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Those are some good points. Do you have any recommendations for improving the approach or finding talking points? What kind of approaches have been most successful for you?
/r/seduction25/10/22 07:24 PM
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I've approached quite a few women and I've chickened out more than that. What I said is my experience when I did find the courage to approach
/r/seduction25/10/22 07:22 PM
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I'm not debating. I listed some issues I'm running into. If you have a different experience, you could share or just be argumentative but only one of those is helpful to a discussion
/r/seduction25/10/22 07:19 PM
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Yes, the implication :D
/r/seduction25/10/22 06:31 PM
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I never said impossible, so you're misquoting me. I'm aware that plenty of guys do it. My statement reflects my own experience / doubts / insecurity. You're welcome to provide your experience or advice but so far you haven't
/r/seduction25/10/22 06:30 PM
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Can you please elaborate a bit on how you do that? Asking as a clueless guy. Most women are in sitting with their friends groups on separate tables. How does it work?
/r/seduction25/10/22 06:26 PM
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You provide a very well reasoned argument and solution to the logistical problems I laid out
/r/seduction25/10/22 03:27 PM
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That's true. You're right about the low success rate but I'm trying to feel out the best places. Also, I don't understand how anyone approaches at bars
/r/seduction25/10/22 03:26 PM
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You provide a very well reasoned argument and solution to the logistical problems I laid out
/r/seduction25/10/22 03:24 PM
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You're right. I added that in. Tourist places could be good but you won't get anything long term out of them if that's what you're looking for
/r/seduction25/10/22 02:40 PM
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Because some people inevitably say that he must be tall and jacked. I'm dumbfounded by the "just talking for 15 minutes" bit and not because of solely a looks thing. If you read it multiple times yuen you must have noticed that it's part of the main statement. The tall bit it a clarifying statement
/r/seduction23/10/22 05:06 PM
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It's like you guys just get blindly triggered by the tall and jacked but and didn't read the post at all
/r/seduction23/10/22 04:57 PM
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Read my edit on the top post again
/r/seduction23/10/22 04:55 PM
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I'm gonna
/r/seduction23/10/22 04:27 PM
4

I get why you are frustrated but focus on why they are able to do that and what you need to work on to get on that same level. Stop comparing yourself so much to your friends.
/r/seduction23/10/22 04:08 PM
1

Which I never said
/r/seduction23/10/22 04:07 PM
1

Ignore that. I want to be the guy who has the social skills tip be able to do that
/r/seduction23/10/22 04:05 PM
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You're missing the point
/r/seduction23/10/22 04:04 PM
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She wasn't big though
/r/seduction23/10/22 03:04 PM
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How ? How do I know what I'm doing is unattractive. How do I know what I'm doing is attractive. There's too many variables and no Undo button
/r/seduction23/10/22 02:00 PM
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Are you seriously denying that being tall or muscular is not attractive to girls? I'm agree that it's social skills that get you the girl but it helps to be other things too. Being tall and jacked doesn't give you social skills
/r/seduction23/10/22 01:54 PM
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No, I know that now. But let's be honest, being tall, jacked and attractive is a huge advantage so I was clarifying that the guy wasn't any of those things I know that if you're charming, you can pull regardless
/r/seduction23/10/22 01:14 PM
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All good points as usual. The only thing I'll disagree with is sure, being jacked or tall isn't a social skill but it does make women physically attracted to you and I've seen the difference between how women interact with someone whom they are physically attracted to vs someone with whom they aren't. But I agree that you can do magic with social skills alone I'll be honest. As a guy in his 30s, realizing that a lot of success in life and relationships comes from charming and making friends with…
/r/seduction23/10/22 01:10 PM
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I appreciate it. I did read Models but I need to implement it more
/r/seduction22/10/22 11:05 PM
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I might not be a flirt or sexually attractive but I'm definitely not a bore :)
/r/seduction22/10/22 10:36 PM
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Yeah, I should've offered her a place to stay. Maybe next time
/r/seduction22/10/22 10:12 PM
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Yeah, I know. It's just a counterpoint to people here saying bars are the only acceptable place to meet women
/r/seduction17/10/22 07:08 PM
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The continued normalization if drinking culture is sickening. Also, you do realize that a lot of women say that they go to bars to hang out and not be hit upon by men
/r/seduction17/10/22 04:48 PM
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I don't think it means anything. I look at celebrities and say they aren't pretty. But it would be a different tune, of anyone remotely as pretty was available to date
/r/seduction07/05/22 11:57 PM
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Great advice as always u/recyclablebanthas. I will try to remember it and put it in practice
/r/seduction26/04/22 07:48 AM
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She did express an interest in it. But I think I just went overboard
/r/seduction24/04/22 08:20 PM
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All good advice and in theory I knew some of this but it's really hard to put all of this in practice. And yes, I wasn't aware enough of my surroundings to notice she was getting trapped against the wall. Will have to be more aware next time. I think the biggest problem I have is a fear of silence and not knowing what to say next. I either ditch and run if I anticipate an awkward silence or I try to compensate by rapid firing questions. And sometimes I'm just searching for things to say and just…
/r/seduction24/04/22 02:08 PM
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The reality of being attractive enough that women come up and talk to you
/r/seduction05/04/22 06:11 AM
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It's almost like you guys live in a completely different reality
/r/seduction04/04/22 10:19 PM
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Yeah but if both of them said the same thing, then you definitely know you have that problem. You could underdo it once and over do it the other time.
/r/seduction04/04/22 10:16 PM
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I probably should update my instagram 😂
/r/seduction02/04/22 06:49 PM
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He has a point though. The invention and adoption of certain things shifts the paradigm irreversibly. There are a few things that are expected nowadays, and if you don't have that the majority of people might treat you differently or seeing it as a red flag It's like saying one doesn't use a phone or has a TV. Obviously, it's not strictly necessary to have one but women have a sea of options nowadays and every negative point counts against you
/r/seduction02/04/22 06:35 PM
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Not the same though. Height is like race, highly visible and one can't change it. Fat people can almost always get fit
/r/seduction10/02/22 10:45 PM
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No worries man. I'm glad it worked out for you. You too. PS: what worked for you? Adderall , Ritalin or something else?
/r/seduction06/02/22 01:32 PM
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I did once. It didn't work but I'm thinking i'll give it another go
/r/seduction06/02/22 01:13 PM
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Por que los no dos?
/r/seduction06/02/22 07:43 AM
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Dude, you're killing it
/r/seduction06/02/22 07:43 AM
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And I'm saying those are not my spots and not my people. You're clearly tone deaf. I don't think someone who has trouble " connecting with people, making friends and being social " is in a position to judge different approaches. I have ADD too, but I'm doing something about it
/r/seduction06/02/22 07:39 AM
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Exactly. As long as you're respectful, take your leave if they seem like they don't want to talk, then it's not creepy. Besides, No matter what you do, you will come off as creepy or awkward to some people. But you need that experience to learn social skills and confidence These people will gatekeep talking to someone cause everything is creepy to them. These people have had the privilege of having organic social groups in the places they grew up in and don't realize how hard it is to build one …
/r/seduction05/02/22 03:02 PM
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Not the best place I will give you that but you know what opinions are like. To gatekeep meeting people by people like you is a big issue and I think you would rather that people not talk to or look at anyone anywhere. I don't drink, so bars and clubs are out. And festivals are another location to go out and get drunk. I think what's disgusting is this promotion of alcoholic culture by people like you. And saying that dating apps are one of the few socially acceptable ways to find new people is …
/r/seduction05/02/22 02:50 PM
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Alright, thanks. I think I came up with something creative and funny
/r/seduction05/02/22 08:16 AM
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I'm looking for ideas cause I'm coming up blank. There is nothing remarkable. If there was a I wouldn't be asking. Also not giving up on some random persons comment. I'll take what is helpful and ignore the rest
/r/seduction05/02/22 01:49 AM
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Not just the mouth . It's winter, they are basically covered from head to toe in non remarkable black / gray winter jackets. Its more for myself than them. I need a valid reason in my head to approach women
/r/seduction05/02/22 01:30 AM
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Almost everyone has one on nowadays
/r/seduction05/02/22 12:18 AM
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Could you give me some examples of what you say?
/r/seduction05/02/22 12:17 AM
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Even if I didn't have mine on. Other women have theirs on
/r/seduction05/02/22 12:08 AM
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How does a successful interaction go? What do you say next?
/r/seduction05/02/22 12:07 AM
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Nah, I'm not talking about getting piss drunk. I'd never get to that scenario. I'm talking about just a glass or two of something light, say wine Plus, I've previously had beer, etc for friends, even though I don't drink
/r/seduction22/01/22 06:26 AM
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Nah, this is something that you can do only if you follow rules 1 and 2
/r/seduction22/01/22 05:53 AM
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That's true for women, not men. Guys have to make it happen. Passive dating won't work for men
/r/seduction21/11/21 12:13 PM
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Sorry bro but sometimes they lose attraction after a kiss. I guess they try for a kiss, if they don't feel it. It's off. Probably not your fault. I've had this happen to me, we went on two dates, she came to my place we played some games and I tried to kiss her. She kissed back but after a few minutes she said it wasn't working for her and just left 🤷
/r/seduction24/05/21 06:56 AM
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That's my point. Isn't a first date basically a friendly interaction? How can one even expect an intense romantic connection in a couple of hours? Peele seem to expect fairy tales. Or maybe I'm just not attractive enough
/r/seduction04/05/21 08:16 PM
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Welp, I don't know how to flirt? Any good videos on how to flirt?
/r/seduction02/05/21 04:42 PM
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Second this. It's extremely difficult. The only meetups I've seen younger people in is bars and trivia
/r/seduction02/05/21 02:31 PM
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True, of course. Some people have it easier naturally than most. My point is a blanket statement that looks at all natural and people don't have to put in effort for it is outright wrong
/r/seduction02/04/21 02:21 AM
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Compliment something they did? You mean like intense workouts, diet, cardio and skincare routines it takes to look beautiful?
/r/seduction30/03/21 10:03 PM
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Welcome to Reddit
/r/seduction30/03/21 10:01 PM
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Newsflash lady. A lot of what women perceive as 'random luck' or 'it was meant to happen' was planned out meticulously by guys. Even that random chance encounter, might not have been random at all.
/r/seduction30/03/21 07:16 PM
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I agree, I've been saying that a lot. Everyone calls me smart, what did I do to earn that? I wish someone would call me good looking once. It's just genetics. Otoh, staying beautiful and fit takes a ton of effort. I find it hypocritical that demonizing one is acceptable but the other is completely okay.
/r/seduction30/03/21 07:12 PM
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Not that I disagree but you're completely ignoring how much effort it takes to stay fit and beautiful looking. Intensive workout, sacrificing delicious food, planning and following diets, skincare, etc Good looks takes maintainance, more so, the older you get
/r/seduction30/03/21 07:09 PM
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I mean the second thing that comes out of my mouth after saying Hi. I don't know what I should say. I don't want to give physical compliments, plus everyone is wearing a mask anyway. And I don't want to ask something too personal Saying andom stuff might be good when they are drunk in a club but on the street it'll just look crazy
/r/seduction22/10/20 10:59 PM
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Why even match then? She wasn't even expecting a reply cause she unmatched before I could
/r/seduction20/10/20 08:10 PM
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I'm thinking of getting dessert and having it in my room, for plausible deniability :)
/r/seduction15/10/20 09:45 PM
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Of course, you state the obvious no approach sign, what about the other women?
/r/seduction13/02/20 09:17 PM
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If that's the case, then I'm fucked cold approaching too right? Why would IRL be any different? Unless it's a social group where the girl actually got top know me
/r/seduction31/01/20 12:23 AM
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Nope, lol
/r/seduction30/01/20 11:53 PM
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Average, not muscular , 5'7". Generally swipe right on every one. Looks wise, maybe 5 Strike is relaxed casual, , slightly nerdy but most of my photos don't come off as that. In my photos, I'm adventurous, riding motorcycles
/r/seduction30/01/20 05:03 AM
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Nope, how do I do that? I don't understand how you match with women if you don't even use a pic
/r/seduction30/01/20 01:20 AM
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(Almost) all
/r/seduction16/11/19 12:50 PM
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I don't think that's applicable anymore. Reliable Birth control has been available for decades. Women have been having casual sex for years. So I don't think that's even an argument anymore. Maybe it's psychologically hardcoded but not practically. In fact, I'd go as far as to say, that with abortion options under the woman's control it's more risky for men to have sex and have an unwanted pregnancy
/r/seduction16/11/19 12:49 PM
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That's really helpful. I've tried doing it a couple of times with girls who are walking on the street or grocery shopping but I chicken out because I cant think of anything to say besides Hi. If there isn't anything about them that stands out then what do I say? Asking personal questions would be creepy, asking questions on what they are doing would be stupid. Do I say, you're cute, so I wanted to talk to you? Do you have a conversational script that you follow?
/r/seduction29/06/19 06:32 PM
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Do you have any tutorials on non verbal and body language skills?
/r/seduction28/06/19 10:37 PM
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So you're saying you just stop a girl who's walking by you? I'll often see a girl coming towards me, I'll look at her and smile and they'll ignore it or not look at me. I've read the success rate increases if they are initially receptive so generally, I'll let her go. I tried approaching in stores but they'd rush away. I don't think I'm attractive enough for cold approach What's your success rate like as in ratio of approaches to actually getting a reply back and a few dates?
/r/seduction27/06/19 09:04 PM
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That's good info. So you're saying you just stop a girl who's walking by you? I'll often see a girl coming towards me, I'll look at her and smile and they'll ignore it or not look at me. I've read the success rate increases if they are initially receptive so generally, I'll let her go. I tried approaching in stores but they'd rush away. I don't think I'm attractive enough for cold approach What's your success rate like as in ratio of approaches to actually getting a reply back and a few dates?
/r/seduction27/06/19 08:54 PM
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That didn't really answer my question
/r/seduction27/06/19 06:26 PM
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So Tinder sucks, can you tell me a bit more about your experience approaching women IRL? And where do you do it?
/r/seduction27/06/19 04:12 PM
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So Tinder sucks, can you tell me a bit more about your experience approaching women IRL? And where do you do it?
/r/seduction27/06/19 04:11 PM
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Yeah, but then what you said above applies there too. Girls in libraries are there to read or buy books , not get hit on. Girls playing sports are again there to play and not get hit on. At a gym, they are there to workout and not get hit on and so on. If we go with your advice, there's literally no place to talk to random women unless they invite you into a social activity
/r/seduction29/05/19 10:50 PM
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What if I don't drink so have no reason to hang around bars. And the girl I'm looking for has other hobbies than going to bars
/r/seduction29/05/19 12:48 PM
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Lol, most girls turn away their face when they notice I'm looking at them
/r/seduction01/05/19 02:21 AM
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What if you never get any looks or touches. No one ever comes up to you to talk. Women glance in your direction and then keep moving. Do you still approach someone who hasn't shown any signs of being interested in you?
/r/seduction08/10/18 11:40 PM
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So, as someone who has trouble carrying on conversations, this is what usually happens I'll usually position myself that they come near me instead of approaching directly. Then I'll comment on something related to the immediate environment, usually something funny Then either she will reply and keep on walking or engage in conversation for a couple of minutes. I don't usually get a lot of questions from her so the conversation just dies down in a few minutes. The only time I can actually have a …
/r/seduction21/09/18 11:39 PM
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Thanks for the advice. What are some subtle signs that will make you eject from the situation? I mean stuff subtler than being rude or being told to go away. What are some of your openers when you can't think of a situational opener? Do you always ask for a number even if you don't think she's interested? How do you transition from regular conversation to asking her out or for a number? How would you approach someone who is sitting at a coffee shop? Thanks again
/r/seduction19/09/18 11:53 PM
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So, I have a similar problem. I'm not good with conversation and don't have a wide social circle. I don't go to bars and clubs either. So where do you approach? Do you just walk upto random strangers walking on the street? And say what? Do you just say, "you're cute, may I have your number?" What if they don't seem into you?
/r/seduction19/09/18 09:58 PM
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I'm not hung up or anything. It's fine really. She blocked me in Tinder so no follow up but that's fine. Yeah, it's irritating that instead of people stating their intentions straightaway, have to play these stupid games. I just came here to see if I could learn something from this interaction but the reality is that you learn fuck all ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
/r/seduction12/07/18 05:45 PM
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Good analysis all around. I'm closer to her age but not with a lot of experience. She was also occasionally texting someone regarding her whereabouts, probably a friend. My guess is that she was looking for a relationship, but dangled the sex carrot to see if I'd go for it. I tried to go for it and she disqualified me as only looking for sex. I'm guess she must have also discussed it with her friends later who probably told her the same. Women are weird, my takeaway from all this is always do th…
/r/seduction12/07/18 03:40 PM
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All excellent feedback. Thank you for the detailed write-up. This was new ground for me and even though I failed, it was a learning opportunity. Quick question: this is about a debate with a friend: Girl sitting at a bar looks at you a couple of times. Is it best to A. Offer her a drink right off the bat? B. Say hi, talk to her and take it from there Also what would be your approach?
/r/seduction11/11/17 06:37 AM
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And I agree. But it's difficult to know beforehand what that's why I'm asking the most common strategy that most people use
/r/seduction10/11/17 09:21 PM
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Damn this is so confusing. Even the mod is saying not to actually say it
/r/seduction10/11/17 08:56 PM
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Just using the language to clarify what I mean What is connecting? How do I judge that I have it. Isn't it difficult to feel connected to someone in just one meeting? Most disinterested women never reply to the initial text of doing something together, that's why I assumed she was interested. But that's what I did, physical escalation, but in point 3 you said she just tolerated the escalation. I was looking for signs of her pulling back, which she didn't. That's why I asked her back to my place.…
/r/seduction10/11/17 07:51 PM
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Nope. The advice everywhere is to just ask the person for coffee or drinks or any other activity.
/r/seduction10/11/17 07:30 PM
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Wow, talk about being specific :) Appreciated !! Why Monday, Wednesday Friday at 7:30 though? Most people shopping after gym?
/r/seduction26/10/17 05:17 PM
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Yeah, that's what I intend to do. That's why I'm looking for places and things I enjoy so I can find like minded women, make it natural, enjoyable and not feel like I'm wasting my time Thank you for your advice
/r/seduction25/10/17 10:12 PM
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Yeah, I've been trying to inculcate that mindset. But it's hard since even though I can talk to random people, carrying on a conversation is difficult without the pause getting awkward. Also, I'd rather not talk to anyone and just go home but I have to pretend that I like talking to people
/r/seduction25/10/17 10:01 PM
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I'm surprised to hear that. The recent best of thread where a woman likened random approaches by men as inducing the same hatred as a homeless person asking for money made me think that most women don't appreciate being approached randomly in non public places , except maybe by super attractive guys. Assuming that you don't give any approach signals, what would be a good way to approach you and start a conversation as a regular guy?
/r/seduction25/10/17 09:58 PM
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I'm in the US but sadly I'm done with University. There's a University near me but I don't know how to break into the student circle. I still can't imagine how people stop women going about on the street and get numbers. I guess cause they're attractive
/r/seduction25/10/17 08:48 PM
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Yes. This cliche is getting annoying
/r/seduction25/10/17 08:44 PM
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Biggest issue with that is stereotypically geeks aren't social. They either hang out alone at home or in close groups so it's difficult to get like minded people out. I know cause I have to force myself to go out and socialize. There's a restaurant cum hangout spot nearby that catered to geeky interests but is shutting down soon and it opened only a few months ago
/r/seduction25/10/17 05:22 PM
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Welp!! I've personally seen all the fuck off signals but never any approach signals. Sigh
/r/seduction24/10/17 08:57 PM
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Yes, that's the one. Thank you. Though the one I see didn't have all this commentary
/r/MensRights20/09/17 07:22 AM
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Thanks for searching but no that's not the one. The video I'm talking about was of a government committee where one woman was presenting her research to a politician saying that violence against women or DV was the cause of something. The politician deconstructed her argument and made it apparent that she wasn't familiar with her own research and was misrepresenting the cause
/r/MensRights19/09/17 09:54 PM
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Good point
/r/seduction25/07/17 03:00 AM
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Yeah but how do you give a good vibe? You either: talk about random shit which is boring tell her that she is cute, which is often said to be counter productive. Only thing that might work is a funny comment about your surroundings or complimenting something she's wearing
/r/seduction25/07/17 02:56 AM
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Excellent suggestion
/r/seduction24/07/17 10:50 PM
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So, I can do buses and anywhere where people are waiting but I still can't seem to wrap my head around the logistics of interrupting if they are busy Don't they get annoyed of you just stop them from wherever they were going? Like you literally stop a woman coming towards you or catch up to someone walking in the same direction? You can't have really long conversations on the street so you just have a short conversation and all for their number? I have a feeling this would only work if you're fa…
/r/seduction24/07/17 10:31 PM
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Already have one :) Only thing it attracts is dudes
/r/seduction28/03/17 08:48 PM
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I feel you man. Sometimes it sucks that I have to do all the approaching. There are a million things that can go wrong at any stage and you have start back from square one with every girl. I wonder how other people do it and whether it's even worth investing so much time in
/r/seduction25/03/17 03:25 PM
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I think you'd seem like a creep, also the possibility of her being underage is too high. Might as well wait for them to come out of the complex.
/r/seduction25/03/17 03:21 PM
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So when doing this in real life, does the girl actually stop wherever she was going to continue the conversation?
/r/seduction21/03/17 06:26 PM
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As I said, it's a play on a chemistry term. I'm a newbie but not a troll. Now quit bitching
/r/seduction21/03/17 05:12 AM
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Lol, no it's a play on a chemistry term
/r/seduction21/03/17 01:55 AM
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What makes you say I'm a troll ?
/r/seduction20/03/17 11:07 PM
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Still, when I get a car, I'd get it just for groceries, dates and hauling motorcycles and nothing else.
/r/seduction20/03/17 09:25 PM
3

Ha ha, true. I have a motorcycle and contrary to the popularly held belief, the motorcycle only attracts dudes
/r/seduction20/03/17 09:24 PM
2

Good observation. Sometimes TRP is self confirming, a lot of these rules might be true because we look for these women
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 02:33 PM
3

Why is it so hard to believe. It's still the honeymoon period, not like we were a 20 year old married couple
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 05:45 AM
7

It's all water under the bridge now though
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 08:06 PM
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No, I'm not going by her word, reading TRP had made me paranoid. I researched, verified and corroborated, trust me
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 07:46 PM
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But being promiscuous and bring a cheat are two different things. She was promiscuous outside a relationship but while in one, she was monogamous. Though not saying she couldn't have cheated ever
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 07:45 PM
3

Yeah, a 50% divorce rate is horrible odds
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 07:25 PM
2

Not all traditional countries are third world
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 07:04 PM
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Booty_boy, Thank you. I've been reading Red Pill even before I got into a relationship, so I was extra suspicious and trust me, she didn't cheat. It probably made me too paranoid, lol.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 05:18 PM
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Good to hear the other side too
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 05:13 PM
3

Logically I know that I dodged a bullet but I'll never know for sure. That's why I asked for the experience of others
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 02:18 PM
14

Good on you for getting out man
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 01:37 PM
17

Guys, you are projecting. None of that happened in my case
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 01:36 PM
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Let's just say I'm good with computers
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 01:35 PM
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She didn't have any orbiters though.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 01:33 PM
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I realize that but the beta me forgot the old adage, Never wife a slut. I am not claiming that I'm am alpha now but at least I'm less of a chump
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 07:36 AM
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If you really want to get married, Why not go out of the system, bring a girl from raised in a country which still has traditional values ?
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 07:23 AM
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Yep, I'll report back. But since you guys have warned me, I'm just gonna keep it friendly for now. Try to expand my social net.
/r/seduction10/03/17 07:26 PM
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I still don't get it though. Will a Co worker whom I've spoken to before, will report me just for messaging her and asking to join me for a coffee? Ok, how about if it's purely platonic, expanding the network ?
/r/seduction10/03/17 03:16 PM
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Unless it's a sexual harassment claim which is unlikely, what's the problem, especially if they are not in your team or floor, you wouldn't even see them if things go south?
/r/seduction09/03/17 09:04 PM
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Yeah, sure buddy. Run along now. Good try at a low blow , again, rejected.
/r/seduction03/03/17 11:35 PM
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You're attributing things I never said, I never said that I couldn't come up with anything to talk about. She was reading a book, which I was curious about, could have talked to her about that. "People talk to cute girls all the time " - so you agree that this is something people normally do. Anyway, if you are gonna go with the same argument, it's useless, I've already rejected it
/r/seduction03/03/17 07:49 PM
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Dude, how do I take into account how she feels without talking to her. "Barging into her life " ? , you're making it way too dramatic. I'm talking about saying Hi to someone, not kidnapping them and forcing them to marry me
/r/seduction03/03/17 04:33 PM
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Yeah right. If I just keep staring at her, I'll be able to divine all her likes and dislikes, isn't it? I'm not a super good looking guy, so I don't get many girls flirting with me. I should just go back home and keep playing video games and not bother anyone at all. Point noted
/r/seduction02/03/17 04:48 PM
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You're right. Most guys fear rejection but more so humiliation. But unless someone is really creepy, I've never seen a girl rebuff someone in a publicly humiliating manner. I'm sure it happens sometimes but it's not common. It's interesting to see that women will advise against being too forward, taking the lead in physical contact and in favor of asking for permission before touching but in real life when I've actually started ignoring all those and did the opposite it worked surprisingly. Just…
/r/seduction02/03/17 04:42 PM
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Reading the other comments and now that I think about it I'd disagree. Sure, don't be a creep if she's actually not interested but initiating a conversation isn't so bad. Casual conversation - sure Forcing myself and sticking around even when she's not interested - bad I know girls get hit on a lot and it's tiring but that's how the world works.
/r/seduction02/03/17 03:41 AM
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Yeah. Are girls usually cool with it?
/r/seduction01/03/17 11:28 PM
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Yeah, I tried to escalate. Massages, touching her breasts but she wouldn't let me kiss her.
/r/seduction27/02/17 10:15 PM
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How is daygaming working out for you? What about other approaches like bars? Somehow I feel like I suck at clubs. Dancing is not my strong point and I hate ear busting loud music. Add to that, I don't drink alcohol so I'm just the wierd one out there.
/r/seduction26/02/17 06:56 AM
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Yeah, you're right. I'm an introvert and is exhausting to go out and talk to people. Feels like such a waste of time when Is rather be doing solo activities. However it becomes necessary to find someone. What do you mean by, having a quick 10 minute coffee date? How does one pull that off, I can't believe someone on their way somewhere or say shopping at a supermarket would drop what they are doing and go for coffee with you, even if the coffee shop is nearby Does that really happen? And how?
/r/seduction24/02/17 08:24 PM
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Makes sense
/r/seduction15/02/17 09:01 PM
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Damn, wish I was that smooth One thing though, it's usually said that you shouldn't hit on women at their place of work, etc etc. But then, one doesn't win by just following rules
/r/seduction15/02/17 07:47 PM
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Oh and since a lot of working women are married. Do you tell them apart by the ring on their fingers or just hit them up regardless?
/r/seduction15/02/17 07:20 PM
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So, when you say hitting on the bartender or flirting with a girl, is it with the intention of asking her out our taking her number or do you often don't take it forward? I know the answer probably depends on the response of the girl but what's your take on it?
/r/seduction15/02/17 07:16 PM
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Good tip. I'll try to remember and do that next time
/r/seduction15/02/17 06:15 PM
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Yeah, I think I need to work on my flirting and eye contact. I usually have trouble maintaining eye contact, it feels awkward to keep looking at someone
/r/seduction15/02/17 04:38 PM
1

Just thinking about what you said. If you stop a girl randomly, how do you convey personality within that short time period ?
/r/seduction09/02/17 04:41 PM
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What do you mean by game should never be not happening? Barring co workers and service personnel, that only leads to stopping random girls on the street to chat with them
/r/seduction05/02/17 07:35 AM
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I got berated in another thread for asking if it was okay to stop girls on the streets or approach them randomly for chatting with them
/r/seduction05/02/17 07:33 AM
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Not looking for anything specific, just unsure of the unspoken social standards
/r/seduction02/02/17 09:42 PM
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OP, where do you approach girls? Only bars and clubs?
/r/seduction02/02/17 09:10 PM
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