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Any discussion , arrangements or agreement confirm it via text, heck argue via text if possible, at least down here in Mexico anything a woman says becomes instantly true and you have to prove otherwise
/r/TheRedPill09/12/25 07:49 AM
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I think he is right, ex was the queen of half truths, in a lot of cases she didn't lie, she just omitted parts. Also i think gaslighting do is the correct way to call things, when stuff got complicated, ex started changing small facts, defended her point so fiercely that is started to doubt myself, until i started texting her any agreements, she frigging hated it.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/25 04:53 AM
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The only winning play, is not to play at all.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/25 04:47 AM
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While correct, this is much easier in causal relationships, once you include getting married/kids things become more complicated, yes the same principles apply, but stakes become a lot higher. One thing i can advise is once any trouble starts, text guys everything via text, exwife was loosing a custody battle due to her not paying child support ( kid stayed with me) , then pulled the abuse card, while still an uphill battle text has been saving my ass so far. As a last note, post is completely t…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/25 04:46 AM
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My exwife pulled the DV card when loosing a custody battle, text messages are basically keeping me alive, court still frowns and scrutinized everything before accepting them, but is helping a lot. Is funny how a verbal declaration of a woman is absolutely the truth and tons of conversations and bank records need to be scrutinized before accepting them. Even then the court doesn't accept she lied, but rather takes reservations on her declaration, that is basically saying she lied, but thankfully …
/r/MensRights26/11/25 05:02 PM
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Want a look at the future look at Mexico. Feminicide has been a figure here for a long time, now look ley alina, violencia vicaria. Also on a DV claim whatever the woman declares is proof, the burden of proof that it didn't happen falls on the accused, so he has to prove something didn't happen, and it basically becomes impossible.
/r/MensRights26/11/25 04:56 PM
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I think your strategy is good, actually be as boring as possible, videogames, sports, boring movies, dont shave, dress bad, have almost no money to go out, make her dump you.
/r/MensRights06/11/25 07:45 PM
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Same here, went thru a phase where i fucked married woman left and rigth, then when i met my exwife, i basically couldnt ever trust her, that shit damaged me for life.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/25 05:30 PM
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Government or at least politics is a fuckfest
/r/TheRedPill02/07/25 11:28 PM
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When i was in politics i had the chance to work with an old woman that was a bad ass, that woman was like terminator, if you told her you needed a wall to be red by 1pm and she ran out of paint, she would kill a guy and use the blood so it would be red by 1pm. When we started working together my career was skyrocketing and my boss assigned her to me to help me out. One of the first things she told me was something like, Bigbadass boss assigned me make you shine, i will make sure every order you …
/r/TheRedPill28/06/25 02:33 AM
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Unfaithful married woman is some crazy shit, i went thru a phase and got all kinds of crazy stories. One made the husband use condoms, so she could secretely go on the pill for me to be able to cum inside her, she even showed me messages. She would be on a cheap motel all messed up texting the husband to pick up some condoms, because she was feeling frisky and would like to have sex on saturday.........it was a tuesday
/r/TheRedPill25/06/25 12:41 AM
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One of my high school friends was born with the whole DLC, good looking, family was loaded, talent for drawing, talent for music, sports etc. He was also a huge gamer, guy could talk about Final Fantasy all day long and girls listened like he was talking about the most interesting thing ever but if one of us talked about anything related we suddenly were nerds.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/25 02:32 AM
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When you start making serious money or getting high on some ladder, paying becomes a better option, less liability. Source i was in mid level politics, a congressman has a lot more to lose fucking around with a civilian, than using some high end services.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/25 04:53 AM
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Yup exwife wanted the exciting on the go politics life i had , when we had the kid i had to slow down and get off that ride, sure enough she didnt like that. Living off a suitcase and having to check what tlmezone you're at daily doesnt work with a kid.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/25 07:51 PM
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I can attest to that, i went out with an escort a few months, i met her as client, we had good chemistry, after the session was over i paid her and invited her to get something to eat, after eating we went back to an hotel and from that point i never paid her a cent, it went on for like 6 months. With other girls i had chemistry and get hours for free, no rules etc. You definitevely can have fun and getting there looking sharp, clean, etc the basics, and giving then a good fuck often ends up on …
/r/TheRedPill07/04/25 01:54 AM
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Happened to me, i was getting awesome sex but wasnt giving her any care or love, eventually she went with a beta that according to her hadn't even gave him a blowjob after 2 months but makes her feel loved.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/25 02:20 AM
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Is not that, a bad divorce can leave you completely drained emotionally speaking regarding dating, just the idea of starting to date drains you.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/25 09:51 PM
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At this point I don't kbow if im the one with BPD or my ex or both. But her idealization phase can be fucking intoxicating, you basically feel like a damn god, but fuck up just a lil bit, and your world will become hell.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/25 04:32 PM
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I have full custody of my kid, when my ex knew she had to pay child support, she went into full short circuit, it was like she couldn't process it, her mind just couldn't take it. So she went 6 years without paying, all she got was a slap on the wrist and now she pays the smallest possible amount.
/r/MensRights09/09/24 10:25 PM
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Im a single dad working full time, yes its a lot of work, but if it was my only job, takes around 2-3 hours a day to keep everything in order.
/r/MensRights30/08/24 08:28 PM
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Its because for them is not picking up the kids. She had to finder her keys, then take her purse, walk to the car, open the door, close the door, start the car, put it in reverse, check if no other cars were coming, drive to the exit, get on the road, wait that the stop ligth, take a turn, turn on the AC, find a radio station, get to the place, find a parking space, park in there, turn off the car, put the keys on her purse, take her purse, walk to pick up the kids, talk to the teacher, walk bac…
/r/MensRights30/08/24 08:26 PM
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This, i remember staying a my job longer to rest a bit before getting home, or just parking a few blocks before getting home to gather some strength, not knowing if it was gonna be a good or bad day, or if was going to say the wrong thing and make it a bad one or if the kids said something, or the dog, or the cat or the tv or facebook.
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/24 10:47 PM
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I was the side guy this fucking awesome married woman, hot AF, phd, awesome job, loaded, married to equally bad ass guy, but on hew own words, he treated her like a princess all the time even in bed, but she wanted to be fucked like a whore. After a couple of months of fucking her, she went secretely on the pill so i could come inside her, but kept making her husband wear condoms, she said she got a second wave of horny getting home with cum inside her.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/24 08:24 PM
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In the sleep around lingo, im divorced/divorcing/separated means open to fuck. its complicated basically means want to fuck next week?
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/23 12:35 AM
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Shitty ethical advice, but if you have the means a kinda sugarish deal with a lady in her 30's is very possible, source i used to hang around people with means, its way more usual than people think, they "help them" with their rent or bills, take them out, buy them clothes etc. Expensive....... it depends on your income but definetively cheaper than an LTR let alone marriage and due to the nature of the deal, ending them is easier on both sides. Side note, those girls usually hang around more gi…
/r/Divorce_Men13/12/23 04:21 PM
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Let the guy hit escorts often o get a sugar baby, at this age its the most effective strategy.
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/23 08:38 PM
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There are two sides to the story, always, as much and they exaggerate, there are also guys that cant even wash their dish or cook an egg without help. One of my friends is like a child, making messes like a kid all the time and not cleaning them up, his wife is always frustrated by him and i get it. We were doing a bbq at this house, he got the meat from the fridge, but the tray was leaking blood, instead of cleaning the underneath of the tray, he went thru all the kitchen, hall, living room unt…
/r/Divorce_Men04/12/23 11:34 PM
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I saw this a few days ago, my stbx spent a few days at my house while figuring something with her apartment. One of the days she did the dishes and fed the dog and cat. Then i saw her transfering the cat food to a container, the taking a scoop feed the cat. So instead of just leave the cat food on the bag, and use the scoop to feed the cat, she transfered the cat food from the bag to a container, then use a scoop to the cat bowl. So now every so often you have a new task, wash cat food container…
/r/Divorce_Men04/12/23 09:04 PM
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Just get a sugar baby, be clear from the get go, that way both of you are certain on the terms both consent, and if any of you is no longer happy with the situation, both can get out without drama.
/r/Divorce_Men29/11/23 01:11 AM
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If the part about the kidnapping is real, the smartest move is what the dad did, is no about being weak, is about knowing who you are dealing with.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/23 06:22 PM
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I was about to mention that, whenever this is mentioned, they add the mental load. I been doing the single dad thing while working a fullmtime WFH job, and is way easier that I was sold, granted you have to maintain it clean, and clean as you go in the kitchen. I have the kids 5 days a week and I cook 90% of the meals, take them to sports etc. Yes some days it's exhausting, but is because I'm also working full time, if not it would be a damn easy thing.
/r/Divorce_Men28/10/23 05:39 PM
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At that point they still faking it, the harsh truth comes out when they tell you, oh he is awesome, treats me like a princess, even in bed... and i need to be fucked like a whore from time to time. Hearing that shit turned my world upside down in a second.
/r/Divorce_Men29/09/23 03:58 PM
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Mine the jobless, scammer, thieff that sometimes washed our cars at one of our business, the doubled down and got pregnant by him 1 year later, she ended up living in something called vecindad, that is basically a slum down here in Mexico. We werent rich but she went from wearing $500 sunglasses, $300 boots matching color iphone and ipad, to selling her used clothes in out of the trunk of her car, car that he totaled a few months later, without insurance.
/r/Divorce_Men29/09/23 12:18 AM
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if by emotional connection you mean whispering in her ear my room number, yeah they need one.
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/23 11:06 PM
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Imagine someone at your job told you, that if you go and shit in the middle of the office, you will get a paid suspension with benefits, you will keep your office, your company car, your salary, but you don't have to work, in fact you can even go and use all the office's resources to work on a different company....... That is the deal divorced girls sell to other divorced girls.
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/23 10:55 PM
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I see one of the girls i was AP with from time to time in instagram, they're the perfect instagram couple, she is hot AF, guy is handsome, he takes her to romantic places very often, vacations every 2-3 months, europe every year, romantics dinners often, and she post about how much she adores him very often. Same girl that went secretly on the pill so i could cum inside her and made her husband wear condoms.
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/23 09:11 PM
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Extremely unethical advise even more so here, but getting the attention of a married woman is extremely easy, a lot easier than a single woman. Catch 22 is you cant be desperate, most of them want someone that will NOT get attached, want a relationship or anything. At most they want a quick SMS, U busy? Yes/No, Location, get some snacks on the way, maybe some weed, get in get out be done. People worry about their wives going to dinner with someone, the ones you have to worry about is the guy she…
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/23 07:30 PM
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They never appreciate how good they have it. I remember hearing one of these women complain about a 3-4 years old escalade, how her husband had her driving this old POS. She had never worked more than a few months when she was single, in some bs job, yet it her mind driving a 50k+ SUV was driving a POS.
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/23 07:25 PM
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I wasnt desperate nor lonely, i had dates with single women too, but i just kept pushing the envelope with married women, turns out its worse than we normally imagine it to be. And its in all kinds of women, the working one, the sahm, the ex party girl, the highschool sweathearts, women now are always bored and their brain is mush from social media, so they're always looking for the next high.
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/23 07:23 PM
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Yeah i stopped before that happened, it was a streak of 5-6 months, fueled by pain mainly and wanting to know how far women were capable of going, and damn that shit scarred me for life.
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/23 04:45 PM
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Aftr my divorce i went full POS and became AP for several married woman, if someone asked me i would back that statistic all day long.
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/23 04:24 PM
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I know im gonna be hated, but after my divorce i was in a fucked up place from my wife's cheating, so i became AP with several married women. That shit scarred me for life, i just kept pushing to see how far they would go, let me tell you the rabbit hole is the damn Kola Superdeep Borehole.
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/23 11:34 PM
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That show hits way different after a few times around the block for sure, like you mention those guys were the one in a million find, but the show makes it seem like a hottish slutty waitress is the prize.
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/23 08:14 PM
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Kinda, being able to try something even if you are not good at it and overcome the social anxiety does.
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/23 05:43 PM
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Dude, when i divorced i was 30, with a beer gut, balding, 3yo kid, no house, not a lot of money. Ended up fucking 4-5 random girls on the regular, dated an escort for a few months, i was fwb with some others, fucked a 30yo argentinian with a kick ass job, smart as fuck, PhD working on whatever shit you get after PhD for a year, got my STBX a then 23y hot as fuck kindergarten teacher. If i was able to do it you can do it too. My advice get out there, but not in a dating mindset, in a just fucking…
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/23 11:14 PM
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Free sex is most expensive kind of sex. If you go for a top shelf service (expensive) and take care of yourself, meaning dress nicely, take a shower as soon as you get your hotel room (wash your ass and dick), wear some decent cologne, brush your teeth etc, its 99% of the time a great experience, the girls can have fun too, even on a paid date. Source: went into the scene a lot, "dated" an escort for 5-6 months (meaning we got out and then fucked no money exchanged), got to be fwb with 2-3 a few…
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/23 10:47 PM
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I had se with a girl like at 2-3 pm then with another like at 7-8pm, I swear my dick still smelled of pussy (I did shower) I never saw girl 2 as horny as that day.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/23 01:12 AM
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I been there, giving them as much as possible so the kids will be as good as possible, long story short, you will get shafted, kids life wont improve a bit and in the end you will end up without money while she sleeps around.
/r/Divorce_Men30/08/23 06:16 PM
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and she left the house on her own, dude got the battlepass edition of divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men29/08/23 06:23 PM
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I know how dark the tunnel seems now, but if you are already planning to buy a house you are better than 90% of the whole planet, most of us will never dream of owning a home, let alone buying on just after divorce. Try to frame this different, you got the gift of freedom, now you can do whatever your want, its scary i know, but picture it like being single again, but with money and experience.
/r/Divorce_Men24/08/23 11:14 PM
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Sometimes women do things we cannot really find a logic to it. I have a friend that went from selling fish out if the bed of his pickup truck, to owning several commercial fishing boats, a fish processing plant, and lots of more shit. They had big house worth a couple of millions rigth on the beach, their friggin backyard was a beach! They had drivers , kids in europe in school the whole 9 yards. Life happened that just after his wife got a couple cosmetic surgeries and he helped get a nice poli…
/r/Divorce_Men24/08/23 07:54 PM
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You know what the best revenge is? Something that will absolutely shock her down to the core? Seeing you happy after moving on. Instead of wasting all that energy still focused on her, move on, go to they gym, be yourself again. Still want some closure revenge? The priceless two step backs my exwife saw me with my then GF was all the closure in needed
/r/Divorce_Men22/08/23 04:58 PM
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federal
/r/Divorce_Men18/08/23 11:06 PM
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Dont take this the wrong way, but there are ways out. When i divorced i took 2 trashbags full of clothes and my laptop. The bike is worth 2k? Good, sell it a but a 2k beater car, an old crown victoria, grand marquis, honda accord, toyota camry from the mid to low 2000's should be around that price, reliable and cheap to fix. I’m hoping we can negotiate to help me out in exchange for not fighting her.> You need to figth for yourself, she is not going to help you, in fact the more you need her, th…
/r/Divorce_Men18/08/23 04:48 PM
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I dont want to trigger you, there is no normal, but being able to separete love and sex is a skill you really really need to have. Casual sex is extremely common, and you need to be able to manage it. The approach you're using is very naive and women, in fact men and women take advantage of that, you need some grit in yourself, you need to be the guy that instead of requesting your cheating wife to come back, pushes her out of your life. I was there 10 years ago, luckily something snapped inside…
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/23 03:50 PM
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Social media is a big one a very very big one.
/r/Divorce_Men16/08/23 11:48 PM
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I worked with some high level politicians for a while, the advise from the old ones? Paid sex is the cheapest sex ever.
/r/Divorce_Men16/08/23 11:40 PM
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This is why i always suggest to guys to hit 3-4 DIFFERENT high end escorts after divorce. You need to be able to separate love from sex, its a skill you need to have, otherwise any women can come and manipulate you with some nice words and some sex. You need to learn that sometimes sex is just sex, pussy is not this holy shit, women are not this angels that came down from heaven, they're just human like you. And sex with a very attractive 23yo is just a few dollars away, not a ring, a house, a b…
/r/Divorce_Men16/08/23 07:05 PM
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I divorced leaving everything but 2 trash bags full of clothes and my laptop. Best move ever life wise. Financially its been 10 years and still sucks, i had my whole life lined up 2 business, savings, 2 cars, up and coming career, all went to shit. Would i do it again?, in a split second.
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/23 08:41 PM
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Yeah as long as you don't repeat, you need to learn to enjoy being with different women.
/r/Divorce_Men05/08/23 10:14 PM
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When we start we look at things the other way, we think we lost, yes we lost a big fucking anchor in our lifes. Its hard to get back i know it, i still can do it fully, but every small step you give, makes the next one easier. Advice A) Not popular but effective. If you got the means and is legal near you, get the most expensive escorts you can afford, for real, 2-3 DIFFERENT girls, the hottest, best service you can afford, and then stop not looking to get hooked. This will accomplish several th…
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/23 04:08 PM
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Like everything in life Some are assholes, some are idiots that buy their lies.
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/23 03:57 PM
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You just described the Las 8 years of my life.
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/23 02:50 PM
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A thirsty sleazy simp will do for her. Women are not as naive as us, she won't ask him to kill op, he would be the one with the idea after she presents X scenario, where she is hurt in some way (emotionally, financially etc).
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/23 08:51 PM
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I have the same thing, stbx still wants to fuck, we always had porn star like sex. I can call her right now and fuck her all day long, but that will end up making my life hell eventually, will get my kid get emotionally abused, will make my finances go to hell again. For me it's no longer worth it.
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/23 04:00 PM
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this deserves 100 upvotes more.
/r/Divorce_Men21/07/23 05:21 PM
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Yup it did the same for me, with my 1st wife i treated sex like this magical thing, that i had the luck of having sex with her after i gave her some $500 sunglasses. After my pay for play phase i realized sex with a beautiful woman was just some money away, that changed my attitude and dating became a lot easier, suddenly i was sleeping around with 4-5 girls, plus some other casual flings, most of them a lot more attractive, smarter, and had way better sex than with my exwife.
/r/Divorce_Men21/07/23 05:20 PM
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You will get much better sex once single, even from you ex eventually. I had a pornstar like sex life with my stbx, for real, squirt, anal, facefucks, black kiss, rimming anything you can picture, it was a regular tuesday, but the rest of my life was hell. The first 1-2 girls will be the hardest, but once you get going god damn, it's a fuck fest out there.' My always controversial advice, go get the hottest most expensive escorts you can, at least 2-3, then start looking for regular women. It wi…
/r/Divorce_Men21/07/23 04:49 PM
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Cheating aside at least she went with someone that treats your kids ok, instead of some druggie or violent guy thst endangers them.
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/23 04:34 PM
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1st wife got the best version of me, in a way both of our lives went down a lot, but she did get the worst part. We live in Mexico for context, minimum wage down here is about USD $1 per hour. We had a very decent life even for US standards, 2 nice cars, 2 business, I had a up and coming career in politics. She went from living in a beach front house, wearing ugg boots, $500 sunglasses, Burberry watches, to living in a Mexican slum in less than 2 years. She kept most of the stuff including one o…
/r/Divorce_Men15/07/23 04:07 PM
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Kid is full time with me so no child support, and we are in Mexico, so no welfare or anything resembling unemployment.
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/23 06:00 PM
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In my case we are still very attracted to each other on a physical level, but she did some stuff that were too much for me. Emotional cheating, be abusive to my teenager kid etc etc. Still, she lost her job and hasn't been able to get one, it was her weekend with the kid last week, I sent her groceries via delivery. What would it benefit me to have the kid go to her mom's house to an empty fridge?
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/23 05:11 PM
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Is not that you are buddies, but heck you have the responsibility to raise another human being, you can either do it while hating the other parent, or at get it to a functional level where you can communicate about it.
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/23 04:30 PM
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I don't hate her, it was more like disappointment, i do care for her as a person and as the mother of my kid, i want her to have a good life, so she can share that with my kid. Would i take her back or change my life for her? no. would i help her? yeah sure, no gain having my kid see her mother homeless.
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/23 04:28 PM
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I have seen they have crisis, that end in divorce/cheating 28-32 and 38-42, my guess is adapting to the new "age".
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/23 07:58 PM
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Things will be worse, re read this things will be worse. She will know she can do whatever and you will take her back, so whatever she did it will be 10 times worse.
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/23 11:10 PM
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Im taking care of both my kids, truth is hard as hell, but wayyy easier than living with the stbxw.
/r/Divorce_Men22/06/23 04:45 AM
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If Jeff Bezos got divorced, will smith was cheated on what can peasants like us expect.
/r/Divorce_Men22/06/23 01:13 AM
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wait until you live on your own for a few months, the peace you will feel is priceless.
/r/Divorce_Men22/06/23 01:06 AM
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Fucking is what she is going to offer, in all the ways you want and can imagine, she will give you the best performance she can, with all the experience she got fucking all the other guys, she will be submissive, dominant, innocent, slutty whatever you can picture. But a few months later the one with a 20 inches dildo up his ass and almost sticking out of the mouth will be you, entangled all kinds of ways and unable to get rid of her. Just like a damn black widow. She is 34 her looks are going d…
/r/Divorce_Men22/06/23 12:48 AM
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IMHO he needs to fuck some new women, no better cure for this disease than some new hotter girls.
/r/Divorce_Men22/06/23 12:43 AM
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Thts why its so hard for some of us, thats what we been told/teached our whole life. When i started to get laid i just kept pushing with the IDGAF attitude and surprisingly women kept sleeping with me, sometimes i was extremely surprised it worked. I was kinda an asshole but not exactly rude nor mean, its more like be bold. During my divorce word got around in my social circle that she was a cheater, but also that as soon as i found out i filed and i was out of the house that same weekend. Inste…
/r/Divorce_Men21/06/23 10:31 PM
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too much effort just to mess with her, all that effort could have gotten him into they gym and working to get a hotter gf, best revenge ever.
/r/Divorce_Men21/06/23 07:12 PM
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They will weaponize anything and i mean anything. You could give them 100k as a xmas present and somehow they find a way to weaponize and make you the bad guy for giving them the money.
/r/Divorce_Men21/06/23 07:10 PM
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Yup my stbxw was bitchy and abusive to my daugther about a month ago, 2 weeks later she lost her job and lots of shit has been going on her life, guess who is back on her best behavior?
/r/Divorce_Men21/06/23 03:41 PM
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I went from 120kg to 98kg, already getting more looks and good morning etc. Im pretty sure once i get into the gym i should get a couple of dates.
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/23 03:27 PM
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Look at the redpill advice they gave you, look for married redpill, not everything there is true, but the basics are. This is long with a bit of story time. There is a big chance you are going to reject it, basically most of the stuff we know and been told all our life is wrong. About 10 years ago i had my 1st divorce, i was full on by the book provider, spent a lot of time working, gave my exwife all kind of luxuries in the hopes of getting 'lucky' literally thats the way i tougth, that i was l…
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/23 03:24 PM
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It do is a lot more work, but the peace is worth it. At the end of the day i can actually rest, unlike when the wife was home it was 50/50, either an amazing evening or do the wrong thing or the wrong phrase and hell ensued for days.
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/23 02:31 AM
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I was an asshole for providing a life where she could be a SAHM and take care of our kid until he got into kindergarten (because now according to her i didn't allow her to work). Then i was an asshole for asking her to work, then after the covid shitshow i was a bigger asshole for not making enough and asking her to work, then i was triple asshole for making her suffer, having to wake up early, dealing with traffic, dealing with work bs, while i enjoyed my WFH job that I spent months studying at…
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/23 12:50 AM
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They don't need logic getting on the way of feelings. They are going to be this sexy divorcees dating rich guys, just like in tiktok.
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/23 12:39 AM
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Yeah but still same scenario, they improve their way to get income and decide to divorce
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/23 10:37 PM
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i dont want to be an ass, but most probably she will get a slap on the wrist from the judge and wont pay anything.
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/23 07:04 PM
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Im a very private man so I decided to share here. Ive been with my partner for 14 years. We have 1 kid together and I admit to my faults (this will be lengthy sorry in advance) I was not the best at handling my emotions and started to become spiteful over the years since I worked 70+ hour weeks for 6 years so that she could stay home and keep house and raise our child. The thing was she was not taking care of the home but did her best at taking care of our child. She became a fuctioning alcoholi…
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/23 05:07 PM
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Yeah i know, but hey i got to live the illusion of happily ever after twice lol.
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/23 04:58 PM
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Mine got 10k, a free business, a free car, a shop full of tools, fully furnished house, plus countless other shit, basically my whole 20's money wise.
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/23 02:14 AM
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The amount of times i've seen this story is astounding,. Wife gets back to school, husband pays for it, divorce is moslty just before graduation or very very close after it, while they still riding the high that after graduation they will become this rock star (insert degree), but before reality that sucess is not awarded with the degree hits them.
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/23 01:36 AM
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they dont value money, they just value how they feel. Think of it this way, if you go to get a months vacations with the hottie you been thinking of banging, you get to travel all over europe for free, bang the hottie all day long without worries, the vacations are basically free, also when you get back you get rewarded with a free house, a lump sum payout and possibly a monthly payment for the next 5-10 years if not lifetime payments? Fuck 90% percent of the planet will take it.
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/23 01:28 AM
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She will probably get it, so my advice start changing how you think about it. She is not taking anything, you are paying ransom for your freedom, if you had a life sentence ahead of you, would you pay the courts what they ask you to get out of the sentence? Its the same thing. I know how hard it sucks, on my first divorce i lost like 90% of my stuff/money/etc, but your freedom is totally worth it, money can be made again but not even with 100 million you could buy one more year of life.
/r/Divorce_Men08/06/23 11:54 PM
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This, when young and stupid slept with several married women, the rabbit hole goes down very very deep, it's kind of weird once you get into that vibe, women smell it and they practically throw themselves at you. That shit has given me ptsd for life, I have never been able to trust my wife or basically any female.
/r/Divorce_Men01/06/23 06:14 AM
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While very very stupid, i dont think there is a real difference between having 200 billion and 100 billion, at least not something that changes your lifestyle.
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/23 10:02 PM
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truth is you underestimate how desperate simps are. i know a couple divorcee milfs in her high 30's low 40's that hunt rich old guys, one of them got a house, another one a brand-new car and lots of money.
/r/Divorce_Men19/05/23 03:56 PM
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Over a certain lever of power free sex becomes risky, more so if the girls you interact with and fuck are in the same business industry or similar. Look what happens to entertainment guys all the time, at that point paid sex becomes a lot safer, convenient and logic, even if you have some girls for free. Notice that i said, power not money.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/23 06:58 PM
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You completely get it. When i was on top of my politics career, i had 3-4 girls as plates, but went to escorts a lot, there's a point where you realize paying is cheaper, not monetary wise but commitment wise. When you are fucking a girl for "free" you have lots to lose.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/23 06:56 PM
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Once you go above a certain level of power, you are better paying for sex, lots less complications that way, once you are in a position of power (more than money) free sex becomes extremely expensive.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/23 08:52 PM
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yeah the one i dated and the 2 i fucked for free were like that, i hired them we liked the way we fucked and saw each other for sex.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/23 02:50 AM
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I used escorts a lot for like a year, ended up dating one for like 6 months, and fucking 2 other for free for a couple of months. According to them, all depends on the guy, sometimes its a chore, sometimes the guy is hot, sometimes they get fucked so good they ask themselves who should get paid.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/23 09:30 PM
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Theyre all over the place man, get any girl you can, paid, barely attractive, anything. Get the desperation smell out of your body, then stop looking for a relationship, if you score again with another girl, dont get attached, at most the next day send her a sms, it was fun to meet, lets do it at some other time, or something casual like that. Profit. Once you start doing it you give a vibe or smell or i dont know, but girls know it, suddenly you are hooking up with girls with very little effort…
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/23 09:01 PM
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IMHO not worth causing a fuss for something like this. If she was sober all day with the kids and got stoned after they go to bed.. well let her be.
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/23 06:20 PM
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after my divorce i found myself just wanting sex, nothing more, shockingly i found out lots of women are just looking for FWB, but lots of guys catch feelings way too fast. Eventually that led me to attract more attractive girls and ended up in a relationship. One particular girl a insta fit girl that was extremely hot, told be about a couple of times she had sex and guys showed up the next day with flowers/gifts /romantic stuff when she was just looking someone to relax with have fun. Ironicall…
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/23 06:17 PM
3

Call me crazy, but this is a skill you need to have, sex without emotional attachment, i bet OP wife can do it.
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/23 04:59 PM
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as much as it hurts, chances are she is not looking for anything serious, just getting laid a lot.
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/23 07:03 PM
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Same here went from a 33yo wife to a 24yo one, prettier, better body and much better in bed. before the divorce i acted like my wife was the hotter i was ever gonna get, boy i was wrong.
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/23 07:01 PM
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yes and no. Right now you consider your wife the hottest piece of ass in the universe, and yourself unable to get anything better. Getting some high-end escorts will allow you to have sex with different hotter women now, not in 6 months not once you get leaner etc. Why escorts not cheap girls? so you can have a good experience in a nice hotel instead of a rundown place with a druggie. Think of it as a chemical purge, same thing your wife is probably doing. Like i said at least for me it worked, …
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/23 06:56 PM
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When i first divorced i was an overweight, balding, 30yo livng with 2 roommates in a mobile home, that had been with 5 women his whole life. Ex wife was a hottie that was already going out with several guys, after some exercise and just getting out there i was dating 4-5 girls, in less than a year i slept with around 20 girls, started dating current wife a then very hot 23yo kindergarten teacher. 10 years later i can still pull very hot girls, ex-wife has been on a downfall. My advice and someth…
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/23 06:32 PM
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Is like firing you whole IT staff, come to the office next day turn on your computer and it works. You are taking this as proof that IT was a waste of money.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/23 04:12 PM
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Of course real sex is way better, but VR is way ahead than regular porn. I haven't used them but supposedly there are some artificial vaginas that they copy the movements of the girl and sync it with the video. On the long term it will become 80% of the experience of real sex with 5% of the effort, that will be extremely addictive.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/23 09:19 PM
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Extremely good, smoke some weed and try it, at least in my case my brain is fucking sure we had sex and if I remember the memories are like if I had fucked that girl. Thus, way too good and addictive, so i stopped.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/23 06:29 PM
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my respects, i managed to avoid it for about 2 months and im do are a degenerate lol.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/23 07:10 PM
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To each its own, for me it a toy and it's also part of my side business, personally I enjoy gaming as much as using my kayak or swimming.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/23 06:02 PM
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If you own a VR headset, you will end up trying it.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/23 05:46 PM
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I have used my VR headset for porn, its mindblowing, add some weed to the mix and my brain really remembers it as the time we fucked X pornstar. Way too addictive, stopped after i almost became addicted, once you add AI to the mix..... fuck its gonna be crazy.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/23 04:37 PM
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yup, but IMHO is much easier to return 3 pairs of shoes for 1.5k than 1.5k worth of groceries, also way easier to stash them for 3 months.
/r/Divorce_Men22/03/23 07:27 PM
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I heard some people go buy stuff at costco, nordstrom places where you can buy big ticket personal items that can be easily returned. 3 pairs of shoes at nordstrom can easily be 2-3k, add a jacket, some expensive belts and underwear, and you can easily add up to 5k. Girls to the same with purses. Just keep them along with receipts in a safe place if i remember rigth you have 90 opr 120 days to return them.
/r/Divorce_Men22/03/23 06:09 PM
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There is a lot of difference between the wife shit testing and asking for basic hygiene, dude if you smoke wash your hands and teeth, she shouldn't be asking you for this. Have you kissed a smoker? even when i smoked, kissing one tastes/smells awful, unless you are drunk. Also take a shower and wash your ass (you wont turn gay), even more so before fucking.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/23 11:41 PM
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my experience is the opposite, the smarter they are the more fun you can have, they get jokes, references, with smart women you can have a very sexy verbal fencing and have lots of fun and normally ends in sex. Also smarter women are fucking good at sex, their brains just figures out more ways to have fun.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/23 02:56 AM
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It all depends on the context. In the upper echelons of society, intelligence is a very attractive feature, source i was in politics for a decade. Im not talking beta like attraction, im talking very hot married woman with a phd sucking your dick in the CEO office after demolishing her in a meeting. Also is in the lower ones, even in caveman era, but this doesnt mean the coward smart guy from TV, in war, tribes, caveman era, being smarter and brave is extremely dangerous, much more than brave an…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/23 02:53 AM
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She already has, as ironic as life is, the day after i found out, she got a call from one of her interviews and got hired.
/r/askMRP06/03/23 10:02 PM
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My take, they don't realize how hard is to earn money/buy things, and the truth is not their fault, heck if your wife gave you a new car for fucking her a couple of times and licking her pussy outside the dealership, you also would think getting a new car is something easy.
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/23 08:07 PM
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Its all fun and laugther until the bank accounts are dry and the credit cards maxed out.
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/23 07:50 PM
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I dont understand them, i mean most of them claim to be doing this for their kids, o maybe for themselves but know they have kids. So how does one gets to the logic, that getting my kids dad in jail, is the best course of action, that will ensure my kids well being.....
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/23 07:49 PM
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Dude you should be happy instead of bitter, you got back the most valuable thing in the world, Freedom. While she might cost you money, like a very wise man told me once, anything that can be bought with money is cheap.
/r/Divorce_Men23/02/23 11:40 PM
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Also helps a lot to understand that you dont need a relationship to have sex, i was on that role for a time, and girls smell it from miles away, you'll be surprised how many girls are looking for a guy that won't show up with flowers after they just kissed.
/r/Divorce_Men31/01/23 10:18 PM
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You need to learn to pump and dump, or at least hook up. Its an important part of removing pussy from that giant pedestal, i know its an unpopular opinion, but will do wonders for you. Realizing you have the power to just have sex and leave its a great great tool to have. Also, those kinds of girls loooove guys that understand it's a non-string attached hook up, you just call her anytime you want and have non complicated fun. Most guys fuck up by wanting to date them after 1-2 they're together. …
/r/Divorce_Men31/01/23 10:14 PM
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It took me losing my job to get my wife moving, like OP wife she always had a reason for not doing things, and the few she did she gave after the slightest problem. But once i was almost a month without a job, she really got it and got herself a job.
/r/Divorce_Men25/01/23 12:29 AM
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The time when i did this after my 1st divorce was the happiest and most productive time of my life.
/r/Divorce_Men17/01/23 10:37 PM
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Dude, she was seriously considering killing you, serious enough to pull the gun on you, she didn't fire because you decided to leave, and she couldn't find a way to shoot at you without claiming self-defense. She has cheated on you not once, not twice but three times in a year? And you think presenting charges and getting a TRO is too extreme?
/r/Divorce_Men10/01/23 09:51 PM
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Read the post above as many times as you need. If you need to lose everything in order to be free do it, and don't ever go near her again, it will either cost you your life, your freedom, reputation etc. They will destroy anyone and anything to have the life of their dreams, it might all be an illusion, but if you get in her way, she will get you in jail, killed, anything. As someone that lost everything i made i a decade, in the most prosperous time of my life, i got out with 2 trashbags full o…
/r/Divorce_Men10/01/23 09:48 PM
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get the most expensive, best rated, vicious lawyer near you, sounds counterintuitive, but will be the cheapest route on the long run.
/r/Divorce_Men10/01/23 06:48 PM
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Unless you are a woman.........no really, I live in Mexico, here if you as much as push a woman and call the cops = arrested, but she can beat you to the brink of dead and claim she was scared and nothing happens.
/r/Divorce_Men10/01/23 06:47 PM
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Thing is they're able to pursue their interests any time they want. Agreed before kindergarten yes its hard. Once they hit 3-4 years age they can go to daycare, problem is those interest they want to pursue need to be profitable enough to be worth it. In the same sense if i wanted to pursue my interest of painting butterflies on walls, if it wasn't profitable my wife would demand me to get a job that paid bills.
/r/Divorce_Men10/01/23 01:58 AM
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My wife has been SAHM the last 6 years, just started working like 6 months ago, she always complained how hard it was to be SAHM, she never understood its a huge privilege. I got a remote job so we save on daycare. Damn she was in for a shock, she is complaining 10X lol, normal things are a shock, staying extra hours, commute when its raining, cold, its hot, traffic, not being able to eat at whatever time you want, bosses asking for things, coworkers bs, being tired from work, month to month con…
/r/Divorce_Men10/01/23 01:52 AM
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there is a third that you need to start considering, sometimes women just want a good fuck. I used to get down with this girl that claimed she loved married/divorced guys, she told me we gave the best fucks and no strings attached.
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/23 03:12 PM
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whats the worst that could happen? Have a fun weekend at vegas, hire an escort and go back home with a smile and balls drained.
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/23 01:13 AM
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Go meet her, fuck her brains out, feel what desire feel like, enjoy life.
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/23 12:18 AM
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She can buy them at places with good return policies like nordstrom/costco etc and just return the items.
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/23 12:14 AM
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Not to sound like a simp, but i agree bill should be paid, i may be wrong but to me it sounds like one of those take the loan baby, I'll help you pay it out situations. Also, there is a huge disparity on income, what could be a trivial ammount for OP 2-3k usd, can be a extremely huge amt in a 3rd world country. RP or not leaving bills unpaid, more so for a vacation together is shitty.
/r/askMRP04/01/23 06:14 PM
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Don't let yourself go into that hole, same scenario, 30 yo one kid divorced I was sleeping with 5-6 girls and ended up with current wife (mistake don't cohabitate again), a then very hot 23yo kindergarten teacher. Mids 30's is prime age you your pick of 25-30's yo women just don't make the mistake many of us made and cohabitate again.
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/22 09:41 PM
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I could tell that exact story myself, sometimes i wonder if those guys you see at the bus stop with very attractive girls smiling so happily are the ones doing it right.
/r/Divorce_Men24/12/22 08:30 PM
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i dont want nor should you play the victim card, but all these are forms of abuse, mental, financial, verbal ask yourself if you want to keep living like this. Even if you lift and become an indian version of bruce lee, would you want to stay in a relationship with someone who treats you like this? One thing someone told me when i decided to divorce was, would you like your son to have a marriage like yours? would you like your daughter to have one?
/r/askMRP22/12/22 10:32 PM
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no, look it up, she can hit you with a glass bottle in the head, and if she cuts with the glass shards you are the one going to jail. Yes, you will probably lose everything you worked for the last 10-20 years, but in the other side of the tunnel is freedom, you can always win more money, but you can't buy more life,
/r/askMRP21/12/22 04:01 AM
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Go away dude, you are 5 seconds away from a DV charge that will fuck up your life completely.
/r/askMRP21/12/22 03:36 AM
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this, when i first divorced i tougth ex wife was the best i could do, 3 months later i was dating way more attrative women, women i always considered out of my league, turns out most of it its on our mind.
/r/askMRP15/12/22 05:28 PM
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Also, sometimes even though you can have a higher SMV than your wife, you migth perceive yourself lower than you really are, and mold your reality around that.
/r/askMRP14/12/22 11:55 PM
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When i was in politics lots of the top players used these high-end agencies, in politics is extremely easy to get a side piece even if you're ugly power is the currency there, but sidepieces can become expensive money and power wise pretty quickly, so enter escorts, variety, quick, reliable no strings attached fun. And in the end once you factor time, money and risks dating normally, pretty darn cheap
/r/askMRP14/12/22 11:43 PM
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Getting a different escort every week would probably be cheaper than the therapy and bring better and more consistent results. In 10 years, he would have gotten Bj's from 520 different women.
/r/askMRP14/12/22 10:34 PM
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Hey man, how is life with $1k? I make about $1.2k is that enough?
/r/Divorce_Men14/12/22 03:09 PM
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In my case I'm in Mexico so, Tijuana, if you live near the border there are several reliable agencies, in the states I think Nevada is legal right?
/r/Divorce_Men14/12/22 03:21 AM
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very smart desicion, also dont cohabitate either, i made that mistake and ended up married again. Much better than my 1st one, but i was way happier when single.
/r/Divorce_Men14/12/22 01:34 AM
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My own personal suggestion: Learn and enjoy to be single, learn to have fun again, look for your old buddies or make new ones. Join a gym, look for a sport you like or have always wanted to try and do it, most sports have a low barrier of entry money wise. Enjoy drinking a beer with the guys without worrying about someone being on your ass. Sex wise: My own not popular opinion, once you get some disposable money, go get a few high-end escorts, yes its money down the drain but man its to useful f…
/r/Divorce_Men14/12/22 01:21 AM
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not really, but yes. But if played correctly this is an advantage, at least in my experience this girls are very submissive in sex, but on irl, but this is an advantage, a woman that can use logic is an extremely powerful ally.
/r/Divorce_Men13/12/22 06:03 PM
2

Exactly best sex ever was with girls i explicitly told them I don't want any kind of relationship, the best sex life i had with my current wife was when we were FWB.
/r/Divorce_Men13/12/22 06:01 PM
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This is the way. At a point of my life i was dating 2 high end girls, one had a PhD (but married), another had a high power gov job and it's a whole different ballgame, they have been thru the system and know how hard is to earn money, so they respect it and respect you are making it. Dumb me married twice to girls with a lot lower incomes than mine, that only held run of the mill easy jobs, so when they eventually become SAHM, they don't respect it nor the fact that you have to have all kind of…
/r/Divorce_Men13/12/22 06:00 PM
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Nope, but i went to the expensive ones, the ones that offer top tier food are 20-30% more expensive and the quality/service is waaaay better. If you live near CA, send me a PM and ill send you a few menus from Tijuana, that are very very good and prices are around 100-140
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/22 05:55 PM
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After i paid to get my first fridge out of the house, i found that food is everywhere, you can get samples at costco, buy food at the supermarket, people give you food. But also found this food delivery services that you mention, and found out that even if you have food on the fridge etc etc. These food delivery that includes cleaning is extremely practial and actually pretty affordable and a good compliment to the rest of your food options.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/22 04:12 PM
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Mileage migth vary, but try not to go on dates, or at least dont sell it like one. Dates = courtship = courtship = relationship. Do it more in a im going to do X, want to tag along? in my worst/best stage, i just did stuff like, : what are you doing later? going drinking with my girls at 7, oh ok ill's pick you up at 11, and i swear to god it worked 8 out of 10. I just kept pushing it, and it kept working, eventually i met a girl and ended up transitioning to a relationship, but man it was a sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 09:36 PM
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Also, try being more casual. Let me explain, me from 20's to 30's was awful i man down rigth awful with women, but looking back i was always looking for a GF, trying too hard, looking for a relationship, that drove women away as if had leper, i did get married, but it wasnt like i had lots of options. Move forward to my 30's i got divorced due to wife cheating, so i went into this no strings attached mode, i simply was looking to fuck, i was a 30yo, balding, small beer gut guy, and i was having …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 07:11 PM
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Man you are in prime age, my low to mid 30's recently divorced were awesome, had 5-6 girls on rotation, met my current a then 23yo kindergarten teacher, 4 of the 6 girls were 23 to 28yo. I was a balding, beer gut, mid 30's recently divorced guy. To rise above the rest, just get decent clothes, go to the gym at least 2-3 times a week, eat decently, shower daily, wash your ass/dick. Get in some classes to meet new people, spanish, chinese, cooking, dancing whatever. Learn to give a no strings atta…
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/22 09:10 PM
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She migth do better, because she will be on her best behavior, but in the end that guy will end with the same as OP but older.
/r/Divorce_Men14/11/22 05:08 PM
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I have a friend that was a real millionaire, when they got married my friend sold fish out the back of a pickup truck, ended up with 3 commercial fishing boats, fish processing plant, million dollar beach front house, kids at school all over europe, he and the wife had drivers. She ended up divorcing him when he got severely sick, because he was in her words "mediocre" and she could do much better, ended up leaving him for her driver, not before fucking up all the business while my friend was si…
/r/Divorce_Men14/11/22 04:10 PM
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Think of a slave buying his freedom, now dont go looking for another slaver.
/r/Divorce_Men14/11/22 03:49 PM
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When my ex wife, saw my then GF, the look on her was absolutely priceless, my gf was 23 prettier fit, busty, bubbly girl, my then 31 exwf was an still attractive woman that was convinced that i would never do better. She ended up with a guy that made her sell everything she kept from the divorce in less than a year, she ended living up in a literal slum here in Mexico, one of those where several "apartments" share a common bathroom, when 2 years before we were living in a beach house, and at tha…
/r/Divorce_Men14/11/22 03:48 PM
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Have fun dude!! Thas has to be the most expensive divorce they're gonna pay. While you migth get 50% of your things gone plus some money, they bougth a whole condo lol! My advice, keep business as usual, pay your rent in time, finalize the divorce and GTFO, enjoy your life as a free man. The most they can take is money, and whatever that can be bought with money is cheap.
/r/Divorce_Men10/11/22 03:10 PM
2

Make her call him while fucking her, got one of the best fucks ever after making a girl answer a call from the husband while fucking her.
/r/askMRP08/11/22 11:46 PM
4

A guy i know used to go to casinos, and use the ATM there to withdraw cash to play at the casino, and he seemed to have very back luck and lost often. Anyways after his divorce he seemed to bounce and likely got lucky at the casino, he seems to have won all that money back and stopped that expensive hobby.
/r/Divorce_Men04/11/22 11:28 PM
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Corre compa, corre y no pares de correr. Run and don't stop running. You will end up in some shit show drama. She either wants to make current partner jealous, fuck you up even more or both.
/r/askMRP04/11/22 03:32 AM
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Currently with second wife, we are on the verge of it, main issues being that she hasnt worked more than 3 years in 8, can't hold a job more than 3 months, I'm very tired of walking on eggshells and her not wanting to go to therapy. Sex wise we are extremely good, she cooks, takes care of the kids but is always complaining about it, or not happy, but if i suggest getting a job hell ensues.
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/22 06:37 PM
2

She once asked me why I wasn't this successful during our marriage and I was painfully blunt with her...because she was holding me back and filling my life with unnecessary drama and doubt. This is my current wife, since we are together slowly but surely i have become smaller, where my mind was dead on goals, now is filled with drama and BS
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/22 02:34 AM
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this 10 times, when i divorced my ex wife i was finally free, happy, kicking ass in a lot of things. Met my current wife, let myself be seduced and we moved in together, rest is history. Had i been smarter and kept myself single, i would have had a lot more fun a lot more money.
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/22 02:32 AM
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I have a projector, 100" screen, a nice receiver with 3.1 setup in the living room and another projector on the bedroom, setup to give an image of about 80 inches The other day she was complaining how we cant even afford having a TV..... While watching friends on a 80" screen.....
/r/Divorce_Men20/10/22 12:12 AM
2

When was the last time no one was angry at you for days or weeks even? When was the last time you were allowed to be happy out loud without sone sort of explanation or punishment? When was the last time you could be a kid with your kids? This hit pretty close to home............
/r/Divorce_Men20/10/22 12:09 AM
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Dude expected parent to keep funding his lifetime student life, so he wouldnt have to actually perform, as for the wife sounds like she has either a PhD or masters, lots of us would love a wife that had such drive.
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/22 09:38 PM
1

Ever heard that if everybody is an asshole maybe youre the asshole, well you mentioned that everyone and everybody is useless....
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/22 09:34 PM
2

No worries man, I been in the hole, and while the ways i found out are not the most righteous ones, i managed to get out.
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/22 07:29 PM
2

Somewhat younger, but when i did i was 30, after that i had regular girls i met in different social situations, but at first helped a lot, you probably had sex with one woman the last 10+ years, your brain needs a reset. If you do go to one, get the hotel first, take a shower, wash dick/ass really good, dress decently some cologne, life you were in a date. Helps a lot getting a good session, also besides pleasentries and maybe a drink, keep the talk to a minimum and enjoy your time with her, enj…
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/22 07:26 PM
2

Try not taking things personal, just as we are scared of going into a relationship again, some women are too, just like lots of us have shitty exes, they have shitty exes too. Also dial down the nice, treat them like you would treat a male friend meanwhile, like i told you learn to have fun first. A very unpopular way I got all my shit out at first was with escorts, yeah yeah i know all the are paying for sex thing. You pay for it anyways, just look at your divorce settlement. This is not a long…
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/22 06:58 PM
3

Small tip: You are still selling a relationship, that's why she told you she was happy being single. Get in the gym or try walking an hour a day if you can't afford it, also if you are a few pounds over, download myfitness pal start tracking your calories ( its going to suck a bit, you are going to feel hungry, but its only that hunger, you are not dying). Give yourself a few weeks to process things, save some money and get yourself into some kind of classes, cooking, Spanish whatever, expand yo…
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/22 06:26 PM
1

You will get them, once your mind starts to clear itself, its like magic.
/r/Divorce_Men18/10/22 07:23 PM
10

Drown in pussy. Fucking with someone that desires you, specially after a long marriage with a low sex life is so refreshing, you need sometime to adjust to it. First time a girl wanted to swallow my cum, i didnt tell her but my attitude was like you dont need to ( like it was a favor to me), she got it and was like no i want to, i want to eat it, it was weird, i haven't felt desired in way too much time, i even rejected it at first. Rest, oh man you are in for such a treat, coming back home to a…
/r/Divorce_Men18/10/22 07:00 PM
100

You just recovered half your life.
/r/Divorce_Men17/10/22 06:51 AM
3

Better to be broke and free than broke and chained to someone that is not happy nor wants to be happy with you.
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/22 12:53 AM
9

Right before my divorce i was pretty sure my ex wife was cheating, she asked me to do something on her ipad, while doing i started reading her messages and chats, god the things i read still haunt me to this day, the audacity, the things she did, the way she casually talked about things. Sometimes i still wonder how i didn't end up worse.
/r/Divorce_Men12/10/22 12:25 AM
19

Trust me when you are free, even the smallest apartment feels like a palace.
/r/Divorce_Men11/10/22 07:45 PM
2

this!
/r/Divorce_Men10/10/22 09:10 PM
27

Short answer next. Long answer next.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/22 03:40 PM
2

Completely true, there is no why, it just is, and we have to accept it and move on.
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/22 05:56 PM
1

Valuate it, sell it split the cash. Yes i know it hurts but trust me on the long run is the best, the more ties you cut, the less strings she has to pull.
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/22 02:59 PM
2

They're going to fuck like there is no tomorrow.
/r/Divorce_Men27/09/22 10:24 PM
15

I could put some serious money on the table betting tat she does have a side piece for sex and fun stuff.
/r/Divorce_Men27/09/22 10:21 PM
18

I know this hurst OP, bt is the truth, you are nothing more than an ATM, that she gives sex from time to time to keep the money flowing. Get out of there ASAP, i dont know if you liable for CS, but either way run for your life.
/r/Divorce_Men27/09/22 10:20 PM
1

If its a business, can her income be calculated from the business income, just as if OP was a business owner? If she makes more than he does, would she owe him alimony?
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/22 02:41 PM
4

This really works, but it may be age or something, but i have grown tired of this. Wife is a great companion as long as i dont show any weakness.when good we fuck 3-4 times a week like pornstars, smoke weed and fuck some more, great cook, excellent companion etc. But i cant show any weakness at all, if i bleed a lil its like shark, making life hell for everyone including the kids for days until i put her back on her place. Has been going on for more than 5 years, and truth to be told i grew tire…
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/22 09:58 PM
3

Private schools are expensive but a worthy investement. In my case im in Mexico, public schools are good, but private adds English, programming, robotics the 3 of them will provide a much better chance to lift my kids out of poverty, so the first thing i did when i got a big raise was get them in a private school. Still, they can fuck up and end homeless, but still my job is to give them the tools.
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/22 04:26 PM
1

I know a guy that semi switched team, is dating a very hot trans woman, i dont know too may details , but guy seems happy and mentioned is like a guy but looks like a girl.
/r/Divorce_Men01/09/22 10:15 PM
5

I am not too concerned with her TRO. it is all this stuff that she's telling me that's worrying me. Her strategy is working, you're focusing on words she says instead of real stuff (TRO), she will tell you she hates you, she loves you, that she is a the heir of the Royal family, anything to keep your focus on her mind games instead of the real stuff. “All warfare is based on deception.” ― Sun tzu, The Art of War
/r/Divorce_Men30/08/22 08:12 PM
1

It is better, women can be extremely dualistic, from what i remember and what see in her social media, this guy is living the whole Disney fantasy, while she goes and fucks like a whore on the down low. If you are a sensitive guy, its easy to fall prey on this, i know it because i have been on both sides, you think the romance, the gifts, the small details, the pretty words and her telling you that she loves you more than anything in the world is enough, bad news pal. The nice hotel room with ja…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/22 06:22 PM
10

The most expensive one. In this case its the cheaper option. The one with 30 years sounds like a good option, in cases like this worst case scenario, you end with 1 dollar in you pocket and a clean record. The alternative is you end up with some money on your bank, a criminal record on top of CS or Alimony payments.
/r/Divorce_Men18/08/22 03:11 PM
3

She is not embarrased trust me, she is just using your emotions so you dont report the incident. She knows she fucked up
/r/Divorce_Men16/08/22 02:48 PM
1

Remember that she is ready to use that and more. Anything she can she will, that time you got drunk and got the car into the garage, she is gonna use it. That time you called her slut on bed? She is gonna use it. That time you told her you smoked weed on college? Anything anything she can use, its going to be used. Its better to go nuclear and stand down if she does, than getting sideblinded.
/r/Divorce_Men16/08/22 02:43 PM
8

A friend started withdrawing money at the nearest casino ATM, sitted down a played a few rounds, he was extremely unlucky seems like he always lost...........
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/22 08:50 PM
2

To each its own, but my 2 cents. Live the money a bit, life ends in a blink.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/22 12:59 AM
2

But you enjoy the money or just stash it.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/22 12:45 AM
3

Money by itself wont attract them. An affluent lifestyle will. Boring guy with $10 million = no women. Guy that gets there on kickass bike/car, coming back from the vacations on Hawaii, where he skydived and scuba dived with sharks= Women.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/22 12:08 AM
1

When you are young and stupid......
/r/Divorce_Men21/07/22 11:13 PM
1

I remember once, i was at a bar to watch some sports event with a friend, she called, asked me where i was, got there like in 10 min, fucked in the parking lot. When i was about to get out of her car, the husband called, he asked her something, and she replied, don't worry i got you the beer and chips you like baby, see you in 15. She used the sport event as a cover, went to buy the beer/snacks on a rush, fucked her lover on the way back, and watched the game like nothing happened.
/r/Divorce_Men21/07/22 10:31 PM
1

Sometimes the cheapest option is to pay.
/r/Divorce_Men21/07/22 02:24 AM
3

I have days where I just think it's fucking pointless. I'm probably better off just focusing on myself. Doing shit that I like, fucking some whores (at least that's a transparent transaction) and just forgetting about all the romance bullshit.< Did exactly this for a year, plus a couple fwb. Best year ever. Financially i was kicking it. My stress level were extremely low, in fact when i think back of this time, i felt happy, just happy.
/r/Divorce_Men21/07/22 02:06 AM
1

If he is going to die for it doesnt matter, sell the house, go retire on México with whatever you get. 2.5-3k a month gives you a very very nice life in Mexico. A beachfront house goes for $1250 in a town 2 hours from the border https://ensenada.net/casasydepas/index.php?ver=propiedad&id=103742 A cleaning lady charges $25 per day Groceries for a month for 1 person should be about $250-300. Services about $100. If he gets a regular house in an middle-upscale area(non beach front), he would pay li…
/r/Divorce_Men21/07/22 01:34 AM
5

Man, seriously. No matter how much it cost you, even if you get $1 at the end of the month, get out! Divorce leave everything doesnt matter. You wont take a single penny to your grave, get as much of your life back as you can. Workin crazy hours for sex once or twice a year? fuck that. Divorce, get you cash, go to vegas get laid for all those years when sleeping with a beautiful woman was just a distant dream, go back and start living your life.
/r/Divorce_Men21/07/22 01:21 AM
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This! do not marry, do not cohabitate, in fact no LTR for at least a year or two. Get yourself better, date as many different woman as you can, sleep around, enjoy being single.
/r/Divorce_Men21/07/22 01:15 AM
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After my divorce i lived with roommates in a medium house (Everyone got their own room), it was frigging awesome!!! House was always spotless, if someone did a small party and left a mess, he would clean it next day, no fuss, no drama, no endless complaining.
/r/Divorce_Men21/07/22 01:13 AM
5

Congratulations on the freedom!! The microfigths and the tension really wear you down. After the dust is settled down you will sleep like baby, you will never believe how you lived 16 years in a constant state of alert. Enjoy!
/r/Divorce_Men21/07/22 01:10 AM
2

When i was on my 20's i was Chad for a while with a married woman. Saw her talk to her husband on the phone about returning some movies to blockbuster, while i was inside her. She made me cum inside her several times before going to dinner with the husband. She made an audit on one of the departments she managed, so she could travel and spend a whole week fucking.
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/22 09:11 PM
1

Depends on your income. Had a very affluent friend, he had 2-3 sugar babies, changed them when he got bored. He said it was very fun, almost a GF, zero expectations, and for him it was a drop in the bucket. And a very important component, was that this guy was always on the move, so it saved him a lot of time.
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/22 09:00 PM
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The guy has autism, asking him to go on a date in a new enviroment is nuts.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/22 08:32 PM
3

Try to go on date a couple of days after your trip, you'll be amazed by the results.
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/22 01:38 AM
3

Tijuana is cheap, girls are hot, no one knows you 20 mins and you back in the US. You can do Vegas or wherever is legal for you. Try it, just a tip, treat it as a date, meaning, shower, brush teeth, wear cologne, wash your ass/dick try to make it fun for both. Then once youre done pay her and dont ever worry about her ever again. Rinse repeat, bet you on your trip back you will wear that i got my balls completely drained smile, that will get you more female attention.
/r/Divorce_Men19/07/22 11:20 PM
1

Get high end ones. Also follow courtesy etiquette as if it was a date. Shower, wash ass/dick, dress, shave, brush your teeth this gets you a long way to get top notch service.
/r/Divorce_Men19/07/22 10:43 PM
3

I always give this very unpopular advice to guys, most resist due to social conditioning, but sometimes you have to get worse before you get better. Can you get 5k? Get a ticket to San diego, go to Tijuana, screw as many 22 yo escorts as you can in 3-4 days, they're 150 a pop, too much for you go to Vegas. Im not talking stripper, I mean high end escorts, that look like the pretty 23yo secretary at your lawyers office. At least for me that shit was so healing, and let me realize how easy/cheap/p…
/r/Divorce_Men19/07/22 10:06 PM
2

Im ambiguous on this one. I did exactly as you, and the freedom you get for the money is awesome, no fuzz, no problems. I lost 90% of 10 years of work, i haven't been able to recover 8 years later, mentally im unable to work as hard as before that. But ex lost everything in 2 years, i got 100% custody of my child, got a new wife 8 years younger and 3 points hotter than ex wf.
/r/Divorce_Men19/07/22 02:51 PM
1

She will do it, you can bet on it. Woman on affair fog do the vilest shit you can imagine.
/r/Divorce_Men19/07/22 02:44 PM
1

This is real gold.
/r/Divorce_Men19/07/22 02:34 PM
3

So its better to grow up with miserable parents?
/r/Divorce_Men15/07/22 02:57 PM
3

Keep both! After divorce you really need to get into dating, otherwise its the same movie different actors.
/r/Divorce_Men15/07/22 02:56 PM
2

We are taugth to leave everything for the kids, its the manly thing to do. If you own property, ask for the wife to pay you half or sell and split is seen as selfish and unmanly. Even in extreme situations, its expected for her to keep the kids and stay on the house "for the kids". Its slowly changing, since woman in Latin america are also falling prey to social media, and running wild on the attention high.
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/22 06:54 PM
3

Not your problem anymore.
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/22 01:27 AM
3

No, but she got what she asked for. We lived in Mexico, so its life on hard mode. We had a pretty nice life, two cars, 2 business, beachfront house (rented), a very high end gov job, about to finally save enough for a down payment on a house, iphone, ipad, ugg boots, expensive sunglasses, english bulldog, you name it. This is a very very difficult life to get in Mx. My job required me to travel a lot, she used that time to sleep around, fuck my employees, take my kid to dates with her BFs (plura…
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/22 08:56 PM
2

She just need to buy stuff at places like costco or nordstrom, they have a 100% money back policy. But stash return profit.
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/22 12:50 AM
4

She will no doubt, tons of guys waiting to be slaved up, but then its no longer your problem.
/r/Divorce_Men07/07/22 08:34 PM
18

Even if it less, is better, its fun again doesn't feel like getting a favor done or as prize for being a good slave.
/r/Divorce_Men07/07/22 08:32 PM
1

Damn, i know what you mean, the intimacy really really gets you, but try to endure it for a while, if you get dating to soon, that need can be a trap, and get you on the LTR route again. As for the sex, try to use GFE escorts instead of bars, personally, i cant do bars or strip clubs, just doesnt work for me. I used escorts, the kind that go to your hotel room, feels much more natural and allows you to relax. As weird as it sounds, healings your wounds in the pleasures of sex is really helpful. …
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/22 04:37 PM
1

Once you get physcally fit, get prepared to be drowned on a sea of pussy. First time i got divorce i was extremely surprised of the fact that i was sleeping around so much. I got two suggestions one not so popular but extremely useful. First do not get attached once you start getting laid/dating, enjoy the ride and try to get as much experience dating differen types of woman. Second the unpopular one, once you are free and clear, take 3-4k and book a trip to either Tijuana,Thaliand or Las Vegas.…
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/22 02:11 PM
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While it would take me a decade to match your yearly income ( Im in Mexico), i know the feeling. I had my first divorce 10 years ago, we had a pretty pretty nice life for Mexico, 2 cars, we rented a beachfront house, 2 business, plus i had a nice gov job, iphones, ipad, USD $500 sunglasses, uggs boots, about to give downpayment for a house, and she didnt had to work a day in 8 years. I had to travel a lot for my job, and she used all that time to sleep around even with my employees. Being the du…
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/22 02:43 AM
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I been working from home since 2 months ago, wife just started working at an office, after 5 years of not working. She doesnt want me doing house chores, because im figuring out she was on vacation mode since kid goes to school. if i really get into it, it migth take 2 maybe 3 hours tops.
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/22 12:37 AM
2

This is the way, spend that money, if possible enjoy a part of it in experiences.
/r/Divorce_Men29/06/22 02:13 PM
4

Strippers and escorts react AWESOME to treating them like ladies. I fucked a 22yo escort, for like 6 months for free after my divorce. The only thing i did was invite her to eat something after we fucked/paid. I was hungry, alone in the city and invited her from company, treated her like a normal person during dinner, ended up fucking her again, and then everytime i went to that city. She got me tickets to games,weed, paid dinner sometimes, i just took care of the hotel. Got lots of awesome sex …
/r/TheRedPill20/06/22 08:21 PM
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Tale as old as time 2 people meet at work then fuck. But instead of walmart we work government, instead of entry level we we had nice jobs and non surprisingly as you go up the government ladder, the quality of pussy goes up. My point was even seemengly top tier girl, with money, nice job, advanced degree, with an awesome husband, cheated with the first guy that made her feel something different.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/22 02:09 PM
1

Re read again. This was 10 years ago, i was recently divorced, then married again to a different woman. This girl was like an after divorce rebound girl.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/22 02:05 PM
3

Exacly my point, this girl was at least from my perpective top tier, cant speak details from her family, but afaik, she came from a good family in argentina.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/22 02:03 PM
2

If i divorce again, and that seems like a very high chance of it, i will go the casual relationship way only. I want to live in peace, and from experience, that is something that you can only get single.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/22 10:29 PM
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Correct. There are countless examples, women are unable to be content with that they have. A friend that divorced recently, went from selling fish out of the back of his pickup truck to a fish processing plant, 5 commercial fishing boats, million-dollar beachfront house, you name it. Right before her ex running off with a big big share of their money with her driver ( yes they had full staff including drivers), she started calling him mediocre and stuff like that all the time, fuck that affected…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/22 08:58 PM
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I wish i knew the answer, but mainly yes. I still hit her up a couple of times since then, everytime pump and dump, and she complied.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/22 07:32 PM
15

Somewhat. At the moment it was intoxicating, before i had always been the boyfriend/husband, i had tried the beta side of sex, where you get "lucky", the chad side of sex is fucking awesome, before i had gf's and wife let me cum on their mouth, fuck them in the ass etc. But now i was tasting really having a woman, with her wanting me to cum in their mouth, offering me her butthole, enjoying like a candy my cum on her mouth. Tasting that desire was unknown to me. After that i was able to get into…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/22 07:02 PM
19

Oh i already fucked up, hence i ended up here. I divorced, then met a gorgeous 23yo kindergarten teacher, married again, went blue pill and im here.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/22 06:34 PM
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Yes and no. Witnessing the whole thing, changed my world view completely, allowed to me see the true cold-hearted face of women, don't get me wrong i enjoyed the ride and would do it again, but shit, this left me with trust issues for life. You normally think women cheat on shitty guys, fat guys or they do it with mega alpha chad Brad Pitt looking guys. No they do it with whoever guy makes them feel different than their husbands.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/22 06:09 PM
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Long story short. almost 10 years ago, i was up and coming on my carrer, and met this awesome woman. 30yo blonde argentinian, awesome body, very beautiful, just finishing her Phd, high ranking gov job, very smart, funny and married. I was the COO she was the CFO, unknow to me while trying to get my yearly budget up, i applied the whole redpill. She was used to intimidate men, but since i had the ok from the CEO, I did everything from a comfortable position, in a unknown to me at the moment cocky…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/22 04:53 PM
3

I messed with a married woman when i was young, she made a whole department on her job do an audit in one of the offices she managed. So she could then go supervise it, and spend a whole week in the same city i was at.
/r/Divorce_Men14/06/22 12:07 AM
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Unless she is going on vacation with the ex...
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/22 09:17 PM
3

At a point of my life, i started hanging out with big dogs, congressman, senators, very prominent businessman, and those were the guys that introduced me to high end escorts. Their logic was exactly the one you described, a fair exchange of money for sex with no further complications. Why fuck your hot 23 yo secretary, that migth fuck up your life later on, when you can sleep with a different one every week, and dont ever see them again.
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/22 02:21 PM
1

This im against, i mean 3 to 6 months i get it. More than that is abusive.
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/22 12:50 AM
2

Sounds fair, the only point could be if the reciprocal romantic relationship is started after, neither partner should be punished for moving on. And in the hypothetical 3 months scenario, not worth fighting over a couple of weeks of money.
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/22 12:49 AM
1

So if there is no affair, she receives alimony?
/r/Divorce_Men02/06/22 11:56 PM
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Lets change woman for partner. Again we cant judge choices if you're making policy, because lets be honest, lots of marriages agree on one partner not working to take care of the kids, for some its the logical choice, Have kids taken care of by a stranger for $200 a week once childcare cost are offset? or have one partner raise them? I'm not about paying for the non-working partner life long, but a 3 maybe 6 on a stretch safety net for the non working parent. For every 30yo hot blonde slutty wif…
/r/Divorce_Men02/06/22 06:29 PM
-1

A) You cant judge reasons on the affair. Because we will arrive to this logic: should she get more money if affair is on husband side? was she abused? She just went wild? way too many variables. Yes i get that after divorce we are angry. Just think of it as if you were making a country wide policy. I get that she is getting half of things, but still if she was a SAHM, her ramping off to full production mode is not easy, and she still the mother of your children, while we may hurt from whatever c…
/r/Divorce_Men02/06/22 05:56 PM
5

I actually understand it, but should be for a stablished limited time span, lets say 6, maybe 12 months on a stretch. Lets say you're a woman, finished college got married and went full SAHM. 10 years later for whatever reason you get divorced (even affairs), and you have to get an income fast. You may have a degree, but last time you used excel was to plan the family budget for vacations, so no advanced skills, no recent experience other that taking care of the kids/chores/house (A fucking hard…
/r/Divorce_Men02/06/22 03:48 PM
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It does work, and helps you get your actions into what you want to do. I started visualizing a 4 days workweek job fully remote , like 3 months ago. Of course i had to to the job, brush up my coding skills, star tsending resumes etc. And behold i got 3 offers, and 1 of them matched my salary, is fully remote and 4 day work week, i start this monday. Now i have to visualize finding a HDD on a garage sale full of bitcoins lol.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/22 06:07 PM
1

Extremely unpopular opinion. Get an escort, not a street walker, a high end escort, in fact ina short span lets say a month or so, get 2- 3 different ones. This will help you get off the sex desperate phase, then get on tinder or looking for a fwb.
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/22 05:18 PM
1

I used to have a very high profile, kinda hot shot position ina previous job, hot shot like offices in 5 cities and 300 employees. I had my small Rossie O'Donnell groupie band, like 4-5 girls that were always doing my favors, perks, small gifts, food etc. My then GF that shit, she was always the horniest after social events where she witnessed that. Also before i started dating her, i got laid so many times thats to that small band of followers, girls that before i would have considered out of l…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 11:54 PM
2

Just get done with you divorce and cut your losses, rhe goal is to get as far as possible from you ex and drama, just remember this: Life puts everyone at their correct place.
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/22 01:56 AM
2

Just get done with you divorce and cut your losses, rhe goal is to get as far as possible from you ex and drama, just remember this: Life puts everyone at their correct place.
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/22 01:13 AM
1

Ugly here, recently divorced, beer gut and bald. But i was rocking it work wise, i was full of confidence from that. At one point i was banging a 22yo escort for free, a 30yo argentinian. A 28yo, a 31yo , plus my current wife stbx a 23 yo kindergarten teacher. Its all about feeling confident and enjoying life, when I was with my ex, i couldn't fuck a woman to save my lifez i was añd looked miserable. When I was free, you could tell a mile away i was a happy man, being happy is like catnip for wo…
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/22 12:15 AM
2

This 10 times. After i divorced, i experienced a fucking awesome feeling, of freedom and confidence. I realized my ex had been filling me with her crap about being a loser for 6 years, keeping me down as her cute little beta schmuck. While i did have a pretty good financial life, and gave enough sex to keep the carrot working, she was riding the cock carrousel, and making sure my selfsteem was down on the sexual sense. Once i was free, i felt fucking awesome, gained confidence in all areas of my…
/r/askMRP24/03/22 05:58 PM
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/r/TheRedPill15/03/22 04:54 PM
1

Its already happening, if you go into VRChat its extremely common to have couples having dates.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/22 01:32 AM
1

Had friend that did this! This is before reddit MRP or whatever, anytime he wanted to breakup with a girl, he became Mr. Romantic, 2 weeks later he was single, girls ego intact, and the Romeo card to play...... In retrospective it was a genious move.
/r/askMRP28/02/22 11:02 PM
3

Claro que hablo español, simplemente es lo que estan las rentas. Gracias a los boomers americanos las rentas se dispararon. En baja un depa de medio pelo anda en 250 o 5mil pesos. Una casa no te baja de 10,000 osea 500 dls al mes. Vivir en la playa en una buena casa ni de locos te sale en 300usd al mes.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/22 07:18 PM
3

Sayulita 1bd apt $1,000.00 USD
/r/TheRedPill09/02/22 05:29 PM
12

Dude I live here, been here my whole.life, beach front for $300 was 10 years ago, unless is a run down town.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/22 04:20 PM
17

I live in Mexico, and 250 barely pays for 2 by apt in any decent beach city, unless its middle of nowhere. You need 1k at least to live at the beach. Source https://ensenada.net/casasydepas/index.php?ver=Buscar&tipo=1&RV=R&num=62 20 pesos = 1 usd 20000 pesos = 1000 usd Edit: Corrected currency conversion
/r/TheRedPill09/02/22 03:54 PM
1

I have a wealthy friend, he's on his 60's, had a hip replacement a couple of years ago. He takes a gold digger 5-6 months, they travel go to places etc, then dumps them. He knows they're in for the money. He says he has fun fucks hot girls in her late 20's early 30's in Cancun, while otherwise he would have to fuck rich old ladys on her 60's. Like someone above says its ok to have fun as long as you dont get atached
/r/askMRP02/10/21 05:45 PM
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Been there done that. At a point in my carrer i was making lots of money and had zero time. Call an escort, get in and out in 2 hours and move on with whatever i had to do with my life. For the experience i has 90% very good ones, even fucked one for free several months, just like with any woman, take a shower, clean your dick and ass, use some cologne etc.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/21 11:28 PM
7

Try agencies. Look up in google, sweet girls tijuana, grey girls tijuana, Waaaay better quality, for the same price.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/21 11:24 PM
2

This has been a big problem for myself, i have never believed im enough. Like OP i change myself depending on persons that surround me. Have always depended on others to validate myself, even when i was making it big in my career i suffered heavily from the impostor syndrome. I would appreciate if someone has more books or resources to focus on this behavior, and MRP as a community would benefit more from researching this topic. This seems to be a very common trait of those of us that end up her…
/r/askMRP12/08/21 07:11 PM
6

Kirkland brand is a lot better.
/r/askMRP30/07/21 09:47 PM
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Like i said, not every interaction is on a sexual nature. We have developed a friendship while undertaking work projects, this friendship has gone for years and years and different jobs. One particular friend has got me into projects and viceversa. My wife knows her and i her husband, we do bbq's together from time to time, no sexual interest whatsoever, but common interests. AWALT, she has the same issues in her marriage as any woman, but I don't mingle in her relationship problems and she does…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/21 07:49 PM
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Me too, I have at least 2 that i would go to war with. Not every relationship with a woman has to be of a sexual nature.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/21 05:09 PM
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That scene is a setting for something if I remember right, and is showing the husband as a weak guy, and the sister as a problematic woman that isn't kept in check by her weak husband.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/21 07:57 PM
2

The bad kind of bald, i think they call it male patter baldness. Beer gut check Obese check. The husband of the CEO was jacked up handsome guy, that treated her like a princess, she hated every minute of it, she loved getting fucked like a whore. After my divorce plus a rocketing up career ( that i later crashed). my confidence was thru the roof and treated woman like disposable assets. My success rate went up by a lot, i became the guy texting a girl that i met a day ago to dress slutty, going …
/r/TheRedPill24/07/21 06:54 PM
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Yeah rigth. After my divorce is was a balding 30yo with a dad bod. But was fucking killing it jobwise that gave the confidence of a rockstar. Was fucking a 30 very hot Argentinian CEO with a PhD, a 21yo escort for free ( think white riley reid with bigger tits), a couple of 8's and ended up with my wife a very nice 8 kindergarden teacher. Being bald was never ever a problem. After that i went beta and fucked things up.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/21 05:25 PM
1

I work in the games industry and took a project from concept to delivery to address one of our biggest market challenges (I could write a post about how I learned to make games like women and how that makes way more money than you would imagine).< Could you please elaborate on this?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/21 07:17 PM
1

I could write a post about how I learned to make games like women and how that makes way more money than you would imagine). Please do.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/21 01:48 AM
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Mexico here: Laws and details are different but women work just the same.
/r/askMRP31/01/21 08:23 PM
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Is the algorithm, hot girls dont swipe right on you, and fatties, trans etc do, so the app matches you with girls on you bracket. Solution: get better pictures/bio erase your profile and create a new one, after a few days tinder will rank you again in your "hotness" bracket, and lets hope it bumps you from 4-5's to 7's.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 06:03 PM
2

kinda i still get horny everyday, fuck wife 5-6 days a week, if anything i became more selective and developed my petite girls fetish even more.
/r/askTRP06/11/20 11:20 PM
5

i been more sexually active on my 30's than on my 20's.
/r/askTRP06/11/20 10:27 PM
5

I see this way, if you were offered sex DAILY several times a day by multiple woman...... what would happpen.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 06:00 PM
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One of my plates was always telling me to be nice to my wife, showed me the iPad she was giving her husband for his bday; while she still had cum running down her legs, heck I remember once we stopped for some food for him, on the way back from the hotel to her car.
/r/askMRP04/11/20 10:16 PM
1

No, the spending money like crazy during 1-2 years after the divorce, I'm much better now, but not where i would like to be.
/r/askMRP23/10/20 04:36 PM
1

Depends, the time i used escorts the most, I had 4-5 plates, a GF but traveled a lot, earned lots of money but also lots of work. Escorts are very practical, you ar your hotel working, she comes to your room, take a 1 hour break, she leaves and you go back to working, no time wasted.
/r/MGTOW210/10/20 08:48 PM
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Dependes, get a business class escort and is a whole different world.
/r/MGTOW210/10/20 08:46 PM
2

ass eaters are awesome when they're on your side, when against you, they will attack with the same devotion they ate your ass.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/20 10:44 PM
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She was 30, she is 35 and has not hit the wall yet, but she will in 2-3 years. Those girls are extremely fun to be around, the wit they have, the mental fencing you can have with he is extremely fun, and in sex, well they seem to use all that brainpower to be the dirtiest sluttiest girls they can. She was married, but if I had met her single, would have loved a LTR with her.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/20 10:13 PM
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It's way simpler than that, just dont care, I used to fuck a top shelf woman, 30yo, smoking hot model body, funny, very pretty, smart as fuck, PhD, came from a rich family and married to a rich guy, alpha amongst females. In the first interactions we had, I just needed something from her, and didn't care about any of the points i mentioned, and i had a ace up my sleeve if she didn't bulge, long story short i got what i wanted. After that interaction she became the sweetest bitch ever, and fucked…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/20 08:57 PM
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Status, confidence, dngaf attitude.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 08:46 PM
1

I loved it, my wife is very petite, so she looked slim until 4-5 months, but her tits got massive, also in the later stages of the pregnancy sex was difficult but very enjoyable.
/r/askMRP06/10/20 06:08 PM
2

Try doing some stretches, search about it, I went from 17cm (6.7in) to 18cm (7.1) in about 3 months, measured every week, it wont make your dick really longer Its your natural dick, but according what I know makes something called tunica more flexible so your penis is able to stick its head more. Made biiiig changes in my sex life, wife went from, fuck me like a slut sex to fuck me like a slut and impregnate me sex, also get a cock ring, makes your dick thicker while you are having sex. And btw …
/r/askMRP05/10/20 11:34 PM
2

According to nature, a beta with a 100 children is waaaaaay more successful the mega alpha redpill guy with 0 children.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/20 10:24 PM
2

Basically the whole premise of being alpha is to have kids.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/20 09:29 PM
2

Going to look into those, but spending $300 in my $20 a month habit, might rationalize it as a health investment
/r/askMRP01/10/20 04:39 PM
1

Exactly like op i rationalized stuff, and just realized I no longer bring up those excuses, last time I talked with the wife about weed, my rationale was , I just like it.
/r/askMRP01/10/20 01:19 AM
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We are not talking about is rigth or wrong to use weed, its about owning whatever you do, while not taking the hands off the wheel.
/r/askMRP30/09/20 08:48 PM
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Oh it's not a dream, still get shit tests and drama, and the weed just adds another layer of difficulty, I have to be on top of my game all the time, otherwise, the shittests increase complains about the weed or whatever start. First thing, stop hiding your weed use, own it instead. Weed smell: I put a window fan (in/out mode) in the kitchen, use a gravity bong and blow smoke into the window fan on high, gets the smoke out of the house, so no smell on the house. Munchies: I use low to no sugar d…
/r/askMRP30/09/20 07:03 PM
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Wife hated weed when i was fucking up in every possible way, at a point i had to recognize it wasn't helping, and making me be ok with just coasting thru life. Quit for about 6 months, and started getting my shit together, sold my failing business, started a new one that is growing, got a good paying job, started going to therapy/psychiatrist (i know antidepressants are hated here but really helped me), lifting, lost weight etc. Got back on the weed wagon, but with my shit handled, use it almost…
/r/askMRP30/09/20 06:40 PM
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not if you keep on top of you game, every time i start to slip wife starts to lower the quality of the sex, shitty blowjobs, being a bitch etc. I get back on my feet and she starts squirting like crazy fingering herself while licking my ass, while I'm masturbating with a pocket pussy.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/20 05:51 PM
1

nop, its great and very useful.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/20 05:44 PM
0

of course there is, woman can be attracted to you, but you arent attracted to them, be friendly, a bit flirty and a playful bad boy attitude, you will have them jumping over a 20 feet fence just to bring you lunch, even if you're never gonna fuck them, you know just like women do it to simps.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/20 05:44 PM
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DO NOT CONTACT HER!!!! And stop giving woman RP information.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 05:25 PM
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one of my uncles was extremely alpha got married like 3 times to women 10-15 years younger and very attractive, always divorced because they caugth him with other women, even other families lol. When he was 78, he was telling us of his latest exploit, that he was banging a young hottie at the prime age of 57 lol.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/20 04:25 PM
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there are simps running after the fatties, be it 20yo or 60yo, that you're not running after one does not mean you wont be running after a 60yo when you re 75. btw here's a hot 60yo woman https://s3.amazonaws.com/arc-wordpress-client-uploads/infobae-wp/wp-content/uploads/2019/05/29123912/Maribel-Guardia-21.jpg
/r/TheRedPill19/09/20 04:22 PM
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Agree, in a previous life lol, i had a job position with lots of power, action and influence, also was in a very happy mood 99% of the time, besides having several plates, had 2 o 3 orbiters, that made me lots and lots of favors, were extremely loyal and defensive of everything related to me. They knew i was never going to be with them , but being close to my person was enough, and it awesome, you really get why women feel so empowered, i had to be a fucking badass to have 2-3 orbiters, average …
/r/TheRedPill19/09/20 04:17 PM
1

a woman doesnt need to be strong, if she can control a few key males.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/20 10:13 PM
1

No planeo follarme con ella de nuevo Esta parte suena como que uso traductor.
/r/askMRP17/09/20 09:12 PM
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Well it is not easy either, being with kids 8-10 hours a day do is draining, not steel worker drain, but mentally it is, during covid i was out of work for a few weeks, and wife got a job as a caretaker for 2 weeks, and trust me once you put those fuckers to bed, the only thing you really want is silence.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/20 05:35 PM
1

Well im the child of a single mother (Dad died when i was 10), and while i ended up severely betaized, insecure and lots of shit caused by my overly dominant mother, poverty/hunger was not a problem ever. The poverty argument for me is crap, my mother worked, sold clothes, baked pies all kinds of stuff, but my belly was never empty nor the lights ever went off at my house. My mother dated but i never knew anyone, they never came to my house or anything, because my mother didn't want to to risk b…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/20 05:32 PM
3

in my experience, rich guys use escorts/sugar baies very often, but in a low key way, not the sleazy street prostitutes, but the 9/10 masters degree student kind, young hot up and coming lawyer, when i was i politics, i met and fucked a couple of those ( paid by my bosses). Those girls go to partys reunions and stuff, and look and act, like fine educated woman, that will fuck the brains out of their client, and be gone in the morning, no compromises, no problems no strings.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/20 04:27 PM
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Currently escorts are and will become the cheapest form of sex, for $50k a month, he could be fucking 50 top quality girls a month, be done in a couple of hours and keep going on with his life, if you want something more stable 10 SB , for 5k a month you can get a pretty nice SB keep rotate them daily, and be gone of problems discussions etc., and the only thing they will get is your money on your terms.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/20 08:32 PM
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IMHO prostitution almost becomes a necessity after moderate success in some places, i spent a decade in politics, and is very usual to hire escorts vs workplace fun. In politics you are in a adrenaline and power fueled environment, almost always with beautiful woman, sex is everywhere; but if you shit where you eat sooner or later it's gonna bite you in the ass. Enter escorts, you call them, get your deed done and they're gone. use a burner phone, rent the room to a phony name.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/20 08:09 PM
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very sorry to hear that, but to each its own.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/20 05:37 PM
1

Exactly, i wouldn't mind having a bigger family if i could afford it, but at least in México making 3.5x minimum wage i can barely afford a 2bd house without going over 40-50% monthly income.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/20 04:31 PM
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i think the same, everytime i see guys claiming theyre more alpha, because theyre childless its a very funny oxymoron. I migth have gone beta in many ways and fucked over one or maybe two marriages, yeah lost lots of money, buuuut, i have 2 kids with two different beautiful women, so more chances and more diverse bloodline. A friend of mine is a complete loser in most senses, but the guy has like 6 kids with different women a 4 of them are 8+, for nature he is a very successful organism.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/20 04:28 PM
1

Slept on that futon for a few months, heck i slept on a inflatable mattress a few weeks, and you know what...... it was the most comfortable futon ever...... Fucked a couple girls on the inflatable, and they came back for more, fucked them on the futon, and they came back for more.
/r/askMRP11/06/20 12:58 AM
4

Im the same, to able to hold a decent conversation 23-27, but my dick goes crazy for the 19-21
/r/TheRedPill09/06/20 08:25 PM
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the single mom..... forgot about those ones, great dirty raunchy sex, they want to live some excitement in the few hours they can have fun, fun, fun memories of getting my asshole licked while she squirted fucking herself with a dildo, fucking a pocket pussy, twisting her nipples and getting high.....all at the same time..... single moms....
/r/TheRedPill09/06/20 08:09 PM
2

not always, i fucked around with this 27yo lawyer, and it was the same experience, although best one was with a 31yo CFO, i still Pavlov smile when i think about her.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/20 07:08 PM
1

exactly my experience, smart girls are soo much fun compared to bimbo sluts.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/20 07:06 PM
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Crazy yes, but i have found out smarter woman fuck better, at least for me, i can only call it a more refined and elegant way of fucking, sure dumb hot girls can fuck very well, but the smart ones seem to do it in more advanced way. For me its like dumb sluts are down for anything, they let you do anything you can think of, but smart ones are more engaging, more interaction, is like flirting, flirting is much more fun with a smart witty woman, that a dumb bimbo.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/20 07:05 PM
2

i want to setup something like this with my wife, our household expenses are about 95% of my salary, i make about double as she makes, planning on giving her 25% of the expenses.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/20 10:05 PM
2

keep same life, throw in a couple high end sugar baby's, a few getaway nigths a month. With money you can do it, without it, well pornhub it is.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 12:14 AM
1

Is not using the tech, I use Bitcoin, have made some money from it, but I know not a lot of people would sell their house for Bitcoin.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/20 12:13 AM
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Yes, being in charge is often lonely, you cant go with your coworkers and get shitfaced, because you're the boss. You start to mistrust people intentions all the time, and you have to realize, that most friends and girls will be gone once power is gone. This comes from a mid to high position i held for 6 years, think COO at state level 300ish people. Is it worth it?? hell yeah!!! power is damn addictive, and one of the things a man has to experience, money is good, but power is AWESOME.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 12:07 AM
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I said it represents money on 98% of the world, let me put it this way. I can go to grandma Esther on Brazil, and she would gladly receive a payment in gold, can go to farmer Tony on Africa and would gladly receive gold as payment, Uncle Joe in Arkansas will receive it,, try the same with Bitcoin, a lot more people will accept gold rather than Bitcoin.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/20 11:57 PM
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I can go to Africa and use gold as money, go to New York and use gold as money go to Mexico City and use gold as money, maybe not to buy a hamburger, bit few people would reject selling you a house for gold
/r/TheRedPill01/06/20 11:45 PM
1

To be sustainable most forms of power need money, money is the freedom to go to the gym, travel, social functions etc.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/20 09:44 PM
1

been there, i started as a strong confident guy, ex started to chip me away piece by piece, until a was a shaky piece of a guy.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/20 08:10 PM
1

Have been married, and never understood that permission thing, i mean i make the money......
/r/TheRedPill01/06/20 08:01 PM
2

That i agree, marriage sucks, but children, damn they're awesome,
/r/TheRedPill01/06/20 07:56 PM
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I recently got single again, and every single bit of this is true, i still love my ex, and i would kill to be able to wake up next to the memory of her, you know my wife before marriage....... The woman i left, i cant stand her a second, after she left, i started to feel so liberated, peaceful and inspired. I still need to fight some demons and as soon as i can afford it, i plan to go to therapy, but man this living peacefully thing is awesome.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/20 07:53 PM
1

Been there, i also used to manage a team, and a very similar situation played out, she also accused me and other coworkers of groping her in a parking lot. She went to the polica and everything. Luckily, the parking guy had footage of the whole thing we were 6 feet from her the whole time, with a guy just going to her car to pick up some boxes of document, after that her whole story came crashing down. But like you said, there were always rumors and my reputation suffered a bit.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/20 07:42 PM
3

This got me back memories, i used to fuck this awesome a 8.5-9 argentinian, amazing body, beautiful, extremely smart, had a Phd, very good job. I was 30, balding, beer gut, married. Her husband, would demolish me in a SMV competition, made at least 4 times as much as i did, lifted, traveled a lot, rock climbing, musician i was a 7 he matched her SMV. I would fuck her all ways i wanted, she would eat my cum, let me cum inside her, use every part of her body to entertain me. He would get sex with …
/r/TheRedPill01/06/20 07:27 PM
2

100% i agree, with women everything they say is right now, 10 seconds later who knows.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/20 07:18 PM
1

Take the grid down and pay with bitcoin. Unlike cash, gold represents money in 98% of the planet.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/20 07:17 PM
1

in a SHTF scenario bitcoin evaporates into nothing, while gold and silver can be carried with you. Take the grid o internet down and bitcoin ceases to exist. I use bitcoin, trade it from time to time, have made money from XRP, onion, monero but if i were to store any real amount of money, ill go real state, gold ,silver or even art. No wonder wealthy people deal in those currencies.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/20 07:15 PM
1

if you have the means, get a upscale escort that offers GFE, take the edge off and the go hunting.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/20 02:45 AM
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my mom's life is/was like that, she has a very comfortable economic position, rent properties, a very nice house but she is 71yo, from all my childhood i just remember 2 vacations, once a weekend to disneyland and camping to a beach another week. the last 15 years were very good to her economically speaking, but she almost never eats out, go to a trip etc.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/20 02:43 AM
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I got a friend that conviced 3 different woman to get pregnant, an keep living separated, one of them has 2 kids from him. Pro: he never spend a dime on building nests for them. He only pays child support to one of them (the one with 2 kids). Cons: After a while they got fed up, 2 of them dont allow him to have access to the kids. The kids he has access to, are starting to realize he took advantage of his mother, and while they go out with him every 2 weeks, they don't want to spend too much tim…
/r/askMRP07/05/20 03:15 AM
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Thanks a lot man! this is one of my favorite posts here, its easy to forget yourself once on the daily grind. You inspired me to go fishing again.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/20 06:03 AM
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There are tons of girls out there, but they wont fuck you unless you get lose weight, get social, have fun, have a interesting life, btw is the same thing you need to do have a decent relationship with your wife.
/r/askMRP06/05/20 03:35 AM
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Staying to do less work is a mistake, having plates is EASY compared to mantaining a LTR, with plates you go get a few drinks, jump in a hotel, fuck a couple of hours and everybody goes home just pure fun; no smelling farts, no bad humor, no problems, no mood swings, no money, no debts, no kids, no shark week. For plates all you need is watch your weight, hit the gym, look decent, get some money for drinks and hotel.
/r/askMRP06/05/20 03:26 AM
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After my 1st divorce i felt the same at one point, i was 31 balding, beer gut, but with a great job, it was before finding the RP, naturally i started to lose weight, hit the gym, going out, having fun ended up with several plates in different cities (traveled a lot), while my exwife told me several times i was never gonna find someone better than her. Ended up meeting my current wife, at the time a hot 23 yo special kids teacher, and while i have fucked up this relationship going back to my bet…
/r/askMRP06/05/20 03:22 AM
1

This is one of the best posts here, really hit home.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/20 06:03 PM
1

First year is EASY, but like you say after 2-3 years or after the first kid things change, thats why they say marriage is RP on hard mode.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/20 10:43 PM
1

It's more of a FR, violence claims are extremely dangerous in Mexico 90% of time guys get legally raped for just getting accused
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/20 12:35 AM
3

I started pretty good, but spending so much time together has started affecting things, she lost her job on the 1 of this month, i got notified on monday that the project i was on was suspended, so today was my last day. Business is completely dead, i barely manage to pay wages to my employees and get some extra cash. Were ok this month, i got money for next months rent and bills, but after that its going to get rough, at least they gave us 60 days health insurance. Since yesterday wife has been…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/20 03:16 AM
1

Yes and no, money can be great a great social tool, but is useless to have a million dollars and no friends, in OP case, he needs to build a social circle first.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 05:51 PM
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Make your own status, get a hobby and become good at it, the gym part is good but you also need social function taking courses, cooking classes, dancing classes, language lessons can help you boost your social circle.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 04:23 PM
2

Keeping you optimal fitness is very important, not enjoying a nice meal once in a while is a buzz kill, going to a party with your tupperware because seafood has too much calories is not fun, going to the best meat restaurant in argentina and ordering salad without dressing and piece of chicken sounds boring. DEER: For me SMV is a mix of the whole woman even their jobs, this particular one argentinian (+.5), tall, blonde, nice body, pretty, Phd (+.5), job CFO (+.5), spoke 4 languages (+.5),2 gir…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/20 10:02 PM
4

He had oneitis, one i meet him in another social function and he was a really cool guy, but at least according to her, she hated a few things. 1.- He treated her like a princess ( meaning always caring, spoil her, take her on trips etc). 2- Fucked her like a princess ( tender lovemaking all the time). 3.- He ate like a girl, meaning he tracked calories, macros every single meal, if they went to a bbq, he took his own food, they went to a restaurant he ordered like a runway model. 4.- He took car…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/20 09:39 PM
1

I'm in Mexico but the same is happening, hotels are putting people on hold, fishing companies the same, and the manufacturing industry isn't getting new orders for the us or Asian market , so they're plan to lay off people next month.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/20 05:52 AM
1

This is hitting big in my city we depend on tourism and fishing industry, cruise ships suspended, the main client for most fisheries is Asia, and they are not buying, so a recession is coming our way like a freight train.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/20 11:40 PM
3

With married woman is whatever way the husband doesn't fuck her.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/20 03:41 PM
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It's always the same with married girls, i been on both sides, the cheated on side and the chad side, it's amazing how they warp their realities. One Chick i was fucking was a fucking dream but AWALT also a lie, she was 29yo argentinian,blonde, tall, beatiful had a PhD, husband was loaded, good job, they travel a lot, he lifted like crazy, lots of sports in a sense a RP guy but.... at least according to her, treated her like a princess and fucked her like one, and she hated that, she wanted to b…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/20 08:42 PM
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BTC is down a lot, may get a a few bucks worth of it, USD is up a lot but in mexico it retains value a lot better than mxn. I have a detailing business might try to sell some package to clean people's car with lysol and charge 200% normal price.
/r/askMRP13/03/20 11:13 PM
1

Besides getting the regular food (15 days worth) plus some, i got some extras: 10lbs bag of rice 10lb bag of beans 5lb of flour 5lb Hot cakes mix 2 Bottles cooking oil Extra cleaning supplies Canned food 4 5 gallon jugs of water, rotating them 3 Propane tanks' Filled up water tanks at my business 1500 Gallons worth Stored 5 Buckets of tap water on the house. Tested my power inverters 5kw 3kw 500w, and a 1kw solar system i had in storage. Put extra gas on back up truck (F250), filling up tank on …
/r/askMRP13/03/20 10:33 PM
2

I'm going to start applying this, they just opened a 24 gym near my house I'll end up there at weird hours
/r/askMRP11/03/20 03:34 AM
1

As in morning 7 am, I take the kids to school at 8, sunday 11pm, where the crap do you go.
/r/askMRP11/03/20 03:31 AM
1

I kinda understand where he comes from, before my divorce i was on fire, had my 4-5 income streams, my career was going up very fast, i was always doing something either fun or productive, after it, i did fuck every pussy that came my way, did have lots of fun, but i completely neglected my career, my finances etc, i just couldn't find the strength to keep being a bad ass at work, with the new wife i just coasted using up all the resources i had accumulated, just now i feel like im starting to f…
/r/askMRP07/02/20 12:24 AM
1

My personal theory: Its a never ending uphill battle, get ripped wife adjust to that,become a F16 pilot on the weekends wife adjusts to that, get 200k a year wife adjust to that, get PhD wife adjust to that, get 500k a year wife adjust to that, get 10 20yo groupies following you around wife adjusts to that, that is why its important on focusing on yourself and what makes you happy, it might even be that your wife becomes the least attractive of your options.
/r/askMRP07/02/20 12:02 AM
4

It also has to do with the way you sell yourself, a friend of mine is a high level software engineer, and went from the classic, boring engineer life, to doing marathons, lifting, scuba diving, sports car etc, and is slaying pussy left and right, and instead of describing his job like a boring it jobs, he talks about it like he's Tony Stark and girls eat it up.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/20 07:58 PM
3

Last time wife threateaned this same shit, i calles her Bluff and toldo her that afternoon ser visitaron dates, child support ammount, even helped her pack her bags, even put the bags no the car to take her next day after work...... All this is a calm relaxed, even relieved i migth Say. Guess whot got pornstar sex that same nigth?
/r/askMRP27/01/20 06:16 PM
5

Enjoy the ride, have her buy you stuff, take you to places etc.
/r/askTRP01/12/19 09:35 PM
2

Same thing happened to me, wife got rejected to a position she applied to, and I got accepted into one the same week. They tried calling to notify her, but her phone was discharged, so they called the second number she put on file, I told them to call her again but I'll relay the message. After I notified her she went into bitch mode, I fucked up and engaged and told her it wasn't my fault she was rejected, all hell broke loose after that, bitch mode for 2 days, I STFU and dngf, besides I been f…
/r/askMRP23/11/19 10:57 PM
6

I agree aftercare is a very important part of the session, wife used to do the same thing as yours, but once is started to cuddle and caress her after strong sessions things started to flow better. Try to do some some foreplay and spanking session without sex, and so the aftercare you will see a change in her trust after that.
/r/askMRP17/11/19 08:30 PM
1

true after my divorce, i had a nice job, decent body and some power in politics, got my 23yo wife when i was 31
/r/TheRedPill13/11/19 06:31 PM
3

This is correct, at some points in your life, free sex becomes the most expensive sex, and paid sex is a lot cheaper. Once your job comes with a certain amount of power, you must be on guard all the time, an escort becomes safer, its an anonymous cheap and quick transaction, you get what you want she gets what she wants and everyone goes home happy. Even in that logic sometimes you get some for free, i fucked a 22yo very hot escort for free or about months, at most some drinks or go to dinner be…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/19 06:29 PM
1

I disagree, at a point on my life had 4-5 plates, a great moment on my career, good shape you name it, still sometimes it was more practical for me to just call an escort be done in 2 hours and go back to my shit. No strings attached, no calls, no BS, I even fucked a 22yo 9/10 escort for free a couple of months, for the extreme guys it wasn't really free I picked her up, took her to my hotel, got a couple of drinks and took her back to her apartment.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/19 06:03 PM
0

Do some jelqing and stretching, the extra volume and length does wonders, it's not a magic pill but I went from 16.9cm to 17.5cm in 3 months. That and some results from the gym ramped up sex life a lot, 5-6 days a week, with the wife licking my dick, balls and ass like her life depended on it, 4-5 of those times.
/r/askMRP20/10/19 08:12 PM
1

Female friends can be extremely useful, as long as you maintain your alpha status they're extremely devoted to whatever cause you pitch, they are loyal in the sense that as long as they see us as top dog they defend you to the death, they're unloyal in the sense that as soon as they see weakness they're gonna shit test you to death.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/19 10:24 PM
1

On of my friends got invited to a wedding by the bride, so he could fuck her in her wedding dress.
/r/askMRP24/04/19 04:29 PM
3

I can sell it and after all debts are paid, i may be able to keep about US $6k. last 2 years have been very difficult for myself and my business, i was into politics and the party im in lost, the new president is very radical and basically everyone of us who had middle and upwards offices are "banned" from working in the government, business don't want us were like the plague, thats why this job is so important for me and osing a little piece of plastic that allowed me to get a decent income, ma…
/r/askMRP12/03/19 09:51 PM
1

is not the thing i'm going thru, i the consequences of it, if it dont get enough money to pay my business debts im going to lose it, which means no more income, MAIN PROBLEM: lost my work permit, means i can't work probably during months , can barely afford the work permit fee again, which i might no get approved, if i lose my business most jobs in México pay 10-20 US a day, which can get my homeless in a couple of months, my expenses are about us $1000 per month
/r/askMRP12/03/19 09:10 PM
1

Most guys do, in fact in the Méxican "macho" culture, lots of guys are used to getting home on friday, give the whole paycheck to the wife, and only keep enough for gas and lunch.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/19 10:41 PM
1

Got her a rose and some chocolates, got a very nice chocolate gift set and box of ferrero rocher, it's shark week so i got to deepthroat her until i came.
/r/askMRP17/02/19 03:06 AM
1

Factfulness by Hans Rosling, it's a great book about taking decisions based on facts, how we perceive the world wrongly based on the our instincts and how the media uses that, how to use data to understand thing before making decisions based on perception, it goes somewhat white knight on some subjects but worth reading, will give you tools to be a better leader.
/r/askMRP19/01/19 07:57 PM
1

I do believe in have female friends i have two maybe three female friends, and when shit has hit the fan they had my back with unquestionable loyalty, but you have to understand they are different, they're more selfish than guys, so you have to know if both of you want something, they're going to think for themselves first, but if what they want is your friendship, they will lie, steal, cheat, and even kill for you. In some ways women are more reliable when you ask them to do something, you just…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/19 08:58 AM
1

When first met my wife i got awesome blowjobs titjobs whatever i could think of, after she got pregnant i went into beta mode, quality of sex afterwards went down a lot, i still fucked, 3-4 times a week but quality of sex was going downhill, finally i started going to the gym and lifting, after 6 weeks quality of sex skyrocketed, and went from duty blowjobs, to DP, after the 8th week she started rimming me and getting horny about it, go lift get some discipline in your life and things will chang…
/r/askMRP28/12/18 09:08 PM
1

Well, i did use the fact that one of my plates had a Phd and was extremely intelligent to brag to my friends and pull other plates, the kind of preselection women got from this beautiful and very smart woman was incredible, she got me from 2 plates to 6.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/18 08:32 PM
3

But you need to change your angle, you don't get a BMW to impress girls, that's lame, if you buy a BMW because you love the car, want an awesome driving car with good looks it's a whole different animal. Look at guys with muscle cars or riced out Honda's, they don't need brand new or expensive car, but they have passion for what they have.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 12:54 AM
6

Yes and no, in my experience unless you're on the upper middle class income, it's more a question of power than money. Example my friend is a awesome engineer that outearns me 4:1 , but he works with other 2 guys in his department and that's it. Myself I had a chief operations managerjob, with over 300 guys, 80 vehicles and gigantic budget, long story short he's younger and better looking, I had 6 good plates going on, he had a GF that left him because he was always working. Women smell power no…
/r/askTRP12/08/18 11:52 PM
1

I have been bald since i was 26, i just shaved my hair, after divorce i had 6 plates going on at the same time, not a single one of them told me anything about my hair.
/r/askMRP07/08/18 07:59 PM
1

I have wanted to post something like this for some days, basically my wife has been doing everything I wanted in bed and then some more, but somehow I want more, my wife is young 26 I'm 34, but now I want younger hotter pussy, and I know when I get it I just gonna want more. Is this a phase or is what happens once you lose the bliss of ignorance
/r/askMRP01/08/18 07:13 PM
3

mine did that same thing, suddenly it was snack night every night, but after a few weeks, she started to tell i felt firmer, and boy i went for a ride, sex just like and in some cases better than when we just started dating, after the second month i have been receiving some of the most awesome blowjobs on a daily basis, made her rim me and now everytime we fuck she wants to lick my ass, but careful, if you slip you back to the place you started. Last couple of weeks have been crazy at work, had …
/r/askMRP30/07/18 01:54 AM
2

No it never stops, i was doing great until a couple days ago i slipped and broke my frame, now its back to get it back up again, way easier to just divorce and live plate to plate.
/r/askMRP27/07/18 03:17 AM
9

Im married and i still get awesome sex, it was going on a steep decline, but after lifting and some MRP, things are again on the pornstar phase, anal creampie, she rims me on a regular basis, get awesome blowjobs, sex 5-6 times a week, still get shit tests etc etc, but sex is as good or better then than wife was a plate and she knew i had 6 other plates going on.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/18 06:56 PM
8

Go home and read the side bar. Tomorrow as soon as you have two hours free, go to the nearest gym, use the money you use to get drunk and start lifting, it will benefit in several ways. You will stop thinking about her for an hour, focus on your excersice, when you have a bar with weight over your chest, you will only focus on it not crushing you. Your brain chemistry will change and you start producing more testosterone your brain will change so you will change, become more dominant, assertive …
/r/TheRedPill22/06/18 02:39 AM
2

Keep increasing your SMV, after i started going consistently to the gym and making gains, sex got much better, sex life was good to average, but now is sex 6-7 times a week, wife always gave me good blowjobs, but now they're amazing, i can see her actually enjoying it, lately, i started making her rim me more of a psychological pleasure than a physical one, i been hitting the gym harder, and now she even enjoys rimming me to the point sometimes i remove her from giving me oral to actually fuck, …
/r/askMRP21/06/18 10:56 PM
2

Gold, can be hidden on a safe place, and sold at pawn shops anywhere in the world.
/r/askMRP12/06/18 07:25 PM
2

The part where i have been there, and done that is true, sometimes its like theres a part of my mind saying, i have already bought a refrigerator, i already bought a sofa..... Thanks for the reading material.
/r/askMRP11/06/18 08:12 PM
1

She do is very supportive, always had a job, looking for ways to save us money etc, previous wife never did that, is just that i don't feel the drive. I do have a prenup, i think is some kind of depression, any of you guys have gone thru something like this
/r/askMRP11/06/18 07:19 PM
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dont be more feminine than your wife, AWALT, women want the caveman.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/18 06:48 PM
3

Personality>looks. i've mentioned it before, after my divorce i was overweight, balding, beer gut, and regular clothes, but i was behaving like nothing mattered, i had six plates in 5 different cities going on at the same time, on of the hottest, a 29-30 yo argentinian with a Phd, the husband was very fit, lifted heavily, had lots of cool hobbies, lots of money, traveled a lot, dressed very nice, took care of himself..... too much care, i remember once she took me to a very expensive meat restau…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/18 06:21 PM
2

Not being able to pull woman because your short or some stupid shit like that is BS, heck you dont even need to be fit, i lift because it has helped me feel better, but the time i was plating 6 woman at the same time i had a beer gut and balding, but i fucking kicked ass at work and had a very rising carrer and that energy radiated in all aspects of my life
/r/TheRedPill02/06/18 07:56 AM
0

About cancer, my mom is one of those persons that eats a extremely varied healthy diet, exercises, very little stress in her life, Breast cancer at 65. Not talking about dying on car crash but having one and getting injured, i travel a lot and i mean a lot for work, some weeks 600-700 miles on the road, sometimes 3-4 flights a month, nothing happened to me in 5 years, once on my day off joined my wife to quick trip to a town 2 hours away, got in a very bad, we were even going below speed, the pe…
/r/TheRedPill02/06/18 05:46 AM
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You can't control your health, you can influence it but ultimately, a gene could activate in any moment with cancer, diabetes, get on a car crash, all of the activities you mention give you a better chance, but ultimately not even the richest guys on the planet can control their health.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/18 11:30 PM
1

Yes i'm in charge, boss lays out the objective, i do whatever it takes to make it happen.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/18 07:59 PM
1

We moved to a new city, we needed the income but true, need to change that. Consistently going to the gym, working on a new very challenging project ( machine learning), taking care of what i eat, pushing my team on the field harder, but most of my energy is being directed to the machine learning project, intellectually is very challenging.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/18 07:54 PM
2

Problems wasnt with wife on herself, i was about no leaving one on my team without food.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/18 07:01 PM
1

because i counted the plates last night, told her about it, she forgot, told her again in the morning, and instead used whatever was left to make breakfast.
/r/askMRP31/05/18 06:55 PM
1

moving to MRP
/r/askMRP31/05/18 06:39 PM
0

Do a blood test, don't know how much they are in the US but in México they're like $10, can't be much more than $100 up there
/r/TheRedPill28/05/18 11:10 PM
1

What are you into? im in for some cash on neblio and deeponion
/r/askTRP25/05/18 11:56 PM
1

Its a very powerful tool, i was COO, basically half the female staff wanted to fuck me, i did shit were i ate ( i know ), and slept with the hottest ones, i even got the alpha female ( CFO ) extremely attractive argentinian with a PHD, i had full control of my area, the CFO also had an almost all female staff, and i friendzoned about 3-4 of them that i wasn't attracted to, always flirting with them taking them out for a beer from time to time but always like a friend, ended up with control of op…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 06:26 PM
1

This is completely true, when i started dating my current wife we did all kinds of shit, once the baby was born i went full beta, whining complaining, and sex went from porn movie quality to normal not startfish but going that way. Started reading the side bar, and most importantly started lifting, doing some stuff for myself and guess what?? My dirty little slut is back, we may not be at honeymoon stage yet, but wife looks a lot happier, i feel a lot better, money,family,work,house and baby pro…
/r/askMRP25/05/18 06:18 PM
2

FR UPDATE: After a long night of crying, tantrums, depression, panic attacks, calling her mom to tell her if she can go live there,calling her friends about how she made all this efford for nothing. all kinds of drama and me holding the line on the way she should treat my daughter...... Guess who changed her behavior??? Yup wife made a big change this morning on the way she treats my daughter, she still very sad and resentful she missed her best friends wedding, but now she knows i will burn dow…
/r/askMRP20/05/18 05:19 PM
2

it's mostly because is a very expensive vehicle but within reach of people with money, also because they are trucks you can put it as a business expense and save money on taxes. for clarification a f150 is $731,000 pesos ( US $39,513), minimum wage is $88.36 pesos a day (US $4.7), so down here its a dream car for a lot of guys, someone on minimum would have to work 8407 days (23 years) to be able for afford one.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/18 05:11 PM
1

after my son 1st year bday party
/r/askMRP20/05/18 04:14 PM
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I live in México and AWALT, redpill works just the same, yes a bit different things, like my wife hates when i do house cleaning stuff, if i help her out with the dishes from time to time its ok, but if i start doing it often all hell breaks loose, because im doing woman stuff, she says she prefers for me to tell her shit need cleaning, otherwise works the same, like some people said, status signals matter a lot more down here, to be able to drive a 2018 civic means you're doing very well, a F15…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/18 04:12 PM
2

daughter is 9 years old, we been together for 4 years, shitty behavior to daughter started this year.
/r/askMRP20/05/18 02:57 PM
1

Just be upfront about it, some will bite some won't, but you save a lot of problems on the long run.
/r/askMRP19/05/18 07:16 PM
1

i think it's easier to use pathetic X 10³³³³³³³³³³ in this case.
/r/askMRP13/05/18 04:06 AM
1

I just found a gym like that, but its $10 a month, its kinda ugly as in they need to paint more often and stuff like that, but its mostly a man's gym, i have only seen a quiet girl twice, but most of the guys a are ripped and it's a very relaxed atmosphere. Before i used to go to a cool and hip gym that was expensive ($30 a month in México) most of the guys spent most of their days doing cardio and light stuff, but girls were damn hot.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 05:15 PM
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The guy is alpha because he was able to accomplish a lot, to be able get to his level of success you need to be able to influence a lot of people, get a lot of people to share his vision, push thru a lot of people and get to the top, for me it sounds like alpha traits.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 10:20 PM
1

When you hang out with rich people, chances are you end up doing rich people activities, doing rich people business and rich people jobs, even when you perform at your best, work hard doesn't guarantee success but having the right connections can be extremely helpful, also most high end schools teach you to be the CEO not the employee. Example: I have a friend that isn't too bright, but his father was very wealthy and send him to the best private school on the state, he never was successful on h…
/r/askMRP03/05/18 06:43 PM
1

The college they go to has a big influence in their life, not so much because education is better, but mostly from the connections and friendships they will make.
/r/askMRP02/05/18 08:55 PM
-1

clarified a bit. Ex sent the hello.
/r/askMRP20/04/18 11:25 PM
1

Very true, you need to channel all that energy somewhere, be it new pussy, fixing up a car with friends, your job, anything useful and if possible that involves more people.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 01:08 AM
3

Once you're married with kids, you can't just next and DGAF, there are people and money on the table, just like shooting a gun, you can't pull the trigger and go drink a few beers, there a responsibility behind every action. At least in my case once i got the redflags, went CIA mode and got as much evidence for a couple of weeks , chatlogs, call logs, sms logs the whole nine yards. Once armed with that confronted, took my shit and i was gone. Like a good lawyer you dont go to trial without evide…
/r/askMRP18/04/18 12:44 AM
6

Keep control of the conversation, stick to logistics and financial issues, when i call my daughter just ask her to hand her the phone, later on i got my daughter a $20 cellphone (she was 6 at the time). Be polite no need to drag yourself on the mud, remember be the bigger person.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/18 08:59 PM
14

keep wondering that myself......
/r/TheRedPill16/04/18 05:45 PM
27

True, when I got my divorce I went nuclear and kept it business only about my daughter. A month later I was banging a very hot 30yo with a PhD, a 20 yo escort, a 27yo girl next door, 25yo milf and months later met my current wife at the time a 22yo autistic kids teacher. There's a huge light at the end of the tunnel just man up, go nuclear on the contact and focus all that energy on your job or anything that you can be a fucking bad ass, so the high and adrenaline of kicking ass keeps you on you…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/18 12:56 AM
2

You're 25 got decent to good job, good looking.... Man you got it hard.... Go lift and stop caring about women or what they think... you'll be having sex left and right once they smell you don't care. And get a male friend to talk, having a mentor or a buddy you can trust is invaluable.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 12:28 AM
2

It's the other way around when people depend on you for their happiness, like a father son bond at least for me family comes first now, if you get laid off, get sick, etc, it's family that's gonna be there for you not your boss, colleagues or co-workers.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 04:07 PM
2

Been there done that, while my career went leaps and bounds faster than most of the guys I started with, it wasn't really worth it. Nobody remembers that awesome slide show I made on 2012, or how I solved that problem no one else could or how I slammed it out at that meeting in 2013, but sure my daughter remembers me not being able to make it to her Bd party the same year, how I was late to the school festival or how she only saw me a few hours on the asemejes. I still remember on a father's fes…
/r/askTRP08/04/18 02:17 AM
1

Girls don't need to know science facts, and 99% of the people won't look it up in Wikipedia, like most lies just tell it like it's true.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/18 04:42 PM
0

BS, its all about how you deal with it, im balding and fucked lots of younger hot girls, my own age hot girls it only matters if it affects you, heck i even use it as a bonus, i even boast about it, its the mark of an alpha male, high testoterone, baldies are hornier and stuff like that.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/18 05:56 PM
4

When i started dating my wife i was 30 she was 22, i wasnt lifting or anything i was average joe, but i was fucking alpha at work and socially, i was heavily in politics and my group was booming, so everywhere i went people were attentive to me, i was the AMOG of my social circle, so its more about power/attitude that being fit. Btw my wife also had a goverment job (mine was federal hers state) that earned almost the same as me but much lower on status.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/18 05:45 PM
1

Great man, nice to know it worked out, theres literally thousands of young girls out there that like older guys.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/18 05:29 PM
3

Just do it, I spent lots of time afraid of asking out younger girls, when I met my wife was one of those times where, I said fuck it and asked her, hey I'm hungry gonna have dinner, wanna go?
/r/TheRedPill05/04/18 02:23 AM
4

Im 34 my wife is 26, we got together when i was 30 and she was 22, a solid 7, Size 0, 32 C breasts, squirter, still looks like a teenager, no kids, autistic kids teacher at first i tried to be act younger, but what my wife wanted the more was the interesting part of my life, people i met, how much i traveled etc. When i met her friends at first felt insecure, then i realized some of the friend were even interested in me, socially when other girls knew my then GF was 22, i started getting way mor…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 06:02 PM
1

Nope, she went home afterwards, only the lunch. We're talking about a 20yo that went $400 an hour, eating before or after sex isn't exactly paying, by that definitions, even buying the condoms or picking her up makes it not free.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 01:38 PM
-2

I had something like that happen to me, I ended fucking her for free like 3-4 months, I was on business on a different town, I was hungry and didn't want to eat alone, so I invited her to lunch after our date, we fucked our brains out again after dinner, and every time I went back to that city, I gave her a call picked her up for no more money than the cost of the hotel room and lunch.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 02:49 PM
1

just get an escort and then go hunting
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 12:59 AM
1

True i dont get this stay free, aka dont reproduce thing, your purposelly killing your bloodline, theres a reason Genghis Khan had so many children, bloodline is power, maybe one of the most important sources of power, that's the reason people defended their empires, the reason kings remained in power, and like you said the love of a daugther is a unbeliavable thing, so powerful so inconditional, that if shit it the fan i woldnt hesitate to kill someone endangering my daugther. One time when my …
/r/TheRedPill06/03/18 05:39 PM
0

My bad the point is were acting like in nice Utopia, were supposedly striving to up our testosterone, become the top males, bang all the woman but refrain purposively from reproduction, that sounds more like Omega/beta males eliminatem themselves out of the gene pool. At least in nature the alpha male is the one that will reproduce itself with the most available females with the occasional beta getting a few fucks here and there.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/18 11:07 PM
6

it does get better, first year is damn nigthmare, no one sleeps theres lot of stress etc, after the first year everything starts getting easier, after the 3rd year is a walk on the park, just dont let go of yourself and dont abuse alcohol,you have to be an oak.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/18 08:30 PM
3

This sounds like the mice utopia, where at the end of the utopia most mice did not reproduce, instead just spent their time grooming themselves, i agree childs are lots of work and expensive, but a true alpha male will reproduce, socially most patriachs have lots of children with their wives rearing the childs at home.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/18 08:21 PM
3

Keep reaping benefits, wife has been very grateful, last night during sex she offered anal, offer i gladly accepted.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/18 05:49 PM
7

Actually yes, didn't do it for the sex, I did it because I wanted to do something nice for my wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/18 01:51 AM
1

Agree with that, the friend was the cherry of the cake.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/18 11:42 PM
5

i realize it was because i took charge of things, pulled enough leadership with the family/friends to organize everyone, managed everyone so they didnt spill the beans, me having the ability to fool her into it and not leaving traces or hint of anything. It was not about me taking her to dinner it was the ability to make things happen.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/18 08:31 PM
13

i was drunk captain, and while she doubted my leadership some times, she always complied, everytime she gets paid goes and deposit her check into my account, on the harshest time she always found ways to help, be it selling stuff on facebook, get some extra work hours, during the darkest hour we even got to the point that we bought groceries day by day, and instead of nagging or complaining she just tried to adjust and make the best of it. For me she just sticking to the captain the way she did …
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/18 08:28 PM
2

Actually as soon as she gets payed, she goes changes her check, and transfers the money to my account, its been like that since we been together.
/r/askMRP02/02/18 08:53 PM
1

That's exactly the way mine behaves!
/r/askMRP02/02/18 08:34 PM
1

no, she actually encourages me going running, she has something to drink when i come back, but she as problems with the chores, she's supposed to do them, and can't stand watching me do woman stuff. No problem with fixing something broken etc.
/r/askMRP02/02/18 08:15 PM
1

No,it wasnt like that, it was more that she prefers me anything even watching tv, and watch me do woman stuff.
/r/askMRP02/02/18 08:12 PM
1

Yes but the structure is not the same, so somethings don't translate the same as i intend to.
/r/askMRP29/01/18 05:36 AM
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Specific: on my son 1st bday party my daughter loves him and wanted to take a picture with him and another with the four of us , new wife didn't want to, my daughter feels she's not part of my family had big figth with wife after party ended because I won't treat my daughter as if she wasn't part of my life or his brother life.
/r/askMRP29/01/18 01:20 AM
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Clarified a bit, live in Mexico and English not my native language.
/r/askMRP29/01/18 01:07 AM
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Divorce and I ended up with my daughter one weekend with me the other with her mom, half summer and winter vacations
/r/askMRP29/01/18 01:07 AM
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Long Story: I had a 6 year relationship with a single mother ( huge mistake) and had my daughter with her, we went thru all the stuff couples go thru, we went from a small house to living in a beach house during 3 years, i got beta to the max, she had iphone,ipad,$500 sunglasses,$300 boots, DSLR camera,english bulldog, a decent car, $500 knives, heck the house had everything we even had a chest freezer ( you buy those once you run out of things to buy). Then i got a very good job out of town, so…
/r/MGTOW25/01/18 07:07 PM
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I'm live in Mexico so English is not my native language.
/r/askMRP25/01/18 12:19 AM
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The title part is true, and about the party defeat i'm anticipating for that, elections are in about 6 months, plus 6 months before i lose my job, so i'm about a year before chaos. You are right about the vision/mission part, i have a small business that as i said is in low season, that i left alone for a couple of years, right now it survives on its own with minimal profit, but as every business left alone, needs a reinvestment to be profitable again. The part where i dont like living with my F…
/r/askMRP24/01/18 10:40 PM
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Just a lil reminder of what woman are really capable of, look at this quora post https://www.quora.com/What-is-the-sluttiest-thing-youve-done-that-was-out-of-character-for-you/answers/70731468?share=6b6636c3&srid=u0RmC
/r/TheRedPill24/01/18 09:12 PM
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I think part of the MRP is that, once you start doing all your stuff you stop putting your wife on a pedestal, you see things clearly, you see her true value, and if she isn't worth having after that.... Well you have the idea
/r/askMRP22/01/18 04:45 PM
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My wife mateguard happens when i travel, she fucks me empty up until the minute before i go out the the door, and again when i come back.
/r/askMRP17/01/18 08:34 PM
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Been there done that , and trust me she's done it with other guys and many times, i made the exactly same mistake, low value, a 2 year old girl, but i did have a daugther with her, it lasted 6 years, 5 of those she lived a great life, i payed for eveything, we even lived on a beach house 2 years, her own car, iphone, $500 sunglasses, $300 boots the works, all of this in México, where minium wage is $4 a day. I started to notice some stuff that didnt add up, even my mom told me something was up, …
/r/askMRP17/01/18 06:54 PM
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Just a lil Field report, came back home and went blue pill tried to fix things, didn't work so I kept my ground and left the house and went to my business, 2 hours later she called me and told me dinner was ready.... That night we had amazing sex, at one point I started to spank her, and she started telling me to punish her.... She was wild and extremely submissive, red pill definitely works just don't abuse it.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/18 02:39 AM
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I just made that mistake and instead of rewarding her when she apologized and kept the silent treatment, afterwards we were just arriving to out child doctor appointment, she told she was going to her mom's ( at another city then, i said ok see you whenever, she yelled stay alone in your misery).... i havent contacted her or anything, i dont want to keep up until i break the rope, but seems like my option now is hold my ground until she comes back or??
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/18 08:29 PM
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Heres a note about the law (spanish) http://www.elfinanciero.com.mx/politica/pena-anuncia-reforma-para-que-50-de-los-candidatos-a-legisladores-sean-mujeres.html http://www.animalpolitico.com/2017/11/ine-candidaturas-paridad-genero-indigenas/
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 09:14 PM
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Unless it happens the same thing as in México..... Here all public office posts must have a 50%+1 Ratio of women, That means that if a political party has 8 districts in a state 5 of their candidates must be woman, also if theres a tie, the post goes to the woman. Now they have these new ideas that the amount of managers at goverment offices should also be these way.
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