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Career and education matter more at least in my opinion. Recovering from a financial or educational setback hurts much more than a heartbreak
/r/MenSupportMen27/08/24 04:19 PM
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Whatever she said to you is now in the past along with her
/r/MenSupportMen20/08/24 05:28 PM
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My last big breakup was in 2022 and since then I've had some hit and runs here and there but nothing really meaningful or deep. I too think I'm much not happy alone sometimes
/r/MenSupportMen06/08/24 02:32 PM
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What matters is you're safe and weren't hurt. You did the right thing by acting fast and pushing him away.
/r/MenSupportMen27/07/24 04:51 AM
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I honestly think you're better off without her. Sometimes things are perfect with someone but give it enough time and all the bs starts to appear on the surface
/r/MenSupportMen17/07/24 11:20 PM
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Just grateful to be here.
/r/MenSupportMen30/06/24 10:28 PM
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Some days are definitely better than others
/r/MenSupportMen23/06/24 10:54 PM
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Thank you so much man. I'm just trying to be better. But your words mean a lot to me. Please take care:)
/r/MenSupportMen03/05/24 03:22 PM
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No problem bro. I'm neither a husband nor a father. I just acknowledged your efforts for your family. Please take care and get out of there soon, also keep us updated. I'll pray for you and your family!
/r/MenSupportMen03/05/24 03:19 PM
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You ARE being a man by taking this step. Sometimes protecting your family doesn't have to mean jumping in the dungeon and slaying the dragon but taking your family out of harm's way. I know you feel terrible that you can't teach those people a lesson but sometimes you gotta make a choice between being a man and being a father. Your family will understand this in the future. I know i did remembering the sacrifices my family had to make. You're the man and you always will be!❤️
/r/MenSupportMen03/05/24 03:14 PM
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I think anyone would feel the same way as your partner does but tbh the best decision is to move away from there when you think long term safety. After all it's for your family's safety and that matters more than a house. I think you can move into a better neighborhood but you can't get rid of these addicts. They will be persistence and you will always have a fear for your family.
/r/MenSupportMen03/05/24 03:05 PM
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Try taking it to the higher authorities. Do not try to reason with your neighbours they are unstable and might hurt you. Don't worry.
/r/MenSupportMen03/05/24 02:41 PM
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Congratulations on your success brother! Anything worth doing is worth doing badly. Your past is the past what matters now is you're working a new job, going to the gym and plan to attend college. That's pretty damn awesome in my book! And as for others. Your path is not the same as theirs. You've had your struggles and they had theirs. What matters is you follow your path. Don't be so hard on yourself because you'll regret not being kind to yourself later.
/r/MenSupportMen01/05/24 05:06 PM
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Hope all my bros are doing well. Please do not hesitate to ask for support. You are needed, appreciated and loved. Take care 🙏
/r/MenSupportMen14/04/24 11:46 PM
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How my brothers doing?
/r/MenSupportMen17/03/24 10:09 PM
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Is that why you posted this in two more subs with your discount code? There are guys here who genuinely need support so be respectful and don't do this nonsense here. If you need financial support just say it
/r/MenSupportMen16/03/24 09:32 PM
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Hope everyone's doing okay and if you feel you're not, don't forget you're not alone. You are loved and needed in this world
/r/MenSupportMen03/03/24 11:12 PM
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That's very sweet of you. I think a lot of men treasure the compliments we receive. I think it's very difficult for people on the spectrum to express themselves so you being able to help her do that without you even trying just says you're not only a great human but also a cool guy to work with!
/r/MenSupportMen23/02/24 11:22 AM
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Man's best friend for a reason
/r/MensRights18/02/24 08:16 AM
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Hey man. I think deep inside you already know what to do. It might take a while but act on it. One day at a time. We've all been in a miserable spot. What matters is whether you take the action in the right direction
/r/MenSupportMen28/01/24 06:19 PM
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Good decision brother. We sons feel an eternal desire for our father's approval even after they pass away. I'm sorry you had to go through this. I hope this new phase brings you the peace you deserve
/r/MenSupportMen21/01/24 11:37 PM
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Happy New Year everyone! I hope this year brings y'all good health and prosperity
/r/MenSupportMen01/01/24 02:36 AM
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Trying not to be lazy and do something meaningful.
/r/MenSupportMen10/12/23 10:31 PM
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Hey man. Do you have any friend or elder you can talk to?
/r/MenSupportMen28/10/23 09:02 PM
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You're right. Not dealing with it just makes it worse
/r/MenSupportMen27/10/23 12:31 PM
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Join a salsa class. I've been wanting to do that myself for years. It's a great way to meet new people while learning something
/r/MenSupportMen14/10/23 06:40 PM
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Took a week off the gym because i was sick. Went back today. After that, i went to my old place to check on the stray cat who used to live with us. Instead found another car who was badly injured. We're taking him to the hospital tomorrow. It might be expensive so I've asked friends for help and put in the money meant for gym. I don't really mind not being able to work out if it means the cat will have proper care.
/r/MenSupportMen24/07/23 08:43 PM
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It's always best to see a councellor. A lot of times women withold sex and even antagonize being physically intimate in a relationship so much that men feel guilty for trying to initiate some intimacy. It's not something wrong with you. You are enough.
/r/MenSupportMen25/05/23 09:21 PM
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Started working out a while ago that's going good. I still need to fix my sleep. I hate waking up late.
/r/MenSupportMen05/05/23 10:24 PM
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That's great! I'm trying to eat a little more than what iam. I still wanna eat what my mom cooks for me. All the best brother!💪
/r/MenSupportMen27/04/23 09:12 PM
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Weight training and following a decent diet. 5x5 for bench, squat and deadlift along with a lot of bodybuilding style workouts
/r/MenSupportMen27/04/23 05:28 PM
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Thanks bro!💪
/r/MenSupportMen27/04/23 05:27 PM
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Started training again. Body is hella sore but I'm enjoying it.
/r/MenSupportMen25/04/23 10:12 PM
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I never really buy into any pills. I think as men we instinctively know what's right and wrong, what we need to sacrifice and what choices we need to make for ourselves and our families. The problem arises when our judgement is so clouded that we buy into such pill nonsense.
/r/MenSupportMen25/04/23 10:11 PM
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You did what you had to do. You knew that relationship wasn't good for your well-being. Making that step takes courage. Time heals most wounds. Give time some time. A little time alone to self reflect after a break up actually helps. Talk here if you feel like it. Reach out to me brother if you feel like it. You're not alone.
/r/MenSupportMen13/04/23 06:08 PM
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Every path you walk will have vermin in the way. Walk past them or crush them. But never stray away from the path
/r/MenSupportMen13/04/23 06:05 PM
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Hey sir. Sorry for the late reply. Yes, i believe it would be worth it to start socializing there. You could start talking with the regulars who work out at your time.
/r/MenSupportMen20/03/23 11:13 AM
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Your could be my friend good sir if you wouldn't mind. As for your answr, I don't know if I qualify to answer but I've made a few good male friends at the gym. It usually happens when I have the same time slot as them. A simple hi is all it ever took. If you would like you could join another activity of your liking. It could be at a shooting range, a playground, at the bar while you watch a game. As for maintaining friendships I think it depends how your schedule matches with theirs. It's not ne…
/r/MenSupportMen09/03/23 06:14 PM
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Some nonsense philosophy used to brainwash young boys into becoming incels
/r/MenSupportMen20/02/23 07:52 AM
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Well said sir.
/r/MenSupportMen24/01/23 09:00 AM
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I think I'm a whole different human being now. Looking back I've changed so much in the course of a few years, mostly in the last 2. I just hope all this change leads to something better.
/r/MenSupportMen17/01/23 09:19 PM
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Hey bud. I hope you're doing okay. I suggest you bring this to the attention of your therapist. Maybe they can help you out better.
/r/MenSupportMen17/01/23 09:17 PM
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I watch a few self improvement videos but what I'm observing is a trend of these influencers claiming that working out alone fixes mental health issues. As someone who is in the medical field and passionate about powerlifting, I think it's better to either go to therapy/psychiatrists. But good for you buddy. Keep it up
/r/MenSupportMen30/12/22 09:13 PM
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I've lived with the same situation and I know how you feel. Sleep is very crucial especially when you're a student. If he isn't listening to you and if your other roomie isn't standing up to him, it's better to switch rooms or move out because you're gonna have to deal with this every night, and that will take a toll on you. Confronting him could be of no use as well. Perhaps complaining to the warden could help?
/r/MenSupportMen29/12/22 08:48 PM
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You seem like a sad sad soul. I was annoyed at first but after seeing your profile and posts I pity you. I really hope you figure your life out because by the way you draw out conclusions and make assumptions, honestly it seems like it's in shambles. I'll no longer reply because this post isn't about you or me. It's about somebody else and I respect him enough to not start an unnecessary argument here. Also, I love and respect this sub because it's helped me heal from a lot of hurt and I hope it…
/r/MenSupportMen02/12/22 05:00 PM
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Nobody's being snarky with you. You're just creating your own conclusions. Take care dude I'm not in this sub for this nonsense.
/r/MenSupportMen02/12/22 04:18 PM
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Literally nobody called him. In fact if you read my first comment I even acknowledged him for wanting to someone to spend the holidays with.
/r/MenSupportMen02/12/22 04:00 AM
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"Don't focus on the relationship you don't have" Honestly this is so important for people to learn
/r/MenSupportMen01/12/22 09:41 PM
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Focus on yourself and you will attract attention brother. Physically and mentally. Take the time to train yourself. But first come to terms with yourself, accept and then love yourself. When you become who who desire to be, women will desire you as well. At least this is what I have learnt in recent years, and it has helped me a lot. Don't see yourself as an option for women. See yourself as The Man. That's what you are. Keep your head up King
/r/MenSupportMen01/12/22 05:59 PM
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Trying to make the most of what i can from the current situation. Just gotta stay strong
/r/MenSupportMen01/11/22 07:46 PM
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I go the gym and try to pursue powerlifting. So that gives me a goal to achieve. Through that I've made a good number of friends in the gym. Then there are some games that i sometimes play. I try to focus on the story more so it's immersive. But i really suggest pursuing two things, One outdoor hobby and one indoor. That way you exercise your mind and your body. It could be running and gaming, gymming and learning an instrument, etc.
/r/MenSupportMen31/10/22 10:36 AM
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She's interested in you so clearly there's nothing wrong with you! Secondly be confident and relaxed. You both are intimate already so you just need to take it slow. Don't rush in and ask her if you can kiss her. This works for me all the time
/r/MenSupportMen18/10/22 09:12 PM
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How old are you?
/r/MenSupportMen25/09/22 06:56 PM
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You got your answer by the guy below already. You need to get out there and conquer the world. Claim what belongs to you brother. You got this💪
/r/MenSupportMen24/09/22 09:27 AM
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Are you facing any problems at home or work? Did something happen after which you started feeling this way?
/r/MenSupportMen23/09/22 06:03 PM
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It's not the end brother. Tell us more about yourself and why you think you feel this way
/r/MenSupportMen23/09/22 12:14 PM
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Your point totally makes sense.
/r/MenSupportMen23/09/22 12:13 PM
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Been going through the same family problems as last year. Now i just turn numb to those problems. I just want to leave and be in a better place
/r/MenSupportMen20/09/22 08:16 PM
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I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost my dad 2 years ago. It hurt even more because i couldn't be there during his last days and even his funeral because I was abroad during the height of covid. What i can tell you is that; Go through this time of pain and mourning. If you have any supportive friends you could stay over with them or at least open up to them. Try to remember the good times, pictures when you feel upset. If you feel like crying, don't hold back. Just let all the emotions out. The mos…
/r/MenSupportMen08/09/22 04:28 PM
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I feel you brother. I also had my heart broken after a loving relationship of almost 5 years. I feel much better today even though I miss her sometimes. Truth be told; Every relationship has an expiry date. Someone either leaves or dies. That helped me because it made me realize that my happiness belongs to something beyond the approval of another person.
/r/MenSupportMen23/06/22 08:19 PM
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Stay strong brother! Feel free to reach out
/r/MenSupportMen19/06/22 07:55 AM
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We suffer more in our imaginations than in reality. People are too self indulgent to care about how a stranger looks. We don't even remember the faces we see throughout the day. I suggest you get back to your journey and do something you enjoy. You've already accomplished it once. You can do it again. And as for your romantic relationship. It's amazing you have a person who loves you beyond the physical aspect. But it never hurts to be a better version of yourself. Good luck buddy!
/r/MenSupportMen02/06/22 09:31 PM
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Thanks man!
/r/MenSupportMen28/05/22 11:46 AM
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I'm trying to get as much sleep as I can! Thanks!
/r/MenSupportMen28/05/22 09:25 AM
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Wise words. Thank you sir
/r/MenSupportMen28/05/22 09:24 AM
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Exam is next week. I'm not well prepared but I'm doing what I can now. Thanks to this sub, mods and the members
/r/MenSupportMen27/05/22 09:25 PM
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Sure buddy! Thanks !
/r/MenSupportMen27/05/22 09:08 PM
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Hey man. Kudos on the changes you made. You're an inspiration to many. It's also incredible that you're helping many more people. I'm definitely in for a chat but I live India so we'll have to see about the timezones
/r/MenSupportMen27/05/22 01:35 PM
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I'm so sorry for your loss. Your brother would want you to do the same. I understand losing a family member hurts like nothing else. Please feel free to reach out.
/r/MenSupportMen24/05/22 08:18 PM
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Yeah man. We really are. It's not that bad after all
/r/MenSupportMen21/05/22 10:54 AM
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Thank you!
/r/MenSupportMen21/05/22 06:25 AM
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Thank you brother! To better days!
/r/MenSupportMen21/05/22 06:25 AM
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Thanks man. Some day in the future i hope things become better for all of us
/r/MenSupportMen21/05/22 06:25 AM
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Thank you so much man! I hope your family is doing well. I hadn't expected much from today but whatever I received from my loved ones was very sweet and sincere
/r/MenSupportMen20/05/22 09:20 PM
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Thanks man. I hope you're doing well. :)
/r/MenSupportMen20/05/22 06:48 PM
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Today was my birthday. There were no wishes by my sister. She keeps fighting for the smallest reasons. My ex who dumped me for no reason wished me but sounded like a lifeless shell of her old self. Maybe she did it just for the formality. My mother is upset and broken due to several events. I have an exam coming up and I don't think I'll be able to pass it. My friends cheered me up with a silly prank. But i feel empty and detached right now. Life is indeed fleeting.
/r/MenSupportMen20/05/22 06:26 PM
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No problem sir. I think you're a fine man. Please take care and feel free to reach out🙏
/r/MenSupportMen19/05/22 07:18 AM
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He indeed was! Thank you😊🙏
/r/MenSupportMen18/05/22 09:29 PM
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Today is my dad's birthday. He left us in 2020. I really wish I had his guidance considering I'm going through a tough time. But I guess he already taught me what I needed. Happy birthday Dad. Thank you for everything
/r/MenSupportMen17/05/22 07:31 PM
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I think there's nothing wrong with you. You learnt everything you know by yourself. You didn't stray away from your path and have worked on improving yourself. If there's anything I could take away from reading this is that no matter how bleak life may seem there is always hope to do right by yourself. I'm sorry, I can't provide much help Sir. I'm not having the experience needed to give any advice but please feel free to reach out personally or in the sub. Reading this made left me inspired. Th…
/r/MenSupportMen17/05/22 07:20 PM
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As i grow older, I tend to keep my problems to myself often. I refrain from sharing with my friends because I have a sense that they're talking behind my back and I don't want to be a topic of discussion. I avoid sharing with my family as they don't often understand. To have myself heard seems like a big thing to me.
/r/MenSupportMen17/05/22 07:06 AM
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I guess I'm feeling better? I still don't feel good but maybe things are settling down. I'm not trusting this feeling because i think I'm still fragile and could break again any second
/r/MenSupportMen11/05/22 11:26 AM
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Something i came across recently, There is an Arabic saying that goes this way: “You want to die? Then throw yourself into the sea and you’ll see yourself fighting to survive. You do not want to kill yourself, rather you want to kill something inside of you.” Stay strong. As long as there is life there is hope
/r/MenSupportMen08/05/22 07:27 PM
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Stay strong bud.
/r/MenSupportMen07/05/22 09:04 PM
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I quit watching tv shows except for a few short series. I think it's best to switch to something healthier
/r/MenSupportMen07/05/22 09:02 PM
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Thanks a lot mods and members. I will compile such events and surely share them. :)
/r/MenSupportMen02/05/22 06:49 PM
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That's a nice way to see it man. So simple yet so profound. I think it's because at night I'm quite, everything else is silent and it's just me and my thoughts. All throughout the day there are things happening around but at night my thoughts just take over.
/r/MenSupportMen01/05/22 03:15 PM
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I've read your reply very carefully and i think i got this. Thank you it means a lot!
/r/MenSupportMen01/05/22 06:38 AM
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It's okay man. You're not alone. Do you feel like you're putting too much pressure on yourself to quit it?
/r/MenSupportMen30/04/22 03:56 PM
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My dad was getting late for work and my sister was making a fuss and wanted him to stay and play. He still went and my sister was at the doorstep crying. My dad felt upset he let her down and came running back home from the station and there she was crying. They spent the morning together playing. He's no longer with us. The choice you are making now is going to create fond memories for your daughter forever. You're a good man, sir
/r/MenSupportMen30/04/22 01:38 PM
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Trying to hold myself together. But the thoughts start clouding me at night. But I know the only way is through so I'm just walking head first into the fog. I think a lot of y'all will relate to it. Optimism is like a thread that gets thinner the farther i walk. But as long as i can tug on it and figure out a way I think I'll be fine. Thank you mods and the members of this sub for being helpful. Brothers, please don't shy away from sharing your thoughts. We got y'all.
/r/MenSupportMen29/04/22 07:31 PM
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Thanks bro. :)
/r/MenSupportMen27/04/22 04:23 AM
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Pretty shit. Getting screwed from all sides. But i guess that's life.
/r/MenSupportMen26/04/22 01:12 PM
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Thanks man. You've actually heard me out so i really mean it. Thank you
/r/MenSupportMen26/04/22 06:16 AM
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Stay strong man. If you feel like it feel free to reach out here
/r/MenSupportMen23/04/22 10:29 AM
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A little better than last week. Not able to focus on my studies though.
/r/MenSupportMen22/04/22 06:07 PM
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Got it.. I'll implement these things. Thanks man
/r/MenSupportMen21/04/22 09:23 AM
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I feel like I'm on my phone for too long and going through these phases of separation is so taxing. How do you deal with it?
/r/MenSupportMen21/04/22 09:03 AM
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I have been thinking about getting back to my guitar. Also now that I've just gotten out of a relationship i want to learn salsa after my exams.
/r/MenSupportMen21/04/22 08:52 AM
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You're right. I don't know how to recharge. I'm still in the process of learning but feel like I'm not prepared for what exactly is happening. I feel like i studied for the wrong exam.
/r/MenSupportMen20/04/22 01:21 PM
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I'm sorry man.
/r/MenSupportMen20/04/22 10:02 AM
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This is an answer that can apply to so many situations. Well written sir
/r/MenSupportMen20/04/22 05:29 AM
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Do you think having a sexual relationship is a reason you're not able to let go?
/r/MenSupportMen20/04/22 05:28 AM
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That's okay man. I'm sorry. What i said applies to men also. Be yourself. Don't adopt an identity. Don't let the internet or media fool you into being something you're not. Stay true to yourself and don't force love. Love will find you when you're not looking. It's not just words and hugs. Love is more profound than that and with time you'll understand. You sound like a good kid. Stay in touch with us.
/r/MenSupportMen19/04/22 09:21 PM
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That's the problem with adopting an identity with no rules. Listen man, most of the time women won't look at you even if you're a handsome hunk. That's the truth. You're only beneficial to the world if you bring some sort of value to them and that's the truth. A man is only loved under the condition that he provides something. I have experience with it. My advice is become something that can provide to society but at the same time to yourself. Focus on yourself. Your career, your attitude toward…
/r/MenSupportMen19/04/22 09:12 PM
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Don't mind me but... Are you trying to be something you're not? Just so you could get the physical attention you want from someone who could mean something to you?
/r/MenSupportMen19/04/22 09:04 PM
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I don't know. The past few years have been tough. I don't know how to feel or how to react. All i know is i have a responsibility towards my family and myself. A lot of people have made sacrifices for me to be where i am so i think i owe it to them.
/r/MenSupportMen19/04/22 06:46 PM
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I'm happy for you man. I miss my dad. I wish he were alive. I pray you both make peace and meet each other soon
/r/MenSupportMen19/04/22 06:44 PM
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"Only women, children and dogs are loved unconditionally. A man is only loved under the condition that he provides something." Chris Rock
/r/MenSupportMen15/04/22 09:44 PM
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You're not alone brother feel free to reach out and pm. We got you!
/r/MenSupportMen14/04/22 05:33 PM
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What's up buddy
/r/MenSupportMen13/04/22 05:51 AM
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We've always been open about everything.I had a talk about that. And it's not a break but a break up. She's had some issues growing up and i respect that she can't continue it further. I've also had stress related to my studies. The reason someone leaves is not always just sex. I'm sorry you feel that way. Take care.
/r/MenSupportMen11/04/22 08:44 AM
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Thank you. It was tough indeed but I didn't want to force her into something she didn't want. I'm only hoping my study goes well and she recovers.
/r/MenSupportMen10/04/22 04:00 AM
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Thanks brother
/r/MenSupportMen09/04/22 06:17 PM
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You've been very responsive to one of my posts here. Thanks man
/r/MenSupportMen09/04/22 06:14 PM
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Thank you good sir. I hope she gets better. I've been looking at our pictures together. I think i should stay away from my phone and focus on my studies.
/r/MenSupportMen09/04/22 06:13 PM
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I disagree brother. You're good! 😊
/r/MenSupportMen05/04/22 05:22 PM
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If that works then more power to you man.
/r/MenSupportMen05/04/22 04:08 PM
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Sometimes you gotta be aggressive. Not in a violent way but you need to be be able to push through and work for yourself. Life's been a little tough the past few years but I'm pushing through
/r/MenSupportMen05/04/22 11:14 AM
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Thanks for sharing bud
/r/MenSupportMen26/03/22 08:28 AM
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Lately I've been keeping to myself. I stay busy most of the time and in my free time i keep to myself. I feel tired to go out and socialize. This comes with feeling lonely as well. But yeah days go by and honestly i think that loneliness subsides and becomes just being alone.
/r/MenSupportMen24/03/22 06:59 AM
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I hope your appointment goes well. Take care of yourself. Feel free to vent out or ask for help
/r/MenSupportMen22/03/22 07:37 AM
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Thank you for sharing
/r/MenSupportMen22/03/22 07:32 AM
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I'm very sorry for your loss. I hope you're doing well. Feel free to reach out
/r/MenSupportMen22/03/22 07:32 AM
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Thank you for sharing such an important part of your life. Congratulations on the birth of your son. I understand your feelings as i recently lost my dad and his guidance for me now would mean more than anything the world has to offer.
/r/MenSupportMen21/03/22 07:28 PM
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Please direct message me bro
/r/MenSupportMen15/03/22 04:24 AM
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Exam preparations, some family issues and self doubt as well. How about you?
/r/MenSupportMen14/03/22 08:00 PM
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Sure dude.. i hope you are taking care of yourself
/r/MenSupportMen14/03/22 02:49 PM
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Time's been a little rough lately. It gets better in between but I'm trying my best to hang on. These times test my temper but I'm trying my best to handle that as well. Hope everyone's doing well here. Thank you mods for this great community
/r/MenSupportMen12/03/22 02:30 PM
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Keep your head up brother. I think it was a blessing in disguise. I'm glad you've broken up with her. Take care of yourself. You can reach out to our community or me whenever you'd like. I only would advice you to take good care of your health. Don't get into toxic habits to make yourself feel better like drinking too much. You can always talk to us. Take care buddy
/r/MenSupportMen10/03/22 08:18 PM
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Thanks a lot for the compliment brother! I wish you all the best with your new job. You're gonna do great!!💪💪💪
/r/MenSupportMen08/03/22 05:21 PM
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Congratulations on your new job buddy!!! I understand doubt is a part of the journey. But i think once you start working everything will be fine. It's a little difficult to leave home. I left mine for 6 years for my education. I think you need to not bother yourself a lot. It's a feeling that is going to come to you before leaving home. And if you every meet anyone to reach out to you can always do it here
/r/MenSupportMen08/03/22 09:28 AM
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I'm glad you found happiness in the gym. The satisfaction after completing a difficult physical task is unparalleled. I agree with the first comment. Try to talk to people in the gym. Sometimes the huge intimidating guys are often the most friendly.
/r/MenSupportMen24/02/22 01:01 PM
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So true brother.
/r/MenSupportMen14/02/22 02:26 PM
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Yeah man. I hope you're doing well.
/r/MenSupportMen14/02/22 01:23 PM
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I hope your last line was false. But with time I agree with it more and more. I experience that so often even from people close to me that I've just stopped reacting.
/r/MenSupportMen14/02/22 01:16 PM
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Heartbreaks are devastating man. I was dumped during my exams and a year later i was a rebound for a girl who wasn't over her ex. But as Bob Ross said, you need light and dark. Very soon you'll find yourself in the good times. But if you want some constructive advice- 1. Fix your routine 2. Work on your skills 3. Learn something new 4. Talk to someone you are comfortable with eg friends,a sibling, you could even reach out to me or anyone here who is open to a conversation 5. Socialize in your wo…
/r/MenSupportMen26/09/21 04:39 PM
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Will do brother
/r/MenSupportMen25/09/21 07:41 PM
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Thanks for your help man
/r/MenSupportMen25/09/21 09:18 AM
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Having family troubles lately. I posted here and got a lot of support. My friends and girlfriend also have been supportive. I urge all my friends here to reach out to whoever they can. You're not alone. Stay strong. Keep hope alive.
/r/MenSupportMen25/09/21 08:26 AM
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That's what I'm doing for now.. i can't think of anything to reason with someone who just wants to fight
/r/MenSupportMen24/09/21 12:34 PM
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Thank you :)
/r/MenSupportMen23/09/21 05:28 PM
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Yes, I did that yesterday. My friends have been supportive throughout this time
/r/MenSupportMen23/09/21 05:26 PM
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Thank you so much. It's difficult without my father or any support for myself.
/r/MenSupportMen23/09/21 05:00 PM
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Is it selfish or cowardly to walk away from a fight or a confrontation?
/r/MenSupportMen23/09/21 04:58 PM
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Thank you. She started giving me a cold shoulder after that day and I too need some space
/r/MenSupportMen23/09/21 04:57 PM
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I can't leave. I recently graduated and getting job will take a long time. Also I can't leave the family in such a situation
/r/MenSupportMen23/09/21 04:56 PM
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