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Transgender is new. It requires surgery, hormone therapy, etc. It is a process to "transition" into the opposite sex so you feel on the outside, how you feel on the inside. This is something that IS unusual to the VAST majority of people. It is a pretty damn new thing. What blows my mind is the attitude that surrounds it. This attitude of shaming a person who doesn't know the particulars of what a "trans-person" goes through, what the proceedure is like, why they choose to transition, what sort of sexual preference do they have? ALL of these questions are ones that come up for someone whom this is all new to. There is often ZERO hatred or belittling of these people, simply a pure curiousity, and acceptance coupled with absolute ignorance to the topic, to the sensitivities, to the very intricate specifics of emotional and physical attributes that a trans person would experience. So, WHY would someone from the LGBT community just flat expect someone to fully know everything about it, and not ask ignorant questions that the mass of the public would like to know? How do you draw a line on the objectification of an actor, who's job is to portray a role, and essentially objectify themselves as tools of story telling through television, Where is the line? are you an actor? a model? do you do nude scenes? if so, how comfortable are you with your body being objectified? Perhaps public figures, and those who want to be entertainers ought to grow a thicker skin and realize that when you're "cutting edge" or something a lot of folks know nothing about, you might get asked offensive and ignorant questions a lot. It's part of being "unusual".
"I want to be interviewed about being transgendered so that I can help spread understanding and knowledge about transgendered people, but don't ask me anything uncomfortable, or that is offensive, but since you don't really know anything about my lifestyle you wouldn't know it's offensive, but I'll still demand you not do that because it offends me, and I have the RIGHT to NEVER be offended, especially about my choice to become transgendered!" ....Riiiiiight... reasonable.
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