/05/22 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Fiancée cheated weeks before the wedding. Please help.We’ve been together since 2018, nearly four years | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/05/22 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Fiancée cheated weeks before the wedding. Please help.Im a natural blonde, 5’7”, slim, teach yoga, dress feminine, sing and play guitar, and am good with children. I’ve worked seasonal jobs in the past and have only had 2 other serious relationships. I never allowed any orbiters out of respect and most men out there aren’t relationship material regardless of their interest in me. I’m anxious most about my age and my financial freedom | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/05/22 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Fiancée cheated weeks before the wedding. Please help.I have a college degree and work as a teaching assistant. I also have a yoga teaching certification. I love children and yoga, and am a musician as well. I work hard but make very little money. I had a serious illness I spent my life savings and then some trying to cure. My debt is around $7,00. I have no savings. I live in a blue state that I don’t like and want to leave but is nice in the summer with potential opportunities for summer work. I love to travel and often traveled pre Covid and pre… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/05/22 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Fiancée cheated weeks before the wedding. Please help.I wasn’t clear with the adderall thing. His behavior in our relationship was very bad. He would blow up in explosive rages and blame me for all the problems, this anger he claims arose out of his guilt from cheating, however he also blames the adderall for putting him on edge and making him robotic and unfeeling | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/05/22 05:53 PM |
| 4 | Fiancée cheated weeks before the wedding. Please help.Go where the fish are biting.. I’m planning on leaving where I live (high cost of living, few young people, not the vibe) but don’t know where to go. It feels like throwing a dart on a map. I’ve had the idea of getting a summer job somewhere, either at home with my parents in the town I want to gtfo of or in some new place where marriageable guys live. My life is so upside down lol. If you have any suggestions of where to look! | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/05/22 11:37 AM |
| 0 | Fiancée cheated weeks before the wedding. Please help.Our sex life was suffering, he believes the timeline of his anger issues and our sex life issues began after the cheating, however I’m not sure. Maybe we could have had a beautiful relationship if the cheating never happened but maybe not, maybe he would have been an asshole I lost attraction for either way. I thought I had vetted well. He was extremely committed to finding a wife and mother of his children. He had strong opinions about keeping future children out of public schools, read books o… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/05/22 11:33 AM |
| 0 | Fiancée cheated weeks before the wedding. Please help.I poorly worded the adderall thing. It seems to make him robotic and edgy. I think he has a tendency to hold me to the standards of his fake “perfect guy” persona so if I made a mistake or forgot something he’d hit the roof. His parents and him blame the adderall for making him testy. I believe there to be more to it | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/05/22 01:45 AM |
| 5 | Fiancée cheated weeks before the wedding. Please help.Thank you so much for sharing this. Our situations are really parallel and I’m so glad you found a wonderful guy! How did you go about making those big life changes and finding someone new? I feel like time is against me | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/05/22 01:41 AM |
| -7 | Fiancée cheated weeks before the wedding. Please help.Not blaming adderall for cheating but he and my parents believe it’s what caused or contributed him to be so aggressive and volatile at times | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/05/22 01:38 AM |
| 1 | Fiancée cheated weeks before the wedding. Please help.Not cheating but his explosive rages and neuroticism | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/05/22 01:37 AM |
| 12 | Fiancée cheated weeks before the wedding. Please help.My brain is so fried right now, can you expand on that? | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/05/22 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Do bisexual men have a difficult time with women because of their orientation? Would you date a bisexual man? If not, why?I don’t doubt that people don’t want to date or sleep with bi people on the basis that they’re bi, but that’s not discrimination in the same way if you didn’t offer them a job or house on that same basis. Attraction can’t be argued or negotiated, and you wouldn’t want someone who isn’t attracted to bi people anyway so take the L and thank them for not wasting your time further | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 03:34 PM |
| 4 | Do bisexual men have a difficult time with women because of their orientation? Would you date a bisexual man? If not, why?It’s not homophobia or sexist, no one owes you sexual availability and if you need that to validate yourself you’ll be perpetually miserable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 12:34 PM |
| 7 | Do bisexual men have a difficult time with women because of their orientation? Would you date a bisexual man? If not, why?“Discrimination in dating” isn’t a thing. No one owes you sexual approval. Your validation resting on someone else’s sexual availability is a recipe for a bad time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 12:32 PM |
| 1 | Do bisexual men have a difficult time with women because of their orientation? Would you date a bisexual man? If not, why?There’s a trend of trying to link lack of attraction to discrimination and it’s honestly very incel. The entitlement of needing to be accepted sexually is unreal. When your validation resets on someone else’s sexual availability to you, you’ll never be happy, and put yourself in the company of a lot of creeps. Women who don’t want to date bisexual men aren’t villains. Lotta people need to get over themselves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 12:31 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with extremely blue pill advice from my parents?Online dating (strategically and intelligently) in an amazingly direct way to obtain a relationship with the values you’re looking for. I have very similar parents, who themselves had an rp relationship but were begging me to go to grad school. I have TWO separate relatives from opposite sides of the family make their deathbed wish that i get a masters degree. I didn’t, I spent the years after college traveling, and met my boyfriend, soon to be fiancée. We just bought a house together and he wan… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/02/21 09:58 PM |
| 2 | What is a RPW way to deal with an adulterous husband?Your husband is masquerading as a high value man. How would you regard someone whose wife works to the bone and is going through chemo, is condescended to, lied to, and cheated on? You should work with a therapist to work on your self confidence, this is not an error by a good man, this is in line with a weak character | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/20 10:44 PM |
| 5 | My girlfriend lied about her heritage, and a year later lied about her college degree. Thoughts?The motivation behind the lie is profound. It’s not a white lie to save face, it’s for seemingly no reason, but it reveals she’s willing to lie so throughly she might have actually convinced herself she’s telling the truth. She’s representing her as a different person entirely. Why on earth would you waste your time with someone with no value on truth? | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/20 10:42 PM |
| 13 | Elon musk LVM tweeted “take the red pill” and Grimes mom called him out.this video is put together by an MRA / red pill guy trying to I guess “expose” his ex wife through her body language and expressions, but when I watch it I just see LOWWWWWW VALUE MALE in flashing lights. Objectively her body language is clear she is perhaps subconsciously feeling the same thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 03:58 PM |
| 1 | RPW and religionI’m looking for audiobooks! Thanks :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/10/19 05:55 PM |
| 3 | RPW and religionIslam is wrong about women... | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/10/19 05:55 PM |
| 1 | RPW and religionFunny you mention that, Im a yoga teacher and have actually gotten my intro to RP through that community (through Ayurveda / cultivating femininity) but can totalllyyy relate to encountering the blue pill yoga scene. Theres plenty of nonsense out there despite finding a lot of clarity through this path. That homeschool idea is so clever, and addresses the biggest issue with homeschooling in building community. Are you still in the bible belt? SO and I live in a red pocket of a blue state with ho… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/10/19 05:54 PM |
| 0 | RPW and religionHmm I don’t know much about the bah’ai community, but I’m intrigued. Do you have any good sources of info I can get on that? :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/10/19 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Do you think that women should lie about their age on dating sites?Lol make a post about meeting a guy online who lied about any of these- His income His height His interest in finding a committed relationship And watch how quickly everyone (rightfully) will tell you to gtfo. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/10/19 02:18 PM |
| 4 | Do I even stand a chance?It’s great you’ve done so much reflecting, and seem relatively honest with yourself about your past. I think there’s a difference though between understanding where your behavior was coming from vs talking accountability. (Blaming it on feminism / the overly strict traditional culture / the overly permissive western culture / your moms beliefs about men.) Men aren’t going to care about whether you have a scapegoat or whether you just liked being a party girl, if thats what you present as the rea… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/08/19 04:32 PM |
| 6 | Should I dye my hair blonde? Are men more attracted to blondes?maybe something like this? | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/08/19 02:11 AM |
| 9 | Redpilling the Redpill: Attractiveness is all that mattersVirginity isnt attractive to guys looking to enter a relationship with minimal investment on their part. In a way its a great vetting process for you, you’ll be able to sort out who really is interested in building something and who would just want sex. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/08/19 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Is my hobby a problem?You’re right that most guys at these festivals wouldnt have their shit together in the way that you’re looking for, but there are plenttyyy of really successful guys who‘d be into going out every once in a while to let loose with you. Instead of looking into the festival community I’d start from the opposite direction, look for your guy first, worry about sharing a hobby later. But be mindful that if its all over your dating profiles and social media, especially if you’re wearing skimpy outfits,… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/08/19 03:53 PM |
| 9 | Are there actually decent guys on dating apps? Tips on vetting?definitely not all, but a lot of women who complain that men are gross to them on dating have contributed to attracting that energy. I made a male profile on tinder once to see what other girls were doing and i was amazed. Half naked mirror selfies with “no hookups” headlining a bio littered with negativity and profanity. Make sure you’re vetting yourself as well. Try to step outside yourself and observe how you’d be seen online. You should look unquestionably feminine in your pictures, smiling,… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/08/19 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Alpha WidowsYoure correct with the FW stuff. If you browse r/redpillwomen you’ll find troves of stories of women baffled as to why they cant transform their man into a leader or even the bare minimum like being able to make decisions or initiate sex. The fact that so much effort has to be poured in to manipulate the natural state of men and women is really sad | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/08/19 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Alpha WidowsSometimes it can result in a pathetic mess with BP / beta guys, where the girls they’re with (like an alpha widow lets say) try to “game” them into growing balls, and exaggerate submissiveness to the point of helplessness and its a constant cycle of disappointment for all. The man who doesnt actually want to be the man and the woman who is so desperate for him to even cosplay as one she’ll revert to a near childlike state. And when thAt doesn’t work women usually go into exasperated mothering mo… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/08/19 04:48 AM |
| 3 | Guy I met on first date didn't post photos/tell me how fat he isThis has happened to me, a mutual friend who I’d only known through instagram who was pretty handsome at one point but the fact that he had a) gained a ton of weight and b) grew his hair down long enough to cover his chest (!!!) was not revealed over pictures. I tried to negotiate my desire when we went on a date irl but physically interacting felt repulsive. Forcing yourself to be drawn to someone you’re not attracted to is a mockery of intimacy and self doubt and will lead to a lot of confusio… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/07/19 11:31 PM |
| 2 | 32 F getting older and need tips on how to realistically date - any advice welcomedAs someone who also moved to NYC and has overwhelmed to the point of severe chronic illness, your willingness to listen to yourself is amazing, good for you! I found the pace of southern cities I’ve lived and traveled in, especially Asheville, Houston, and Charleston to be really liveable, and was approached by guys a lot more than in the northeast. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/07/19 04:27 AM |
| 4 | Shattered confidence and frame after rape allegation, having a hard time regaining momentum. Incredibly weak right nowHow awful to have happened to you, Im sorry. To use rape as a weapon should be treated as a heinous crime, and in this case you were a victim. In a way that sensation of guilt and paranoia is an element assault victims go through. You were accused of one of the most insidious things imaginable and to transition back into the dating pool / real life in general without acknowledging the fact that you’re a survivor of pretty severe manipulation. There are a lot of positives going for you though, th… | /r/askTRP | 02/07/19 04:02 AM |
| 2 | Anti aging tips/looking youthful?Microneediling! + hyper vigilant hydration routine + greens in every meal... and of course most of all doing things that make your spirit feel young. Being playful whenever you can, anytime you can inspire awe, on a walk in the woods or at the beach, you’ll bring in a little more youthful brightness to your eyes :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/06/19 04:53 AM |
| 2 | Should I stay a virgin until marriage?There’s definitely a balance between the culture that urges and applauds young girls for using their sexuality as a weapon. (It always comes back to haunt you FYI.) and on the other side, they’ll be moralists saying you’re less-than for having a physical relationship before marriage. The truth is that sex is an energy exchange. Its most fulfilling when you’re the most vulnerable emotionally, which is when you’re with someone you’re in love with, who loves you, who you trust physically, emotional… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/06/19 04:29 AM |
| 1 | Can someone give me podcast recommendations?Mind body musings with maddie moon! Look through the available episodes... her 3 part series on femininity, masculinity, and divine polarity is so beautifully RP without the aggressiveness thats sometimes ladden in RP content. Soft and feminine and very wise / spiritual. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/06/19 11:06 PM |
| 2 | Do you offer to pay and insist on paying on every date? Or going Dutch? How do I let the man feel manly yet stand my ground?I like first dates to be really casual, getting coffee and going on a walk works for me. I think of it as answering the question, do I want to get dinner with him? If not, I don’t feel too guilty if a guy forks over the $4 for my drink before the date really started. If yes, then I think it’s nice to let a guy treat you and be super sweet and grateful for taking care of you, its empowering for everyone. Though offering to pay for the tip is a nice compromise that shows your thoughtfulness as wel… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/06/19 01:49 PM |
| 2 | Podcast Recommendations?Mind Body Musings with Maddie Moon, especially her 3 part series on masculinity and femininity and episodes on relationships in general. Gently redpill but coming from a more spiritual sweet perspective | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/05/19 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Struggling to be supportive.Sometimes it might be good to delegate. If you’re constantly cooking / cleaning / treating him while hes not working and feeling sheepish it might actually make him feel even less worthy. His guy friends might be the best people to push him or for him to vent to so he doesnt feel like hes dumping on you. He could be using the time in the gym or working on it projects in the house, maybe the best way to cheer him up would be to ask for help, enlist him in some work so you have an excuse to be gra… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/05/19 02:37 PM |
| 2 | ‘Not Good for Dating’Its possible to find something on tinder, but i think it’ll be the exception moreso than the rule. OKC, hinge, even bumble are a little more serious and paid ones like match might be good for you too. You’ll stand out with your youth and maturity... make sure your pictures are sweet and smiley and you’re clear about who you are and what you want, its virtual manifestation :) l | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/05/19 02:34 PM |
| 1 | My boyfriend is a feministI do think a lot of men are in the position your guy is in. Good hearted men want the women in their lives to be happy, and for him its hard to reconcile that your happiest and even most empowered state would be to be lead by a strong, chivalrous, dominant man that would enable you to express your femininity. The polarities of masculine and feminine energy are really being challenged and picked apart these days, a lot of throwing out the baby with the bath water so to speak. If you’ve been with … | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/05/19 03:03 PM |
| 2 | I need helpOh sweetheart! I wish i could hug you. I’ve heard moving compared to deaths in the family in terms of potential stress, I cant imagine all those transitions at once. My sister was having similar feelings in a new city and had good luck making friends in her meetup group. (Its an app / website that links your interests and hobbies to groups to make friends irl! There are all girl groups that have movie nights and brunches... it could be a good way to get out of your comfort zone!) I know its hard… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/05/19 05:07 AM |
| 1 | When It's Not an UltimatumThis is how I came to exist. My mom was 8 years younger than my dad but very focused on her future. She was about to enter grad school for her librarian’s masters and didn’t have time or energy to be dating wishy washy guys. She laid it out flat that if the relationship wasn’t on the track for marriage she needed to move on and it was a huge wake up call for my dad. Not an ultimatum, just her vetting and prepared to lose the love of her life if her needs weren’t met. He wanted it too, he needed … | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/05/19 05:01 AM |
| 2 | How long is too long to wait for commitment?When people show you who you are- believe them. Men are fastidious about locking something down if if’s meaningful to them. There are guys looking for relationships, college is not the easiest spot for that but not impossible, stay open but keep the expectations high, and dont be afraid of showing your cards earlier. Better to eliminate a contender early than drag something longer and waste your time. 3 months is a really long time to be in the early dating phase, and thankfully he was honest ab… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/05/19 04:54 AM |
| 7 | Mrs. MidwestIve been following her since she had 100 or so youtube followers, really cool to see her take off | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/05/19 08:18 PM |
| 14 | The description of this subreddit is very close to that of RPW, as strategies for women in dating marriage and femininity. But this is like our evil twin sister that thrives on negativity. So lucky I found you guys, as this seems to be the louder voice in our culture latelyHaha im glad you kept it! It made me laugh. But yeah theres literally a post that argued that women should steer clear of men, marriage, kids, and anyone else who supports those things to be happy. As if a career alone will fulfill your life, yikes. The difference between mgtow and wgtow is that women can still have children... although under what kind of condition would a kid be who was raised by an elderly (37+ by fertility’s standards) single mom? | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/05/19 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Women are not worthless (rambles of my mind)Her show is super uplifting and inspiring! She has a three part series on masculinity and femininity that is sooo beautifully broken down. Hope you enjoy<3 | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/04/19 06:53 PM |
| 1 | How to subtly suggest I want to do the 36 questions?I’d pick out a few that you were most interested in hearing the answer from and playfully asking him like its a game | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/04/19 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Guy I’m hooking up with keeps telling me about other girls he’s sleeping with, what could this mean?I don’t mean to frighten you or shame you in the slightest, but you should really consider becoming hyper selective in who you share your sexual energy with. It’s a good habit in general to attract high value men and protect your health. You can easily get HPV even with using condoms. The side effects of with are cervical cancer or a lifetime of genital warts. Think about if this guy who clearly doesn’t value you is worth the risk when you know the payoff is never going to come | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/04/19 06:21 PM |
| 2 | Aging, injectables, and critical in-lawsMicro-needling does wonders! The best investment is through a dermatology office, thats where ive gotten mine. Ive seen cheaper offers on groupon but the results with the in office option are beautiful | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/04/19 06:08 PM |
| 2 | How does one get over being “alpha-widowed”?I resent the term alpha-widowed. It puts the guy on a pedestal and compares the woman to a widow as if she’s nothing, its super doom and gloom and really has nothing to do with your future opportunities for love, if you’re committed to healing, strengthening your character and opening your heart. Often this is the dynamic when an insecurely attached person parts with an avoidant, there’s this sense of despair that you’ll never feel that way again bc you’ve been on this chemical roller coaster an… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/04/19 05:23 PM |
| 2 | I'm [27F] at a pivotal point in my life and need to know whether to stay or cut my losses.The fact that you’ve never been consistently on the same page with him is a big red flag. Do you trust someone so wishy washy to be a leader? Health issues aside, have you considered that some of your behavior is subconsciously a test for him, that he’ll be able to provide comfort and affirm commitment, and his failure to pass / your unwillingness to leave has manifested as serious distress? I have health issues as well that have caused me to be less than perfect to be around but my boyfriend ha… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/04/19 05:10 PM |
| 4 | Marrying a younger man (32F & 23M). Advices?Shit I hope i look this youthful at 36! Drop the skincare routine sis! | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/04/19 04:59 PM |
| 2 | Marrying a younger man (32F & 23M). Advices?I dated a younger guy, i was 23 and he was 21. Despite him being mature for his age, independent, knowing he wanted kids, intelligent, and loving... he was still at the end of the dat... a 21 year old guy. once we transitioned from a summer fling to a ldr to something more serious and shit started to get real, it fell apart. He was still in college, still trying to find his path. At one point we had a pregnancy scare and he was prepared to drop everything to take care of us, which is so sweet bu… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/04/19 04:56 PM |
| 2 | What questions do you ask on the first date to vet someone?Have you seen the videos on youtube pairing two couples that ask these questions on a first date? Theyre really sweet! | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/04/19 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Women are not worthless (rambles of my mind)I listened to an episode of this podcast and thought about this post <3 i really recommend her stuff on femininity, she’s rp in a gentle, more spiritual way which I adore | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/04/19 02:28 PM |
| 7 | What questions do you ask on the first date to vet someone?The 36 questions that lead to love is a series of questions devised by psychologists that have proven to create intimacy with strangers and in studies, several of their subjects have gone on to get married. Some of them are kind of heavy but you might get some inspo from them! You’re looking at the basic level someone who knows who they are, are secure, decisive, masculine, and caring. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/04/19 03:24 AM |
| 3 | New Wife TipsDating sites geared to relationships are really useful! Thats how i found mine, we were both extremely picky and vetting hard. You should indicate in your profile that you’re RP... you don’t need to use the word but highlighting your femininity and your beauty without being revealing, crass or cliché (i.e. talking about alcohol tv shows or foods you like in your bio... not a personality) and emphasizing that you’re looking for a dominant chivalrous man will set you apart from the throngs of girl… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/04/19 01:54 PM |
| 1 | Just ignore her for a whileIf you fall in love with someone based just on how they look with some lipstick on, that’s on you. Though I do contend that to fall in love with someone, both people need to be able to be vulnerable. If a woman’s confidence is solely based in whether shes wearing makeup that’s certainly unhealthy. If a man’s confidence is solely rooted in his ability to pose as preoccupied, he’s probably not as alpha as he thinks he is. Like attracts like | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/19 03:03 AM |
| -1 | Just ignore her for a whileIm saying appearances are incomparable to behavior, especially if it’s falsified to feign detachment. As far as makeup, for sure, women definitely have more versatility. Its in their nature to want to beautify themselves and things around them. Though most girls arent doing the youtube wizardry that transforms them into a practically alien race, but im sure if men could do the same in a way that didnt compromise masculinity theyd be all over it | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/19 01:44 AM |
| 5 | Just ignore her for a whileHaha no not the enemy, though it is helpful to be able to navigate the world knowing how the psychology of others works. (I tend to believe the best out of everyone so understanding their intentions and vetting carefully is helpful.) i found this through the women’s red pill subreddit which goes deeper into self improvement and is very blunt but ultimately a really positive force, I followed a lot of advice on there and am now in the best relationship ever! He’s redpilled in the sense that he’s … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/19 01:33 AM |
| 3 | Just ignore her for a whileexactly Its incredibly low smv and painfully obvious for clued in women to see men pulling strings like this | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/19 12:19 AM |
| -2 | Just ignore her for a whileProjecting “distinerest” for your sense of detachment can only take you so far for so long. You’ll perpetually attract anxiously attached women who at some level, won’t respect you. Healthy women won’t chase you or make you chase, they’ll be a rationally balanced dance | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/19 12:02 AM |
| -5 | Just ignore her for a whileSome women go crazy with surgery or makeup and look like utterly different people, but most women don’t look drastically different done up, which can only take you so far anyway before they eventually see them natural. Besides, there are plenty of men who are well dressed, well groomed, grow out beards and spend time at the barber that would look far less attractive if they neglected appearances. In fact it’s more noticeable for men I’d argue, since makeup is the norm for women but men have main… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/19 11:32 PM |
| -21 | Just ignore her for a whileTheres a difference between being actually secure living your own life attracting women through innate magnetism vs anxiously forcing avoidance to manipulate attachments. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/19 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Women are not worthless (rambles of my mind)I’ve seen posts like this before here and heard convos in real life, it’s almost like the first swallow of the red pill before it goes all the way down into deeper levels. You’ve acknowledged women and men are different, with biological imperatives and abilities that are not the same, that’s useful information for you that can shape a healthy relationship later on. But you’ve missed the beautiful part you play in what could be an idealized version of your life Perhaps you haven’t recognized what… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/04/19 11:36 PM |
| 2 | HBO Documentary: The Inventor (Elizabeth Holmes/Theranos)Not the article they were referring to but still surreal | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/19 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Be thoroughly logical about what you want from women and what you're prepared to pay for itHave you studied stoicism / zen? | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/19 01:22 PM |
| 9 | Be thoroughly logical about what you want from women and what you're prepared to pay for itUltimately feminism isn’t even a deterrent if you fix your mindset. If it’s making other men dithering androgynous soy ladden betas, then all the better for you. Would you rather compete in a world where all men were redpilled by default and women’s sexual selection was even higher? That’s one of the reasons everyone got married at 22 in the 50s, women had enough social power to really act as gatekeepers. Feminism blasted down the gate for you, notice how many women, feminists included (even esp… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/19 01:06 PM |
| 5 | How Talulah manipulated Elon Musk (example of how some women will manipulate socially clueless men)if you're with models and actresses who manipulate and disrespect you, wouldnt you rather take the coworker who admires and appreciates you? | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/19 04:23 AM |
| 3 | How Talulah manipulated Elon Musk (example of how some women will manipulate socially clueless men)studies show feminists are attracted to the same thing trad con women are. if she's in touch with her femininity it wouldnt matter what her political beliefs are. thats why shes with him even though it tanks her "brand" | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/19 04:16 AM |
| 1 | [Self-improvement] Recovering from trauma using feminine energyWhats her channel name? I’d love to see her work! | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/04/19 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Article: "A Wife Who 'Surrendered' to Her Husband"Wow... some journey. What lead to that change in you? Is there a sub similar to this one on flr? | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/04/19 01:50 PM |
| 1 | Article: "A Wife Who 'Surrendered' to Her Husband"Really? Im curious what that looks like / what you get out of this sub haha. Are you the leading female or the guy in this instance? | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/04/19 01:45 PM |
| 23 | Article: "A Wife Who 'Surrendered' to Her Husband"The post got removed by the person who posted it, it was about a guy who’s wife was appallingly bad with money and had all these fees racked up on ccs and had been hiding debt from him and he’s at his wits end. I mentioned the book and the concept of passing finances on to the husband to ease financial stresses and minimize arguments... granted this doesnt work for every couple, but it was pretty clear cut in this case. My comment got hidden after being downvoted so badly. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/04/19 01:37 PM |
| 52 | Article: "A Wife Who 'Surrendered' to Her Husband"I made the mistake of posting about this book in another non rp sub.... WOAH baby quick way to get downvoted to hell | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/04/19 01:13 PM |
| 1 | The Power of the Pussy by Kara KingA worthless post but a terrific case study. This philosophy towards men is really pervasive and very dangerous. Wherever shes from is evidently not a huge difference from the US culturally in the flippant attitude towards men as replaceable objects to toy with on loop | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/04/19 12:47 AM |
| 2 | The Power of the Pussy by Kara KingIdk there’s definitely weird pets to have out there. I read on r/relationships or some such bp sub about a girl who’s boyfriend resented her pet mice and the comments eviserated him for it | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/04/19 12:45 AM |
| 2 | Ladies, what are your enneagrams and Myer/Briggs types?Thanks! | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/04/19 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Mixed SignalsIts definitely all good, sounds like you’re super into each other. early stages of dating can be so on edge trying to figure out where hes at! | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/04/19 10:33 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, what are your enneagrams and Myer/Briggs types?Enfp here :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/04/19 08:56 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, what are your enneagrams and Myer/Briggs types?How much was it and how in depth did it go? | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/04/19 08:55 PM |
| 7 | Mixed SignalsSounds like you’re in the same boat, it wouldnt be wrong to double down saying thats where you’re at too, throw in a joke about not being able to control yourself around him and you’re golden. Waiting for sex doesnt mean not to build the tension | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/04/19 08:54 PM |
| 1 | [LONG READ] I [15F] need to glow up for my boyfriend [16M]Dont sweat about being the perfect girlfriend rn, it could so easily spiral into being a miserable dormat chasing after a guy and wondering what tf happened if he leaves. Take care of you above all else, make your happiness independent of his. Look for feminine role models to surround yourself by. I like mrs midwest on youtube, she does amazing vlogs on beauty and relationships but a lot of self work stuff too. You at your best self is immensely attractive to whoever you’re with, whether it’s yo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/04/19 03:09 PM |
| 2 | The Power of the Pussy by Kara KingSounds like the environment you were in exposed you to a side of men most people don’t get to see. A lot of sex workers liken themselves to therapists and in some ways there is an intense emotional element to that work. It’s not uncommon for a woman is that position to become cynical towards men after seeing the ricochet between disrespectful, worshiping, oggodling, adoring, and lecherous. It’s hard to deprogram yourself after that becomes your worldview of men. But a ltr with strong foundations… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/04/19 03:04 PM |
| 2 | The Power of the Pussy by Kara Kingwomen will never actually respect the man she catches this way because she will always know she was better than him and in control the whole time exactly this. instant repellant for guys looking for soft, feminine, receptive women, and sad for her bc she’ll never be secure that he desires her since she was holding the reigns the whole time. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/04/19 02:53 PM |
| 2 | The Power of the Pussy by Kara KingSounds like the perfect recipe to trap a beta. Certain tests are kind of inevitable subconscious behavior in early dating, but a smart guy who’s been with enough women will smell intentional manipulation a mile off. Holding off sex is fine, having high standards is necessary. Letting him step up to the plate, all great. But this is a kind of masculine and unsubtle way to go about it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/04/19 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Seeking friends for support!Hiiiii-ieee. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/04/19 01:19 PM |
| 8 | Is it normal for a 24 male's mom to do everything for him.My cousin married a mexican american man and negociating distance between him and his mother was a huge hurdle early on in their marriage, their closeness is a cultural thing for sure | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/04/19 11:59 AM |
| 3 | Help! I'm so skinny! 😢Check out the r/strongcurves subreddit, theres a lot of info on how they train and what they eat. look through the top posts, mostly skinny chicks who’ve gained a curvy ass while still staying slim. You do want to be careful with your nutrition, I was in the same boat as you and even as desperate enough as to eat junk food to purposefully gain weight when I was younger and didnt know any better. Getting into a fitness program especially incorporating weightlifting would be great for you, it wont… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/03/19 05:30 PM |
| 2 | Since RPW is not today’s norm, we can learn by example, by seeing what NOT to do in relationships. Here’s a thread for that. Post your most “inspirational” articles and stories hereHaha that’s true! Though the bragging posts are still super useful and often so supportive! I love the way the other women here love hearing about each others successes... a lot of the mens RP stuff is more... “stfu f**got” than “congrats sister!” | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/19 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Since RPW is not today’s norm, we can learn by example, by seeing what NOT to do in relationships. Here’s a thread for that. Post your most “inspirational” articles and stories hereThis one breaks my heart. Peaceful parenting is something that goes hand in hand with rp lifestyles, that can be really empowering to research and practice / prepare for. In this case this poor family is locked in a loop of negativity. The wife is at her wits end, but isnt doing her part to help break it | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/19 06:17 PM |
| 3 | Since RPW is not today’s norm, we can learn by example, by seeing what NOT to do in relationships. Here’s a thread for that. Post your most “inspirational” articles and stories hereThanks for bringing it up, it was super needed! <3 and yessss MGTOW is a weird guilty pleasure haha I actually found this sub by finding that and the original mens red pill sub before reddit censored it. Rpw in comparison was so productive, no complaining or whining or bragging or vulgarity.... some of the posts and comments were harsh but in the useful sense to help people grow. It totally changed how I looked at dating and how I was carrying myself, and connecting with who I really was. The mo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/19 06:11 PM |
| 3 | Since RPW is not today’s norm, we can learn by example, by seeing what NOT to do in relationships. Here’s a thread for that. Post your most “inspirational” articles and stories hereBut yeah. Unbelievable the amount of contempt and disrespect people in committed relationships treat their partners with, and are celebrated for it. If someone talked about my SO the way they do to their own in those subs I would be so taken aback and horrified | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/19 06:04 PM |
| 3 | Since RPW is not today’s norm, we can learn by example, by seeing what NOT to do in relationships. Here’s a thread for that. Post your most “inspirational” articles and stories hereI’m of two minds on this, on the one hand I may not have discovered the resources rpw hooked me up with, or met my SO without the internet, but in a larger scale i think you’re absolutely right that our culture is being manipulated and pushed in extreme and unhealthy directions. Try talking calmly about any basic thing discussed here in an open forum and you’re labeled a pariah. Tradcon is equivocal to being a far right nutjob. I’m not conservative, and politically am not far away from socialism… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/19 06:03 PM |
| 4 | Since RPW is not today’s norm, we can learn by example, by seeing what NOT to do in relationships. Here’s a thread for that. Post your most “inspirational” articles and stories hereThanks for addressing this... The way I see the posts I’ve linked are that they’re from anonymous women and men seeking commentary on the internet at large. I have compassion for them, seeing avoidable suffering is really sad especially when their relationships intertwine with children. I’d desperately like to avoid that fate and take their stories as case studies. For me, seeing what not to do in general helps me learn quickly. My intention is not to shame and the language in the comments could… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/19 05:38 PM |
| 4 | Since RPW is not today’s norm, we can learn by example, by seeing what NOT to do in relationships. Here’s a thread for that. Post your most “inspirational” articles and stories hereI think the more I’ve learned about rpw relationships the more chaos and confusion I’ve seen in relationships in the world around me. For me it does help to see what I can avoid, posting it not to mock (I’ve edited a lot of the comments to avoid inflammatory responses) but for me to make a mental note to avoid that path for myself. I’m certainly not perfect and have and can made the same mistakes, though I’m so fortunate to have found the RP world at a young enough age to make a significant diff… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/19 05:26 PM |
| 2 | Since RPW is not today’s norm, we can learn by example, by seeing what NOT to do in relationships. Here’s a thread for that. Post your most “inspirational” articles and stories hereI think a lot of the articles I’ve sifted to have valid reasons for that party to be upset, but its how its handled and communicated that will reflect the strength of the relationship and self discipline to remain patient and gentle with themselves and their SO. Its hard work to do | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/19 05:13 PM |
| 3 | Since RPW is not today’s norm, we can learn by example, by seeing what NOT to do in relationships. Here’s a thread for that. Post your most “inspirational” articles and stories hereThis one is really sad. Beautiful family, SAHM wife, but their relationship is falling apart I’m sure his wife is exhausted, two young children is a lot to handle, but finding ways to keep a lightness in the home and making a little time to express her gratitude and respect for him would save them. It’s really on her to save them from drowning, I hope they find a path forward | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/19 05:09 PM |
| 2 | Since RPW is not today’s norm, we can learn by example, by seeing what NOT to do in relationships. Here’s a thread for that. Post your most “inspirational” articles and stories hereShe treats her husband and children with aggression if she doesnt have sex with her husband, cycle repeats over and over I can relate to that emotion for sure, not feeling wanted brings up so many insecurities. But bitterness and anger comes off as punishing and push men away... it’s hard to do.... but setting aside ego and being inviting and receptive would save this relationship. True feminine strength is vulnerable. There are chapters in the surrendered wife on this kind of receptivity, letti… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/19 05:05 PM |
| 4 | Since RPW is not today’s norm, we can learn by example, by seeing what NOT to do in relationships. Here’s a thread for that. Post your most “inspirational” articles and stories hereAvoid the cycle of misery by looking for validation and perfection in men. A good guy doesnt want or need a perfect wife that says and does and looks exactly just so ALL the time, we need to balance our expectation of what we need (stability, kindness, love, etc.) with the knowledge that he’ll fuck up sometimes and say the wrong things. in this case , this guy is the “perfect” feminist ally for years, and calls his girlfriend bitchy. We dont know what made him say that, he could have been totall… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/19 05:00 PM |
| 10 | Since RPW is not today’s norm, we can learn by example, by seeing what NOT to do in relationships. Here’s a thread for that. Post your most “inspirational” articles and stories hereIt’s actually really sad that so many of these social movements actually totally leave women in the dust. (I.e. feminism perpetuating a masculine style of aggression as being empowered, trans / genderqueer activism as denying our biology, at our expense etc. you’re right that it makes people miserable, and trapped in a cycle.) I feel like our brand of supporting women is actually truly what feminism is, or should be. Embracing our natural biological essence, uplifting femininity to make us as wo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/19 04:54 PM |
| 4 | Since RPW is not today’s norm, we can learn by example, by seeing what NOT to do in relationships. Here’s a thread for that. Post your most “inspirational” articles and stories hereWithout gentleness and receptivity how do you except your SO to want to come to you? If this is a pattern of hers it won’t be long until she’s posting back in the same sub about his low libido and emotional distance... yells at her SO being playful, everyone in the comments supports it | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/19 04:50 PM |
| 5 | Since RPW is not today’s norm, we can learn by example, by seeing what NOT to do in relationships. Here’s a thread for that. Post your most “inspirational” articles and stories hereI couldn’t imagine talking to or about my SO like this ever. The levels of aggression in modern woman is so harsh... whenever I’ve felt this angry I feel literally ill afterwards, and once it becomes a pattern it literally creates illness in our bodies minds and spirits and poisons our relationships. What do you think? Is it environmental factors, something in the air and water causing this mass hormonal change? The Political / social climate? The general betafication of men forcing women into a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/19 04:47 PM |
| 8 | Since RPW is not today’s norm, we can learn by example, by seeing what NOT to do in relationships. Here’s a thread for that. Post your most “inspirational” articles and stories hereThis whole subreddit ( r/justnoso ) is a very dark echo chamber. People creating misery for themselves, both men and women, and other people applauding them onward. It’s like seeing pro-anorexia or pro-drug addiction blogs, how sad it is to support someone else’s demise. In these cases a lot of the relationships seem beyond repair, though their problems are ones I’m sure we’ve all faced... (didnt like how we were spoken to, felt unappreciated, not listened to, etc.) but rather than imploding on … | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/19 04:44 PM |
| 8 | Since RPW is not today’s norm, we can learn by example, by seeing what NOT to do in relationships. Here’s a thread for that. Post your most “inspirational” articles and stories hereThis one reminds me of the levels of depression in our society, how they can encroach on us and appear in subtle ways. It’s something I’ve struggled with, and has an effect on how we treat our inner selves AS WELL AS outer appearance. Tending to our inner beauty, kindness softness and lightness is the most important mission, but neglecting to nurture our outer selves is so important too. And it helps keep that inner world in balance! hoping she finds a way to get back into self care | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/19 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Fitness RoutinesCheck your blood type and re evaluate your diet. I was vegan for 8ish years and I was told by a few doctors (one put it as bluntly as calling me “skinny fat”) that I would never be healthy. Meat still grosses me out but using bone broth and fish to replace the mountains of carbs I was otherwise eating as a vegetarian probably saved my body. I’ve went from 140 to 125 with no huge effort in changing other habits. Yoga helps clean your organs and blood, which is also a huge component of how I’ve be… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/19 04:11 AM |
| 27 | [help] I know I need to be more feminine- but there's something in my waySubmissive is a very loaded word, associated with being a doormat or sexually degraded. It’s so much more nuanced, and takes a lot of vulnerability to be able to trust another person and support their leadership. It’s a hell of a lot scarier to take that leap of faith than it is to be totally “in control” (which is an illusion anyway.) but of the two risks, the risk of getting hurt or the risk of living a life without fully surrounding to love and missing out on such an incredible adventure... w… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/19 01:01 AM |
| 2 | "That's not fair"Would she be open to listening to the audiobook of the surrendered wife? Its a super quick listen, since shes an academic having literature to bounce off of may be really useful | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/03/19 12:42 PM |
| 2 | [Nsfw] having a serious talk about sex without criticizing?I can be slow, absolutely. But he knows what does get me off quick, if I’m warmed up, which lately hasn’t been happening... theres always the toy which works suuuper quick. It’s less about getting an orgasm on demand as much as its trying to inspire him to care about my pleasure and work as hard as I do for him. I’m not bashing him at all, in fact the comments that have said I must not like him that much or insinuated that he’s not the right guy, selfish, etc. reallyyy really annoy me. (I know t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/03/19 11:37 AM |
| 1 | [Nsfw] having a serious talk about sex without criticizing?I definitely masturbate during, but without foreplay beforehand mentally and physically its almost impossible even if the sex lasts an hour. I’m very submissive, when he takes the time to be attentive I can get there. Asking him to go down on me mentally would defeat the purpose for me, knowing he’s doing it because I ask and not because he’s inspired... its rare for me to cum that way anyway. It’s more me being worried about him not caring as much about my happiness as I do to him than it is ab… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/03/19 11:27 AM |
| 1 | [Nsfw] having a serious talk about sex without criticizing?I get in my head a lot during oral unfortunately. Whenever he is attentive and I don’t cum I feel like a failure / not orgasmic / guilty... I put pressure on it =| The toy is this clit sucking thing that you can wear during sex, its amazing. Takes a few minutes at most. (He can last forever usually so time isnt an issue) | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/03/19 11:21 AM |
| 3 | [Nsfw] having a serious talk about sex without criticizing?I have a millions questions. Did you get her into it or vise versa? And how? How do I start? Would you be able to PM me or make a post about this? | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/03/19 12:40 AM |
| 3 | [Nsfw] having a serious talk about sex without criticizing?Thisssss! 100% Yes. I’m a yoga teacher and that has always been something I’ve wanted with a partner, he’s brought it up to me too but hasn’t shown patience or follow through. I’ve studied it on my own and tried to initiate that kind of touch but he won’t let me massage / tease him too much, he prefers to be the one doing the touching. What have your experiences with tantra been? | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/03/19 12:16 AM |
| 3 | [Nsfw] having a serious talk about sex without criticizing?He handles it really well and says we’ll keep working to find out how to make me cum more. My ex used to freak out and get upset if I didn’t finish and put so much pressure on me I stopped being able to basically. He doesnt seem to take it personally, but nothings changed | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/03/19 11:52 PM |
| 1 | [Nsfw] having a serious talk about sex without criticizing?It was in bed the morning after, I blurted it out feeling exasperated and emotional. Before that it was saying I miss how much he used to touch me beforehand and its something I need, and it hurts to ask for. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/03/19 11:48 PM |
| 2 | [Nsfw] having a serious talk about sex without criticizing?Rpw would NOT be letting you slide haha | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/03/19 11:32 PM |
| 5 | [Nsfw] having a serious talk about sex without criticizing?A big problem for me is when to have that conversation. I often want to afterwards but if I felt criticized after sex i’d shut down immediately and don’t want to do that to him. I’m afraid of killing the romance by having a talk before we sleep together, and killing his confidence by talking afterwards. It breaks my heart to tell him im not satisfied, even more than it breaks my heart wondering if he’s stopped caring about making me feel good | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/03/19 11:31 PM |
| 2 | [Nsfw] having a serious talk about sex without criticizing?I can’t believe he said that =| imagine if you said his pleasure was only for special occasions.... | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/03/19 11:23 PM |
| 2 | [Nsfw] having a serious talk about sex without criticizing?I had an outburst the other night where I said I felt terrible, feeling so selfish that I want to orgasm more and we haven’t been doing what I need to get there and since then it hasn’t changed =| I regret how emotional I was in the moment and am wondering if theres a more gentle feminine way to allure him into caring more about my pleasure. I feel that sadness, I feel like if I let it show it’ll tank the love life we do have, so its all this pressure on me not to seem disappointed or frustrated… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/03/19 11:21 PM |
| 2 | [Nsfw] having a serious talk about sex without criticizing?The shitty part of me wants to just stop and see if he notices or tries more on his end. I feel like it’s manipulative and corrosive to even think like that, I love pleasing him. But I’m spending ages pouring my heart into some just-got-engaged-level blowjobs and left deflated more and more. Is there a red pill hack to get your bf to give more of a shit without having to spell it out or trick him or tear him down? I just want us to both be trying =| | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/03/19 11:04 PM |
| 3 | How has RPW changed your appearance?I need them short for my job, I play guitar too :) short nails, gel manicure, lasts three weeks, looks great | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/19 02:06 PM |
| 2 | Is there a strategy for disclosing/not disclosing a wild sexual past?Yes that’s true, but a lot of vetting on men’s end is done through implied cues rather than an outright conversation. If you’re thotting on instagram, getting drunk / partying, speaking vulgarly, trashing men in general, trashing women in general, dress in in appropriately provocative ways, depending on how you cary it, have crazy tattoos piercings and hair (it can be tasteful but is a very tricky balance) if you act like sex is nbd, demonstrate that you let people use you and don’t care, and if… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/03/19 06:58 PM |
| 2 | I think things might end with my boyfriend and I'm terrified of not finding someone else [31F] [33M]Sounds like you’ve got it made. Successful woman who takes care of herself, maternal with the type of job to support that vs outsource everything to daycare, no biological rush, feminine, healthy.... most of all it sounds like you know exactly what you’re looking for. You havent mentioned anything you find fulfilling in the long term with your current bf... just that itd be a bummer if you couldn’t find anyone else. You’d be surprised how rare a good woman is these days. Get on relationship- gea… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/03/19 07:23 PM |
| 1 | DealbreakersDo you mean circumcision as well when you say genital mutilation? | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/03/19 07:15 PM |
| 2 | DealbreakersI’m actually glad my bf had this as part of his past, his ex was bi and wanted them all the time and after a while it completely reinforced his ideas on monogamy, they caused so many problems and awkward situations and he stated he never wants one again. Glad theyre out of his system | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/03/19 07:14 PM |
| 4 | Is there a strategy for disclosing/not disclosing a wild sexual past?I disagree with the commenters that you have to be immediately shoving you number down his throat day 1. If it’s relevant to your sexual health or fertility or anything else lingering that could affect him then absolutely that needs to be communicated upfront. Guys dont want to hear about the past men you’ve slept with, be it 3 or 30. I don’t think a past like yours means slim pickings, as long as you’re emotionally / sexually stable. Purge whatever you can from the internet and move on | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/03/19 07:11 PM |
| 3 | Does becoming more feminine attract men?You’re super stylish and cute! Men are typically simpler than us in how they dress and even their tastes in women. But I agree with the commenters saying don’t throw out your whole look. That said, there’s no man on earth who doesn’t like how girls look in sundresses. One of the fun things of being a woman is playing around with clothes, letting them express different parts of yourself. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/03/19 02:17 PM |
| 2 | Having trust issuesIt’s really hard to break the example our parents set for us. My dad never cheated on my mom, was a very loving husband and father. No boyfriend of mine has ever cheated on me or abused me, but I have noticed some of the guys I’ve dated have some of my dad’s other (lesser) bad habits. Continue to be conscious and make choices that propel you forward. If you believe you deserve it, you’ll be able to receive it in your relationship | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/03/19 07:42 PM |
| 1 | How to support him knowing he has ED and DGS.While not wanting to nag is a great instinct, it only works on a partner who’s trying their hardest to overcome their setbacks. Can you say confidently that hes trying with concrete steps to improving? Would you invest your time with any other kind of addict, and hope from the sidelines it’ll go away? This one is espeically insidious because it directly will tear apart the intimacy in your relationship, maybe even your own self confidence. You deserve someone who will fight as hard as you will t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/03/19 03:20 PM |
| 3 | X-post: My boyfriend wants to sleep around before committing for lifeHe wants to sleep around for a couple years and then get back to you whenever’s convenient for his timeline.... Most likely you’ll both be different people by then, and whats to stop him from falling in love with someone else? Your loyalty and flexibility is very sweet, but to a man it would read as someone who didn’t respect themselves. Your n count isnt your worth... you sound like a loving supportive person. Save that energy for someone who the timing is right for. trust me .... long distance… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/02/19 03:46 PM |
| 2 | how did you meet your guy?Sure :) I used OKC. There’s a lottt of questionnaires on there, a lot of which I answered but made the answers private so we could only see how in common we were generally but not specifics. Like under sexual compatibility it’d say “89%” but wouldnt give away details that are more intimate. •Avoid coming off sarcastic or that “cool” lazy alcoholic tomboy thing girls do on tinder to summarize their personalities down to “.....burritos, beer, and game of thrones.” Or something like that. If you wa… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/02/19 07:42 PM |
| 7 | how did you meet your guy?I wouldn’t have met him without this sub amazingly :) On the suggestion of people here I tried a dating app more geared towards relationships... my profile was lighthearted and I answered a lot of the bio questions with jokes... but under what are you looking for I wrote a longer description about someone dominant, old fashioned, chivalrous, etc. It actually felt difficult for me to write that and have it out there, rather than the comfort zone of vaguely swiping to pad my ego on tinder but almo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/02/19 02:53 PM |
| 5 | Favorite lingerie stores / sites?Damn maybe I’m trashier than I thought, i like some of this stuff a lottttt | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/02/19 01:37 AM |
| 3 | A few ways to enhance your looks & femininityWhy the hair tie? | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/02/19 01:14 AM |
| 10 | Just curious about the first time you and your captain said “I love you.” Who said it first?Even before RP I’d always waited for guys to say it first. I didn’t mean to, but a month in after feeling it emanating from him so much, I let it slip mid-laugh after he made me crack up. Something like “oh my god this is why I love you.” It wasn’t planned but I meant it, he beamed and said “what?” And before I repeated it, he said it back to me. It was authentic and perfect | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/01/19 10:39 PM |
| 8 | Not interested in sex?I think it’s fair to bluntly talk about porn. For me, your situation would be a deal breaker. Every day he is being intimate with a machine, or a picture, or a fantasy, instead of you. That is an absurd, unhealthy addiction with no promise of ever getting better. Can you live every day like this? Could you start a family and get married if this didn’t change? Most likely the answer is of course not. But trying to change an issue of this caliber is almost insurmountable. If you want to go for it,… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/01/19 08:47 PM |
| 11 | It surprises me how bluepill everyone in my life is.That’s so cool, congrats :) I wonder how many women on here got in relationships / married directly because of this sub!? | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/01/19 03:17 PM |
| 36 | It surprises me how bluepill everyone in my life is.Came here to gawk and cringe read. Went deeper and deeper into the posts. Picked up some of the recommended books. Met a guy I never would have if I hadn’t followed the advice given. Used the advice to help strengthen the relationship. I’m the happiest I’ve ever been, marriage and kids are super on the table, and we’re crazy in love. Guess redpill is rreaaaallly bad for women huh ¯_(ツ)_/¯ | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/01/19 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Should I be paying or standing my ground?For a birthday gift?! He absolutely should in my mind, unless there was some extenuating circumstances they were able to work out | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/01/19 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Should I be paying or standing my ground?Thats good, but maybe even take out what your budget is. A gift is a gift. Anything he’s asking you to pay takes away from the generosity that the gesture is supposed to be. It’s not about being material, its a huge part of love languages, if he doesnt truly give generously you’re unable to receive, and are cut off from that exchange of love. So don’t feel bad about expressing your expectations here | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/01/19 09:00 PM |
| 4 | How to talk to my captain about this issue? I need advice.You make seemingly innumerable excuses for a man who is treating you poorly. Objectively, regardless of the positive qualities you see in him, his treatment of you is terrible. Could you imagine having a baby with this man? Growing old with him? Having to bend over backwards to explain the changes to your body, apologizing or trying to accommodate all of them? You will become either sick of doing that, or become sick FROM doing that. Listen to your strong negative emotions here. They’re not impe… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/01/19 04:40 PM |
| 14 | Being ghosted after more than a year and strugglingThere’s a difference between someone needing space or a little break, versus outright neglect and indifference. Trying to inspire an indifferent man, one cold enough to ignore you for weeks and outright enough to tell you you’re not in a relationship is like begging your cat to turn into a dog. Doing the difficult work of letting go will make space for something better, something real, where you are respected, communicated with, and treasured. You don’t have that now, so any loss you’ve suffered… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/01/19 04:12 PM |
| 2 | How could I have done this differently?Interesting that you rationalize your “go to the doctor” response as as trying to help her problem. That’s not relevant, the laundry was her problem and you in that moment became like an insolent child throwing a tantrum. Blaming her for standing in the morning is further proof of your misunderstanding. Ricocheting from nice guy to someone coming off as lazy, whiny, and weak won’t win you favors. Pregnancy is the height of a woman’s femininity, a strong capable man that won’t break down emotiona… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/01/19 10:47 PM |
| 6 | How to develop SMV and make my ex regret to leave me?The thing that will drive him truly crazy is ironically you, reaching the point where your happiness is beyond wanting him to regret leaving you. In other words, being secure in yourself, getting your house in order, bettering your life and lives around you. When that is your true focus and your only thought towards him is “good luck / wish you the best etc.” you are well on your way to both achieving intrinsic happiness as well as attracting high RV guys. Some little ways to do this: Stop posti… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/01/19 01:31 AM |
| 4 | I think my boyfriends son is a bit too comfortable with meKids are looking for boundaries... even / especially as teenagers because it makes them feel safe. You have the advantage of being someone he trusts but isn’t too close in the way a direct parent might be to be able to offer him that. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/12/18 07:42 PM |
| 2 | Cat callingIt depends where you live. It was hardly ever a problem where I grew up in suburbia and in college at a big school in Massachusetts I’d get hit on but no one yelled at me or made me feel unsafe. BUT when I moved to a neighborhood in NYC synonymous with getting shot it was rampant. Daily. Sometimes super aggressive, sometimes they’d follow me. It happened in foreign countries as well, sometimes harmless old men sitting on the stoops, but young guys in groups especially at night were SCARY. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/12/18 03:21 AM |
| 4 | The Wrong Way: Don't Be This GuyIt could just as easily be WGTOW the way hes speaking to her. Frankly they’re both gross | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/12/18 02:16 PM |
| 8 | The Wrong Way: Don't Be This GuyThe kid next to her in the crib on a phone or tablet.... wow this shit is bleak. That people really live like that | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/12/18 04:03 AM |
| 3 | Im at the end of my ropeRe-read what you wrote and pretend your sister/mom/best friend /daughter/stranger you met on a bus wrote it. You’d almost definitely say that you both sound miserable and are toxic together. Hes not RP, it aint the one | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/12/18 04:54 AM |
| 2 | Yes I'm the 'Other Woman' and I hate itIf you were brave enough to put yourself out there and be vulnerable with this man you’re certainly strong enough to admit to yourself that you deserve someone who loves you fully and act on that. This path has no comfort, no security, no children or future that isnt clouded in shame and secrecy and deceit. Choose happiness for yourself and for your future family. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/12/18 05:02 AM |
| 9 | The Man Who Won't WorkThat last line is so tragic.. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/12/18 04:54 AM |
| 2 | My Mother wants me to be a Sugar BabyWithin the arts there are degrees that could make you money, UX, graphic design, game / media design or education fields related to fine arts | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/12/18 03:28 PM |
| 16 | Wondering what all your thoughts were on Georgia Free’s ‘how to redpill a women (gently)’ video?She’s certainly spot on about the devaluing of women’s roles, which could be argued creates a need for feminism when perpetuated on a large scale... (think the devaluing of women in traditional islamist countries) Our societies response was the diminishing of those roles altogether (coupled with economic pressures in the 70s / 80s that resulted in a boom of households with 2 working parents) but with that, the gradual erasure of celebrated femininity. If it wasn’t something to be commodified or … | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/12/18 03:10 PM |
| 44 | Feel like I've missed out on so muchThe short answer is yes. It is absolutely possible for you to be happy and comfortable and to build a beautiful life. My mom had a difficult, dark childhood and never felt pretty, was called homely by her parents etc... but she was married to my father, an amazingly funny, handsome, and caring man by her mid 20s and have been happy together ever since. It’s probably hard for you to realize just how much you’ve overcome, because you’re still striving for more, and I’m sure there are some days tha… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/12/18 01:02 AM |
| 3 | Movie recommendations??Howl’s Moving Castle- (dubbed version) even if you’re not into anime at all... the animation is gorgeous and the lead character is kind of a steam punk RPW in her own right. It’s a beautiful story To All The Boys I’ve Loved Before- guilty pleasure netflix rom com... a great guide in some ways for young RPW Midnight In Paris- not quite a love story, some of the characters will give you more of a “what NOT to do” vibe, but its so sweet and entertaining in so many other ways... it’s a good movie to… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/12/18 08:46 PM |
| 5 | Am I Overreacting?If this guy is close to you in age its unfortunately common that his maturity level is just not where yours is yet. Don’t wait it out in resentment, I’d part ways and spend as much time working on your own RMV as possible, and in future dating making thoughtfulness and maturity absolute top priorities | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/12/18 08:40 PM |
| 6 | How to get fit?Deep dive into yoga + meditation can help on so many levels, anything that takes your body out of that fight or flight mode is great for your hormonal balance. Talk to your endocrinologist about spironolactone or other medication that may be useful. Also acupuncture can be really helpful | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/11/18 12:45 PM |
| 10 | RPW-friendly Netflix suggestions? 😋To All The Boys Ive Loved Before was great, it’d be reaaaallly useful to younger RPWs, but her innocence as well as supportiveness towards the love interest tells a sweet little RP love story | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/11/18 04:55 AM |
| 7 | New to RPWIf this were your circumstances forever you’d become dissatisfied and leave. If the future of your relationship is dependent on him changing in some pretty fundamental ways then it’s very unlikely that it’ll shake out just how you want to. The upside is that you know more clearly what you want and what you need, have the drive to make it happen, and the resources to reach out to. Another commentator said RPW are few and far between and they’re right. The more you immerse in it the more you’ll st… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/11/18 04:49 PM |
| 3 | New to RPWThe surrendered single might be a good place for you to start :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/11/18 04:46 PM |
| 6 | Comparing myself with my BF's exes (long post, need perspective)No doubt that managing emotions in this situation is tricky and its hard to know whats real or projected. But tbh you sound like a person who wouldnt become insecure for no reason, especially around someone whos otherwise actively pursued you and has advanced the relationship to moving in with you. (Though have you talked about this leading to marriage/ kids? If thats something you both want?) I think he’s comfortable with you and emotionally stunted, doesnt sound at all ready to prioritize you … | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/11/18 05:43 AM |
| 1 | Shit testing vs. being sweet and receptive?Are you looking for someone who’s interests in that sense align? Or someone who would feel neutral / attracted to that about you? I like the differences between me and my guy that i didnt feel as much in previous relationships. The greatest attractions happen when the male and female spectrums are furthest apart, hence RP strategy haha. But values aligning is so crucial, and certain interests are important to be able to both appreciate if not both share. We’re both spiritual and creative and hav… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/11/18 04:40 AM |
| 1 | Shit testing vs. being sweet and receptive?I would say the quizzes are less important than the bio, and certainly less important than pictures, though I think seeing your compatibility in terms of dating expectations is useful on your end for vetting. On OKC specifically you have the option to hide answers to questions, which I did for nearly every question I answered about sex. I dont need a guy to know what I’m into and open to, it ruins the surprise of discovery and the effort it takes to get there. But seeing a 80% compatibility in t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/11/18 03:42 AM |
| 2 | Did you guys do anything for your Captain for International Men's day?Could you give me more info about this? Im guessing its not a groupon haha. Is this a standard thing a racetrack would offer or did you have to contact someone special? | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/11/18 01:53 AM |
| 2 | Do you know where you are at SMV scale?I remember those pictures, I think I saw them on the front page! Very cool theme... also you’re objectively for sure not a 7.5. You’re gorgeous and interesting to look at, and your husband looks pretty in awe to me | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/11/18 01:29 AM |
| 3 | Shit testing vs. being sweet and receptive?Yes! You’re young and fit and have a lot of goals set for yourself, your high standards will attract HV guys naturally. A lot of girl’s profiles are saturated in cliches... (I.E listing all the foods they like, the TV shows they’re binging, bragging about drinking, innuendo, vaguely alluding to “adventures” w/out interesting hobbies to back it up... )I had 1,000+ likes on OKC in my smallish town and almost always got right swiped when I was on tinder and VERY rarely did a guy say something gross… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/11/18 01:17 PM |
| 10 | Shit testing vs. being sweet and receptive?I think it’s possible you’re overthinking strategy a bit. Part of being receptive is surrendering control, which granted, is scary and puts you in a vulnerable position which men are wired to respond to. I’m certainly not saying don’t vet or have standards... But being that you’re inexperienced (which isn’t a bad thing per say) it can be nerve racking to start talking to guys and put yourself out there. Have you tried online dating? OkCupid Match and Bumble / some of the ones more geared to rela… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/11/18 06:43 PM |
| 20 | What NOT to do: A threadOne of the most poignant comments... a guy who was agreeing enthusiastically with his girlfriends idea to visit her for Christmas rather than surprise her landed him in a fight.... He said “she’s turning into everyone else in my life jumping down my throat at every little perceived mistake. She used to be my solace from that.” These women clearly arent happy. The men in that thread certainly arent. Yeesh. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/11/18 12:32 AM |
| 3 | Split between his house and parents home, I'm feeling lost, tired, and no secure baseIt sounds like you want him to want you, but your current arrangement is just set up to appease you rather than out of his deep desire. If you asked yourself, “does X want me to move in with him?” What would your honest answer be? If its yes let him do the footwork to make it happen. If its No, or unsure, then maybe some perspective changes on your part are needed. It sounds like this guy trusts you and is very willing to make you happy and make compromises, but through your eagerness and perhap… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/11/18 01:44 PM |
| 3 | Help I'm a mess after being cheated onBeing cheated on is a real violation and has left you emotionally injured, you’re still in the healing process. It takes a great deal of bravery to be vulnerable enough to go for a relationship again, and it sounds like forcing yourself into a causal mindset is just a way to maintain the illusion of control over your feelings and security, if he left it hypothetically wouldnt “matter” even though you’d still be hurt. Self care is your friend, girlfriends are your friend, and deciding how to proc… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/11/18 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Unsure how/whether to proceed with a manI feel like the key here is the sexual misconnection. He hasnt hooked you in the bedroom yet and receiving his compliments and affection don’t come naturally as a result. I’d give it a chance, as you said you’re well matched and had an initial spark | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/11/18 05:14 PM |
| – | Self CareIm from the east coast of the US, I do have medical issues but its covered regardless, Im under my parents government insurance until I turn 26 (this summer eeeek) I recommend checking out zocdoc, its a database with all the doctors therapists acupuncturists etc your insurance provides.... theres also community / sliding scale stuff in most major cities! | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/10/18 05:04 PM |
| 2 | Field Report: First date after discovering RPWI think in a broader sense love is each person seeing the other as a treasure and taking care to treat them as such. If either was on a pedestal there would be a significant imbalance. Women (RP anyway) dont even want to be put in that position. But in dating, at least the old fashioned sense, there was an element of being chased that appeals to RP women for pretty basic biological reasons..... TRP are essentially PUA trying to spin plates, RPW doesnt necessarily want those guys, but the ones wh… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/10/18 12:31 PM |
| 0 | What happens when you date up/downI think (assuming you’re a woman) that with a receptive mindset vetting the offers that come your way with the intent of a LTR things will naturally fall into place on that scale. The guys you aren’t attracted to will fail the vetting process and the one you are / fear are too attractive will have to jump through the hoops of initiating and following through and meeting your expectations of something more serious than a casual fling. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/10/18 02:44 PM |
| 3 | What happens when you date up/downA lot of SMV is carried through how you present. Self care, sweetness, confidence, and a frequent, sincere smile / laugh projects a lot of inner beauty that shifts the interest in a guys mind to that of a LTR. Rather than hyperfocus on your / his numerical value look for the guy who’s confident and knows his worth but isn’t shy about making his attraction to you known to make you feel beautiful. It won’t matter whether you’re totally aligned as long as both of your self esteems are independently… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/10/18 02:36 PM |
| 4 | Losing interest after sex?Sometimes that element of being vulnerable makes me want to take a break from someone or avoid them altogether afterwards, especially if you didn’t come you might be feeling evasive or awkward. I’d ride it out, maybe draw sex out a little bit more if there’s a next time. Teasing, more touching, stoping and starting, talking about what gets you going etc | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/10/18 02:22 PM |
| 5 | Field Report: First date after discovering RPWOn a first date as much as its tempting to fill the convo gaps and be interesting / entertaining... DONT. Super guilty of this as well, one of my points of pride is being able to turn on being witty + charming, but easing off helps you access your intuition and feel out whether YOU like HIM in the first place, and shift the responsibility to him to show you a nice time. You’re the prize! You dolled your self up, meditated, put in lots of effort and sound like a catch compared to the average coll… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/10/18 02:17 PM |
| – | Self CareWeekly acupuncture (covered by insurance thankfully, has been a lifesaver. Has knocked out common colds, bouts of anxiety + depression, and helps regulate my hormones and temper autoimmune symptoms. Highhhhly recommend!) Yoga is huge. A strong vinyasa as well as gentle practice is a wonderful balance to reap all the brain + body benefits as well as deepen your connection to your spirit. I like to buy myself flowers! Making music Occasional + skincare splurges | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/10/18 06:42 PM |
| 2 | Grey area consent issue in the RP worldI think this was the best articulated comment so far, Thank you for your thoughtful reflections and honesty <3 | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/10/18 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Grey area consent issue in the RP worldAnother RPW I’ve been getting advice, who had advised me to wait told me she slept in the same bed as her SO without having sex when they were still dating and it stuck in my head, as well as him saying he wouldnt try and I let my guard down so to speak. I was sending unfocused signals and have to really figure out how to clarify and follow through. A part of me feels like itd be easier to just keep sleeping with him until enough comfort barriers are broken and charm him into an LTR. But i know … | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/10/18 04:50 AM |
| 0 | Grey area consent issue in the RP worldI’d actually be so sad if i lost rpw coming from the feminist dating world shitshow. Not that dating has been any easier for me after discovering it clearly | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/10/18 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Grey area consent issue in the RP worldI promise I’m not a troll. I do tend to lead with my emotions before logic, which so often isn’t clearcut. On both threads the takeaways are divided, some people said give him a chance then, and are saying give him a chance now. And our connection and attraction is really strong. I feel like a loser for being like.. the RPW fuckup everyone is going “oh honey no....” to when they read. We have a blast together and are on the same page in a lot of deeper ways. The red flags are there surely. Its t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/10/18 10:52 PM |
| 3 | Grey area consent issue in the RP worldI do have that problem. Its like some terrible ingrained politeness or social anxiety especially trying not to ruin the mood with someone I like. I was actually proud of myself for speaking up and saying no 3 times, saying that I wanted to move slower. I feel dumb now. A lot of comments here say the exact opposite thing, “you should have expected this communicate better with him” vs “red flag abort abort remember this as a lesson for the future” so ultimately it’s up to me to follow through on m… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/10/18 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Grey area consent issue in the RP worldThank you for clarifying.... i ideally want the default to be sex whenever unless said otherwise, and ideally he would initiate mostly (i’m really not opposed to doing so or playing with dynamics, but the home base being that hes dominant would be ideal if not a requirement for me.) So like if this was after our relationship had been cemented there would have been zero problems. The other thing was that he was pretty rough, once the sex had started I participated back but I was literally begging… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/10/18 08:43 PM |
| 2 | Grey area consent issue in the RP worldGet what you’re saying. Im not asking to be reassured hence why I’m here and not on a feminist relationships sub, I just want to know how to communicate with him without blaming him making him feel like a rapist or discouraging him in the future. I’m sad the first time wasn’t special or enthusiastic and i think we both fucked up. But im not diminishing my responsibility. I want to slow it down without bait and switching and still be honest with him. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/10/18 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Grey area consent issue in the RP worldI wasnt going to for that reason, and he insisted he wasnt going to try, i was almost exhausted to stand much less drive and hes comfy and warm and attractive | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/10/18 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Grey area consent issue in the RP worldI also dont feel like I was raped or anything. It sucks I tried to set a boundary and it caved, i feel like I failed a TRP shit test | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/10/18 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Grey area consent issue in the RP worldLiterally there was a pause and he stopped and i was on my stomach and then I felt him outside me and I didnt do anything because I felt like I should have stopped it before and was conflicted (physically like turned on but also tired but also not there emotionally, just kinda froze) But once it was in I let it happen, I wasnt like a dead fish but I was in pain and confused after | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/10/18 07:25 PM |
| 2 | Grey area consent issue in the RP worldI was saying “slow” and “gentle” and after he said he didn’t realize I meant it because I guess he gauged that I was submissive and the lines were blurry | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/10/18 06:13 PM |
| 2 | Grey area consent issue in the RP worldShould I do it right away, would that spoil a date? Or call him? | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/10/18 06:10 PM |
| 4 | Grey area consent issue in the RP worldIts not totally off, thats why i want to communicate with him how i feel without blaming | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/10/18 04:03 PM |
| 23 | Grey area consent issue in the RP world10000% nailed the analysis. Thank you for the insight | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/10/18 02:45 PM |
| 6 | Grey area consent issue in the RP worldBut thank you for the insight and honesty, I appreciate the advice :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/10/18 02:41 PM |
| 16 | Grey area consent issue in the RP worldI said that i dont believe im the victim and that I should have spoken up more, i am posting here because other sub reddits would try to put me in that position and villify him, Im just hoping to get clarity of how to talk to him and approach sex in the future | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/10/18 02:40 PM |
| 3 | Grey area consent issue in the RP worldI said I wasn’t and had resisted every other advance, I was dead tired and I wouldnt have slept over until he said he just wanted to hold me and wouldnt try to have sex, but i appreciate that its a grey area and not always clear for the guy initiating | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/10/18 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Grey area consent issue in the RP worldMove on break up, or move on like move on emotionally and continue? | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/10/18 02:37 PM |
| 10 | Grey area consent issue in the RP worldHe was just touching me, nothing that isn’t commonplace in cuddling, and started fingering me and I froze a bit because I still wasn’t in the mindest to have sex and at that point I should have deescalated verbally, then there was a pause and I thought he stopped but then he was inside me and I felt like it had gone too far for me to stop. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/10/18 02:37 PM |
| 2 | Grey area consent issue in the RP worldIs there a way to discuss this / salvage this with him do you think? | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/10/18 02:32 PM |
| 3 | FAQ: Should we move in togetherGod that is BLEAK. To be fair my mom pushed for a ring around the one yearish mark and got it, and lived happily ever after with my dad... | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/10/18 02:22 AM |
| 1 | Let’s talk about dieting and weight loss!A rigorous vinyasa yoga practice is not only good for weight loss, it’s good for digestion and nutrient absorption. It can be really clarifying mentally and compliments weightlifting a lot, look into some nearby studios! | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/10/18 03:03 PM |
| 2 | What red pill things did your mother do for your father?Definetly not a RP household but their values were similarly old fashioned, and they worked well together as parents. My mom was able to stay home with us for a few years growing up, and when we were babies did all the feedings and nursing and changing in the middle of the night so my dad would be well rested for work. She was the nurse and cook and the more active cleaner... she gardens but my dad would do the lawn and gutters and any grunt work like that. They both work still but their roles h… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/10/18 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Feel hesitant after a date with an RP guy, am I just having trouble swallowing the pill or am I just not used to these types of guys and need to get on board?What would an rp date look like? | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/10/18 12:47 PM |
| 1 | Feel hesitant after a date with an RP guy, am I just having trouble swallowing the pill or am I just not used to these types of guys and need to get on board?I need a lot of help in that. I don’t know how to reject people graciously, it’s so tempting to ghost in this day and age but its immature and unkind | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/10/18 02:00 AM |
| 17 | Feel hesitant after a date with an RP guy, am I just having trouble swallowing the pill or am I just not used to these types of guys and need to get on board?I had that thought, i pictured him at a family barbecue and how embarrassed I’d be if he were speaking to my family the way he was speaking to me | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/10/18 07:58 PM |
| 2 | I don't want a trad-con manI did get political, which was a mistake. I had no intention to but a few people said things that were just... wrong , like “diversity is why hate crimes happen” / “we never needed feminism ever bc women asked politely for the right to vote and the country gave it to them” (using the word feminism on my part got me in hot water, I just mean empathy and awareness for both women and men when I say that really) I fell for the bait! You’re right though that many commenters were supportive (I’m new t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/09/18 09:42 PM |
| 2 | I don't want a trad-con manThere is, certainly. I definitely used hyperbole, I didn’t mean to offend you. I do think this sub could be more inclusive in certain lifestyle elements, and I see now it doesnt need to pertain to personal politics. There are certain elements in the above post that may be counterproductive for her trying to find a captain, could scare off more conservative guys especically.... though a lot of BDSM dom/sub or dd/lg relationships take on a similar model... (HOWEVER that isn’t necessarily practiced… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/09/18 09:37 PM |
| 1 | I don't want a trad-con manGo through my history, I made a mild version of this post and got dragged this isn’t the friendliest subreddit to women who don’t fall into 1950s stepford boxes haha | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/09/18 09:11 PM |
| 18 | I have an extreme jealousy of red pill men. It’s honestly getting me down.I feel that. Sometimes I’m envious of the “wild oats sowing” period men are allotted in their lives, and can even make them more attractive (to an extent.) I think women can dip their toes into that but its a fine line, between experimenting and exploring sexuality to overindulging and sharing sexual energy wastefully, and distancing herself from intimacy. That being said, I’m sure men could flip this and say the same about women. If we accept that men are the gatekeepers to commitment and women… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/09/18 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Struggling to adjust to RP dating mindsetWe met while he was living in the US for a summer and worked in incredibly close quarters and fell for each other fast. He asked me to road trip the eastern US after the summer ended, and invited me to south america with him in the winter. Our plan was to bounce between the us and the uk, where he was from until he finished uni, and then travel together. While he was in south america he was often sick, physically ill with the flu and food poisoning and viruses seemingly over and over. He wasn’t … | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/09/18 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Struggling to adjust to RP dating mindsetThank you so much for your perspective. I teach young children as well as yoga classes and am hyper conscious of conveying info tactfully and correcting / adjusting behavior without shutting them down. Both arenas are very female dominated and my guy friends are kinda blue pilly kinda hippies, so in terms of practice with how men communicate I’m a bit rusty! What you’ve said offers a lot of clarification for me though, thank you for your honesty :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/09/18 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Struggling to adjust to RP dating mindsetOn his (i believe its a he) last post he bullet pointed where I’m at with this relationship and was dead on. I found a lot of his assessments to be correct. I’m not a coward, but I probably don’t have particularly thick skin. I teach yoga and at an elementary school so i’m extremely careful of how i convey words and information and correct behavior to children and adults (mostly women.) i know men and this subreddit communicates differently, I’m days old on here so I’m adjusting to the terms... … | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/09/18 02:17 PM |
| 2 | Struggling to adjust to RP dating mindsetIdk how to do the quote thing, Just calling me an ass, saying I was riding strange dick and I needed to beg for forgiveness, that he just wants an array of other vaginas, as if thats all i am. If a guy I was dating said those things I would be crushed Its okay if that doesnt sound harsh or even untrue to you, i’m just putting it out there that he can be empowered to speak his mind but tactful honesty is always better and gets the message through. So many people have mimicked the content of his a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/09/18 02:04 PM |
| 2 | Struggling to adjust to RP dating mindsetThank you for the thoughtful advice! I got a lot of flack for that comment, which is good because I had trouble writing it haha. I’m still trying to understand RP philosophy and how to use it like a tool but clearly I’m off the mark a bit. ¯_(ツ)_/¯ I don’t want to overstep the boundaries of whats feminine, and feel like that’s a careful thin line to tread in the give and take in dating / relationships. I’m nervous and overthink by nature and just want this stuff to come naturally to me.... Again… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/09/18 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Struggling to adjust to RP dating mindsetIdk how much you read but know that I’ve discovered this subreddit days ago, and am rapidly trying to make moves incorporating the content here into my life. I don’t fully understand it all the time and sometimes I find things contradict. My defensiveness may be just that, though I’d bet a lot of that is simply confusion. Without giving you the whole sob story, I’ll just say I was very affected by an autoimmune issue in my early 20s and for a while doubted I’d ever find someone because of how ba… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/09/18 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Struggling to adjust to RP dating mindsetI agreed with the commenters who posted the same advice but didn’t call me names and promised updates after I act. It’s not the advice I’m unreceptive to, its the being made to be humiliated | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/09/18 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Struggling to adjust to RP dating mindsetIm not the perfect woman, I struggled and was learning how to be in a relationship and was moody and evasive and shit testing and all the stuff i’m learning now how to avoid. I responded the way I did because it stings to be spoken to rudely, thats it. Not because I’m wishfully listening or want to be affirmed, being direct and saying I’m wrong or need to look at something in a new way is welcome! Very welcome. I’m reading RP books and consciously trying to grow and have been PMing people off he… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/09/18 01:22 PM |
| -3 | Struggling to adjust to RP dating mindsetIn sincerity I am letting you know that your witticisms and callousness cost a hurting person some more happiness today. There’s always a way to be real without dousing cynicism and cold negativity into your words. Good luck with whatever real social dynamics and plate spinning or whatever goes down in TRP. Theres a reason I’m here and not there. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/09/18 05:52 AM |
| -4 | Struggling to adjust to RP dating mindsetListen, I appreciate where you’re going and your sound, articulate points. I can accept what you said. But just because we’re over the internet please don’t speak to me with disrespect and assumptions. Please don’t. You know im coming from a place of hurt and you know very little about who I am. Nor the relationship. He had shown me he deserved my full commitment. And I gave everything I had. I hadn’t had sex for 2 years before I met him. i was so scared the first time and tense he wasnt able to… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/09/18 05:44 AM |
| 2 | Struggling to adjust to RP dating mindsetThank you, I’m terrified but I’ll go for it soon and let you guys knows | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/09/18 03:56 AM |
| 1 | Struggling to adjust to RP dating mindsetWell good for you for sticking by him and to your guns, that vulnerability is very powerful. I’m afraid the distance between us is very real, oceans, countries apart. We’ve done it before but we wouldnt have the chance to “rebuild” the way you described. No dates, or sexual pursuit. 6 hour time difference... it makes it so hard to talk to him about how I feel | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/09/18 03:34 AM |
| 4 | Struggling to adjust to RP dating mindsetI just want to get the words out right, I don’t want to chase him, I don’t want to miss out on The One, I want to strike the right balance and I’m still learning and trying to understand how to incorporate this knowledge, much of it is subtle social dynamics, into my life. We’ve talked about still loving each other, he knows my heart is still with him. When we broke up I told him when he was ready I would take him back (pathetic! But I was heartbroken and younger....) Isn’t RP supposed to empowe… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/09/18 11:13 PM |
| 0 | Struggling to adjust to RP dating mindsetHow did you regain trust with him? You asked for him to take you back but at the same time he had to earn back and affirm that he wanted to be with you. The dynamics of the relationship had to shift back to RP to undo the fracturing, and the transition of you pursuing him. I have this basically exactly, but we’re distance, and its been such a long time. Hes a grad student staying close to home to take care of his sick mom, it’s probably not a “convenient” time for him, but I cant be in limbo for… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/09/18 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Struggling to adjust to RP dating mindsetIs this an ultimatum though? Idk how to be direct without being overtly forward or strongarm him | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/09/18 10:46 PM |
| 2 | Struggling to adjust to RP dating mindsetAnd reading the surrendered single, posts on here, and some kind of yogic philosophies on how to get back to basics with dating | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/09/18 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Struggling to adjust to RP dating mindsetI would need strong affirmation that he really wanted to be with me, which he’s capable of communicating if he wants to. Idk if its my pride or the RP philosophy of men being the chasers / pursuers holding me back... Telling him would be honest but terrifying. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/09/18 09:11 PM |
| 1 | I’m liberally minded in my political beliefs, and tend to date more artistic guys who see the world similarly. Do I have hope at a RP relationship?Im new to this subreddit, thats good to know, it was getting weird... | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/09/18 05:03 AM |
| 1 | I’m liberally minded in my political beliefs, and tend to date more artistic guys who see the world similarly. Do I have hope at a RP relationship?Seriously this thread became a mess I had a guy arguing with me that whites and asians should be segregated and liberals were causing climate change because they left trash at protests and music festivals. Um. Yeah i really advocate your advice of everyone chilling haha | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/09/18 01:46 AM |
| 1 | I’m liberally minded in my political beliefs, and tend to date more artistic guys who see the world similarly. Do I have hope at a RP relationship?To me it sounds like you missed out, just about everyone is as liberal as they’ll ever be in college, which often recedes with age. I know you’re not trying to talk politics but I agree with you about abortion. (I dont think it should be illegal but personally would find it abhorrent to go through) I hear what you’re saying, I’m open to dating someone more conservative and challenging my views and the right person would be open to me too. My private life and relationships can be traditional :) t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/09/18 02:54 AM |
| 3 | I’m liberally minded in my political beliefs, and tend to date more artistic guys who see the world similarly. Do I have hope at a RP relationship?Hahaha that last line cracked me up. Some guys do! You’d be surprised. But I’ve consciously moved out of politics (had an internship at the UN, worked for nonprofits, was part of a church whose mission was largely based in social activism, going to protests all the time, writing articles for news websites, etc.) and into teaching yoga where I check my beliefs at the door and just get people to dive into the core of themselves to help people grow their own happiness, which is my intention and gre… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/09/18 08:07 PM |
| 2 | I’m liberally minded in my political beliefs, and tend to date more artistic guys who see the world similarly. Do I have hope at a RP relationship?Thank you so much for your thoughtful reply! Your life sounds beautiful and so full and enriching. Sometimes that voice of negativity makes me believe it’s not possible, or that “he” isn’t out there... it’s uplifting to read about people living as their most authentic selves :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/09/18 07:45 PM |
| 3 | I’m liberally minded in my political beliefs, and tend to date more artistic guys who see the world similarly. Do I have hope at a RP relationship?I agree with you that stereotypes and grouping people together as deplorable is just wrong. We also probably dislike Hilary equally haha I live in a red pocket of a blue state and unfortunately I’ve seen some pretty nasty things :( I saw a grown man stomp on an asian man at the beach with his full body weight for a “bet” and when I asked him why he would do such a thing he and his friends said disgusting things about what they would do to me (note for the future, no more confrontations in a biki… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/09/18 07:38 PM |
| 8 | I’m liberally minded in my political beliefs, and tend to date more artistic guys who see the world similarly. Do I have hope at a RP relationship?I think I’d answer D/E, but I suppose F is the best answer. As you may be able to tell I discovered this subreddit 2 days ago. Ive only come to the realization of what my deeper needs are several months ago (though was always RP at heart) so its a bit like identity shedding and dissolving layers. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/09/18 07:28 PM |
| 4 | I’m liberally minded in my political beliefs, and tend to date more artistic guys who see the world similarly. Do I have hope at a RP relationship?I’d love to pick your brain a little more, your story gives me hope haha. I come from a highly political irish catholic democratic family and was taught to debate at the dinner table like a kennedy since I was a kid. It’s hard for me to keep my mouth shut when I feel something is unjust or know something is false. And there is that chance that I’ve turned guys away subconsciously. Do you think your story is rare, or an enigma? What kind of vetting did you have to do to get a socially conscious b… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/09/18 07:05 PM |
| 2 | I’m liberally minded in my political beliefs, and tend to date more artistic guys who see the world similarly. Do I have hope at a RP relationship?I find nihilism much more repellant than any conservative standpoint. At least a conservative man has strong beliefs and a code of honor and something he stands by. As long as we respect each other and share some core values so we could raise children on the same page I’d choose that over a cynical liberal asshole anyday | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/09/18 06:59 PM |
| 1 | I’m liberally minded in my political beliefs, and tend to date more artistic guys who see the world similarly. Do I have hope at a RP relationship?I appreciated those who responded to me with clarity and honesty. Many women came from my exact position and had no problem finding men. Some suggested I remain open minded, which I also respected and agreed with! A handful of commenters retorted however with an onslaught about fake news and liberal media biases and conspiracies and “did I know xyz” and false history lessons and soapbox preaching and general nonsensical tirades. I agree this is not a subreddit for political discussion, thank you… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/09/18 06:56 PM |
| 7 | I’m liberally minded in my political beliefs, and tend to date more artistic guys who see the world similarly. Do I have hope at a RP relationship?I wish :-( My ex and I had a conversation where he said how apathetic he was to environmental issues because he thought the leftists that typically agree with them are too aggressive about making their points. In my perspective, who gives a fuck about being preachy, if something is hurting the planet lets work together on both sides to get out of our feelings and fix it! But I have a feeling that a lot of conservatives find liberals repugnant, so they dismiss their views, even the sensible ones.… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/09/18 06:46 PM |
| 7 | I’m liberally minded in my political beliefs, and tend to date more artistic guys who see the world similarly. Do I have hope at a RP relationship?I’m comforting, bubbly and warm, I love love love children, I teach yoga, I’m in great shape, I dress well, I cook, I travel, I’m adventurous and talented, I write and play music, I have a good eye for decorating, I’m not squeamish, dull, rarely angry, nearly always up for sex, and I’m a dynamo in bed. I really am considering moving though. I literally could go weeks without seeing or interacting with single men in my line of work, and being from a state where the most feminine bride-ready girls… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/09/18 06:40 PM |
| 6 | I’m liberally minded in my political beliefs, and tend to date more artistic guys who see the world similarly. Do I have hope at a RP relationship?Phew. You’re a breath of fresh air on this mess of a thread. I think I love you? | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/09/18 06:33 PM |
| 5 | I’m liberally minded in my political beliefs, and tend to date more artistic guys who see the world similarly. Do I have hope at a RP relationship?This article is actually interesting, and I wasn’t aware of this issue, though I know with proper regulation hunters aid in conservation routinely. unfortunately the policies of this administration really hurt the environment and I’m don’t get wet for dudes who are apathetic to our air and water supply getting poisoned and our biodiversity getting utterly fucked so the lobbyists who run the government can get a payday while everyone stands around with their dicks in their hands arguing over iden… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/09/18 06:32 PM |
| 2 | I’m liberally minded in my political beliefs, and tend to date more artistic guys who see the world similarly. Do I have hope at a RP relationship?Yeah they had those in the 1890s too man. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/09/18 06:28 PM |
| 3 | I’m liberally minded in my political beliefs, and tend to date more artistic guys who see the world similarly. Do I have hope at a RP relationship?-I responded to the claim that all my media must carry a leftist bias as practically all media is owned by some liberal conspiracy with verifiable facts that refute that misconception -I let you know where I get my information as you asked, and the care I already take to listening to reliable sources as well as hearing out both sides to make informed decisions. -I included more verifiable facts about the state of the administration that republicans have shared with me and where I stand in relati… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/09/18 06:25 PM |
| 9 | I’m liberally minded in my political beliefs, and tend to date more artistic guys who see the world similarly. Do I have hope at a RP relationship?Look. I’ve responded to you with total respect. But I’m not a punching bag for whatever kind of seething rage you’re holding on to and I don’t care to hear you spewing misinformation from your soapbox. If you do actually share a passion for the environment as I do I would talk to you perhaps in a more relevant thread or private conversation about the policies that stand to demolish the earth in exchange for short term profit for the corporate interests who pay for our elected officials’s campaig… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/09/18 06:12 PM |
| 3 | I’m liberally minded in my political beliefs, and tend to date more artistic guys who see the world similarly. Do I have hope at a RP relationship?Going back a hundred years ago would be staunchly unpleasant. It’s not absurd to take the advantages of today and blend them with the sensibility of the past. Anything else denies reality, just as denying gender roles denies reality. i am a woman yes, aware of my biological and ideal social role, but I also am a fully actualized human being with independent wants and dreams outside of relationships. I’ve traveled and gone to college and didnt have to beg a husband I had no say in choosing for pe… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/09/18 06:02 PM |
| 4 | I’m liberally minded in my political beliefs, and tend to date more artistic guys who see the world similarly. Do I have hope at a RP relationship?Omg your username is perfect, and this comment is what I was hoping to hear. Soyboys are everywhere regardless of policy, so by that analysis, hopefully there are so real men out there as well left right and center | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/09/18 05:53 PM |
| 8 | I’m liberally minded in my political beliefs, and tend to date more artistic guys who see the world similarly. Do I have hope at a RP relationship?I’ve been studying politics since high school and majored in it in college so I take care to expose myself to a very wide breadth of news sources. About 78-80ish% of local news is owned by the sinclair broadcast group which is a staunchly conservative conglomerate, and if you’re including talk radio, podcasts, youtube, and other more rogue news sources the conservative market is extremely popular and historically has the strongest ratings and viewerships. Fox owns much more than just its news ch… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/09/18 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Stumbled upon this site today. It has a nice collection of dresses that are intentionally fashionable but also modest.Reaaalllyyy pretty! | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/09/18 05:32 PM |
| 5 | I’m liberally minded in my political beliefs, and tend to date more artistic guys who see the world similarly. Do I have hope at a RP relationship?I’m saying I don’t want to live in a culture like so many that currently exist outside of the west where I’m discouraged or straight up outlawed from driving, voting, going to school or even learning to read, traveling, swimming, or wearing clothes that show my hair and ankles. I don’t want to get stoned to death for being immoral enough to get raped. I know this is an extreme version of antifeminism but it is a reality for a large population. And even the choices and beliefs I hold within RPW, … | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/09/18 05:30 PM |
| 7 | I’m liberally minded in my political beliefs, and tend to date more artistic guys who see the world similarly. Do I have hope at a RP relationship?I think that’s an excellent point. I consider myself open minded but I’m sure I could challenge myself moreso to broaden my views. There are certain issues, environmentally especially, that are too important to me... | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/09/18 05:14 PM |
| 2 | I’m liberally minded in my political beliefs, and tend to date more artistic guys who see the world similarly. Do I have hope at a RP relationship?What is the vibe like on OkCupid as opposed to tinder? | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/09/18 04:45 PM |
| 18 | I’m liberally minded in my political beliefs, and tend to date more artistic guys who see the world similarly. Do I have hope at a RP relationship?I’m progressive in the sense I want people to have healthcare, want to protect the environment and want cops firemen and teachers to make living wages with benefits. It’s not emasculating to hold unconservative viewpoints... I try to actively counteract the “men aint shit” narrative thats toxically common in those circles, just as I would hope conservative guys try to counteract the anti-women MGTOW vibes on the right | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/09/18 04:45 PM |
| 9 | I’m liberally minded in my political beliefs, and tend to date more artistic guys who see the world similarly. Do I have hope at a RP relationship?To me theres an important distinction in choice, if a woman wants to be a CEO or marry a submissive guy to boss around or a woman for that matter thats her business. I don’t want to be forced into oppression, its through my empowerment that I elect to submit to the person of my choice Without feminism wed live in a grotesque society where women are basically slaves. But I don’t want to be a masculine genderless blob wearing a unisex smock stripped of my essence... I identify with the first mate … | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/09/18 04:40 PM |
| 10 | How to hold your value as a single mother to a newborn?You sound like a bright, sweet person taking full responsibility for your life and choices. You have goals, work hard, and have a big heart. I don’t think there’s anything you have to do other than stay on your course, and balance motherhood with time for just you. You know what you want, keep the positive mindset you have and continue visualizing the full, happy life you will have with your daughter and manifest the qualities of a husband and stepfather you most deeply crave. You’re not with a … | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/09/18 02:11 AM |
| 3 | What I learned about male psychology in line at the airportI feel there are misunderstandings within the heading of “feminism” as there are from those who claim they oppose it. It’s not a dirty word, especially considering the vile condition many women and girls face globally where they’re essentially lower than dogs. In the west there’s a more nuanced and subtle angles to where male and female energies fall into society. That being said I think you’re spot on that boys are absorbing messages of negativity about their nature, internalizing them, and suf… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/09/18 05:10 PM |
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