Gut feeling she's cheating. Response?

gantgui · 2016-05-11T04:07:46+00:00

REALLY doubt shes cheating bro. Shes getting insecure because you're doing a good job being stoic and redpill. When a girl gets insecure shell start using jelousy antics on you like shes doing with that snapchat story in hopes to get a reaction that shows you actually care about her and that she has a chance for commitment down the line.

A girl doeesnt post videos of chads , chads appear out of nowhere and she will hide it from you.

Lmao than she wrote goodnight ''out of the blue''Thats cuz she wanted you the mention the snapchat story i guarantee it. Jesus christ girls all follow the same patterns its hilarious.

Had similar shit happen so many times. YOu have 2 options, 1 you show a bit of a reaction that shows you care a little. 2. Ignore her jelousy bullshit but i guarantee she will keep amplifying until she gets a reaction.

introspect2314 · 2016-05-11T08:18:14+00:00

Posts Snapchat story hoping you see it and get jealous.
Texts you out of the blue for no reason whatsoever.
Wants to spend time with you during the week.

Therefore she is definitely cheating.

Come on. The feeling you have is excitement that TRP is working, and anxiety that TRP is too good to be true. She's into you, man.

Borsao66 · 2016-05-11T04:13:08+00:00

I've always stuck with DeNiro's statement in Ronin. "If there's a doubt, there is no doubt."

And its always served me well.

lanky32 · 2016-05-11T04:12:19+00:00

Gut feelings are usually right.

She is not your unicorn. She is capable of cheating.

She is definitely testing the waters with other men. She may not have cheated on you now, but she is exploring the possibility of being with men other than you.

If and when she gets a man of a higher value than you, she will dump your sorry ass.

ponkyol · 2016-05-11T04:29:54+00:00

Trust your gut, it will almost never lead you astray.

alpha-secretase · 2016-05-11T05:10:56+00:00

There ain't no Unicorns, AWALT. You choice if you want to include her in your life. With that said /u/gantgui all the way.

quicklogaccount · 2016-05-11T12:21:39+00:00

Here's the deal.

All signs pointed to her being a "unicorn". She's young, a virgin when we met, intelligent, first date we split the check, etc. Based on my extensive reading of Redpill, I started this relationship with the mindset that like most girls, she'll cheat or otherwise act in a way consistent with female hypergamy.

You started this (post at least) REALLY wrong. Forget about unicorns man. And don't take AWALT for face value. I hope few women are the demon spawns we see in TRP, but here's the deal. Women hide AWALT amoral traits, so the lack of red flags should not be understood as the absence of the traits they announce. But even the rare certainty of the absence of some AWALT traits is JUST a happy coincidence, and not by any means indicative of the absence of other traits and behaviors. Our little gerbils like to think that the absence of one or more red flags or, in rare occasions, of the traits themselves, allows us to ignore what we learned here. It doesn't. A virgin is still a woman. Her sexual strategy and prerogative differs from yours. If you ignore it, you WILL screw up an otherwise excellent LTR. Don't bet on otherwise.

That said, about GUT feeling.
We get gut feelings because our brains notice there's something odd around us, perceive danger in it, but can't quite make the logical connections, nor easily bring it to consciousness.
But our brains FAIL. It's funny how psychologists like to see successes of that mechanism but ignore its failures. It isn't confirmation bias thought, the idea is that it should be looked into. No need to obsess about it.

Women underestimate men's perception. Two kinds of women manage to hide red flags. Black belt women that are aware of the cheater's tell aways, and younger women with black belt hamsters that can successfully convince them that it didn't count. Does she strike like one of these?

Anyways, KEEP ABUNDANCE MENTALITY. It's not cheating and it is a must have in a LTR, to stop our own litte gerbils from ignoring red flags. And don't worry so much.

wetassassin420 · 2016-05-11T19:10:06+00:00

I've dated several au pairs, nearly even committed to one. Even the good ones that would be possible marriage material (if that exists) will eventually be corrupted by their slut friends and U.S. culture. AWALT.

STAHP_SAMMICH_TIME · 2016-05-12T00:00:39+00:00

From personal experience, just ditch her. Every women I've had that gut feeling about and stayed with turned out to be cheating.

Title	Gut feeling she's cheating. Response?
Author	rpthrowaway5721
Upvotes	10
Comments	16
Date	May 11, 2016 3:58 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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