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| 3 | [FR] 2 F-closes in one weekend, with major LMRBut the main problem with your argument about the "game" or this sub in general is that we're all just in it to coerce and deceive in order to jump into bed with women. Which is not true for the most part. A lot of the guys on this sub, or in the community, are coming from a background where they were never properly taught how to interact with women. We all learned from other females, and from movies and tv, which has pumped very incorrect methods, on how to interact and win over women we want, … | /r/seduction | 13/03/15 07:35 PM |
| 5 | [FR] 2 F-closes in one weekend, with major LMRI'm convinced you're just trying to get a rise out of some people here. No one is begging for sex, at least most people aren't. If you're bugging a girl for sex, no matter how long you've known her, it's a turn off. I believe that the course of learning how to talk to women isn't all about sex, although that is definitely an outcome. It's more about learning how to be comfortable around women, and how to not be needy. As a man, you're on your own path to happiness, and you don't need a women or … | /r/seduction | 13/03/15 05:01 PM |
| 1 | [FR] 2 F-closes in one weekend, with major LMRYea, I stepped back while the temperature was rising and allowed it to cool off. Bottom line was that I didn't act needy, and I honestly didn't care, but she turned it around and jumped back on me. Re girl#2: Sort of, we eventually moved to my couch. We laid there for a while afterwards just talking until she left. | /r/seduction | 13/03/15 04:53 PM |
| 3 | [FR] 2 F-closes in one weekend, with major LMRLet's put aside your condescending comments for a second and attack your main point here. Since you're married, you clearly must be an expert on women. I mean, how else would you have landed yourself a wife, am I right? Whether or not a woman is promiscuous is irrelevant, the point is that everyone feels sexual tension and attraction, and denying it to live by some certain moral code is nonsense. I didn't force them to do anything, and I was even ok with calling it a night when the girl wanted t… | /r/seduction | 13/03/15 04:44 PM |
| 1 | [FR] 2 F-closes in one weekend, with major LMRWell, I continued to make out and escalate. Eventually where pieces of clothing were coming off slowly. When she would throw up a wall or say I couldn't do something, I would pull back again. This is the old method of ignoring until she initiates again, which worked in this case. Also, I didn't even make it to my bed with girl #1, so sheets didn't have to be changed for girl # 2. Although, they have been since then. | /r/seduction | 12/03/15 04:58 PM |
| 1 | FR: First Date from Daygame. F- CloseI did not, but in my defense I was sick and went straight home after work. | /r/seduction | 18/06/14 01:24 PM |
| 2 | Slow and steady wins the race. How my most recent bad nights would have been amazing nights a couple of months ago.I kept a journal when I first started out, and it helped me narrow down where my weaknesses were. But honestly, just going out and putting myself out there week after week was what made the rejections no big deal after some time. Once that was gone I was able to start being more direct. I like being direct now, or sprinkling intent during the set. | /r/seduction | 17/06/14 11:28 PM |
| 1 | Slow and steady wins the race. How my most recent bad nights would have been amazing nights a couple of months ago.Yea, I need my rest or else my brain does funny things. | /r/seduction | 17/06/14 07:24 PM |
| 11 | FR: First Date from Daygame. F- CloseGreat FR! Very solid and motivates me to do some daygame myself. | /r/seduction | 17/06/14 03:15 PM |
| 4 | Is being a pickup artist corny and lame? Is it better to just act naturally?I think I hear what you're saying, regarding your friend's routines. I'm personally not a fan of routines, and the general trend of pick-up recently has been moving away from that. However, there are some who still believe in it and use it, to great success. What it sounds like is that your friends have adopted the persona of "pick-up artist" and it seems to rub you the wrong way, because it may seem disingenuous. Whether or not that's right is irrelevant, because what matters is that it's somet… | /r/seduction | 09/06/14 04:12 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Persistent on the pull, lead to f-closeYep, I've dealt with drunk girls before and the last thing I wanted was a sick situation or the girl passing out. Not a good position to be in as a guy. | /r/seduction | 06/06/14 07:27 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Persistent on the pull, lead to f-closeNeither are mine, to be honest. However, I do try and stay fit. If there's one thing I can advocate, it's for guys to start going to the gym. I'm not a big muscular guy by any means, but it shows that I do put in the work. So I wear clothes that compliments that without looking too douchey. Plus, when I'm confident, girls respond positively to it. You don't have to have muscles, but you should be fashionable or look fit if you're not "universally attractive", since it makes you more appealing ov… | /r/seduction | 06/06/14 06:53 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Persistent on the pull, lead to f-closeThat's pretty much almost exactly how it went down. When she first told me "I can't go home with you", I just smiled and acted like it was no big deal. But I then started to really push my boundaries with her and she was turned on. At some point again, she said "It's not going to be possible with my sister", and I smiled and calmly replied "anything is possible." She seemed to like that and smiled at me and said "Oh really??" I never lost my cool, and stayed in control. | /r/seduction | 06/06/14 06:40 PM |
| 22 | [FR] Persistent on the pull, lead to f-closeWell, at the time my thought process was: 1. My original girl was hotter. 2. The "sure thing" was super drunk, and that situation is scary to me for multiple reasons. 3. I sort of wanted the reference experience anyways of working around somewhat difficult logistics. | /r/seduction | 06/06/14 06:20 PM |
| 11 | [FR] Persistent on the pull, lead to f-closeI considered it, but the issue was that the original girl I was with was literally 3 feet behind me. | /r/seduction | 06/06/14 05:17 PM |
| 15 | [FR] Persistent on the pull, lead to f-closeIt went ok, actually. He didn't close, but they did everything but that lol. | /r/seduction | 06/06/14 03:52 PM |
| 2 | [FR] opened two sisters (common known EDM-artists), but didn't succeed to close in any form.I might be in the minority here, but I don't think taking photos of girls after you've already opened and vibed with them for a bit is that big of deal. If they approach me first with this request, I usually take this opportunity to use it to my advantage and get them laughing and engaged. I was able to hook a 2 set that approached me with the same request recently, and I just made it into a "photoshoot" and had them do various poses, and then I jumped into it. Easy transition to keep them engag… | /r/seduction | 28/05/14 08:31 PM |
| 7 | Awesome video for all you guys battling AA, Training Your Mind to Perform Under PressureOzzie from RSD just posted a video on YouTube with this EXACT same concept, and it's really resonating with me. Nice vid OP. Here's the vid from Ozzie I was referring to: http://youtu.be/LoCRlFo8j9U | /r/seduction | 28/05/14 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Some of the most important things I've learned this past weekend...100% this! The guy who invited me I met through this process. We met at a "daygame" group. We linked up and started winging together. | /r/seduction | 28/05/14 04:45 PM |
| 2 | Some of the most important things I've learned this past weekend...It wasn't hard to be honest, it was just a meetup group my friend was a part of. They have events like this all the time if you're anywhere close to a major city. My friend was part of one of those groups (which I wasn't) and he invited me. | /r/seduction | 28/05/14 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Some of the most important things I've learned this past weekend...I've been going to the gym for a few years now, and I TRULY believe that the discipline I learned from working out is what helped me apply the same discipline to this. | /r/seduction | 28/05/14 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Some of the most important things I've learned this past weekend...It was a meetup group that my friend was a part of. The boat party was $25, and it was for anyone. It's not like I was partying with champagne and models. | /r/seduction | 28/05/14 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Some of the most important things I've learned this past weekend...Funny part is, when I was dancing with her I was actually dancing bad on purpose. We had been talking about how people dance previously. I have no problem dancing, and you can usually get away with just doing the "2-step", works in most scenarios. | /r/seduction | 28/05/14 04:38 PM |
| 6 | Some of the most important things I've learned this past weekend...Yes, and it's also helping my confidence so much. Immediately after the set with the HB9, I opened a 6/7 set that went terrible and the girl actually was trying to insult me. But I was so much in state, and laughed it off and was very nonreactive to her. I could tell she was confused, and had that happened 2 months ago, I probably would have taken it a lot harder. | /r/seduction | 27/05/14 05:44 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First night out in a while.. #-close at the beginning of the night turned into a k-close at the very end.I haven't been in that position myself, but I have offered girls to come back with other reasons. You don't want to obviously suggest anything sexual overtly, because the girl will throw up her Anti Slut Defense right away. So you say something along the liens of "I have this great video I have to show you" or "There's this song I'm obsessed with, come listen" or "Let's have one last drink", or something where the pressure is off her to make a decision and she's complying without feeling like a … | /r/seduction | 16/04/14 02:36 PM |
| 2 | [FR] First Approach EverGood work. Once you make that approach, you realize it's never as bad as you think it will be in your mind. | /r/seduction | 16/04/14 01:53 PM |
| 2 | [FR] First night out in a while.. #-close at the beginning of the night turned into a k-close at the very end.Hmm, I think the pull might have been possible here, but awesome stuff. I'm a fan of approaching early, because stuff like this happens when you can reapproach easily. | /r/seduction | 15/04/14 04:31 PM |
| 3 | Success at first try with daygame, but cannot get going on a night out. Weird or the norm?I went through this exact same thing, and it all boiled down to a few things when I was out at a bar/lounge/club. I was intimidated by the environment, and it felt like everyone was having fun except for me, which made me truly feel like an outsider. It just takes getting used to, but once you feel comfortable approaching in that environment, you'll slowly start to realize that you truly do belong in there. Especially when you're in a set that's going well. You become what you once used to see f… | /r/seduction | 14/04/14 08:55 PM |
| 1 | [FR]First K-close since starting out, ALMOST F-closeI guess it depends on your energy when you first approach. For me, I came in very casual but happy, and like I was offering value by having fun. Had they not responded well, I would have kept it moving without being affected. They sensed this and slowly became receptive. Then, I showed intent by telling her she was cute, and it wasn't creepy at all after I told her I lied, she found it funny. | /r/seduction | 14/04/14 05:15 PM |
| 2 | [FR]First K-close since starting out, ALMOST F-closeThanks man. It was definitely such a high to know I was able to get to that place after 5 weeks. I know it won't happen often, and slowly but surely I'll move up to the next level, but just knowing that I can do it, that I actually have it in me to pull it off with some tweaks was such a breakthrough. | /r/seduction | 14/04/14 04:02 PM |
| 1 | [FR]First K-close since starting out, ALMOST F-closeGood point, I had never been in that position so I found myself scrambling for ideas to make the pull happen. It was my first makeout since gaming, so coordinating the pull was definitely a little more involved than I anticipated but a fantastic learning experience. | /r/seduction | 14/04/14 03:37 PM |
| 1 | [FR]First K-close since starting out, ALMOST F-closeI originally said what she was going to do afterwards, and she should come hang out with me, and her friend jumped in and said "it better not be your apt" or something along those lines. That's why I did a split second decision and said afterparty, more to get her friends relaxed moreso than my girl. My girl was down for anything. Looking back, I should have left with them and gone for food or something. Or split a cab and pushed through to the bitter end. | /r/seduction | 14/04/14 03:30 PM |
| 3 | [FR]First K-close since starting out, ALMOST F-closeIt is, my first makeout since starting out. I honestly put it out there in detail more for myself so I can later look back and see where I messed up and what I did right. lol | /r/seduction | 13/04/14 06:46 PM |
| 2 | Guys, keep a journal for your days/nights. It will help so much.Not sure, but I heard asking the guy questions will bring him into your reality and lower his value. I usually do that or something similar. | /r/seduction | 11/04/14 01:14 PM |
| 3 | Guys, keep a journal for your days/nights. It will help so much.This is sort of an example of something I recently wrote: 5th Set - Lounge -Walked up to mixed 4 set (2 guys, 2 girls) - Girls are dancing and bump into me, so I throw my hands up and start dancing with them as if it was intentional and they start dancing with me. - Target sees me and starts grinding on me: Me: You're cute Her: Thanks. - Continue dancing for a minute escalating the whole time, and then we stop for a sec, but at this point I'm able to kino the whole time (arm around shoulder, or … | /r/seduction | 10/04/14 07:29 PM |
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