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| 5 | What standards do women have that are “too high”?Oh... They might not tell you that, but when girls "wait it out", not dating for periods of time... That's what they're waiting for. Then when a shadow of that type of dude appears, they roll with him until they're satisfied with what they've got, or, usually, are left dissapointed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/22 11:10 AM |
| 34 | What standards do women have that are “too high”?Women seem to want everything compacted into one guy. Bad boy who treats her with love and respect, except in the bed where he basically uses her, but will magically never cross a line she's uncomfortable with. She wants him to be desired by other women while he stays monogamous and loyal to only her. She wants a confident, but not cocky guy. A very good looking dude with little or no time spent away from her at the gym, and never intruding on her own eating habbits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 01:41 PM |
| 75 | When discussing dating, women do not consider the average men as people so they compare themselves to the top 10% which is why they think dating is harder for them.When women say it's difficult for them in dating, I can only understand it if she acknowledges she's looking for a better looking guy, that DOESN'T just want to hit it and quit it. In that sense, I get it. But if a woman is complaining in general about "noone liking her" or "I keep dating shitty men and being abused and used", I raise an eyebrow, since her compass for "quality men" is way off. Or she's just purposely getting railed by bad guys in hopes of a different outcome. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 01:34 PM |
| 2 | Do men over 30 really get higher in sexual market value?It's more likely that a man in his 30 is higher value than a guy in his early 20's. Usually because we judge men more on their maturity and accomplishments. And since it takes a while for men to get those things, it's more likely they have more of it in their 30's rather than 20's. But a 20yo mature guy with a good future and already high quality lifestyle will be even more desirable, since he is younger and more youthful looking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 01:00 PM |
| 0 | Women say that the bar low for men? Is this really true?The bar for physical attractiveness for men is only high with very good looki women. Other women generally will let men get away with looking worse than those women would realistically be super attracted to. Whereas men are attracted to most women, bur that bar is still pretty high, regardless of a lot of women meeting those standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 09:12 AM |
| 2 | Q4M What do you tell men who have been hurt by numerous women compared to what you tell women who have been hurt by numerous men?From my experience, men struggle because they try to fix their dating issues by trying to become someone they're not, since that's what they think "women like". Women on the other hand often times blatantly ignore red flag around men who are physically attractive to them, and then wonder how it all went wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 07:49 AM |
| 0 | Cold approaching is an amazing way to meet partnersSocial skills can be had in degrees. I never had enough to romantically interest women. The few times I managed to in life, I pretty much lucked out because they were veeeeery open to anyone who tried anything. And that's uncommon. Cold approach for non-hot guys or non-super charming giys is useless | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 02:53 PM |
| 4 | Is dating actually fun for you?Absolutely not, that's why I got married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Men should stop Cold Approaching.Don't stop doing anything if you're single. Get used to women not liking men, and be surprised when a probable No turns into an unexpected Yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 02:06 PM |
| 13 | Cold approaching is an amazing way to meet partnersCold approach works for confident/funny/charming, good looking people. Cold approaching doesn't work for regular guys, unless the girl is actively looking and open to trying dating guys she doesn't find initially attractive. Cold approaching lands you in jail or embarrassed as a less than average man. Best way is friends of friends or social circles. People you already know a little, or people related to the people you know in some way that's going to make the two of you more likely to like each… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 02:01 PM |
| 1 | The frustrations of young men are reduced when governments legalize prostitutionI mean... A woman that couldn't find a partner is likely a woman that didn't try hard enough to find one... If you'd worked on fitness and being feminine in behavior, you'd be wifed up immediately... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 11:31 PM |
| 1 | The frustrations of young men are reduced when governments legalize prostitutionAge? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 10:47 PM |
| 1 | The frustrations of young men are reduced when governments legalize prostitutionAs opposed to actually dating, finding a person that likes you back and desires you aswell. Now you'll say some men can't get that, but you'd be wrong, the majority could, most of them just don't try hard enough to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 10:44 PM |
| -1 | The line between women taking responsibility and being the victim.Beaten and raped, the biggest extremes of all. How about when women call it "rape" when a guy they know and her have sex after they went clubbing and they were both intoxicated? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 01:57 PM |
| 13 | Women have access to more sex than men, but do they have access to more "quality" sex than men?Good point. Guys will say that statistically, if a woman had 10 bad experiences, and one good one, compared to a man with 0 experiences, she still wins because she had more good ones. What if you take a dude that laid 5 and a girl that laid 5. The dude likely came all 5 times. The woman couldn't say that for sure... There's almost no chance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 10:54 AM |
| 3 | The frustrations of young men are reduced when governments legalize prostitutionPoint is the levels of what men want. You don't get that, or you're different. Men usually want to be wanted. Sex being the ultimate expression of that unless paid for. Can't make this clearer... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/22 03:23 PM |
| 3 | The frustrations of young men are reduced when governments legalize prostitutionI agree it's obviously better than nothing. And less stressful when you pay, and receive, rather than paying less on a date, but getting nothing in return, and sometimes being left worse off than before. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/22 03:21 PM |
| 3 | The frustrations of young men are reduced when governments legalize prostitutionI never said that... I never said that men don't like sex. Or that they'd rather be sexless than having sex with someone who doesn't desire them. I said MEN REALLY WANT TO BE DESIRED. That's what they REALLY want. And sex is the ultimate expression of that, unless paid for. Men like sex and will have it regardless. But they might not actually ultimately want that, but will settle for an illusion of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/22 03:20 PM |
| 3 | The frustrations of young men are reduced when governments legalize prostitutionMen desire being wanted, and sex is the ultimate expression of being wanted. Where it ISN'T an expression of want, is with prostitutes. Prostitutes give sex, and after they're done they leave, often times unsatisfied and glad that it's over. Men don't usually WANT that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/22 03:17 PM |
| 7 | women and men with obvious red flagsEhh, I'd disagree, because I'd use the word "cocky" for someone that's crossing that line of "attractive confidence", into "unattractive confidence" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/22 03:14 PM |
| 5 | The frustrations of young men are reduced when governments legalize prostitutionSometimes you just wanna get laid, yes, but passion is what most men actually want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/22 03:14 PM |
| 1 | The frustrations of young men are reduced when governments legalize prostitutionSure. Sometimes it is convenience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/22 03:13 PM |
| 3 | The frustrations of young men are reduced when governments legalize prostitutionAt some age you just don't feel like it anymore. Some people are horned up their whole lives, others fall off quicker. Men have a higher sex drive, so the prostitute thing is usually to not emotionally scar their wives by having sex in a controlled, emotionless environment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/22 03:13 PM |
| 3 | The frustrations of young men are reduced when governments legalize prostitutionSex for pleasure is naturally always going to be more difficult for men to obtain, since men are the ones chasing. Yes, some men are gonna have it eazier, but still infinitely more difficult than a woman that's equal attractiveness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/22 03:12 PM |
| 32 | The frustrations of young men are reduced when governments legalize prostitutionSex isnt what men desire. They desire to be desired and paying for onlyfans or a prostitute is only going to give you the illusion of that desirability. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/22 02:07 PM |
| 22 | women and men with obvious red flagsAny attractive person has a high probability of "it getting to their head". Everyone likes a desirable person, but not what comes with that desirability. Nobody likes cocky people. Confident, not cocky. High self-esteem is appreciated, just not in a way which that person starts looking down on others. Constant appreciation of ones looks leads to the opinion that they're extremely attractive, and therefore will place themselves on pedestals because of it. Red flags come with higher value. Not all… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/22 02:06 PM |
| 8 | Q4M: What’s your definition of an orbiter?Usually a man who is unable to gain affection from a woman he desires, that stays and hangs around that woman for an extended period of time, hinting he wants sex/a relationship, or it's already implied. These men have low self-esteem, not much confidence, and usually caught a oneitis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/22 01:30 PM |
| 5 | Most women are taken and the ones who aren’t are usually fresh out of a relationship and don’t want to be bothered/aren’t looking. People say “that just means she wasn’t interested” but that is simply not true. Women do not always jump directly to another man.Women of value are always in a relationship, or at least it seems like it. If they got out of a relationship, they won't actively seek out another partner, and will likely only accept the advances of a guy they perceive to: 1) Be like their ex boyfriend (if her ex dumped her) 2) Be nothing like the last boyfriend, but better (if she dumped him) There is really no other reason for her to jump into another relationship... I personally know since I was reason no.2 But if I missed that slight window… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/22 08:12 AM |
| 2 | Introversion as a character trait seems to make relationships difficult to find for men.As a dude who's introverted and genuinely has little to no social hobbies, I can confirm it would basically be impossible to find someone. I go to work, play videi games, train boxing (alone), read, write, draw... There's no space to meet someone. I do fencing but meh, you can't really guarantee you'll meet someone at those. Idk how average men meet women if they're introverted | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 04:07 AM |
| 2 | Do nice guys actually exist?Hot guys are usually worse in behavior the younger they are. Why? Because they have to do little work to get a woman to have sex or go on a date with them. This is just true, and while not all hot guys are bad, majority of them will likely pump and dump. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 04:05 AM |
| 1 | Most of the time when men react with frustration when women reject them it is because the woman is less attractive than them and has an inflated image, not because they are “entitled to sex.” Women react the same way when they don’t get what they feel they “deserve,” yet only one is shamed for it.Most guys getting mad at this aren't better looking than the woman they're going for. Sure, it happens, but women are generally prettier than their male counterparts. Women are the beautiful gender, and therefore usually have a more inflated ego if they look good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Dating for men is not that hard as you make it seem to beThat's the US man, the US aren't the entire world. Here in human lands we meet IRL. Online it's likely just a text after you already saw or met someone. Not MEETING through a dating app. And even if "most people" met online (online can be many things, not just dating apps), you can STILL meet people IRL. That's an editional method | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 10:25 AM |
| 5 | Dating for men is not that hard as you make it seem to beThen that's a thing you might wanna, maybe not in your case since you're probably set in your ways, explore... If you only engage in relations with women that inevitably turn sexual, then either you literally haven't met the right women, or you knowingly/not knowingly take it there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 07:44 AM |
| 6 | Dating for men is not that hard as you make it seem to beI mean... If you dislike women, you're likely not going to have a healthy relationship with one. Have fun being miserable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 07:26 AM |
| 2 | I think there is a fundamental lack of understanding when it comes to women understanding how bad difficult dating is for most men.They're ok with the way a woman keeps herself safe, but that's not fully understanding the fear. You can acknowledge it "oh you have pepper spray?". And nodd that you get why she has it. But the actuality of the issues is much more than that. Mens problems are ignored by women in a sense that they can't feel the pain of rejection. They often say they "get it", but do they? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 07:14 AM |
| 2 | I think there is a fundamental lack of understanding when it comes to women understanding how bad difficult dating is for most men.Don't have a victim complex. It's just a valid comparison to how men feel about women's issues. That essentially how women feel about ours. They might say they feel bad, but that doesn't really mean much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 05:43 AM |
| 2 | Dating for men is not that hard as you make it seem to beThat's not what I meant at all. By "learning to behave around women" I literally meant that you should BEFRIEND them and get to know and see them as people, not sex objects waiting for your approach. Just a misunderstanding | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 05:31 AM |
| 4 | Dating for men is not that hard as you make it seem to beMen will deny the need for social circles or female friends regarding the success in their dating life... OP, you're correct, they're wrong. Simple as that. Most commonly people meet through work, friends groups, friends of friends... You should definitely make friends, especially female friends if you want a girlfriend eventually. Don't befriend women in hopes of smashing one day,. befriend them so you learn how to behave better around women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 05:25 AM |
| 4 | I think there is a fundamental lack of understanding when it comes to women understanding how bad difficult dating is for most men.Several people understood what I said, lemme explain it... Basically men don't really care about real issues women have around dating men. Women are afraid of being raped by their date, stabbed, impregnated, being lured into a relationship then emotionally/physically abused, being left pregnant, being left like a piece of trash after he has sex with them, etc. Men don't really care about that. Generally. Men don't think about those things because it's not EFFECTING THEM. You now might acknowledg… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 04:59 AM |
| 2 | I think there is a fundamental lack of understanding when it comes to women understanding how bad difficult dating is for most men.See, you say that, but you'll never truly feel the unfairness there. Just as women don't understand or really care about our struggles in dating. Even though they might say they do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 04:54 AM |
| 5 | I think there is a fundamental lack of understanding when it comes to women understanding how bad difficult dating is for most men.I specifically said their date | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/22 05:40 PM |
| 15 | I think there is a fundamental lack of understanding when it comes to women understanding how bad difficult dating is for most men.Exactly. They're from SOMEONE CLOSE TO YOU. That's a horrifying fear. And it being "rare" isn't exactly true... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/22 05:32 PM |
| 14 | I think there is a fundamental lack of understanding when it comes to women understanding how bad difficult dating is for most men.Do you really care, and I mean, really care about the fear women have of walking alone at night with their date, someone they're supposed to be trying get close and intimate with, of being raped or beaten and killed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/22 04:45 PM |
| 2 | Is the gym obsession/fad making it difficult for average men and influencing women's opinions on how the average man should look?Not an issue, women don't want average anyway. If there were just slobs like me in public, the rate of bisexual, or straight up lesbian women would skyrocket. These few men keep women wanting men, sexually... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/22 05:03 AM |
| 0 | What is some good advice/tips for an inexperienced guy looking to date/have his first relationship?Don't lie to her, you'll be forced to make easily falsifiable stories that your friends or family members might later disprove. Be genuine, but not rude or too intrusive on the first date. Know what you want, a hookup or a relationship, then act accordingly. If it's a relationship, check for important details like general world views (religion is a good example), lifestyle (does she vastly outearn you, are her motivations and her aspirations important to you, etc.) I got engaged after 7 months o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 07:46 AM |
| 1 | Self-improvement makes it harder to find a partnerYou can't change your natural attributes, and therefore you're worth less on the dating market. You shouldn't have to settle, but looks like it's either than or loneliness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 07:38 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Black women are the least desirable in the dating world today.In addition to obvious struggles you have with your race (I feel sorry for you, it is unfair that you're in that position over something you can't control), it might be something that you're not exactly telling us, or yourself... Are your standards really that simple? "Takes care of himself and has a stable career" What does that mean? Does he have to earn as much as you? Does it have to be a career or just a job? What does taking care of himself mean? Some men are content with cleaning once a w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 07:36 AM |
| 9 | What would a below average man/woman be?It could be facial features that offset their other ones, like normal top and bottom third of the face, with a gigantic beak like nose. Maybe normal 2 upper thirds of face, but basically no chin or jawline. Or normal bottom hald of tue face with puppy eyes (for a guy), or bug eyes in general. Physically it's being visibly overweight or REALLY skinny with a small frame. Being short is also below average, like a 5'7" dude. Personality, it would be someone annoying, someone pseudo intellectual, or … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/22 06:05 AM |
| 4 | Women here constantly insist that “most men are getting laid and in relationships,” that only a tiny minority of us on PPD and other outcast communities are struggling and don’t represent the majority. This is patently false and seemingly used to once again redirect criticism and blame to us.Trueee | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 04:20 PM |
| 5 | Women here constantly insist that “most men are getting laid and in relationships,” that only a tiny minority of us on PPD and other outcast communities are struggling and don’t represent the majority. This is patently false and seemingly used to once again redirect criticism and blame to us.Yes..? Women don't like to be mistreated. Before you comment on how women stay in bad relationship with bad men: Just because some women stay in abusive relationships because of their own mental/moral/social/family dilemas, doesn't mean women LIKE that type of treatment. It ofcourse means that who they dated had other qualities they desired, and stayed out of habbit for the relationship, or because they thought that's what they deserved to be treated like. Women don't like bad treatment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 04:20 PM |
| 17 | Women here constantly insist that “most men are getting laid and in relationships,” that only a tiny minority of us on PPD and other outcast communities are struggling and don’t represent the majority. This is patently false and seemingly used to once again redirect criticism and blame to us.The insinuation that all men eventually have to settle for a woman below their attractiveness is so false... It's even a meme that men always somehow find a beautiful girl when they look like 2% cottage cheese... Men are the ones getting away with murder here... Most TRP points are based on masculine ideas of what an attractive man would be to a woman. If you wanna know what type of dude women want, interact with them, hear what they say and watch what they do... It's not always the rich alphas … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 03:34 PM |
| 1 | What can actually be done to improve the dating scene for everyoneThat's the start at least, we as humanity don't need apps specifically designed to find people you don't know to hook up with. Creates infinitely more problems in the world, than a couple people finding the "love of their life" on them... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Until men stop making the opinions of random (hot) women about them more important than their own opinions of themselves, dating will be harder for menGenerally, if you don't interact with people, their opinions are automatically irrelevant since they don't know you well enough to judge you. Random hot women likely know how much they're wanted, so any guy below her standards (the overwhelming majority of men) is a ghost to her. That being said, why men take these women's opinions into consideration is beyond me. No woman wants to fuck a man (that isn't hot), until he proves her otherwise. If you find yourself struggling to prove yourself as a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 03:48 PM |
| 1 | What can actually be done to improve the dating scene for everyoneRemove dating apps. They're for hookups and not for "lonely and shy people to connect". It gives Chads more pussy, and gives women more trauma over dating men (because they date the samw guy over and over). Remove cam girls and onlyfans girls. Make it extremely shameful to watch those things, as a society we can agree that paying someone to send you videos of them having sex with someone else, to "please you" is sick and leads to inceldom. Encourage women to not accept casual sex, and to explore… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 11:57 AM |
| 1 | There's something fundamentally immoral about onlyfans and certain escortsDoes it turn out well? No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 02:43 PM |
| 1 | There's something fundamentally immoral about onlyfans and certain escortsThat's not how these relationships pan out. Guys don't just wife up hoes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Are standards “too high” if they are met?You can't increase standards when you'd lower your already non existent dating pool. "I will only date blonde women now!" ~Virgin It literally doesn't do anything other than you having some self respect. But that won't get you far regarding obtaining a sexual partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Women hurt women as a group by lying or hiding their own ageI mean... You can't stay young and beautiful forever. It's not a bad thing that you can't, it's just the way it is... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 12:37 PM |
| 2 | Women hurt women as a group by lying or hiding their own ageWomen can and do look hot up until 50. Not all but they definitely can. They're just not as fertile | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 06:22 AM |
| 1 | There's something fundamentally immoral about onlyfans and certain escortsThat's cool and all, but it's irrelevant since most men WILL NOT TAKE THESE WOMEN SERIOUSLY. I would date a pornstar if I were single... But... Would I being her home to my parents? Hell fucking no??????? Or a girl that has onlyfans that my kids will one day accidentally discover, or even worse, some of their friends in school that'll bully them forever? It's disgusting behavior not fit for a mother, and since most men want kids later in life, those women are off the list. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 06:19 AM |
| 1 | Are standards “too high” if they are met?you are extremely picky about partners the others gender struggles immensely in finding a partner the other gender becomes desperate and dates whomever women put less effort into themselves since interest in them doesn't stop rising anyway, only the quality of partners they usually find a partner out of their league and settle | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 01:13 AM |
| 2 | Men are constantly reminded that “women are not a hive mind” yet they consistently demonstrate the exact opposite when it comes to mate selection - they are heavily influenced by their peers and base their opinions of men on what their friends and other women thinkIt highly depends on what type of women you date, how and where you find them aswell. I never dated normies. Normie women are extremely uninteresting and basic in their mate selection. I can't deal with someone with 0 interest and no personality... Therefore, I looked for shy women, gamers, edgy chicks, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 01:11 AM |
| 2 | There's something fundamentally immoral about onlyfans and certain escortsHumans as a society have collectively decided that sex work is a bad thing that should be shamed and looked down upon. This is changing. While women are more "accepted" for doing sex work, most guys, if not all, will NOT date these women seriously. Unless those men are highly promiscuous and genuinely don't care aswell (very, very rare). There's nothing objectively wrong with sex work, but there is something to say about exploitation of lonely men that can't seem to get sufficient knowledge abou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 01:09 AM |
| 2 | Would you find it useful to be given a reference/ referral (consentually) before you get into a relationship with someone?Yet again a way to opress men with little/no experience. As soon as this b asks you for the QR code, your ass is out when she finds out you're 25 and have had literally 0 love interests in your life. And that's pretty much a reality for a lot of men these days. Not saying it's the women's fault, but it's not great to put that info out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/22 02:23 PM |
| 2 | Dating is 100% a numbers game for men, and it is inherently humiliating.Her physique, her appearance (hair, clothing, makeup, etc.), possibly her behavior (depending on the setting, if she's bubbly and giggly that's a turn or for all men). That's basically the majority of factors that men want... Now it's up to the girl to show her skills in bed, her want for him, and her personality, which is important, but definitely got most things covered from a brief interaction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/22 04:12 PM |
| 1 | What are the life stories of the people in this subreddit?I feel bad for men that identify as incels or red pillers because I've gone through the black pill phase myself, and had identified why all the RP men go through what they're going through. Black pill essentially is a lack of experience in dating and self awareness. Misunderstanding the value of looks compared to personality and compatibility, in general. Red pill is just strategy for manipulative men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/22 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Dating is 100% a numbers game for men, and it is inherently humiliating.Because men are those who approach, they'll naturally face more, if not basically all the rejections. It's because you're going only for the type of girl you want. You aren't (at least most men aren't) going for women they don't want. So you have to nail the odds that the girl that just notices your approach likes what you have to offer in the short exchange of your visual appeal and charisma, and hear tastes. If they match, you win, if not, you take an L. It's rare to accidentally guess a perso… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/22 02:40 PM |
| 1 | What are some dating hills that you will die on?It's not black and white. A guy with 0 personality and 10 looks will get through the door. A dude with the opposite will not, or might, but likely won't be able to keep anyone around because the looks are so brutal. Reality is that most people are somewhere in between. Neither gorgeous nor ugly, neither amazing nor miserable. And if you're lower on the looks department, your personality plays a bigger part by default, and if you're on par with someone hot, you're losing. If you're super interest… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/22 11:49 AM |
| 2 | Lesbian women have an easier time getting women than most straight men do.Yes. They do. Gay men get more men than women and men combined | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/22 05:15 AM |
| 1 | What are some dating hills that you will die on?You're talking about specifically ugly men. A 1/10 guy is extremely rare, and guys who'd say they're a 1/10 can usually do a lot to fix themselves up. People who are ACTUAL 1/10's have either mental issues that are extreme, or literal deformities... Extreme examples to prove a point. Looks matter bro, just not as much as you think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/22 04:20 AM |
| 1 | What are some dating hills that you will die on?As you yourself said, looks gets your foot in the door. That’s their point. Read again, carefully this time. "Looks get you through the door much easier than personality does" That's my actual comment. It's not that you CAN'T get through the door on personality alone, it's just that very good looks already do that for you. But that DOESN'T mean you can't get there with personality alone.. I have. My friends have. Lots and lots of people do. Because most people are average, and your looks become … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/22 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Never take dating advice from womenDo not take direct "how to" dating advice from women. Ask what they like in men, then become the best version of that, while not losing yourself in that. Meaning... If they want a strong man, get into a gym or sport you like (might like that you haven't tried), if they want stability then make sure you do well at the job you're at to the best of your abilities, if they want trust don't cheat on them, if they want good sex then learn and be willing to perform acts you might not be so good at. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/22 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Dating in 30s as a woman?If you met the woman of your dreams at a later age, and she said she froze her eggs, for this exact purpose, of not settling with someone just because she's still fertile... Then I believe the dude would accept that reality if he's actually in love | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/22 01:07 PM |
| 3 | Women say most men are “awful,” toxic or undateable, or that “the bar is so low” which is such a joke. Most men worship the ground women walk on, even attractive ones, and women are ridiculously selective.A lot of men end up being toxic dirtbags... To be fair, women use that too broadly, but a lot of guys just pull of stinky moves and get away with it. They fake interest, sleep with a girl, then dump her when they no longer have interest, or simply have an interest in someone else. And yes, sadly a lot of men aren't fit for relationships. Girls are born with value, guys make it. If a girl is polite, younf, attractive, willing to cooperate, then that's literally all she needs for a relationship, e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/22 01:06 PM |
| -4 | Dating in 30s as a woman?Men saying women in their 30's are "too old" for them, are usually men who just want sex and nothing more. You, as a 29yo, are at risk of giving birth to unhealthy children, unless you meet a partner very soon and have them quickly after. Freeze your eggs and you'll be good to go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/22 09:13 AM |
| 6 | Women say most men are “awful,” toxic or undateable, or that “the bar is so low” which is such a joke. Most men worship the ground women walk on, even attractive ones, and women are ridiculously selective.My question to you is, what are they bending over backwards for? And what are they doing exactly? Just worshiping women as dolls with access to sex isn't really a good thing. Wanting a woman badly but doing little or nothing other than trying to sleep with them means you're sexualizing them. You might say most men want relationships, fine, but what are they doing to obtain them? Are most men good enough to keep as a long term partner? The reality is, I think the majority of people wouldn't make … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/22 09:11 AM |
| 1 | Do more prudish/absitent societies have more "satisfying" sex lives?Who are you gonna have more fun with? Someone that's limited to a few positions, no oral and little experience, or someone who might even bring a third person into the mix, amazing oral and switches 20 positions and fulfills all your fetishes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/22 07:52 AM |
| 4 | Men have almost zero opportunity to meet women unless it is organic or through mutual friends, coworkers or in the short window of time they are in college if they go. You can be the hottest guy in the room, but rarely is it fruitful if you approach. This shows men have it far worse than women.Make yourself likeable without giving specific attention to one of the girls. This way she'll be the one liking you, instead of just you befriending her right off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/22 07:39 AM |
| 21 | Men have almost zero opportunity to meet women unless it is organic or through mutual friends, coworkers or in the short window of time they are in college if they go. You can be the hottest guy in the room, but rarely is it fruitful if you approach. This shows men have it far worse than women.Here's my advice to men dating... Forget dating apps, waste of time. Socialize and when you meet new people, decide quickly if you want to befriend or romantically approach them. If you become friends and you don't present yourself as a sexual potential, you'll remain a friend. You need that little window of time to work in your favor. If you miss it, you miss it. Nothing you can do. Rarely will a woman change her mind about your status as a friend and upgrade it to a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/22 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Women don't age like MilkI've seen 20yo women who look like shit, I've seen 50 year old women that made me salivate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/22 08:53 PM |
| 0 | Women really don't like men who LOOK YOUNGER than themWomen, like men, would ideally want it all. An accomplished man, with a steady paycheck, settled living arrangement, hobbies, interests, activities, inside of a young mans body. This is, ofcourse, unrealistic. But it's the ideal. And whatever comes close to ideal is what they'll take. Sometimes wanting more, sometimes settling for less. Would you set you IDEAL type as the type you're willing to realistically accept? No. Because that's not ideal, it's realistic and you might be fine with it. Not … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/22 05:48 PM |
| 0 | Is not wanting to get married always a red flag? What if we’re both childfree?Not wanting kids might be a selfishness red flag. Wanting to focus on noone others than your own self. It doesn't have to be, of course, but it very well can be. Marriage is outdated and dangerous. I say have the ceremony, but don't go into it without a prenup. Make sure you both agree on the terms and that while all is good, you make sure to make as clean of an exit plan as possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/22 04:07 PM |
| 4 | Most men don't have trouble dating and "betabucks" is mostly fantasy"men gathering evidence" Oh please, as if the redpill community isn't full of anegdotal evidence. "All women are sults bro, there is no virgin after first years of highschool" I've heard this shit so many times, but literally doesn't apply to (for example) my experience in life, where modt my friends are virgins well into their mid 20's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/22 11:16 AM |
| 1 | Most men don't have trouble dating and "betabucks" is mostly fantasyIf you indeed do like that someone is stable. They have a steady income, their shit in order, an apartment they live in or even bought, etc. That shit is attractive not just because of those materialistic things, it also says a lot about you as a person. Not every relationship has to be sexy and hot. It can be a partnership in which a deep love for one another develops on the basis of making each others lives better, or worth living | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/22 11:15 AM |
| 4 | Most men don't have trouble dating and "betabucks" is mostly fantasyBecause a person gets more mature, their life more stable, their hobbies, interests, activities in order? Oh, yea sorry, it's toootally just the "money". You know most people don't have "money" by thirty. Or a "career". Most people just do a regular job and usually get panicked about saving because they might want kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/22 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Women are invariably drawn to men who are taken and become way more attracted to a guy upon discovering he is spoken for. Most men are completely turned off when they learn a woman has a boyfriend or is married, which shows women are far more shallow than men who base their attraction on looks.Looking at this the wrong way. Women are born with values that men like. Is she nice? Is she hot? Is she caring, loving, etc.? These are all things yiu easily notice early on and decide if you wanna lock her down or not. Women's attraction to men is muuuch more complicated. Many barriers have to be crossed. And if another woman liked him so much to have his children, shows extreme value right off the bat. And that's something hard to find. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/22 08:23 PM |
| 3 | What are some dating hills that you will die on?I don’t think many people care about a relationship. Umm... What? Ofcourse most care wym? Personality matters little during casual sex. You gotta be charming or at least have good equipment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/22 08:37 AM |
| 4 | What are some dating hills that you will die on?No, most incels are definitely referring to ANY type of courting, be it casual or relationship seeking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/22 08:36 AM |
| 1 | What are some dating hills that you will die on?Personality is what makes a person who they are. If you're an empty shell, just a buff tall dude, you're not going to be impressive for long. The girl will get used to your appearance and start taking it for granted. And she'll begin complaining that there is no supstance to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/22 08:35 AM |
| 15 | What are some dating hills that you will die on?"Personality doesn't matter" is the absolute biggest lie told by incels and red pillers who've never engaged in a serious relationship. Looks get you through the door much easier than personality does. But looks don't keep a healthy and worth while relationship going. They only desolve into sex and eventually an unhappy marriage or a break up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/22 10:05 PM |
| 2 | If the 80/20 rule was magically reversed would men ever be encouraged to settle?Mug or kill? In most cases it's rape or terror (terror is fear of fear). Which is more common and much scarier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 01:09 PM |
| 2 | If the 80/20 rule was magically reversed would men ever be encouraged to settle?Show me a man that claims he wouldn't have his fun if he had the options and I'll show you a liar | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 01:09 PM |
| 1 | If the 80/20 rule was magically reversed would men ever be encouraged to settle?Yea... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 12:17 PM |
| -1 | If the 80/20 rule was magically reversed would men ever be encouraged to settle?Women like sex. Men like sex. Women are attracted to few men. Men are attracted to most women. Women are desired in the dating market. Men are not desired in the dating market. Women can pick and choose who they want to sleep with. Men can't pick and choose who they want to sleep with. Women are picky, regardless of their options, because of pregnancy scares and the man's dislike for marrying promiscuous women. Men are not picky, because they have little options in addition to high sex drives. A… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 11:48 AM |
| -1 | If the 80/20 rule was magically reversed would men ever be encouraged to settle?You're not bright enough to understand what's written. Enjoy your day | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 11:39 AM |
| 0 | If the 80/20 rule was magically reversed would men ever be encouraged to settle?Didn't you just say women don't like sex, umm, like 2 posts ago? Oh they like sex, just not with the broader population of men. With dating apps they can easily find whatever Chad they want and have sex. It's super easy for women if they're just looking for sex. Even with the rarity that are hot men. Data to support this? If you didn't notice on the internet or IRL that men would have tons of sex if they could, then with peace and love, you'd have to be an individual with a mild form of autism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 11:27 AM |
| 5 | If the 80/20 rule was magically reversed would men ever be encouraged to settle?Are you gonna acknowledge my point or ignore it and focus on an irrelevant number? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 11:20 AM |
| 1 | If the 80/20 rule was magically reversed would men ever be encouraged to settle?They have more sex because they CAN. If men COULD, we would find their N counts laughable. Since we CAN'T, their N counts seem insane. To a dude, N count of 20 on a girl seems craaaazy high, but that's only because the average dude can never go above 10 women in a lifetime. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 11:18 AM |
| 2 | If the 80/20 rule was magically reversed would men ever be encouraged to settle?I exaggerated to make a point. Remove a 0 and you still get an insane N count and realistic scenario... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 11:17 AM |
| 1 | If the 80/20 rule was magically reversed would men ever be encouraged to settle?Yes, but they're more risk prone, and they know men don't like sluts (only sleeping with them, not marrying them). And they don't find as many men attractive. So all that combined, they do like sex, but with much fewer potential partners than what men got. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 11:12 AM |
| 2 | If the 80/20 rule was magically reversed would men ever be encouraged to settle?This is a scenario where men have the desire of women after them. Not in the current setting... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 11:11 AM |
| 2 | If the 80/20 rule was magically reversed would men ever be encouraged to settle?I never said they didn't | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 11:06 AM |
| 2 | If the 80/20 rule was magically reversed would men ever be encouraged to settle?Yes, because they're in the scenario where they're not attracted to most men, so they're picky. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 10:58 AM |
| 4 | If the 80/20 rule was magically reversed would men ever be encouraged to settle?I'm not shitting on men. You're imposing that sleeping around is a bad thing, and therefore men would be bad in that scenario for doing so. Average men love sex. Much more than the average woman, since average women find it hard to be attracted to men, since there are very little who can get them to be attracted to them. Whereas most women sre attractive to most men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 10:10 AM |
| 5 | If the 80/20 rule was magically reversed would men ever be encouraged to settle?Men like sex more. Women like relationships more. Not all, not all, not all, but most. Hot men have lots of sex. Or, to be more precise, as much sex as they want (be it a lot or little), since they're desired on the market. Women choose to have fun, but have to worry about pregnancy and not partying well into thirties in order not to miss their period of giving birth to healthy babies. Men on the other hand have nothing to worry about and have higher sex drives. Therefore, conclusion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 09:09 AM |
| 36 | If the 80/20 rule was magically reversed would men ever be encouraged to settle?Men would just do what the top 20% of guys (regarding looks) do now. They just have a LOT of meaningless sex. Eventually settling down after they've had their fun. Basically what women do, on steroids. You think N=50 is high for a woman? How about the average (would be) N=2000 for a dude with those options... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 08:34 AM |
| 17 | CMV: No fault divorce makes marriage pointless"you get fat, you pay" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 07:37 AM |
| 1 | What eventually happens to most of the single men on online dating?They give up? Unless you're really good looking and get tired of meaningless sex and give up that way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 05:38 AM |
| 2 | How much time does a highly productive man actually have to give you?If you wanted to, you'd make time for her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 05:37 AM |
| 4 | To all the men hereYou think any woman would want to date somone who makes less than them? Yes... It's 2022... As long as you can make a decent living and don't stray drastically away from her lifestyle (for which a certain paycheck suffices) veeery few women will care. If you're in a totally different bracket, then yes, some will care. And at the time i am looking for sex you think i am gonna care what her motivations are? And men wonder why the dating market sucks... You really have no standards or self respect | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/22 08:46 AM |
| 0 | Men need women.Strong disagree. You likely haven't met women that are of similar interests or lifestyles. If you have, you either haven't put in much work into meeting them, or they didn't like you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/22 08:30 AM |
| 2 | To all the men hereAll the women that are going after you. If all you've got to offer is your finances, that's what you're going to get. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/22 08:28 AM |
| 1 | Men need women.I love this FDS type... Can't accept your role... Welp, I'm glad there are women out there like my wife. Willing to invest in their man, in order to later reap the benefits of said man. I hate this idea that "I don't wanna be a pornstar, cook, cleaner, etc." Noone is asking you to... I didn't even mention any of that... I simply stated that lots of men are comfortable with where they're at in life and it takes a woman sometimes to boost their interests in things. Make them want to better themsel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/22 07:46 AM |
| 4 | To all the men hereSounds like you're at a higher age and you're not interested/not mentally prepared for a serious relationship. Feels like you missed that window and are now "making up for lost time", taking out better looking women that are there for your money... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/22 07:43 AM |
| 1 | Men need women.Yes. But you can work together to overcome. Me and my wife are codependent. We work very well together, but not so well alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/22 07:26 AM |
| 2 | To all the men hereDepending on where you are in life doesn't matter who you date aslong as you are fine with it. Absolutely disagree. If you want a long term partner, who they are is ALL that matters. If you're incompatible, it will not work. And no, no jsut sexually, emotionally and regarding your lifestyles. If wildly different, won't end well. That means if you are 30 and a 23 year old or a 21 year old is interested in you.. go for it. People may wilify you The reason people make a villain out of you, is becau… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/22 07:25 AM |
| 9 | Is It Cuckoldry If She Has Sex With Other Women?If you care about this individual as a long term partner, and you're in a monogamous relationship, you're fooling yourself by thinking her having sex with women isn't cheating. If you're not serious about the relationship, I wouldn't see it as an issue since women aren't competition to me. Also, it's kind of hot if you're into that, and leads to possible threesomes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/22 05:27 AM |
| 2 | A man who is above average looking, say 7-9 should have no problem landing a woman of equal attractiveness. The fact that they are forced to work for it and still often struggle to even get their attention perfectly epitomizes women’s inflated self images due to abundance."the fact he has to work for it" Bro yes, you still have to "work for it". Because that's how women are usually wired. No matter how hot a man is, most women won't just give themselves ti him. And that's a good thing. Because if he were to turn out abusive or leave her after finding out she's pregnant, everyone would be saying how poorly she chose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/22 04:30 AM |
| 1 | Men need women.You don't need a woman to be attractive as a man. You can do these things on your own... But I'm just saying for a lot of men, women give that motivation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/22 04:26 AM |
| 2 | Men need women.You took a horrible example to make a point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 01:18 PM |
| 0 | Men need women.People encourage you because they've experienced it aswell. I guarantee you there are definitely things you're missing out on. The alcohol thing I don't have much to comment on, other than you are missing out on relaxing more in social gatherings. For example, I had was extremely anti social and tense in crowds of people. My therapist literally asked me if I had tried drinking before. I said no, and she recommended I just try to "loosen up" with a bit of alcohol. Not a lot, just a small amount, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 11:01 AM |
| -1 | Men need women.I'm not pro capitalism. And this isn't a capitalist mindset. I never said wanting more expensive cars, properties, clothing, etc. I said that there are things you can experience, that don't cost any, or at least not a lot of money, that will make your life more fulfilling, interesting and enjoyable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 10:26 AM |
| 0 | Men need women.Sorry you think that the existence of the other gender is unnecessary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 10:23 AM |
| 3 | Being kind of toxic and manipulative is the only way average men can get fair trades.That's you man. I don't take shit from my girl just because I would likely not find another for a long period of time. A relationship is equal. 100/100 effort. If anyone is putting less, leave. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 08:55 AM |
| 4 | [Debate] At least for men, "just wait, it will happen bro" is terrible advice.You do understand that the overwhelming majority of women would be fine if their man earned a simple average wage..? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 08:51 AM |
| 6 | Being kind of toxic and manipulative is the only way average men can get fair trades.Men usually would like more from life, they just don't know it. I literally spent my time playing league and csgo, living with my parents, going to work and back home to play. I was satisfied. But satisfied doesn't necessarily mean happy. You might think so, if you haven't experienced better things in life. Now that I have a wife, it's like I'm a different person. I enjoy reading, writing, drawing, traveling, fine dining, escape rooms, laser tag, airsoft, fencing, gym, etc. I would never do that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 07:24 AM |
| 0 | Being kind of toxic and manipulative is the only way average men can get fair trades.Ok. That's you, I definitely have. It is possible that it's because my country has a higher rate of beautiful women, compared to obese america. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 07:21 AM |
| 5 | Being kind of toxic and manipulative is the only way average men can get fair trades.Idk where you live, but where I'm at, either people are average, or the girl is beautiful and the dude is below, or average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 06:29 AM |
| 2 | Being kind of toxic and manipulative is the only way average men can get fair trades.A lot of men value women for JUST looks. I personally find little value in looks, if I'm looking for an LTR, if the woman isn't smart, has no sense of humor, or has a different lifestyle. Saying women are born with value literally implies just looks. You think men can't be born with value? 6'5 and naturally gains little fat and lots of muscle? It's just that men are hornier than women, so their looks might play a bigger role since most men usually look for something casual (variety). Therefore t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 06:28 AM |
| 4 | Being kind of toxic and manipulative is the only way average men can get fair trades.That's definitely not true. Most average people are with average people. I can definitely say that I've seen A LOT MORE men with women more beautiful than them than the other way around. Personality wise, it's harder to tell, but it's usually bad boys or genuinely fun men to be around that get women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 06:04 AM |
| 7 | Being kind of toxic and manipulative is the only way average men can get fair trades.You don't have to be sly. You really CAN be yourself and find someone. My question is, have you worked on yourself enough to the point of being attractive to other people. If not, you should question that, and see what you're missing from life by not making those steps to improve. You know, improving yourself doesn't have to be for others. You really will come to enjoy some of those things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 06:03 AM |
| 1 | How much do you think being a woman’s best lover ever matters?Basically, it depends on what your relationship is based on. I know people that have amazing relationships because their sex life is THAT good. Some relationships, like my own, are a mix of good sex and good emotional connection. And some are even almost purely emotional, sex is on occasion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 05:42 AM |
| 6 | [Debate] At least for men, "just wait, it will happen bro" is terrible advice.When people say "just wait, it'll happen" it's usually referring to something a lot of people understand without thinking about it. "Focus on your life and your happiness. Progress in your career if you're interested in doing so, find different avenues of making money if interested, engage in activities good for your health or that you simply enjoy, exercise regularly, educate yourself and learn from life. Make friends and acquire deeper connections with people. Eventually, someone like minded w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 05:40 AM |
| 13 | Being kind of toxic and manipulative is the only way average men can get fair trades.Unfortunately, a lot of todays men think like this, when in reality, a lot of average men are in relationships. If you have no experience with women, you're in the minority. It might SEEM like other men have none around you, but if you're an adult, it's likely that the dude has SOME experience. While men get significantly lower attention, not everyone is a lost redditor IRL. Having common interests with someone, basic romantic attraction and similar lifestyles isn't that uncommon. People meet al… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 05:28 AM |
| 2 | As someone who recently tried getting with 2 "shy, timid and introverted" girls, I can tell you right now the claim of women being into bad guys only goes for oversheltered/pampered/popular/rich girlsYes. Women aren't attracted to bad behavior unless you're hot. Could you argue they're then instead attracted to their looks, and they just deal with the bad behavior? No. Because they could easily find good looking nice guys. But some women specifically go after bad men that are also good looking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/22 10:54 AM |
| 3 | As someone who recently tried getting with 2 "shy, timid and introverted" girls, I can tell you right now the claim of women being into bad guys only goes for oversheltered/pampered/popular/rich girlsMaybe you haven't been around these conversations as much. Women always liked bad men. Men of any kind kf reputation that doesn't correlate with "regular, boring, safe". It's excitement. Not all women like that type of excitement, but some, even many, do... These men can treat them poorly and use them, as pong as they provide the looks and the persona... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/22 10:09 AM |
| 3 | As someone who recently tried getting with 2 "shy, timid and introverted" girls, I can tell you right now the claim of women being into bad guys only goes for oversheltered/pampered/popular/rich girlsI never said all were... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/22 09:49 AM |
| 8 | As someone who recently tried getting with 2 "shy, timid and introverted" girls, I can tell you right now the claim of women being into bad guys only goes for oversheltered/pampered/popular/rich girlsWhat does you seeing two shy girls have anything to do with women being broadly attracted to bad boys? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/22 09:41 AM |
| 20 | As someone who recently tried getting with 2 "shy, timid and introverted" girls, I can tell you right now the claim of women being into bad guys only goes for oversheltered/pampered/popular/rich girlsAs an experienced male (I saw two women 😎) I can tell you: insert uninformed opinion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/22 09:37 AM |
| 1 | Women really are wonderful: Men benefit more from marriage than women do, and it's due to patriarchal misogyny that so many men believe it's the opposite.Don't know how you got that, but ok. It's not their fault they got beat. Could they of POTENTIALLY CHOSE BETTER? In some cases, definitely yes. I've seen sooooooo many women complaining about their ex's being abusive, and then I look at a pic of the dude, and it's ALWAYS some tall, musuclar douchebag. Clearly a fuckboy from both his past, and the way he looks. Aldo, when they date literal bullies or some "successful" (in business) sociopaths. Yea, no shit he's abusive... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/22 02:36 PM |
| 1 | The top 3 things a woman can give to a man are Kids > Sex > Loyalty in that order.Love > Care > Sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/22 06:16 AM |
| 0 | Has anyone had their view changed bc of a debate here on PPDIt solidified my views that men lack awareness in dating. That they're literally not worth nearly as much as they think, and do very little besides going to the gym to improve themselves. It's depressing to see. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/22 06:15 AM |
| 1 | Do women realize how little maintenance men need to be statistically faithful?People who cheat do it because they're missing something in their partner. If you lack attractuo, that shouldn't be your parnter... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/22 06:04 AM |
| 6 | Most men aren't bad, they just lack a good example.Men are like America.. Creates problem Swoops in to try and resolve problem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 05:04 AM |
| 0 | Most men aren't bad, they just lack a good example.I agree, and I didn't imply that there are no feminine negative traits. But masculinity plagues men and makes them think being a "real man" is something that actually matters, when in reality it just pushed a lot of homophobia, prevents individuals from sharing their feelings, makes people aggressive and scary | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 05:03 AM |
| 1 | The three date rule exists for a reason.I personally wouldn't date a woman who expects me to wait, but she had ONS in the past. That's just me, I don't date that type of girl. Although I do understand them. Since just because you were more carefree in the past, doesn't mean you can't change for the better and understand that guys are more likely to hit it and quit it if you put out to anyone anytime | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 05:01 AM |
| 1 | Women, how do you expect a man to meet a woman?If it's a social circle, the chances of you meeting someone with similar interests is a lot higher than dating random women. Friends are often times similar in thoughts and opinions, hobbies and activities. So the likelihood is higher. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 11:08 AM |
| 4 | Women, how do you expect a man to meet a woman?I didn't do any ridiculous tasks. Over time I befriended people because we had things in common, I met more people, one of whom happened to be my wife, and we clicked, and that's that. Nothing unusual. Nothing bad about telling men they don't have to overcomplicate or overthink their interactions with women. Just make friends and eventually you might find someone you like. Friend count doesn't necessarily determine your relationship status. But statistically, you're more likely to meet someone y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 07:13 AM |
| 8 | Women, how do you expect a man to meet a woman?What sounds unhealthy? Yes, I'm a married man... I understand how dating works, and can safely say that a person without friends will struggle immensely to get a relationship. Because human interactions are learned. And if you can't even make friends, gl having a whole ass relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 06:46 AM |
| 6 | Women, how do you expect a man to meet a woman?You don't seem to value anything in life, you just want sex. If you even imply you wanted a relationship, you'd be lying. Because a person with no friends has no reason for seeking a relationship. A relationship is like a best friend with added romance and intimacy. It's not beta to make friends and be a social creature, as humans are. You ancestors lived in a different time. For most countries, it ain't wat time. People just live life and go to work... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 06:27 AM |
| 3 | Women, how do you expect a man to meet a woman?Very well thought out argument, I can really tell you gave it your all when dating, and am sure you'll find a partner soon enough! Oh wait, absolutely not you literally denied a correct fact of life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 06:06 AM |
| 2 | Women, how do you expect a man to meet a woman?"With no social circle"? Sorry, what? And why did you pose a question in a way where you're in a new city? That's not too common. Even if you do move, you move there for a reason and start to make friends in different ways. Through work, maybe a sport you enroll in, gymbros that might hang with you, some class you both take if you're in college, perhaps an event you go to, or a hobby you enjoy doing where you could potentially meet people? There are so many ways. And everyone that knows anything… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 05:27 AM |
| -1 | Most men aren't bad, they just lack a good example.What a dumb comment... Antiwork, so my opinion is invalidated? You must be one of those who think "antiwork" means "why am I not jerking off at home and getting paid anyway". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 03:52 AM |
| 1 | What percentage of woman these days are participating in "sugar dating"? And how do you think it affects the dating market?Insignificant | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Do you respect someone who has consistently dated out of their supposed league less or more?I'm disappointed that they're making the same mistake over and over again, dating someone clearly a lot better looking than their matching counterpart... It's... Sad to see girls really hope that these 6'5" chiseled Chads notice them, when they themselves are below or average at best... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 06:58 AM |
| 0 | Q4M who believe that women having tattoos is a “red flag” for promiscuity: do you have tattoos?I enjoy "dumb shit". Define: "dumb shit". I bet you like some things that would surely be considered "dumb shit" to some... Tattoos can be anything from reckless, to expressing gratitude for someone/something, or letting an artist use you as a canvas. Don't personally have tattoo's, but I've seen some sick art on people, and it really does make a person stand out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 05:01 AM |
| 1 | (Q4M) How important is it to you that a partner shaves armpits, legs, etc.?Shut up .. Just shave... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 04:54 AM |
| 1 | What would like the other gender to change about themselves?Exactly, you should do the career for yourself, but in the same time understand that while a man should be supportive, don't expect him to have great interest in it, brag to his friends about it (like Ben Sheep-ero), or to find it "sexy". Sadly women are in a place where they can do so much, and become anything, but will be judged FIRST for their looks, SECOND for their supportive role in a relationship, and THIRD everything else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 09:06 AM |
| 1 | What would like the other gender to change about themselves?Sure, I agree. The issue rn is that women misinterpret their dating value, with their person value. Sure, your career might be impressive, but it's never sexy. Whereas a man's career... "I'm a surgeon", turns women's underwear into an ocean Edit: many more examples of this... Being independent as a man is hot, for a woman it's not . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 08:13 AM |
| 0 | The three date rule exists for a reason.I waited three months (I'm a dude, don't know if u got that). It's not a big deal lol, just wait | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 05:22 AM |
| 12 | The average young man is boring, easily manipulated, and desperate, and this is why they can't get a ladyWomen don't need the top 20% man. They don't. And EVERYONE wants the most attractive partner and the most interesting partner they can get... This isn't a femalw exclusive. It's just that people aren't (mostly) delusional enough to wait for that absolute perfect partner. People mostly settle when they find someone highly compatible | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 04:09 AM |
| 0 | Women absolutely are not attracted to nice guys, and men expressing their understandable frustration with the dishonesty of them saying they do is met with shaming and attempts to silence them. This is the foundation of TRP.Men don't understand what a nice guy is. Being a nice man is referring to the fact you don't look at women as sex holes. That you can view them as both friends and romantic partners. It's being genuinely nice to women, without having a reason for doing so. You don't need to be naiive and get taken advantage of, be nice to people that deserve it. Don't use niceness as your personality, or a way to get women you want.. it's a basic trait you must poses in order to be a High value partner. Yes wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 09:52 PM |
| 1 | The three date rule exists for a reason.Ahahahahahah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 05:28 PM |
| 1 | The three date rule exists for a reason.Ahahahahahah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 05:28 PM |
| 3 | The three date rule exists for a reason.Sexless marriage because of sexual incompatibility sucks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 01:46 PM |
| 2 | The three date rule exists for a reason.No it is not. If you haven't experienced that yet, it's likely you haven't met a person that's THAT highly compatible with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 12:16 PM |
| 2 | The three date rule exists for a reason.Need to make an edit, people keep assuming I said you need sex within 3 dates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 12:10 PM |
| 0 | The three date rule exists for a reason.No. Unrealistic and dangerous | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 12:08 PM |
| 4 | What would like the other gender to change about themselves?Sure, but are they gonna cheat or not depends on the man. Wilfully ignoring other women and removing that ability to cheat from yourself is what a HVM does | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 11:44 AM |
| 2 | The three date rule exists for a reason.Agreed. Me and my wife happened to be virgins before our first time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 11:43 AM |
| 5 | The three date rule exists for a reason.Sex before marriage is a must. If you get married without having sex prior to that, you're playing a very dangerous game. 3 months is plenty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 11:40 AM |
| 2 | What would like the other gender to change about themselves?Depends on the man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 11:36 AM |
| 1 | The three date rule exists for a reason.Chemistry yes, dates if you're compatible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 11:35 AM |
| 0 | The three date rule exists for a reason.When you know, you'll know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 11:35 AM |
| -1 | The three date rule exists for a reason.Totally fine. I only mentioned sex for people who aren't that serious about it. If you want an LTR, takes longer than 3 dates, at least it did for me, which is normal if you want a mature woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 11:34 AM |
| -1 | The three date rule exists for a reason.That's fine hunn, nobody's forcing you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 11:33 AM |
| 2 | What would like the other gender to change about themselves?stop underestimating female friendship stop trying to date women you befriended stop complaining about dating and focus on building yourself up don't follow men on the red pill side, nothing besides improving yourself emotionally and physically works, abs, money, power don't usually attract the women you'd want | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 11:20 AM |
| 1 | (Q4M) How important is it to you that a partner shaves armpits, legs, etc.?Leg hair doesn't have function. That slight layer of hair won't protect you from the cold. Pubic hairs increase chance of STD transmission, and armpit hair prevents irritation of skin, which can be solved with a cream. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 11:16 AM |
| 1 | (Q4M) How important is it to you that a partner shaves armpits, legs, etc.?Yes I am | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 11:15 AM |
| 2 | What would like the other gender to change about themselves?No... That's illogical. If you're desperate for any type of date, the first one you get is going to be your best effort. Let alone a relationship. That's why so many single dude's go as far as simping, giving without anything in return. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 11:14 AM |
| 8 | What would like the other gender to change about themselves?what do you believe they don't understand about your gender That men are much more easily satisfied than they think. Generally, if a woman is: shorter feminine slim bubbly personality helpful/kind She is absolute perfection for MOST MEN. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 10:45 AM |
| -1 | If a woman continues to multi-date after going on a date with you, she's not into you.Like it or not, when dating, you have to put all your eggs in one basket. Focus on the person you're going out with, if it doesn't click perfei in 3 dates, it's not it. You can be compatible, just not highly compatible. It sucks, but it's better to cut your losses earlier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 10:39 AM |
| 5 | What would like the other gender to change about themselves?As a woman/man, what do you blame the other gender for? Nothing, everything women have right now is either desetved, or if it's unjust, caused by men. what behaviour/beliefs would you like them to change or stop to have toward your gender? Attractive men are more likely to behave worse towards you. Learn it. Because they have many options, they are more likely to mistreat you. Also, men are generally inexperienced in todays society. Have patience, it's not their fault for not being able to attra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 10:36 AM |
| 3 | What makes men date women with mental illnessess?Desperation, lack of choices is often it. Because you wouldn't deal with someone with those kind of issues unless you're the type to take care for someone (that's more often women than men, in a sense that they want to nurture and help). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 09:38 AM |
| 1 | Married Women Should Take Their Husband's Last NamesMarriage license? If you're referring to the papers you sign, you can sign up for an appointment at a government facility where they write you in and give some papers to sign. Not too sure how it works since when I got married it was some family members that had that job, so the process was different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 07:35 AM |
| 1 | Married Women Should Take Their Husband's Last NamesIt's not about that specific process, it's everything else in the country that's shit, this along with it. Standing in 3 hour lines to change your ID. Not a fan. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 05:17 AM |
| 1 | (Q4M) How important is it to you that a partner shaves armpits, legs, etc.?Feminine trait, I should correct myself. And femininity is a social construct I choose to believe in. Since women who don't shave their armpits, have gigantic hairs on their legs and/or arms are gross. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 05:09 AM |
| 2 | (Q4M) How important is it to you that a partner shaves armpits, legs, etc.?Hair in women, unless it's in the scalp, is unattractive. It's a masculine trait to be hairy, and therefore I would be unhappy if she was like that all the time. If it's a short period of lazy time, that's totally fine. But in the long run, look like a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/22 09:45 PM |
| 1 | How do you feel about your potential spouse/LTR pursuing a full time career for herself?Good, she wouldn't be with me without it. What are we? In the middle ages? She needs a full time job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/22 09:43 PM |
| 5 | Married Women Should Take Their Husband's Last NamesOld tradition without purpose. Too many issues come with changing your last name. Or adding to it. All identification records gotta change, in some countries it's especially difficult. So no, don't take the last name, it's meaningless anyway. You're not property, and if you really want to, you guys can make up your own new last name... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/22 09:43 PM |
| 2 | Most people want the benefits of trad relationships without upholding their end of the bargainThat's modern dating for ya. Taught by an older generation of what makes a "good man", or a "good wkman", and we're willing to acknowledge that, without us providing those values. In today's society, almost no men provide, and almost no men in relationships do nothing around the home if they want to keep their girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/22 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Men of PPD, which one would you rather prefer, Overweight/obese women with pretty faces or Slim fit women with unattractive face?Random response on a 3 month old comment. Sad to dissapoint you, I'm married to a drop dead gorgeous, 115 pound woman that needs to wear exactly 0 makeup on her smooth skinned, cute as a button face. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/22 09:38 PM |
| 0 | Most men present themselves poorly in public.Mentioned this in a comment earlier.... "Incoming: -insert extreme example to prove a point" Manlets aren't common. I am speaking for the overwhelming majority of men. If you are a shorter man, you NEED to have all your other shit on point and hope for a girl your size or smaller or one that doesn't care for height. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/22 06:30 AM |
| 1 | Most men present themselves poorly in public.Welp, I'm married and have lots of experience with women since most my friends are women. I know and understand women. Where are your results? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/22 10:03 AM |
| 1 | Most men present themselves poorly in public.You don't always meet people on a first date. Sometimes it's friends of friends and that interaction lasts a while. And over time, people may develop feelings that weren't there initially. Why? Because initial feelings develop only when there's a strong sexual attraction. Emotional attraction takes time to develop, and then can spill into sexual attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/22 10:02 AM |
| 1 | Most men present themselves poorly in public.Look into a style you approve of. Do you like to dress fancy? Maybe wear black shoes, pants, belts with silver buclkes, stylish watch (not digital), buttoned shirt, gel on your hair... You like it rougher? Maybe some torn jeans, white Hilfiger shirt, white watch with a red/blue/white striped wristband, all white shoes with white socks that show a bit when you pull up your jeans (blue ans red accents only). Punk rock? Dark red dr. martens with a puffy denim jacket (light blue or blood red), or a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/22 09:26 AM |
| 1 | Most men present themselves poorly in public.Not how it works. You can come to like someone after you've met them, hung around them for a while, maybe yiu even start to develop sexual attraction over time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/22 09:19 AM |
| 1 | Most men present themselves poorly in public.It really does. And that type of sentence WOULD come from a dude that doesn't wear anything stylish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/22 08:54 AM |
| 2 | Most men present themselves poorly in public.It's... What? People regularly compliment me on my outfits... It's not more acceptable to dress like a slob. In fact, when I would (in the past) dress like shit, I'd get comments that weren't so positive. Rightfully so... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/22 04:36 AM |
| 1 | Most men present themselves poorly in public.a) It suggests that she feels confident either way and doesn't look for the approval of others too muchs No it does not, not necessarily, it can literally mean she's just lazy and doesn't put effort into her appearance b)Naturally beautiful women don't need much deception Dressing nice doesn't have to be deception. My wife is a gorgeous women, yet she dresses up nice. It's just an enhancement | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/22 04:35 AM |
| 2 | Most men present themselves poorly in public.You can still feel confident AND dress well. You don't do it to actively earn respect. It's just another product of dressing nice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/22 04:33 AM |
| -2 | Most men present themselves poorly in public.That's fine, if you're ok with staying single. Even if there are better looking men, physically, doesn't mean you'll never find anyone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 05:49 PM |
| 0 | Most men present themselves poorly in public.No? It's about men saying they feel invisible, but make no effort to stand out in the easiest way possible, and that's to dress well and wow people around you. Because you will stand out as a well dressed man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Most men present themselves poorly in public.I'm not setting any standards, I'm just making an observation that a lot of women would agree with me on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 05:48 PM |
| -2 | Most men present themselves poorly in public.That's fine, and I can also make a statement about it. But kind of shitty going on the internet and complaining how they feel invisible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 05:47 PM |
| 5 | Most men present themselves poorly in public.Something about always looking presentable, never knowing when or how you're gonna meet someone. I actually know a story from my friends where they met through 2 buddies seeing each other on the street, and one of the guys had his friend with him. She later just mentioned the dude they saw had a dope leather jacket. Long story short, they started dating and have been together for a few years now. You never know .... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Most men present themselves poorly in public.I can't give you an exact calculation for every woman on earth. It will do you good tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 04:38 PM |
| 0 | Most men present themselves poorly in public.Yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 04:38 PM |
| 3 | Most men present themselves poorly in public.To meet friends, work, clothing stores, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 04:02 PM |
| 2 | Most men present themselves poorly in public.Not the sub for this convo, but it's really sad to me that people genuinely hope for something after, when in reality your brain and organs will just shut down and poof | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 04:01 PM |
| 5 | Most men present themselves poorly in public.What a pessimistic outlook... Most situations aren't "hate how he looks", "love how he looks". The gray area is where most guys are at, and if you make that extra effort, you just might catch someone's eye | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 04:00 PM |
| 2 | Most men present themselves poorly in public.after death. Nothing obviously lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 03:56 PM |
| 5 | Most men present themselves poorly in public.Don't need to suit up to just go buy groceries... Didn't make that claim, although it wouldn't kill anyone to dress well even then. Casual but well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 03:56 PM |
| -4 | Most men present themselves poorly in public.Overthinking it. Dressing well makes people remember you better and think more fondly of you. It's natural for humans to be more attracted to things that look better to them. So if you're always with the best outfit in the room, it's a thing that makes you stand out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 03:55 PM |
| 3 | Most men present themselves poorly in public.Bad take. You get a single life and you're ready to waste it away because you haven't been lucky enough to be born great? Bs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Most men present themselves poorly in public.If you've been given little, you'll be satisfied with that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 03:44 PM |
| 6 | Most men present themselves poorly in public.Sure, but if you're not naturally good looking, standing out with better outfits. Outdressing others will earn you respect. Incoming: extreme example of how good clothing don't work for ugly men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 03:43 PM |
| 0 | Most men present themselves poorly in public.Ignoring details is what loses people attraction and respect points | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Most men present themselves poorly in public.It's not anit-men... It's a critique... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 03:42 PM |
| 3 | Most men present themselves poorly in public.I am in a relationship... Dress up because that displays who you are and your value. You'll still want to be a member of society and be presentable even if you're not around your partner? Guess that's not how all men think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 03:41 PM |
| 2 | Most men present themselves poorly in public.They could, but they improve upon how they look naturai, by throwing in unnatural supplements like well fitting clothing, makeup and hair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 03:22 PM |
| 3 | Most men present themselves poorly in public.Horrible take, no offense. We are humans. Nothing has any objective meaning in this world unless we as individuals give it. Therefore, we as inteligent creatures have begun to recognize how one represents himself by their clothing alone. It's not what makes a person, but it shows something . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 03:21 PM |
| 5 | Most men present themselves poorly in public.Men looking like slobs isn't masculine. Since when is dressing well a feminine thing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 03:19 PM |
| 4 | Most men present themselves poorly in public.Horrible way to live ones life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Most men present themselves poorly in public.It can a lot further if you clean up your whole look. Colours, attention to detail... It really does get you far. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Most women are only going to pursue guys they believe are above their league so most men should try to display themselves as higher.But this is a PART of it all. You pair all these together. You don't isolate ANY, and judge it. If you collectively place these qualities in one man, it makes him a good partner for somebody. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 02:55 PM |
| -1 | The silencing of TRP on Reddit and social media as a whole proves how enormously biased our culture is against males nowI'm sorry, but the top of redpill right now are just misogynistic men, talking about how worthless women are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 02:31 PM |
| 1 | In what situation is it ok/ not ok for your partner to have friends of the opposite sex (or whatever they’re attracted to)I'd say this. Because I am a man, and I control whether I instigate something or I don't, it's for my wife to trust me and allow me to hang out with other women, and believe I won't betray her trust. I can hang out with them in groups or alone, it's irrelevant. My wife can hang out with other guys, single or not, but I have to personally know them. Men are instigators, so I have to make sure they know who they are dealing with if they cross that line. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 05:55 AM |
| 2 | Why do men become possessive?Men look at women as their property. Not as harsh as a couch, but still something that is theirs, and theirs alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 11:27 AM |
| 2 | Why do men become possessive?Because men want to lead independent women. So it turns into possessiveness, instead of being a leader in the relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 07:55 AM |
| 2 | Are you guys actually asking your partners N counts?If you married a man that you KNOW has been around (is attractive), then you don't ask him because you know, also it's irrelevant since women LIKE wanted men, so... If you have an attractive woman, and you've met her after her early 20's, all you wanna know if she's had a kid or not, and hope not to meet any of her past boyfriends or randoms she got dicked down by... I personally did know my wife was a virgin, and it WAS important to me since I had no prior sexual experience aswell. Don't want a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 07:54 AM |
| 1 | Most women are only going to pursue guys they believe are above their league so most men should try to display themselves as higher.Ahahahhahahahahaah I can't get over the fact you guys pick apart what I say, separate it, and then say those isolated traits or actions won't get you a relationship. OFCOURSE THAT ALONE WON'T DUMBASS.......... You have to work on your ENTIRE SELF. This is a PART of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 06:25 AM |
| 1 | Most women are only going to pursue guys they believe are above their league so most men should try to display themselves as higher.Ok... You can get "more" women if you have deep pockets. But those women are often times empty and only after the money, not you... That's not the type of thing many guys would want, even though it seems like a dream, the dread of not making genuine connections will get to almost every guy eventually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/22 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Most women are only going to pursue guys they believe are above their league so most men should try to display themselves as higher.If you have some gigantic flaws, chances are you will remain a virgin unless you find a partner that is equally flawed in their looks, or doesn't have the prejudice to consider your looks bad. I don't think I'm HV. I am what I am, regular dude with a wife. I am HV to her, but that's nothing objective. She is HV to me, yea, others might think differently, that's totally fine. The reason I mentioned lack of social skills and the knowledge of how to interact with women, is because that's what most … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/22 03:11 PM |
| 2 | CMV: "Make lots of platonic friends with women" is generally terrible as dating adviceOnly if they're, or you're not interested, should you befriend fully | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/22 12:56 PM |
| 0 | CMV: "Make lots of platonic friends with women" is generally terrible as dating adviceNo. You get a hobby there, get to know them, and then make advances. You don't fully befriend them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/22 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Most women are only going to pursue guys they believe are above their league so most men should try to display themselves as higher.No. Sorry but you're wrong. People like to say they've done everything right, but show no results. Clearly exaggerating how good they are as a partner if they're alone... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/22 12:55 PM |
| 1 | Most women are only going to pursue guys they believe are above their league so most men should try to display themselves as higher.Yes. If you replace your whole being with money, your sole attraction will come from money. And that will only help you around women who want a certain life style and don't care how they're treated otherwise. If you think millionaires have access to ALL women, JUST because they're millionaires, you're gravely mistaken. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/22 12:54 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL, What is wrong with current dating scene? and why do redpill men believe it's bad for the society?For now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/22 12:52 PM |
| 1 | Most women are only going to pursue guys they believe are above their league so most men should try to display themselves as higher.Making yourself more relatable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/22 12:50 PM |
| 10 | CMV: "Make lots of platonic friends with women" is generally terrible as dating adviceWrong. Men who upvoted this have no idea on male-female interactions. You befriend women in order to learn they're human, just like you, and so you can relax around them. You don't befriend them to some day fuck them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/22 09:09 AM |
| 2 | Everyone stresses the importance of vetting for a life partner but gets shocked when someone takes a calculated approach to datingBecause in order to date successfully, you need to be relaxed, evaluate your options with different people, then make moves. All this tryhard shit about men spending 3 hours a day in the gym, on their crypto grind, cold approaching women with preconceived lines... That's the wrong way to "strategically approach datung". When people say "relax", they referring to your overthinking of it. Dating is simple. You need to improve your odds by becoming the best version of yourself and presenting as a p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/22 09:08 AM |
| 4 | Most women are only going to pursue guys they believe are above their league so most men should try to display themselves as higher.False. Most men are content, not happy. Content means they're where they are and are often times unwilling to try new things (that their girls would often egg them on to do). If you don't try it, you don't know if you'll like it. I went from eating and paying video games, wasting my life.... To fencing, swimming, drawing, reading, writing, gym, rock climbing, axe throwing, laser tag, airsoft... I could go on.. Who's doing is that? My wife's.... Girls will make you try things you'll come to love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL, What is wrong with current dating scene? and why do redpill men believe it's bad for the society?Unhappy men = unproductive men. Unproductive men = ruined world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 09:17 PM |
| 0 | Most women are only going to pursue guys they believe are above their league so most men should try to display themselves as higher.Yup, that's how it is if you have a drastic flaw. You can't really apply normal dating standards if your flaw/s is/are serious. Often times, people have many or some flaws, not big flaws, but flaws. If you have a GIGANTIC FLAW, like for example being a 5'5" dude, then you're gonna struggle regardless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 09:16 PM |
| 3 | Most women are only going to pursue guys they believe are above their league so most men should try to display themselves as higher.My wife is educated, kind, loving, caring, interesting. She is also beautiful on top of that. Would she be with me if my qualities weren't on par with her? Highly doubt it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 09:14 PM |
| 3 | Most women are only going to pursue guys they believe are above their league so most men should try to display themselves as higher.Overestimating your league. Or you haven't been doing as well as you thought. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 09:13 PM |
| 5 | Most women are only going to pursue guys they believe are above their league so most men should try to display themselves as higher.Nothing guarantees it. Nothing. But certain actions increase your chances. Statistically, women like men who are fit better than skinny or fat guys. They also like well dressed men, or at least men who can pull off a style. They like men who have stuff going on in their lives and that are going somewhere. Deny it all you want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Most women are only going to pursue guys they believe are above their league so most men should try to display themselves as higher.I don't understand what you said... Why would men give up on dating women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 04:16 PM |
| -4 | Most women are only going to pursue guys they believe are above their league so most men should try to display themselves as higher.So just because you have to become a better human, and not just a lazy sex wanter, you'd give up? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 04:14 PM |
| 3 | Most women are only going to pursue guys they believe are above their league so most men should try to display themselves as higher.Wym? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 04:13 PM |
| 15 | Most women are only going to pursue guys they believe are above their league so most men should try to display themselves as higher.Men will do everything, except self improve enough to find a woman they desire... Get hobbies, read books, watch movies/shows/anime, enroll in a sport or outdoor activity, go to the gym, dress better, invest into your appearance (hair, perfumes, creams, lotions, etc.). Do things that will ACTUALLY make you better, more interesting, and your life actually more fulfilling and exciting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 04:11 PM |
| 0 | Q4ALL, What is wrong with current dating scene? and why do redpill men believe it's bad for the society?Most men aren't happy because most men are average, and therefore invisible for the most part. We have to struggle hard to get dates. It's not as easy as for women, and that frustrates us. Trust me, men aren't happy with the dating scene. Normies will pretend they're fine with it, but they won't tell you how much they struggle in reality. They hide virginity and make up stories to boost their SMV. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 04:01 PM |
| 0 | Q4M, What advice would you give to your daughter or younger female sibling about dealing with inappropriateness from other men?Don't fall for the hot guys in highschool, vet them properly like you would everyone else and see if they actually like hanging out with you. Don't date men with money, unless it's a respectable career that doesn't involve crime, and is consistent (no Bitcoin bros). Don't have sex with everyone. Save sex for special people, you'll regret your choices like almost every woman does eventually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 03:03 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Online Dating data is representative of the real desires of single peopleYou can write a long bio, but the effect of online dating is the plethora of choice for women. So even if you can present yourself well enough, you're still competing with hella guys, so she'll filter for looks first anyway. Also, winning someone over the phone, with your personality, is next to impossible. You need that real life connection | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 12:46 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Online Dating data is representative of the real desires of single peopleYou might not, other men do. Their standards are raised because they've had men interested in them before. And therefore you automatically seem less desirable than her since she obviously had more opposite sex attention than you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 11:37 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Online Dating data is representative of the real desires of single peopleWe are much more pathetic. We're the reason for this broken dating market. You can't be dating fat women and expect the market to be normal. If you want fairness, you need those girls to feel shame and work on themselves like men do. If we let the uglies get men, they'll think they're hot shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 11:34 AM |
| 1 | Virginity is a choiceThese guys were dateless nerds lol. As I said I thought they actually could've been interested. Unless you were obese or very unattractive, I don't see how none of them wouldn't have a crush. Not raising the bar, being social in HS is normal. Your own fault for not dealing with your anxiety. I did. I had serious social anxiety in HS. I had to handle that myself. Along with the nice self destructive disorder I was diagnosed with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 11:20 AM |
| 1 | Virginity is a choiceBecause guys don't get put on secret lists unless they're the main voice in the room or are super hot. Whereas women, no matter the looks basically, get put on pedestals all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 11:10 AM |
| 1 | Virginity is a choiceI didn't ignore any options. Literally nobody asked or indicated anything Then I guarantee you, you didn't seem approachable, or didn't put yourself in any places where you could be approached. That or you just didn't see them since average men are mostly invisible to women. I THOUGHT some guys might've done and got rejected when I asked them out. Likely out of your league or they just weren't interested if they already had something going on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 11:09 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Online Dating data is representative of the real desires of single peopleHeight is a specific thing woman go for. It's like a woman saying "I don't go by a guys boobs". They just don't care about that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 11:08 AM |
| 1 | Virginity is a choiceNah. I down right refuse the idea that girls in highschool don't have ANYONE waiting. Even if you're not his first choice, you're still a choice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 10:23 AM |
| 1 | Virginity is a choiceNo honey. I'm sure you ignored options that were not as good for you. But those are STILL options. Imagine having NONE. Now that's a life of your average highschool boy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 10:21 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Online Dating data is representative of the real desires of single peopleCan't really say all women are shallow... Also, if you're given 10 options, you'd try your best to select a person who's best for you, and you probably wouldn't care just about looks. If you're given a hundred, now that's a lot of people. You have to use a LOT of filters to narrow down who you'd be most interested in. And since sexual attraction is one of the most important factors in a relationship, right along compatibility of lifestyles, worldviews, goals, etc. So you'll select the best looki… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 10:19 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Online Dating data is representative of the real desires of single peopleWould you like me to guarantee your cock inside her? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 09:59 AM |
| 2 | My two dates experience as a man1) You don't have a lot of friends Friend groups, gatherings, anything social, is the BEST way to meet women. You can show off your looks better, your personality, and talk to them as a human being. 2) Your lack of experience shows when you're on a date, or rather trying to get s girl to go out with you Again, develop this by having REAL interactions with people. Join hobbies, activities, sports, etc. and meet new people. You'd be surprised how easy it is if you just give in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 09:37 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Online Dating data is representative of the real desires of single peopleIncorrect. Women CAN'T filter for personality in OLD. It's the first picture that in 95% of cases determines a left or right swipe. Why? Because that's all they're given. If you interacted with them socially and spoke to them, got to know them, her decision might change. Also, ofcourse women will select the hotest men online, since options online are numerous, might aswell pick the sexiest dudes and hope for a good one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 09:33 AM |
| 10 | This might be obvious, but I think many women who cohabit with a spouse or partner are just settling because they don't want to be alone, and are not much different from women who relied on men for housing/security before the women's liberation movementsNah. If a person is lonely and doesn't reeeally like you, but you're their only option, they still wouldn't let you move in... You'd still want your freedom | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 09:30 AM |
| 1 | Virginity is a choiceAlso if you think that's not the case, I guarantee you that every girl in HS had a dude try something with her. Either she didn't know, or she purposely ignored him, like most girls do for most guys, because he wasn't attractive enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 09:24 AM |
| 1 | Virginity is a choice... Any girl in HS can have a boyfriend if she so chooses. Or simply let some guy have sex with her. Would it be enjoyable? The sex, likely not. The relationship? Possibly, might be surprised if she didn't just endlessly hope for the hot guy to approach her. But that's.how teenage girls are, and it's normal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 09:23 AM |
| 1 | Virginity is a choiceI know, but that doesn't help highschool me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 05:03 AM |
| 2 | Virginity is a choiceWhile I agree it's normal, girls WILL have options to not remain a virgin, and simply choose to have sex if they so please. On the other hand, guys definitely don't have a choice in MOST cases. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 05:02 AM |
| 6 | Virginity is a choiceSorry, bad take. I was 100% a loveless virgin in highschool. No woman wanted me, I can guarantee you that. No signs, no good dates, no nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 09:21 PM |
| 4 | The only people that truly win in today's dating market are high value menPeople who win are people who are ahead of the game, either naturally gifted at selecting proper partners and good at risk assessment, or that had their fair share of experiences, improved themselves and have reached a position where they can select a partner of equal value. Those who don't make it, likely were naturally bad at risk and partner assessment, had unlucky streaks of encountering bad partners and not being able to recognize that behavior soon enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 06:25 PM |
| 0 | The threat of violence and sexual assault, while real, is dramatically overblown and overused by women as an excuse for misandrist behavior and to generalize the entire male population, most of which is harmless to themwoman gets approached by cocky guy she's turned on by his overblown confidence and (often times) good looks she develops high sexual attraction towards said man she purposely ignores red flags or convinces herself that he'll mature or that they're isolated incidents she gets abused she endures abuse she exits the relationship she's a victim and blameless | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 06:20 PM |
| 1 | N count only matters if it's in one of the extreme.Listen, depending on what your preferences are and what you're looking for, the context of the N count matters most. She has an N count of 5... But she's 27, and has been in 5 longer relationships? Seems normal to me? She has an N count of 5... And she's 21, had a train ran on her last night by some football players? Yikes if you're looking for a more calm and serious partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 08:09 PM |
| 2 | What quality did you want in a partner until you experienced it?Wanting to date a girl similar to me. I don't like my type of personality, and I'd clash with anyone who has the same type. So because of that, if we're similar, I'm turned off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/22 10:59 AM |
| 1 | Men underestimate the value a female friend could provide.Also we die at 50!!!!! Fuck living until 80!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/22 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Men underestimate the value a female friend could provide.Yeeee. Us men bottle up our emotions then beat/leave our wives when we get tired of everything!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/22 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Men underestimate the value a female friend could provide.That's YOU man. YOU want to get away from women, not me. If you had healthy relations with women, you wouldn't think this way. I personally enjoy spending time with friends. Friends that happen to be women. And yes, women will help you with a lot of things men won't. Emotional support is a big thing men like to overlook. And as much as you wanna say you can have that with men aswell, that's few and far in-between. Just like few women will "help you move", few men will listen to your emotions, no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/22 03:20 PM |
| 1 | What happens when women are no longer needed for reproductionBad post. Men are just as likely to be scientifically replaced as women. Once it happens, men and women will mostly interact out of interest, not need. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/22 12:53 PM |
| 2 | What is there more of; people with great looks or people with great personalities?That's mostly subjective. Personality types that people like vary. I don't like disagreeable partners, whereas my wife doesn't like agreeable partners. She needs input and directions, and I need people to listen to my exact input. Also, if you're referring to people's interests, jobs, hobbies that make up their personality, that also depends on what you like in a person, do you want someone similar, or someone different. Looks can be objective, small waist, larger breasts and behind for women, a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/22 12:49 PM |
| 1 | Men underestimate the value a female friend could provide.Same as men..? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/22 11:43 AM |
| 1 | Men underestimate the value a female friend could provide.Ah yes, I'm her "gay girlfriend" because I like to hang out with a woman... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/22 11:42 AM |
| 7 | should society support or shame dumping good partner for a better one?If you're at the start of your relationship, you see a better option, and not slightly, or just "hotter", but someone that seems genuinely better, and you both catch feelings, then you should be encouraged to leave for the better option, to save the both of yourselves a lot of trouble. But if you've been together with someone for a long time, it likely means you're a good couple (if you're happy, if not, you just got used to each other and should probably leave if you can relate to someone bette… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/22 04:05 AM |
| 7 | The response to men who complain about the dating world of “maybe you should improve yourself or find out what you’re doing wrong” is simply disingenuous and yet another deflectionMost men ain't shit. It is what it is. Women's standards are high, and while I think they SHOULD be, I agree some details are a bit out of hand. However, most men aren't fit for relationships. And most men, while younf, don't even want relationships, but rather to hopp around and see what's up. They're unable to, but they want it anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/22 04:02 AM |
| 2 | Are bluepilled man still more redpilled / based than women?Yes. All men, even if they view women as humans (bluepilled/not very based) are still more based 😎 than women 🤮 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/22 05:44 PM |
| 2 | Women are having less sex than Men (as of 2021)Kind of irrelevant since women CAN have sex if they'd like to, but men can't. Women choosing to have less sex is saying something, something that we've been predicting. As women get smarter and richer, men seem less valuable, even if they're on the same level. Why? Because the pool of available men shrinks the more she's worth in her head... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/22 04:11 PM |
| 2 | Men underestimate the value a female friend could provide.How? You're basing this on? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/22 08:15 AM |
| 1 | Men underestimate the value a female friend could provide.Entitlement to what? I'm not a woman... And I never said you owed anyone anything. You're exactly the type of person I'm talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/22 11:33 AM |
| 0 | Men underestimate the value a female friend could provide.Bruh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 05:44 PM |
| 4 | Men underestimate the value a female friend could provide.Your spelling tells me everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 01:11 PM |
| 2 | Men underestimate the value a female friend could provide.Yep. I'm called that because I literally view women as humans | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 01:03 PM |
| 1 | Men underestimate the value a female friend could provide.I would want to be friends for the sake of being friends with people... You're different lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 01:03 PM |
| -1 | Men underestimate the value a female friend could provide.Well yea it is. You just surpress it. Again, I have some hot friends, I can admit that without actually doing anything about it. It's not a big deal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 12:57 PM |
| 1 | Men underestimate the value a female friend could provide.You literally only wrote, or rather, wanted to write "typical woman". What response is there to that? And I'm not a woman budd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 12:56 PM |
| 3 | Men underestimate the value a female friend could provide.I'm in the same boat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Men underestimate the value a female friend could provide.Can't even spell it... Lmaooo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 12:25 PM |
| -1 | Men underestimate the value a female friend could provide.Not how it is. If you have self control, it shouldn't be an issue. I understand if you're very young, otherwise you just lack control. I have some objectively attractive female friends, but I don't salivate over them. I just acknowledge it in my head and move on. It's not difficult, just have to hold your own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 12:25 PM |
| -1 | Men underestimate the value a female friend could provide.A lot of women are disappointed that their male friends eventually develop the hots and want to start a relationship with them. Thus, if men DO befriend women believing that their friendship will develop into a relationship - they are OVERestimating the value of a female friend, not UNDERestimating it. You shouldn't befriend women because you eventually want to have a relationship with them. The problem is not "you don't receive sex from women". The problem is "you don't receive anything from wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 12:04 PM |
| 4 | Men underestimate the value a female friend could provide.So you can't form a platnoic relationship with a woman. Essentially your brain thinks of sex as soon as a woman interacts with you, with the exception of relatives (I assume lol). If they weren't your type you wouldn't be friends with them? Why not? How does their sex appeal have anything to do with their friendship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 11:59 AM |
| 4 | Men underestimate the value a female friend could provide.I'd disagree with you, since I have the exact opposite experience. Women are much more pleasant | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 10:47 AM |
| 4 | Men underestimate the value a female friend could provide.These people CAN BE your friends. If you've met them at work, you'll likely talk about work, but also other things friends talk about. I judt mentioned that as an example | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 10:18 AM |
| 0 | Men underestimate the value a female friend could provide."left leaning politics", ROFL. If she's a coworker, probably about work or private life affairs. If she's from my fencing or swimming club, about anything related to sports or fitness in general, and if we're better matching friends, about any topic that suits the mood really. Deeper stuff aswell with few of the ones I'm closer with. I love these right wing misogynistic views xd | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 09:34 AM |
| -4 | Men underestimate the value a female friend could provide.This tells me you're not confident, and especially not knowledgeable in how to behave around women. Trust me, I have no issues around women, and literally behave the same and feel the same around them, as I would around men. I am married, so while that certainly helps, that burden of performance is something you have to deal with your own head. Unfortunately, the need to show off is strong in guys when they're around women. And because of it, most men can't seem to relax around ladies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 09:28 AM |
| 1 | Men underestimate the value a female friend could provide.Welp, some men have to settle for lack of female interaction then. If you're really physically attractive and are into those hyper male hobbies, or just boring stuff (generally something men are into), then you'll be fine. Otherwise, you'll have to settle for lack of female friends and therefore a lot of missed social interactions. You can be willing to try new, more popular with women, things... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 09:16 AM |
| -1 | Men underestimate the value a female friend could provide.Depends on the person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 08:37 AM |
| 10 | Men underestimate the value a female friend could provide.That's not... Jesus christ you really do get all your information about women from reality shows and dating coaches | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 08:36 AM |
| 5 | Men underestimate the value a female friend could provide.Lol you got me at the last part | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 08:36 AM |
| 1 | Men underestimate the value a female friend could provide.Woman? Xd | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 08:31 AM |
| 1 | Men underestimate the value a female friend could provide.If you always catch feelings, that's because you're lacking in romantic connections in your life. You need to learn to separate romantic from non romantic friendships. It's a process, but it's worth it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 06:08 AM |
| -7 | Men underestimate the value a female friend could provide.I don't have female friends because they serve no purpose. Either implying women are only good if they provide sex, and are not good enough if they provide other things, without sex included, or you have trust issues with women and only seem to trust someone as close as your partner. I have male friends because we share hobbies, they won't gossip behind my back, and they'll stick up for me. I don't trust women to do that. You can share hobbies if you met some women into those same hobbies, likel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 06:07 AM |
| 2 | A cheating man is worse than a cheating womanActually your point does make sense. From an objective perspective, because it is easy for a woman, all she'd have to do is accept another's advances. When a man cheats, it's usually extensive texting behind his partners back, secret trips and such... All that's wrong with a woman cheating is this old fashioned view of relationships, where a woman is literally yours, and if someone defiled your property, it's a huge detriment to its value... Edit: when I say "all that's wrong with her cheating",… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 05:26 AM |
| 2 | All men have to pay for sex in one way or another. So men with the ability and willingness to pay may as well go for the youngest, most fertile, and attractive women possible.Nah, no way. It's a true statement they can't respond to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 02:19 PM |
| 2 | Going to the gym won't really change muchBecause it's high in sexual attraction for some women. So those women throw themselves at those guys. Then they seemingly have a lot of women, but in reality it's that smaller % of girls who are sexually attracted to them. That's why it's also a stereotype for them not having long lasting relationships. Because that love isn't long term. That's short term sex appeal, nothing more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 04:34 AM |
| 2 | Going to the gym won't really change muchSome women do. It's not at all true that all women like thugs... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 04:02 AM |
| 1 | Unconditional love doesn't existOnly a psychopath or a brainwashed individual can love unconditionally. Give any extreme condition and you'll instantly disprove the point. "What if she kills your entire family?" But the extent of some love lives might aswell be called unconditional. That's the point... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 08:41 PM |
| 5 | All men have to pay for sex in one way or another. So men with the ability and willingness to pay may as well go for the youngest, most fertile, and attractive women possible.Time and time again on this subreddit and in society you see the scenario where a man of comfortable financial means uses such means to attract a very young and attractive woman to be his companion. Humans have come to understand that money used as a lure for romantic relations is abusive, since you're the one who holds all the power in the relationship (money=power) This man is always ridiculed, with allegations that he is a predator, mentally ill, stunted, and every other insult in the book be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Going to the gym won't really change muchIt's not looks that trouble most men, it's that most are childish in the idea of being in a relationship, and most are boring and can't behave around women. Gym won't fix your lack of knowledge about women and forming relationships with them. Be it just friends or romantic relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Simps and online sex work have no effect on dating. So why care?Wrong. It sets an example to other women when men simp after them. Men don't just simp after OF girls, it's mostly regular girls they simp over and ruin it for other men in the process... Simps boost thr confidence of women way too high... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/22 05:33 AM |
| 1 | Almost every woman has a type of guy they'd be willing to make the first move on, so if you had to make the first move to get with your partner, odds are she finds a different type more attractive than youNo it literally doesn't... My wife adores me but would have likely never approached me... Why? Because she just doesn't approach much, and when she used to when younger, it was just guys she found cute right off the bat. When I met her my ass was obese. Obviously she wouldn't approach me. But I grew on her and got her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 08:27 PM |
| 2 | Womens bodycount the most important factor for relationship success?It doesn't take skill to get laid a lot. You either have to be better looking, have money or status. Status is USUALLY not something you earn. Being a good actor, singer, performer is usually natural. Getting money, and big money at that is usually by people that came from rich families, or are just exploitative psycho capitalists. And being naturally good looking is effortless by definition This "game" most guys talk about it just average guys trying to pick up drunk girls from clubs, hoping th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 06:28 AM |
| 8 | Womens bodycount the most important factor for relationship success?Just don't date hoes if you don't wanna. Unless you're hypocritical and have fucked around but don't want a "tainted woman". And no, you're still a hoe as a dude, not some slayer of women if u got laid a lot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Womens bodycount the most important factor for relationship success?Short... Cum-ings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 05:36 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Do you have very many positive relationships with women? How does this effect your perspective?Most my friends are women. I get along with women much better than I do most men, since most men ain't shit, to be perfectly honest... You can't open up with most men, anything beyond jokes, insults and empty convos is "weird" with guys. Ofcourse not all, I met a few good ones along the way, but... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 05:29 AM |
| 1 | How do men rationalize the belief that they are superior to women in every way, while also believing that women are inherently more valuable then menOn a random note, it depends on what you value more. Someone who is already great and has everything to lose, or someone who has all the potential and everything to gain? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 05:27 AM |
| 1 | can men and women be friends without attraction?Yes, but it has to meet at least one of the six following criteria: the woman is gay the man is gay the woman made it CLEAR she wasn't attracted to him the man made it CLEAR he wasn't attracted to her the woman is in a committed monogamous relationship the man is in a committed monogamous relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 05:26 AM |
| 7 | Womens bodycount the most important factor for relationship success?Another bible written instead of simply touching grass and making human connections | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 05:24 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: At a certain age is it true that people stop trying to improve/become attractive to the opposite sex?If you had a moment of clarity in your life, you'll realize that the opposite gender doesn't and shouldn't define your existence. You need to do what you like to do. Should you force yourself to improve, regardless of your current happiness? Yes. Because everything in life gets stale eventually. So if you're constantly on the move and becoming a better version of yourself, you might come to like a lot of different things you'd never thought you'd like before... I came from hating books, to readi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 07:12 AM |
| 1 | You get who you can get. Not who you deserve or are entitled to. Who you can get IS your "smv"The problem being some people really should be worth and desired less, but because of mens desperation, and womens pickiness and now equality, some people's value is distorted. An obese woman SHOULD die alone, just like an obese man. Especially the woman since men place much more value on looks. But instead they still have men after them, whereas even average men these days, average looking that is, die alone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 06:54 AM |
| 1 | Almost every woman has a type of guy they'd be willing to make the first move on, so if you had to make the first move to get with your partner, odds are she finds a different type more attractive than youThat's not how this works... Women generally just don't make the first move because they literally don't have to. And have been taught by their experiences that they'll eventually be approached by men they like. Women make moves on guys that exert traits those women want. Or if he's simply hot... Doesn't mean she doesn't adore her bf just because she wouldn't approach him... Maybe she liked the confidence of the approach | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 05:37 AM |
| 1 | Body count and infidelity excerptsHow many options does a regular man have, for him to be wasting his time dating someone..? Most men are single and losing, so if they take a shot with someone, it's only winning there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 04:09 PM |
| 1 | There’s no reason why a woman shouldn’t be promiscuous nowadays if they want toThere is no reason, that is correct. Especially if noone knows you did it. Just like touching a baby inappropriately. Nothing is gonna happen, noone knows you did it, the baby won't remember it, and nothing really changed. Or... Did it? I'm comparing it to something extreme to catch your interest. What I'm trying to say is that we all add our own meaning to our own lives. And most men have decided that a woman having lots of sex with a variety of men is disgusting to them, whereas women have dec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Body count and infidelity excerptsOh please... You wanna solve crime, solve corporate greed and capitalistic predatory mindsets first, then worry about some bad man knocking a girl up and running away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 02:39 PM |
| 2 | Body count and infidelity excerptsWhat am I here to disprove? I agree that it does increase the CHANCES of her cheating, I didn't say it didn't. But it doesn't mean YOUR GIRL is more likely to cheat specifically. Look at it case by case basis... When you're talking broadly, sure, but you as an individual shouldn't automatically remove all women that have slept around in early 20's JUST because they're "more likely to cheat". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Body count and infidelity excerptsAlso, I didn't say I wasn't an average man... I used to be, but I did improve beyond what an average guy could offer. And no, it's nothing as empty as getting abs or money. Or status or power or any of that bs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 02:33 PM |
| 0 | Body count and infidelity excerptsWhat's your point? That average men don't deserve to vet partners Deserve, and get to are different things... Obese women don't deserve their pick, yet in the west they ACTUALLY HAVE A CHANCE. In my book, that is FAR BEYOND relationship material by any means. Yet, they get to, because men will become desperate enough to date them. Men have higher sexual drives and therefore seek more than women do. In a world of equality, that creates an unfair dating system, ironically. So. Average men CAN have… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 02:31 PM |
| 3 | Body count and infidelity excerptsI mean... Say what you will but if an average guys manages to get a girl he's lucky... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 12:43 PM |
| 0 | Is having a "hoe phase" important for maturing ?No. It's more like "having fun when you're young and hot", then later settling down. I don't see anything wring with it. If you wanna have fun, do it... I personally am boring and don't have those options anyway, so I matured without it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 12:36 PM |
| 0 | Body count and infidelity excerptsAnd who can really judge what a quality woman is other than experienced men? And when did experienced men have to struggle with dating in the first place? Never. This advice could help those who can't choose anyway, and that's average men. But average men can't choose. They take what they get in the overwhelming majority of cases. Don't have to marry, but women will pressure you and end it eventually if you don't, at least most will. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 12:05 PM |
| 4 | Body count and infidelity excerptsAnd how will this help you exactly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 11:41 AM |
| -2 | Body count and infidelity excerptsI don't dislike it. I don't care since it literally doesn't affect me in any way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 11:27 AM |
| 14 | Body count and infidelity excerptsYou don't have to be condescending, I understand statistics. But let me give you an example of what I am saying. "Almost 50 percent of all marriages in the United States will end in divorce or separation." When you hear this statistic you think "Maybe I shouldn't get married, the stats are pretty bad!" You do have to understand that this includes EVERY marriage, and every circumstance under which a couples officially marries. If you look at your own situation, the chances of your own marriage br… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 11:25 AM |
| 4 | Body count and infidelity excerptsDid these studies include married couples, or just couples? If a promiscuous person is in a relationship, judging based on their love of sex and variety, I wouldn't put it past them to look for that variety in a closed relationship. But that still depends from person to person. I know you're saying "more likely", and I understand that, but you still have to, in your personal dating life, evaluate people based on their track record and how they seem as a person to you. My girl had no prior sexual… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 10:56 AM |
| -4 | Body count and infidelity excerptsAnything but trying to understand women and grow a deeper, stronger connection, when: ex partner = whore | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 10:38 AM |
| 41 | Body count and infidelity excerptsMy man would make a 2 hour post rather than trusting a woman 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 10:17 AM |
| 1 | Western women, western men and perceived valueRealistically, wester women are just more free and able to be independent. So they act in a more careless manner, usually. But that doesn't mean there aren't women out there who want genuine connection, it just means that simply existing as a man won't cut it. You're not born with value as a man, so you need to create it in order to attract women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 05:28 AM |
| 1 | Why are you interested in a relationship/sex?I am a codependent person. I need my other half in order not to gradually destroy myself. It's sad, but it's how I am. I'm just lucky I found someone. I otherwise have no will to improve or to enjoy anything. A lot of my love language is making others around me happy and providing for them. So without that feeling, I have nothing... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/22 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: Would you go out of your way to talk to a woman you had no sexual attraction towards?Go out of my way? No. Go for someone romantically when I'm not attracted to them? No. Basically, I'm only friends with people I'm not attracted to that happened to be in my life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/22 02:55 PM |
| 1 | If 90% of men died, and the 10% were average guys, would they be highly sought after?Eventually the girls would be too horny to deny the guys... That or science would lead to the resurrection of men, or sex robots that could perform what men can sexually | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/22 02:53 PM |
| -3 | It's better for men to watch porn and get their "thrill of diversity" that way, rather than cheating.Watching porn is a neutral act. Nothing is being violated, according to most relationships. Cheating if you're in a monogamous relationship is a bad thing since you implemented another person between you two | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 03:36 PM |
| 1 | It's better for men to watch porn and get their "thrill of diversity" that way, rather than cheating.Nah, I don't watch it myself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 03:36 PM |
| -2 | It's better for men to watch porn and get their "thrill of diversity" that way, rather than cheating.Meh, a deterrent | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 03:35 PM |
| 0 | It's better for men to watch porn and get their "thrill of diversity" that way, rather than cheating.Not saying it's a solution to cheating. I'm just saying it could help | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Women really are wonderful: Men benefit more from marriage than women do, and it's due to patriarchal misogyny that so many men believe it's the opposite.Men's complaints about marriage: have to be monogamous wife nags all the time get divorce raped I'm sorry... Are you not in charge of your own penis and choice in women? "Oh I accidentally got her pregnant" Did you have unprotected sex with a stranger, and now you're in this loveless marriage "for the children"? Sounds like a you problem... Did you have unprotected sex, got married for that sole reason, have the kid, and then got divorced, leaving you with tons of debt from child support payment… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 12:57 PM |
| 1 | The main issue with FDS aren't their standards, it's the women who are demanding those standards that are the issue.Because I sometimes read ppd, rp, incel subs and fds when I'm on the shitter at work, like I am now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 08:26 AM |
| 3 | The main issue with FDS aren't their standards, it's the women who are demanding those standards that are the issue.They're gaining numbers and the fact they're even being considered as a set of valid opinions is ridiculous | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 02:24 PM |
| 2 | The main issue with FDS aren't their standards, it's the women who are demanding those standards that are the issue.I would agree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 02:23 PM |
| -4 | The main issue with FDS aren't their standards, it's the women who are demanding those standards that are the issue.Yes looks fade and so does mens interest in looks. It's still there tho. And a man still wants a good looking woman. We're not talking about dating in your 50's here... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 10:12 AM |
| 2 | The main issue with FDS aren't their standards, it's the women who are demanding those standards that are the issue.It's a FIRST DATE... Super awkward going somewhere do fancy and having a bad time because you're not compatible. And having to pay for your meal, which is likely expensive, that you didn't want anyway (you came there because of her and her alone, not the meal). What if you're indecisive??? You want another date, pay for both, then she sends you a "sorry, let's just be friends, right?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 10:11 AM |
| 3 | The main issue with FDS aren't their standards, it's the women who are demanding those standards that are the issue.Exactly. The main issue is who's asking for the prize. I couldn't imagine a guy that's (like me pretty much) willing to do anything for his girl, and be met with resentment, extreme caution, arrogance and selfishness in return... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 09:25 AM |
| 6 | The main issue with FDS aren't their standards, it's the women who are demanding those standards that are the issue.They limit their options and offer arrogance and selfishness in return. I'd have no issue if I saw them advocate for offering up equal amounts of money in a LTR, or that they do wifey things after they get commitment. But actually they seem to just teach about being paranoid about your man and not giving him anything in order not to get hurt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 09:07 AM |
| 1 | The main issue with FDS aren't their standards, it's the women who are demanding those standards that are the issue.No. I am just saying that it seems like a lot of those women are bitter, ans from the posts and comments I see, they're mostly NOT young, beautiful women. Likely that they're pushing 30's (not to say they "hit the wall", but definitely require more of men, when in reality their worth that they thought increased because of their career and other similar things, stayed the same...) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 09:05 AM |
| 2 | Question for coupled people: Where did you meet your partner?I met my wife on a trip with my newly formed friend group. Completely by accident, actually gave up on dating completely months in advance. She just seemed to like me, and actually was romantically interested in me, unlike literally any woman before her... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 07:15 AM |
| 2 | What do you realistically bring to "the table"?I'm a calm guy. Definitely able to defend myself physically, and others if needed. I care about people, go out of my way to do favours for others regardless of reciprocity. I am genuinely nice, but in the same time won't hold myself back from speaking truthfully. I have my own life, aspirations, hobbies and generally things I just enjoy doing in my own. I am content with having a single partner, so cheating isn't a worry. Have friends of both genders and don't adhere to gender norms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/22 12:30 PM |
| 1 | "Visceral" attraction is not necessary for a good LTRI am not my partners ideal choice regarding looks. That's LITERALLY the majority of couples out there. You'd probably be even more surprised how MANY happy couples aren't each others first body type preference. I'd say it's a majority. But when you come to love that person, that attraction rises even beyond what your attraction would be to a random person with an ideal body to your liking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/22 04:49 PM |
| 1 | I think the vast majority of frustration and anger comes from.high expectations. We need to work on lowering that for general happinessYour expectations need to be realistic, according to your own perception of your self worth. You either need to do a lot of self growth, or hours in a psychiatrist's chair in order to figure out that worth, or how to improve it and get to where you wanna be, and that is a point where you can attract those potential partners you want. Lowering standards leads to dissatisfaction and increases chances of unhappiness in that relationship, and probably cheating aswell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/22 04:46 PM |
| – | Q4Men: Do you have any positive platonic female friendships? Does it affect how you view women? What do you learn from your female friends? What do you like about those friendships vs male friendships?Well ye obviously. Most men are just clueless about chicks. They're the same as men, with a few different quirks that you gotta pay attention to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/22 11:45 PM |
| 2 | A lot of guys here mistake chubby women for being unattractive and being in the same league as chubby men.Fat people could be attractive to certain people that are looking for specific things that they might have. Examples: Men that like big tits and big asses would probably date a fat chick. Why? Because she has that. Would they likely prefer her with firmer breasts and ass, and a tight waist? Most definitely, in most cases. Women that like larger men will probably be attracted to a fatter dude here and there. Judt because of their size. Would they prefer if they were firmer and more muscular? Sure… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/22 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Close Friends and ActivitiesI'm fine with everything but traveling together, or spending nights together alone. Too many spaces to "get to know each other better". Also, define "something romantic". Sex? I'm out, she can't hang with him. Just a bad date? Maybe a kiss but didn't work? Fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/22 11:17 PM |
| 2 | Q4Men: Do you have any positive platonic female friendships? Does it affect how you view women? What do you learn from your female friends? What do you like about those friendships vs male friendships?I went to an almost all female HS since I'm in the medical field. I can tell you I understand women better than most men. Clearly. Evident by me having a wife and good relations with all women in my life. Aswell as female strangers, who I never had an awkward encounter with. I just understand women better, and many men would aswell if they realized that women aren't only useful for sex... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/22 03:28 PM |
| 1 | You should pay for what you order when going on a first dateSo you never dated a college attendee? I assume, since you're a woman and you likely never asked someone out. Even if you did, I doubt you paid for them. And I also do believe you've been on dates. And since you never pay, obviously the dude has to. And since money doesn't grow on trees for male college students either, you've likely never dated one, right? Or was everything served to you on a silver platter and have been asked out and paid for without any concerns for their expenses? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/22 11:26 PM |
| -2 | The line between being taken advantage of and taking responsibility is really blurry with women.Do you have any source for hot people cheating more? Younf, hot men are more likely to cheat than some fat, geeky dude. Why? Because they have more options. And more options cause more doubt, more temptations, more etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/22 04:59 PM |
| 12 | The line between being taken advantage of and taking responsibility is really blurry with women.There's a gray line, thick one at that, in between. You can be reasonably cautious, and avoid men who approach you in clubs, sweet talk and then try to take you home afterwards for "a cup of coffee", but in the same time, not be so overly cautious, as to make men wait half a year for sex, or to expect them to pay copious amounts of money on first dates | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/22 04:58 PM |
| 3 | The line between being taken advantage of and taking responsibility is really blurry with women.Rape is pretty clearly a one sided crime... The woman existing ain't her fault. She didn't even enter this interaction. And if you're referring to more "calm" cases of rape, if there even is such a thing, where the girl went to a party of randoms, got wasted then raped, there is some accountability to be taken as to putting yourself into vulnerable situations and getting hurt, but it's not YOUR fault, or that YOU should be blamed for anything when it comes to such a horrendous crime. Whereas, wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/22 04:56 PM |
| 8 | The line between being taken advantage of and taking responsibility is really blurry with women.If they date fuck boys, then get dumped by them when he gets bored, is a good example of it being the woman's fault of bad choice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/22 04:48 PM |
| 13 | The line between being taken advantage of and taking responsibility is really blurry with women.I'm saying that with options, men tend to behave worse on the balance of probabilities. So many celebs cheat and dump each other. You KNOW hot guys are WAY more likely to cheat. This is self-evident... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/22 04:47 PM |
| 9 | The line between being taken advantage of and taking responsibility is really blurry with women.Taking responsibility in some cases is a reasonable ask... "He cheated on me" Literally had a past of cheating on his partners and dumping them afterwards "He dumped me after I got pregnant" Literally has a baby momma already | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/22 04:46 PM |
| 11 | The line between being taken advantage of and taking responsibility is really blurry with women.Yes. But pretending to be blind to it is a woman's thing lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/22 04:45 PM |
| 5 | The line between being taken advantage of and taking responsibility is really blurry with women.I'm not bitter, it's just a fact of life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/22 04:43 PM |
| 7 | The line between being taken advantage of and taking responsibility is really blurry with women.You didn't read the first part of the post. You wilfully ignored that I said men mistreat women and I do not justify it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/22 04:43 PM |
| 8 | The line between being taken advantage of and taking responsibility is really blurry with women.No, but women wilfully ignore red flags. Evident by the copious amounts of clarity they seem to share IRL and online after the inevitable breakup. "I was hoping he'd change..." That's a terrible way of saying... "He was so hot 🥵, I really wanted him to change!!!!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/22 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Men here really act as if they wouldn't take advantage of their youth and good looks by sleeping around when they're young, like their female counterparts (if they could).Men will literally pick women off the street... If they're hot enough, the woman can literally be wherever and whenever, she'd get the overwhelming majority of single guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/22 03:17 PM |
| 7 | You should pay for what you order when going on a first dateIf she expects you to pay for her, don't pay for her. Simple as that. I never paid on a date where the girl didn't offer or at least swear she'd paid for drinks or a bite to eat afterwards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/22 11:40 AM |
| 1 | Men here really act as if they wouldn't take advantage of their youth and good looks by sleeping around when they're young, like their female counterparts (if they could).Women like the "charming and good looking" ones for sleeping around. Just like men would like a hot dumb girl for sleeping around. The only difference being that women can obtain these men, but men can't obtain these women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/22 07:14 AM |
| 1 | Men here really act as if they wouldn't take advantage of their youth and good looks by sleeping around when they're young, like their female counterparts (if they could).No. But I also doubt you'd think that way if women would be falling after you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 10:24 PM |
| 0 | Men here really act as if they wouldn't take advantage of their youth and good looks by sleeping around when they're young, like their female counterparts (if they could).Men pride themselves... With success with women. Women don't look at that as something impressive. They just know he's wanted, his N count has nothing to do with it tho, since the value he's apparently displaying (usually something as shallow as fame, looks or charm, because those are the only things that would get a guy laid a lot). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Men here really act as if they wouldn't take advantage of their youth and good looks by sleeping around when they're young, like their female counterparts (if they could).So what? I'd argue the average woman does look a lot better... Infact, most men find most women attractive. Therefore, because most women don't find most men attractive, women are the more attractive gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Men here really act as if they wouldn't take advantage of their youth and good looks by sleeping around when they're young, like their female counterparts (if they could).So what if they aren't? These random standards we've imposed on them is our own doing. Nothing inherently wrong with them sleeping around. It's just that MEN CAN'T. So we don't want them to be able to sleep around either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 05:30 PM |
| 2 | Men here really act as if they wouldn't take advantage of their youth and good looks by sleeping around when they're young, like their female counterparts (if they could).How could a man sleep around with women when realistically he is just wasting time having meaningless sex and not achieving anything at all, when there are men his age starting families and achieving essentially immortality? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Men here really act as if they wouldn't take advantage of their youth and good looks by sleeping around when they're young, like their female counterparts (if they could).Bro. Women used to have to endure rape in marriage, just so they can survive. They had to find husbands, marry young, with very little choice in partners, then be bred and make families for their husbands. Like it or not. Otherwise they had to prostitute or do other things to scrap any money together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Men here really act as if they wouldn't take advantage of their youth and good looks by sleeping around when they're young, like their female counterparts (if they could).Lol you don't know anything about historical oppression of women. Today, we have lite mode oppression. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 01:08 PM |
| 4 | Men here really act as if they wouldn't take advantage of their youth and good looks by sleeping around when they're young, like their female counterparts (if they could).Women wanna be women. They wanna be as free as men tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 01:07 PM |
| 1 | Men here really act as if they wouldn't take advantage of their youth and good looks by sleeping around when they're young, like their female counterparts (if they could).In what way is that exactly relevant here? So what if it's easier for women to get laid? The men that lay a lot don't provide this "value" RP men usually mention. All it means is that he's likely hot, or very charming. And if the woman does bang a lot, all it means is that she likes sex and is able to obtain it, unlike her male counterparts. That's pretty much it. And if men could bang that much, they would. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 12:57 PM |
| 1 | Men here really act as if they wouldn't take advantage of their youth and good looks by sleeping around when they're young, like their female counterparts (if they could).Well hookup culture in general is sad to me. It's just empty. I personally just had a singular relationship with my wife, and I have no regrets about it. Some of my female friends hookup with random guys here or there, but they don't really seem satisfied. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 10:23 AM |
| 2 | Men here really act as if they wouldn't take advantage of their youth and good looks by sleeping around when they're young, like their female counterparts (if they could).What's sad? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 10:19 AM |
| 2 | Men here really act as if they wouldn't take advantage of their youth and good looks by sleeping around when they're young, like their female counterparts (if they could).Other guys posted similar comments. Again, some men don't want casual sex. But the majority do, that's the reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 10:14 AM |
| 1 | Men here really act as if they wouldn't take advantage of their youth and good looks by sleeping around when they're young, like their female counterparts (if they could).Well, variety is what some, or I should day, a lot of men like. I never understood it, but apparently men hop around and can't resist a pretty woman if they see one. Especially if they can just get the easily because they're attractive themselves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 08:19 AM |
| 9 | Men here really act as if they wouldn't take advantage of their youth and good looks by sleeping around when they're young, like their female counterparts (if they could).Besides the social standards people have set for themselves... What are the objective, factual reasons that it is different when women sleep around, compared to when men sleep around? securing paternity Complete bs. This has to do with the faithfulness of your partner, not if they like having sex or not. And no, N count doesn't increase the likelihood of cheating (obviously, thete is a limit somewhere, but for most people that isn't a good indicator). pair bonding Not enough factual research to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 08:11 AM |
| 2 | Men here really act as if they wouldn't take advantage of their youth and good looks by sleeping around when they're young, like their female counterparts (if they could).Good for you, I personally wouldn't either, but my sex drive is low, so I can't speak for the insanely majority of horny men out there... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 07:59 AM |
| 2 | Men here really act as if they wouldn't take advantage of their youth and good looks by sleeping around when they're young, like their female counterparts (if they could).? Some men, and some women weaponize sex. It's mostly women now, since they have the advantage of men being infinitely hornier, they can set barriers and rules that the men chasing them must follow in order to get in their pants. I don't claim this is a bad thing, only that it occurs... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 07:59 AM |
| 24 | The reason women appear like vapid whores is due to statistics, most women are decent just like men.The title... Jesus 🤣 Women don't appear like vapid whores to everyone. The reason a lot of guys seem to think this way is because they look at the absolute youngest girls, teenagers and young adults (<25yo) and see women taking advantage of their youth and likely good looks. As they should... Any man that pretends he wouldn't use the ability to sleep around with those he chose is either rare and honest, or, like the majority, lying... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 06:32 AM |
| 1 | Can somebody explain what they mean by the term looksmatchWomen are the beautiful gender. Looksmatches mean the guy couldn't get better, or just that he's hot himself. Usually, guys offer, as far as I see in my day to day life, things other than looks and femininity. Everything else is what guys bring to the table, to make the woman interested. It's on the girl to bring beauty and comfort in a relationship, and for the guy to keep up and provide things that would interest her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/22 10:34 PM |
| 0 | Men in your 20s, how do you feel about older men competing with you in the sexual marketplace?When I was in HS, it felt incredibly unfair. When I'm an adult now, I'd feel a bit fucked over if a girl I liked fell for a dude just because he's ilder, moved out, and has a car. Things "I would have if I were his age". Just unfair because men always look for their age range if they're in their 20's. And that's impossible if most girls like older guys... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/22 10:32 PM |
| 3 | Nobody in real life cares about body countThe only reason to care about this is if You're religious. Insecurity I'm an atheist and am secure in myself... And I still care about that. Why? Because it's disgusting to be with someone who allowed just anyone to do something I personally consider to be a very intimate thing. Idc if you had options and idc if you "like sex". Self control exists and if you let just anyone inside you, you're making that act NO LONGER SPECIAL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/22 10:30 PM |
| 2 | In dating, being an 8-9 is superior to being a 10.Men that are 10's are still men. Overflow in opportunity leads to inevitable, horny misery. Having sex with anyone you possibly can, and likely hurting modt of them since they're in love with you. Women on the other hand will always want a "better" partner. And there's only so many rich, famous, powerful men out there... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 01:37 PM |
| 0 | How do average people succeed in dating if they don't have looks nor wealth?I'll tell you exactly how. Force yourself to become a social person. If not extroverted, at least an in-between antisocial and extroversion... With friends come like minded people, with like minded people come partners... Eventually. You do still have to make an effort with your looks, your style of clothing, your personality (try making yourself interesting, start new hobbies, projects, read, watch shows that could relate you to someone in a convo, etc.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 01:13 PM |
| 3 | Introverts are more likely to be involuntarily single. Thus confirming that you have to 'put yourself out there' in order to meet people and develop interactions that turn into relationships. This is a hard truth for manyUp next: water is wet incels disagree with your point red pill men abuse women More on Channel obvious later... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Yes ladies, men enjoy it when you do all the house work, just as much as you enjoy guys paying on all dates.Don't wanna do it. Nor hang it. Nor sort it. Nor fold it. My body.... Is telling me NO. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 12:34 PM |
| 2 | Women making the first move"I can't approach??? Wym??? That's so awkward and seems desperate..." If a woman says this, her feelings of loneliness, dissatisfaction, etc. INSTANTLY INVALIDATED You can't complain about being alone if you don't do anything about it, or, purposely shoot WAY outside of your league. Raise your worth. Know your ACTUAL worth. Accept that worth. Proceed to get what you want and approach... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 09:58 AM |
| 0 | Cheating...is it ever ok?As soon as you have options beside you, lined up, because your relationship is fragile, you've doomed that current relationship. You can't grow from a point that fragile. I'm sorry. Strong marriages are built on even stronger building blocks. For your relationship to be long lasting, you need compatibility in your world views, and life styles. You need absolute trust, and boundaries you both agreed to. You need to understand that a relationship where there was a breakup, the relationship will in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 07:14 AM |
| 1 | Yes ladies, men enjoy it when you do all the house work, just as much as you enjoy guys paying on all dates.I am ambitious too. I am a writer and have had plenty of good reviews from people I've shared slices of my book with. It's not like I don't have ventures, they're just private affairs, not through the school system. She's trying to program aswell, just self educated through courses, not college. Good luck with your plans! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 07:06 AM |
| 1 | Yes ladies, men enjoy it when you do all the house work, just as much as you enjoy guys paying on all dates.Yea nah. I don't really care for hard labor. Money isn't really important to me since I don't spend much on myself compared to spending on her. I do take enjoyment from others happiness, so that's how I get my fill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 06:59 AM |
| 1 | Yes ladies, men enjoy it when you do all the house work, just as much as you enjoy guys paying on all dates.It's not because I'm a man... It's because she's in a different field. I'm in the medical field, and for your information, my colleagues earn more than I do, and they're all female. Nice try xd | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 06:55 AM |
| 1 | Yes ladies, men enjoy it when you do all the house work, just as much as you enjoy guys paying on all dates.She works 40 h/week? Already married? Whaaat do her work hours have to do with us being married..? What in the capitalism is going on in your country..? I work about 60 h/w and earn about 10-15% more than her. She went to college, I didn't, but I got a better job with just hs "education". Regardless, that excess money is spent on dates and shnaz, and for holidays we save up together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 06:51 AM |
| 1 | Yes ladies, men enjoy it when you do all the house work, just as much as you enjoy guys paying on all dates.I'm already married, so my dating pool is irrelevant. She's not a SAHM, nor works 60h/w... She works 40h/w. And I do the cooking and cleaning of that mess, she does the clothes. Washing, hanging, ironing. I vacuum, she dusts. It's a split sort of deal. She does do a bit more than I do in other areas, nothing major, just little house chores, bur I pay on all dates and but her books, and stuff she wants | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 06:38 AM |
| 1 | Yes ladies, men enjoy it when you do all the house work, just as much as you enjoy guys paying on all dates.I'm already married, so my dating pool is irrelevant. She's not a SAHM, nor works 60h/w... She works 40h/w. And I do the cooking and cleaning of that mess, she does the clothes. Washing, hanging, ironing. I vacuum, she dusts. It's a split sort of deal. She does do a bit more than I do in other areas, nothing major, just little house chores, bur I pay on all dates and but her books, and stuff she wants | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 06:37 AM |
| 1 | Yes ladies, men enjoy it when you do all the house work, just as much as you enjoy guys paying on all dates.Yes, but I hate doing it. And therefore would rather buy my wife gifts, and take her on vacations and dates, than do that... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 06:25 AM |
| 9 | Do you think people pick partners based on how good that partner would make them look?Literally happened to me. The first and only girl I've gone on dates with and rejected, was a person who I vibed with on one level, and really liked how kind and sweet she was, but she just wasn't ... Presentable? She had messy hair, was really boisterous and even though that was my type, I didn't like how I felt around friends... Ended up breaking it off with her... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 09:04 AM |
| 1 | Do you believe that you're the prize?Well I disagree with your view. They want fun and excitement, because that's usually what young people want. You said "these days" and I'm assuming you're talking about women below age of 40. So it's normal girls want excitement at that age. Guys do aswell. Is she not supposed to want to go to dinners, parties, trips, moved, etc? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 08:02 AM |
| 1 | Do you believe that you're the prize?Well I disagree with your view. They want fun and excitement, because that's usually what young people want. You said "these days" and I'm assuming you're talking about women below age of 40. So it's normal girls want excitement at that age. Guys do aswell. Is she not supposed to want to go to dinners, parties, trips, moved, etc? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 07:57 AM |
| 3 | Do you believe that you're the prize?As I said, I'm no prize, but I can offer equally as much as another man in a relationship, likely more judging by how I see my female friends treated... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/22 12:57 PM |
| 8 | Do you believe that you're the prize?I mean, it's hot to me and my wife. I'm just saying maybe other ladies wouldn't agree, since I don't really get into many fetishes (oral and stuff is fine, I'm not slapping her face or choking her out) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/22 12:46 PM |
| 36 | Do you believe that you're the prize?I'm ok. No prizes here, just a regular, good partner, depending on your tastes. If you want a party boy, and hot sex, I'm probably too vanilla and boring for you. If you want stability, love, affection, thoughtfulness, I'm the man for that plan. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/22 11:24 AM |
| 1 | How many dudes in here are actually in a relationship?I'm married. Definitely not RP. RP men don't end up in happy marriages. Correction, where BOTH sides are happy... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/22 05:25 PM |
| 2 | The Economics of Singledom in the Welfare StateIn my country, if you haven't been given an apartment, or don't have a partner, you'll live on (unless you're college educated) 80$ a month (that accounts for your apartment expenses, rent, food being paid for). No saving, no partying, no trips, no car, no branded clothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/22 02:47 PM |
| 6 | What does marriage mean to you?I personally look at it as a confirmation of commitment between two people. You've made it know to: yourselves everyone else the government That you're ready to spend your lives together. The government part is a bit unnecessary, but you should understand that some things relating to kids and money are a bit easier to "transfer" in case something happens. Ofcourse, you could also argue that it could bite you in the ass just as hard, but hey, it's up to you to determine the risk. Marrying out of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/22 02:28 PM |
| 1 | The rapid societal decline in sex and relationships is solely due to women's lack of interestThat makes no difference. The value I bring isn't evident when you just see me. I'm not 6'5" and ripped. I do dress fairly well tho, and have lost quite a bit of weight. I had several occasions where girls were kind of giving me "hints" but then stopped when they realized I'm taken. I also got approached a couple times, so I don't believe I would be totally unsuccessful. It's just that my style of approach is getting to know a person and letting them see how good of a partner I'd be. Obviously, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 07:30 PM |
| – | The rapid societal decline in sex and relationships is solely due to women's lack of interestVideo games and porn are huge contributors. It makes men less likely to go and seek out women, or to even engage in other hobbies and be properly motivated on a regular basis. From what I see in society, women don't waste nearly as much time on video games and pornography. I get it, watching TV shows is equally bad as playing vide games, but since women aren't in an active, pursuing role, they don't need to worry as much. Therefore, men engaging in things that make them less likely to go after w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 10:59 AM |
| -1 | What's your opinions on 40 year olds sleeping with 20 year olds?Lmao, ain't for shit men can't believe other men hold them accountable xd | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 04:35 PM |
| 1 | What's your opinions on 40 year olds sleeping with 20 year olds?I'm a dude, I'm married, not into fds. Missed the mark there son | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 09:03 AM |
| -1 | What's your opinions on 40 year olds sleeping with 20 year olds?Are you fucking dumb? Women at that age usually have their shit together, but guys their age wanna explore and not settle down. Women have a clock, if they admit it or not, it's key for them to find someone while in their 20's. And they can't do that, because most men are still boys that age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 08:12 AM |
| -1 | What's your opinions on 40 year olds sleeping with 20 year olds?Why? Why do they like them? Because they like a man who's aging? No, it's because those men are usually a bit more mature than men in their 20's and have already established a life Not because they LOVE OLDER DUDE'S | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 06:06 AM |
| -1 | What's your opinions on 40 year olds sleeping with 20 year olds?Absolutely disgusting. No woman wants a 40 year old man. Some want the money, and some naively want maturity, which they SHOULD expect from their age appropriate counterparts. Reality is that most men ain't worth much, other than their financial support, which is fading in todays age where we have equal male-female employment. And that's why you see age gaps. It's women looking for men as mature as they are, or more, and that have money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 12:22 AM |
| 4 | Be honest, in your personal life, do you see more women punching up, or men punching up?Any dude that denies guys date up in looks is insane. Women are generally more beautiful than their male counterparts. And that's an objective fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Do we need each other?That's great. I have male ones too, half of them are gay tho. Or they're genuinely different from how most dude's act. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 04:20 PM |
| 2 | Are men more fearful of losing their masculinity then women are afraid of losing their femininity?About equal. Some men don't care for looking as masculine, and some women don't care for looking as feminine. I would say, if anyone feared more, it would be men. Because you do see women wearing suits, ties, pants, all that oversized, with some yee yee ass haircut (buzzed or something). But you will never see a man wearing a dress, unless he's trans or a very brave crossdresser. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Are men more fearful of losing their masculinity then women are afraid of losing their femininity?About equal. Some men don't care for looking as masculine, and some women don't care for looking as feminine. I would say, if anyone feared more, it would be men. Because you do see women wearing suits, ties, pants, all that oversized, with some yee yee ass haircut (buzzed or something). But you will never see a man wearing a dress, unless he's trans or a very brave crossdresser. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 03:14 PM |
| 6 | Do we need each other?Well, I know I need women. They're a refreshing break from the majority of men. Yes, some men are fine, but mostly it's overly "masculine" in those surroundings, and you can't talk about anything. Whereas with women I found that I could make friends much more easily, as soon as they detect I am not trying to have sex with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 03:04 PM |
| 2 | Do we need each other?How bout' any other job... Literally any other job | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 03:03 PM |
| 12 | Modern women are choosing the lesser of two evilsBecause it's likely that men in the majority of those divorces got it pretty good, and wouldn't leave the girl. So the girl left them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 03:01 PM |
| 1 | What makes you ignore "no/not interested"?Some people are willing to wilfully ignore someone's feelings and just plaster a "friendship" over their ex's. And then those same people are Pikachu face when the other person "reveals" they still have feelings for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 11:41 PM |
| 3 | What makes you ignore "no/not interested"?You hovering around him is a bad thing. Believe it or not. Think of it as unfair if you will. But men you had prior relations with can NEVER truly be your friends, and JUST friends again. You have one shot at a relationship with someone. If you fuck it up, you squandered your try at a friendship aswell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 11:50 AM |
| 1 | Honestly, would you leave a 7 in looks who you loved and had other shared interests/ values with, for a 10?10 in what? Compatibility or just looks? Looks last (if you start at 20) about 10-20 years, then they're gone forever. If you're trying for a life long relationship, that shit is WAY not worth it. Also, if I already had a "7" that I'm compatible with, and a "10" that I would also probably be compatible with (let's just say I would be), I still wouldn't leave the 7. Monkey branching is a shit move. Don't betray someone loyal to you. Not a way to live life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 11:46 AM |
| 2 | What do you believe is holding you back from a successful relationship?For a long time, before I was married, I thought it was my looks, like every guy these days. Seemingly, it was actually nothing to do with my looks, but rather my absolute lack of substance as a person. I had no hobbies, wasted my time playing 5-6 hours of league a day, and did nothing but eat and sleep around. Somehow I thought being nice would be enough to win a girl over. I was obviously quite mistaken... Started working on myself, not my physical body, but rather my appearance in general. Ye… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 07:50 AM |
| 1 | Why men should prioritize their sexual needsFar from it. With some effort and consistency , anyone can do it. It just depends on whether you want to actually change or just vent about your situation. Thats the only difference. If you think hard work is "unrealistic" then i cant help you though. I'm saying getting abs is next to impossible for someone, for example, like myself. I literally can't get abs. My whole body focuses fat deposits around my stomach. And I eat 1300 calories of low carb and high protein food. I train boxing at home, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 05:54 AM |
| 4 | Why men should prioritize their sexual needsThey should change that. Literally, basically impossible. Sorry, if you're not attractive, you will likely never have sex outside of a relationship. And no, you can't magically get a six pack, grow to be beyond 6 feet and make your face conventionally attractive. Don't even mention surgery or "hard work" because none of those are realistic, nor doable for most people. See now that is a problem. Either find another source then, or wear condoms and learn to ignore social pressures. What other sour… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/22 07:16 PM |
| 3 | Why men should prioritize their sexual needsDepends on your sexual needs and access to sex. Most men don't have access to sex. And most men aren't willing to risk STD's and social shame from an escort. If you are married and are no longer having sex, there's always a reason for it. Are you really trying hard enough to have sex with your partner? If someone needs to get their motor running to have sex, then do so. Otherwise, you weren't sexually compatible to begin with, you knew that, but ignored it anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/22 06:55 PM |
| 2 | Not really understanding the whole work on yourself movement.It's good to keep in shape, for your own confidence, and likely to increase the sexual tension between you and your partner. Never a bad thing. Getting your money up, if possible is always good, more money, less worries. But the main reason the "average, non-rich and non-famous" guys are getting into relationships, is because of something the majority, if not almost all men on this sub won't understand. It's because most relationships form out of world view and lifestyle compatibility, and some … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/22 08:48 AM |
| 12 | We men are in competition with each otherMen shouldn't look at other men as competition. Worry about your own well being and life. Pushing others down to get up is not the way. Getting yourself up and pulling others up with you is, in my opinion, the ideal version of masculinity. A winner never looks behind him to make sure noone is catching up to him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/22 08:43 AM |
| 2 | Men should not approach women. Men should wait until women approach them or women show obvious interest in them.A woman COULD feel amazing about you, you'd just have to get yourself acquainted well enough with her. You have to make effort for her to see you as different. Because she gets attention from men all the time and just drowns it out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/22 08:09 AM |
| 1 | Here are the seven reasons why most marriages fall apart, and why quoting divorce rates is a flawed argument:Married too young means that you intertwined before your real interests in life developed. If you grow together, there won't be a problem, if you grow apart, that leads to problems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/22 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Here are the seven reasons why most marriages fall apart, and why quoting divorce rates is a flawed argument:"infidelity" arises from these issues. Also, a person losing their will to keep up their looks is just as valid of a reason to cheat. If you have a sex drive and your partner sits Infront of the tv the whole day, drinking and eating, you'll no longer find them attractive and will likely resort to cheating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/22 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Here are the seven reasons why most marriages fall apart, and why quoting divorce rates is a flawed argument:Probably not, statistics likely were even more unreliable because women were essentially sex slaves that would starve without a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/22 06:16 PM |
| 1 | For men, lowering your standards is a much better dating strategy than self improvement.Not on this sub, but irl yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/22 06:15 PM |
| 2 | Why don't you simply waste her time?POV: You're an inkwell trying to make everyone around you as miserable as yourself Really sad post bro. What do weak minded people like you need..? Oh I know, just believe in god or something dude, and hope for some church pussy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/22 10:06 AM |
| 2 | Why don't you simply waste her time?POV: You're an inkwell trying to make everyone around you as miserable as yourself Really sad post bro. What do weak minded people like you need..? Oh I know, just believe in god or something dude, and hope for some church pussy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/22 10:05 AM |
| -1 | "Let women come to you" is the best way to remain sexless your whole life.Very wrong way of looking at marriage and relationships in general. The reason I discard that statistic, is because most marriages start when people are [insert one or more of these factors]: too young had a baby so got married were getting old and jumped into marriage to save themselves from loneliness pressured to marry by parents married to save a relationship that was already failing weren't financially stable before marriage These 6 factors are the overwhelming majority of divorces. For exa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/22 09:52 AM |
| 6 | "Let women come to you" is the best way to remain sexless your whole life.That's technically still approaching. These dudes mean DO LITERALLY NOTHING AND ATTRACT WOMEN. Talking to you, hanging in the same room/group, etc. That's all part of an approach. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/22 09:47 AM |
| 5 | "Let women come to you" is the best way to remain sexless your whole life.Dude. The statistical chance of that happening is basically 0% Also she's 10 years younger ..... Errrrr...... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/22 09:46 AM |
| 2 | "Let women come to you" is the best way to remain sexless your whole life.Literally...... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/22 09:45 AM |
| 7 | "Let women come to you" is the best way to remain sexless your whole life.That's most modern men. Never go outside, every hobby is a solo hobby. And then they expect sex to just happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/22 09:44 AM |
| 1 | Men should not approach women. Men should wait until women approach them or women show obvious interest in them.How do women show obvious interest in you? Do you know? I bet you couldn't recognize the difference between a woman being friendly and "wanting something". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/22 06:38 AM |
| 5 | Men should not approach women. Men should wait until women approach them or women show obvious interest in them.I literally can't believe some men think this. No. Women don't "come to you". You're a man. You want something, you go and get it. What is with these new generations of absolute pussies that are so scared of approaching women. Overwhelming majority of women don't actively seek out relationships, unlike men. So we as men do the approaching. Just because she isn't instantly drowning on your cock, doesn't mean she would never be interested. You HAVE to poke the bear sometimes. Only the most Chadly … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/22 06:37 AM |
| 0 | For men, lowering your standards is a much better dating strategy than self improvement.However, self improvement is almost always a worse strategy than simply lowering your standards Define worse? You won't be happy if you find an unattractive, incompatible woman and start a relationship. This type of opinion clearly comes from someone who's never been in a relationship, and thinks all they need is a partner, doesn't matter what kind. POV: You're a young male clueless about dating ⬇️ There aren't many things men can easily improve on anyway outside of losing weight, grooming thems… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/22 06:33 AM |
| 1 | Would you associate being single as a bad thing? Why or why not?Absolutely not. It's a good indicator, if you didn't decide to be single yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 08:55 PM |
| 1 | If a Woman's past truly does not matter, then Women need to start acting like it doesn't matterYour past matters. We as humanity look at past experiences and learn from them. That's why we've evolveded to conquer this planet. Your past actions matter, like it or not. And if you've fixed these issues and moved on, that's fine. But some things you can not change. Hanging out with your ex isn't ok. Idc if you've slept "like five years ago". You've had sex and that's final. The two of you, from then on, have a different relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Men are hypergamous too, but with looksAny man that denies this is ridiculous. Women put infinitely more effort into their appearance on average. And yes, going to the gym then quitting for guys doesn't count. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 03:53 PM |
| 3 | Protective instinctI have a protective insinct towards everyone, women especially. My wife however... I am overprotective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 03:52 PM |
| 0 | Would you associate being single as a bad thing? Why or why not?Yes. Why? Not because it's inherently bad, but it usually signals lack of sufficient value you provide, or the height of your standards. Either isn't really a gokd thing. I don't know many interesting, smart, good looking people that are single. And the ones that are, are by choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Is anyone happily married? (longterm)Am for now hahah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 01:29 PM |
| 8 | How can you know if the man you are dating is into redpill stuff?Simple, you won't be dating him at all, he'll toss you out like a wet rug he, like the one he wiped his dick with after having sex with you on the first date. False promises of a relationship, being cheap on a date, and trying to be as charming as possible, without actually saying much at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 01:05 PM |
| 1 | Do men and women (straight) actually want LTRs nowadays?I personally do since I always wanted stability in life. I am more mature than my counterparts, being that I am in my early 20's, since everyone seems to want to explore and enjoy the drama in their current lives... But, I understand it. Not everyone wants to pair up young, choosing to explore and "find yourself" is fine aswell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 12:17 PM |
| 1 | The main issue in dating is men medicating their mistakes with wrong solutions."lay count of 19" I'm not talking about people like you that just use women as holes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 12:28 PM |
| 2 | The main issue in dating is men medicating their mistakes with wrong solutions.Intentions? 😑 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 09:28 AM |
| 3 | The main issue in dating is men medicating their mistakes with wrong solutions.I didn't. Making friends with women can simply and obviously be interpreted as growing your social circle and implementing women in it, so you feel at ease around them in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 06:59 AM |
| 3 | The main issue in dating is men medicating their mistakes with wrong solutions.I love how so many men here instantly responded "well don't befriend her, you won't get in her pants that way!" Completely ignoring the fact you can JUST BE FRIENDS WITH WOMEN. They instantly went to sexualize and dehumanize. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 06:53 AM |
| 2 | The main issue in dating is men medicating their mistakes with wrong solutions.Yes, getting fit is fine. But anything more than not beingh fat or just simply not being very skinny is fine with most women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 06:37 AM |
| 2 | The main issue in dating is men medicating their mistakes with wrong solutions.Why did you have kids then..? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 06:35 AM |
| 0 | The main issue in dating is men medicating their mistakes with wrong solutions.You're a mother of four that has disgusting sexual videos on your reddit profile. Silence, your voice is irrelevant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 06:24 AM |
| 3 | What are the benefits to dating a red pill man?Red pill men base their existence around "not caring about women" SO much, to the point of doing everything just so they could attract as many as possible. A woman won't benefit here, it's a specifically male strategy for being a womanizer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 06:08 AM |
| 3 | The main issue in dating is men medicating their mistakes with wrong solutions.Are you in a relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 05:52 AM |
| 2 | The main issue in dating is men medicating their mistakes with wrong solutions.I don't mean befriending them to try and get in their pants I mean befriending them to normalize women in your head... So you don't view them as just sex holes.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 04:51 AM |
| 2 | The main issue in dating is men medicating their mistakes with wrong solutions.That's using false friendship to initiate romance, which is highly disingenuous. WHY DID EVERYONE THINK I MEANT THAT????? Do men literally not understand you can have female friends???????????? I just mean MAKE FEMALE FRIENDS. Because it WILL help you to normalize being around women. I don't mean you should try and befriend then secretly fuck them....... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 04:50 AM |
| 3 | The main issue in dating is men medicating their mistakes with wrong solutions.? You don't seem to understand. You befriend women for the same of befriending them. Not because you try to have sex with them ans then fail, and are put in the friend zone. Just imagine how you'd make a new guy friend. Same goes for a woman. Just for the sake of hanging out nothing more. This is exactly what I mean by men sexualizing women, or not noticing their existence | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 04:48 AM |
| 1 | Blue pill advise does not help men whatsoeverWell... Honestly? From the men I see IRL that have noone, are pretty much not great guys. And no, it's not that "they treated me bad so I evolved into this" type of deal. I and plenty of my male friends had it that badly aswell and found someone after eventually improving. The men that are single are usually unkept, don't try to get fit, don't dress well, show no effort to find hobbies other than video games or cars, and they have basics no ambitions. Women LOVE when a guy has a lot going on, he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Average men wanting chad’s lifestyle are akin to middle class people wanting a billionaire lifestyleIt's not a flex. It's silly, and I do admit that men, unless they're Chad, or an outlier, don't get approached. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 03:17 PM |
| -1 | Blue pill advise does not help men whatsoeverDoesn't mean you are a shithead. I was a really nice dude in highschool. I never had a girlfriend. Why? Because I wasn't worth much and I didn't know how to interact with women. I fixed both, slowly, and bam, I got an opportunity and now I'm married. When men are worth something, AND attempt to understand women better, they win. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Blue pill advise does not help men whatsoeverFunny fantasy y'all live in | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 01:11 PM |
| 5 | Average men wanting chad’s lifestyle are akin to middle class people wanting a billionaire lifestyleA man -has- to be Chad if he is to attract at least a normal, baseline attractiveness woman Agree, to a degree. I've been approached by about 2 women in my life, and I'm far from Chad tier. Just your average Joe who dresses well. But otherwise, sure, if you wanna ATTRACT women, you need to be a Chad. If you're trying to say that Chad's the only one who can actually get a girl to like him, you're flat wrong. Overwhelming majority of men having relationships are average men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 01:07 PM |
| 1 | Blue pill advise does not help men whatsoeverOne can't simply learn to smooth talk. That comes natural. You can try and talk casually, but being smooth is a virtue. Game is useless... Too many tricks... Doesn't achieve a long term relationship. Trust me, if it's a long term relationship a person wants, no tricks will be necessary. Either you click or you don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 11:53 AM |
| 1 | Blue pill advise does not help men whatsoeverSure. Depending on the type of person you meet. Love is hard to find. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 08:13 AM |
| 1 | Blue pill advise does not help men whatsoeverDamn you're pessimistic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 07:33 AM |
| 1 | Blue pill advise does not help men whatsoeverLooks threshold is arbitrary. I am shorter than average in my country, and i was obese when I met my wife. Was that her "looks threshold"? No. She doesn't like fat men. She liked me, I happened to be fat. Did I fix it over time? Sure. But that was my decision. And everyone should better themselves for their partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 07:32 AM |
| 1 | Blue pill advise does not help men whatsoeverHalo effect isn't infinite. You think a happy, stable, long term relationship can exist BASED on the halo effect? Isn't that literally antagonistic to what the HALO EFFECT MEANS? It doesn't last, that's the point. So for a relationship, you won't be able to hold that initial attraction forever, it needs to be supplemented by genuine compatibility. What is your goal? Put a baby in her while the halo effect is in play, then trap her by having the baby? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 07:30 AM |
| 2 | Blue pill advise does not help men whatsoeverNot even true. The type of women bloops usually aim for are more down to earth girls that are usually not even "experienced" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 06:16 AM |
| 0 | Blue pill advise does not help men whatsoeverIt will not. You're probably used to dating very different women than I had dated before my wife | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 05:08 AM |
| 0 | Blue pill advise does not help men whatsoeverSingularly no, in combination with other obvious traits, yes... Why do men single out something and say it doesn't work, even tho it's the equivalent to saying tires are useless, but if you attach them to a car, then it will run... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 05:07 AM |
| -2 | Blue pill advise does not help men whatsoeverBanging girls and forming a relationship isn't the same. For banging you need charm, looks and confidence. Thise three traits will serve you little in imrpessing s long term potential partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 05:05 AM |
| 1 | Blue pill advise does not help men whatsoeverAnd for people who need advice, this is actually crucial.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 05:04 AM |
| 2 | Blue pill advise does not help men whatsoeverNever said it was... That's also men... They see a singular, standalone trait and say "this isn't enough to get me a woman", so they cast it aside. Then they look at muscles and the immediate effect they have on women's attraction to a man, and they freak out and think THAT is the holy grail... You need a combination of many things. Being decent, genuinely nice and helpful, making someone laugh, provide a good time for someone, be there for them whenever, be an interesting individual with plenty… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 05:03 AM |
| 32 | Blue pill advise does not help men whatsoeverBlue pill advises men to be decent humans to their fellow opposite humans. You don't need tactics. You don't need hyper obscure ways to earn money, fame, status, confidence, etc. You literally need to broaden your friend group by forcing yourself to be social and adapt to certain friend groups. Then find people that you match better with and slowly work your way to groups of people that suit you. When you're there, you might even meet someone you like and match with romantically. Look for people… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 10:10 PM |
| 2 | [Q4ALL] What do you consider to be the biggest issues with “modern dating” and what is the solution?Men misunderstanding their flaws and medicating their problems with wrong solutions. Trying to act hyper masculine, and then becoming evident beta wanna-be alpha males, that just wear expensive shit that doesn't match, do crypto without any worthwhile profits, go to the gym and get fit in hopes of women magically flocking to their cocks, when in reality that's just a partial boost in someone's attractiveness... Women on the other hand gotta stop thinking they can hoe around and get fine men afte… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 10:04 PM |
| 1 | If sex robots were a thing, would you care if your s/o fucked them for fun?We were talking about an AI FUCKING you girl. That's too much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 07:36 PM |
| 1 | If sex robots were a thing, would you care if your s/o fucked them for fun?No | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 06:33 PM |
| 1 | If sex robots were a thing, would you care if your s/o fucked them for fun?So a dildo being shoved by her into her own vagina, is no different between an AI slapping her ass, fingering her ass while he fucks her with his 10 inch cock, calls her a dirty whore, pulls her hair, then cums in her eyes and mouth? Right! Basically the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 04:16 PM |
| 3 | If sex robots were a thing, would you care if your s/o fucked them for fun?I don't want that... We all have meaningless lives, objectively. And we all give meaning to our lives. I personally find meaning in a monogamous relationship. Neither I nor her can cheat. Call it boring, but that's how I like it. My woman is my woman. And I'm her man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 04:15 PM |
| 7 | If sex robots were a thing, would you care if your s/o fucked them for fun?Gonna let you figure that out sunny boy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 04:12 PM |
| 4 | If sex robots were a thing, would you care if your s/o fucked them for fun?No. If she doesn't think of other guys smashing her, then I'm fine with it. If she just watches porn, then that's fine. Porn people don't exist, that's just an easy way to put it. Vibrators are irrelevant, but dildos would make me uncomfortable if they were like some crazy 10 inchers... I couldn't really compensate for that, so I'd feel weird. I wouldn't forbid her tho. Robots are different obviously. Since they can impersonate all sorts of different sexual things. Not just PIV. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 11:31 AM |
| 7 | If sex robots were a thing, would you care if your s/o fucked them for fun?Yes, obviously | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 09:59 AM |
| 10 | If sex robots were a thing, would you care if your s/o fucked them for fun?A vibrator is fine. It's not an individual. An AI robot can give different types of pleasures, not just straight dick into vagina. It would be like having sex with another person, regardless of emotions. Which I am not ok with. A dildo is bordering on ok. If it's much bigger than mine, then I'd feel weird about it. As if she was overcompensating for "my lackings". She can do it, it would just be weird, not a dealbreaker | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 09:57 AM |
| 6 | If sex robots were a thing, would you care if your s/o fucked them for fun?Exactly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 09:36 AM |
| 22 | If sex robots were a thing, would you care if your s/o fucked them for fun?Sexual access to my woman is mine alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 04:55 AM |
| 4 | Being A Young Attractive Woman Is A Massive Privilege In DatingI'm fat and my wife and I play it together. You can still get a girl. Being hot is just a bonus. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 04:39 AM |
| 22 | What do you think the future of dating will look like?Women will hyper sexualize themselves, but never allow men to comment on it or treat them differently for it. In the meantime, they'll get dicked down by only the hottest of men from dating apps. The few good women left will be wifed up by the luckiest bastards on this planet. Most men will be consumed by the red pill and completely lose any knowledge of how to interact with women. "Most men are terrible" will become a self evident truth, and the majority, overwhelming majority, of men will neve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 04:37 AM |
| 119 | If sex robots were a thing, would you care if your s/o fucked them for fun?You mean I come home and my wife is in our bedroom squeeling from getting pounded by a 10 incher? Yea bro, I'd be totally fine with that. No red flags there, I would feel totally sufficient! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 04:34 AM |
| 9 | Looks are by FAR the biggest factor in attracting a girl.Attracting? Sure. But anything else? Retaining attention? You need to be compatible with the person and actually interest them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 08:09 PM |
| 7 | What Protects Someone Like Dan Bilzerian From the Culture We Live In?He lives a fake life. He has too much fake money. So does his dady. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 05:32 PM |
| 1 | If there was a 'Traditional' Dating App, would you use it?If I were single, I'd gladly pay for that service. I'm sure in the scenario where I'd get to show off the type of person I am, my hobbies, my interests, my wants and needs, what I can provide, etc. I'd be taken off the dating market instantly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 08:57 AM |
| 1 | How many people here have had their heart broken?Well, I had once. Pretty much the reason I understood looks would get me nowhere if my character doesn't attract a person. Actually accidentally changed my life for the better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 12:15 AM |
| 3 | How does the "you need to see women as a person first" work on Tinder?Well it doesn't. Dating apps are the worst things humans invented. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/22 05:55 PM |
| 3 | What are these “needs” and why are they not being met?That's statistically irrelevant..? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/22 02:09 PM |
| 4 | What are these “needs” and why are they not being met?People find it hard to separate wants and needs. That's because most people don't understand what they want, nor need. For me, I NEEDED a smart individual, who was monogamous, pretty and willing to let me have my way most of the time (not sexually), is willing to work a full time job and have kids later down the line. Also, words of affirmation are necessary for me. What I wanted was a smaller girl with some boobs and a butt, that is playful, willing to have sex every day when we're together, an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/22 06:01 AM |
| 5 | What are these “needs” and why are they not being met?Provider in today's day and age is unrealistic. If you found someone that's cool, but it was an unrealistic standard | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/22 05:57 AM |
| 0 | "Predator" is a becoming a meaningless buzzword hereWell men are very dissapointing in most cases. Acting childish in their 20's and only getting their life together in their 30's. Whereas I see most women have their shit locked in their 20's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 01:05 PM |
| 0 | "Predator" is a becoming a meaningless buzzword hereI don't know how you took it there... All I'm saying is that what an older man seems to offer, is nothing impressive, in the overwhelming majority of cases. And if she spends her best years with him, living in this "provider" illusion, then she'll find herself stranded later on in life. This relationships often fiddle as she ages too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 01:03 PM |
| 2 | Men should publicly shame and shun simps to gain back power in the dating worldI ain't gonna shame someone for trying to help themselves in a way they think works. I'm going to offer them help if they're a close member of my group/s, otherwise they can do what they wish. If they like simping, let em. It's not good for them tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 12:51 PM |
| 2 | Are women really more shallow than men, or do they just get called out more for it?Men are very visual and shallow about looks. Yes, men consider "most women attractive". The usual dude will find every 2/3 women attractive. But, how attractive really? Men are desperate on average, so they'll take any opportunity they can. Therefore dating app stats on men's right swipes are inaccurate. However, women's are VERY accurate, since they only swipe on those they like most, and rarely on those they don't find as attractive, but maybe find them just slightly attractive. Men are picky … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 12:28 PM |
| 1 | "Predator" is a becoming a meaningless buzzword hereWhat..? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 12:05 PM |
| 2 | Let's have some fun! - People on these sub often point out dealing with 'uninteresting men/women' as a struggle when dating and relationships. So let's see... What makes someone interesting (or uninteresting) in your eyes? *provide examples!It has to be something I don't see in other people and that is "unusual" in a good way. For example, i know a girl who is damn good at playing a violin, she attends a very difficult college (a really smart chick) and she plays airsoft in her spare time. It's just interesting... It's not your regular "I go to a random college, have no aspirations or hidden talents, and sleep and party in my spare time". That's not interesting in any way... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 10:00 AM |
| -1 | "Predator" is a becoming a meaningless buzzword hereWomen are attracted to established men. But women of older ages will tell you that an old fart doesn't mean anything, regardless of his status... That goes for modt women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 10:54 PM |
| 1 | "Predator" is a becoming a meaningless buzzword hereThot... I see what type you date .. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 10:32 PM |
| 0 | "Predator" is a becoming a meaningless buzzword hereIt isn't a fair exchange. Most men just acquire what they do with time and spend little on their women, a car and apartment he had in the first place doesn't count. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 04:36 PM |
| 1 | "Predator" is a becoming a meaningless buzzword hereAbsolutely false. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 04:35 PM |
| 0 | "Predator" is a becoming a meaningless buzzword hereWe are more progressive in our thinking now, and have, as a society, widely accepted that being a sexual predator is not just a person who has committed a crime, but rather a person who's sexual actions are very questionable and predatory in nature. an older dude dating a younger woman (of legal age) Because he's taking advantage of her lack of knowledge about the real world and lived experience, and has her hooked with materialistic things (like money, car, rented apartment), which she will lat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys agree with the dude in the video?Conveniently cropped. For a relationship, matching personalities is crucial. For getting laid, personality matters less, if not at all in some cases. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys agree with the dude in the video?Well you can be a horrible person and get laid .. never said one couldn't. I'm saying that for a happy, healthy, long term relationship, you need a connection through your personalities | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 08:49 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys agree with the dude in the video?takes extreme example to prove a point I am not saying a relationship doesn't require SOME sexual attraction towards one another, I am saying that looks aren't the MAIN reason for one person to be sexually attracted to someone, nor am I saying that sexual attraction needs to be extremely strong in order for a relationship to form. Also, poor example, I actually think he had kids, not sure, but I think he did. Regardless, it is possible to "get" a woman if you have a genuine connection with her, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 08:47 AM |
| 2 | We should raise the age of consent to 21The illegality of something doesn't reflect reality. A 21yo can definitely fall in love with an 18yo. They're really close to having the same lifestyles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys agree with the dude in the video?No..? Not how it works... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys agree with the dude in the video?Is a wrong opinion. Personality literally has everything to do with attraction. If you don't match as people, nothing will happen in terms of relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys agree with the dude in the video?Is how an incel that has a terrible personality and is clueless about dating would put it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 10:15 PM |
| 14 | Do you guys agree with the dude in the video?It's important to increase your chances by staying fit. I think what most men misunderstand is that the gym WILL get you a woman. That's not how it works. It will help, it won't get her for you. If you want a relationship, you'll need to spark interest by being fun to be around, interesting, funny, kind, willing to please her, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 08:48 PM |
| 13 | would you be willing to date a woman who did not have sex?I am married to one who didn't have sex before me. If she doesn't wanna have it with me, then no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 06:58 AM |
| 1 | CMW: Men don't owe women any commitment after sex regardless of any discussionsWell, have fun being miserable later in life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 06:57 AM |
| 5 | CMW: Men don't owe women any commitment after sex regardless of any discussionsThis is when an incel tries to make up a scenario where he has "sex with female". If you talk about commitment with a person, and play it off like you're going to commit, and pretend like there's a possibility of a relationship in the future, but then you just randomly pull away from a relationship when it inconveniences you... Or you just get bored of her... When she already caught feelings... Then you're just a dick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 11:00 PM |
| 2 | Why do people care about male virginity?Virgin men are then high value? Lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/22 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Men who don't want their girlfriends having massive sexual experience in her past, does it apply the same if the experiences were with other women?Well yea, we were both virgins. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 08:19 AM |
| 1 | "Power Imbalances" are part and parcel of consensual relationshipsAge gap relationships in todays age are a bust for women. They literally just get an older man, because on average, women are just as educated and successful as men. So when they turn 30, they'll match their husbands success. And her husband will just die sooner. Widowing her. It's ridiculous... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 04:59 AM |
| 1 | Men should stop spending so much time online if they don't want to be lonelyBut you don't want it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Why do people care about male virginity?Yes you can. I was "wired" to be antisocial. You can definitely work on that and fix it. I was a horrible student, yet I am now the most valuable technician at work. I was an even worse student at my native language class, yet I began writing a book in it. I was friendless and yet I gathered several groups of friends. I was sexless and yet I made myself more desireable by working out, getting over mental struggles and working on opening up to a person. I was bored and playing cs:go 10 hours a da… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Men should stop spending so much time online if they don't want to be lonelyThen be a jobless hippie | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Men who don't want their girlfriends having massive sexual experience in her past, does it apply the same if the experiences were with other women?Yea I'm with my wife rn. There isn't any competition. But I would dislike it if she had men before me, I can't lie. It's competition I can't really match up to. If some dude had a bigger dick, I literally can't compete with that... And also, they've had MY woman in their arms, having sex with her. That's disgusting to me. I would be uncomfortable with her having prior female partners, but I'd know they weren't any competition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 11:16 PM |
| 2 | Objectively, what is wrong with "cheating"?Objectively, what is wrong with "killing a person"? People are born every day, and you can make more humans any time you wish. For wvery murder, you can impregnate a woman and bam, nothing changed. Except someone's entire life because you killed their loved one, but in the graaaand scheme of things....... Listen, we all give meaning to our own lives. Humans feel cheated when their partner has sex with someone else. That's how we are, at least the overwhelming majority of us. Even tho a lot of pe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 01:44 PM |
| – | If you wouldn't commit to a woman that had a high n-count, you cannot complain when women "withold" sex before commitment.I absolutely agree 100%. Guys crying about women being whores but then leaving after no sex on third, or even first date, because "it's not worth their time". Bruh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 11:04 AM |
| 0 | Why do people care about male virginity?I would say it's a good indicator of your current worth. If nobody found you interesting enough, then maybe there really is some reason. Most men have obvious flaws but ignore them so that's no wonder true for most men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 11:04 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Men who don't want their girlfriends having massive sexual experience in her past, does it apply the same if the experiences were with other women?If she had 1 male partner, it would be the equivalent to about 10 women. The numbers I just listed are stupid, but I would seriously ignore if she had more than a couple past female partners in comparison to male partners. Men are my competition, women are not. Although I do feel uncomfortable with what that number of partners entails... Is she able to connect with people? Is she scared of commitment? Is there some reason those people left her that I don't know..? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 11:02 AM |
| 1 | Its understandable when women leave men due to their illness, disability or financial situationAin't my fault you look at the name lol. It was a funny nick so I picked it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 10:33 AM |
| 1 | Its understandable when women leave men due to their illness, disability or financial situationLmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 10:32 AM |
| 1 | Men should never completely open to women.Reason 1 You're totally wrong. Opening up to someone and fully commiting is how you get long term successful relationships. How many marriages broke up because the man kept his shell and then fucking died or blew up eventually because of his feelings that he held back for so long? Also, you're not defeated as a man if you commit... Don't trust the sexless PUA guys... Reason 2 Women that love you won't push your breaking point... They might incidentally get close to it, but if you communicate tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 09:26 AM |
| 3 | Its understandable when women leave men due to their illness, disability or financial situationYou didn't truly love someone if you do that. Trust me, when you're in REAL love, you'll never leave that person. No matter what. My best friend's mom burried her husband. She stuck with him for 5 years of just taking care of the man in bed, completely still and unable to speak or do anything else because of the stroke he had. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 09:23 AM |
| 1 | Men should stop spending so much time online if they don't want to be lonely??? Bruh... This is a capitalist world. What do you want me to do? At least I found an employer that doesn't totally screw me over. I get free blood tests, free pcr and antigen tests, I get free trips with homies from work that are amazing people I hang with regularly anyway, I get a paycheck that's 20% more than employer's usually pay for my line of work AND I get gigant bonuses. And I only have a HS degree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 09:16 AM |
| 2 | Why do women gas up unattractive/ugly women?They sometimes just hype up a friend, and ignore fixing her issue, instead opting for making her feel better instead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 08:17 AM |
| 1 | As a man, is rejection just frustrating OR a bit deeper than that, more existential, when the subject of your love and adoration chooses another man over youFor me, individual rejections meant nothing. But a bunch of them stacking up over time made me feel undesirable. Luckily I had a good combo of self sabotage and self hate. So I kept making advances and humiliating myself. Until I eventually found a very kind woman and found success. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 08:16 AM |
| 1 | What is your honest opinions on subs such as r/dating, r/dating_advice, and r/seduction?On a different account, I used to post advice, and it always got showered with rewards and upvotes. These people are lost and very uneducated about dating... Since a lot of things I see there are clueless and the answers to their issues are obvious... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 08:14 AM |
| 1 | Men should stop spending so much time online if they don't want to be lonelyMaybe in your case. I work for a private company, and we get bonuses if we do well. We're even rewarded with random "team building" trips with coworkers at the companies expense. I work with patients aswell. So I can't JUST think about money, since my decisions and actions can kill someone.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 08:12 AM |
| 1 | Men should stop spending so much time online if they don't want to be lonelyI don't simp after women... Don't have to. I get either friendship, or a stable partnership from my wife in return. Something most men wouldn't understand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/22 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Men should stop spending so much time online if they don't want to be lonelyNah. Men suck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/22 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Men should stop spending so much time online if they don't want to be lonelyMen sitting on here complaining about their life are literally ignoring the real issues, and just placing the blame on women. Literally dude's... Most women I know have their lives set. These women make breakfast, lunch and dinner for themselves, cleam their whole apartment a couple times a week, always have fresh and ironed clothes, they work out, have hobbies, AND DATE WHEN THEY CAN. The men???? Most men would live in filth, play videl games and do a half assed job at work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/22 08:39 AM |
| 1 | Would you date a single mom? Why or why not?No. That's too much for me. She'd have to be THE woman for me. I can't risk getting to know a kid, then exiting his life 6 months after | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/22 08:35 AM |
| 1 | Question for Blue Pill, Purple Pill and Regular No Pill Folks: How do you navigate and overcome relationship issues?I consider women our equals. So I talk to her like an adult, and we solve all our potential issues that arise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/22 08:34 AM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on Young Men not dating till they are 30 and established?It sucks because instead of actually improving themselves as people, and trying to find a person their age, they just collect money over time, then manage t move out of their parents home, they but a car, and date young women who find that impressive, when it's actually a normal things. Then years down the line they end up in unhappy marriages and with kids because they got pumped by these men that have nothing else to offer but their cash and a place to stay... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/22 08:32 AM |
| 1 | How quickly can you get a boyfriend/girlfriend if you were extremely motivated?I could do it, as I am now, relatively quickly. Maybe within a month. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 10:34 PM |
| 3 | What do women really mean by seeing “potential” in a man?Women naturally attach themselves to men they perceive as valuable or potentially very valuable. That's why you see women trying to "fix guys" at their own expense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 10:33 PM |
| 1 | There are only 3 ways to really succeed in the dating world as a guy: Extreme risk, hard work, or luckStats for steroids are readily available. You can see them online. 10% of people managing to do it really isn't a lot. It really isn't. Basically, if you're in a class of 20 people, that means maaaaaaybe 1-2 people will be earning high. The rest won't get anything special. That really ain't much. Sound good, but ain't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Women's PHYSICAL REQUIREMENTS for attraction keep rising as she approaches 30The more she's worth in her mind, the more she wants. Women sadly falsely correlate their career success, and money earnings with value she beings as a partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 10:21 PM |
| 2 | If it doesn’t make sense for a man with a certain amount of income/resources to be in a monogamous relationship, then it doesn’t make sense for a woman with a certain amount of income/resources as well"but women derive joy from having kids and starting families" Sure, if you don't let her get educated and be a free individual... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Are the qualities required to attract a person the same ones needed to be successful in a relationship?If you want a successful, long term, monogamous relationship, this is what you need: mutual physical attraction (it's best to keep physically fit, that the man is taller than the woman, that the man acts masculine when necessary, and woman acts feminine) same or very correlating world views (views on homosexuality, views on religion or lack there of, views on children, views on [insert critical value] similar level of education (rappers, athletesz business men with wives they basically neglect a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 10:09 PM |
| 1 | There are only 3 ways to really succeed in the dating world as a guy: Extreme risk, hard work, or luckSo what are you saying, all the guys abusing steroids die by the age of 50? Got plenty of gymbros of all ages. The 30+ ones that occasionally did steroid cycles, with doctors advice and everything, still have major health issues. I even know a couple who fucking died. And statistically it's evident that steroids are horrible. True, but being in top 10% is not really a huge achievement in anything. Regarding money it is. It's nearly impossible. Also, not everyone can do lucrative jobs. So this ad… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 09:38 PM |
| 2 | Female beauty standards are not that hard to achieve.It's not all that's needed... But it's a common attractive body type. Signals fertility. Skinny and straight as a board isn't exactly the most attractive... Men would still smash tho, but that's for different reasons. Desperate men contacting women isn't a sign they're attractive. They're the only option in that scenario. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Female beauty standards are not that hard to achieve.You can't choose your figure, you can be skinny, flat chested and flat assed and no hourglass shape you to whatsoever. And even have that at a "healthy weight" but still not look attractive. Whereas you have regular ladies that naturally retain more fat (women usually do) and just can't seem to get enough weight off to look skinny. Also, people can be addicted to food. We not ready for that convo yet tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 05:37 PM |
| 1 | [Q4M] Will you be checking out of your relationships at a certain age?🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 05:19 PM |
| 2 | [Q4M] Will you be checking out of your relationships at a certain age?WOOOOAH LADY I CLICKED ON YOUR PROFILE......... WTFFFFF AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAH Jesus fucking christ a mother that makes fingering videossss..... bruuuuuuhhhhh 💀💀💀💀💀💀💀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 04:19 PM |
| 3 | [Q4M] Will you be checking out of your relationships at a certain age?My wife is literally better looking than you... Like, a lot, lot better looking. And most women I see daily are better looking. Being skinny isn't attractive on its own. Your body shape is important. Waste to chest and ass ratio... Familymaxxing. Yea ur probably some incel, but if you're actually you, then you're again, delusional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 04:10 PM |
| 3 | [Q4M] Will you be checking out of your relationships at a certain age?A dead beat, too many kids, skinny, but nothing special body. You packaged that nicely... But when you open yourself up, it's very obvious what you have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 03:32 PM |
| 2 | How a n count is even calculated? Would you date a woman with very little experience but a very high sex drive?The less, the better. Men don't like competition if they're looking for a long term relationship. Otherwise, men usually don't care. Since it doesn't matter for a ONS or short fling (unless you're risking STD's). High sex drive in women is just dangerous with a long term partner, unless you're around each other a lot. Because if you're gone for a month, and she's lonely, horny, and you potentially aren't on BEST terms in that moment......... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 02:30 PM |
| 1 | There are only 3 ways to really succeed in the dating world as a guy: Extreme risk, hard work, or luckThe steroid thing is irrelevant. All guys say they have it under control, then die at 40/50... Take into your calculation that people who do steroids usually have body diamorphia and will probably overdose on the stuff because they want more and more... Earning 200k is the top 5-10% of men everywhere. Most likely even less. Especially depending on countries. In my country, it's basically impossible to earn more than 20k a year even as a doctor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 02:23 PM |
| 5 | [Q4M] Will you be checking out of your relationships at a certain age?You're living a sad life, I don't really know how I should respond. Deadbeat husband and a mother of four with absolute delusions about her self worth and the worth of women... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 02:20 PM |
| 11 | [Q4M] Will you be checking out of your relationships at a certain age?Another horrible take from you, not surprised..? You got a fetish for humiliation girl? That means your partner will leave YOU TOO, with your "value deminishing". Stop this ridiculous notion that the only woman a value can provide are looks, youth and fertility. Women are much more than that. And you can't measure the value of someone that can give birth to your whole family, stick by your side through thick and thin, and who built a life with you... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 09:11 AM |
| 0 | There are only 3 ways to really succeed in the dating world as a guy: Extreme risk, hard work, or luckThen don't tell them you had surgery Yes, better to find out an embarrassing way down the line... Unless you're just looking for short term, then ya I guess Aggression is correlated with number of sexual partners Link study, and no, it's the same logic as 90+% of men in the west getting laid have a kitchen sink, so bitches must love them sinks... Edit: steroids slash down your lifespan, like it or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 09:07 AM |
| 7 | There are only 3 ways to really succeed in the dating world as a guy: Extreme risk, hard work, or luckExtreme risk are just things that you THINK will help you, but actually won't. Any woman, or almost any, that finds out you had leg lengthening surgery would feel very differently about you. Not to mention the classic prejudices against men and cosmetic surgery. Acting aggressive isn't attractive to most women, it's just disgusting and scarry. Some like masculine bullies, not random betas pretending to be aggressive. Steroids will cut your life span, definitely not worth. Hard work, as a red pil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 03:01 AM |
| 0 | If women suddenly switched to being the stronger sex, how would it affect dating dynamics?All violence against women would stop immediately, or nearly all of it. Women would literally do absolutely nothing with that power because they're naturally non-hostile. Virginity amongst men would rise to 100% tho. No "real men" anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/22 08:53 PM |
| 2 | How long does it take to fall in love?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/22 07:22 PM |
| 1 | What's a life well lived for you as far as love, sex, and romance goes?Well, I achieved marriage with my wife. A life with children, and children of my children is what I aspire to. The road will be rocky but I want it. And am sure I won't regret my current decisions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/22 07:00 PM |
| 3 | How long does it take to fall in love?It took me and my wife a single day. I asked her out, she accepted, we instantly went to the beach, held hands, kissed, and just absolutely fell in love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/22 05:54 PM |
| 2 | A guy doesn't have to be handsome to be sexually attractiveThey're not lying. And my point still stands, here's how... The attraction they're referring to isn't strictly physical. And, I never said they'd date someone unattractive. There is a space between unattractive and attractive in which most men fall under. And that space is where you have to try and get her to start liking you with other traits. When they become fond of you, they'll become attracted to you physically aswell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/22 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Fat/overweight women have ruined the American dating marketplace for menWomen like dad bods, like you pointe out, but OBESITY ISN'T A DAD BOD. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/22 10:35 AM |
| 1 | A guy doesn't have to be handsome to be sexually attractiveMost men can improve their looks enough to pass 5/6 out of 10. And that's enough to find a girl. Because women simply don't place as much value on looks as they do on other things (stfu, not just status ans money, barely 10% of men have those things, and 50% are in relationships). Yes. Women love hot guys too. But they won't hold out UNTIL ONE COMES ALONG. They'll be fine (most) with a regular looking dude with extraordinary details about him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/22 10:26 AM |
| 5 | Men who plan to marry in their 40s are ruining the dating marketMen think they can't hit a wall because "we earn money". Guess what, women earn money too. And guys usually become very set in their ways and unchangeable in that age. Which is a bad thing for relationships, because you can't grow WITH someone. That someone has to submit and grow with YOU and become to your tastes. Which seems weird... It's just that most men are immature till 30-40. Women just mature sooner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/22 10:21 AM |
| 3 | Q4Men: what is a high value man?Depends on the person. The average couple is 5" apart so I put it like that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/22 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: what is a high value man?I mean... She, all of her friends and women around me, friends or coworkers know and reassure me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/22 06:25 PM |
| 0 | Q4Men: what is a high value man?Oh I'm a high value partner now. I wasn't from the start tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/22 01:51 PM |
| 2 | Q4Men: what is a high value man?It's almost like multiple things can come in a package deal and be attractive to a woman... Just because a SINGULAR detail isn't enough to attract a girl, doesn't mean it's not a plus... Not everything has to be a straight hit or miss. She finds that characteristic hot, or she hates it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/22 01:50 PM |
| – | FDS couldn't exist in a healthy dating marketThere reason FDS is popular, is because it's the "bad bitch" sub where women get to flex themselves put down men. I even fit into their "HVM" category. I have everything they want, and yet, I would likely not date someone like that. Especially that bs around high investment on first dates. They're dangerous because you lose a lot financially and mentally over someone you're not even sure about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/22 09:34 AM |
| 4 | Q4Men: what is a high value man?You're wrong there. Maybe not all do, but the amount of times I received smiles on public transport or in public when a girl glared at my book then caught my eye... I never get this otherwise. They like whem they see a man reading. So many women even mentioned this to me. It's a good signal trust me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/22 09:26 AM |
| 0 | Q4Men: what is a high value man?It does. Trust me... My wife didn't marry me because I was handsome or some alpha male. I was kind, funny, smart. That's all she liked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/22 09:24 AM |
| 1 | Q4Men: what is a high value man?I absolutely agree. This is on the list aswell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/22 09:23 AM |
| 42 | Q4Men: what is a high value man?High value can mean different things for different people. being rich having high status For Normal people: good looks (nothing extraordinary, just fit and no shorter than 5 inches taller than his girl, with a good face, haircut and trimmed, good skin too) has a stable job and earns above average wage has productive hobbies that make him happy he's knowledgeable and reads (stimulates the brain positively, bound to see positive changes in behavior) has friends women are interested in him well dre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/22 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Do you agree: men have no moral obligation to stick around after kidsahahahahahhaahhaahahhahahahahahahahaha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/22 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Do you agree: men have no moral obligation to stick around after kidsYou're skinny, with no assets and a plain looking face... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/22 10:46 AM |
| 2 | Do you agree: men have no moral obligation to stick around after kidsMy wife makes you looks literally inferior. I wouldn't be this rude, but since you're a misogynist lol... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/22 09:01 AM |
| 1 | Do you agree: men have no moral obligation to stick around after kidsI saw your profile. If you're not trolling, and are an actual woman, you already lost that looks battle. What in the Stockholm syndrom fuck is happening in your relationship..? Your man would leave you NOW, according to your theory. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/22 08:36 AM |
| 1 | Do you agree: men have no moral obligation to stick around after kidsIf the man is a deadbeat before even fathering kids, why not dump him? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/22 08:32 AM |
| 0 | Do you agree: men have no moral obligation to stick around after kidsNot how it works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/22 08:25 AM |
| 1 | Do you agree: men have no moral obligation to stick around after kidsIt's illogical and immoral. You purposely impregnated this woman. And yes, not "wearing a condom and nutting outside anyway" is "purposely impregnating". Every time you have sex, you accept that it might result in a child. Therefore,. logically, you leavint her makes no sense,. logically or morally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/22 08:25 AM |
| 2 | Obviously women are lower in mental capacity than men given that the grand majority of young women think that there's some stock in AstrologyAnd a majority of men think Alpha, Gama, Sigma, Beta males exist. Lemme disprove it if you still think it does: Alpha males: so insecure about their masculinity, that being called gay or anything even remotely attacking you being straight and masculine will get you to act violent. Beta males: behave genuinely well towards women and often times have the more enjoyable relationships because they treat their partner as an equal and share their feelings with them. Gama and sigma? Don't make me laugh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/22 02:05 AM |
| 1 | All women get absolutely turned on by their physical superiors.Strenght can go along with looks. If you're really strong but fat, your body shape will be different from someone that's just fat. It shows. If you regularly encounter power lifters like I do, then you'd know the difference. And they got no troubles dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/22 05:38 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]10% are attractive simply physically. Maybe an additional 10-20% could be like "hey, they look presentable", but nothing you'd turn your head to. Men aren't sexually appealing creatures based on looks alone most of the time. It's character/wealth/fame/ comedic sense/social intelligence/intelligence/charm, that gets them women. The only reason men are butt hurt over it is because we like average women based of just looks alone aswell, whereas women would need a supplement with an average men to g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/22 09:14 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men are sexually unsuccessful because they are seen as not mature enough / not ready for sexual activitySo I was sexually unsuccessful because my genes had a good idea to broaden my shoulders only at the age of 19, and to give me an eternal baby face..? Great. Non of this matters tho if you meet your person. My wife doesn't like beards and she's tiny so everything, (everything bois) is big to her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/22 09:09 AM |
| 1 | Viewing dating as a marketplace might be the biggest failure someone can makeSure, lol. Works without it too... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/22 09:04 AM |
| 1 | If women tend to go for very attractive men how come every where i go I always see a couple of a unattractive man and beautiful woman?How in the world is this trolling? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Viewing dating as a marketplace might be the biggest failure someone can makeYea... It's ACTUALLY not that difficult. Men like to say they're simple, but they overcomplicate everything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 07:25 PM |
| 3 | Viewing dating as a marketplace might be the biggest failure someone can makeI have read through literal books of dating advice. Explaining "female character and nature" to an unnerving detail. It depressed me and made me believe that doing certain things I did, and behaving a certain way I tried, would actually get me results. It all failed. I gained no confidence when I first saw my abs, I gained nothing by avoiding befriending women, I got nothing by pretending to be uninterested and cool, from trying to wear more expensive clothing to pretend like I had money or stat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 01:42 PM |
| 0 | The myth of women throwing themselves at tall, rich, ripped "Chads"No. You can develop these on your own. You need to literally die trying. I developed these traits on my own, and they were the reason I managed to get a girl in the end. It was a horrible experience acquiring these traits over year over time, but it pays off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 08:11 AM |
| 1 | If women tend to go for very attractive men how come every where i go I always see a couple of a unattractive man and beautiful woman?Men don't understand that women can see more in a man than just his looks. Men think women are men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 08:09 AM |
| 9 | Pete Davidson is proof most of you guys are wrongNever mention celebrities as examples. Never. Ever. They have money. They have status. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 08:07 AM |
| 1 | Idk I think simping gets a bad wrap, it can be used to your advantage if you’re in on the joke, is it really as bad as people say on ppd?”By definition, it is seeking attention from someone, from which you are certain never to get it. Doing favours, giving time, money, gifts, etc. to a person that simply appriciates what they got, and not who they got it from. They dehumanize you. Why would you want this? Just have a friendship. Equal exchange. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/22 07:25 PM |
| 1 | [CMV] Men who don't get offers from women should stop trying to dateNo way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/22 07:02 PM |
| 2 | [CMV] Men who don't get offers from women should stop trying to dateYOU'RE A WOMAN? Oh pardon me mam, I don't wanna debate the mentally challenged. (Not cuz you're a woman, your arguments are literally borderline autistic...) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/22 03:24 PM |
| 1 | [CMV] Men who don't get offers from women should stop trying to dateYou don't live in the real world. Men approach, women don't. If it happens, it's an anomaly. That's all that is. That's not true. If the man approached that's because the woman made it clear that she would say yes. And how exactly does that happen? She gives him a dramatic look across the club? She stumbles vagina first on his cock? No. Guys shoot their shot, if they impress her, or if she's simply available and he fits her standards, she'll accept. Otherwise she'll reject. Stop overthinking dat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/22 02:28 PM |
| 2 | [CMV] Men who don't get offers from women should stop trying to dateMen will literally write a book about how dating is hopeless for them, instead of understanding women better, working on themselves mentally and physically, and make themselves more interesting. This bs about "women go directly to men they want, so why bother trying to court them?" Literally MOST, OVERWHELMING MAJORITY OF COUPLES form after the GUY asks the girl out. And not because she threw her titties in his face, but because he saw her, found her cute and approached. And if she obliged and t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/22 11:50 AM |
| 3 | Q4M: Why do you want a relationship?someone you can always think about fondly, knowing they think about you aswell being able to call or text them whenever, about anything getting random texts of them expressing their love for you, or voice messages getting random pictures of them throughout the day, smiling at you, trying to be cute and such having a person around your arm in public having someone to take out to different places and share experiences together, which are further enhanced by your mutual love for one another little … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/22 11:11 AM |
| – | Most guys on here view women as obstacles to their own 🐱Nope. They don't. A lot of commenters misunderstood this completely. Women actually want a man they can build a life with. They don't just "want this life", they want to build it with a man that's willing to build it with them. A lot of men just want "pussy". How to get "pussy". "How much pussy do you get?" Ever heard those? Yea... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/22 07:49 AM |
| – | Most guys on here view women as obstacles to their own 🐱Social stigma, + no challenge, + very expensive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/22 07:46 AM |
| 1 | Women are "delusional" in thinking they can secure a top 20 man because they dont even find THOSE MEN that attractiveAbout 50% of men are in relationships. So we can ignore the obvious mistakes you made in your % calculations. And if you're going to imply that about 30% of of those men are in unhappy relationships, or they've all found partners that don't find them attractive, then I'll just advise you to keep pulling on straws... Anyway, the reason all of this is so wrong, is because todays men literally make no effort to learn how to actually successfully participate in dating. It's much easier to watch PUA,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/22 01:06 AM |
| 1 | How Much Does Height Have An Impact On Dating Success? (For Straight Men)As long as you're 5 inches taller than her, it shouldn't matter. That's most couples difference. Now, there are some brain damaged women that have an inferiority complex, and require their men to be a foot, or two taller than them, making them seem like children. And hey, while I personally think it's not ok to date kids, I don't judge others. /s If any woman complains about your height, or leaves you over it, you dodged a bullet. No, a rocket. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/22 12:45 AM |
| 2 | Those Who Complain About OnlyFan/Instathots... What Would You Actually Like Them To Do Instead?It's simply a career that lasts short, because they're not gonna be young and sweet forever, 10-20 years of work AT MOST. They ruin the potential for a long term, committed relationship with a majority of guys, and even though they say they "don't care", if they were to ever find a partner, and if that partner found out they had OF, they'd realize how much that effects them in REAL LIFE. They ruin any opportunity of a normal social life, since people can just pay 5$ and see you naked, which is h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/22 12:42 AM |
| 1 | in order to form a healthy, long term relationship, you have to put "all your eggs into one basket".That's not how you judge the quality of a date, or your compatibility. The girl could of been so anxious about it, that she kissed you to get away from the situation... Lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 11:21 PM |
| 1 | in order to form a healthy, long term relationship, you have to put "all your eggs into one basket".It's funny how selfish people are these days... Not to mention unwilling to invest into others, in hopes of it actually paying off. Ofcourse, you need relationship experience to be able to tell when a girl/guy is a good match for you or not. Not many men these days have enough of that knowledge/experience I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 10:59 PM |
| 3 | What do people actually mean by “dating down?”Tags check out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 10:21 PM |
| 1 | What do people actually mean by “dating down?”Basically it's as other people definie it for you. Basically NOONE that is in a relationship, or at least a healthy relationship, thinks either is dating down. Some people might be more insecure about certain traits they possess, but nobody that's in their right mind would say "oh I'm dating down", or "she's/he's dating down" while in that relationship. It's usually what other people define your, or somebody else's relationship. Socioeconomic status Looks Behavior (one party clearly trying a lot… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 10:20 PM |
| 1 | in order to form a healthy, long term relationship, you have to put "all your eggs into one basket".I'm talking in the context of monogamous relationship, sorry for the confusion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 03:23 PM |
| – | why men seem to attract more women once they're marriedMarried men are more attractive because they're "verified" as reliable partners. They've already proven themselves as good enough partners to marry, which is rare in this day and age. Not all married men are attractive, just based on them being married, but it does give off a certain vibe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 10:50 AM |
| 1 | in order to form a healthy, long term relationship, you have to put "all your eggs into one basket".You're gonna be better off if you give it your all for one person. It's bound to yield better results with that person. However, only do this if you really click. Otherwise obviously not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 09:00 AM |
| 1 | in order to form a healthy, long term relationship, you have to put "all your eggs into one basket".Even in committed relationships one should not put their entire happiness and lifetime plans on their significant other. You should keep your relationships with friends, have seperate "fun money" to do your own thing etc. It is never a good idea to be codependent Did you purposely misunderstand my point, or just didn't read? I never said not to keep relationships witu friends, separate hobbies, etc. I'm just saying, don't date, have sex with or text other people once the two of you have a good f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 08:57 AM |
| 2 | in order to form a healthy, long term relationship, you have to put "all your eggs into one basket".That... What? Are you dumb? Lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 08:56 AM |
| 2 | Why is a relationship the highest possible achievement in terms of connecting with another person?Until you meet your match, you won't understand what it feels like. If you have a friend that you've known for your whole life, you'll feel extremely close to that person, and will do basically anything for them. Now take that feeling and x1000. That's how you'll feel about a well matched partner. A romantic connection is even harder to form, and hold. Because you don't have to compete with your friends other friends. But you do have to compete with your significant others potential partners. No… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/22 09:00 PM |
| 6 | [Q4M] ... more specifically MGTOW. What was the breaking point? Was there a woman that caused it? Is there a woman that got away? Would you change your view for the one who got away?Idc bro I don't live on the internet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 10:37 PM |
| 9 | [Q4M] ... more specifically MGTOW. What was the breaking point? Was there a woman that caused it? Is there a woman that got away? Would you change your view for the one who got away?Idk, but if I ever turned MGTOW it would be if my wife cheated on me. If this angel cheats on me, I literally can never trust any woman on this planet anymore. I'd go full MGTOW and reject women as humans. Luckily that won't happen because the mgtow position is simply wrong | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 10:22 PM |
| 12 | How can men fix online dating? Issues from a woman's point of viewI am supportive... But women don't date men from dating apps that aren't hot... Because the only quality you can judge by online is looks. This bs about "he's such a great texter!" "We have so much in common!" Just boils down to the halo effect. You're complaining about having too many bad options to choose from, even though you occasionally found success. Let me tell you how many matches does an average man get. 0. How many good matches, if he by some mircale of Buddha, Christ, Allah, etc. gets… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 07:02 PM |
| – | How far should the male population be reduced?Not the solution. If the man isn't sexually appealing, a woman won't mate with him. No matter the "lack of men". Women would either stay single or just let the top tier men (be it regarding looks, status, wealth, comedic sense, them being caring and loving, etc.) They will not start dating bumms just because there's no more men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 06:59 PM |
| 15 | How can men fix online dating? Issues from a woman's point of viewThe men you match with are clearly good looking, so this bs they spew works sometimes, or are totally lost, and I have no idea why you chose them anyway (for example the one calling you fat). Keep in mind, if a dude is hot, AND is using a dating app, he just wants sex. Literally no exceptions. So just don't date online. Dating is a person to person thing. Needs to be kept that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Men misunderstand the 80/20 rule, and how it applies how men view women aswell.But that's not the objective top 20% of men, how men usually think about this issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Men misunderstand the 80/20 rule, and how it applies how men view women aswell.Ever wonder what amount of effort an average man puts into their appearance, their charm and "getting her in the mood", once they're already married. I'd say 5% or less :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Men misunderstand the 80/20 rule, and how it applies how men view women aswell.The majority of people I know closely happen to be women. I went to a school with mostly women, have a mostly female profession and I'm married with plenty of friends, most of which happen to be women. I would agree that women might like 20%. But not the TOP 20%. That's mostly subjective. Trust me, where I'm from, they don't chase wealth and status. We're not in miami. It's just normal girls looking for men that are serious about their lives. Can't blame them, women mature much faster than most … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 04:18 PM |
| – | Creating your ideal dating profile.Nah. Don't need to be. You gotta get yourself as close to it as possible tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 11:35 AM |
| -1 | Explanations for the high male to female ratio on dating appsThe difference being women can easily find hot men to fuck because they have an advantage in dating. Especially online dating. They're desired, but they only desire the top of the top online. Because they can. It's easy and accessible. Whereas men aren't picky, making them low value online. And they can't find hot women to fuck, unless they're insanely good looking themselves. Whereas women can be 4's and still smash Chads. You’re just trying to put the blame solely on women because you hate the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 11:17 AM |
| -4 | Explanations for the high male to female ratio on dating appsNickName checks out. Yes, dating apps are for smashing. Those rare "exceptions" rarely ever produce anything. It's just chicks finding hot guys to smash. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 10:48 AM |
| – | Creating your ideal dating profile.Yea... Doubt that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 10:19 AM |
| 0 | Explanations for the high male to female ratio on dating apps"use them as free escorts". Nah. Men don't USE women on dating apps. Everyone knows dating apps are for smashing ONLY. The EXTREME exception of a relationship evolving out of a dating app match is irrelevant. I hate this notion of women having ABSOLUTELY 0 RESPONSIBILITY. No, you agreed on an equal value exchange of SEX, which is a mutual act, not him having sex with you like you're his fleshlight... And if you didn't get what you were looking for, maybe you should think twice before going out w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 09:27 AM |
| 1 | Men misunderstand the 80/20 rule, and how it applies how men view women aswell.You're delusional | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 09:10 AM |
| 3 | Men misunderstand the 80/20 rule, and how it applies how men view women aswell.Literally my wife and all her friends, and the overwhelming majority of women I know. In addition, recognition of the fact that women don't see men as humans says nothing about my view to women. It's not a "recognition". It's a false opinion. And it does say a lot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 08:38 AM |
| – | Creating your ideal dating profile.How? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 08:10 AM |
| 1 | Men misunderstand the 80/20 rule, and how it applies how men view women aswell.You probably don't spend time around quality women then. The women I know are interesting, fun to be around, smart, educated and generally knowledgeable about different topics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 06:52 AM |
| 1 | Men misunderstand the 80/20 rule, and how it applies how men view women aswell.Clearly, since a lot more than 15% of men are in relationships... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 06:51 AM |
| – | Creating your ideal dating profile.You misunderstand the reason behind it. The reason for that first picture to be an absolute best picture of you, is because you need them to see the real you. How most men take photos, the pictures don't do them justice. So take professional photos to get beter results. Your goal is to attract her... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 06:50 AM |
| 1 | Men misunderstand the 80/20 rule, and how it applies how men view women aswell.That's literally making false generalizations about women, and additionally, implying women hate men judt because they're men... You're literally just a misogynist lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 06:49 AM |
| 3 | Men misunderstand the 80/20 rule, and how it applies how men view women aswell.I'm sorry, but I have to diagnose you with stage 4 misoginy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Men misunderstand the 80/20 rule, and how it applies how men view women aswell.That doesn't last long enough for it to turn into a relationship based on that effect... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 11:35 PM |
| 2 | Creating your ideal dating profile.No offense, but you're a woman... For a man these things are a MUST and aren't really negotiable. A woman can have almost any kind of profile. Just take a pic of a part of youre body and face with an iphone and you're good... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 11:19 PM |
| 5 | Creating your ideal dating profile.You won't make yourself 10 years younger by simply putting makeup on. Also you can ask the age... Won't be deceiving... And fertility? Makeup doesn't signal fertility... Youth does. And as previously mentioned, you can ask the age, if it's not already listed in bio... Stop being salty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 11:03 PM |
| 2 | Creating your ideal dating profile.I agree. I met my wife IRL. OLD is garbage, but hey, if you wanna do it... This is how... Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Creating your ideal dating profile.Well that can definitely work too. If you're a funny personality, make sure to take advantage of that aswell. Do crazy poses and random ass pictures of random ass things. Go for your strengths. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 10:59 PM |
| 3 | Creating your ideal dating profile.Well yes. I advocate for IRL dating over OLD. OLD is stupid and pointless in most cases, but if someone REALLY wants to, this is the best way... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 10:58 PM |
| 2 | Creating your ideal dating profile.Irrelevant of what women do. As a dude, it would be best you present yourself as I mentioned. Also, makeup isn't deception. It's enhancing your looks. As I said, if you NEVER put makeup on, don't be dishonest and get a make-up artist for your photo, then never have makeup again. Filters are a deception, don't use filters... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Men misunderstand the 80/20 rule, and how it applies how men view women aswell.A person they can laugh with. A lerson that can keep up an interesting conversation. A person who will make them happy. A person who will love them unconditionally. A person who will let them be free WITH them. A person who can be for them when they need it most. A person who can push them to do better. A person who will suplort and hype them up. There are so many other things that aren't money... Men really are children... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 10:33 PM |
| 4 | Men misunderstand the 80/20 rule, and how it applies how men view women aswell.I agree most profiles are shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 09:52 PM |
| 5 | Men misunderstand the 80/20 rule, and how it applies how men view women aswell.I agree. Women CAN look past looks (unlike ironically most men), but they require more. Which is actually BETTER for men, because they can prove themselves. Whereas women sadly can do little to improve themselves, if they're not good looking, for it to matter. And yea, ofcourse women don't turn their head unless the dude has money, status, or looks. Those are basically the only things you'd turn your head to immediately because for most women those are instantly attractive features. And who can … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 09:52 PM |
| 8 | Men misunderstand the 80/20 rule, and how it applies how men view women aswell.Because women aren't constantly seeking partners. For most women, potential partners approach, and they then choose. So it's normal they don't even notice most men in that manner. For them to notice them, they'd have to exert value only visible to the eye (looks, potentially status, and wealth). It's hard to exert your comedic sense, intelligence, your hobbies (what makes you interesting), etc. through just her noticing you on the street or seeing you on a dating app. Women can love men for many… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Men misunderstand the 80/20 rule, and how it applies how men view women aswell.That's an astoundingly low estimate, that I could prove wrong with a single google search and looking over a few scientific articles. It is true that more women reproduced than men, but it is also true that a lot of men died before they could, and a lot were not good enough to pass their genes on. Whereas the reason most women reproduced, is because men are naturally the ones who seek to reproduce, and women allow them. Even allowing men who impregnated other women reproduce with themselves aswe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Women are just men with vaginasMen and women are drastically different. Anyone who pretends otherwise denies basic biology... Yea, men and women share SOME common traits, because we're humans, but the way we go about life is totally different. The struggles, the benefits, the cons, the everything... Just different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 05:36 PM |
| -1 | Every regular here holds a deep resentment for the opposite sex and it makes any 'debate' worthlessYea not for me lol. But I'm blooped, sooo... Probably hated by most other men here lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible to be naturally unattractive as a woman?Just waiting to have the conversation about how being fat can be induced by depression and that it's acknowledged as a form of addiction... A.k.a. "naturally unattractive" because they're naturally prone to depression, and food as their cope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 02:31 PM |
| 4 | [Q4All] How do you define success in dating and what percentage of people do you think are “successful”?As long as a person has achieved something they perceive as an ideal situation for them, then they're successful. Or next to ideal, can't expect perfection ofcourse. For my friends it's to remain single until he finds a proper woman to settle with. Succeeding for now, improving himself every day and is happy as he is now. For my other buddy it's to smash as much as he can while young. Succeeding for now lol. And I wanted to settle down ASAP because I hated drama from dating. I found a wife and I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 02:27 PM |
| 0 | Plastic surgeryI mean... If you have literal deformities. Like that jaw that goes Infront of your upper teeth, that is caused by some incest in your family, then yea, it helps. I should have specified very COSMETIC surgery. Not for treating deformities........ I consider that jaw a deformity. It's not meant to look that way... As for recessed jawlines, sure, if it's EXTREME, then it's a noticable difference. And good for those people. But for most of these, it wouldn't look any different really... Samw goes fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Plastic surgeryOut of all of these, only one person, with a beak for a nose, looked noticably better. Because the "flaw" was VERY obvious. However, the other people look slightly different, very slightly, not even necessarily better, or they literally just lost weight, and I see no other difference... Sorry. Still a disagree. On overwhelming majority of people, it either looks weird or basically the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Plastic surgeryThey look broken and fake... Most of the time. Hair transplants may look better, but messing with the face itself usually looks bad, to me at least. And boobs and butts that are fake aswell | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 06:26 PM |
| 3 | Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a WomanLess divorces don't imply happy marriages. And sometimes, you can't even judge your happiness, becay your field of view is very constrained. Especially as a virgin. She might think she's happy, but can't really know since she didn't explore life. Also, some of the worst countries, considering women's rights, have the lowest divorce rates. That doesn't show successful marriages. That simply shows the inability of the marriage falling apart because that would mean the end of someone's life. Be it … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 11:20 AM |
| 4 | Plastic surgeryNo offense to anyone, but that shit NEVER looks good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 08:27 AM |
| -1 | Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a WomanMen have to understand that it is unrealistic to keep your virginity if you have plenty of opportunities to lose it. What I mean by that, isn't that you go around giving it to everyone, but that's it's understandable for a young woman, who on average starts dating at 15-16, has sex in her late teens or early 20's. Why? Because for a relationship to get to that higher level, you NEED to have sex. Sex is a crucial part of a relationship. Having no sex before marriage is the kind of thing that leav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 08:25 AM |
| 2 | Men and women are not the same.Wat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 02:45 PM |
| 0 | At what number of sexual partners would you consider somebody ‘promiscuous’?Men like to make excuses for themselves. But it is still true that because it's harder for men to obtain sex, it is therefore an indicator of higher value as a person. Because he obviously has something other men don't. On the other hand, a woman can lay 10 men in a single night if she tried hard enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 02:44 PM |
| 4 | At what number of sexual partners would you consider somebody ‘promiscuous’?I don't put a number on it, since the number, past 10, is irrelevant (since it would all be obviously promiscuous). Less than 10, the number matters depending on age. If it's 10 at 19, then she's promiscuous. If it's 10 at 45, it's believable and reasonable that she had multiple long term partners in her past years. However, how she got to this number matters more. A 25 year old woman with an N count of 5 can be totally non promiscuous, she just had 5 long/er term partners. A 25 year old with N … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 02:42 PM |
| 0 | If You Ever Have Kids, What Advice Would You Give Them So They Don't Wind Up Becoming A 30 Year Old Virgin?Make sure they engage into lots of sports and make sure he attends every play date he can as a child. When he gets into primary school, I'd teach him more complex values and to never make enemies with people. Because enemies turn into bullies, or someone who IS bullied. I'll make sure he has the toys and miscellaneous he wants, but not in excess. I won't give anyone an excuse to bully him for someone. I will make sure he starts going to the gym as soon as he hits an agreeable height. Ideally 6'0… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 08:44 PM |
| 2 | Question to all men out here who work out.started to attract women stopped when I got ripped and it didn't help with women began again, once I was obese and found a beautiful woman who I felt like deserved a better looking partner am currently going for self confidence reasons and health reasons | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 12:15 PM |
| 1 | Men don't take care of how they look. Compared to SOME men, and almost all women.I'd argue that Stacies make up a lot more than 20%... Because men simply find women more sexually appealing just based on looks. It's how we're wired. Girls on the other hand, see guys in a different light. They don't sexualize us unless we're exceptionally good looking. They investigate us and pay attention many different aspects, other than looks. And are then attracted by those characteristics. A woman can definitely see a guy who she is not initially attracted to in the slightest, and then f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 11:38 PM |
| 2 | Men don't take care of how they look. Compared to SOME men, and almost all women.Ans then guys wonder why women aren't attracted to them... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 09:27 PM |
| 8 | Men don't take care of how they look. Compared to SOME men, and almost all women.I'm a straight man... And no, women are MOST attracted to the top 20%. That means they are instantly turned on by 20% of guys that just score by looks alone. Luckily women don't work as simple as men do. They take into account character, charisma, personality, compatibility. Things most men are too childish to take into account. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 09:24 PM |
| 10 | Men: incels are poor unloved victims because their looks, why do women not like incels???? Also incels:"I also want betas to be dealth with severely". Says an anorexic, pimple faced redditor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 03:42 PM |
| 6 | Men of PPD, which one would you rather prefer, Overweight/obese women with pretty faces or Slim fit women with unattractive face?I'll take a slim girl with a pretty face, or I'll remain single. That was my thought process back when I dated. There's no point in marrying someone you're not attracted to. Uggos have no places around my arm, that shit's embarrassing. I'd rather be the pathetic loner than the guy with an uggo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 12:45 PM |
| 1 | Men look at "spending" in a relationship the wrong way.No expectations, I agree. My wife doesn't either. It's always an enjoyable experience. At least offer or talk about it before the date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 05:08 AM |
| 1 | Men look at "spending" in a relationship the wrong way.Just... No dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 05:06 AM |
| 0 | Men look at "spending" in a relationship the wrong way.Well... That has... Nothing to do with what I said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 05:05 AM |
| 2 | Question for financially challenged men!I'm not American... I'm not broke. But I do set aside a fair amount of money for my girl. Which is a normal thing to do where I live. I like paying for dates and I like her enjoying the food she eats on my expense. I just enjoy giving and she's VERY thankful in return. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 11:00 PM |
| 1 | Question for financially challenged men!Nope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 10:58 PM |
| 2 | Question for financially challenged men!Honey I make 12k a year. My honey eats at restaurants, we order food, go for coffee, go out drinking. All on my tab... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Question for financially challenged men!Guys that complain about going to restaurants or similar, aren't guys who don't have disposable income. It's men who think that spending money on women is a waste, and are completely disconnected from valuing an experience with someone, over the numbers in their bank account. Don't be a naiive idiot who buys free dinners for gold diggers, but also, be a gentleman and treat your lady to a nice dinner you penny pinching ***. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 07:32 PM |
| 1 | As an atheist I never understood why Western TRP members have an issue with IslamAtheism doesn't believe, it knows. That's your first mistake. If we don't know something to be true, we don't imply it to be. We simply theorize based on some sort of evidence, or any sort of valid prediction. You can say that atheists "believe" scientists. But that would put it lightly. I'd say I trust them, more than anything. Because they're impirical and that's by far the most important quality a human can have. To be unbiased and to trust only what they can test and have reasonable opinions… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 07:23 PM |
| 1 | As an atheist I never understood why Western TRP members have an issue with IslamYet it still helped the West to become the most developed human civilization in the entire history of our planet. If you think, even for a second, that christianity is the reason for the development of these western countries, you're immensely delusional, and don't know anything about religion. It's not because they "believed in the right god" that they got to where they are now. It's because they had the most power in the world. Remember the crusades? Through blood they achieved a lot. Not too … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Almost forgot your annual reminder: You're still not entitled to sex.Pick me is right... You're purposely burning money. Should be reported to authorities | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 02:02 PM |
| 2 | Almost forgot your annual reminder: You're still not entitled to sex.Why do you guys keep wanting pussy from women with deep psychological issues? We don't... It's just that most women will deal with a lot if the dude is hot, but if he isn't he's invisible. Nice guys think they're nice even when they sexually harass women and throw coffee on them. Look at Chris Chan and Elliot Rodgers. Those dude's don't think they're nice when they harass them... They think they're otherwise nice, but then when they get rejected, it turns into harassment. Which they don't realiz… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 12:17 PM |
| 1 | Almost forgot your annual reminder: You're still not entitled to sex.Are you a woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 12:10 PM |
| 1 | As an atheist I never understood why Western TRP members have an issue with IslamAtheism is based on nothing but being a rational person who rationally views the world. We are not selfish, infact, the fact the overwhelming majority of people believe there is a perfect place they go to after they die, is a selfish mindset. You really think the universe is centered around humanity? Around you? How selfish and self-centered. Love has nothing to do with Christianity. I can love as much as a christian. Probably more than your average christian... Atheism is a consistent as it get… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 12:10 PM |
| 5 | Almost forgot your annual reminder: You're still not entitled to sex.No, you being nice does not mean you deserve pussy. No, but it does sting whenen who treat women like garvage, love bomb then cheat or beat them get sex regularly, and some respectful, nice dude can't even get a date. Not entitled to it, but it just stings. You thinking "I'm not like other boys" does not mean you deserve pussy. I mean... When you're what is SOCIALLY described as an ideal man, and don't get women, but other men, who are either basic in their behavior, nothing going for them, and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 09:39 AM |
| – | The friendzone is real but women who put you there probably appreciate the hell out of you on a deep levelIt depends how you look at it. If you view it as a friendzone, then it's unlikely you'll be great friends. But if it's just a romantic incompatibility, and she has more social awareness than you, so she pointed it out first, then there should be no hard feelings. There were plenty of girls in my past who told me we should just be friends. And my horny teenage brain couldn't see through the obvious vail of sexual frustration that us being friends was an objectively better situation than us preten… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 09:29 AM |
| -1 | As an atheist I never understood why Western TRP members have an issue with IslamChristianity is garbage. If you made the world atheist immediately, you'd see 0 war in the middle east. Because rational people don't fight over "holly land,". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 08:41 AM |
| 1 | Is dating really that hard in western countries or are incels delusional and not as attractive as they think they are?Hope you know that the relationship you have is quite rare nowadays and cherish it Suppose it is. But that's the fault of everyone that's not behaving the way they're supposed to, to get a relationship like this. You can't be as selfish as todays generations tend to be, prioritizing their own pleasure immensely, and hope for a fine relationship. A relationship takes sacrifice. And that sacrifice is rewarded tenfold, if it's for the right person. People can end up being brats despite having respo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 11:46 PM |
| 7 | NSFW Do you consider women like this too fat?This isn't thick This is disgusting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Is dating really that hard in western countries or are incels delusional and not as attractive as they think they are?Yea people in relationships that are healthy and not toxic don't do that either. I ain't walking on egg shels or limiting myself... What do you think relationships are? Responsibilities make life more enjoyable. If we had no responsibilities we'd all be entitled brats | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 10:39 PM |
| 2 | Men, would you rather be the man women respect but have little or no sex with, or the man women don't respect but frequently have sex with?Gag on that social proof down your throat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 10:38 PM |
| 0 | Is dating really that hard in western countries or are incels delusional and not as attractive as they think they are?Lol enjoy the misery while I father 5 kids and create a lineage... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 08:34 PM |
| 7 | Would you help a female in danger?Dig deeper? Bro be a real man and help someone out if they need it. Especially women. Fucking misogynists in this day and age... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Asian MenNoone, but if women you go after have those preferences, and you're going for em... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 05:11 PM |
| 12 | Would you help a female in danger?Have. Obviously. Women are the weaker sex and if I deem myself able to hell, I will. For nothing in return. Why? Because that's what real men act like. Anyone that calls you a simp foe doing so is evidently a pathetic womanizer or just an inkwell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 04:36 PM |
| -1 | Is dating really that hard in western countries or are incels delusional and not as attractive as they think they are?Men generally don't try to improve themselves as people. Men look for exterior, very shalllow and not very thoughtful ways to improve themselves. Like "gym". "It teaches me to respect my body, be good looking and to be determined". Nah, it just teaches you to keep at least something constant in your for a year or two, and to get into shape. I hate it when men think they're made after they got a job and go to the gym. Totally ignoring their mental state and improving as a person. Becoming more ed… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 04:31 PM |
| 8 | Men, would you rather be the man women respect but have little or no sex with, or the man women don't respect but frequently have sex with?That's not how it works. If women respect you, it's likely they'd find you attractive in at least some manner. Because to respect you, it takes some for of social proof of worth, that women love very much. And find attractive. Stop connectinf your lack of sex with lack of respect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 04:26 PM |
| 3 | So apparently you're not allowed to post certain dating views on here, even if it's purge timeI wasn't referring to his original post. I didn't see it. I'm just saying, racial preferences in general aren't racist. There are some that CAN be, if you're implying "all black women are [insert racism]. Although I do notice that this stereotype of black women being masculine might be the issue of the place they grew up at, and they way they had to live (like being in a "everyone for themselves" community, or raising a child alone). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 04:17 PM |
| 4 | So apparently you're not allowed to post certain dating views on here, even if it's purge timeI don't think that's racist. I grew up in a country that's all white, white extremely little exceptions of gypsy's, but other than that, all dusty whites. I'm not attracted to most black women because the skin color and facial bone structure just doesn't do it for me. I p0have no issue with black people otherwise. I have a couple gaming buddies online, that happen to be black. Some of my favourite actors, voice actors, comedians, etc. are black. I also don't view other races as superior or infer… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 04:03 PM |
| 2 | Asian MenDon't look for racist or (generally) women who are picky about height. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 03:57 PM |
| 5 | "Nice guys finish last" with the wrong potential partnerI personally behave the same. I faced a lot of rejection, but now I'm married. I found a decent woman that recognized that looks and toxic masculinity isn't something worth paying attention to. So we were a perfect match. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 03:54 PM |
| 5 | Why are men okay with their young sons being sexual but not the other way around?Maybe traditional men are ok with it, but men that are a bit more modernized would recognize that this can fuck you up as a kid. Learning women are objects of sexuality isn't the greatest lesson for a young man, or boy... It's treated with more hostility if it's a young girl, because we protect young girls in this society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 03:51 PM |
| 1 | An example of a man not understanding (female) friendships.You can talk to women about their life, you can talk about your life, you can even converse on any topic you desire, as long as that person, that happens to be a woman, understands that topic and can add onto it. Men over here pretending "women wouldn't understand my problems", or "women don't get into hobbies I get into". Women like cars, anime and video games dipass, you just can't find any. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 01:03 PM |
| 22 | All incels are VolcelsShower heals: deformities being 5'5" or shorter being acne ridden having a recessed chin having an objectively unattractive face being bullied for your entire childhood and potentially highschool being friendless being obese or incredibly skinny not knowing how to interact with women having an unattractive, squeaky voice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/21 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Why there is the idea that the positive impact of a great woman in a man's life is bigger than the positive impact of a great man in a woman's life?Ain't nagging | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/21 12:12 PM |
| 0 | Why there is the idea that the positive impact of a great woman in a man's life is bigger than the positive impact of a great man in a woman's life?A quality woman can bring order into a man's life. Not because she's going to take his hand and show him around, but because she's going to motivate him at every step to do better. To be a better man. A man in a woman's life gives her a greater purpose. Make this man want to be great FOR you, and father your children, and continue his legacy and your bloodline. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/21 05:29 AM |
| 1 | Outliers, the people who supposedly don’t exist or are in the minority according to TRP, what are YOUR personal views on TRP?When I was 19, I met my wife. She was a gorgeous young woman (without any makeup, truly beautiful), petite, fit and an absolutely wonderful character. I was a slob, that had nothing going for him, borderline obese, addicted to video games, no prior experience with girls, no money, no status, poor looks (face is meh, I'm not even close to 6'0", average sized package, etc.) Basically no game or anything. And I landed a girl just on the basis of being nice and funny. She fell for me and the rest wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/21 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Any man who calls marriage a scam clearly isn't a part of a successful, happy marriage.Again, for the 47299th time, I'm not saying legal, but just getting married theough a ceremony and what it means for people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/21 08:25 AM |
| 1 | Any man who calls marriage a scam clearly isn't a part of a successful, happy marriage.So many people misunderstanding... Not necessarily legal marriage, just the ceremony and what it means for two people... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/21 08:24 AM |
| 1 | Any man who calls marriage a scam clearly isn't a part of a successful, happy marriage.Exactly...... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/21 08:23 AM |
| 1 | Any man who calls marriage a scam clearly isn't a part of a successful, happy marriage.Can't believe how many dumbasses in this thread | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/21 08:22 AM |
| 1 | Any man who calls marriage a scam clearly isn't a part of a successful, happy marriage.Incomparable. Winning lottery tickets are 0.0000001% success rate, while winning marriages are much much higher. Not to mention, you don't have to have a PERFECT marriage, or the PERFECT, lottery ticket to win the BIGGEST prize. You can be very satisfied with a highly compatible person. Yall are idiots in this thread lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/21 08:22 AM |
| 2 | Any man who calls marriage a scam clearly isn't a part of a successful, happy marriage.Sex dries up in marriages where the guy doesn't try. The woman might of been enthusiastic about sex in the begging, when she was younger, but isn't as much anymore. A trend is also that guys try less and less throughout the relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/21 12:21 AM |
| -3 | Any man who calls marriage a scam clearly isn't a part of a successful, happy marriage.Marriage nevertheless really isn't a scam. Also, I might of gone ahead of myself, because I don't necessarily mean married legally. I mean it in a ceremonial sense. You wear rings and have vowed "till death do us part". Not necessarily legally binding. That could be bad for either if it falls apart. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/21 12:19 AM |
| 4 | Cold Approach is a must. Online dating produces poor results, even for ones with perfect profiles, and social circle can be problematic and limitedLooks obviously play a big role. They're a part of what makes people sexually attracted to one another. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/21 12:07 AM |
| 8 | Cold Approach is a must. Online dating produces poor results, even for ones with perfect profiles, and social circle can be problematic and limitedBest way to get a girlfriend is to date friends of friends, or dating girls from newly formed social circles. Cold approaching - looks and status matter most, short window to get a good joke in or make an otherwise good impression, but most of the time, how you dress, how fit you are, tall you are, etc. Matters most. Online dating - First picture better be godlike, or else swipe left. Blind dates - if disappointed by looks, it sets the tone for the whole date, hard to dig yourself out Dating fri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/21 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Do you have female friends?That... Sucks for you man. That's not my experience at all. I have plenty of female friends and none of them ask for random favours or anything of the sort... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/21 11:49 AM |
| 0 | Men with little to no wealth and status who are sexual desirableAh yes, the LMS equation. And if you don't have any of the 3, you can say goodbye to dating xd Maaany more factors than that, that can make someone attractive budd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/21 08:38 AM |
| 1 | Do you have female friends?It must be the culture where you live, here, it's impolite to do that. No, I don't grab the big checks because they're women. When I used to just go to HS with them, and it that period when I didn't have a job, I used to pay either the same as them, or they'd pay for me (since my parents didn't have much money). Now that I have a job, that pays quite a bit of money, I usually insist to pay for everyone. Not judt girls, guy friends too. But I'll only do that if we're in a bigger group. If it's on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/21 08:35 AM |
| 0 | Men are NOT hypergamous. Women are. Men are hypogamous (dating/marrying DOWN)I do too, and I wrote it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Do you have female friends?Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 10:56 PM |
| 4 | Men are NOT hypergamous. Women are. Men are hypogamous (dating/marrying DOWN)Men absolutely do use hypergamy, especially regarding looks. Most men don't provide financially. Most men are either a looksmatch to their partner, or are lesser looking. Men might try more to impress a girl, to both fill their ego and entertain her, but women fill that emotional side that a man needs in his life. Women also are willing to act like your trophy. That you can show off and talk about how beautiful she is. Women fucking love that. Men are lucky to have a woman by their side. There i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Do you have female friends?Money? What do you think I'm doing? Taking them on dates? We split bills. Or I pay once then they pay the other. Effort? It doesn't really take effort to hit someone up and you meet for coffee, catch up on stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Do you have female friends?They're people... If they're good people, then they're good for you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Do you have female friends?It completely is possible. I have plenty of female friends, and noone is taking advantage of each other | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 10:30 PM |
| 1 | The biggest turn on for adult women is a guy that has plenty of things going in in his life.Very unfortunate situation. Board games are a good way to socialize with people who also lack social skills. Not to mention, motor skills aren't as important there. Card games too, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 10:29 PM |
| 0 | Do you believe the industries men work in has a large impact on their dating opportunities and successes?In my experience, working with women wouldn't land me more chances. Infact, they'd avoid me because "you don't shit where you eat". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 07:53 PM |
| 1 | The biggest turn on for adult women is a guy that has plenty of things going in in his life.Sadly... Unless you turn it around, but you'd have to grt a good job, move out, and take up plenty of hobbies. Aswell as social skills which I assume doesn't come easy for you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Do you have female friends?That's really fucked up... I really hate humans sometimes... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Do you have female friends?Mental illness or just anti social? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Do you have female friends?Have you ever had friends? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Do you have female friends?How old r u? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Doesn't the existence of lesbians completely destroy a lot of red pill views of how women view men?You should, because you NEVER get to. Or almost never. If you're a single girl, going out often, job, coffee, party, then you regularly put makeup on. If you're a stay at home mom, you do it at home, because you wanna do it for yourself as well, I never denied that. So, since ur at your job at home, you dress up at home | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Doesn't the existence of lesbians completely destroy a lot of red pill views of how women view men?If you're a stay at home mom then that's reasonable. Since you're never going out anywayz | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Doesn't the existence of lesbians completely destroy a lot of red pill views of how women view men?That's fine, makeup ain't for everyone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 09:38 AM |
| 6 | Doesn't the existence of lesbians completely destroy a lot of red pill views of how women view men?Exactly... Clothing has two effects. Making you confident and making you more attractive. So you can wear it for confidence inside, and for both benefits when outside. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 09:37 AM |
| 12 | Doesn't the existence of lesbians completely destroy a lot of red pill views of how women view men?Dressing up a little bit is fine. Everyone does that occasionally. I doubt you walk around in a dress and heels around home. Don't cap. Like, sure, I don't doubt you occasionally dress nicer at home, but MAKEUP??? Maybe occasionally when you're just trying it on to see how it fits. Otherwise, cap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 08:49 AM |
| 20 | Doesn't the existence of lesbians completely destroy a lot of red pill views of how women view men?You're putting on makeup to attract. Women or men, irrelevant. Most wlmen don't do it JUST for themselves, but for other people's attention. WHICH IS FINE. Why do people deny this? If you wanna look good and eant attention, there's nothing wrong with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 08:13 AM |
| 1 | CMV: A major reason women are more attractive than men is because it’s not socially acceptable for men to work on their looks~ gym | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 08:10 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: What is better to you, being given a chance or not wasting your time?I can't afford the "stop wasting my time". I'm not charming nor am I wildly attractive. I need time. So being given a chance to prove someone that I'm a good match for them is just what I need. My wife gave me a chance to charm her over time. And it totally worked. She was super nice about it, and was simply not interested in me before I proved myself as someone she actually would be interested in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 07:53 AM |
| 1 | Do you have female friends?They do, sure, but how many stay in loving, long term relationships? I don't think many do... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 07:41 AM |
| 1 | Do you have female friends?Bro. Women might have more options, but they're definitely not good options. The reason this species exists is because most women have self respect. And won't date just any dude that says hi... Most men suck. And most men are not men, they're still boys. So they're not fit for relationships. And therefore, women won't choose them. Just because they can have more options, doesn't mean anything will come of it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 06:21 AM |
| 2 | Do you have female friends?That's totally wrong. It might rule out a chunk of people, but definitely not "almost all women" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 06:17 AM |
| 3 | Q4Men how many women have personally told you they regret making an Only Fans due to its effect on their dating or work lives?Luckily my country ain't that degenerate yet xd | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 12:21 AM |
| 2 | Do you have female friends?I mean... What type of personality and opinions are "more aligned eith women"? Women aren't a hive mind of specific ideas and ideals... They simply have their own lives and own thoughts. They share some common traits and experiences like men with men. Why? Because they're the same gender so obviously they have some commonalities. As do men... So I don't really get your point..? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Male and Female friendships are complicated. Orbiters are quite common.It's all about self control as a man. As long as you don't do anything, the friendship stays solid. Rarely does a woman make a move. Extremely unlikely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 08:32 PM |
| 0 | What happens to men who struggle in dating?Act like they don't try but would die to get laid or to be in a relationship. It's just that they lose more and more hope with more L's they take, and then start to ruin themselves (overeat, stop going to the gym, ldar, never pick up hobbies and totally let themselves go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 08:32 PM |
| 3 | Do you have female friends?Exactly. Because there's so many misogynists like you xd | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 08:29 PM |
| 0 | Do you have female friends?Being friendzoned ain't friendships anyway | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Do you have female friends?Yikes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Do you have female friends?You don't need to NOT have opposite gender friends if you're married... Just self control. If it's that poor, then sure, don't have any... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Do you have female friends?Generally unkind? How come? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 04:35 PM |
| 2 | Do you have female friends?Well even if you're physically attracted to someone, I think you can still be friends. But just recognize that "hey, this person is attractive, but we're just friends". I happen to have plenty of very good looking female friends, but I'm never going to do anything, since I'm taken, and I'm just friends with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Do you have female friends?That's... Not true at all. I'm fairly attractive and have no issue with female friends. I'm just married, so it's not like I'm banned from having women as friends. It's simple, if neither of you are attracted to each other, then it's just a friendship. You can be not attracted to someone simply because they're taken, or you recognize they wouldn't make a good partner for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 04:14 PM |
| 6 | Do you have female friends?Good lad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 04:13 PM |
| 2 | Do you have female friends?Grown past having female friends? That's something you can only grow up to have ahahah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 01:23 PM |
| 6 | Do you have female friends?You can be relaxed and be around women. You just havw to find women that fit your type. I have plenty of chicks I can talk to normally, without them being offended or being mad at me for saying this or that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 01:19 PM |
| 2 | Do you have female friends?That's a false narrative. Probably were hurt by a woman, or women, so you think that. You can most definitely trust people that happen to be women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 12:52 PM |
| 2 | Do you have female friends?Why not? Unless you're straight up a misogynist, it doesn't make sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 12:52 PM |
| 2 | Do you have female friends?Territorial, and "not stupid" are different things in relationships. Territorial just means insecure, not letting others get the chance at your partner. A.k.a. not trusting your partner sufficiently to allow them to spend time with another person that's single. "Not being stupid", just means you won't be ok with your partner hanging out with someone, alone, that she had previous feelings for (or the other way around). Or similar, going to places where it's heavily implied that something romantic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 12:51 PM |
| 1 | Do you have female friends?Why not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 12:46 PM |
| 9 | Do you have female friends?Girls will let you in closer when you're not sexual towards them. They know how valuable friendships with men, who are just kind and don't want sex from them, are. So they stick around. My coworkers, all women, are very close with me because they can 100% trust me, since I'm married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 09:44 AM |
| 3 | Do you have female friends?That makes sense. I'm in a similar scenario, I'm just younger. I mostly had women with me in highschool, and at my job. So it's always just been easier to make friends with women throughout my life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 09:42 AM |
| 1 | Women have NEVER "lied" about being attracted to good looking men. But have they arguably been less transparent about AF/BB?They want a partner who is attractive to them. Be it physically or mentally/emotionally. The physical connection sparks sexual attraction faster than emotional/mental does. The only difference being, that connection doesn't stick for nearly as long. If that type of dude can get it in within the same day, he wins. Because if it goes on, he'll reveal he has nothing more to offer. Unless he does, in which case she'll be even more attracted. But a good, stable partner is optimal to most women, and m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 09:41 AM |
| -2 | It seems like men don’t really approach women anymore, especially in the west. What are your thoughts on this?It's literally the worst way imaginable to experience dating as a guy. Assuming all girls are uninterested because they're not sucking your cock is ridiculous. Approach. Pussy. Most women are too scared to interact with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 02:46 AM |
| -4 | Based on my experience women don't seem to value "intelligence" as an attractive traitNeither. I'm just realistic. I'm a non-incel, so probably "chad" to you xd | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/21 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Based on my experience women don't seem to value "intelligence" as an attractive traitI mean, you're just wrong dude. Looks are important, but definitely not what keeps people around if other things don't match to their preferences. Partners that are good looking, but don't have anything else going for them, will only be used for sex. Which hey, if you're a guy, and most men are pigs, that might be ok with you. But if you want a relationship, looks are only a small part of the deal... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/21 04:19 PM |
| -6 | Based on my experience women don't seem to value "intelligence" as an attractive traitNope | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/21 04:04 PM |
| 8 | Based on my experience women don't seem to value "intelligence" as an attractive traitSpeed dating is the wrost, because obviously the first impression will mostly be impacted by uour looks, and if you can get a quick positive reaction from someone. How can someone's character pierce through to your brain in 5 min or less..? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/21 04:03 PM |
| 0 | If you don't have kids yet, do you worry you won't be as attracted to your partner after she bears a child? If you already have kids, do you find yourself less attracted to your partner as a result of pregnancy/childbearing?I mean.. she'll likely be less tight. But as my libido goes down throughout the years... That won't matter much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/21 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you ever adopt FDS tactics?It wouldn't work, as simple as that. Also men aren't attracted to success or money. They fear it. They do feel intimidated, like they're "not enough" for their partner. An anegdote from my budd, my man started going to a whole ass college because his gf was in one and her parents are hyper successful. He literally felt inferior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/21 09:52 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Would you rather be low libido or high libido?Better to be a low libido. I'm literally superior to other men because of it. I can have normal friendships with women and not consider them as sexual creatures, because I can simply have sex with my wife. I don't need sex more than once a wekk, even though I have it regularly. Back in the day when I didn't see my wife (formerly my gf) for months, I never had the urge to cheat. Because I just didn't need it .. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/21 09:37 PM |
| 1 | The key to a perfect relationship is self satisfaction.Simping for... Myself? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/21 03:55 PM |
| 1 | The key to a perfect relationship is self satisfaction.Well if you're simply settled into your life and are looking to implement someone in it, all you need is a compatible person, and everything else you have settled. You can be satisfied without them, but ever more so grateful when you have them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/21 10:16 AM |
| 1 | The biggest turn on for adult women is a guy that has plenty of things going in in his life.Yup. It's just not a good fit for you. That's fine aswell. I'm just speaking about a general pattern I see in women and the type of men they like | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/21 06:41 AM |
| -1 | The key to a perfect relationship is self satisfaction.Ofcourse we threw that away. You have no excuse to be so uneducated to believe in god in 2021 xd | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/21 06:40 AM |
| 2 | The key to a perfect relationship is self satisfaction.Not true. You can partner up with someone to increase your happiness even more. There isn't a cap to how much happiness you can have. So when you think you're super happy on your own, adding a compatible partner will increase that even more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/21 05:26 AM |
| 1 | The key to a perfect relationship is self satisfaction.I wanted it. And I'd go so far as to say most people won't feel FULL without a partner. But you can definitely settle into your own life and then look for a partner, if you weren't lucky enough to build your life with someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/21 05:25 AM |
| 1 | The biggest turn on for adult women is a guy that has plenty of things going in in his life.Born into wealth will get you that. Doesn't mean you're independent and in control. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 08:12 PM |
| 0 | The key to a perfect relationship is self satisfaction.What does "getting women" even mean really... Taking their souls... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 07:40 PM |
| 1 | The biggest turn on for adult women is a guy that has plenty of things going in in his life.Men oftentimes completely misunderstand what the reason for outcome A not happening is. Then we get outcome C when we try to fix an issue the wrong way (for example, pick up artistry as an answer to not being able to "get women") | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 05:22 PM |
| 1 | The biggest turn on for adult women is a guy that has plenty of things going in in his life.Dog I was literally a gamer my whole life... I have a rig that costs 4 thousand dollars, please don't talk to me as if I'm some boomer ass xd If you played chess for 6 hours, it's more admirable, especially if you're competing. If not, I'd say you're wasting some time aswell. The reason it's more admirable is because it's a completely strategical game. Most games that people play are RPG's or MOBA's or FPS. Not saying they don't take strategy, but let's be real... And yea, again, doing something… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 05:20 PM |
| 1 | The biggest turn on for adult women is a guy that has plenty of things going in in his life.I say men overthink and oftentimes defeat themselves into oblivion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 02:51 PM |
| 1 | The biggest turn on for adult women is a guy that has plenty of things going in in his life.I mean... From the girls I am in touch with, they have their own lives, hobbies, work out and do that along with a good job, or are in college for a good degree. Guys however... Weekends are for the boys... Video games... Basic work... Nothing really going on, for most. For some, that I keep close by, are actually more like me, active and interested in living life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 02:50 PM |
| 1 | The biggest turn on for adult women is a guy that has plenty of things going in in his life.Did I claim it isn't? I said it's not necessarily something that you have to have, or else... I'm saying that most women just want a dude that has a lot of things going on and he's showing progress in life. Not that having millions will hurt, but most women are realistic and don't EXPECT a partner that's rich. Sure, they would like one, as any man would like a hot chick around his arm, but we can all be realistic... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 02:34 PM |
| 0 | The biggest turn on for adult women is a guy that has plenty of things going in in his life.I'm not bashing videogames. I'm saying that moderate amounts of playing games can be enjoyable, like I indulge myself. But not for hours upon hours a day. If you, as an adult, come home from an 8 hours shift, then play games for 4-6 hours ans go to sleep, you're wasting your time... And I'll only agree it can be fun, if you're doiny that for like a week, when a game like RDR2 comes out. That's fine, because you're actually enjoying it. But to have that every single day of the month, that's a pro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 02:31 PM |
| 2 | The biggest turn on for adult women is a guy that has plenty of things going in in his life.Absolutely. The last sentence especially. I love talking to people that have a lot going on. A lot easier to find things to talk about. And it's usually a very big plus to people when they ask you about your schedule, or "what's up?". If you say "well I woke up this morning, prepared breakfast and lunch for myself, then fed my chinchilla. I went to work, had a blast with my colleagues and hit the gym afterwards/had soccer practice. I just finished this amazing book on my way to here! Like .. It'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 12:53 PM |
| 1 | The biggest turn on for adult women is a guy that has plenty of things going in in his life.Modern women complain a lot because men are naturally, on average, much less mature then women. Until they get to their 30's and so on. Then some get brighter and get serious. Women are more socially calibrated, so in their 20's, now that the "providing" mechanic has been removed for the overwhelming majority of men, most women find themselves unable to get a partner on their maturity level. All of the women I know are in college and on their way to get good degree's. The men I know are in some … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 12:23 AM |
| 5 | [Q4ALL] What kind of environment did you grow up in - and how did it affect your view of dating?Grew up in a loveless, nearly hateful marriage (parents). Learned exactly what not to value in a partner, and how to recognize red flags when I see them. Am married now, happily, unlike my parents. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Why is being the “prize” such a thing in dating/relationships?People wanna feel special. If that means their parent literally thinking they are "lucky to have them", it's a bit arrogant and self centered. But whatever floats your boat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 12:15 AM |
| 1 | The biggest turn on for adult women is a guy that has plenty of things going in in his life.I feel bad for you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/21 07:14 PM |
| 2 | The biggest turn on for adult women is a guy that has plenty of things going in in his life.I think you can lag in a lot of areas and sustain a relationship, but if you're not fucking... Women can be very attracted, sexually aswell, to non millionaires, or ripped guys... Agreed, it many not in and of itself sustain relationship, i.e. I could not spend years with a liberal woman in a house. JUST A BIG LOL FOR THAT ONE XD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/21 07:12 PM |
| 1 | The biggest turn on for adult women is a guy that has plenty of things going in in his life.Right!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/21 07:10 PM |
| 1 | The biggest turn on for adult women is a guy that has plenty of things going in in his life.Yep. You can always have lust if you got good looks. But just because something "trumps something" (debatable, because simply being attractive isn't good enough to keep long term relationship, you have to have other things going for you...), doesn't mean other things don't work aswell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/21 03:53 PM |
| 2 | The biggest turn on for adult women is a guy that has plenty of things going in in his life.Not true at all... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/21 02:50 PM |
| 1 | The biggest turn on for adult women is a guy that has plenty of things going in in his life.The VAST MAJORITY of men will make nothing of gaming. VAST MAJORITY. So it's a time waster for most. Again, I know. I have nearly 10 thousand hours on the computer... Just playing video games, not counting anything else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/21 01:34 PM |
| 1 | The biggest turn on for adult women is a guy that has plenty of things going in in his life.Yep. That will totally work on a long term relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/21 01:32 PM |
| 1 | The biggest turn on for adult women is a guy that has plenty of things going in in his life.Being attractive is a vague term. My wife found me attractive because I was smart and funny. And I believe her because when I met her I didn't have a job and I was obese. And no I'm not tall... So trust me. Being attractive can be judt from the way you hold yourself, the way you speak, what you speak about, how you dress, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/21 09:41 AM |
| 1 | The biggest turn on for adult women is a guy that has plenty of things going in in his life.Exactly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/21 09:39 AM |
| 4 | The biggest turn on for adult women is a guy that has plenty of things going in in his life.Because if you, as a 30 year old man, would rather get a 20yo with "a firm ass" than a 30 year old, mature woman, then you yourself are immature. Real, grown up men, don't want to date kids. Why would you want someone with 0 life experience you'd have nothing in common with..? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/21 09:39 AM |
| 0 | The biggest turn on for adult women is a guy that has plenty of things going in in his life.Sure. Keep gaming and see where it leads you. I play too man, but overindulging is a thing... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/21 09:03 AM |
| 3 | The biggest turn on for adult women is a guy that has plenty of things going in in his life.Women won't stick around. Not all, at least, if you don't interest them. Rich guys are famous for having multiple divorces. Why? Because if you're never around, always focusing on other shit and don't do anything interesting other than your job, you won't keep a lady... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/21 09:02 AM |
| 1 | The biggest turn on for adult women is a guy that has plenty of things going in in his life.Well, if you'd have any self respect, they can't. My wife doesn't, and that's why she's with me. If a person has no character, don't go for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/21 08:18 AM |
| -1 | The biggest turn on for adult women is a guy that has plenty of things going in in his life.Right. I make 1k$ a months, am 5'9" and I was obese when I met my girl... -.- | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/21 08:17 AM |
| -4 | The biggest turn on for adult women is a guy that has plenty of things going in in his life.Then I'd doubt your "life order". I always question when men say they got a long going on, but no success with women. Because women loooooove guys with a fulfilled life and a future. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/21 08:16 AM |
| 3 | The biggest turn on for adult women is a guy that has plenty of things going in in his life.It's CRUCIAL for women. For men, like I used to be (250 pounds) it ain't as crucial. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/21 12:40 AM |
| 3 | The biggest turn on for adult women is a guy that has plenty of things going in in his life.If you were an interesting person at a younger age, they'd show interest a different way aswell... When you're 30+ nobody cares unless your lifestyles are compatible. It's no long as impressive, but rather an expectation that you got your shit together... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/21 12:40 AM |
| -10 | The biggest turn on for adult women is a guy that has plenty of things going in in his life.Not really true. You can spend your time better AND enjoy it. I listed "reading, writing, drawing", because that's what I personally do. There are so many other damn things to do. Dig and find something productive. Not only will you feel better, but it'll be more impressive aswell. I'm not saying that I didn't spend 2-3 hours a day gaming when red dead 2 came out... But I am saying that playing csgo or league 6 hours a day is not making a person nhappy, they're just addicted (I know. I was a Glo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/21 12:38 AM |
| 0 | The biggest turn on for adult women is a guy that has plenty of things going in in his life."need to be"? Literally fix it. It's really not that hard or that deep if you just think about it and focus. Don't overthink everything. So many people say "oh I gotta do X". Just do it lol. I used to be depressed, anti social and had a self sabotage problem (diagnosed). Got out of it. Sometimes it really is mind over matter... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/21 12:35 AM |
| 9 | The biggest turn on for adult women is a guy that has plenty of things going in in his life.Not that obvious to most men on ppd... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/21 12:34 AM |
| 7 | The biggest turn on for adult women is a guy that has plenty of things going in in his life.For women regarding what? As long as you actively take care of your looks: wash your hair style your hair skin care products perfumes well dressed fitness You'll do fine. If you want a man of quality however, throw in: kind caring loving agreeable intelligent independent (but not the "I don't need no man" kind) value his time, respect and sacrifices | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/21 12:33 AM |
| 4 | The biggest turn on for adult women is a guy that has plenty of things going in in his life.Well yea but most men, especially young men love to draw up different tactics on how to "get women", and "follow the five steps", etc. Literally just live a good life. And a partner will accompany you at some point. Why? Because a partner should only be had when you've managed to settle other things in your own life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/21 12:29 AM |
| 3 | The biggest turn on for adult women is a guy that has plenty of things going in in his life.Well that's a bonus. But it's a given that MOST people won't be rich. And MOST people don't have rich partners. It's ok if you're earning a normal living, but are a full and interesting person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/21 12:26 AM |
| 4 | What is dating like for women who aren’t above-average in physical attractiveness, but are above-average in game and personality?Women don't have game. They can be either attractive physically, or with their personality. Game requires verbal charm. And some body language charm, but that's mostly what men have. Women being hot isn't charming, it's just raw sexual appeal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/21 08:22 PM |
| 4 | Having a lot of sex as a man is the ultimate way to show you’re a good providerNot necessarily. Here's why... If you have lots of sex, the value you might provide other than money, are things like looks, fun, being spontaneous, etc. Some guys will slay on the basis of nothing other than their looks. Some guys will slay on the basis of nothing other than game, or, "the unexpected desirable guy" (the type noone can really tell why, but still slays, a.k.a. charm) Rich men more than often provide nothing more than a temporary lifestyle, that they'll dangle Infront of women, in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/21 08:17 PM |
| 3 | The hotter she is, the more insecure she isWell sure. But most guys aren't | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 09:29 PM |
| 5 | The hotter she is, the more insecure she isThe hotter she is, the less of a chance you have because of her raging self confidence | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 09:19 PM |
| 4 | High Value Men are hardworking and entrepreneurial.These men use their money to make others appear of lesser value, to use as an excuse to cheat on their wives and to waste it on expensive, unnecessary things instead of paying their workers more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 08:28 PM |
| -1 | Why is it considered insulting to be called "husband material" by women but it's a considered a compliment when women get called "wife material"?Some young men, or immature men, might view such a comment as "I don't wanna fuck you, but you'd make a good husband otherwise". Because they might get that comment for being overly nice or helpful. The only thing is, if that comment comes from the wrong person, all it means is you were trying to please a woman that didn't deserve it. Another woman might look at those qualities and think you're perfect for her. I got told "you'd be such a good boyfriend/dad", before I got rejected, or coming fro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 01:48 PM |
| 2 | Do women even truly like sex?Women, on average, are less sexual than men. And most women need a lot more to get off than men. So it might seem like they don't like sex, but that could be because of various reasons The guys lenght and gurth, lack of oral, lack of fingering, lack of pleasing in general. Especially if you don't have a long term partner as a woman. Long term partners are more likely to be willing to please you, than some ONS dude trying to bust a nut. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 09:56 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Take what you get. You could of had a micropenis so small, it's nearly smaller than some clits. So tbh... If you're just average, that's more than good. I got 6 inches, and I'll take those 6 inches. Sure, 8 would probably be dope, but meh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 09:54 AM |
| 1 | would you mind dating someone uglier ?Yes I would mind. I always said, I'd rather be alone than with an unattractive woman by my side. It is what it is. Women, like it or not, are status symbols for men aswell. I can't be having a good job, interesting personality, hobbies, fit body, and then having an uggo next to me. Sorry. Also, sex is a part of the relationship. I need to be attracted to the person to have sex with them. It is what it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 03:12 PM |
| 3 | PPD: When did you lose your Virginity?18 to my wife. Each other's first and last lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 12:15 PM |
| 1 | How do you view the redpill's "never pay the entire bill/as cheap as possible dates" mindset?How | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/21 10:00 AM |
| 0 | Do women find alternative men attractive?I think so. Men always get away with murder when it comes to their appearance... Dating a hottie while being a fatass or some shrimp. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 05:53 PM |
| 1 | "High value men" don't make high value partners.It's sad you think this way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/21 10:55 AM |
| 2 | "High value men" don't make high value partners.These traits don't get you lots of women. Why? Because these traits don't instantly spark sexual attraction. It's because you need to get to know a person to see these traits. So when a person does get to know those traits, you get my situation, where my wife's friends are jealous, or they just admire her husband. It's the traits that when she understands you have, makes her think you're husband material. And when you're young, you often don't look to settle, so it might seem like these young gi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/21 10:13 AM |
| – | If there is so few women who are fit for LTR, a tiny % of women are swamped with offers from HVM. Who are these women?Posted about it. Detailed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/21 08:16 AM |
| 1 | How do you view the redpill's "never pay the entire bill/as cheap as possible dates" mindset?I don't care about casual sex with randoms tho. So idk how you respond to that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/21 07:35 AM |
| – | If there is so few women who are fit for LTR, a tiny % of women are swamped with offers from HVM. Who are these women?Your high value girl usually wouldn't go for the typical, RP vision of a HVM. Women who are fit for LTR's don't care about fame, excessive amounts of money, being cocky, or super fit. Or if they do care, it's definitely not their first priority. The reason for this, is because women who are best suited for LTR'S want HV partners. Not HVM. Loyalty, effection, being caring, kind hearted, generous, a good father, helpful, etc. Those are the priorities. Not his six pack or his pockets. So these "HVM… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/21 06:48 AM |
| 1 | How do you view the redpill's "never pay the entire bill/as cheap as possible dates" mindset?I don't sacrifice anything by being married... She and I make the same money, and she's not the gold digger type to leave and take everything. Y'all marrying bad people ain't my concern. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/21 06:43 AM |
| 5 | Opposite Sex FriendsYep. I have plenty, it's similar to male friends, just a bit different when it comes to certain interactions, and no inappropriate touching. I had hop on a guys back and do whatever, but can't do that with a chick. Becomes a bit awkward | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/21 12:39 PM |
| 0 | How do you view the redpill's "never pay the entire bill/as cheap as possible dates" mindset?Meh. It's much nicer when you look at it that way. Just better relations with women in general if you think of it that way. Don't crawl on floor, but respect them. And admire. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/21 10:51 AM |
| -1 | How do you view the redpill's "never pay the entire bill/as cheap as possible dates" mindset?I always pay. Don't be a cheap asshole, you're lucky the girl wanted to come on the date. Later in the relationship, split bills by necessity, but pay whenever you can. bEtAbUx Yea, nah. You iust pay because it's a form of providing in the modern world. That's all it is. Don't think about it too much. And also, if you really like/love her, you will never complain anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/21 04:51 AM |
| 1 | Men are allowed to date "Up" but women are notSure... It always has ti be money. It can't be they match in lifestyle, worldview, sense of humour, sexually compatible, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/21 04:48 AM |
| 1 | Women that won't do sexual acts with you, but had done with previous partners, isn't an indicator she's not attracted to you enough to do them.It's called abuse... They endured essentially abuse. Which a lot of women do... Sexual abuse specifically. Forcing anal and her giving in on the 8th time you asked this week isn't consent... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Women that won't do sexual acts with you, but had done with previous partners, isn't an indicator she's not attracted to you enough to do them.Then go find a whore, not a wife. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 12:24 PM |
| 1 | Women that won't do sexual acts with you, but had done with previous partners, isn't an indicator she's not attracted to you enough to do them.shuts you down for something you know she gladly did with others The exact thing I pointed to. If she GLADLY DOES IT, but just doesn't want to let YOU, then it's a red flag. If she's done it but DIDN'T enjoy it in the apst, then WHY FORCE HER? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 12:24 PM |
| 1 | Women that won't do sexual acts with you, but had done with previous partners, isn't an indicator she's not attracted to you enough to do them.If she doesn't enjoy it, then why do it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 12:23 PM |
| 1 | Why don’t more men become prostitutes and porn stars?You're misunderstanding me... The amount of average dude's that would be paid to have sex, even if it was for a porno, would be incredibly low | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 08:25 AM |
| 2 | Why don’t more men become prostitutes and porn stars?Changeyoursexualutymaxxx | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 08:24 AM |
| 4 | Why don’t more men become prostitutes and porn stars?Male pornstars get paid nothing, unless they're like, REALLY BIG, or something extraordinary. Prostituting men is useless when tinder exists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 04:50 AM |
| 3 | EVERYBODY values appearance in a partner way more than they want to believe…I never wanted a woman I couldn't show off. And I was an ugly dude back then, and I would have rather stayed single, which I had done, than be with someone I'm not attracted to. It is what it is. Just don't complain about dating if you have the mindset I used to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Women with high standards of financial success in men do not 'only want you for your money'Rich men are rarer than beautiful women. The math points to either polygamy or a lot of cats... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 10:18 PM |
| 2 | What's the best dating advice for womenUnderstand yourself. And know what you want to become in life, then do thise things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 07:56 PM |
| 4 | She did "prior acts" with her other BFs because he was an "asshole" and if youre not an asshole its your faultDo you want your significant other to perform sexual acts that displease, and degrade her, without her consent or her wanting it? Why would you want those boundaries to be crossed again, if she feels bad about crossing them, and that she didn't enjoy it? The only time you should have an issue with it, is if she enjoyed it, and still would, but just not with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 05:57 AM |
| -2 | One of the reasons why men check out from society is because there is growing, unjustified hostility, disrespect and depreciation against men in general.For a good reason. Men have oppressed everything there is to opress in this world. The higher you go on the privilege scale; cis man straight white The more oppression your people have inflicted. And therefore, even though there are good men out there, most are either neutral or bad. Sorry. I say this as a man but most guys suck. There are a fair amount of exceptions, but not the majority... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/21 01:01 PM |
| 2 | Would it still bother you if your partner was willing to do sexual acts with exes, but wouldn't with you - but the sexual acts are ones you don't want at all?Yup. Why with him and not with me? The only exception I would make is if they were young and naive. If they didn't understand that they DIDN'T have to perform sexual acts they didn't want to. But if they liked it and don't wanna do it with me, I would not be oksy with it. Not because we can't do thst, but because of moral reasons | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/21 07:59 AM |
| 1 | Does your partner's past sexual experiences influence your current sex?Yup. I would strongly dislike past experiences because they're unnecessary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/21 07:52 AM |
| 1 | Have you learned anything valuable from this subreddit?Sure. A lot of people are totally wrong about dating and clueless regarding the understanding of what they want, and how to get it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/21 07:52 AM |
| 1 | Does your partner's past sexual experiences influence your current sex?Past experiences | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/21 07:51 AM |
| 1 | Does your partner's past sexual experiences influence your current sex?Nope. Didn't have any so we learned together. That's the best way, because the person knows exactly what YOU like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/21 07:50 AM |
| 1 | I went for a "coffee" with my female colleague. Here's an example, for ladies, of how it looks like when a woman tries.? When did I say I was worried??? I was using this as an example of a person who tried... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/21 05:29 PM |
| 0 | I went for a "coffee" with my female colleague. Here's an example, for ladies, of how it looks like when a woman tries.But this is how dates should be aswell... Except my wife, no woman I dated made this type of effort. Nor have my male friends had many positive experiences Sure, I got a couple people I'd call close friends that try to be on time, but this happened pretty recently, so I posted it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/21 05:28 PM |
| 1 | If you are going to claim getting a six pack is easy you should be made to verify you actually have oneDelusional and uneducated | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/21 03:28 PM |
| 1 | If you are going to claim getting a six pack is easy you should be made to verify you actually have oneIn order not to be fat, I can't ever eat fast food (no amount, ever never ever). I can't eat sweets. I can't drink anything but water, dark coffee or tea (without honry or sugar). I can't NOT exercise 2 hours a day and keep active throughout the rest. I literally can't do anything other than devote my life to specifically 1500 calories or less and tons of exercise. When most my friends drink on weekends, go to bakeries to grab breafast or snacks, go for fast food meals, etc. I literally can't li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/21 03:28 PM |
| 1 | If you are going to claim getting a six pack is easy you should be made to verify you actually have oneNo it ain't | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/21 03:24 PM |
| 1 | If you are going to claim getting a six pack is easy you should be made to verify you actually have oneI count grams, calories, proteins, fats, sugars, etc. I count everything. I literally have cups that are marked in a way so I know the EXACT amoun of X I need to put. In the morning I eat 60 grams of oats with milk and 15g of protein inside. About an hour or two later I eat a banana. For lunch I usually eat 100g of white rice, half a paprika, one onion, and 200g of chicken breast. No sauces, no mayo, etc. For dinner I have 6 eggs, 4 slices of ham and some yogurt. My diet is insane. I pay attenti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/21 11:17 AM |
| -2 | If you are going to claim getting a six pack is easy you should be made to verify you actually have oneSimple and difficult is literally opposites of each other. Again, it ain't excuses. Some people just have to work infinitely harder to just look normal, and not be obese. Some of you meatheads don't understand that, and that's fine, I don't expect much from gymrats | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/21 09:20 AM |
| 2 | If you are going to claim getting a six pack is easy you should be made to verify you actually have oneWhy? Wtf? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/21 09:18 AM |
| 2 | If you are going to claim getting a six pack is easy you should be made to verify you actually have oneNo it's not simple. If you're fat, and you have a job that doesn't strain you physically and your hobbies you enjoy doing involve a lot of sitting (video games, drawing, writing, etc.) Then you won't be able to get it. Almost impossible. I really try and have a 1300 calorie diet as a 200 pound man and work out 2 hours a day... It's nearly impossible to take the weight off | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/21 08:22 AM |
| 5 | If you are going to claim getting a six pack is easy you should be made to verify you actually have oneCringe af. Hate all u want, you can consider yourself lucky that you don't have to constantly battle getting fat and gaining muscle while using weight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/21 08:19 AM |
| 2 | It’s a myth that women are better looking than menWomen generally put more effort into their appearance. The only exception is the gym, where men build muscle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/21 06:44 AM |
| 1 | Detaching sex from love is the biggest reason high N count women are usually avoided for serious relationships.I never said that sex wasn't just a chemical reaction compelling us to breed. It is. The only thing is, if you want a quality monogamous relationship, it's better for the girl either not to be aware of that, or to wilfully neglect that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/21 06:43 AM |
| 1 | All men want a low, or 0 N count women, those who say otherwise are lying.Knew it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 09:24 PM |
| 1 | All men want a low, or 0 N count women, those who say otherwise are lying.Thought it wouldn't be put up if I placed it in the post. I already posted some stuff, that's why I commented. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 09:19 PM |
| 1 | All men want a low, or 0 N count women, those who say otherwise are lying.Love how triggered some peeps here get over these "puritanical" views I put out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 09:17 PM |
| 2 | Detaching sex from love is the biggest reason high N count women are usually avoided for serious relationships.I hope I do have daughters, and that they grow up properly, not into unhappy hoes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 05:52 PM |
| -2 | Detaching sex from love is the biggest reason high N count women are usually avoided for serious relationships.Morally it is wrong to do. Biologically, men can cheat and feel nothing for that person, but if a woman cheats, that relationship is over. UNLESS, she separates sex from love, which happens when she had lots of it in the past. Then she can hide it the same as a man. Men however, just like women, cheat equally. Men cheat more in later ages, women cheat more in younger ages. So even though men can detatch sex from love, most men don't do it because of the respect for their partner. I'm telling you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 09:27 AM |
| -2 | Detaching sex from love is the biggest reason high N count women are usually avoided for serious relationships.Sex is like taking a piss for men. We don't get emotionally attached by sex, we get that by you bein an exceptionally beautiful woman who we can relate to and talk to. Sex and love is tied for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 09:24 AM |
| -5 | Detaching sex from love is the biggest reason high N count women are usually avoided for serious relationships.No. You'll just be bitter and think your friends who have amazing husbands are exceptions rather than you being the issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 09:23 AM |
| 2 | So if you don’t have a bodycount is it still “bad” to wait to have sex?I would not understand it. The logic off "prior men that I fucked right away disrespected me, so I'm gonna make you wait" doesn't make sense. You can more easily remove fuckboys from your list if make them wait for sex, but you're never gonna be able to describe the reason to a guy like me. I waited for my wife to be ready, but she was a virgin. If she had tons of casual sex before... nah. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 06:01 AM |
| 2 | Detaching sex from love is the biggest reason high N count women are usually avoided for serious relationships.Cringe or not, doesn't chsnge the truth | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 05:48 AM |
| -6 | Detaching sex from love is the biggest reason high N count women are usually avoided for serious relationships.Yes. We're different. I do think it's morally wrong for both, so I don't agree with either doing it. But in reality, men won't have issues with bonding later, women will. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 05:48 AM |
| -4 | Detaching sex from love is the biggest reason high N count women are usually avoided for serious relationships.You'll see when you're 40 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 05:46 AM |
| 2 | Detaching sex from love is the biggest reason high N count women are usually avoided for serious relationships.Never said they were bad people. I just said they made poor LTR partners because their ability to connect sex, to you, is gone. Instead of her thinking "sex is something I do with my husband", she knows "sex is sex". Better to live in fairy tales and think your husband is the only source of sex there is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 05:46 AM |
| -5 | Detaching sex from love is the biggest reason high N count women are usually avoided for serious relationships.Biology | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/21 10:34 PM |
| 6 | Does her history matter? pt.1: Infidelity (tags: n count, body count, sexual past, sexual history, promiscuous, promiscuity)For me personally, no. Although I could potentially have sex without it affecting me, but I'd feel bad for my wife who I would be hurting by being dishonest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/21 10:19 PM |
| 2 | Detaching sex from love is the biggest reason high N count women are usually avoided for serious relationships.Impossible | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/21 10:18 PM |
| -1 | Detaching sex from love is the biggest reason high N count women are usually avoided for serious relationships.Again. If sex is tied to love for a woman, she'll be able to have that deep connection with a man. If sex isn't tied to love for a woman, then anything is possible. Men always think of sex as sex. It's like taking a piss for us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/21 10:17 PM |
| -13 | Detaching sex from love is the biggest reason high N count women are usually avoided for serious relationships.It's not ok for men to fuck around snd womanize. But. If they JUST have sex with a number of women, it's not an issue. Guys don't take sex to heart. Women do. Biology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/21 10:16 PM |
| -11 | Detaching sex from love is the biggest reason high N count women are usually avoided for serious relationships.I wanna make a distinction. If a guy just happens to have multiple partners, let's say plenty, but wasn't a womanizer, then he'll still be okay for a LTR. A woman that slept around, regardless of her entanglements, isn't good for an LTR anymore. I gotta agree with fresh and fit (even though I hate them). Sex for men is like taking a piss. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/21 10:15 PM |
| 15 | Does her history matter? pt.1: Infidelity (tags: n count, body count, sexual past, sexual history, promiscuous, promiscuity)I don't want my wife to be known as "easy lay" around town. I don't want random ex's to be a dick ti ride on when things get tough. I don't want her to detatch sex from love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/21 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Just how easily can a girl be put off a guy she found attractive?Initially? Something drastic. After some time you know the person, their general thoughts and personality can kill that initial attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/21 08:42 PM |
| 1 | There’s nothing wrong with a coffee/walking date as the first dateI personally don't have an issue. I had, before, but not from a certain period and onwards. I'm just saying lots of men seem to have this issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/21 12:01 PM |
| 1 | There’s nothing wrong with a coffee/walking date as the first dateYou can't really say that, when the majority of guys can't recognize weather you two are compatible or not. Most guys also rarely get dates, so going on one is rare for them. Naturally, they're gonna try their best to keep it going. "Better than being alone at least". So most just hope for the best and lose some money on a person who probably knows they're not gonna keep dating seriously, but just want free food and attention | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/21 09:30 AM |
| 5 | There’s nothing wrong with a coffee/walking date as the first dateWomen are judged on looks, because that's the most important characteristic to a woman. To be young enough to carry a child without significant risk, and to he good looking. Men had to earn money in the past and PROVIDE for families because women didn't work. In today's environment, it's literally impossible for 90% of men to pay all the bills and be able to afford rent, saving for an apartment/house and to buy a car/cars for the whole family. Therefore, because it's nearly impossible, it's an u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/21 07:51 AM |
| 1 | What's the best dating advice for womenDepending on their goal. Find a husband? invest more time into yourself as a person, rather than building some unfulfilling career work on your fitness (you're never perfect) have valid hobbies (watching netflix and drinking every weekend isn't a personality) don't be a party girl don't have casual sex (no exceptions, ever) don't enter relationships on a whim don't give up sex easily to men don't dress like a hoe (let's be real, wearing a tanktop outside with your titties bouncing out isn't wife… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/21 07:46 AM |
| 4 | There’s nothing wrong with a coffee/walking date as the first dateWealthier women don't date down in income. Women stunlock themselves by earning more money. They always need more than what they earn, so naturally they go for even higher earners. That's how women work. Sometimes they date equals, but those are ones with better character. Even the best of women would poke fun at you for earning less than them. Or they'd try and show you up. It is what it is. A person's value shouldn't be determined by how much they earn, as long as they're not a bum, and can fu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/21 07:25 AM |
| 4 | There’s nothing wrong with a coffee/walking date as the first dateAhahahah look at you getting angry. Go get a man sweets. I do date within my tax bracket. Those women are objectively better people in overwhelming majority of cases. I don't deal with entitled brats. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/21 07:20 AM |
| 2 | There’s nothing wrong with a coffee/walking date as the first dateAnd it's fine to have good taste. I'm not saying otherwise. First date, always coffee | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/21 06:42 AM |
| 1 | Do Modern Relationships Need Each Person to Play a Role, and If so, What Role Does Either Gender Fulfill?I like my girl feminine, and she likes me masculine. If I have "feminine moments" and if she has "masculine moments", that's ok. But that being the case throughout the relationship won't work for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/21 06:07 AM |
| 3 | There’s nothing wrong with a coffee/walking date as the first dateIt does mean there's something wrong. The girl clearly has moral issues she needs resolving. "Low key relationship". No. It's called a real world relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/21 06:05 AM |
| 2 | What are effective strategies as a betabux?Well, you should probably stop at that ad betabuxx. "Modt guys will be betabux" No? Most guys won't be a betabux. Betabuxes are extremely rare. Most guys might have to do things like chivalry. Pay for dates, trips, gifts, etc. But if you love a woman, you'll do this regardless. Why? Because it makes her happy and that should make you happy. I hate how men look at them spending their money as "something negative". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/21 06:04 AM |
| 13 | There’s nothing wrong with a coffee/walking date as the first date"High maintenance" woman. A.k.a. entitled woman. No such thing. Either you're a good woman who genuinely wants to meet a guy, or you're trying to get s free meal and dip. Restaurants are a bad first date. Men lose money if you're not compatible, usually a more impactful amount of money, and women might feel pressured into staying on the date, because they're at a restaurant. It's bad for both sides. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/21 05:47 AM |
| 1 | If a man uses his resources to attract women, does that make him a beta male?Depends on how you look at it. The whole beta and alpha male thing is cringe. The supposed alphas are usually ones with most fragile egos, so idk how you'd go on by grouping people as alpha and beta. To me, "using resources" is a natural thing in a relationship. Not be honest, I don't see "spending money" on your significant other as "spending it" as long as it makes you happy, makes them happy, and as long as the person is not using you for money. I love buying my wife gifts, spending on dinner… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/21 02:28 PM |
| 1 | 6 Green Flags in women for a LTR, do you agree?Yes these are good predictors. There are some extra ones, depending on your taste in women, that shows extra character. 1) Is an atheist Shows better understanding of logical thinking and generally how her thought process works 2) Is tolerant of others Regarding their ethnicity, sexual orientations, etc. 3) Wants kids Shows selflessness which is rarer nowadays and the will to sacrifice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/21 02:24 PM |
| 2 | TRP advocates for working on your fitness, money and status, but basically preaches against taking the women who appreciate those "qualities" seriously.Women love it when you take them seriously as a partner, by not cheating on them, respecting them as a person, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 09:20 PM |
| 1 | PUAs or just those who have “game” what’s your go-to tactic to picking up a woman in a bar or party setting?Yea, that's why I think game is mostly comfort for dude's that are already attractive, then as an excuse say "oh I got game bro". No you don't bruh, you're high status, or good looking, or rich. One or all the three. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 05:32 PM |
| 0 | PUAs or just those who have “game” what’s your go-to tactic to picking up a woman in a bar or party setting?I mean... I get what you're saying, but trust me, having good charisma and game ain't the same. And if you do find someone's "game,x attractive, it's likely because you're physically attracted to them (very attracted) aswell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 05:25 PM |
| 2 | PUAs or just those who have “game” what’s your go-to tactic to picking up a woman in a bar or party setting?Fuck game. It's so stupid and cringy. If the dude is hot, game works, if not, doesn't work. Just be a pleasent person to be around, even fun and outgoing dare I say, and make people want to want to talk to you. Being an interesting person beats game. Then people come to you, and if they don't, as long as you're around them, it'll work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 05:16 PM |
| -3 | TRP advocates for working on your fitness, money and status, but basically preaches against taking the women who appreciate those "qualities" seriously.You'd think but no. At least not the way you think. "Working on health and fitness" I'm just gonna put that under one thing, and yea, it can make you feel better, but it also makes a lot of guys turn into asses. Overconfident and obnoxious. "Reading philosophy" Just makes you seem like you smell your own farts. Let's be real, gymbros don't read philosophy... Lmao. "Financially secure" You mean having a stable job @NOTMCDONALDS? Yea, you don't have to "work on your career" or "mine crypto" or "in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 11:59 AM |
| -4 | TRP advocates for working on your fitness, money and status, but basically preaches against taking the women who appreciate those "qualities" seriously.Improving on yourself as a person | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 09:30 AM |
| -2 | TRP advocates for working on your fitness, money and status, but basically preaches against taking the women who appreciate those "qualities" seriously.If you lead with monry/status/looks, you inevitably get women that want that most. If that's a detail of your amazing life, then you can still get a good partner for yourself. But if that's your whole personality.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 07:07 AM |
| -4 | Objectively, does red pill have real life relevance? Does it "work"?Conveniently forgot to mention that redpillers commonly believe women aren't worth your time unless they're giving you sex. Friendships with women aren't possible and if a chick has a guy friend, he'd inevitably want to have sex with her, right? My issue with TRP is this vail of "helping men improve" when in reality it feeds you toxicity and the wrong way to view relationships with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Let’s talk Polyamory and PolygamyDoubt it. Also these dude's that wanna fuck around while their girl staid monogamous would probably kill her if she slept with anyone else. I'm talking about people who are in strictly one way monogamy. They'd be MUCH happier if their partner was loyal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Why do most men associate beauty with arousal?Because men are MOSTLY visual. If you have a good career, that makes you a secure partner, but not sexy. If you're cinfident, that makes you confident, not sexy. If you're smart, that means you're smart, not sexy. If you have a good body and face, that makes you sexy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Do extremely loyal men exist or are they only acting?Yea I'm loyal and wouldn't cheat. Why? Peace. I don't want drama in my life. I value peace of mind and respect for my partner over meaningless casual sex. I don't see a point in fucking a random woman I find attractive, then going about my day. When I look at the bigger picture, is it worth losing a wife, ruining the relations with my friends and family, my mental state, for one night of sex? I don't think so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 12:33 PM |
| 3 | If your partner’s past is your current prison, you will never have future happiness.Missed it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 12:25 PM |
| 3 | Let’s talk Polyamory and PolygamyTo me, if one partner is having sex with multiple people, but the other is not, I consider it to be emotional abuse. Why? Because it indicates that the person who's practicing one sided monogamy is "taking it on the chin" that their partner is dating/having sex with other people. Very rarely will someone be ok with their partner hoeing out, while they stay monogamous for that person. If both sides are ok with each other sleeping around, that's their business, and is fine with me if they're both … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 11:54 AM |
| 1 | Do 'average' Women just bring more to the table today than 'average' Men?In my opinion, both genders bring what they bring, depending on their level of education, general intelligence, social awareness, romantic experience, character, etc. Women just seem to try more regarding appearance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 08:03 AM |
| 7 | CMV: A lot of women have low standards, men purposely go for the small percentage of women who have high standards.No not really. I always went for women that seemed to of been (at least in my opinion) inexperienced, or ones that are "nextdoor" type that might not get tons of attention. I can't compete with men a foot taller and 30 pounds heavier in muscle than I. It's just out of my league. So I never went for the prettiest, even though in the end I lucked out and got an extremely beautiful one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 07:59 AM |
| 1 | WGTOW - why do some men resent this?I really don't care, unless they complain. Doesn't seem like anyone is enjoying their time then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 07:57 AM |
| 1 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.It is related. If a woman is a viegin, it's fairly obvious because SHE BLEEDS DURING HER FIRST TIME BECAUSE YOU POPPED THE CHERRY XD And again, this "female mating strategy" shit is just men overthinking things. She literally just didn't do things because she didn't want to. That's about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 06:23 PM |
| 2 | The number of men not having sex within the past year tripled between 2008 and 2018. Why is that?You can no longer make women your property is the biggest thing I'd assume. in most relationship both people work, so no need for a provider of finances don't need to get married to be socially accepted in most western places don't need kids (social stigma) higher female education | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 11:48 AM |
| 1 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.Learn female biology | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 11:46 AM |
| 1 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.Bro you have some deep seeded insecurities if you can't trust what your partners tell you. That or you had veeeery untrustworthy partners... Also you can tell if someone is a virgin forehead | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/21 10:34 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] What is the biggest assumption you had about the opposite gender that was proven wrong by experience?I mean... Bro. From my experience, there is like a good chunk of girls that just didn't get approached. No dm's, no random street pick up's, not even in a club (if we excluded 50 yo drunk dude's) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Dating is like getting a job. You need a job to gain experience, but you need experience to get a job. You need a relationship to gain experience, but you need experience to get a relationship.You have to experience it. Trust me, it isn't the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 05:48 PM |
| 2 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.My girl dates around, only about 4-5 guys to be exact, but she was a virgin... Like... Not all women give in lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 05:48 PM |
| 0 | Dating is like getting a job. You need a job to gain experience, but you need experience to get a job. You need a relationship to gain experience, but you need experience to get a relationship.Not true at all. Hot guys may get the leg in quick, but keeping a long term relationship takes sooooooo much more than looks. Take it from a 200+ pound dude .... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 12:13 PM |
| 2 | Dating is like getting a job. You need a job to gain experience, but you need experience to get a job. You need a relationship to gain experience, but you need experience to get a relationship.What..? That makes 0 sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 12:12 PM |
| 2 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.What if she makes all guys wait for sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 12:12 PM |
| 1 | Dating is like getting a job. You need a job to gain experience, but you need experience to get a job. You need a relationship to gain experience, but you need experience to get a relationship.No, noone has asked you, but it shows if you can deal with women or not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 12:12 PM |
| 1 | Dating is like getting a job. You need a job to gain experience, but you need experience to get a job. You need a relationship to gain experience, but you need experience to get a relationship.It isn't enough. That's a fantasy, and the reason why most men are clueless about women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 12:11 PM |
| 1 | Dating is like getting a job. You need a job to gain experience, but you need experience to get a job. You need a relationship to gain experience, but you need experience to get a relationship.Meh. Having a partner is incomparable to selflove. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 12:10 PM |
| 0 | Dating is like getting a job. You need a job to gain experience, but you need experience to get a job. You need a relationship to gain experience, but you need experience to get a relationship.That's fine. Obviously. You won't meet a match in the overwhelming amount of dates you have | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 12:10 PM |
| 3 | Dating is like getting a job. You need a job to gain experience, but you need experience to get a job. You need a relationship to gain experience, but you need experience to get a relationship.Not at all. I always despised the idea of "losing money" while you're in a relationship. You do realize that if you love the person, all the money "spent" is irrelevant. It's just an investment for a good time. A happy partner. There's a huge difference of losing money to designer shit on a random thot, and buying your loving partner little gifts that make them happy, or take them on trips, dinners, lucnhes, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 12:08 PM |
| 0 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.Now go cry to miss degree about my insult | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 05:34 PM |
| 2 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.No it just implies that you’re even less than her or see yourself as beneath her since you’re purely operating out of her frame. Wrong. That would be true if I waited for her to allow me to fuck her for 3 months. I wasn't waiting out of fear of her glory. I was waiting because she wasn't ready to have sex, since she's more conservative about the actual PIV. Not anymore, obviously, but she was in thr beginning. I bet if I met your wife we would have been fucking in less than a month. Guaranteed. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 05:34 PM |
| 2 | Are women (maybe men as well?) more open sexually with a partner they are attracted to physically?Bruh ofcourse. If your hormones are rushing because you're super attracted to the person, you'll do almost anything that doesn't hurt at the moment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 05:19 PM |
| 4 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.Bruh just because a girl is sexually conservative in the start of s relationship, has nothing to do with her position in a relationship. If anything wouldn't that make her even less alpha in every way possible? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 05:18 PM |
| 2 | "There is a difference between what women say they want and what actually works"Women have to hold their appearances at all times. Even my wife would say that type of stuff. "Just be nice" No. You can't charm with "nice". You have to catch her off guard, at the precise time she's feeling down to date someone, and yiu have to make an impact and be unique in her eyes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 05:17 PM |
| 1 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.I didn't say you have to wait 3 months. I said about 2-3 months should be ok. Half a year is ridiculous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 05:13 PM |
| 1 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.Wasting their safe control? Idk what you mean | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 05:12 PM |
| 1 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.Atheists | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 05:11 PM |
| 1 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.24 24 Still married, this year No income, then low income (me) No income, college, earns the same as I do now (her) Never lived there 0 / 0 partners | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 02:33 PM |
| 1 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.Ofcourse not, that's super disrespectful??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 11:10 AM |
| 2 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.Why? That's extremely hurtful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 11:10 AM |
| 1 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.It's not weaponizing to hold out on sex because you're not ready. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 11:09 AM |
| 3 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.Super insecure... Jesus | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 11:08 AM |
| 1 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.20 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 10:53 AM |
| 6 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.You can make a joke out of it, but if you don't want a hoe, don't expect sex on the first date :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 10:53 AM |
| 1 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.How tf did she play me, dog we're married xdddd | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 10:51 AM |
| 2 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.You're a dumbass | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 10:50 AM |
| 2 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.I'm married to a woman forehead | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 10:49 AM |
| 1 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.Well yea. If you're not enjoying your time, don't be there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 10:42 AM |
| 2 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.She was | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 10:41 AM |
| 2 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.Man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 10:40 AM |
| 1 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.I'm not a free meal guy. I can tell if we match on the first date, because my dates usually lasted for hours. If we're clearly not a match, I stop dating that person. Very simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 10:35 AM |
| 1 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.I mean xd Just a name | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 10:34 AM |
| 1 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.No. Waiting till' marriage, and waiting a couple months for a person to vet if u want a lay or a relationship, is very different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 10:34 AM |
| 5 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.Well yea. We did oral and stuff, bur maybe a month after we got into a relationship. Commitment before sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 10:33 AM |
| 5 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.a) Having a FWB relationship with someone just means you wanted sex at that period of your life, and no serious commitment. It shouldn't reflect what you want maybe months or years down the line b) If she slept with others on the first date, but didn't commit or have a good relationship with them anyway, then why should that matter? They had a strong sexual connection that faded. If she sleeps with everyone on the first date but you, then that's a red flag. But if she just wanted to wait this ti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 10:33 AM |
| 6 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.Yea I mean we can do something, but if she's clearly distant and doesn't want ANYTHING, she's not interested. But if she wants to and is doing other stuff with you, other than PIV, then just wait | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 10:31 AM |
| 1 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.Nah, real one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 10:29 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: what is your personal happiness level, and why has there been a decline in male happiness?It's a solid 7. Bout to be 8 when I move. 10 is perfection, which I believe is impossible. 9 is almost perfect, and 8 is where I'll be soon :) I got engaged, moving out, solid job with higher pay than all my peers, low stress job, getting my fitness up, collecting figurines, writing a book, etc. Idk how it is for other dude's. From what I see it's a 5. Mostly neutral. Always building. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 06:50 PM |
| 3 | [Q4All] What is the biggest assumption you had about the opposite gender that was proven wrong by experience?There are so many women that just never got approached, or got approached SO RARELY, even into their early 20's. It's actually insane. I thought ALL women had options, turns out a good 20% literally almost never or never got approached. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 06:33 PM |
| 3 | How would you sum up the message of Red Pill in one sentence?Maximize your fitness, income and status, in the false hope of getting laid, instead of properly working on yourself as a person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that waiting to have sex is the better approach compared to having sex too early?Don't need evidence to prove something obvious to a reddit debate lord | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 07:28 PM |
| 2 | Is it true that waiting to have sex is the better approach compared to having sex too early?Idc bro, we all know this except you apparently xd | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 05:47 PM |
| 2 | Is it true that waiting to have sex is the better approach compared to having sex too early?Irrelevant. Most men that push for sex on the first date are the type to be very loose with their sexual endeavours. Sorry. But most men suck and just want sex, nothing more. Few like me actually care and don't do those types of things. Literally all women I know can confirm that is true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Is failure unattractive for men?That sucks. No offense, I just don't get how people end up like that if they try. I lived such an underprivileged life... Even I didn't end up bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Is failure unattractive for men?Yea that's insufficient in the eyes of most women. I skyrocketed in popularity among former classmates now that I have a good job and fat paycheck. Most of my classmates? Women. No wonder. To them it's impressive when you succeed and they look at you more fondly. Rightfully so, you're showing off traits of a good long term partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 01:40 PM |
| 2 | Is it true that waiting to have sex is the better approach compared to having sex too early?It does for most men and women can't risk it if they want a serious partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 07:23 AM |
| 2 | Is failure unattractive for men?Kind of. Depends on what you failed at. failed to get a job consistently can't get into college despite trying can't get women That's very unattractive to women. Smaller failures that don't effect life too much are neglected. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 06:17 AM |
| 1 | Q4BP: Is cuckolding a good thing?I would probably roblox myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/21 10:31 PM |
| 1 | FDS really isn't that badNah most rp shit devolves into maximizing personal pleasure while ignoring the other person's pleasure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/21 10:18 PM |
| 10 | FDS really isn't that badPeople comparing this to red pill for men, as if red pill is a good thing. Toxic masculinity isn't good for men. It makes men men, a.k.a. it makes them assholes that only care about sex. FDS makes women stuck up, too self absorbed, and leaves them unsatisfied and with an ego too heavy to bare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/21 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Whenever men say "I have reasonable standards" it likely means they have little or no relationship experience.I'm a laboratory technician and test people for 12 hours a day, forgive me... Jesus. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/21 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Most people here overcomplicate the act of finding a relationship, and overlook these simple steps in favor of a distorted view of how dating works.No. Bro All my homies got girls way above them regarding looks, and definitely equal in other areas. Don't bs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/21 07:03 PM |
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