husband one: has multiple personality disorder. i cared for him and kept him from suicide until he tried to brutalize our 2 year old.

husband two: was wealthy and attractive and a swinger, i participated, until i found out he was molesting his 3 children.

husband three: was jamaican and illiterate, but not a bad guy (although he did, occasionally lose his temper and punch me in the face)

all of my best friends are men, and despite what i've experienced, i identify with men and understand that their emotions count.

ask away.