So... This got me thinking lol

vitryolic · 2020-10-20T05:34:39+00:00

Such a good question! Yes, for the right person, but I would be vetting extra hard, understanding that my wealth situation would rule a lot of people out, also pre-nup is a must

trettles · 2020-10-20T07:06:53+00:00

The more money I earn the less interested I seem to be in men. I can support myself and have a really fun, exciting life. Why would I want to add a lazy scrote to the equation?

royaldetour · 2020-10-20T10:00:58+00:00

I would literally by land and build a secret women's only neighborhood. I am good on the marriage 😂. My bf at the time could just love me from a distance and stay away from me at his house.

highoncatnipbrownies · 2020-10-20T14:53:21+00:00

Heck no. Id go on exotic vacations with my young and handsome personal assistant Manwell.

yanyanfan · 2020-10-20T05:16:18+00:00

The answer is definitely NO lol

san__404 · 2020-10-20T08:06:08+00:00

Only and only if the person adds extra 5 levels of value and joy to my day.

2020-10-20T09:15:53+00:00

God no! I’d enjoy my money.

Random192859184 · 2020-10-20T08:14:18+00:00

I’m not sure I ever want to get married anyway (I still doubt that HVM exist to be honest). But I have a lot of experience with men taking advantage of women not only emotionally and physically, but financially too. So if I were rich I don’t think I’d take that chance.

Cosmictears83 · 2020-10-20T11:18:38+00:00

Absolutely not. Too much to lose, nothing to gain. I can hire anyone for anything I may need in life.

theingenuelover · 2020-10-20T05:52:54+00:00

Yes. To a HVM who is only a teeny tiny bit richer than me. Plus, the house is under my name.

CassieGreen85 · 2020-10-20T07:24:26+00:00

Hell, I'm covid-unemployed and before that made minimum wage, and I really don't give a shit about marriage.

Having 20m a year would not only allow me to be set for life, I could set my parents and my brother for life, then set some for my nephews and nieces, and then donate to a lot of women-only orgs and animal sanctuaries and shelters.

Last thing I wanna do is marriage. (kids aren't even a question since I'm childfree)

Lavender_flow · 2020-10-20T13:42:36+00:00

I would still marry my current partner, but I would have a stone clad prenup. Only reason I would divorce him would be over a betrayal. He is vetted real hard, but a lesson I learned in life is you never know 100%. I feel like that for both men/women. Never trust anyone 100%, people can be devious.

GreatRedYonder · 2020-10-20T10:54:01+00:00

Yes with one HELL of a prenup.

tera9210 · 2020-10-20T09:53:08+00:00

I mais much less and the answer is already 'not really'

heleninthealps · 2020-10-20T05:22:34+00:00

For me its still yes, because I want a family, children and their father/my husband having the same last name. Basically things I'm not planning to try to buy.

It's a very good question to ask to see people's motivations - if it's for financial support, being afraid to be s single mom without help, or traditional values.

2020-10-20T12:25:41+00:00

Only if he was the same income level as me.

UnpeacefulLily · 2020-10-20T12:44:12+00:00

I don't even make up to 2% of that and I don't want to get married.

foxfaebae · 2020-10-20T13:48:56+00:00

Yes with a pre-nup.

maraslove · 2020-10-20T17:02:56+00:00

I would sign a pre-nup because women making too much money attracts hypergamous losers. I really want children mostly. That’s the only reason why I would, smh lol.

rebel4acause · 2020-10-20T09:58:57+00:00

Yes, but only to a HVM that would add value to my life.

Introambi1 · 2020-10-20T14:30:37+00:00

Nope

Nifteroni-and-Cheese · 2020-10-20T14:44:41+00:00

I mean, marriage isn’t a goal for me to start, I can take it or leave it, and if feel the same at any income level. I’d love to start a family and teach little mini-me’s about the world, if love to live on my own in a cottage fostering high-needs kids and kittens, I’d love being the kooky old math professor who’s like an unofficial grandmother to all her students, there are so many awesome things ahead of me regardless of if I get married, so if I meet the right person that’s cool, but if not, that’s cool too.

throwaway23004345 · 2020-10-20T16:24:18+00:00

Nope bc you can outsource. You could even adopt a kid so men are pretty useless unless they want to provide

2020-10-20T16:52:00+00:00

I am absolutely interested in marriage, to find a man who I genuinely get along with, who adds value, whose family I can get along with, and who will respect me.

The problem isn't that men like that don't exist - it's just that it's the universal HVM that all women want, and he has his pick.

Ideally, he will want to be with someone of his calibre, because dating down into oblivion is LVM behavior - men who do that just want a slave, not a counterpart.

It can be very difficult to have your life together, make a ton of money, and be generally happy with yourself, and then find a man who still adds value most of the time.

Also, a lot of men want to be the cake, and not the cherry on top of your life.

2020-10-20T21:26:40+00:00

Still a hard no. If I earned 5k a year it would still be a hard no. I'm not trapping myself into a situation that's hard to untangle from. Furthermore, if you're not trying your hardest now then you never will. A ring and a certificate of ownership isn't going to change that.

99natas · 2020-10-20T22:59:22+00:00

I make a very decent income and I definitely make more than 99% of people, makes it hard and most of the people I come in contact with are on my payroll.

I’m not sure I’m attractive anymore, my bf was not interested and no one has asked me out in two years.

I miss the smell of a man and their nice fur, guess I could hire one for a couple hours but it would be better if they liked me for myself.

So there’s that.

AnniaT · 2020-10-20T10:37:58+00:00

Yes if he was the right person but he'd either be a millionaire or a successful man and there would have to be a prenup.

ResponsibleRich · 2020-10-20T12:09:10+00:00

Never....for what? The only benefit I see in marriage is the extra income. If I don’t need that I don’t need to be married. We can be companions all day, but marriage would be a hard NO even if I was a millionaire.

Alma00019 · 2020-10-20T18:48:41+00:00

Yes. I want to get married for the connection and companionship, not for money.

2020-10-20T21:43:11+00:00

ugh_that_bitch · 2020-10-22T17:41:25+00:00

Yeah! I'd want to have a lovely large wedding and be able to spoil my wife, she deserves to be spoiled as much as I do. <3

2020-10-20T23:00:11+00:00

No way in hell lol.

bossbabekaren2point0 · 2020-10-20T23:44:59+00:00

Yeah depending on the person, but prenup prenup prenup

pao664 · 2020-10-21T01:16:36+00:00

Nope. No way.

Title	So... This got me thinking lol
Author	WildTenderness
Upvotes	244
Comments	59
Date	October 20, 2020 4:58 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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