she wants me help, but I dont want to

nummas · 2016-04-22T08:59:04+00:00

You can feel sorry for people and do nothing. Its not hard. If you help you will be her goto beta guy. You need to focus on your study not hers. There will be other beta pussy's she can goto for help.

2016-04-22T12:54:11+00:00

DONT BE A FAGGOT - DONT WASTE YOURE TIME - SHES A WHORE

youcantdenythat · 2016-04-22T08:54:48+00:00

You can be as moral as you want. You need to man up and decide what you want and do it.

You said you don't want to, so don't. Just tell her no.

2016-04-22T12:00:21+00:00

You sound like you need to read No More Mr. Nice Guy.

EssexMum · 2016-04-22T08:59:09+00:00

I agree - you have no obligation to help this girl. You don't want to help so don't!

nummas · 2016-04-22T09:00:46+00:00

Also if you want to fell good afterwards, it should be from getting your dick sucked, not helping someone with study.

SeekingTheWay · 2016-04-22T10:52:40+00:00

would you still want to help her if she was ugly landwhale? no? then there's your answer.

duh_red_pill · 2016-04-22T11:55:02+00:00

You take the cake!

adam_varg · 2016-04-22T13:35:03+00:00

If you want, help her.

If you will help her and dont want to come out as chump (to her and you unconsciousness), which would peg you down, make her pay for your help. But dont make it as covert contract, ie communicate upfront what you expect, ideally get "payed" upfront.

Payment can be whatever - having her as wingman, cake, drinks, blowjob, basically whatever have value for you. Ideally it should cost her about the same as you gave her (ie 2hours of tutoring, 2hours of baking cake or drinks worth of two hours of work)..

Li0nhearted · 2016-04-22T14:17:16+00:00

Don't help her. Enjoy free drinks and cake. If she asks tell her you're too busy or smth

quicklogaccount · 2016-04-22T16:46:45+00:00

Manductor gave you THE gold. You know helping her won't make you feel good, just used, or you wouldn't be here asking. :)

IF you want to help her, don't take favors in exchange. If you take any of her offers, she'll feel like she's getting the better deal. You don't need her to feel good with herself. Ask for MONEY and make it clear that's all she can offer you. Average fee or higher. :)

As for sexual favors, don't ask nor take them, I bet you can get screwed somehow by doing it in most or all jurisdictions I can think of. Negotiating sex screws men over every time, you can use it in nearly every context and it will still be true. Only healthy sex negotiation involves money and legal prostitution.

SingMeBackHome · 2016-04-22T19:58:45+00:00

If anything, tell her she knows what it's going to take. Ambiguous enough yet she'll know what you mean. Don't help her unless you are getting blown by her.

evileddy · 2016-04-24T15:19:25+00:00

Make the plans then don't show up. Ignore calls, texts for a few days then reply "was that this week?"

Title	she wants me help, but I dont want to
Author	wartorle
Upvotes	2
Comments	22
Date	April 22, 2016 8:50 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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