The entire premise of their ideology is a fear, loathing, and contempt of men, and masculinity.

It is as about equality as a poor man robbing a rich man for equality. It's thuggery and resentment -- whether or not one is for equality, the feminists sure as hell aren't for it.

Thus, when arguing or debating a feminist, you do not try to seek mutual understanding. It's like a Jew debating a neo-nazi, you're not going to get anywhere with feminists. They hate us, they hate men. They're not going to have their minds changed because a lot of their hatred is based upon self-loathing and resentment, and they take those feelings out outwardly instead of inwardly (i.e. blame others instead of improving oneself).

Invariably, the male feminists probably lack masculine body-types, personas, or behaviors, thus they ally with the female feminists as a probable mating strategy. They're not going to man the fuck up, ever, because they weren't real men to begin with.

So, when you invariably end up in a discussion with a feminist, you dominate them. You make them look like bumbling idiots, hypocrites, liars, and the cowards they are. There is nothing else one can do for MRA causes but to let others see the enemy for what they are.