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Honestly never met a man raised by his father. Plenty of men raised by single mothers. I recall one woman raised by her father because her mother died.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 08:58 AM
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I'm not American
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 09:54 PM
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Good luck with the divorce 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 09:52 PM
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I've moved on from the 2 minutes I gave a shit about this...3.5 months ago. My own father was one of them. I work with a whole bunch of them. They're not desirable to women except for what's in their wallets. Believing anything else is delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 09:37 PM
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Probably
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 09:56 AM
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Because most men won't. It costs thousands to replace an entire wardrobe. Even if he did, at what point does that happen? Immediately? After a few months? After marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 10:14 PM
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I gave you my opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 07:43 PM
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Why should she buy a whole new wardrobe just because she gets into a relationship? Are you going to foot the bill? If you don't like her dressing provactively, don't chase women who dress provocatively! This isn't hard to figure out pre-relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 07:34 PM
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No, whenever this happens I get the feeling that he's desperate and I'm just 1/10 he's approached that day.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:53 AM
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White and black
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 07:15 AM
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American men seem to think that legalised prostitution will solve all of their problems. Countries where prostitution is legal still have 'cels. They still have angry, hateful men. They also still have plenty of men participating in relationships & marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 07:15 AM
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Almost seems to me like men here wish they could be penetrated by Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:46 PM
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They could be mute for all I care. I'm just saying I refuse to carry entire conversations with people who make no effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 09:04 AM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 04:34 AM
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I don't hate them, but I refuse to be the only one who puts in the effort in a conversation. I used to be very shy, but I always used to try to put myself out there, be polite & exchange social graces. There are a lot of young men in my workplace and they put in zero effort into any of that. They just sit there in silence until someone asks them a question. Then it's short responses & no followup questions from them. I don't blame them for having no social skills. They've grown up chronically on…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 12:31 AM
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It's ok buddy, the sluts are not out to get you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 03:15 PM
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Psycho territory
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 09:32 AM
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You're unhinged.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 09:00 AM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 08:20 AM
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It shouldn't be that hard to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 07:49 AM
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I'm old and all the hot ones are taken/married. This was when I was younger. But even back then they had to make the right moves + right setting & mood. I never did app dating/hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 07:33 AM
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Because the red pill is bollocks.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 05:33 AM
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1) Being a different body, yes, but not necessarily a different body type. 2) Yes and yes
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 04:58 AM
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1) It's the lead up & the sex itself. The whole thing 2) I'm old, so it's hard to remember back that far, but I did have casual sex twice before I had my first relationship (which lasted 3 years).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 04:47 AM
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Having a different personality, different dialogue, techniques, scenarios etc. It can be exciting not to know what they're going to do or say next. People tend to get into a routine and do the same thing over and over. I like a bit of spontaneity & unpredictability, so long as it's within what I consider normal limits. No freaky shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 04:27 AM
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For casual, novelty is everything. If there's not more to it than sex, I've typically gotten bored after 2 or 3 times. There's nothing like the rush of being with someone new. Body type is not a part of it for me. If I'm with someone I have a genuine connection with, I don't get bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 04:12 AM
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Find someone with a similar level of function & intellectual ability
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 12:49 AM
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I am more than capable of determining what I find fun, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 12:22 AM
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There being consequences is a revenge fantasy and a cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 12:01 AM
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Sometimes it's just fun to fuck someone really hot. There doesn't have to be more to it. I've slept with hot men who I would never even consider having a relationship with, even if they wanted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 11:56 PM
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I think it would depend on the degree of functioning. As you know, people with autism can be highly intelligent and high functioning. Intellectual impairment is always present in Down Syndrome.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 11:14 PM
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I wouldn't put the blame on her. It's on him to know better.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 11:03 PM
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I would argue that it's always predatory if he's intellectually normal. For the same reason adults marrying children is frowned upon.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 08:02 PM
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Predatory men love docile, vulnerable women. This is no surprise to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 08:53 AM
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I think you need a reality check.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 08:53 PM
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No one wants to work 50+ hour weeks. Some people are forced to due to cost of living. Do you expect women to be homeless just so men can meet them?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 08:48 PM
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This is why it's hard for anyone to take men's "loneliness" seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 08:42 PM
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I'd like to work less, but who is going to pay my mortgage and buy me the nice things I like? Anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 08:23 PM
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Single mothers are often far poorer than single fathers It also doesn't happen in lesbian couple households
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 11:21 AM
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This is all related to socioeconomic status/poverty
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 11:00 AM
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What's stopping men going into teaching?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 10:57 AM
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Agreed, but they still have ceremonies, sign paper, move in together, have kids etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 11:29 AM
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I find that they do, but they cheat. A lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 11:18 AM
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I've dated men with kids before and I would never do it again. Ex wives are awful to deal with. They always took priority over anything I wanted. I also don't want kids of my own, so it's not about legacy. Parenting of any kind is just not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 01:14 AM
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Even the guys who have sex all the time end up in relationships in their 30s. I'm not saying they're necessarily faithful, but they do get married/attached. Society frowns upon men who stay single until their 40s.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:50 AM
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Even if any of that is true, how is that worse than prostitution?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 06:28 AM
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You can do whatever you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 05:45 AM
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Good thing you'll probably never be in a position to make the choice
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:23 AM
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Unless they're wearing a full body condom, it's not enough for the aforementioned diseases.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 02:57 AM
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Depp's a slime bag. I'm glad Musk bought Twitter too. The schadenfreude of it losing $40B in value is spectacular.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 12:02 AM
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Why is having sex without being paid worse? Some women enjoy sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 11:35 PM
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Also, i'd like to have seen your face when Tainty Ballbags was locked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 11:19 PM
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Congrats
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 11:17 PM
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A lot of women are pickmes, unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 11:10 PM
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They might be out there, but I don't think it's typical. I was part of a liberal social circle & even the most promiscuous woman I know wouldn't have been with more than 50 or so men total by her 30s & before she got married. She did spend some years in relationships, so even 6 per year in her single years would be a stretch.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 10:51 PM
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They talk about Jordan Peterson, Andrew Taint, Elon Musk & Johnny Depp in a positive light. Dead giveaway. Lingo and angrily bringing up topics like male suicide & male homelessness are another big clue.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 10:27 PM
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Ethics aside, it's disease risk. It wouldn't be unreasonable for prostitutes to have sex with a dozen or so men in a week. That would be extremely unlikely for your average promiscuous woman, who might manage that over a year or two or more. I know, I know, condoms. But they do break, and HPV & HSV can be transmitted even when they're used correctly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 09:33 PM
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Some men admire successful & accomplished women. I know it's hard for some of you to believe, but it's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 09:26 PM
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If this is a realistic option for most men, then why aren't they doing it? Why are they shitting on fat women every chance they get?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 07:45 AM
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Too bad. That's the marketplace. Don't like it? Don't participate. I'm not fat. I eat lots of vegetables and exercise daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 01:44 AM
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I don't care what they do. I'm just stating the facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 01:40 AM
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Men. By saying a fat woman is unacceptable for dating, they are immediately ruling out 70% of many western populations. Unless they're top 30% men, fat is the best they're going to do on average. Men with strict anti-fat policies only see the non-fat women & trick themselves into thinking the average of that pool is average overall. That brings the facially average looking healthy weight woman to top 15% of women. Add to that n-count & that's going to rule out at least some of those top 15% of w…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 01:38 AM
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Oh well. Plenty of fish in the sea. At least she didn't "devalue" herself any more by having sex with him. Sounds like a win-win situation
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 10:04 AM
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Maybe she wanted one thing at one time and then wanted another thing later on, so changed up her tactics. It's not like she can change anything about the past. She probably wouldn't even want to if she could.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 07:33 AM
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I don't think they do, but it's enough that women are wary & don't want to find themselves in that situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 05:30 AM
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He only broke up with her after she told him about her past. I already said that was where she went wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 04:52 AM
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Because it works? I'm not sure why 3 months as opposed to 2 or 5 or 6. Maybe she read somewhere about a certain time frame and is trying it out?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 04:42 AM
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She wants a relationship. Men say they don't want to commit to sluts. She's not sleeping with him because she wants him to commit to her because she likes him. The only thing she's done wrong here is tell him about her past. Men can't handle that kind of information. Ideally she wouldn't have to hold off, but she kind of has to if she wants a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 04:28 AM
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Your argument is not relevant to mine then. It sounds like you, as a man, want conscription. That's a problem for men about men. Not women about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 03:17 AM
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Not all countries have conscription. I live in one that doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 03:10 AM
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Then she loses nothing by not sleeping with these men. Sounds like good strategy to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 02:54 AM
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I don't support anyone being forced to fight in any war.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 02:50 AM
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It does work on some, but there's clearly a trend toward it not working on enough women for them to notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 02:45 AM
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Doesn't matter who he is. If she's not attracted for whatever reason, there's not much more to be said. It's not going to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 02:42 AM
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Well then they shouldn't complain that women make them wait. It's not rocket science
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 02:41 AM
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How stupid do they think we are? Honestly...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 02:36 AM
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Well, then men just need to accept that women will not sleep with them until they're sure he won't pump & dump 🤷🏻‍♀️ You don't get to have it both ways
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 02:05 AM
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I don't see why anyone would expect a woman to settle & have children with an awful man. Opting out is a far superior option.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 01:31 AM
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They're not a minority. I unfortunately know a lot of these guys. Most of them are bottom of the barrel.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 01:26 AM
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The type of men who do this are generally not desirable, so it's not like we are mad about it because we want them. Personally, I just feel bad for these women. I mean, they can date/marry these men if they want. It's their choice. But most of them haven't had success in the west for good reason. For eg. Bad hygiene, horrible personality, overweight, abusive. The worst are the ones who were previously married to a woman in their own country, but ended up divorced & then they go on a passport bro…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 11:47 PM
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Most women would prefer a relationship over a hookup. If men didn't rabidly spew hatred about sluts and how they don't respect women who are "easy" then women wouldn't need to do this. It would just be two people who are attracted to one another & like one another's company. They have sex when they both want to & a relationship develops. But men do the pump & dump thing. Most women don't want to experience that, especially if they see you as having relationship potential.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 11:34 PM
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I don't think any women here have a problem with paying men (or women) to perform labor for them. That doesn't mean we want to marry/have sex/have children with them. That's the part men get angry about.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 08:50 AM
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Maybe stop being a hypocrite by contributing to what you see as a problem? That would be a start.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 06:30 AM
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More like marital deadbedroom
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 02:17 AM
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There's nothing less sexy than the phrase "marital bed."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 12:14 AM
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Great feeling in your dick?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 02:33 PM
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The first part of what you said is not what the research says. The men who cheat the most have wives who earn more than them. The more she earns, the more likely he is to cheat. See the graph in the linked article
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 07:20 AM
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The likelihood of men cheating on their wives goes up rapidly as soon as she starts making more money than him. source Interestingly, the likelihood of women cheating on their husbands is highest when husbands contribute 100% of household income, but not to the same degree as the reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 06:46 AM
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ok
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:13 AM
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Don't accept it then? But it's not going to get your dick any wetter by bullying fat women, so why do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:16 AM
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Never said they don't. I'm also not fat. But it's rare for people to be able to keep weight off due to satiety signalling that occurs after weight loss.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:03 AM
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I already explained it in the other comment. A lot more goes into attraction than weight for women. Most women just don't like the extremes, but there's a lot more grey area. So a healthy weight man is not automatically at least a 5/10 like a healthy weight woman is (according to men). He could be a 3 if he's got an unfortunate face, has bad hygiene, bald, bad skin, bad posture, short, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:59 AM
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Not true. Women don't care about weight as much as men do. Women don't mind a bit overweight if he's tall or rich or has a nice face. For men it's like the kiss of death for a woman to be fat. An average man thinks he has a chance with an average faced skinny woman, but she's actually top 25% and she doesn't want an average man because she has a lot better options.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:53 AM
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I never said that. Not all causes have to be inclusive of everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:30 AM
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They can if they want? I don't understand men who complain about women advocating for causes for women. They're not saying men can't do the same. Get together and do it if you think it's necessary. We don't care 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:25 AM
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It's not to convince you that they're beautiful. It's to help them feel beautiful for themselves & not worthless. There can be a lot of shame in being fat & that feels horrible. Everyone has the right to feel good about themselves. You don't have to agree or even like it, but it's not about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:15 AM
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You make it sound like this is only a problem for women. Like men are not fat too. Bizarre
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:38 AM
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80-95% of dieters who lose weight regain all of it is the most commonly quoted figure. Here are a couple of sources, but feel free to google it yourself. Here 90% We are talking about weight LOSS here. Not just being skinny in the first place. If you don't ever get fat, then you will be ok. But if you do, then you are likely to stay that way or keep getting back up there after you've lost it. So to say "you can lose weight," while true, is usually only going to be temporary.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 12:02 AM
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The 70% is all adults. I specified 20-39 because that's the age group of most people here. People tend to get fatter as they get older. But in any case, the rest of what you said is correct. These low level men have already eliminated 50% of women. They think they are going for average women, but when you're talking about average looking slim women, they're the top 25%, and they're not interested in the bottom men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 11:48 PM
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Correct. It's also no coincidence that these RP men are here ranting about being single. It's not exactly a tantalising proposition for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:15 PM
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And that's fine, but unless they're in the top half of men, then they better be ok with being alone. There's nothing wrong with being alone. A lot of women have opted out due to lack of good options.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:33 PM
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ok
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 09:37 AM
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Doesn't sound like you're bottom 50% then.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:35 AM
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Not necessarily. Are you in the bottom 50% of men? Height is not the only thing which determines that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:23 AM
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Yes, but 95% of people can't keep weight loss off, so any changes are usually temporary. The hunger hormones fight like mad to get weight back to its highest point and beyond. Same for men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:15 AM
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Doesn't matter. Still plenty of fat men. Fit & slim is better.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:14 AM
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Men are getting fatter too. And balder.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:39 AM
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If you're not prepared to compromise on this & you're prepared to remain single, then so be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:08 AM
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Nearly half of women in the 20-39 age group in the USA are overweight or obese. Given that men here think being overweight is the most offensive thing a woman can be, unless you're in the top 50% of men, these women are your looksmatch. Read it and weep.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:28 AM
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So some psycho drunk woman assaulted you (and you survived to tell the tale) and you think that somehow shows that "misandry" is as bad as deep institutionalised & systemic misogyny? Don't even get me started on cops. I won't defend them because I've had terrible experiences with them myself, but I will say that as a black man, I suspect your experience with them had a lot more to do with being black than being a man. Your white trash video doesn't prove anything. Women can be mean, but misogyny…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 09:31 PM
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You can't avoid them in professional or educational contexts, but you can choose whether or not you become romantically involved with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:12 AM
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Yeah, and women's subs were shut down en masse for talking about it/calling it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:23 AM
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You're still not convincing me that what I am saying or doing is worse than the endless displays of serious misogyny I encounter every single day, especially on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:20 AM
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I'm sure it's a contributing factor for some people, but the largest age group for suicide in men is 75+. The rate goes up the older they get. Health & financial, and end of relationship factors are more common reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:07 AM
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NO, I DON'T.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 01:37 AM
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If you're suggesting that because women are avoiding men & not having sex with them, that they are somehow responsible for male suicide, then absolutely not. In fact, that attempt at a guilt trip is straight from the misogyny department.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 01:32 AM
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Racism has roots in horrific violence and subjugation. The N word isn't acceptable, nor is it all there is to racism. Instead of telling me what I can't identify, how about giving me some examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 01:17 AM
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Other forms of bigotry (such as misogyny) involve rape, murder, coercive control, abuse, & systemic oppression. "Misandry" usually involves just avoiding men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 01:02 AM
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I agree. These men cheat a lot too! With women they consider sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:40 AM
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Thank you! Well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:20 AM
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I also haven't seen anywhere near as much of this IRL, but it's not unheard of. I think that if this red pill business becomes mainstream, average men can kiss any chance of uninhibited sex goodbye all together. It will be missionary, in the dark, for procreation only. And only after 6 months of dating. I used to enjoy sexual freedom & actually thought it was mutually beneficial. The rise of all this slut hating has turned me off sex & men completely. I wouldn't even bother these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:13 AM
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You clearly didn't read anything I wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:02 AM
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These guys aren't Chad. A lot of them here are virgins, close enough to it, or otherwise hopeless with women. You must be new here if you haven't seen the endless vitriol about n-counts and sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:37 PM
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It's not in women's heads. Guys on here say it all the time. They'll fuck sluts, but won't have relationships with them. If he expects women to hold out for everyone except him & fuck him immediately, then he had better be the Chaddiest Chad who ever lived. Because otherwise he's living in a fantasy world. Pretend to be good means taking it slow, even if she hasn't always done it with every guy in the past. Maybe she had bad outcomes by sleeping with guys too soon? Maybe they pumped and dumped? …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:21 PM
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But if she did have sex with him straight away, she'd be dumped. She has to pretend to be good so that he'll stick around. If he didn't dump her and froth at the mouth about sluts, he wouldn't have to do all of that dancing. It's his own fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 10:52 PM
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exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 10:39 PM
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They also cheat on their "good" wives with these women, so they're not exactly catches themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 10:35 PM
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If "relationship guy" didn't discard women for being "easy" by pumping and dumping, this wouldn't be a problem. You're only shooting yourselves in the foot.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 10:18 PM
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That's why the rich are shitting themselves over this. They don't wanna share.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:53 PM
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If it's going to be so terrible, why would I want to bring a child into it? I'm not that much of a sociopath. The ecological collapse alone is enough to make me want to opt out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 08:56 PM
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He has a lot of money and they're desperate to escape poverty. I don't think it would bother me so much if he wasn't such a jerk, but most of the passport bros I've met are.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:11 PM
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Hair loss pills lower libido, but lots of guys don't like that side effect, so they stop taking them or refuse to take them at all in favor of being bald.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:03 PM
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Women don't want men with AI girlfriends or passport bros. But only one of those is potentially exploiting real life women. My uncle is a passport bro & it bothers me. Not because I want him, but because he treats these women like crap. He's a misogynist & abuses the power dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:00 PM
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Ding ding ding 🛎️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:44 AM
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This god forsaken shit hole of a sub
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:01 AM
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You're an anomaly in these parts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:48 AM
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I have huge ones and I've had no shortage of men tell me they're not into them. Completely unsolicited comments. It doesn't seem to matter what you have, someone will try to shame you for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:41 AM
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He met his first wife when he was like 20, and he was from a rich family, so that would have helped. I agree he's very incelly, but it's not like he was actually sexless in his 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:52 AM
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Is it that hard just to pull out?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:29 AM
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Probably because they experience more trauma. Makes sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:01 AM
15

This guy sounds extremely unappealing. I would not marry him to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 12:39 AM
2

No, but I take that back. Affirmative consent is now a thing here as of two years ago. It used to only be "no means no" and now it's also "yes means yes." I guess I'll have to learn to live with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 11:43 PM
0

What rule? It's not a rule where I live.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 11:23 PM
4

It probably has to do with a lack of social skills. If a guy can't read body language & has to get explicit verbal permission to proceed, the he's probably not very smooth & that's a turn off. I would also probably be wondering whether consent has been an issue for him in the past, which is obviously a massive red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 10:20 PM
26

This is a cope. The old guys getting with young women weren't incels in their 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 09:59 PM
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Maybe you give off wanker vibes from the get go
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 09:12 AM
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It's honestly the least of my worries
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:10 AM
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Not made fun of. Just abused, raped, tortured, murdered, made to feel worthless. But at least they're not laughed at 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:34 AM
10

I agree. It would be awful to be involved with any of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 04:34 AM
21

Even the people on My 600lb Life have partners. Anyone can find one if they're willing to settle for less than they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 04:02 AM
1

This doesn't negate what I said. These dudes think these women are their only option, but I would argue that they are not even an option. Sure they may match online, but if they even get a date, the single mothers are going to be able to feel the resentment and next them for someone half decent.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 03:54 AM
1

Why would they swipe 'yes' on them then?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 03:34 AM
1

Because most men here are low value, and they think the only opportunity they have to be with a woman is to date a single mother. This makes them extremely bitter. In reality, I've known a lot of single mothers with no issues finding decent partners, so these bitter men likely don't even stand a chance with most of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 08:46 PM
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The 80/20 thing came from data from a dating site, which makes sense when all you have to go on is a few pictures and a blurb. In real life, people are much more likely to take other factors into consideration when deciding to date someone, not just appearance. If you give me 10 pictures of different men and ask me to pick the one I want to meet, of course I'm going to choose the best looking one. I have very little other context in which to choose. In real life I could meet 10 different men and…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 04:22 AM
5

Chill dude. It will be ok. Africa & the Middle East still have well above replacement birth rates. Humans are not dying out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 03:49 AM
1

It's like being hungry and the only options are McDonalds, KFC, Old Country Buffet & Denny's. I'd rather have a feeding tube.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 12:15 AM
4

I think this is more about not putting up with abuse, ill treatment, negging, cheating, laziness, etc. More women shouldn't compromise on this stuff, in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 11:55 PM
1

Never claimed to be
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:35 PM
1

They wouldn't/don't
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:35 PM
1

They were the only ones who liked me. What can you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 10:42 AM
13

I'm not delusional at all. I said I have nil chance of ending up with the type of guy would be interested in. I'm ok with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 08:20 PM
8

I don't expect anything because I'm not looking for anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 08:19 PM
7

I never had good options for dating, so no wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 07:11 PM
16

Why would anyone want to be with someone who adds zero or negative value to their life? I don't hate men or wish them harm. I just have no desire to entertain an average one because I'm not a masochist. Someone else can have them. I can hook up whenever I like, but I don't tend to unless a really good opportunity presents itself (which is rare).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 07:05 PM
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I'm 37 and I don't remember the last time someone was interested in me for anything more than sex. I have almost exclusively only attracted married men for years now. But if I think back to when I was younger, I did date below average to average men. They weren't particularly attractive, but weren't horrible people. They earned average incomes & had social lives with similar types of people. None were particularly interesting or amazing in bed. Also, none were particularly into me. At this stage…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:37 PM
0

Yet I bet you are protective of your daughter from other men? If not, wait until she's 11/12 and starts getting harassed/gawked at. Then you'll see.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:11 PM
2

Sounds like I hit a raw nerve. Given that most women have been hit on by adult men since they were 11/12 & the vast majority of pedos are men, it's not really a stretch to think that pedos would flock to this if it were available. Some will go to great lengths for access to children.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:38 PM
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I've been there a few times. It's no fun for anyone. Mind you, this wasn't strictly physical attraction. There were many other issues too. Well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:54 AM
9

In the age of the incel, it's not worth getting shot up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 08:06 AM
18

Or they want to threaten women into breeding with them. The custody one always gets me. I know a lot of divorced men and they often whine about not having custody of their kids. I always ask if they tried to get custody and the answer is always something like "no, they need their mother."
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:02 AM
1

I've been single for 10 years and don't want kids. Neither is an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:52 AM
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I can't imagine there will be many straight men who will want to bottle feed, raise & clean up after a baby on their own. I'm more concerned about it for predatory/pedophilic reasons. I don't think most men who want to do this will be doing it for genuinely good reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:48 AM
2

When I start thinking about maybe trying to meet someone, I come here and I'm reminded of why that's a terrible idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:38 AM
2

I'm single, and I'm much more content with this than I would have been if I had stayed with either of the aforementioned. I've noticed that high value men don't tend to go for much younger women. They are much more likely to pursue women their own age. So while the hypothetical amazing older guy sounds like a catch, it's unlikely he actually is in real life. At least in my vast experience with older men pursuing me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 01:47 AM
2

Seems like a false dilemma. In my case, it was the 2nd older guy who was emotionally abusive & controlling. I would have been far better off with someone my own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 11:17 PM
2

Just my experience. I dated someone 18 years older after that & he's now fat & bald. A far cry from where he was back then. I'm so glad I snapped out of the older guy thing. I think aging with someone of a similar age is fine, but it's not fair on the younger person if there's an age gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 06:14 PM
2

I dated a 37 year old for 3 years when I was 23. I'm now 37 and I saw him recently. He looked ancient and frail. I was not attracted to him at all. I can't imagine his energy levels would be any better now either. I'm so glad it didn't work out or I'd be stuck looking after a geriatric while I still had some life left in me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 08:53 AM
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Neither. I'll stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 03:44 AM
19

So why the scare campaign?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 03:52 AM
25

No liberals in the future? Sounds like a redpill wet dream. What's the problem then? Why pretend you don't want this?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 03:36 AM
3

I don't date. It doesn't interest me anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:08 AM
7

Why did two of them ask me to marry them then?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:56 AM
4

Are you comforted by agonising over things you have no control over that happened in the past? Because that's the alternative.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 03:11 AM
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If the men who feel this way can't be mature and accept that the women they're with have likely had other partners (beyond late teens/early 20s), then they should probably remove themselves from the dating pool because they're going to have a bad time. None of my exes ever asked me much of anything about my past, but if they had & expressed disgust, I would have broken up with them for it. Even if I had only been with a small number of prior men, this reaction would indicate a lack of rational t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 03:05 AM
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Don't ask and don't tell then. Why torture yourself with jealousy?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:05 AM
8

They exist, but they also sleep with men. They wouldn't be able to support themselves with only the occasional female customer.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 07:08 AM
10

Yeah, 11 & 12 year olds are adults 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:38 AM
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Probably because they know they are attracted to much younger than that too. Most women have been hit on by older men since they were 11/12. The only reason these men start with 18 is because it's the minimum legal age in a lot of places.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 04:33 AM
6

It's still not attractive, but if I had to do zero housework, it would be a lot more tolerable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 12:52 AM
26

Cheeto eaters tend to be very lazy and don't pull their weight domestically, so no. I like working. I don't want to be cleaning up your Cheeto crumbs from the sofa & coffee table on a regular basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 12:35 AM
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It's not really about worth. It's about what you want versus what you can get and what you're willing to settle for. Even if I'm a trash human with endless flaws, I don't want Cheeto Bro, even if that's all I can get. I'd rather be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 12:29 AM
2

You hit the nail on the head!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 02:53 AM
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It's not some privileged white woman's hedonistic desire. Lots of non white countries have low birth rates. Even some conservative countries like China, Korea & Japan. Even birth rates in oppressive Arab countries are dropping rapidly. Turns out if you give women a choice, most don't want more than one or two kids. That choice should override your racism and doing it for the next generation. What gets me is many of the people who harp on about the next generation don't give a shit about climate …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 02:41 AM
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I live in a very liberal place & still got a lot of pressure from people about having kids. It used to come up constantly. Every time I complained about being tired or having a headache, "oh you're not pregnant are you?" Any time I expressed affection toward my dog, "when are you going to have a baby?" I didn't even get it from my family. Just from other people I knew. It pissed me off because I've always been strongly opposed to the idea and was sick of people suggesting it. If I told them I wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 02:28 AM
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I find it hard to take someone seriously if they're willing to be physically intimate with someone, yet they're disgusted by them. Either disgust doesn't mean what you think it does or someone is very confused here. I wouldn't even want to be in the same room as someone I was disgusted by.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 01:58 PM
2

If they're so disgusted with these women, why do they still try to have sex with them? I wouldn't have sex with a man I thought was disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:12 AM
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That sounds very abusive. What happens if you get to "past your prime" and you're not married? Do you get disowned? Killed?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:10 AM
2

They look down on nuns too. Think about all the nun jokes, the nun porn...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:06 AM
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They don't say "i expect you to do something about my dead bedroom situation." They start by trying to befriend me, add me on social media/or obtain my number somehow, start chatting, then they start being provocative. At that point I ask them what's going on at home because I can't imagine wife would be happy about it. Then I get the DB sob story/"I love her but I'm not in love with her"/"we're basically roommates." Then I shut it down. Often they make more attempts down the line because they'r…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:01 AM
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Not strangers so much as men I work with, neighbors, partners of friends of friends. That sort of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 01:50 AM
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I've seen those comments on reddit, but I've also observed it in real life. A lot of men think like this, even if they don't say it so explicitly. And yes, they're all deadbedroomed and expect me do something about it. I think it's pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 01:35 AM
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Men say all time on here that they want a woman with a low n-count because she's less like to cheat/compare him to others/divorce him. From what I've observed, the guys with this tactic often end up dead bedroomed & try to have affairs in their 40s & 50s. I know this because these are the men who hit on me all the time. They all have the same story. Eventually the ones who are successful are found out & end up divorced anyway. The guys with more sexually experienced partners seem to have better …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 01:21 AM
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Nothing kills the mood more than a guy who refuses do his share of housework or clean up after himself. Nothing sexy about having to clean his ass hairs off the toilet seat. I also think a lot of men are so hellbent on being with a woman who hasn't had many partners, but never stop to wonder why she hasn't. They're so afraid of being cheated on, but then end up being dead bedroomed instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 01:07 AM
2

It was because you were a kid
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 05:40 AM
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11 or 12. Amazes me that anyone thinks this is rare or that the men in their family or those they married wouldn't do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 05:16 AM
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I got banned for bigotry from a sub for defending lesbians who don't want to date people with dicks. I don't even really have strong opinions on these people, but this sort of thing is not going to win anyone over.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 05:06 AM
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I wouldn't marry any guy because they're all likely to cheat. I've had lots of guys who have only ever been with their wives or maybe one or two others hit on me. There are a lot of guys who think they're allowed to cheat because they "missed out" sleeping around in their 20s. A LOT.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 08:21 PM
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Not all women have problematic periods, but for the ones who do, it's likely the same as when you have the flu (or other illness) & don't want anyone nagging at you. You just want them to be gentle & undemanding. It's not really about emotions as much as fatigue & physical discomfort.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:23 AM
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I've been single for many years, but any time I think it might be nice to meet a guy, I just come to this sub & I'm reminded of why I don't date anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:47 AM
0

Oh, only the OP 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 09:03 PM
1

But why should women have to settle for someone they don't even want just because it's not fair to introverted men? Doesn't sound like it would make for a happy future
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 06:33 PM
1

For relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 06:30 PM
10

The same applies for personality traits. Why are men allowed to like what they like, but women are accused of doing it wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:43 PM
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And yet if we suggest men lower/change their standards based on appearance, we're completely unreasonable. The usual response is, "why would I want to be with someone I'm not attracted to?" Same same for women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:55 PM
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It's far worse to regret having them than not
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 10:15 PM
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Finally someone talking some sense
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 10:11 PM
6

Gross
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 02:30 AM
6

Whether they are judged, or taken seriously, or not, more young men live at home than young women. These men could also save money. https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2020/09/04/a-majority-of-young-adults-in-the-u-s-live-with-their-parents-for-the-first-time-since-the-great-depression/
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 08:18 PM
16

I also enjoy swimming in thunderstorms, but don't do it because of the risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:28 AM
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Not what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:04 AM
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For me it's been the assault, sexual assault, harassment, threats, cheating, lies, condescension & contempt.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 11:51 PM
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I like sex but checked out of dating and sex years ago because it's not worth the risk to my health and safety. I know several other women who are in a similar situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:40 PM
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Radfems are not for casual sex. That's libfems. Radfems don't think it benefits women at all. They also don't think being in a relationship with most men is worth it for women. They think men need to do better. I think this is reasonable given the burden of pregnancy on women & the risk of being involved with someone abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 05:24 AM
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It's not the plan (there isn't one), but if I don't meet anyone I like more than being alone, I'm ok with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 10:19 AM
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I'm 36 and I've slept with 19. First one was at 15. I've always been fairly solitary & I've generally met men online, at work, or through friends. I've only been with one man in the past 3 years, and have no intentions of marrying. I don't "go out" much. I live in a HCOL area, but earn a good income, so no need for another income. No desire for kids. I like to travel & I eventually want a nice house with 2 dogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 10:15 AM
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7/21 of those are at replacement or lower. Another 3 are at 2.2. That's almost half at just above replacement or lower. Once women are educated, most don't want to tear out babies until their uteruses give out. Even strict islamic control isn't enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 12:44 AM
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Fertility rates in the Middle East are dropping rapidly. Bahrain, Iran, Kuwait, Lebanon, Qatar, & UAE all have fertility rates of 2.1 or lower. They might not have these "problems" now, but they will within the next 10-20 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:40 PM
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I'm not sure. I think most places have no-fault divorce these days. My jurisdiction certainly does. So I'm guessing lawyers don't really care about the background story.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 07:38 AM
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I think the answer to the housework issue is to get a cleaner to come in once a week. I've met maybe one straight man who has met my standards for cleanliness, and it wears thin fast. It builds resentment and lowers libido. The two men I've lived with were disgusting pigs (got worse over time) but refused to let me arrange a cleaner. There were other reasons I moved out, but I would put that in the top 3 for both of them. One of them was emotionally abusive, but the other was just lazy and refus…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:16 AM
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I don't understand the point of being with someone wealthy if they're going to drip feed you a stingy allowance. That would be like marrying an attractive person and then only ever being able to see them naked, but not have sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:04 AM
2

You sound like the kind of guy that’s going to end up divorced
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 02:53 AM
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It wouldn’t even have to be financial equal. Just not a huge disparity like high income & SAHM. Having a job, any job, means she can support herself to some extent. Even a high income lawyer who marries a nurse or teacher is going to be vastly better off than if she’s a long term SAHM. I don’t really care about any of this, to be honest. I’m older and happily single. It’s just interesting to see the choices people make, where it leads them, and how they react when the the shit hits the fan.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:58 AM
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It depends on your income & earning potential. If you are a lawyer or high income earner yourself, that might not be a problem. I'm not saying poor guys should attempt to marry rich women. But if you have a good job & some assets and want the tradwife setup, good luck to you! The longer a woman remains out of the workforce and the more kids you have, the higher your support payments will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:42 AM
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That's only the case if they find a new partner who contributes financially and don't return to court to make new arrangements. The support payments generally drop significantly once she's living with a new partner. This likely depends on location though. I do think this is one of the problems with men who insist on the SAHM/low income woman setup. The closer you are in incomes, the less this becomes an issue. But the ego can't cope with that, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:21 AM
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Living expenses are not cut in half. It's a lot more affordable to live as a couple if both are contributing financially. Lots of household items are shared and most bills & insurances don't translate to double for 2 people. It's also harder to build wealth over time on a single income. Also, I said assets, not income. A woman is unlikely to get 75% of a man's income after divorce unless he agrees to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:07 AM
8

Far fewer women remarry than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 10:44 PM
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I don't understand this argument. A woman is going to be financially better off staying married (unless they're poor & the husband is a gambler or drug addict). Even if she got 75% of all assets, she's still worse off financially post-divorce. There is usually some other compelling reason. Most of the woman-initiated divorces I've observed have been because the man cheated or was abusive. Those things tend to be deal-breakers for self-respecting women. An opportunity to get half the money she pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 10:39 PM
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I dated plenty of toads in my 20s & early 30s. At some point I realised that it doesn't bring any benefit to my life. Remaining solo is just so much more peaceful. I'm financially secure and don't want kids, so why would I? A man would have to be top tier in every way for me to even consider getting involved with someone again. The likelihood of that happening is increasingly unlikely as time goes on. I'm ok with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 10:27 PM
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No, I think only men actually like that stuff. I've never met a woman who was into them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 04:34 AM
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Most might not prefer them, but plenty do. Enough that unless there are other issues, it's not a problem. I'm not tall, but there are a lot of tall women in my family. They are all with tall men who like that they're tall. None of them have ever had problems finding men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 07:13 AM
2

Lots of tall men like tall women. Since tall men are generally more desirable than short men, it isn't really a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 06:53 AM
2

Men pay for prostitutes all over the world every day. Having a pussy literally does make you worthy of a man's time and money. Sad facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 06:32 AM
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No, I think it's the antidote to a toxic status quo I think it's practical. A lot of women with liberal feminist backgrounds end up there because they've been treated horrifically in the past. It gives them the tools to build self-esteem & self-worth The focus is on not allowing oneself to be treated like shit. Lots of men here seem to think it's about fat women demanding Chads. It's not. Even if a woman is fat/ugly/poor/whatever, she should not have to put up with poor behaviour from men. Being…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 06:19 AM
1

It won't. That's why this suggestion is rubbish.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 08:40 AM
3

I've found my less attractive ex boyfriends to be more controlling and abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 08:33 AM
3

Anyone with half a brain knows men want casual sex. I still don't understand how me listening to them changes that or anything else. All it does it lead to compassion fatigue.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 08:28 AM
7

Bingo
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 08:20 AM
9

How is listening to a man complain about how he can't get sex going to stop men from using me for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 08:17 AM
0

I honestly can't anymore. I've seen & experienced too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 10:30 AM
16

Most young women don’t want anything to do with old men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 06:26 AM
0

I'm not sure about your specific situation, but why blame the parent who stayed to look after their kids? There's all this hate for single mothers, but where are the fathers & why aren't they playing an active role in their kids' lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 12:04 AM
1

I’ve seen time and time again men say that the only thing a woman needs to be attractive is to not be fat. That’s at least half of any western population ruled out immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 09:52 PM
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Not the same, but they still have them, and they’re respected. Women’s are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 08:56 PM
4

They should be in jail if they’re going to threaten the safety of others
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 05:43 PM
38

Lots of men aren’t attracted to fat women, short haired women, hairy women. What’s your point? Does that make them different to women who have discriminating tastes?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 05:33 PM
1

I meant in terms of private messages. Anything they have to say can be said on the sub. There's nothing worthwhile that has be said privately to a stranger on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 07:10 AM
2

Better to not allow private messaging. They do it to all women, and have very little to offer in terms of, well, anything really.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 04:49 AM
5

50 years ago women didn’t have to remove hair from every part of their body. They didn’t have to be fit as well as slim. They didn’t have to buy new clothes every month to keep up with the latest trends. Things change & you can either meet the current standards or not. Your choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 02:39 AM
2

I live in a country where prostitution is legal and men are still extremely thirsty for unpaid sex. I think largely because a lot of them don't want to spend the money.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 02:23 AM
17

I don’t think average women feel entitled to top tier men. They would just rather be alone than be with someone who doesn’t do it for them. How can you argue with that? No one realistically expects men to drop their standards & date someone they’re not attracted to. Why do women have to? “Swaths of desirable men” are not struggling because women will happily date desirable men. You mean undesirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 01:40 AM
2

They can do those things to benefit the family as well. It’s not either/or. It’s just not doing them 100% of the time and having other things to focus on as well. And yes, having an income is very appealing for many women. It can be very difficult living on one income. Unless the man in the relationship is rich, every day can be struggle on one income. Sometimes it still is on two incomes. Everyone likes to be able to buy nice things for themselves sometimes without having to run it by their par…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 10:25 PM
13

Because only one of those groups is desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 02:35 AM
9

I've found most couples tend to be similar in level of attractiveness. Ugly people have ugly partners & hot people have hot partners. Sometimes there's a mismatch, but it's rarely extreme. If it is, the less attractive one is usually making up for it in other ways, or the hot one has some serious flaws. Usually it's personality or mental illness related. Sometimes they will both be on the same level when they got together, but one let themselves go over time (gained weight, went bald, didn't loo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 02:26 AM
7

I’d be even less likely to seriously date a 22 year old than fuck one. I would feel embarrassed to be seen hanging out with one, to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 02:04 AM
4

I don't know. Not really my department. All I'm saying is that most women in the 35+ category are not desperate for dick. We can get it any time we like. Some of us might struggle to find a suitable partner at this age, but dating someone who is barely in his 20s is hardly going to fill that void.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 01:59 AM
4

I'm 35 and I'd rather never have sex again than fuck a 22 year old. I also have plenty of simps around me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 01:50 AM
2

Some women find it more interesting & rewarding to work (and get paid) than to cook & clean all day for no pay. Some women enjoy the social aspect of having a job. Some like having their own income so they can spend it how they want, and have some security & skills so they can support themselves if the relationship goes to shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 11:49 PM
0

What an inspiration
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 01:32 PM
1

They can have them, but that doesn’t mean they’re attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 03:37 AM
2

I guarantee no women like man boobs. They might tolerate them or love the man they’re attached to, but not the moobs themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 03:36 AM
5

Men who isolate their partners from their friends are controlling. Who are you to dictate what they talk about? They're her friends & she can talk with them about anything she wants. I would suggest any women in this situation break up with such a control freak. You are only going to end up miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 03:27 AM
0

Lousy reasoning
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 04:18 PM
0

What have those things got to do with cars?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 09:37 AM
1

Or it’s a false analogy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 09:36 AM
0

Oh right. Sounds like you are talking about another person like they are a machine that you have ownership of that has wearing out parts. This doesn’t compute for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 07:57 AM
-1

How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 07:41 AM
3

Mileage is important because engines & parts only have a limited lifespan before wearing out. Genitals don’t have that. I don’t care about how many owners a car has as long as it’s well-maintained. The car analogy makes no sense
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 05:25 AM
3

It’s not just because they’re older (that’s another topic all together). It’s because if they have to go to those lengths to prey on vulnerable women, it’s repulsive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 05:01 PM
2

Good luck with your creepy ass plan
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 07:20 AM
2

They don’t want to stay in their country. They want to get the hell out. That’s the whole point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 07:09 AM
4

I know a lot of men who have done this and it never works out well for anyone. Yeah, they get a young, attractive breeding vessel, but these women are not attracted to these men. They are repulsed, but it was their only chance out of poverty. They inevitably end up leaving once they have their visa, often with the kids. The men are financially, emotionally & sometimes physically abusive because they know it's going to happen. Then the men are left broke, alone, miserable & their kids want nothin…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 06:41 AM
5

So those celebrities are divorced? Why? A woman is not going to leave an attractive, rich, decent, compatible man for no reason. Most likely he’s cheated, is abusive, cheap, or doesn’t pull his weight around the house. Men also tend not to leave unless they have someone else. Either way you look at it, yeah, they might be fun for something casual, but I wouldn’t be lining up to date someone that age who fits that criteria. I’m equally suspicious of divorced & single men once they hit their 40s. …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 03:13 AM
5

If he’s attractive, middle-aged and not married, he likely has commitment and/or other major issues that make him low value. He’s not much good to anyone looking for something serious if he wants to stay single. If you just mean for sex, I could have sex with a selection of attractive men from all ages any time I wanted. I could probably line up several tonight if I were that way inclined. Women don’t have to be young to manage that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 02:39 AM
12

Good, attractive men my age are already married to women within their own age group. If they’re single, usually there’s something amiss. If they’re looking for 20 year olds, there is definitely something amiss in their socialisation & they’re definitely not desirable to most women my age. I’m definitely not bitter about anyone not want wanting to reproduce with me. I was sterilised at 33 and have absolutely no desire to. Younger women who go for older men usually have a traumatic background (mys…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 11:56 PM
19

Older women are against them because they’ve become aware of how predatory men can be. Men are not interested in young women because they’re “old souls.” They’re interested in them precisely because they’re young and easily manipulated. I’ve experienced it first hand. 100% do not recommend. We’re also not jealous of younger women. That’s something I believed when I was younger because that’s what predatory men told me. I’m not looking for a relationship & haven’t for many years, so there’s certa…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 11:15 PM
20

Crap. I’ve been in several large age gap relationships (15+ years) and now I’m against them. I mean, people can do why they want, and nobody could have stopped me when I was younger, but experience has taught me that age gaps are worthy of an eyebrow raise. I would discourage anyone who asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 10:55 PM
1

Must be the one thing you don't get better at by doing then. Got it. No practice needed. Just go out there with no experience and perform like a pro. Or maybe the experienced ones that were rubbish were even more rubbish when they were inexperienced?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 10:51 AM
6

Most people will be more patient with someone they're in a relationship with. If It's a one night or casual thing, there is some expectation of performance, otherwise why even bother? It's about raw sexual attraction & if he can't get his dick hard or know how to eat pussy, there's no point. It's a waste of time for everyone involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 10:24 AM
29

It's a bit rich to ask this when so many of you complain about high n-count women. Experience builds confidence. If you're going to complain about passivity, stop trying to fuck purity ball princesses.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 10:08 AM
634

It just amazes me how many men will risk their entire livelihoods over their dicks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 09:40 AM
4

I can echo what a lot of others here have said. Puberty itself was fine in a physical sense. Looking back, it was the constant sexual attention from fully grown adult men from the age of 11 that was a concern. Later it was the sexual assault. My body was fine. The men were fucking deranged.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:00 AM
1

Definitely support. Lots of shitty people take their partners for granted & they would be much better off bailing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 04:16 AM
370

He shouldn’t give a shit if he doesn’t want anything with her. Guess it’s more about his bruised ego than anything else 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 09:13 PM
0

Let me ask my ex and I’ll let you know
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 09:51 PM
1

I vaguely remember having a discussion about it when I was a teenager, but no one has asked since then. It seems a bit pointless to ask someone in their 30s & would indicate some problematic insecurity for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 10:18 AM
93

I don’t necessarily disagree with this tactic. It does prioritise our interests. However, I don’t want a scrote who looks down on me for sleeping with him either. I don’t want a slut shamer. I don’t want someone who thinks he’s degrading my worth by sticking his dick in me. If he only respects me because I don’t sleep with him, then he’s hardly a catch and probably hates women. How do you all reconcile this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 10:24 PM
1

Neither. Sounds miserable
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 06:53 AM
6

There’s nothing challenging about fucking a married man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 06:12 AM
16

I’m WGTOW and it’s largely voluntary. I’m sure I could find someone to get into a relationship with, but I’ve made absolutely no effort to make that happen in several years. My age also makes it harder because anyone worth getting involved with is generally already married. I’ve been in several LTRs of around 3 years each and hated all of them beyond the first few months. I don’t like being tied down & controlled. I don’t like jealousy. I have no desire for family life or kids or in-laws. I have…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 05:43 AM
7

Extremely unlikely, unless it was some highly specific “kink,” or she was a top porn star. I get the impression it was just amateur stuff, which would disappear into the other billions of videos. The future children thing is just to elicit the “think of the children” emotional response, but it’s unrealistic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 10:48 PM
1

Responding to a few comments hardly makes an obsession.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 12:23 PM
1

I’m not the one calling women sluts and whores and hoes. Just stating it how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 05:51 PM
1

Some did, some didn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 05:50 PM
1

No one who anyone should worry about
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 05:49 PM
1

I’ve been in a few longer term relationships where they wanted marriage and kids. They still never asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 05:48 PM
1

Most men on this subreddit complain non-stop about women only wanting to fuck Chad. Occasionally someone claims to get some action.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 08:04 AM
3

I guess it goes back to that quote: "Men are afraid women will laugh at them. Women are afraid men will kill them." Even the worst misandry doesn't match the least misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 07:30 AM
1

You said, "who said anything about virgins." What are you talking about then? Prostitutes? 100+? 50+? 1+?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 07:22 AM
8

No, most women don't even think about men they're not attracted to. They don't want to hurt them, or rape them, or kill them or wish anything bad to happen to them. The same can't be said for men who hate sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 07:20 AM
2

What's a whore?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 07:18 AM
1

You can set any standard you want for yourself, but as the other responder said, there's a difference between saying "I want a tall, rich guy," and saying "short, poor men are bad people." I don't think badly of poor or short men, or hate them. I just don't want to date them because I'm not attracted to them and/or they will make my life worse than it currently is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 07:14 AM
3

If average & below men think that young virgins will be throwing their pussies at them when they turn 35 because they have a decent job, they're dreaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 07:03 AM
4

Well, most of the men on this subreddit don't have a lot of options, so they had better get over it, or die mad (and single).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 06:25 AM
1

I'm not sure exactly. Some people here think any more than 0 (unless it's with them) is high. Others mean 100+. Then there's anything in between. I guess it depends on culture & age. I've been with 20 over 20 years. To some that's considered a lot, but that's an average of one per year, which is pittance, in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 06:11 AM
2

Probably a good choice. I would immediately end an interaction with any man who asked. I guess we can't all have everything we want. If you're not willing to stay single, you have to take what you can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 06:05 AM
3

I seriously doubt they think much of you either. Covert misogynists are easy to spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 05:56 AM
11

I’ve got a high count and I’ve literally never been asked by anyone ever. A lot of people here seem to have a lot of hangups over this topic. In the real world, no one cares, barring some religious nutters.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 04:38 AM
2

Too bad if women won’t fuck them. Plenty of men & women manage to have meaningful lives without having a family & without going on murderous rampages. The incels who can’t handle it & get shooty are solely responsible for their actions. No one owes them anything. Women especially do not owe them companionship. Women don’t want low value men. That’s nature as well. You can’t force women into relationships with incels and expect those women to be happy. There will be dead bedrooms, affairs, abando…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 06:00 AM
2

Their actions cause violence? How about men take responsibility for their own violent behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 05:44 AM
1

I just can’t understand how men can: -complain about sluts while simultaneously trying to fuck them. -complain about single mothers while creating them -complain about women having “daddy issues.” How is it a woman’s fault for having a shitty ass father? Seems like they want to put a lot of blame on women but don’t want to take responsibility for their own actions that create what they see as these problems. Ya’ll are fucked in the head
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 05:00 AM
0

I can only speak for myself, but my friends & I always loved sharing stories about our slutty exploits. They’re all married/partnered now, but still seemed to enjoy hearing about mine until I went celibate 1.5 years ago. There never seemed to be any judgment or jealousy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 02:34 AM
1

25%
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 09:51 PM
1

Again, it’s just not really worth the risk for what will probably be mediocre sex. And the percentage of scummy men out there is not small. Only a small number are convicted, yes, but a lot get away with scummy things.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 06:08 PM
1

“If a man refuses to wear one, you don’t sleep with him. If he takes it off mid sex, again stop the sex” Yeah, no shit. I didn’t say any of that was consensual. Just stating the risks because men actually do these things. Ask me how I know! The number of m&ms isn’t really important. It’s the amount of risk one is willing to take on for what will probably be unsatisfying sex at best & getting murdered at worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 02:49 PM
2

Condoms break. Shit men sometimes refuse to use them or take them off half way. It's just not worth having to piss in a cup & get blood drawn after explaining the situation your doctor yet again. Sometimes the judgment comes from the sex partner himself. It could also be his/my neighbours or friends. Even randoms on reddit like to talk about how evil women who have casual sex are (while simultaneously trying to obtain it). Violence against women is not uncommon and is a very legitimate fear. I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 09:20 AM
6

Getting beaten, raped, murdered, pregnant, STIs, judged.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 08:44 AM
9

FDS discourages casual sex. Most women don't orgasm from it & they take on a lot of risk by having it. The idea behind FDS is maximum benefit for women, which casual sex doesn't provide. I think you are thinking of pickmes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 08:34 AM
12

I would argue that the women I’ve known who settled down young & had kids were being irresponsible. They’ve ended up with shit partners who ended up being drunks, cheaters, or LVM in general. Or they’re no longer with them at all. Now the mothers are miserable & poor. The women who seem to be doing the best either have no kids or had kids in their 30s when they had the know how to find a suitable partner. Very few people in their early 20s know what they’re doing in that regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 06:08 PM
336

He found her on all 3 platforms? I doubt she's a top 3 watched star who would be that easy to come across accidentally. He's actually gone out of his way to look for her elsewhere once he found her. I bet he's getting off on it too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 05:48 PM
11

It’s more that it has opened my mind to the male way of thinking, and I don’t like what I see. It’s dark & ruthless, and I’d rather not entertain any of it ever again.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 10:50 AM
8

It’s been about 1.5 years. I swore off men & sex when I started reading this sub. So no, I’m not more understanding of lonely men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 08:14 AM
20

I’m 35 and I feel protective of younger women. I don’t want them to experience or put up with what I did as a young woman. Sometimes I cringe at young pickmes. Not because I’m jealous, but because I know they will be exploited for their naivety.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 10:13 PM
21

I've been propositioned by literally dozens of married men over the years. FDS seems to think marriage is the ultimate form of commitment. I call bollocks. Long term married men are some of the skeeviest out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 11:02 PM
1167

If they didn’t want us, they wouldn’t care so much what we think
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 01:17 AM
6

Yeah, try 12
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 11:33 AM
1

I don’t care what they care about. It’s all just jealousy anyway. Men who get laid don’t typically care about that sort of thing, in my experience. Or if they do, they’re not fanatical about it like PPD men. What gets me is they throw n-count out the window if a woman is attractive enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 02:51 PM
3

I’m mid 30s and don’t want kids. I would never make myself that vulnerable. I’ve been single for a long time now, and I’ve never felt safer or more secure. I also prefer dogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 11:58 AM
6

Personally, I've opted out. If that is how men really think & feel, I'm better off alone. I'm healthy, happy & I can support myself. Why would I have someone around who is just going to make me feel like shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 01:46 AM
238

18-25 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 07:19 PM
2

I don’t care if they do or don’t, but I’ve been there & I’m not going back.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 06:21 PM
40

I’ve done it before and never will again. Your entire life revolves around their schedules & their mother. You will never be the priority in your partner’s life. I don’t want, or even particularly like kids anyway. There are much more suitable women out there than me for the role.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 06:20 AM
100

Sounds like a win-win
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 09:46 AM
2

How do you know I didn’t? Also, I’m not lonely. In fact, I’ve never been more lonely than when I’ve been in a sub-par relationship 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 10:39 PM
2

I dated plenty of guys in my league when I was in my 20s, and staying single is far superior. Why would anyone want to avoid this situation? This is far better than being with someone I’m not attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 10:24 PM
2

I accept that I’m probably too old and not attractive enough to find the type of man i would be willing to have a relationship with. That’s why I’m single. I’m not complaining about anyone else’s standards. It just pisses me off when men complain about women not going for their looksmatch. Why would they if being single is a better option?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 07:31 PM
1

Which studies?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 07:26 PM
2

No one is demanding anything. It’s opting out if there’s no one satisfactory to pair off with. I don’t think that’s unreasonable. No one should have to be with someone they don’t respect or are not attracted to. It’s better to stay single
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 03:59 PM
1

Most men are garbage, which is why some women are opting out. There are not enough worthwhile men to go around. Most women will settle for less than ideal, but some won't. OP seems to be upset about that ones who won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 09:37 AM
0

If more men tried it, it would need to be repeated.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 07:58 AM
9

To themselves? That’s the problem. I know a lot of ugly/fat guys who think they are attractive and they’re not. Many of them are repulsive. If they cover manners, fitness, hygiene and basic grooming, they will be miles ahead of most other men. Many fail to do any of this out of ignorance or laziness or both. As for some less than perfect women aiming for 9s & 10s, maybe they would rather be alone than with less than they consider ideal? I’ve been single for a long time by choice because being al…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 07:57 AM
12

I see women with hideous beasts all the time. I think most women have their standards set way too low. It seems this is more of a case of you being attracted to women with high standards, but obviously not being able to meet them. Either accept your fate or be more attractive. Most men put next to no effort into their appearance. Lots of out-of-shape fatties out there with ugly facial hair and bad haircuts. Maybe try showering once in a while and cutting your nails? Ever heard of anti-perspirant…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:50 AM
42

There was that dude that fucked the coconut...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 08:46 AM
57

This isn't just tinder. It feels like it's the entire dating pool once you're over 30.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 12:21 AM
104

I second this. Best thing I ever did, and I’ll never have to worry about getting baby trapped by a LVM or my LV government.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 11:07 PM
2

I don’t know why any woman in this situation would tell the fwb at all. At best he might pay for the termination. At worst he might coerce her into keeping it or even kill her. Doesn’t seem to be a very solid upside.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 03:07 AM
172

I think my dad liked it & it boosted his ego. But he was a disgusting creep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 08:57 AM
29

Spitting in the street is the thing that gets me. It's fucking disgraceful and so many of them do it like it's nothing, even during covid!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 09:25 AM
28

Very interesting. Let me guess? It probably causes BV or yeast infections 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 12:39 AM
12

I’d also like to see men take a more active role, but their options are limited too. I also could never fully trust a man to be responsible beyond wearing a condom. Most are too hopeless to even manage that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 12:38 AM
129

There desperately needs to be more research into non-hormonal options for women. The side-effects for existing methods are unacceptable for many of us. I’ve never had an issue taking responsibility for my own body, but can’t tolerate anything hormonal, and condoms break not infrequently. I ended up just getting sterilised due to lack of anything suitable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 10:53 PM
194

I see this all the time and it makes no sense. We are more or less the opposite of incels. There’s an abundance of dick out there, but we don’t want just any crusty old dick. I would happily never have sex again with a low value man. That’s a very deliberate and voluntary choice. Not a difficult one to make, might I add.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 01:38 PM
23

Sorry, but some men are unwanted. Why should a woman have to suffer with a nasty scrote to save his mental health? What about hers?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 02:46 AM
5

You’d be amazed how much attention my greys draw. Not necessarily the good kind. Unless you’re talking about blue or pink or purple hair, I think a lot of the time hair dye is just to blend in and meet the beauty standards in society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 02:33 AM
44

I’ve gotten that a few times. It’s pathetic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 01:08 AM
191

I closed DMs & chats a long time ago and it has improved my reddit experience considerably. I highly recommend
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 08:52 PM
146

I work with quite a few men who can work from home but choose not to because they don’t want to have to be there with the wife & kids. In my country, we have very good paternity leave and a lot of men I know don’t take it for the same reasons. They say it’s easier just coming to work. They just don’t want to help. There’s nothing more to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 11:38 PM
141

No wonder South Korean women are going WGTOW in droves. What a bunch of whiny, dickless scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 05:04 AM
80

It’s not just in the US. They do it in Australia, Canada & the UK also. They probably do it in other places too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 03:36 AM
258

They say because not enough conscious people will consent
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 12:42 AM
326

I don’t understand why the training doctors don’t volunteer themselves for these exams. If it’s so important, no big deal & will make them better doctors, then they should be all for it? I’m guessing it’s because it’s intrusive and embarrassing. The same as for the patients they’re raping...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 11:16 PM
4

They say that, but then in the same sentence they say they want a low n-count woman. They also hate sluts. Makes no sense. Not sure why planet they are living on.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 12:10 AM
8

Yes, I’ve opted out. The risk isn’t worth the reward (is there even a reward?).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 12:06 AM
22

It’s probably a case that the women you want are objectively too good for you. There are a lot of women who date average men, but you are probably not interested in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 11:55 AM
248

I’m actually amazed he showed her. Surely he knows this is wrong and illegal?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 02:17 PM
19

I’m sterilised and this annoys me too. If someone is waiting for the right man, and won’t have them unless they find him, then they’re on the fence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 04:46 AM
6

Women are less interested in marriage than ever. Do you really think this isn’t going to accelerate that trend?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 03:19 AM
3

Probably because so many fathers want to fuck their daughters. Seen a porn site lately? They disappear because it makes them uncomfortable to be around them. “Daddy issues” are entirely the father’s fault. Shaming women for what their adult fathers have or haven’t done makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 10:47 PM
130

Agreed. You rarely see rich women choosing to be surrogates, unless it’s for someone in their own family. I’m not necessarily against it in those cases. I’m more against transactional surrogacy, because it primarily exploits poor women, and because it’s risky & traumatic to the body.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 03:47 AM
12

Not really. Women are much more likely to be beaten or killed by their partner than anyone else. And dick is abundant.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 07:16 PM
43

Agreed, but these types probably expect YOU to cook the fish for them 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 02:34 AM
46

Fish pics! So many of them have them. I wonder if it's supposed to be some kind of primal signal that he can provide food or something? Whatever it is, it doesn't work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 02:28 AM
7

This place sounds like a fun mix of high schoolers, radical muslims, evangelicals, and uptight “nice guys.”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 10:00 AM
22

Well, that’s true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 02:47 AM
104

Not so much “I pay for dinner so I don’t owe the man sex,” but if I have any inkling at all, it gives him no excuse to try to demand it. It’s the confrontation I’d rather avoid. I agree that asserting boundaries is good and should be encouraged, but I’ve experienced a lot of sexual assault, despite practicing it. Sometimes seemingly because of it. Sometimes it just pays to keep yourself safe, regardless of what you or he “should do” in terms of the rules. I hope that doesn’t sound Pickme. It’s j…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 02:45 AM
207

I’ve done this. Not because I think dinner = sex, but because I believe a lot of men do, and I don’t want to put myself in a situation where I’m vulnerable to verbal or physical abuse for saying no. Let’s face it, on the first few dates you don’t know if he’s a genuinely nice guy or a psycho. That said, I’m not actively dating, and generally think the man should pay. But if you’re getting any bad vibes, better to cut your losses and pay for yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 02:18 AM
122

I remember reading somewhere that about 1/3 of men on OLD apps are married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 11:47 PM
11

I’ve never been one to ask, and I don’t appreciate being asked myself. That said, you can usually get an idea by talking to them. If I found out a potential partner had had 50+ partners (by mid 30s), it would raise a red flag. Most of the men I’ve been with have seemed to have a lot fewer than me, and I have to admit I like that. However, most of the men I’ve been with have been LVM, so that’s probably why they were less experienced. I would take a HVM with lots of experience over a LVM with min…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 03:56 AM
99

How come lesbians don't rape at anywhere near the rate men do? Problem isn't the clothes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 08:43 AM
11

At this point I think I’d be better off hiring a maid. That’s not even high on the list of what’s important. At least not beyond meeting half way and contributing equally to household maintenance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 02:15 AM
45

Overbearing mothers are a telltale sign of weak, lazy, parasitic man-children. They have difficulty making decisions and expect women to baby them. Ask me how I know 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 01:45 AM
26

Honestly, I would be happy really happy if someone cleaned up after me. I’m not tidy, but I like things clean. I’ve only been with men who were either complete pigs, or tidy, but not clean. Clean is the thing that really matters to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 01:34 AM
27

What a tragedy. She clearly stated it was to be left to her mother. Should have been end of story. What a disgusting pig. 45 year age gap 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 01:29 AM
40

I’m embarrassed for him. What a loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 12:44 AM
250

I wasted my 20s with old scrotes, and I'm bitter about that. If only I had known then what I know now. I'm 34 now, and when I see young women with old scrotes, I feel angry at the men because I feel protective of the young women & hope they figure it out before too much damage sets in. There is absolutely no jealousy whatsoever. I just don't want them to go through what I did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 10:39 PM
112

I have massive boobs and I've had no shortage of men tell me they like small ones & that I should get a reduction. Maybe they should get a penis extension?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 11:47 PM
50

I love how they say it’s toxic but don’t give any real reasons why. It’s always “they call us scrotes.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 01:12 AM
358

They forgot to add sex worker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 07:34 PM
71

We all know they’re jerking their tiny dicks to it & getting off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 09:09 AM
57

A few of them are. Most not so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 03:02 AM
106

Cost of our mental health, self-esteem, bodies, lives...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 02:46 AM
32

True, even gay men are guilty of this. Twink porn and father/son categories are very popular.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 02:01 AM
241

I'm convinced that most men want to fuck kids. Their daughters, grand daughters, nieces, or random school girls on the street. I think that's why teen, incest, kidnapping, and school girl porn is so popular. Their ultimate fantasy is to dominate, manipulate, and control. Much easier to do that with a kid than an adult woman who has experience navigating predatory behaviour. This is not even just a white/western thing. Asia is the same. Look at Japanese porn & hentai. Many of these girls are prac…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 09:30 PM
4

Yeah, that was also me in my 20s. I looked amazing, yet I was with LV scrotes 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 02:58 AM
15

Thursty Thursday
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 08:35 AM
23

They know they’re seeking out 15 year olds and they’re hoping to get away with it. These are just the excuses they come up with if they’re caught. The most attention I’ve ever gotten from grown men was when I was in that 14-16 age group, and they knew my age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 07:27 PM
268

There used to be a sub (that got banned, thankfully) called “dead eyes.” A bunch of scrotes got off on women who were so sexually traumatised that they emotionally dissociated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 09:28 PM
183

Even safety. You and your kids are much more likely to be abused or killed by your partner than anyone else. You're better off going it alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 01:14 AM
28

"But I feel like I'm 23." puke
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 06:33 AM
105

I have 2 scrotey old exes who thought they looked like George Clooney. They didn’t at all! George Clooney only looks good as an older guy because he looked very good as a younger guy. Not because he’s old. These men are delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 11:06 PM
318

Even if they do marry you, it doesn't mean they like you or respect you. From what I've observed from male co-workers, they will complain endlessly to anyone who will listen about how you're a "dragon" and a "ball & chain," and will hit on any young women they work with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 06:23 AM
142

This is why I avoid teaching hospitals. I understand training doctors have to learn, but I’m not prepared to be raped while I’m unconscious for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 05:35 AM
214

Coming inside someone doesn’t make you a hero
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 05:52 PM
56

Anything is going to feel loose if you're used to the death grip
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 05:45 AM
104

I suspect some of them are men who would rather be sticking their tiny dicks in another man's butt hole. I also suspect there's an underlying rape fantasy element to it. An aroused vagina expands, not contracts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 04:47 AM
39

Having children is too risky- Physically, mentally, emotionally, financially. Very few men have what it takes to be good fathers in this modern world
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 05:02 AM
26

Me too. It’s like some sick new trend
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 07:26 PM
9

Worse than spam
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 07:07 PM
20

This is such bullshit. For this to be a thing, they must think they are damaging women by having sex with them. Doesn’t really make me want to fuck them if they think I’m worth less because of it. They should just go rub one out and leave us alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 03:38 AM
222

While I believe all of this & have picked up on it through my own scrote co-workers, how is it that most of them end up married? Do they do this to the women they want to marry as well? Most of my married friends with seemingly decent husbands slept with them soon after meeting them and none of the this was an issue, but I’ve only ever dealt with shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 01:49 AM
164

This was me. Got into a relationship at 23 with a 37 year old loser like one of the ones you described. I wish someone could have a explained this stuff to me back then. Oh well, live and learn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 05:02 PM
237

Scrotus: the women called us “scrotes” on a sub not intended for us. Ban them immediately! They are so hateful and toxic! They’re all ugly cat ladies anyway Meanwhile, Scrotus is lapping up child porn, BDSM hardcore anal & pussypassdenied.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 10:46 PM
28

Unrelated, but where I live men are always walking on the road! You never see women walking down the middle of the road or hanging out with their car door open. I can’t help but feel they like the power of making cars stop for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 02:54 AM
8

I love this film clip so much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 10:25 PM
7

Lots of scrotes with religious upbringings and cultural hangups have this. Yet I know plenty of men who married beautiful promiscuous women. There's a variety out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 09:21 PM
73

What to do? STFU and leave her be. Go get a hobby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 01:11 AM
147

Yet they have entire subs dedicated to violence against women. They hate this sub and call us "toxic," because we speak the truth and they can't handle it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 03:42 AM
88

There are quite a few of these cases around the world. Scrotes “spreading their seed” without the responsibility of being a father. And even getting paid a lot of money for it. Psychopaths. What’s even more disturbing is some of these were in small towns and there were biological siblings who have met and fallen in love without knowing they were related.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 11:22 PM
194

What about the IVF clinicians who use their own sperm instead of the woman’s partner’s sperm/ donor sperm? There was one case where the guy running the clinic impregnated 100s of women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 10:56 PM
67

If men can’t control themselves around ankles and shoulders, they clearly don’t have enough maturity or civility to hold positions of power or authority. Women get roasted for not controlling their impulses. Why aren’t men held to the same standard?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 12:06 AM
17

I’ve been rattled by this story all day. I haven’t been able to eat and it’s all I can think about. That’s among the most fucked up things I’ve ever read.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 04:02 PM
11

Probably because lionesses do the majority of the hunting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 09:37 PM
13

Good pickup. You’re right. We were in a relationship. This happened about 6 months in. I stuck around for another 2.5 years. Pickme days 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 01:07 PM
98

They want a performance from their favourite porno. Clearly not the real thing 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 05:35 AM
157

The only guy who could actually make me have real orgasms without toys burst out laughing at my orgasm face once. I never had one with him again. Others have gotten annoyed about my need for the use of a vibrator. No wonder women fake it. It's just easier & less humiliating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 04:33 AM
91

I wouldn’t want a man who was horrible to fat/old/ugly woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 03:11 AM
204

I feel angry. I feel disgusted. I feel scared for the future. Women in western countries have more freedom than ever, but there's still rape, domestic violence, discrimination, and casual misogyny. Men still want to take the freedom we've earned away from us. This is not a site for dating for me. This is a safe space where I can learn & piece together what's happened to me in the past & why. The more time I spend here, the less I want to do with men & the more empowered I become to live a solo l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 02:24 AM
470

So women should start having sex with incels to prevent them from watching porn? I seriously doubt that's going to work. Plenty of men who are married & in relationships are porn addicts. I can't see many women sacrificing themselves and giving into the guilt trip for such a pathetic cause, nor should they.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 10:34 PM
26

This sounds eerily similar to what an ex of mine did to me. Trust me, it's not going to get any better. It will only escalate and he will become more abusive, intrusive and controlling. I ended up in the psych ward on suicide watch my ex. Please try to inform someone you trust, like a parent or sibling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 05:10 AM
104

It must be to draw attention away from what really happens- them orgasming irresponsibly and getting women pregnant. Lots of them have that “spread my seed” mentality and don’t care about ending up a deadbeat as long as they’ve done their biological duty 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 04:52 AM
152

What a joke. There's always a scrote around willing to nut without a condom. No one needs to resort to this type of deception.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 02:16 AM
60

Why would I ruin my entire active, healthy life, just to prevent myself from being alone when I die? That’s one moment at the very end of (hopefully) a long life. Doesn’t make any sense. If I get really sad about it down the track, I’m sure I could find some scrote for companionship, but it’s doubtful. People are always so focused on dying instead of living.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 10:45 PM
141

Making her wear a hoodie in that weather, and especially for those reasons, is emotionally abusive. She’s old enough to live where she wants. Tell her she’s free to leave her creepy other family in the dust
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 10:15 PM
112

Surely this is responsible for all the man boobs around? Even fit guys have them these days. Hopefully the feminisation makes them less aggressive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 04:51 AM
257

I'm 34 and my life has only just begun!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 09:56 AM
26

Yeah, I’ve never once gone on a red pill site and had the urge to message a scrote. I just do not give enough of a shit about them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 04:47 AM
57

I get messages just about every day. Ignore and block ✋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 01:20 AM
66

The WhatsApp ones are married
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 03:26 AM
75

Many of us are in the same boat. It’s embarrassing, but at least we figured it out eventually. Here’s to our futures and no longer being pickmes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 02:27 AM
36

And male superheroes are? 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 02:50 AM
2

It appears to be an article https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-511373/How-men-Mars-women-Venus-CAN-make-differences.html 🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 10:56 PM
4

My dog brings much more than 10% to the well. Why do I need a man again? This just seems like an excuse not to do housework. There are lots of traditionally male jobs that involve cleaning, nurturing & caring aspects. Think garbage men, gardeners, chefs, teachers, doctors....The contracted cleaning company that cleans my building are all men and they do a wonderful job. They just don’t want to help out because they’re lazy. Not being “evolutionarily designed” is a lame excuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 10:54 PM
61

This oxygen thief would only be doing her a favour if he broke up with her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 10:25 PM
3

I'm sterilised, so that's a no from me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 11:51 PM
4

Yes, chronic fatigue, muscle pain, gut problems, sleep problems (recurring nightmares about a specific traumatic experience every time I've fallen asleep for the past 15 years).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 09:37 PM
247

Kind of like the boys who hit puberty and then within 10 years they're bald, have hairy backs, and big guts. Not to mention the ED, wrinkly foreheads, and man boobs. Give me a break.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 08:28 AM
5

I wish every day was tiktok free. So sick of the lame videos
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 02:08 PM
239

I just get a massage when I'm feeling like that. I get the touch, but without having to go near a scrote. It's also good for you, as opposed to fucking a scrote, which can only be bad for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 03:39 AM
25

Seems like they say this to try to draw empathy, but gay men & native men have higher rates of suicide than white men, and most white men don't give a shit about that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 07:44 AM
238

I think it's jealousy, especially from unfit men. Most fit men like women with muscles (natural). They don't feel threatened. A scrote who has never lifted anything heavier than his xbox controller does feel threatened, because it reminds him of his failing masculinity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 10:24 AM
54

He knows nothing about history, or he’s in denial & completely out of touch with reality 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 01:23 AM
215

You mean the fact that worldwide & throughout history, women have categorically been to various extents unable to independently purchase property, get a loan, get a credit card, vote, run for public office, serve on a jury, work in their chosen career, drive a car, take control of their fertility, divorce, have recourse for rape & domestic violence, experience sexual pleasure (FGM), wear what they want? All of this, plus the stigma of being a slut, a cat lady, childfree, too masculine, unattract…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 01:10 AM
182

I wonder how many of those “one time” rapists are actually serial rapists but the victims haven’t come forward? Given the way that county has handled the cases of those who have, I can see why women wouldn’t even bother. How incredibly cruel to take all that evidence and not even test it! Imagine how it must feel for them to finally convict your rapist 20 years later! In the meantime, the rapist was out raping other women. Multiple womens’ lives ruined because of a lousy system. Astonishing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 01:10 PM
342

A lot of these scrotes don’t even think rape exists (unless someone is raping their ass). They think they’re entitled to sex, and them getting busted for it is automatically a false accusation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 04:42 AM
31

Must be some serious loser scrotes who try to make this shit up. Pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 08:33 AM
261

I still don’t understand how this page is “toxic” and “should be banned.” It seems seriously benign compared to all the porn and violence and hatred towards women. Is it because men are not used to being called out for their shit? The world is full of men patting other men on the back and pickmes joining in. It’s about time they had a good honest look at themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 04:20 AM
183

I don't think there's a solution to this that doesn't involve opting out of having kids. Most men will just not come to the party on this matter. I think if your man doesn't do housework (properly) and on his own accord, doesn't look after you when you're sick, doesn't look after your pets like they were children, don't do it! It will never even be close to 50/50.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 01:26 AM
59

Sadly, you are much more likely to experience violence from a partner, friend or family member. You are probably safest on your own or with other women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 10:34 PM
185

Welcome to the club. I think many would say we have trust and relationship insecurity issues like there’s something wrong with us. Given what’s out there men-wise, I think it’s a completely normal and rational response. We are conditioned to think most men are good & there are a few bad eggs out there. I think the reality is that it’s the other way around. There’s an alarming mismatch in the number of women who would make good partners VS men who would make good partners. There are nowhere near …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 10:31 PM
33

True. It is only one factor adding to the resentment. I'm sure it would be like "whack-a-mole" and another would pop up, because it's more about laziness & a lack of respect than the state of cleanliness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 02:44 AM
20

I wonder if getting a cleaner in once a week could be the way to go for couples in this situation? I suggested this to exes and they hated the idea because "we (I) can just do." I have no plans to live with a man in the future, but if I did, a cleaner would be an essential part of the agreement. Or does this situation just expose other issues within the relationships?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 02:15 AM
83

I’ve had a guy ask me to stick a dildo up his ass. He also wanted me to pee on him. I figure that’s almost as bad, but at least it doesn’t require me being in pain for once.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 03:14 AM
75

This was me in my 20s. I “dated” men up to twice my age, and they weren’t even rich or good looking or nice. They were ogres who treated me horribly, and I allowed it. Likening it to self-harm makes perfect sense to me. That’s exactly what it was. I have a significant trauma history, and I never cut myself, but this form of self-harm was arguably more destructive. I’m glad I’ve chosen to remain single in recent years. It seems to be the only way for me to not end up in something abusive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 06:12 AM
78

I was 27 when my scrotey ex (45) cheated on me with his high school crush. They’re still together 7 years later. She’s also a larger woman, and I was slim, so it went against cliche.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 04:33 AM
30

Why would you pay a man to do nothing? Most will do that for free. If a woman offered the same services, she would no doubt just be an escort or sex object, even if no sex was involved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 08:07 PM
4

It was banned a couple of weeks after that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 09:11 PM
84

Correct. Even though it's the truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 02:07 AM
76

The pink pill sub has been banned, but the sentiment was much the same. There was just less of an emphasis on dating and more on discussion of how men think and how dangerous they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 01:30 AM
137

I did this last year after discovering Pinkpillism. I had a lot of healing to do, and I think that was accomplished to a significant degree. It was a year for me to re-evaluate & reassess my life & where I want it to go. I broke the stretch of celibacy on NYE. It was extremely disappointing. I can’t think of men the same way anymore. I wouldn’t be surprised if I go another year or more without any sex. Libido is there, but interest in men isn’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 12:47 AM
185

Probably because we're worried we'll get assaulted or murdered if we do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 09:10 AM
35

There’s burka & hijab porn. Doesn’t matter what it is, men will sexualize it. Think about how sexualized nuns are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 05:18 AM
92

Fuck off. A woman can go about her business at any time of the day. If a man can't handle that, and rapes her, it's HIS fault. I don't care what country or culture it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 08:47 AM
46

Must be so fulfilling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 09:38 AM
174

At least he’s realised that the red pill thing is a fantasy. An incel turning 30 is not suddenly going to become desirable to 19 year olds, even if they have money. Older guys who are desirable to younger women were generally desirable when they were young too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 08:58 PM
208

He's saying "flirt with me, but not with other men. You are not allowed to have had a life before you met me."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 02:29 AM
8

No, he wanted to use condoms! He was worried that not using them would lead to pedophilia. I don’t understand the connection, but he had obviously made one in his mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 10:18 PM
10

I didn’t ask 😖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 11:15 AM
6

correct
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 10:06 AM
2

What part don't you understand?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 10:01 AM
17

Scrotes couldn't handle the truth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 08:42 AM
27

Wow, this takes me back to when I was 20 and my boyfriend (24) at the time told me he didn't want to not use condoms (even though I was on the pill) because he thought that led to things like pedophilia. There must have been tendencies for him to think that, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 07:48 AM
84

How about communicate that you want him the fuck out of your life?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 09:29 AM
21

Why couldn’t he use part of his income to get a cleaner to come in once or twice a week?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 10:06 PM
40

I see 95/5 now. Even that 5 might be a stretch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 08:55 PM
67

I hope she’s doing the classes so she can up-skill and leave his pathetic ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 08:49 PM
48

I couldn't afford my own place & travel alone before I was earning a solid income. A partner makes those things a lot cheaper.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 11:51 AM
159

The more money I earn the less interested I seem to be in men. I can support myself and have a really fun, exciting life. Why would I want to add a lazy scrote to the equation?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 07:06 AM
38

He would be the type to leave his wife if she got cancer. There are a lot of them out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 09:35 AM
2

He’s probably hit the wall...hard and fast.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 07:32 AM
95

This reminds me of the European cities with "pop-up out of the ground" urinals for men. This is to stop men from urinating in the street like animals. For some reason this is catered to. But women are stuck having to find a toilet the conventional way, and often having to pay for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 05:33 AM
7

Let me guess? He’s not looking at the granny nude filter? 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 11:11 PM
59

Swim at the beach nude. Get extremely drunk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 09:38 AM
24

This happened to me a few years ago, but I was asleep (nude). He shared it with all of his friends. It seems to be becoming a thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 11:38 PM
120

“Once the honeymoon period is over, I’ll turn into an asshole”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 01:07 AM
1

You guessed it 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 02:23 AM
67

My NV ex had a king size bed with a queen size mattress and used cushions to fill in the gap with a (dirty) king size sheet over the top 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 11:44 PM
54

I went through hell and back trying to get sterilised. My doctor agreed to do it at 33 (a month ago) after a second opinion in writing and an hour long psychiatric evaluation. Yet there are women being sterilised against their will for being the wrong skin tone 🤨 There is no chance of regret for me. This world is fucked politically and environmentally. The last thing I need is to end up getting knocked up by some scrote, then having him cheat on or abuse me and/or the kid. Or leave me as a singl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 12:03 AM
3

In my experience, Scandinavia, Northern Vietnam, some pacific islands.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 11:10 AM
35

I think this is very much culture & socialisation. In some cities & countries the men act like rabid animals & cat-call and harass, other places don’t. Same gender, same sex-drives, same outfits, but very different behaviour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 01:12 AM
23

That wasn’t even the lowest thing about him. I could write a page about his lowliness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 03:37 AM
75

My ex did this and actually had me believing it. I figured it out when I offered to show him how to do it & he refused to learn. He was 37
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 03:34 AM
70

Handsome man!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 05:59 AM
10

Mine does, but in a different way. She's had horrible relationships and seems to have tried to instil fear in me about men my whole life. Perhaps for good reason. It took a few of my own horrible relationships, but I finally get what she was saying. I just wish I had paid attention earlier.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 09:03 PM
51

Oh please! Most of them wouldn’t last a week of doing all the childcare, housework and having a full time job. There would be abandoned babies all over the place. But as long as they get to “spread their seed,” that’s all that matters to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 06:28 PM
259

I’ve even been hearing FDS terminology out in the real world. A movement is happening right before our eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 04:59 AM
40

They get more sex in a relationship with a lot less effort than they would if they were single. They also get a bonus maid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 01:44 AM
106

Because they want younger women, but most young women don’t want their scrotey asses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 08:02 PM
5

She needs to kick him out! Let him go back to his real mother for good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 07:25 PM
39

Unless the appointment was for a vasectomy, I would just let him sleep in. He needs to learn to deal with the consequences of his actions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 07:11 PM
4

At the time it validated my behavior & I think I became even worse. It seemed free and fun, even with the downsides. Obviously now I can see it was self-destructive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 09:26 AM
5

Unfortunately, I related to her a lot. Times have changed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 09:02 AM
16

Hannah from Girls
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 02:51 AM
38

Well, they’re not wrong
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 02:47 AM
96

I know a woman who married a much older man at 18. He became abusive and a couple of years later they divorced (no kids). She is now 42 and still does his laundry for him. Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 08:19 PM
28

And what does he have to offer?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 06:57 AM
25

Keep striving for where you want to be. Being happy on your own, and only considering the best, is a lot better than pining for N/LVM because you feel they can give you a better life. Most often they can’t. It’s just a fantasy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 05:58 AM
111

I recently got a new job and a huge pay rise (28%), which puts me in the top 10% of income earners in my country. I've also noticed that I've completely lost all attraction to men. I'm completely self-sufficient. I can do whatever the hell I want, whenever I want, with whomever I want. Why would I choose to live with some filthy, selfish scrote who can't even give me an orgasm? They have nothing to offer me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 04:33 AM
35

He looks about 60.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 01:02 AM
47

How are scrotes like this even able to get into a relationship? This is seriously negative value. I don’t even think I would have tolerated this in my worst pickme days. Take a sleeping pill or do some meditation. You don’t piss in a glass while your partner is lying next to you. Jesus Christ...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 08:34 PM
12

I’m a childfree and just got sterilised! Pregnancy and childbirth make a woman incredibly vulnerable physically, emotionally, and financially. I refuse to get caught up in any of that. Besides, the world is fucked and too dangerous to bring children into it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 05:55 AM
10

I love this. We need to be kind to ourselves and forgive ourseleves for our pickmeisher pasts. Experience is learning, and is there to lead us to brighter futures ✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 05:47 AM
25

It would be a massive ego boost for him to get you to fly there, and quarantine for 2 weeks. "Look what she did for me." Get him to come to you. Get him to quarantine for 2 weeks. Then you'll see if he's really into you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 08:10 AM
120

Plenty of pickmes will take these men. I know because I was one. Why are they complaining?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 04:12 AM
13

Yeah, 8 pack abs won't eventuate with that many meals, even if they are healthy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 11:29 PM
225

Ugh. I was put in this position as a teenage girl with a brother 10 years younger. I also have a brother 3 years older, but he was never asked to babysit. I credit this experience with the biggest contribution to me being childfree. This seems to be very common on the childfree sub. If you want grandchildren, do not make your eldest daughter babysit your younger kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 09:02 AM
75

Marge Simpson.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 09:53 PM
113

Even women who he deems not worthy don’t want him. And he blames them for it? Have a look in the mirror, scrotoid!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 07:09 PM
25

My gaydar is going off for some reason
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 11:44 AM
234

How is he 38 and doesn’t know what a tampon looks like? He didn’t even bother to find out. If a partner told people I cheated on him because I stuck a wad of cotton in me, he would be considered sub basement level NVM. What a child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 10:01 PM
17

I’m not even kidding
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 11:11 PM
63

I'm not so sure. Plenty of men will literally fuck anything- animal, vegetable or mineral.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 10:39 PM
93

He would have better luck on Grindr
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 10:17 PM
37

Mothers shouldn't mollycoddle their sons either. They should teach them to be independent & self-sufficient. For the benefit of himself any women he becomes involved in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 02:24 AM
83

I feel so sorry for Indian women. Indian men are truly among the worst.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 11:52 PM
287

People blaming women who had shitty fathers who left them with severe psychological damage. Why am I not surprised? These same people will blame a woman for her own rape, and call her a slut.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 09:48 PM
22

This is why the “visual creatures” thing pisses me off. If they’re so visual, why can’t they see the filth they’re living in?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 04:22 PM
74

Some men are too emotional for politics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 05:19 AM
30

It sounds like a normal response to an interrogation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 05:15 AM
27

I wouldn't bother. She has to figure it out for herself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 04:27 AM
6

All so true. It’s about the power, not the aesthetics. Fuck these scrotes. Don’t buy into their bullshit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 11:42 AM
21

Crusty Viagra scrotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 03:52 AM
118

Most of them don’t give a shit about our preferences, so why should we?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 03:13 AM
43

He's part of the "rational" sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 04:40 AM
102

"Be a slut for me, but a prude for everyone else." This pig is living in a fantasy world where women can't win no matter what they do. He's going to be that creepy 40 year old hitting on 19 year olds on tinder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 04:24 AM
102

With all the balding heads, fat guts, man boobs, hairy backs, and leathery faces out there, they have to be kidding themselves. There are attractive 40+ year old men, but they were a lot more attractive at 30. These guys seem to delude themselves into thinking women continually become less attractive while men become more attractive. Doesn't work like that. We're all headed downhill by 30, unless we go from fat to fit, or make some other major change that was bringing us down when we were younge…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 02:41 AM
68

I don't know. I wouldn't even read something like this. Looks like trash from two trashy people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 09:12 AM
71

Never, ever, ever breed with a NVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 03:21 AM
113

Then they call you a gold digger. The game is rigged. Women cannot win.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 06:43 PM
93

The other thing is, this WILL NOT change once you move in together. If he can’t even clean his space in the stage where he’s supposed to be trying to impress you, there’s no way he’s going to do it once you have been together a couple of years +. The burden will then be you to maintain things to your standard and you will be forever fighting against the tide and resenting him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 06:35 PM
10

I thought it was zombies at first glance
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 01:37 AM
2

She is absolutely killing it. I admire her so much. This is a real leader. Not like all the megalomaniac male “leaders” out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 10:29 PM
10

Never in a million years. I'd rather kill myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 12:35 AM
3

I was 19 when the massage therapist got the boner. At the time I posted to a forum about it asking for advice. All of the responses were along the lines of "take it as a compliment" and "it's natural for that to happen to a man when he's touching a semi-naked young woman." If that's the case, then men should not be massaging semi-naked young women professionally! Why do places hire men for these positions?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 08:10 AM
6

Never go to a male massage therapist. I have chronic muscle pain & get massages regularly. I was too shy to request a female therapist when I was younger. On one occasion one of them visibly had a boner. On another, he touched my flaps. Being the pick-me I was, I made excuses for them & didn't report it, blamed myself etc. But now I refuse to go to anyone other than a woman. I've never had a problem with a woman, gay or straight. I think this dude is probably living in fantasy land & has watched…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 07:30 AM
84

The only exception I can think of is Judge Judy. She’s been very popular for decades despite all of this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 12:50 AM
104

Not a doormat= Karen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 11:01 PM
399

The sooner this happens, the sooner real women can be left in peace. Absolutely no jealousy here whatsoever. LV rapey man-children can have all the robot vag they desire.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 01:10 AM
12

Bye!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 11:14 PM
291

Woody Allen 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 07:22 PM
180

Even attractive, educated, rich older guys are not necessarily the way to go. Why is he still single at 40 and looking to date 20 year olds? Does he have ex wife & kid baggage? Is he commitment phobic? Is he a fuckboy? Is he looking for a troubled young woman to dominate & control? I can't imagine an attractive woman with self-esteem would go for this type of man over someone within her own age range. I used to date much older men in my 20s, but I was an emotional wreck with zero self-esteem. No…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 07:45 AM
310

It's also common in countries where women are covered head to toe. It's almost as if what women wear isn't the problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 02:56 AM
35

I have a jar opener, a hot water bottle, and a vibrator. These items are excellent substitutes for what I need in a man, and they don't shed hair all over the bathroom, or have parents I have to pretend to like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 03:21 AM
26

If I had a kid, I wouldn't be able to trust any man around it, even the father. Too many of them want to fuck & fiddle their own kids for me to feel comfortable with it. Most men are creepy as hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 12:37 AM
17

Oh god, even the repairman 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 08:04 PM
39

Yeah, single is a much better option.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 03:07 AM
103

20 years ago women were bleaching & plucking their eyebrows to the point where they were almost non-existent. Now they’re tattooing them on because they feel they’re not thick or dark enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 09:55 PM
19

The over-mothered ones also tend to have highly intrusive mothers. No one will be good enough for their "baby boy" and she will make your life hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 03:34 AM
31

She doesn’t have a partner. She has two children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 09:25 PM
2

On the other hand, domestic violence rates have gone up. Also, lots of people have become unemployed, which is one of the biggest relationship de-stabilisers. I’m grateful I’m not caught up in any of that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 10:34 PM
60

See, this is how it should happen. Women should be able to drink and not be raped, assaulted, verbally abused, etc. I'm glad you're ok.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 06:39 AM
107

“Wifey material” is not even a compliment. They cheat on their wives and treat them like shit all the time. Not meeting their standards quite often means you have some agency and some self-respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 07:52 PM
95

I doubt this is an isolated factor. I bet he has other anti-women controling views too, most likely about ownership. Abort yesterday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 07:42 AM
10

“Which woman/girl is available...” 🧐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 01:04 AM
55

I feel great about it. I’ve never wanted kids. I think if you are wanting kids because you think you will be lonely, that’s a bad reason to have them. They are going to be their own people and may even cut you out of their lives at some point. Don’t choose to have them for that reason alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 11:02 PM
131

Imagine how he’ll react when real problems come up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 10:57 PM
24

Definitely married
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 12:29 AM
33

I’ve been disappointed by men from all walks of life. I don’t have any emotional capacity left for another relationship. I’ve been single for nearly 5 years & I did the casual sex thing for a while. Now I’m over that. Honestly, I don’t think men have anything more to offer me that I want or need.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 04:22 AM
15

Scrooooote!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 08:54 AM
135

This is a good way to give your daughter body hangups.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 05:02 AM
60

“Just get the ones for regular flow. Also, please pick up some “snug fit” condoms for small dicks while you’re there.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 08:49 PM
73

I'm glad you mentioned this. I've also noticed the most sexist men I know are also conspiracy theorists. Interesting connection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 07:01 AM
135

The incest fad is so worrying. Young boys are going to grow up watching this and think it’s normal. The boys in my age group had porno mags with adult women doing relatively benign things and these men are depraved enough. Just wait until the younger generation come of age. Scary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 10:33 PM
26

I have a good income and I can have sex whenever I like. Why do I need a man again?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 10:28 PM
48

Also, depending on where you live, you may not be able to have access to abortion because it may have been deemed “non-essential.” 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 07:26 PM
78

Bingo!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 09:16 AM
147

Not for me. There are only about 5% of men who I think would be high value enough to bother with. That 5% are definitely not interested in me, and tend to settle down early. At 33, there seems to be an abundance of single dads, cheaters, man-babies, abusers, drug addicts, gamblers and red pill types. I’d much rather die alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 07:33 AM
390

It’s them trying to put the woman in her place. How dare she be confident when I’m not even attracted to her? Only hot women should be confident 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 06:10 AM
56

Men are the biggest attention whores around. I know straight men, who don't do well with women, who go to gay clubs and dance topless to get attention from men. They will do anything for an ego boost.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 11:16 PM
14

I don't know about everyone else, but I've had plenty of guys send me low quality dick pics. Most of them were unsolicited.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 12:08 AM
8

Exactly. It doesn’t work like that in real life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 09:48 PM
27

Pickmeishas will see the light when they're ready. At some point a switch is activated and it's time to have a deep, hard look at oneself & the world at whole. I think I had to go through certain hardships & make certain mistakes to arrive at where I have. I'm so grateful to have a network of strong, feminist women in my life, whom I now listen to and take advice from!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 10:34 AM
53

I wouldn't have welcomed the honesty anyway. I was well and truly in scrote-pleasing mode. It's pathetic when I look back at it. My mother obviously hated it. She tried to be polite, but could see what was happening. She let me know that she was worried. It's hard when your daughter is a grown adult making such terrible decisions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 07:16 AM
67

They didn't outwardly object, but they stopped inviting me out. At the time I thought they were being bitches, but I grew to understand that the whole thing made them very uncomfortable. My late 20s were a very lonely time. Now I have healthy friendships with a number of women. I'm a lot happier these days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 07:07 AM
224

This is embarrassing to admit, but I was the worst of the worst pickmeishas when I was younger. I dated a 37 year old when I was 23, and a married 43 year old when I was 26. I also had a fling with an...oh god this stings...57 year old when I was 29. What kind of woman was I? Extremely depressed, zero self-worth, traumatised, and I (for some unknown reason) got a buzz out of sleeping with old guys who I thought were gross enough to appreciate me. But they didn't... It took a lot of time for me t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 06:59 AM
39

What a disgrace.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 02:46 AM
115

Yep, he's the asshole, and a stinky one by the sounds of it. I would cut off a father like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 02:26 AM
36

Does this actually work, or are they just trying their luck?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 09:33 PM
19

They can dream on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 10:33 AM
129

I don't think they do. They like the fantasy of a sexy librarian, teacher, or nurse, but not a woman who can truly challenge them. They want to feel smarter, more confident, and more dominant. Most men like idea of a doctor touching their pee-pee, but it doesn't usually translate to romantic success in the real world, unless he's in a more senior role.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 07:42 AM
180

Limp dick Luke, Porn sick Peter, Man boob Michael
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 03:18 AM
59

This is the lowest of low scumbags feeling out of control in their own lives and trying dominate where they can. I hope their dicks shrivel up and fall off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 07:13 PM
25

No one needs a stresshead around. I predict a huge increase in divorce & domestic violence if shit gets serious & lockdowns are enforced. I also live alone and I’m loving it. I don’t have to be anywhere, impress anyone, and I can do whatever I want. I’m using the time to do a big cleanup & throw away clutter, catch up on movies I want to watch, read a few books, learn to cook a few new recipes, & meditate. I still keep in touch with friends and family, but honestly, being able to hang around in …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 07:39 AM
39

I didn't mean you specifically, but anyone looking to have the healthiest kid possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 01:32 AM
129

If you're looking for a sperm donor, best to look for a healthy 20-something year old. Old sperm is full of DNA damage and mutations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 01:26 AM
30

I hope he makes his intentions perfectly clear with anyone he intends to “date.” Can’t imagine many would agree to these terms. The laws are in place for a reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 12:44 AM
39

The only thing I can think of is blindness. I’ve always assumed that they all watch it. I think it’s just a matter of degree and content.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 02:59 AM
54

Shit...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 06:37 AM
80

Dump the asshole. I bet his cheese dick doesn’t smell like a bouquet of fresh flowers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 07:09 AM
143

“You would be 20% more attractive if your dick was bigger.” “...you had bigger muscles.” “...you earned more.” “...you had more hair on your scalp.” “...you didn’t have a hairy back.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 09:51 PM
1

I have seen this. I'd be wary of a guy with a wife and a couple of kids who won't do it. Unless he wants to do a trade in at some point, it's not really fair for her to have to suffer from hormonal contraceptive symptoms because he's scared of a quick scalpel to the nutsack.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 07:47 AM
10

I've never understood why some men are so precious about their intact vas deferens, but they expect women to go through childbirth (which is far more traumatic and dangerous). I think it's the least they can do once their parter is done with having kids. That said, this is hilarious. Wish I could have seen it for myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 06:03 AM
27

Older men know that the only women who will put up with their shitty behavior are young women who have yet to learn from their mistakes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 02:57 AM
74

Face looks like a smashed crab
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 02:45 AM
89

This is one of the most upsetting things I’ve ever read. This girl cannot possibly have a normal, happy life after all of this, and all three of them are to blame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 12:11 AM
33

Does anyone know why these men kill the wife and kids as well? Why don’t they just kill themselves only?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 11:33 PM
5

That's kind of the point. And it's the truth. They shouldn't be asking invasive questions if they don't want the truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 11:56 PM
49

I just say “it’s been a long time since I’ve met anyone I’d want to bother with.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 07:01 PM
128

If women are such whores, why isn’t he getting any action?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 11:05 AM
11

Yes, only children mostly. One had 3 sisters & was the only boy. I think you might be on to something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 12:33 AM
53

Almost all of my exes had overbearing, over-protective, controlling mothers. The only who didn’t had a mother who had passed away, but it sounded like she fit that category before her death. It’s never a good sign. I don’t know why I attract that type of man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 10:51 PM
85

Looks like 50, and not even a good 50. Clearly trying to trick some college girls. I don't think it's going to work on anyone who has eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 01:43 AM
29

Men will tell you anything to get laid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 09:10 AM
8

Anything 8-10 on the attractiveness scale is going to be a fuckboy. They do tend to want to settle down around age 35-40, but they won't remain faithful. The 6-7s are a better bet from what I've observed, but lots of other factors come into play.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 09:07 AM
9

He was in the army at some point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 09:02 PM
49

You have every right to worry. She's using her son as a substitute husband. It's not a healthy dynamic. She should have let him leave the nest years ago and sorted out her own problems, gotten a job, etc. He has probably never had to cook for himself, clean up after himself, and if he ever does leave and move in with you, you can bet that will be you doing it for him. His mother hasn't taught him domestic responsibility.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 09:20 PM
71

Nope. You will be forever battling with her wants and needs. Mommy is always going to come first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 09:14 PM
10

Me neither. I wouldn’t bother with someone who asked me that. Not revealing when he asks just to get him to stick around seems like a bad idea. It means he doesn’t respect me having a life before him. I don’t need that insecurity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 07:26 PM
44

Also history of abuse from family. If they know your family got away with it, they think they can.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 01:24 AM
22

Not necessarily. Some don't until the opportunity presents itself. People get hired/not hired because of their looks all the time. Usually it works in one's favor to be attractive, but not always. I would even say attractive nannies probably still get hired more than unattractive ones. Plenty of women out there with "not my Nigel" syndrome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 06:14 AM
77

The husband fucking the nanny is the most cliche thing ever. It even happened to Jennifer Garner, Sienna Miller, Uma Thurman, and Gwen Stefani, among many others. And those women are all hot! These men can't help themselves around an attractive woman who is dependent on and subordinate to them, and also lives with them. This is just the nature of men. Unless she's hideous, you can bet your ass he's going to try something. Ask any attractive nanny (or even less attractive ones) how often the husb…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 03:45 AM
39

Yes! check out r/men_of_the_wall I estimate the wall is late 30s for most men. By then most have a gut, bald head/grey hair and wrinkles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 10:04 AM
55

Every time I venture into PPD I'm reminded of why I'm single and better off that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 08:27 AM
78

Why do so many men have an aversion to showering? If I didn't shower at least once a day I would feel awful, dirty, smelly, gross. Showering makes me feel awake and alive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 09:53 PM
15

I have actually had EMDR! It definitely helped. I was having a problem with a recurring nightmare about a traumatic event. The same nightmare every night for 10 years. After the EMDR I had it the worst ever. Woke up crying and covered in sweat. After that I didn't have it again. Powerful stuff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 01:01 AM
26

Agreed. I've had a lot of therapy and it has helped tremendously with identifying patterns and changing behaviors, but the memories remain and they're never going away. They can only be processed. It's been 4 years since my last relationship. I seem to attract tons of LVM, but I've held off dating any of them because it can only be detrimental. The damage has been done and there's nothing I can do about it now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 12:15 AM
22

It's like looking for a clean needle in a haystack full of dirty needles, but you don't know which is which until you get pricked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 11:39 PM
49

This rules out at least 90% of men. With my isolation, trauma history, and imperfect looks, I've got no chance. Safer for me just to go my own way I think. It's not worth making a costly mistake...again. These parasites cause irreparable damage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 11:06 PM
23

All of these men are trash. None of them are worth a second of any woman's time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 11:53 PM
81

What if you tell them you've done pegging and cock & ball torture before?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 06:00 AM
16

I needed to see this. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 07:58 AM
137

I bet if she had vaginismus or something, and could never have PIV sex, they would be saying an open relationship was okay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 06:41 AM
89

I don't care if they're going for women in their late 30s, but it skeeves me out when 40+ men are trying to have kids with early 20s women. Mostly because I was one of their targets in my early 20s. Two of my crusty old exes tried to stealth impregnate me, despite the fact that I've always been vocally childfree. If I had actually wanted kids, I would have been looking for someone healthy and in my own age range, not old DNA damaged sperm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 04:50 AM
49

Busting a nut overrides any sense of morality. They've shown this time and time again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 05:23 AM
69

I've met so many creepoid dads out there that I wouldn't be surprised if deep down most of them wanted to fuck their daughters. Just look at how much incest porn exists. It's sickening and I believe it goes beyond "fantasy."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 05:02 AM
49

A male only society? I bet that would be a wholesome place!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 01:01 AM
98

They like to be able to use it as an excuse to reject women and shame them for their age, weight, behaviour. But when the concept is applied to them and their suitability as partners, women are just being shallow, gold-digging bitches.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 05:40 AM
34

Scrotes triggered
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 01:36 AM
19

I'm a magnet for attached guys as well, and I've started asking them what drew them to me when they hit me up. They usually just say "I think you're hot" or something like that. Ok, but why do my hot friends not experience the same thing? There has to be more to this. I've been piecing it together by reading articles and doing some self- analysis. It seems they go for women who are fairly independent and don't have solid support networks. They choose women who have problems with putting up bound…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 07:12 PM
26

Not your fault. He is 100% responsible for his actions. Her anger at you is misplaced. Easier to blame someone you don't know that well than to blame the person who you love, trust, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 07:02 AM
140

He could also be ashamed of you. Or he's already got someone else and you're the side piece.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 09:37 PM
58

I'm glad you didn't spend any more time with this scumbag. He sounds dangerous. What a psycho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 08:15 AM
4

That was the same age & age gap as one of my exes. He was reasonably okay looking at 37, but now he's 47 and he looks horrendous. He now has a girlfriend even younger than me, so a 20 year age gap. I don't know how she wakes up next to him every morning. He's also extremely immature, so I suspect she will outgrow him in time, like I did. Another ex was 44 when I was 26. Now he's 51 and looks so old. I don't know how I did it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 03:28 AM
4

Gross. Yeah, sun will age a person like nothing else. 45 seems young to be impotent, but I've noticed it with even younger guys these days. Pretty sure it's the excessive visual stimulation from porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 11:52 PM
44

There is definitely a wall for men. I stupidly used to date men in their late 30s/early 40s when I was in my 20s. Now these guys are in their late 40s and they all look like shit- receding hair, grey, fat, wrinkly, no musculature.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 07:13 AM
38

This scrote is married. I guarantee it. That's why he hasn't listed his real age (wife can't look him up), won't show his face, and is into "non-monogamy." Revolting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 03:18 PM
25

I've had this sort of thing at work before (actually worse), and once you call them out they start to act like you were imagining it. "Oh, you didn't think I was interested in anything, did you? I am married." Scum
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 09:02 PM
72

Let's not forget all their stats they like to throw at us about male suicides and being homeless. Doesn't sound like they handle things too well at all. Almost seems like they're trying to scare us into settling down with their pathetic asses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/19 09:34 PM
8

Could be the same one. Or maybe that's their go to line? Either way, I know that sort of message could have pushed me over the edge at times when I had less emotional fortitude. These moids need to fuck off out of our space. No one asked them for their opinions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 08:27 PM
20

Yes! I hate this so much. It's almost as bad when it comes from men. I once responded to a post about recurrent sexual assault and the OP was asking if AMALT. I listed a whole lot of sick things men have done to me over my life. It was difficult to write, but I felt it was revelent enough to make the effort. People were kind and supportive for the most part. Then some lowlife scummy moid decided to chime and tell me that I was lying and if all of that had happened, then obviously it was my fault…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 07:59 PM
72

Don't go. I had a moid try to do this to me once. Little did I know at the time that it's a common RP tactic. They do it so they can see your body and your face without makeup. Not only would I not go on the swimming date, I wouldn't bother with this guy at all. That is unless you live on a tropical island or something. Always try to keep your clothes on for the first date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 01:15 AM
65

They know she can leave him without a second thought if he's a shitty husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 09:56 PM
84

The beauty and fashion industries have being preying on women for years. We endlessly pluck, wax, lase & needle our skin. We spend hundreds on makeup and skincare products, and on new outfits (that are expected to only be worn once). We inject toxic substances into our faces, and put them in our hair on a regular basis. We mutilate our bodies with plastic surgery. So many of us have fallen victim to eating disorders. What do men do? Wash the smegma off their dicks and trim their nutsack, if we'r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 08:10 PM
24

It's to undermine your confidence, so you will seek his approval. He's hoping to find a "but I'm not like other women" woman. Very manipulative, but it might just work on someone with low enough self-esteem. He probably hits on 20 year olds too, but it's unlikely to be working for him. I mean, look at him. Definitely post-wall.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/19 10:52 AM
1

I'm amazed that we have both come to the same conclusion. What the hell happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 11:36 AM
2

I don't want a partner, but if I did, I wouldn't care if I were one of many. So what? If he's with me, there's a reason for it. Maybe I'm better than all of the others? Why would I get hung up about it? Unless he's abusive, I don't really care about his past.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 08:23 AM
2

Personally, no. I don't talk about my past, beyond basic timeframes & happenings with men. They don't want to hear it & it's a waste of emotional expression.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 07:04 AM
2

Almighty womb? Don't want kids, so that doesn't really apply to me. I just don't see why any woman would bother with a man who was jealous of her past. No one wants to deal with a whiny little bitch who feels like he missed out. He should have taken responsibility for his own decisions and had more fun when he was younger. Not her problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 11:58 PM
1

Your attempt at explaining was extremely poor. I can read and comprehend perfectly well, but you have some serious communication issues and are failing to get your point across.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 11:31 PM
2

It might be frequently used, but it's often true. Especially in this case. He even says he's envious and resentful. Why would that be the case unless he has insecurities over the issue? Why do you think you or he deserve any empathy here? Not really my problem. The situation is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 11:30 PM
2

It is when the reason is "I'm jealous that I didn't get to do it too."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 09:52 PM
1

I'm not really interested in helping them through that. Maybe those men should get some therapy for their self-esteem issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 05:45 AM
1

How is it having standards if he wants those experiences for himself? That's blatant jealousy. Covers don't interest me, fat or skinny.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 05:29 AM
-1

Because this is where slut shaming comes from. Ultimately, it's jealousy. I have to hand it to the OP for being honest about it. Most won't even admit it, but that's exactly where it comes from. It's still pathetic, and I wouldn't want to be with someone who thought that way. Nor would I advise any woman to stay with a man who felt this way. Better they stay away from one another.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 05:26 AM
-1

Definitely break up with her. If you have such pathetic insecurities, she can do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 05:05 AM
1

Don't get into a relationship then. Seems fairly straight forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 04:39 AM
2

I never said there was, but modern western young people are for the most part extremely healthy (no lasting parasites, minimal disease due to vaccines, sanitation, antibiotics), yet there is no shortage of ugly people. Are you trying to suggest that ugly people around me are crawling with worms, ticks, giardia, etc? Because they're not. They're just not attractive. Herpes may be common, but what has that got to do with attractiveness? Like I said, lots of attractive people are walking around wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 04:34 AM
3

So how do you explain societies with no parasite problems and vast differences between hot people and uggos?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 04:15 AM
1

Herpes doesn't affect the appearance of a fetus as far as I know? Also countries with excellent universal neo-natal care still have uggos. I understand it's genetics, but the health excuse seems a bit far-fetched when you look at modern wealthy societies.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 03:04 AM
4

Aside from fashion, pock marks and bad teeth, i don't see a huge difference. Even then, I'm comparing attractive vs unattractive in modern western countries where parasites and disease are not really a huge issue for most young people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 02:29 AM
1

Herpes? Aside from the occasional breakout, that doesn't change your level of physical attraction? Plenty of very attractive people have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 02:20 AM
2

I never got the whole "parasitic load" thing. Most young people in western countries are not full of disease or parasites, yet there are vast differences in attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 01:33 AM
1

Woman
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 01:12 AM
1

Basically just a quiet, extremely clean (teeth, nails, dick) Chad who shows interest in me by flirting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 12:31 AM
1

Nope. Maybe someone else doesn't agree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 08:14 PM
1

Which? I haven't downvoted anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 08:02 PM
4

Most men here do. It affects their status
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 07:06 PM
5

If you're chasing women 20 years younger than you, you are a loser & a scuzzball. No one thinks you're cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 06:57 PM
5

Late 30s often does. Most men go downhill rapidly physically once they get into their 30s. If they keep in shape (most don't) and are lucky to keep their hair, they are in a minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 02:06 PM
6

More likely to have their own place with no roommates. Most women prefer men close to their own age. Just because you are attracted to 20 year olds at 38, doesn't mean the vast majority of them are attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 02:04 PM
1

Doesn't matter (I'm old). Was young once.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 10:07 AM
11

No one wants your limp dick, saggy nuts, bald chrome dome, hairy back, or fat gut. You men are kidding yourselves if you think young women are attracted to you for your appearance. They might fuck you because you have money, but I guarantee they are faking it. If you don't care, that's even sadder.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 08:44 AM
6

Probably just discharge
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 06:49 AM
2

I love when the guys who demand low n-count partners get dead bedroomed. I'm like, what the fuck did you think was going to happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 02:08 AM
36

I'm 33. In the space of 10 years, everyone now licks ass as casually as they shake hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 06:43 AM
3

I know a lot of middle-aged men with young Asian second wives. I actually feel sorry for the women who end up with these men. Most of the men are highly physically undesirable to western women (old, fat, bald, bad teeth), and the search for a "traditional woman" usually means misogynist. So no, I am not in any way threatened. They can have them! (But I would advise against it)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 01:06 PM
1

True. I didn't read it properly. Still don't think it will stop that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 12:09 AM
1

Plenty of men visit prostitutes and they still spew hatred for women everywhere they go. The missing key for their ego is no one thinks they're desirable. Sex robots aren't going to change that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 10:36 PM
0

Not really
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 09:33 PM
5

Pink piller
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 03:54 AM
10

Maybe I always knew men were scum, but I was in denial? I feel like I have a really clear picture of reality now. Everything I've seen, experienced and observed finally adds up. I had a real lightbulb moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 01:47 AM
14

A lot of truth has been revealed since frequenting this place, but not in a good way. I've gone from generally liking men, being attracted to them, and believing there were decent ones, to being disillusioned and utterly disgusted. Now I see misogyny everywhere. It's turned me into a radical feminist separatist. I don't think I could have sex with a man again. I don't think I would piss on one if he were on fire.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 12:27 AM
11

When you go to someone's place it's usually a good indication of their hygeine & cleanliness standards (unless they hire a cleaner, which would have been fine). His place wasn't terrible. I already said it looked like he cleaned it occasionally. This was acceptable to me. It never even occured to me the possibility that his mother was cleaning for him. He was 37 years old FFS! She stopped doing it when I moved in with the expectation that I would do all of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 11:44 AM
8

His mother wanted him to marry a woman who would cook and clean for him. It's "women's work." He wasn't even allowed in the kitchen as a child. She never showed him how to do anything. I guess when he never found someone (likely because he's useless), his mother felt guilty and recruited his sisters to do that for him. I have a younger brother and I wouldn't do that out of principle, even if he was living in squalor.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 11:39 AM
3

Sounds like something he would have said. I would argue that part of living with someone is sharing household duties & keeping things to a reasonable standard, unless otherwise agreed upon.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 11:32 AM
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He was like that from the moment we moved in together. His place prior to that was a bit dirty, but not filthy. It looked like he cleaned it occasionally. It turns out his sisters and mother used to come over and clean for him. I didn't know that until well into the relationship. It would have been a deal breaker from day one had I known.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 06:04 AM
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There were other things, but that was the main one. I worked longer hours than him and he expected me to be a maid as well. When I asked him to help me he said he didn't know how. I offered to show him and he refused to be taught. This guy was 37 years old. An utter manchild. Pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 05:31 AM
25

He refused to do any housework. He claimed to not know how to.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 02:02 AM
3

The birth rate in the state the OP is from is extremely low (1.6). The only thing keeping it above one is immigrants having 4-5 kids. I'm in a neighbouring state, and i know many women who don't have & don't want kids. None of them are scrambling to find a low tier man to knock them up, myself included. I'd rather be single for life and never have sex again than settle for what's out there. I had 3 long term relationships in my 20s (3 years each) and all of them were extremely unsatisfying. Ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 12:27 AM
1

No kids & no husband is not a life misery for me. That's the ideal. Full freedom and no one to tie me down or let me down. My friends who married young are the most miserable women I know. There's no fun or romance in their lives. The ones who waited until their 30s are happier & found great guys & are just settling down now. I'm not sure what's around the corner for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 05:56 AM
2

Even in real life where options are unlimited, I still prefer to go my own way. Humans and human nature are sucky. Being a lone wolf means I only have to trust & rely on myself, and no one can let me down.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 05:51 AM
0

I'm 5'5 and my exes were 5'9, 5'7, 5'5 and 6'3. The one who was 5'7 was very skinny (we were the same weight) and that, while not a deal breaker, was not attractive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 05:44 AM
1

Out of my last 3 relationships, 2 didn't even have a car.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/19 06:57 AM
1

Creeps me the fuck out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 08:34 AM
1

Alone forever. Gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 08:19 AM
5

And why should they? Having kids sucks for women. It takes its toll on their appearance, their health, their interests/hobbies, their relationships, their finances. There's a good chance they will end up single mothers. No way I would have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 08:18 AM
0

Same could be said for the cow.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 12:48 AM
1

Why buy the whole pig when all you get is a little sausage?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 12:21 AM
1

That's the impression I got. I told him I'd make it clear how I felt. I might even be a little spectrumy myself, so not necessarily a deal breaker. Of course it would depend on the positioning on the spectrum. I was drawn to him because he didn't have douchey outfits, stupid poses, mirror photos or comments like "no time wasters." He mentioned that he was hoping to find something serious. He looked like a nice, average guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 09:47 AM
1

I do work out. I'm not a fitness model, but I'm moderately fit, moderate muscle mass. I also am with the Incels in case you didn't notice my flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/19 11:11 PM
1

I know countless guys "higher value" than I'm looking for who are dating or married to women waaaay bigger than me (and always have been). I don't think this is the issue you are making it out to be. If a guy expects me to sacrifice my health to be ultra slim, he's the one with the issue, not me. If i get below 125 lbs I don't even have periods. At this weight I get one every 28 days. That to me is a better indicator of where I should be than someone's emaciated fantasy. If this really is the is…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/19 10:48 PM
2

I'm not desperate at all. Just having a discussion about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 11:15 PM
1

Want me to pm you a picture?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 10:25 PM
1

Not deformed or disabled, has all his teeth, not morbidly obese or anorexic, not overly short, but not tall, not particularly fit. Could be bald, but no mullets or rat's tails. Could have glasses, but has both eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 10:06 PM
1

I know some serious uggos who are getting laid and they are not Chads. Not by any stretch of the imagination. One guy's about 400 lbs, has a very unfortunate face and he's sleeping with a moderately attractive woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 10:02 PM
1

Yes! I'm white and childfree myself, but I don't give a shit about who decides to breed or not. If the problem is economic, immigration will fill in the gaps.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 09:52 PM
2

Why would you even ask me then if BMI is bullshit? And how could you tell that I'm too heavy from the numbers alone if that were the case? I don't need to lose weight. I'm perfectly happy and healthy where I am. I like how I look in the mirror. It seems you are just trying to call me fat and blame it on my weight regardless of what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 08:56 PM
3

The just don't want the replacements for the people not having kids to be non-white immigrants. They want white people to have them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 08:32 PM
2

My BMI is almost right in the middle of the healthy range. I don't want to be underweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 10:03 AM
2

Always split. Always have and always will. Or like i said, he pays this time, I pay next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 10:00 AM
10

I'd rather the one that looks younger. If he's 25, but looks 35, he's doing something seriously wrong (smoking? drugs? too much sun?) or he's in poor health.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 09:36 AM
2

Circle-jerking
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 09:21 AM
1

Yes, but by men. i was answering the question. Men give just as bad advice to other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 09:15 AM
1

You should have settled down before you were 25, you should have stayed a virgin until marriage You know, the usual shit you hear around these parts.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 08:56 AM
2

I agree with you. My actual point was that there are far more areas of grey and not everyone wants one of these two things.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 08:53 AM
2

Yeah... exactly. He has another girlfriend now (after harassing me with texts & phone calls & spreading lies about me for over a year after we broke up). Poor woman. Good luck to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 08:49 AM
0

Ok, but when they say things like "well, you shouldn't have done that then, should you?" It's like they want to focus on things that have happened in the past, and things that can't be changed. There's a lack of constructive advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 08:47 AM
1

One time I went shopping to buy lingerie to wear for him. He got so distressed that I wouldn't tell him what I was out doing that he called all my friends to ask them if I was with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 08:44 AM
-1

I think telling them they can't possibly win makes them more likely to give up. At least wishy-washy advice leaves them with some hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 08:41 AM
1

It is funny looking at it from that perspective haha He thought "shopping" meant meeting a guy for sex. Honestly, I just liked to go shopping (actual shopping) often to get the fuck away from him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 08:38 AM
7

I find they are more likely to be defeatist. For example, "be attractive, don't be unattractive." There's no way to overcome something, so too bad, end of story, fuck off and die.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 08:33 AM
1

1st (3 years): he developed a serious drinking, drug & gambling problem. He broke up with me because I was miserable and he didn't want to get help 2nd (1 year): I moved away to study. He didn't want to continue long distance. 3rd (3 years): even though he was much older, he was a man child. Very irresponsible and lazy. Didn't know how to microwave a bowl of soup, didn't know how to change sheets, didn't know how to vacuum, had terrible personal hygiene. I broke up with him. 4th (3 years): great…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 07:48 AM
2

I've never expected any money from anyone I've dated. I've always paid for my own meals, movies, drinks, coffees etc. If a guy insists, I pay next time. It is nice to be able to not feel trapped in a horrible relationship because I couldn't afford to leave. Who wouldn't want to be in that position?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 07:38 AM
1

5'5 & 135 lbs. No, not skinny but far from morbidly obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 07:34 AM
1

About what?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 06:47 AM
2

Drinking before 21 is psychologically damaging? In most of the developed world the legal drinking age is 18, and the age of consent is around 16. Why does America need more virgin women? That's for them to decide for themselves, not for you to demand and enforce because you think "it's best for them." They're not your property.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 04:39 AM
11

They absolutely do. One of my exes was 18 years older. But it's not common. I don't know any other women who have been with someone that much older. Even 10 years older is pretty rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 04:28 AM
2

Who said anything about men not being good enough for me? I don't want to cuck anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 04:18 AM
2

I don't necessarily feel the need to get married. I don't want kids. Just want a partnership. If it doesn't last forever, not the end of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 04:01 AM
1

In what way?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 03:57 AM
1

Maybe, if he's into that sort of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 03:56 AM
3

Where do women even come into this? I want a relationship that includes sex with a beta male & don't expect him to provision for me. Why is that such a difficult thing to imagine?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 03:45 AM
2

I've never cheated on anyone and I have no intention of ever doing so. Why would I?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 03:44 AM
1

I don't want him to have options because I don't want him to cheat on me. But I don't want too low on the attractiveness scale because they get jealous. One of my exes was a 2-3/10 and he couldn't handle that. Same range attractiveness is ideal with him a little lower maybe. I would do all of that if I could find one willing to have a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 03:36 AM
0

I'm not obese. My BMI is 22.1. I don't know any men who are interesting in dating, only sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 03:15 AM
12

The upside for most: he might actually be able to get a woman in her 30s. Some women might want a millionaire. Doesn't mean she's going to find it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 02:03 AM
1

I don't expect anyone to provision for me. So are those 50% of guys AF or BB?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 01:58 AM
3

That doesn't sound like a Chad at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 01:29 AM
2

If a guy in my age range is looking for a virgin around my age, he has seriously unrealistic expectations. I don't know a single one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 01:26 AM
2

This would be ideal. Doesn't even have to be attractive. 5-6/10 is my aim.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 01:20 AM
2

Ok, but they are not available to me if they are married, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 01:18 AM
3

I only had LTRs when I was young. I've mostly only had casual sex since I've been over 30. I'd like another LTR but everyone's married or doesn't do commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 12:42 AM
2

I'd rather the beta guy. I don't want to have to be paranoid that he might leave me for one of my female friends. I also wouldn't enjoy other women flirting with him. I want to be the best a guy can get. Awkward is fine, as long as he's not completely socially inept.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 12:39 AM
2

I'm not looking for where to find one. I'm just wondering how this fits into the AF/BB theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 12:09 AM
1

Yep, one of them!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 12:08 AM
1

Red pillers put guys into 2 categories- alpha & beta (and incel/mgtows, but they are out of the dating equation) . The alphas pump and dump. The betas make up for deficiencies by spending money on women, allegedly. My point is I don't want a hot, domineering chad. I'd just like an average looking guy who isn't a dickhead, has more liberal values. He doesn't have to spend money on me though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 12:08 AM
7

I'm not looking to find a guy on PPD 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 12:03 AM
1

Wanting to fuck women and liking women are two very different things. I would not date a red pill guy. I don't think there are too many blue pill Chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 12:02 AM
1

I'm straight (not attracted to women).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 11:22 PM
2

A guy that's not an alpha/Chad. I don't care about high value. Just a guy that's a decent human being, likes women, and isn't an asshole. Average looking would be ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 11:21 PM
1

Lucky you. Wish I could find a guy like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 10:31 PM
14

I've noticed that guys think well-applied, tasteful makeup means no makeup. When they hear makeup, they think inch thick caked on orange foundation, bright blue eyeshadow up to the eyebrows and red lipstick. I love when they say "you're looking so fresh and you're glowing today" even though I'm hungover AF and had 3 hours sleep. I say "makeup" and they say "I didn't think you wore makeup." I do, i just don't apply it like a tranny on show night.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 10:23 PM
3

It's only the single most important event that led to all the other rights women obtained last century. Those things didn't just happen on their own. But no big deal guys!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 10:14 AM
3

Ok, so we take away your vote then? There are major problems within the US voting system, I can't argue with that, but a lot of positive change for women has happened because women have been allowed to vote. Historically, most men didn't give a shit about women's rights. Some of the leftovers of that are PPDers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 09:57 AM
2

Not really. Just calling it how I see it. Most of my problems are mental, not physical.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 09:48 AM
3

Lots of countries have/have had forced conscription for women, but I'm against the idea for anyone, regardless of gender, so I can't really argue for that point. Doesn't change the fact that you think that not having a vote is no big deal. It is for a lot of people and has been extremely important historically (think slavery).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 09:44 AM
2

How about we just take away your demographic's right to vote then? Since it doesn't really mean anything anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 09:28 AM
2

What about the rest of the world? The US is a relatively new country. I think you'll also find that most feminists support universal suffrage.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 09:27 AM
3

There are several countries that allow women to serve in combat roles now. Women have been fighting for equality there for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 07:46 AM
5

Not having right to: vote, own property in their name, have their own bank account in a marriage, work in many jobs (law, for example), have equal right to pay, not be sexually harassed at work, serve on a jury, have access to contraception if single, terminate a pregnancy, report marital rape or abuse, divorce... And that was only what's changed in the past 100 years or so. Things were even more grim before that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 06:38 AM
1

Do you think blue father= not attracted and red father= attracted to men like the father?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 05:59 AM
2

Yes. I'm not going down that path again if I can avoid it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 05:57 AM
1

Yeah, absolutely. Couldn't agree more.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 05:52 AM
3

My father was a very unstable, abusive alcoholic. I've always loathed the idea of ending with someone like him. I shoot for the opposite. However, one of my exes displayed some abusive traits like my father had towards the end of our relationship. That was it for me. Hopefully never again.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 05:50 AM
5

I've found the young mothers are the ones who tend to get fat and stay fat. It's the older ones who are more conscious of letting themselves go. I guess there's probably socioeconomic reasons for that. Poorer women tend to have kids younger and also tend to be fatter. A wealthy women who has kids early might be better off, but it's not common for them to do that. Even still, young mothers usually still look rougher facially than women who have had no kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 05:44 AM
2

I know it's vain, but if I had a husband and knew he thought about me the way some men feel about their wives after they have kids, I would be devastated. I'm not personally into plastic surgery, but if I had a thickened waist and "orange-in-a-sock" boobs, I would probably consider it. I guess a lot of them would rather spend that money on their kids, understandably.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 04:36 AM
4

There are always going to be a few lucky ones who escape it, but by and large, having kids ages women much faster than not having them. It could also be bias on your part. You might just be attracted to her regardless of the wall. Others might not feel the same way about her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 04:21 AM
6

I look at my friends who have had kids recently. They have gone from pretty and soft facially to sort of haggard, if that makes sense? Most have lost the weight and have worked hard to get in good shape, but still don't look as good as they did. Then there are obviously some that give up. They never lose the weight, or continue to gain because their whole life is spent preparing meals and eating meals. They are stressed, they have their family, they don't feel the need to focus on their bodies a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 04:12 AM
7

I've found that having kids ravages the appearance of most women- facially and body-wise. The CF women I know in their 40s all look much better than the ones with kids. I guess they have a lot more time for self-care and relaxation.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 03:57 AM
3

Body flexibility
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 12:56 AM
6

I have to hand it to you for not ommiting anything that makes you look bad. Usually people do. That said, this is the most retarded thing I've ever read.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 09:48 PM
2

If he didn't, she would have made it clear. She even admitted to liking it. You can (if you're not autistic) tell when some likes you and what you are doing. He picked up on that through subtle and maybe not so subtle cues. Two hours is ample time to do so. How do you think one night stands happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 08:46 AM
1

I consider myself to be a moderate feminist, and I don't think he did anything particularly wrong. Hand on the butt might be a grey area, but after 2 hours, presumably getting along well and her showing interest, I don't think so. I wouldn't even call that male entitlement. He was just reading the cues. The sunglasses thing, definitely not. I've done that before myself. It means nothing. Sometimes you just want to see someone's eyes and sunglasses prevent that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 08:35 AM
3

My guess is he was really good at reading her body language and knew she would be ok with it. I wouldn't expect a guy to ask to touch my shoulder if we were getting along well. I know that touch is one way of showing attraction. It would be different if she had her arms & legs crossed and was turned away from him without looking engaged. That would be encroaching on boundaries. I don't think this is toxic masculinity at all. This is just normal, healthy masculinity. Toxic masculinity would be de…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 07:54 AM
2

I thought the only guys who manage to spin plates are Chads, and Chads don't require much skill to get the panties to drop.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 01:43 AM
3

It actually amazes me that any guy would think the woman he's fucking casually is exclusive to him. Like she's sitting around lonely waiting for him to call and is only into him. I'm sure it happens, but it should not be assumed or even expected. If you want sexual exclusivity, get a girlfriend. Children, make sure you wear condoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 01:15 AM
1

WTF? I don't ever want to "produce" children and I've always enjoyed casual sex because it's fun and feels good. You are so far out of touch with reality its laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 01:11 AM
5

I would think this was to be expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 11:20 PM
4

Yep, that's what I'm saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 11:15 PM
37

I've had plenty of FWBs I wouldn't want a relationship with for various reasons. Some were immature, some not very bright, others were just shitty people. If you think all women get attached and want you to commit just because they've had your weiner in them, you're sorely mistaken.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 10:22 PM
1

Have you been to the femcel sub? Mostly low n-counts and nothing but misery.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 05:55 PM
3

If he's heavily into video games, comics, anime, fast food and onesies, we are probably not going to get along.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 04:56 PM
5

I was with an 18 year old when I was 16 for 3 years. He had job, but that's the only thing in that list. Not that I benefited from that in any way whatsoever. I would have happily dated another 16 year old if any were interested in me, but they weren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 08:59 AM
3

Only if he's immature. There are plenty out there. But you're right, there are 30/31 year olds, even younger, who are more together than men much older. Having said that, apparently they all want 25 year olds, so it's not like my opinion matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 08:48 AM
20

I would happily date a guy a few years younger if he had his shit together (employed, not living at home, had mature tastes for his age). They are definitely hotter if in good shape, but I don't want to feel like I'm hanging out with my little brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 04:51 AM
5

They probably don't want anything to do with a guy who is creeping around women young enough to be his daughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 03:28 AM
27

That's great if he can find a 25 year old willing to fuck him. Most 50 year old men would be lucky to find a 50 year old willing to fuck them. I wouldn't mind a 25 year old myself but I don't like my chances
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 02:14 AM
2

Keep going for the hot psychos then! Enjoy your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 05:22 PM
5

Red pillers seem to think that it's ok for men to decline in attractiveness because they can make up for it with wealth & status. Only problem is not many men actually manage to obtain this wealth & status. Only a few do. Plenty of old, broke nobodies out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 09:03 AM
6

Height is a significant contributing factor to male attractiveness, but nowhere near 99%. Lanky string beans and Lurch types are not attractive to most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 06:23 AM
14

That's what narcissists do to emotionally vulnerable women. Stable women don't tend to go for guys like that. If you're finding that they are, maybe you need to look for a different type of woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 06:19 AM
6

I think the hottest men at 20 usually look great at 40, even 45. But that's only about 10% of men. The rest lose their hair, get a gut, go grey, get wrinkles or some combination of those. Most men end up on a fast decline after 35, just like women do. ​ The difference is women aren't as shallow on average. They will still find a man attractive if he's a good person, confident, and employed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 04:10 AM
3

I've never wanted to reproduce & I think people should make up their own minds about how they go about their lives. Not everything in life is about breeding anymore. People have other interests & priorities.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 05:43 PM
1

If what you're saying is true, I just stay single. No point caving into the shaming by some misogynistic asshole. That's hardly going to be a fulfilling life for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 05:35 PM
2

I've met plenty of men I would date, but they only want sex, not a relationship. It's always "I'm not ready to get involved with someone at this time," but then he has a girlfriend 3 weeks later, "it's me, not you," "i'm only looking for physical, not emotional." None of them were perfect by any means. I put up a profile recently and I'm getting messages, but I haven't met anyone in person yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 05:06 PM
2

If he's only with me because I have a firm ass, I doubt I would be the one doing the dumping.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 04:59 PM
2

Not necessarily. Just a LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 04:52 PM
2

I don't want kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 04:49 PM
2

Conservative values are not worthwhile to me. I think we just have to agree to disagree. I would be miserable with a conservative dude. There would be no long term about it. Still doesn't excuse the fact that stringing someone along is prickish & doesn't really indicate good values to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 04:46 PM
2

Hardly a worthwhile man if he does that. Sounds like a prickish thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 04:24 PM
2

I could walk into any bar in my city right now and find some guy, probably even decent looking, who would have sex with me. That's not what femcels are after. What we want is a relationship, but no one wants one with us. Any Incel could get laid if they went for a looksmatch, but they think they are owed more than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 04:22 PM
4

Point still stands. Incels want Stacy. Femcels just want a kind, warm body to come home to that isn't going to beat them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 03:30 PM
2

And if I don't find someone, so be it. I've spent enough time alone that it's nothing new to me & not something I can't handle. Just something I'd like at some point. That said, I know a lot of women who have partied harder than me (still do) and are a lot less feminine in manner than me. They are in relationships or married.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 03:00 PM
3

They are forever complaining about landwhales, high n-counts, the wall, only wanting hot, young virgins. Femcels don't complain about any of that. Most just want a non-abusive guy for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 02:20 PM
1

I don't think it's true that women are "wired" for monogamy. I think they have been socialized to make people think they are. Women are a lot more discreet when they cheat, and for good reason. Domestic violence is a scary thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 02:16 PM
5

I think that says a lot more about your hangups than it does about my femininity and "essence." I'm clearly a lot older than you. I've had a number of LTRs. I've had a number of STRs. It scares me to think how my life would have turned out if I'd stayed with my first boyfriend who I met when I was 16. I do feel like I've lived a full life and I don't regret anything. I wouldn't mesh well with a guy who felt the way you did anyhow. I value freedom, openness and experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 11:15 AM
3

Maybe. No one knows for sure. Perhaps humans were not meant to be with the one person their whole lives? I've seen enough married guys cheat that I'm certain of it. Women are probably no different.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 09:50 AM
2

Not necessarily. I'm over the CC. Had a great time, but ready to find someone for something long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 09:38 AM
4

This can be a problem, especially if they got married young and one or both of them haven't had a chance to live up their youth. I can easily see why women would cheat with someone more exciting when they get older given that scenario. That's why I think it's ideal to get it out of your system when you're young and settle down later. The guys here don't like that though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 09:30 AM
-1

That's the opposite of what OP is saying
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 09:23 AM
5

Unless you want 20 year olds chasing after your boring, married self.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 09:22 AM
3

What's the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 09:16 AM
2

And I would put 6 in the close to average category. I think my body fat is about 32%. I'm 5'5 & 135 lbs. But nobody seems to care about that anyway (for a relationship). I do get plenty of offers for sex. Lots of obese women with boyfriends around though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 04:40 AM
1

I relate to what she's written, but my standards aren't as high. I would take someone with kids, as long as he doesn't want any more. Other than that, here I am, ready to go, but no one wants a relationship with an average looking woman looking for a partnership. They want Stacy, psychos, gold diggers & women with baby rabies. They seem to even be content with obese, unemployed, overly dominant & drug fucked women. I think being a femcel is even worse than being a male Incel. At least we can all…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 04:00 AM
2

Who gives a shit what your parents think? Make your own decisions.
/r/MGTOW06/01/19 03:48 AM
3

I don't like fake parts on men. I would be very turned off if I found out a guy took steroids or had implants. Likewise, I'm into a natural look for myself. I don't wear fake nails, fake tan, dye my hair or have any cosmetic surgery. The only thing I've done is get braces, but that was also to prevent future tooth problems. Most people where I live have something fake on them. I think it's a shame fake bodies are favoured over natural.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 06:41 AM
3

I always offer to pay for my share. If he insists, I will let him, but he doesn't have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 04:05 PM
2

I'm 5'5 and my ex was the same height. At that time i was above average looking and he was below. None of that mattered to me. Some women don't care about height or looks, despite what the losers here will tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 05:43 AM
9

This is how people end up getting killed by their partners
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 04:56 AM
6

How would anyone know she had sex unless she reported it to this registry? Also, what's deviant about having sex? And why is it only deviant for women? It takes two to tango. What happens to the men?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 04:19 AM
1

Plenty of women value casual sex. That's why they have it. Just because you don't, doesnt mean everyone doesn't. I think you'll also find that charging men for sex is going to be far more detrimental to your "value" than upping your n-count.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 01:45 AM
1

Why is it bad to be a slut?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 01:43 AM
1

Surely this can't be written by a woman? If not, you do realise some women get immense pleasure from sex? Sometimes even doubly so with a hot random. I would absolutely not bother if I didn't. As for getting bills paid, I would think prostitution takes it to a new level from having sex for pleasure
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 11:09 PM
7

No one cares if you do or don't. Make your own decisions and stop judging everyone for theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 10:42 PM
2

If some guy doesn't care about his partner having a past, who cares? It's none of your business. People do a lot worse things than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 10:36 PM
4

Younger ladies aren't necessarily going to be interested in you. Most younger women aren't into guys 10+ years older, and suppose they are, they are not necessarily going to have low n-counts. Some women rack up huge numbers in their early 20s. Others in their 30s have been with very few.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 10:28 PM
2

Studies show that men are much more likely to cheat on women who earn more than them. I earn more than average, and I'm not looking for Mr. Moneybags, so it's a genuine concern. I have had men go cold on me once they find out what I earn. It's interesting because they don't want to be divorce raped, but they still want to earn more than their partners. I'm certainly not the one demanding they earn more. As long as they're happy, I don't care. Why am I single? After that post I made and some furt…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 05:28 AM
2

I don't care how much a potential partner earns, as long as he's employed. What worries me more is him having a problem with how much I earn and cheating on me because of it. Apparently this is a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 04:57 AM
17

Incels already think it happens at 13
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 02:14 AM
3

I've found the opposite more often than not. Lots of women with feminists beliefs who reject the label because men don't like it or something. Either way, it's good we cleared that up.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 01:25 AM
3

I would consider that just your average woman, not feminist. A feminist, by definition, supports equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 01:17 AM
3

Because she's a feminist. If she doesn't, she's a very diluted form, or she's settling big time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 12:58 AM
3

And it's probably not going to work if she starts demanding equality in the relationship. At least one of them is going to tire of all of that very quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 12:52 AM
3

Well are they going to be attracted to a sexually liberated feminist for a LTR? I'm guessing not given how much they go on and on about n-counts and youth and fertility. So does it even matter if those women are attracted to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 12:38 AM
5

Whether he's a closet sexist or not is irrelevant when I want a ONS. Obviously if he's openly sexist, no deal, but like the other dude said, they're not going to be openly so.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 12:10 AM
2

Possibly, if he's attractive and doesn't behave like an asshole. If he's not attractive and is just pretending he is, likely not, which is more what the pick up side of red pill is about, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 11:54 PM
2

I was responding to the part where you asked "since when does TRP advocate LTRs?" Again, if you're talking about a ONS, whether he's a pig or not on the inside is largely irrelevant. For a LTR, It's highly relevant and very unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 11:40 PM
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Red pill men on here are always talking about wifing up and knocking up attractive young virgins because they're fertile etc. They always seem to be complaining about sluts and older women or fat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 11:30 PM
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Do you mean for a ONS or for a LTR? Even I would fuck a red pill guy once or twice if he was physically attractive enough and seemed like he would be good in bed. His income & status would mean nothing to me because it's not like I'm going to benefit from that after one night. For a LTR, I cannot see myself being attracted to a misogynist. Nothing would repel me more. And probably likewise him to me. The exception for women like me accepting men like that might be taking what we can get. I had a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 11:18 PM
3

I know you didn't ask me, but I'm guessing they feel validated by someone valuing them being "good girls."
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 10:55 PM
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It's going to attract the type of woman who doesn't mind conservative misogynists. So traditional, conservative women mostly. You won't find many independent, free-thinking, liberal women being attracted by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 10:52 PM
2

Likes dogs too much? Who really gives a shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 10:31 PM
2

32/F/white Smokes Conservative Wants kids Religious (slightly is ok) Younger than 25 or older than 45 Unemployed Been imprisoned Doesn't believe in equality Overbearing family Expects me to do all housework
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 10:28 PM
1

Exactly. It's not like you're going to get any of that cash during a ONS, so much better to find a guy in his physical prime who you are actually sexually attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 10:19 PM
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Very few men are physically attractive by the time they reach 50. There seems to be this delusion among men that they keep getting more attractive, while women become less so. Let me me frank here: Gray hair, balding, guts, hairy backs and droopy balls are not sexually attractive. If you have these things and you are pulling attractive young women, they either want your money or they have crippling low self-esteem (I know this because I used to be one of them). Aging in men might be tolerated by…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 10:01 PM
5

I don't really care about getting married, but I don't want kids. I think what you'll find is women don't want to end up destitute after giving up their careers/earning capacity & appearance to have a man's kids (which they presumably both want). It's an insurance policy. If a man doesn't want that, then sorry, no kids for him (in most cases). The ceremony just legitimizes the partnership in the eyes of families & the rest of society. It supposedly gives them a reason to work on staying together…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 07:47 AM
2

thank you :)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 04:34 AM
3

I've read up on attachment styles and I mostly relate to the "fearful avoidant" type. I've been badly hurt before (emotional abuse) and I'm not sure I deserve a healthy relationship, but I do want one. I just don't really trust that someone would actually want to be with me. My ex was a very scary clingy anxious type.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 04:33 AM
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I'd ideally like a boyfriend. I went on tinder for a week. Plenty of matches with men, but I honestly didn't feel like I was good enough for anyone on there. Then I was worried if I did meet them that it would just be about sex and I'd be wasting their time not having it. So i deleted the app. I have self-esteem issues from a prior bad relationship, in case that wasn't evident.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 04:15 AM
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I'm a single lonely women. I can get sex with a FWB any time I want, but that only scratches the itch for a short amount of time. In fact, I often feel more lonely afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 03:42 AM
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I do meet people frequently. I've never done online dating, but I go to a lot parties and events. The 16 is a genuine 16. I haven't ommited anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 02:10 PM
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It would creep me out a bit, but they're all adults, so none of my business. If they're happy, they are doing better than most people, so good for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 01:05 AM
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First one broke up with me. Second one I broke up with because all we did was fight all the time over his passiveness. He couldn't make a decision about anything. Me: What would you like for dinner, pizza or thai food? Him: Ummm...i don't know, you decide.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/18 09:44 PM
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They have no interest in me. Not the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/18 02:21 AM
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Can he eat pussy decently? If yes, not a problem, unless you're talking micropenis.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 11:09 PM
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My first boyfriend was shy. I was with him from 16-19. Then I was with another one from 23-26 who was very passive. It's not attractive to me, but I'm just saying it's not like I haven't been there or that my standards are too high to date someone like that, because I have.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 08:36 PM
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I haven't dated online yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 07:22 PM
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I'm sure I absolutely do come across as independent... because I am. I don't need someone to financially support me or coddle me. I just want a companion. I thought this would be seen as desirable since everyone is afraid of being betabucks and being divorce raped. That's not going to happen with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 07:19 PM
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I don't want kids. I'm already out of the gene pool. Just want a guy to hang out with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 06:56 PM
2

What? LTRs?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 06:23 PM
2

I don't do it in real life. I actually don't agree with slut shaming at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 10:51 AM
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I have no idea. I figured it was because people thought I was a slut or I'm too old.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 10:48 AM
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Except I'm not... I would be perfectly content with an average or even slightly below average guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 10:46 AM
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It's more how people here perceive someone in my position. I don't really see my N-count as an issue and it's not something I'm ashamed of. I like sex and I have it when I want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 10:41 AM
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I don't mean equal as in equally as attractive. I mean equal contributor financially. I don't want to support someone or be supported. We should both work and both pay the bills, contribute to groceries, share the housework. I also want someone who help come up with ideas of things to do, places to go. I don't want to be the one having to do all of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 10:24 AM
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I would, but no interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 10:18 AM
1

How would that present itself? How would I address that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 10:18 AM
1

I would love that. Impossible to find.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 10:16 AM
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It's really hard to describe in a way that would give you an indication of whether I'm ugly or not. 5'5, 135 lbs, green eyes, dark hair, light skin caucasian, curvy. I know none of that sounds bad, but I'm fairly average I would say.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 10:16 AM
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It's more that age is not a factor for me. I would date younger or older. Only older used to be interested in me. Now no one is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 10:12 AM
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I haven't even gotten to the point where anyone has even asked. Literally no one is interested in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 10:11 AM
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I don't really think I've made any mistakes. Nothing to forgive myself for. I just understand that it's an issue for most guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 10:09 AM
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Well that's a relief. I figured it was too many for most guys, especially with the way they talk on this sub. It doesn't bother me personally. Just laying it all out there in the open.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 10:08 AM
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Not at all. I make decent money, so I would actually expect it. Could be my personality. Not sure what part of it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 10:07 AM
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Absolutely. I won't support someone, but as long as they are employed and can split bills, I don't care how much he makes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 08:23 AM
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Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 04:49 AM
1

An equal contributor to the relationship financially and socially. I want to split everything down the middle in terms of money and effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 04:41 AM
1

The guys on this site make it sound like anything over 2 makes you worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 04:39 AM
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Yes, one of them was. The last one.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 04:38 AM
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What do you want to know? I don't know what else to say. Older male friends are coworkers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 04:37 AM
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I'm ok with that. I just thought this might be a place to get non-stock answer responses that actually may allow me to assess the situation differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 04:35 AM
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I live in a large city in a western country (don't want to get specific). Similar dating culture to the US. The reasons I get are usually, "I'm not looking for a relationship at the moment," "it's me, not you," and other cliches. I definitely do not cling or act desperate. I'm actually more detached than anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 04:33 AM
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I am willing to date men with teenage + children. In fact, after a childfree man, that would be my preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 04:29 AM
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This is a real post. Not sure how to prove it, but it is. There have been no recent candidates.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 04:27 AM
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I would go for someone younger, but get no attention from younger guys, other than for sex (same as older). I have two single male friends, but neither of them do relationships. Both are older (12 & 20 years older) and have been single for 10 years + each. My last ex was 18 years older, same height as me, had ex wife & kid baggage, not particularly attractive. I broke up with him because he was extremely controlling and jealous. He thought I was going to leave him for a better looking guy and co…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 04:24 AM
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I do want a relationship. Nothing high stress or high pressure, but like I said, just some companionship. Some one to do fun stuff with. I also like sex a lot and want to have it regularly with someone. I'm asking here because I know if I ask on the relationship advice board I'll get advice like "don't worry, you just have to meet the right person."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 04:17 AM
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On the flip side, dating a guy much less attractive tends to bring out jealousy and possessiveness in him. This can be scary and downright dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 12:26 AM
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I don't look at men in terms of whether they are better or worse than me, but there are certain traits I won't compromise on. I'd rather remain single than date someone who's abusive, an asshole, or a misogynist (red pillers & incels need not apply). Income and excessively good looks don't really matter to me. If that makes my standards too high, so be it. I'm the one who has to put up with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 12:10 AM
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While a talented artist, he was severely mentally ill, possibly schizophrenic. I don't think he would have been drowning in pussy if his fame had arisen while he was alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/18 11:11 PM
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I don't think any of the ones I've spoken to were in dead bedrooms or disrespected. They were just bored from the same old routine all these years.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/18 09:59 PM
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I don't know any real life cases of this actually happening. Doesn't mean it doesn't, but I don't think it's as widespread as you seem to think. On the other hand, I regularly get hit on by "provider" married men, from all walks of life. Some are happy in their marriages, some are not. The only constant seems to be that they desire variety. So I don't really feel sorry for these "providers." If she's cheating, so is he. Maybe that's just what people do?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/18 10:50 AM
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Hey, I love to do nothing but lie around sometimes. Just not all the time. Shared activities/outings keep the relationship interesting. He was happy to go along with whatever, but I just wanted him to contribute at least some of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/18 10:35 AM
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I've been in a relationship like this. Not because I wanted it, but because he was just so passive and someone had to take the lead, otherwise we would just sit around and do nothing. He didn't have opinions or a strong desire to do much of anything. He was always happy just to do what I wanted to do. He couldn't cook or clean though. Literally did not know how to. I much prefer dating an equal. I have no desire to dominate or be dominated. Let's just both contribute and share the load? I'm much…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/18 08:29 AM
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Really? It was like one hour. Not that great and not that fulfilling.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 01:04 PM
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Race is completely irrelevant. It's the behavior. Not sure why you insist I'm a racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 03:03 AM
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Only if the black man comes across as creepy. Not just because he's black. Most black men are fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 01:20 AM
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That's fine. Continue as you wish, but you don't get to dictate how you make me feel. My reaction to you is based on instinct and experience. It's not irrational.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 11:00 PM
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Like I said, potential consequences outweigh offending you. If you don't like it, stop being a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 10:07 PM
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I can think of quite a few cases where men were awarded custody because they were more suitable to raise the kids. The mothers had mental or drug/alcohol problems. It's given to whoever is best to look after them, and quite often men don't even fight for custody. They just assume the kids will go to the mother. If a woman has been a stay at home mother or works part-time, more often than not it's given to her because she is the primary care giver, and always has been.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 10:06 PM
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If they're parents and they're single, they're single dads, whether you like what they do or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 10:02 PM
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Oh ok, you might want to put up a definition then. Also, it is common behavior. Believe me!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 09:52 PM
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Plenty of single dads take off and never have, nor want anything to do with their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 09:39 PM
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I have an expectation not to be gawked at, cat-called, harassed or touched with out my consent. If he can't manage that, he's a creep, and yes, that's his fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 09:29 PM
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Also assumed to have been financially raped by their ex wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 09:22 PM
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Some see it as a failure to make good decisions. Personally, I think bashing single parents is horrible all together. People who do it are far worse than the people who had kids & their relationships didn't work out. On the other hand, I've been with single dads before and it's not for me. They generally make great boyfriends, but I'm not a kid person and don't want to spend my time doing kid things.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 09:19 PM
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I have been with a guy like that. Well, not rich, but financially secure. He was incredible...but he had children (divorced). That has since become a deal breaker for me. The likelihood of me finding all of that in a guy with no children or ex wife, is very slim at my age (32), and I'm ok with that. I'm at a point where I'm perfectly content being single. If i do happen to come across someone I'm compatible with, I wouldn't refuse the opportunity, but that's becoming less and less likely as I ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 09:13 PM
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Like I said, my safety is more important than whether I'm offending you because of the vibes you're giving off. That's something you need to work on, not me. I've given enough creeps chances and it goes badly every single time
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 08:43 PM
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I'm female, but you can call it "settling" if you want. I would ideally like a tall, sexy, rich guy who is devoted to me and only me, but I'm a realist and know that's probably not going to happen. Apparently taking anything less than that is settling because that's the standard I want. It shouldn't be seen as a bad thing to loosen the expectations. It's just being realistic. More concerning would be if I was waiting for the guy I mentioned above til the day I die. Yeah sure, it wouldn't be sett…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 08:00 PM
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That is definitely racist, but most people don't do that, unless the black person is "creepy." One is a race (not inherently threatening) and one is something that triggers fear for safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 07:56 PM
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My safety is more important than whether or not you think it's sexist. Gut feelings are powerful and should be trusted, even if wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 07:20 PM
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So? It can be fun to fuck pretty boys when you're young. They're hot and they know how to fuck. But no one really wants a relationship with one. A relationship has a lot more value than one night with chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 07:09 PM
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And that's fine. They can be with whomever they want. People usually find the type of person they want to be with. The rest get realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 07:04 PM
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Lots of guys want commitment too. Some of them find it fulfilling. This is why you find attractive guys in relationships more often than not. The Chads you describe who don't do commitment are actually quite rare and not the type most women would actually want a relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 12:54 PM
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I recently posted in the infidelity sub a question about whether the cheaters there were promiscuous pre-marriage. The vast majority said they were not, but are now after many years married. While not scientific, I think this is interesting given how many people here think higher n-count= will cheat. I think it stems more from fear of being less experienced than the women they're with. An insecure man's ego is deeply threatened by a more experienced woman because he fears he won't measure up to …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/18 09:42 PM
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My ex was extremely timid. Much more so than me. It was not attractive to me at all, but it wasn't disgusting, just frustrating. I would prefer a partner to be as assertive or more assertive than me because it's a useful and attractive trait. Being timid has absolutely no benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/18 01:36 AM
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Female Conservative Smoker Prior cheater Religious Bad kisser Won't go down on me Controlling Overly close with family Doesn't like animals Wants kids
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 04:54 AM
1

It's not about feeding people. It's about the impact on the environment and human health- carbon emissions, deforestation, overfishing, pollution. Take China for example. Not the kind of place I think anywhere should aspire to be like. Quality of life is severely diminished with population increase
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 05:44 PM
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And so what if we do want to spend our weekends sipping wine and going to art galleries? We're not on this earth forever. We might as well do what we enjoy doing. The fact that we have a choice is fantastic. Personally, I don't want to spend my days changing diapers & cleaning up after kids. If that makes me a brat, I'm ok with that. Not everyone wants to sacrifice quality of life to contribute to an already overpopulated planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 04:37 PM
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25/36 Your score is equal or better than 36% of all participants. Definitely something I struggle with.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 11:10 PM
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You said men and women are not equal. Then you said you could "beat the fuck out of 99.9% of women" (charming). One would think those two statements were linked by the way you structured the paragraph. The first being the reason for the second. No? If men and women are not equal, why? I agree that subjective value might be determined by different factors, but that doesn't mean they are not equal overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 08:37 PM
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So superiority is based on physical strength alone? Does that mean body builder women are superior to less strong men?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 08:13 PM
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Sterile means can't. There's nothing voluntary about it. I do whatever I want. This is just a discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 08:02 AM
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Not sterile. Choosing not to reproduce. Not mgtows either. Normal people who have sex and relationships but don't want any kids whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 07:30 AM
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Incels are nowhere near average though. Even if sluts weren't sluts and had relationships with average guys they wouldn't get a look in.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 01:33 AM
1

What about introverted sluts? Are they better tolerated?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 01:29 AM
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But her pre- baby slut vag is going to a lot tighter than post-baby
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 01:22 AM
1

What evidence do you have that they are more demanding?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 01:08 AM
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In reality or in their minds?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 01:05 AM
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But no one is putting women down for it, when mother vaginas are much more stretched out than non mother vaginas, no matter how many cocks they've had
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 01:05 AM
1

I've met some very demanding women who have married their high school boyfriends & plenty of easy going sluts
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 01:04 AM
1

Why not? And since when is an Incel going to get a wife anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 12:47 AM
1

And how does this affect Incels enough to make them hate sluts?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 12:45 AM
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I thought a slut was someone who has sex indiscriminately, but it seems to be more of a case of being anyone who "sleeps with everyone but you."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 12:43 AM
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Incels have some of the worst mental states out there and they have no sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 12:30 AM
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You have absolutely no understanding of female anatomy if you think it in any way makes her vagina bigger to have had 20 cocks in it. A mother's vagina has had an entire baby come out of it and no one gives them shit for being "loose" downstairs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 12:12 AM
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Aren't they all involuntary? Do you agree with how they think about women?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 10:16 AM
1

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hegemonic_masculinity#Toxic_masculinity It encompasses more than just being harmful to men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 01:01 AM
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Toxic masculinity is also something that is harmful/violent towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 12:25 AM
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Maybe, but it's not toxic. Most would argue that it's positive masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 12:15 AM
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I think it would be a lot more toxic if he didn't care about her pleasure at all. An extreme example would be female genital mutilation to substantially reduce her pleasure. It might be somewhat self-serving, but I think a woman aiming to give a man an orgasm is equally as much an ego boost. I don't think any woman, feminist or otherwise is going to complain if a guy gives her an orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 12:13 AM
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From my observation, men don't care about sluttiness if a woman is highly attractive. The more attractive, the less her past seems to matter. That is on average. I get that some conservative extremists have different views, and that's ok. There's something out there for everyone. I think what's really undesirable is the way men like the OP treat women. That kind of mindset is sure to turn off anyone. I hope you are open and honest to women about your views on this. Or do you hide them to come ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 10:47 PM
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Not sure. I've been single for 3 years. I have a vibrator and a dog. I do have casual sex for fun, but I have no interest in getting seriously involved with someone who is more likely to cheat on me than not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 12:57 AM
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It has been my observation that men will cheat regardless of the circumstances- hot wife, ugly wife, balanced. It also doesn't matter if he's alpha, beta or whatever. All of that goes out the window when it's put in front of them. It's just what they do. I honestly believe that a man is only as faithful as his opportunities. Nothing can prevent it, other than an open relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 12:34 AM
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I'm a woman! Every guy I've been with since I've been over 30 has tried it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/18 06:19 PM
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I'm not complaining. It just amazes me that it's so mainstream now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/18 06:22 AM
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Suddenly everyone eats ass. I don't remember that in my mid-late 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/18 05:03 AM
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Women are trying to find the best partner they can? How dare they! Men would never do such a thing! Men would never flaunt their real or imaginary wealth or level of fitness to attract the type of woman they want 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/18 03:26 PM
2

In what way are they making themselves worth less?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 05:21 AM
2

But they still do it...and complain about it...Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 05:20 AM
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Well then you pay for that if it doesn't work out... simple as that. Point is don't complain about it if that's what you wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 04:43 AM
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That's only if she earns less than him. The point I was trying to make is it makes no sense to push for the housewife type, but many still do. And many men still want to marry because they want kids. This is the sacrifice they make if they want that and want a housewife.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 04:41 AM
2

Well then they are not understanding their responsibility. Part of a single income arrangement is supporting the non-working partner. This includes once it's over. The no-fault divorce makes no difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 04:19 AM
2

In what way?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 04:14 AM
5

Well then thats the price you pay if she does leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 04:13 AM
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That's what it appears to come down to, but I know so many SAHMs who have divorced their husbands for various reasons. Then the husbands get salty because they have to part with their combined assets. On the flipside, I know a few high income women with lower income husbands who lost out massively in divorce. An equal income would solve that problem. Seems they think these women won't leave them if they have no means to obtain an income and don't have to give them anything in the divorce. It's l…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 04:10 AM
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Seems that men don't really understand the financial union aspect of a traditional marriage and the responsibility that comes with it. They want all of the benefits, but none of the downsides.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 03:58 AM
7

That's fine, but don't complain when you have to give up half of everything at the divorce because she has no/limited/redundant skills to obtain an income.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 03:53 AM
-1

There are plenty out there. They just might not be the fawning type you are accustomed to being attracted to. They're independent women who have no interest in stroking your ego.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/18 02:41 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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