I think it would be helpful if we had a list of suggested books touching on the issues discussed in this subreddit.

I'd like to nominate Warren Farrel's The Myth of Male Power, Christina Hoff Sommers' The War Against Boys and Who Stole Feminism, and Steven Pinker's The Blank Slate: The Modern Denial of Human Nature.

I'd be really interested to see other people's recommendations as well!