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| 1 | most English-speakers are still on that same playground, calling boys smelly and girls icky, while sneaking behind a tree to kiss each other.That's one of my sticking point as a french speaker. To give you an idea, we only have one word for date and meeting, and it mostly means meeting. We don't even really have a "date culture" really, it's mainly ONS and slow gaming. | /r/seduction | 09/01/13 04:07 AM |
| 4 | Don't be afraid to be ridiculous! Alternative title: How bad does an opening line have to be to get a "confident" guy instantly rejected?SOISOISOISOISOISOI | /r/seduction | 26/09/12 09:48 AM |
| 3 | How to create more "pull"?Malefashionadvice is for dressing nicely. The thing is, it's also dressing to impress the ladies. If you follow the fashion, you will be dressed nicely. Once you love and seek beeing clothed fashionably, you will impress the ladies by being confident in the way you dress. | /r/seduction | 22/08/12 12:50 PM |
| 8 | Seddit, what are some of your go to questions when the conversation lets up?"so tell me, how exactly is babby formed ?" | /r/seduction | 29/06/12 01:54 PM |
| 4 | Rules of Attraction for BeginnersGreat post. I just want to point something about the looks: If you don't really know where to start, go on /r/malefashionadvice. If you're preppy, this is a great fashion guide. If you're not, you can learn the basics, like matching colors and what haircut or tones you should wear according to your build. Their advises in the sidebar helped me chose a suit, and I can tell you I look damn amazing in it. Also buy a GQ, or if something better is available. They have lifestyle rules and great fashio… | /r/seduction | 26/05/12 08:52 AM |
| 3 | Here's something I've never said in my life...I think it's a joke | /r/seduction | 20/05/12 04:10 PM |
| 2 | Kino escalation is problematic for meI'm a bit uneasy with kino too, but I've worked on it and it's pretty much natural now. What you have to do is go for the arms. You "kiss" them hello (I don't know if you do that often where you are and I don't know the name, but it's when you just put cheeks together and do the kiss sound), and while doing so you touch their upper-arm or elbow. Then go for the shoulder later. Then if it's loud, lower back while talking. The main thing is, she will notice. Of course she will, you are touching he… | /r/seduction | 11/05/12 11:18 AM |
| 2 | Question for Men: What aspects of women make you want to approach them?Style and face mostly, but not really a style in particular. I like girls whose style match their body and mind, and if it's fashionable. Then I check for overall view, not too fat, not too thin and then ass and tits, but that's quite the last of my concern, it's just a bonus. | /r/seduction | 11/05/12 11:10 AM |
| 1 | On a scale of 1 to 10, how good are my IM skills?Damn it, that's some fine IM game. Your story telling is really sweet, by agreeing with her without changing your opinion you show great confidence. This is at least a 9/10, but I'd say 10/10. I collected you don't have sexual interest at the moment, in what case you should have maybe conveyed a more "we should hang out sometime". Fine work. | /r/seduction | 11/05/12 09:58 AM |
| 2 | Calling All Ents: How you deal with dropping the bomb that you like drugs.So, from my experience: if it matters that you take drugs, that's a deal-breaker. For her, but it should be for you. I have a friend who can't and won't take drugs, but doesn't judge others for doing it. If she asks if you've done other things, just say you've done things a few time, but don't expand on it. I have it first hand that it is not attractive. Always try to be objective, I gathered you smoke DMT, this is powerful stuff, I would be scared of doing it, that's the kind of things you try … | /r/seduction | 01/05/12 09:50 AM |
| 2 | Calling All Ents: How you deal with dropping the bomb that you like drugs.I always thought that alcohol mixed with weed is a bad combo, but putting lsd on top of that. I tried LSD a few time, and I have had some half-ass trips that were mildly interesting and mostly disappointing, but I had a full blown trip which was at first full of fuck, then I spiraled down in paranoia while knowing I had no reason to, then I saw the most beautiful things ever. It's all about set and setting and swallowing the tab. But yeah, maybe try having another story instead of trying to refr… | /r/seduction | 01/05/12 09:44 AM |
| 1 | Calling All Ents: How you deal with dropping the bomb that you like drugs.I need to pick up this show again | /r/seduction | 01/05/12 09:38 AM |
| 0 | Calling All Ents: How you deal with dropping the bomb that you like drugs.I've taken legit drugs that are less hardcore than weed, it's pretty much a drug which happens to be illegal, in contrary to alcohol or coffee, but it's psychoactive, so a drug. Sorry bro. | /r/seduction | 01/05/12 09:36 AM |
| 1 | A quick question regarding "touching" between familiars.Ask her out. If she's interested she will probably accept. I think it's important to try and move the interaction to a non-work related place. Also workplace might put a brake in here mind. | /r/seduction | 27/04/12 09:24 AM |
| 0 | My Life as a Pick Up Artist - Interesting ReadCan you provide us with sources showing the contrary ? No, because psychologists and psychiatrists can't (if I'm not mistaking) tell. The thing is, he might be right, but it highly depends on your stance on it. I'm sure for example that almost everything is learnt, but by learning I mean active learning, passive learning and conditioning. Humans are much more animals than you might think, and even tho some fears and needs are hard-wired into our brain, the shades of them are probably taught by s… | /r/seduction | 24/04/12 01:32 PM |
| 2 | The First of Our Weekly Topic Threads!I love indirect game. The thing is, direct game is something that might be useful and effective, but not for me. While I'm not socially awkward, ugly or anything, I lack the utmost confidence you must keep throughout the interaction to close while running direct game. The thing is, I consider myself a cool guy, not in the pretentious kind of way (only a little). I'm cultured, I've read a lot, I've seen movies, traveled, I dress well, I consider myself intelligent and I know things in a lot of va… | /r/seduction | 24/04/12 09:39 AM |
| 1 | Is this an IOI?Compliment about your physics = IOI. | /r/seduction | 19/04/12 08:51 PM |
| 1 | "I like your style", An easy IOI that still leaves room for qualificationIOI's | /r/seduction | 19/04/12 02:43 PM |
| 1 | What does Seddit think of telling the friend of a girl your interested in about your interest, knowing full well she will relay this information to the girl.Do not do this unless you plan to act alpha with the girl as soon as you told your acquaintance. Trust me on this, I learnt this the hard way. | /r/seduction | 18/04/12 08:22 AM |
| 1 | What is the best compliment that you ever received from a woman?"Nobody has ever touched me like that" "I've never felt like this before" "You're handsome" | /r/seduction | 18/04/12 08:20 AM |
| 1 | May or may not have a situation similar to some of you out there.Well, I don't know the specificities of your situation at all. It was long distance, so maybe you can try to minor it, or go for the "plenty of fish" while hinting that you're the alpha fish or whatever. Caring and alpha, I don't really know how to say, is being the comforting figure, while being seen as a potential partner. Be the daddy, in a non-Fritzl, sexual way. | /r/seduction | 16/04/12 07:32 PM |
| 1 | May or may not have a situation similar to some of you out there.Common sens says, do not pursue her it's a bad idea. Now, you can try to avoid talking about her ex ("I'm gonna help you clear your mind and forget all about him") or just bash him, but without being too hurtful because he is probably still someone important in her life (I found that this works too for some reason). There is no too soon, you have the opportunity to be caring and alpha now, so she will start to see you as a potential mate. | /r/seduction | 16/04/12 09:23 AM |
| 1 | Any ideas on using birthdays to get back in contact with someone? (Or just get in contact, if you weren't friends before)You can drop them an inbox saying "hey, I thought an inbox would be much more personal than just dropping a comment on your wall, so happy birthday." On my birthday, a girl posted something without space on my wall, I responded in the same manner, she did it again so I said "I need some space" with a picture of dawson crying. Then I went to "apologize" in inbox, which get us talking about our lives, our work career and how she's away for a while, then we talked from time to time and it's all goo… | /r/seduction | 16/04/12 09:17 AM |
| 1 | How do I become a better wingman and shift the spotlight away from myself?What my wing does for me is that he: doesn't judge me helps the discussion flow, because he's usually more at ease with small-talk whereas I always tend to go in depth off the bat helps me isolate the girl, by walking away subtly or distracting obstacles knows better than me what my strong points are can give me the "do it faggot" talk when I'm lingering does a debrief of the evening the next day with me If you do this, you're a cool guy. | /r/seduction | 13/04/12 09:24 AM |
| 4 | I do exceedingly well at social circle game but badly in clubsI have kind of the exact same problem. The best practice is, imo, to bring girls you know and tell them to bring their girl friends. That's what Tofutofu calls Entourage Game. Most of my nightclub closes come from this. You go with a girl you know, or you bump into someone you kinda know, and then you hit on them or their friends. There is also, even if I do not recommend it, the cigarette. The only pro of smoking is that you don't look weird if you're outside the club. You can isolate a girl oh… | /r/seduction | 13/04/12 09:19 AM |
| 3 | Get a boy to ask for my number?What if he doesn't want to be needy and just cuts off ? | /r/seduction | 13/04/12 09:06 AM |
| 2 | Texting/Online OveranalysisIt seems that over-analyzing is a common problem. I have it too, and I think a lot of people have it, for different reason. When a girl doesn't respond to my texts, I often feel angry because I think "god, do I have no value whatsoever in her eyes ?". Now I find it hard to rationalize this feeling, but know this: People do things for a lot of reasons, and you're probably not the cause. How often have you forgotten to answer a text, or were too deeply involved in a movie or a blog article to resp… | /r/seduction | 05/04/12 07:05 AM |
| -4 | How long did your journey take until you became a success at getting the women you wanted?16 years, from birth to sexual activity. My years 12 to 16 were a constant flow of girls not wanting anything to do with me, but I kept trying nevertheless. Then one beautiful day I scored a girl while her boyfriend was drunk, and then I acquired confidence. I'm still bipolar about my self esteem, but it works great most of the time, I'd say I have a 50-70% success rate when I try, which I don't do often. | /r/seduction | 04/04/12 09:52 AM |
| 2 | Dealing with BaldingDo you think you can still get a mohawk ? That could be cool. If you still have enough, try to enjoy it, then shave it altogether. | /r/seduction | 29/03/12 11:15 AM |
| 2 | seddit 49kI guess that's what she said. | /r/seduction | 29/03/12 08:12 AM |
| 3 | When she asks for your number insteadYou'd better make jokes about her stalking you. Turn the situation around. | /r/seduction | 28/03/12 07:38 PM |
| 3 | Let's create a definitive IOI list.I'd love a link to that | /r/seduction | 28/03/12 07:10 PM |
| 3 | Let's create a definitive IOI list.Wait, how is a kiss on the neck more frightening than being grinded on ? | /r/seduction | 28/03/12 02:14 PM |
| 9 | Let's create a definitive IOI list.I'm not either, it's "Indicator(s) Of Interest", "Night Pick Up" and "Street Pick Up" | /r/seduction | 28/03/12 01:40 PM |
| 6 | Let's create a definitive IOI list.This is true whenever you're in a NPU or SPU situation. However, when the stakes are higher, if you were to game at high-school, a girl in your class, a friend or even someone who already has a boyfriend, you might want to see some "green lights" before doing something. It very true that you might see IOIs where there are none, but it also helps assuming attraction. It more of a call to action rather than a "she's already mine". | /r/seduction | 28/03/12 11:22 AM |
| 2 | Let's create a definitive IOI list.Yes, those are really good. | /r/seduction | 28/03/12 09:09 AM |
| 1 | Contemplation noteIf I remember correctly, antidepressants take some time to work. But remember,you are awesome for seeking help and trying to go better. It's not gonna be easy, but it's the best thing you can do. You'll do fine. | /r/seduction | 28/03/12 05:18 AM |
| 2 | Shutting UpYes, I had to quickly post a reply because I had my boss behind me, J-pod explains it better. | /r/seduction | 27/03/12 06:01 PM |
| 2 | Shutting UpThis is the hard part. You have to not look like a depressive fuck (if you are one, keep it for yourself). I call it the "cursed poet" look ("Poète maudit" in french). If you're a smoker, it's really easy to just puff on your cigarette while sporting the thousand yard stare, looking at her like she's about to leave. | /r/seduction | 27/03/12 01:37 PM |
| 2 | Shutting UpHow much: just enough. How to know ? Calibration. Listen to her, you can say "yes", or "go on" but without sounding like a psychanalist. If you want to look mysterious, you have to be silent but look sad-angry but as if you were trying to hide it from her. It's not a sure thing, and never forget there is a really thin line between mysterious and boring, and it changes from girl to girl. | /r/seduction | 27/03/12 01:07 PM |
| 3 | How do you establish a frame such that you are a challenge while simultaneously chasing?That's easy, dont think "how am I going to get her", but rather "Is she good enough for me to get her ?". Start asking questions, try to make her validate herself to you. You have to seem interested, but not make her feel wanted at first. Positive reinforcement full on, the more she validates herself, the more you have to show that you want her. I guess. | /r/seduction | 27/03/12 09:18 AM |
| 1 | Contemplation noteYes. I had/have minor anxiety problems, and what can help is, for example, to dance in a club. I hated to dance, but then I realized "hey, I'm with friends, I can dance and I'll probably never see any of these other people anyway." Before You know it, I was complimented on my dancing by a girl I later k-closed. If you have trouble speaking to people, you have two choices. 1) Not speak, which can be really good (just practice you eye contact). 2) Speak. The worst possible outcome is to offend or … | /r/seduction | 27/03/12 08:50 AM |
| 2 | Contemplation noteI'm not a professional, but you seem depressed. It might be chemically induced. The little steps you can do are going running or going to the gym. I went long-boarding yesterday and the adrenaline/noradrenaline rush is kind of the best feeling ever. But the suicidal thoughts are pretty much a bad sign. Professional help should be sought, just because your brain might be chemically imbalanced, which can easily be cured with some medicine. (If you smoke/inhale/eat weed, you might want to stop, it … | /r/seduction | 27/03/12 05:21 AM |
| 1 | I cannot stop this oneitis. Advice please.It's only because you have the american vision of love, here in europe you're in love much much more easily ;) | /r/seduction | 27/03/12 05:05 AM |
| 1 | I cannot stop this oneitis. Advice please.Isn't that kind of oneitis called love ? | /r/seduction | 26/03/12 07:49 PM |
| 2 | What to answer to girl who says shes really good in bed?Yup, but she has to look you in the eye with that look. If you have to wait before she can prove it, you better stick to a future tense. | /r/seduction | 26/03/12 07:17 PM |
| 42 | What to answer to girl who says shes really good in bed?Your answer is good, stick with it. | /r/seduction | 26/03/12 07:11 PM |
| 17 | Take advantage of the sun guys, nothing gets me in state better!Dat feeling. The air is getting warm, you just bought new clothes, you feel your feet beat the pavement as you listen to a catchy tune of your choice. Next thing you know, this cute girl in a sundress is checking you out. You look in the mirror, your hair is perfect, those sunglasses make you look cool, and you're set. Instant ego boost from mother nature. | /r/seduction | 26/03/12 12:27 PM |
| 1 | Sunday Reflection. What did you learn this week?I realized I have a hard time knowing wether or not the things I notice are IOIs. It might be linked with some low self esteem afterglow. I'm really good at text game tho, especially if I don't care wether or not I end up with the girl. So Outcome Independence rules, and I should assume attraction/not be attracted by friends. | /r/seduction | 26/03/12 10:14 AM |
| 1 | I hate everyoneOh, I have that too. It might be the negativity effect, which cause you to assume flaws in someone else are what defines them as a person, if you don't like them already. If you want to overcome that, you'll have to think "s/he's acting super stupid right now, but I'm biased too". Then again, sometimes they just are stupid. | /r/seduction | 26/03/12 09:54 AM |
| 2 | How to spin not having a facebook?"I don't really like how it has all of my personal data you know, I mean, they could sell it to anyone. Did you know they have info about you that you didn't give them ? Yeah that's right. Also I kinda grew tired of it, same old people, same thing happening over and over again. I want something new, and more importantly I want something true, which I guess you can't really have behind a screen. But maybe that's just me." | /r/seduction | 23/03/12 03:21 PM |
| 2 | How many of you have trouble "being yourself" and being "alpha" at the same time?Leaders of men are all alphas, but all alphas aren't leaders of men. I consider myself a High Beta, so I both have alpha and beta behavior. I can take up space, I know who I am, what I like, etc, but I don't need to dominate AFCs, or show dominance over anyone. If I'm in state I'll be all smooth-talking-alpha, but I can also be the mysterious reserved guy smoking alone. | /r/seduction | 23/03/12 02:26 PM |
| 1 | How can I be more touchy-feely?Haha, the "better drugs" talking about heroin makes sense now. I never do drugs to pick up women, that would be retarded. I just discovered it can help boost your confidence, but I'm too worried about getting addicted to even start doing hard drugs on regular basis. | /r/seduction | 23/03/12 06:14 AM |
| 1 | How can I be more touchy-feely?I've seen guys do too much cocaine and morph into sweaty monsters, but a little does wonders. I'm not saying you should take some, be careful about addiction. On cocaine you're alpha automatically. You're sharper in your mind, you "see" what you have to do, you feel good and you're confident. If you're interested in doing it, don't do too much or too often. | /r/seduction | 23/03/12 06:07 AM |
| 1 | Gaming at a Silent PartyI might do a FR afterwards, but I'm not that big on NPU. I usually don't open sets except when smoking outside (the only pro for cigarettes), but thanks a lot for the tips. | /r/seduction | 22/03/12 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Gaming at a Silent PartyDude, I'm in switzerland, they must be some in toronto. | /r/seduction | 22/03/12 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Met an old-work colleague while out last night. Looking back at it, it went quit well. [FR lite]Looks like she's interested, good game. | /r/seduction | 22/03/12 12:51 PM |
| 4 | How to Internalize Seduction ConceptsGreat post. I'll add something that I know is true for myself. When learning, no matter what it is, connect the dots. You already know things, when learning anything, put it in perspective with the other things you already know. If you're into psychology like me, you'll have no problems linking patterns to positive reinforcement in behavioral psychology, but you can link anything with everything. This can free a lot of your cognitive processus when you're trying to learn something. | /r/seduction | 22/03/12 08:13 AM |
| 2 | There's so much PUA material out there what would you rank as the MUST-reads/watch?Then read his e-book. What he is stating is that, more or less, you attract the girl or you don't, and you go from there. It's a two part e-book, first he breaks the PUA system down, then he explains how he picks up. It's a 1-2 hours read, so it's not a bother even if you disagree. | /r/seduction | 21/03/12 01:33 PM |
| 3 | Advice on controlling a situationLooks like this guy gave you the best present ever. Without him, you'd be like you were before. When you see them, keep that in mind. Be detached, do not give a single fuck (yeah, it's hard), and just be the awesome you that you usually are. Do not try to impress her or to amog him. | /r/seduction | 21/03/12 01:02 PM |
| 4 | Cold reading / Palm reading suggestions: Good resources to learn how to do this on the fly in a pick-up environment?First, the Barnum Effect. Read about that, you'll have most people convinced you know them. Then it's all about Body Language. Read about IOI, check /r/psychology, learn how the body reacts to emotions (muscle tension, real/fake smiles, posture, breathing, heart rate, blood rushes, etc). Analyze yourself to know how other will react, and spend time just watching how people react when they are talking to each other, without listening to what they say, it's endless fun. For palm reading, just make… | /r/seduction | 21/03/12 10:41 AM |
| 29 | Let me say thank you, seddit by sharing my amazing (long) life story that you have helped shape.TL;DR: This guy wins at life, read his post. | /r/seduction | 21/03/12 10:12 AM |
| 1 | How can I be more touchy-feely?So about MDMA. My best friend and I are both physically awkward around each other, we just don't touch, or sit close, or everything JD and Turk do on scrubs. MDMA didn't change a thing at this level, however we talk much more. Be careful tho, if you feel like you talk too much while drunk, take MDMA alone, because you will talk too much. It is however really fun, you'll be much more open and congruent, and it's a wonderful feeling. If you have any question, fire away. | /r/seduction | 21/03/12 09:37 AM |
| 1 | Reddit, how do you get in state without alcohol?"A game ? I'm more on the NA kind of game." | /r/seduction | 21/03/12 09:27 AM |
| 2 | If at first you don't kino, are you screwed?So, I think I might help you in my own way. First, I'm not a physical person, I don't mind touching people, but I'm not prone to it and I don't really like being touched. If you're doing NPU, then you should do the "hand on lower back" when talking, maybe playful hug or "u mah girl" hold (I personally need alcool and a high level of not giving a fuck to achieve that). A recent event has, however, taught me something. Whenever I tried kinoing this girl I know, she would act distant. As soon as I … | /r/seduction | 21/03/12 09:25 AM |
| 2 | There's so much PUA material out there what would you rank as the MUST-reads/watch?I really like Aaron Sleazy's Debunking the Seduction Community. Then again, it's only really helpful if you're not interested in canned material and "traditional" PUA stuff, or if you've already read a bunch of stuff. | /r/seduction | 21/03/12 09:09 AM |
| 1 | I always feel like utter shit the night after going out.Water poisoning is a real thing, it's one of the biggest death cause of people taking ecstasy. That and dehydration. But it's only an hypothesis. | /r/seduction | 20/03/12 02:25 PM |
| 1 | I have no friends. How to I go about finding a girl?Get to know the girls that are in your class better without becoming the "gay best friend", then game their friends. It works wonders, and you'll soon have friends and girls. | /r/seduction | 19/03/12 03:34 PM |
| 2 | What happens when you approach/try to game a group of alphasWell, they might point it out. I sometime get approached by some players, and I hate it. Don't act like they are AFC's, don't AMOG them unless needed. When an AMOG is gaming a girl I'm with, I switch the sarcasm switch, and the suffer. | /r/seduction | 16/03/12 12:42 PM |
| 1 | Video games: what does r/seduction think?As long as you don't play while with a girl, there's no problem to it. I once got asked why I played video games. I responded that basically, a video game is an interactive book or movie. You take control of a character that probably has a background, dreams and hopes, set into a scenario where he/she/it interacts with its surrounding. Gameplay is just the same as a narrative POV or how the camera captures the action, it's a medium to express emotions and make the story progress. With a bit of s… | /r/seduction | 16/03/12 12:16 PM |
| 3 | If she asks you about previous girls...I k-closed a girl last week, and while outside smoking she said "So you dont have a girlfriend ? How come ?". I kept cool and said "I wasn't looking for that." Just make it sound like it was something you decided, and not because you didn't have any other choices. | /r/seduction | 16/03/12 11:57 AM |
| 1 | So what exactly is the difference between r/ seduction and r/pickup, and why does ThrowawayPU thinks the mods don't want you to know about it?I have no real idea what the difference is, but it's classic aggressive marketing techniques. "Secret", "Forbidden" and "Unapproved" are key words to get you to defy "the order", thus making you somewhat unconventional and rebellious, thus unique. | /r/seduction | 16/03/12 11:02 AM |
| 3 | Guys, don't fight being skinny.I'm 6'4" and float between 140 and 145, and I'm not even that skinny. | /r/seduction | 16/03/12 11:00 AM |
| 14 | Pickup Like a Sales RepNever be afraid to talk yourself out of a sale. This. I'm always baffled when it comes down to "just go get her now, if she wants to be your friend just cut her off". Sometimes you have to just go for it, sure, but I've had girls I've set appart for years, and I was in the friendzone. People change, maybe you'll be just exactly what she need later on. | /r/seduction | 15/03/12 11:22 PM |
| 2 | The NeighborsYou could try, you know. Then it's only awkward if you let it. Just don't over do it, don't go all crazy about her, overanalyzing what she does, etc. Chat her up, try and get her to go to a date with you, escalate. If this fails, just say "oh, I'm sorry I misinterpreted some signs. Please don't mind what I just did" and go on as usual. I did it with a friend of mine and we are closer than ever now that I've ruled out any form of sexual relationship. | /r/seduction | 13/03/12 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Utilizing your passions to increase your gameAs an amateur DJ, the analogy is quite obvious. You have to please the room so you sometimes have to adjust yourself, but it's mostly about choosing the right track to blend with another. Then again you sometime have to just say "fuck it we'll do it live", get drunk and try and do your best, especially if you don't like the music you have to play. | /r/seduction | 12/03/12 01:48 PM |
| 2 | Do you have to be a certain kind of man in order to be successful at this?I know that feel bro. I have a friend who, to become better with women, started working out, became rapidly bulked, and had a lot of muscles. Sometimes I ask myself, would I want to be like that ? To be honnest, I dress like a hipster, or actually just like most of MFA. I take care about my looks but not so much, my loft is messy, I don't talk that much, I don't approach random girls, etc. I just do what I like, and I have no shame in it. You look like someone cool, really, and that's all that m… | /r/seduction | 09/03/12 03:11 PM |
| 8 | To all the lurkers and noobs that haven't approached yet...Looks like you mixed the d's and t's in your username. You should totally have done that in normalized helvetica tho. Edit: here it is, I've made your comment into hipster. Also sorry to have been rude before, I've seen you on AskReddit and I like your style. | /r/seduction | 09/03/12 02:53 PM |
| 16 | To all the lurkers and noobs that haven't approached yet...I'd add a little something from my own perspective. The best way to approach is to do it outcome independant. Also, sometimes you won't be in the zone, I don't approach when I'm not in the zone. But just once you'll see that girl and you'll think. "Hey, I could go and say this and that to her". That's when you do it, you just go in and say the things you had in mind, that's what works. You don't get her number, no problem, the next one will, and there will be one. | /r/seduction | 09/03/12 02:44 PM |
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