New York Man's Meticulous Dating Spreadsheet Goes Viral

NiceGuysSTFU · 2012-04-20T16:10:33+00:00

The woman who shared it with others should be ashamed of herself. Not that he was real bright for giving it to her, but she's the nasty one in this situation not him.

Bobsutan · 2012-04-20T21:23:00+00:00

I don't get the fucking hate some of you are giving this guy, or even the media at large. For fucks sakes he's getting called creepy by the fucking media.

Let's recap when women do this:

This woman compiled a complete dossier of her drunken sexual exploits at Duke. Some of her descriptions of the various men she engaged in drunken revelry with are extremely brutal. Small penis descriptions, poor performance descriptions, lurid details about their personal habits. These men were shamed at Duke university as this went public.

This woman made dating pay for her meals, to the tune of $1200 a month. Why? Because she was living beyond her means. Her roommates and her made spreadsheets about the men, the meals, the price, etc. She lied to these men and leeched their money.

Fucking Luluvise is a social network purely for women, in which they can rate the men they've dated and allow other women to see it. The men? They can't, and won't know about any lies or libelous material.

All of these things are ok... even lauded as great! This guy did nothing even related. His crime? Making a spreadsheet of online contact, what they look like, how they acted, and he's suddenly CREEPY.

Fuck all of these goddamn double standards.

Demonspawn · 2012-04-20T16:28:39+00:00

Copyright violation, $125,000 per instance of violation (according to MPAA/RIAA)... how many people did she send it to?

TheSacredParsnip · 2012-04-20T16:16:54+00:00

Beidaut said she is "absolutely" considering taking legal action against the woman that sent the email because she believes her privacy has been violated. She has already spoken to at least one other woman on the list who is similarly upset.

I don't think anything will come of this but what a great situation that would be.

Libertarian_Atheist · 2012-04-20T16:33:40+00:00

Wow, thought I was reading The Onion for a moment, then I realized it was really abcnews. . . sick that they figure this kind of violation of privacy acceptable.

Bobsutan · 2012-04-20T19:31:02+00:00

The picture in the article doesn't seem weird at all. If he's doing a lot of online dating, which it appears he is, it only makes sense to track some of the background info, how interested in each one he was, manage his calendar and prioritize things. A very successful pickup guy I know used to do something similar a few years back in his blackberry, right down to keeping notes on stuff about their hobbies, background, etc. When you date a ton of women you've got to do something like this because there's no realistic way to keep track of things otherwise.

One of the woman's comment from the article:

"I think the guy is really nice," Beidaut said. "I never met him and I don't think he did something that bad. He was nice, and he was trying to keep himself organized. I think he took that seriously and was really looking for a girl."

Bingo!

My only gripe is why did they violate everyone's privace and not remove the names, including his, from the ABC article? They blurred out the faces after all.

C0CKPUNCHER · 2012-04-20T16:10:24+00:00

Anyone who actually thinks like this only has themselves to blame for any relationship problems they have.

Although I wonder if it's some sort of viral marketing.

Title	New York Man's Meticulous Dating Spreadsheet Goes Viral
Author	madmartian
Upvotes	0
Comments	20
Date	April 20, 2012 4:08 PM UTC (14 years ago)
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