Frequently ghosted after dates. What should I do to improve my success rate

Therocksays2020 · 2021-05-02T15:50:46+00:00

If you’re not sure you are flirting you probably aren’t flirting.

I bet you’re probably giving off platonic vibes. Huge turn off.

I don’t always kiss the first date but I do initiate some touching. If it goes great I go for the kiss but sometimes the person isn’t necessarily feeling it.

Google-Kahn · 2021-05-02T21:43:52+00:00

Here is a realistic answer: Get a guy who's experienced to sit in next to your date an listen in (preferably someone in pickup who gets good results consistently). Through a post online, there's just SO many unknowns about you, an answer might be totally mis-calibrated for your specific situation.

You may be doing some weird shit that would be obvious to an outside eye seeing you live, but that we can't grasp without knowing you and seeing you socialise in real-time.

It may be that you're just a little platonic, but it may also be 100 others things.

If you can't get an advanced guy to listen in and willing to sit next to you while you're on the date, then record your date as a second option and have someone break it down.

It's not worth getting small snippets of advice if what you're missing is something unrelated.

If you don't have basic 'normal' conversation skills, then saying 'flirt more' may be the worst idea. For one, flirting on top of terrible convo skills is gonna go bad, and whatever 'flirting' you'll attempt will likely be weird too (this is if the situation I just described was true).

So because of this, have someone who's good with girls and gets second dates sit in the table next to / behind you and let him diagnose you.

ObjectSpirited494 · 2021-05-02T21:35:07+00:00

You didn't build enough Seduction or possibly the conversion was to 'comfortable' like chat enough friends, not enough attraction.... without seeing you in action, its hard to say exactly.

Dodechaedron · 2021-05-02T22:07:12+00:00

Learn to read body language

2021-05-02T23:12:27+00:00

It’s not you, it’s them. Coward culture is ruling supreme!

MrMacDoctor · 2021-05-03T02:19:23+00:00

Stop "dating" Be honest with what you want.

Title	Frequently ghosted after dates. What should I do to improve my success rate
Author	seduction_reaction
Upvotes	3
Comments	8
Date	May 2, 2021 3:42 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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