"Nice". That's the adjective that i've heard most from girls since forever. I've avoided being friendzoned but got onto that situation 2 times, one of them from a girl that I managed to attract, kiss, dated, etc. It hurted, I refused to be friends and blocked her from everywhere.

 

Actually I've 30 yo and I've been reading TRP since 1 month or so. 2 years ago I broke up with my girlfriend, and I've fucked 5 girls and kissed 36 (most of them in pubs/discos, etc. And some of them I regret), dated dozens of them. Considering the mental effort I've put through the process I feel like I receive less sex than I deserve or at least that I feel I deserve. This 2 years period include a 13-14 month period without sex at all even trying my best (by actively searching for it partying, social circles, online dating, etc).

 

I've been asking myself why do i get this poor results (considering my previous 20s-mid20s results they're amazing but I want more), trying to selfimprove by writting and meditating, and I've come to the conclussion that most of girls (95%) consider me "Nice" and "Cute". Sometimes they just put me appart or consider my SMV so low that they don't even see me as a sexual partner. On the other hand, sometimes I do game pretty good (push/pull, tease, make them laugh, etc...) or I attract them in a sexual way (I've been lifting for 2 years, body language, posture...) and get results.

 

I've been through a lot of stages during this years, since an extreme anger/hate zone to the most BP/Disney boy you could've ever imagine. I've been trying to erradicate this "Nice" part of me but it's so deep to me that I always kinda show it sooner or later and then I'm labeled as the "Nice Guy". Then the work becomes so fucking hard and I've to overthink text messages, responses, body language, avoiding rationalizations, etc.

 

So that's my question, I want to stop being the nice guy, even though I get some night-kisses, numbers, sex and I've improved a lot since my early 20s I still feel like my results are poor. Sometimes I end up kissing a girl by gaming good and get her number, but then I can't set a date because they lose interest (and I try to set this date as soon as possible, like the day after or 2 days after). I don't know why suddenly appears a girl (5% of them) that its extremely attracted to me and talks openly and wants to see me as soon as possible too.

How can I stop being nice?