So i have heard the term "women are the gate keepers of sex" and about woman using the promise of sex to gain power in a relationship a lot on this subreddit. Is this is a reason for the deamonization of male sexual desire ? This has probably been chewed over so much in this thread it counts as a re-post, but has anyone else thought of it like that ?Vibrators for women ? thousands! dildos? millions of styles and colors. You have a fleshlight ? what the hell man ! Watching porn as a teen? Better hope to hell no one finds out.

Edit: I was also hoping for input, links to blogs with the same idea, examples of this happening to others, personal opinions etc.