A quotation from Mencius Moldbug which applies well to feminists:

You are in the exact position of a German who supported the National Socialist seizure of power in 1933, but was not an anti-Semite and thought the party would moderate this impulse in time.

Nonetheless, these "moderate Nazis" were wrong. After the war, to remain in polite society they had to fully recant their association with National Socialism.