When Your Adult Daughter Suddenly “Remembers” That You Raped Her When She Was Three . . . .

Sarstan · 2011-01-25T18:35:55+00:00

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ThrustVectoring · 2011-01-25T20:18:11+00:00

Here's exactly how psychologists/policemen/other figures of authority coax statements claiming abuse out of children:

They talk to them for a long time, until the children start trying to figure out how to leave the situation and do fun things again. The only options the children have is to say things, so they try saying different things until they find something that gets them out of the conversation.

Its seriously how it works. Sit any child down in a room and ask them if someone touched them in their private place repeatedly until they start making shit up instead of just saying that nothing happened.

Child abuse is bad. However, there is documented evidence that sometimes the accusations of child abuse never match up to actual abuse.

Hristix · 2011-01-25T19:21:38+00:00

This isn't about Men's Rights. This is about a societal problem that affects both sexes. Men disproportionately since we're the brutal rapists and all but the heart of the matter starts 40 years ago or so.

When sexual abuse became a 'thing' in the public eye, people looked back and thought, "Could my baby have been abused?" Of course they were rushed to psychologists who refused to let them leave until they said they had been abused. Or shown thoughts of a sexual nature, or were curious about their bodies, or leaned over a little too far in picking up a toy. This was entirely indicative of them being brutally raped as babies!

Most of what the psychologists' tactics were proven wrong, though. Like how you can 'coach' a kid into saying they've been raped by letting them believe that it's the right thing to say. They won't even necessarily know what they're doing, so it's something used a lot in divorce cases. After all, what judge award ANYTHING to a child molester short of a bullet if it were within their power?

It still continues today, though. It's normal for kids to have dreams about sex. Even if they're very young. Most of the time they just don't understand it and forget about it, but every once in a while someone remembers it in the back of their head, only to come out later and say with absolute 100% certainty that they had been raped. Hell, it might have even been a spanking or bath time that they're remembering and their adult brains are telling them how wrong it was for their parents to see them naked so they equate it to rape.

Seems like a good extortion tactic, though. Just tell your parents when you're seventeen that you remember when you raped them and you're going to the police. Show them all these articles of decade long legal battles costing people everything and attracting hate/death threats/etc even if they turn out to be innocent. The newspapers love to talk about how goody-goody is probably child rapist, but they won't say that goody-goody was two states away from the act when it happened when it comes out and they're found innocent in court. You could totally exploit money from it.

MinimumDOF · 2011-01-25T18:32:28+00:00

That is a scary article.....

ratfood · 2011-01-26T06:24:48+00:00

I was beat up by another kid when I was three, I remember it vividly. I think I'd remember if I was raped.

Quazz · 2011-01-25T17:35:01+00:00

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Yes, because people, after 20 years suddenly remember something when you were THREE years old...

Does anyone REALLY buy this shit? Sometimes I worry about the average intelligence of the human race...

I also don't see why men should be the one suffering because women are the ones having these problems.. Oh wait, that's what feminism does right?

2011-01-26T03:34:49+00:00

Thank god they won the case!

kloo2yoo · 2011-01-25T17:24:33+00:00

you've seen, 'inception' right? Knowing about the many cases like these that I could name made the basis of he movie moot.

Title	When Your Adult Daughter Suddenly “Remembers” That You Raped Her When She Was Three . . . .
Author	PierceHarlan
Upvotes	34
Comments	36
Date	January 25, 2011 4:33 PM UTC (15 years ago)
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