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Entitlement Princessnasuits90/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/01/20 12:02 PM
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CMVnasuits90/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 12:01 PM
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Question For Mennasuits90/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 03:05 PM
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nasuits90/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 06:08 AM
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nasuits90/r/TheRedPill06/04/20 08:04 AM
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NYE Purge Post!nasuits90/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 12:11 PM
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Discussionnasuits90/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 03:46 PM
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Question For Mennasuits90/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 05:40 PM
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CMVnasuits90/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 04:57 PM
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Question For Mennasuits90/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 07:41 AM
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Discussionnasuits90/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 03:21 PM
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CMVnasuits90/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 08:35 AM
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Question For Womennasuits90/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 02:58 PM
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CMVnasuits90/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 09:54 PM
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nasuits90/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 09:55 PM
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Discussionnasuits90/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 10:37 AM
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nasuits90/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 06:29 PM
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Discussionnasuits90/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 05:07 PM
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WAATGM In The Makingnasuits90/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/03/20 02:38 PM
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Question For Mennasuits90/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 07:14 AM
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Discussionnasuits90/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 08:27 AM
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CMVnasuits90/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 11:10 AM
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Discussionnasuits90/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 08:08 AM
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Discussionnasuits90/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 03:36 PM
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nasuits90/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 10:26 AM
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I actually lol’d. This was actually quite funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 04:13 PM
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and I <3 you...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 11:43 AM
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More like constantly peeking
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 05:26 AM
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Why is it all the questionable comments are coming from redpill women. Anyways chasing is counter productive
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 01:03 PM
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Nah. Part of the appeal is that it comes around once in a while. Gives people a chance to build up the necessary anger and material. Having access to this kind of shit posting everyday would make it boring and ruin it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 09:44 AM
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Lol no. I picture you as a 40-50 year old Russian man on a yacht.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 09:37 AM
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oh shit. I’ve heard if you (from my days lurking on the redpill).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 09:29 AM
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Most but not all. Make of it what you will. You don’t have to commit to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 08:59 AM
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I’ve never needed to chase a woman who’s interested in me. Some refused to have sex with me or made it clear that they would be hurt if I were to seduce them without commitment but they made it obvious that they were attracted or open to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 08:37 AM
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Yeah but chasing has resulted in nothing but frustration. When women want you they make it super obvious otherwise you’re wasting your time. At least if you work on yourself you might have something to show for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 06:31 AM
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Some of you ladies are insufferable but I’ve learnt a lot from lurking on fds, trp and real life experience. I’ve come to the conclusion that none of it is worth it. You have to be selfish and focus primarily on your own wealth, success and health. Don’t let your desires control you. Chasing women is a true waste of time. Men here are going about it all wrong. They pretend to prioritize success but thirst after these women like there’s no tomorrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 06:19 AM
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Nah he’s got a point. Being white does confer on you a certain amount of unearned value. To be what extent will depend on a lot of factors but generally this is the case. A white man is more likely to be rated higher than his poc counterpart and has access to a wider variety of women as most/all races of women are more open to dating white men. Heck even SJW women who harp on about white privilege and feminism seem to end up dating white men a disproportionate amount of times. It’s almost become…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 05:47 AM
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r/FemaleDatingStrategy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:01 PM
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u/TheOGJammies
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:01 PM
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u/TheOGJammies
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:00 PM
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It keeps changing depending on who you ask so I took the most general definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 02:05 PM
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de nada sis
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 06:16 AM
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u/meecy166 enjoy :) u/onefoulowl already on it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 05:46 AM
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Ah. My post has attracted the final boss of FDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 10:21 PM
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For some reason something told me to look at your post history. I won’t comment on everything else I saw but I did see that I made the FDS page. Thank you for that (I genuinely feel so honored). I had a good laugh at all the comments. I’m a mad scrote arrggggh! Despite what it might look like overall I don’t have a problem with FDS. I understand it’s there for a reason and after interacting with certain FDS members (whose identities I will not reveal) who’ve told me horrific stories of abuse and…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 10:14 PM
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I meant your dating life. FDS constantly criticizes male feminists as undercover predators. On a side note, congrats on trying to kick the porn habit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 09:33 PM
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only a few were confirmed. Others suspected. You’re not accounting for lurkers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 07:20 PM
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Well some were 100% confirmed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 05:59 PM
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How’s that going for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 04:42 PM
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I never stopped talking to my plates but they are far from a priority at the moment. Sit down. I doubt you’re getting many women without paying them at your ripe old age.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/20 01:49 AM
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You’re a 50 something year old loser who only recently discovered trp and is trying to make up for his lost twilight years by obsessively chasing women. Chill gramps.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/20 09:20 PM
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What’s your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 07:27 AM
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At least you recognize that being attractive comes first and foremost. You’re being honest with yourself and you went after what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 04:39 AM
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Nothing but don’t lie to yourself that you’re being nice because that’s who you genuinely are. You’re being nice to her because you want to get laid. Just treat her like a normal fucking person! Don’t put her on a pedestal. That way at least when she inevitably rejects you you won’t feel like you invested a lot of your do called ‘nice-mess.’ Chances are she’s already decided if she’s interested in you or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 04:37 AM
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That’s not how women pick their men. They pick men who they find attractive just like you go for women you find attractive. Difference is a lot of women can get those men (or at least get him to sleep with her). The equivalent of being pump and dumped for men is being friend zoned. You also know people change right or give false pretenses right? There are plenty of ugly, average or Chadly men who started out nice and then became a jerk later on. I would also take women complains about men being …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 04:33 AM
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What is your true self?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 08:58 PM
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How is your relationship? Are you able to be yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 08:01 PM
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Are you getting women now?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 07:36 PM
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If that works for you then go ahead
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 03:08 PM
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Being nice can hurt as it puts the woman on a pedestal and it makes her believe that she’s above you but the truth is it’s usually because most of those guys aren’t that attractive anyways. They need a massive amount of game to compensate for their lack of attractiveness (to her). If Chad was nice he’d still have a very good chance. Most men don’t realize or refuse to acknowledge just how unattractive they really are.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 01:59 PM
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Being nice DOESN’T get you women or rather it’s not guaranteed to get you women. You can be the nicest person in the world and get jack shit. What I’m saying is that you if you were only nice in order to extract some sort of of benefit then how genuine your ‘niceness’ is is questionable. Rather just be yourself. It’s not about being nice or being a jerk. Be your genuine self. If you feel like cancelling a date at the last minute, do it! If you feel like ghosting someone, do it! If you feel like …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 01:52 PM
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Being nice doesn’t hurt your chances as much as being unattractive or having nothing much to offer women. Stop blaming being nice. Most of these guys are superficially nice anyways because they know or suspect deep down that they don’t have much else to offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 07:48 AM
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‘I always felt...cared for.’ Damn. I’ve had my reservations against fds in the past but that is really sad to read :( I hope you find someone who reciprocates your effort.
/r/askFDS25/03/20 09:07 PM
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If only that’s the way it was. I understand the one at a time approach as the aim would be to build a quality relationship but what ends up happening is you invest a lot into one person only to be let down. I know fds advocates for men to put effort and thought into first dates (not even counting he financial cost) but if you do this a few times for unappreciative people it does take its toll on you. I’m only human at the end of the day. I’m not advocating for going 100% low effort but there’s s…
/r/askFDS25/03/20 07:47 PM
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Fair enough. Where do you draw the line between working hard for a woman and her leading you on or wasting your time? What does working hard entail? As much as I understand not showing your your hands and letting the man pursue there comes a time when I start thinking ‘she does not give 2 shits whether I come or go.’ As much as I understand her not being overly invested in me until she’s sure I would appreciated some enthusiasm because no one wants to be in a relationship with someone who’s luke…
/r/askFDS25/03/20 01:58 PM
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Given what I understand about affirmative action it would be only the bottom tier of each demographic that would suffer. Are you are a bottom tier white man?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 01:18 PM
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White men right? because you sound like you’re saying it’s men vs women & minorities.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 11:04 AM
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Why wouldn’t you approach a man?
/r/askFDS25/03/20 10:16 AM
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‘no matter the...location.’ Seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 06:56 AM
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Well OP you tolerated it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 10:03 AM
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I just saw 'was a cake'and wondered about the lingo 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 11:35 PM
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Where are you from?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 10:16 PM
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Really? Your answer seems to be different from the rest. What has your experiance been?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 07:38 PM
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Millions of men doing nothing? Like I said they will be working. Even mgtows go to work or start businesses. A man has to eat and put a roof over his head at the very least and it's not like these men will give up hope 100%. Men are incredibly thirsty and hopeful. If not most should have left OLD by now given the abysmal return on investment.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 02:14 PM
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Wait. Did you just say soldiers who die with 'honor' and those acknowlegde them are just coping for not getting laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 06:30 AM
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They will work and keep society running because they want and need money.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 10:07 PM
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u/TheOGjammies
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 07:39 PM
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Do you kind sharing what you learnt from your female friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 11:03 AM
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M. Early 30s. I went from being bluepill to redpill to blackpill to a mixture of purple and black pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 08:58 AM
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It's rare but I've experianced it. I know i didn't make the looks cutoff but somehow her mind changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 07:25 AM
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I would believe the instant attraction thing but I've had some women who were initially not interested do a complete 180 after they got to know me or spoke to me for a while. I am not rich or anything (closer to broke). They show strong sexual/physical attraction. Women who were hinting jist being friends all of a sudden flirting or being overly sexual and forward about wanting to sleep with me but somehow it seems to stem from initiallu getting to like my personality. I have never been able to …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 07:14 AM
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Wow dude. You sound like you've been through ALOT.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 11:07 PM
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Oh ok. You're very attractive though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 09:24 PM
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I just took a look at your profile. Are you for real?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 09:05 PM
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I don't think they're as small a minority as this sub keeps saying. I feel alot more people do use trp and fds tactics in real life.They just don't know what it's called or practice it consciously.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 08:56 PM
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I'm confused.Is this some sort of role play or fetish of yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 08:53 PM
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Until the end this was pretty depressing to read
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 07:51 PM
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That sounds so ominous
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 06:48 PM
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Interesting take.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 05:54 PM
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After reading her post history I have concluded you are a lesbian terf. Why she's a mod on a dating sub about actually finding a man is beyond me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 06:20 AM
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That would be nice...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 05:33 AM
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They shouldn't. You can't force yourself to be physically attracted to someone and visa versa. Hence why pairing off is even more difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 05:30 AM
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Tall people are generally stronger. At least a significant height difference would be an adavantage in a physical confrontation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 05:29 AM
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It's one thing that irritates me about my fellow men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 05:24 AM
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Nothing. I probably care the least out of all of you. Just using the sub as a sounding board (correct term?).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 08:20 PM
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Men typically struggle. The degree to which they struggle varies though. Even people who partner up struggle a bit somewhat inbetween. Women also struggle. Not to get dates but to find a suitable mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 05:32 PM
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Well thank you for your answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 05:27 PM
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Why not...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 05:26 PM
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Yes i've heard about the theory of choice. I feel like choice would be a good thing if you could try different types e.g. you buy one type of toothpaste the one month and another the next month. The problem with dating is that once you've made your choice it's typically permanent or you stick to it for a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 05:25 PM
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Not complaining. Just pointing out that there are genuine people on both sides especially since both sides like to point fingers and play the blame game but you're right. You can't control who you're attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 05:21 PM
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I read this in a black man from the hood's voice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 05:17 PM
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I get all that. The part I've never quite 100% understood is the facial symmetry/aesthetics part. Someone can be ugly or be a bit assymetrical and still be healthy. Is it associated with some disease or something? T
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 05:16 PM
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It is. Just pointing this put for the peoppe who like to complain about the opposite sex. There are genuine people on both sides. They just usually aren't attractive enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 05:13 PM
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Please elaborate. Most people seem to be struggling in some form and/or way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 05:11 PM
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Yes but this is the most crucial box. Hence why someone can fall short of everything else but if they over excel in this box they're usually given a pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 01:07 PM
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Genetic fitness in what way? There are plenty of physically fit, strong and intelligent ugly (convnetionally unattractive) men. At this point it's shallowness. At least with height you could argue strength...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 01:06 PM
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It depends. If I don't like her that much or I don't see it going anywhere then I will let her pay. If i'm serious about it or really like her (even if it's not romantic) then I will foot the full bill.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 07:33 PM
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I personally would appreciate the gesture. I might not let her pay but I would appreciate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 07:28 PM
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Sorry to hear that. I see your point. At the end of the day you just have to protect yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 01:10 AM
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To be fair what would you have a guy do if so many women in the past have used him for free meals and been flaky?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 12:12 AM
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Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 06:19 AM
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u/TheOGjammies
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 07:01 AM
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u/TheOGjammies
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 06:45 AM
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u/TheOGjammies
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 07:00 PM
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u/Resident_Biscotti Shitty women deserve shitty men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 11:54 AM
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Fair enough. I guess I wanted to eat about this particular advice gets them so mad but I had some commentators already answer that for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 08:15 AM
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It’s not just FDS. I’ve seen this elsewhere as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 08:11 AM
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I would like to edit and ask why those men who do get mad at women’s dating advice do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 07:59 AM
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So women have never been worth it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 07:47 AM
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Whaa?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 07:46 AM
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Thank you for taking the time to respond.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 07:46 AM
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The backlash against FDS for instance.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 07:38 AM
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Mgtow is mgtow because they believe women aren’t worth it anymore so what if those women aim to make themselves worth it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 07:37 AM
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Lol. Please elaborate so we are on the same page.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 07:32 AM
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Of?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 07:32 AM
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So if a man is high value enough he gets some leeway in this regard?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 04:48 PM
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What does that value entail?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 04:25 PM
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A man who asks that question does so because he takes your n-count into consideration. Whether you choose to answer truthfully, lie or dodge the question is irrelevant. Your FDS values dictate that by him doing so he is LV and you must leave him but you won’t because deep down you know/suspect that he’s the best you can secure.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 09:09 PM
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So you’re willing to admit that FDS want to be with men so bad that they’re willing to overlook the LVM trait of valuing a woman’s chastity...That’s all I needed to know :)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 09:01 PM
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Read the parent comment by u/CMOAN_MAYNE. Is it a) or b)?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 08:55 PM
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Read the parent comment by u/CMOAN_MAYNE. Is it a) or b) ?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 08:54 PM
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u/modernmedusaa
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 08:00 PM
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u/greenteaapplepie69
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 07:59 PM
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Anybody?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 07:57 PM
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u/NecessaryCook
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 07:57 PM
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u/TheOGjammies
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 07:56 PM
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r/FemaleDatingStrategy Is no one going to respond to this?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 07:56 PM
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r/FemaleDatingStrategy has been awfully quiet on this one...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 11:54 AM
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What does this mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 09:55 PM
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I’m a big fan
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 09:37 PM
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It’s my post. I will do as I please. I’m trying to make peace with you here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 08:08 AM
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Dude. I honestly don’t want to argue/fight with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 07:59 AM
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You have very poor comprehension skills then. I hope your extremely ‘marketable’ monolingual skills get you far.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 07:45 AM
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Everyone else seems to be able to comprehend what I’ve written so you can either correct all my mistakes as I didn’t bother to proofread and I’m open to learning in case there was some mistake I was going to make regardless or you can piss off. It’s simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 07:34 AM
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Yes. There is some correlation. Use that as you see fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 07:31 AM
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Feel free to rewrite the status using the correct grammar/spelling.I might learn something new :) If not you can fuck off with your monolingual ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 05:20 AM
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That is a fair assessment. I personally see a lot of HVMs (by FDS standards) and I can only assume it’s their social circles. However there may be other factors at play that I didn’t consider of how all these HVM came to congregate other than simply social circles. Anyways this is why it’s a discussion. I am open to hearing opposing views and/or contradictions.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 02:39 PM
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Read the replies and comments by FDS users on this thread. It sums up what I’ve been saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 02:32 PM
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The values of the group matter as well
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 02:31 PM
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I just said you are free to keep your friends. Some people grew up in rougher/poorer neighborhoods and kept their friends. You are however frequently meeting new people and adding onto your friends/acquaintance list. If after a long time the balance is still in overwhelmingly in favor of low value people that says something about you. You should do what’s best for you but if your passion is rapping/dancing and you enjoy frequenting nightclubs on the dodgy side of town don’t complain when you are…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 02:26 PM
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By ‘attractive’ I mean in the truest sense. The fact that women who can easily find the latter but are struggling to find the former to a point where an entire sub was created is very telling. There’s no sub for women dedicated to finding your typical red pill alpha. Locking him down maybe but finding him isn’t difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 02:21 PM
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They’re more rare than disloyal alpha players.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 02:18 PM
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I don’t know why you deleted your previous comment but anyways: lol no one is mad (at least not me). I actually think FDS has a lot of positive aspects to it and there are a lot of LVMs (emotionally/physically abusive, psycho etc) running around. However I have noticed that a lot of FDS women are in fact LVW under illusions of grandeur. Some are actively making bad decisions or have off putting personalities/attitudes in real life (I’ve met quite a few FDS women in real life). In this status I’m…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 02:16 PM
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A sizeable portion of that larger percentage will try to secure that partnership or committed relationship through having casual sex with the man they desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 02:08 PM
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This doesn’t make sense. You have simultaneously have high and low-mid tier value friends. It’s the amount/balance of each that matters. No one says you have to quit your job. If you enjoy being a street sweeper and being a couch potato every weekend by all means do that. You’re being true to yourself however this does mean that by conventional standards you are not high value.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 02:00 PM
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I would I fact say their definition is in fact much more rare than the manosphere’s definition. They don’t just want beta providers. They essentially want a beta providers who are physically attractive (see decent height, aren’t balding etc), good in bed, don’t do casual sex, age appropriate (because ew creepy old men) and most importantly loyal.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 01:57 PM
2

I don’t understand you...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 01:13 PM
3

Not really. That’s with regards to settling down. In terms of ONSs and FWBs the standards for women are much lower. You don’t have to be a 9/10 for a man to sleep with you but you do have to be pretty high up (8+/10) by fds standards to be considered a HVM.In that case there are plenty of women to go around for TRPers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 01:11 PM
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So FDS are essentially competing for a rare commodity and the more popular it becomes and the more women implement these strategies the more competition there will be? or are they hoping/assuming the dating market will shift significantly to produce more HVM? (by their standards)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 01:06 PM
4

I wasn’t assuming any gender. It was just a misuse of English.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 01:04 PM
5

Possible but you have a life and hobbies outside your career don’t you? I’m sure you also interact with people outside your chosen profession but who are in a similar tax bracket or as educated as you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 01:03 PM
2

Exactly what I’m saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 01:01 PM
11

Tell that to the 40k+ and growing membership base of FDS. Apparently that’s just a lie men tell t instill a scarcity mindset in you so that you’ll put up with their bs and there are in fact plenty of high value men to go around.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 01:00 PM
3

It’s not necessarily just about your social circles but if you hang out in low value places and do low value things on a regular basis then you’re bound to run into low value people (exception being if you were out doing shopping at the mall or your groceries).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 12:58 PM
2

If the high value people around you aren’t attracted its maybe because you aren’t attractive to them? Also with the advent of social media and dating apps women make multiple men compete for their attention. They should be able to tolerate competing for high value men with other seemingly high value women. What’s good for the goose...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 12:56 PM
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If it’s working out for you then fine but this is for all the guys that are borderline turning it into a second job with their thirst and obsession and talking about 3% success rates from cold approaching or OLD.Pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 09:59 AM
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Then learn from your mistakes and stop approaching women just because they smiled at you! My point is you will know when she wants to be approached. If you keep misreading then there’s something wrong with your social skills. Leave these women alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 08:03 AM
2

OP copied my exact post from a while back but okay...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 07:28 AM
0

She smiles at you or moves herself closer to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 07:23 AM
1

As for my posts becoming in incoherent I’ll take it as a compliment. At least someone is following and noticing my posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 07:00 AM
2

I have next to no approach anxiety or fear when it comes to such things. Online dating has never been my thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 06:58 AM
1

I don’t have approach anxiety at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 06:55 AM
1

That’s fine. Maybe I worded my status incorrectly. Make your intentions known early. If rejected then move on!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 06:03 PM
3

Horrid how?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 06:02 PM
12

From reading trp and ppd it’s obvious many of these men aren’t having fun. If you enjoy the process then power to you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 06:02 PM
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Make your intentions known then move on!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 06:02 PM
2

Don’t approach women minding their own business in public unless she gives you an indication that she’s interested. Don’t go to her without an invitation. If you met her through other means then ask her to something where it’ll just be the two of you. If she declines or makes some excuse without offering alternative plans then move on immediately. Don’t hang around and ‘chase’. Romantic interactions are not an exact science as much as PUA tried to make them out to be. If you can’t tell these thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 06:01 PM
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This does happen and I have had a few women change their minds about me but it didn’t come from me continuously pursuing. I make a move. She rejects me. I move on but in the rare case that I think she is interesting/cool enough to keep around as a friend or provides value in some other way I keep her around. She ends up changing her mind down the line and chasing me. It does happen but my point is ‘move on.’ Don’t orbit her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 05:54 PM
2

Who said it does?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 05:47 PM
2

I’m just irritated at how consumed with chasing women men are
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 04:36 PM
0

Then ask her out and stop wasting your time
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 04:25 PM
4

It’s a numbers game at times so yes but after how many attempts? The opportunity cost is not worth it imo
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 04:23 PM
1

Fair point but just learn to read the signs (which any functioning human being can do). If in doubt ask her to something whereby it’ll jus be the two of you. If it’s anything other than a ‘yes’ move on . If on the other hand you’re expected to have CIA level body language reading skills then I’ll have to pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 04:20 PM
1

How often has that happened for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 03:55 PM
1

Then continue chasing and being strung along
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 03:54 PM
2

I was a bit of 3. Now I’m just here (as one commenter pointed out) to witness the drama
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 04:09 PM
1

This answer makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 05:58 PM
1

I’m not saying that. I’m asking that if he were the type to disagree with fds regardless of whether or not he finds out about it then doesn’t that make him a low value male by default?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 05:45 PM
1

It’s not about that. I’m saying that if he does find out about fds and disagrees with it (or even if doesn’t find out but would disagree if he did) then is he not low value by default?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 05:43 PM
0

I get your last point but on the off chance he disagrees with fds doesn’t that make him and every other like minded male low value?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 05:40 PM
1

It’s not about him knowing. It’s unlikely he will ever know if you don’t tell him. I’m just saying that even if that happens. a HVM would ideally agree with fds and everything posted there so it shouldn’t be an issue if he were to find out? If he disagrees then he’s either LV or insecure(?) but some posters on fds have expressed concern on the sub and told other users not to let potential partners that they browse the sub but wouldn’t this be another good filtering method on the off chance that …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 05:39 PM
2

She has no reason to but it’s actually preached that you shouldn’t tell him or actively hide it. You could even add this as a filtering method? A HVM would agree with fds or other such methods(?).if he doesn’t agree then he’s revealed to be LV?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 05:35 PM
1

I unofficially declare you the spokesperson of FDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 04:38 PM
2

I was wondering when I’d see you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 01:48 PM
2

I suspect that people (see women) of today are taking better care of themselves on average than back then so ‘the wall’ as it’s called has been pushed back from whatever age it used to hover around.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 06:36 AM
2

‘whitey whitey white white’ lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 05:17 PM
1

Looooool
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 03:15 PM
9

You can’t. End of story.
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